when you disappear on the narcissist | Joyce Meyer Motivational
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- Опубликовано: 10 фев 2025
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When you disappear on the narcissist, everything changes. Narcissists thrive on control, manipulation, and emotional reactions, but when you go no contact and remove yourself from their toxic cycle, they lose their power over you. In this video, we’ll explore what happens when you walk away from a narcissist, their typical reactions, and why silence is your greatest weapon. If you've ever been in a relationship with a narcissist, whether it's a partner, family member, or friend, this video will help you understand the psychology behind their behavior and how you can heal and regain your strength. Learn how to break free from their grasp, rebuild your confidence, and live a life free from their manipulation. Don’t let a narcissist control your emotions-watch this video to empower yourself and take the first step toward emotional freedom.
Reason to Watch:
If you're struggling to break free from a narcissist’s control, this video will provide the insight and motivation you need. You’ll learn how narcissists react when you disappear, why they try to pull you back in, and how to maintain your strength despite their manipulative tactics. Whether you're dealing with a narcissistic ex, friend, or family member, this video will help you understand their behavior and empower you to stay firm in your decision to cut ties. Healing from narcissistic abuse takes time, but with the right knowledge and support, you can reclaim your life and find peace.
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Thank you Joyce, I was married to an Narcissist for 28yrs, he had many many AFFAIRS and was finally caught out, I went and got legal advice and he was RAGING with me, he HONESTLY Thought I should just forget about it. Had 28yrs of him having MANY MANY WOMEN, plus 2 more children out of the marriage, it was EXTREMELY DIFFICULT but with support from my doctor and counselling I finally now live in PEACE. THANK YOU FOR THIS .
❤blessing in healing❤
Jesus will help and heal you, He did that for me, He rescued me from the depths of hell. 🙏❤️
Oh foolish person. Joyce is actually the narcissist... Regardless if your husband is one,or not. Stop chasing behind the smooth speech of these false teachers, and study to show yourself approved. There's no middlemen, or women between The Most High, and his people.
@@drakeh4551Why are you here then?
To speak the truth... Why are YOU here? Joyce is all Word Salad, and 💰 money collecting for gullible women like yourself. Put down ALL your idols says The Most High Yah of the SCRIPTURES...Ms. CynthiaAva. Wake up out of your spiritual slumber.
THIS is the BEST video that covers EVERYTHING that needs to be said about dealing with a narcissist!!! I can’t say AMEN enough! I am FINALLY FREE from everyone that was truly destroying my life!!!!!!
THIS is most definitely the one ‼️ I have been in contact with 2 Males & 4 Females & since then I see it in another FEMALE this Is SAD but again most definitely the TRUTH 💯
There are TONS more... I've watched them all.
She hit the nail in the head be wary of the religious narccissist that's how i fell for it .
This is not Joyce
@AlwaysHope2019 I understand i just read comments sometimes and what you said was straight to it is all . Have a blessed day
I moved away . Its been 3 months. They have some serious mental issues not just narcissim.
Exactly!
100% truth
Exactly
....& im tired of everyone pretending narcissists aren't psychopaths.
@@Horseluvver. they absolutely are. They’re a member of the psychopath family.
@@Horseluvver👍👍
Over six years on and off I fell in love with a narcissist . It took me a year to get over him cuz I loved him. He was not capable of loving anyone but himself. But I didn’t know any better. Now I’m healing and loving myself like I should…🥰
They don't love themselves, I believe they loath themselves, and they take that all out on everyone else
@@teriliebmann3491. Exactly ❤.
Wonderful news 🩷I went no contact thank God I didn’t move in with him 🙏I’m on my healing journey and I’m celebrating 🎉🙌
She’s correct on the narcissist, there’s a lot of teaching on narcissism. Run ! and break the false love and the crumbs they fool us with.
Thank you for clarifing that!
That when we disappear from them, they dont love us, or miss us, its just that they've lost control of us.
they do not know love
They get so confused when your don't respond to either compliments or criticisms ! They get confused at how to control you. Then there confusion s lead to anger. And fear of you.
Narcassists are the alchemist of CHAOS 👌
There are so many truths in this message💯. The love bombing is so enticing and purposefully manipulative‼️ Thank God for setting me free. Thank God for allowing the "worm" to be unmasked! I pray for those who are going through🙏🏾. God is a healer, and God is able ✝️.
Silence is Golden ❤
No drama, just a peaceful life is my wish for you all❣️
Thanks so much 🩷
Good Grief....Joyce has been living in my house!!! How in the world does this hit EVERY SINGLE thing?!?!?! whew
Il second this ❤
Same!!!
Thank you Joyce! At 62 it started with a narc dad who crushed all my self confidence and had us all walking on eggshells as children. Then i married one worse then my dad and stayed married for 31 years. You have nailed my whole story in 30 minutes perfectly. Silence is golden! Healing and wholeness is doable. I lost everyone I loved to his lies and playing the victim but i found myself again. That is truly Priceless 🤗❤❤❤❤❤😊🙏🙏🙏👍
I listen to Joyce all the time.. this one really hit home for me.. I left my ex/narc 18 months ago.. God helped guide me out of that toxicity.. I focused on self care and healing.. I’m in a much better place now emotionally, mentally, physically and financially..
Dreaming on my day to be free!
Same and amen
Yes!
Thats what suckered me back in every time, when he pretended to change, and be nice again!
Yes, exactly.
Love was conditional with him.
Depending how well I served his needs.
I'm going through this and he won't let me go. Every day he stalks me and he now lives up stairs from me so he can watch my every step. He's all the things you said joice. All the terrible things he's done,and is still trying to do. To me He's pure evil. If you can, please pray
We both need prayers!
Praying for you
You easily and concisely described the spell of the narcissist and the personal struggles of emotional and mental abuse they dish out. It's not about a labeling people it's about accepting a harsh reality dealt to you to control your mind and emotions and being able to psychologically identity what happened to you. Like saying I was hit by truck. Fools will argue with you that it wasn't a truck yet never called an ambulance. Continue to use truthful words and stand in your truth. It was a truck. Now accept what it is gonna take to heal. Separation Mo further damage and let fools argue with themselves over the name of what hit you. You know a truck and gaslighting people can fall away. Self love and trust and time heals. I have been one year now contact with a highly abusive Covert Narcissist who has a lot of prominent people fooled. Oh well I'm stronger and healing
Yes, we are much stronger🙂🌹A lot of greetings, Kirstin☀️
Their power was always an illusion!!! Powerful 😮
Thank you Joyce for your message it’s so relief to hear this kind of message, I married to man for 25yrs bore 3 children now I suffer from there hands too, reliving all over again . Suffering from PTSD seeking help and looking for Christian counselling
David E Clark
I AGREE! Finally, clear and concise information about a very negative trap people can easily find themselves trapped into.
Ask God for wisdom...
Never enjoyed tv preaching, but sometimes watched jm. every sentence is valuable here, every point is true.
I knew 50 years ago there was something not right when we were in our teens.I didn’t know it was narcissism until 46 years later when another narcs mask fell.I have experienced just about everything in this relationship.I had no self confidence nor self love and I still don’t.I have nothing but grief and regrets Prayer has helped a lot and I still love him.Great video
Stay strong 💪it's now your time. Enjoy your new journey❤
Thanks Joyce - married 36 years and left in 2020 questioning the first year if right thing to do. Still not divorced as he is stalling and delaying … hopeful it will be done this year. Now I know it was the right thing to do. It is peaceful. I know the divorce will finally be done and then I can heal.
This is spot on!!!
Amazing video A month ago, my partnership of five years came to an end. The choice to break up with the person I love is something that really gets to me. Even though it's all for nothing, l've done everything I can to get him back, and I couldn't imagine my existence without him. I've tried everything to stop thinking about him, but I still can't help but miss him and think about him often. I don't know why l am saying this here.
Since my 12-year relationship ended, I know how hard it is to say goodbye to someone you love. But I couldn't just let him go, so I did everything I could to win him back. I finally went to a spiritual counsellor for guidance, and he helped me win back his love.
It's fascinating! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor and how can I get in touch with one most effectively?
Father Obah Eze is a wonderful spiritual counselor who has the ability to bring back your ex.
He can assist you; he is Father Obah Eze, and he possesses immense powers and he’s the best spell caster to ever live
@@Nrcler You are experiencing a trauma bond.. research it and you’ll know why.. hang in there! I’m praying for you!
This 💯💯💯💯💯 helpful 😊. When you feel someone understands your pain and journey then you can feel confident your moving in the right direction 🏹💓.
"After listening to this for 5 minutes, I felt an unexpected sense of peace. Has anyone else experienced the same shift in such a short time?"
It’s so sad how these narcs do this to people and they think it’s ok. It’s a physiological game. I saw the trap after our breakup and he tried to come back just two words from his text and I said NOPE I’m done
Wow! Joyce hit the nail on the head!! it is a blessing to hear that a Christian leader has this knowledge and is capable of providing good Christian counseling to those who have suffered from narcissistic abuse! You go, Joyce! ;0)
It’s been one hell of a journey these past 6 years… my ex and my daughter are narcissistic. They have smeared my name with such lies… 6 years later they still continue smearing my name and trying to destroy my reputation….they have turned my family and friends against me…
Amen. I have been walking with Jesus Christ for 25 years. Listening to you since I became a believer. Only 4 years ago I fell inlove with studying psychology and my life changed for good. Even though I love Jesus and raised my daughters in the word of God, I needed true deliverance ofchildhood traumas and why I attract narcissist man wow did my life change. I am healed saved celibate and walking with God better than ever in my life. I a proud single woman but I had to learn the words. I have gone to your talking events book signing ect but listening to you talk about narcissistic people is the most beautiful thing you can do to touch people in their absence of knowledge in psychology and narcissist. Thank you.
Sometimes that's exactly what the narcissist does.When they have soiled or littered the box in which they played for too long, they end up having to close the door.
They accuse others of being the narcissist to cover up what they did..
Victim blaming is a high art. Be careful who you believe.
This is BRILLIANTLY SAID 👏
This is Joyce’s voice 100% but I agree it’s been modified in some way
Thank God I heard this...I didn't want to lower my standards to their standards..this clears my confusion..
I've heard many videos on narcissists. This is by far one of the best perspectives. It's best to walk away and go silent. I've been married to one for 38 years. Due to valuable videos such as these and God's mercy. I found the courage to leave. My mental health and health have improved immensely. God, please give me the courage to file for divorce and heal from years of abuse. TY Joyce for your empowering videos.
Thank you, Joyce!! My ex-husband narc even tried to reach me thru my dreams! i hid from him in my dream last night, too & he couldn't find me in that dream, either.. In real life, I changed my phone #, moved from where we were at together and i was Blessed with a new (to me) vehicle. He is in a different state (where he lived in before) . Now I have even more protection... NOT just guidance and protection from God.
Thank you so much for your words of wisdom
Hi And Thank You So Very Much For Sharing This I Needed To Hear This i Was In A Relationship With A Malignant Narcissit For Over 9 Yrs He Destroyed My Life My Self Confidence Self Worth Self Esteem. I Lost My Self He Had Beat Me Down So Bad With He Words Calling Me Names.I Began Searching Looking For Videos That Would Help Me To Start Disconnecting. I Currently Have 5 Months Of No Contact Narcissitic Abuse Is The Absolute Worse Abuse To Ever Endure. This Helped Me Tremendously Thank you So Very Much Joyce Meyers..
Yes it could be Ai made of her voice, it IS very helping for those of us who live(d) this abuse, thank you
There is much negative talk around Joyce . I understand that. But, i have enjoyed many of her talks and got wisdom from her. And she is nimber one on this subject because of the experiences she had with her parents . Such wisdom..
Amen thank god I needed to here this thank God for this message 🙏 amen
That was very powerful. And very helpful
Joyce, I love your works.. My Mother loved reading your books 📚❤️🙏Thanks for giving our family's women, peace. Prayers, beautiful soul, I finally am stepping out into my purpose of helping broken people ...This calling it is new but, I love it. I was broken but I am new in holy in the spirit. At 60 I have wisdom & My God's love to share .
I THANK YOU SO MUCH JOYCE; YOU ARE AN EARTH ANGEL; YOU ARE HELPING SO MANY PEOPLE OUT THERE!!!! THANK YOU JOYCE MYERS !!!
Thank you Joyce. I think the hardest thing about my situation is walking away from a daughter who used all the tactics you describe but when she started using our grandchild in her games that was when we walked away.
We have kids ...so it's hard to decide the right way ...I don't want to hurt my kids if I decide to go silent..
Ask God to lead and help you decide.
Don’t let your kids make you suffer . It’s understandable but you have to think of yourself what you are going through
God will take care of you and your kids just trust God , have faith and everything will be fine .
... good afternoon, Miss Joyce...'Keep Fighting the Good Fight!'...thank YOU...peace on, m.g.☕😊💪💜☝️☮️🇺🇲
Now some people really do provoke you to lash out but the difference between a normal person doing so and a narcissist doing it is the normal person has a legit reason to do so and the narcissist does it out of no where or does it for reasons that don't make sense. Remember narcissist watch stuff like this and will use certain things like that against their victims. Saying that they blame the lashing out on being provoked and they will legitimately provike you to lash out then will say you are just trying to fight. It's like the whole physical thing, if it's said that you should nwver be physical they will teigger you to then will use that to say you're the bad one. It's all so twisted 😢
You already served you purpose.
Absolutely true! Thank you! 🙏
Thank you Joyce
When I was only nineteen an evil twenty five year old sociopath latched onto me and I could not get away from him. I never liked him he was never charming.He was always awful. He had NOTHING to offer. How do you get over the feeling of revulsion, disgust, anger. The thought of him makes my skin crawl. I can't get over those horrible feelings. I told my therapist a little bit about him,😮 and she said he's not a narcissist, he's a sociopath. I just want to get over the awful feelings of disgust.
100% Right on! Joyce! I feel so grateful that a Christian woman is speaking out without reservation about this horrible abuse that is rampant in the Church!
Amen 🙏 Thank you Lord for this beautiful message from Joyce Meyer who has truly known the truth of God's word.❤❤
He told me " I need to be chased and I need to be in control"
Be still my heart. Where do I sign up?
Thank’s a million Mrs. Joyce Meyer this is powerful sermon,😂❤❤❤.God bless you.
It may be AI but it’s the message that is the point . Humanity is in a spiritual battle not a flesh and flood battle . Protect your spirit because it is eternal and loving yourself when you think no one else does is important .
My mom, older sister, my late husband. Ex fake friends and coworkers. Never again in the name of Jesus. Don't argue just leave.
Wow you took the words out of my mouth omg ...
I have experience this ..I don't trust anyone .not even church people it's all for the honor of an abusive parent .. this is not honoring says the..royal we .Kevin.God help me to break away from a dying nar mother and other people .I have no family or friends all abusive in one way or another.
I will survive without an abusive elderly mother the rest are just as bad
Thank You Joyce for putting this
Message out to people which is the truth.....there abusive..all of them ...God help me not to hate them
Safety First.
Plan your exit.
Do NOT tell them
you are leaving.
They may get
violent.
The only way to break those chains is deliverance. I’m surprised she didn’t mention anything on the demonic realm. These are those spirits that will only come out by fasting and prayer. There is also a divine intervention of resurrendering your heart to God. 3 key elements of witchcraft 1. Manipulation 2. Control 3. Dominance
Thank you ! Best explanations i ve heard ! It deserves all thumbs up 😊. God bless you Joyce ❤ and all who suffered from abusé
37 years and still married.
Five years ago I opened. RUclips video out of curiosity as I didn’t know what a narcissist was.
I found out at that moment wheat I was fighting against.
I am out of the house because of moving to care for my elderly mother.
Here is one of my biggest a issues now. My brother and his wife just LOVE my husband and do not believe what I tell them.
They act like it has to be me because he is great.
Pretty textbook, wouldn’t you say?!
I’m done trying to make them see. They have their own choice to make.
I am 68 years old and have no children. A lonely world.
Thank you so much, Joyce❤
Looks like another phone goes in the bin.
Stalking really isn't my area.
Neither is privacy violation.
You said the key phrase:
Access to you is control to them, remove it and they punish you.
The only thing they can't control is your SILENCE.
Spot on. Thank you.
Just a dead set shame. They just need to get a fuckn life and stop destroying yours.
Best command, hands down..... 🙌
Good message mama I was hoping you do a message on this or you knew about this this is my whole family Anson uncle's mom and dad I'm so glad you're aware of this and you know about this and are doing messages on it thank you God 🙏👑 my mom and her whole side of the family thank you Mama Joyce
Hi mama Joyce love 😍 your transparency and integrity angel 😇 from brick NJ
They treat you how they need it to look a certain way to the outside
Wonderful to hear your voice again. So empowering. How are you and yours? I think you broke this narcissist down in my mind. What you say is for real ❤helpful and healing. Its all about self respect.
Thank you. I needed that message. AMEN ❤❤❤
Thank Joyce You I needed to hear This It Home so much I finally shut the door Thank You Jesus for giving me the strength to do it, I keep him in prayer no matter what I forgive , let go and find the strength to keep going everyday babysteps, Thank You Father God in Your Sons Precious Name Christ Jesus Amen ❤️🌹🙏🌹❤️🥹
OMG....Bravo !!!!!!
My ex betrayed me and I walked away and now I’m MIA. I gave him my power and now I’m taking it back.
Someone who is not up front honest with us concerning where all of their sources of negative influences concerning their perception of us right away while offering us any form of romantic relationship including only asking us for dance on a ballroom dance floor following by offering us their time often during which time their behavior is obvious meant to be startling to us or confusing for us then for sure that is their own problem. Their own problem while we continue to put distance between us and them.
Thank you ❤❤
No contact with a Covert Narcissist one year. Wearing earphones help when they stalk you
Very good content. Soooo exactly and true! I just din like the fact that you are using Joyce voice, I don’t like fakes.
Wow 💯 Truth
These things are true, except now my narcissistic abuser, who is my mother, is claiming that SHE'S the one being sadistically abused, and that's what she's telling other people. She's psychotic. And she threatened to call police on me and accuse me of elder abuse because I'm not giving her the attention she demands. And then she did call social services.
On the advice of 2 counselors, I called Adult Protective Services, and filed a report against her for her severe and escalating threats.
She's back to being petty and trying to provoke and bait me on almost a daily basis.And gossiping, claiming victimhood, writing in her notebook that she's being abused. She is sick in the head. I think she is demonically possessed.
I am working on going No Contact.
Thank you.
Wow that sounds like my own Twin Brother.
Wonderful
Thankyou Joyce, is clear and clean, because i was busy to take the education, training in India to learning protect myself and brings balance myself also healing myself, send it to the world with the rimple forms affect. But also put her back on her own bare feet or met haar blote billetjes in het gras zetten😊 . Because dat symbiotische relationship hold me day and night on, its was a cool experience, but i remembering a peace of my past live in repeating , only i was 17 till 19 years old. O God she is still on my back , she can listening, may be spy me , as like i am pregnant, but my belly is on my back , the movement is like this baby can anytime born. Because is the same movement as between 8 to 9 monts pregnant, then you feeling every movement of the baby, feet or something unexpected crazy movements , if you a mother, you can recongnise this. But if this stop , o my Goddess, i have more rest from this restless. Uiteindelijk zal ik genezen worden, van de actuele, actieve bigggg baby. I think she get more problems then myself, because day and night be in me, o my God she loose the reality may be Neglect her self but me too. This very unhealthy situation. I am a mother with 3 childeren, but so a adult carry everywhere is not freedom at all. Little bit funny😅 . Ok Thankyou ❤❤❤Namaskaar
🙂↔️🙂↕️😌🙏🤝🤲🦾🫶🙌✌️🤞
The Devil is the author of confusion.
A narcissistic human will try to confuse you.
Let that sink in.
So true
YES‼️I knew something was WRONG with the GUYS & The 3 So called FRIENDS & perhaps a FAMILY member... It's so SAD how SICK & Delusional these people are & YOU are right once you see it you most definitely can't unsee it‼️‼️‼️& I wouldn't want too ‼️💯💯💯
I FULL AGREE with you!!
The problem is, both a genuine Narcissist and a wounded individual can say the same words. It's a matter of the intentions of the heart. One is a control freak the other is a sensitive, giving person. How do you tell the difference?
I have no one Bot King Jesus! This demon in him has turned everyone against me even my children. Let’s pray for each other s strength.
TY JOYCE, I HAD ALL CD'S & SHE STOLED THEM ALL !! IWAS OAYING MY RENT WITH MY CKS , I CALEED THE BANK TO STOP OYMENT ON TH CKS , I FORGOT THE ONES IN MY CK ENVELOPS
Great video, so well said!
EVERYONE needs to learn their attachment style. Find out what is instilled in you since you were a child. Find out why you are stuck in a cycle with phsycos! Buy and read the book "Attached"
Learn to lovr yourself more than anyone else, even your kids, and your life will fall into place. Positive thoughts always and mindset is the way to live.
From my experience its past down..two of the same
*passed
Wait until they call your employer on, or file a false complaint, or they break into your email
And I believe that in Discovery myself I'm so happy Mama Joyce who the sun is set free is free indeed God has helped me so much and I have a piece and I like my life I moved away am I cut all ties pretty much with my family as wellmy church out here told me I could love her at a distance and that's what I did I left no more control God's in control and who the son sets free is free indeed grace and mercy thanks be to God I love you Lord I'm so free that's why I reordered your books recently the upgraded version of the battle of the mind field haven't gotten them yet what I want you to know the CDs really helped me a lotand I don't push myself I take it one day at a time me and Jesus I am freeand that's how I feel the fruit of the spirit I count my blessings and my daily bread 🍞 I am free and it feels good it feels great peace I have from The Prince of Peace King Jesus I am free I want to listen to your messages every day on TBN and The Trinity channel and RUclips love you Mama
Amen ❤🙏❤
Amen
Best goods news messages yes
🔥 Amen 🔥
Oh how well i know... they need So much Attention it's scary, consistent boosting their EGO ,Such BROKEN PEOPLE... sad.. very upset if you refuse to play their games, then the lying and betray, for whatever reason to destroy you if you try to pull away.
Most of the time these people are very well liked ...they are Darn good ACTORS. SOME EVEN IN THEATER...
Silent strength stolic
I can crying to belief this , is that she, so beautiful soul feeling lost in her victem behavior. Can she come ever healthy again. 😢 beautiful
Thatswy i like to get the education 2 monts
How do I co parent? With a narcissist