@@Ahornaiya self work. We manifest what we believe about ourselves. Childhood wounds? We have the power to change all of it. I go out into the world just to check what I'm manifesting. Don't like? Ahh, more inner work to be done! Keep going. XO
I have this placement and all my major relationships have been with very strong willed men. I've had three painful breakups. The last one has hit me like a tonne of bricks. I give a lot in relationships and always try to better myself. I'm not sure what to do really to move forward.
Later in life I realized how lucky I'm to have Pluto in my 7th house (Libra). I went from dark periods during my relationships to enlightment. It's shadow work that had to start back into the childhood and the result is a re-birth into complete transparency and healthy relationships. I did not become my shadow. I did not submerge into it and surrender, I confronted it with truth and the shadow became light, transparent.
In my experience. When in a relationship I tend to get over influenced with their ideal of what I should be, I tend to morph myself into what I think is the perfect individual for them and I tend suppress who I really am and what my beliefs really are. But now I understand that I have to be myself and stay true to who I was when they meet me and who I really am. In other word I don't have change who I am to please others or maintain a "relationship".
I hate my birthchart, it's literally the worst birthchart I've ever seen compared to my friends and family. Sometimes I regret ever discovering astrology and doing my chart. I not only have Pluto in the 7th, my moon is in the 7th, Chiron in the 7th, and my Saturn is in the 1st. These placements just scream weak codependent and extremely low self worth to me. I literally stay away from relationships now and am so cautious when approached. I've attracted Scorpios before and I have never met one that has a good bone in their body.
Haha..I'm a Scorpio. the thing is we attract what we are. I have pluto in 7th you often attract your darkside. So I stopped attracting people who were really dark when I confronted the darkness within myself. There are many different Scorpios out there. Every sign is neutral. They have capacity for positivity and negativity it's based on the individual. So maybe if you change yourself you will attract more better partners. Yet pluto demands bravery and Persistance. You literally have to die and often it will mean painful emotions in order to come out the other side's. We are not victims because have the power to transform our lives
I agree, I have a couple “weak” placements in my chart and it sucks. But at least I’m aware of it and I think that helps. Being completely unaware of the shadow aspects in our chart seems more detrimental than knowing and working on it.
Pluto in libra in the 7 th house…….I have had to surrender to realising relationships are completely unpredictable and many have left me in emotional turmoil
I have gone through so many relationships. Compulsively within relationships. All types of darkness that you could imagine and relationships. Now I'm done with that
This video helped me so much. I have curses my Pluto in the 7th and all my planets in Scorpio for so long for my misfortunes in relationships. Yet I believe it is because Pluto is such a mysterious and deep planet to unravel. It's only from being so hurt in relationships and not understanding completely how I called it all in that I could see the true power of Pluto. To go so deep into the darkness in order to rise so high into the light. This video helped me realize I don't need to stay in the darkness. That I have the power to direct things. With pluto it always feels like and higher octave. like some otherworldy force is playing a chess game with me. No matter how ruthless the endings it all is starting to make sense. Thank you
This was so indepth and accurate! My transformation process has been a REAL journey. I've never been so connected to self before and its so beautiful. Took alot of tears and pain but im here :)
Tan, I keep rewatching this throughout the years and every time it's like I'm hearing something new and true. The bigger my life experience, the better this resonates. Every time I feel like I need a hand with my inner work, I know I can depend on your videos. Your explanations are the best among all the astrologers I know. Whatever you say flies straight into my head😂Maybe it's my Gemini ascendant + Pisces stellium 😁I know you were working on this a long time ago, but if there's any chance you would do Neptune in the 4th house(/aspecting moon) video, I would be so very interested.
Uhhuul! The first one is my placement! :) And I can share that I've over passed this situation in a 7 years relationship. Leading with this exactly situations you've mentioned. Very strong obsession. Plus with a very strong energy me as Taurus and him a scorpio. 😬 But the results were positive! I have overcome it and turn much more strong afterwards.
i have pluto in 7th squaring my sun,mercury (ruler of asc) ,opp asc and moon,conj mars and lilith :p and all of the people in my life are pluto dominant,i always wanted other people to tell me who i am,i asked them many times in a hidden way and ive always let them took the lead of our relationship,ive felt security in that way cause when i was little my dad was the one taking all the responsibillity for me or telling me what to do ,he was very powerful i had no other choice than to obey,but for some time now ive been alone and i found who i am on my own,i found my strength,i say myself what to do and i listen to only me,im way more peaceful and feel more whole and secure now than before
This made a lot of sense. My situation was with someone who was already in a commitment. He committed himself to someone who was control. He tried to exert control over me because his need was nurture and sexually fulfillment. My need was emotional security which I knew consciously that he could not provide. I detach which created a strong attachment. He’s toxic and can’t meet my needs. He’s codependent. Im aloof and don’t communicate at all but feel like this connection is inescapable. He’s been manipulating me by keeping distant. I’m very truthful and have integrity. My whole life has been speaking openly. I attract 5th house people. I’m a Leo cusp sun and moon in Leo. Strong karma with authority mom/ dad past life connection. I’ve been single and a hermit most of my adult life. This situation has been very transformative and painful. I’m solid and I don’t settle. The lesson is to break the silence with him and to end the karma by rejecting this connection because it doesn’t serve me anymore
Love the theme 💕 my pluto is in the 7th and I’ve always noticed extreme transformations in my relationships. My current relationship will be 6 years in a few weeks.
I appreciate you’re ability to keep it real despite the possibility of offending your viewers because I desperately needed to hear this and at the most perfect time. Thank you.
It’s not easy to see your shadow side and I like to hold space for transformation in my life and for others. I didn’t like this in my chart and I didn’t really understand it. Over the years and committed to my spiritual journey my relationship and partnership has become something so much more and more than I could have ever imagined. I try to go lightly and keep my heart and mind open. Let go of what I see and integrate the wisdom I learn along the way. Transformation is personal and collective and I appreciate this video to help see and sense the changes in my life. Collective consciousness is still evolving and so am I.
I started doing shadow work recently and I was inspired to go back into my natal chart and dig deeper by an astrologer on the Therapy for Black Girls podcast. After reading about pluto in the 7th house and checking my placements, your video popped up. I really feel like all of this is divine timing for me to heal and transform myself. My North Node is in Scorpio so I feel like this is very relative and necessary. Thank you
The first one is my placement! :) And I can share that I've over passed this situation in a 7 years relationship. Leading with this exactly situations you've mentioned. Plus with a very strong energy me as Taurus and him a scorpio. Very strong abuse and obsession on both sides. 😬 But the results were positive! I have overcome it and turn much more strong afterwards.
Recently my 14 years friendship and 7 years relationship broke up. My ex-partner talked to her only 2 days and the girl proposed him. He cheated on me. You don't know how accurate you are! You are 100% right. I am feeling very bad for him. I love him more than anything in my life. I wish we would be like before!
This is probably one of the most impactful astrology videos I’ve watched. Especially seeing as how relationships have been a major part of my life…now I know why. Pluto I’m Libra! In my 7th house 💥 😮 Let the work begin! 🎉
Oh my God. This video was so spot on. My had a scorpio venus and he was an intense lover in my life. My sexual needs are in the themes of dominant/submissive, I'm not quite vanilla. Also the scorpio sun guy wanted me to stay in his life but I just didn't vibe enough with this relationship. I felt he did believe I was the 'one' but I felt I was giving his ego the power over me. It was a short term relationship. I just realized I crave the intensity and transformation through relationships but that's a part of myself I do not really recognized. I realized I didn't love my Scorpio venus ex that deep, it was relationship to our needs, for me emotional need with the want to know each other on a soul level but for him I was more a nurturer of his deepness. After our breakup he seemed like an addict not getting anymore of me to nurture his traumatic past & wounded inner child.
I was staying in that relationship so long searching for what I need with him only to realize he was not the one. I agree with projecting my own power into others. I crave transformation within myself that I attract these people in my life. Also I have saturn 1st house opposite pluto 7th and I seemed to have a power issues upon self and others. My self destruction(saturn) is against this powerplaying in relationship. And this power projection into others is against of who I am.
Oh this is painful to hear because it is so true. Why is it bad to have your needs met by another person? I’m 53 as of today and I hope I will one day be able to heal my inner child.
Onyggawd this reasonates a lot I got chills, and the example you give, I actually tried that with my one suitor once, kinda be friend his friends and extract facts about him and corner him with it I just see it as I'm just curious with his background that's why I did that but after seeing this video I kinda reflected and yes I admit I tried to manipulate him and Luckily we did not end up together plus I know he's going to manipulate me too based on what he's saying and background check also. Thank you very much!
Tan! I loved your Pluto series so far. I've watched Pluto in 12th and 5th and they also hit the nail on the head on people I know. It's like peering through the veil of their secrets ;) You mentioned an author during this... would love a resource on your Pluto research please!
Thank you. Everything is making sense watching this video. I’m healing and moving out the other side of this, but it’s nice to understand why I’ve been through so much in relationships. You are such a beautiful soul, with so much knowledge 💜🌈
Omg! You are the best...I wasn’t aware of this until I watch your video. That’s the reason my marriage of 14 years was so brutal and abusive. I give him all my power. You totally right he took the role of dominant and I became the wick one. Thank thank thank you for open my eyes. 🙏❤️
I have my Pluto in Sagittarius in the 7th house and my Chiron in Scorpio in the 7th house and wow your words really just spoke to me.. you’re the first person that’s explained this placement to the T, well for me!
Pluto just moved into my 7th House & in enters a Scorpio ♏️! I can tell this is hoping to be a VERY INTENSE 😰😰😰 relationship!! I'm already a little scared!
I have pluto in 7th house in scorpio and how u described it really REALLY resonated with me. This "alter ego" came into my life was someone I met at work and ultimately our friendship had to dissolve because he moved away to another country. What if the "break up" was that he had to leave even when he didn't want to yet? I went through a painful "breakup" with him and I am slowly detaching myself from this need and obsession. Will there still be a transformation if this was not a true break up?
The honesty I was looking for. I was able to see my caretaker mentality and how with it I look for validation and it creates a wheel of codependency and this came about within my family. If im not giving to them, they dont love me type of mentality. I see it now. Its pretty gross lmao
Thank you Tan for this video…I have watched it initially when you released it 2 years ago, trying to understand my partner who has this placement. He has moon conjunct saturn In Scorpio conjunct pluto in libra 29deg all in 7th house. I myself am sun conjunct pluto on IC with Scorpio Venus, mercury and Uranus. I loved him with all my heart but the amount of manipulation and domination that he was exerting or was attempting to was unreal. He was using subtle techniques as per your video, pretending to be fulfilling my needs where in fact he was controlling me and trying to manipulate me into being an open book whilst he was creating emotional bonds with others online. This was the biggest disappointment I have ever experienced as I was totally devoted to him through his ways of manipulation. I was really hoping that he will become aware of this but I had to break this cycle and block him out of my life. No wonder in composite we had sun conjunct neptune in 7th square moon in 5th…once again I have to use my Phoenix power to rebirth myself and transform through the pain. Your videos are very healing for plutonic hearts. Thank you❤🙏🏻
My placement is Saggitarius 7, 3 degrees into my 6th house, away from my DC. I had a ‘friend’ who tried manipulating me into sleeping with him after YEARS of having me believe this was not the case. It’s interesting because he’s an entirely Saggitarian personality type. He’s entirely philosophical, and I depended on him for a lot of my life because I’m a shy guy and he introduced me to a lot of new people. Interesting part is: I was into mapping (like physical mapping), traveling and long distance running when I was a kid. Most of those things have an ultimately ‘Saggitarian’ theme, just like has Saggitarian 'quest for knowledge' personality. Ultimately, now, I want to focus on this part of my life that ‘mysteriously’ disappeared when he started figuring more prominently in my life 🤔🤔
Thanks for doing this series. I am so joyed to see that you are going to do this completely for all the signs and houses. I am so curious about my life journey and what it is that controls the material world around me. Why things happen and what is the root astrological cause? I believe that my life has been saved from so much abuse and stress by being a Loner. Alone I find out who I am and concentrate on myself rather than doing everything for others. I am the dominant spirit Aqu/Aqu/Cap/Ari sun/asc/moon/venus yet being a Loner I don't need to exert my dominance overtly and may be viewed as a needy less dominant person. Break ups have always been difficult and my needs were never met. The insecurities for my needs creep up and a lot more when needs are not met and looks like we are trying to extract their alter ego out of our partners. Right partners have never been straight with me. Yes I need love and feedback hahahaa it is my drug. Transparency is a must without Honesty there is no chance of relationships with Me. Nobody wants my deep love or there is no one out there that deserves it. Until then I turn all my Love to myself Spirit.
Please read through to important question at the bottom: I have Pluto in Scorpio in my 7th house. This all rings true for me, I am currently in the relationship that has brought it all up and into the open for me to work through, I have been doing the work for 3-4 years and it is great. My partner is a very whole person, he already did a lot of work via a spontaneous kundalini awakening. We definitely trigger each other and are mirrors for each other, a lot of continual growth. We have a lot of power struggles and are both learning through them, we have good communication and no toxicity. My question is, can this relationship last after I do the work?
I'm a 8th house stellium, and have Saturn(in Scorpio), Pluto both in the 7th house, I just have no NEED for any kind of intimacy especially marriage. Not because of fear, nor depression, simply because no special interest.
the relationship that was brutal was not brutal because I loved him so much. its disgusting how self aware i am and i knew it was because i wasnt going to know myself anymore. i see myself aesthetically with someone and how im perceived is important. at the same time i hate being perceived but relationships r so important to me and even in my teenage years i told myself i wasnt ever happy without a relationship but thats because i was in such a horrible environment in my house.
Wow! Thank you for the thorough explanation of my 7th house. What would be a good match for this placement? I tend to attract Scorpios or Scorpio risings and the intensity is overwhelming. I like how you said an ideal partnership will feel simple but I also like a person with depth.
I don't understand. This placement says that I find my personal transformation in my relationships, yet you say I can't have a good relationship until I've done it myself. Isn't that a paradox? Even with close friends there are cases where they see a parts of me that I don't. Please help, I still don't know how to have a healthy relationship
My closest friend is a very plutonian guy who had all the qualities I wanted to have and vice versa. We both have evolved by spending time together. Now, when it comes to relationships, some of the most painful lessons I've had have always been with plutonian women, the unevolved ones.
I did not had a painful breakup but had painful relationship that's why I dumped him because he always hurted me he always ignored me and always demand and makes me cry always this was toxics relationship. And he is the person who did not gave any respect to me and yealders so I left him since 2year i was suffering but now IAM happy. And he is struggling and he wants me back but I won't. I told him a lot of time that plzz take me serious and ingnored his lot of mistakes but... He 😒so at last I took a step to live him.and this was my ri8 decision. Iam very happy without him now
Did the self work, and now manifested the most wonderful love ever. Just Married, too!
Good job 👍
Congratulations
How did you do it?
@@Ahornaiya self work. We manifest what we believe about ourselves. Childhood wounds? We have the power to change all of it. I go out into the world just to check what I'm manifesting. Don't like? Ahh, more inner work to be done! Keep going. XO
Wow, I still have much work left to do🥺
OMG. Every break up is like death. I really feel I'm gonna die.
God LITERALLY
I have pluto opposite my 7th in the first & honestly, same
Fr it feels like your torn away and it feels like your wounded just dangling raw in the wind. Not to mention the psychological mental toll it takes..
TW/suicide
Been feeling suicidal bc I was dumped 3 years in a row by 3 different people. Makes me wonder why am I still alive yet :(
ビオ we have to learn to stop giving our power away while still open to vulnerability
“You want to be dominant by being the one who is not dominant.” 🤯 I never realized this was toxic until this video
I have this placement and all my major relationships have been with very strong willed men. I've had three painful breakups. The last one has hit me like a tonne of bricks. I give a lot in relationships and always try to better myself. I'm not sure what to do really to move forward.
Later in life I realized how lucky I'm to have Pluto in my 7th house (Libra). I went from dark periods during my relationships to enlightment. It's shadow work that had to start back into the childhood and the result is a re-birth into complete transparency and healthy relationships. I did not become my shadow. I did not submerge into it and surrender, I confronted it with truth and the shadow became light, transparent.
In my experience. When in a relationship I tend to get over influenced with their ideal of what I should be, I tend to morph myself into what I think is the perfect individual for them and I tend suppress who I really am and what my beliefs really are. But now I understand that I have to be myself and stay true to who I was when they meet me and who I really am. In other word I don't have change who I am to please others or maintain a "relationship".
spot on! 😢
I have this placement, with Scorpio in the 7th house.
Me too
me too 😶
Same😒
Why are we watching this at Christmas? :/
@@danielkiss2067 ikr
I hate my birthchart, it's literally the worst birthchart I've ever seen compared to my friends and family. Sometimes I regret ever discovering astrology and doing my chart. I not only have Pluto in the 7th, my moon is in the 7th, Chiron in the 7th, and my Saturn is in the 1st. These placements just scream weak codependent and extremely low self worth to me. I literally stay away from relationships now and am so cautious when approached. I've attracted Scorpios before and I have never met one that has a good bone in their body.
Haha..I'm a Scorpio. the thing is we attract what we are. I have pluto in 7th you often attract your darkside. So I stopped attracting people who were really dark when I confronted the darkness within myself. There are many different Scorpios out there. Every sign is neutral. They have capacity for positivity and negativity it's based on the individual. So maybe if you change yourself you will attract more better partners. Yet pluto demands bravery and Persistance. You literally have to die and often it will mean painful emotions in order to come out the other side's. We are not victims because have the power to transform our lives
I agree, I have a couple “weak” placements in my chart and it sucks. But at least I’m aware of it and I think that helps. Being completely unaware of the shadow aspects in our chart seems more detrimental than knowing and working on it.
Same I hate my chart I am also a Scorpio, pisces rising, cancer moon and full eighth house... Jupiter second house smh I feel you 😩
Pluto and chiron in 7th in sagittarius .Saturn is right between the cusp of 1st and 12th in gemini.
@@strengthpurposeastrologyco3941 So well said. Self acceptance is key
Pluto in libra in the 7 th house…….I have had to surrender to realising relationships are completely unpredictable and many have left me in emotional turmoil
this is probably one of the most in depth 7H pluto interpretations i've come across by far. you read my subconscious to absolute filth, im amazed 😔
Yea breakups are hell, genuinely got heart palpitations, great read. Thank you!
I have gone through so many relationships. Compulsively within relationships. All types of darkness that you could imagine and relationships. Now I'm done with that
This video helped me so much. I have curses my Pluto in the 7th and all my planets in Scorpio for so long for my misfortunes in relationships. Yet I believe it is because Pluto is such a mysterious and deep planet to unravel. It's only from being so hurt in relationships and not understanding completely how I called it all in that I could see the true power of Pluto. To go so deep into the darkness in order to rise so high into the light. This video helped me realize I don't need to stay in the darkness. That I have the power to direct things. With pluto it always feels like and higher octave. like some otherworldy force is playing a chess game with me. No matter how ruthless the endings it all is starting to make sense.
Thank you
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Same
This was so indepth and accurate! My transformation process has been a REAL journey. I've never been so connected to self before and its so beautiful. Took alot of tears and pain but im here :)
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Better than any psych session. This changed my life. Thank you. ❣️
Tan, I keep rewatching this throughout the years and every time it's like I'm hearing something new and true. The bigger my life experience, the better this resonates. Every time I feel like I need a hand with my inner work, I know I can depend on your videos.
Your explanations are the best among all the astrologers I know. Whatever you say flies straight into my head😂Maybe it's my Gemini ascendant + Pisces stellium 😁I know you were working on this a long time ago, but if there's any chance you would do Neptune in the 4th house(/aspecting moon) video, I would be so very interested.
Uhhuul! The first one is my placement! :) And I can share that I've over passed this situation in a 7 years relationship. Leading with this exactly situations you've mentioned. Very strong obsession. Plus with a very strong energy me as Taurus and him a scorpio. 😬 But the results were positive! I have overcome it and turn much more strong afterwards.
i have pluto in 7th squaring my sun,mercury (ruler of asc) ,opp asc and moon,conj mars and lilith :p and all of the people in my life are pluto dominant,i always wanted other people to tell me who i am,i asked them many times in a hidden way and ive always let them took the lead of our relationship,ive felt security in that way cause when i was little my dad was the one taking all the responsibillity for me or telling me what to do ,he was very powerful i had no other choice than to obey,but for some time now ive been alone and i found who i am on my own,i found my strength,i say myself what to do and i listen to only me,im way more peaceful and feel more whole and secure now than before
You are so correct about a hurtful breakup because of a need. FOR REAL!! Yes. Very true
This made a lot of sense. My situation was with someone who was already in a commitment. He committed himself to someone who was control. He tried to exert control over me because his need was nurture and sexually fulfillment. My need was emotional security which I knew consciously that he could not provide. I detach which created a strong attachment. He’s toxic and can’t meet my needs. He’s codependent. Im aloof and don’t communicate at all but feel like this connection is inescapable. He’s been manipulating me by keeping distant. I’m very truthful and have integrity. My whole life has been speaking openly. I attract 5th house people. I’m a Leo cusp sun and moon in Leo. Strong karma with authority mom/ dad past life connection. I’ve been single and a hermit most of my adult life. This situation has been very transformative and painful. I’m solid and I don’t settle. The lesson is to break the silence with him and to end the karma by rejecting this connection because it doesn’t serve me anymore
Love the theme 💕 my pluto is in the 7th and I’ve always noticed extreme transformations in my relationships. My current relationship will be 6 years in a few weeks.
Wow, this had me in tears. Certain things you don't want to admit but eventually you have to face them. That's the only way you can grow.
Got it too. Don't be hard on yourselves guys. Gold at the end of the dark tunnel.
I appreciate you’re ability to keep it real despite the possibility of offending your viewers because I desperately needed to hear this and at the most perfect time. Thank you.
Will always be grateful for astrology
And the wonderful people who do readings
Btw you look beautiful with this make up style in this video :">
Great input, that you so much, Tan! ♥️✨🙏
Scorpio 7th house here 🙂
Brilliant ! I am Pluto in 4th undergoing Pluto transit in 7th - and it totally resonates 😌 pluto has covered half of my 7th house ....
Wow this is super accurate to me :( I feel doomed. Yet I am doing everything in my power to work with this placement…. So hard!
Not only can they be controlled but they can also be the ones to control their sexual conquests
It’s not easy to see your shadow side and I like to hold space for transformation in my life and for others. I didn’t like this in my chart and I didn’t really understand it. Over the years and committed to my spiritual journey my relationship and partnership has become something so much more and more than I could have ever imagined. I try to go lightly and keep my heart and mind open. Let go of what I see and integrate the wisdom I learn along the way. Transformation is personal and collective and I appreciate this video to help see and sense the changes in my life. Collective consciousness is still evolving and so am I.
I started doing shadow work recently and I was inspired to go back into my natal chart and dig deeper by an astrologer on the Therapy for Black Girls podcast. After reading about pluto in the 7th house and checking my placements, your video popped up. I really feel like all of this is divine timing for me to heal and transform myself. My North Node is in Scorpio so I feel like this is very relative and necessary. Thank you
That was a very accurate description of how my relationships work 😮
The first one is my placement! :) And I can share that I've over passed this situation in a 7 years relationship. Leading with this exactly situations you've mentioned. Plus with a very strong energy me as Taurus and him a scorpio. Very strong abuse and obsession on both sides. 😬 But the results were positive! I have overcome it and turn much more strong afterwards.
Recently my 14 years friendship and 7 years relationship broke up. My ex-partner talked to her only 2 days and the girl proposed him. He cheated on me. You don't know how accurate you are! You are 100% right. I am feeling very bad for him. I love him more than anything in my life. I wish we would be like before!
This is probably one of the most impactful astrology videos I’ve watched. Especially seeing as how relationships have been a major part of my life…now I know why. Pluto I’m Libra! In my 7th house 💥 😮
Let the work begin! 🎉
My Pluto is in the 7th house of Sagittarius what does that mean ?? Someone explain
same here, someone please say something lol
Same same
Sameee, are we all h0ez??
I hate this placement, I have in Scorpio too!
Hopefully in mature years will benefit you, finally. I know it's been hard...difficult and seems like you only attract crazy and maniac people.
Very insightful and 'triggering' video. Thank you! I also have mars and sun in the 7th house that I need to understand!
Can't wait for Pluto in 5th🤩🤞
Brilliant! Tan, you have navigated through such abstract and complicated concepts and didn't get lost! Bravo!
Oh my God. This video was so spot on. My had a scorpio venus and he was an intense lover in my life. My sexual needs are in the themes of dominant/submissive, I'm not quite vanilla. Also the scorpio sun guy wanted me to stay in his life but I just didn't vibe enough with this relationship. I felt he did believe I was the 'one' but I felt I was giving his ego the power over me. It was a short term relationship. I just realized I crave the intensity and transformation through relationships but that's a part of myself I do not really recognized. I realized I didn't love my Scorpio venus ex that deep, it was relationship to our needs, for me emotional need with the want to know each other on a soul level but for him I was more a nurturer of his deepness. After our breakup he seemed like an addict not getting anymore of me to nurture his traumatic past & wounded inner child.
I was staying in that relationship so long searching for what I need with him only to realize he was not the one.
I agree with projecting my own power into others. I crave transformation within myself that I attract these people in my life. Also I have saturn 1st house opposite pluto 7th and I seemed to have a power issues upon self and others. My self destruction(saturn) is against this powerplaying in relationship. And this power projection into others is against of who I am.
I have 7th house Libra and that’s scary accuracy!!
You look sooo pretty!
I’m pretty familiar with my birth chart but this one placement I’ve always had trouble understanding. This makes sense though. Thank you!
Oh this is painful to hear because it is so true. Why is it bad to have your needs met by another person? I’m 53 as of today and I hope I will one day be able to heal my inner child.
This Pluto series caught my interest right away. I'm looking forward to your next pluto videos. 😎
Eagerly waiting for pluto in 10H.
Onyggawd this reasonates a lot I got chills, and the example you give, I actually tried that with my one suitor once, kinda be friend his friends and extract facts about him and corner him with it I just see it as I'm just curious with his background that's why I did that but after seeing this video I kinda reflected and yes I admit I tried to manipulate him and Luckily we did not end up together plus I know he's going to manipulate me too based on what he's saying and background check also. Thank you very much!
You are spot on....so much I could say but wow! I just completed this cycle and have healed and found my balance.
Plz create a video on Pluto in the 7th house in d9 chart
I am really shocked after this
Pluto in 7 house
Tan! I loved your Pluto series so far. I've watched Pluto in 12th and 5th and they also hit the nail on the head on people I know. It's like peering through the veil of their secrets ;)
You mentioned an author during this... would love a resource on your Pluto research please!
Pluto Volume 1: The Evolutionary Journey of the Soul
Book by Jeffrey Wolf Green
Thank you. Everything is making sense watching this video. I’m healing and moving out the other side of this, but it’s nice to understand why I’ve been through so much in relationships. You are such a beautiful soul, with so much knowledge 💜🌈
Omg! You are the best...I wasn’t aware of this until I watch your video. That’s the reason my marriage of 14 years was so brutal and abusive. I give him all my power. You totally right he took the role of dominant and I became the wick one. Thank thank thank you for open my eyes. 🙏❤️
I have my Pluto in Sagittarius in the 7th house and my Chiron in Scorpio in the 7th house and wow your words really just spoke to me.. you’re the first person that’s explained this placement to the T, well for me!
My bpd and this placement explains everything about my behavior lmao
I have Pluto in the 6th and 7th house. And I can say this is accurate! I also have Scorpio in the north node
תודה רבה❣❣
Pluto just moved into my 7th House & in enters a Scorpio ♏️! I can tell this is hoping to be a VERY INTENSE 😰😰😰 relationship!! I'm already a little scared!
I love this! Thank you, lovely lady! ✨❤️🙏🏻
I like you, you're so articulate in your explanations! Would love a natal chart reading from you sometime :)
I have pluto in the 8th house, but it's 1 degree from 7th house. This resonates with me for sure.
I have pluto in 7th house in scorpio and how u described it really REALLY resonated with me. This "alter ego" came into my life was someone I met at work and ultimately our friendship had to dissolve because he moved away to another country. What if the "break up" was that he had to leave even when he didn't want to yet? I went through a painful "breakup" with him and I am slowly detaching myself from this need and obsession. Will there still be a transformation if this was not a true break up?
The honesty I was looking for. I was able to see my caretaker mentality and how with it I look for validation and it creates a wheel of codependency and this came about within my family. If im not giving to them, they dont love me type of mentality. I see it now. Its pretty gross lmao
This is the most accurate thing I’ve ever seen about myself.
What does it mean if I also have Sagittarius in Pluto?
Kiah same I have Pluto in 7th house in Sagittarius
Thank you Tan for this video…I have watched it initially when you released it 2 years ago, trying to understand my partner who has this placement. He has moon conjunct saturn In Scorpio conjunct pluto in libra 29deg all in 7th house. I myself am sun conjunct pluto on IC with Scorpio Venus, mercury and Uranus. I loved him with all my heart but the amount of manipulation and domination that he was exerting or was attempting to was unreal. He was using subtle techniques as per your video, pretending to be fulfilling my needs where in fact he was controlling me and trying to manipulate me into being an open book whilst he was creating emotional bonds with others online. This was the biggest disappointment I have ever experienced as I was totally devoted to him through his ways of manipulation. I was really hoping that he will become aware of this but I had to break this cycle and block him out of my life. No wonder in composite we had sun conjunct neptune in 7th square moon in 5th…once again I have to use my Phoenix power to rebirth myself and transform through the pain. Your videos are very healing for plutonic hearts. Thank you❤🙏🏻
Thank you Tan!!!💞
My placement is Saggitarius 7, 3 degrees into my 6th house, away from my DC. I had a ‘friend’ who tried manipulating me into sleeping with him after YEARS of having me believe this was not the case. It’s interesting because he’s an entirely Saggitarian personality type. He’s entirely philosophical, and I depended on him for a lot of my life because I’m a shy guy and he introduced me to a lot of new people. Interesting part is: I was into mapping (like physical mapping), traveling and long distance running when I was a kid. Most of those things have an ultimately ‘Saggitarian’ theme, just like has Saggitarian 'quest for knowledge' personality. Ultimately, now, I want to focus on this part of my life that ‘mysteriously’ disappeared when he started figuring more prominently in my life 🤔🤔
Pluto in the 12th conjunct the ascendant. Yes, please.
Thanks for doing this series. I am so joyed to see that you are going to do this completely for all the signs and houses. I am so curious about my life journey and what it is that controls the material world around me. Why things happen and what is the root astrological cause? I believe that my life has been saved from so much abuse and stress by being a Loner. Alone I find out who I am and concentrate on myself rather than doing everything for others. I am the dominant spirit Aqu/Aqu/Cap/Ari sun/asc/moon/venus yet being a Loner I don't need to exert my dominance overtly and may be viewed as a needy less dominant person. Break ups have always been difficult and my needs were never met. The insecurities for my needs creep up and a lot more when needs are not met and looks like we are trying to extract their alter ego out of our partners. Right partners have never been straight with me. Yes I need love and feedback hahahaa it is my drug. Transparency is a must without Honesty there is no chance of relationships with Me. Nobody wants my deep love or there is no one out there that deserves it. Until then I turn all my Love to myself Spirit.
Sounds like you have pluto in scorpio. Is that so?
Good job on the video girl!!!
I LOVE YOU SO MUCH TAN!!!! YOU'RE FANTASTIC!!! 😘❤️💖
Please read through to important question at the bottom: I have Pluto in Scorpio in my 7th house. This all rings true for me, I am currently in the relationship that has brought it all up and into the open for me to work through, I have been doing the work for 3-4 years and it is great. My partner is a very whole person, he already did a lot of work via a spontaneous kundalini awakening. We definitely trigger each other and are mirrors for each other, a lot of continual growth. We have a lot of power struggles and are both learning through them, we have good communication and no toxicity.
My question is, can this relationship last after I do the work?
so spot on!
Omg omg pluto in the 5th!!
I'm a 8th house stellium, and have Saturn(in Scorpio), Pluto both in the 7th house, I just have no NEED for any kind of intimacy especially marriage. Not because of fear, nor depression, simply because no special interest.
my ego is more powerful why me what should I do 😢
Amazing one, very enlightening
this is so accurate, thank you 🙏 😊
Thanks, Tan! I’m on the right track. 😎. I LOVED the alter ego video from yesterday. More of those, too. 💕
how do I control my ego?🎃
Pluto in the 8th house in Sagittarius. But some charts say 7th house with my sun and mercury in Scorpio.
Pluto with North Node in 7th. Sign placements in Scorpio. House placement. Libra 😩😩😩😩.
Very helpful thank you👍
Balanced and perfectly put for me
Thank you🙏🏽
the relationship that was brutal was not brutal because I loved him so much. its disgusting how self aware i am and i knew it was because i wasnt going to know myself anymore. i see myself aesthetically with someone and how im perceived is important. at the same time i hate being perceived but relationships r so important to me and even in my teenage years i told myself i wasnt ever happy without a relationship but thats because i was in such a horrible environment in my house.
Neatly Explained 👍🏻
I have 7h Scorpio Pluto pisces stellium Aries sun Taurus moon
Wow! Thank you for the thorough explanation of my 7th house. What would be a good match for this placement? I tend to attract Scorpios or Scorpio risings and the intensity is overwhelming. I like how you said an ideal partnership will feel simple but I also like a person with depth.
I am attrated to a guy who has a scorpion in first house . I dont have pluto in7th house but i do have scorpio sign there
So is the key here to merge with the “alter ego” here?
What if pluto is square mars? How does that play out.
How about pluto conjunct south node in 7th house? 😬
That’s crazy my ex left outta no where energy changed completely
I don't understand. This placement says that I find my personal transformation in my relationships, yet you say I can't have a good relationship until I've done it myself. Isn't that a paradox? Even with close friends there are cases where they see a parts of me that I don't. Please help, I still don't know how to have a healthy relationship
My closest friend is a very plutonian guy who had all the qualities I wanted to have and vice versa. We both have evolved by spending time together.
Now, when it comes to relationships, some of the most painful lessons I've had have always been with plutonian women, the unevolved ones.
I did not had a painful breakup but had painful relationship that's why I dumped him because he always hurted me he always ignored me and always demand and makes me cry always this was toxics relationship. And he is the person who did not gave any respect to me and yealders so I left him since 2year i was suffering but now IAM happy. And he is struggling and he wants me back but I won't. I told him a lot of time that plzz take me serious and ingnored his lot of mistakes
but... He 😒so at last I took a step to live him.and this was my ri8 decision. Iam very happy without him now
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Scorpio 7th house with Pluto...is anybody in a fulfilling, balanced, happy relationship? 😅
Pluto in Sagittarius In the 7th house, Scorpio in 7th house
I hate my 7H. I have Saturn, Pluto, Lilith and NN there.