i dont really know why i watched all of this especially since im not a viewer, but i guess i related to a good part of it? Was in a long distance relationship for 6 years and watched it fall apart due to drama, uncontrolled abandonment, lack of interest over time and attachment issues on my part. so i guess i relate to the long distance relationship in a rough spot (to say the least) aspect of this video. What I gotta say is that acknowledging when its time to pull the plug on a relationship can help everyone. Shits rough and agonising but there's a line where both parties are just going to be miserable, stressed, and anxious if they are trying to sort out a situation that is beyond their control. I should have ended mine when it hit the 3 year mark and shit started going south. If that isnt something you want to do and you still see a future with Maya, try to make it work. Just dont forget about bettering yourself in the process of that future. You are your own person with their own future outside of the relationship.
I know she cares and loves me still cause at the very least she’s still my best friend it’s just very difficult to make things work rn and even she’s noticed. We’ve been trying to talk but her family absolutely hates me so it’s hard to do so and in turn makes me feel ignored when she doesn’t mean for that to happen. The only way I’d end the relationship is if she wants to but currently she hasn’t said anything in quite some time so I’m just stuck waiting for now. Thank you for watching my video btw and giving me your thoughts and some advice. It means a lot that you watched the whole thing lol (If you’re wonder or do decide to stay for my actual gaming content just know I am trying to record short horror games lmao)
@@JoeyKidcatstill randomly think about this video time to time, just a flash of "hope that dudes okay" so, glad to get a responce LOL. if you two have your hearts to give each other, keep giving when you have your chances. You two definitely have something special and I wish that this period of time is gonna be a temporary thing, you two deserve each other from what I have heard. Remember that shes probably thinking of you as much as you are thinking of her. Her making tiktoks and stuff with her ex is probably just her making the best out of a shit situation. And honestly from what ive heard, do the same! Make some new friends, new experiences, etcetc. Even just a random gaming friend can make days a little bit better. I lived off random friendships like that when i got out of the mental hospital earlier this year lmao And also, ofc and im glad if me watching was helpful. You have a good video presence and like i said, related to your situation heavily in some regards. I'll give your other videos a watch too :3
@@Motherlesstripod Thank you so much for your kind words!!! If you’d like I do have other channels I plan on uploading to and they’re in my “about” thingy so it’s not just gaming stuff lol But once again thank you :)
i dont really know why i watched all of this especially since im not a viewer, but i guess i related to a good part of it? Was in a long distance relationship for 6 years and watched it fall apart due to drama, uncontrolled abandonment, lack of interest over time and attachment issues on my part. so i guess i relate to the long distance relationship in a rough spot (to say the least) aspect of this video.
What I gotta say is that acknowledging when its time to pull the plug on a relationship can help everyone. Shits rough and agonising but there's a line where both parties are just going to be miserable, stressed, and anxious if they are trying to sort out a situation that is beyond their control. I should have ended mine when it hit the 3 year mark and shit started going south. If that isnt something you want to do and you still see a future with Maya, try to make it work. Just dont forget about bettering yourself in the process of that future. You are your own person with their own future outside of the relationship.
I know she cares and loves me still cause at the very least she’s still my best friend it’s just very difficult to make things work rn and even she’s noticed. We’ve been trying to talk but her family absolutely hates me so it’s hard to do so and in turn makes me feel ignored when she doesn’t mean for that to happen. The only way I’d end the relationship is if she wants to but currently she hasn’t said anything in quite some time so I’m just stuck waiting for now.
Thank you for watching my video btw and giving me your thoughts and some advice. It means a lot that you watched the whole thing lol
(If you’re wonder or do decide to stay for my actual gaming content just know I am trying to record short horror games lmao)
@@JoeyKidcatstill randomly think about this video time to time, just a flash of "hope that dudes okay" so, glad to get a responce LOL.
if you two have your hearts to give each other, keep giving when you have your chances. You two definitely have something special and I wish that this period of time is gonna be a temporary thing, you two deserve each other from what I have heard.
Remember that shes probably thinking of you as much as you are thinking of her. Her making tiktoks and stuff with her ex is probably just her making the best out of a shit situation. And honestly from what ive heard, do the same! Make some new friends, new experiences, etcetc. Even just a random gaming friend can make days a little bit better. I lived off random friendships like that when i got out of the mental hospital earlier this year lmao
And also, ofc and im glad if me watching was helpful. You have a good video presence and like i said, related to your situation heavily in some regards. I'll give your other videos a watch too :3
@@Motherlesstripod Thank you so much for your kind words!!!
If you’d like I do have other channels I plan on uploading to and they’re in my “about” thingy so it’s not just gaming stuff lol
But once again thank you :)