They DON'T Understand That Your PAST Is NOT Forgiven!
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Women that defend High body counts, Red flag.
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Women that dont understand why it is a big deal are INCAPABLE of "seeing the situation from a man's perspective". At best they LARP at "being a man" while still THINKING LIKE A WOMAN.
I always ask a girl if she knows who Amelia Earhart is… They say “Yeah the women who flew across a sea” And I say “Oh so you know who that women is based off that ONE thing she did in her PAST…. Quite literally her PAST DEFINES HER! A girls past absolutely defines who she is. This argument is undefeated.
And how does that go for you usually ?
@@Mitth.Raw.Nurudo I get a blank stare because that argument is undefeated
That's a damn good one! You could go with Marie Curie or Ada Lovelace too. Or even Mary Shelley. All of them defined by one great thing they did in their past. But thanks, I shall use your comment henceforth.
When the holes been mashed and abused, torn up like WW2 trenches, yeah I want no part in that mess.
Ww1 was trench warfare not ww2
@@superdrew8564 there was trench warfare in both WW1 and WW2
@@XXxRaptorjesusx do tell where
In Africa, we have a saying... "It might be easy to steal the town drum, but it's impossible to find a peaceful place to beat it".
RED FLAG: If she says, "Just because I did ....doesn't mean that..."
There’s a reason why banks don’t lend to people with bad credit history
Exactly! If a girl has had an extensive history of sleeping around with alot of guys...then you can probably figure that she won't be loyal to you, she won't be wifey material, and her pair bonding ability will be nonexistant. How is this not an important issue, when most relationships and marraiges are broken up by women. And i can bet, that you can trace this back to most women having high body counts.
@@GPhonse257 weird that only woman that are not 304's understand this in 2024.
@@GPhonse257 the problem is that there is no way to know
@@supremelordoftheuniverse5449 There is a way to know. It's called their digital footprints.
@@supremelordoftheuniverse5449 Yes there is. It's called their digital footprint.
The girl with the bandana is mad she's a 304 and can't go back.
Nah don't want to go back, she wants to be celebrated for it
One factor not commonly discussed is proximity. If a promiscuous woman wants to settle down and get married it may be wise to move out of state to an area where no one knows who you are and cut off all contact with anyone who is not a blood relative.
An issue with being involved with someone with a promiscuous past is being in proximity to people (in this conversation a large number) who have intimate / carnal knowledge of your wife. This in itself is undesirable.
Very true. Plus, even if a woman goes to another state to start a clean slate, you can almost always tell if she has had a past like that if you are sharp and know what to look.
@oliverkenneth Hope that was far enough. I assume the bad rep was for more than just the one error in judgement.
@@ErnestoAguila-mk5oi Agreed. Though knowing there is little chance of ever encountering a past partner does help the girl with her odds. Softens the blow (no pun intended).
it's physically painful listening to Brian stutter his way into getting his point across. jfc
Ему нужен со-ведущий, у которого поставлен командный голос и развита смекалка и сообразительность. Иначе эти курицы его заклюют.
I’m a dude who has his life together. Haven’t been in a relationship or dating situation since before Covid. And the more of these videos I watch the longer I can go without . Getting a women pregnant who’s brain is rotted by 3rd wave feminism and wokism is a nightmare to me. So I’m Grinding away at my craft and stacking all I can in the mean time. Got to Work on yourself and it will catch the right women’s attention . Just do you and the right paths will cross. But you have to do the work. Sitting in mom and dad’s basement isn’t getting anyone anywhere. All night Video game sessions and junk food won’t get you what you want.
There are two "sneaky options" (but you need to have good money to afford this):
a) replace the MARRIAGE contract with an EMPLOYMENT contract, because DIFFERENT RULES FOR DISSOLUTION apply (you still need to observe the rules for "customary marriage" and prevent that, i.e. she needs to LIVE somewhere else)
b) surrogate mother ... to have children (gay couples can do it, so why not single men?)
Oh and there is the "risky/SNEAKY way", because apparently in the Dominican Republic you can file for divorce WITHOUT TELLING YOUR PARTNER, so you can marry ... have a holiday in the DR and divorce her ... and then continue living together ... and when she files for divorce you already are!
Whole panel is BUSTED today
Modern Women: "I want 6ft, 6 packs, 6 figures"
Men: "I want a feminine woman who's not a 304"
Modern Women: "You're misogynistic and insecure"💅
The typical response from those types of women.
It’s American women that want 6ft and 6 figures. In Europe I never ever heard such a preference. Women are on average taller anyway and I know plenty of men who are uncomfortable with women that are taller. Women that have any preference when it comes to men’s income is a red flag anyway. I am not there to provide whereas Americans seem to think so.
They dont even know what "feminine" is, because "putting on a dress and makeup" ISNT ENOUGH! It is an ATTITUDE, a "24/7 mindset" that you cant turn on/off at a whim.
Procreation is the goal of sex...thats why women have to go to great lengths to avoid the very specific consequences...
Ensuring paternity
Not the main reason ... "sleeping with lots of dudes" = sex is CASUAL and NOT SPECIAL -->>> she will CHEAT to "get her feelings satisfied" and WONT THINK MUCH ABOUT IT.
tl;dr FAITHFULNESS!
A womans past matters to a man, like a mans future matters to a woman.
Actually even a mans past matters to them, because almost no woman wants a men who is a virgin, while its no big deal the other way around.
We want different things, just accept it. Because it will never change.
Some might want his sexual experience so she doesn’t have to work as hard in the bedroom, while others actually don’t want a ran through guy.
But if most women didn’t desire virgin men, then how would he start a relationship?
@@eoinoconnor5783this sometimes leads to the virgin man buying services from a sex worker or hooking up with some random woman he doesn’t like (which both can lead to stds) just to say they’ve lost their virginity or they lie or put up a facade that they aren’t a virgin so the girl would be into them. This is why some religions make it a thing no sex before marriage
@@eoinoconnor5783 There will always be promiscuous young women, or older (divorced and or post wall) women who look for a young lover.
Of course if a young man isn't attractive, he will find it harder to get some experience.
Those kind of women always existed, they are not necessarely looking for a long time relationship. And the guy also shouldnt wife them up.
Like my grand father said: Dont sleep with a woman, if you would be ashamed that she has your child.
@@Astugayou out here cookin. 💯🎯
“When was that timeline of that body count?” It’s not a matter of time. It’s the body count that counts. That shit doesn’t just magically get magically rolled back like a busted open odometer. The emotional mileage and mental wear & tear’s been done. Why would a guy CHOOSE these defects and undesirables when he can choose a far higher quality woman? And men don’t OWE these women anything.
I’m going to send this to a girl I know later. Who thinks it’s wrong for men to care about a woman’s past. The worst part about it is, this is a girl I use to like and we known each other well over 10 years and had a relationship with previously and one of the few woman I actually cared for. She acts like she doesn’t understand why men don’t like woman with a high body count.
Can't red pill women, just move on
why can't he explain in simple logical manner.
He's trying to let them understand I think some of them he underestimate or have a low expectation of their comprehension
Explained very well. All true wether the girls understand it or not.
A kitty has 9 lives after 10 that kitty is dead
Man I wish Andrew had been on the panel. It would have been utter carnage 🤣
Women have a universal anaphylactic reaction to any sort of consequences
I’d say emotional reaction. Not so much allergies. lol
If my options are a promiscuous woman or me being single?
I’d choose single all day every day.
Timestamp 6:41 She is wrong average men have a great capability to live within self means and find someone appropriate. Her view is that average men have no options? She is cynical.
They totally understand, that's why they lie about their body count.
God can forgive our past. But people have standards and something they won't be putting up with
God doesnt do that ... because he doesnt exist. PROVE me wrong.
[BELIEVE whatever you want ... but STOP living your MODERN DAY LIFE according to a book that was written 1600 years ago. STOP TAKING THE BIBLE LITERALLY!]
To all the women that say "the past doesn't matter". Well, it sure SEEMS to matter to them if they find out that the guy they're interested in was abusive in the past. If he has bad credit because of the past. If he has an addiction because of the past. And the list goes on and on. Ladies being totally disingenuous when it suits them as per usual.
Past behavior is a great predictor of future behavior ladies!
You can think in your own mind that, that is not a red flag. However, most men(probably around 80% do). You can think about your own actions as you wish to think of yourself. The way you look at yourself does not dictate how most people would look at you, accordingly to your own actions.
It’s stunning how bandanna girl, doesn’t under why a man would care about body count…. I mean really
"Past doesn't matter" So, a man that s/a d girls multiple times, or hit a woman in his last relationship, doesn't matter because "it's in the past" and now he wants to not be abusive . I'm sure they would totally say yeah, his past doesn't matter! haha Of course they would say it matters! only in their case, and their bad decisions "don't matter".
The "I'm just kidding" defense...
5:00 With the exception of their parents, NOBODY deserves anything from somebody else. Everybody has the right to choose with whom they want to pair bond and they have the right to establish their standards and preferences. You don't DESERVE jack sugar britches.
10:39 totally true. Was in a relationship once, turns out she was cheating throughout and had a massive body count (more than I imagined). Her delusional argument was, “it’s just sex!” and tried to victimize herself. Never felt so disrespected in my life especially since I had really helped her in lasting ways, but I ended up destroyed
Their all idiots. Love is built over time. The start of a relationship is mutual attraction.
The first girl is not an idiot,,, the rest are awful
@@drainmonkeys385i doubt he was watching
Just like height is _"just a preference"_ and they don't care that we can't change how tall we are.
Or when we say that it's unfair they say _"Look, there's someone out there who doesn't mind the short ones, it's just not me."_ GREEEAT!! *WELL GUESS WHAT?*
I want my wife to have a body count of ZERO, is that unfair? DON'T CARE. Oh they're crying that they're automatically disqualified and they can't change that? DON'T CARE EITHER! It's _JUST A PREFERENCE,_ so deal with it. I DON'T CARE!!! Ran through? NO THANKS!!! If the seal's been broken, I DON'T WANT YOU!!! BYE!! 🤷♂🤷♂🤷♂
The only chicks that say the past doesn't matter have shady pasts.
Round of applause to the whatever team, for trying to explain things to the public. Thank's from me
Alot of other dudes DNA in yo baby momma can create Xmen like Wolverine
Like making a new Lego mini figure from different mini figures.
Why is so hard telling a woman her past matters. Always excuses to sleep around with o consequences. No man want a dumpster.
Paternity certainty is the only real explanation, Brian. All the other reasons you listed are derived from that. Even after you listed all those reasons, you still got the question of why it isn’t the same for men. So, you had to go into paternity certainty anyway. It doesn’t make sense to not start with it.
Andrew definitely forgave Rachel's past...
If you can’t take yourself seriously, why should anyone else?
They can say what they want about "it's unfair to judge someone based on their past" or "a woman's past shouldn't matter to men". Well, guess what ladies.. It does, and there's NOTHING you can do to change that. Your stance on how someone should view your past doesn't parallel to how those people view it. As much as you moan about it, you can't change reality to your whim. You can only DEAL WITH IT.
And actions have consequences, that's simple enough to understand, even for smooth brains like them. If you go in a store, shoplift and get caught, you're going to jail. If you drive drunk and cause an accident, you are going to jail. These are all examples of bad behaviour that's frowned upon by society (and the law in these cases) and which bear consequences for them. Now, being promiscuous isn't punishable by law, but by shaming people and rejecting them socially... That's the punishment for the crime committed.
Another example would be buying a used car... Why would anyone in their right mind pay for a beat up rust bucked with hundreds of thousands of kilometres full price? Because it's a porsche (according to the salesman?)? Yeah, nah.
Let's be realistic here. When a man gets into a relationship with a woman with a high body count, the way you can tell as a man is because they make it their job to compare you with the previous partners they had. No man has ever done that in a relationship. Also, when a woman has had more partners, they are more likely to be disrespectful. So there are no benefits at all to having a woman as your wife who has a high body count.
Past behavior is indicative of future behavior. If you've changed, that is something you would need demonstrable proof of, and there's still risk youll lapse.
If you live your life like a 304, you're treated like a 304! No high value man is going to "turn a 304 into a housewife".....EVER! Life is about choices and they will follow you FOREVER!
There is no such thing as good girls
That was painful to listen to. Brian sounds like he is out of breath all the time and on a verge to a mental breakdown. He has a find a way to get his shit together and sound more confident when answering and communicating.
I don't mind it I'm not critiquing his delivery if I get the message he doesn't have to be how you picture him to be he's doing the right thing with his message
High body count belongs to the streets.
It's like coming late to a party and cleaning the leftovers after everyone has messed up the place, promiscuous man is not equal to promiscuous women, no men want a high mileage BMW instead of brand new Honda.
Brian is saying all of the right things, but he's not saying it with any confidence. While I can understand he needs to maintain composure for the sake of the podcast, it seems to me like he's worried about offending the girls on the show. If they get offended, then it's on them. Remember offense is always taken and not given.
Also, while he makes a good point about why men can be more promiscuous than women. We can't have double standards like that and look for justification as to why. If we shame women for sleeping around the same should apply to men.
He just has a slow thought process and delivery. (Like I do)
I was looking for this comment. The way he explains things, he seems very unsure. It’s like he is nervous. He just doesn’t explain with confidence and assurance which turns in to boredom for the women.
@@Jdabomb93 It's not just that. Brian dances around answering things because 1) He's looking for words that make him sound intelligent and 2) he's looking for the words that will be the least "offensive" to the women he's talking to. @17:50 is a perfect example. Brian had a thought come to his head, chuckled, but then held back from vocalizing that thought. The chuckle came (as it would from most men, including me) because he knew what he was about to say would have sat better with a different group of people (men) than the group he is talking to. After the chuckle, he quickly reframed his argument as to not offend or give the panel an opening to derail.
Brian would not be doing all of this if he were talking with a group of men. There's no need.
@@dkwuhn
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@@ericreeves5893This is why Andrew (The Crucible) should be on every show. Thinks fast, speaks fast, has conviction, even with judgement, no nerves, knows every side of an argument, calls out hypocrisy and incongruent logic, and all supporting data, and cares not one iota about hurting anyone’s feelings.
She’s a winner
Past experiences shapes exactly who you are in terms of character and values. How come women are so extremely allergic to accountability?
The 304s in the room will always be thr first ones to defend a promiscuous past👌🏻
Around the 7 minute mark, seems like the consensus of Brian that men who want high valued, respectable women who can't get them, can settle with someone who was promiscuous, and be in a relationship with them for 1/2/5/10 years and when that high valued woman comes around, can dump the promiscuous woman, even if she was loyal for all those years because he values himself over her, and it's what she deserves for having been promiscuous before she met him.
Am I misinterpreting that or does that hit the nail on the head, that promiscuous women can be placeholders for more valuable women for however long it takes for that man to find that valuable woman?
Nobody says you are a bad person if you have been promiscuous in your past. They are merely saying you are a bad bet to take. It's like the stock market... What's the good bet and indicator of a stocks future?, it's past! Same goes for getting a credit at a bank. If you are spending over your means, no bank will give you a loan! You can still be a good person, but you have made bad decisions and we don't want to be around when the bill comes or have to pay for your bad decisions. And that last line I meant quite literally, as the most women who leave marriages are either deluded by feminist propaganda or just promiscuous women who hid their past long enough to get married by the average Joe schmo, got pregnant with his kid and now want to rip his life apart.
When looking at future provider potential, how much of his past can be forgiven? Just the lottery winners?
I can see why andrew wilson is a hit for this podcast. Brian is a deer in the headlights on his own
I think the past matters because it shows what it’s done to the person with that past; have they changed for the better or worse? Are they sorry for it? Do they take actions in showing that their past makes them who they are today? And the most important one, have they told anyone else about it or is this something that is specific to the partner they see themselves with till death due them part? I think anyone who makes someone feel bad for their past just has a lot of growing up to do and stop being such a bigot. I understand that most to all people have a preference but if someone’s past makes them treat the person a specific way then do the both of you the favor and walk away. Some people have a past that is painful and hard to understand but if you’re not willing to understand and rather want to make them feel shitty then keep your insecurities away from them and your judgements to yourself.
if you marry a 304 the higher likelihood she raises your daughters to be the same
14:49 Brian hit a nerve here
Telogony was debunked by mendel
Human heritable telogony is not demonstrated
Dude I'm a high value man and trust me I'm never pressed to give up the sex to anyone ever and some guys like me have issues with coming in contact with bodily fluids I'm general. And I have always been one of those men. I think bodily fluids simply are gross. I don't mind watching someone bleed out but coming in contact with that person bleeding outs blood is something I wouldn't ever wanna come in contact with.
..depends on how much of a slave you are to judging . God heals all.
Where i live 99% of girls that never married before are virgins ❤😌👌🏻
Promiscuous women also tend to have an inflated sense of self.
This dude has constipated thoughts.
If you have a promiscuous past, it is something men take into consideration. The same way a potential employer takes your criminal record into consideration. If you have a criminal record full of felonies, you’re probably not going to get the same quality of job offers that a person with a clean record will. The same goes for promiscuous women. A man may sleep with you, but generally desirable men won’t invest much into a woman that is known to have been promiscuous.
This dude is impossible to listen to. How TF does he host a podcast?
He has a slow thought process no doubt, but he still eventually makes his points.
AND THESE PEOPLE ARE AWARDED THE CHILDREN TO PROGRAM ? SHIIIISH AND WE WONDER WHY THINGS ARE SO SCREWED UP !
Brian seems like the type of guy who used to write girls poems in high-school.
Facts tho but he cool
He’s a feminine men.
We exist.
He also seems like he would stop during sex just to straighten the curtains.
Wtf ? 😂 Lol that was so random to say.
@@MamiiszAhhBaddie You didn't say you disagree though 😆
High quality is not limited to Victorias Secrets models and those with vast wealth.
Actually one can look good and have money, and still be of low value.
@@Astuga
That’s what he’s saying lol
Personality and character I would say is more high value honestly
Can't take my eyes off madison
when did everybody lose their morals just asking
My body count is 2
🤷♂️
Brian is such a horrible speaker, he makes thought gathering look terribly painful, and its such a shame cuz this podcast could be so much better with a more articulate host
What is it with the women with the helmets?
The blonde in pink, there is absolutely nothing going on in that head. She’s in lala land.
I think bringing up evolutionary biology in a discussion about body count is pointless. The why doesn't matter because preference doesn't need to be justified. I like the color blue. I don't need to explain why blue is my favorite color in order for that statement to be valid.
Just because you don't happen to fit my preference or the preference of most men doesn't make that preference any less valid. You are not entitled to men's favor.
Why is it different for men? Simple, because most women prefer a man with experience. That's it, no other explanation necessary. We as men can say whatever we want about a virgin male vs a promiscuous male but at the end of the day it's women who make that choice and overwhelmingly they choose the man with more experience.
Get mad all you want but men and women's preferences will not change just because it makes you feel bad.
I TOTALLY AGREE except there is one exception to this rule! I grew up around several good natured sweet girls who were sexually abused and neglected. They were all very promiscuous as children. All of them grew up to have healthy, long-term relationships and are fiercely dedicated to their husbands because their husbands love them. Sexual abuse, often leads to promiscuity at a very young age. But those girls also married very young and they’re marriages have stood the test of time.
"I grew up around several good-natured sweet girls who were sexually abused and neglected. They were all very promiscuous as children."
Hate to break it to you, but your history of abuse is none of our concern. We just care that you were promiscuous in the past. The reason why is never as important as the fact that you were.
"All of them grew up to have healthy, long-term relationships and are fiercely dedicated to their husbands because their husbands love them."
There is _absolutely_ no way you can know that for certain. And even if it may be so *for now,* you don't know when the past is going to rear its ugly head and sabotage your present, and it usually does. Give it time.
Also, even if they never cheat on their husbands, the fact still remains: they gave themselves in the most intimate and vulnerable of ways to random men when they were younger. They can never erase that. Most men would feel visceral disgust when faced with that fact. There's nothing we can do about it.
@@Noqqin
Wow. You are so unforgiving and heartless.
Probably exposed them to their lustful feelings, something they never knew they had, (they say the church girls are the most pent up and sexually frustrated too) thus motivating them to act on them, but never letting go of being a traditionally feminine and loyal wife.
@@Jdabomb93 Absolutely. As any self-respecting man should be.
@@Noqqin ***children cannot consent***
You cannot blame children for the abuse.
If she did it to him she gone do it to you. Run boys run
Porn also detaches intimacy from sex.
Telegony theory was debunked long time ago.
Recent studies and tests show Telogony is a real thing. The reason it was debunked was because it shames women who are promiscuous. Communism and the radical left promote promiscuousity and degeneracy. Which harms society and peoples bloodline.
17:51 hormones in your DNA you have instructions to produce hormones that drive sexual desire
Over the years, I've come to the realization that we probably just shouldn't be having mid-college level conversations with people that had difficulty with high school material.
guyes you dont have options? leave the country!
Assuming they even can
They are, in growing numbers. Agree it’s about options, and they are not good. Feminism and high body counts make a huge percentage of women undesirable. Passports open way better dating markets.
7 brain cells in this room, collectively.
The first girl was actually based.
Be honest though. Are you any better?
women that dont hit the gym?
For one to convince another, the past doesn't matter, this would be one of the greatest spells a Witch could ever cast
Red flag #6: making a video of yourself negligently operating a motor vehicle.
Smoking is not a deal breaker. It’s a stressful world. As long as it’s not crack. That stuff is bad
Brian is a bit of a simp, I always think he is the wrong person for this.
This guy always makes it about himself.
9:22 even if she swallowed
The host is annoying cant articulate points and fumble a lot
Dude is such a poor speaker you don’t even wanna watch lmao just stop bruh
It's frustrating listening to this guy try to explain ref pill talking points.
we are men... we forgive but we never forget
After 75 guys, no one is special to you is the point. You can’t biologically in most cases have a genuine connection.