Top 10 Guys to Avoid

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  • Опубликовано: 30 июн 2024
  • 10 Guys You’re Better off Without Ebook: chastity.com/10guys
    You've met them all, and you've probably even dated a few:
    1. The Flip-Flopper
    2. The Problem Child (aka, The Fixer-Upper)
    3. The Walking Hormone
    4. The Smooth Criminal
    Plus 6 more!
    Learn to recognize relationship red flags and what kinds of relationships to pursue instead in this episode of the Lust is Boring podcast, with Jason Evert!
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  • @ryanfrizzell736
    @ryanfrizzell736 2 года назад +21

    As a guy, this video is great to use to better practice NOT being those types of guys to avoid.

  • @michaelwalker7042
    @michaelwalker7042 3 года назад +43

    Best to avoid these types of girls as well.

    • @francikeen
      @francikeen Год назад +2

      "What's good for the goose is good for the gander."

  • @giovannagiustino5139
    @giovannagiustino5139 3 года назад +26

    thank you so much Jason for also incorporating info about psychology & relationship abuse into your message with terms like "red flags" and "gaslighting"... everyone needs to hear this... you & Crystallina are my inspiration... thanks for spreading this sanity-saving info

  • @a-aronander-son5861
    @a-aronander-son5861 3 года назад +36

    3/4th of the list was emotional manipulation, the other quarter is physically immature habits.
    The reason many women (and men) fail to see the obvious is due to the oxytocin and dopamine that they allowed to flood their brains since the moment they met. Ladies if you want to avoid falling into these traps Jason laid out you can start by avoiding almost all physical contact and those deep long conversations till you are engaged.
    Oxytocin is released every time you engage in physical touch, and it blinds you to faults.
    You get one shot at marriage, and a whole lifetime to hug and kiss after. Don't screw it up by engaging in actions that bond you before you see the other person as they are.
    (This goes for men too)

    • @francikeen
      @francikeen Год назад +1

      Fornication has become the default custom due to the high divorce rate and unjust no-fault divorce laws. Telling single young adults to not fornication is a waste of time. They don't trust marriage... with good reason. The solution is fixing marriage. Then fornication will quickly reduce.

  • @amyhaleeb5527
    @amyhaleeb5527 3 года назад +21

    Thank you for this video! You have mentioned very good tips! Can you please make a video on types of qualities to look for in a man?

  • @FloridaFotoDude
    @FloridaFotoDude 3 года назад +5

    I've been to all of those places in Poland that you mentioned. World Youth Day 2016. It is a very worthwhile pilgrimage! Do it, if you have the chance!

  • @vgraham580
    @vgraham580 Год назад

    Jason, this was very helpful. Thank you very much!

  • @Mimse79
    @Mimse79 Год назад

    Thank you so much for a perfect and very needed talk!! God bless you!

  • @lauradahlus
    @lauradahlus Год назад +2

    Thanks Jason. I bought your (and Crystalina's) book "How to find your soulmate without losing your soul".
    I've read a few chapters and it's very helpful and I depth and includes the 10 guys to avoid.
    Thanks.

  • @mariareginarosaria8927
    @mariareginarosaria8927 5 месяцев назад

    This is great! Thank you. Very helpful!

  • @greg1563
    @greg1563 3 года назад +3

    Spot on 🎯

  • @Daniel-rk2qz
    @Daniel-rk2qz 2 года назад +2

    you are so on point my dude.

  • @daniellangfield9365
    @daniellangfield9365 2 года назад +13

    Jason, I come from Good parents and a Dad. do you have a video on "Top 10 Girls to Avoid" Honestly brother all I ever hear about is how worthless and dangerous guys are and how much they screw up. Got any positive encouraging messages for guys ? Encouraging things for us that might be celebrated and heralded as good? or is our life marked solely by duty? I'm in a Mens personal growth group, lead even by a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, he's been doing his work for over 10 years helping repair and build back relationships and even he said he has yet to talk to a guy who found himself fulfilled BECAUSE he was married.Help us out man, what's a guy to do to BECOME that attractive husband, whats his worth, why's it worth it to him to get married, why is it good for society for men to be married? wheres the benefit to the man for the man to be married? Tell us the Good news man, encourage us please? All i've ever heard for 20 years is Don't, Don't Don't so I'm left with Avoid Avoid Avoid and that will make you Holy. yet then when it came to wanting a relationship it was because of what i did NOT do that lead to the relationship not working out.

    • @patricklewis9787
      @patricklewis9787 Год назад

      Frfr the only thing I know to do to make my self an attractive man is by earning money and exercising my body. Besides that it’s just following the don’ts which is mostly just how I act in general
      I seem to have issues with my self worth too, it all seems too much like the worth of a husband is more utilitarian than anything, at least the advice I get seems that way. If I were to die tomorrow and be buried under an unmarked gravestone I don’t think I’d be too sad about it

  • @allenotna9793
    @allenotna9793 Год назад

    Absolutely a great talk ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @bvmheart
    @bvmheart 2 года назад +3

    Jason, please do a video about what it means when men want you to meet their Mother and have dinner with his family🎩 💐and from men’s perspective at their different ages as teenagers, young adults, adults, older divorced, etc....is it the same?

  • @relentlessrhythm2774
    @relentlessrhythm2774 5 месяцев назад

    I needed this. I just got dumped by a potty mouth because I told him he needed to stop and go to Confession. He called me prude.

    • @jasonevert
      @jasonevert  5 месяцев назад

      Glad to hear it's over! You deserve so much better.

  • @beachgirl4
    @beachgirl4 3 года назад +4

    Thank you

  • @coolcat7830
    @coolcat7830 Год назад

    Brill vid..🙏

  • @paulcornel9295
    @paulcornel9295 Год назад

    Love the content, could we have a chat sometime by any chance?

  • @JorgeJimenez-xy9by
    @JorgeJimenez-xy9by Год назад +1

    Wonderful bro! How about a "Top 10 girls to avoid"? 😎 God bless ✝️

  • @milaszczecina5553
    @milaszczecina5553 3 года назад +1

    The septic tank doesn't work... Comedy gold

  • @emilyn7572
    @emilyn7572 2 года назад +1

    Maybe this one is covered under one of those 10 but be aware of a guy with unjealed emotional trauma especially from childhood. They can be amazing beautiful human beings, kind, caring, Godly etc but this issue with cripple they ability to truly love and grown in general. You're might have to prove your love to them before they will begin to open up. Which means youre on your own in this "relationship "until he's satisfied if he ever is. He is full of doubt mistrust not cause he's a bad guy but cause he doesnt know how to move forward he is stuck. He is likely to just want someone who soothes him not someone who encourages him to seek help or change. Especially if the issue relates to him mother. Amazing beautiful people, who will make fantastic husbands if they change but not if they dont. A wounded bird with a broken leg doesnt lose it beautiful but if its wound doesnt heal it can never be all its meant to be, what it was created for, it cant soar, it has to settle less than, it will always feel unfulfilled.

  • @neenutomi316
    @neenutomi316 Год назад

    From the book " To Save a Thousand of Souls " by fr Brett Brannen
    I believe one of the problems in the Church today is that many people are in the wrong vocation. Many people have grown up unaware that they have a vocation, much less that they should be asking God to reveal it to them. And there are many unhappy, unfulfilled, dissatisfied people. As a general rule, people flourish in their correct vocation! Flourishing does not just mean they are happy. It means they are steadily growing in holiness, they are fulfilled, and they are becoming the person God wants them to be. Fr. Brian Bashista, vocation director of the Diocese of Arlington, Virginia, underscores that vocation is less about personal choice and more about discovery.

  • @dragorewire8779
    @dragorewire8779 2 года назад +3

    the thing ... i do not change to get a good soulmate or wife ... i change for the glory of god... if you try to change because of woman... you are on wrong path....

  • @maggiebach1136
    @maggiebach1136 3 года назад +1

    I want to travel to Poland with you

  • @lauradahlus
    @lauradahlus Год назад

    So.. Wait until he comes along? But what if he never does?
    How do we learn to accept this path God calls us to travel? Esp if it's alone? 😒🥺

  • @katet8826
    @katet8826 Год назад

    didn't receive the ebook after sending in my email

    • @jasonevert
      @jasonevert  Год назад +1

      Sorry to hear that. Please click here, and try again, then check your spam folder chastity.com/10guys

  • @RavnerRavner
    @RavnerRavner 2 года назад

    What about women who still live with their parents at 45?

  • @pimper347
    @pimper347 2 года назад +6

    A lot of good work you guys do. However, it’d be nice if you did a video on true Catholic masculinity instead of shaming men as the bad guys and thus cultivating more feminist hatred for men

    • @doritomaster7112
      @doritomaster7112 Год назад +1

      Right on the money my man

    • @francikeen
      @francikeen Год назад

      Jason Evert does not cultivate hatred for men. You are just paranoid... maybe you have unrecognized guilt feelings.

  • @francikeen
    @francikeen Год назад

    Jason, what about "bait and switch" relationships where the man pretends to be a good guy during courtship... then turns manipulative and selfish after the wedding. THAT is why couples choose to fornicate; they don't trust one another because of all the deceit.

  • @Qrischun
    @Qrischun Год назад +1

    FYi the link is not working

    • @Chastityproject
      @Chastityproject Год назад

      Thanks for the heads up. It's fixed now!

    • @veronicaestigoy5780
      @veronicaestigoy5780 Год назад +1

      @@Chastityproject the link to get the ebook still isn't working :(

  • @theservantsofthesoul1606
    @theservantsofthesoul1606 2 года назад

    My band and I professionally produced a brand new song in Chicago that we posted today on RUclips that sheds light on betrayal trauma and sexual addiction. Please click on the sleeping tiger to the left and it will take you right to the song. Thank you for listening, if you do.

  • @curtismoss8616
    @curtismoss8616 8 месяцев назад

    You and Andrew Tate need to do an interview together

  • @francikeen
    @francikeen Год назад

    Jason Evert, until the scandal of the high divorce rate is remedied... fornication will continue to be the default custom... and with good reason. Fornication is EASY to remedy with marriage. But divorce is an expensive, lifelong headache...especially when children are involved. To fix fornication: fix divorce.

  • @simonslater9024
    @simonslater9024 3 года назад +1

    Guys to reject are those who think there God’s gift to women-there brainless morons. The true macho man is one who is loving,compassionate,forgiving,(which is flaming hard),showing mercy,being there for his girlfriend or wife. The perfect man is to be Jesus as best as you can be. Only those with a few brain cells missing use foul language. Plus swearing is a sign of laziness and ignorance. God bless ladies who are looking for a good boyfriend then to husband. The strongest woman who ever lived was Mary. She is Queen of Heaven. That means even the greatest angel’s submit to her. Even God himself obeys his mum. That’s truly beautiful. Praise Jesus and Mary always!!!

  • @crohunter100
    @crohunter100 3 года назад +11

    10 girls to avoid
    - the one in love with her dog
    - the one who wants to visit 30 countries before 30
    - the one who just wants free dinner/ride
    - the one who is in her 20s and acts like 16
    - the one who uses the word "chauvinist"
    - the one who doesn't want to wait until marriage
    - the atheist
    - the flip-flopper
    - the "i don't want kids"
    - the one with artificial nails
    wait a second, if you avoid any girl, you're not a man

    • @renariwoods9014
      @renariwoods9014 3 года назад +1

      Lordy, yes, the ten-inch artificial nails that go clickety-clack

  • @bvmheart
    @bvmheart 2 года назад

    Jason, Can you please explain in another video, “Are men able to be friends with women💃🏼or are they strictly for relationships, with women they are attracted to🎩💃🏻💐👀? ... as well as for attractive men, both attractive man and woman said, “It’s a curse”... They weren’t devout practicing, but Roman Catholics, very pretty, and he was GQ model-like appearance & way back then, sinners

  • @doritomaster7112
    @doritomaster7112 Год назад +1

    Jason, don’t get me wrong, I love the content and what you’re trying to do for The Church. But I have one issue. I think that you are neglecting the state of men at the moment. For decades men have been destroyed by the feminization of society through things like feminism that have perverted the natural male and female roles that God has gifted us with. Throughout that time men have also been told to just “be better men.” Without any sympathy for never growing up in an environment to know what exactly that means, or how exactly we should act to do that. The gynocentric way of viewing male-female relations is a perversion of the good and natural one that God gave us. We need to be holy and God-fearing men, but we should be reviewing the support to do that from the partners which God chose for us, not getting brown beaten by them and called weak or “not man enough” whenever we try to.

  • @melissajensen4901
    @melissajensen4901 Год назад

    The 75th anniversary of the Palestinian Nakba, which means "catastrophe," is on May 15th.
    The 1948 founding of Israel was preceded and accompanied by a massive ethnic cleansing operation to remove as many of the Muslim and Christian inhabitants as possible.
    During Israel's "war of independence," over 750,000 Palestinians were driven from their homes, never to be allowed to return. Hundreds of towns were razed; villagers were massacred. Their very existence on the land was nearly wiped from history as Israel built new towns over the ruins.
    This devastating humanitarian disaster is given almost no attention in American history books or by the mainstream news media even though it is essential in understanding the ongoing violence in Israel-Palestine and the Middle East in general.
    Palestinian refugees and their descendants living in the West Bank and Gaza continue to live under an Israeli military occupation funded by American taxpayers at over $10 million a day.
    Israeli forces continue to violate human rights on a regular basis, with multiple cases of assault, abduction (in some cases, of children), and invasion taking place in the past two months.
    It is essential that we educate our communities and demand an end to the use of our tax dollars for killing and destruction.
    Here are some things you can do:
    *Share our short summary "How Palestine Became Israel" article with people who are new to the issue.
    *Order a Nakba Pack or Nakba Pack Lite, which contain various printed educational cards and brochures that you can distribute at events, churches, libraries, etc.
    *Watch and share Occupation 101, an award-winning documentary film on the root causes of the Israeli-Palestinian conflict.
    *Post about the Nakba on Facebook and Twitter.
    *Check to see what your local newspaper wrote about this tragedy, and write a letter to the editor with the facts they omitted.
    *Call your Congressperson and give them your opinion about this issue.
    *Learn about the Boycott, Divestment, and Sanctions movement and get involved with a local chapter.
    *As always, thank you for your ongoing efforts for peace and justice.
    -The If Americans Knew Team

  • @curtismoss8616
    @curtismoss8616 8 месяцев назад

    Jason why are you as a man making videos for women and antagonizing your fellow man ? Why not make a video for the guys and say „be this man and the women will follow“