The Rookie - Tim Visits his Abusive Father (4x9)

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  • @audreyprewett8076
    @audreyprewett8076 9 месяцев назад +886

    the way his voice almost broke on "the Tim Tests, those don't make me like him" 😭😭😭 he was trying so hard not to cry! he needed that hug, especially from Lucy

  • @dxfan18
    @dxfan18 2 года назад +2022

    "No, I am who I am in SPITE of you!" Love it

    • @vgg31
      @vgg31 2 года назад +36

      Eric's delivery of that line 😭👍👍

    • @brisayoder4903
      @brisayoder4903 Год назад +12

      One of my favorite lines

    • @enjoyingmyvodka1013
      @enjoyingmyvodka1013 Год назад +9

      I ❤ed that he said that!!!! I think it made him feel good like it helped him get through things he was holding back

    • @COBRACHICKENOFFICIAL.
      @COBRACHICKENOFFICIAL. Год назад +21

      I fully expected tim to say" I didn't need to be strong, I needed to be protected"😢

    • @gabrielleclennon6589
      @gabrielleclennon6589 Год назад +5

      Yes 🙌🏾

  • @lunxo999
    @lunxo999 Год назад +1186

    the look on tims face when he was talking about the tim-tests.. and lucys reaction. makes me cry like a baby

    • @Unversed333
      @Unversed333 Год назад +58

      Because his sister mentioned how their father left him in the street with a compass to find his way home, which Lucy said sounded like one of his tests.

    • @lunxo999
      @lunxo999 Год назад +4

      @@Unversed333 yeah i know.

    • @Droski-Boutta-Bag
      @Droski-Boutta-Bag 9 месяцев назад +2

      @@Unversed333I mean not the way I'd teach my son but it's a valid method

    • @Unversed333
      @Unversed333 9 месяцев назад +3

      ​@@Droski-Boutta-Bag that's borderline child abuse and parental neglect. Leaving their kid in the middle of the road where they can get attacked or kidnapped by some thug.

    • @Unversed333
      @Unversed333 6 месяцев назад +19

      ​@@Droski-Boutta-BagDumping your kid in the middle of the street like that. Pretty sure that classifies as child neglect and endangerment. He's lucky young Tim didn't get abducted.

  • @tonyblox
    @tonyblox Год назад +595

    An abusive parent will teach you one thing.
    To never be like them.
    Because you don't want anyone to go through what you did.

    • @Unversed333
      @Unversed333 5 месяцев назад +19

      Sadly some of abuse from a parent can cause a child to become just as bad as they are. Lucky that Tim was able to find a way to channel his pain through sports and the military.

    • @sheepishbaton0399
      @sheepishbaton0399 22 часа назад

      As the comment above said, some children just... Become like their parent. Its the cycle of abuse as the child will only know that way of parenting.

  • @VoidedDemonOfficial
    @VoidedDemonOfficial Год назад +701

    Anyone else hear the pain in his voice when he said "No, I am who I am in SPITE of you!"

    • @vgg31
      @vgg31 Год назад +20

      Me. Eric's delivery of that line broke me 😭👍👍

    • @JjJ-rz5tv
      @JjJ-rz5tv Год назад +15

      And the pain when he said the tim tests dont make me like him

    • @Unversed333
      @Unversed333 Год назад +12

      ​@@JjJ-rz5tvLucy, having been on receiving ends of those tests, knows that they were nothing compared to what he had been put through.

    • @shep9231
      @shep9231 11 месяцев назад +2

      I did.

    • @rosejune1995-r7t
      @rosejune1995-r7t 11 месяцев назад +2

      Yes 💔

  • @gregjenkinson7512
    @gregjenkinson7512 Год назад +990

    2:27 even though he says it like a statement you can tell Tim is asking for validation from Lucy. He needs to know he's not like his dad

    • @Unversed333
      @Unversed333 Год назад +92

      You know the difference with his tests? He never left Lucy by herself to figure it out. He would watch her learn and problem solve his tests from a reasonable distance. Also, it is his job to teach her how to be a competent police officer through rigorous tests. That's what makes him better than his father, among other things.

    • @Glethil
      @Glethil 5 месяцев назад +14

      ​@@Unversed333 he also never bashed Lucy's head against the wall for the fun of it.

    • @UNITED_STATES._______________8
      @UNITED_STATES._______________8 5 месяцев назад +4

      @@Glethilthat’s something Bradford would do to Nolan lmao

    • @mxgirl918
      @mxgirl918 5 месяцев назад +11

      @@UNITED_STATES._______________8 lol true....Bradford may take the piss out of Nolan over his big mouth but even so, he gives credit where credit is due. When Nolan showed up to work despite being told to stay home due to a price on his head, Bradford was the first to stand up and applaud him out of respect.

  • @simonroh4958
    @simonroh4958 Год назад +715

    Tim's dad abused them on the pretense of getting tough but actually protected his mistress just cause she was pretty and good-looking at least back then. Jesus.

    • @Unversed333
      @Unversed333 Год назад +78

      He called his mistress' husband an abusive asshole, yet could not see the faults in himself. That should have been an eye-opening moment for him.

    • @JjJ-rz5tv
      @JjJ-rz5tv Год назад +18

      Some abusers call what tims dad did character building, but others call it what it is straight up abuse....I am curious to know what happened to their mom and maybe even why she didnt try to stop it? No im not saying ANYTHING negative about a currently absent character maybe she finally did see what was going on after tim left for military and took genny away from him(the dad) you know made a new life for herself then genny went off to school and got married etc but maybe her and her dad kept in touch unlike tim who according to something said he was born in 1980 and in whatever year it actually is in the rookieverse....he hadnt seen his dad in 20 years so right around the early 2000s meaning he was around his early 20s then so maybe around end of camp (for military)service record unclear for military but in season 2 ep 8 hes been police for 12 years

    • @rosejune1995-r7t
      @rosejune1995-r7t 11 месяцев назад +12

      ​@@JjJ-rz5tv as someone who went through abuse as a kid, some adults don't care/want to see that another adult is abusive. I informed my maternal grandmother that her boyfriend was abusing me and she didn't do anything or ask someone else to stop it. He threw my sister into a dresser and she still didn't get rid of him. He would beat us with a belt. She saw a lot of the abuse, but never did anything to protect us. Whether trying to intervene herself or asking someone else to. 💔

    • @catrachaV4
      @catrachaV4 11 месяцев назад +4

      ​@@Unversed333it's possible writer do a miracle n Tim's father to survive, realizing all his wrongs, season 6 we could see him , surprise to his family to ask forgiveness by side Lucy's parents too..

    • @Unversed333
      @Unversed333 7 месяцев назад +9

      ​@@catrachaV4You realize that he was in a hospice. He is literally at his deathbed....and he still regrets nothing.

  • @oneswimmingboy
    @oneswimmingboy 2 года назад +661

    This scene broke me. This is a fantastic show that I've loved since day 1 but this broke me. The anger and hatred for a parent that's really hard to understand from the outside.
    He's said things I wish I couldve said and hearing them outloud brought me to tears.

    • @music4meh
      @music4meh Год назад +7

      Let alone the strange grief you feel for someone who should've meant a lot... and somehow does.

    • @rosejune1995-r7t
      @rosejune1995-r7t 11 месяцев назад +3

      I can sadly understand. I saw my biological father mólest my sister for years before another adult finally asked me if he was hurting us and I described in very explicit detail what he was doing. Even though I was a kid, I knew what he was doing was wrong, but I would always forget to try to tell someone what he was doing, until I was finally asked. 💔

    • @Unversed333
      @Unversed333 11 месяцев назад +4

      ​@@rosejune1995-r7twell, I hope he has received proper punishment for what he did.

    • @rosejune1995-r7t
      @rosejune1995-r7t 11 месяцев назад +3

      @@Unversed333 he served 13 years in prison, but to me that will never be enough.

    • @Unversed333
      @Unversed333 5 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@rosejune1995-r7t No punishment will ever be enough when a father does that to his kids. What is important is that you and your sister are free from that abuse.

  • @rosejune1995-r7t
    @rosejune1995-r7t 11 месяцев назад +90

    "No, I am who I am in SPITE of you!"
    Is how I am because of the abuse I went through as a kid. 💔
    One of the abusers was my biological father. I'm 28 years old now and it took me 18 years to trust someone else enough to call them "Dad" and that's how long I've known the man that I now call Dad.

  • @fightinamrah
    @fightinamrah Год назад +425

    This father doesn't regret anything. He still thinks he was right and had the right to abuse his children. Tim is so right in saying "I hope it hurts."

    • @kaydens6964
      @kaydens6964 Год назад +4

      I don’t recall he abused his daughter, so yeah he believes he made a man out of Tim.

    • @Unversed333
      @Unversed333 Год назад +10

      ​@@kaydens6964no, he did. She just trying her best to move on from it.

    • @Monsterpuds
      @Monsterpuds Год назад +20

      @@Unversed333 yes she got therapy but also tim got the worst end of it

    • @shep9231
      @shep9231 11 месяцев назад +2

      But it hurt to hear. I had an excellent relationship with my dad.

    • @nediAW
      @nediAW 11 месяцев назад +9

      @@kaydens6964 his children resent him and he's dying alone. if that doesn't change his mind he's just insane.

  • @Ali_8.28
    @Ali_8.28 6 месяцев назад +37

    The way his voice breaks when he says “those don’t make me like him”
    And the sigh after Lucy hugs him
    He really needed that hug

  • @taleathamcfarlane4806
    @taleathamcfarlane4806 2 года назад +398

    This scene gave me hope for them! Him showing her being vulnerability shows he’s opening up more. The dads all through our families have been problematic

  • @rayfpdl
    @rayfpdl 2 года назад +302

    The door was open and Lucy was right outside🥲 she heard everything

  • @nathansheehan2268
    @nathansheehan2268 Год назад +159

    James ReMar is a great actor. Despite limited screen time he left a mark.

    • @COBRACHICKENOFFICIAL.
      @COBRACHICKENOFFICIAL. Год назад +11

      I fully expected tim to say" I didn't need to be strong, I needed to be protected"😢

    • @rosejune1995-r7t
      @rosejune1995-r7t 11 месяцев назад +5

      Kudos to his character for getting fans to absolutely HATE him in just 1 episode. Maybe 2, because we learned about him before Tim went to see him.

  • @COBRACHICKENOFFICIAL.
    @COBRACHICKENOFFICIAL. Год назад +147

    I fully expected tim to say" I didn't need to be strong, I needed to be protected"😢

  • @gunnersubbu
    @gunnersubbu 9 месяцев назад +64

    There's an earlier episode where Lucy blames a civilian for misplacing his kid (there were two children wearing the same costume at a party and he picked up the wrong kid by mistake) and Tim defends the guy, saying 'There's plenty worse than him.' Great foreshadowing for this arc.

    • @Unversed333
      @Unversed333 7 месяцев назад +14

      Tim also mentioned his scars (the ones that we don't see) is growing up with a dad who tuned him up on the regular. They were planning on Tim's dad being an abusive parent since season 2.

  • @Miss__Cowgirly
    @Miss__Cowgirly Год назад +54

    “He’ll get judged soon enough.”
    Damn that hurt. 😭

  • @jessicareyes5934
    @jessicareyes5934 2 года назад +145

    Tim was so vulnerable… hes like the Tim test im nothing like him and lucy comforted him. She hates those test but she knows that Tim only did them to help her become a good cop it was malicious or sadistic

    • @JjJ-rz5tv
      @JjJ-rz5tv Год назад +26

      First or second episode lucys talking to nolan and she says tim is calculating not cruel... the tim tests are the way he teaches his very first tim test that we saw was I BEEN SHOT BOOT where are you? And she learned her lesson...bc the very next DAY she had that very scene play out in front of her season 3×11 she's jealous he's being nice to his new boot and then he explains.....I had to show you the bad bc you see the good....Barnes only sees the bad so I gotta show her there is good

    • @Unversed333
      @Unversed333 Год назад +6

      Also, that no matter how harsh some of the tests were, it was nothing compared to what Tim had to go through.

    • @elbirri
      @elbirri Год назад +1

      ​@@Unversed333Even Jackson success in Tim test easy

    • @Unversed333
      @Unversed333 Год назад

      @@elbirri Jackson was a little bit more prepared than Lucy. Honestly, Jackson is one step ahead of Tim.

    • @elbirri
      @elbirri Год назад +1

      @@Unversed333 i know, his only problem was scared of bullets

  • @michaelbull4344
    @michaelbull4344 3 года назад +189

    Bradford s dad his a hypocrite cause all Eric memories of him is him being an alcoholic and abusive in many ways and Tim never forgot any of it.

    • @lisarice4402
      @lisarice4402 2 года назад +11

      We never do. I know Tim is a character on a show, but the truth remains for so many of us.

    • @Unversed333
      @Unversed333 Год назад +5

      @@lisarice4402 There are a lot of people who grow up into less-adjusted adults because of the physical and emotional abuse they experience from a parental figure.

  • @Thommy2n
    @Thommy2n 6 месяцев назад +20

    So glad to finally hear a fictional character say it.
    We grow stronger IN SPITE of trauma, not BECAUSE of it.

  • @JjJ-rz5tv
    @JjJ-rz5tv Год назад +34

    Rapid blinking during the hug...he was crying....saw some rapid blinking during the burial scene(2×11) lucy allows him to be vulnerable

  • @djsteven07
    @djsteven07 2 месяца назад +14

    Harry Morgan being a role model in every universe I see

    • @haiderr
      @haiderr Месяц назад +1

      He sure as hell had a code in every universe...

  • @nannerz1994
    @nannerz1994 Год назад +14

    The casting for this was phenomenal

  • @ryutheslayer123
    @ryutheslayer123 Год назад +51

    I have never related to Tim more than this very scene

    • @Unversed333
      @Unversed333 Год назад +4

      I feel like all the characters are relatable. It's what makes the show so investing. I personally relate with Nolan. Had a father that wasn't there and raised by my mother, who I have become somewhat estranged with in my adult life.

    • @rosejune1995-r7t
      @rosejune1995-r7t 11 месяцев назад

      Same 💔

  • @Taylorstanek716
    @Taylorstanek716 9 месяцев назад +7

    “No, I am who I am in spite of you.”
    This gives the same energy as Morgan’s moment in Criminal Minds.
    “No I did that. I pulled myself outta the gutter. All the way to the FBI. I did that.”

    • @mxgirl918
      @mxgirl918 5 месяцев назад +1

      Also reminded me of Booth from Bones. His wife had to remind him that he wasn't going to turn out like his dad and she was the only one he cried in front of when his dad died.

  • @Usernr1234
    @Usernr1234 Год назад +56

    2:30 I was like hug him hug! 😢

  • @JayCaldwell05
    @JayCaldwell05 Год назад +27

    “I hope it hurts” My God 😞

    • @amitkenan3878
      @amitkenan3878 10 месяцев назад +6

      The fact that they share blood does not make them family. He said the right thing

    • @davenewsom5985
      @davenewsom5985 5 месяцев назад +1

      Whenever the Son or Daughter says that, it'd usually the parents fault. Some things are just so unforgivable.

  • @jose25352
    @jose25352 7 месяцев назад +7

    The amazing acting on this scene!

  • @rachaelgilligan2243
    @rachaelgilligan2243 Год назад +120

    Isn’t this the same guy who played karev’s dad in greys anatomy? He plays abusive drunk dad well.

    • @miranda13c
      @miranda13c Год назад +2

      Yes

    • @andresplatas
      @andresplatas Год назад +9

      He also played Giuseppe Salvatore in Vampire Diaries, AKA Stefan and Damon's dad

    • @dracco4449
      @dracco4449 Год назад

      @@andresplatas aka abusive drunk dad who beat and burned his sons so they can be men, im seeing a pattern here.

    • @lucasdabbono5024
      @lucasdabbono5024 Год назад +4

      and dexter dad to

    • @redacted8005
      @redacted8005 Год назад +4

      He also plays a character on Black Lightning (the adoptive father of Jefferson)

  • @lukethegoldenminecart1297
    @lukethegoldenminecart1297 2 месяца назад +4

    I like to think Tim was telling himself that the tim tests didn’t make him like his dad. it's only when Lucy tells it to him that he believes it

  • @londonm3161
    @londonm3161 2 месяца назад +4

    being on the receiving end of an "I'm not okay" from someone who's usually super stoic and put together is a haunting experience. being the one who's not okay and desperately hoping they haven't turned into the monster they've tried so hard to avoid becoming is terrifying. idk that there will ever be enough praise for Eric Winter's performance here tbh

  • @kofireeves-miller547
    @kofireeves-miller547 2 месяца назад +4

    I can’t believe Tim’s dad created the Bay Harbor Butcher

  • @Wacpoaboss
    @Wacpoaboss 4 месяца назад +1

    “ I hope it hurts “ wow those words hit harder than a bullet

  • @Sarah20245
    @Sarah20245 5 месяцев назад +3

    You can hear him just breathe as soon as he hugged lucy

  • @CalleyHegerty
    @CalleyHegerty 9 дней назад

    You can hear the pain in his voice through the conversation 😢😢😢

  • @zachlewis9751
    @zachlewis9751 6 месяцев назад +5

    Damn, he's a good actor.

  • @Coolmusicplaylist
    @Coolmusicplaylist 3 месяца назад +2

    Eric Winter os a GREAT actor! He nailed it.

  • @Crescentknight8189
    @Crescentknight8189 7 месяцев назад +8

    2:27 Even though the Tim Tests don’t mean he’s his father, he should definitely understand the slippery slope and how Chen only responded to them because of her own unique parental situation.

    • @Unversed333
      @Unversed333 4 месяца назад +2

      Pretty sure he does. He knows when he crosses a line and admits it.

    • @Blackdragon99omfg
      @Blackdragon99omfg 15 дней назад

      Many characters responded well to them. He didn't pull them on rookies who already knew the information. The "Driving and shot test" for example. He also didn't pull the racism test on West.

  • @rosejune1995-r7t
    @rosejune1995-r7t 11 месяцев назад +7

    2:40 Tim looks like he's about to start crying 💔😭

  • @JjJ-rz5tv
    @JjJ-rz5tv Год назад +28

    I have a feeling season 1 bradford was headed down the same/similar path as his father, with all the anger/pain isabel caused him, then when she actually got clean and they divorced he changed to the beloved character he is now with lucys help of course😊

    • @Unversed333
      @Unversed333 Год назад +9

      I also feel like he's had an effect on her too. He's toughen her up a bit to stand up to her parents who can't accept her life choices.

    • @fightinamrah
      @fightinamrah Год назад +1

      Why is it Lucy who helps and comforts him? Where is Ashley?

    • @rosejune1995-r7t
      @rosejune1995-r7t 11 месяцев назад

      @@fightinamrah Tim and Ashley broke up in Season 5 episode 5 after Tim's surgery.

    • @3lttlbrds
      @3lttlbrds 10 месяцев назад +4

      ​@@fightinamrahlol because he likes Lucy more, he was with Ashley when they were cleaning up his old house and even this. Always Lucy ❤

  • @LiamBlakePodcaster
    @LiamBlakePodcaster 2 месяца назад +3

    Eric Winter might be the best actor I've ever seen!

  • @MrHadrii
    @MrHadrii 9 месяцев назад +6

    The worst fear that stays with you the rest of your Life when you get abused in any way.. be like him/her somehow 💔😢

  • @colemarheine3503
    @colemarheine3503 2 дня назад

    There's a tract of wisdom to men like Tim, there's always a underlying memory or act of darkness that made them so strict or stern.

  • @FemboySprite101
    @FemboySprite101 5 месяцев назад +2

    “He’ll get judged soon enough” damn..

  • @revengetragedy
    @revengetragedy Год назад +15

    "The Tim Tests....those don't make me like him" 😭

  • @abhilashmishra3601
    @abhilashmishra3601 10 месяцев назад +3

    Lord he was Alex Karev’s abusive dad too in Greys Anatomy 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @hagridrubes5641
    @hagridrubes5641 9 месяцев назад +2

    I realize now that Tim’s dad is also Karevs

  • @PMCanadaGoose
    @PMCanadaGoose 4 месяца назад +2

    I can't believe that Tim's dad is the Bay Harbor Butcher.

  • @davidegodino6865
    @davidegodino6865 10 месяцев назад +1

    I only know this show through YT shorts, but I know Tim's father actor. He is Dexter's father and that's the only one I see when I look at him, so this little father-son talk... I don't know it was kind of weird and nice at the same time

  • @Peter.pans.wife.5372
    @Peter.pans.wife.5372 11 месяцев назад +3

    Damn this makes me cry hard 😭😭😭😭

  • @caitlint9604
    @caitlint9604 Месяц назад

    My heart breaks for Tim many times throughout the series. This is one of the most heartbreaking scenes of all, though. The fact he knows his father was cruel and abusive to Tim and his family, but he went out of his way to help this woman. The way he refuses to accept his father's claims and emphasises that 'I am who I am in SPITE of you'. The threat of tears in his voice the way his voice breaks, and he struggles to maintain his composure. His vulnerability with Lucy.
    Most of all, though, the way he is so desperate for Lucy's reassurance that he is nothing like his father. That the Tim Tests don't make him like him. He so desperately needed to hear her say he's not his father and to have that hug.

  • @shep9231
    @shep9231 11 месяцев назад +3

    In war, the first thing lost... is time. The hours become days, the days tuirn into years and before you know it, one has spent their entire life at war... At war with themselves.
    At war with their fathers because they rejected their fathers way of doing things.

  • @joehamlet7576
    @joehamlet7576 Год назад +19

    End of the scene, that is a good woman right there.

  • @H.K.5
    @H.K.5 2 месяца назад +3

    Tim and Dexter Morgan have the same dad.

  • @SHDW-lj5gq
    @SHDW-lj5gq 2 месяца назад +3

    I Didnt Know Tim Bradford Was The Bay Harbour Butcher

  • @VSaber365
    @VSaber365 Год назад +4

    I honestly think Tim’s father is the lesser of two abusive evils here, all things considered, but it still doesn’t make anything he did in the past right.

    • @Unversed333
      @Unversed333 7 месяцев назад

      In terms of the murder? Not really. He let a woman get away with murder instead of calling the cops on her and letting them handle the situation. Now his mistress is going to serve more time than she would have when it first happened.

  • @OmegaShoutmonX7
    @OmegaShoutmonX7 10 месяцев назад +5

    Time will heal all wounds.

    • @amitkenan3878
      @amitkenan3878 10 месяцев назад +2

      I hope you’re right. I really do

    • @Unversed333
      @Unversed333 7 месяцев назад +2

      Clearly it wasn't for Tim, as he could not bring himself to face his father in years.

  • @trivonnereid769
    @trivonnereid769 Год назад +12

    "Judged soon enough" does that mean he believes in god or a higher power.

    • @Unversed333
      @Unversed333 Год назад +8

      We all get what we deserve in the end.

    • @fightinamrah
      @fightinamrah Год назад +6

      I guess, without believing in a higher judgement, he would have punished his dad for what he did.

    • @mxgirl918
      @mxgirl918 5 месяцев назад

      It was mentioned in the previous episode (when Tim's sister visited him) that their dad was dying

  • @Da-XenaKnowles
    @Da-XenaKnowles 5 месяцев назад +3

    I know it's just acting but it is heart breaking to see such cruelty😢

    • @rosejune1995-r7t
      @rosejune1995-r7t 5 месяцев назад

      @@Da-XenaKnowles it's worse when you're on the receiving end of it. 💔

  • @judyoger
    @judyoger 3 месяца назад

    To over come what has been your "normal" is hard, but it can be done. When you are strong enough look back and realize the sickness was the evil, beneath that there was simply a person who never knew how to change or ask for help. That is the saddest realization. Move forward one step, one day as you are comfortable in your own pace.

  • @Thatuherlione
    @Thatuherlione 3 месяца назад

    Dang Uncle Gambi sure went through it, maybe that’s why he cared so much about Black Lightning.

  • @1jonhalo91
    @1jonhalo91 2 года назад +40

    I did not know the dude who played Tim's father is the same dude who plays *Raiden* in that terrible-ish *Mortal Kombat* movie that came out in 90's and also who plays *Gambi* in the show called *Black Lightning*

    • @daniellespeller8402
      @daniellespeller8402 2 года назад +17

      I also thought he was the person who plays Alex’s abusive dad in Grey’s Anatomy, but I could be wrong.

    • @treyloadholt2004
      @treyloadholt2004 2 года назад +3

      @@daniellespeller8402 yea he was

    • @justinemissy
      @justinemissy 2 года назад +5

      He also plays damon and stefan s dad on tvd

    • @1jonhalo91
      @1jonhalo91 2 года назад +3

      @@justinemissy almost forgot about that.

    • @RayGun4200
      @RayGun4200 2 года назад +8

      Also plays Dexter's Dad in the Dexter TV show.

  • @gwendolineanthony1726
    @gwendolineanthony1726 5 месяцев назад +4

    His sister pissed me off in this episode, like he was an abuser and Tim even says in the episode that their dad did things like slam his head in the wall and leave him in a park to find his way home and yet the sister for some reason forgave the dad??

    • @mxgirl918
      @mxgirl918 5 месяцев назад +6

      I feel like their dad may have been more abusive towards Tim. Sometimes some abusive parents are worse towards one kid compared to the other. What irked me more is that Genny should have been more understanding of Tim's hatred for his father instead of trying to push the forgive-and-make-peace agenda on him.

    • @katewinston6333
      @katewinston6333 5 месяцев назад +5

      Right? Like ffs, he told her so many times what he did and how their dad abused him, and her response was "That was a long time ago, get over it." Like just wow.
      I feel you x3. That shit irritated me so much during the whole episode. Theres always some one out there that says "You're supposed to be the better man" when your abusive parent grows old and suddenly needs care. Like ffs, just let them rot in hell. I aint gonna forgive someone who abused me just cause they're old now.

    • @rosejune1995-r7t
      @rosejune1995-r7t 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@katewinston6333 I agree. No matter how many times I try to forgive the people who abused me, I can't.

  • @spectical8045
    @spectical8045 Месяц назад

    Here Harrison does fit his own code of getting killed💀

  • @DEADtoRISE08
    @DEADtoRISE08 Месяц назад

    Holy shit no Dexter brain rot here is amazing

  • @Luldaee26
    @Luldaee26 5 месяцев назад

    Uncle gambi😂😂

  • @metaknight4230
    @metaknight4230 6 месяцев назад

    Harry never died in Dexter, he had another family and when couldn’t believe what he created, faked his death and went to Tim.

  • @aaron15414
    @aaron15414 3 месяца назад

    Pretty much every modern show has this scene, the writers hate their dad so much they have to put it into their work.

  • @kmstorturedpoet
    @kmstorturedpoet 11 месяцев назад +4

    isnt that alex karevs abusive father too

  • @AmelityshTV
    @AmelityshTV 15 дней назад +1

    Harry Morgan has a rough few years.
    (Maybe he found out Doakes was the Bay Harbour Butcher)

  • @fightinamrah
    @fightinamrah Год назад +1

    Thanks for uploading this scene. It is up to you I could discover a mistake in translation I always wondered about. In this original Tim says "goodbye" to his father - he doesn't want to see him anymore. But in the German translation he says "Auf Wiedersehen" , - what doesn't fit to the situation and to Tims whish "I hope it hurts" Seems to be a KI translation 😂

  • @aayazahmed5389
    @aayazahmed5389 2 месяца назад +3

    Is that Harry Morgan?

  • @histman3133
    @histman3133 25 дней назад

    I grew up with piece of sh*t parents so I know what it's like. That kind of hurt never goes away and when you see other people with loving parents you can't help but feel envy.

  • @Lspacehopper
    @Lspacehopper Год назад +1

    I always see him as Richard in SaTC.

  • @1mentalmagier
    @1mentalmagier Год назад +5

    Why are they always so nice? I would have said a few more things of which I know they will hurt him so that he can taste a bit of his own medicine. I am not saying that this is the right way but in this situation I couldn't help myself

    • @JjJ-rz5tv
      @JjJ-rz5tv Год назад +4

      Bye dad...I hope it hurts....dude is dying no way around it tim needed to say what he said to gain closure if he went borderline violent with it he would be like his dad...but tim chose the high ground probably bc of his (not yet) girls influence bc he didn't want HER to see him as a monster especially since her comment about the tim tests after she found out the abuse he endured as a kid, the previous shift he needed her to tell him that the tim tests didn't make him like his dad

  • @lmowle
    @lmowle Год назад +4

    Didn’t this actor also play Alex Karev’s drunk absent Dad in Greys anatomy?

    • @ignaigna1950
      @ignaigna1950 Год назад

      yep, that's him!! i was hoping someone else noticed it

    • @leinaleilani
      @leinaleilani 2 дня назад

      he also played giuseppe salvatore in the vampire diaries

  • @simonroh4958
    @simonroh4958 Год назад +13

    Maybe Tim's dad was pushing his kids around so that he could get them off his life to have a good time with his mistress.

    • @rosejune1995-r7t
      @rosejune1995-r7t 11 месяцев назад +1

      Almost like "American Murder: The Family Nextdoor" except he didn't kill them.

  • @Daron7181
    @Daron7181 11 месяцев назад +1

    Damn Ajax you lookin rough.

  • @Emily-9005
    @Emily-9005 7 месяцев назад +2

    I don’t know anything about them as I have never actually watched a whole episode. Every parent wants their kids to grow up strong but using abuse is wrong, there are a lot of ways to make children strong he chose abuse…

  • @Rtombooksart
    @Rtombooksart 9 месяцев назад

    Wow decters dad really came a long way

  • @domanskikid
    @domanskikid Месяц назад

    Not gonna lie….the almost DISMISSIVE way his sister treats the abuse strikes a nerve as well…

  • @keanucora4606
    @keanucora4606 5 месяцев назад

    That’s Uncle Gambi from Black Lighting.

  • @leinaleilani
    @leinaleilani 2 дня назад

    giuseppe salvatore, what are you doing here?

  • @JGlennFL
    @JGlennFL 3 месяца назад +1

    "Goodbye, dad. I hope it hurts." Ouch, baby. Ouch.

  • @bikashmishra6675
    @bikashmishra6675 2 месяца назад

    This is what Dexter dad was doing as his 2nd life?

  • @soulz4510
    @soulz4510 3 дня назад

    Since Harry Morgan is Tim’s dad, does this mean that Tim Bradford has been the Bay Harbor Butcher this whole time?

  • @jeremiahscott2032
    @jeremiahscott2032 Год назад +2

    Heeeeeeh it’s the actor that plays gambi

  • @redx7476
    @redx7476 3 месяца назад +1

    Tim needed love not toughening

  • @kwong5475
    @kwong5475 2 месяца назад

    I didn’t know Dexter and Tim were brothers

  • @godisgoodallthetime7622
    @godisgoodallthetime7622 Год назад +1

    Dexter's dad.

  • @JoybuzzerX
    @JoybuzzerX 11 месяцев назад +2

    I dont recall, did it say what thw abuse was?

    • @rosejune1995-r7t
      @rosejune1995-r7t 11 месяцев назад +3

      Smashed his head into a wall when Tim was 7. Left him at Griffith Park with only a compass to find his way home, which he did.

    • @Unversed333
      @Unversed333 7 месяцев назад +3

      The first time mentioned him, Tim said his father "tuned" him up on the regular, which he labels as one of his layered scars like Isabel's addiction.

    • @Unversed333
      @Unversed333 7 месяцев назад +3

      ​@@rosejune1995-r7tHe also made Isabel cry at their wedding.

  • @osamae6944
    @osamae6944 3 месяца назад

    He wasn’t following the code

  • @ajf7268
    @ajf7268 2 месяца назад

    …is Tim’s dad also the same person who played Jimmy Evans from Grey’s Anatomy?

  • @nggdeathride9552
    @nggdeathride9552 Месяц назад +1

    Harry Morgan

  • @o.m9514
    @o.m9514 26 дней назад

    So he was behaving like his father to Lucy when he first began?

  • @Sarahlol-97r
    @Sarahlol-97r 4 месяца назад +1

    What’s a Tim test??

  • @mwongel
    @mwongel 4 месяца назад

    Tim's dad is Dexter's dad.

  • @Alejandra-xc8ux
    @Alejandra-xc8ux 4 месяца назад +1

    monica and frank

  • @peteralexandergraae2830
    @peteralexandergraae2830 Год назад

    I don't know about American history or laws, but in my country, the right to hit or otherwise physically punish your own kids was removed by law in 1997.

    • @rosejune1995-r7t
      @rosejune1995-r7t 11 месяцев назад

      I don't think we have that in the US. Hell, they don't even keep child mólesters in prison. My biological father who is one, only served 13 years. He got jumped twice during his sentence, but is out now living a free life. 😡

    • @Unversed333
      @Unversed333 7 месяцев назад +3

      Doesn't stop parents from abusing their kids behind closed doors.

  • @kingjohn1011
    @kingjohn1011 Год назад +1

    Damn what happened to Raiden 😂😂