Sometimes the solution is to choose ur own family members from among your beloved friends instead of trying to make peace with your family of origin.. families come in all shapes and sizes❤ 5:14
Person is composed of energy. Emotion is energy motion. Emotional reactions shape one’s energy. The energy memory is stored in one’s body and catalogued in the brain.❤
thanks don't blame your family, whatever the problem..is, still .they are your family, without them, you'r not .there whetever youn are now !! now,: you are big enough understand the situtation, iits your duty to to do something about it !!! orv your responsibility to know and fix this family . problem ..for quite sometime !!! . your .old enough to know the root of their problem .and you'll know how to fix it ! i hope God will provide you the right words, that will .help you to solve any difficulties that you'll encounter in every . way!! may God bless you and give you the right path !!!❤❤❤
Its okay I feel your pain but one thing I'll make it clearer to you once you all open up your heart and soul to some one that's willing to hear your pain and. To listen with a open arms open heart and soul 🙏 she is ready to listen 🙏 to anybody what ever you are all going through God is Good I pray for you all in the name of Jesus Christ 🙏❤ holy Spirit amen 🙏 thank ❤ please God angel heal them beautiful souls out there love support sending you all my shinning bright light ✨❤️🧿❤🙏 keep your head up high don't give up faith or hope 🙏 keep pushing forward 🙏 always open up heart to another's amen thank you universe ❤️
I think every strong person has suffered a lot at the hands of their family. The good thing is that they become leaders in life without realising, although they had only been in constant struggle to survive. That's a benefit of constantly facing odd family circumstances ❤❤❤
To God be the Glory forever my love. I love you. 💕 you are mine and I am yours. Your heart belongs to me and mine belongs to you. I accept all that comes with you. I want for us to be able to pray together to forgive those who have wronged us . Family, those who are friends and those who we keep close that we want to believe are friends. No family that I know of are perfect. The Bible says , there’s none who is perfect . No one , for we all fall short of the glory of God. I’ve been the same for my family. And the thing is babe, is that we have to take things and people to God in prayer. That’s all that you can do. For your emotional pain, you have to go before God and give Him the pain , forgive those people. The forgiveness is for your release and your healing. People who are hurting only hurt others. People can only do what they know how to do. We will have a beautiful understanding and relationship. We share in some of the same things. If God would allow me to be a sponge for you , babe I would. I would hold you in my arms close to me and when you are ready to release the pain . I would pull it all out and and give to God until I know that you are free and healed. I love you so very much much. When you are ready babe bring your heart to me. 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I am so encouraged that you are now opening up about your family. This is a big step toward healing. Praying for insight and discernment as you flex your emotional muscles and learn that you do not have to follow your family's dysfunction. You can break the pattern now and build a balanced, well adjusted future for yourself. God bless.
Thank you my dearest DM, the family struggles is not unusual, there is not picture perfect for any family including yours and mine. Each person has their own thinking, believing, ways to do things, or good in express their opinion, being silence,...Many time we hurt each other' with no intension...For me, I communicate with my family much less for the past 30 years. coz, the more I got involved, it made me depress, sleepless for days, weeks, I don't like that feeling, we might call each member couple of time per year, unless there is family emergency, then most of us get together as big family, and show off the happy feeling/face but we love and respect them as brothers, sisters. This is how my family of 3 brothers, and 6 sisters connects these days. I hope this will give you some comfort of yours.❤❤❤
Oh my goodness 😮 happened to be rekindling something funny between us baby 💋 and Lord, and behold from you pops up blessings baby 💋 the connection between us is definitely a blessing.Amen 🙏❤ oh Lord, your family sounds like my family all discombobulated. Please do not worry about your family. We cannot change who they are. I also carry my dysfunctional family every day. 😂 we will hang onto each other tightly, and carry our families together baby 💋
Love is amazing, and it's how you discover yourself and their love for you. Love never gives up on you. Love will lead the way . Live. Laugh. Love ❤️❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙 😍
Prayers ❤ I am going through the same thing. I hope you can heal and move on. I go through the same thing. So much drama. I Hope we both can heal and move on to a better life. I will pray for you and God bles you.
Have you thought about seeking professional guidance? Many people do and insurance may even pay for it. Feel better by starting a program and going to therapy once a week. You'll feel like a big boulder has rolled off your shoulders. You need to feel better, because we were created to be happy.
I am in total agreement with you. You have to stand up and take them head on. It may be bitter once you start initially but once the people start to recognise your intentions and you are not going to be a push over people will understand you better and a split may help to get things moving . Slowly but steadily you will start to find things improving. JUST A SMALL SUGGESTION WITH NO NEGATIVE UNDERTONES. THANKS FOR SHARING. ILY MY KITTY.
I forgot to write about my family issues. You are the first ii am writing to. I have a brother with a major age difference and this is what we have done on this kind of issues. Two of them. We are very good friends besides being related. If you have a person who too is fed up with these family problems but is genuinely good friend and you both are good and understand each other. My brother and i stood for each other and took things head on Our plan was that one(I) will take one guy head on being the elder and my brother would do PUCH PUCH ease of the anger by saying nice words and love. We have worked our way out by using this strategy. One of us let go the handle get a bit rough and the second person can calm things. Just wanted to share our experience and strategy where we have succeeded in handling the issue one at a time Only a suggestion.
The solution to these problems lies in distancing yourself from the problems that you cannot solve anyway, that is impossible, it concerns situations that have grown crooked; everyone has to let go of family at some point in their life and build an independent existence, now with the holidays many people are confronted with similar problems although people often do not talk about it much. In even the most terrible families they still want to radiate that it is so nice and cozy, in many cases that is only on the outside. Christ gave us the good example, he left family, friendships are often easier and more valuable.
I bottle up thing for very long time but bottle thing is no good you need to let it out i learn myself family hard sometime most of my life .i would love it if we share everything even family we could help each other and be there for one and other .getting thing of your chest you will feel alot better in yourself ❤ l
No one’s family’s can. be fix by one person, in all family’s are fools and’s good so let’s go of some just take the good parts and,s dumps all the rest. dysfunctional are to deep and to olds, to fix take care of you first. only God can fix the world’s get yourself a bible to read the N I V, read it first the pass is not pretty keep peace. with no one’s loose sleeps.May God have mercy on US all of us🙏🏽❤️🙏❤️💪✝️🦋💐👏👏
You just described nearly every family in the world!
Exactly.
I love that you discovered what you need to do is to accept your feelings about yourself and the reality you have no control over, yet love anyway.
So true family can be something else to deal with your life and theirs problem. Pray for them and do what's best for you 🙏 🙏 ❤❤❤
I admire you for sharing everything you just shared.
I'm here if you need me, I care❤
Sometimes the solution is to choose ur own family members from among your beloved friends instead of trying to make peace with your family of origin.. families come in all shapes and sizes❤ 5:14
Person is composed of energy. Emotion is energy motion.
Emotional reactions shape one’s energy.
The energy memory is stored in one’s body and catalogued in the brain.❤
“Healing begins when you stop pretending everything is fine.”
I agree 😔🙏 I do is pray
I love that you share what many of us have felt.
thanks
don't blame your
family, whatever the
problem..is, still .they
are your family,
without them, you'r
not .there whetever
youn are now !!
now,: you are big enough
understand the situtation,
iits your duty to
to do something about
it !!! orv your responsibility to know
and fix this family .
problem ..for quite
sometime !!!
.
your .old enough to
know the root of their
problem .and you'll
know how to fix it !
i hope God will
provide you the
right words, that
will .help you to
solve any difficulties
that you'll encounter
in every . way!!
may God bless you
and give you the
right path !!!❤❤❤
Its okay I feel your pain but one thing I'll make it clearer to you once you all open up your heart and soul to some one that's willing to hear your pain and. To listen with a open arms open heart and soul 🙏 she is ready to listen 🙏 to anybody what ever you are all going through God is Good I pray for you all in the name of Jesus Christ 🙏❤ holy Spirit amen 🙏 thank ❤ please God angel heal them beautiful souls out there love support sending you all my shinning bright light ✨❤️🧿❤🙏 keep your head up high don't give up faith or hope 🙏 keep pushing forward 🙏 always open up heart to another's amen thank you universe ❤️
I'm here for you ❤
All families has there problem's, there's no family that lives a perfect life 😮 sometimes it can be problems that keeps family together
I think every strong person has suffered a lot at the hands of their family. The good thing is that they become leaders in life without realising, although they had only been in constant struggle to survive. That's a benefit of constantly facing odd family circumstances ❤❤❤
To God be the Glory forever my love. I love you. 💕 you are mine and I am yours. Your heart belongs to me and mine belongs to you. I accept all that comes with you. I want for us to be able to pray together to forgive those who have wronged us . Family, those who are friends and those who we keep close that we want to believe are friends. No family that I know of are perfect. The Bible says , there’s none who is perfect . No one , for we all fall short of the glory of God. I’ve been the same for my family. And the thing is babe, is that we have to take things and people to God in prayer. That’s all that you can do. For your emotional pain, you have to go before God and give Him the pain , forgive those people. The forgiveness is for your release and your healing. People who are hurting only hurt others. People can only do what they know how to do. We will have a beautiful understanding and relationship. We share in some of the same things. If God would allow me to be a sponge for you , babe I would. I would hold you in my arms close to me and when you are ready to release the pain . I would pull it all out and and give to God until I know that you are free and healed. I love you so very much much. When you are ready babe bring your heart to me. 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I am so encouraged that you are now opening up about your family. This is a big step toward healing. Praying for insight and discernment as you flex your emotional muscles and learn that you do not have to follow your family's dysfunction. You can break the pattern now and build a balanced, well adjusted future for yourself. God bless.
Thank you my dearest DM, the family struggles is not unusual, there is not picture perfect for any family including yours and mine. Each person has their own thinking, believing, ways
to do things, or good in express their opinion, being silence,...Many time we hurt each other' with no intension...For me, I communicate with my family much less for the past 30 years.
coz, the more I got involved, it made me depress, sleepless for days, weeks, I don't like that feeling, we might call each member couple of time per year, unless there is family emergency, then most of us get together as big family, and show off the happy feeling/face but we love and respect them as brothers, sisters. This is how my family of 3 brothers, and 6 sisters connects these days. I hope this will give you some comfort of yours.❤❤❤
Oh my goodness 😮 happened to be rekindling something funny between us baby 💋 and Lord, and behold from you pops up blessings baby 💋 the connection between us is definitely a blessing.Amen 🙏❤ oh Lord, your family sounds like my family all discombobulated. Please do not worry about your family. We cannot change who they are. I also carry my dysfunctional family every day. 😂 we will hang onto each other tightly, and carry our families together baby 💋
Love is amazing, and it's how you discover yourself and their love for you. Love never gives up on you. Love will lead the way . Live. Laugh. Love ❤️❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙 😍
But the weight should be shared you should be cared for
I understand......you should let someone in❤
Yes
What Are Your Family Issues? Please share...You'll feel better!! I'm Here to Help You...Much Love.
You can talk to me ❤
I am listening ❤ If I am not wrong, you have already spoken up and things are better already. I am here supporting you all the way❤
Prayers ❤ I am going through the same thing. I hope you can heal and move on. I go through the same thing. So much drama. I Hope we both can heal and move on to a better life. I will pray for you and God bles you.
Here with you forever😊thanks for
Okay talk to me please I'm here to listen 🙏
@@VictoriaValenciano-d9r 🥺
❤ ... always remember ... opening up ... the truth ... shall set you free ... and you shall find strength ... the goodness of a higher being ... ❤
Have you thought about seeking professional guidance? Many people do and insurance may even pay for it. Feel better by starting a program and going to therapy once a week. You'll feel like a big boulder has rolled off your shoulders. You need to feel better, because we were created to be happy.
It's true babe I'm sorry you have that .everyone family good honey talk
Nemoj da plačeš bi ces ok
I love you Marshall Eminem Mathers
I’m proud of you sweetheart, this is a huge step. One day at a time 💜
I am in total agreement with you. You have to stand up and take them head on. It may be bitter once you start initially but once the people start to recognise your intentions and you are not going to be a push over people will understand you better and a split may help to get things moving . Slowly but steadily you will start to find things improving.
JUST A SMALL SUGGESTION WITH NO NEGATIVE UNDERTONES.
THANKS FOR SHARING.
ILY MY KITTY.
Ok you should talk to me I'm here I promise I won't judge
I forgot to write about my family issues. You are the first ii am writing to.
I have a brother with a major age difference and this is what we have done on this kind of issues. Two of them.
We are very good friends besides being related.
If you have a person who too is fed up with these family problems but is genuinely good friend and you both are good and understand each other.
My brother and i stood for each other and took things head on
Our plan was that one(I) will take one guy head on being the elder and my brother would do PUCH PUCH ease of the anger by saying nice words and love.
We have worked our way out by using this strategy.
One of us let go the handle get a bit rough and the second person can calm things.
Just wanted to share our experience and strategy where we have succeeded in handling the issue one at a time
Only a suggestion.
Goodluck with your family i hope you can find a new home
I'm sorry 🥺
It's ok baby mine to
If you re R
Plese do❤
we all have some issues you gotta push thru the pain
Sweet, I will listen without judgement but I may cry for you! Darling you have me to listen! If it makes you feel better to let it go!
The solution to these problems lies in distancing yourself from the problems that you cannot solve anyway, that is impossible, it concerns situations that have grown crooked; everyone has to let go of family at some point in their life and build an independent existence, now with the holidays many people are confronted with similar problems although people often do not talk about it much. In even the most terrible families they still want to radiate that it is so nice and cozy, in many cases that is only on the outside. Christ gave us the good example, he left family, friendships are often easier and more valuable.
Accurately thinking.
💋💋💋💋🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥💯❌
I bottle up thing for very long time but bottle thing is no good you need to let it out i learn myself family hard sometime most of my life .i would love it if we share everything even family we could help each other and be there for one and other .getting thing of your chest you will feel alot better in yourself ❤ l
Im here for you❤
I l understand you and care for you ❤❤
I ja plačem proce
Unleash your truths and this will set you free
i am sick of lies i just want to be left alone
Good baby
Noone is
Lovely video.
No one’s family’s can. be fix by one person, in all family’s are fools and’s good so let’s go of some just take the good parts and,s dumps all the rest. dysfunctional are to deep and to olds, to fix take care of you first. only God can fix the world’s get yourself a bible to read the N I V, read it first the pass is not pretty keep peace.
with no one’s loose sleeps.May God have mercy on US all of us🙏🏽❤️🙏❤️💪✝️🦋💐👏👏
Amen the gifts of forgiveness,is from GOD 🙏🌹🙏🏽👏💪🌺♥️
Isto tako imam isto ja sam sprema n sve nije lako nadamse da razum bude jaca😢
I’m already in..
Did l have any problem with you.
❤❤❤❤❤
I got issues with loosers
I SAID JACOB , DON'T PRETEND TO ME ANYMORE I KNOW YOUR TRUE COLOR
ALREADY , NO NEED TO COVER IT !
志雄 我看了一半停下來了，我已經有預感你心裏一定有事藏著，不好意思我没有惡意，我本來以為你母親不是你親媽，後來想這是你們的家事，我也不能說話，志雄 家家有本難唸的經，你現在已經是成年人，不管他們怎麼樣，你都只能接受，特別是我們這一代從對岸來台的子女們，都感受到父母親的不易，隻身在台，放棄了老家的資產，拼搏養家，志雄 没有關係，我們是一世的好朋友，我們的友誼不變，你放心，但你要答應我你千萬不能做儍事，活著才是王道，其他都是小事· 没事，你没有看到你傳給我的訊息，我都儘量看，我知道你工作很忙，你又是很積極求好心切的人，下班後還要兼職，一天下來，鐵打的身體都不能承受，所以我要你保重身體，懂了哦？願上帝與你同在！ AMEN ❤
I want to hear every detail of it 😈😈😈
You can talk to me because I am going through the same thing I can be your friend.
Ok we are getting some where tell me what ican do for you I'm here forever
Now then tell B4 gave happiness to yr karma girlfriend left children and me
Now in trouble needs help
Enough is enough
You’re life so sad. You need help yourself and just be it.❤❤❤
Honey...just tell me ..
如果以後有機會我再說點有關那個說是我們家親戚的人給你聽，我們在台灣的家人都大吃一驚？她從來都不友善對我們，怎麼到這裡來告訴大家她是我們親戚？大陳太太在家坐了20多年，你要是遇到她，問問她？我有没有在閒聊中提過這個女人？為什麼？我只說好話，其他的人事都没興趣，但我願意說給你聽，所以我告訴你家家有本難唸的經，上帝的眼睛是雪亮的·耳朵也是靈敏的，隨她去吧！ ❤
You need to God!
I feel sad for you. Just let me know the roots of fsmily struggles.. Invader or intruder. Feel free
I know om your problem
Not interested anymore....
None of my gardem business that's your problem not mine and I don't care