6 Things to Watch Out for During Court Battles with a Narcissist

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  • Опубликовано: 1 ноя 2024

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  • @RebeccaZungEsq
    @RebeccaZungEsq  2 года назад +9

    Do want to learn more about winning negotiations with narcissists in court? Join me in my free webinar! Sign up here:👉www.rebeccazung.com/live

  • @jaijoiner810
    @jaijoiner810 2 года назад +31

    1. Act Nice
    2.Play dirty
    3.Threaten you
    4.Manipulate evidence
    5.Use court system as a sword
    6.They line up their flying monkeys
    I experienced all of this in court with a narcissist already.

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  2 года назад +8

      They all play the same! I hope you hang in there, Jai, and never give up!

    • @kostantinosdemopoulos8907
      @kostantinosdemopoulos8907 3 месяца назад

      6-6... my evil delusional fraudulent class e felony committing sister
      15 years..of apocalyptic abuse to all 5 family members..including aged/ dementia parents

  • @coreydunn1583
    @coreydunn1583 2 года назад +30

    Hi Rebecca. Going through this nightmare right now. Fighting for my son. Wish I could hire you to consult my attorney. I feel like we need to be more proactive in exposing this behavior.

    • @julietcrowson3503
      @julietcrowson3503 2 года назад

      Many parents have this problem
      It can help you to have evidence presented in family court by Family Therapist(s), psychiatrists and to get the children to express their views on the parents.
      Familiarise yourself with the language used by family lawyers if you can
      Good luck
      BVH from England 🙏

    • @johnathonhuson8734
      @johnathonhuson8734 2 года назад

      You get at them by seeing where they’re breaking the law. Judges want to be spoon fed and to see where they’ve broken the law. Assume they will lie about everything, argue only your claims and use a timeline of events through anything with a time stamp. The behaviour will show itself surprisingly well if you can manage this.

  • @sovereignsister
    @sovereignsister 2 года назад +2

    My ex narc (military) pulled out all the tricks. But he forgot I had career ending Intel on him because he slipped (years before) and told me he pulled a reprimand letter out of his personnel file that forbade him from drinking. Military Investigative Services found that interesting and paid him a visit on his next duty day. Yep, he was drinking and got forced out. His mistake was mistaking my kindness for weakness.

  • @VERONICASMR
    @VERONICASMR 2 года назад +5

    You gave me so much inspiration and yes everything you say is 1000% truth! My ex wife definitely ignored the court docs. Wish there were more attorneys like you. SLAY!!!!

  • @peterknyk1942
    @peterknyk1942 2 года назад +11

    SLAY! Hi Rebecca! This video seemed so important that I took notes on everything that you said and I’m going to use it in the upcoming weeks in court! Oh, thank you so much! 🙏🏻⚖️🙏🏻

  • @Hopper11
    @Hopper11 2 года назад +1

    All I can say is WOW Rebecca Zung! Wow. This is incredible what you are sharing and THANK YOU! THANK YOU

  • @sisterkamilah4373
    @sisterkamilah4373 2 года назад +5

    I used to watch your channel and think that I would never need this information. Boy was I wrong! Going to court next week with my toxic narc husband 🙄

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  2 года назад +1

      Good luck! You can do this and remember: NEVER GIVE UP! 💪💪

    • @sisterkamilah4373
      @sisterkamilah4373 2 года назад

      @@RebeccaZungEsq Ahw thanks!

  • @Fredo_world98
    @Fredo_world98 2 года назад +1

    SLAY ! I’m glad I came across your channel

  • @katiebouchard1816
    @katiebouchard1816 2 года назад +2

    100 spot on! And everything I went through during my divorce!! On top of that, his flying monkey was our 'roommate' for about 7 years, and I had to evict him. They were both caught on camera taking items out of the martial home...but I had to pay for the eviction because obviously my ex wasn't going to evict him. It wasn't fair and costed me a lot of money, but they were both gone before more damage could be done.

  • @luannteeter3288
    @luannteeter3288 Год назад

    I'm dealing with this right now.

  • @viviennea.293
    @viviennea.293 2 года назад +1

    S.L.A.Y. Everything you said is happening to my niece. Exactly how the Narc she married and divorcing is doing. It took three attorneys but finally!!! she is on the same wavelength as you are. So grateful that she found her. If we were in FL you would have been her number one choice!!!

  • @hnmbvb4703
    @hnmbvb4703 2 года назад +1

    Slay!!!! This content is great, please do more about court battles with narcs. Thank you 🙏

  • @rhysweaver7178
    @rhysweaver7178 2 года назад +1

    Expect the win at all cost mentality to come out eventually.

  • @docalgaryrealestate
    @docalgaryrealestate Год назад

    All very true

  • @SherrieRuffino
    @SherrieRuffino 2 года назад +1

    I have all of my Medical, hospital, police, behavioral , etc. records dating back to 1989 from the onset of horrible abuse inflicted by my Narcissistic Monster Husband!! >
    …..The non stop abuse caused me 6 physical hospitalizations ! I suffered irreparable damage to my left ear due a bursted ear drum, 2 broken ribs, multiple concussions by beating hit in my head, was nearly killed by way of suffocation
    etc,… I was also hospitalized in Behavioral units due to Nervous breakdowns which lead to what five>5< Psychiatrists came to same conclusion regarding my diagnosis: Post War like syndrome > PTSD , severe/chronic Anxiety, panic disorder and depression!
    ….Not to mention, I am disabled due to a failed coccygectomy, S1 damage , advanced stage DGD and so much more!
    Ps…at least I am breathing🙏

  • @Fredo_world98
    @Fredo_world98 2 года назад

    Been a dealing with a narcissistic for years

  • @realdealprimer
    @realdealprimer 2 года назад

    This looks to be my direction here.

  • @devon3069
    @devon3069 2 года назад

    Thank you!! Yes I was presented but I'm not taking it. The court's are being manipulated in my situation.

  • @Uniquenes
    @Uniquenes 2 года назад

    SLAY bout to go through a custody battle with my ex narc thanks for the advice!!

  • @kimberleejohnson6602
    @kimberleejohnson6602 2 года назад

    Do you take any cases in Florida. I asked for nothing to get out of his abusive issues and he won’t stop. I just want out

  • @mariarichards5221
    @mariarichards5221 2 года назад

    thankyou ❤️

  • @iamgoddessoflove
    @iamgoddessoflove 2 года назад +5

    Once a narcissist can no longer control you, they will try to control how others see you.
    💙RUclipsr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships

    • @therocksbyclan
      @therocksbyclan 2 года назад

      only if you still have contact with them, or people who know them, we have no aquaintances, i moved away, changed my number, when they have no way of contacting you it seems then they use the courts to do so.

  • @WyomingASMR
    @WyomingASMR 2 года назад

    I am hoping to see a video with your take on the Depp/Heard proceedings

  • @hawaiigirl8089
    @hawaiigirl8089 2 года назад

    You R nailing the NARC aaa in Court to a tee

  • @mariafihn6874
    @mariafihn6874 11 месяцев назад

    Friend had first court date set and 2 days before he “needs more time!” Now it’s delayed 2 months! Where / can she use this against him in court? Won’t the judge see through this ?

  • @davidbriggs6086
    @davidbriggs6086 2 года назад

    Slay!! No Quarter!

  • @mikehess4494
    @mikehess4494 2 года назад

    Thank you great useful information.

  • @micheleprofeta7614
    @micheleprofeta7614 Год назад

    My former DIL is a narcissist and refuses to allow unchaparoned visitation with my grand daughter. This is not court mandated; it’s just because she’s angry with my son and uses my grand daughter as a tool to manipulate the situation. I live in South Dakota and grandparents don’t have inherent rights to visitation. How do I battle this situation???

  • @eg9453
    @eg9453 2 года назад +1

    I bought the slay thing, spent the money I don't have and I don't like it, I found it to not be usefyl at all. I get a lot more information from free videos than the $500 course!

    • @shahadah1451
      @shahadah1451 2 года назад

      Did you ask her for your money back?

    • @eg9453
      @eg9453 2 года назад

      @@shahadah1451 I did, and in the 2 weeks period, they asked for evidence that I watched all the videos and when I sent it they stopped replying. It's a scam, waste of money. I tried to get it back through paypal and it didn't work. So I am slowly paying for it, I have no choice. but I want to prevent others from making the same mistake! It was useless for me, plenty of free information out there and in my case nothing worked at all.

  • @jonboland2542
    @jonboland2542 2 года назад

    Rebecca hi. Thanking you so much for your great videos. You are such a kind lady. Kind regards.

  • @timeachus7128
    @timeachus7128 2 года назад +1

    Slay the narc

  • @sherrydickie8459
    @sherrydickie8459 Год назад

    SLAY!

  • @ChickenNoodle0404
    @ChickenNoodle0404 2 года назад +1

    I need your help; do you operate in NYC? Ms Rebecca?

  • @frau_ic
    @frau_ic 2 года назад +1

    For a long time I had not only no desire, but downright panic to set foot outside the door. During the separation, the infamous smear campaign was underway. Neighbors, authorities and, of course, all family members were encouraged to blaspheme about the marriage breakup that I had provoked. My competencies as a citizen of our small town, as a mother, daughter and business partner, friend and sister in faith became a public matter and were dragged through the mud by some "friends". The dramatic self-dramatization of my narcissistic ex-husband as a tragic victim and me as some kind of nervous Xantippe nevertheless backfired. He has always been a bad actor. 😬

  • @natlo6450
    @natlo6450 2 года назад +1

    Oh how I wish I knew all this years ago..I've had the pleasure of dealing with two Narcs..first was ex husband , who like you said in this video, feigned playing "nice" and totally screwed me over. Then two years later alienated my children from me. Few years later, my ex fiancé, filed a restraining order without me knowing, to keep me from my house so that he could pack up all my furniture, appliances, artwork, and move 70 miles away with my then 4 yo daughter. this was 2019 and guess what?? we're still on court and now there's 3 cases going on...it's amazing what he gets away with, I almost feel like when I step into the courtroom, that I walk into The Twilight Zone...and my daughter is suffering terribly...there's only one cure for what I'm going through but I won't say it here...🥲

  • @ingridakagridprillhart2108
    @ingridakagridprillhart2108 2 года назад +1

    I want to get a divorce, do these things happen in a no fault state community property state?

  • @energybiz8890
    @energybiz8890 2 года назад

    Slay today!

  • @MIMI-ye1wl
    @MIMI-ye1wl 2 года назад +1

    SLAY ⚔

  • @Level4Bio
    @Level4Bio 2 года назад +3

    The only thing one needs to Watch out for is the Narc Judge & Attorneys. At court time NOTHING else matters…

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  2 года назад +2

      That is why diligent documentation is very, very important for leverage.

  • @cml2492
    @cml2492 2 года назад

    Thank you! However, Rebecca, I want to know if the other party can lay claim to the $ we saved and earned AFTER divorce, say 2- 3 years down the track? My ex divorced me so he could force me to sell the family home. I have been the main income earner paying most of the bills and have started saving some money after divorce.

  • @hawaiigirl8089
    @hawaiigirl8089 2 года назад +2

    Mine is making up False Witnesses

  • @misskay5459
    @misskay5459 2 года назад +2

    So familiar, I got that text from the ex Narc that we should settle out of court because all the lawyers want is "my" money. Thank you Rebecca for your videos!

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  2 года назад +1

      It still sometimes surprises me how very similar the narcissists are! Stay strong there, Miss Kay!

    • @simplykoko9033
      @simplykoko9033 2 года назад

      @@RebeccaZungEsq mine said the same too Rebecca. He’d taken me to court without serving me now he wants to be “nice”

  • @charlenecombs3908
    @charlenecombs3908 2 года назад

    What if they manipulate a child ( during a court battle) into saying things about you that aren’t true to a therapist.? Then they claim that YOUR the one doing these things to the child , to which themselves are the one doing it to this child ?
    How do you handle/deal with this?

  • @kemeu_
    @kemeu_ 2 года назад

    You should be Johnny's lawyer.🙏

  • @JannyR421
    @JannyR421 2 года назад

    Thanks Rebecca. What would be your advice on how to handle forged documents? I believe my ex forged a stock option grant document and also an email from his supervisor. Is it advisable to get a forensic document examiner and if so, how to find one?

  • @lynnveach5816
    @lynnveach5816 2 года назад +1

    This is so like my soon to be ex son in law. He has done every thing except filing motions and his flying monkeys have flown away they now support my daughter.

  • @kellyeads2703
    @kellyeads2703 2 года назад

    I’ve been in so many court issues with narcs.. lies, financial abuse, the system, intimidation that fortunately doesn’t work on me anymore, just completely inadequate human beings … I have the stalking kind this time so I intentionally “like”, comment and make sure they can see what I’ve been learning although I really have stopped caring and will do all kinds of things that I know are hilarious (for me) while they think they are the only ones laughing… ugh.. what losers

  • @deborababayev9383
    @deborababayev9383 2 года назад +1

    Slay baby slay

  • @Niko-dt1om
    @Niko-dt1om 2 года назад

    SLAY

  • @angelicaannegreen6709
    @angelicaannegreen6709 2 года назад

    All 6 resonated during my divorce proceedings. Everything you said happened. Unfortunately my children are the flying monkeys now.

  • @dancindebs1
    @dancindebs1 2 года назад

    He did all the above then tried to have me murdered. I been stabbed burned even assaulted my cars safety. He is very smart computer geek.

  • @kmf8542
    @kmf8542 2 года назад

    My ex-wife did all of these. Slay

  • @CLHS1944
    @CLHS1944 2 года назад +1

    Slay those NARCS!

  • @hawaiigirl8089
    @hawaiigirl8089 2 года назад +1

    MY Ex is Filling False TAXES

  • @fjschneider
    @fjschneider 2 года назад +1

    I am feeling at my end with family court. I just exited a completely one-sided, covert / low-grade abusive relationship where I was exploited for the validation I provide and my resources. The last hit is her stealing half of all I worked for by using the courts system as her sword. Not only that, I am pressing charges against her grandiose abusive father who has cause me and my marriage grief for over a decade. The latest is that he escalated to threatening to hard or murder me simply for sitting and negotiating with my soon-to-be ex wife. I knew he was funding her and pushing her from the start, and it has been confirmed.
    Totally abusive family.
    None of what I went through matters in "family" law court, apparently. What is there to negotiate? She took near ZERO responsibility other than 16% of our income. Homemaker contributions were near NOTHING. No children at her own fault. She refused to work then and refuses to work now. No or no adequate responsibility would be taken anywhere, the businesses I encouraged (and funded) and helped her to start were shirked, and she did not even engage in basic human-hygiene decency (this is why we have not children).
    So, what in the world is there to negotiate in family law court in this scenario? My attorneys gaslight me and make this all look like it's just me. This is all such a load of nonsense. I should never have been so patient and extended an unheard-of (literally) amount of empathy to this woman for 13 years of marriage. They even use THAT against me, claiming "I put up with it, so you must have approve of it." Biggest BS. No, I went through a literal 13-year session of mental TORTURE and CRUELTY with a major trauma bond-all while plugging away and just doing my part, always hoping she'd do hers so we could actually get the marriage even STARTED! Future-faked to the highest degree. I should have LEFT DAYS into this. The distroughtness and cruelty took a huge, cumulative toll in late 2019 / early 2020 when I could no longer product income as I once did. I just couldn't do it anymore. Now, of course, her abusive family is ridiculing me for that as they always have when I've had my financial downs due to this crap. SICK OF IT and I'm NOT PUTTING UP WITH IT ANYMORE.
    I said responsibility had to be taken or we needed to discuss parting ways. So, she threw tantrums and filed for divorce. I am out of money and she knew demanding sale of the house would make me homeless. She wouldn't care if I was or even dead, I am FULLY convinced. Now, I am out of money and can barely feed myself. I've never lost this much weight.
    Now, she and her father have they flying monkeys and the lies have placed me at danger of injury or death more than once.
    Everything I want to argue is civil-side, it seems. But even finding attorneys who get that is proving near impossible.
    What the heck hope do I have?

    • @julietcrowson3503
      @julietcrowson3503 2 года назад

      In the UK we have controlling and coercive behaviour laws - maybe you have some similar law?
      Prepare your case as well as you can with evidence Try Get help
      Charitable people from church might help you: support you, reassure you at this difficult time, be witness to your good character etc. Reach out for help.
      Rest when you can.
      Pray, meditate, do sports - everything you can to rest and reenergise.
      God is witness
      Give God your stress - it's too much for you to deal with
      🙏☮️✝️☯️
      Good luck 🤞

    • @michelleheald9108
      @michelleheald9108 2 года назад

      Look you can do this, I promise. I know and have felt everything you are saying. My husband is the most evil human I’ve ever known. I could have never even thought of this type of cruelty because I had never heard of such cruelty until I experienced it. They do things that are so absurd that if we tell anyone about it people would think we were crazy. Once I figured that out I started gathering evidence that would prove I wasn’t the crazy one. I’m in the middle of fighting in divorce court right now. I found an attorney who was good but he became the best attorney ever once he figured out that what I was saying was true and that I wasn’t crazy and just exaggerating things that happened. He is now wanting to beat this man as much if not more than I am. This has been 20 years for me. You would think after being with someone 20 years that they would feel just a little bit for you but you’re right. They could careless if we are homeless, hungry, sick or whatever. They just don’t give a damn because it isn’t them. I’ve said my husband is about to feel the pain he has caused me and I don’t know that he will ever recover from it. The sad part is that it hurts me to cause anyone pain. I can’t stand the thought of hurting or embarrassing anyone, regardless of the reason. Being that type of person is probably what got me messed up with this evil monster. I just have to keep telling myself I have to take care of me and that this is not my fault. It did t have to end up this way but he chose this route. Now you can do this. Emotional abuse is not for a civil court at least I don’t think it is, not in a divorce. Get your evidence, record her, use text messages, do whatever you have to but right like your life depended on it. A strategy will come to you if you think hard enough. Don’t give up please. We need to put them all in their place.

    • @julietcrowson3503
      @julietcrowson3503 2 года назад

      @@michelleheald9108 it won't hurt him as narcs don't feel much

    • @michelleheald9108
      @michelleheald9108 2 года назад +2

      @@julietcrowson3503 there is always something that will bring the narc to their knees. Regardless of how cold hearted they are they still have some human in them. Not very much will even make them think twice about anything done to them or against them. However, there is always something that will crush them. If you ever figure it out it can be very helpful.

  • @2robsure
    @2robsure 2 года назад

    Slay and Achieve

  • @66el
    @66el 2 года назад

    Slay! Slay! Slay!

  • @Barneyjo
    @Barneyjo 2 года назад

    They are so afraid of getting something taken from them even something they don’t even care about.

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  2 года назад

      They're most scared of losing their narcissistic supply.

  • @pjean2791
    @pjean2791 2 года назад

    SLAY❤

  • @luannteeter3288
    @luannteeter3288 Год назад

    Slay

  • @retrobarbie9028
    @retrobarbie9028 2 года назад

    This video comes at the perfect time. I am preparing to divorce my narc beast. He insists that he wants this divorce to be amicable. I don't believe him at all. His flying monkeys are in full force.

  • @virginiahart4480
    @virginiahart4480 2 года назад

    Slay!

  • @hawaiigirl8089
    @hawaiigirl8089 2 года назад +1

    After 3.5 years my Judge (Frank Birchak) LEFT HURRAY. My former judge

  • @johnmoirano5221
    @johnmoirano5221 2 года назад +1

    I would be happy to get to court it would mean its not my imagination I really have been ripped off manipulated cheated smeared and left to die I was railroaded in court before I'm sure it will happen again nice guys finish last and are trampled on

  • @cassandralyons9033
    @cassandralyons9033 2 года назад

    Also trying to turn people against me. But fortunately people know me and him too well. And his bullsh!t is not very d3tail3d, so of people are wise enough to ask questions, he can try to gaslight more, but then it is obvious that whatever lies he's telling are not within my character. All the while I have to live with him in the same house and pretend to be ok so there's no anger or manipulation or abuse.

  • @kenschwinghammer4480
    @kenschwinghammer4480 2 года назад

    Slaw

  • @Druceedoll
    @Druceedoll 10 месяцев назад

    slay😘

  • @realdealprimer
    @realdealprimer 2 года назад

    Slay

  • @lesterstone8595
    @lesterstone8595 2 года назад

    ✂👏Are you going to comment on the Johnny Depp v. Amber Hurd court battle? I smell narcissism. ✂👏 An enquiring paralegal wants to know. ⚖

  • @aliceroberts1980
    @aliceroberts1980 2 года назад

    That’s right their trying to control you my N husband said he would go and find a lawyer for us and we can get divorced I’m like no that’s not how it works I can find my own lawyer thank you very much he so stupid my mother was Divorced twice so I know bit more about it and he does. But he thought like I needed his permission to get divorced . slay slay slay. !!!

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    @koop1741 2 года назад

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    @josephsnisky1851 2 года назад

    Agarn

  • @wadelinn3059
    @wadelinn3059 2 года назад +1

    Hi. Hunny bunny. I. Really really. Love you. Ok. 🌹💋😘💖💓❤️

  • @sherrydickie8459
    @sherrydickie8459 2 года назад

    SLAY!

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    @jacyssa 2 года назад

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    @lorin9649 2 года назад

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    @janekunzie-brunner611 2 года назад +1

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    @shirleygrobe7824 2 года назад

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    @patriciatillman7698 2 года назад

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    @dassdafsda 2 года назад

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    @dameech6697 2 года назад

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    @danbride9407 2 года назад

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    @n.k8841 2 года назад

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    @arnoldvarga6765 2 года назад +1

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    @deshondalewis7763 2 года назад

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    @mook3242 2 года назад

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    @edenh3188 2 года назад

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    @tinai2744 2 года назад

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    @leannklinger4493 2 года назад

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