Hiya John, great video. My husband and I were planning on travelling when we retired, even moving to the UK as he has family there, but then at the age of 44, I had my first heart attack, this was in 2011 and since have had two more. A few years later my husband had a motorcycle accident, lost his job, had to retire 8 years earlier than expected. In my opinion if you get an opportunity to do something, do it, don't put it off as you never know what can happen. Your life can change in an instant. Whatever you decide, I am sure it will be the right decision as you've thought it through. Take care.
I used to watch the news constantly and buy three newspapers a day. It gradually appeared to me that i was being told what to think, if that makes sense. I rarely watch mainstream news or buy newspapers anymore. Havent for years. I do my own research plus rely on my own common sense now. I totally agree with you about the division thing. Its so depressing isnt it? If i could afford it i would live in another country although i am a proud english/british woman. I love your posts they are so down to earth and refreshing. I wish you and your wife well whatever you decide. Bless you both 🙏
I've found your videos so refreshing. I've had similar experiences to you over the past 4 years or so. I had a breakdown during COVID due to work stresses, similar heart issues, lack of sleep and then a prolonged period of depression. The problems in this country are clear for all to see. My biggest frustration is that nobody seems willing to talk openly about the problems and as you say, everything is so divisive. My situation is complicated as I have children and elderly relatives. If I could, I would be looking to leave the UK.
Hey Matthew - thank you for the message, taking the time to listen and I’m really glad the content is refreshing. Sorry to hear about your issues and I hope that you find some recovery and managing the stress
I'm 51, earn a great wage in a global company, have zero stress, lovely family and friends, have a grandson now. I'm single and have a nice home. But for many reasons, I'm not happy living in England at all. If I could leave with my family in tow, I would. I desperately want this country that I once loved to change for the better. I can't see that happening without major action from the majority of the good and decent people of Britain. We need to take our country back from all those who would use and abuse us forever.
I plan on retiring to your home nation John. As an Englishman (but class myself as British) Scotland is where I feel "at home". I can't put my finger on why, but it is. I don't mean Glasgow or Edinburgh, I mean where you open your curtains, and you see a loch, or the Mountains, or absolutely nothing man made for as far as the eye can see. There is something raw, and spiritual. I hope you find your place and that it's achievable as well. Life is short. I'm a similar age and time seems to be speeding up. Slàinte Mhath
Good on you, it’s a great place to retire - I do love the countryside and the greenery of Scotland…. But I also need some sun lol - all these years in England and the better weather have spoiled me lol
Life in the U.K. is very tough now compared to the past but I’ve spoken to many Europeans and Germany France Italy Spain are all in similar positions. I was always told “don’t rely on other people for your own happiness. Make yourself happy”. Only you know what that means to you and how you can achieve it. Good luck whatever you decide to do.
John we took a year out at 52 and 54 me being older. We have never been back to work. We travelled Europe in a van then lived in Spain for a year. That was 9 years ago. We came back 5 years ago as I missed the children. Don't get rid of your house, rent it out. I agree with everything you say but what I'll say is the grass isn't always greener. I would say go for it John, perfect time. I think the western world is on a decline.
Thanks for the message and you’re right, the grass won’t be greener but I’d like the life experience from it before we are too old. Thank you for sharing and watching - regards John
Great idea in principle, but with the Labour Government changing the rules on renting, it will make it increasingly difficult renting out your property. The removal of section 21 evictions and the tenant rights they have implemented could me you will lose your house at well under market value if the tenants decide they want to buy you out. 😬😳
Go for it John! We’ve got 4 kids under 16 and we’re planning on buggering off too. The UK’s not necessarily finished, but we’re going through a really miserable slog just now (depending which side of the fence you’re on). Looking forward to seeing how things turn out for you bud 🙂
Another honest heartfelt video. I enjoy watching them. I know it must feel scary. Your wife might feel it even more. But going back to where you were has an ending that you can probably see. You connect. You can build this channel up but even that will have a chain tied to you. The algorithm wants more videos. Does Scotland have a program where you can buy a house that has been abandoned and they will pay you to inhabit and fix it up? Not saying you would want to do that but it might be possible to have a home that you record the improvements to and have a channel that supports you. Whatever you do, you will have people wanting to keep up. The very best John.
It's very difficult to make that sort of decision. But if you want to travel and go see what it's like in other countries, now might be the ideal time. Personally, I've never wanted to go aboard. Now, at 71, I'd miss my children and grandchildren too much. Thank you for your 'chats', I enjoy them immensely xx
I’ve been in your boat, worked to the near death in London for 20 years In sales, got to 40 and randomly moved to South Devon with mrs and kids, just quit everything, stayed in a hotel until we found a place, I now work part time for myself at home sat in my pants and go to the beach or nature walks whenever I like and it’s beautiful In the summer you should try it, as for Europe… it’s not too great either as you would find out….take a chance move to the south west first😊
After living in the UK for 3 years up until 2007, I decided to go to South Korea to teach English for a year or two for the adventure and to experience a whole new culture. I'm still here 18 years later. The quality of life is good here - zero crime, excellent health care and public transportation, low taxes (3.3%) and relatively low cost of living. However, these past few years I've been thinking about moving back to the UK as an option. I'm 51 from Ireland. I'm curious as to where you would consider moving to? Really enjoy your videos by the way, John.
Great channel. Thoughts that spring to mind (not necessarily in order); the issue of Western governments’ debt/risk of bankruptcy as well as societal wealth inequality for individuals plus the politics of division etc. is really well explained on Gary Stevenson’s RUclips Channel “Gary’s economics”. In other words, the decline you note isn’t restricted to the UK. Also, with the skill of selling, how do you feel about creating some kind of information product, service or paid community (so you don’t have to rely on the pretty measly YT Ad revenue)? If you’ve solved some problem it means your skills and knowledge can be valuable to other people. Genuinely helping people with something you believe in makes selling that feel meaningful and could open up the “digital nomad” opportunities for you to thrive outside a western country and with potentially much lower outgoings. If you can ethically sell, there’s a good chance you’ll never go short - especially if you step outside the conventional company/career structure with a personal brand. It should also help you avoid building an audience of customers that you dislike - increasing the chances of feeling fulfilled through a life with meaning.
I wish you good luck and I hope you'll find your path 🙏. I travelled a lot, but never had the courage to do more. I live here in Germany and it also changed a lot in the past 5 to 10 years. It's not what it used to be. Thank you for sharing your thoughts 👍
Which part of Germany are you in ? I was working in Munich over the last years and really enjoyed it - but it also felt like an outlier vs other parts of Germany. Thanks for watching and messaging
@JohnTalksUK Munich is a nice place 😊. There are some nice places here. I love the UK, been there many times. Enjoyed Scotland twice, beautiful. I live and work in Frankfurt.
Hi John, recent subscriber and really like these discussions and for someone that's just started out on RUclips your videos do have a very good polish on them already. With the question about is the UK finished we believe it's going that way and not far from it. Where we live its a small village with a small town not too far away, built for miners and it was a great area to live but not so much now, crime is through the roof, 3-4 cars stolen each night, kids being stabbed, beaten badly with hammers etc. We are looking at moving either up north or even looking at moving to a nordic country.
Hi again John. What a can of worms it all is. I'm English, living in Australia. I could say we saw the writing on the wall when my husband our son and I left the UK in 1983, but that would be a lie. I did not think it would be forever and I had hopes that the wider family would join us once they heard what a great place this is, but sadly they did not. Like you. there reached a no return point. We now have two sons and even though I missed my sisters and brothers and mum and dad so much there just was never the right time to return to UK. I'm lucky to have visited regularly. I hear what you are saying about the divide between friends and family and that it is wise to keep your politics to yourself if you value a friendship or family member. A ridiculous circumstance, since we should be able to talk like adults about the things that are important to us. I'm not saying Australia is any better than the UK these days, I haven't been back home since 2018 when my darling dad passed away. House prices are through the roof here, as they are everywhere. My husband and I had a few stints working overseas, it was all an adventure, we do love living in Australia, but the pull of family is strong. If I was in my 40's I would treat it as an adventure perhaps try somewhere that you can boost your savings (that's what we did). You are young, no point being unhappy where you are every day. I wish you well. BTW, I am still proud to be British/English.
Go for it, otherwise you will always wonder what if. I enjoy how you articulate your thoughts. Makes interesting listening. Life really is too short. Don't replicate your fathers life of sitting in a cold house wondering if you should put the heating on. My father did he same, when he really didn't need to. Your perseption of life can trap you. Go explore 🌍
Dear John, i find in your videos and yourself a warm place. pride in my nationality? even speaking as a yorkshireman living in kent, no. i tend to take bill hicks's take on where you are born and from is luck, so why be proud of it? i have pride in being part of a world, I find nationalism increasingly sad. a way of creating division. i lost my dad, I lost a long term girlfriend (but long since split up with) through suicide, I lost a very good friend from cancer, I lost my mum. i gave up work and cared for my mum towards her end. supported by wife. My wife lost her job through redundancy when covid started which eventually meant we had to move out of London and, like many, ended up on the kent coast. sure we are lost and our lives have changed beyond recognition BUT, BUT, there is always a light however dim. the real political issue is that international companies have raped our cities, our countries and put nothing back. Our towns are decimated because everyone shops online to save a few quid, pays these multinational companies who dodge tax. Governments don't run the world these companies do and take a look who was behind trump at his inauguration and you might start to see some truth. in short, we are fucked. to be replaced by robots or perhaps worse still become robots. and yet and yet. the human race is capable of great, breathtaking beauty and as long as I see it I will continue to believe in the good. John, you are good. follow your dreams young man. the real trouble I've found, is just knowing what my dreams really are. my life changed when I lost my dad and I knew it would never be the same again and it isn't but I still search for the light. and it is there. love to you and yours.
Hello John, You have really kicked the hornets nest with this subject! 😂 I know so many disgruntled people who think that the uk is going down hill at break neck speed, even my niece moved to Portugal 2 years ago and she has never looked back since. I was born and raised in Essex, and always thought that i would be fertilizer for the daisies here, but even i have been seduced into the thought of moving this year. As regards to the 2 main political parties, I heard a comment from another RUclipsr that made me laugh He quoted "politicians are two cheeks of the same arse!" I think I agree with that sentiment to a tee 😂 Whatever decision you make in regards to moving back to Scotland, do it while you are still young and can enjoy your life. All the best to you and Yvonne Take care john 👍
Hey Christine - yes I knew this would be a tough topic that’s had a lot of coverage online in recent weeks. We all seem worn down by how the country feels and what we are all seeing with our eyes daily, yet with no end in sight. For me personally - it’s a perfect storm of grief, work and health also feeding into a need for change. As someone else said in a comment “the grass is greener” - but I’m open to the experience whatever that may be Thanks as always for watching - regards John
@JohnTalksUK Thank you for the reply John, I'm sorry I forgot to send my condolences on the passing of your dad, I lost my dad 44 years ago when I was 14, age doesn't make any difference to the grief you feel losing a man you looked up to and hope to make them proud of your achievements, which I'm sure your dad was (and mine too) Take care John
I agree with you on everything you have said. I am beginning to despise my city and this country - crime rates, filth, our taxes being spent on ridiculous things, too many things being brought in without our consultation - it goes on. I'm like you - I wonder WHERE ON EARTH DOES ALL THE MONEY GO??? Road Tax, car tax - roads are crumbling. Poll Tax - cities are neglected and services poor, Income Tax - well......... The news is very depressing and to be honest, I think we are drip fed all this negativity, for what reason I do not know! I often dream of moving away but my husband won't entertain the idea, he says where would you go that's any better. And like me, you're an over-thinker! I think it's right that you're considering things and I hope you are able to do whatever you want.
I've done quite well professionally since lockdown but despite earning more than I ever have, I feel like my lifestyle hasn't improved at all. Since this won't be "the norm" forever, I've lost a lot of hope for the future ... I should have thrived, but I've simply survived (some have not and are currently drowning and being told it's their fault for not working hard enough). There's something very wrong with the country, its spending and its priorities. I don't mind paying tax, but I do mind paying tax when it goes into someone elses pockets instead of what it's supposed to be spent on. Do what is good for you and your wife is my advice, noone else will look out for your wellbeing - certainly not the UK government.
So John, I have no comments about life in the UK just now. I left twelve years ago and can only get second hand news. What I can say is when I moved to America to work and live, my plan was to not stay here but to experience something different. This was driven by my role being made redundant in the UK, so that is similar to where you are now. My move to America was made easy by having a job with an American Company as they sponsored my move. They did not pay for it however. Any relocation is expensive, especially one over seas. However once I started to work in America I saw the huge change in the amount of taxation I paid. It was not long before I decided I rather liked that change and decided I would get my Green Card. Work Visas, Citizenships are all hard to obtain, however they can be vital at changing your situation. I can honestly say that other than the fact I am a very long way from all my family and friends in the UK, I do not miss living there and I am never homesick. Sometimes that distance is very hard though, especially when someone is sick. Covid was odd for me as I started to work from home nearly 24 years ago. At the start working from home meant getting on an airplane very regularly and meeting people, so I never felt isolated. However during Covid and after that work travel changed. So I built little routines to help my home working routine. They helped and I started to enjoy that. One last comment about moving overseas, I had worked for an American Company for 12 years and I had visited 16 US States before I moved to America. I felt I knew what living there would be like, however I was completely wrong, everything felt different, why, well just because it is. I am more than happy to set up a video call with you to talk about this if you feel it would help?
Wow, John where do I start 😅 I commented on your friendship video btw. Firstly, u should invest in a flask style cup to take on your walks 😁 When I read the title of the video I was intrigued as I did think you would talk about politics and immigration etc, which you partly did. I'm turning 40 this year, an ex soldier from north east England. Have worked off Aberdeen the last 10 years in oil & gas industry. We chose not to have children, as we found life was hard enough for us when we were younger and we didn't want the stress, we live comfortably now but still have to be sensible with purchases, I honestly do not know how my friends and neighbours and most of society live from a average salary, I honestly believe most people's quality of living is poorer now than it ever has been. Regarding going back home in Scotland, Scotland has beautiful areas like other parts of the UK but I've seen the other side to it too, I'm often surprised what I see driving through Dundee especially. John, you've had a health scare, and quite a bit going on this last year with your dad and your job. If you can take some time out John I don't think you'll regret it mate, and you have hit youtube running, take it from me who has a channel of about 3 years and you have more than 10 x the subscribers, because your good at it and people can relate. Regarding the current state the *UK* is in as a whole is sad, like you seeing my tax on my wage slip knowing it's housing migrants in nice hotels, whilst homeless veterans are on the street really hits it home for me. I used to vote Tory but I now see Tory and Labour the same, I am a reform member now, they're not perfect but they speak more sense than anyone else. Keep up the good work John.
Interesting chat John. We are now retired so our chances of relocating are complicated by children and grandchildren here. However we do sometimes play the 'if not here then where?' game and everywhere seems to have the same problems as we are experiencing. I think the world is at an infection point and society globally is in transtion to a different path. As the chinese saying goes, 'may you live in interesting times' , and thats not a blessing! I think back to our ancestors who went through invasions, plague and civil war and wonder if they too found it hard to see a way through. I love this country and the bones of my forebears make up this soil so l won't be forced to leave by petty politicians and forgettable commentators. I shall be staying put and just saying no to those who try to crush us. Good luck with whatever you choose and l shall watch with interest.
Im a Brit who's lived in the US for 24 years so im just an observer of whats going on there. You can see for yourself whats going on here..... 😉 The pandemic changed so much around the world.
It really did change so much - not just the lockdowns and the impact but the aftermath is so concerning to me. Let’s see what happens in the year and where we end up - thanks for watching
@JohnTalksUK I'm with you, I struggle with over processing what's going on in the world, and I'm not someone who does well keeping quiet about injustices' I see. It's scary times. Loving your content.
It's difficult or perhaps foolhardy to discern a way forward when there are so many options. That's what I have learnt over the past 40 years or so. The world is on the cusp of major change. New technology and processes are going to impact on many professions and what looks like a safe bet as a career option might not be. But you do have some skills that many do not, and ones that will always be in demand. You clearly communicate very well, which would indicate you also listen well. You have a high level of emotional intelligence - and some hard life lessons that have made you appreciate vulnerability, fear and gratitude. My counsel to you is to consolidate and deal with urgent issues in the short term, to prepare for something bigger in the medium to long term. So get well. feel well, and know that your health is sorted. Consider 3 to 6 month temporary work placements here or internationally - dealing with specific sales and marketing challenges, perhaps consider training or team development. Then wait for an opportunity to present itself, and then go for it, knowing you are well, solvent and focussed.
Wholeheartedly agree. The UK is an absolute 💩🕳️ Is it too far gone? Goodness only knows. My wife and I very nearly left and went to Canada a decade or so ago now. We were 1 point off the required number for visas etc. The only thing we didn’t have was a GCSE in French. That would’ve been the difference. My wife currently works over in Dubai. She loves it over there & I enjoy the frequent visits. I did briefly get a job over there, but resigned after two months, so I am now back in the UK. Another place where a lot of Brits are now retiring to is Thailand. You get a lot more bang for your buck there and you could probably retire there now with your redundancy and the capital out of your house. (assuming you own it?) Plus, you seem a pretty resourceful guy, I’m sure you could find work over there too if you wished! I too am sick of the UK. The politicians are corrupt, the Police are ineffective at best. The Judiciary, Crown Prosecution Service, the Probation Service and the Prison Service are not fit for purpose. The influx of illegal migrants is turning the UK into a very dangerous place. I think my destiny may be out of the UK too! 🤔
What's the worse that could happen if you both took a leap of faith and had an adventure?..Even just for a while. The UK is still going to be here if you decide to come back😊 Life is way too short for regrets and what ifs.
My middle son was in sales like yourself and had done quite well..but he was scunnered with the routine. Sold his flat and went to Asia and travelled for a while. Has now been living in Thailand for 4yrs. He's now running his own business with his wife and absolutely loves his life. I haven't seen him in 3yrs..but we fly out in 3 weeks to meet my first grandchild😊
The cost of living crisis is everywhere. The housing prices here in Australia are ridiculous and my kids are looking at perhaps never getting the chance to own their own home. Great place for a holiday though. And if you like speaking your mind, Australia's a good place to be. We'll tell you what we think, straight up. I really enjoy your videos. Always interesting.
I kind of think our intense work lives have destroyed our sense of community no matter which country you are in and that is a major contributor to the kind of division and extreme points of view. I have a neighbour who has an extreme position that I disagree with but I recognise she is a good person we just disagree on some things, so I work hard at keeping conversation and connection happening, always finding middle ground. Since redundancy, I have made it a point to try and connect as much as possible in the local neighbourhood. The one good thing about the pandemic was that we did all connect a bit better just in our local street, which was a positive. I just don't get why we have become so intolerant of different points of view, why we can't work together to build better and caring communities. It's like everyone thinks they are the only ones with the right idea and no one else has anything to contribute, my way or the highway and when everyone is like that we are just in perpetual conflict and everything comes back to self-interest. I don't mind when I see my tax spent on universal health care and education but when I see taxes spent subsidising big business especially when that business has a negative impact on community or the planet that really does piss me off (sorry). Love the videos.
Would you regret if you did nothing, eg don't really try something new? If yes, and you have the opportunity then try. Life is short, don't live with regrets if you have a choice. Good luck!
Probably the best country to move to is China. Which seems like a wild suggestion and in some ways it is. But China is safe and the quality of life is good. On the other hand, the language barrier and finding employment are obviously major hurdles. Maybe visit on the short visit visa waiver system? Maybe explore a few videos about China on YT?
I think you should both go for it. You have nothing to lose and life's too short. You don't want to look back on this point in thirty years and think, if only we had taken our chances. The UK is now congested. Lack of decent jobs, decent housing, medical care and high taxes. Here in Lincoln they get road tax, the roads are potholed. They get council tax yet turn the street lighting off at 11pm. You pay taxes through your wages yet the NHS gets worse each year and schools and hospital wards are overflowing. The country is broken beyond repair in my opinion. I'd go for it.
Mate, Aussie here. Are you a Christian? Do you have a relationship with Christ Jesus and God, because in this situation I would shut myself in and do some prayer. Our heavenly father is ALWAYS looking to help us but we never ask for his help or will in these situations. Thanks again, and the situation is pretty messed up here aswell, but again if you have a relationship with God he’ll look after you wherever you may be.
I cannot carry on with this life.. work work work and pay pay pay. My rent is 50% of my salary. I eat crap and cheap food. I have no holidays. I studied and work hard. I don't think I deserve this. I am considering moving to malaysia or indonesia. There are jobs for Brits there and life is not expensive. Weather is amazing.
Hiya John, great video. My husband and I were planning on travelling when we retired, even moving to the UK as he has family there, but then at the age of 44, I had my first heart attack, this was in 2011 and since have had two more. A few years later my husband had a motorcycle accident, lost his job, had to retire 8 years earlier than expected. In my opinion if you get an opportunity to do something, do it, don't put it off as you never know what can happen. Your life can change in an instant. Whatever you decide, I am sure it will be the right decision as you've thought it through. Take care.
I used to watch the news constantly and buy three newspapers a day. It gradually appeared to me that i was being told what to think, if that makes sense. I rarely watch mainstream news or buy newspapers anymore. Havent for years. I do my own research plus rely on my own common sense now. I totally agree with you about the division thing. Its so depressing isnt it? If i could afford it i would live in another country although i am a proud english/british woman.
I love your posts they are so down to earth and refreshing. I wish you and your wife well whatever you decide.
Bless you both 🙏
Thanks Karen - I’m the same - stopped with the mainstream years ago, just lost faith on the narrative that was being dictated to me.
I agree Karen, I tend to watch youtube for news now staying away from the MSM.
I've found your videos so refreshing. I've had similar experiences to you over the past 4 years or so. I had a breakdown during COVID due to work stresses, similar heart issues, lack of sleep and then a prolonged period of depression. The problems in this country are clear for all to see. My biggest frustration is that nobody seems willing to talk openly about the problems and as you say, everything is so divisive. My situation is complicated as I have children and elderly relatives. If I could, I would be looking to leave the UK.
Hey Matthew - thank you for the message, taking the time to listen and I’m really glad the content is refreshing.
Sorry to hear about your issues and I hope that you find some recovery and managing the stress
I'm 51, earn a great wage in a global company, have zero stress, lovely family and friends, have a grandson now. I'm single and have a nice home. But for many reasons, I'm not happy living in England at all. If I could leave with my family in tow, I would. I desperately want this country that I once loved to change for the better. I can't see that happening without major action from the majority of the good and decent people of Britain. We need to take our country back from all those who would use and abuse us forever.
I plan on retiring to your home nation John. As an Englishman (but class myself as British) Scotland is where I feel "at home". I can't put my finger on why, but it is. I don't mean Glasgow or Edinburgh, I mean where you open your curtains, and you see a loch, or the Mountains, or absolutely nothing man made for as far as the eye can see. There is something raw, and spiritual.
I hope you find your place and that it's achievable as well. Life is short. I'm a similar age and time seems to be speeding up. Slàinte Mhath
Good on you, it’s a great place to retire - I do love the countryside and the greenery of Scotland…. But I also need some sun lol - all these years in England and the better weather have spoiled me lol
Life in the U.K. is very tough now compared to the past but I’ve spoken to many Europeans and Germany France Italy Spain are all in similar positions. I was always told “don’t rely on other people for your own happiness. Make yourself happy”. Only you know what that means to you and how you can achieve it. Good luck whatever you decide to do.
John we took a year out at 52 and 54 me being older. We have never been back to work. We travelled Europe in a van then lived in Spain for a year. That was 9 years ago. We came back 5 years ago as I missed the children. Don't get rid of your house, rent it out. I agree with everything you say but what I'll say is the grass isn't always greener. I would say go for it John, perfect time. I think the western world is on a decline.
Thanks for the message and you’re right, the grass won’t be greener but I’d like the life experience from it before we are too old. Thank you for sharing and watching - regards John
Great idea in principle, but with the Labour Government changing the rules on renting, it will make it increasingly difficult renting out your property. The removal of section 21 evictions and the tenant rights they have implemented could me you will lose your house at well under market value if the tenants decide they want to buy you out. 😬😳
Go for it John! We’ve got 4 kids under 16 and we’re planning on buggering off too. The UK’s not necessarily finished, but we’re going through a really miserable slog just now (depending which side of the fence you’re on). Looking forward to seeing how things turn out for you bud 🙂
Another honest heartfelt video. I enjoy watching them. I know it must feel scary. Your wife might feel it even more. But going back to where you were has an ending that you can probably see. You connect. You can build this channel up but even that will have a chain tied to you. The algorithm wants more videos. Does Scotland have a program where you can buy a house that has been abandoned and they will pay you to inhabit and fix it up? Not saying you would want to do that but it might be possible to have a home that you record the improvements to and have a channel that supports you. Whatever you do, you will have people wanting to keep up. The very best John.
It's very difficult to make that sort of decision. But if you want to travel and go see what it's like in other countries, now might be the ideal time. Personally, I've never wanted to go aboard. Now, at 71, I'd miss my children and grandchildren too much. Thank you for your 'chats', I enjoy them immensely xx
I’ve been in your boat, worked to the near death in London for 20 years In sales, got to 40 and randomly moved to South Devon with mrs and kids, just quit everything, stayed in a hotel until we found a place, I now work part time for myself at home sat in my pants and go to the beach or nature walks whenever I like and it’s beautiful In the summer you should try it, as for Europe… it’s not too great either as you would find out….take a chance move to the south west first😊
After living in the UK for 3 years up until 2007, I decided to go to South Korea to teach English for a year or two for the adventure and to experience a whole new culture. I'm still here 18 years later. The quality of life is good here - zero crime, excellent health care and public transportation, low taxes (3.3%) and relatively low cost of living. However, these past few years I've been thinking about moving back to the UK as an option. I'm 51 from Ireland. I'm curious as to where you would consider moving to? Really enjoy your videos by the way, John.
Great channel. Thoughts that spring to mind (not necessarily in order); the issue of Western governments’ debt/risk of bankruptcy as well as societal wealth inequality for individuals plus the politics of division etc. is really well explained on Gary Stevenson’s RUclips Channel “Gary’s economics”. In other words, the decline you note isn’t restricted to the UK. Also, with the skill of selling, how do you feel about creating some kind of information product, service or paid community (so you don’t have to rely on the pretty measly YT Ad revenue)? If you’ve solved some problem it means your skills and knowledge can be valuable to other people. Genuinely helping people with something you believe in makes selling that feel meaningful and could open up the “digital nomad” opportunities for you to thrive outside a western country and with potentially much lower outgoings. If you can ethically sell, there’s a good chance you’ll never go short - especially if you step outside the conventional company/career structure with a personal brand. It should also help you avoid building an audience of customers that you dislike - increasing the chances of feeling fulfilled through a life with meaning.
I wish you good luck and I hope you'll find your path 🙏. I travelled a lot, but never had the courage to do more. I live here in Germany and it also changed a lot in the past 5 to 10 years. It's not what it used to be. Thank you for sharing your thoughts 👍
Which part of Germany are you in ? I was working in Munich over the last years and really enjoyed it - but it also felt like an outlier vs other parts of Germany.
Thanks for watching and messaging
@JohnTalksUK Munich is a nice place 😊. There are some nice places here. I love the UK, been there many times. Enjoyed Scotland twice, beautiful. I live and work in Frankfurt.
Again keep it coming pal, very interesting indeed 👍
Thanks Lewis - appreciate the message
Hi John, recent subscriber and really like these discussions and for someone that's just started out on RUclips your videos do have a very good polish on them already. With the question about is the UK finished we believe it's going that way and not far from it. Where we live its a small village with a small town not too far away, built for miners and it was a great area to live but not so much now, crime is through the roof, 3-4 cars stolen each night, kids being stabbed, beaten badly with hammers etc. We are looking at moving either up north or even looking at moving to a nordic country.
Hi again John. What a can of worms it all is. I'm English, living in Australia. I could say we saw the writing on the wall when my husband our son and I left the UK in 1983, but that would be a lie. I did not think it would be forever and I had hopes that the wider family would join us once they heard what a great place this is, but sadly they did not. Like you. there reached a no return point. We now have two sons and even though I missed my sisters and brothers and mum and dad so much there just was never the right time to return to UK. I'm lucky to have visited regularly. I hear what you are saying about the divide between friends and family and that it is wise to keep your politics to yourself if you value a friendship or family member. A ridiculous circumstance, since we should be able to talk like adults about the things that are important to us. I'm not saying Australia is any better than the UK these days, I haven't been back home since 2018 when my darling dad passed away. House prices are through the roof here, as they are everywhere. My husband and I had a few stints working overseas, it was all an adventure, we do love living in Australia, but the pull of family is strong. If I was in my 40's I would treat it as an adventure perhaps try somewhere that you can boost your savings (that's what we did). You are young, no point being unhappy where you are every day. I wish you well. BTW, I am still proud to be British/English.
Unfortunately the inflation problem isn’t exclusive to the UK. The grass isn’t always greener, but I’d say move abroad. It’s a great experience
Go for it, otherwise you will always wonder what if. I enjoy how you articulate your thoughts. Makes interesting listening. Life really is too short. Don't replicate your fathers life of sitting in a cold house wondering if you should put the heating on. My father did he same, when he really didn't need to. Your perseption of life can trap you. Go explore 🌍
I appreciate that!
Dear John,
i find in your videos and yourself a warm place.
pride in my nationality? even speaking as a yorkshireman living in kent, no. i tend to take bill hicks's take on where you are born and from is luck, so why be proud of it? i have pride in being part of a world, I find nationalism increasingly sad. a way of creating division.
i lost my dad, I lost a long term girlfriend (but long since split up with) through suicide, I lost a very good friend from cancer, I lost my mum. i gave up work and cared for my mum towards her end. supported by wife. My wife lost her job through redundancy when covid started which eventually meant we had to move out of London and, like many, ended up on the kent coast.
sure we are lost and our lives have changed beyond recognition BUT, BUT, there is always a light however dim.
the real political issue is that international companies have raped our cities, our countries and put nothing back. Our towns are decimated because everyone shops online to save a few quid, pays these multinational companies who dodge tax. Governments don't run the world these companies do and take a look who was behind trump at his inauguration and you might start to see some truth. in short, we are fucked. to be replaced by robots or perhaps worse still become robots. and yet and yet. the human race is capable of great, breathtaking beauty and as long as I see it I will continue to believe in the good. John, you are good.
follow your dreams young man. the real trouble I've found, is just knowing what my dreams really are. my life changed when I lost my dad and I knew it would never be the same again and it isn't but I still search for the light. and it is there.
love to you and yours.
Hello John,
You have really kicked the hornets nest with this subject! 😂
I know so many disgruntled people who think that the uk is going down hill at break neck speed, even my niece moved to Portugal 2 years ago and she has never looked back since.
I was born and raised in Essex, and always thought that i would be fertilizer for the daisies here, but even i have been seduced into the thought of moving this year.
As regards to the 2 main political parties, I heard a comment from another RUclipsr that made me laugh
He quoted "politicians are two cheeks of the same arse!"
I think I agree with that sentiment to a tee 😂
Whatever decision you make in regards to moving back to Scotland, do it while you are still young and can enjoy your life. All the best to you and Yvonne
Take care john 👍
Hey Christine - yes I knew this would be a tough topic that’s had a lot of coverage online in recent weeks. We all seem worn down by how the country feels and what we are all seeing with our eyes daily, yet with no end in sight.
For me personally - it’s a perfect storm of grief, work and health also feeding into a need for change. As someone else said in a comment “the grass is greener” - but I’m open to the experience whatever that may be
Thanks as always for watching - regards
John
@JohnTalksUK
Thank you for the reply John, I'm sorry I forgot to send my condolences on the passing of your dad, I lost my dad 44 years ago when I was 14, age doesn't make any difference to the grief you feel losing a man you looked up to and hope to make them proud of your achievements, which I'm sure your dad was (and mine too)
Take care John
I agree with you on everything you have said. I am beginning to despise my city and this country - crime rates, filth, our taxes being spent on ridiculous things, too many things being brought in without our consultation - it goes on. I'm like you - I wonder WHERE ON EARTH DOES ALL THE MONEY GO??? Road Tax, car tax - roads are crumbling. Poll Tax - cities are neglected and services poor, Income Tax - well......... The news is very depressing and to be honest, I think we are drip fed all this negativity, for what reason I do not know! I often dream of moving away but my husband won't entertain the idea, he says where would you go that's any better. And like me, you're an over-thinker! I think it's right that you're considering things and I hope you are able to do whatever you want.
I've done quite well professionally since lockdown but despite earning more than I ever have, I feel like my lifestyle hasn't improved at all. Since this won't be "the norm" forever, I've lost a lot of hope for the future ... I should have thrived, but I've simply survived (some have not and are currently drowning and being told it's their fault for not working hard enough). There's something very wrong with the country, its spending and its priorities. I don't mind paying tax, but I do mind paying tax when it goes into someone elses pockets instead of what it's supposed to be spent on. Do what is good for you and your wife is my advice, noone else will look out for your wellbeing - certainly not the UK government.
So John, I have no comments about life in the UK just now. I left twelve years ago and can only get second hand news. What I can say is when I moved to America to work and live, my plan was to not stay here but to experience something different. This was driven by my role being made redundant in the UK, so that is similar to where you are now. My move to America was made easy by having a job with an American Company as they sponsored my move. They did not pay for it however. Any relocation is expensive, especially one over seas.
However once I started to work in America I saw the huge change in the amount of taxation I paid. It was not long before I decided I rather liked that change and decided I would get my Green Card. Work Visas, Citizenships are all hard to obtain, however they can be vital at changing your situation. I can honestly say that other than the fact I am a very long way from all my family and friends in the UK, I do not miss living there and I am never homesick. Sometimes that distance is very hard though, especially when someone is sick.
Covid was odd for me as I started to work from home nearly 24 years ago. At the start working from home meant getting on an airplane very regularly and meeting people, so I never felt isolated. However during Covid and after that work travel changed. So I built little routines to help my home working routine. They helped and I started to enjoy that.
One last comment about moving overseas, I had worked for an American Company for 12 years and I had visited 16 US States before I moved to America. I felt I knew what living there would be like, however I was completely wrong, everything felt different, why, well just because it is.
I am more than happy to set up a video call with you to talk about this if you feel it would help?
Wow, John where do I start 😅
I commented on your friendship video btw.
Firstly, u should invest in a flask style cup to take on your walks 😁
When I read the title of the video I was intrigued as I did think you would talk about politics and immigration etc, which you partly did.
I'm turning 40 this year, an ex soldier from north east England. Have worked off Aberdeen the last 10 years in oil & gas industry.
We chose not to have children, as we found life was hard enough for us when we were younger and we didn't want the stress, we live comfortably now but still have to be sensible with purchases, I honestly do not know how my friends and neighbours and most of society live from a average salary, I honestly believe most people's quality of living is poorer now than it ever has been.
Regarding going back home in Scotland, Scotland has beautiful areas like other parts of the UK but I've seen the other side to it too, I'm often surprised what I see driving through Dundee especially.
John, you've had a health scare, and quite a bit going on this last year with your dad and your job. If you can take some time out John I don't think you'll regret it mate, and you have hit youtube running, take it from me who has a channel of about 3 years and you have more than 10 x the subscribers, because your good at it and people can relate.
Regarding the current state the *UK* is in as a whole is sad, like you seeing my tax on my wage slip knowing it's housing migrants in nice hotels, whilst homeless veterans are on the street really hits it home for me. I used to vote Tory but I now see Tory and Labour the same, I am a reform member now, they're not perfect but they speak more sense than anyone else.
Keep up the good work John.
Interesting chat John. We are now retired so our chances of relocating are complicated by children and grandchildren here. However we do sometimes play the 'if not here then where?' game and everywhere seems to have the same problems as we are experiencing. I think the world is at an infection point and society globally is in transtion to a different path. As the chinese saying goes, 'may you live in interesting times' , and thats not a blessing! I think back to our ancestors who went through invasions, plague and civil war and wonder if they too found it hard to see a way through. I love this country and the bones of my forebears make up this soil so l won't be forced to leave by petty politicians and forgettable commentators. I shall be staying put and just saying no to those who try to crush us.
Good luck with whatever you choose and l shall watch with interest.
Im a Brit who's lived in the US for 24 years so im just an observer of whats going on there. You can see for yourself whats going on here..... 😉
The pandemic changed so much around the world.
It really did change so much - not just the lockdowns and the impact but the aftermath is so concerning to me. Let’s see what happens in the year and where we end up - thanks for watching
@JohnTalksUK I'm with you, I struggle with over processing what's going on in the world, and I'm not someone who does well keeping quiet about injustices' I see.
It's scary times. Loving your content.
we are in the same boat mate
It's difficult or perhaps foolhardy to discern a way forward when there are so many options.
That's what I have learnt over the past 40 years or so.
The world is on the cusp of major change.
New technology and processes are going to impact on many professions and what looks like a safe bet as a career option might not be.
But you do have some skills that many do not, and ones that will always be in demand. You clearly communicate very well, which would indicate you also listen well. You have a high level of emotional intelligence - and some hard life lessons that have made you appreciate vulnerability, fear and gratitude.
My counsel to you is to consolidate and deal with urgent issues in the short term, to prepare for something bigger in the medium to long term. So get well. feel well, and know that your health is sorted. Consider 3 to 6 month temporary work placements here or internationally - dealing with specific sales and marketing challenges, perhaps consider training or team development.
Then wait for an opportunity to present itself, and then go for it, knowing you are well, solvent and focussed.
Solid advice - nothing will happen instantly - but we are working towards the goal and ready for anything that might pop up unplanned
Wholeheartedly agree. The UK is an absolute 💩🕳️ Is it too far gone? Goodness only knows. My wife and I very nearly left and went to Canada a decade or so ago now. We were 1 point off the required number for visas etc. The only thing we didn’t have was a GCSE in French. That would’ve been the difference. My wife currently works over in Dubai. She loves it over there & I enjoy the frequent visits. I did briefly get a job over there, but resigned after two months, so I am now back in the UK. Another place where a lot of Brits are now retiring to is Thailand. You get a lot more bang for your buck there and you could probably retire there now with your redundancy and the capital out of your house. (assuming you own it?) Plus, you seem a pretty resourceful guy, I’m sure you could find work over there too if you wished! I too am sick of the UK. The politicians are corrupt, the Police are ineffective at best. The Judiciary, Crown Prosecution Service, the Probation Service and the Prison Service are not fit for purpose. The influx of illegal migrants is turning the UK into a very dangerous place. I think my destiny may be out of the UK too! 🤔
What's the worse that could happen if you both took a leap of faith and had an adventure?..Even just for a while. The UK is still going to be here if you decide to come back😊 Life is way too short for regrets and what ifs.
Exactly - we can only come back to the U.K if it doesn’t work out… it feels like it’s worth the punt
My middle son was in sales like yourself and had done quite well..but he was scunnered with the routine. Sold his flat and went to Asia and travelled for a while. Has now been living in Thailand for 4yrs. He's now running his own business with his wife and absolutely loves his life. I haven't seen him in 3yrs..but we fly out in 3 weeks to meet my first grandchild😊
Follow your heart/gut , life's too short
Thank you
The cost of living crisis is everywhere. The housing prices here in Australia are ridiculous and my kids are looking at perhaps never getting the chance to own their own home. Great place for a holiday though. And if you like speaking your mind, Australia's a good place to be. We'll tell you what we think, straight up. I really enjoy your videos. Always interesting.
Thanks for the message
You might never get the opportunity again so i would say to definitely go and have an adventure.
I kind of think our intense work lives have destroyed our sense of community no matter which country you are in and that is a major contributor to the kind of division and extreme points of view. I have a neighbour who has an extreme position that I disagree with but I recognise she is a good person we just disagree on some things, so I work hard at keeping conversation and connection happening, always finding middle ground. Since redundancy, I have made it a point to try and connect as much as possible in the local neighbourhood. The one good thing about the pandemic was that we did all connect a bit better just in our local street, which was a positive. I just don't get why we have become so intolerant of different points of view, why we can't work together to build better and caring communities. It's like everyone thinks they are the only ones with the right idea and no one else has anything to contribute, my way or the highway and when everyone is like that we are just in perpetual conflict and everything comes back to self-interest. I don't mind when I see my tax spent on universal health care and education but when I see taxes spent subsidising big business especially when that business has a negative impact on community or the planet that really does piss me off (sorry).
Love the videos.
Hope you find some great opportunities.
Thanks Carl
Check out linked in jobs.
Would you regret if you did nothing, eg don't really try something new? If yes, and you have the opportunity then try. Life is short, don't live with regrets if you have a choice. Good luck!
Probably the best country to move to is China. Which seems like a wild suggestion and in some ways it is. But China is safe and the quality of life is good. On the other hand, the language barrier and finding employment are obviously major hurdles. Maybe visit on the short visit visa waiver system? Maybe explore a few videos about China on YT?
It's nackered m8 to many people milking the uk
I think you should both go for it. You have nothing to lose and life's too short. You don't want to look back on this point in thirty years and think, if only we had taken our chances. The UK is now congested. Lack of decent jobs, decent housing, medical care and high taxes. Here in Lincoln they get road tax, the roads are potholed. They get council tax yet turn the street lighting off at 11pm. You pay taxes through your wages yet the NHS gets worse each year and schools and hospital wards are overflowing. The country is broken beyond repair in my opinion. I'd go for it.
The sun is setting on the British Empire.
Go for it. Get out while you can.
Get out John, look for a better country. 👍
Thanks Nick - let’s see where we end up
Mate, Aussie here. Are you a Christian? Do you have a relationship with Christ Jesus and God, because in this situation I would shut myself in and do some prayer. Our heavenly father is ALWAYS looking to help us but we never ask for his help or will in these situations.
Thanks again, and the situation is pretty messed up here aswell, but again if you have a relationship with God he’ll look after you wherever you may be.
If you have the opportunity to get out get out because its only going to get worse it's been on the decline for years.
im made homeless they wont help me john
Brexit has been a complete disaster IMO. Agree?
Uk is done mate get your self out Scotland is done as well pal
Go for it
Left 1999 now in oz perth went back uk last year place depressing glad i left
In a word yes, England in my mind is truly screwed for at least the next 50 years.
I'm outta here ASAP!
Any idea where you would like to go?
I cannot carry on with this life.. work work work and pay pay pay. My rent is 50% of my salary. I eat crap and cheap food. I have no holidays. I studied and work hard. I don't think I deserve this. I am considering moving to malaysia or indonesia. There are jobs for Brits there and life is not expensive. Weather is amazing.