I think sometimes it is true, but not always. I think it all depends on your consciousness and your spiritual and mental evolution. Sometimes we do stuff like help others because we want to feel recognized by others because as children we weren't recognized from our parents. But sometimes when you heal yourself you want to help from your heart because you want the best for everyone and that is when you don't wait or ask for anything in return and you don't have to let everyone know what you did. But you also learn that sometimes it's not good to help someone because more then helping them you are not letting them grow and learn how to solve their problems on their own and they will become useless or dependent on someone else all the time. And when we do stuff on our own and solve our issues we gain more self confidence and we feel more helfull and feel like we can deal with anything that gets on our way.
So well said and so true. I think the only purpose of helping should be to learn more about myself. Learn More about humanity and gain perspective on world. NOT to chase the feeling of being able to help someone.
Profound. So, if I am to help someone, I first make sure to humble myself before the Family System. Then I look at how their Parents need help. Right? I'm thinking of someone right now who definitely needs help. And I want to help him. But I also know that his Mom has had a really hard time and she needs help too. And probably prior to all of this, I have to look at how I've tried to help my own Parent. 😳😟😔
I think it is good to help others when they need your help, but not to the point that you make them dependent of you or to the point that you make them useless. When we help a person too much, they never learn to deal with or solve their problems on their own and instead of helping them we are affecting them.
El simple hecho que traductora, tradujo mal la palabra 'eager' cambio todo el contexto para quienes no hablen ingles. Dijo;"todos estamos ansiosos por ayudar.." no dispuestos. Tambien cuando dice que el santo dice; "If they want to help you, be careful" no es cuídate, sino "ten cuidado". Cambia bastante el contexto.
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So humble under heaven , earth and all humans .Bert for me was and is like laotzu , as important as Freud &Jung
The people who help you,use you to satisfy themselves.. we can meditate on this for years🙏🙏🙏🙏
I think sometimes it is true, but not always. I think it all depends on your consciousness and your spiritual and mental evolution. Sometimes we do stuff like help others because we want to feel recognized by others because as children we weren't recognized from our parents. But sometimes when you heal yourself you want to help from your heart because you want the best for everyone and that is when you don't wait or ask for anything in return and you don't have to let everyone know what you did. But you also learn that sometimes it's not good to help someone because more then helping them you are not letting them grow and learn how to solve their problems on their own and they will become useless or dependent on someone else all the time. And when we do stuff on our own and solve our issues we gain more self confidence and we feel more helfull and feel like we can deal with anything that gets on our way.
So well said and so true. I think the only purpose of helping should be to learn more about myself. Learn More about humanity and gain perspective on world. NOT to chase the feeling of being able to help someone.
Amazing!!!!! Brilliant!!!!!
Come to me - there are many great Bert Hellinger
thank you
So profound
Profound.
So, if I am to help someone, I first make sure to humble myself before the Family System. Then I look at how their Parents need help.
Right?
I'm thinking of someone right now who definitely needs help. And I want to help him. But I also know that his Mom has had a really hard time and she needs help too.
And probably prior to all of this, I have to look at how I've tried to help my own Parent.
😳😟😔
You DO NOT help, UNLESS THEY ASK FOR IT!
@@SAMARKANDIFoodchannel Remember that you can always offer a bit of help.
I think it is good to help others when they need your help, but not to the point that you make them dependent of you or to the point that you make them useless. When we help a person too much, they never learn to deal with or solve their problems on their own and instead of helping them we are affecting them.
why are the subtitles off?
El simple hecho que traductora, tradujo mal la palabra 'eager' cambio todo el contexto para quienes no hablen ingles. Dijo;"todos estamos ansiosos por ayudar.." no dispuestos.
Tambien cuando dice que el santo dice; "If they want to help you, be careful" no es cuídate, sino "ten cuidado". Cambia bastante el contexto.
Gezz the translator is just terrible.... She makes things up..
An Lu she just made a few mistakes, but I am sure she was trying her best. It's good this material is not only available for English speakers
Hahaha
Not at all…
Sounds like another false prophet to me…