And notice, they rarely (if ever) mean "I'm happy to split life's expenses 50/50. Rent, car payments, entertainment, retirement, all of it - let's go 50/50". Nah, they don't want that. Even if they're fully able...they're not willing.
Only children are loved unconditionaly, and not always, not when their parents are shit. Women are expected to provide sex, visual pleasure and care. Men are expected to provide a living and protection. It would be hypocritical to say that nothing is expected from women. You expect something, even simps expect something. I sure expect something. And if you do not expect anything then you are not human or you are lying or you are not aware of the things you do expect from women.
@@juliocesarsalazargarcia6872 sex, visual pleasure and care is like a fart in the wind in comparison to what men are expected to provide (their hearts, souls, hard work, money, house, undisputed loyalty, entertainment factor, and to be better in every aspect than the woman he is with). In many marriages women don't even provide what you say, but men still stay and work their ass off for them. You're nitpicking at the quote. And the reality is that "sex, visual pleasure and care" is what MEN provide to a woman as well, so there is really nothing a woman provides in comparison if we just acknowledge that. Sex, visual pleasure and care is an inherent mutual benefit that no one should dispute that it should be provided for free, mutually, without any strings attached in a RELATIONSHIP. Of course we all expect things but the reality is way different, a woman can sit on her ass and not provide a single thing and just be there acting pretty and a man would still love her and provide for her, but if a man doesn't provide a LOT of things women will not stay with that man just "for love, company, himself". That's the difference. As for what you said about children, even if they have shitty parents, strangers/social companies/the law are in favor of children, as they are in favor of women always. Men are literally loved my none, they are at the bottom of the law's care, of social workers care, of society's/any other people's care. Women and children get support from men, the law, from other women, literally nobody cares about a man unless he provides something. That is why we get those movements nowadays of men supporting men, things should change!
Hell, I'd argue and say dont take her anywhere where you need to spend anything. My father always said "if she admires you the destination wont matter."
I hear ya - Mic! It’s always great seeing guys putting themselves first - it’s about time! Time is too valuable to be wasting it on women that have not earned it. This is what you may need to do on a regular basis if you want your woman or women in general to respect you. Everything starts with you first - always! Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
Why date a woman if you dont want to court her? I got my own money too, but as a feminine woman, I’m not paying for the first date either. Dont ask me out if you dont got money
Hey young dudes, listen here, from a 71-year-old senior citizen who has lived the Life. I am going to give you a million dollars, of great advice for your life. Do you want to live stress-free, in peace, happy, and successful? Then think like a businessman. ...Here it is: Don't Marry and don't sign a contract with a partner that is not going to invest money in the partnership. A partner that expects you to come up with $25,000 in the form of a diamond ring, that the partner will keep if you go your separate ways. A partner that expects everything from you and expects that "you expect nothing from her." Would you make a deal with a business partner like that?...No way, right? Well then, think this way with women and you will see that there is no way you would sign a deal like a marriage contract. This way you keep your life, your money, your health, and your freedom. ...Go MGTow, look it up. Men Go Their Own Way, is a movement of men worldwide finding the key to a great life. To Live in Peace, $ucc$$eful and Free, go MGTOW!
Had a girl hanging around me for afew weeks, told her i was going for a drive in the hills to cut firewood and if she wanted to join me she had to make her own way there. When she arrived she asked me how far we had to trek in for the picnic, i said im not here for a picnic im here to cut wood to keep my house warm, she looked at me with utter disgustment and said i wasted her time, i didnt hear what else she said i just started up the saw and started cutting. Even when your clear with them they still hear and expect something else.
Reading this story makes me appreciate my ol' lady even more. If I say I'm going to go cut wood, she makes me lunch and brings it out to me. Helps load the wood if she notices I'm being slow. Team work makes the dream work.
It would definitely cut down on some red flags if she pitched in happily to help. You always have to be on your guard though. People can change over the years.
Yo one time this girl I was kinda talking to called me and asked me what I was doing, I told her just chillin at home. She invited me to some bar where her friend was working, said we could get free drinks, I said nah, ima just keep doing what I’m doing. Awhile later she calls again and says “are you on your way” and I said “what, no, I’m at home like I said I wanna be.” She’s like “are you seriously gonna leave me here to sit by myself” 😂 needless to say it was the last time we talked, she was really actually angry with me 🤣
That is how it works in Islam, but with that the women are expected to be obedient and respectful. Islam raised the status of women, feminism and these ideologies have disrespected them and yet women are fooled into believing this is progress.
I've dated women who prefer 50/50 dates and drive their own cars. There was never any confusion about who's paying what, who's gonna pick who up, etc. We always met in the middle and not stressing the small stuff so we were able enjoy our times together.
I’ve had a couple who adamantly insisted on paying the whole thing because I drove. That felt strange lol I wonder with gay couples who pays on the first date? 🤔
It's one of the most clear red flags. You don't hear guys saying that... but girls need to tell you. I forget who said the quote, but it goes something like this: "When you're good at something, you have to tell other people you're good at it. When you're great at it, people tell you you're great at it"
I have 5th graders saying when they get married, they want their husbands to pay for everything. I said “you need a man to take care of you?” they say no, I’ll have a job and spend my money on me too.
they program kids when they're small, I heard some granny bitches with a boy and some girl toddlers and they told they boy to "remember that girls are always right"
I'm a middle-aged Dad of 2 and I am so glad there are content creators like you in the UK. There is so much negativity around male masculinity and women are stacking the deck these days so it's good for their bs to be called for young men like my son. It helps them to know it's ok to want a high-value woman with healthy boundaries and also know just how valuable a man they are.
I'm ashamed to admit, I was a simp and I let women rain on my parade. But I woke up and now I'm about to buy a house, I do what I fucking want to do. Brothers stay strong...
@@FreeWorldSpirit313 here is my advice. 1. Delete all social media 2. Abandon your "friends" 3. Work hard, put them hours in 4. Hit the gym 5. Learn to love your own company 6. Set miniature saving goals 7. Simplify your life 8. Get into self grooming 9. Learn your value/self worth 10. Most importantly...Assume every woman in your life is out to use you emotionally and financially I am on a 3 month ban from everything but work and gym.
Marriage is a literal business contract, and a woman shouldn’t have a problem signing a prenuptial agreement if she doesn’t have the intention to be with you just for your money. It’s simple 😄👍🏼
If a man is a provider because a woman doesnt work, then it makes perfect sense for a woman to be concerned about a man’s money and select him based on that choice. You sound really stupid. Ride or dies never win or prosper ❤️ Hope youre happy with your classic broke blk man 👍🏾
I am so happy that my wife and I were both broke, but working, when we got married. We always seemed to be working to the same goals...it was pretty natural for us. Married 37 years now. I always earned about double what she did, but we just pooled our cash and paid the bills from the pool. We stayed within our means, it paid off. Our daughters are grown with kids of their own, we are debt free [finally] with a decent nest egg saved for retirement. I will probably work another 4 years. My wife retired two years ago.
I love going to the club alone. People are attracted to me when i genuinely enjoy myself and have no care in the world. I gained a lot of friends by doing this. The freedom where I can just go to another club when I feel like it is indescribable.
I’ll share my best “not simping “ experience…I had booked an Alaskan cruise and 2 days before it was to start the girl I was dating threw a tantrum and told me she was not going. It was a game she started playing pulling crap like that. She figured that I’d either back out of going on the cruise or beg her to please go so I didn’t forfeit my money. The morning I left for Seattle she called and demanded to know why I hadn’t called her. Was I stupid for losing all that money? I told her that I wasn’t about to lose the money and that I was going by myself. “How could you even think of doing this to me? You didn’t even bother to call me!” “Well, you said you refused to go. If you thought I’d grovel and beg, you were wrong.” She was in shock. She had her last bf so pussy whipped that she expected me to act like him…. I had a great time on the cruise and met some great people. Of course when I got back I had to tell several people what really happened, since she had lied her ass off…..
ACCURATE!!!!!!!! Had a girl tell me she was independent then got mad when i asked her to go half and half with me on Indian food 😂 then she said “you spend the night with me through the week but don’t ever pay my bills… why?” 😳 not you want me to pay for both of our food always, both our apartments and all our dates 😭😂 “I’m an independent woman”
I was giving ALOT OF attention to my girl in the begging of our relationship , 2 years alter I gained weight but I been going to gym for 6 months now again getting more work with my skilled trade and ignoring her more and she always be offering to suck my dick more then before becuase i been focusing on my money and body more I also been turning her down for sex more lmao she told me no one had ever turned her down for sex In her relationships but I been on my grind more I do love her but it’s funny how they want you more after you start to focus more on you
There's a difference between being a gentleman and being a simp Paying on the first date is not always simp. In fact the difference between being a simp and a gentleman lies more on the woman than the man. It's you as a man that have to differentiate between women who are worth it and those who aren't
If you complain about signing a pre-nup you're admitting that: "I don't wanna marry you only out of love, I want to own everything you have and inherit all of your money even if I didn't do shit to deserve it in the first place." Stay safe kings, don't let them play games with you.
Remember, when getting a prenup, follow basic laws so she can't get out of the prenup later. Have her sign it months before the wedding so a lawyer can't argue she was pressured. Also check other state and federal laws so that everything you pay for stays with you. Keep the house and car under only your name if your paying for them. Make sure you cover all law basics so she can't get out of it later. If you have children it will be a hassle with most likely child support anyways let alone losing a house or something; so make sure your covered on all bases. If you have money to talk to a lawyer or a friend who is a lawyer, invest, because a big investment now makes bigger payoffs if the marriage fails. I hope and pray it doesn't though. Always remember two people can move a couch real easy. So always stay with that person through thick and thin as long as they consistently stay with you. A relationship is double sided, triple if you add God; never settle to be the one on the back burner, you both serve each other. If she is not willing to serve you like you her. She is not worth it, no matter her personality or looks. God speed brothers! Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; the one who seeks finds; and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened. Matthew 7:7-8 NIV Ask for the right wife.
On the pressured part - also get as many witnesses as possible when the prenup is signed. Get audio/video proof that nobody was "under duress" or emotional during the process & everyone was agreeable. Plus, if at ANY time you get a gut feeling things aren't right or won't go the way you think/plan, cut her loose & let her be someone else's problem.
Or just be intelligent about it. A prenup is unnecessary if you know what your rights are in the marriage. Its a contract, so treat it like one. If she spends your money outside of the marriage, meaning if it doesn't benefit the marriage and without his knowledge or consent, she breached her fiduciary duty owed as a partner. Therefore, sue the bitch and list all assets into the civil suite, not family. When she files for a divorce, none of your marital assets can be touched by the family courts because it is under a different jurisdiction. And by committing fraud, she is not entitled to alimony, due to unjust enrichments. But keep in mind, she can do the same to you.
Or, you can just put it all into trust. Then it doesn't matter whether she signs or not. Just make sure she got written notice about it and some sort of receipt that she got it. Helped a friend through that in court. Because his job paid through the trust as well, he didn't have income. She pays him.
We live in a time where its not only acceptable to team up against men, but its considered moral and virtuous to do so regardless of who the man is and how he conducts himself. This channel helps give men a space where they can gather after a hard day and see that not everyone is against them. This channel gives men an encouraging feeling of hope. I just found this channel today and it gets a sub.. Im proud of Arako Tv for taking the uncomfortable stance he has. People should be called out for being wrong regardless of their age sex gender social status etc. We need to start normalizing morality and virtue.
For the clip of the guy that got stood up, I've had that happen to me Soo many times and each time I still went out and had a great night and not always but end up with a group of women. Which is better than going out with just one. I think women can tell you were supposed to be on a date with another woman and that attracts them.
That's the best way to handle it, go out & have fun, meet new people, make good memories. Fuck moping around at home over some worthless idiot, she missed out on a good time & now she has to see his face online knowing she'll never have a chance again.
When dining with a girl on a first date I use a Groucho Marx line from one of his old movies and scrutinise the bill carefully, set it in front of her and say, that bill is ridiculous, I wouldn't pay that if I was you.
Love that ending "I make a lot of money so what" Some people really think Money is everything and will sell any little bit of dignity they have just for some coin, sad.
Good on the guy that went out by himself instead of sitting at home. That is exactly how I met my wife. Friends canceled on me so I decided to go out on my own. Best decision I ever made.
That was pretty cool of him and seemed like a great time that he had. People in general should try to go out like this by themselves more often. Live an adventure.
Hard to find but I’ve surprisingly dated several girls who try to pay for everything, it’s a fight for the bill every time with my current girl. She’s even trying to buy me a PS5 but I won’t let her spend that much on me. I’ve also dated moochers who almost never paid for anything, those didn’t last long.
2:02 A Day after I proposed to my girlfriend, I hit her with a pre nup and she cussed me out and threw me out of her house. I packed my bags and went on a 3 week vacation in Cancun with my ex. When I got back in the states, she was waiting for me at the stairs to my house and apologized. She signed the pre nup agreement and we got married. Fast forward 11 years later and she divorced me and she did not get a penny from me after the divorce. Life is good.
I remember this twitter thread of a guy who got stood up and did the same thing. He documented his entire night out and that girl missed out on an awesome night.
@@Grabthar191 and actually a lot of women are not impressed by money because it comes and goes in hard times, you need somthing stronger than a wallet, you need, Character.
1:43 mans a literal legend. I ended up hooking up with a girl at the club because of OSRS. She asked me what I did for a living. I mentioned I build custom computer builds and fix devices and work from home. I mentioned I streamed. She was like OMG my little brother does that. She asked me what I streamed I said, OSRS and she then said I LOVE RUNESCAPE! She pulled out her phone and showed me her account (OSRS Mobile) showing me her stats. I was actually AFKing NMZ at the club. I pulled out my phone and said no wasted XP. She instantly power laughed and proceeded to jump my bones after a few drinks. By far the greatest memory of the club to this day.
Bruh, fucking amazing. That would have me dying if I was in that situation. Though I can't do OSRS. Just put too much in maxing RS3 to go backwards lol.
Thanks for your comment man. I was fu*kin’ lost on that part. I had to watch that part three times, look for a comment talking about that part. Found yours and read it. Looked the game up and then watched that part of the video again. Now that part makes sense.
I had one rule for first dates back in the days; Always be ready to pay my share and if the man offered, I kindly accepted and left it to that. A man who offers to pay is a sign of chivalry( at the time I used to date) and women should stop complaining or try to prove something . It's nature, the law of male and female! Just be kind to men, it goes a long way.
"I'm an independent woman I can pay for myself!" I'm from Missouri... You gotta SHOW ME for me to believe you. Words are meaningless. Actions tell everything.
Love the guy taking himself on a date. Good on ya man… it takes a real character to be happy in his own company and confident in his own ability to have fun! 👍
I used to go to rock concerts with my ex girlfriend (at least we had some similar tastes in music), but she was a nagging pain. Now I go to concerts on my own (I went to two just recently) and it's great!😃
@@marcus813 I've actually just bought a ticket for a concert next March at a place on the coast (about 2 hours drive away) where I've never been before and it just happens to be about two miles from where my ex girlfriend now lives. We are still on reasonably good terms, although we don't talk that often, so I might even drive down there a bit early and meet her for coffee (she is now married and her husband isn't OK with me, but that's another story), but I will still be going to the concert on my own. The funny thing is, I have two brothers who both live very closed to me and I have been to concerts with each of them in the past, but when I ask them these days they decline the offer to go. I don't know if it has anything to do with the fact that one is now married and the other has a long-term girlfriend 😂
Kings, if there ever comes a day when you are talking with ya girl about a prenup and she says that you are planning to leave her. Just say: ,,Bitch, this is in case you are leaving me". Stay safe, stay awesome
Well the irony in that question is that she can assume you might leave her but she doesn’t want you to leave her without your money. Why do you want someone’s money who betrayed you? If she asks this tell her ‘why does she need the money of a betraying guy more than the guy’?
Why am I not surprised this is coming from a blk man?? Blk men make no sense? Like, y’all want women to be feminine, not work and be submissive, but you arent willing to be dominant and be a provider and leader? If a woman is submissive and dependent on you to provide for her and spend money on her because she isnt working, why do you demonize her and call her gold-diggers for wanting money because she is dependent on you? Y’all broke ninjas dont have any gold to dig! Make it make sense!
“I’m an independent wmn. I can pay for myself.” Says the wmn that doesn’t believe in going 50/50 on the first date. If you claim to be an independent wmn that means you don’t expect a man to pay for anything for you. The mental gymnastics in this time I tell ya 🤦♂️
at 6:02 when he is talking about his journey on his own, i highly encourage this. this promotes nothing but being confident in yourself and just have fun. There is a similar tik tok that i saw and it was a girl doing the same thing! except her night was like actually really sad and she didnt have fun at all. This comes to show that it depends on your mindset of doing things alone. that its okay to be a lone wolf sometimes. If we can have fun on our own then we can have even more fulfillment with friends or strangers. P.S. Dont talk to strangers.
As much as I hate to admit it, times are indeed changing. Arako really makes it a point to show that and that is appreciated! With each and every video, it becomes more painfully obvious. But he is a voice that needs to be heard in my opinion. Keep the videos up man.
The one that caused me to burst out laughing was the one with the two chicks watching the guy being cool eating his food. 😄 They had these looks on their faces that were golden; I guess they thought he should bought them food.
My wife & I married late in life and we had a pre nup. We divided the experiences. We both are debt free and between the both of we have way more than we need to live on. Neither of us depend on the other income. Only took me 2 other wives & a handful of GF to find the love of my life that is financially responsible.
I'm a woman and I believe that the first date should be split aka pay for your own food. The first date is there for two people to see if they want to continue the relationship further. That shouldn't come at a financial cost to one of the people on the date (usually the man in a hetrosexual relationship)
That young guy whos date was cancelled got my sympathy. He took it bravely and tried to juice up whatever left from cancelled (although planned) date. Thats the spirit! Shame on that girl, she missed good guy.
Love your channel. Highlighting all the bullshit that is now the norm in society. There appears to be a slow dissolution of strong and individual masculinity. Far too many princesses placed on their respective pedestals. No one should be conforming to these unrealistic ideals. Keep up the good work mate. Men need to stay individual. Thanks for the vids.
Your vids are always fire bruv, I never miss one. Thanks for making this great content. Ima be honest couple years back I. Use to simp then I doing things differently and once I found your channel I knew I had taken the right path.... Stay hard
Gentleman, if your current girlfriend doesn’t agree to a prenup, then she’s not getting married. Simple as that or leave her, there’s plenty of understanding woman out here, don’t try to convince one that don’t agree with you. Side note future kings, if you do get married(with a prenup of course) and buy any big purchases. Like a house, car, or anything in between, make sure your name is only on it, don’t put hers. If anything happens in the future(hopefully not), she can’t claim what’s not hers 🤓😎
I told mine around two months ago. At first it was just "Hey babe, just so you know for the future, I want a prenup". I've simped for years, just look at my profile picture it speaks volumes. Now though I'm way too happy with how my life is. I love her, but that doesn't mean I'm gonna be stupid anymore.
If you wanna still marry do to religion. And that stuff make sure to also check which state is ruled by feminism and avoid those, check states that are actually equal and don't favour females over males.
I've literally talked with all of my exes about pre-up where I point out that any kids are 50/50 parental responsibility, and alimony will only be paid for the first month so she can make arrangements for her living conditions Most women I date have no issue with this. But that's because I don't date women who claim to be independent; I date women who are independent. We're equals and that's the issue. Too many men are looking for women who think women should be on a pedestal
Sharing money through a marriage is a consensual. I ain’t paying you for making me angry and leaving me through a divorce, I’ll pay you when you stay with me through the hard times and make my burdens lighter. No clowns taking 50% of my earnings
When I was with my ex wife, she earned a lot more than me. Took a long time for me to get past the whole 'it's on the man to be the provider' as it's still something largely pushed in society. Eventually though I just figured fuck it lol. We had no prenup, but tbch, when we separated we split amicably and pretty much she kept the things she bought or used more, I kept the things I bought or used more. As for the house, she physically couldn't afford the re-mortgage rates at the property value so I accepted a lower amount to prevent my sons life being up-ended more than it already was by having them be forced to move out. One of the most disgusting things I've heard from several people is "You should have pushed for the full amount". To be honest, as she's the primary carer for him, I value my sons security in having a roof over his head far more than a couple of extra grand in my pocket.
Bro I love that the guy still went out and enjoyed himself. Don't let women ruin a good time, just show them what they missed out on. Hell you might even have a better time without her and make friends along the way.
He called 6 women bitches, all at once, and they didn't even hear it. That's some serious skill level right there and he deserves everything he has lol
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This channel helped me find my faith in God, seeing how evil our society has become made me realise I need to become a priest and lead people into love. We live in evil times, stay single till you find the right woman, don't let these succubus's take your time.
wdym by "evil"? if you ever read the bible you will know that people always have been that way, there always have been good and bad people, most are in between
Pro tip: If you go into the Priesthood, you're going from the frying pan, straight into the fire!! Talking from experience . Read your Bible. KJV version.
my 401k and my savings are just that...MINE, if my woman wants a "retirement" then she better work for one....SHe didn't contribute, she don't collect, she isn't shorting herself every payday like I am, so she don't benefit.
The girl filming her boyfriend talking about a prenup is right, what’s yours is mine. But that’s as long as we’re married and the prenup is for divorce so once we’re divorced what’s mine is mine and you can take your shit and leave
Something that comes to mind right now : Pay the full bill for the woman who is ready to argue to pay it aswell. Accept the 50/50 with the one who wants it. Insist for the 50/50 with the one expecting you to pay it all. I love to give to the people who are ready to give. And I hate to take anything from anyone, expecially from them.
To everyone reading this comment, sometimes it feels like you should give up and quit but, don't stop hustling, keep pushing and trust the process, believe you will actually make it to the top someday. Stopping is never an option. Stay blessed, strong and focused I don't have so many subscribes but the few i have are so special to my struggle ♥️♥️
Love the story where the guy got cancelled on so he went out by himself and made a bunch of friends. Similar thing happened to me a few years back, girlfriend dumped me right before valentines day, so I went to a hole in the wall bar and used the money I was going to spend on the date to buy drinks for everyone since it was only half a dozen lonely single people, each in there separate spaces in there. Within ten minutes everyone was talking, within forty minutes it was a full on party. One of the best Valentines Days I ever had.
I fear I've been a simp bitch for a long time now. I have always been polite, holding doors for people, complimenting people on new hair styles, clothing or jewelry men or women (they put in a effort and I feel they deserve someone to notice) even if I notice new nails on a female coworker I will look at them and say something simple like "Wow, those are nice" I am not hitting on them in anyway I know my lane and stay in it. I've been MGTOW for a while now cuz I'm short (5'4) , almost 40, 200lbs (muscular chubby, was able to bench press 300lbs in my prime, not quite fat yet) and make less the 50K. I used to think it was only my income and physical appearance, I'd call myself a 4-5 below average but not off putting, that kept women disinterested. Now I'm like "Fuck, was I being perceived as a simp bitch to these people the whole time too?" I don't really care anymore or at least I try not to, living a solo life is actually very pleasant but I also feel bad for the younger me that was probably just being laughed at when I was just trying top be nice.
I think being nice is perceived as that. If people manipulate that, it's them who bear the 'wrong'. Keep doing what works for you and if there is someone out there for you I pray you take care of each other.
“I’m an independent woman! I can pay for myself” cool! Then I’ll take you to a fancy place and I’ll pay for my own meal and you pay for yours! Worst case scenario, I got to treat myself to a nice meal!
A prenup should be standard in every relationship. In no world should a man be forced to give half his life away because a woman didnt want to commit anymore
A woman once told me that I'm broke because I didn't want to pay for her entrance into the club. I told her: you're right I have only enough money to pay for myself. She stayed outside for about 2 hour until she found an idiot to pay for her.
What? She stood him up? No, that can't be right. Because girls are everywhere on TikTok complaining about guys who cancel, ghost and stand girls up. So, it's impossible that girls do that to guys, right? Right, ladies????????
@@erodey3133 I don't even know what my statement generalized. But, anyway... "That's a generalization" is retarded arguing point. Ppl have used it for decades, but it means nothing. Yes, it IS a generalization... because, in general, IT'S TRUE. Thank you for proving my point. Most garbage collectors are men. "That's a generalization." Thank you for proving my point. It's a fact!!!! So... everyone...if anyone says to you..."That's a generalization.", Tell then .. Yes, because, IN GENERAL, it's true. Simply because you tell me "That's a generalization.", It doesn't win you the argument and actual proves my point.
I've never met a 50/50 girl. In the end we always broke up because I kept calling them out for not holding their own. I'm not your dad. Ironically these women complained about not being my mom & said that "I had issues with women" because I wanted a woman to do certain things like spend time with me, cuddle, have sex, etc - you know... Be present? Apparently they want their cake (the money) & eat it too (not do anything for it).
bro fr women get so pissed off when you say shit like "women act like children in a relationship" yet nearly every girl i know has a story about how she has had to basically be her exs or current bfs mother. Nonsensical double standard
They shouldn't have to pay 50/50, that's just not right. Instead, the women should pay for everything, until the man is convinced that she meets his basic requirements.
But that isnt feminine, so that doesnt make sense. I thought we all wanted to go back to the 50s where you took girls out on 100s of dates until she was willing to marry you. Only until marriage you could have seggs. And thats if she wants to. Dude, if youre broke, just say so. Remove yourself from dating until you make a substantial amount of money. It’s 2022, multiple ways to make money
I like that. Not about to pay $40 to find out she is some 304 that wears make-up like it is cake frosting. It was always suppose to be that way, who are the weak men that let that change? Women have to prove their worth to a guy for him to marry her. It was so important, the families of the women would go to every opportunity to try to sell, aka prove she is worth it, to all types of men. Constantly going to different men to give their daughter away to, hoping they will take their daughter.
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“I’m an independent woman I can pay for myself” cool you just explained how 50/50 works
I ain’t even a 50/50 dude but since miss independent wants to be the man so bad, pay for yourself.
@@kingezra9493 exactly king
@@kingezra9493 i wouldn't even go near miss, just to fart tho
And notice, they rarely (if ever) mean "I'm happy to split life's expenses 50/50. Rent, car payments, entertainment, retirement, all of it - let's go 50/50".
Nah, they don't want that. Even if they're fully able...they're not willing.
@@kingezra9493 W
"Only children and women are loved unconditionally.
Men are loved under the condition that they provide something"
- Tamborine
Only children are loved unconditionaly, and not always, not when their parents are shit. Women are expected to provide sex, visual pleasure and care. Men are expected to provide a living and protection. It would be hypocritical to say that nothing is expected from women. You expect something, even simps expect something. I sure expect something. And if you do not expect anything then you are not human or you are lying or you are not aware of the things you do expect from women.
@@juliocesarsalazargarcia6872 sex, visual pleasure and care is like a fart in the wind in comparison to what men are expected to provide (their hearts, souls, hard work, money, house, undisputed loyalty, entertainment factor, and to be better in every aspect than the woman he is with). In many marriages women don't even provide what you say, but men still stay and work their ass off for them. You're nitpicking at the quote. And the reality is that "sex, visual pleasure and care" is what MEN provide to a woman as well, so there is really nothing a woman provides in comparison if we just acknowledge that. Sex, visual pleasure and care is an inherent mutual benefit that no one should dispute that it should be provided for free, mutually, without any strings attached in a RELATIONSHIP. Of course we all expect things but the reality is way different, a woman can sit on her ass and not provide a single thing and just be there acting pretty and a man would still love her and provide for her, but if a man doesn't provide a LOT of things women will not stay with that man just "for love, company, himself". That's the difference. As for what you said about children, even if they have shitty parents, strangers/social companies/the law are in favor of children, as they are in favor of women always. Men are literally loved my none, they are at the bottom of the law's care, of social workers care, of society's/any other people's care. Women and children get support from men, the law, from other women, literally nobody cares about a man unless he provides something. That is why we get those movements nowadays of men supporting men, things should change!
You forgot dogs. Chris says dogs too.
@@juliocesarsalazargarcia6872 Amen
@@themajor1884 dogs more than women😂😂👌
“I’m an independent woman; I can pay for my own meal.”
Then stop complaining about going 50/50. She literally accepted going 50/50
Hell, I'd argue and say dont take her anywhere where you need to spend anything. My father always said "if she admires you the destination wont matter."
Legit. They clown a dude for being "too broke" to buy them a coffee (classic shaming tactics) or some shit and they're the one arguing over the check
I hear ya - Mic!
It’s always great seeing guys putting themselves first - it’s about time! Time is too valuable to be wasting it on women that have not earned it.
This is what you may need to do on a regular basis if you want your woman or women in general to respect you. Everything starts with you first - always!
Anyway, that’s my two cents.
-Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
Why date a woman if you dont want to court her? I got my own money too, but as a feminine woman, I’m not paying for the first date either. Dont ask me out if you dont got money
I always find it so interesting it is mainly Blk men who complain about the 50/50. Not seeing whyte men, hispanic or the indians complain…
"I forgot my wallet in my mom's car." Yeah right you did.
"Don't worry, babe, i'll cancel the pizza." Boss move
@@gordonlove5121 Yeah, it’s a good message for men.
Did she forget her phone? Tap payments with smartphones has been around for 10 years now.
@@RayleighCriterion yeah, I don't know about that long, but they've been around for a while.
Hey young dudes, listen here, from a 71-year-old senior citizen who has lived the Life. I am going to give you a million dollars, of great advice for your life. Do you want to live stress-free, in peace, happy, and successful?
Then think like a businessman.
...Here it is: Don't Marry and don't sign a contract with a partner that is not going to invest money in the partnership.
A partner that expects you to come up with $25,000 in the form of a diamond ring,
that the partner will keep if you go your separate ways.
A partner that expects everything from you and expects that "you expect nothing from her."
Would you make a deal with a business partner like that?...No way, right?
Well then, think this way with women and you will see that there is no way you would sign a deal like a marriage contract.
This way you keep your life, your money, your health, and your freedom.
...Go MGTow, look it up. Men Go Their Own Way, is a movement of men worldwide finding the key to a great life.
To Live in Peace, $ucc$$eful and Free, go MGTOW!
Once upon a time a man asked a woman to marry him and she said no. And the man lived happily ever after.
I'm a sucker for happy endings.
Had a girl hanging around me for afew weeks, told her i was going for a drive in the hills to cut firewood and if she wanted to join me she had to make her own way there. When she arrived she asked me how far we had to trek in for the picnic, i said im not here for a picnic im here to cut wood to keep my house warm, she looked at me with utter disgustment and said i wasted her time, i didnt hear what else she said i just started up the saw and started cutting. Even when your clear with them they still hear and expect something else.
Reading this story makes me appreciate my ol' lady even more. If I say I'm going to go cut wood, she makes me lunch and brings it out to me. Helps load the wood if she notices I'm being slow. Team work makes the dream work.
My wife and I cut wood together, it’s always been something we do together. Thank God I got a good woman.
😂😂😂😂😂epic
It would definitely cut down on some red flags if she pitched in happily to help. You always have to be on your guard though. People can change over the years.
Yo one time this girl I was kinda talking to called me and asked me what I was doing, I told her just chillin at home. She invited me to some bar where her friend was working, said we could get free drinks, I said nah, ima just keep doing what I’m doing. Awhile later she calls again and says “are you on your way” and I said “what, no, I’m at home like I said I wanna be.” She’s like “are you seriously gonna leave me here to sit by myself” 😂 needless to say it was the last time we talked, she was really actually angry with me 🤣
“Your money is my money and my money is my money” 🙄
That's female logic.
Woman ☕️
Women ☕
Women☕️
That is how it works in Islam, but with that the women are expected to be obedient and respectful. Islam raised the status of women, feminism and these ideologies have disrespected them and yet women are fooled into believing this is progress.
I've dated women who prefer 50/50 dates and drive their own cars. There was never any confusion about who's paying what, who's gonna pick who up, etc. We always met in the middle and not stressing the small stuff so we were able enjoy our times together.
That's the way it should be. Have fun. 50/50 on pay, 100/100 in effort. And of course stepping up when the other is down.
yep maturity goes a long way with women. also respect.
I’ve had a couple who adamantly insisted on paying the whole thing because I drove. That felt strange lol I wonder with gay couples who pays on the first date? 🤔
Exactly I'll met lots of women like tht 💯
If your looking for a traditional woman, they don't do 50/50. But I can this is just a consequence of society
"I hate when men want to pay 50/50 on a date"
Well then pay the whole bill, I promise I'll put out.
You gotta love the pure confidence it takes to walk up to a bunch of half naked women and proudly ask "Yall know Old school Runescape?"
That’s why the women were hyping him up. With interviews and dates confidence is the main ingredient.
So why are u talking to children? Only betas play that trash.. adults don't play that unless they have a mental illness or a creep.
Ngl, top 200 LMS is pretty impressive 😂
"YOU EVEN HCIM BRO?"
Ring.
I'm gonna start calling it a red flag when a woman says "I'm an independent woman"
It's one of the most clear red flags. You don't hear guys saying that... but girls need to tell you. I forget who said the quote, but it goes something like this:
"When you're good at something, you have to tell other people you're good at it. When you're great at it, people tell you you're great at it"
It's been a red flag
@@jdek88 Facts, there isn't a single independent person going around telling people they are independent lol.
She can be independent as a woman but broadcasting it is just weird.
That's the main red flag
The future isn’t Female; it’s bleak. I’ll just stay single, hit the gym, play video games & work the job I love.
Rich guy mindset
Thats me
This guy gets it. Buying one of my two dream cars in a couple weeks when I get home
@@irateamatsu what are the two?
How would you deal with sexual desires? Serious question, I swear I'm not trying to troll or even disagree.
I have 5th graders saying when they get married, they want their husbands to pay for everything. I said “you need a man to take care of you?” they say no, I’ll have a job and spend my money on me too.
The future isn’t female, it’s bleak.
they program kids when they're small, I heard some granny bitches with a boy and some girl toddlers and they told they boy to "remember that girls are always right"
@@Karlos1234ify damn
Women still remain children when they grow up i guess.
Fatherless behaviour
I'm a middle-aged Dad of 2 and I am so glad there are content creators like you in the UK. There is so much negativity around male masculinity and women are stacking the deck these days so it's good for their bs to be called for young men like my son. It helps them to know it's ok to want a high-value woman with healthy boundaries and also know just how valuable a man they are.
The lad going out by himself is the definition of a true Legend.
I laugh when he starts talking about skincare and ends up discussing the product, catches you slipping lol
Yea I admit the product placement was slick
@@randalhighben6800 I swear always catches me off guard with that lol
he also placed the music twice which was obnoxious
First time I’ve ever watched an endorsement all the way through. Luckily I have a great skin routine already as I’d have probably invested 😂
Just like how Future catches me off guard with his famous "She belongs to the streets!" and then you realize you're at the end of the video
I'm ashamed to admit, I was a simp and I let women rain on my parade. But I woke up and now I'm about to buy a house, I do what I fucking want to do. Brothers stay strong...
Hoes ain’t shit
Same here. Not as well off as you but I use to simp hard and like all simps for the completely wrong person.
@@FreeWorldSpirit313 here is my advice.
1. Delete all social media
2. Abandon your "friends"
3. Work hard, put them hours in
4. Hit the gym
5. Learn to love your own company
6. Set miniature saving goals
7. Simplify your life
8. Get into self grooming
9. Learn your value/self worth
10. Most importantly...Assume every woman in your life is out to use you emotionally and financially
I am on a 3 month ban from everything but work and gym.
@@LupusInfernum love it!
Welcome back brother
Marriage is a literal business contract, and a woman shouldn’t have a problem signing a prenuptial agreement if she doesn’t have the intention to be with you just for your money. It’s simple 😄👍🏼
If a man is a provider because a woman doesnt work, then it makes perfect sense for a woman to be concerned about a man’s money and select him based on that choice.
You sound really stupid. Ride or dies never win or prosper ❤️ Hope youre happy with your classic broke blk man 👍🏾
What kind of trap is this? 😂
A lot of them say they marry for "love". They love the money, that's for sure.
is it?
Very very WISE observation.
I am so happy that my wife and I were both broke, but working, when we got married. We always seemed to be working to the same goals...it was pretty natural for us. Married 37 years now. I always earned about double what she did, but we just pooled our cash and paid the bills from the pool. We stayed within our means, it paid off. Our daughters are grown with kids of their own, we are debt free [finally] with a decent nest egg saved for retirement. I will probably work another 4 years. My wife retired two years ago.
I love going to the club alone. People are attracted to me when i genuinely enjoy myself and have no care in the world. I gained a lot of friends by doing this. The freedom where I can just go to another club when I feel like it is indescribable.
"If he doesn't pay for me he's not interested."
No, if you are unwillling to pay for yourself YOU are not interested.
Very very WISE observation!!
Exactly 💯
Did I ask you out? Yeah I'm interested. However I'm not interested in investing my money on someone who's not interested investing in me.
@@FreeWorldSpirit313 all facts my guy
How interested should a man be on a first date?
I’ll share my best “not simping “ experience…I had booked an Alaskan cruise and 2 days before it was to start the girl I was dating threw a tantrum and told me she was not going. It was a game she started playing pulling crap like that. She figured that I’d either back out of going on the cruise or beg her to please go so I didn’t forfeit my money. The morning I left for Seattle she called and demanded to know why I hadn’t called her. Was I stupid for losing all that money? I told her that I wasn’t about to lose the money and that I was going by myself. “How could you even think of doing this to me? You didn’t even bother to call me!” “Well, you said you refused to go. If you thought I’d grovel and beg, you were wrong.” She was in shock. She had her last bf so pussy whipped that she expected me to act like him…. I had a great time on the cruise and met some great people. Of course when I got back I had to tell several people what really happened, since she had lied her ass off…..
Women never lie their ass off, ...If they did there wouldn't be any "bait" for the next fool...
Women trying to make _your_ world about them.
sensational
You did well, don't need to date game playing energy vampires.
I hope you also dumped her when you got back
When she says "I'm a independent woman" you know it's a red flag immediately.
ACCURATE!!!!!!!! Had a girl tell me she was independent then got mad when i asked her to go half and half with me on Indian food 😂 then she said “you spend the night with me through the week but don’t ever pay my bills… why?” 😳 not you want me to pay for both of our food always, both our apartments and all our dates 😭😂 “I’m an independent woman”
@@Wushername lmaooo was she your gf or something?
@@N3VERB0UND she was
@@N3VERB0UND and still wouldn’t go half on anything
@@Wushername lmaoo
Best thing to ever happen to me in my 20’s was the day I realized I don’t care if I have a woman or not. And it’s like they could smell it.
I was giving ALOT OF attention to my girl in the begging of our relationship , 2 years alter I gained weight but I been going to gym for 6 months now again getting more work with my skilled trade and ignoring her more and she always be offering to suck my dick more then before becuase i been focusing on my money and body more I also been turning her down for sex more lmao she told me no one had ever turned her down for sex In her relationships but I been on my grind more I do love her but it’s funny how they want you more after you start to focus more on you
There's a difference between being a gentleman and being a simp
Paying on the first date is not always simp.
In fact the difference between being a simp and a gentleman lies more on the woman than the man. It's you as a man that have to differentiate between women who are worth it and those who aren't
I LOVE the video of the guy who gets stood up goes out doesn’t give a fuck makes friends goes clubbing what a lad that’s how it’s done respect
If you complain about signing a pre-nup you're admitting that: "I don't wanna marry you only out of love, I want to own everything you have and inherit all of your money even if I didn't do shit to deserve it in the first place."
Stay safe kings, don't let them play games with you.
If you both wittingly agreed into a provider - housewife/husband type of thing it kind of makes sense though.
Remember, when getting a prenup, follow basic laws so she can't get out of the prenup later.
Have her sign it months before the wedding so a lawyer can't argue she was pressured. Also check other state and federal laws so that everything you pay for stays with you. Keep the house and car under only your name if your paying for them. Make sure you cover all law basics so she can't get out of it later.
If you have children it will be a hassle with most likely child support anyways let alone losing a house or something; so make sure your covered on all bases. If you have money to talk to a lawyer or a friend who is a lawyer, invest, because a big investment now makes bigger payoffs if the marriage fails. I hope and pray it doesn't though.
Always remember two people can move a couch real easy. So always stay with that person through thick and thin as long as they consistently stay with you. A relationship is double sided, triple if you add God; never settle to be the one on the back burner, you both serve each other. If she is not willing to serve you like you her. She is not worth it, no matter her personality or looks.
God speed brothers!
Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; the one who seeks finds; and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened.
Matthew 7:7-8 NIV
Ask for the right wife.
On the pressured part - also get as many witnesses as possible when the prenup is signed. Get audio/video proof that nobody was "under duress" or emotional during the process & everyone was agreeable. Plus, if at ANY time you get a gut feeling things aren't right or won't go the way you think/plan, cut her loose & let her be someone else's problem.
or heres an idea dont get fuckin married for fuck sake
If you have to do all that just to protect yourself from your own wife, I'd rather not have a wife.
Or just be intelligent about it. A prenup is unnecessary if you know what your rights are in the marriage. Its a contract, so treat it like one. If she spends your money outside of the marriage, meaning if it doesn't benefit the marriage and without his knowledge or consent, she breached her fiduciary duty owed as a partner. Therefore, sue the bitch and list all assets into the civil suite, not family. When she files for a divorce, none of your marital assets can be touched by the family courts because it is under a different jurisdiction. And by committing fraud, she is not entitled to alimony, due to unjust enrichments.
But keep in mind, she can do the same to you.
Or, you can just put it all into trust. Then it doesn't matter whether she signs or not. Just make sure she got written notice about it and some sort of receipt that she got it. Helped a friend through that in court. Because his job paid through the trust as well, he didn't have income. She pays him.
We live in a time where its not only acceptable to team up against men, but its considered moral and virtuous to do so regardless of who the man is and how he conducts himself. This channel helps give men a space where they can gather after a hard day and see that not everyone is against them. This channel gives men an encouraging feeling of hope. I just found this channel today and it gets a sub.. Im proud of Arako Tv for taking the uncomfortable stance he has. People should be called out for being wrong regardless of their age sex gender social status etc. We need to start normalizing morality and virtue.
I like this channel. No nastiness just solid advice and calling out of bad behaviour.
For the clip of the guy that got stood up, I've had that happen to me Soo many times and each time I still went out and had a great night and not always but end up with a group of women. Which is better than going out with just one. I think women can tell you were supposed to be on a date with another woman and that attracts them.
Why would it attract them?
More likely that you just look good, and looking at your best tends to attract people.
That's the best way to handle it, go out & have fun, meet new people, make good memories. Fuck moping around at home over some worthless idiot, she missed out on a good time & now she has to see his face online knowing she'll never have a chance again.
@@Ariovistus50 i would think because they see someone who is confident enough to still enjoy their time, even if the date didn't happened as planned
@@thomas.thomas You can see it both ways, I would think they see him as a loser/desperate. Women aren't very empathic towards men's struggles.
When dining with a girl on a first date I use a Groucho Marx line from one of his old movies and scrutinise the bill carefully, set it in front of her and say, that bill is ridiculous, I wouldn't pay that if I was you.
What happend next?
i don't know if i should be ashamed or thankful that i'm not old enough to know that joke...
This won't work. This man is lying.
Love that ending "I make a lot of money so what"
Some people really think Money is everything and will sell any little bit of dignity they have just for some coin, sad.
"I want equal rights between men and women, same salary, but I hate when men want to pay 50-50". Women and logic....
Good on the guy that went out by himself instead of sitting at home. That is exactly how I met my wife. Friends canceled on me so I decided to go out on my own. Best decision I ever made.
That was pretty cool of him and seemed like a great time that he had. People in general should try to go out like this by themselves more often. Live an adventure.
Guys, remember, "Team Work makes the Dream Work". If she ain't bout the team(y'all two), it ain't worth it.
On my first date my girl paid for literally everything...kept beating me to the bill 🔥she a keeper😭😭😭literally did jujitsu to get them bills but lost💔
Crazy how a girl paying means she's a keeper but a guy paying is the bare minimum. It's tough out here 😂😂
@@corrupt3835 yeah 💔😭😭
@@midweekmike juijitsu??😂😂 lmaoo
Hard to find but I’ve surprisingly dated several girls who try to pay for everything, it’s a fight for the bill every time with my current girl. She’s even trying to buy me a PS5 but I won’t let her spend that much on me. I’ve also dated moochers who almost never paid for anything, those didn’t last long.
Lucky 🙏🏾
5:56 something similar happened to me. Asked a girl out to the movies she didn't pull up so I watched the thing anyway 😂. I actually had more fun 😂
Never a bad idea to treat yourself to a date night.
@@FreeWorldSpirit313 never a bad idea indeed.
@@FreeWorldSpirit313 that mindset of ima go out either way..... she show up or not don't matter, this is for me
Like a boss.
2:02 A Day after I proposed to my girlfriend, I hit her with a pre nup and she cussed me out and threw me out of her house. I packed my bags and went on a 3 week vacation in Cancun with my ex. When I got back in the states, she was waiting for me at the stairs to my house and apologized. She signed the pre nup agreement and we got married. Fast forward 11 years later and she divorced me and she did not get a penny from me after the divorce. Life is good.
I mean that's good, but going through a divorce still isn't really "winning". Court fees, attorneys, and your time are all expensive/valuable.
What a funny story.
A greedy bitch like that would need to pay me rent and I still keep the house
Good for you my guy. Some may say you wasted 10 years but I say, you saved yourself from a lifetime of punishment.
Man if I saw these videos 10 years ago I probly would have saved myself a lot of heart ache and getting screwed over. Keep up the good work bro!
I remember this twitter thread of a guy who got stood up and did the same thing. He documented his entire night out and that girl missed out on an awesome night.
You guys. One of my best first dates was a free walk in the woods and a $.47 cup of ice from Sonic. Not all women are weird like this.
Very few women are not weird like that.
The ones who would like a walk in the woods are few and far between, and half of them are just pretending.
@@Grabthar191 I'm not lol. We fuck like rabbits everyday now.
@@AkWar9Try to remember that society taught them wrong the same way it taught men wrong too.
@@Grabthar191 and actually a lot of women are not impressed by money because it comes and goes in hard times, you need somthing stronger than a wallet, you need, Character.
1:43 mans a literal legend. I ended up hooking up with a girl at the club because of OSRS. She asked me what I did for a living. I mentioned I build custom computer builds and fix devices and work from home. I mentioned I streamed. She was like OMG my little brother does that. She asked me what I streamed I said, OSRS and she then said I LOVE RUNESCAPE! She pulled out her phone and showed me her account (OSRS Mobile) showing me her stats. I was actually AFKing NMZ at the club. I pulled out my phone and said no wasted XP. She instantly power laughed and proceeded to jump my bones after a few drinks. By far the greatest memory of the club to this day.
No girls on osrs bro. How was the D?
Bruh, fucking amazing. That would have me dying if I was in that situation. Though I can't do OSRS. Just put too much in maxing RS3 to go backwards lol.
Thanks for your comment man. I was fu*kin’ lost on that part. I had to watch that part three times, look for a comment talking about that part. Found yours and read it. Looked the game up and then watched that part of the video again. Now that part makes sense.
Gf 100k?lol
and you let her go??!!!
I had one rule for first dates back in the days; Always be ready to pay my share and if the man offered, I kindly accepted and left it to that. A man who offers to pay is a sign of chivalry( at the time I used to date) and women should stop complaining or try to prove something . It's nature, the law of male and female! Just be kind to men, it goes a long way.
"I'm an independent woman I can pay for myself!"
I'm from Missouri... You gotta SHOW ME for me to believe you. Words are meaningless. Actions tell everything.
Love the guy taking himself on a date. Good on ya man… it takes a real character to be happy in his own company and confident in his own ability to have fun! 👍
I used to go to rock concerts with my ex girlfriend (at least we had some similar tastes in music), but she was a nagging pain. Now I go to concerts on my own (I went to two just recently) and it's great!😃
@@hedgehog1965uk The few times I've attended concerts, I've gone solo and I never felt anything missing. Maybe it's just the introvert in me.
@@marcus813 I've actually just bought a ticket for a concert next March at a place on the coast (about 2 hours drive away) where I've never been before and it just happens to be about two miles from where my ex girlfriend now lives. We are still on reasonably good terms, although we don't talk that often, so I might even drive down there a bit early and meet her for coffee (she is now married and her husband isn't OK with me, but that's another story), but I will still be going to the concert on my own.
The funny thing is, I have two brothers who both live very closed to me and I have been to concerts with each of them in the past, but when I ask them these days they decline the offer to go. I don't know if it has anything to do with the fact that one is now married and the other has a long-term girlfriend 😂
Kings, if there ever comes a day when you are talking with ya girl about a prenup and she says that you are planning to leave her. Just say: ,,Bitch, this is in case you are leaving me". Stay safe, stay awesome
Just ask if she has car insurance because she intends to crash it.
Damn, I like that. Be like “I wouldn’t marry you if I planned on leaving you. This is in case you leave me.” Smoov brah
Well the irony in that question is that she can assume you might leave her but she doesn’t want you to leave her without your money. Why do you want someone’s money who betrayed you? If she asks this tell her ‘why does she need the money of a betraying guy more than the guy’?
A king would never call a woman a bitch. He would just be aware of what shes doing and leave.
Why am I not surprised this is coming from a blk man??
Blk men make no sense? Like, y’all want women to be feminine, not work and be submissive, but you arent willing to be dominant and be a provider and leader?
If a woman is submissive and dependent on you to provide for her and spend money on her because she isnt working, why do you demonize her and call her gold-diggers for wanting money because she is dependent on you?
Y’all broke ninjas dont have any gold to dig! Make it make sense!
“I’m an independent wmn. I can pay for myself.”
Says the wmn that doesn’t believe in going 50/50 on the first date. If you claim to be an independent wmn that means you don’t expect a man to pay for anything for you. The mental gymnastics in this time I tell ya 🤦♂️
A truly independent woman would show it, not say it. Lions don't have to tell you they're lions.
This channel gives me good chuckles. "There's only one place she belongs" followed by the meme. Love it.
at 6:02 when he is talking about his journey on his own, i highly encourage this. this promotes nothing but being confident in yourself and just have fun. There is a similar tik tok that i saw and it was a girl doing the same thing! except her night was like actually really sad and she didnt have fun at all. This comes to show that it depends on your mindset of doing things alone. that its okay to be a lone wolf sometimes. If we can have fun on our own then we can have even more fulfillment with friends or strangers. P.S. Dont talk to strangers.
As much as I hate to admit it, times are indeed changing. Arako really makes it a point to show that and that is appreciated! With each and every video, it becomes more painfully obvious. But he is a voice that needs to be heard in my opinion. Keep the videos up man.
7:02 lmao 😆😂 dude didn't even give her 1 piece of his food.
The one that caused me to burst out laughing was the one with the two chicks watching the guy being cool eating his food. 😄 They had these looks on their faces that were golden; I guess they thought he should bought them food.
My wife & I married late in life and we had a pre nup. We divided the experiences. We both are debt free and between the both of we have way more than we need to live on. Neither of us depend on the other income.
Only took me 2 other wives & a handful of GF to find the love of my life that is financially responsible.
I love the fact that guy thought fuck it i'm taking myself out for a date. The main rule is to love yourself above everything else.
There is only one choice
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@Matthew Walker Absolutely! That's when women really struggle, maybe. I don't know because I've left without waiting for a response
I see what you did there 👈🏼😅
@@KingVictor7 The wise can see, what fools don't understand
Prenup one was the most reasonable and well planned. Putting effort into saving is important..
I'm a woman and I believe that the first date should be split aka pay for your own food. The first date is there for two people to see if they want to continue the relationship further. That shouldn't come at a financial cost to one of the people on the date (usually the man in a hetrosexual relationship)
That young guy whos date was cancelled got my sympathy. He took it bravely and tried to juice up whatever left from cancelled (although planned) date.
Thats the spirit!
Shame on that girl, she missed good guy.
Love your channel. Highlighting all the bullshit that is now the norm in society. There appears to be a slow dissolution of strong and individual masculinity. Far too many princesses placed on their respective pedestals. No one should be conforming to these unrealistic ideals. Keep up the good work mate. Men need to stay individual. Thanks for the vids.
Your vids are always fire bruv, I never miss one. Thanks for making this great content. Ima be honest couple years back I. Use to simp then I doing things differently and once I found your channel I knew I had taken the right path.... Stay hard
Gentleman, if your current girlfriend doesn’t agree to a prenup, then she’s not getting married.
Simple as that or leave her, there’s plenty of understanding woman out here, don’t try to convince one that don’t agree with you.
Side note future kings, if you do get married(with a prenup of course) and buy any big purchases. Like a house, car, or anything in between, make sure your name is only on it, don’t put hers.
If anything happens in the future(hopefully not), she can’t claim what’s not hers 🤓😎
I told mine around two months ago. At first it was just "Hey babe, just so you know for the future, I want a prenup".
I've simped for years, just look at my profile picture it speaks volumes. Now though I'm way too happy with how my life is. I love her, but that doesn't mean I'm gonna be stupid anymore.
I don't even understand why so many American men still want to marry.
If you wanna still marry do to religion. And that stuff make sure to also check which state is ruled by feminism and avoid those, check states that are actually equal and don't favour females over males.
@@Ariovistus50 some religions need you to marry. Because for them it is sacred and that stuff.
Or better yet, put in a business name. She cant take what YOU don't own.
Thanks for preaching this anti-simp culture. This helps me alot my guy
I am a much older man than anyone in this video, but I like this guy, his attitude and point of view. Makes me think.
I've literally talked with all of my exes about pre-up where I point out that any kids are 50/50 parental responsibility, and alimony will only be paid for the first month so she can make arrangements for her living conditions
Most women I date have no issue with this. But that's because I don't date women who claim to be independent; I date women who are independent. We're equals and that's the issue. Too many men are looking for women who think women should be on a pedestal
He transfered into that promo seamlessly. Gonna get some Tiege Hanley
Sharing money through a marriage is a consensual. I ain’t paying you for making me angry and leaving me through a divorce, I’ll pay you when you stay with me through the hard times and make my burdens lighter. No clowns taking 50% of my earnings
Hah, before we got married my wife hit ME with the prenup talk. I have a good Federal job but she makes 2/3x what I make.
That's dope
Good luck in the future bro. That pre nup is gonna come in handy later ;)
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When I was with my ex wife, she earned a lot more than me. Took a long time for me to get past the whole 'it's on the man to be the provider' as it's still something largely pushed in society.
Eventually though I just figured fuck it lol. We had no prenup, but tbch, when we separated we split amicably and pretty much she kept the things she bought or used more, I kept the things I bought or used more. As for the house, she physically couldn't afford the re-mortgage rates at the property value so I accepted a lower amount to prevent my sons life being up-ended more than it already was by having them be forced to move out.
One of the most disgusting things I've heard from several people is "You should have pushed for the full amount". To be honest, as she's the primary carer for him, I value my sons security in having a roof over his head far more than a couple of extra grand in my pocket.
Bro I love that the guy still went out and enjoyed himself. Don't let women ruin a good time, just show them what they missed out on. Hell you might even have a better time without her and make friends along the way.
He called 6 women bitches, all at once, and they didn't even hear it. That's some serious skill level right there and he deserves everything he has lol
Steroids is not the way bruh... your heart,skin, hairline and overall health in your later years will thank you!
Nice work on the sponsor homie.
You help men and women, contributing wisdom with your videos. Hope your channel continues to grow legend.
Keep it real g. Peace ✌
Omg. To the guy who went out anyways. You're fricken awesome!
Love how the dude gets stood up, but goes out anyway, probably had way more fun than if he would've taken her on the date.
that was a flawless little promo/ad transition
This channel helped me find my faith in God, seeing how evil our society has become made me realise I need to become a priest and lead people into love. We live in evil times, stay single till you find the right woman, don't let these succubus's take your time.
Based theist 🤲🛐🕋☦️
wdym by "evil"? if you ever read the bible you will know that people always have been that way, there always have been good and bad people, most are in between
Pro tip: If you go into the Priesthood, you're going from the frying pan, straight into the fire!! Talking from experience . Read your Bible. KJV version.
Lol turn gay then
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my 401k and my savings are just that...MINE, if my woman wants a "retirement" then she better work for one....SHe didn't contribute, she don't collect, she isn't shorting herself every payday like I am, so she don't benefit.
The girl filming her boyfriend talking about a prenup is right, what’s yours is mine. But that’s as long as we’re married and the prenup is for divorce so once we’re divorced what’s mine is mine and you can take your shit and leave
Man that "Belongs to the streets" hits every timd
Something that comes to mind right now : Pay the full bill for the woman who is ready to argue to pay it aswell. Accept the 50/50 with the one who wants it. Insist for the 50/50 with the one expecting you to pay it all.
I love to give to the people who are ready to give. And I hate to take anything from anyone, expecially from them.
I'm starting to think that having male friends, being debt free and single seems to be the way to go in life.
Take it from a guy that's lost half his shit in a divorce.... you're thinking correctly!
To everyone reading this comment, sometimes it feels like you should give up and quit but, don't stop hustling, keep pushing and trust the process, believe you will actually make it to the top someday. Stopping is never an option.
Stay blessed, strong and focused
I don't have so many subscribes but the few i have are so special to my struggle ♥️♥️
Finally an OSR King.
What's OSR lol
@@aerah76 Old School RuneScape my guy.
Love the story where the guy got cancelled on so he went out by himself and made a bunch of friends. Similar thing happened to me a few years back, girlfriend dumped me right before valentines day, so I went to a hole in the wall bar and used the money I was going to spend on the date to buy drinks for everyone since it was only half a dozen lonely single people, each in there separate spaces in there. Within ten minutes everyone was talking, within forty minutes it was a full on party. One of the best Valentines Days I ever had.
the way he always manages to end with "SHE BELONGS TO THE STREETS" Is amazing
I fear I've been a simp bitch for a long time now. I have always been polite, holding doors for people, complimenting people on new hair styles, clothing or jewelry men or women (they put in a effort and I feel they deserve someone to notice) even if I notice new nails on a female coworker I will look at them and say something simple like "Wow, those are nice" I am not hitting on them in anyway I know my lane and stay in it. I've been MGTOW for a while now cuz I'm short (5'4) , almost 40, 200lbs (muscular chubby, was able to bench press 300lbs in my prime, not quite fat yet) and make less the 50K. I used to think it was only my income and physical appearance, I'd call myself a 4-5 below average but not off putting, that kept women disinterested. Now I'm like "Fuck, was I being perceived as a simp bitch to these people the whole time too?" I don't really care anymore or at least I try not to, living a solo life is actually very pleasant but I also feel bad for the younger me that was probably just being laughed at when I was just trying top be nice.
I think being nice is perceived as that. If people manipulate that, it's them who bear the 'wrong'. Keep doing what works for you and if there is someone out there for you I pray you take care of each other.
“I’m an independent woman! I can pay for myself” cool! Then I’ll take you to a fancy place and I’ll pay for my own meal and you pay for yours! Worst case scenario, I got to treat myself to a nice meal!
That ad transition was smooth my man! Master at work
A prenup should be standard in every relationship. In no world should a man be forced to give half his life away because a woman didnt want to commit anymore
3:40 The music's overlapping, bro.
Thought my phone was trippin
men need to stop being feminine and become more masculine, your true sense of you.
Remember Dudes and Dudettes, sometimes instead of needing a date with sm else, you need to take yourself to a date by yourself.
It helps
Man makes me laugh with his narration. Much respect
A woman once told me that I'm broke because I didn't want to pay for her entrance into the club.
I told her: you're right I have only enough money to pay for myself.
She stayed outside for about 2 hour until she found an idiot to pay for her.
What? She stood him up? No, that can't be right. Because girls are everywhere on TikTok complaining about guys who cancel, ghost and stand girls up. So, it's impossible that girls do that to guys, right?
Right, ladies????????
Bruh don't generalize people. Women nor men are not organisms with the same brain that like identical. People are different
@@erodey3133 I don't even know what my statement generalized. But, anyway...
"That's a generalization" is retarded arguing point. Ppl have used it for decades, but it means nothing. Yes, it IS a generalization... because, in general, IT'S TRUE. Thank you for proving my point.
Most garbage collectors are men.
"That's a generalization."
Thank you for proving my point. It's a fact!!!!
So... everyone...if anyone says to you..."That's a generalization.", Tell then ..
Yes, because, IN GENERAL, it's true. Simply because you tell me "That's a generalization.", It doesn't win you the argument and actual proves my point.
I've never met a 50/50 girl. In the end we always broke up because I kept calling them out for not holding their own. I'm not your dad.
Ironically these women complained about not being my mom & said that "I had issues with women" because I wanted a woman to do certain things like spend time with me, cuddle, have sex, etc - you know... Be present?
Apparently they want their cake (the money) & eat it too (not do anything for it).
bro fr women get so pissed off when you say shit like "women act like children in a relationship" yet nearly every girl i know has a story about how she has had to basically be her exs or current bfs mother. Nonsensical double standard
They shouldn't have to pay 50/50, that's just not right. Instead, the women should pay for everything, until the man is convinced that she meets his basic requirements.
But that isnt feminine, so that doesnt make sense. I thought we all wanted to go back to the 50s where you took girls out on 100s of dates until she was willing to marry you. Only until marriage you could have seggs. And thats if she wants to.
Dude, if youre broke, just say so. Remove yourself from dating until you make a substantial amount of money. It’s 2022, multiple ways to make money
I like that. Not about to pay $40 to find out she is some 304 that wears make-up like it is cake frosting.
It was always suppose to be that way, who are the weak men that let that change? Women have to prove their worth to a guy for him to marry her. It was so important, the families of the women would go to every opportunity to try to sell, aka prove she is worth it, to all types of men. Constantly going to different men to give their daughter away to, hoping they will take their daughter.
That's mean to stand someone up! Good for him for going out and living his best possible life. She def missed a keeper there! ❤️
7:05:"We must stay focused gentlemen, WE MUST STAY FOCUSED!"