He deserves to get married to a person he loves. It shouldn't matter if elfs like that person or not. We really shouldn't decide anything about his personal life and make him feel bad for falling in love. Those people always put a lot of pressure on their idol when the only thing we must care about is our idol's happiness
True, even one of the members there is not active with them anymore have gotten married and the fans just straight up said that they would not support suju if he was active with them, it’s so stupid of the fans to say that, we should not get into their personal life. If they love a person and want to get married then they have the right to do it
When they said they won't get married I'm like "hahaha it's obviously a lie". Tell me how can they don't have any boyfriend or not getting married just bcs of their idol. It's ridiculous.
Suju is a veteran group and I'm sure most of their fans also are getting older like the members but how can they still have that kind of mindset. They need to grow up. I'm not suju's fans but I enjoy watching suju so I also want them to meet their true partner and be happy forever.
Especially given taht there are litearlly Families by now attending Suju concerts like this to me is borderline sasaeng level but I guess it's also a line in (some) Asian Fans midn the West simply doesn't have accessible.
Leeteuk is smart, even though he loves his fans, he knows that some elf's are really immature and he doesn't need to ask them if he can get married because he's an adult. To me he was talking about getting married because he wants to prepare them for something that is inevitable. They can cry or get angry all they want but I'm sure he won't let them control his life. He wants to fall in love and be happy and he doesn't need to ask for permission. True elf's we will support Leeteuk 💙
I agree with you....my heart is hurt because He has to discuss the married issue with fans like that, He really is a true leader. For all that he's been through, he deserves to be happy!
1 millions agree with you....if they're control idols..means they're possessive....they don't have life....are they single n waiting to get married with theirs idols🤣🤣🤣 goshh...so silly n dumb!!!
I'm disappointed in the fans that they didn't say yes right away but I like how he talked them from a hard NO to a reluctant it'd be ok if you prepared us... Yes, talk them into being (sort of) reasonable
I think the marriage discussion is a little bit different for international E.L.F.s. We don't expect our idols not to have a partner or not to get married. It's normal that they would be in a relationship. I find it quite sad that the Korean fans don't want their idols to have a private life on their own. I wish Leeteuk and everyone else from Super Junior luck in finding the right person and finding happiness. They deserve it so very much! All the best to you Teukie! You are the best leader and a great person. Lots of love and greetings from Germany.
@@kpoplove6001 I don't understand how these people want to wish him to be alone his whole life?! It's very sad. Everyone is craving a family of their own, personal support and be loved. Everyone is entitled to have the same wish.
I'm glad he talked to them directly and brought up the marriage topic. And even when they were not fully accepting or understanding he handled well the situation and called them out on it. _"You feel proud when you see the idol you like mature as time goes by, right?... But suddenly this person got married, would you stop liking them?"_ He's a great leader and an amazing person, he deserves to be happy, and if he wants to get married we should support him and all the members equally. Also: _"Tell me what plan should I have. Because I've never seen anyone's plan end up being successful."_ That's Sungmin 💙 u.u
@@haosru hmmm I remember it was for a different reason. K-elfs, or more likely the sasaengs, already know that Sungmin was in a relationship with a co-actress from the musical. They were waiting for him to announce it but he denied it when the news came out. Months later, he got married and that’s where K-elfs felt betrayed because he wasn’t honest with them plus the fact that his wife was shading them as well, pitting K-elfs and I-elfs. Sungmin doesn’t owe them an explanation but I kinda understand where the fans are coming from. Tho holding a grudge on Sungmin because of that is petty af.
Hmmmm, I think Sungmin's case there's a lot more things that we don't know. They never addressed the situation and never say his name unlike with other former members as Kangin and Kibum, they still speak fondly of them but with Sungmin is like he doesn't exist and they make subtle digs at him without saying his name once the topic is how former members handled leaving the group. They don't consider him being a part of the group, so saying it was just because his wife said bad things about elf's is being naïve, something happened between Sungmin and SuJu to have bad blood and we'll probably never know.
@@catboyYuta I think it's a sensitive topic that they aren't allowed to comment on. Kibum didn't leave because of a scandal, so he's probably safe to talk about. They've only recently mentioned Kangin, when they didn't even say his name either and he's often blurred on photos and old videos on major channels. I think because Sungmin is still active as a soloist and making tv appearances, they can't really say anything.
@@catboyYuta i didn't catch anything that suggested there was bad blood between suju and sungmin. As i recall he was set to make a comback with suju a few years ago but was excluded after the fan response to him was still negative. And the reason they don't talk about him at all is probably because he was shunned by the elf community back then and many elfs still garner strong negative feelings about him, and it wouldve been a management decision to not mention him or be associated with him in order to preserve the group. Nobody else left because of a scandal except Kangin, but Kangin wasn't forced out by fans, he still has fans and elfs in general don't feel as strongly about his mistakes.
The birthday live was so fun. He seems worried about losing popularity after getting married which is so sad. He deserves true love and privacy. Fans are not girlfriends,you know? I honestly wants to see everyone in SuJu get married😂. He's so cute and sweet and considerate but this made me sad. Do what you want,Leeteuk. True fans will always love you💙
At some point, I wanted to cry. Leetuk is so devoted towards SUJU and elfs. He should be happy and contented with his life and in order to do so,he doesn't need to ask for any kind of permission.
i hope someone there was able to tell him he can do whatever he wants as long as he is happy… Fans don’t have the say in who he should end up with, as well as how he should spend his life. He has endured a lot as an idol at I would really be happy to know that he’ll be having a family for himself.
I sincerely hope that he will get married to have someone take care of him. He has been working continuously, he and other Suju members deserve all the best ♡ But as K-ELFs mentioned, pls tell us before dispatch do (to prepare wedding gifts hahahahahahahaha)
This is so bizzare. He is a free human being, if he wants to get married, he should get married. Asking strangers if he "can"... I feel sorry for him. He's not a slave. 🙈 This strange "culture" of Korean idols not being able to openly date or marry should end because it's toxic.
And I also feel it was creepy too. Like, Suju Fanbase is now mostly consisted of adults, not teenagers, many of whom already got married and even have children of their own. How disturbing is is that a married woman/man, a mother/father, still lusting after another men to the point they don´t want said men got taken by "another woman"???
@@bluesapphire4262 yeah, it's so tragic. The fact that so many women there said no when he asked if they were gonna get married in order to justify them not wanting to get married is so disappointing. Especially when most of those women were probably well into their 20s/30s and in relationships. Honestly no other country has celebrities that do as much for their fans as k-celebrities do, but instead of being grateful k-fans tend to act authoritative towards their favorite idols, basically treating them as belongings.
Leeteuk is almost 40! He's dedicated so much of his life to the entertainment industry. Of course he has the right to get married when he wants! I sincerely hope he will find or has already found someone special
I actually feel really sad seeing older idols not getting married but they obviously want to as well. It feels like they’re afraid or restrained in some way. I hope he will marry a really good lady and have a happy family. He dedicated his life for this craft
If you are a fan then be a fan, dont cross the line. Dont deprived them on doing so. Let them be inlove, let them have gf, let them get married, let them be happy for godness sake. Let them live the life that they deserved. We all know that they have been our source of happiness for a long time and now i think this is the right time for them to live and think for themselves. They are actually on their 40's for goodness sake. Let as all be united and ask them to get married..
I feel kind of angry at the girls who blatantly told him upfront that he cannot get married. 🙄🤯🤦🏻♀️ He is a human and after all that he has been through, he deserves happiness! Gosh. Stop being selfish and delusional. Let’s support suju and whatever makes them happy. They are pushing 40 and they deserve happiness!
Man, I wish I spoke enough Korean & could attend that. I would have raised my hand saying "yes oppa its 100% okay to get married, any fans who say otherwise are pathetic" 🤷♀️
Like me I wish I could be there and say yes in out loud voice 😅 I'm just afraid they repeat what happened with sungmin 💔💔 I want to see suju together 💙🥺
@@ellanote2260 his face didn't look like they were joking. He truly looked sad and hurt that they would not give him the freedom to live his life and still do what he loves. It's so sad and selfish.
Agreed...we all deserve to b not lonely..lets aim to hv healthier relationship...everyones human, pls be mature..their life is actually not ours to judge.. spread the 💙💙💙
Hello! Is Shindong married? Or I misunderstood you. As far as I remember, Sungmin has a wife, and, unfortunately, he has not been active in the group since then.
It’s interesting that he pointed out how it has never gone well after an idol once they get married. But I think that’s mostly to do with the fact that it always is a last minute surprise. I think fans want to share in their idols joy and happiness like usual. But from the idol marriages I have seen they are usually pregnancy rush jobs and the wives are hidden away.
I was so angry with the ELFs there while watching the live and felt so bad and sad for Leeteuk and all other members.This is why we can't get Sungmin back with his members.This is such a sickening view.I've been an ELF for about 15years now and it hurts me to see all this. I just want every member to live happily in whatever way they chose. They've been working hard for us for 18 years which we all know isn't something very easy. Why can't we just stay with them and support them without any pressure or obsession?
Honestly I have endless respect for Teukkie. This is obviously not an easy subject to discuss and a concern with all idols. Only he can do this in a non-scandalous way, transparent and respectful of ELFs. I personally wish him the best and all happiness in which ever form. Only he, being Suju and all, can raise this up on behalf of all idols. Leader forever
I simply don't understand why he needs to be respectful of ELF. Getting married disrespects no one. Does any of ELF respect SuJu by asking their permission before dating or getting married, or starting a family? It is so bizarre. These are human beings not possessions of their fans!
The immediate disagreement when he asked about bringing his spouse on variety shows really rubbed me the wrong way, because it made me think of Sungmin when he went on that trot show for his wife, and the backlash from people was really hurtful. I really hope that won't be the case for him.
honestly leeteuk wants to get married since a long time now and he deserves it so much, he may even have someone already but still wanted to prepare the fans for it 😭 let the man live y'all
As a fans we should know the boundaries between fans and idol, just be realistic we don't even know them personally and we shouldn't interfere about their choice. Married or not I'll give them all my support.
Yes, and for all idols too, please tell fans first before dispatch do.. since they're falling in love with someone and dating, please tell us before dispatch or any rumor on media spreads.. or at least give us codes who is that special person.. please don't make a sudden confirmation, because fans need a time to support them.. thank you leeteuk oppa to discuss this with fans..
I wish he will get married to the one he loves. Anytime he wants. No condition. If the fan is real, they should know best how lonely teuk oppa can look sometimes. It shows. His life is not exactly giggles and rainbows, he deserves happiness of his own choosing. Realistically this lifetime is long and it’s not like all of his fans will stay forever. He deserves to have someone who will be on his side anytime anywhere rain or shine.
Gosh, it’s so twisted, he is a living person right in front of them, they are having a direct chill convo and still they don’t treat him as a human. It remains to be hoped that he himself does not take to heart the "opinion" of such fans. Leeteuk has been through a lot in his life and deserves to be happy.
Please I could feel his nervousness through the screen but he handle it well. YOU CAN GET MARRIED WHENEVER YOU WANT OPPA!! He deserve happiness, happy honeymoon and a vacation.
Pretty much sure Leeteuk is a person with principal, rather than change his way to suit the fans, he tried to find the middle ground so he won’t hurt his fans and his fans won’t take control of his life… I believe he knows the right time to make the decision…
I love how he try to persuaded his fans abt his marriage. It's kinda sad for him actually l, why would he ask people if he able to married or not. But we know he just try to make sure fans won't too disappointed in the future
The saddest moment I think about alot.. 😭 YOU CAN GET MARRIED WHENEVER YOU'RE READY. We'll always support you. He should pay attention to the comments of international fans. He doesn't have to listen to every single word of fans too. He has his own life. After all these years, why are they still immature? 👿
I think the reason why they've been so careful about this topic to the point we don't even know if they're dating someone (except for Ryeowook and Heechul) is because they don't wanna end up like Sungmin. What happened to him was very unfair like, you can no longer promote on your group because your korean fans don't support the fact you got married? So you just have to go into an infinite hiatus since you aren't officially out of the group but you aren't even mentioned as part of it in almost 7 years? They are afraid of the power their fans have to ruin their careers forever if they don't like something. That's also the reason why Zhoumi and Henry weren't part of the official team and just sub-unit members because the K-Elfs didn't want at the time.
Leeteuk should get marry and live happily with his love one, i know it is going to hard us but i will support him. Also i wish he can say before media and dispatch!
He is really a nice man and the one I admire a lot. And I really wish he gets married to a person he loves not the person his fans choose. After dedicating half of his life to this pathetic entertainment industry, he deserves real happiness and love. He has sacrificed so much. I don't know why these fans aren't allowing him ? Let him live his life as he wants.
The fandom needs some excitement, tbh I’m down for a wedding. Imagine all the memes that will come out of all the idols drunk af on the dance floor when each other’s songs come on.
I became elfs since my junior high school day and now i am an adult. It is surprising to see some k-elfs blatantly saying they don't want to see their suju oppa getting married. Omg he is almost 40yrs, let him start a family when he wants to and be happy. Why so possessive. Dating or getting married, it is his private life so let him be. After all these years supporting suju i just want to see them be happy. I've been so grateful they aren't disbanded and keep a good work. It is more than enough
this is like.. Lee Teuk asking u guys permissions to get married coz he has someone right now and planning to get married with her. he deserves to get married and deserves to get his own happiness without anyone permissions tho. if he is happy, we should be happy. and if he is sad, we shoud make him happy and smile again no matter what. dont make him unhappy becoz the fans dont give him permission. please, just let him find his happiness. he deserves it. no matter what, he is still a human being just like all of us.
You deserve to get married. You deserve the happiness that you’ve been look for. You deserved to be loved and to be taken care of. You already have done so much for us, ELF. Get married whenever you want to, do what you want to. We’ll always support you no matter what. ♥️
Sincerely hoping that Leeteuk bringing this up and calmly discussing it with his fans means he likes someone enough to prepare beforehand and make sure fans don't hurt her when he deicides to get married.
Guys... I read a dozen comments and replies and I really have to voice this.... The K-elfs are just teasing him by saying he can't get married and need to go through them. What fun will it be if they say ok to everything he asked? 10 years ago, maybe K-elfs are not ready, but now they are prepared. As for those international elfs who thought Kelfs are angry with Sungmin because he got married.... Hell No!!!! That wasn't the real reason! It was how he and his wife handled the situation back then, that left elfs and even the members heartbroken. This is the most misunderstood myth in our fandom. Too many things happened back then and I am unable to explain here... I have nothing against him as I'm a young Elf myself, but I understand why Kelfs are so furious. Just saying
I am sad for this. I have been a fan of these guys since 2008. Super Junior, SHINee SNSD, TVXQ and Big Bang were my introduction into the KPOP world. I feel that these guys have done every single thing that was expected of them, and they deserve to be happy. I know for many younger people they are just learning about the Kings and Queens who paved the way for the bands that are so huge right now. Please keep learning, Young Ones, Super Junior are Kings and deserve to be happy.
He probably already has someone and it's seems like it's a celebrity too since he mentioned going to variety shows together, I hope that when he drops the news k-elfs don't say malicious things about his partner
Seeing them personally will make my life whole and seeing them happy makes my life whole for they deserve it more than we do 🤗😍😍 i love you my idols ☺️☺️
I think more and more 2nd and 3rd gen idols should discuss this with fans and set the stage that they will get married, fans need to get a grip, everyone needs to pursue their own dreams and if you truly love someone, you will be happy if you know they are being loved. See, this is an important boundary that an idol should draw and being older, a door they should open so the culture will change and hopefully, be better for the younger ones.
Even though I will be upset that things have changed so fast and we are already getting married, I would still be happy for you for finding someone you love and spending your life with them. Even though a part of me would fall apart, another part would rejoice to see you happy. That's what i would say if I was a fan.
I can't believe that they are still ELFs who don't want them to get married and really telling it confidently infront of their faces. I'm okay with them telling it to fans first before dispatch do. I'm also okay with them appearing on shows together because it means that they have gained enough courage to let the whole world know that they are happily in love as long as they are happily AND GENUINELY IN LOVE. It hurts me to think that they ELFs there are really firm :(( Leeteuk is already at the right age u know :(( what if finding a partner to spend the rest of his life would be his happiness? Then you should have let him do it :(( You all look like you are at the right age too but the attitudes.....haaays. I admire Leeteuk for being so brave when he discuss this infront of them tho. Just like making them answer a survey for future purposes of the whole group HAHAHAHAH Goodluck on your future plans ♡♡♡♡
He can do whatever he wants with his life. Being an idol is a job, is ridiculous that a person career ends when he get married. Fans needs to realize that idols already share a big part of his lifes, but they have the right of privacy. But I'm happy, maybe Leeteuk has a special person in his life now and he deserve happiness, he had a very difficult life.
Imagine, Leeteuk being open to talk about marriage during his birthday live, means he is letting us know his thoughts for his future, but some people who are present there still don't agree with him getting married. Smh i don't know anymore.
i really want the sujus to have their own family, they're already at that age to settle down 🥺 as long as the person is good and brings out the best in both of them, then it's fine by me 🥺💙
Expecting a marriage announcement😍 I want all our Suju members to be happily married, show off their spouse & love them openly without worrying about anything💙
I understand that kpop fan culture is getting better, but it's really sad that a 40 year old man has to ask his fans for permission about getting married before he even starts dating. Of course age shouldn't matter and regardless of age any idol should have the freedom to love, date, marry, and find their own happiness. We all know how Sungmin was shunned by this very fan group for getting married, and in reality that has probably played a major role in the remaining members' decisions to not date seriously or get married or be open about their relationships. Leeteuk especially we know carries the burdens of the past "mistakes" of SUJU on his shoulders, and he would've repeatedly set aside his own aspirations for the sake of the group. The ending of this clip broke my heart when he asked about going on a variety show with his future wife and was immediately rejected, because he clearly had fantasized about doing that and was excited about the idea; but guess what, he probably won't ever do it now. Disclaimer: I'm talking about the kind of fans who don't prioritize their idol's happiness and who don't see them as normal human beings who have dreams, need love, and make mistakes.
He is like almost 40 years old or something. K-fans are being so ridiculous. As a fan do you really want the idol (person), you claim to love, to die alone. I wouldn’t wish that even for my worst enemies. I love Kai (EXO), he is my ultimate bias. But I really don’t want him to be alone all his life unless he actually wants to do so. Especially seeing that he is so great with kids, I really want to see him with his kids. When I saw Chen got married and is gonna have a kid, I was genuinely happy and excited as a fan
I'm an ELF for 10 years already, and seeing other groups has a dating news, i really really really wish that news would came out from Super Junior:') at first i also don't want them to be married, but seeing all of them are aged now i really want to see them dating. and again i think as a fan we should prioritize our idol's happiness.
I know they're kinda of joking with him but I find their answer extremely ridiculous. He deserves to get married and that's on period! Of course it would be nice if he is comfortable enough to share before dispatch when he's actually getting married but that's it, it finishes like this, after letting the fans know, elfs should just be happy, end of the story. Also if for any chance he wants to join variety shows with his loved one, HOW NICE that would be? He's willingly telling them that he would share such a private moment and they're being childish saying there's no way and that he's being too much? 🙄 i literally don't have the patience with fans like this, especially when they were saying they're not gonna get married, ah yes "for real" 🙄 stfu they're all gonna have someone in their lifes but God forbid their idol to love someone 🙄🤢
Nooo, pls get married! As a elf who watched him since I was a teen and now married, I wish him all the happiness. And above of all, I want to see their super super junior. Wouldn’t it be so cool to have super super junior on superman is back? On serious note, he deserves to love, to date, to get married, to do everything he wants to do. He has suffered too much over the past few years, my only hope as an elf is for him to be happy.
This is so funny,, it seems like leeteuk were doing some survey for the members as well on what to do to make sure elfs are happy when they are getting married
Nevertheless, never live for others. Priotize yourself, people can come and go in our life especially when things didn't go well. Fans still human, they come and go whenever they need without asking anyone permission. Human heart are really easy to change, if you make one mistake, they will turn their back. But, find and build your own family, that will love you without any rule, that will believe you, and not hesitate to tell you if you are wrong, and most importantly, that will make you feel warm and home💝
I became their fan when I was only 10. Super junior is not just a kpop group for me. They give me lots of good memories. My teenage days was so hard they were the ones who make ma laugh. Specially during the time that I was getting ready for my university entrance exam. There was a time that my dad was in hospital and without Super junior I couldn't be strong. Leeteuk really had very hard times in his life. He is so strong. He deserves happiness. I really wish from bottom of my heart that this man become so happy one day. He really needs some one in his life. I wish he find a girl who loves him and give him a family. This man deserves a good family.
maybe this is already a year ago, but I'm pissed off. I would like to emphasize also the voice of Leeteuk wherein he is like dealing with a bunch of kids that needed to be given nice wording, but I do love his patience here. Marriage is very (idk) kinda risky for them because of so many thoughts like losing popularity or some sort, but one thing is for sure, by the end of the day, they will decide what's best for them. Fans in that celebration should learn the fact that we are now not in some sort of fairy tale (it's unfair, sj couldn't marry anyone but the fans can WHAHAHHA) I find this part of his bday vid kinda upsetting. But kudos to Leeteuk nim, he gave them a warm smile or even made it fun.
For the longest time I had hope for kang Sora, but she’s off the market now. As long as he is happy, he deserves someone good, someone who’ll let him know how special he is. 사랑해요 오빠, soon to be 아저씨 😅😅
aww, he's so precious, trying to convince the fans. Let him get married and be happy. He deserves that the most. I'll be happy if you get married, condition: you should be happy and full in love with each other. GOODLUCK leetuk
Dios! Mi admiración por Leeteuk crece cada día más, él aborda de una manera maravillosa estos temas. Su pregunta -Y ustedes no se van a casar? Sabe que realmente no necesita la aprobación de "los fans" sin embargo también sabe que el matrimonio es un tema importante no solo para él si no para todos los idols, que es terrible que solo por el hecho de querer formar una familia "tu amado fandom" te de la espalda solo porque no les dijiste tus planes personales, algo que no tiene nada que ver con su trabajo como profesionista. Cuando él y Heechul hablan de estos temas realmente me conmueve, cada uno tiene su forma de tomas las cosas. Tukie preguntando cuál sería la mejor manera para que esas locas no se alboroten y se sientan "traicionadas" y Hee diciendo que es algo que tendrá que pasar, que ellos tienen el mismo deseo como ellas de formar familia, pero ambos concluyendo que es su vida, y discreta y brillantemente haciéndoles ese tipo de preguntas para intentar que en su infinita ridiculez se den cuenta de los tóxicas y absurdas que son al atreverse a pensar que tienen el derecho de decidir sobre sus vidas.
I just wish for them to marry the person they choose (and have kids if that's what THEY want) and SuJu to continue making music 🥺 I don't want any member to be alone if that's not what they want
This was something different... something fascinating and interesting!! Don't get me wrong, I'm not talking about the fans... they are behaving like how every other immature fans do. Nothing new to be surprised about. What was different was HIS approach!! How he handled them, **discussed** the marriage topic with them face-to-face, giving them scenarios and suggestions hahaha. That was an interesting approach... amd it was funny!! Really funny!! Usually in these kinda videos, I express my disagreement about the fans' behavior and preach about how idols have their own life etc. but here it was fun!! It was like I don't need to preach anything to this man because he knows what to do! He knows clearly and he won't change his mind for anyone!! I really liked it!!
Let him be with someone..!!! Don't be selfish!!! He have done his part in giving us a part himself for so many years!!! He deserves to be happy soon!! Come on!!!
Most likely, Leeteuk didn’t just bring up the topic of marriage at his party, if you remember Sungmin, how he was not there, but I hope and believe that each member of Suju will find his true love and find his own personal happiness! God Bless!!!❤️🧡💛💚💗💜💙💕💕
Some K-Elfs are really immature and demanding. I hate it when they said they will boycott if Super Junior lets Sungmin, who is now a married guy, joins their next comeback. I'm an ELF but I want our boys to get married. They can't stay single forever. We can't control their life forever. I don't care if they're married men who still wants to perform as idols.
So thankful for leeteuk coming from an exo-l. You're indeed the unofficial leader of exo. Since elfs are already matured I hope they will help us normalize idols dating and marriage.
I love the fact that he openly discusses this with ELF. Even though it started with ambiguities and sort of disagreement, he could bring it lightly and share his thought smoothly.
I think it's incredibly sad, and a bit on the pathetic side that an almost 40 year old man should feel he needs to discuss his personal choices with abunch of strangers. He should simply be able to announce his impending nuptials and fans should congratulate him and his bride. Then they should congratulate on news of little ones on the way. Fans should have no say, and be polite and accepting.
Just korean fans do this to the idols international idols really respect their desicion i hope korean fans will open their mind one day and let them live as they want please don’t act like you’re their parent🤜🏻😒
I loved this conversation! Its like Tookie is testing the waters with fans and I feel to say let him get married with blessings. And let them appear together wherever they want to appear and he can still do all the things he loves as a performer, but then go home to his family every day. Perfect!
I wish they get married and have kids!! I'm going to feel like a happy aunt! LOL but seriously, some ELF need to be realistic, they're humans, they have feelings... I just want to see them enjoying "normal life"...
You know his educating elf’s when he goes straight to the marriage question and let them tell him what’s on their selfish minds. I hope all suju can get married so we all can be happy and move on from that awkward* line some elf’s has put them onto
So much respect to him for this. We all know how announcing relationships - god forbid marriages! - goes for K-pop idols. Taking the fans to the table and sort of working this out with them, forcing them to tell him directly their expectations... really unusual, really effective and really ballsy. That's a hard conversation; most of those fans don't actually know what precisely they want and expect. They have a loose idea, and a loose idea is way easier to defend, because you don't have to be consistent with it. It's a breath of fresh air to see someone actually confront this dynamic face to face.
Marriage is not about other people think about someone's status.. MARRIAGE is a SACRED UNION where in 2 individuals PROMISED to be together in a LIFETIME. There are many aspects to be considered in stepping into marital status but what is the most essential focus of a man getting marry to a woman? Traditional Point of View: Society demands you to have a lifetime partner. Spiritual Point of View: High Entity given you a special gift that manifest the unification of 2 energies to be the mirror of sacred state. Societal Point of View: Everyone must enter into marriage life so that we are in.. a contributor of Nation building.. Personal Point of View: We have different preference in the context of marriage either with the religious influence or without but all of us have our own reason, dream, and model when it comes in marriage. What matters most in marriage? It's part of man's stages in life but the MOST IMPORTANT in marriage life- you can see yourself as a different individual from the other half.. RECIPROCITY is a common respect in all differences between 2 people, other Orientation and many more.. Celebrity or not.. let people decide for themselves.. do not dictate on what he/she have to do or not to do.. we are all equal regardless if we are under the marriage ground or single.. No curses cursed the single individual but the mind of the people alone. We never know what's the story behind of one's smile.. Smile gives many interpretation and meaning.. but we can see the bitter, sweet, and genuine smiles right? Let people decides alone.. and keep on appreciating people unconditionally. Marriage is a way of life ^_^ Let's keep on evolving altogether 💜
kelf are literally the reason sungmin doesnt promote anymore and the fact this nearly 40 yr old man is still walking on egg shells talking about marriage to them honestly disgusts me like they need a fucking reality check and suju needs to stop letting kelf run to group like they own them and just do wtf they want to do
He deserves to get married to a person he loves. It shouldn't matter if elfs like that person or not. We really shouldn't decide anything about his personal life and make him feel bad for falling in love. Those people always put a lot of pressure on their idol when the only thing we must care about is our idol's happiness
True, even one of the members there is not active with them anymore have gotten married and the fans just straight up said that they would not support suju if he was active with them, it’s so stupid of the fans to say that, we should not get into their personal life. If they love a person and want to get married then they have the right to do it
Very well said 😊
@@arjzsupanghari9135 thanks 😁, I will support suju if they get married and have kids, I'm not one of those who say thay they don't want them to
@@Cosplay_anime1997 was it Seungmin
@@Heyguhh I know
I feel sad that the fans don't want him to get married. As a fan of suju I wish them to be married and happy.
Me too, it’s stupid that they don’t want him to get married
When they said they won't get married I'm like "hahaha it's obviously a lie". Tell me how can they don't have any boyfriend or not getting married just bcs of their idol. It's ridiculous.
Suju is a veteran group and I'm sure most of their fans also are getting older like the members but how can they still have that kind of mindset. They need to grow up. I'm not suju's fans but I enjoy watching suju so I also want them to meet their true partner and be happy forever.
@@damdoooo exactly, it like they don't want to let go of the baby elf fase, they need to grow up and let them get married if they want to
Especially given taht there are litearlly Families by now attending Suju concerts like this to me is borderline sasaeng level but I guess it's also a line in (some) Asian Fans midn the West simply doesn't have accessible.
Leeteuk is smart, even though he loves his fans, he knows that some elf's are really immature and he doesn't need to ask them if he can get married because he's an adult. To me he was talking about getting married because he wants to prepare them for something that is inevitable. They can cry or get angry all they want but I'm sure he won't let them control his life. He wants to fall in love and be happy and he doesn't need to ask for permission. True elf's we will support Leeteuk 💙
I agree with you....my heart is hurt because He has to discuss the married issue with fans like that, He really is a true leader. For all that he's been through, he deserves to be happy!
Feels like a dad preparing his kids he is getting remarried. LOL.
1 millions agree with you....if they're control idols..means they're possessive....they don't have life....are they single n waiting to get married with theirs idols🤣🤣🤣 goshh...so silly n dumb!!!
I'm disappointed in the fans that they didn't say yes right away but I like how he talked them from a hard NO to a reluctant it'd be ok if you prepared us... Yes, talk them into being (sort of) reasonable
Well put. Can you imagine how their partners(if and when) feel having to remain hidden for so long?
I think the marriage discussion is a little bit different for international E.L.F.s. We don't expect our idols not to have a partner or not to get married. It's normal that they would be in a relationship. I find it quite sad that the Korean fans don't want their idols to have a private life on their own.
I wish Leeteuk and everyone else from Super Junior luck in finding the right person and finding happiness. They deserve it so very much! All the best to you Teukie! You are the best leader and a great person. Lots of love and greetings from Germany.
Yes, I think if Leeteuk asked international ELF about marriage (at the concerts maybe) there will be many ELFs who agree if he gets married
@@ajengwulann7365 they'll be like,, "give us niece and nephew soon!!"
@@royalcheese665 yess!! Aren't you curious about how cute their child will be^^
But there are also enough international fans who wouldn't accept that. I've seen a lot of obsessed fans and none of them were Korean.
@@kpoplove6001 I don't understand how these people want to wish him to be alone his whole life?! It's very sad. Everyone is craving a family of their own, personal support and be loved. Everyone is entitled to have the same wish.
I'm glad he talked to them directly and brought up the marriage topic. And even when they were not fully accepting or understanding he handled well the situation and called them out on it.
_"You feel proud when you see the idol you like mature as time goes by, right?... But suddenly this person got married, would you stop liking them?"_
He's a great leader and an amazing person, he deserves to be happy, and if he wants to get married we should support him and all the members equally.
Also:
_"Tell me what plan should I have. Because I've never seen anyone's plan end up being successful."_
That's Sungmin 💙 u.u
@@haosru hmmm I remember it was for a different reason. K-elfs, or more likely the sasaengs, already know that Sungmin was in a relationship with a co-actress from the musical. They were waiting for him to announce it but he denied it when the news came out. Months later, he got married and that’s where K-elfs felt betrayed because he wasn’t honest with them plus the fact that his wife was shading them as well, pitting K-elfs and I-elfs. Sungmin doesn’t owe them an explanation but I kinda understand where the fans are coming from. Tho holding a grudge on Sungmin because of that is petty af.
Hmmmm, I think Sungmin's case there's a lot more things that we don't know. They never addressed the situation and never say his name unlike with other former members as Kangin and Kibum, they still speak fondly of them but with Sungmin is like he doesn't exist and they make subtle digs at him without saying his name once the topic is how former members handled leaving the group. They don't consider him being a part of the group, so saying it was just because his wife said bad things about elf's is being naïve, something happened between Sungmin and SuJu to have bad blood and we'll probably never know.
@@catboyYuta I think it's a sensitive topic that they aren't allowed to comment on. Kibum didn't leave because of a scandal, so he's probably safe to talk about. They've only recently mentioned Kangin, when they didn't even say his name either and he's often blurred on photos and old videos on major channels. I think because Sungmin is still active as a soloist and making tv appearances, they can't really say anything.
😢yup
@@catboyYuta i didn't catch anything that suggested there was bad blood between suju and sungmin. As i recall he was set to make a comback with suju a few years ago but was excluded after the fan response to him was still negative. And the reason they don't talk about him at all is probably because he was shunned by the elf community back then and many elfs still garner strong negative feelings about him, and it wouldve been a management decision to not mention him or be associated with him in order to preserve the group. Nobody else left because of a scandal except Kangin, but Kangin wasn't forced out by fans, he still has fans and elfs in general don't feel as strongly about his mistakes.
The birthday live was so fun. He seems worried about losing popularity after getting married which is so sad. He deserves true love and privacy. Fans are not girlfriends,you know? I honestly wants to see everyone in SuJu get married😂. He's so cute and sweet and considerate but this made me sad. Do what you want,Leeteuk. True fans will always love you💙
Yes, they all deserve to get married if they want to
I want Leeteuk be the first marry coz he need a woman taking care of him. He lot care his members now let's she be his side.
Because it happened to Sungmin
@@firefly8383 yeah, it's sad
At some point, I wanted to cry. Leetuk is so devoted towards SUJU and elfs. He should be happy and contented with his life and in order to do so,he doesn't need to ask for any kind of permission.
i hope someone there was able to tell him he can do whatever he wants as long as he is happy…
Fans don’t have the say in who he should end up with, as well as how he should spend his life. He has endured a lot as an idol at I would really be happy to know that he’ll be having a family for himself.
I sincerely hope that he will get married to have someone take care of him. He has been working continuously, he and other Suju members deserve all the best ♡
But as K-ELFs mentioned, pls tell us before dispatch do (to prepare wedding gifts hahahahahahahaha)
This is so bizzare. He is a free human being, if he wants to get married, he should get married. Asking strangers if he "can"... I feel sorry for him. He's not a slave. 🙈 This strange "culture" of Korean idols not being able to openly date or marry should end because it's toxic.
And I also feel it was creepy too. Like, Suju Fanbase is now mostly consisted of adults, not teenagers, many of whom already got married and even have children of their own.
How disturbing is is that a married woman/man, a mother/father, still lusting after another men to the point they don´t want said men got taken by "another woman"???
@@bluesapphire4262 yeah, it's so tragic. The fact that so many women there said no when he asked if they were gonna get married in order to justify them not wanting to get married is so disappointing. Especially when most of those women were probably well into their 20s/30s and in relationships. Honestly no other country has celebrities that do as much for their fans as k-celebrities do, but instead of being grateful k-fans tend to act authoritative towards their favorite idols, basically treating them as belongings.
Leeteuk is almost 40! He's dedicated so much of his life to the entertainment industry. Of course he has the right to get married when he wants! I sincerely hope he will find or has already found someone special
I actually feel really sad seeing older idols not getting married but they obviously want to as well. It feels like they’re afraid or restrained in some way. I hope he will marry a really good lady and have a happy family. He dedicated his life for this craft
If you are a fan then be a fan, dont cross the line. Dont deprived them on doing so. Let them be inlove, let them have gf, let them get married, let them be happy for godness sake. Let them live the life that they deserved. We all know that they have been our source of happiness for a long time and now i think this is the right time for them to live and think for themselves. They are actually on their 40's for goodness sake. Let as all be united and ask them to get married..
I feel kind of angry at the girls who blatantly told him upfront that he cannot get married. 🙄🤯🤦🏻♀️ He is a human and after all that he has been through, he deserves happiness! Gosh. Stop being selfish and delusional. Let’s support suju and whatever makes them happy. They are pushing 40 and they deserve happiness!
Man, I wish I spoke enough Korean & could attend that. I would have raised my hand saying "yes oppa its 100% okay to get married, any fans who say otherwise are pathetic" 🤷♀️
They even say they will judge if he chose the right person like.. whaaat
@@EVERYDODAMIES yes, I cry to know that answer...how can people think like that!!!
Like me I wish I could be there and say yes in out loud voice 😅
I'm just afraid they repeat what happened with sungmin 💔💔
I want to see suju together 💙🥺
@@EVERYDODAMIES it was a joke
@@ellanote2260 his face didn't look like they were joking. He truly looked sad and hurt that they would not give him the freedom to live his life and still do what he loves. It's so sad and selfish.
My only requirement for suju's members to get married is don't quit suju! That's all.
💙💙💙💙💙
Agreed...we all deserve to b not lonely..lets aim to hv healthier relationship...everyones human, pls be mature..their life is actually not ours to judge.. spread the 💙💙💙
Hello! Is Shindong married? Or I misunderstood you. As far as I remember, Sungmin has a wife, and, unfortunately, he has not been active in the group since then.
@@riyaolexandry6751 sorry i got the facts outdated 😣
Mine too... I don't mind them getting married as long as they are happy i will keep on supporting them
It’s interesting that he pointed out how it has never gone well after an idol once they get married. But I think that’s mostly to do with the fact that it always is a last minute surprise. I think fans want to share in their idols joy and happiness like usual. But from the idol marriages I have seen they are usually pregnancy rush jobs and the wives are hidden away.
I was so angry with the ELFs there while watching the live and felt so bad and sad for Leeteuk and all other members.This is why we can't get Sungmin back with his members.This is such a sickening view.I've been an ELF for about 15years now and it hurts me to see all this. I just want every member to live happily in whatever way they chose. They've been working hard for us for 18 years which we all know isn't something very easy. Why can't we just stay with them and support them without any pressure or obsession?
Honestly I have endless respect for Teukkie. This is obviously not an easy subject to discuss and a concern with all idols. Only he can do this in a non-scandalous way, transparent and respectful of ELFs. I personally wish him the best and all happiness in which ever form. Only he, being Suju and all, can raise this up on behalf of all idols. Leader forever
I simply don't understand why he needs to be respectful of ELF. Getting married disrespects no one. Does any of ELF respect SuJu by asking their permission before dating or getting married, or starting a family? It is so bizarre. These are human beings not possessions of their fans!
How sweet he is, even shy about marriage. Our dear leader follow you heart, you have given us a lot the years. Thank you. 💙❤️
The immediate disagreement when he asked about bringing his spouse on variety shows really rubbed me the wrong way, because it made me think of Sungmin when he went on that trot show for his wife, and the backlash from people was really hurtful. I really hope that won't be the case for him.
honestly leeteuk wants to get married since a long time now and he deserves it so much, he may even have someone already but still wanted to prepare the fans for it 😭 let the man live y'all
As a fans we should know the boundaries between fans and idol, just be realistic we don't even know them personally and we shouldn't interfere about their choice. Married or not I'll give them all my support.
Yes, and for all idols too, please tell fans first before dispatch do.. since they're falling in love with someone and dating, please tell us before dispatch or any rumor on media spreads.. or at least give us codes who is that special person.. please don't make a sudden confirmation, because fans need a time to support them.. thank you leeteuk oppa to discuss this with fans..
I wish he will get married to the one he loves. Anytime he wants. No condition. If the fan is real, they should know best how lonely teuk oppa can look sometimes. It shows. His life is not exactly giggles and rainbows, he deserves happiness of his own choosing. Realistically this lifetime is long and it’s not like all of his fans will stay forever. He deserves to have someone who will be on his side anytime anywhere rain or shine.
Get married Leadernim and we'll throw you a party 💙
Gosh, it’s so twisted, he is a living person right in front of them, they are having a direct chill convo and still they don’t treat him as a human.
It remains to be hoped that he himself does not take to heart the "opinion" of such fans. Leeteuk has been through a lot in his life and deserves to be happy.
Please I could feel his nervousness through the screen but he handle it well. YOU CAN GET MARRIED WHENEVER YOU WANT OPPA!! He deserve happiness, happy honeymoon and a vacation.
Pretty much sure Leeteuk is a person with principal, rather than change his way to suit the fans, he tried to find the middle ground so he won’t hurt his fans and his fans won’t take control of his life… I believe he knows the right time to make the decision…
I love how he try to persuaded his fans abt his marriage. It's kinda sad for him actually l, why would he ask people if he able to married or not. But we know he just try to make sure fans won't too disappointed in the future
The saddest moment I think about alot.. 😭
YOU CAN GET MARRIED WHENEVER YOU'RE READY.
We'll always support you.
He should pay attention to the comments of international fans.
He doesn't have to listen to every single word of fans too. He has his own life. After all these years, why are they still immature? 👿
I would LOVE for sujus partners to be on variety shows with them 👹 it’d be so cute and chaotic I know their partners would have to be as funny as them
I think the reason why they've been so careful about this topic to the point we don't even know if they're dating someone (except for Ryeowook and Heechul) is because they don't wanna end up like Sungmin. What happened to him was very unfair like, you can no longer promote on your group because your korean fans don't support the fact you got married? So you just have to go into an infinite hiatus since you aren't officially out of the group but you aren't even mentioned as part of it in almost 7 years? They are afraid of the power their fans have to ruin their careers forever if they don't like something. That's also the reason why Zhoumi and Henry weren't part of the official team and just sub-unit members because the K-Elfs didn't want at the time.
Leeteuk should get marry and live happily with his love one, i know it is going to hard us but i will support him.
Also i wish he can say before media and dispatch!
He is really a nice man and the one I admire a lot. And I really wish he gets married to a person he loves not the person his fans choose. After dedicating half of his life to this pathetic entertainment industry, he deserves real happiness and love. He has sacrificed so much. I don't know why these fans aren't allowing him ? Let him live his life as he wants.
The fandom needs some excitement, tbh I’m down for a wedding. Imagine all the memes that will come out of all the idols drunk af on the dance floor when each other’s songs come on.
Just follow your heart leader-nim! We will support you 100% ✨😊✨
I became elfs since my junior high school day and now i am an adult. It is surprising to see some k-elfs blatantly saying they don't want to see their suju oppa getting married. Omg he is almost 40yrs, let him start a family when he wants to and be happy. Why so possessive. Dating or getting married, it is his private life so let him be. After all these years supporting suju i just want to see them be happy. I've been so grateful they aren't disbanded and keep a good work. It is more than enough
this is like.. Lee Teuk asking u guys permissions to get married coz he has someone right now and planning to get married with her. he deserves to get married and deserves to get his own happiness without anyone permissions tho. if he is happy, we should be happy. and if he is sad, we shoud make him happy and smile again no matter what. dont make him unhappy becoz the fans dont give him permission. please, just let him find his happiness. he deserves it. no matter what, he is still a human being just like all of us.
You deserve to get married. You deserve the happiness that you’ve been look for. You deserved to be loved and to be taken care of. You already have done so much for us, ELF. Get married whenever you want to, do what you want to. We’ll always support you no matter what. ♥️
He is a true leader who listens.
I soo wish I was there and could yell "you deserve to get married and get well taken care of and supported by a person who truly loves you!" :((((((
Sincerely hoping that Leeteuk bringing this up and calmly discussing it with his fans means he likes someone enough to prepare beforehand and make sure fans don't hurt her when he deicides to get married.
I'll 100% support his decision if he decides to get married. Fans have no right to force their idols what to do with their life
Guys... I read a dozen comments and replies and I really have to voice this.... The K-elfs are just teasing him by saying he can't get married and need to go through them. What fun will it be if they say ok to everything he asked? 10 years ago, maybe K-elfs are not ready, but now they are prepared.
As for those international elfs who thought Kelfs are angry with Sungmin because he got married.... Hell No!!!! That wasn't the real reason! It was how he and his wife handled the situation back then, that left elfs and even the members heartbroken. This is the most misunderstood myth in our fandom. Too many things happened back then and I am unable to explain here...
I have nothing against him as I'm a young Elf myself, but I understand why Kelfs are so furious. Just saying
He's too nice to ELFs I feel like after this he'd still be hesitant to get married even if his hearts want to.
even so he was laughing and making jokes about it somehow I could feel the sadness he was getting from his fans' words..
I am sad for this. I have been a fan of these guys since 2008. Super Junior, SHINee SNSD, TVXQ and Big Bang were my introduction into the KPOP world. I feel that these guys have done every single thing that was expected of them, and they deserve to be happy. I know for many younger people they are just learning about the Kings and Queens who paved the way for the bands that are so huge right now. Please keep learning, Young Ones, Super Junior are Kings and deserve to be happy.
it's so sad, even his family wouldn't have a say. be happy Leeteuk...it's not up to us elfs to decide. :'(
He probably already has someone and it's seems like it's a celebrity too since he mentioned going to variety shows together, I hope that when he drops the news k-elfs don't say malicious things about his partner
Sweet. All idols deserve love and marriage. I wish they didn't have to wait so long to live normal lives, or leave their group when they get married.
Seeing them personally will make my life whole and seeing them happy makes my life whole for they deserve it more than we do 🤗😍😍 i love you my idols ☺️☺️
I think more and more 2nd and 3rd gen idols should discuss this with fans and set the stage that they will get married, fans need to get a grip, everyone needs to pursue their own dreams and if you truly love someone, you will be happy if you know they are being loved. See, this is an important boundary that an idol should draw and being older, a door they should open so the culture will change and hopefully, be better for the younger ones.
He deserves to be happy. Wish fans can be more open minded. They are in the right age.
Please get married SUJU!! we want you to be happy
also I definitely want variety shows with their spouse and kids too 👀
Even though I will be upset that things have changed so fast and we are already getting married, I would still be happy for you for finding someone you love and spending your life with them.
Even though a part of me would fall apart, another part would rejoice to see you happy.
That's what i would say if I was a fan.
I can't believe that they are still ELFs who don't want them to get married and really telling it confidently infront of their faces. I'm okay with them telling it to fans first before dispatch do. I'm also okay with them appearing on shows together because it means that they have gained enough courage to let the whole world know that they are happily in love as long as they are happily AND GENUINELY IN LOVE. It hurts me to think that they ELFs there are really firm :(( Leeteuk is already at the right age u know :(( what if finding a partner to spend the rest of his life would be his happiness? Then you should have let him do it :(( You all look like you are at the right age too but the attitudes.....haaays. I admire Leeteuk for being so brave when he discuss this infront of them tho. Just like making them answer a survey for future purposes of the whole group HAHAHAHAH Goodluck on your future plans ♡♡♡♡
He can do whatever he wants with his life. Being an idol is a job, is ridiculous that a person career ends when he get married. Fans needs to realize that idols already share a big part of his lifes, but they have the right of privacy.
But I'm happy, maybe Leeteuk has a special person in his life now and he deserve happiness, he had a very difficult life.
Imagine, Leeteuk being open to talk about marriage during his birthday live, means he is letting us know his thoughts for his future, but some people who are present there still don't agree with him getting married. Smh i don't know anymore.
i really want the sujus to have their own family, they're already at that age to settle down 🥺 as long as the person is good and brings out the best in both of them, then it's fine by me 🥺💙
Expecting a marriage announcement😍 I want all our Suju members to be happily married, show off their spouse & love them openly without worrying about anything💙
I understand that kpop fan culture is getting better, but it's really sad that a 40 year old man has to ask his fans for permission about getting married before he even starts dating. Of course age shouldn't matter and regardless of age any idol should have the freedom to love, date, marry, and find their own happiness. We all know how Sungmin was shunned by this very fan group for getting married, and in reality that has probably played a major role in the remaining members' decisions to not date seriously or get married or be open about their relationships. Leeteuk especially we know carries the burdens of the past "mistakes" of SUJU on his shoulders, and he would've repeatedly set aside his own aspirations for the sake of the group. The ending of this clip broke my heart when he asked about going on a variety show with his future wife and was immediately rejected, because he clearly had fantasized about doing that and was excited about the idea; but guess what, he probably won't ever do it now.
Disclaimer: I'm talking about the kind of fans who don't prioritize their idol's happiness and who don't see them as normal human beings who have dreams, need love, and make mistakes.
He is like almost 40 years old or something. K-fans are being so ridiculous. As a fan do you really want the idol (person), you claim to love, to die alone. I wouldn’t wish that even for my worst enemies. I love Kai (EXO), he is my ultimate bias. But I really don’t want him to be alone all his life unless he actually wants to do so. Especially seeing that he is so great with kids, I really want to see him with his kids. When I saw Chen got married and is gonna have a kid, I was genuinely happy and excited as a fan
I'm an ELF for 10 years already, and seeing other groups has a dating news, i really really really wish that news would came out from Super Junior:') at first i also don't want them to be married, but seeing all of them are aged now i really want to see them dating. and again i think as a fan we should prioritize our idol's happiness.
I know they're kinda of joking with him but I find their answer extremely ridiculous. He deserves to get married and that's on period! Of course it would be nice if he is comfortable enough to share before dispatch when he's actually getting married but that's it, it finishes like this, after letting the fans know, elfs should just be happy, end of the story. Also if for any chance he wants to join variety shows with his loved one, HOW NICE that would be? He's willingly telling them that he would share such a private moment and they're being childish saying there's no way and that he's being too much? 🙄 i literally don't have the patience with fans like this, especially when they were saying they're not gonna get married, ah yes "for real" 🙄 stfu they're all gonna have someone in their lifes but God forbid their idol to love someone 🙄🤢
I'm saying this with my whole chest, freaking fans should get their shit together and let artists live their personal life
Nooo, pls get married! As a elf who watched him since I was a teen and now married, I wish him all the happiness. And above of all, I want to see their super super junior. Wouldn’t it be so cool to have super super junior on superman is back?
On serious note, he deserves to love, to date, to get married, to do everything he wants to do. He has suffered too much over the past few years, my only hope as an elf is for him to be happy.
This is so funny,, it seems like leeteuk were doing some survey for the members as well on what to do to make sure elfs are happy when they are getting married
Nevertheless, never live for others. Priotize yourself, people can come and go in our life especially when things didn't go well. Fans still human, they come and go whenever they need without asking anyone permission. Human heart are really easy to change, if you make one mistake, they will turn their back. But, find and build your own family, that will love you without any rule, that will believe you, and not hesitate to tell you if you are wrong, and most importantly, that will make you feel warm and home💝
I became their fan when I was only 10. Super junior is not just a kpop group for me. They give me lots of good memories. My teenage days was so hard they were the ones who make ma laugh. Specially during the time that I was getting ready for my university entrance exam. There was a time that my dad was in hospital and without Super junior I couldn't be strong. Leeteuk really had very hard times in his life. He is so strong. He deserves happiness. I really wish from bottom of my heart that this man become so happy one day. He really needs some one in his life. I wish he find a girl who loves him and give him a family. This man deserves a good family.
What I love about 2nd gen groups 😍
maybe this is already a year ago, but I'm pissed off. I would like to emphasize also the voice of Leeteuk wherein he is like dealing with a bunch of kids that needed to be given nice wording, but I do love his patience here. Marriage is very (idk) kinda risky for them because of so many thoughts like losing popularity or some sort, but one thing is for sure, by the end of the day, they will decide what's best for them. Fans in that celebration should learn the fact that we are now not in some sort of fairy tale (it's unfair, sj couldn't marry anyone but the fans can WHAHAHHA) I find this part of his bday vid kinda upsetting. But kudos to Leeteuk nim, he gave them a warm smile or even made it fun.
For the longest time I had hope for kang Sora, but she’s off the market now. As long as he is happy, he deserves someone good, someone who’ll let him know how special he is. 사랑해요 오빠, soon to be 아저씨 😅😅
aww, he's so precious, trying to convince the fans. Let him get married and be happy. He deserves that the most. I'll be happy if you get married, condition: you should be happy and full in love with each other. GOODLUCK leetuk
Dios! Mi admiración por Leeteuk crece cada día más, él aborda de una manera maravillosa estos temas. Su pregunta -Y ustedes no se van a casar? Sabe que realmente no necesita la aprobación de "los fans" sin embargo también sabe que el matrimonio es un tema importante no solo para él si no para todos los idols, que es terrible que solo por el hecho de querer formar una familia "tu amado fandom" te de la espalda solo porque no les dijiste tus planes personales, algo que no tiene nada que ver con su trabajo como profesionista. Cuando él y Heechul hablan de estos temas realmente me conmueve, cada uno tiene su forma de tomas las cosas. Tukie preguntando cuál sería la mejor manera para que esas locas no se alboroten y se sientan "traicionadas" y Hee diciendo que es algo que tendrá que pasar, que ellos tienen el mismo deseo como ellas de formar familia, pero ambos concluyendo que es su vida, y discreta y brillantemente haciéndoles ese tipo de preguntas para intentar que en su infinita ridiculez se den cuenta de los tóxicas y absurdas que son al atreverse a pensar que tienen el derecho de decidir sobre sus vidas.
Es un ángel ❄️💙✨
I just wish for them to marry the person they choose (and have kids if that's what THEY want) and SuJu to continue making music 🥺 I don't want any member to be alone if that's not what they want
Que 3 años ni que 3 años, que lo haga cúando él desee 😭💙 ahí nadie pinta para decirle que tiene que hacer
He so cute with his fan
True fans should support their 'idol' in every path he choose especially marriage .Idols also deserve a happy private life .
This was something different... something fascinating and interesting!! Don't get me wrong, I'm not talking about the fans... they are behaving like how every other immature fans do. Nothing new to be surprised about. What was different was HIS approach!! How he handled them, **discussed** the marriage topic with them face-to-face, giving them scenarios and suggestions hahaha. That was an interesting approach... amd it was funny!! Really funny!! Usually in these kinda videos, I express my disagreement about the fans' behavior and preach about how idols have their own life etc. but here it was fun!! It was like I don't need to preach anything to this man because he knows what to do! He knows clearly and he won't change his mind for anyone!! I really liked it!!
Let him be with someone..!!! Don't be selfish!!! He have done his part in giving us a part himself for so many years!!! He deserves to be happy soon!! Come on!!!
Most likely, Leeteuk didn’t just bring up the topic of marriage at his party, if you remember Sungmin, how he was not there, but I hope and believe that each member of Suju will find his true love and find his own personal happiness! God Bless!!!❤️🧡💛💚💗💜💙💕💕
waw... it's really cool to have that event with fans as the audience..
Some K-Elfs are really immature and demanding. I hate it when they said they will boycott if Super Junior lets Sungmin, who is now a married guy, joins their next comeback. I'm an ELF but I want our boys to get married. They can't stay single forever. We can't control their life forever. I don't care if they're married men who still wants to perform as idols.
So thankful for leeteuk coming from an exo-l. You're indeed the unofficial leader of exo. Since elfs are already matured I hope they will help us normalize idols dating and marriage.
As long as he happy, nothing matters!
Man, just be happy, true fans will be happy for you... 🙏🏽
despite they are super senior now, the fans are still immature. the fans supposed to be matured becuz u got ur own life too
I love the fact that he openly discusses this with ELF. Even though it started with ambiguities and sort of disagreement, he could bring it lightly and share his thought smoothly.
I think it's incredibly sad, and a bit on the pathetic side that an almost 40 year old man should feel he needs to discuss his personal choices with abunch of strangers.
He should simply be able to announce his impending nuptials and fans should congratulate him and his bride. Then they should congratulate on news of little ones on the way. Fans should have no say, and be polite and accepting.
OMG...I hope those fans are just joking and they genuinely will support him having a better half and family........
Just korean fans do this to the idols international idols really respect their desicion i hope korean fans will open their mind one day and let them live as they want please don’t act like you’re their parent🤜🏻😒
I loved this conversation! Its like Tookie is testing the waters with fans and I feel to say let him get married with blessings. And let them appear together wherever they want to appear and he can still do all the things he loves as a performer, but then go home to his family every day. Perfect!
I wish they get married and have kids!! I'm going to feel like a happy aunt! LOL but seriously, some ELF need to be realistic, they're humans, they have feelings... I just want to see them enjoying "normal life"...
You know his educating elf’s when he goes straight to the marriage question and let them tell him what’s on their selfish minds.
I hope all suju can get married so we all can be happy and move on from that awkward* line some elf’s has put them onto
So much respect to him for this. We all know how announcing relationships - god forbid marriages! - goes for K-pop idols.
Taking the fans to the table and sort of working this out with them, forcing them to tell him directly their expectations... really unusual, really effective and really ballsy. That's a hard conversation; most of those fans don't actually know what precisely they want and expect. They have a loose idea, and a loose idea is way easier to defend, because you don't have to be consistent with it.
It's a breath of fresh air to see someone actually confront this dynamic face to face.
😢 How can people be so selfish? SUJU deserves happiness and if marriage is part of it, let's be happy along with them. 🙏
Marriage is not about other people think about someone's status.. MARRIAGE is a SACRED UNION where in 2 individuals PROMISED to be together in a LIFETIME.
There are many aspects to be considered in stepping into marital status but what is the most essential focus of a man getting marry to a woman?
Traditional Point of View: Society demands you to have a lifetime partner.
Spiritual Point of View: High Entity given you a special gift that manifest the unification of 2 energies to be the mirror of sacred state.
Societal Point of View: Everyone must enter into marriage life so that we are in.. a contributor of Nation building..
Personal Point of View: We have different preference in the context of marriage either with the religious influence or without but all of us have our own reason, dream, and model when it comes in marriage.
What matters most in marriage?
It's part of man's stages in life but the MOST IMPORTANT in marriage life- you can see yourself as a different individual from the other half.. RECIPROCITY is a common respect in all differences between 2 people, other Orientation and many more..
Celebrity or not.. let people decide for themselves.. do not dictate on what he/she have to do or not to do.. we are all equal regardless if we are under the marriage ground or single..
No curses cursed the single individual but the mind of the people alone.
We never know what's the story behind of one's smile.. Smile gives many interpretation and meaning.. but we can see the bitter, sweet, and genuine smiles right?
Let people decides alone.. and keep on appreciating people unconditionally.
Marriage is a way of life ^_^
Let's keep on evolving altogether
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kelf are literally the reason sungmin doesnt promote anymore and the fact this nearly 40 yr old man is still walking on egg shells talking about marriage to them honestly disgusts me like they need a fucking reality check and suju needs to stop letting kelf run to group like they own them and just do wtf they want to do
I love he had this talk with fans but I hope he choose the best for him,
Leeteuk deserves to be happy. Get married and have a family while you can. I support you. 💙