5 XAL U AH ISMAANDHAAFKA-DO YOU WANT A POSITIVE RELATIONSHIP? : BUILD IT ON COMMON GROUNDS

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This series will help you become a better communicator by improving your connection skills.
As the writer of the book "EVERYONE COMMUNICATES, FEW CONNECT" addresses, we will dive into the importance of creating a connection / relationship which will translate to better communication.
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6 connectors connect on common ground
02:58 It's difficult to find common ground with others when the only person you're focused on is yourself
03:18 You will understand better others when you understand yourself better
03:42 Book Terry Felber "am I making myself clear "
04:43 All positive good relationships are built on common ground
05:32 1. Focus on them
You need to minimize this
05:42 A) assumption -I
05:50 already know what others know,feel and want
06:00 All miscommunication are the result of different assumption
07:13 B) arrogance -
07:17 I don't need
You cant build relationships when 07:30 you have that mentality
07:44 C) indifference-I don't care
You have no empathy
08:13 Nelson Mandela said : if you talk to a man in the language he understands that goes to his head and if you talk to him with his language that goes to his heart
08:50 D) control - i don't want
09:22 Knowledge is power yes but what leader need is collective power
Connect is choice
09:54 2 identify shared interest
10:18 I) Availability - choose to spend time
Be always available to connect
So you can listen
So you can help
So you can focus
10:28 II) listening-( to the common ground)
10:36 Finding common ground-require us to pat attention to others
10:52 Why should I listen to you
11:07 III) question - wre you willing to question to ask show you are interested
11:18 The best question to ask someone is why
When someone said I'm happy tell me why please
11:44 RON PURYEAR teached us form Family Occupation Recreation and Massage
12:49 IV) thoughtfulness- ways to thank them
Show them you care
13:02 People don't care how much you know tell they know how much you care
13:33 V) Humility- I will think of myself less and think others more
13:55 Humility means knowing and using your strength for the benefit of others on behalf a higher purpose
14:22 Humble leaders are not weak but strong
15:03 If you want to inspire others don't talk about your success but your failure
15:26 VI) Adaptability - I will move my word to theirs
To move others we have to move within them
15:40 We have to see things in their prospective
16:07 3. Bring them with you
16:35 Do I feel what you feel before asking you do you feel what I feel
If you want to get the common ground for other start with their feelings
If others could see the future the way I see it then we could be forward
17:32 2:Do I see what you see before ask do you see what I see
18:06 3:do I know what you know before ask do you know what I know
Do you want to cross your point or know what others know first
If you give the answer before you understand the question
18:35 4: do I know what you want before ask do you know what I know
18:46 There is great difference between knowing and understanding
18:56 You cant know the person without understanding him/her
19:30 1. What do you dream about
19:34 2. What do you sing about
19:47 3. What do you cry about
19:58 gabogabo
20:24 outro
This series will help you become a better communicator by improving your connection skills.
As the writer of the book "EVERYONE COMMUNICATES, FEW CONNECT" addresses, we will dive into the importance of creating a connection / relationship which will translate to better communication.
FIIRSO TAXANA ISKU-XIRKA • TAXANAHA ISKU XIRKA
FIIRSO KOBCINTA IYO KORINTA
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