The fact that Soyeon got accused when she was homeschooled. Like what did she bully the air?! Also Hyunjin getting accused...again but this time by a girl. When he was in an all boy school Edit: Girl or boy the hyunjin bullying scandal was proven false (they just had arguments anyway) Also I wrote this before they said anything about it being a boy. And Soyeon bullying scandal wether they said she was in homeschool at the time or bot was also proven false
Kihyun has been cleared, the accuser has confessed that they MISTOOK him as another Kihyun from their class! Starship is taking legal actions for defaming Kihyun. He went through all this just because of someone's mistake
I bet they were targeting him tho and only said they were mistaken when the company caught up on their bullshit, kihyun is a famous idol, how could they not know and lead it on until the company gonna take legal action
The fact that it was the same person who accused him back in 2015 but the lawsuit was dropped (Likely by Kihyun himself) because the accuser cited that they'd been in a bad place mentally and wrote an apology/reflection letter for lying and then they did it again?? nahhh that person is a jealous demon because wtf
@@baishalibanerjee8888 mistake? How can you mistake two different Kihyun when one of them is famous af in Korea, this was not a mistake this was a trend to bring down young Korean celebrities, some of them happens to be true but this one is just shady. Read them comments above the person stated that they mistook him for another kihyun in the class, but how can u mistaken that for that long lmao
@@baishalibanerjee8888 I don’t know if u know this but small accusation can ruin someone’s career in Korea and Korean people are good at cancelling celebs
I agree with you. With the technology that is around people can also do cyberbullying which could make things even harder for the victims because it's another way to be picked on.
exactly... I'm honestly so digusted cause I went through bullying. It's such a sensitive topic and yet disgusting and cheap are using it for their own satisfaction smh
some rumors said that these allegations are made by crazy fans of the first few idols that get accused to cover up for them make all this seems like a silly trends
On Unpretty Rapstar Soyeon showed that she went to school. I remember she told she used to wear a wig because she has dyed hair. I didn't know she was homeschooled, but maybe just for a couple of years. Of course I'm not saying those bully accusations are true
@@mariapazparenti yeah she eventually go to an actual school but at that time if I'm not mistaken, she's already a trainee at cube and quite busy to the point that I don't think she would have a time to do the accusation
I know he has apologized n things n tbh I don't even know if he actually bullied or not ....but speaking of the insults it is bullying but it impacts u indirectly it happened with me when I was bullied in my 5 grade n now I m in 10 grade long time ago i know but the amount of insecurity n other problems it has built in me is shit as fk
It’s sad how the real victims are accused of being lying about their struggles because the pretend victims are making this stuff up because of jealousy due to fame..
no offence but i thought some of the cases were sooo exaggerated like these "victims" can chill we all know they just wanna ruin careers idols have worked so hard for
I think the alleged victims should bring more evidence like medical or nurse reports (in physical bullying) and testimony from the teachers and classmates and they should also file a report against them in court (like grace said you can sue your bully in Korea) and then I think more people will start to believe them because everyone is innocent until proven guilty.
@@innominatesoul2277 that's so dumb lol, how can you sue someone for something they did as a child? I was bullied at one point but I wouldn't sue someone for it.
It’s the same with all types of abuse, I’ve found. Being a victim of abuse myself, it angers me when people lie about it for attention or because of jealousy. They’re ruining it for those who have gone through actual abuse
Same here, I was bullied for a very long time until high school when my family moved and I was finally free. But to this day I still deal with mental health problems and I can't trust people easily anymore, meaning it's hard for me to make friends. These bullies don't understand how severe their actions can be on another person's life, they need to be held accountable.
Breaks my heart to read this. If you all don't mind, I will pray for all of you, so that you may be healed mentally and be able to find peace in life, in Jesus Name 💜
Same I will never forgive them , I’m half Bengali and half Korean but I had to move to USA and I’ve been bullied for 4 years there . Why ? I’m Asian that’s why
@@shock9030 yes he did but Hyunjin literally sent selfies and a goodnight message with a heart emoji to his friends before he went to sleep why would he bully someone? Also it could be because Stray Kids are on Kingdom and antis thought it would be the chance to ruin their chances on winning.
@@gracechin3212 “hyunjin literally send selfies and goodnight messages with heart emojis to his friends” is honestly a weak argument. That’s like saying ‘person A would never hit person B because person saves kittens who are stuck in trees’. For the next time think carefully.
There is a HUGE difference between not being friends with someone anymore vs being bullied. These things happen all over the world even adults bully each other sometimes which isn't okay but I find it strange how one person spoke and now all of sudden you hear more idols and stories.
Dude some of the accusations though “She told me I smelled so I washed my hair three times that night.” “She stole my pen and never gave it back.” “He never smiled at me when we made eye contact.” “He bumped into me while changing classes, and didn’t apologize.” People don’t really know what bullying is, and if this is bullying in South Korea someone should have told me when I was young so I could have immediately moved, because the bullies I dealt with were relentless in making my life a living hell... like full body slam into the locker.
HyunA,Rose,or Taeyeon please marry me when I went to school I got pens stolen even my gym clothes some even took my money but that isn't bullying it's called stealing and teenagers being stupid . I would totally understand if it lead to threats being carried out and violence then yes it's bullying. All that happen is they didn't like the fact they were ignored and now they wanna ruin their careers for nothing .
@@licisjourney7307 Seriously some of the accusers are ridiculous. At the end of the day we all do stupid shit as kids and people change so much. I bumped into the bully that made my life a living hell throughout, middle school when I went to college. She ended up living in the dorm across from me, and when she remembered who I was she started crying. She apologized and explain to me how she was going through some shit back then(mother had cancer, and the father ditched them, she had to take care of her sick mother, and her little sister). She felt so bad for how she behaved that for the next two weeks she would go out of her way to leave me Starbucks with an apology...she did that every day. I hung out with her once, and we’ve been best friends since then...it’s been 5yrs. The whole point of that is that people change, and I don’t think that idols should be judged on the stupid crap they did when they were kids.
I attended Japanese school and got bullied a lot because they find out that I'm a halfer. They call me names like germs, put a dead and mutilated goldfish under my desk, put thumbtacks on my shoes etch....... Right now I still look at my shoes every single time because I'm still thinking that there might be thumbtacks there 😂 I told my parents about it and my teachers don't even do a thing about the bullying incidents. Then I changed school, and I was like okay no bullying me anymore. Everyone there was really nice and friendly 😃🙌
Half Japanese would be loved in the West! I'm sad about Hana Kimura. She was half Japanese and half Indonesian and dissed because of that. The only thing better than being Japanese is being HALF Japanese. I just can't understand Japan sometimes...
For me, I feel like in America (I am American) most students wouldn’t tell that they are being bullied because if they did, the bullies would come and bully them even more. Also teachers don’t really help honestly.
Everyone processes trauma differently. It's not uncommon for people's brains to completely block out certain memories if they were extremely traumatic. Not that I'm defending the false accusations, though.
Repression is actually a very common trauma response, I still know that I was bullied, but from the three years in which it was the strongest I barely remember anything at all. It's like these three years of my life don't really exist anymore in my memories, only sometime small snippets come up again.
Finally, someone said that! I was bullied at school, and I really don’t remember how exactly. I still remember who bullied me, my feelings, but ever since I would immediately forgot what exactly they did or say to me. That’s was always a problem coz I could never prove the bullying to adults, I just didn’t know what to say, there was nothing in mind. I’m actually glad now that I don’t remember any of that shit because I don’t want to accuse or be connected in any way to these people. But it was a huge nuisance back in the days.
@@forose3393 I'm not against if ever it is true coz there's nothing wrong about it. They're both human and I believe falling inlove is part of human life. What the problem here is how the article was form, it was very scandalous. It very obvious they released this news just for clout and money and of course to cover up something fishy in sokor. The evidences are not coherent. I mean I rather believe in jenkai pic than this one.
Someone said all this kpop idols bullying issue and this jennie and gd dating news is used to cover up the real problem in sokor which is Seoul's mayor sexually harassed secretary before his death.
@@prettysavage2839 Yeah but I believe it's just them covering up I mean just take a look at jenkai it's all media play but I'll still support them tho if they actually date
In the Philippines and other Southeast Asian countries : "saying mean words to your classmates are considered bullying." Literally us: *trash talking 24/7*
I think this situation has gotten out of hand. I did see a comment that said Soyeon was homeschooled and that Hyunjin went to an all boys school. On a different video I saw a comment that said Pledis Entertainment released a statement saying the accusations against Mingyu are false. I think this situation will make it harder for actual bullying victims because people might think that they are lying. I agree with Grace that there is a fine line between drama from school/falling out with friends vs bullying someone. With the technology that is around today cyberbullying is another way for bullies to pick on people and can make things harder on the victims. I think that it sucks that someone's career can potentially be ruined because of a rumor.
Uff I thank God . There r very rare bullies in my country .🇮🇳 If someone bully someone in school they r going to be sued by teachers and their parents. In my school if someone bullies someone secretly the victims go to the staff room in the break or lunch hour and just say it to their respective class teacher . Or write a letter and keep on the table
In india they may not physically bully you but there is a lot of emotional bullying and it is also done by teachers😔😔😔 I have been the victim of it. I was treated like a disease and it still haunts me
People are getting more and more unfiltered online. I remember a time where a click on the block button was all you had to do.. Nowadays a lot of people are having fast typing hands with a slow thinking brain. Instead of being literally in front of a person and having (or at least trying to have) a normal thinking process with some morals and values, now you have those that are literally protected by a screen and hiding behind it.. therefore I think it's easier to bully someone online, because you won't feel that level of empathy or respect like you would have if you would actually stand in front of someone. Boredom/anxiety etc.. amplifies this even more
I saw on the news that a girl from US I forgot where exactly it is, she was bullied at school so she killed herself then the bullying doesnt even stop they post like "mommy dont tuck me in this * bed * tuck me in this * coffin *" like where's the respect?! the girl is fucking dead and still got bullied online... the school doesnt give a shit, not even a punishment to the people who bullied that girl tbh the whole "stop the bullying" by the school is a joke they dont even have responsibility to stop bullying.
@لقد زقت معنا yeah he graduated from a girls and boys high school . There's even a vlog from a student in the school he studied . He si included in that video.
"Everyone is a villain in someone's story" Not that I'm agreeing to bully, but like Grace said, find the difference between actual bully and old school drama. I personally think that I have no big beef with anyone in school. But I admit that there are some people at school that I ghosted due to us not clicking. People whom I despised because of their behaviour that seemed intolerable to me. And ngl, I also think I can be overreact with my attitude back then. I was indeed the villain in their stories. But we moved on and thats just that. I or they may remained as whatever perspective we were described as in the memories. Accept that fact, and be better.
Person really reason out how hyunjin “bullied” them is that they commanded hyunjin to close the back door and hyunjin refused and said “no”, like the back door is used by several students, why single him out? Even if he’s the closest to it and he refused, that’s no bullying
Even me way back highschool I used to be so strict and sometimes mean to my groupmates because i'm the leader and it's my duty to keep an eye to my members. I always heard harsh words behind my back and they hate me for getting on their way and gave them punishment that for me was a form to discipline them when they create trouble. One time, the mother of my classmate pulled my hair because her daughter came home crying and didn't want to go back to school because she was saying that I bullied her when I kick her out of our group project and yelled at her frustrating attitude in public. I admit that i was a bitch to do that but she ignore the warnings of her mistakes. The funny thing here it was because she didn't bother to attend our meetings even once and always busy with her boyfriend which her mother didn't know. The students who hate me came testify that I was also a bitch to them. They are bunch of hypocrite people that I help to maintain their grades but at the end of the day I got a penalty at school because I chose not to revealed what I know and accept to be the bad person in the picture for I was worried what will gonna happen if her strict parents found out that she have two boyfriends. They label me as a bully but they are not innocent too. So yeah, there is always a side story why we look so bad to other people.
some of these comments are really dumb tbh. so you think a idol wasn’t a bully “because they don’t look like one” “they are cute” “they are kind”. we literally don’t know these people. you guys read one comment and spread it everywhere, stop having so much trust in these people, they aren’t your friends. ofc not saying they’re bullies, but don’t automatically think they aren’t because they’re your idols. also the amount of people saying soyeon wasn’t a bully bc she was homeschooled, when there was a school photo in this video ! do you guys not watch the video ?
@@amanda4540 it pains me to see these people defending because I just know that no matter what their idol has been exposed if they will heavily refuse it
How do you know they weren't bullies tho? Not saying they are I'm just saying, we dont really know these people. Alot of times the personalities of idols is a facade, we have no idea who they truly are
@@JordanWilliams-ix2td That what if game is just implying that they are. Innocent until proven guilty, they are all not bullies until proven otherwise.
@@JordanWilliams-ix2td I didn’t say anything about whether the said idols are bullies or not. We will never know who is one, unless there’s further proof, but I’m just saying there’s countless idols being dragged in one day that it’s hard to believe all of them were bullies.
Nah, I feel this is something prevalent everywhere. People see a person who is calling out others for something. Whether or not it's true, they'll call out others for doing the same thing. They either call these people out because they actually committed the thing or because they just want to use the wave to end the career of someone they don't like.
I'm from INDIA and I'm not sure about other cities or other schools but in my school Bullying is not a problem at all The reason is that our teachers are SO Strict and most specifically the students go straight to the teacher in case of any mistreatment And they even threaten to complain to teacher on every little thing🤣🤣
Same girl.... Our schools are best and if someone thinks about their old time in school they would probably remember their best school memories and not the bullying ones because bullying is very rare here.
I think ex-friends of Idols are just feeling jealous and bitter because they’re no longer friends and the friendship ended on a sour note. Which happens for everyone on the planet. Ending a friendship on a bitter note doesn’t make you a bully. These kids need to chill out and get over the past.
No, it's sad that there are kpop idols who are worse than jimin( AOA). They might look like an angel in front of the camera but you don't know what's happening off camera.😭😭😭😭😭😅
@@Criselle307 I think it’s sad that fans treat Idols like they’re perfect humans and then get shocked when it’s revealed they’re flawed like everyone else. Obviously people that are awful like AOA Jimin deserves to be exposed. But people like Soojin from G idle did nothing wrong. She wasn’t a bully at all she just said a few curse words to a close friend and then ended the friendship. That’s not a big deal, everyone does that.
Yeah. Just a few days ago, a lot of younger Twitter users made an artist who is disabled lose their job, because of a couple of drawings. They put a real-life person in danger during a pandemic over lines on paper. When called out on it, they said kids can't cyberbully an adult and that cyberbullying is not real.
@@jayaniee You know, I too believed that cyber bullying is bs and why don't you just "walk away from your screen". But now as I have started using social media more I have realised that it is very much real and really dangerous. When someone abuses me on ig or RUclips then I feel a little bad. And now imagine if you get hundreds of abusive messages and there are videos on you and there in the comments section people are saying bad things about you. When the Irene incident happened I literally couldn't sleep after reading all the hate comments about her on RUclips and reddit. Now, imagine if all the comments were directed on me. I can't even imagine my mental state if that ever happened to me.
@@animelook2157 It's good that you understand now. But I would also like to add, Cyberbullying is much more dangerous than physical bullying. If you get bullied at school, going home would allow you to get away from it. If you get bullied online no matter where you go, it's there. A simple click and it's all there.
@@jayaniee I agree. I am kind of a thick skinned person so when people abuse me or bully irl then I don't really feel that bad. 😅😅😅 But when someone abuses me online then it hurts. I don't know why.
In my school, bullying is looked very down upon on. Last time there was a bully in my school was two years ago. She would pick on the eighth graders and steal the second graders lunches. Since she made it very obvious that she was a bully, she didn’t have any friends at all. No one sat with her at lunch, no one played with her, she everybody judged her. She moved very quickly when she saw that my school doesn’t tolerate bullying.
no no you were the one that didnt do the research . hyunjin went to a coed elementary and middle school ( seoul sungil elementary school & seoul sungnae middle school ) and only attended an all boys school in high school ( dongbuk high school , which he didn't attend for that long since he ended up being transferred to sopa ) . he is being accused of bullying someone in MIDDLE SCHOOL not in high school , so its possible it happened .
@@mala_kal don't spread misinformation no bullying occurred ALL the* teachers, students even the Victims agreed that they couldn't truly remember the correct facts so he apologized to his inmature behaviour and he was sorry if his word's cause ANYONE to be hurt. Also His teacher wrote out a statement saying how bad they feel because after talking to other teachers that were there around that time they pointed out that all the children in that grade were displaying inmature behaviour.
Just wanted to inform that a former classmate of hyunjin clarified that this was fake, said hyunjin was a very calm kid and he also posted high school album photo to prove it
@@anonymouslyanonymous7925 he now apologized but not for admitted as a bully Jyp entertainment gone to his school and confirm ut It was a misunderstanding between Hyunjin and the victim The accuser said that herself doesn't remember everything that happened in the past Hyunjin apologize for being hurtful words , but clearly he didn't used any violence , as well as hyunjin teacher from the school also Posted a statement that he wasn't a bully , but there were like word fights going on school We all have misunderstandings and we fight by words in school right ?? That is not bullying Anyway you can find his apologize letter in their instagram page And now everything solved The accuser said that it's okay by now
@@karthu2179 by the looks of how hyunjin's accuser came out i think every single human being when they reach their 20s should be reminded that they had petty quarrels in middle school or high school and we all are bullies! This is really stupid not to mention immature. I am more mad at JYPE for their statement.
Hyunjins was proven false but the statement JYP put out still made him sound like a bad guy, they put him on hiatus on like feb 25 and now its April 20th and he's still on a hiatus and all i want is for him to come back especially since it was proven false i want him back
@@leanneagdeppa_ congrats we won. Don't worry he will be back soon. When they will announce their comeback i am pretty sure he will come back then. Let's love them till the end.
Grace, there may not be "racism" in Korean schools, but like you mentioned with your mom - there is colorism. I think kids get bullied more for being darker :( which is so sad and unfair, especially to hear at a young age. All bbs are worthy and beautiful!!
@에스더 I'm sorry to hear that Esther, kids (and adults) can be mean and thoughtless so don't take it to heart. Know that beauty is always changing and "trending" and doesn't reflect who you are inside. It's weird because in some parts of America, people tan to appear darker, while in Asia or other Countries, people lighten their skin. But remember that owning your difference makes you unique and powerful.
@에스더 omg sad to hear. Just know that tan skin is popping. It accentuates the mussels more than pale skin and looks more glowy when moisturized. The melanin in your skin will protect you more against sun damage and you will age less than people with pale skin do. Not to put the one over the other, but just find the perks in your beautifull skin.
@에스더 hi, Idk if you're gonna see this, but I just want to say, LOVE YOUR SKIN. Colourism is honestly one of the dumbest forms of discrimination, skin colour determines nothing about a person besides their level of melanin production and ability to withstand sun damage. If anyone tells you anything about your colour, ignore them or tell them to eff off ( whichever works better for you), and please never use skin lightening products, because they just kill your skin cells. I'm not going to say tan skin is better (cuz that would be colourism) but I will say that healthy skin is good skin, and if you are taking care of your skin , you have nothing to worry about.
@에스더 I'm glad you were reminded of that :) It's challenging to go against the norm in this society, but there's something special about each one of us as cliche as that sounds - it's true. Our whole existence on earth shouldn't be dependent on our skin color or beauty standards - that's not living. So I hope you'll remember to be kind to yourself when those degrading thoughts come up because they are not your thoughts and you can reject them.
@에스더 tan skin is popping in the u.s. a lot of white people spend a lot of money for spray tans. colorism sucks. people want to buy your skin color but you have it naturally, try to cherish your insecurities. 🥰
When I was at school, we used to handle different: "talk shit, get hit" there was very few cases of bullying because almost everyone knew how to defend themselves (I'm from South America by the way)
That’s the best way honestly. Let kids learn the hard way that their words have consequences. I’m from the US and if you defended yourself in school then YOU got in trouble😒 pretty dumb
I'm from South America too. I would say that bullying is indeed different here. Yes, of course, it exists and there are cases that are pretty bad. But in general, people tend to stand for themselves more and the ones doing the bullying rarely go to extremes of violence like in other countries. I would say that the most usual bullying in South America would be psychological, in the mean jokes kind of way. Or having someone that is "fun" to make fun of. I repeat, not good... but at least people don't go to hospitals, suicide, or get robbed...
I’m from South America too and I think as my fellow South American just mention, bullying is different here, there’s not many racist bullys because we are all so mixed so... it would be kind of stupid and we just kind of stand up for ourselves like, someone is screaming at you, scream louder and that’s it
I don't know about you guys but I will never forgive my bullies. Was bullied in elementary school. Subsequently went to a better school because of my grades and lost touch with almost everyone. One day in college one of those bystanders requested to follow my IG. I accepted it because I thought I was over it. Fast forward two years I was on summer exchange and swiping on IG I saw her IG story celebrating some achievement of my tormentor, with a couple others present. She tagged them and called them "pride of (school name)" and also said "(home-room teacher name) aren't you proud of us" as she pans the camera to said teacher who ignored all my reports because she preferred the other students and because I wasn't local. I honestly thought I was over it until that point and I just lost it. I cried and just got ridiculously emotional. For one fucking hour. I was 22 that time and I was last bullied by them at age 12. One decade and I'm still not okay. It still triggers me. I blocked the ex-schoolmate instantly. No, I don't forgive bullies. Being young is not an excuse (especially not for that biased home room teacher she was 40) to be a horrible human being.
I'm indigenous and I was constantly bullied because of it, the reason why is because my parents put me on a public school which was on the rich part of the city, since I was darker than them I was bullied and making fun of, also because of my name. My name is Ada which in Spanish is confused with "Hada" (Fairy in Spanish) I was constantly told "Why is your name Ada (Referring to fairy) if fairies are white and cute but you are dark and anorexic" It has happened to me for years but sadly there is nothing I can do, finally I'm going to college so I'm begging this year to be different, I understand the frustration when it comes to bullying, all of the feelings you have when you go through that, I suffered not only bullying but also racism
"If fairies are white-" hold up I believe my emojis say otherwise 🧚🏻♀️🧚🏿♂️🧚🏼♀️🧚🏾🧚🏽♀️🧚🏽♂️🧚🏾♀️🧚🏼🧚🏿♀️ Also when I hear anyone refer to someone who's thin as "anorexic" I think they just feel like fatasses regardless of their weight and they're trying to convince themselves otherwise. Like that's something they need to work on to feel better but instead they put down people they envy. That's been my experience anyway
And ps college IS different. It's easy to avoid the mean girls and assy boys because they stick together and everyone else no longer cares about that stuff
*hugs* College is better than you think, people dont bother you as much as they do in grade school. In my opinon, I believe fairies are beautiful, no matter what they look like. beautiful, powerful, strong and amazing just like you. Sometimes you gotta turn the negative into something positive! Things will get better from here I promise
and jaywhypee out here making our Hyun apologize for such a small thing that happened 8-10 yrs ago to keep the company's so called "reputation" like did jyp even have one in the first place? 💀💀💀🙄🙄✋🏼✋🏼
@Shaivi Vats I was just saying that jype didnt handle it well and they made hyun write a handwritten apology and post it on insta which was unnecessary since he has already physically apologized to the accusers and they accepted his apology. Also not to mention how Hyun is made to take a halt? all these things arised more accusations and made it seem like Hyun did bully someone really harshly which prolly isnt even true and neither has jype released any kind of official statement regarding the situation which again leads to more accusations and more hate towards hyunjin which none of us want.
And ig that’s all you care about lol. Shows the morals of all their fans, they don’t give an f about the victims, they just desperately want to prove that the idol that they’re unhealthily attached to is innocent.
The people accusing idols of bullying are the real bullies. There are spreading fake information and posting malicious comments which is cyber bullying.
back in elementary, our school had this whole anti-bullying campaign and we had talks with police officers telling us that bullying is already against the law and we can get sued for it. thinking about it now, it was very amazing that we had that here in the philippines.
One thing i love about the Philippines is that bullying is never tolerated and teachers are really doing a great job in handling these situations. Also, the senior-junior issue is non-existent here. I have never seen anything like that.
@@injoo3539 i agree. when i joined clubs and organizations back in high school, those who were older than us basically treated us as if we were their friends. those are probably some of the perks of our education environment in the philippines
I'm from the Philippines too, and we do anti-bullying campaign every year in our school too but still bully exists. Edit: but bullying here is not that worst compared to the other countries.
i don’t really think bullies should be forgiven. this is my personal opinion, but as someone who’s been bullied for my whole school life so far, i don’t think i’ll ever be able to forgive any of those bullies nor forget all the physical and metal damaged they’ve managed to make me go through.
while i understand that you may have a very bad experience, i don’t think they shouldn’t be forgiven but should be punished for it, not their career seized because they actually worked hard for it. i have never been bullied but i have heard a lot of stories of extreme bullying cases and understand why you feel that. i hope you’re doing better
@@ne3218 i get what you mean! i wouldn’t want to do anything to harm them or their career, that would just turn me into a terrible person like them. but ofc, i wouldn’t really feel bad if someone else did🧍🏽♀️lmao
@@ne3218 and when we think of it, the only way of making these idols be ‘punished’ and make them apologize or whatever, is for them to be called out. there’s literally no other way to get to someone this big. it depends on how they and their company handles it if it ruins their career or not, and ofc also depends on how fans and netizens react + cancel culture
I was Bullied in my teen. And most of time i came home crying and it ruined my whole teen and still tormenting me . I hope i can forgave them but i don't know when maybe in future. Those horrifying memories doesn’t go away trust me when i say this.
Innocent until proven guilty... yes, some of them might be actual bullies before and I must say, they deserve the consequences. But there are also people that we call "antis" who blurts out accusations without solid evidences.
I would just like to say that in Hyunjin's case it was an argument NOT bullying. Even the person who was apparently bullied said that it had been a long time and that they didn't remember all the details. I hope this clears some stuff up.
i was bullied mercilessly when i was young. sent home with bruises and torn clothes and lumps on my head. i harbored resentment for a time. but something crazy happened: i became an adult. and the more adult i became, the less i gave af about who did what when i was young. i bring this up to suggest one thing: most of the outrage is coming from young people. i don't grudge them their outrage either; they're young. but with life experience they're likely to understand that what was in the past is not who we are, and people can (and often do) grow into decent people. but for now, they'll leverage the power of the internet to bring judgment on someone they don't even know, involving a case they have no knowledge of, because that's what the internet does.
i was about to write the same thing..i think most of these accusers haven't grown up (even i tho i assume that most of them are in their 20s considering who they are accusing, so not exactly children here either...) and dealt with real life yet to be wrapped up with what happened in their middle/high school life. Was bullied too and resentful of the ahole for a long time and then college/career/life happened and i have better things to do with my time. And yes people are not the same as they were as a middle schooler, however from what i have seen in korean culture, i'm not sure they believe ppl can change or they are not likely to forgive them for making mistakes from grade school to now.
I understand your point, but it's not easy for a lot of people to just get over bullying. Some people go through severe bullying that leaves them with lasting trauma, not to mention the impact bullying can have on their mental health at the point in time they're being bullied, causing issues like anxiety and depression. Everyone handles situations differently, and I think people should be allowed to process their emotions in a way that is healthiest for their personal wellbeing.
Wtf are teachers doing in school if you are sent with torn clothings or bruises the person responsible should have been expelled I think it will be better if teachers paid more attention.
@@rinrin9236 you are absolutely correct. unfortunately, that's not what we're seeing from the outrage mob on the internet, who are projecting their emotions on situations they know nothing of. and when they jump to conclusions based on these emotions, without affording due process to the accused, it brings harm to individuals (and companies, and fandoms) who are vulnerable to public opinion. resisting the temptation to do so takes maturity, which comes with life experience that the self-righteous internet jury just doesn't seem to have.
@@afrobeatsislife1677 there's not much teachers can do after school and off campus, which is when/where most of my bullying experiences took place (bullies are usually wise to the rules). as for parents, obviously they need to teach kids to not beat up others kids. but if that were the way for everyone, these discussions wouldn't be necessary.
loonas chuu is an example of people taking advantage of the situation. the acuser came out and said they lied and exaggerated their friendship but now they’ve hurt chuu’s reputation and her mental health (she’s mentioned before that her nice personality meant she always got hurt and couldn’t tell anyone, plus she’s cancelled her schedules) and now it’s hard to believe other victims too.
i dont believe shit knetz say unless there's actual proof. chuu wouldn't hurt a fly let alone cause someone emotional damage, this week has been draining.
Luckily for both Chuu and Orbits, no Koreans don’t pay attention to Chuu’s case because it isn’t legitimate. This won’t hurt her reputation, at least considerably.
Soojin’s case actually sparks the whole #BullyToo movement, and the victims also bring their own lawyers to demand an issued apology from Soojin for their trauma occured in the past. The victims have evidents themselves, and in my perspective are trustworthy.
All these cases are a mix of false accusations (Chuu/Soyeon), friends falling out (probably the Soojin case) and actual bullying (April/Hyunjoo case). It’s all a mess.
People in Korea don’t actually pay attention to Chuu’s bullying allegation. Just want to clarify. (The number 1 hot search on Korean Internet right now is Soojin’s, for those who’s curious)
what do you mean by that?if she looks innocent and cute,she can't be a bully or what?ik the rumors are false,but judging someone's behaviour based on their appereance is wrong
@@marica_istrate thats very true! I don’t think she’s innocent just bc of how she looks, I was judging off of her personality (that we can see) because she’s always kindhearted and sweet
hyunjin went to a coed elementary and middle school ( seoul sungil elementary school & seoul sungnae middle school ) and only attended an all boys school in high school ( dongbuk high school , which he didn't attend for that long since he ended up being transferred to sopa ) . he is being accused of bullying someone in middle school which is possible .
Stray kids are growing in popularity and it shows. Woojin then Han then Hyunjin. I hope they be strong like Bts and stay together the bigger problem now is fucking JYP to not ruin it cuz we all knew What happened to Got7. I really hope their friendship leads the way.
ok you want an online school story lol? In creative writing class, we had to do "blackout poems" (take a piece of text, keep a few words and cross out the rest) and I chose the lyrics Serendipity (BTS) and I was like lol nobody's going to know what this is but someone wrote in the chat "Jimin!" and I was shook :)
I remember being bullied and harassed at school back in the day for being Asian. I skipped sooo many classes during my GCSE days and I remember the first year I was virtually non existent during PE & Graphics - cause my bully was in the graphics lessons and PE was always before it. 😭 At the end of the year I knew I couldn't go on like this cause my grades would suffer so I plucked up the courage and told my teacher. I was expecting him to shout at me but he didnt, took the time to listen and helped me through everything, even shared his experiences of being picked on as an adult! (he was american and living in the UK). He brought me to our head of year who then expelled the kid for a while. Needless to say Im super thankful to all my teachers back then for being so supportive 😅
I really wish that school bullies would realize the harm that they have done to so many other people.. I was bullied from kindergarten all the way to the end of high school. I could never take jokes because it just hurt me so bad. I barely had friends, and people only started talking to me around 3rd grade. She would tell people to not talk to me, as right in my face and pull them away from me. The girl who bullied me all my life, I hate that I will never forget her. If only she knew I had my own home problems, maybe she would have let up. I’m ruined for possibly the rest of my life because of her actions. Just because she was the most popular, everyone else who wanted to be cool, thought it was okay to bully me as well. I’ve worked on myself so much, I’ve gone to therapy several years and pushed myself past my comfort zone just to teach myself that not everyone is judging me in the world. And yes it has helped A LOT, and I’m much better than I used to be, but that doesn’t change the fact that I’m TERRIFIED to make phone calls, even if I’m so ill i feel like I’m dying, I’m so terrified to call the doctor. After every appointment I break down crying and get really depressed for a few days. I can’t even talk about my symptoms because I wan to cry so bad. Im still terrified to ask questions, I hate putting in my opinion, I let people in my life step all over me, because I’m too afraid to stand up for myself. I’m so terrified by so people sometimes. And I don’t want to say it’s all her fault and blame it all on her, but my parents had a play in my pain too, and being out of home was an escape, and I couldn’t even do that without being harassed. I was harming myself physically because I felt like I wasn’t good enough, but now I know, that im more than enough. As I said, I am MUCH BETTER than I used to be, but I still often hold myself back from things, because I’m scared, of what, I don’t know. I’ve since moved away from there and I never have to see anyone in that town, and life is so much better than it used to be, but unfortunately I will always live with this anxiety I have and unfortunately I get really depressed a lot still. But I know with time I’ll get better. Omg I ranted so bad haha, but the moral of the story is, I wish they would realize what they have done to these people. The pain they have caused and the harm they can never undo. If I ever heard an apology from these people, idk if I would forgive them, but I would have the opportunity to teach them what their words and actions can really do to people, and hope that they teach their children, that these actions should never be taken, and to treat others with kindness, because it makes so much of a difference. And if anyone read this all, I wish you the best, and I hope you have a wonderful and happy life because you deserve it!!! And you are loved!! ❤️❤️💕💕
I went through severe bullying example , sexual harassment , being beaten up to the point I couldn't walk for two months , being stabbed , physically and mentally abused and also I was almost poisoned . And its always the older kids who did these things to me so now when people ask me why I'm so mean and not kind anymore I always say "the world is a cruel and dark place , you don't know when it's gonna come back and strike you in the face" .
i feel like a group of antis have grouped together to attack famous celebrities who are doing great in the industry just to ruin their lives or "just for fun" these people really make me sick
OMG! I just posted the same thing hahaha - NCT is pretty notorious for having some of the worst sasaengs in the industry, currently. I would NOT be surprised if delusional(s) sasaeng fan(s) banded together to stop Jaehyun's drama from airing (which they did mofus ugh) because HyeSoo can't be with their oppa... Especially her case --- it just doesn't add up. They keep threatening with evidence but haven't reached out to authorities, the company, or released it. The 'victim' is starting to lose her benefit of doubt card.
@@swatzulalala Dude! They actually did stop it from airing! It was supposed to premiere on Feb. 26th and it got pushed out indefinitely... like no new release date because of this _*RUMOR*_. And they already filmed 80% of the drama - like i feel SO bad for the entire cast and crew and of course our bb JaeHyun!! I'm down to whoop these bitch asses too.
@@HelloMello91 ya i remember but i wasnt planning on watching cuz of my exams........but i didnt know they already did thaaatttt ugghhh i wanna kill them .........i was waiting for a month for it
This reminds me of someone's post during November(when Irene's scandal blew up) about how some people are organizing a mass "clean up" or some sort and celebrities are targets,along some politicians(i forgot wether if its only in Korea,or in Asia,or Worldwide but my instincts tells me only in Korea).Got chills remembering that post and putting it next to your comment after seeing so many scandals and accusations.
In Loona's case: Chuu's accusers all deleted their posts and apologized after the company denied those rumors and said they'd be suing them for defamation(and they're still doing it even after they deleted) Hyunjin has also been accused of physically bullying someone, but old classmates stood up for her, and said that the one who accused her was actually bullying hyunjin. Sooo they deleted their post and apologized, but the company did nothing and said nothing about it
10:22 In my country Me: Gets bullied bad Teachers:-_- Me: Suffering through depression, anxiety Teachers:-_- Me: Falls and breaks the skull Teachers: -_- Me: wears a dress with sleeve 1mm less than that instructed Teachers: 👁👄👁
I feel so relieved in my school after hearing this.In the school i am studying in,there are no bullies and students are not allowed to be rude with each other and if they are rude their parents will be called
The bullying accusations from Hyunjin are giving me serious anxiety, i mean ofcourse we know it’s not true but Hyunjin is REALLY sensitive, he literally even cries when reading a sad book or movie, i’m so worried😭
And Hyunjin literally sent selfies and a goodnight message with a heart emoji to his friends before he went to sleep so why would he bully someone? Also it could be because Stray Kids are on Kingdom and antis thought it would be the chance to ruin their chances on winning.
@@breadjinnie1827 hyunjin went to a coed elementary and middle school ( seoul sungil elementary school & seoul sungnae middle school ) and only attended an all boys school in high school ( dongbuk high school , which he didn't attend for that long since he ended up being transferred to sopa ) . he is being accused of bullying someone in middle school which is possible .
@@lovesullyoonie I think JYPE confirmed that the rumors were not true...? and he apologized saying sorry if he once hurt someone. (not about the rumors)
I mean Don't accuse just give us proper evidence and proof yourself.. IDK this is trend or what accusing she he was my friend but also became my bully! I am so done with the rumors like get on the point.
In my opinion old drama in high school isn’t worth ruining someone else’s career. I’m sure it must be irritating seeing someone you had beef with in the past be successful but people change
Welp, I suppose those ppl that kill themselves due to bullying it would just be old drama for u. Ppl don't change easily even if they can. Calling them out could prevent more ppl from being bullied. However, I think they should first contact that company/artist and ask for a proper apology and consequence then if the artist/company is willing then they should take the apology and move forward, rather than putting all the drama on the internet. However, if they don't then u should expose them as it shows they haven't changed and r likely still harming others. Bullying has levels and some ppl suffer from psychological issues for the rest of their life so old drama... or a constant ongoing pain?
@@MiSSK2078 I'm sure the person was talking about less serious things...?? cuz obviously if it's to the point where the victim almost/attempted to kill themselves then that's on a whole new level. I think there's a limit to everything...
Why because they’re idols? I bet if the Jimin from AOA situation didn’t come out but this happened to her you’d say the same things. You guys need to remember idols are not perfect they’re human just like us. They do good and bad things. They’ve been bullied and also have been the bullies. They’ve smoked and not smoked, drank alcohol and haven’t, had sex and haven’t. They do things other humans do. They aren’t above us.they are Humans
not really, anything could happen, and what u see on camera is not always the truth, who knows if there are that has commit theft, assault or worse? or they could be the victim, who knows
We don't usually have bullies in India IT'S REALLY GOOD TBH and if some seniors tries to Rag you than we can just complain it to the principal and they take actions about it
@@goodhuman916 yah tell your parents someone from the senior class disturbed you and next day you'll find them in your institution with their chappals in hand 🙇🏻♀️
I think everyone has thing we aren’t proud of especially during our teenage years but if those toxic traits continue then we need to action against them. AND IM NOT SAYING ITS RIGHT THAT THE BULLYING HAPPENED. But as adults we need to take responsibilities for actions and own up to them so we can continue to grow ina society where people feel safe and loved.
Definitely. I find claims against idols stating that they did something at age 10-14 kind of irrelevant. I mean, have you seen middle schoolers nowadays? The boys who were in my middle school class would always say some pretty mean and sexual things. But now in high school, they are completely different people. I wish more people understood that people can change. That being said, there are those few people who don't mature or change at all. In that case, of course, we should hold them resposible.
Most people in their teenage year aren’t a bully FFS. Please stop acting like bullying behavior is normal during one’s growth in personality either, because it’s not true.
@@hajimekashiwagi3635 What I'm trying to say is that people change. At the age of 10-14, the vast majority of kids still have a long way to go. Kids who were mean to me at my school are completely different people now. And if Mingyu did bully people in middle school, who says he didn't change? And plus, it isn't even confirmed if he was a bully.
in india i don't see much of bullying cases (i am an indian ) so i'm a middle school student from india and honestly i have never seen anyone getting bullied in our school . specially the sunbae hoobae thing because i have always been close to my seniors made plans with them , asked them for help . well and as u said there is a difference between school drama and bullying like i've been part of so many dramas , even recently but we forgave each other because it's the last year of our middle school. and we have a really good relation with our juniors too .but when i say this i mean from what i have seen but i have heard from my friend from another school that juniors get beaten up by seniors and are bullied , he once got bullied too and the most disturbing part is that teachers don't even bother to know and help in such situations , like they check our uniforms , hair , shoes and attendence for their so called "discipline" purpose but don't give a fuck about school bullying which is very dangerous for student.
bullying in the uk is worse some kids die and some end up with broken bones an egyptian girl died after getting beated in the bus after school and the kids get away with it
This is your excuse for hyunjin? Omg my bully send hearts and says good night to me, omg he's definitely not a bully!!🙄 -nothing against hyunjin tho, im just too annoyed with your excuse, think of a better one. -from a cat
you do know that bullies can be nice to some and be bullies to others right? i’m not saying hyunjin is a bully , but it’s a terrible argument. he sent his friends the messages , not the accuser. you said that in your original comment, but replied to someone saying he sent the accuser those messages.
I’ve never been bullied and I’m lucky to say I haven’t seen much of it in my lifetime. At all the schools I’ve been to, most people I knew had too much work to make fun of other people. I’m not saying bullying didn’t happen at my schools, but I never really saw it. If a kid did something really bad and was found out, they would be suspended, expelled, or maybe even have criminal charges depending on what happened.
As of now these are all singers/actor/actresses Mingyu(Seventeen) Hyunjin(Stray Kids) Chuu(Loona) Soojin((G)I-DLE)) Sunwoo(The Boyz) Soyeon((G)I-DLE)) Kihyun(Monsta X) Aisha(Everglow) HyunA(Soloist) Actor/Actresses: Jo ByungGyu Kim DonHee Kim SoHye(Former I.O.I member) Park HyeSu
When being bullied why not just fight back? For those who bully, why only dare when in a group? I've had bullies too, but in that moment I silenced them and exposed the true brutality. Even though I ended up being punished, but I didn't care about the punishment and I said "You guys are targeting the wrong people to bully, because my life is much darker". So I didn't decide to kill myself and managed to turn things around. At the same time they were targeting others who were much weaker, I didn't stay silent and directly taught them a lesson. In the end I was labeled an “uneducated child” but I ignored all that and I feel proud of the title. Because they started first, that's why I counterattacked. Some even turn to me for protection when they are bullied. Because someone saw when I was having lunch, my lunch was hit by a basketball, which in the end spilled my food. At that time my emotions peaked, I said "Who did this? Honestly or I ruined this place". Finally there were 3 people who confessed, the three of them were given punishment including me, but the three of them were frustrated with the punishment. But I didn't care about the punishment, even until the weaker ones finally asked me for help. It can't be helped, I can't bear to see it. That's all my tips for those of you who are often bullied, make it a habit to be brave, fight and never decide to commit suicide. Prove to them that you are much braver and stronger.
Since I go to an all girls school there is constant drama, but since I have been at home most of the time for school I haven't had any problems. But of course before the pandemic began I was having problems with an ex and friends who decided to turn there back on me. I was also volunteering at the time as part of a grade for class that I was taking, and I got harassed by many of the kids I worked with. Sorry this was so long. Hope you are doing well.
Here in Bangladesh, school bullies are quite rare but there r bullies in universities. Also there r some shitty students in some schools who bully those introverted soft kids & the worst part is it doesn't even get noticed like there's no freaking law or smth here & many get away doing such disgusting things. There was a case here about 2 years ago that some university bully beat up this one kid so much that he died. & they beat him bcz he posted his thoughts about some governmental issues going on here. Then students from all over the country did mass-movement & got those bullies arrested. I feel bad for ppl like that kid.....I rly wish the thing 'bullying' just vanished from the world.
Yeah here bullying is more like politically influenced student parties torturing people with different ideas. I think general students are fairly nice. Also the school and college I went to, anything close to bullying was socially criticized so much that bullies would have to go through bullying if they try to bully others.
Its ridiculous ngl. I think people are bored. I think those who bully others need some therapy, probably suffering from whatever had happened to them , but from what I see the majority of them later regrets it (not all just some )
I don’t think the majority ends up regretting what they’ve done in the past. Instead, most of the people I’ve meet who I personally know are a bully once in their life will never be able to break the habit because bullies are mostly brought up in an unhealthy environment long enough to pick up their behaviors from bad influence. The only bully who I’ve seen considerable growth in personality isn’t a bully anymore, but still a fucking bitch sometimes.
I saw a clip on Instagram or read something about him being bullied in elementary school a while ago. What I've read said that the friend was having a birthday party and lied to Taehyung about where the party was. After a couple of hours Taehyung found out where the party was so he went there to give the friend a gift card (or something like that) and left. Apparently his supposed friend bullied him because he was jealous of Taehyung. But the person apologized a couple of years later.
@@booklover1298 yup. Glad he apologized but it kinda hurt when I heard the news that he was bullied but people change and Taehyung is obviously doing well now
@@booklover1298 Dude this is old news. They already made up a long time ago. He wasnt a bully, he was just a jealous friend who bullied Tae. They met up and he apologized Edit: They already moved on and we should too, its not nice opening old healed wounds. Its both annoying and may be traumatizing to Tae
Someone bullied me when I was in grade 1. His dad went to school to apologize and elaborate how he punished his son. Then the next school year I slapped my bully while the whole class was cheering me on telling me I should avenge myself. Bullying creates a cycle of hatred and pain... so I'll tell my kids to watch Naruto.
i have been bullied for sometime and it still hurts to see them unaffected and not living up to the consequences.. but like u cannot tell anybody cause u do not want the situation to be bad ... still hits tilll today . i mean i fought back but i got in trouble for it .. y bully people ;[ i and accusation without evidence NO
When I first got into kdramas (around 2015) and watched my first ever drama Heirs, I thought they were exaggerating with the bullying on the show because in the US-or at least in my school (I go a suburban mainly white high school)- there isn’t really your typical form of bullying or a bully because bullying culture isn’t too big in actual schools. I would say that instead “bullying” online is more what takes place, but then again it’s still not too big because our school has a big anti-bullying system in place. When I started to watch more kdramas, I couldn’t help but notice the similarities on how much physical bullying there was. The crazy thing to me as well is how much of a juxtaposition it is that in Korea bullying is seen as a really big taboo (or from me as an outsider is seems that whenever a famous figure gets hit with bullying accusations the public really has a strong reaction from it) in Korea, but bullying culture seems to be really big as well. I guess it’s all a culture shock for me 😄
Drama and falling out with friends is not bullying. Literally almost everyone would be a bully if that was the case. Hell, even i was thrown out of my friend group for some silly teenage drama, and yes for a while it fucked me up. Do i like them, no, but do i want to destroy their lives, also no! Young people are bad at controlling their emotions and nasty feuds happen, but you move on. None of us are the same people we were as children or teenagers. These accusers are petty ass hell bitter people.
Forgiveness is such a powerful thing. Several years ago I had planned to commit suicide because I couldn't take it anymore. It wasn't until I wrote a letter to say goodbye that I saw I could end it all there or I could forgive the people that hurt me so much and continue my life for better. Some days are tough but I'm glad I didn't do it.
OMG breaking news, Jennie and G dragon are dating, did u hear?💜💜💜
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Omg really? I didn't knew!! Thnx 4 letting us know!!!!
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WHATTTT IF TRUE G0OD 4 THEM IF NOT ....
The fact that Soyeon got accused when she was homeschooled. Like what did she bully the air?!
Also Hyunjin getting accused...again but this time by a girl. When he was in an all boy school
Edit: Girl or boy the hyunjin bullying scandal was proven false (they just had arguments anyway) Also I wrote this before they said anything about it being a boy. And Soyeon bullying scandal wether they said she was in homeschool at the time or bot was also proven false
Pls these people must be super bored in quarantine
I Low key feel like these people are accusing hyunjin because they don't want stray kids to win Kingdom ..
@@alyseluvsyou yes I think so too
Oof these ppl must have dropped their brains somewhere
The "what did she bully, the air?!" That cracked me up😂😂👌
Soyeon: * homeschooled * * gets accused of being a bully *
Me: Omg did soyeon bully her toys? Like did she diss rap them?😭
HAHAHAHAHA wait I suddenly forgot how to breathe 😭😂
I'm dead👻
Ya'll don't die on me😭
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Omg this comment 🤣🤣🤣
Kihyun has been cleared, the accuser has confessed that they MISTOOK him as another Kihyun from their class! Starship is taking legal actions for defaming Kihyun. He went through all this just because of someone's mistake
I bet they were targeting him tho and only said they were mistaken when the company caught up on their bullshit, kihyun is a famous idol, how could they not know and lead it on until the company gonna take legal action
The fact that it was the same person who accused him back in 2015 but the lawsuit was dropped (Likely by Kihyun himself) because the accuser cited that they'd been in a bad place mentally and wrote an apology/reflection letter for lying and then they did it again?? nahhh that person is a jealous demon because wtf
@@baishalibanerjee8888 mistake? How can you mistake two different Kihyun when one of them is famous af in Korea, this was not a mistake this was a trend to bring down young Korean celebrities, some of them happens to be true but this one is just shady. Read them comments above the person stated that they mistook him for another kihyun in the class, but how can u mistaken that for that long lmao
@@baishalibanerjee8888 I don’t know if u know this but small accusation can ruin someone’s career in Korea and Korean people are good at cancelling celebs
@@baishalibanerjee8888 it’s not a mistake. The accuser only said it as an excuse. How do you confuse two people even if they have the same name
From them doing this, it'll be hard for the real victims. Because ppl would think they're lying
(About making some false accusations)
Yes, it's getting out of hand...!
I agree with you. With the technology that is around people can also do cyberbullying which could make things even harder for the victims because it's another way to be picked on.
exactly... I'm honestly so digusted cause I went through bullying. It's such a sensitive topic and yet disgusting and cheap are using it for their own satisfaction smh
some rumors said that these allegations are made by crazy fans of the first few idols that get accused to cover up for them make all this seems like a silly trends
@@zzzonline i completely agree, it's disgusting.....i am so so sorry, I hope it's much better now :)
My favorite bullying accusation was SOYEON.......WHEN SHE WAS HOMESCHOOLED!!!!!!!!!!!
On Unpretty Rapstar Soyeon showed that she went to school. I remember she told she used to wear a wig because she has dyed hair. I didn't know she was homeschooled, but maybe just for a couple of years. Of course I'm not saying those bully accusations are true
@@mariapazparenti yeah she eventually go to an actual school but at that time if I'm not mistaken, she's already a trainee at cube and quite busy to the point that I don't think she would have a time to do the accusation
@@jkai4737 totally agree.
And a girl told she was bullied by Hyunjin in school when he went to an All boys school.
What about cyber bullying?
There's a difference between having beef with someone and bullying, exchanging insults isn't bullying. People should leave hyunjin alone
Ikr
@@alviaamin7764 its not- uhmm fighting with someone isnt bullying-
@@alviaamin7764 true
I know he has apologized n things n tbh I don't even know if he actually bullied or not ....but speaking of the insults it is bullying but it impacts u indirectly it happened with me when I was bullied in my 5 grade n now I m in 10 grade long time ago i know but the amount of insecurity n other problems it has built in me is shit as fk
Stfu
Everyone should respect every human being dispite of any country .
Period sis 💅💅
Very well said.👍👍👍
the east asian countries looking at this:
Respectful statement sis..💖
@@forose3393 love your name
It’s sad how the real victims are accused of being lying about their struggles because the pretend victims are making this stuff up because of jealousy due to fame..
Ikr... It's so upsetting, we cant hear the real victims voices because of these ppl that keep taking advantage
no offence but i thought some of the cases were sooo exaggerated like these "victims" can chill we all know they just wanna ruin careers idols have worked so hard for
I think the alleged victims should bring more evidence like medical or nurse reports (in physical bullying) and testimony from the teachers and classmates and they should also file a report against them in court (like grace said you can sue your bully in Korea) and then I think more people will start to believe them because everyone is innocent until proven guilty.
@@innominatesoul2277 that's so dumb lol, how can you sue someone for something they did as a child? I was bullied at one point but I wouldn't sue someone for it.
It’s the same with all types of abuse, I’ve found. Being a victim of abuse myself, it angers me when people lie about it for attention or because of jealousy. They’re ruining it for those who have gone through actual abuse
I will not forgive my bullies. It’s been years, but the damage they did was immense. They don’t feel guilty for their actions.
Me neither. I still live with depression 10+ years later and anxiety. Even if bullies were young, they still made the decisions they made.
Same here, I was bullied for a very long time until high school when my family moved and I was finally free. But to this day I still deal with mental health problems and I can't trust people easily anymore, meaning it's hard for me to make friends. These bullies don't understand how severe their actions can be on another person's life, they need to be held accountable.
Breaks my heart to read this. If you all don't mind, I will pray for all of you, so that you may be healed mentally and be able to find peace in life, in Jesus Name 💜
Same I will never forgive them , I’m half Bengali and half Korean but I had to move to USA and I’ve been bullied for 4 years there . Why ? I’m Asian that’s why
korean bullies are way harsher than american bullies. compared to Koreans American is nothing!
i- lol, Hyunjin went to a all boy school yet a girl accused him of bullying her 💀💀✌️ Soyeon who was homeschooled was accused?? Byeee
hyunjin went to sopa
@@shock9030 yes he did but Hyunjin literally sent selfies and a goodnight message with a heart emoji to his friends before he went to sleep why would he bully someone? Also it could be because Stray Kids are on Kingdom and antis thought it would be the chance to ruin their chances on winning.
@@shock9030 sopa is a high school, the accusation is from middle school. his middle school was an all boys middle school.
@@shock9030 also multiple of his classmates defended him by saying the accusations are false.
@@gracechin3212 “hyunjin literally send selfies and goodnight messages with heart emojis to his friends” is honestly a weak argument. That’s like saying ‘person A would never hit person B because person saves kittens who are stuck in trees’. For the next time think carefully.
There is a HUGE difference between not being friends with someone anymore vs being bullied. These things happen all over the world even adults bully each other sometimes which isn't okay but I find it strange how one person spoke and now all of sudden you hear more idols and stories.
yes but fans can't differentiate that and can called a "bully scandal" when it's just a fight, dispute between the members
Dude some of the accusations though “She told me I smelled so I washed my hair three times that night.” “She stole my pen and never gave it back.” “He never smiled at me when we made eye contact.” “He bumped into me while changing classes, and didn’t apologize.” People don’t really know what bullying is, and if this is bullying in South Korea someone should have told me when I was young so I could have immediately moved, because the bullies I dealt with were relentless in making my life a living hell... like full body slam into the locker.
HyunA,Rose,or Taeyeon please marry me when I went to school I got pens stolen even my gym clothes some even took my money but that isn't bullying it's called stealing and teenagers being stupid . I would totally understand if it lead to threats being carried out and violence then yes it's bullying. All that happen is they didn't like the fact they were ignored and now they wanna ruin their careers for nothing .
@@licisjourney7307 Seriously some of the accusers are ridiculous.
At the end of the day we all do stupid shit as kids and people change so much. I bumped into the bully that made my life a living hell throughout, middle school when I went to college. She ended up living in the dorm across from me, and when she remembered who I was she started crying. She apologized and explain to me how she was going through some shit back then(mother had cancer, and the father ditched them, she had to take care of her sick mother, and her little sister). She felt so bad for how she behaved that for the next two weeks she would go out of her way to leave me Starbucks with an apology...she did that every day. I hung out with her once, and we’ve been best friends since then...it’s been 5yrs.
The whole point of that is that people change, and I don’t think that idols should be judged on the stupid crap they did when they were kids.
HyunA,Rose,or Taeyeon please marry me so damn true👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I attended Japanese school and got bullied a lot because they find out that I'm a halfer. They call me names like germs, put a dead and mutilated goldfish under my desk, put thumbtacks on my shoes etch....... Right now I still look at my shoes every single time because I'm still thinking that there might be thumbtacks there 😂
I told my parents about it and my teachers don't even do a thing about the bullying incidents.
Then I changed school, and I was like okay no bullying me anymore. Everyone there was really nice and friendly 😃🙌
Wow I'm so sorry you had to go through that but glad it ended on a better note with you finding a better environment with better people!
Just because your half man...
Wow! Crazy! Maybe Asians can have a better life in the West. No abuse or threats. Hmm...
Things like that should not happen.
Half Japanese would be loved in the West! I'm sad about Hana Kimura. She was half Japanese and half Indonesian and dissed because of that. The only thing better than being Japanese is being HALF Japanese. I just can't understand Japan sometimes...
THESE ACCUSATIONS MAKING ME THINK “YEO AM I NEXT?” Cause ppl really be bored 😭
LOL i thought the same
@A y a n n a LMFAOOOO
Bro same 💀
@@Cupidteez8 Bruh- I'm so dead 🤣🤣😭😭🖐️🖐️
@@Cupidteez8 YEOnjun or YEOntan💁👄
For me, I feel like in America (I am American) most students wouldn’t tell that they are being bullied because if they did, the bullies would come and bully them even more. Also teachers don’t really help honestly.
Same goes in Korea and any other country.
@@Jxnjy Now that I think about, Yeah you’re right.
@@npcimknot958 Thank you for telling.
@XxAppleBerryxX Hope your doing well!
and sadly one of the worse things that can come out a bullying situation in America is a school sh00ting
The fact that some "forget" how they got bullied. Like if I was bullied I would forget that because that traumatized me
exactly! It just makes things more sus ya know?
Exactly!! I remember being bullied since the fourth grade up until high school. I will never forget none of my bullies & what they did to me
Everyone processes trauma differently. It's not uncommon for people's brains to completely block out certain memories if they were extremely traumatic. Not that I'm defending the false accusations, though.
Repression is actually a very common trauma response, I still know that I was bullied, but from the three years in which it was the strongest I barely remember anything at all. It's like these three years of my life don't really exist anymore in my memories, only sometime small snippets come up again.
Finally, someone said that! I was bullied at school, and I really don’t remember how exactly. I still remember who bullied me, my feelings, but ever since I would immediately forgot what exactly they did or say to me. That’s was always a problem coz I could never prove the bullying to adults, I just didn’t know what to say, there was nothing in mind.
I’m actually glad now that I don’t remember any of that shit because I don’t want to accuse or be connected in any way to these people. But it was a huge nuisance back in the days.
Jennie and gd was exposed by Dispatch now. People believed that it is just a cover up to this issue
I belive that it's just a cover up I don't think they're dating irl but if they are I'll support them 🥰
@@forose3393 I'm not against if ever it is true coz there's nothing wrong about it. They're both human and I believe falling inlove is part of human life. What the problem here is how the article was form, it was very scandalous. It very obvious they released this news just for clout and money and of course to cover up something fishy in sokor. The evidences are not coherent. I mean I rather believe in jenkai pic than this one.
wait wtf i didn’t even hear that
Someone said all this kpop idols bullying issue and this jennie and gd dating news is used to cover up the real problem in sokor which is Seoul's mayor sexually harassed secretary before his death.
@@prettysavage2839 Yeah but I believe it's just them covering up I mean just take a look at jenkai it's all media play but I'll still support them tho if they actually date
and just now in the perfect time dispatch dropped a gd x jennie dating scandal, i just know is to cover up this big thing.
Wait what can you send me a link?
@@kryptoo5528 look at dispatch ig account
Yesss.. i cant wait for the reveal of south korean government big scandal this year
Wait what
i knowwww jesus....if you search up Kpop Junkee, click on the latest video, and he'll explain what's going on!
In the Philippines and other Southeast Asian countries : "saying mean words to your classmates are considered bullying."
Literally us: *trash talking 24/7*
Yeah but not only at words they bullying you its physically not only mentally
@@nathaliefaithdelacruz5664 indeed and we do nothing about it like its a "joke"
When we say words to each other and hit each other, we make sure we got even hits and comebacks too, which is weirdly funny 😌💅
@@suella7505 indeed dont forget the body shaming and rude yo mama jokes
Trueeee
I think this situation has gotten out of hand. I did see a comment that said Soyeon was homeschooled and that Hyunjin went to an all boys school. On a different video I saw a comment that said Pledis Entertainment released a statement saying the accusations against Mingyu are false. I think this situation will make it harder for actual bullying victims because people might think that they are lying. I agree with Grace that there is a fine line between drama from school/falling out with friends vs bullying someone. With the technology that is around today cyberbullying is another way for bullies to pick on people and can make things harder on the victims. I think that it sucks that someone's career can potentially be ruined because of a rumor.
Agree. It will also hurt the real bullying victims
ikr ,very well said
exactly
Chuus was proven false as well
@@erzascarlet6 wait... really?? may i know the sources and proof??
So sad that a rumour that’s not even true can ruin someone’s career
Like woojin
@@aminewaffleuwu15 ikr!
That has happened to often
@@aminewaffleuwu15 It hasn’t been confirmed or denied. We can’t be sure yet.
t ara
Uff I thank God . There r very rare bullies in my country .🇮🇳 If someone bully someone in school they r going to be sued by teachers and their parents. In my school if someone bullies someone secretly the victims go to the staff room in the break or lunch hour and just say it to their respective class teacher . Or write a letter and keep on the table
@Ninja Gaming complain it to their parents or talk it out with someone and find out a solution .u have to standup for yourself
In india they may not physically bully you but there is a lot of emotional bullying and it is also done by teachers😔😔😔
I have been the victim of it. I was treated like a disease and it still haunts me
@@sharvarisurve1593 yeah kinda it's also true
Cyberbullying unfortunately still exists and is getting worse during the time that we are in.
People are getting more and more unfiltered online. I remember a time where a click on the block button was all you had to do.. Nowadays a lot of people are having fast typing hands with a slow thinking brain. Instead of being literally in front of a person and having (or at least trying to have) a normal thinking process with some morals and values, now you have those that are literally protected by a screen and hiding behind it.. therefore I think it's easier to bully someone online, because you won't feel that level of empathy or respect like you would have if you would actually stand in front of someone. Boredom/anxiety etc.. amplifies this even more
I saw on the news that a girl from US I forgot where exactly it is, she was bullied at school so she killed herself then the bullying doesnt even stop they post like "mommy dont tuck me in this * bed * tuck me in this * coffin *" like where's the respect?! the girl is fucking dead and still got bullied online... the school doesnt give a shit, not even a punishment to the people who bullied that girl tbh the whole "stop the bullying" by the school is a joke they dont even have responsibility to stop bullying.
block them . . .
@@팈탘-n3l Yes I saw that too. Incredibly distasteful.
Block them or leave social media you can ask not to get any notification or screenshot for proof
in South Korea stealing pen consider as Bully
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It's so annoying honesty, like they keep stealing my pens or just basically lose it.
I should never let them borrow but I'm too nice to say no, yawa 😭
Girl having an argument with your friend is considered bullying lol
@@mischiefmaker3140 oh my god WHAT ?????
I COULD NEVER- JKSFKJSFNLDGDGS
@@mischiefmaker3140 omg r u serious? What if we have an argument about dumplings or ramen?
@@potatoprincess86 jail time sis
*Hyunjin accuse of bullying by a girl*
Me: BRUH HE WENT TO A ALL BOY SCHOOL-
Exactly that makes me so mad
@Lily Princess the rumor talked about it was the girl in the school but girls wouldnt even allowed in that school
@لقد زقت معنا yeah he graduated from a girls and boys high school . There's even a vlog from a student in the school he studied . He si included in that video.
"Everyone is a villain in someone's story"
Not that I'm agreeing to bully, but like Grace said, find the difference between actual bully and old school drama.
I personally think that I have no big beef with anyone in school. But I admit that there are some people at school that I ghosted due to us not clicking. People whom I despised because of their behaviour that seemed intolerable to me. And ngl, I also think I can be overreact with my attitude back then. I was indeed the villain in their stories. But we moved on and thats just that. I or they may remained as whatever perspective we were described as in the memories. Accept that fact, and be better.
Person really reason out how hyunjin “bullied” them is that they commanded hyunjin to close the back door and hyunjin refused and said “no”, like the back door is used by several students, why single him out? Even if he’s the closest to it and he refused, that’s no bullying
"Everyone is a villain in someone's story" very very true!!
Even me way back highschool I used to be so strict and sometimes mean to my groupmates because i'm the leader and it's my duty to keep an eye to my members. I always heard harsh words behind my back and they hate me for getting on their way and gave them punishment that for me was a form to discipline them when they create trouble. One time, the mother of my classmate pulled my hair because her daughter came home crying and didn't want to go back to school because she was saying that I bullied her when I kick her out of our group project and yelled at her frustrating attitude in public. I admit that i was a bitch to do that but she ignore the warnings of her mistakes. The funny thing here it was because she didn't bother to attend our meetings even once and always busy with her boyfriend which her mother didn't know. The students who hate me came testify that I was also a bitch to them. They are bunch of hypocrite people that I help to maintain their grades but at the end of the day I got a penalty at school because I chose not to revealed what I know and accept to be the bad person in the picture for I was worried what will gonna happen if her strict parents found out that she have two boyfriends. They label me as a bully but they are not innocent too.
So yeah, there is always a side story why we look so bad to other people.
Eyyy, is that a reference from Stella Jang, “Villain"?
@@kdramanaticiotnbo6622 I love that song especially the lyrics "We all pretend to be the heroes on the good side" 👁️👄👁️
Anti-bullying day is tomorrow
UNITE
some of these comments are really dumb tbh. so you think a idol wasn’t a bully “because they don’t look like one” “they are cute” “they are kind”. we literally don’t know these people. you guys read one comment and spread it everywhere, stop having so much trust in these people, they aren’t your friends. ofc not saying they’re bullies, but don’t automatically think they aren’t because they’re your idols. also the amount of people saying soyeon wasn’t a bully bc she was homeschooled, when there was a school photo in this video ! do you guys not watch the video ?
I agree 1000 % percent
Yah, people are quite oblivious this days when there IS evidence and only overlook of what is the history of that idol just from a person's mouth.
@ eat the rich the supporters are probably some DIE-HARD KPOP FANS.
Who only USE 0.1% of their brain.
exactly. just because you're attracted to an idol and you've seen them be kind to their members on lives doesn't mean they're perfect human beings.
@@amanda4540 it pains me to see these people defending because I just know that no matter what their idol has been exposed if they will heavily refuse it
I can’t with the amount of idols being dragged into the bullying accusations, it’s just nonsense at this point.
How do you know they weren't bullies tho? Not saying they are I'm just saying, we dont really know these people. Alot of times the personalities of idols is a facade, we have no idea who they truly are
@@JordanWilliams-ix2td That what if game is just implying that they are. Innocent until proven guilty, they are all not bullies until proven otherwise.
@@JordanWilliams-ix2td I didn’t say anything about whether the said idols are bullies or not. We will never know who is one, unless there’s further proof, but I’m just saying there’s countless idols being dragged in one day that it’s hard to believe all of them were bullies.
@@JordanWilliams-ix2td Exactly, we don’t know these idols off camera. It’s annoying seeing some fans try to claim to know their idol wouldn’t do this.
do you even know them lmao
what’s going on in korea rn omg... seems like stuff to cover something up....
👀👀👀👀
Oooo that’s a good point!🤔
NAW FRLLL
NAHHH FRL SUM AINT RIGHTTTT
Nah, I feel this is something prevalent everywhere. People see a person who is calling out others for something. Whether or not it's true, they'll call out others for doing the same thing. They either call these people out because they actually committed the thing or because they just want to use the wave to end the career of someone they don't like.
I'm from INDIA and I'm not sure about other cities or other schools but in my school Bullying is not a problem at all The reason is that our teachers are SO Strict and most specifically the students go straight to the teacher in case of any mistreatment And they even threaten to complain to teacher on every little thing🤣🤣
That's true 😂
We use teacher as a shield 😅
True! I never got bullied in my whole life .😂😂😂😅
Same girl....
Our schools are best and if someone thinks about their old time in school they would probably remember their best school memories and not the bullying ones because bullying is very rare here.
@@sanjanalathoriya7894 LMAO if someone bullies they would be homeless😂😂😂😂.
so true!!!!
I think ex-friends of Idols are just feeling jealous and bitter because they’re no longer friends and the friendship ended on a sour note. Which happens for everyone on the planet. Ending a friendship on a bitter note doesn’t make you a bully. These kids need to chill out and get over the past.
exactly omg having arguments does 👏🏼NOT👏🏼 make👏🏼 one 👏🏼a 👏🏼bully👏🏼
Yeah but what about Jisoo's accusations ? Especially when he admitted it was true :/
No, it's sad that there are kpop idols who are worse than jimin( AOA). They might look like an angel in front of the camera but you don't know what's happening off camera.😭😭😭😭😭😅
@@Criselle307 I think it’s sad that fans treat Idols like they’re perfect humans and then get shocked when it’s revealed they’re flawed like everyone else. Obviously people that are awful like AOA Jimin deserves to be exposed. But people like Soojin from G idle did nothing wrong. She wasn’t a bully at all she just said a few curse words to a close friend and then ended the friendship. That’s not a big deal, everyone does that.
@@Criselle307 bro jimin was proven innocent, now you just sound dumb
The fact that cyberbullying has increased more than actual bullying is scary
Yeah. Just a few days ago, a lot of younger Twitter users made an artist who is disabled lose their job, because of a couple of drawings. They put a real-life person in danger during a pandemic over lines on paper. When called out on it, they said kids can't cyberbully an adult and that cyberbullying is not real.
@@jayaniee You know, I too believed that cyber bullying is bs and why don't you just "walk away from your screen".
But now as I have started using social media more I have realised that it is very much real and really dangerous. When someone abuses me on ig or RUclips then I feel a little bad. And now imagine if you get hundreds of abusive messages and there are videos on you and there in the comments section people are saying bad things about you.
When the Irene incident happened I literally couldn't sleep after reading all the hate comments about her on RUclips and reddit. Now, imagine if all the comments were directed on me. I can't even imagine my mental state if that ever happened to me.
@@animelook2157 It's good that you understand now. But I would also like to add, Cyberbullying is much more dangerous than physical bullying. If you get bullied at school, going home would allow you to get away from it. If you get bullied online no matter where you go, it's there. A simple click and it's all there.
@@jayaniee I agree. I am kind of a thick skinned person so when people abuse me or bully irl then I don't really feel that bad. 😅😅😅
But when someone abuses me online then it hurts. I don't know why.
@@animelook2157 everyone should be careful online I’m I bit scared
In my school, bullying is looked very down upon on. Last time there was a bully in my school was two years ago. She would pick on the eighth graders and steal the second graders lunches. Since she made it very obvious that she was a bully, she didn’t have any friends at all. No one sat with her at lunch, no one played with her, she everybody judged her. She moved very quickly when she saw that my school doesn’t tolerate bullying.
the girl that accused Hyunjin of bullying must have not done their research because he literally went to an all boy school before going to sopa
no no you were the one that didnt do the research . hyunjin went to a coed elementary and middle school ( seoul sungil elementary school & seoul sungnae middle school ) and only attended an all boys school in high school ( dongbuk high school , which he didn't attend for that long since he ended up being transferred to sopa ) . he is being accused of bullying someone in MIDDLE SCHOOL not in high school , so its possible it happened .
Hey, he met the victim and apologized to her. Bullying was real.
@@mala_kal Lmao, what?!
@@mala_kal don't spread misinformation no bullying occurred ALL the* teachers, students even the Victims agreed that they couldn't truly remember the correct facts so he apologized to his inmature behaviour and he was sorry if his word's cause ANYONE to be hurt.
Also His teacher wrote out a statement saying how bad they feel because after talking to other teachers that were there around that time they pointed out that all the children in that grade were displaying inmature behaviour.
@@lovesullyoonie dude they fought bcs of a fucking door. so the door is the victim. door wtf why
Bullying “is a human problem, not a country problem.”
Freaking love this.
Turns out chuu’s was false and the person who made that stupid sus lie about her might go to jail
Someone wanted to hop on the hype train but got on one that may send them straight to jail
People in Korea luckily aren’t paying attention to Chuu, the same goes to Soyeon which Koreans themselves believe that the accusation is indeed false.
@@hajimekashiwagi3635 lmao, soyeon was fr *Homeschooled* likeee🤦🏽♀️
Just wanted to inform that a former classmate of hyunjin clarified that this was fake, said hyunjin was a very calm kid and he also posted high school album photo to prove it
He used to send cute goodnight messages to his friends
@@awiejin9295 yes how could they accuse him as a bully
He is such a angel
Honestly he doesn't seem like a bully but who knows
@@anonymouslyanonymous7925 he now apologized but not for admitted as a bully
Jyp entertainment gone to his school and confirm ut
It was a misunderstanding between Hyunjin and the victim
The accuser said that herself doesn't remember everything that happened in the past
Hyunjin apologize for being hurtful words , but clearly he didn't used any violence , as well as hyunjin teacher from the school also Posted a statement that he wasn't a bully , but there were like word fights going on school
We all have misunderstandings and we fight by words in school right ?? That is not bullying
Anyway you can find his apologize letter in their instagram page
And now everything solved
The accuser said that it's okay by now
@@karthu2179 by the looks of how hyunjin's accuser came out i think every single human being when they reach their 20s should be reminded that they had petty quarrels in middle school or high school and we all are bullies! This is really stupid not to mention immature. I am more mad at JYPE for their statement.
Hyunjins was proven false but the statement JYP put out still made him sound like a bad guy, they put him on hiatus on like feb 25 and now its April 20th and he's still on a hiatus and all i want is for him to come back especially since it was proven false i want him back
Yesss it's already may 26 hyunjin come back plsss
And now it's June and kingdom is end but he is still on hiatus plss I'm crying
@@leanneagdeppa_ congrats we won.
Don't worry he will be back soon.
When they will announce their comeback i am pretty sure he will come back then. Let's love them till the end.
Grace, there may not be "racism" in Korean schools, but like you mentioned with your mom - there is colorism. I think kids get bullied more for being darker :( which is so sad and unfair, especially to hear at a young age. All bbs are worthy and beautiful!!
@에스더 I'm sorry to hear that Esther, kids (and adults) can be mean and thoughtless so don't take it to heart. Know that beauty is always changing and "trending" and doesn't reflect who you are inside. It's weird because in some parts of America, people tan to appear darker, while in Asia or other Countries, people lighten their skin. But remember that owning your difference makes you unique and powerful.
@에스더 omg sad to hear. Just know that tan skin is popping. It accentuates the mussels more than pale skin and looks more glowy when moisturized. The melanin in your skin will protect you more against sun damage and you will age less than people with pale skin do. Not to put the one over the other, but just find the perks in your beautifull skin.
@에스더 hi, Idk if you're gonna see this, but I just want to say, LOVE YOUR SKIN. Colourism is honestly one of the dumbest forms of discrimination, skin colour determines nothing about a person besides their level of melanin production and ability to withstand sun damage. If anyone tells you anything about your colour, ignore them or tell them to eff off ( whichever works better for you), and please never use skin lightening products, because they just kill your skin cells. I'm not going to say tan skin is better (cuz that would be colourism) but I will say that healthy skin is good skin, and if you are taking care of your skin , you have nothing to worry about.
@에스더 I'm glad you were reminded of that :) It's challenging to go against the norm in this society, but there's something special about each one of us as cliche as that sounds - it's true. Our whole existence on earth shouldn't be dependent on our skin color or beauty standards - that's not living. So I hope you'll remember to be kind to yourself when those degrading thoughts come up because they are not your thoughts and you can reject them.
@에스더 tan skin is popping in the u.s.
a lot of white people spend a lot of money for spray tans. colorism sucks. people want to buy your skin color but you have it naturally, try to cherish your insecurities. 🥰
When I was at school, we used to handle different: "talk shit, get hit" there was very few cases of bullying because almost everyone knew how to defend themselves (I'm from South America by the way)
That’s the best way honestly. Let kids learn the hard way that their words have consequences. I’m from the US and if you defended yourself in school then YOU got in trouble😒 pretty dumb
My school
I'm from South America too. I would say that bullying is indeed different here. Yes, of course, it exists and there are cases that are pretty bad. But in general, people tend to stand for themselves more and the ones doing the bullying rarely go to extremes of violence like in other countries.
I would say that the most usual bullying in South America would be psychological, in the mean jokes kind of way. Or having someone that is "fun" to make fun of.
I repeat, not good... but at least people don't go to hospitals, suicide, or get robbed...
I’m from South America too and I think as my fellow South American just mention, bullying is different here, there’s not many racist bullys because we are all so mixed so... it would be kind of stupid and we just kind of stand up for ourselves like, someone is screaming at you, scream louder and that’s it
Lol same I'm from south America too
I don't know about you guys but I will never forgive my bullies. Was bullied in elementary school. Subsequently went to a better school because of my grades and lost touch with almost everyone. One day in college one of those bystanders requested to follow my IG. I accepted it because I thought I was over it. Fast forward two years I was on summer exchange and swiping on IG I saw her IG story celebrating some achievement of my tormentor, with a couple others present. She tagged them and called them "pride of (school name)" and also said "(home-room teacher name) aren't you proud of us" as she pans the camera to said teacher who ignored all my reports because she preferred the other students and because I wasn't local.
I honestly thought I was over it until that point and I just lost it. I cried and just got ridiculously emotional. For one fucking hour. I was 22 that time and I was last bullied by them at age 12. One decade and I'm still not okay. It still triggers me.
I blocked the ex-schoolmate instantly.
No, I don't forgive bullies. Being young is not an excuse (especially not for that biased home room teacher she was 40) to be a horrible human being.
I'm indigenous and I was constantly bullied because of it, the reason why is because my parents put me on a public school which was on the rich part of the city, since I was darker than them I was bullied and making fun of, also because of my name. My name is Ada which in Spanish is confused with "Hada" (Fairy in Spanish) I was constantly told "Why is your name Ada (Referring to fairy) if fairies are white and cute but you are dark and anorexic"
It has happened to me for years but sadly there is nothing I can do, finally I'm going to college so I'm begging this year to be different, I understand the frustration when it comes to bullying, all of the feelings you have when you go through that, I suffered not only bullying but also racism
Tf I'm a fairy that speaks for all fairies on this and we all look different 😤🧚♀️
"If fairies are white-" hold up I believe my emojis say otherwise
🧚🏻♀️🧚🏿♂️🧚🏼♀️🧚🏾🧚🏽♀️🧚🏽♂️🧚🏾♀️🧚🏼🧚🏿♀️
Also when I hear anyone refer to someone who's thin as "anorexic" I think they just feel like fatasses regardless of their weight and they're trying to convince themselves otherwise. Like that's something they need to work on to feel better but instead they put down people they envy. That's been my experience anyway
And ps college IS different. It's easy to avoid the mean girls and assy boys because they stick together and everyone else no longer cares about that stuff
I'm so sorry you had to go through that btw Ada in my language means first daughter.
*hugs* College is better than you think, people dont bother you as much as they do in grade school. In my opinon, I believe fairies are beautiful, no matter what they look like. beautiful, powerful, strong and amazing just like you. Sometimes you gotta turn the negative into something positive! Things will get better from here I promise
just wanted to tell u guys that Hyunjin is INNOCENT , thank you
and jaywhypee out here making our Hyun apologize for such a small thing that happened 8-10 yrs ago to keep the company's so called "reputation" like did jyp even have one in the first place? 💀💀💀🙄🙄✋🏼✋🏼
@Shaivi Vats then tell me what you know since you be speakin like you know everything
@Shaivi Vats I was just saying that jype didnt handle it well and they made hyun write a handwritten apology and post it on insta which was unnecessary since he has already physically apologized to the accusers and they accepted his apology. Also not to mention how Hyun is made to take a halt? all these things arised more accusations and made it seem like Hyun did bully someone really harshly which prolly isnt even true and neither has jype released any kind of official statement regarding the situation which again leads to more accusations and more hate towards hyunjin which none of us want.
And ig that’s all you care about lol. Shows the morals of all their fans, they don’t give an f about the victims, they just desperately want to prove that the idol that they’re unhealthily attached to is innocent.
The people accusing idols of bullying are the real bullies. There are spreading fake information and posting malicious comments which is cyber bullying.
back in elementary, our school had this whole anti-bullying campaign and we had talks with police officers telling us that bullying is already against the law and we can get sued for it. thinking about it now, it was very amazing that we had that here in the philippines.
I love that ♥️
One thing i love about the Philippines is that bullying is never tolerated and teachers are really doing a great job in handling these situations. Also, the senior-junior issue is non-existent here. I have never seen anything like that.
@@injoo3539 i agree. when i joined clubs and organizations back in high school, those who were older than us basically treated us as if we were their friends. those are probably some of the perks of our education environment in the philippines
I'm from the Philippines too, and we do anti-bullying campaign every year in our school too but still bully exists.
Edit: but bullying here is not that worst compared to the other countries.
Even in India, bullying is seriously not tolerated. I wish it is taken seriously in other countries as well.
i don’t really think bullies should be forgiven. this is my personal opinion, but as someone who’s been bullied for my whole school life so far, i don’t think i’ll ever be able to forgive any of those bullies nor forget all the physical and metal damaged they’ve managed to make me go through.
@mandyluxe thanks. rn i don’t have resources to give me this help you mention, but i’ll take in account your words.
same i had to go through therapy because of that and I also got social anxiety :(
while i understand that you may have a very bad experience, i don’t think they shouldn’t be forgiven but should be punished for it, not their career seized because they actually worked hard for it.
i have never been bullied but i have heard a lot of stories of extreme bullying cases and understand why you feel that. i hope you’re doing better
@@ne3218 i get what you mean! i wouldn’t want to do anything to harm them or their career, that would just turn me into a terrible person like them. but ofc, i wouldn’t really feel bad if someone else did🧍🏽♀️lmao
@@ne3218 and when we think of it, the only way of making these idols be ‘punished’ and make them apologize or whatever, is for them to be called out. there’s literally no other way to get to someone this big. it depends on how they and their company handles it if it ruins their career or not, and ofc also depends on how fans and netizens react + cancel culture
I was Bullied in my teen. And most of time i came home crying and it ruined my whole teen and still tormenting me .
I hope i can forgave them but i don't know when maybe in future.
Those horrifying memories doesn’t go away trust me when i say this.
I don't get how somebody just wakes up and thinks they should accuse an idol of bullying like chile- 👁👄👁
What does chile mean lol I've been seeing it everywhere
@@woozihae it's just slang for child I think
Istg, the people who tryna bring idols down by spreading false rumors are the loneliest.
It might be possible that these kpop idols you are idolizing are bullies.
@@arinsgone exactly...
Innocent until proven guilty... yes, some of them might be actual bullies before and I must say, they deserve the consequences. But there are also people that we call "antis" who blurts out accusations without solid evidences.
I would just like to say that in Hyunjin's case it was an argument NOT bullying. Even the person who was apparently bullied said that it had been a long time and that they didn't remember all the details. I hope this clears some stuff up.
i was bullied mercilessly when i was young. sent home with bruises and torn clothes and lumps on my head. i harbored resentment for a time. but something crazy happened: i became an adult. and the more adult i became, the less i gave af about who did what when i was young. i bring this up to suggest one thing: most of the outrage is coming from young people. i don't grudge them their outrage either; they're young. but with life experience they're likely to understand that what was in the past is not who we are, and people can (and often do) grow into decent people. but for now, they'll leverage the power of the internet to bring judgment on someone they don't even know, involving a case they have no knowledge of, because that's what the internet does.
i was about to write the same thing..i think most of these accusers haven't grown up (even i tho i assume that most of them are in their 20s considering who they are accusing, so not exactly children here either...) and dealt with real life yet to be wrapped up with what happened in their middle/high school life. Was bullied too and resentful of the ahole for a long time and then college/career/life happened and i have better things to do with my time. And yes people are not the same as they were as a middle schooler, however from what i have seen in korean culture, i'm not sure they believe ppl can change or they are not likely to forgive them for making mistakes from grade school to now.
I understand your point, but it's not easy for a lot of people to just get over bullying. Some people go through severe bullying that leaves them with lasting trauma, not to mention the impact bullying can have on their mental health at the point in time they're being bullied, causing issues like anxiety and depression. Everyone handles situations differently, and I think people should be allowed to process their emotions in a way that is healthiest for their personal wellbeing.
Wtf are teachers doing in school if you are sent with torn clothings or bruises the person responsible should have been expelled I think it will be better if teachers paid more attention.
@@rinrin9236 you are absolutely correct. unfortunately, that's not what we're seeing from the outrage mob on the internet, who are projecting their emotions on situations they know nothing of. and when they jump to conclusions based on these emotions, without affording due process to the accused, it brings harm to individuals (and companies, and fandoms) who are vulnerable to public opinion. resisting the temptation to do so takes maturity, which comes with life experience that the self-righteous internet jury just doesn't seem to have.
@@afrobeatsislife1677 there's not much teachers can do after school and off campus, which is when/where most of my bullying experiences took place (bullies are usually wise to the rules). as for parents, obviously they need to teach kids to not beat up others kids. but if that were the way for everyone, these discussions wouldn't be necessary.
loonas chuu is an example of people taking advantage of the situation. the acuser came out and said they lied and exaggerated their friendship but now they’ve hurt chuu’s reputation and her mental health (she’s mentioned before that her nice personality meant she always got hurt and couldn’t tell anyone, plus she’s cancelled her schedules) and now it’s hard to believe other victims too.
i dont believe shit knetz say unless there's actual proof. chuu wouldn't hurt a fly let alone cause someone emotional damage, this week has been draining.
Luckily for both Chuu and Orbits, no Koreans don’t pay attention to Chuu’s case because it isn’t legitimate.
This won’t hurt her reputation, at least considerably.
Soojin’s case actually sparks the whole #BullyToo movement, and the victims also bring their own lawyers to demand an issued apology from Soojin for their trauma occured in the past. The victims have evidents themselves, and in my perspective are trustworthy.
@@hajimekashiwagi3635 could you send me a video that talks about it? I don't want to come off as rude... I'm just curious and want to learn more
@@hajimekashiwagi3635 what evidence?
All these cases are a mix of false accusations (Chuu/Soyeon), friends falling out (probably the Soojin case) and actual bullying (April/Hyunjoo case). It’s all a mess.
they accused CHUU ?!!! of all people-
People in Korea don’t actually pay attention to Chuu’s bullying allegation.
Just want to clarify.
(The number 1 hot search on Korean Internet right now is Soojin’s, for those who’s curious)
what do you mean by that?if she looks innocent and cute,she can't be a bully or what?ik the rumors are false,but judging someone's behaviour based on their appereance is wrong
@@marica_istrate thats very true! I don’t think she’s innocent just bc of how she looks, I was judging off of her personality (that we can see) because she’s always kindhearted and sweet
@@soo-ah5403 I agree! She's literally so so nice and bright and you can see that it's genuine!
Hyunjin getting accused for bullying? When he was in a all boys school...smh, people are trying to ruin their images...
hyunjin went to a coed elementary and middle school ( seoul sungil elementary school & seoul sungnae middle school ) and only attended an all boys school in high school ( dongbuk high school , which he didn't attend for that long since he ended up being transferred to sopa ) . he is being accused of bullying someone in middle school which is possible .
It's fake
@@lovesullyoonie
thanks for spreading information, when these kpop fans don't even know a thing.
Stray kids are growing in popularity and it shows. Woojin then Han then Hyunjin. I hope they be strong like Bts and stay together the bigger problem now is fucking JYP to not ruin it cuz we all knew What happened to Got7. I really hope their friendship leads the way.
ok you want an online school story lol? In creative writing class, we had to do "blackout poems" (take a piece of text, keep a few words and cross out the rest) and I chose the lyrics Serendipity (BTS) and I was like lol nobody's going to know what this is but someone wrote in the chat "Jimin!" and I was shook :)
The lyrics are so beautiful 🥰
I remember being bullied and harassed at school back in the day for being Asian. I skipped sooo many classes during my GCSE days and I remember the first year I was virtually non existent during PE & Graphics - cause my bully was in the graphics lessons and PE was always before it. 😭 At the end of the year I knew I couldn't go on like this cause my grades would suffer so I plucked up the courage and told my teacher. I was expecting him to shout at me but he didnt, took the time to listen and helped me through everything, even shared his experiences of being picked on as an adult! (he was american and living in the UK). He brought me to our head of year who then expelled the kid for a while. Needless to say Im super thankful to all my teachers back then for being so supportive 😅
I really wish that school bullies would realize the harm that they have done to so many other people.. I was bullied from kindergarten all the way to the end of high school. I could never take jokes because it just hurt me so bad. I barely had friends, and people only started talking to me around 3rd grade. She would tell people to not talk to me, as right in my face and pull them away from me. The girl who bullied me all my life, I hate that I will never forget her. If only she knew I had my own home problems, maybe she would have let up. I’m ruined for possibly the rest of my life because of her actions. Just because she was the most popular, everyone else who wanted to be cool, thought it was okay to bully me as well. I’ve worked on myself so much, I’ve gone to therapy several years and pushed myself past my comfort zone just to teach myself that not everyone is judging me in the world. And yes it has helped A LOT, and I’m much better than I used to be, but that doesn’t change the fact that I’m TERRIFIED to make phone calls, even if I’m so ill i feel like I’m dying, I’m so terrified to call the doctor. After every appointment I break down crying and get really depressed for a few days. I can’t even talk about my symptoms because I wan to cry so bad. Im still terrified to ask questions, I hate putting in my opinion, I let people in my life step all over me, because I’m too afraid to stand up for myself. I’m so terrified by so people sometimes. And I don’t want to say it’s all her fault and blame it all on her, but my parents had a play in my pain too, and being out of home was an escape, and I couldn’t even do that without being harassed. I was harming myself physically because I felt like I wasn’t good enough, but now I know, that im more than enough. As I said, I am MUCH BETTER than I used to be, but I still often hold myself back from things, because I’m scared, of what, I don’t know. I’ve since moved away from there and I never have to see anyone in that town, and life is so much better than it used to be, but unfortunately I will always live with this anxiety I have and unfortunately I get really depressed a lot still. But I know with time I’ll get better. Omg I ranted so bad haha, but the moral of the story is, I wish they would realize what they have done to these people. The pain they have caused and the harm they can never undo. If I ever heard an apology from these people, idk if I would forgive them, but I would have the opportunity to teach them what their words and actions can really do to people, and hope that they teach their children, that these actions should never be taken, and to treat others with kindness, because it makes so much of a difference. And if anyone read this all, I wish you the best, and I hope you have a wonderful and happy life because you deserve it!!! And you are loved!! ❤️❤️💕💕
I went through severe bullying example , sexual harassment , being beaten up to the point I couldn't walk for two months , being stabbed , physically and mentally abused and also I was almost poisoned . And its always the older kids who did these things to me so now when people ask me why I'm so mean and not kind anymore I always say "the world is a cruel and dark place , you don't know when it's gonna come back and strike you in the face" .
i feel like a group of antis have grouped together to attack famous celebrities who are doing great in the industry just to ruin their lives or "just for fun"
these people really make me sick
OMG! I just posted the same thing hahaha - NCT is pretty notorious for having some of the worst sasaengs in the industry, currently. I would NOT be surprised if delusional(s) sasaeng fan(s) banded together to stop Jaehyun's drama from airing (which they did mofus ugh) because HyeSoo can't be with their oppa...
Especially her case --- it just doesn't add up. They keep threatening with evidence but haven't reached out to authorities, the company, or released it. The 'victim' is starting to lose her benefit of doubt card.
@@HelloMello91 wth!? these mfs are trying to stop jaehyun's drama from releasing!!???? can we please kill them?
@@swatzulalala Dude! They actually did stop it from airing! It was supposed to premiere on Feb. 26th and it got pushed out indefinitely... like no new release date because of this _*RUMOR*_. And they already filmed 80% of the drama - like i feel SO bad for the entire cast and crew and of course our bb JaeHyun!! I'm down to whoop these bitch asses too.
@@HelloMello91 ya i remember but i wasnt planning on watching cuz of my exams........but i didnt know they already did thaaatttt
ugghhh i wanna kill them .........i was waiting for a month for it
This reminds me of someone's post during November(when Irene's scandal blew up) about how some people are organizing a mass "clean up" or some sort and celebrities are targets,along some politicians(i forgot wether if its only in Korea,or in Asia,or Worldwide but my instincts tells me only in Korea).Got chills remembering that post and putting it next to your comment after seeing so many scandals and accusations.
I've fallen out with my friends before but I would never consider that bullying.
In Loona's case:
Chuu's accusers all deleted their posts and apologized after the company denied those rumors and said they'd be suing them for defamation(and they're still doing it even after they deleted)
Hyunjin has also been accused of physically bullying someone, but old classmates stood up for her, and said that the one who accused her was actually bullying hyunjin. Sooo they deleted their post and apologized, but the company did nothing and said nothing about it
good. chuu wouldn't hurt a fly.
i was like NO CHUU NOT CHUU SHES SO SQUISHY THERES NO WAY
Bruh ofc jyp didnt do anything about it
@@ratworld8504 oh uh Im talking about loona's hyunjin
@@cc-ky5pl Oh sorry i thought you were talking about the skz hyunjin but that still sucks that bbc still didnt do anything about it
10:22 In my country
Me: Gets bullied bad
Teachers:-_-
Me: Suffering through depression, anxiety
Teachers:-_-
Me: Falls and breaks the skull
Teachers: -_-
Me: wears a dress with sleeve 1mm less than that instructed
Teachers: 👁👄👁
Sounds like Indian schools
Sounded like some Filipino schools too.
this line is felt all over the world tbh "cOvEr DeM sHoUlDeRs yOu hOE"
@@wazzaaaapshawtyy2929 Ikr😂😂
Tis truly ridiculous🤷♀🤷♀💀🤦♀
@@kiwiju657 Depends? I've never seen bullying or been bullied in my school
I feel so relieved in my school after hearing this.In the school i am studying in,there are no bullies and students are not allowed to be rude with each other and if they are rude their parents will be called
Al i say is the i can forgive but never forget.... bullying has lasting effects
The bullying accusations from Hyunjin are giving me serious anxiety, i mean ofcourse we know it’s not true but Hyunjin is REALLY sensitive, he literally even cries when reading a sad book or movie, i’m so worried😭
Yeah hyunjin went to all boy school so how could a girl accuse him?
And Hyunjin literally sent selfies and a goodnight message with a heart emoji to his friends before he went to sleep so why would he bully someone? Also it could be because Stray Kids are on Kingdom and antis thought it would be the chance to ruin their chances on winning.
@@breadjinnie1827 hyunjin went to a coed elementary and middle school ( seoul sungil elementary school & seoul sungnae middle school ) and only attended an all boys school in high school ( dongbuk high school , which he didn't attend for that long since he ended up being transferred to sopa ) . he is being accused of bullying someone in middle school which is possible .
@@lovesullyoonie I think JYPE confirmed that the rumors were not true...? and he apologized saying sorry if he once hurt someone. (not about the rumors)
@@baby_dino4737 yup, that's where he's sorry for and the accusers accepted it and said they will support hj
Why don't they just accuse the whole K-pop industry at this point 🙄
I mean Don't accuse just give us proper evidence and proof yourself.. IDK this is trend or what accusing she he was my friend but also became my bully! I am so done with the rumors like get on the point.
2:08 that one is not Mingyu from SVTN, he is Kihyun from MONSTA X babe
In my opinion old drama in high school isn’t worth ruining someone else’s career. I’m sure it must be irritating seeing someone you had beef with in the past be successful but people change
Agreed think about the present that the past
this is so controversial and you know what I completely agree with you
@@nia160 ikr
Welp, I suppose those ppl that kill themselves due to bullying it would just be old drama for u. Ppl don't change easily even if they can. Calling them out could prevent more ppl from being bullied. However, I think they should first contact that company/artist and ask for a proper apology and consequence then if the artist/company is willing then they should take the apology and move forward, rather than putting all the drama on the internet. However, if they don't then u should expose them as it shows they haven't changed and r likely still harming others. Bullying has levels and some ppl suffer from psychological issues for the rest of their life so old drama... or a constant ongoing pain?
@@MiSSK2078 I'm sure the person was talking about less serious things...?? cuz obviously if it's to the point where the victim almost/attempted to kill themselves then that's on a whole new level. I think there's a limit to everything...
I would never forgive my bullies for what they have done to me and how they’ve made me feel about myself. They could rot in hell
these bullying allegations are all flooding so suddenly so it does seem quite suspicious :/
that what ppl said about the harvey weinstein accusations too
@@Vickynger i’ll have a look bc i’ve never heard of that! :D
a lot of victims are opening up now because they feel comfortable with other stories coming out.
@@sofia-rp4yz most of them (like chuu's accusers) are lying lmao they want to ruin their careers.
@@sofia-rp4yz mingyu from svt l, however deserves to get thrown out of the group if those allegations are actually true.
I feel like this whole thing is fake when it comes to the idols
Why because they’re idols? I bet if the Jimin from AOA situation didn’t come out but this happened to her you’d say the same things. You guys need to remember idols are not perfect they’re human just like us. They do good and bad things. They’ve been bullied and also have been the bullies. They’ve smoked and not smoked, drank alcohol and haven’t, had sex and haven’t. They do things other humans do. They aren’t above us.they are Humans
kpop idols are humans who were once not famous. a lot of these accusations are true, they just hide their true colours in front of the camera/fans.
not really, anything could happen, and what u see on camera is not always the truth, who knows if there are that has commit theft, assault or worse? or they could be the victim, who knows
@@stellakatula149 agree. Idols are people before anything. They can be just as horrible as anyone else. I’m tired of people putting them on pedestals.
We don't usually have bullies in India IT'S REALLY GOOD TBH and if some seniors tries to Rag you than we can just complain it to the principal and they take actions about it
Nd most important if parents knw(specially father) anything about it they would be homeless or grounded for 1 year
@@dailyanimalshortsplanet_27 yah fr 💆🏻♀️
Hella true , and victims parents know about this that bully is doomed
@@goodhuman916 yah tell your parents someone from the senior class disturbed you and next day you'll find them in your institution with their chappals in hand 🙇🏻♀️
I haven't forgiven my high school bullies. They've caused me too much trouble i'm still struggling with today.
I think everyone has thing we aren’t proud of especially during our teenage years but if those toxic traits continue then we need to action against them.
AND IM NOT SAYING ITS RIGHT THAT THE BULLYING HAPPENED. But as adults we need to take responsibilities for actions and own up to them so we can continue to grow ina society where people feel safe and loved.
❤💜❤💯
Agreed
Definitely. I find claims against idols stating that they did something at age 10-14 kind of irrelevant. I mean, have you seen middle schoolers nowadays? The boys who were in my middle school class would always say some pretty mean and sexual things. But now in high school, they are completely different people. I wish more people understood that people can change. That being said, there are those few people who don't mature or change at all. In that case, of course, we should hold them resposible.
Most people in their teenage year aren’t a bully FFS. Please stop acting like bullying behavior is normal during one’s growth in personality either, because it’s not true.
@@hajimekashiwagi3635 What I'm trying to say is that people change. At the age of 10-14, the vast majority of kids still have a long way to go. Kids who were mean to me at my school are completely different people now. And if Mingyu did bully people in middle school, who says he didn't change? And plus, it isn't even confirmed if he was a bully.
in india i don't see much of bullying cases (i am an indian ) so i'm a middle school student from india and honestly i have never seen anyone getting bullied in our school . specially the sunbae hoobae thing because i have always been close to my seniors made plans with them , asked them for help . well and as u said there is a difference between school drama and bullying like i've been part of so many dramas , even recently but we forgave each other because it's the last year of our middle school. and we have a really good relation with our juniors too .but when i say this i mean from what i have seen but i have heard from my friend from another school that juniors get beaten up by seniors and are bullied , he once got bullied too and the most disturbing part is that teachers don't even bother to know and help in such situations , like they check our uniforms , hair , shoes and attendence for their so called "discipline" purpose but don't give a fuck about school bullying which is very dangerous for student.
there is bullying in india too,sometimes by teachers themselves...i am glad you had a better experience
@@jeetujoy1635 yes teachers have favourites and they treat others unfair
Hii, I’m honestly happy that you talked about the bullying, because I was so confused on why people accuse these idols out of no where
The hyunjin one always breaks my heart, he doesn't deserve the hate :((
bullying in the uk is worse some kids die and some end up with broken bones an egyptian girl died after getting beated in the bus after school and the kids get away with it
I can’t believe people said that hyunjin was a bully the boy sent his classmates pictures of himself with hearts as his way of saying good night🥲
This is your excuse for hyunjin?
Omg my bully send hearts and says good night to me, omg he's definitely not a bully!!🙄
-nothing against hyunjin tho, im just too annoyed with your excuse, think of a better one.
-from a cat
@@arinsgone He was proven innocent :)
@@arinsgone so a bully that doesn’t like u for any particular reason would send u pictures with hearts and tell u good night🤠
@R.M.S. exactly
you do know that bullies can be nice to some and be bullies to others right? i’m not saying hyunjin is a bully , but it’s a terrible argument. he sent his friends the messages , not the accuser. you said that in your original comment, but replied to someone saying he sent the accuser those messages.
I’ve never been bullied and I’m lucky to say I haven’t seen much of it in my lifetime. At all the schools I’ve been to, most people I knew had too much work to make fun of other people. I’m not saying bullying didn’t happen at my schools, but I never really saw it. If a kid did something really bad and was found out, they would be suspended, expelled, or maybe even have criminal charges depending on what happened.
I’m sad how Jaehyun’s drama is postponed, but some people say that they want to cancel the drama :( He worked so hard for the drama ;-;
As of now these are all singers/actor/actresses
Mingyu(Seventeen)
Hyunjin(Stray Kids)
Chuu(Loona)
Soojin((G)I-DLE))
Sunwoo(The Boyz)
Soyeon((G)I-DLE))
Kihyun(Monsta X)
Aisha(Everglow)
HyunA(Soloist)
Actor/Actresses:
Jo ByungGyu
Kim DonHee
Kim SoHye(Former I.O.I member)
Park HyeSu
Yuehua has already denied the accusations made against Aisha, they proved to be false. (If I remember correctly)
MY BRAIN'S NOT WORKING COZ BLUE JK, JENNIE AND G-DRAGON DATING, THIS BULLYING SCANDAL
I LOST MY BRAINCELLS
Lmao 😂 I know it’s a lot
BLUE JK 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
When being bullied why not just fight back? For those who bully, why only dare when in a group? I've had bullies too, but in that moment I silenced them and exposed the true brutality. Even though I ended up being punished, but I didn't care about the punishment and I said "You guys are targeting the wrong people to bully, because my life is much darker". So I didn't decide to kill myself and managed to turn things around.
At the same time they were targeting others who were much weaker, I didn't stay silent and directly taught them a lesson. In the end I was labeled an “uneducated child” but I ignored all that and I feel proud of the title. Because they started first, that's why I counterattacked. Some even turn to me for protection when they are bullied.
Because someone saw when I was having lunch, my lunch was hit by a basketball, which in the end spilled my food. At that time my emotions peaked, I said "Who did this? Honestly or I ruined this place". Finally there were 3 people who confessed, the three of them were given punishment including me, but the three of them were frustrated with the punishment. But I didn't care about the punishment, even until the weaker ones finally asked me for help. It can't be helped, I can't bear to see it.
That's all my tips for those of you who are often bullied, make it a habit to be brave, fight and never decide to commit suicide. Prove to them that you are much braver and stronger.
Since I go to an all girls school there is constant drama, but since I have been at home most of the time for school I haven't had any problems. But of course before the pandemic began I was having problems with an ex and friends who decided to turn there back on me. I was also volunteering at the time as part of a grade for class that I was taking, and I got harassed by many of the kids I worked with. Sorry this was so long. Hope you are doing well.
Here in Bangladesh, school bullies are quite rare but there r bullies in universities. Also there r some shitty students in some schools who bully those introverted soft kids & the worst part is it doesn't even get noticed like there's no freaking law or smth here & many get away doing such disgusting things. There was a case here about 2 years ago that some university bully beat up this one kid so much that he died. & they beat him bcz he posted his thoughts about some governmental issues going on here. Then students from all over the country did mass-movement & got those bullies arrested. I feel bad for ppl like that kid.....I rly wish the thing 'bullying' just vanished from the world.
Finally a bangladeshi! The BUET student one broke my heart. It made me soooo fuvking mad
@@miyaken3173 ifkr like bruh-
Yeah here bullying is more like politically influenced student parties torturing people with different ideas. I think general students are fairly nice. Also the school and college I went to, anything close to bullying was socially criticized so much that bullies would have to go through bullying if they try to bully others.
Mingyu accused of bullying and said it happens in 3rd year. When he actually debuted when he was in 2nd year
Its ridiculous ngl. I think people are bored. I think those who bully others need some therapy, probably suffering from whatever had happened to them , but from what I see the majority of them later regrets it (not all just some )
I don’t think the majority ends up regretting what they’ve done in the past. Instead, most of the people I’ve meet who I personally know are a bully once in their life will never be able to break the habit because bullies are mostly brought up in an unhealthy environment long enough to pick up their behaviors from bad influence.
The only bully who I’ve seen considerable growth in personality isn’t a bully anymore, but still a fucking bitch sometimes.
The amount of accusations is getting outta hand and today a person that bullied Taehyung in school was exposed...this is too much 😭
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I saw a clip on Instagram or read something about him being bullied in elementary school a while ago. What I've read said that the friend was having a birthday party and lied to Taehyung about where the party was. After a couple of hours Taehyung found out where the party was so he went there to give the friend a gift card (or something like that) and left. Apparently his supposed friend bullied him because he was jealous of Taehyung. But the person apologized a couple of years later.
@@booklover1298 yup. Glad he apologized but it kinda hurt when I heard the news that he was bullied but people change and Taehyung is obviously doing well now
@@booklover1298 Dude this is old news. They already made up a long time ago. He wasnt a bully, he was just a jealous friend who bullied Tae. They met up and he apologized
Edit: They already moved on and we should too, its not nice opening old healed wounds. Its both annoying and may be traumatizing to Tae
Someone bullied me when I was in grade 1. His dad went to school to apologize and elaborate how he punished his son. Then the next school year I slapped my bully while the whole class was cheering me on telling me I should avenge myself.
Bullying creates a cycle of hatred and pain... so I'll tell my kids to watch Naruto.
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Sorry for what happened to you.
Bullies are always worst it effects one's mental health and confidence.🙄🙄🙄😡
i have been bullied for sometime and it still hurts to see them unaffected and not living up to the consequences.. but like u cannot tell anybody cause u do not want the situation to be bad ... still hits tilll today . i mean i fought back but i got in trouble for it .. y bully people ;[ i and accusation without evidence NO
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When I first got into kdramas (around 2015) and watched my first ever drama Heirs, I thought they were exaggerating with the bullying on the show because in the US-or at least in my school (I go a suburban mainly white high school)- there isn’t really your typical form of bullying or a bully because bullying culture isn’t too big in actual schools. I would say that instead “bullying” online is more what takes place, but then again it’s still not too big because our school has a big anti-bullying system in place.
When I started to watch more kdramas, I couldn’t help but notice the similarities on how much physical bullying there was. The crazy thing to me as well is how much of a juxtaposition it is that in Korea bullying is seen as a really big taboo (or from me as an outsider is seems that whenever a famous figure gets hit with bullying accusations the public really has a strong reaction from it) in Korea, but bullying culture seems to be really big as well. I guess it’s all a culture shock for me 😄
Me too
i felt the going to school online to not see your bullies 😥
Samee
Drama and falling out with friends is not bullying. Literally almost everyone would be a bully if that was the case. Hell, even i was thrown out of my friend group for some silly teenage drama, and yes for a while it fucked me up. Do i like them, no, but do i want to destroy their lives, also no! Young people are bad at controlling their emotions and nasty feuds happen, but you move on. None of us are the same people we were as children or teenagers. These accusers are petty ass hell bitter people.
Forgiveness is such a powerful thing. Several years ago I had planned to commit suicide because I couldn't take it anymore. It wasn't until I wrote a letter to say goodbye that I saw I could end it all there or I could forgive the people that hurt me so much and continue my life for better. Some days are tough but I'm glad I didn't do it.