Even if they do the routine answer is yes I'm fine most people give that answer even if they're not okay. I know I have said I'm doing good when people ask even if in my heart I know I'm not.. most people don't want to burden others with their problems.
It has to be worse if/when you're in a Pageant. One year one of the contestants needs to focus their efforts on Women's Health. There's too much stress to be perfect and on top of that dealing with your Menstruation or a Mental Disorder. Then you're being forced to live in silence so the world always see's you as perfect............
Great comment, but please don’t ever use the words “sorry for your loss” to someone who is grieving. Somehow it diminishes the loved one and the whole grieving experience to a cliché. Ok in this context though.
This woman was gorgeous, successful, and had everything going for herself, if she can do this, think about all the other people in your life that may be considering it. Always check on the “strong” person in your life.
A perfect lesson of how true happiness is not found in beauty and happiness...she was on-top of the world alongside her beauty,but deep inside she was not complete 😞. And the hurtful part is we will never know what she was longing for.
I look at women like this and put myself down even more sometimes.. like if I was like her I would have it all, and be happy... life is so wierd to me..
It's horrendous and only those who know the level of pain know the depth of the despair. Very best wishes Annette, I promise you're not alone - although I'm sure it often feels that way.
It truly is just demons Recognize the dark voice And also recognize Gods voice which is his promise of life while we live Don't let the demons lie to you The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I came so that they would have life, and have it abundantly
actually to appear perfect and achieve academic success at the same time is extremely stressful and a lot of sacrifices have to be made. That alone is cause to acknowledge that a person may struggle to achieve their success.
You should always judge but keep an open mind to be wrong. Never judging something and not following your gut instincts is what leads to bad choices and even death. I dont care what anyone says, if someone shady is walking behind me, im gonna cross the street.
This is just so sad. I know she was stressed about turning 30yrs old and that she had stated that she felt like she was aging out of relevancy. I believe this mindset all started immediately after she won Miss America, bc she was “the oldest” contestant to have ever won (at the YOUNG age of 28) and bc of that she was bullied online severely not only for being a woman of color (a beautiful woman at that imo) but they also trolled her for her age. We (the people of the USA, and internationally as well) really need to do something to put an end to the trolls who so carelessly and recklessly bully others from the safety of the Internet. Online bullying is so horrible and causes so many people to become depressed and more often than not it often ends in a similar situation as Chesley’s. The bullying/trolling needs to stop and those who continue to treat others so horrifically need to be held accountable in some way or another. People should never be bullied into feeling less than or anything negative ever especially at the expense of online trolls. The trolling, the bullying, the cancel culture needs to stop it’s just completely out of hand at this point and something needed to be done regarding this situation….like yesterday.
This sounds very insightful and I wanted to hear from people who knew her and get an idea what was possibly bothering someone like her ,who appear to "Have it all". If "aging out of relevancy" was a concern, I kinda take that to mean (although not necessarily) that she must've wanted a career in Hollywood, because at 30, being a Lawyer like she was, she could've joined any Law Firm and be very successful! But it's hard to know what was really going on. Anyway May she rest in Peace 🙏🌹🌌.
Isn't that pretty much why Christine Chubbuck killed (shot) herself live on air in the 70s? She's probably why there's a delay on "live" now. I don't believe that the internet is going to make you kill yourself. I mean, you don't HAVE to have any comments, much less READ them. I don't myself.
Should be treated, not takę part in moronic competition.!!!. Being On a candlestick is not for everyone and Old age is there and a person must get Old. She was overwhelmed by what she was surrounded by.
“Pretty hurts, we shine the light on whatever worst, you’re tryna fix something but you can’t fix what you can’t see is the soul that needs the surgery.” Mental health is real depression is real
She had EveryThing. I used to marvel at her! She had beauty, brains, success, fame, rich friends, just everything. She was a lawyer, plus a beauty queen. I'm sure no one saw this coming. May she find Peace🙏🏼
It's crazy you can have everything but still have nothing be in the room with friends and family but still feel lonely have all the success you can imagine but still feel worthless depression doesn't play fair
as a 28 year old woman I absolutely feel her pain. Cant tell you how many times age gets brought up in comparison to what my life currently is and that's for both men and women, but speaking as a woman if I kick fight and scream for people to drop the societal pressure, I get abandoned by those closest to me.
Wait 20 years. Then they'll all give up on you. Lol. Best thing in the world is when you're "too old" for certain. Lol unless he's 65 or 70. Ha. Do what you want. Stand up for yourself. Wait another 10-20 years. And you won't care what they say. The desperation of finding the prince is gone. Or will be by then. No loneliness.
Death of a child for any reason isn't better or worse, I think the big mistake many people make is to take anti-depressants with increased risk of suicide... even though they haven't had any suicide attempts in the past. Never take a medicine with a side effect worse than the original condition.
This is beyond devastating. Someone who had accomplished so much in life at the young age of 30. And very beautiful and seemed very happy. You never know what someone is personally going through. RIP Cheslie 🕊
But that's just it... she wasn't happy and she voiced that. And as a response all you heard was "but she was so happy". She publicly wrote about the need to be perfect, social media trolls, feeling she was old, not liking her body, etc etc. She was suffering and all people saw was what they wanted to see. Those around her failed her miserably.
Mental health is deadly serious in many cases, and I'm so sorry she felt suicide was the only way out of her pain. I pray she is free now and in a happy place. Prayers and hugs to her mother.
My dad committed suicide 20 years ago, and I miss him a lot. I must admit, I have considered giving up on life many times, but it's my mother who gives me strength and keeps me motivated. Looking back at all the times I've contemplated suicide, I now feel that my dad would want me to live on.
He would. You can make it brotha. Take one day at a time and do the things you love and that interest you. Keep family close. Much love man, hang in there.
This is why we must be careful with how we treat others and with the words we speak because they have power to influence or effect someone in a negative or positive way... u never know how your words or actions can be the last straw for that person. We all need to be more cognitive and play our part as individuals to spread more love and support to others regardless if they're your family members or just a stranger walking down the street... let's also educate ourselves on signs of suicide and ways to discern and identify when someone is on a Verge of a Breakdown so we can help prevent this from happening again
@@ilovegoodsax it is not only emotional pain, sometimes it is circumstances that wreak havoc on the soul. Emotional pain is the symptom of deeper problems or circumstances.
A had an attempt in 2019 and I wanted to be reborn and start over more then anything. Suicidal ideation is a sickness that makes you truly believe your loved ones will be better off without you dragging them down
My aunt committed suicide in may of last year she was the nicest most caring person and always helped others, months before she passed she isolated herself and said she had no one. She had 300 people come to her funeral that’s how many lives she touched
This is the thing people fail to understand. Sometimes the person who is always there for others is that way because that's how they want to be treated. However , people rarely treat them that way. Instead people grow accustom to relying and them for things. Never stopping to think if they can be of service to the kind person. I am sorry for your lost. I pray that your family heals from this.
This is awful and I’m sending prayers and condolences to her family and friends. 😢🙏🏾🕊 Goes to show you that we never know what somebody is going through, so please be kind to each other. Life is hard enough 🙏🏾🤗.
Losing someone you have known for so long throughout your life to suicide is more than painful, it's heartbreaking too. Condolences go towards the family involved. A horrific loss that words cannot be used to describe it.
She must have been in so much pain. She put on a beautiful smile for the world and her loved ones even though things weren't so bright on the inside. RIP, I hope she rests well.
The fact that she chose that level of violence as a way out shows the level of pain she was in. She hated her body and mind for making her go through what she went through, that as an act of revenge she decided to do as most damage to it as possible by jumping to get death
This kid at my gym..was always the funny friendly guy with everyone..always looked happy..committed suicide didn't leave a note..depression doesn't have a face..always check on your loved ones no matter what their mood appears to be
Do you know that the most friendly person has a good heart which he or she give to everyone on her part but she is sadly the most lonely person. Why, because nobody gives back to her or him. Everybody will believe she is fine and she will always act such so that she can be strong for others. I believe this young star was like that but have no shoulder to cry on. Too sad .
Because that's extremely insulting to the family. That's why. She tried it before. I had a woman INSIST she knew what killed my cousin, insisting it was auto liability. When she knew nothing about it. Don't be that person. It's hurtful and rude.
@@brittanymaraya I'm not saying no one pushed her I'm saying how do we know sometone didn't push her like another jealous competitor or someone that didn't like her, I was never saying no one pushed her
@@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 I said how do we know if someone didn't push her, anything can happen the world is weird right now and someone comment she did get pushed that's what I was saying, yes RIP to her and many prayers to the family, but I was never saying I knew what happened to her!
As someone who has suffered from depression before multiple times and currently suffers from anxiety and PTSD, Whenever I think about the times I almost made this decision I thank myself I didn’t. My heart goes out to everyone who goes through the same stuff.
2 years of a worldwide Pandemic is making it worse ! I think there is more to the story with this Woman and It may have nothing to do with depression !
As someone who also struggles with my mental health, I know the hopelessness she felt leading to this. People say it’s hard to tell and it is mostly. I’m sorry for her family’s loss and I hope she can rest in peace.
Jesus can help you 🤍all unrighteousness is sin and all of us have sinned against the Holy God, and so we all deserve eternal damnation in hell. we could not get right with God by our act of "Good works," nothing by own our righteousness we could do to could save us. which is why there is the "Good news/ Gospel" The debt we couldn't pay, CHRIST payed for us on the cross. we broke the law/ GOD'S commandments, and CHRIST JESUS payed the fine. Only through CHRIST we can be saved, whosoever believes and is baptized with the Spirit shall be saved. and this good news is for everyone, no matter what religion, no matter what sin, Jesus came to save us from them so we could be brought back into relationship with God, and be saved..amen
You can NEVER, EVER KNOW what a person is going through that will make him or her take their lives, which is why it is so important to just simply be KIND to everybody you meet.
I wouldn't want her she was weak minded not smart and is probably regretting what she did right now I'm sure Hue Hefner has her in playboy mansion in hell already 👍
I'm 62 years old I suffer from depression, anxiety, insomnia just to name a few. Attempted suicide at age 16 So much stuff was going on in my life including I had a baby at 16. I was molested and raped. I have a good psychiatrist and I am on medication, lots of prayers has gotten me to this point in life however I never let my guards down about my mental health. I thank God everyday to wake up to another day. R.I.P. sweet Cheslie 🙏
Depression isn't sadness, it's hopelessness without end. And often without reason. It just is. And to someone who has depression, death offers peace. Death is their only hope, only answer, only thing they can see. Depression is horrible.
May she finally rest. I deal with severe depression also. It's a constant battle. It's like wanting so much for yourself but no energy to complete your goals. It's being lonely and wanting company but instead isolating yourself from all of your family and friends. It's forgetting what it feels like to be happy. It's days when even taking a shower is impossible. It's not leaving your home for weeks at a time. Please pray for all of us dealing with this debilitating disease. My heart breaks for her friends and family.
My God this woman was exquisitely beautiful, intelligent, successful in business, and obviously was very loved by her family. The fact that she couldn’t see a way forward just shows how serious mental illness can be-it can literally warp your mind into believing all sorts of negative thoughts and trick you into thinking there’s no hope. I wish she would’ve reached out for help instead of jumping that day… Rest In Peace beautiful girl.
I felt like she was pushed to do all things she doesn't want to do. Felt like she lives for others not for herself. I stop pushing my daughter soo hard to do what I want instead of what she wants.. I told her I'm her and u can be whatever you want to be..ur life ur decision.
@@beverlycrawford571 thank you so much I appreciate it honestly beverly crawford I never new what it was I am a little bit too young to understand that it was depression ofter I get better I realized it was depression no body in my family have if I never strong omg that thing or person in my head would've take over me so bad, it's like trying to get out of a next world am trap into just to realize it's me to see and feel my real self .I fight everyday omg...and to know it's me it like a feeling like am lost and my brain was giving up on me nothing wasn't sweet I couldn't even concentrate when am cooking all am hereing in my head kill your self you will feel better .I shut countless time rebukeing the voice I remember I say the blood of jesus jesus heal me I don't come out of my head I fight I fight olord god I thank God the day I get heal 🙏🙏🙏🙏 I don't even know now what is depression thank God .
To jump from anywhere but definitely 29 stories is brutal 😞 I mean it gives me chills I keep seeing her in my thoughts standing on a ledge I wonder if she had regret it soon as she let go
You truly can't judge a book by its cover. To the outside world, this woman had it all. But deep in her soul, there was a void no one could reach. It couldn't be filled with beauty, degrees, notoriety, or money. This is truly upsetting. She had her whole life in front of her. :(
It could have been many things that she wasn’t telling people. But having everyone see you as “prefect” and have to try and live up to that expectation sounds difficult on its own. Heartbreaking.
I think you're probably right about this. It must be difficult for everyone to think you're perfect and trying to hide that maybe something's not right.
Lost my friend to suicide last month. This is so heart breaking to deal with, this affects everyone tremendously. Please seek help and find the courage to talk about something that's bothering you.
It is so hard. Very hard. To be vulnerable. To bother others. To put yourself in a situation where you will be judged, patronized, ridiculed, or even having your feelings belittled. And yet..:the sadness and pun comes and go. And then you find yourself deadline Roth unbearable pain in your heart. You don’t want to worry your loved ones. You want to be the source of happiness and strength. You want to be happy…but…
@Akari who ever hurt you, I’m sorry. Hurting others will never truly distract from or fix your pain. It’s ok to be hurt and grow around that. Don’t let anger and pain control your life.
She was so poised, elegant, beautiful, funny and a very smart young woman. If you haven’t seen the 2019 Ms. USA pageant please take a look at all her categories. I was so proud to have her represent the USA. May she RIP and condolences to the family.
So sad and heartbreaking! Reminiscent of Robin Williams whom everybody thought was having a great time while he was dying unawares to the world that laughed at his endless jokes while he himself imploded😭😭😭 May her soul and his through the MERCY of GOD rest in PEACE 🌹🌹🌹🙏🙏🙏✝️✝️✝️
@@MagdalenaIsaiah43 Yes, that was so tragic as well, I wish he knew how loved she is globally, but again, I’m not sure if that could win the fight over his internal demons 💔
@@carbar3936 i think so too! One of my closest friends killed himself and he only ever slightly hinted at me thats hes a bit fed up (who isnt). I guess he felt like he couldn't tell anyone how much trouble he is in.
Honestly living in a world where social media plays a part is tough…sometimes I think we should take a step back and really look at our lives and go back to some of the simpler things. Suicide is at an all time high and many times suicide doesn’t always have a “certain look”…we have been conditioned to take what everyone says about us as factual. I truly hate this for her! Being a 25 Y/O I have contemplated suicide but I knew it wouldn’t be the answer. Social media is tearing us apart and is causing so much division and hate. We spend our lives reading other people opinions about them and us and it wears on us mentally. It’s so sad
See The Bridge. It's a documentary. Library has it. Kevin Hines jumped from the Golden Gate. He lived (2 jump a month, and 2 survive during the year) He said his first thought after having jumped was regret at having done so. He's bipolar.
@@centex7409 kindness? She was bullied by other younger contestants for being 28 while the others were teens! Bullied for not having children at 30! Bullied for her age! Wtf being told by strangers and associates daily is hard for some
@@NYCGAL328 Nearly 30 in a competition that has nobody far out of their teens at the oldest, nearly 30 in a world that has and ALWAYS put a premium on female youth.. THAT'S REALITY. A reality you will never change and only drive more women to suicide over until you ACCEPT reality. Women must go back to being terrified of being old maids. Until then they will not only continue to crash into "the wall", they will be crushed by it as this poor woman was.
I could kinda relate to this in a way. 6 months ago when my mom passed away, about 3-4 months before her demise, she randomly texted me saying "if I die, just know I love you." I really didn't think anything of it because even though my mother suffered really bad depression and anxiety, she was being medicated for it and kept herself occupied as much as possible with the support of me and my family. My mother decided to take a street drug which was laced with fentanyl which subsequently killed her. Even though it wasn't a suicide, what she was going through mentally and emotionally led to her death. I normally wouldn't share something so private but I felt like it was necessary. May my mother and Cheslie both R.I.P ❤
This is absolutely heartbreaking 💔. Help is there, please don’t ever think you’re alone. Sometimes the ups and downs of mental illness sucks. But find a support of people online that will help you. Don’t go at this alone. I can relate to that sadness and pain. Depression and suicide is now being talked about. But from age 5-15, I was completely alone, no one even knew I was soo suicidal except 1 friend who also felt the same. I cried almost everyday. One time, I was in a car with someone who was drinking and driving erratically. He went straight towards a cliff and I thought we were going to die. I hugged my friend, and in an instant, I said out loud I don’t really want to die. It was an awakening for me. I thought I wanted to die, but deep inside I wanted that sadness to end. I’m better now. And in counseling and taking a low dosage of anxiety medication. There is a lot of resources and therapies too! Find what works for you. Horse, EMDR, group therapy, writing therapies, art, sand , play therapy, gestalt, workshops, and tons of books. I did all this and still struggle. But I have hope. I believe in you, if you’re reading this. I’m praying for you. ❤️❤️
I’m so happy for you I just wish I could think like you too. I was considering suicide before I learned that I had a tumor and around that time I really wanted to live. But now I sometimes wish that I died. It’s horrible but I do.
Exactly ! And those who Try So Hard to please everyone have So Much Pressure on them ! She had accolade after accolade heaped on her . How could she Not feel pressured to be perfect ???? God Bless her family and loved ones and Be With them and Guide them and Comfort them as Only He Can . IJMN AMEN .
You don't realize just how much someone meant to you till they're gone. So cherish every moment you can with loved ones because you never know when it's your last chance to spend time with them.
This is heartbreaking I hope more resources become available for people suffering from depression j also send peace love warmth light God divinity and everything her family needs I'm so sorry they lost their baby girl Cheslie this is beyond devastating I'm so sorry to hear
@@tottryship5608 She was, but there where still 3 other black women who won in 2019, and a black girl who won teen usa. I wish Chelsie would have gotten help of course though.
A few years ago, I had just lost my mom to cancer! I was failing in college, feeling worthless, feeling like a disappointment, feeling defeated, like life had no meaning. I couldn’t imagine how I would face my dad again not to talk of telling him about school, I just wanted to end it all! But thanks to my cousin who came to see me and spoke to me before I made any irrational decisions… I started college again and I’m graduating this month! Yay! If you’re reading this and you can relate, it will get better! It will get better! If I can do it, so can you love ❤️ ✌🏾
Thank you for telling a bit of your story. It might help someone who is reading through here who is going through bad depression, and maybe suicidal thoughts. To anyone having a very bad time: Hang in there, life can be tough. That's just the reality, the cycle of life. Find someone to talk to. Call a suicide hotline if need be. They WILL be glad to talk with you. Remind yourself of what you love in life. There is always something/someone. What is it? What can you do to bring more beauty into your life? Being hopeless is sometimes part of being human, but don't let it bury you. As a friend used to say. "This too shall pass.
@@EbikeAdventuresSD and you think god would be happy with you shaming someone into killing his/herself who's actually in deep pain? only god can judge her and him alone, so shut up.
Its been bothering me too-idk how they ‘should’ report on it but a lot has been **extremely** superficial. “Look at her, so beautiful, so accomplished, Miss. America!! She was a LAWYER. What a tragedy.” It’s a tragedy regardless, ugh. 💔
@@JessicaDarling2 Whether she was not considered beautiful or successful or even famous it’s still a loss. The media is trying to muster empathy from the superficial public when any person passing away in this manner should get empathy regardless of their life’s accomplishments or lack their of. Especially with women they really want to emphasize that she was beautiful to state that indeed now it officially is a loss to the world. Her death caused a loss to all those that knew her and cared for her, it shouldn’t matter her looks or money she had. You never know, that also might’ve been one of the factors that made her feel social pressure. Placing value/worth on people based on their appearance or the amount of money or fame they have does destructive things to their mental health.
Because naturally you think to yourself, what would someone of her stature be going through that's sooooo bad that she would take her life, and in that fashion? The first thing that hits is she is beautiful...then u here the news and it's like damn!
This is absolutely heartbreaking. This beautiful young lady held the world in the palm of her hand. May she RIP. I pray that God is able to provide her family some peace & comfort during this unimaginably painful time. 😢❤️🙏🏻
This is so sad.. even the people with the biggest smiles can be going through some of the toughest battles that nobody else knows about. Can’t imagine the pain her family is going through.
So many people have faced death, bankruptcy, unemployment, homelessness, lost loved ones but suicide has never and will never be the answer. You leave so many unanswered questions, broken hearts and probably your problems continue to exist beyond your death. May she RIP.
I think it’s time we introduced mental health and well-being into school curriculums. Dealing with negative thoughts and depression is never easy and it helps to learn these skills at a younger age
@@thesun-N-moon8885 provide awareness to begin to remove stigma. My best friend was a highly successful person but after he took his life we all asked why couldn’t he ask for help?
“Repent and be baptized, every one of you, in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins. And you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit Acts 2:38
I still hope there is an active investigation carried out by the police forces to make sure that this is in fact the real story. Successful women need not only mental protection but physical protection. May she rest in peace and power.
@@lawestphilly or even worse, perhaps an abusive lover pushed her. The story doesn't seem quite right and the confession also seems forced or abrupt. I pray the truth gets uncovered. Her family deserves to know.
After a spirit session was made, is certain she did it and said she regrets it. She also said she’s not at peace. I don’t know how it works but hopefully, she’ll find it one day.
@@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 did you not read my RESPECTFUL comment? Maybe you should polish your eyes first then try again before falsely accusing me of disrespecting her family. Now that's a disgusting and distasteful accusation. You should be ashamed.
Coming from a person who suffers from severe depression we will never tell. When you fight everyday for happiness and can never find it, that takes a toll on us. I have a loving family a wife and 4 great kids and when my wife sleeps I cry at night and wish I was normal. It's sad that some people give in but sometimes it feels like it's all we can do 😔
Stay strong brother I suffer with depression too 🙏🏻 the only way is to keep fighting for what we love it's not easy I know but there's always a way. You're way stronger than depression 🙏🏻
My son, who is 32 and lives a few hours away, recently told me he found a really good physician that gave him medication for anxiety and depression. I never knew because he hid it so well. You just never know. RIP Cheslie.🙏🕊🙏🕊
I deal with PTSD, chronic depression and anxiety! Plus I suffer from Fibromyalgia, chronic migraines and digestive problems! I have a very hard time trusting people or leaving the house. It's a job just putting a smile on your face! You never know what someone is going through. May she rest in peace! 🙏
It always makes me so sad when someone with so much promise feels such despair/emotional pain that suicide is seen as their only option. That they felt they couldn't turn to someone. You never know what someone is going through behind the smile. May she rest in peace.
We all do. Because nobody really wants to hear about how we feel. They want us to just assure them that we’re ok so they can go on with their day. So we smile and pretend because we don’t want to make people uncomfortable. Then things like this happen, and nobody can believe it. 🤷♀️
@@nunyabiznes3901 For example I have a cousin who worries us all. had an abusive relationship but she keeps coming back to him and when we say something she doesn't like it and doesn't talk to us for a long time. how can we deal with it? How can we help her solver her problem and solve ours? How can we reach someone in a bad situation that redfuse our help? We Don't want her bad just her to be with someone who loves her and dont beat her. Life is hard for everyone.
@@silvia.v9204 Try to be non judgemental build a relationship with her without bringing up concerns and she will know when things go bad who to turn to .
@@Ymt15678 Since I saw that she doesn't like getting advice about it I decided not to talk about it with her unless she come to me. But I feel like I'm not playing my family role if I just ignore what's going on. She ended up in the hospital once when she was pregnant. It's horrible to be in this situation too. One time she called me on the phone she was drunk and crying saying that her pain no one could see or feel because its something deep. I was panicked that something would happen to her and my nieces or that she would try something against her life. My mother always buys food to send her and clothes for my nieces, picks them up for their summer vacations and Christmas since shes struggling financially. The big problem is that I live in Portugal, she live in France isolated from the family and my mother in Luxembourg. For real its really hard when someone have emotional issues and depression signals 😥😥
There is something wrong with any "mother" who pushes her kid into pagents competing on something as superficial and degrading as appearance and objectifying them. The only thing worse is the ddumbazz public who cheer this garbage on or think it is some type of advancement that non-white women "win", what a bunch of tap dancing tokens.
@@KaliMaaaaa Tho superficial, objectifying, etc. this suicide is not about beauty pageants… and particularly puzzling given her extraordinary heart & brain/intelligence.
She was murdered. No way she suicided. If u wanted to end your life one day when do it in such a painful way ? Why not just overdose on sleeping pills or something. She looked like she had a good life why work so hard for something and then just decide to end it ? Just saying sucide is the best set up for a murder for no suspicion
@@SoulOne713 the police would have footage by now. Midtown Manhattan is one of the most surveilled places in the world. Every surrounding building has cameras. The elevators and stairwells have cameras. I think they kept the language vague intentionally to save the family additional pain. IE does that sometimes. If it weren't for the amount of cameras in NYC, I would be inclined to agree with you.
So sad, she was young, beautiful, & intelligent. She had the world at her feet. I can't even imagine the emotional pain she must've going through. May she rest in peace.
Her manner of death was brutal. I just hope she's at peace and free of whatever was hurting her. She was so beautiful and extremely well educated. She had it all. But still wasn't happy. I wonder why? RIP.
A few weeks ago I told my mom I was going to seek for help because I felt like something was off with me. In my postpartum journey I have been slowly losing touch with absolutely everything, I don’t talk to my friends, I stopped calling everyone and pushing them from me, I barely talk to anyone and I cry every night feeling so lonely and depressed . She brushed it off and said it wasn’t necessary because it’s probably that I’m just too busy to hang out with people. This made me think that while a lot of parents really don’t or didn’t know their children needed help, some others don’t want to believe their children need it. PLEASE DON’T DO THAT. If someone asks for help and tells you that they need it, don’t brush it off and listen.
"The worst part about being strong is that no one ever asks if you're okay."
Exactly !
That's very true
Amen 🙏🏾
This is true... 🖤
Even if they do the routine answer is yes I'm fine most people give that answer even if they're not okay. I know I have said I'm doing good when people ask even if in my heart I know I'm not.. most people don't want to burden others with their problems.
I can't imagine the pain her mother is in. She was left everything except the one thing she wanted and needed, her daughter. That's heartbreaking.
Omg
This is sad
@@chynabarbieeeeee what a racist
@@chynabarbieeeeee huh?
You typed except twice, so annoying it triggered my OCD
I saw a quote "no one wants to end their life, they just don't know how to end the pain". I'm so sorry. God please take care of her mom.
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Actually there was this metal singer who was obsessed w death so much he sings about it & slept in a coffin until he committed suicide
@@iidentifyasjeffbezos Sounds like that person had pain/mental illness.
So she chose to jump off a building? Seems quite painful
@@SheraLawton From the 28th floor... She very likely died instantly.
We never know what another person is going through. RIP Cheslie.
So true. So very sad🥲
Too true. And reading a ton of comments on other threads, a lot of people don't care either. RIP Cheslie is right.
So true
That's why we should care...ask questions and be kind.
Well, we know now! Whatever she was going through, she obviously didn't want to be going through any more.
It’s scary how people just struggle in silence. You can never tell what is going on in someone’s head if they don’t want you to.
This is so true. It’s almost like life can be like a permanent masquerade where so many just go about life pretending.
It has to be worse if/when you're in a Pageant. One year one of the contestants needs to focus their efforts on Women's Health. There's too much stress to be perfect and on top of that dealing with your Menstruation or a Mental Disorder. Then you're being forced to live in silence so the world always see's you as perfect............
@M T attention seeking friends 👍😂
It’s common. Not that surprising really
@ Facts. Struggling come with so many other hard plights of being Black in this world especially being Black America.
Be kind. You never know what the other person is going through. So sorry for this loss.
Great comment, but please don’t ever use the words “sorry for your loss” to someone who is grieving. Somehow it diminishes the loved one and the whole grieving experience to a cliché. Ok in this context though.
She was murderd
Being kind has nothing to do with her mental problems she didn't seek medication.
Omg I literally spoke these words as she said, "what do we do?". To me, it's easy. We need to pay attention and be kind... 💗🤗🥰
Very true!
This woman was gorgeous, successful, and had everything going for herself, if she can do this, think about all the other people in your life that may be considering it. Always check on the “strong” person in your life.
Amen.
@@thisworldisover3238 eww perv. That's all you can think about when this beautiful woman took herself from this life?
A perfect lesson of how true happiness is not found in beauty and happiness...she was on-top of the world alongside her beauty,but deep inside she was not complete 😞. And the hurtful part is we will never know what she was longing for.
Hey worldover why so selfish and disrespectful bro.
I look at women like this and put myself down even more sometimes.. like if I was like her I would have it all, and be happy... life is so wierd to me..
As a woman who fights mental depression everyday my heart breaks because I know the pain she must have been in. God Bless her and her family.
It's horrendous and only those who know the level of pain know the depth of the despair. Very best wishes Annette, I promise you're not alone - although I'm sure it often feels that way.
God bless you Annette!..
@@valueinyou9931 💞
💞 never suffer in silence. Trust me when I say people do care!!! 💞
@throw throw right about what?
There is no "motive" needed for depression, other than it's a demon that crushes you and lies to you and makes your life unbearable.
R.I.P.
Dang
So true.
Yes that’s true.
It truly is just demons
Recognize the dark voice
And also recognize Gods voice which is his promise of life while we live
Don't let the demons lie to you
The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I came so that they would have life, and have it abundantly
if it's a demon why prayer doesn't work ???
This goes to show no matter how perfect someone looks from the outside you never know what they’re going through
actually to appear perfect and achieve academic success at the same time is extremely stressful and a lot of sacrifices have to be made. That alone is cause to acknowledge that a person may struggle to achieve their success.
@@patti6178 well said 😢
Weak minded people I bet in hells beauty contest she's runner up lol.
@Akari she wanted to experience beauty pageants in hell see if she can win down there too 😂😂
@@patti6178 it's called weak minded people and the world is better place without people like that👍
Don’t judge someone because you don’t know what that person is going through…
You should always judge but keep an open mind to be wrong. Never judging something and not following your gut instincts is what leads to bad choices and even death. I dont care what anyone says, if someone shady is walking behind me, im gonna cross the street.
Exactly! @Edition Music Gang
Everyone should promise to never write another mean comment again.
This is just so sad. I know she was stressed about turning 30yrs old and that she had stated that she felt like she was aging out of relevancy. I believe this mindset all started immediately after she won Miss America, bc she was “the oldest” contestant to have ever won (at the YOUNG age of 28) and bc of that she was bullied online severely not only for being a woman of color (a beautiful woman at that imo) but they also trolled her for her age. We (the people of the USA, and internationally as well) really need to do something to put an end to the trolls who so carelessly and recklessly bully others from the safety of the Internet. Online bullying is so horrible and causes so many people to become depressed and more often than not it often ends in a similar situation as Chesley’s. The bullying/trolling needs to stop and those who continue to treat others so horrifically need to be held accountable in some way or another. People should never be bullied into feeling less than or anything negative ever especially at the expense of online trolls. The trolling, the bullying, the cancel culture needs to stop it’s just completely out of hand at this point and something needed to be done regarding this situation….like yesterday.
This sounds very insightful and I wanted to hear from people who knew her and get an idea what was possibly bothering someone like her ,who appear to "Have it all".
If "aging out of relevancy" was a concern, I kinda take that to mean (although not necessarily) that she must've wanted a career in Hollywood, because at 30, being a Lawyer like she was, she could've joined any Law Firm and be very successful!
But it's hard to know what was really going on. Anyway May she rest in Peace 🙏🌹🌌.
I heard the same thing...she was having problems with turning 30.
Isn't that pretty much why Christine Chubbuck killed (shot) herself live on air in the 70s? She's probably why there's a delay on "live" now.
I don't believe that the internet is going to make you kill yourself. I mean, you don't HAVE to have any comments, much less READ them. I don't myself.
👍
Should be treated, not takę part in moronic competition.!!!. Being On a candlestick is not for everyone and Old age is there and a person must get Old. She was overwhelmed by what she was surrounded by.
“Pretty hurts, we shine the light on whatever worst, you’re tryna fix something but you can’t fix what you can’t see is the soul that needs the surgery.” Mental health is real depression is real
@Akari go on, tell us more!
We don't know if her mental health issues stem from paegents or her having to keep up appearances. It could have been something else.
@Akari look at her skin??
That song is deep!! New perspective now
@@JJfierce29 please do not entertain these trolls. Y'all gotta learn when to not engage. They will come back full force when you do.
She had EveryThing. I used to marvel at her! She had beauty, brains, success, fame, rich friends, just everything. She was a lawyer, plus a beauty queen. I'm sure no one saw this coming. May she find Peace🙏🏼
It's crazy you can have everything but still have nothing be in the room with friends and family but still feel lonely have all the success you can imagine but still feel worthless depression doesn't play fair
All that doesn't matter in life when you still aren't happy
That's the problem, she had nothing more to look foward to
Well she sure didn't had everything, she didn't had VALUE FOR LIFE & SELF LOVE!
@@bsherman8236 rumor has it , it’s because her bf broke up with her.
It doesn’t matter how happy someone seems, deep down they could be on the verge of suicide. And willing to end it any moment.
You never know…❤️
as a 28 year old woman I absolutely feel her pain. Cant tell you how many times age gets brought up in comparison to what my life currently is and that's for both men and women, but speaking as a woman if I kick fight and scream for people to drop the societal pressure, I get abandoned by those closest to me.
Wait 20 years. Then they'll all give up on you. Lol. Best thing in the world is when you're "too old" for certain. Lol unless he's 65 or 70. Ha. Do what you want. Stand up for yourself.
Wait another 10-20 years. And you won't care what they say. The desperation of finding the prince is gone. Or will be by then. No loneliness.
My daughter struggles with depression, and as a mother this is my worst fear. May her mother and family find some peace and comfort 🙏
I feel your pain! 🙏🏾✝️🕊️💕
counseling does help a little (individual & family)....
Death of a child for any reason isn't better or worse, I think the big mistake many people make is to take anti-depressants with increased risk of suicide... even though they haven't had any suicide attempts in the past. Never take a medicine with a side effect worse than the original condition.
Jesus is her Savior out of depression. All those who call on his name shall be saved!! Never give up
Hi Ashley,
Thank you for sharing. Keep encouraging your daughter and letting her know how much she is loved and valued.
@owwywow let them vent a bit, it’s not like someone will find their daughter and say something about her depression
This is beyond devastating. Someone who had accomplished so much in life at the young age of 30. And very beautiful and seemed very happy. You never know what someone is personally going through. RIP Cheslie 🕊
But that's just it... she wasn't happy and she voiced that. And as a response all you heard was "but she was so happy". She publicly wrote about the need to be perfect, social media trolls, feeling she was old, not liking her body, etc etc. She was suffering and all people saw was what they wanted to see. Those around her failed her miserably.
@@nylotus perfectionism is very dangerous, it results in black/white thinking. I also had this mentality and realized it was from childhood trauma..
@@candifloss were on the same boat
Aaaaah SMH lmao
I was shocked about Anthony Bourdain. Even his own Mother had no idea. He hid his pain well.
I literally had tears seeing the news a few days ago and it’s still hurts now watching. RIP Beautiful Angel 😭
Loosing your child at the prime age is a bitter pill to swallow. My condolences to her family
So many comments stating how perfect she was ..perfect isnt a look....& you cant judge a book by its cover
Mental health is deadly serious in many cases, and I'm so sorry she felt suicide was the only way out of her pain. I pray she is free now and in a happy place. Prayers and hugs to her mother.
Unfortunately the consequences of taking a human life is not a happy place.
@@maindila I must agree..sad situation...
Her fate is sealed I’m so sorry it breaks my heart.
She’s not in a happy place lmao.
@@iExcaliburWorld actually people who went to hell never saw suicide victims
My dad committed suicide 20 years ago, and I miss him a lot. I must admit, I have considered giving up on life many times, but it's my mother who gives me strength and keeps me motivated. Looking back at all the times I've contemplated suicide, I now feel that my dad would want me to live on.
Sorry to hear that. Please be strong.
He would. You can make it brotha. Take one day at a time and do the things you love and that interest you. Keep family close. Much love man, hang in there.
You’re strong. Don’t forget that. ❤️
♥️
the world is better with you in it, never forget that
No one knew her deep, inner pain.. just herself. She hid it so well. How tragic! 😭
As someone who thinks about taking his life everyday, I can tell you it's EASY to hide after awhile so most people have NO idea
@@BBAKER22 YOU BETTER NOT DO IT. PLEASE GO GET HELP.
This is why we must be careful with how we treat others and with the words we speak because they have power to influence or effect someone in a negative or positive way... u never know how your words or actions can be the last straw for that person. We all need to be more cognitive and play our part as individuals to spread more love and support to others regardless if they're your family members or just a stranger walking down the street... let's also educate ourselves on signs of suicide and ways to discern and identify when someone is on a Verge of a Breakdown so we can help prevent this from happening again
I don't think she really wanted to be dead; she just wanted whatever pain she was in to stop 😔 she was stunning. Praying for her loved ones.
That's what suicide is (stopping the emotional pain).
@@ilovegoodsax it is not only emotional pain, sometimes it is circumstances that wreak havoc on the soul. Emotional pain is the symptom of deeper problems or circumstances.
A rather emotionally unintelligent comment
A had an attempt in 2019 and I wanted to be reborn and start over more then anything. Suicidal ideation is a sickness that makes you truly believe your loved ones will be better off without you dragging them down
I pretty sure she wanted to be dead
Beauty, money and achievement mean nothing if living hurts inside. May she RIP.
So true. Prayers for the family.
This doesn’t just apply to beautiful people lol. But ugly people don’t matter right? :)
@@jbirdjiggly6149That's not what the person meant or said. Twisting words.
She was simply entitled like a typical BLM. Only lucky she is beautiful.
@@jones8610
Exactly, imagine having all those complements because of looks and skin color
Sometimes you can’t tell whether a person is in depression or not. Please be kind to one another to make the world a better place. RIP
Beautiful girl, gone but not forgotten.
My aunt committed suicide in may of last year she was the nicest most caring person and always helped others, months before she passed she isolated herself and said she had no one. She had 300 people come to her funeral that’s how many lives she touched
Bro look at the way she talks when she talks to inside addition it just doesn’t seem real
TheMovieRocky ?
Where were they when she was alive
She most likely meant that there is no one there for her during the moments when she needed it
This is the thing people fail to understand. Sometimes the person who is always there for others is that way because that's how they want to be treated. However , people rarely treat them that way. Instead people grow accustom to relying and them for things. Never stopping to think if they can be of service to the kind person. I am sorry for your lost. I pray that your family heals from this.
“People don’t just commit suicide because they want to end their life, but to end their pain!”
"Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem".
@@896ymexf22 indeed indeed
@@896ymexf22 exactly
Death happens to all with suicide you pick the date
Pain doesn't end; it moves on to her mom and family.
This is awful and I’m sending prayers and condolences to her family and friends. 😢🙏🏾🕊
Goes to show you that we never know what somebody is going through, so please be kind to each other. Life is hard enough 🙏🏾🤗.
Losing someone you have known for so long throughout your life to suicide is more than painful, it's heartbreaking too. Condolences go towards the family involved. A horrific loss that words cannot be used to describe it.
She must have been in so much pain. She put on a beautiful smile for the world and her loved ones even though things weren't so bright on the inside. RIP, I hope she rests well.
Frl
This is sad
@@chynabarbieeeeee bro… this isn’t about skin color. This is about mental health. Please respect her. She just passed
@@deathofthedammed6571 Ye ye what eva
The fact that she chose that level of violence as a way out shows the level of pain she was in. She hated her body and mind for making her go through what she went through, that as an act of revenge she decided to do as most damage to it as possible by jumping to get death
This kid at my gym..was always the funny friendly guy with everyone..always looked happy..committed suicide didn't leave a note..depression doesn't have a face..always check on your loved ones no matter what their mood appears to be
Exactly🥺🥺 sometimes it’s one of the most goofiest, friendliest people although they might look and seem happy you never know.
True....look at Robin Williams.
Do you know that the most friendly person has a good heart which he or she give to everyone on her part but she is sadly the most lonely person. Why, because nobody gives back to her or him. Everybody will believe she is fine and she will always act such so that she can be strong for others. I believe this young star was like that but have no shoulder to cry on. Too sad .
@@shannoninalaskaNo but Robin had a really serious and debilitating disorder . She was physically healthy but sad and empty inside.
Very good
How do we know that someone didn't push her and fake a letter, I know mental health is real but, the world is really weird right now!!!
Because that's extremely insulting to the family. That's why. She tried it before.
I had a woman INSIST she knew what killed my cousin, insisting it was auto liability. When she knew nothing about it.
Don't be that person. It's hurtful and rude.
because someone did push her
@@brittanymaraya I'm not saying no one pushed her I'm saying how do we know sometone didn't push her like another jealous competitor or someone that didn't like her, I was never saying no one pushed her
@@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 I said how do we know if someone didn't push her, anything can happen the world is weird right now and someone comment she did get pushed that's what I was saying, yes RIP to her and many prayers to the family, but I was never saying I knew what happened to her!
This is incomprehensible. Could there be foul play?
As someone who has suffered from depression before multiple times and currently suffers from anxiety and PTSD, Whenever I think about the times I almost made this decision I thank myself I didn’t. My heart goes out to everyone who goes through the same stuff.
2 years of a worldwide Pandemic is making it worse ! I think there is more to the story with this Woman and It may have nothing to do with depression !
I I'm glad your here!
❤❤🥰🥰😘😘! Keep fighting, friend!
@@raymondrocco8607 i have the feeling you could be right
Min stay with friends family let them know what's going on
As someone who also struggles with my mental health, I know the hopelessness she felt leading to this. People say it’s hard to tell and it is mostly. I’m sorry for her family’s loss and I hope she can rest in peace.
🙏 for u ❤
@@tomekasimmons5123 thank you ❤️
You’re loved! Never give up fighting for you 💗
She's at peace ..her troubles have left forever !
Jesus can help you 🤍all unrighteousness is sin and all of us have sinned against the Holy God, and so we all deserve eternal damnation in hell. we could not get right with God by our act of "Good works," nothing by own our righteousness we could do to could save us. which is why there is the "Good news/ Gospel" The debt we couldn't pay, CHRIST payed for us on the cross. we broke the law/ GOD'S commandments, and CHRIST JESUS payed the fine. Only through CHRIST we can be saved, whosoever believes and is baptized with the Spirit shall be saved. and this good news is for everyone, no matter what religion, no matter what sin, Jesus came to save us from them so we could be brought back into relationship with God, and be saved..amen
This is why we shouldn’t be seeking to have money, beauty, or fame because even then happiness isn’t guaranteed
You can NEVER, EVER KNOW what a person is going through that will make him or her take their lives, which is why it is so important to just simply be KIND to everybody you meet.
So true
She seemed like the kinda child that any parent would pray to have. Seemed so smart, beautiful, and well accomplished.
No parents would want their daughters to go naked on national television
@@SharperTip btw nice channel just stealing content eems you wont ever achieve anything in life either
@@SharperTipnaked? Umm not the shaming on women
I wouldn't want her she was weak minded not smart and is probably regretting what she did right now I'm sure Hue Hefner has her in playboy mansion in hell already 👍
youtube deleted my original comment calling him an in cell
I'm 62 years old I suffer from depression, anxiety, insomnia just to name a few. Attempted suicide at age 16 So much stuff was going on in my life including I had a baby at 16. I was molested and raped. I have a good psychiatrist and I am on medication, lots of prayers has gotten me to this point in life however I never let my guards down about my mental health. I thank God everyday to wake up to another day. R.I.P. sweet Cheslie 🙏
Thanks for sharing your story.
🙏🏾🙌🏾
I’m 21 & I also suffer from depression & anxiety, we’re gonna get through this. ❤️
Charter good New Ways...Depression and Mania .. Me ..Count simple Blessings...Let events...Pass.
You got this. Please reach out, don't suffer alone. God love you. 🙏❤️
Absolutely heartbreaking. May her soul Rest In Peace 😭
Depression isn't sadness, it's hopelessness without end. And often without reason. It just is. And to someone who has depression, death offers peace. Death is their only hope, only answer, only thing they can see. Depression is horrible.
@@grandmaida7819 *No it was bullying her entire life she felt she had to prove herself every day...*
@@F.a.B.I.a.N once you're 30, you know you can shut the comments/social media OFF, and not let the opinions of strangers bother you.
@@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 *And your point is...*
May she finally rest. I deal with severe depression also. It's a constant battle. It's like wanting so much for yourself but no energy to complete your goals. It's being lonely and wanting company but instead isolating yourself from all of your family and friends. It's forgetting what it feels like to be happy. It's days when even taking a shower is impossible. It's not leaving your home for weeks at a time. Please pray for all of us dealing with this debilitating disease. My heart breaks for her friends and family.
Keep your head up!!
For me, it's only thru Almighty Father that i could find peace & solution to my down moments. Thank you Almighty Father!
I feel your pain. I know meds can help but not completely dull everything. Sending healing energy your way.
Praying 🙏🏼
You're not the only one ..I'm one too
My God this woman was exquisitely beautiful, intelligent, successful in business, and obviously was very loved by her family. The fact that she couldn’t see a way forward just shows how serious mental illness can be-it can literally warp your mind into believing all sorts of negative thoughts and trick you into thinking there’s no hope. I wish she would’ve reached out for help instead of jumping that day… Rest In Peace beautiful girl.
I felt like she was pushed to do all things she doesn't want to do. Felt like she lives for others not for herself. I stop pushing my daughter soo hard to do what I want instead of what she wants.. I told her I'm her and u can be whatever you want to be..ur life ur decision.
Maybe she did not kill her self anyone can fake a note.
You explained it perfectly
@@scarystori6248 glad you still here❤️
@@beverlycrawford571 thank you so much I appreciate it honestly beverly crawford I never new what it was I am a little bit too young to understand that it was depression ofter I get better I realized it was depression no body in my family have if I never strong omg that thing or person in my head would've take over me so bad, it's like trying to get out of a next world am trap into just to realize it's me to see and feel my real self .I fight everyday omg...and to know it's me it like a feeling like am lost and my brain was giving up on me nothing wasn't sweet I couldn't even concentrate when am cooking all am hereing in my head kill your self you will feel better .I shut countless time rebukeing the voice I remember I say the blood of jesus jesus heal me I don't come out of my head I fight I fight olord god I thank God the day I get heal 🙏🙏🙏🙏 I don't even know now what is depression thank God .
To jump from anywhere but definitely 29 stories is brutal 😞 I mean it gives me chills I keep seeing her in my thoughts standing on a ledge I wonder if she had regret it soon as she let go
You know she did but it was too late
We can NEVER know what's going on in somebody's mind, if only she had reached out ❤
SHE DID BUT UNLESS YOU KNOW WHAT ITS LIKE YOU CANT FULLY UNDERSTAND
She left everything that can be replaced but her life. Sad
@Savetion (Coolest RUclipsr) low level troll
She chose to do it, not one chose for her.🤷
@@journeyfms , talk about stating the INSENSITIVE obvious ! 😒
@Savetion (Coolest RUclipsr) why would you stoop so low? In fact, why would you stoop to the lowest of all lows?
I do not feel pity for someone who murdered themself. A murderer is a murderer.
You truly can't judge a book by its cover. To the outside world, this woman had it all. But deep in her soul, there was a void no one could reach. It couldn't be filled with beauty, degrees, notoriety, or money. This is truly upsetting. She had her whole life in front of her. :(
She is crazy
Sorry for the loss of a good daughter. God bless her soul.
Only God could fill that void.
@@booshki facts on facts, Iearned THEE hard way
This suicide thing is a spirit. Its hard to bliv someone in their right can want to take their lives away. Its something spiritual for sure
This is heart breaking. Obviously something was bothering her. My condolences to her family and friends.
Absolutely heartbreaking. Prayers go up for her fam with their horrible loss. 🙏
It could have been many things that she wasn’t telling people. But having everyone see you as “prefect” and have to try and live up to that expectation sounds difficult on its own. Heartbreaking.
I think you're probably right about this. It must be difficult for everyone to think you're perfect and trying to hide that maybe something's not right.
@@n.l.vannstallings4664 exactly
And possibly be disappointed as to how normal perfection and all that hard work really is. What a tragedy.
She was once hospitalized for exhaustion for trying to take on everything while making it look flawless, just like her outside appearance.
i'm really, really wondering if more is to this. Idk, but maybe more time will tell.
Lost my friend to suicide last month. This is so heart breaking to deal with, this affects everyone tremendously. Please seek help and find the courage to talk about something that's bothering you.
It is so hard. Very hard. To be vulnerable. To bother others. To put yourself in a situation where you will be judged, patronized, ridiculed, or even having your feelings belittled. And yet..:the sadness and pun comes and go. And then you find yourself deadline Roth unbearable pain in your heart. You don’t want to worry your loved ones. You want to be the source of happiness and strength. You want to be happy…but…
God bless everyone
@Akari who ever hurt you, I’m sorry. Hurting others will never truly distract from or fix your pain. It’s ok to be hurt and grow around that. Don’t let anger and pain control your life.
Sorry for you loss
@@curiousbeeserendipity3210 this is exactly it.
That's a very very tragic loss, a wonderful strong young woman.
My condolences for the family.
This one broke my heart. I absolutely adored her. I can’t believe she was in so much pain
She was so poised, elegant, beautiful, funny and a very smart young woman. If you haven’t seen the 2019 Ms. USA pageant please take a look at all her categories. I was so proud to have her represent the USA. May she RIP and condolences to the family.
So sad and heartbreaking! Reminiscent of Robin Williams whom everybody thought was having a great time while he was dying unawares to the world that laughed at his endless jokes while he himself imploded😭😭😭
May her soul and his through the MERCY of GOD rest in PEACE 🌹🌹🌹🙏🙏🙏✝️✝️✝️
@@MagdalenaIsaiah43 Yes, that was so tragic as well, I wish he knew how loved she is globally, but again, I’m not sure if that could win the fight over his internal demons 💔
Mental illness is real and those of us who suffer mostly do it in silence. Thoughts and prayers to her family and friends.
It seems it's the silence that appears to be the biggest culprit in people killing themselves. You can't resolve what is not being communicated.
@@carbar3936 i think so too! One of my closest friends killed himself and he only ever slightly hinted at me thats hes a bit fed up (who isnt). I guess he felt like he couldn't tell anyone how much trouble he is in.
take good care of yourself.
You're loved Crystal. ❤️
@@carbar3936 I think the big problem is that most people don’t care even if you reach out - not in the western world anyway
Omg 😪 This is very upsetting & heartbreaking 💔 My condolences to the family 💐 Prayers 🙏
Honestly living in a world where social media plays a part is tough…sometimes I think we should take a step back and really look at our lives and go back to some of the simpler things. Suicide is at an all time high and many times suicide doesn’t always have a “certain look”…we have been conditioned to take what everyone says about us as factual. I truly hate this for her! Being a 25 Y/O I have contemplated suicide but I knew it wouldn’t be the answer. Social media is tearing us apart and is causing so much division and hate. We spend our lives reading other people opinions about them and us and it wears on us mentally. It’s so sad
See The Bridge. It's a documentary. Library has it. Kevin Hines jumped from the Golden Gate. He lived (2 jump a month, and 2 survive during the year)
He said his first thought after having jumped was regret at having done so.
He's bipolar.
It’s so important to always be kind. We never know what someone is going through.
It's kindness that is killing us.
Along with safety.
Soft environments make for soft people that don't appreciate the value of life.
@@centex7409 kindness?
She was bullied by other younger contestants for being 28 while the others were teens! Bullied for not having children at 30! Bullied for her age! Wtf being told by strangers and associates daily is hard for some
@@zenasf3rdeyewoke212 she was bullied told she’s too old!!!
@@NYCGAL328 wtf!😪🙏🏽
@@NYCGAL328 Nearly 30 in a competition that has nobody far out of their teens at the oldest, nearly 30 in a world that has and ALWAYS put a premium on female youth.. THAT'S REALITY.
A reality you will never change and only drive more women to suicide over until you ACCEPT reality.
Women must go back to being terrified of being old maids. Until then they will not only continue to crash into "the wall", they will be crushed by it as this poor woman was.
I could kinda relate to this in a way. 6 months ago when my mom passed away, about 3-4 months before her demise, she randomly texted me saying "if I die, just know I love you." I really didn't think anything of it because even though my mother suffered really bad depression and anxiety, she was being medicated for it and kept herself occupied as much as possible with the support of me and my family. My mother decided to take a street drug which was laced with fentanyl which subsequently killed her. Even though it wasn't a suicide, what she was going through mentally and emotionally led to her death. I normally wouldn't share something so private but I felt like it was necessary.
May my mother and Cheslie both R.I.P ❤
May her soul RIP. Sorry for your loss
R.I.P
I’m so sorry.
@Morfin I'm sorry for your loss 😔
condolence to you and your fam, thael. stay strong!! 💪🏻
This is absolutely heartbreaking 💔. Help is there, please don’t ever think you’re alone. Sometimes the ups and downs of mental illness sucks. But find a support of people online that will help you. Don’t go at this alone.
I can relate to that sadness and pain. Depression and suicide is now being talked about. But from age 5-15, I was completely alone, no one even knew I was soo suicidal except 1 friend who also felt the same. I cried almost everyday. One time, I was in a car with someone who was drinking and driving erratically. He went straight towards a cliff and I thought we were going to die. I hugged my friend, and in an instant, I said out loud I don’t really want to die.
It was an awakening for me. I thought I wanted to die, but deep inside I wanted that sadness to end. I’m better now. And in counseling and taking a low dosage of anxiety medication. There is a lot of resources and therapies too!
Find what works for you. Horse, EMDR, group therapy, writing therapies, art, sand , play therapy, gestalt, workshops, and tons of books. I did all this and still struggle. But I have hope. I believe in you, if you’re reading this. I’m praying for you. ❤️❤️
I’m so happy for you I just wish I could think like you too. I was considering suicide before I learned that I had a tumor and around that time I really wanted to live. But now I sometimes wish that I died. It’s horrible but I do.
Trying to be perfect for everyone can really take a toll on anyone. My condolences to the family.
Exactly ! And those who Try So Hard to please everyone have So Much Pressure on them ! She had accolade after accolade heaped on her . How could she Not feel pressured to be perfect ????
God Bless her family and loved ones and Be With them and Guide them and Comfort them as Only He Can . IJMN AMEN .
Very good
I agree never raise your children to be perfect it is unattainable only raise them to do their best.
It's no such thing as perfection
It's mental health it is a disease this has nothing to do with perfection
You don't realize just how much someone meant to you till they're gone. So cherish every moment you can with loved ones because you never know when it's your last chance to spend time with them.
@Akari why would you say that?
@Akari see it really seems like you're a racist
@Akari it looks better than yours lol
@Akari imagine needed a filter to post a pic of yourself. Oof.
@Akari OMG... Why?
This is heartbreaking
This is heartbreaking I hope more resources become available for people suffering from depression j also send peace love warmth light God divinity and everything her family needs I'm so sorry they lost their baby girl Cheslie this is beyond devastating I'm so sorry to hear
She looks so bright. Like just a conversation with her would make you feel so at ease. Poor girl. I know she’ll be missed.
Three blacks winning the award. Happy black celebration! 🤣🎉
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@@makara2711 She was biracial, not black just saying.
Saddened, That is why it does not matter how we look or accomplished.
@@tottryship5608 She was, but there where still 3 other black women who won in 2019, and a black girl who won teen usa. I wish Chelsie would have gotten help of course though.
A few years ago, I had just lost my mom to cancer! I was failing in college, feeling worthless, feeling like a disappointment, feeling defeated, like life had no meaning. I couldn’t imagine how I would face my dad again not to talk of telling him about school, I just wanted to end it all! But thanks to my cousin who came to see me and spoke to me before I made any irrational decisions… I started college again and I’m graduating this month! Yay! If you’re reading this and you can relate, it will get better! It will get better! If I can do it, so can you love ❤️ ✌🏾
you're a very smart woman ❤
Thank you for telling a bit of your story. It might help someone who is reading through here who is going through bad depression, and maybe suicidal thoughts.
To anyone having a very bad time: Hang in there, life can be tough. That's just the reality, the cycle of life. Find someone to talk to. Call a suicide hotline if need be. They WILL be glad to talk with you. Remind yourself of what you love in life. There is always something/someone. What is it? What can you do to bring more beauty into your life?
Being hopeless is sometimes part of being human, but don't let it bury you.
As a friend used to say. "This too shall pass.
@@serpentines6356 Well put
Thank-you so much for sharing ur story! Congratulations for choosing LIFE...
I lost my Mum through cancer too. It sucks. Sorry for your loss. May your Mum Rest in peace
She is brave to leave this cruel life.
Sending so much love to her family. How incredibly sad to lose their daughter so young, she was such an outstanding young woman.
God rest her soul. She’s a beautiful woman and will be missed by her loved ones.
In hell
@@EbikeAdventuresSD Wth
Always make God your no.1 bc god won't betrayed you
@@EbikeAdventuresSD What's your problem?
@@EbikeAdventuresSD and you think god would be happy with you shaming someone into killing his/herself who's actually in deep pain? only god can judge her and him alone, so shut up.
The fact that she passed in this manner and still all everyone can focus on is how beautiful and pleasant she was is so sad.
Its been bothering me too-idk how they ‘should’ report on it but a lot has been **extremely** superficial. “Look at her, so beautiful, so accomplished, Miss. America!! She was a LAWYER. What a tragedy.” It’s a tragedy regardless, ugh. 💔
What do you suggest people should direct their focus?
@@JessicaDarling2 Whether she was not considered beautiful or successful or even famous it’s still a loss. The media is trying to muster empathy from the superficial public when any person passing away in this manner should get empathy regardless of their life’s accomplishments or lack their of. Especially with women they really want to emphasize that she was beautiful to state that indeed now it officially is a loss to the world. Her death caused a loss to all those that knew her and cared for her, it shouldn’t matter her looks or money she had. You never know, that also might’ve been one of the factors that made her feel social pressure. Placing value/worth on people based on their appearance or the amount of money or fame they have does destructive things to their mental health.
Because naturally you think to yourself, what would someone of her stature be going through that's sooooo bad that she would take her life, and in that fashion? The first thing that hits is she is beautiful...then u here the news and it's like damn!
@@RavenDots115 so true. I agree
She was so beautiful inside and out. Please be nice to each other 🙏
This is absolutely heartbreaking. This beautiful young lady held the world in the palm of her hand. May she RIP. I pray that God is able to provide her family some peace & comfort during this unimaginably painful time. 😢❤️🙏🏻
People should talk about their mental problem with others or many more will commit suicide. It's truly sad, that this is happening in our world.
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JACKSEPTICEYES DAD IS SCREAMING THROUGH HELLISH FLAMES 😂😂😂😂
JACKSEPTICEYES DAD IS SCREAMING THROUGH HELLISH FLAMES 😂😂😂😂
JACKSEPTICEYES DAD IS SCREAMING THROUGH HELLISH FLAMES 😂😂😂😂
JACKSEPTICEYES DAD IS SCREAMING THROUGH HELLISH FLAMES 😂😂😂😂
This is so sad.. even the people with the biggest smiles can be going through some of the toughest battles that nobody else knows about. Can’t imagine the pain her family is going through.
Sometimes a smile is just a mask
It's like the old song, "I'm the great pretender" by The Platters
This girl was everything. Smart beautiful talented., helped others....its so heartbreaking. Prayers for her mom. Rip Cheslie🙏
So many people have faced death, bankruptcy, unemployment, homelessness, lost loved ones but suicide has never and will never be the answer. You leave so many unanswered questions, broken hearts and probably your problems continue to exist beyond your death. May she RIP.
The only answer will appear once you have been through it all
I think it’s time we introduced mental health and well-being into school curriculums. Dealing with negative thoughts and depression is never easy and it helps to learn these skills at a younger age
Totally agree. In my home country of NZ 700 people take their lives annually - it is unacceptable yet accepted
@@thesun-N-moon8885 provide awareness to begin to remove stigma. My best friend was a highly successful person but after he took his life we all asked why couldn’t he ask for help?
The curriculum they force on kids nowadays is what makes them mentally ill.
@@BrockLanders true. Everything nowadays is so complex and intense so all the more reason for anything that can ease the burden
“Repent and be baptized, every one of you, in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins. And you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit
Acts 2:38
Just goes to show no matter how great someone's life may appear, everyone struggles with something
Exactly
And most people deal with their struggles
She was weak. So she killed herself.
Wtf
Suicide is committing sin. I'm sorry, but she's going to hell!
@@danpineda4447 Not everyone believes if your vile religion.
I still hope there is an active investigation carried out by the police forces to make sure that this is in fact the real story. Successful women need not only mental protection but physical protection. May she rest in peace and power.
I agree I still don't believe she jumped on her it doesn't make sense like we're there drugs involved
@@lawestphilly or even worse, perhaps an abusive lover pushed her. The story doesn't seem quite right and the confession also seems forced or abrupt. I pray the truth gets uncovered. Her family deserves to know.
After a spirit session was made, is certain she did it and said she regrets it. She also said she’s not at peace. I don’t know how it works but hopefully, she’ll find it one day.
Please don't insult her family by inventing hurtful stories about her. She tried it before.
@@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 did you not read my RESPECTFUL comment? Maybe you should polish your eyes first then try again before falsely accusing me of disrespecting her family. Now that's a disgusting and distasteful accusation. You should be ashamed.
This is so heartbreaking
Coming from a person who suffers from severe depression we will never tell. When you fight everyday for happiness and can never find it, that takes a toll on us. I have a loving family a wife and 4 great kids and when my wife sleeps I cry at night and wish I was normal. It's sad that some people give in but sometimes it feels like it's all we can do 😔
Stay strong brother I suffer with depression too 🙏🏻 the only way is to keep fighting for what we love it's not easy I know but there's always a way. You're way stronger than depression 🙏🏻
@@kenreyes8780 thanks man I really do appreciate that. Please stay strong yourself brother. 🙏.
Your not alone. We care about you. Just a comment away. My depression comes from being alone all the time.
get help Sir
What is making you unhappy?
My son, who is 32 and lives a few hours away, recently told me he found a really good physician that gave him medication for anxiety and depression. I never knew because he hid it so well. You just never know. RIP Cheslie.🙏🕊🙏🕊
Depression=dwelling in the past, anxiety=worry about the future. You need to live in the present moment with practicing mindfulness meditation
@@mumu2635 ❤
So glad he got help, and shared his struggles with you.
@@mumu2635 that’s crazy that you said that never thought about it like that
@@gabrielgonsalves2677 You're so right. That was a very bright and insightful comment she made.
I deal with PTSD, chronic depression and anxiety! Plus I suffer from Fibromyalgia, chronic migraines and digestive problems! I have a very hard time trusting people or leaving the house. It's a job just putting a smile on your face! You never know what someone is going through.
May she rest in peace! 🙏
It always makes me so sad when someone with so much promise feels such despair/emotional pain that suicide is seen as their only option. That they felt they couldn't turn to someone. You never know what someone is going through behind the smile. May she rest in peace.
Man you really don’t know what a person is going through, she masked her pain so well. I hope her soul is at peace.
We all do. Because nobody really wants to hear about how we feel. They want us to just assure them that we’re ok so they can go on with their day. So we smile and pretend because we don’t want to make people uncomfortable. Then things like this happen, and nobody can believe it. 🤷♀️
@@nunyabiznes3901 Yuppp! SMDH Can't stand those that wanna act like they care but really don't
@@nunyabiznes3901 For example I have a cousin who worries us all. had an abusive relationship but she keeps coming back to him and when we say something she doesn't like it and doesn't talk to us for a long time. how can we deal with it? How can we help her solver her problem and solve ours? How can we reach someone in a bad situation that redfuse our help? We Don't want her bad just her to be with someone who loves her and dont beat her. Life is hard for everyone.
@@silvia.v9204 Try to be non judgemental build a relationship with her without bringing up concerns and she will know when things go bad who to turn to .
@@Ymt15678 Since I saw that she doesn't like getting advice about it I decided not to talk about it with her unless she come to me. But I feel like I'm not playing my family role if I just ignore what's going on. She ended up in the hospital once when she was pregnant. It's horrible to be in this situation too. One time she called me on the phone she was drunk and crying saying that her pain no one could see or feel because its something deep. I was panicked that something would happen to her and my nieces or that she would try something against her life. My mother always buys food to send her and clothes for my nieces, picks them up for their summer vacations and Christmas since shes struggling financially. The big problem is that I live in Portugal, she live in France isolated from the family and my mother in Luxembourg. For real its really hard when someone have emotional issues and depression signals 😥😥
Imagine what her mother is going through!!! So sad!!! RIP
JACKSEPTICEYES DAD IS SCREAMING THROUGH HELLISH FLAMES 😂😂😂😂
I bet her mother killed her
There is something wrong with any "mother" who pushes her kid into pagents competing on something as superficial and degrading as appearance and objectifying them. The only thing worse is the ddumbazz public who cheer this garbage on or think it is some type of advancement that non-white women "win", what a bunch of tap dancing tokens.
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@@KaliMaaaaa Tho superficial, objectifying, etc. this suicide is not about beauty pageants… and particularly puzzling given her extraordinary heart & brain/intelligence.
What a beautiful young lady!!!! RIP!!! Condolences to the Family.
Mental health is a serious illness in this country. We need more awareness, education and workers. A life gone too soon.
What an incredible loss. Sending her loved one's lots of love during this extremely difficult time. 💜
She was murdered. No way she suicided. If u wanted to end your life one day when do it in such a painful way ? Why not just overdose on sleeping pills or something. She looked like she had a good life why work so hard for something and then just decide to end it ? Just saying sucide is the best set up for a murder for no suspicion
@@SoulOne713 the police would have footage by now. Midtown Manhattan is one of the most surveilled places in the world. Every surrounding building has cameras.
The elevators and stairwells have cameras.
I think they kept the language vague intentionally to save the family additional pain. IE does that sometimes.
If it weren't for the amount of cameras in NYC, I would be inclined to agree with you.
Why her more so than anyone else?
@@SoulOne713 Do you know people commit sucide everyday? Why do you think she couldn't or wouldn't?
So sad, she was young, beautiful, & intelligent. She had the world at her feet. I can't even imagine the emotional pain she must've going through. May she rest in peace.
No one has the world at their feet no one
When we think someone has it all, too many times the one thing they truly needed was lacking. May she finally be at peace.
@@thesun-N-moon8885 You don't like my comment
So very heartbreaking 💔
WOW, how incredibly sad. Such a beautiful young woman. Sending love and light to her family. Rest in paradise Queen😞❤️🙏🏽
Sad to hear about that. Our condolences to her family and friends .
Her manner of death was brutal. I just hope she's at peace and free of whatever was hurting her. She was so beautiful and extremely well educated. She had it all. But still wasn't happy. I wonder why? RIP.
I wonder why to honestly she wasn’t just pretty she was smart so she couldn’t feel trapped by just her beauty. Tell me if you find out why.
@Savetion (Coolest RUclipsr) There's medication for people like you I promise. Go back in your padded room.🙄
@@jmfia2391 dude don’t let him get the better of you it’s kinda funny he is just joking
@@jmfia2391 pay no attention. That's a troll.
@@jmfia2391 He's replying to everyone's comments. Either it's a bot or someone who is doing this with malicious intent.
Such a beautiful lady. Accomplished so much already.She was so hurt. Rest in peace.
For all those suffering with Mental illness. Please talk to someone.
May this beautiful girl RIP. Xx
A few weeks ago I told my mom I was going to seek for help because I felt like something was off with me. In my postpartum journey I have been slowly losing touch with absolutely everything, I don’t talk to my friends, I stopped calling everyone and pushing them from me, I barely talk to anyone and I cry every night feeling so lonely and depressed . She brushed it off and said it wasn’t necessary because it’s probably that I’m just too busy to hang out with people.
This made me think that while a lot of parents really don’t or didn’t know their children needed help, some others don’t want to believe their children need it. PLEASE DON’T DO THAT. If someone asks for help and tells you that they need it, don’t brush it off and listen.
please talk to a doctor, post partum depression hurts. God bless you ❤️
Maybe that as her way of trying to give you reassurance and not trying to brush you off.
It gets better... Keep seeking help. 🙏🏾
Trust your gut and take care ❤
Truth you really needed help please go to your maker He is able.