Japanese Hookup Expert Explains Hookup Culture in Japan
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It’s okay Shun, I’m also a “hookup expert”
So am I. If i'm spending money. By the hour the is, if you know what I mean lol.
Does apple pie count as a hookup? :P
My first comment exactly
Ara Ara Ara
Aren't we all?
One of my Japanese teacher in uni once told us about how she spent the night at a love hotel once because she and her date missed the last train. She swears they only slept and even did homework because they had school the next day but the whole class was like suuuuure LMAO
Lol
"Slept"
Why would she even tell that tho...
@@harishpatil5055 nake people jealous a passive aggressive move (maybe(
She invited us over for a dinner party and then conversation just flowed. She was very interested in everyone else's love life so someone turned things around and started asking her about stuff lol
you must be friend with your inner you ,Shun, it’s important
You made yourself cry, Shun!
Then, u can get ur own PERSONA~ Chad Narukami Approved~
get in the robot shunji ~
Tell that to his inner self!
Yes be your own best friend! No one has your back like your own back! And like my brother used to say, "Stop punching yourself!"
Holy shit! Japanese people use the term “rest” when they really want to have sex in a love hotel? A few years ago I was walking around Tokyo with a Japanese woman and she asked if I wanted to take a rest in a hotel room. Me, in my ignorance of Japanese culture, was like “why would I want to do that? Rent a room to take a nap in? It’s the middle of the day, let’s grab a coffee and sit in a cafe if you are tired of walking.
I blew my chance and didn’t even know it!
rip lol
🤕
damn felt that
lolol
Oi language
I’m outing myself as a weeb, but this explains a lot of anime moments where the Main character says to the love interest“oh we missed the last train” and they both blush.
I only watch anime where characters can get home by jumping from building to building :)
it all makes sense now!
@heyitslilah which anime’s? I’m new to anime so
@@aleksijeumargrafzevalloska1538 Try anime tagged ''slice of life'' or ''romantic''
I was thinking that too! 😂
Oh my god. My awkward date in Korea makes so much more sense now. I kept trying to end it before he missed his last train but he was insistent on missing it which I thought just bizarre. Dude ended up sleeping at the station waiting on the early morning one cause I was not about to “take a rest” with him.
F
Missed out on that shrimp dinner
YIKES 😐
Now you KNOW how to get your freak on in downtown..
😂 Wow. I bet he told lies later about how that night went!
@@jatochgaatjeniksaan3307 LMAO
Shun: What kind of features? I think you already know
Me: Shun, I really don't.. :')
Same here. Vibrating beds? Slings? Bondage gear? The non-Japanese world wants to know!
Yeah, I'm not sure either 🤔
I couldn't think of anything either besides the bed lol
Tentacles obviously!
The ones where I've been had vibrators (generally wand) some had sex sofa, whirlpool bath, etc. But I've heard that the super expensive hotels have lots of real crazy stuff.
I'm from Canada. It's so interesting that you say it would be considered creepy to invite someone back to your place, but in Canada it would be considered so creepy to just invite someone to a hotel! They would probably think you were treating them like a prostitute and be offended!
So true. And also motels that you can rent per the hour here are so sketch lol.
Rep
having something special at home is a way smoother excuse to invite someone at your place. «rest»… well, and what if it's not too late? and what if you're not that drunk? I'm not a «pro» by no means, but consider buying let's say a projector. what a fun thing to have. and still, you can watch your favorite films even if it won't work! if she doesn't like cinema, then have a spare option :) have a collection of something that you're really interested in, but not in a geek way.
You make a good point :P
Also from Canada and was about to say the same thing! People would probably only go to a hotel if they were cheating (or if it was a prostitute).
Every time I watch your videos I feel like I have this cool Japanese friend who just casually talks to me about things Japanese people do and I love it! Keep up the good work!
This comment needs more likes! I feel the same way
agreed, which is great cuz that's want i want.
Being gay, I've had a few Japanese lady friends explain how they deal with guys on dates. Every single one says "oh man, last train is coming!" is their favorite way to bail on dates. Some of them say if the date is going especially poorly, they'll look at their phone and just exclaim "last train!" and jump up and leave 🤣
Haha that’s also the excuse I use (or that my dog is waiting for me at home)
except they would actually say "rast tlain!"
Bit of advice: never plan hook ups or spontaneously miss the last train on Fridays/Saturdays in the middle of the city, because all the love hotels will be full and you'll end up walking around searching for hours and not find anything until the first train in the morning 😅
The only counter-argument I would have is who would want to hook up on a weekday, but that question answers itself, altho if you have the time, why not?
How come all the love hotels R full in s low rate of birth country
@@kimpatrickshanelee6055 condoms...
@@kimpatrickshanelee6055 and birth control.
@@johnmichaelkenhernandezaqu7142 Also regular couples don't do it in their homes because the walls are paper thin
Some years ago while in Japan, I had an amazing dinner with a Japanese girl, with lots of laughs and giggles. Afterward, we decided to take a walk around the city, we continued talking and having such a great time! It was already a bit late and I thought I understood well when she kept insisting that "she was so tired, and wanted to have some rest", so I walked her to the nearest train station hahaha
Damnit, that was suppose to be a home run 🤦♂️ 😂
lmao!
That’s the type of thing to haunt you for eternity
I like this Shun guy. He goes for quality not quantity like other *ahem* japanese youtubers.
Totally agree with you!
I only watch two others and I don't see anything "bad" in particular with them though lol
recommend me some "other japanese youtuber" cuz shun is the first one i know lol
@@kayd4128 Japanese with Yuta, Nobita from Japan
@@n1hondude oh i thought he was talking about other japanese youtubers who makes this kind of content specifically lmao
I'm currently living in Taiwan, which was a Japanese colony until the end of WWII, so there are still some Japanese customs and traditions here, like what Shun mentioned about the "rest" moniker in hotels.
When I first came here I had a date with a Taiwanese girl at a bar. The conversation was going quite well, but at 11:30 PM I told her I had to go, because I had to catch the last metro (I was not refusing anything, I just didn't know about the train excuse Shun mentioned, I was so naive back then lol) but she told me we could keep talking at her place, she however told me very clearly "but don't get any ideas, NOTHING will happen". Of course, EVERYTHING happened.
damn
I'm in Taiwan. Sounds about right
@@cooliipie Our glorious leader, thank you for your wise words.
niiice.
Dude you wouldn't believe how many times I heard the "but don't get any ideas, NOTHING will happen" line while a girl is taking me to her place.
I think it's either to test how heavy you are, or to protect their own reputation understandably.
I think both SHUNchan and Yuta are both in the Japanese Sarcasm Hall of Fame...
Maybe but Sora the Troll is bypassing them by far, unless Yuta is so sarcastic that I can’t detect it
The bar isn't that high though haha but I agree, their experiences overseas really helped them
And then there's FilthyFrank who's brutally savage
@@n1hondude I have to point out if you're Nihonjin and go overseas and embrace sarcasm, you're pretty much perfect at it, and the bar is set by Joji. Sarcasm is commentary on reading the air.
I hope they collab :0
It's etiquette to clean your body before the activity
- Master Shoongway
why do i always rewatch shuns videos like 3 times
i don't know why either but keep going😂
^^
this is a man who knows how valuable watch time and viewer engagement are
In my first summer in Tokyo, in the middle of the day, a married man I struck up a conversation with (in the high heat of summer) tried to convince me that there were these great “Rest Hotels” that were specifically designed to give people an air conditioning break during the day 😆 and wouldn’t I like to go to one, have a drink & watch some TV??
Yikes, lol. That's a shame
He’s trying his luck lol
That's rapey, he was trying to literally trap you in a room with him
might be hearing neighbors smashing, might want to turn that tv up louder 😆
as a woman who had dated Japanese guys, this is so spot on and I love that they are always hygenic and subtle
A whole ass shower before getting kinky after a date, dang... Most people just begin humping each other as soon as they're somewhere with less people around lol
@Glitterydark808 shower is after most times over here
In my country we take a shower but usually it’s after
@@Leopold_van_Aubel In mine is both, well the one that's necessary is after but its also important to be clean so your would wash ur body and after take a full shower
In the Philippines, we take showers before & after.
Hooking up is pretty straight forward in Singapore. All you have to do is to perform mating calls like the kookaburra
Shun said “ at least I have friends”
Me” I thought inner shun and shun were the same people 😂”
No one sees the inner shun so no friends
This video beats the hell out of other videos like walking around aimlessly. Spend an hour for only 2 minutes of interesting. This educational aspect means so much more to people who saved a crap load of money waiting to travel overseas.
I just ask all the ladies if they wanna play Minecraft....
Hasn't worked yet.
Man, I would totally be up for it
I'd be up for some minecraft, as long as I didn't have to deal with any creepers. LOL
Same, if someone asked me, i'm down
I did ask a girl to play Minecraft and it let to something else... I succeeded.
@@pavelmartinez4617 I must be doing something wrong!
Shun, I have seen a few of your videos and no joke bud. This was the best, most well put and factual video I have seen about Japanese culture. Very, very well done!
Let me add that if you hook up with a married Japanese person and his / her spouse finds out, you can get sued and will have to pay damages that can be in the millions of yens. It is also worth noting that, this being Japan, any kind of legal conflict between a Japanese and a non-Japanese is highly likely to be ruled in favor of the Japanese side.
When you go into Tinder or any other dating app, you will see the first thing that women write on their profiles is something like "no married men please". The reason, as you can see from the above, is not moral or ethical; it's an issue of legal liability and money.
The man should be the one getting sued.
@@SteelersFans99 Both get sued and have to pay.
For what damage do you pay? Loss of honor? Lol
@@kornbroetchen99For being a sick freak and sleeping with somebody's wife. In other countries you would be executed for such heinous behavior
Why are you giving advice to freaks who want to sleep with a married woman? They deserve every moral ramification that comes their way. Some foreigners are truly just sex tourists that act like deviants, very untrustworthy people that would backstab you for a dollar.
It's shocking to me that there are actually people that think and act like this. Was your hippocampus destroyed when you were dropped on your face as a child?
I'm portuguese and we have a pretty open "hookup culture" and if a guy told me "Do you wanna go rest" I would assume he was telling me to f*ck off and I think that's pretty funny because of the real meaning of it in Japan.
Completamente, se alguém me dissesse isso acharia que era puro desinteresse ahaha
Yep. Ainda bem que vi isto antes de ir senão ainda me diziam “estou cansada” e levava-a à estação 😂
Getting hookup advice from Shun is the single greatest start to my Saturday since Saturday morning cartoons.
When I lived in Korea I was told the “do you wanna get some rest?” line there is “do you want to have some ramen?” Lol 😂
😆
Huh, I would have totally taken that as a request for a regular date, not for banging at a hotel!
@@OnceUponaTimeline They ask at the end of the date, as way to invite someone inside, or so I’ve been told lol. Kinda like how we invite *someone in for coffee or a drink in the U.S.
Live in Korea, can confirm lol it's like the Korean "Netflix and chill"
Just say yes. It is a win-win either way.
You just taught me something. As a naïve American woman I would have not got any of that because I am the type of person that takes things literally.
Japanese Guy: "You wanna go take a rest?"
Me: "Yeah, I am kind of tired. I could use a nap for a few hours until the train starts back up."
Japanese Guy: "You want to go take a shower first?"
Me: "Yeah, that makes since. It will save me time in the morning."
In the bed my Japanese date starts removing my clothing. Turning around confused I would be like: "What are you doing? I thought we were resting till morning."
lol. I swear that would be how my night would go in a nutshell, because I would never catch the hints. Now I know.
Hahaha, how funny. But how would Americans propose to have sex together? Just say it directely?
@@medusa4944 well, the girl does. the guy is never encouraged to be aggressive. I almost want to make written consent forms for my own protection.
Lol same 😂
well ... as french, I could perfectly imagine spending a night at the hotel just to relax,
or hug each other if the situation does not fit for sex. Sex involves trust and mutual consent.
Even if a small inner voice who would says "How disappointing!"
Same *facepalm*
Aside from the topic itself, I just wanted to say: your use of colloquial English expressions, like "sorry to break it to you", is really impressive! It's usually very uncommon for non-native speakers to use so many of these as well as you do because it typically comes from having lived a long time overseas and/or having a lot of exposure to native speakers around you (friends, etc). Anyway, I know about love hotels but I didn't know about the expression "do you want to have a rest?". It makes perfect sense once you explain it, though. Until I lived in Asia for a few years, the concept of taking a shower before you sleep with someone was completely foreign to me. Not that I'm an expert lol but I just hadn't heard of such a thing. I imagined it was something you'd do after the fact (for obvious reasons).
I went on a date in Japan with such a cute Japanese boy.. we stayed in the love hotel.. I took it literally. I was so shy. He was still so respectful. I hate myself 😭😭
Hahahaha, that would be me
Im so dense with stuff like that
Aww, that's so lovely. I once dated a guy and after cooking, eating and drinking at his place he offered me to stay overnight to "not have to go back late in the night". So we both were lying in his bed, under different blankets, and we both were too shy to approach each other. This happened twice. Only the third night that changed...
@@medusa4944 Nothing wrong with taking it slow. 😊
@@kenhollis6197 That's true, and in a way I loved that kind of closeness we had in those two "innocent" nights. On the other hand the chemistry was strong and we both got the feeling there will never happen anything when night after night passed like that, so some desperation came up as well, lol.
You took what literally?
Kid, your cultural intelligence and your presentation style aside - both of which are great - you are hugely funny. This is such a witty series, as a complement to the “Travel by Train Through the Kanto Plain on a Rainy Day” (fictitious title) genre that you truly deserve to prosper. Thank you.
“Shun the hookup expert” that is not what I had in mind when I subscribed but it’s definitely why I stay here. Go shun 🤟
I've never understood the part about hiding faces and names on Tinder because "someone I know might see me." If they see you, then that means that they're using Tinder too, which cancels out any possibility of blackmail or shame.
Shun you always say you aren't funny but every video I find myself laughing. Give yourself some credit: You're hysterical!
Personally, I don't think I need to worry about hurting the guys feelings if I don't want to hookup. No means no, you're feelings can be sacrificed.
It's so interesting to hear how hookups or one night stands works in different countries. In Sweden you'd most likely end up at someone's place since here love hotels doesn't exist the way they do in Japan. This is at least my experiences but there might as well be other people out there who says different things. Thank you for another good video and I look forward to what you'll be doing next! :)
I’m American and don’t do hookups, but it’s still very interesting to see the cultural differences
Say you don't do it but don't generalize it about US unless you everything.
You are not American. You are Iraqi Pakistani or some place like that. Get a life.
@@atishayritulpatwa7235 There's this thing called online dating app statistics, you should check it out...might surprise you.
In Brazil, when we assume there's a possibility of something happening in the end of the date, we just shower and shave before we go have dinner, I think it's not that common showering right after getting to the hotel room, cause makes one think that his partner didn't shower before heading outside what may sound a bit dirty for us
Yeah that's my feeling, you'd normally get all cleaned up right before the date.
I ussually just wear the same underwear for like 4-5 days to get a nice pungent stank goin' n just hope that if she likes the smell that she will ask me for a taste
@@DudButVideos 😂😂😂😂
Geralmente as pessoas saem do trabalho e vão para os bares a noite. Como você passa o dia todo trabalhando, provavelmente vai precisar de um banho.
I think shun is kind of smiling when talking about this! Love your videos man!
I've been to Japan exactly once and I had a hookup there a few times with the same girl. We went to Hotel Love in Nagoya. Some advice, make sure to pay attention as to whether or not there is smoking allowed in the room. We didn't know, and we chose a smoke-friendly room (we didn't smoke), and the pillows smelled really strongly of cigarettes. Didn't stop the magic of course, but the second time we went we picked a non-smoker's room and it just felt a lot more clean. It was super nice actually, it had a gigantic shower/bathroom and they had like disposable tooth brushes and razors, still sealed in a bag for you to use. Obviously soap and shampoo and stuff too, even skincare products. They also had a hitachi wand which we may or may not have used but I can't help but wonder if they clean those tools out every time or what, since there isn't a disposable version of that as far as I know. Fun stuff. Also guys, do karaoke. It's private and really easy to set the mood and serenade her. It's how we got things started each time lol...
how to impress them japanese women doe?
@@sahilagarwal6601 hit those notes boi with vibrato
@@refreshist4821 have u tried that on them?
@@sahilagarwal6601 hell yeah works every time
@@refreshist4821 u live in Japan?
bro you're such a wholesome guy, I watched the entire video with a big smile on my face
The Japanese Netflix and chill! That cracked me up 😂
FINALLY!! A Japanese stranger (well at least to me) who isn't afraid to "tell it like it is" (maybe it's because he's from Osaka though)!! Don't listen to the "inner you" Shun Chan. He's only the voice of reason, and who needs that, you only live once right? I lived in Japan for 11 years and I got so tired of "tatemae" that I had trouble trusting or respecting a person if they couldn't get in touch with their "hone" by at least halfway through the evening (a waste of time otherwise). I'm not being judgmental (because hone/tatemae is, along with "Amae", at the base of Japanese culture). It's just a personal preference. I appreciate your straight forward honesty.
In brazil there's no formula, some are very direct and some are not. Tinder is pretty big here, and people show their faces with no problem, you can send a very direct message calling the person to your place or something, or go to a date. We also have love hotels it's called "Motel" it's usually located in big roads where you have easy access by car since our public transportation is not that good, but i think it's more common go to someone's place. If you feel comfortable you can simply ask "Do you wanna go somewhere?" Once the date is coming to an end, and that is pretty much it hahahaha Here Girls have a way more freedom to ask a guy too
Here in my street on Rio de Janeiro, people usually use any kind of place literally ANY PLACE, some weeks ago I got some couple doing you know what in my garden, since my garden is outside of my house, little weird I know.
@@pedrohsilva7473 jesus !! I live in the country side of Sao Paulo state, so there's nothing happening in general
its because in japan its only small percentage of people that do hookup.. generally they only had sex with their boyfriend/girlfriend.
@@pedrohsilva7473 wait. Aren’t motels just small hotels? Don’t think motels are exclusive
@@pedrohsilva7473 having met several brazilians and brazilian families from Rio over the years, I can totally see that happening lol
Wait a second, if they use fake names and not full face pics for apps to try to “hide,” how do you know you aren’t meeting someone you actually know🤔
Go on a date, then you will see
Or meeting someone that you DIDN'T want to know...lol.
He didn’t mention it in the vid, but it’s etiquette for guys to show their face so that girls can ignore or swipe left guys that they know.
It also allows them to be more picky.
You can confirm who they are after chatting and then send a pic of you and your name
"do you want to go have some .. rest?" Indeed ☺️.
Imagine you're going to the hotel with a hot girl, but being so wasted, end up sleeping till the next day xD
Naah never , even if I’m wasted
I won’t let all of that anime hentai training go to waste
I had a date when I was seeing a guy friend in Fukui Prefecture. He paid for everything and that made me feel weird to be honest. I’m very independent and I usually pay for everything. I could tell he was shy so in order not to waste the day with just sight seeing I did the first move and we did it inside his car in the dark. He said he loved how direct I was 😂. After that he drove me to Komatsu Airport and I went back to Tokyo lol. In my last day in Japan, he flew to Tokyo to see me before I left. So i guess we became fwb lol.
That’s actually a very sweet story, Praying Tanaka wishes you the best
🌝
🙏
Hopefully he was not married
That’s kinda wholesome tbh awww 😭 p.s. I’ve been to Komatsu airport too!
Many guys are dying to find a woman just even so slightly direct.
@@nataliatothemoon LMAO I LOVE UR USERNAME AND PIC
In the US, generally it's expected that we shower before the date, and that's usually clean enough if we decide to hook up. Also a common invitation for sex is something like "so you wanna come to my place?"
Personally, I didn't sleep with anyone I didn't already know well, but if it were a casual hookup, I would have opted for a hotel room bc I didn't want them knowing where I lived, but also didn't want to be at their place.
Never heard of showering before a date. Hm...
@@alukuhito i don't know if it's _expected_ in the US buuuuut you can probably tell something about someone if they don't think they need to shower before a date. It seems like common sense to me, not necessarily social custom.
@@Eaode As long as you bathe yourself properly once a day, where is the problem? It's not like someone who takes care of their body all the time and has a morning shower should suddenly have another shower the same day before going out on a date. Just be yourself. Come as you are, as they say. If you're a pig, that's gross, but let's get real here.
@@alukuhito most people take a shower/bath before bed. It's weird to work and be sweaty and dirty and to then sleep in it lol. So if they have a date in the evening or afternoon (which is most common) its normal to shower in order to make sure you are your freshest and "best" presentation for someone you are trying to impress and also expect to be as clean
@@ctuallynice No, they don't. Most people take a shower in the morning, and nothing in the evening. SOME people take a shower or bath at night. In Japan, it's the norm to take a bath at night, but in many cultures it isn't. In Japan, those same people rarely take a shower in the morning though. Almost everyone on the planet just takes one shower or bath per day. Some people don't even do that.
Yes, please! We want more videos like this one! Tell us more about the "different features" please, as I'm an "expert" too :))
This is the kind of quality content I came here looking for. 👌🏾
everybody gangsta till shun start roasting himself
Came from your famous « Japanese things even japanese hate » and stayed for the ✨ personnality ✨ 😍 just binged your entire channel I need more now please
inner shun: i literally am you
shun: i have friends, unlike you
inner shun: *forgets that he is literally shun* wtf
no its sad cause like no one likes the real him T^T
This is really helpful for my research with writing. Thank you so much, Shun-san :)
you look the other person up and down, smile, and ask,
How YOU doin’?
Jersey, huh??
I thumbs up coz funny 😆 that’s gonna have the opposite effect lol
HAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHA YES!
one of the popular ways out here is saying: pizza en neuken? of hou je niet zo van pizza?
which translates to: pizza and sex? or don't you like pizza?
Don't forget the head tilt and the slow nod while saying that, Joey. ^^
Your content is always so cool i never regret the sub because all your videos are so interesting and really stirs up discussion. I always learn something new every day and it feels just like having a conversation and hanging out with a friend
i have to say your honesty is very endearing! i wish more people would act like that, anyways, thanks for the info and it was entertaining as well! 👍
He was being facetious. Obviously my man Shun has had some experience.
Being open and sharing this info with your community is really cool! :) I enjoyed!
I have never not learned something from your videos. Thank you for the content 👏👏👏
Yeah! Definitely interested in watching the video where you said RUclips would demonetize your video!
But please don't let them demonetize it.
in southern usa, it's very... direct. and if it's not direct, it's only as subtle as "do you wanna come over?" LOL
Literally
How much direct? I was in Texas and was pretty indirect to me lol
@@19Cobre city boy
@@19Cobre how is in Mexico?
I've lived in Asia before, Never japan, but this whole "don't reveal your true intentions" or "be very vague about everything" is very true. I learned quickly to never be direct. I never stumbled upon the "do you want to take a rest" line though! That's useful.
Hah, this was an interesting video. I would say in Canada if someone offered to take you to a hotel to hook up the implication is that 1. They’re embarrassed of you or 2. They have something to hide or 3. It’s a financially transactional situation. Much more of a “do you want to go to your place” or “do you want to come up for a drink” type discussion.
Japanese households tend to be multigenerational so it’s also to be polite to your family and avoid awkwardness 😊
As a Canadian I agree
I was friends with a lot of Japanese exchange students in University here in the US. Ngl, some of them definitely took the opportunity to "express" themselves sexually in a way they felt they could not in Japan. At least from what the very few of them were willing to tell me. All the more power to them! I guess I'm very liberal American minded in that sense, if you're being safe and everything is consensual, go for it :)
I have the same experience with my husband. Hence all of this Japanese style of hooking up is news to me. He was pretty much doing it like the locals here would lol.
Male or female not that matter but am curious
If the date goes well, I typically invite them over by saying "do you want to meet my cat?" And by typically I mean once. And I could've said anything else, really, but common... Kitty!
Haha that's kind of a good one really! Plus there is advanced warning if she is allergic to cats, LOL!
I invite them over to do drugs, or at least smoke pot with me.
2:17 really explains what I see in Terrace House; when I started watching it I always said to myself, "why doesn't he/she make a move if they're interested?". Now I know.
wait no, I really want to know what kind of features they have in different types of rooms hahaha
same haha I was like?? what is he talking about
It depends on the room, but basically things like Hitachi wands, etc, and some bathrooms have whirlpool bath, things like those. Nothing special.
But I've heard that some super expensive ones have crazy theme rooms and stuff. I've only been in the regular ones though.
What's the video by abroad in Japan called the hotels or something lol
You know the usual stuff like, a peep pit, monkey bars, a cage and a small room filled with plushies.
Toys, videos, etc
Shun, we absolutely NEED your commentary on 'The Way of the Househusband'. It's available on Netflix
The ettiquette, how complicated and expensive is dating over in Japan, I think if that was the UK no-one would ever get laid lol.
It doesn't seem too expensive other than the love hotel. Food prices and especially drink prices are generally slightly cheaper than Europe and US. 3 pounds or less for a drink is very common.
How is it expensive?
@@dogchaser520 Yeah, a meal for two at in izakaya, including drinks, is gonna be like sub-4000 yen. Add another 4000-7000 for the hotel and you're looking at about 100 bucks altogether. Pretty cheap.
@@geraldroybal8192 Plus, if she's Japanese, she might split the bill for the meal or at least put in a bit of money. And, no tip needed! (Memories of a Japanese restaurant clerk chasing down a tourist because he "forgot his money on the table")
I don’t think Japanese women expect you to divide the bill , I think they prefer the guy paying it all
Super interesting about the 'last train'😉😉 Also, your eyebrows are impeccable!! 🙌
I don't believe he has as hard a time with girls has he says... he's too adorable! 🥰😍
I always thought they did tha first move but fuck it🤷🏻♂️
nice video, so commonly in the U.K. hook up line is often "Do you wanna Coffee?" especially if you have gone to someones place. a lot depends on the situation, phone apps seem popular people will get a hotel room if for some reason home isnt convenient or nearby most hotels dont question whats going on. in many respects the UK is fairly sexually liberated. picking up is common in clubs and bars. proper dating is probably more complicated and requires a bit of thought and planning. I think the first time I found out about love hotels was when i read to book"After Dark" アフターダーク haruki Murakami.
Props to my guy shun letting us know the important stuff. followed
As a college student in America, it’s as easy as meeting a girl at some activities and asking to hang out afterwards. Just make sure to tell your roommate if you have one that you need some alone time. It’s extremely casual and open most of the time and some people have friends with benefits.
I look away and this dude goes on to make very interesting content. Good on you Shun!
Your eyebrows are so well kept they’re nice
ok but shun's eyebrows are fucking CLEAN
Maybe a silly question (unaware Westerner here), but I read a lot of Japanese literature, and in one of Haruki Murakami's rare realistic novels, Norwegian Wood, set in the late 1960's, there is a lot of hooking up. Is the novel simply fanciful, or did the 1960's produce a much more liberal mindset about sex that has since disappeared?
the dialogue with inner SHUN is gold
Inner Shun sees through your lies and he will read you to filth...until you tell him he has no friends, of course. 😂😂😂
I'm getting Outlaw Star flashbacks... wonderful channel Sir.
I'm from Sweden and here hookups are super common, mainly so after clubbing. I feel like there's two types of people, those who go home with someone after the club and those who don't. There's not much slut shaming because it's so normalized to go home with someone else. It's mostly one night stands but could sometimes end up in something more serious if both of you feel a connection.
You have to be a decent and attractive human being though to go home with someone else, I feel like most women have pretty high standards :)
Same in germany haha
Bro most people think of themself highly and you should never try to break a person's ego because it might mean the end of friendship or date. Now saying it to a girl means that you lose chance to have and you don't have to be serious or anything.
Clubs are in same everywhere. Avoid it
Not going to talk for all women but a lot have a 'checklist' and if you don't meet all of the criteria they won't care for you, andd you have to meet all of the criteria -- it isn't an "oh you missed one but it's okay" sort of thing.
6 feet and 6 pack. Nihil novi sub soli.
This is pretty fun to watch. I studied in Ireland and weekends at the pub or after hours club was the hunting grounds for hookups. you can tell last call and closing time are approaching because guys and girls start desperately scanning the room to see if there is any one they find suitable to take home. It usually depends how drunk people are. I shared a place with other 2 flatmates (a guy and a girl), and the way I would find out if one of them had hooked up at the Pub or club is that I would find a string of clothes from the living room leading to their rooms, or random clothes in the bathroom or very loud music coming out of their door vary late at night.
And it is not only Uni Students, My flatmate once actually ended up hooking up with an off duty police woman whose uniform jacket she forgot once she left and had to to the walk of shame coming back to the flat and I had to handed it to her because my roomate was away, that was awkward.
I come from Sweden, I'd say it's pretty different here overall I think our culture is sex positive and since were very big on equality, women don't expect the guy to pay. It's actually pretty common for women to want to pay for themselves, because they want to be independent and not feel like they owe the guy anything.
Hello fellow Swede 🤓 As a Swedish woman I 100% agree. We (not speaking for all women ofcourse) do prefer to meet the guy half way. In my case both when it comes to who pays for the date but also when it comes to manners (such as holding up the door for the other etc. ) Although my way of showing manners to a guy might be a bit too much for some guys lol
@@sanneenebrant2578 Yeah, same here.
Isn't Swedish hookup culture just, you get tanked up on booze at the pre-drinks session. Then you go to a club around midnight to get more wasted, then eventually get picked up and have a really drunk, I can barely remember the night, one night stand?
Same in finland
Y'all just making me realize how messed up NA culture is, i need out of this cesspool XD
In Sweden se usually just hook up with someone from tinder by just inviting the girl to ur place basically or on parties u might get extra "comfortable" with a girl and go to a seperate room together.
Really liked the video btw, it seems like such a convenient way to do it in Japan
BRO I’VE NEVER BEEN SO EARLY ILY SHUN-KUN!! HAHAHAH
I am definitely interested in the 'more-in-depth' video that you mentioned you may make!
Just gotta hit em with the ecchi shiyou
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@Kei Yamada nice, you should make RUclips videos
@Kei Yamada any kind of Japanese life videos
@Kei Yamada "What life was like in Japan during the 90's" I would watch that. Especially if you had some home videos from back then
@Kei Yamada you just got your first subscriber
Btw since Shun didn't say it the Japanese is 「休憩しよう」(kyuukei shiyou)
In America hook ups usually happen at a bar. you talk with someone you are interested in, offer to buy them a drink and when it is getting late ask if they would like to come over to your place. You can also explain your living situation (have a roommate/no privacy) and ask if you could come over to their place but phrase it like "Mind if we hang out more at your place?"
That sounds so 70s.
Dude, this shit is hilarious. From your first video, almost a year now, till now you are killing it with the jokes. Great grasp of English.
Im from India and listening to you made me realize we asians have similar beliefs when it comes to these topics that they're only considered taboo. Good work on the video tho !
*beliefs
@@u.b.5773 thanks for the correction
I heard if a girl dates men she can’t get married because if she’s not a virgin he’s not valued much as a wife. Is that true?
@@user-wm2tw Not in cities, but in small towns where my parents grew up it still goes there.
@@lakshaygaur09 Even in cities
Most men avoid women who have had a relationship before
This is one of the most respectful videos about sex on the internet lmao 😂
Hookup moves are definitely different in Japan than where I live (Germany). Hook ups here happen at bars/clubs, house parties or through Tinder. You can be way more direct, but still want to avoid the word sex for the most part.
When I lived in Berlin many times it was like :do u want to go and have a f...ck...lol ...super direct
@@differentlyrome9732are you a very handsome man , i have never experienced that ?
Yes, please! We want more videos like this one, and what about the "diff. features" please?
In the US, we dont have _Love Hotels_ , just hotels, and they charge by the night.
True, and I mean if you just want to “rest” then you do and just leave when you want or by checkout time ... quite fun
Lawlz.. in the states the girl tells you whats going happen. If not your gonna get a bad read in court with her saying "no" aka yes and the next moment your in the shower fott long freddy
We do have Motels which are small hotels with no lobby and look like an apartment they are ~$65 - $120/night some do have hourly rates but the ones that do aren't always clean or the type where you take a date you didn't pay for.
And if you go to a hotel instead of your own place, it seems suspicious. Who are you hiding from? Is your place disgusting?
Very informative Shun. In the PH, people usually invite to their place instead of Love Hotel if it's the first time. Love Hotel is too straightforward and everybody knows what happens there.
I've exclusively been with the same partner since 2008, so I'm in the weeds when it comes to saying how it works now. It seems everyone in the dating/hook up mode uses dating apps, which is fine- no judgment on my part. It just seems mildly terrifying, especially with the ones who don't even speak to the prospective partner beforehand (just text). I've listened to WAAAAY too many YT horror story channels and now I'm certain I'd land a psycho in no time (side note: I'm gay and there've been more than a few hook up killers in the news in the last decade. See Mark Latunski and Bruce McArthur).