Well for the guys it is better not to physically touch her regardless of signals. Best not to risk sexual assault charges. Oh and never ever go anywhere you're alone with her.
There is still the issue that most men are afraid of. A woman could display these signs, and if the man reacts suddenly he is in trouble with the Police. It is unfortunate, but very much the reason a lot of men stay back and don't respond to these advances.
You should never assume, best thing is if you two are flirting just brush up against her and see if she turns away or not, if not go further but not to further because she might get flustered and than you don’t know if she actually wants to touch or not, but than again if we don’t assume from these signs there is no point in any women making this fucking list lol because we are told never to assume unless sure but than these “sign” list videos come out and than we are the idiots for not making a move that could possibly end up with us in jail or legal trouble
No that's an illusion. They either like you or they don't and they already know whether they do in the first 30 seconds of meeting you. Sometimes they like to make you work for it which is where that confidence part comes in. But all it's doing is making you more of a victim where you have to jump through more hoops and likely is not she's not going to respect you and get with you because of it. Her and her friends will sit around laughing about you and talking about you. And when it's all said and done she'll probably get with one of your friends instead and complain about you to them. Of course I speak of American women only. I don't know how they do things in Europe but from what I heard it's a lot easier over there. In America women have the belief they're sitting on a gold mine literally
The basic problem is that the really attractive women who you want to be with are often so subtle about their gestures and language that you think you’re just reading too much into them and you’ll end up a fool or in trouble if you try to escalate things. On the other hand, lesser attractive women are usually so obvious about their language and gestures that’s it’s obvious they want to escalate things.
Yeah i'm going through this right now with a girl I work with, there are times where I feel like she really likes me and I really like her too. However, i'm scared of upping my game too much just in case i've read everything wrong. I suppose it's best to just carry on and not push things..
You can't negotiate attraction. If she IS, your road is easy. The trick is knowing to recognise the attraction. Knowing that your posture and your presence will impact her view of you.
looking cute there D😊😘 The signs are not difficult to spot, at least for me. The trouble is when she gives you the signs and then uses it against you to play stupid games, reject you, get free expensive drinks, free validation, "just to check"...etc.
The double standards are frustrating. Women don't initiate because they are afraid of rejection, what makes people think men aren't? Testosterone isn't everything, and police are involved when men drop any of the 'touch' gestures, sexual or not
These are too wildly open to misinterpretation. Advice you SHOULD give is "Ask first. 'Do you want me to kiss you?' or whatever." No woman wants to be treated like a side of beef. This is true even in marriage. NEVER touch even your wife without express permission. You've been irresponsible.
I wish that many more women would just come right out and tell us guys if they are interested in us. There are many women who want a good man who is not a player or who is not looking for a one night stand. Women expect us to walk up to them. Why can’t they just walk up to us and be direct ? Do you know how flattered I would be if a woman approached me ?
It's the old saying. "come here come here; Oh get away, get away. Women want to feel important and that comes with the idea of the chase. If you do the chase long enough they feel the power over you.. Men have to find the balance between knowing how much they are going to care with the right to be therir own personna.
I've never made the 1st move, I have always refused to. Partly because I fear rejection. Had 3 relationships & 4 FWBs. Those were all ones that flat out told me or started touching me. Just wait for the one that will be direct. It's worth the wait. Granted I've probably missed out on several but I don't care.
@joewas2225 hey bro im in the same situation as you rn ,my coworker keeps touching my arm idk if i should start flirting with her or is it more of if she's playing with my feelings 🤷♂️
1. THE COMPLIMENTS . 2. INVITED YOU OVER. 3. INITIATION. 4. BODY LANGUAGE. 5. THE BUMP. 6. TOUCH. 7. THE LEAN. 8. REACTION. LISTEN TO ALL CONTENT FOR MORE DETAILS; THANK BEAUTIFUL JOYANIMA 😘🌹❤️✌️🇵🇷👋
@@Kimbuja777 she's kind of like my sister or best friend.... but then my heart beats faster when i watch her videos..... and instinctively i notice she has no ring on her ring finger..... ooops!
Yeah and about two-thirds of the time if you respond to any of them at all they act like you're crazy or something. If they lean into you and you kiss them nine times out of 10 they're going to act like you're a pervert and totally misread the situation. If they bump into you and you take their hand they are going to yank their hand back. And even if you downplay it like you thought they needed help they try to make fun of you for misunderstanding the entire situation how they just don't feel that way about you. Sure it's okay for them to touch you. Even play with your hair. But if you try to do anything like that back to them all of a sudden you're just a little too handsy. And you get other people coming up and telling you later that you need to cool off with whatever her name is that she's telling everyone that you are a handsy pig or want to be more than friends and that's not what she wants. You can't believe any of this crap they're telling us on here. You forget the first rule about women. They lie. Once you understand that everything makes a lot more sense
@@kimmer6xactly!! Let’s not even discuss women that want you to notice these signals but not approach. Soon as you approach, they look at you as if you’re crazy🤣😂🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️.
I know she shares my feelings for her, but she has a boyfriend and she's loyal to him, ( a good thing ), she may what me to subconsciously to " make a move " but consciously she will react negativity so I never go further than " accidentally " bumping into each other or brushing past each other. Sucks man, sucks.....
You can't "miss" what doesn't exist. For wise men who value their reputations, careers, and freedom, there is no such thing as a "sign" that indicates a woman wants you to touch her. There isn't even such a thing as a sign a woman wants you to approach her, or speak to her, or glance in her direction. Men get in trouble all the time just for seeing a woman that walked into their field of vision.
I'm happily married, but hypothetically speaking... The sign I'd be waiting for would be a notarized letter expressing her interest. Women might fear rejection, but nowadays, we men fear prison.
Touch is a huge part of my love language. Unfortunately as a totally blind guy it can be easy to miss a lot of signs that girls/women exhibit, at least for this particular totally blind guy LOL.
That's soooo funny, I came here to warn dudes not to do this anymore and everyone in the section already posting their stories 😆😆😆 Chivalry is dead and women killed it.
I'm on the scene for the 1st time in over 20 yrs so I'm usually not in the mood for games so women who you like that seem to like you too should just be direct & to the point while not being afraid to make a move first.Just a thought.
Women are excellent communicators- my favourite sign a lady wants your touch is when she invites you over for alone time and stresses in hot conversation about her troubles with creepy men touching her with their eyes 👀...👀...👀
Hi Anna, i realy enjoy your videos. BUT im still very unsure how to read body laungauge. Would it be possable to demonstrate serten body laungauges in future videos for example when you talk about a woman sits in a sertan way that is open or inviting, that you can show a couple of examples. Or when she touch her self in a sertan way or play with her hair, or if you have a partner who is willing to help you by demonstrating what it wil look like when she try to touch or bump into you? Please pritty please it will help us men alot. Nicky /South Africa
Long story short a girl I was speaking to for a bit invited me over to "cuddle", I went, had plans to meet up again... ghosted me haven't seen her since I was like never again
Don't give up. I was on my own for 10 years. Favourite ploy with women, I would just stand at the corner of the bar, drink in hand, a girl would walk up order drinks, then make a glance n talk. No problem a warm bed that night.
I use a wheelchair in situations of much walking so if she steps in my lane I'm probably going to accidentally run into her heels, and that can be painful.😂
It worked for me. I walked up to her gave her a light touch on the arm followed by eye contact and pleasant conversation and she's hooked. But I'm fortunate she's a nice girl and wants to be romanced and wants to be sure I like her before getting emotionally invested in me.
I just watched a video which had over a thousand, animated comments, about how often a relationship starts off with love and great emotional & physical expressions of affection, and then -- somehow -- it ends in depressing disappointment. Joyanima offers great videos about kindling the flame. I wonder if she has done one or would do one on how to keep it going?
When a woman starts telling you that she doesnt like men to talk about sex with her, it means that she wants to has a conversation about that with you.I always found out later that they indeed like to talk about it.
1. no compliments 2. never bee invited over 3. I can never initiate anything as I have always been rejected and no woman ever tried to touch me 4. no woman ever seemed relaxed around me, they all think I am a creep because I am very shy 5. no bump ever happened because they never accept to walk or be with me 6. No woman ever touched me, they never do that 7. Women lean away from me so I know the shit i have to expect 8. I never do anything around women or approach them, I always stay away so as not to get in trouble with the law
I wonder if you are carrying some kind of sub-conscious baggage from the past that is keeping you trapped in a vicious cycle of feeling unacceptable around women, pal? Feeling unworthy or defective does not being out the best in any of us. Look back to when these feelings and experiences began. In my experience [though more rare] they can even go back to babyhood, or even life in the womb, or even a 'past life'. If any of this resonates, then find a capable healer or psychotherapist to help you turn things around** - if you want something different, that is... "If we live the way we are living now, we will get the results we are getting now...etc". Anyone can change their lifestyle - but it can take a big measure of guts, heart and self-honesty to do it. [**preferably one who has themselves turned around a similar obstacle in their life].
@@sunflowerhealth1616 Unfortunately, I am just a coward, I am just afraid of ending up poorer than I am now, I just cannot deal with that. In addition to being ugly and stupid, nothing helps me I have the trifecta of being a loser with women forever, they just hate me and I was never able to get me some As I said before, Ugly and poor condemns you to be hated by women no matter what you have going on for you
I don’t know why I’m seeing this video. Women are very Intimidated by me. I am Alpha and very sophisticating. To women I am Sexy but I also look very intimidating, which some say is even sexier. I love women!
What about the step up when you are talking to a girl? I'm an older fella and this younger girl would step up closer to when I'd see her. My problem is when people step closer to me I step back because my personal space is being invested. Just before my moms went home to Creator she told me that a doctor told her I'm autistic. I still have to look into that.
Just never go to a woman and say something like this. Wow your really pretty I have noticed through the binoculars a week ago. Not a good way to make a 1st impression.
Am in that situation right now there's this lady she's always around me even when we're walking she use to touch me but I use to have this feeling maybe if I try to touch her back she'll reject me or she'll get upset that's why I don't use to touch her
I noticed that you dont comment much. But your the first person i would try your tips and tricks on how to touch or talk to a woman...lol. Your smart , beautiful, and that accent is literally melting me!! lol sorry....😋
Thank you for the super feedback! I try to come back each day onto the latest videos and comment on them. So, if you're in the first 24 hours of a video it's likely to get a reply 😊. With all these older videos it's hard to keep up with them all! But you were top of the feed when I just logged on, handy eh 😁
If you want to learn about woman, you can try put the sound off and watch this. Just try. Then somewhere put it on again. Listen. Look. It will teach you all.
Wow. It sucks making a woman feels invisible that you really are interested in, but sometimes they should make it a bit obvious because men deal with so consensual stuff and end up facing a judge. If she wants to be the special one, then make hints easier.
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Well I’ll take a pass on this advice you’ve given , most women scare me because the minute she decides she no longer likes you anymore she might just get me put behind bars so no thank you .
How the hell do you go about it if all things said here occur, but you and her are both married, with kids? Life sure is a hell of a character testing ground.
I remember a time when a very pretty girl came over to talk to me when I was about 19 years old I have blond hair blue eyes very good-looking I didn't,t quite know how to take her but I said hello a few minutes went bye and the next thing I knew I was attacked by a man much bigger than me ..muscular.her boyfriend .I was Lachey to get away I said to him she started talking to me first. bur no use a week or so later I saw them at a bar ..I kept my distance but she kept staring at me the whole night so I left the bar .and never saw them again in 58 years old now and never saw them again the rest of my life.they must. have moved far away....
I bumped into an old crush. Now I have an injunction and not allowed to be within 500yards of where she lives, works or the route she takes between them.
When I first meet a woman I am quick to ask if I can drive her home or if we are in a semi private spot just steal a kiss. I will never be a mind reader or able to interpret all these subtle clues so I just get right to the point. The worse thing that has ever happened is she says "Slow down lover boy" She knows I am game if she wants to go forward after she gets to know me she will be obvious.
@Joyanima I am a moron, when it comes to picking up on women who are interested in me. I don’t know what is wrong with me, but I never pick up on any of it until it’s too late. They must think I’m brain dead. But I just Never really experienced that when I was younger. I was never afraid to go up to somebody and just start talking to them. I guess I would pick up on if somebody put their hand on my knee, and grabbed my hand or something… but I just never really put my mind to it. Never thought about it that much. Now that I’m a little bit older, I have had instances where women were interested… One, when I was doing a show, and she wanted to come back stage and kiss me. I truthfully thought she was kidding at the time, just because we were in the middle of a set. But then I realized that no, she was interested, and by the time my brain put two and two together, she was moving out of state and off with some other guy. It sucks, because that girl was definitely a keeper. That kind of hippie/cool chick. Who will kick your ass at Halo or on the volleyball court at the beach and then after she beat you… She jumps on top of you and attacks you. Really down to earth and cognizant of her heart and emotions. A tough thing to find and the guy that got her is the luckiest man in the world. Because those kind of girls don’t come around every day. But again, because of my inability to pick up on these little things… I’ve had quite a few pass me by. To the point, that I’m starting to think I’m mentally challenged. Again, it was something that I never really dealt with in my younger life… Because generally, I was the one doing the getting. So it’s tough for me, especially in this day and age … Where a lot of women that I have come across seem to purposely go out of their way to make a man chase them around. I had one go as far as agree to go out to dinner and then last second say she forgot her phone at work and couldn’t get in touch. Then, asked me a week later why I haven’t called her and rescheduled. You can tell that she’s just playing games to see if a guy wants to chase her around enough in order to be with her. I’m not into that. Sorry, but if you’re interested… You should probably keep dates and ask me questions about the person you’re interested in… Instead of me doing all of the talking and asking the questions. Which, conversation is another thing that seems to have slipped by the wayside due to everybody texting and tweeting , and used to X amount of characters… To the point where trying to hold a conversation with them for more than five minutes is like pulling teeth. Especially face-to-face. It has me to the point where I truly don’t even understand how people get together and date anymore. Because it seems like it’s some sort of social no, no, to go up to somebody and buy them a drink and try to get to know them. You have to worry about everybody, thinking that, at any moment, they could take anything you say, as some sort of sexually laced innuendo that is going to bite you in the ass. Seemingly everybody being on edge for no reason. Which is not me. I am laid-back, happy go lucky and dig a woman who can have a conversation about anything. Who isn’t afraid to ask questions of me and isn’t afraid to take charge and tell me where we’re going for the night or where she might want to eat. Is it just me? I would really love to know how other guys are faring. Because I feel like I am in some sort of alien world, trying to learn the art of social interaction, and the correct way to approach and talk to somebody who I might be interested in. Something I never had issues with in the past. As I’ve been an entertainer, all of my life. So talking to people is part of my repertoire. So I don’t know,. Somebody educate me on modern dating rituals. Because I truly feel, since my last relationship last in 15 years before, all hell broke loose. Think Amber Heard without the physical abuse. that was my ex. So I’ve been out of it for a bit and feel like the entire dating world around me has completely changed and I have no clue where to start. Thank you in advance.
Nick Cross, unfortunately that's the way it is and how it will continue to be. You really need to stop doubting your worth, as that is the one vibe that women pick up on straight away. You really need to get a book on body language and study it deeply. You say you like a woman that will take charge, well when you meet a woman like that you are setting yourself up for a fall. Once a woman like that smells or senses weakness in a man she will treat you like crap. Women want a man to be a man and to make the decisions for her. Sorry if this sounds harsh but it's true.
Hey Joy, she is into my personal space every now and then, she touches my feet with hers while into my personal spece, every time she pass me there is a slight rub or touch on my sholder or hand. We both have the phone number ; but no chat or not even a good morning wish. What should i understand from this?
I have just had a similar experience. A woman I met the previous eveningn in hotel joined me(uninvited) for breakfast but did not speak and would not make eye contact. Met her again the other day by chance and although she came and sat next to me she did not speak. Ladies, let us guys know how you feel and stop the mind games. We too have feelings.
Not that we don't miss it, but if a man takes a chance and she is NOT interested, we risk alot, our jobs, reputations, and yes we could even have criminal charges slapped against us
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i once got real close to a girl i liked to gauge her reaction. i have my court date next month.
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Haha i already screwed her yesterday 😂😂😂 you are late....
Welcome to planet Earth, shit happens here
Well for the guys it is better not to physically touch her regardless of signals. Best not to risk sexual assault charges. Oh and never ever go anywhere you're alone with her.
There is still the issue that most men are afraid of. A woman could display these signs, and if the man reacts suddenly he is in trouble with the Police. It is unfortunate, but very much the reason a lot of men stay back and don't respond to these advances.
You should never assume, best thing is if you two are flirting just brush up against her and see if she turns away or not, if not go further but not to further because she might get flustered and than you don’t know if she actually wants to touch or not, but than again if we don’t assume from these signs there is no point in any women making this fucking list lol because we are told never to assume unless sure but than these “sign” list videos come out and than we are the idiots for not making a move that could possibly end up with us in jail or legal trouble
That’s the big issue i takeaway but fuck it I’m young so nothing can happen to me 😂
Mindset fuc
I guess never know for a fact that these signs are set in stone but just play and she how she reacts I guess, it’s like anything, 5150
@@scottfleming2190 those would be 4 different men.
Don't take any words coming from her like a it's carved in stone. In the same minute you have power to change her emotions by your confidence.
except if ur the shy introverted type ;)
No that's an illusion. They either like you or they don't and they already know whether they do in the first 30 seconds of meeting you. Sometimes they like to make you work for it which is where that confidence part comes in. But all it's doing is making you more of a victim where you have to jump through more hoops and likely is not she's not going to respect you and get with you because of it. Her and her friends will sit around laughing about you and talking about you. And when it's all said and done she'll probably get with one of your friends instead and complain about you to them. Of course I speak of American women only. I don't know how they do things in Europe but from what I heard it's a lot easier over there. In America women have the belief they're sitting on a gold mine literally
Here is an idea. Women could just tell men what they want instead of expecting us to read their minds.
What an amazing and difficult to conceive idea.
@@RS-xo7rd 👍🏻
It's simple, most of them can't
They can't even read their own minds bro.
@@jamescox1805 hahaha😝
The basic problem is that the really attractive women who you want to be with are often so subtle about their gestures and language that you think you’re just reading too much into them and you’ll end up a fool or in trouble if you try to escalate things. On the other hand, lesser attractive women are usually so obvious about their language and gestures that’s it’s obvious they want to escalate things.
No they just love to play games bro honestly
Yeah i'm going through this right now with a girl I work with, there are times where I feel like she really likes me and I really like her too. However, i'm scared of upping my game too much just in case i've read everything wrong. I suppose it's best to just carry on and not push things..
You can't negotiate attraction. If she IS, your road is easy. The trick is knowing to recognise the attraction. Knowing that your posture and your presence will impact her view of you.
Have hit on wemon that ain't out of your look s department
looking cute there D😊😘
The signs are not difficult to spot, at least for me. The trouble is when she gives you the signs and then uses it against you to play stupid games, reject you, get free expensive drinks, free validation, "just to check"...etc.
overseas the barflies did stuff like that, but hey, back then a drink cost 1.75 when i was making 288 mo
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The double standards are frustrating. Women don't initiate because they are afraid of rejection, what makes people think men aren't? Testosterone isn't everything, and police are involved when men drop any of the 'touch' gestures, sexual or not
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These are too wildly open to misinterpretation. Advice you SHOULD give is "Ask first. 'Do you want me to kiss you?' or whatever." No woman wants to be treated like a side of beef. This is true even in marriage. NEVER touch even your wife without express permission.
You've been irresponsible.
@@cwdkidman2266 what? It is easy for me cuz they always initiate first and after that they wouldnt mind anything.
Are you surely information from you 🙏🏼 congrats
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I wish that many more women would just come right out and tell us guys if they are interested in us. There are many women who want a good man who is not a player or who is not looking for a one night stand. Women expect us to walk up to them. Why can’t they just walk up to us and be direct ? Do you know how flattered I would be if a woman approached me ?
It's the old saying. "come here come here; Oh get away, get away. Women want to feel important and that comes with the idea of the chase. If you do the chase long enough they feel the power over you.. Men have to find the balance between knowing how much they are going to care with the right to be therir own personna.
Amen to this!
@@lynnmackenzie9501so basically women love playing games
I've never made the 1st move, I have always refused to. Partly because I fear rejection. Had 3 relationships & 4 FWBs. Those were all ones that flat out told me or started touching me. Just wait for the one that will be direct. It's worth the wait. Granted I've probably missed out on several but I don't care.
@joewas2225 hey bro im in the same situation as you rn ,my coworker keeps touching my arm idk if i should start flirting with her or is it more of if she's playing with my feelings 🤷♂️
When she gives the "kiss me" look it's like the universe stops! It's a conversation stopper! There is nothing a man can do but kiss her!
1. THE COMPLIMENTS .
2. INVITED YOU OVER.
3. INITIATION.
4. BODY LANGUAGE.
5. THE BUMP.
6. TOUCH.
7. THE LEAN.
8. REACTION.
LISTEN TO ALL CONTENT FOR MORE DETAILS; THANK BEAUTIFUL JOYANIMA 😘🌹❤️✌️🇵🇷👋
@@Kimbuja777 she's kind of like my sister or best friend.... but then my heart beats faster when i watch her videos..... and instinctively i notice she has no ring on her ring finger..... ooops!
Don't fall for it guys, it's a trap. You can bet good money all these signals are to bait you into a sexual assault charge.
Yeah and about two-thirds of the time if you respond to any of them at all they act like you're crazy or something. If they lean into you and you kiss them nine times out of 10 they're going to act like you're a pervert and totally misread the situation. If they bump into you and you take their hand they are going to yank their hand back. And even if you downplay it like you thought they needed help they try to make fun of you for misunderstanding the entire situation how they just don't feel that way about you. Sure it's okay for them to touch you. Even play with your hair. But if you try to do anything like that back to them all of a sudden you're just a little too handsy. And you get other people coming up and telling you later that you need to cool off with whatever her name is that she's telling everyone that you are a handsy pig or want to be more than friends and that's not what she wants. You can't believe any of this crap they're telling us on here. You forget the first rule about women. They lie. Once you understand that everything makes a lot more sense
9. A TRIP to Human Resources where they fire you because she changed her mind.
@@kimmer6xactly!! Let’s not even discuss women that want you to notice these signals but not approach. Soon as you approach, they look at you as if you’re crazy🤣😂🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️.
I know she shares my feelings for her, but she has a boyfriend and she's loyal to him, ( a good thing ), she may what me to subconsciously to " make a move " but consciously she will react negativity so I never go further than " accidentally " bumping into each other or brushing past each other. Sucks man, sucks.....
Same here man but I’m not as sure the girl likes me but all this in the video applied to me every single thing lol
Find another chick and forget her. If she chases you, then you know. She is using you as a backup!
Listen your instincts. They are telling you to get out of there. She's programming you in case she breaks up with him and needs a backup.
You can't "miss" what doesn't exist.
For wise men who value their reputations, careers, and freedom, there is no such thing as a "sign" that indicates a woman wants you to touch her.
There isn't even such a thing as a sign a woman wants you to approach her, or speak to her, or glance in her direction.
Men get in trouble all the time just for seeing a woman that walked into their field of vision.
I'm happily married, but hypothetically speaking...
The sign I'd be waiting for would be a notarized letter expressing her interest. Women might fear rejection, but nowadays, we men fear prison.
On certain university campuses these days, you actually need such a signed letter to proceed with any romantic advancements.
Touch is a huge part of my love language. Unfortunately as a totally blind guy it can be easy to miss a lot of signs that girls/women exhibit, at least for this particular totally blind guy LOL.
Totally blind, yet found this video and commented on it!? Idiot
That's soooo funny, I came here to warn dudes not to do this anymore and everyone in the section already posting their stories 😆😆😆
Chivalry is dead and women killed it.
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All this info is 100% useful. But to married men only.
Another beautiful upload. Thank you Anna, take care, stay blessed 💯❤️
Enjoyed your talk, thanks and more power to your elbow.
I'm on the scene for the 1st time in over 20 yrs so I'm usually not in the mood for games so women who you like that seem to like you too should just be direct & to the point while not being afraid to make a move first.Just a thought.
Some more great advice - thank you, Anna x
Women are excellent communicators- my favourite sign a lady wants your touch is when she invites you over for alone time and stresses in hot conversation about her troubles with creepy men touching her with their eyes 👀...👀...👀
Touché. Nravo👏
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Yeah.
Hi Anna, i realy enjoy your videos. BUT im still very unsure how to read body laungauge. Would it be possable to demonstrate serten body laungauges in future videos for example when you talk about a woman sits in a sertan way that is open or inviting, that you can show a couple of examples. Or when she touch her self in a sertan way or play with her hair, or if you have a partner who is willing to help you by demonstrating what it wil look like when she try to touch or bump into you? Please pritty please it will help us men alot. Nicky /South Africa
Long story short a girl I was speaking to for a bit invited me over to "cuddle", I went, had plans to meet up again... ghosted me haven't seen her since I was like never again
Don't give up. I was on my own for 10 years. Favourite ploy with women, I would just stand at the corner of the bar, drink in hand, a girl would walk up order drinks, then make a glance n talk. No problem a warm bed that night.
She didn't want to cuddle man ! She wanted more than cuddling and you just cuddled and got ghosted afterwards
I got the bump from a woman last week. When I got up off the subway tracks and back to the platform, she was gone.
I have found some married women do this frequently..
I use a wheelchair in situations of much walking so if she steps in my lane I'm probably going to accidentally run into her heels, and that can be painful.😂
It worked for me. I walked up to her gave her a light touch on the arm followed by eye contact and pleasant conversation and she's hooked. But I'm fortunate she's a nice girl and wants to be romanced and wants to be sure I like her before getting emotionally invested in me.
Good video Joyanima.
Tell her "for you only I do not have a brick wall around me"this mean you do not have any boundries allowing her to come close to you for good.
Thanks for sharing
Awesome superb very nice
Always stay bless 🙏🙏
Good to Know so I can run the other way as fast as possible
I just watched a video which had over a thousand, animated comments, about how often a relationship starts off with love and great emotional & physical expressions of affection, and then -- somehow -- it ends in depressing disappointment. Joyanima offers great videos about kindling the flame. I wonder if she has done one or would do one on how to keep it going?
When a woman starts telling you that she doesnt like men to talk about sex with her, it means that she wants to has a conversation about that with you.I always found out later that they indeed like to talk about it.
8 I would
1. no compliments
2. never bee invited over
3. I can never initiate anything as I have always been rejected and no woman ever tried to touch me
4. no woman ever seemed relaxed around me, they all think I am a creep because I am very shy
5. no bump ever happened because they never accept to walk or be with me
6. No woman ever touched me, they never do that
7. Women lean away from me so I know the shit i have to expect
8. I never do anything around women or approach them, I always stay away so as not to get in trouble with the law
Learning the Singhs help you believe it it will happen be observing constantly
@@hubbardengland3223 nah, i am 56 yrs old, started trying to get a girl at 15, have not succeeded till now. Women hate me because I am ugly and poor
Go after the women that are poor and ugly
I wonder if you are carrying some kind of sub-conscious baggage from the past that is keeping you trapped in a vicious cycle of feeling unacceptable around women, pal? Feeling unworthy or defective does not being out the best in any of us. Look back to when these feelings and experiences began. In my experience [though more rare] they can even go back to babyhood, or even life in the womb, or even a 'past life'. If any of this resonates, then find a capable healer or psychotherapist to help you turn things around** - if you want something different, that is... "If we live the way we are living now, we will get the results we are getting now...etc". Anyone can change their lifestyle - but it can take a big measure of guts, heart and self-honesty to do it. [**preferably one who has themselves turned around a similar obstacle in their life].
@@sunflowerhealth1616 Unfortunately, I am just a coward, I am just afraid of ending up poorer than I am now, I just cannot deal with that.
In addition to being ugly and stupid, nothing helps me
I have the trifecta of being a loser with women forever, they just hate me
and I was never able to get me some
As I said before, Ugly and poor condemns you to be hated by women no matter what you have going on for you
Things are different since "me too " Men now fear legal retribution for touching a woman ..
I don’t know why I’m seeing this video. Women are very Intimidated by me. I am Alpha and very sophisticating. To women I am Sexy but I also look very intimidating, which some say is even sexier. I love women!
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Love the new background
We love you but my old Dad would say to me “ you are touched “ lol
I really like your sweater top. And that’s not my thigh 😮. I could listen to you all day 😁
What about the step up when you are talking to a girl? I'm an older fella and this younger girl would step up closer to when I'd see her. My problem is when people step closer to me I step back because my personal space is being invested. Just before my moms went home to Creator she told me that a doctor told her I'm autistic. I still have to look into that.
Love that, thanks
Just never go to a woman and say something like this. Wow your really pretty I have noticed through the binoculars a week ago. Not a good way to make a 1st impression.
I would never ever make the first move. If she does not, than their are many fishes in the pond.
I think this is really good! But the delivery seemed a little rushed to me, A bit more relaxed delivery might help!
Thanks for the advice I think this girl is so beautiful 😍 love this girl 😘😘😘😘
My mother taught me to be forthright.
How about just say what you want ?
Am in that situation right now there's this lady she's always around me even when we're walking she use to touch me but I use to have this feeling maybe if I try to touch her back she'll reject me or she'll get upset that's why I don't use to touch her
Not unless two of u are close, dont dare. Speaking up your mind would be easier to a void drama . Women are insane sometimes 😂
I noticed that you dont comment much. But your the first person i would try your tips and tricks on how to touch or talk to a woman...lol. Your smart , beautiful, and that accent is literally melting me!! lol sorry....😋
Thank you for the super feedback! I try to come back each day onto the latest videos and comment on them. So, if you're in the first 24 hours of a video it's likely to get a reply 😊. With all these older videos it's hard to keep up with them all! But you were top of the feed when I just logged on, handy eh 😁
I know what women think I just stopped caring for the price I pay for the pretense that I know what they think.
If you want to learn about woman, you can try put the sound off and watch this. Just try. Then somewhere put it on again. Listen. Look. It will teach you all.
Anna I'm your brand new fan...from India💐
Touch me,you make my skin crawl
Signs she wants you to touch her...
She will touch you. There I saved you from watching this video.
Thank you. Got slapped. 🤣🤣
Good advice
Just be straight up and straight forward . Don’t be expecting us to read your mind. Simple as that.
Here’s a novel idea, how about they just tell us what they want instead of making us play guessing games
Wow. It sucks making a woman feels invisible that you really are interested in, but sometimes they should make it a bit obvious because men deal with so consensual stuff and end up facing a judge. If she wants to be the special one, then make hints easier.
I guess that answers that...
Where was all this information about 50 years ago when I first started dating?
Just checking in
😁 thank you so so much
Hey good stuff you got here. But I got a rule from experience if I have a lady that steers
Could someone explain this to my wife. I get more attention from wallpaper
So it's all up to the woman... ok, I guess that's why I purchased houses for a couple women I don't like anymore.
Women definitely confuse me Anna.
Sounds like good advice. Drive carefully 😂
Awesomeness
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That's dangerous for a woman to invite a guy she hasn't really dated over her house?? Many men take this as a home run sign!
You never know the rules of the game. That’s what an old man told me a long time ago.
Well I’ll take a pass on this advice you’ve given , most women scare me because the minute she decides she no longer likes you anymore she might just get me put behind bars so no thank you .
How the hell do you go about it if all things said here occur, but you and her are both married, with kids? Life sure is a hell of a character testing ground.
I remember a time when a very pretty girl came over to talk to me when I was about 19 years old I have blond hair blue eyes very good-looking I didn't,t quite know how to take her but I said hello a few minutes went bye and the next thing I knew I was attacked by a man much bigger than me ..muscular.her boyfriend .I was Lachey to get away I said to him she started talking to me first. bur no use a week or so later I saw them at a bar ..I kept my distance but she kept staring at me the whole night so I left the bar .and never saw them again in 58 years old now and never saw them again the rest of my life.they must. have moved far away....
Women are very obvious. But you need to learn how women think and behave when attracted. 👏
I bumped into an old crush.
Now I have an injunction and not allowed to be within 500yards of where she lives, works or the route she takes between them.
Power
the real problem is that 90% of women are chasing the same 10% of the guys, and vice versa...all this sign stuff is for 13-16 year olds
When I first meet a woman I am quick to ask if I can drive her home or if we are in a semi private spot just steal a kiss. I will never be a mind reader or able to interpret all these subtle clues so I just get right to the point. The worse thing that has ever happened is she says "Slow down lover boy" She knows I am game if she wants to go forward after she gets to know me she will be obvious.
@Joyanima
I am a moron, when it comes to picking up on women who are interested in me. I don’t know what is wrong with me, but I never pick up on any of it until it’s too late. They must think I’m brain dead. But I just Never really experienced that when I was younger. I was never afraid to go up to somebody and just start talking to them. I guess I would pick up on if somebody put their hand on my knee, and grabbed my hand or something… but I just never really put my mind to it. Never thought about it that much.
Now that I’m a little bit older, I have had instances where women were interested… One, when I was doing a show, and she wanted to come back stage and kiss me. I truthfully thought she was kidding at the time, just because we were in the middle of a set. But then I realized that no, she was interested, and by the time my brain put two and two together, she was moving out of state and off with some other guy. It sucks, because that girl was definitely a keeper. That kind of hippie/cool chick. Who will kick your ass at Halo or on the volleyball court at the beach and then after she beat you… She jumps on top of you and attacks you. Really down to earth and cognizant of her heart and emotions. A tough thing to find and the guy that got her is the luckiest man in the world. Because those kind of girls don’t come around every day.
But again, because of my inability to pick up on these little things… I’ve had quite a few pass me by. To the point, that I’m starting to think I’m mentally challenged. Again, it was something that I never really dealt with in my younger life… Because generally, I was the one doing the getting. So it’s tough for me, especially in this day and age … Where a lot of women that I have come across seem to purposely go out of their way to make a man chase them around. I had one go as far as agree to go out to dinner and then last second say she forgot her phone at work and couldn’t get in touch. Then, asked me a week later why I haven’t called her and rescheduled. You can tell that she’s just playing games to see if a guy wants to chase her around enough in order to be with her. I’m not into that.
Sorry, but if you’re interested… You should probably keep dates and ask me questions about the person you’re interested in… Instead of me doing all of the talking and asking the questions. Which, conversation is another thing that seems to have slipped by the wayside due to everybody texting and tweeting , and used to X amount of characters… To the point where trying to hold a conversation with them for more than five minutes is like pulling teeth. Especially face-to-face.
It has me to the point where I truly don’t even understand how people get together and date anymore. Because it seems like it’s some sort of social no, no, to go up to somebody and buy them a drink and try to get to know them. You have to worry about everybody, thinking that, at any moment, they could take anything you say, as some sort of sexually laced innuendo that is going to bite you in the ass. Seemingly everybody being on edge for no reason. Which is not me. I am laid-back, happy go lucky and dig a woman who can have a conversation about anything. Who isn’t afraid to ask questions of me and isn’t afraid to take charge and tell me where we’re going for the night or where she might want to eat.
Is it just me? I would really love to know how other guys are faring. Because I feel like I am in some sort of alien world, trying to learn the art of social interaction, and the correct way to approach and talk to somebody who I might be interested in. Something I never had issues with in the past. As I’ve been an entertainer, all of my life. So talking to people is part of my repertoire. So I don’t know,. Somebody educate me on modern dating rituals. Because I truly feel, since my last relationship last in 15 years before, all hell broke loose. Think Amber Heard without the physical abuse. that was my ex. So I’ve been out of it for a bit and feel like the entire dating world around me has completely changed and I have no clue where to start.
Thank you in advance.
Nick Cross, unfortunately that's the way it is and how it will continue to be. You really need to stop doubting your worth, as that is the one vibe that women pick up on straight away. You really need to get a book on body language and study it deeply. You say you like a woman that will take charge, well when you meet a woman like that you are setting yourself up for a fall. Once a woman like that smells or senses weakness in a man she will treat you like crap. Women want a man to be a man and to make the decisions for her. Sorry if this sounds harsh but it's true.
@@George-hs2zmhahaha! Nope, nope and nope. Just…wow 🤦♀️
A man has the right to say HELLO AND GOODBYE in a conversation. Everything in between has become a real problem area for males.
Very nice in theory but I've found that all these signals don't mean that she is into you
Rejection the big bird in the room😘
Its ok for a man to get rejected, but god forbid the woman ever feel rejected.
Damn first 😳
The next thing you hear is to cops knocking on the door to lock your ass up. Be careful guys
Hey Joy, she is into my personal space every now and then, she touches my feet with hers while into my personal spece, every time she pass me there is a slight rub or touch on my sholder or hand. We both have the phone number ; but no chat or not even a good morning wish. What should i understand from this?
I have just had a similar experience.
A woman I met the previous eveningn in hotel joined me(uninvited) for breakfast but did not speak and would not make eye contact. Met her again the other day by chance and although she came and sat next to me she did not speak. Ladies, let us guys know how you feel and stop the mind games. We too have feelings.
She wants you to initiate as she doesn't want to appear brazen. Ask her out for a coffe and a chat. If she does don't pour the emotion on, be cool.
Start a conversation with her and find out
@@lynnmackenzie9501 A common response these days to asking her to have coffee is, "I Hate Coffee!"
Not that we don't miss it, but if a man takes a chance and she is NOT interested, we risk alot, our jobs, reputations, and yes we could even have criminal charges slapped against us
Misread any of those signs and you get arrested.
Women who play too many games push me away, is that what their like in a relationship
She is bumping into one another
Women are like rubix cubes, No matter what a man does, They're somehow always at fault.
Who is we?? you mention yourself as a couple or buisiness ?!, I'm English in Britain