I started smoking weed years ago as a teenage, switched to cigarettes. Spent my whole life fighting Cigarettes addiction. I suffered severe depression and mental disorder. Got diagnosed with cptsd. Not until my wife recommended me to psilocybin mushrooms treatment. Psilocybin treatment saved my life honestly. 8 years totally clean. Never thought I would be saying this about mushrooms.
I love hearing great life changing stories like this. I want to become a mycologist because honestly mushrooms are the best form of medicine (most especially the psychedelic ones) There are so many people today used magic mushrooms to ween off of SSRI medication- its amazing! Years back i wrote an entire essay about psychedelics. they saved you from death buddy, lets be honest here.
Hey mates! Can you help with the source? I suffer severe anxiety, panic and depression and I usually take prescription medicine, but they don't always help. Where can I find those psilocybin mushrooms? I'm really interested in treating my mental health without Rxs. I live in Australia don't know much about these. I'm so glad they helped you. I can't wait to get them too. Really need a reliable source 🙏
YES sure of mycologist Pedroshrooms. Mushrooms literally got me off my feet and turned my whole life around. I am currently a housing manager for a recovery program. I wouldn't have been able to do that shit without psilocybin.
Thanks for sharing your story. That's rough I sympathize. Save your health save your mind. Life is better without heroin, cocaine, alcohol and cigarettes. And you have more money in your pocket. God bless everyone who has rejected the devils intentions to be addicted to alcohol and cigarettes etc which can cause so much damage to health. I will pray for you all.
Wow bro I completely relate to this, Im 9 years deep into smoking my life away I think Is time I finally give it up. It sucks because I remember I started smoking during a very low point in my life where i felt like it was helping me.. now i just feel the opposite in many aspects
1 Year sober, best decision i ever made. My life improved drastically, after 13 years of smoking. Kind of insane, life is actually enjoyable now. Don't give up hope!
I quit smoking two months ago when I realised my high state cost me a promotion at work. In a nutshell I failed strong eye contact during an interview even though my last joint was a week before. Constant smoking had fucked me up to where I was socially awkward and I couldn't even control it which was terrifying to realise. Constant blinking shuffling avoiding gazes, I knew the interviewer could see right through me and I was never going to get it and I didn't. Enough is enough. 2 months without weed my head is clearer my dreams are back and while I grieve the last couple years I spent in the dark cell of THC, I am grateful that I've stuck my head out the tunnel and taking control of my life again! Weed came into my life during grief and the irony is it was threatening to cause me even more down the line if I didn't have the reality check at work! My speech is getting better too. Less and less mumbling and jumbling up my words looking like an idiot and freezing mid sentence. Can't put a price on that! Never Again!
Exactly the same thing happened to me! I had a job interview, I convinced myself that the weed didn’t affect how I acted in the interview, honestly I think they saw right through me, even tho I didn’t do anything obvious, my answers were weak, my speech wasn’t as good as it used to be, and my ability to connect and finesse my way into the job was just not there. I wasn’t high that day, but in hindsight, my performance was entirely affected by the weed.
@@sarahmason8911 It's a painful reality check but one that was needed regardless for both of us. In the end I suppose it depends on what a person really wants out of life. For me professionally I couldn't get on in any serious capacity if I kept smoking and stayed high. As much as I miss the hits, the bubble, the pain numbing everything feels and looks so much better space that weed brought me. The hindsight regret of knowing what it would end up costing me was not worth thinking about. It's amazing how weed slowly takes over ones life if they are not careful. First is a hit in a blue moon socially then u learn how to roll then u want to hold ur own then u constantly checking ur phone wondering why the weed guy hasn't shown up yet then the solitude, being introverted and days turn to weeks weeks turn to months. U don't even recognise yourself anymore when u look in the mirror. I want more for myself so never again. Plus the withdrawals are brutal so won't put myself through that again 😂
God I want this. I keep doing what I don't want to do because it feels good. Good for you man! I even quit for 4 years in my 30s and went back to it the last 5 years
I’m 5 days off cannabis after smoking everyday for the last 4 years. I lied to myself forever that I need it and it makes me feel better… It’s been a little rough with withdrawal but I’m a man on a mission and will get this thc out of my system for good. Thank you for sharing your story.
It takes a long time to clear your lungs , our throats and bronchial tubes look like that dirty pipe we clean with 91 %0 rubbing alcohol to clean all that residue I'm still coughing up black tar .
Mannn i ate some mushrooms last year and never smoked WEED again. I’ve been more motivated, threw out a lot of harder substances, changed my life for good. In the most positive way possible.
Since I tired psychedelics for the first time, I’ve been trying to describe the experience to others so there can try it as well, but i couldn’t find the right words to describe it.
@@SuperBabyMario0Cweed is what causes a lot of people to not be disciplined. I already know you smoke weed all the time and you are still productive but the truth is you’re either in the minority or you are not as productive as you think you are being.
Nah I was productive I got a lot done over the past 5 years. In retrospect to the 5 years before but I don’t think weed change those aspects of life. My schedule was packed and because of those years my life rn is in a better place in a lot of aspects such as income, education, life lessons, fitness and just more discipline overall, I’ve experienced loss. So someone using weed as an excuse especially for things like being late for work something so easy like really? But I think if you’re already lacking in that weed will amplify it. Those are things that an adult like this guy should’ve been worked on since teenage years and my life wasn’t a walk in park, there was no room for a lot of set backs. Only thing is I’ve wasted money smoking lol. But I guess it doesn’t matter since now I’m a in a better spot. I wanna see my family be good too my parents to stop working and that won’t happen if I show up late to a job. I think if that’s a problem you should be overlooking other aspects in your lift don’t blame weed and if you can’t handle it then don’t do it. I started smoking because I stopped drinking it didn’t fit in my schedule to be lit, I could still skate, exercise, study, drive and many others things high much better than alcohol, and it’s healthier alcohol is so bad for you, try running a marathon drunk Vs high or skating the balance isn’t there. We’re all different but don’t say I’m not productive. If you cant do basic things to inprove your life then I suggest anyone stop doing any substances and work on them but small things like caring if you family knows you’re high or being late to job is ridiculous. But we all start at different points and some roller skate thru life, others have to walk thru it and I put myself in that.
@@SuperBabyMario0C you can feel however you want about smoking weed and it’s relationship to discipline, but the truth is that obviously this man didn’t have the same experience. Like someone else mentioned, smoking weed probably affected his discipline. There’s more to gain by accepting someone’s truth as they tell it rather than projecting yours. If you think he lacked discipline in his life because it improved when he stopped smoking, maybe that’s relative to your truth. But if he said he lacked discipline BECAUSE of all the weed he smoked, then that’s what it is, for him.
Smoked my entire adult life, now at 39 years old finally gone 6 months without weed or nicotine. So worth it! Basically the interactions i have with others has improved so much. My self confidence has improved. Ive always worked out, but my physical well being has improved, mental clarity has improved. If you’re just starting to get clean or are thinking about getting quiting the devils lettuce, i encourage you to do it. It sounds silly but do you love yourself? Do you want to see how good things could be? Treat yourself right, only one life, dont live it holding yourself back because you like smoking. Be better, be who youre supposed to be!
@@hawgslam4 You are welcome but i just shared what i am going through and to be honest im feeling much better, expect my sleep is still all over the place. I hope you are doing better.
I quit weed 2 years ago for around 9 months to get back in shape and get my first big boy job out of college. Once I got the job, got more money, amazing shape, I thought I could relax and smoke again. Here I am 2 years later, out of shape, not doing my best in my job, etc. Quitting for good, can’t afford to he handicapped like this
what a common and sneaky trap !! beware of the addictive voice, when you say "I thought I could relax and smoke again" you are not separating your real "you" from your addictive voice. That one was not your thought, that was your addictive voice! , the lizard brain. Next time, you can recognize it as a not-you, and dismiss it, choosing your best judgment instead of listening to the lies of your addictive voice. Thanks for you honesty
Sounds like a mindset issue, you messed up that balance. Try actually doing things and just smoking less and maybe differently. You smoked blunts or joints? Switch to a bong.
I went to jail for weed-related charges when I was 19 and was there for several months. I’ve been serious about quitting ever since, but ultimately unsuccessful at staying off it. I actively struggled for over a decade without breaking free- but I never gave up on sobriety. Now I’ve finally hit a turning point and have been off weed for nearly a year. Life has consistently gotten better for me in many of the ways you described. God speed brother!
One of my professor on the first day of lecture said "Bad habits are your masters and good habits are your slaves". 10 days ago I decided to quit this after being an everyday regular for past 12 years. Have gone through the rough phase of insomnia, shakes, chills and what not after it. This made me realize how much of a servant I was to it. Watching this video made me more motivated to quit. I just hope I do not relapse. Thank You!!
5 months sober and it’s the best thing I ever did to fix my life. Yall can’t imagine how your life will change for the better once you put drugs aside. Before I used to think my life was hard. Nah bro, I was making my life hard and miserable. Now I’m happier than ever and I don’t need no substance to change my mood and fix my way of thinking. The only think you have to accept is that you are AN ADDICT. AND THATS WHY YOU FEEL THAT WITHOUT WEED YOU JUST WONT BE ABLE TO BE HAPPY. ITS NOT TRUE. LIFE STARTS ON THE OTHER SIDE OF ADDICTION.
@@Funtruck One of the thoughts I had exactly, My family deserves the best version of me. I really cheated myself out of opportunities, business, relationships and more importantly memories. Locked in now, We got this !
Thank you ❤ I’m on day 5 sober and I can already feel my eyes opening up to the amount of opportunities that can come from sobriety, I want this so bad.
I’m gonna add to this, this video is great! I really hope everyone trying to get sober from weed gets to see this, cause this hits every single topic related to weed. Everything is so so accurate. THANKS.
Lmao I didn’t finish the video first 2-3 reasons seems tbh like his problem that he later blamed weed for lmao. Like sitting all day being late for work. Really bro? No working out? Sounds like it’s not weed lol. The brain thing idk I can’t relate either. Only thing was that instant gratification he said. Then being scare family knew you were high or aniexy another thing he blamed weed on Vs owning it himself tbh
@@LONGFORMGAMEScongratulations but weed shouldn’t have been the reason not to do those things. I smoke everyday day n I’m very productive and active but good luck to u
I quit smoking after doing it multiple times everyday for years. And I finally found myself again, the part of me I didn’t realize I had left behind but truly needed. I’ve changed in so many ways for the better. My advice to anyone who smokes like this and tells themself that it’s what they need, you have no idea what you’re missing.
I am so glad people are finally starting to talk about weed this way...i am so tired of hearing all the rhetoric around how amazing it is...and yes, I do feel it has some good things about it but wow, it is being overused and people are self-medicating an alarming rate...with weed that is stronger than ever. I support your path to healing. It is not easy.
it is great in the short-term, the problem is that it's habit forming, and the longterm effects are more bad than good...I stopped after 20 yrs and feel good finally.
So true, thanks for sharing, I've been smoking weed for 45 years now. Cranky without it, short term memory loss, lazy, bad diet, etc.. Trying to quit, extremely challenging.
@user-uf2lp5nl8d No it is not, that is the weed talking.... there are little to no MAJOR withdrawal symptoms from cannabis alone. Try not smoking for one day, to get your momentum going, then do it again, and before you know it you will feel a million times better.
I’ve been a weed smoker for about 20yrs. Only time I was sober for the yr I was on probation. During that time my art, music and spirituality exploded. But right after my yr was up I went right back. Now a few yrs later I’m ready to quit on my own. I have slowed down but haven’t completely stopped yet. This video helped me realize more it’s worth it
Been smoking non stop from 14 to 34 I’ve noticed it’s holding me back I got ideas but no poa it’s crazy that when I smoke and get high I notice that’s it’s no good for me but when I’m sober and I forget how bad it is then soon as I smoke I’m like shit this is bad for me I stopped for a couple weeks then my mind tricked me by saying just have a smoke to remind you how bad it is for you then bang strait back on it again
Yeah, that's typical addiction, doesn't matter that much which drug. The brain will heal, mental health gets better, everything gets better. I have 4 and a half years off drugs.
Exactly, cannabis really wasn't the issue to the extent he is claiming. His lifestyle, food habits,poor habits, friends, and environment were at a bigger play. We often times blame and externalize things to be The problem for our deficiencies in life when in reality it's ourselves that is the issue. Cannabis was just the bandaid to mask to problems he wasn't dealing with.
thank you so much for this video! I am a 36 yr old male that has been high and stoned for 23 years straight everyday multiple times non stop! today it is 12/10/23 and it is my second day weed-free! its the most heaviest thing I've ever had to overcome but I seriously believe the universe popped your vid on my RUclips home page for the motivation and understanding about bettering ourselves for ourselves so we can better situations and relationships with friends and family! your the man Doug! I appreciate you a lot and I'm very very proud of you! Aloha from Maui!
Stay strong, it's worth it. My ex partner smoked for 25 years, every day, multiple times a day. He destroyed everything good in his life, including our relationship
Part of the mechanism for why weed amplifies anxiety is because weed dehydrates you. When you smoke, you're essentially introducing "contaminants" (THC, etc.) into the blood through the lungs, and in order for your body to clean everything up (aka become sober), it requires resources (water, minerals, vitamins, etc.). One of the most important minerals that you lose during this process is MAGNESIUM. Without sufficient magnesium, your sense of "calm" gets eroded and anxiety can easily skyrocket given the right environment and triggers. It also ties in with irritability and other mood disorders, but primarily, your thoughts will be scattered, you'll be less focused, more paranoid, and more fearful. Obviously this depends on your personal health status, hence why some people have absolutely no issue with anxiety or paranoia when smoking (at least not yet). This is also why long-term smokers have such higher likeliness for mental health issues. Each time you smoke, you're not only altering your brain and the way you think, but your body has to use vital nutrients to recover (note that this happens with ANY drug), and because you're high, your diet isn't the greatest anyway, so it's just a matter of time before you become chronically deficient in one thing or another, which will lead to various mood disorders and mental health issues, not to mention potential physical health issues. How do I know all of this? I spent years studying nutrition and biochemistry (especially magnesium), as well as weed, after going through severe anxiety and insomnia which I was able to completely reverse naturally (no big pharma) with proper supplementation, diet, and lifestyle. I have no doubt that my regular weed use (1-6 times a week) was a major contributing factor, because once again, it DEPLETES minerals, especially MAGNESIUM
I started using weed because I developed bipolar disorder after my daughter was born. I had horrible anxiety and depression. The docs put me on meds but those take a while to work. They gave me Ativan because the anxiety was so bad. But after a while they didn’t want to give me anymore. As a last resort I started using cannabis and it immediately took all the mental pain away and made me feel good again. I used to vape flower a couple times a day but am down to micro dosing. Thanks for the info.I am going to incorporate that into my trying to quit
@@ma5takilla1The primary thing for me was simple magnesium supplementation. The products I used were MagSRT + Magnesium Breakthrough, two of the best on the market. Dosage is roughly a total of 1000mg day between both supplements. Then I add magnesium-rich foods, magnesium lotion absorbed transdermally, and trace mineral drops. I would advise anyone suffering mag deficiency symptoms look up Dr. Carolyn Dean on RUclips. She's an expert on magnesium and she has many case studies. Would recommend her book as well, it's been an incredible resource for me. The rest of my supplement stack is taken in part from Morley Robbin's Root Cause Protocol. I also take cod liver oil, beef liver pills (or multi-organs), bee pollen, ashwagandha and collagen. It's worth noting I'm a bodybuilder so some of the above may not apply to you. Lifestyle changes including grounding/earthing as much as possible, EMF blocking canopy during sleep, maximizing sleep hygiene, as much exposure to natural sunlight as possible, maintaining a regular eating schedule (same times every day), and a ton of cognitive behavioral therapy for coping with the psychological aspect of anxiety. Took me quite a few months to recover, but consistency and perseverance was key, and it worked. I eventually got back to what I'd consider "normal". Mind you, this is the SLOW, HARD, but LONG LASTING NATURAL METHOD that involves a lot of struggle, but it's far better than needing anti-anxiety meds for the rest of your life...at least for me. Everyone is different though.
@@poonlagoon9570 Any drug will ultimately lower the status of all minerals, as your body will always be aiming for balance via homeostasis, so it will dump what it doesn't need through your urine. Your body taps its bones and tissue for reserves, but when that depletes, you will start having noticeable issues.
I quit smoking weed almost 3 years ago after smoking it for almost 30 years everyday. 24 days ago I quit drinking alcohol. I feel so much better already. Doing fitness 4/5 times a week. Only smoking tobacco is left. That's gonna be my next move. I'm 51 now so about time.
Wishing you the best of luck with it. I'm roughly the same age as you. Got clean 25 years ago. Many of my friends who continued to use are no longer here.
Thank you. I understand literally everything you’re saying. I’m 30 years old, I was smoking weed daily since 17 years old. I’m 52 days clean, never felt better. No desire to smoke, no judgment on stoners I was one, but I definitely was smoking for all the wrong reasons and I missed out on a lot of opportunities in my twenties.
I’ve had a love affair with weed for many years just like you brother, I feel so good that I don’t do it any more, my new hobby is going to the gym and staying fit, to anyone reading this you can do this, just put your mind heart and soul into it! ☮️❤️🙏🏼
I do both, and it's a great balance. Once I realized the real issue was within myself and my mind I flourished. I still smoke everyday, do all the healthy things like eating right and going to the gym. Run a successful business worth 6 figures and am the healthiest I have been and I'm only 29. My doctors tell me I am doing great, and thats multiple doctors as well. Weed isn't for everyone, it probably wasn't something you should have stuck with in the first place. Glad you found your path.
4 months clean of everything, I lost my job, lost my mind, got arrested twice, ruined my life because of weed and drugs. Dealing with the consequences now with increased optimism. The only way to swing now is up.
Weed can be a lifesaver, but it is wise to listen to our body when it tells us that we don't need it anymore. Good things can also become bad things. Thanks for the video
Yup! And it always starts off all wonderful and new, a great enhancement, but after hitting that button over and over, it slowly and sneakily becomes a ball and chain.
I just recently quit weed and cigarettes. I also started exercising and eating healthier. It's been two weeks and I already feel better. 25 years of smoking nearly everyday has made me live a mediocre life and I am just so over it. Thanks for the video.
People also don’t realize that even if you only use once/day, there’s a big chance it is impacting you during the “other 20 hours” where you’re sober, in all the ways you detail in this video. Although I’ve noticed that is more of an issue with some people than with others.
It affects everyone differently. For some people it may be working to ease their pain or stress but for others (myself included) it does some other things besides that which I don’t want in my life
In my opinion the problem with all substances is when it becomes a habit, or a method of finding comfort when things are difficult. I smoked weed many times a day for a dozen years. I do believe it helped me through a transitional period in my life. When I didn't need it anymore, I stopped smoking daily. I still smoke on occasion and I enjoy it, but it is no longer an escape for me. Self-awareness is the key.
Been sober for 13 months. I miss it every day. I was a functioning stoner, able to maintain a 9-5 and even getting a promotion for my hard work. I would only smoke during the evening. Since my depression has came back, and my performance at work is just the same as it was before but I no longer have anything to look forward too. I still go to the gym and do all the same things I have before. I’ve struggle with sleep and lack creativity. It feels like I’m dead inside and it’s hard to justify the benefits of stopping. My family hates it so my relationship with them has improved. I am between a rock and a hard place with marijuana, as I never actually had any problems with it in the first place, and It helped me crawl out of a dark place. I fear I am slowly returning
I think if you were on the outside looking in that you would see the negative effects. I would ask your family and those that supported you quitting what they say you acted like on it and how it made them feel. Maybe change what your doing too. Read new books, gain insight on other parts of your brain and behavior and how to improve, maybe get out in nature more or develop a new skill. Volunteer in the community. There is a lot you can do with your life aside from still being good at your job. The journey doesn’t stop at your job.
that is you addictive voice lying to you, telling you that life will be better using weed. It is not you, and it is not your friend. if you've got issues, they need to be addressed, but weed won't address them
I started smoking pot when I was in my teens in the 70s and stopped when I turned 20 but now that I'm in my 60s I've started up again because of a few health reasons but for the most part I don't actually smoke, I vape at low temps and I eat edibles and it's helping a lot where the drugs they put me on just masked the symptoms and barely did that and came with a bunch of side effects. The one thing that I have to say is weed from the 70s was weak compared to what's out there today but I opt for lower THC flower or just take less of it then I would have back in the day. Because of it I've been able to cut back on prescription and over the counter drugs and I even stopped drinking alcohol which was never a real problem but when you get older you start being affected differently than when you're younger. Chronic anything isn't good for you! Good video!
After 11 years (started at 13). I can see the good opportunities I gave up, Just so I could smoke and chill… also kept me from learning how to process stress/trauma and regulate my emotions in those times. Basically numbs you from important moments in life.
I've gone a full 24 hours...it feels different lol been smoking (basically) everyday for the past 14 years. The thing that made me want to quit is the social interactions, it made me not want to interact with people because I was content in my own head....fast forward a decade and it impacted me in a way that I didn't see it, I became a bit of a lone wolf at work, at my BJJ gym. And I started getting anxiety whenever I wanted to go talk to girl..I like weee but the problem for me is I can't just smoke once a month. If I hit the bong once I got to hit more..
I guess the longer you smoked daily(more years), the more harder it gets to have control over your weed addiction is it? I smoked for 3 years regularly and it started affecting me really bad into my last few months and I stopped smoking daily. Took a 2 months gap and then now I have much control over it. I started smoking in my 20s not like 16-17 I guess that plays a role too
this made me cry in two different parts. this is great i really appreciate you sharing your experience with the world . the amount of depth, honesty, and emotional vulnerability really made it hit home for me.
Thanks, Doug! As a Certified Peer Support Specialist who works alongside Recovery Coaches, your 5 Gifts video is an excellent positive and empowering message about not just the benefits of cannabis cessation, but the joys and tremendous consequences of recovery in general. Thanks for sharing your clarity!😀
I quit smoking marijuana about 4 months ago and I’ll never go back to using it again. I used it for years. When I smoked it I never had any dreams and my sleep was never consistent. Now that I quit I have dreams every single night. I feel much better and think a lot more clearly.
yes cannabis affects your REM sleep, thats why its importnant not to smoke everyday. i only smoke on the weekends anf have dreams every night, helps me recover i feel (i train very hard in the gym so body gets pretty banged up).
One of the best and possibly most vital life changing video I've watched. All three of my kids are addicted to cannabis and its destroyed us. Thank you so much for your hard work and for sharing.
Having heard you completely out, and really can relate to you. I still smoke though. Having stated that, I ride with your reasoning. I also will mention how it does me different, especially in moderation. Now if someone does it with high frequency, it affects more than just the brain. I smoke to actually reduce my anxiety. I am also very active, so it cuts down opportunities to just sit around and smoke endlessly. Your take is valid to me because everything isn't for everyone, and perhaps someone who is abusing it can recognize their inner idiosyncrasies. Continue to be an ambassador. This is very helpful to many people. Kudos!
I just flushed two ounces .. this video is EXACTLY how I feel while smoking … it’s completely messing me up mentally … I’m a recovering crystal meth addict , 5 years and counting clean. That was the hardest thing I’ve ever done and I feel like giving up weed is going to be even harder and it’s giving me a terrible migraine .. ears ringing.. cold sweats … so as of right now I’m just fucking done with smoking … thanks for the video man I needed this
I 100% found myself here. Im on 2 weeks without weed and cigarettes, my eyes look better no fatigue, sleeping well,, wake up early after 7 hours of sleep totally fresh! Dont give up, guys! Just show how strong can you be. Enjoy rest of the life in the right way.
I always liked weed but when I was raped, it was all I could think about. I couldn’t visualize myself going one day without smoking because I couldn’t take the pain of what happened to me. I’m 8 days sober and even if it’s hard, I’ll keep holding on. Thank you for making this video and giving me hope 🤍
I'm on a similar journey. I'm about 3 months sober. Looking forward to more positive changes. So far, it feels like calmer mind, and ability to live more intentionally moment to moment.
I’m a couple weeks clean from weed and a month clean from nicotine. Right now i constantly am being tested and in bad moods without. Glad to know that it gets better, I can’t wait to start feeling better. God bless all y’all ❤️💪🏻🙏🏻
Initially I stopped bc I was looking for a job…it’s now day 12 and I feel amazing… I can’t believe it but I’m good on that Mary Jane…even after the drug test…I’m good! I feel high off life and realized how much more I get done now, I think clearer and I’ve even lost weight …y’all know them munchies are crazy 😅 Good luck to all ✨
For the last 25 years I did not understand what boredom was until I quit smoking for 5 months. There maybe benefits for most people bit quitting for me was torture. How anyone can do this world sober is beyond me.
Feeling "bored" is a problem little kids face, not adults. You have nothing inside. That's why you look outside yourself for things to do when you are not intoxicated.
There are so many things to do in this life. Boredom is a state of your mind, not the outside world. Read a book, find a hobby, exercise, the list is endless
Been sober since October 2022 , my main reason was to get my cdl , I gained financially , my mental got sharper , I work out more , I feel like I’m taken more serious in life , more responsible , higher self esteem and confident , I don’t think I’ll go back it’s to much to lose now
@@TazzRisingUp Still Weed free , but I was going thru a rough couple months like 3 months ago , almost gave up on the cdl life couldn’t find local jobs , I smoked half a joint , literally like 4 small puffs with a friend that doesn’t have a cdl so it doesnt effect him as if does me , and I regretted it instantly , it just felt like I was throwing my life away especially not having a job / career and I’m smoking about to get lazy and settle for less I felt like , and i had that paranoid high because I was thinking of how bad I am messing up in hard on myself because I want to reach my full potential , th I get a job call the next day after I smoked and I had to pass it up bcus I took those 4 puffs and my system was dirty so that was like a sign telling me don’t smoke again , so I took that as a sign it’s not meant for me to smoke in my life right now and continue to be patient , so I started to exercise a bit at home to burn off the sweat and get that Thc out , and it’s been another 3 months now weed free again since those 4 puffs that I didn’t even enjoy like I used to , and I found a local cdl job now for the past 2 months been working local as I always wanted ,so I had one relapse since I quit in 2022 October , and now I’m sober again 3 months after that and I’m continue again as I did the first time
I don’t know if it’s just me or not but! When I quit drinking and smoking weed I started to see people’s true colors around me 💪🏽🙏🏾💯🙌🏾 my happiness and peace is something I never felt before ! Jesus Christ took it away from me💯🙏🏾 I feel younger in my 30s more than 20s!
All the things you said giving up helped you with I already do. I do 150mile hikes over 4 days regularly. Workout twice a day 5 days a week and am extremely motivated. But I still want to quit weed as I can only imagine how motivated I'd be without smoking. Just hard as the majority of things people complain about don't seem to happen to me. I've smoked consistently everyday for over 10 years. When ever I watch these videos my hope dies when they mention things entirely different to how I feel.
I don't think marijuana was intended to be used 24/7, in the same way alcohol shouldn't be used 24/7. If you drink alcohol every day, especially in larger doses, if you have a sudden withdrawal, you will shake with seizures while seeing pink elephants. Weed is a mild hallucinogen, and should be used with respect like with any other hallucinogen, with the proper set and setting. In the 60s a term for smoking weed was 'getting high'. Then when stronger Columbian pot was used in the 70s, it changed to 'getting stoned'. Then when modern Indica sinsemilla came along, it was 'getting faded' But now that its legal, its lost the underground cult atmosphere of rebellion and secrecy, with the clique of friends that banded together to share their special interest and ways of obtaining. Now that you can buy it at a store, its become conventional and boring, certainly not something to inoculate yourself with like a masochist.
The tricky part of weed is that you can get away with using it every day for a while before you even realize how much it is hindering you. It’s sneakier than alcohol or other addictive drugs in that way. I truly wish I could enjoy it once a month or so, but it’s just too slippery of a slope, and I’ve had to learn that dozens of times over a dozen years.
I’ve been holding myself back with marijuana for the last four years, and what I’m realizing now that I’m a few days in recovery is that once it’s all out of my system, it would only be self-destructive to partake even occasionally. I keep thinking about how I’d feel AFTER I high and sobered up again, and I truly don’t think that I would feel good. Being totally sober is such a powerful thing, and I’m excited to get THC out of my system for good
What you shared about taking responsibility for having chosen to deal with emotions the way you did back then with drugs and stopping blaming your parents really hit. Thanks for posting this video.
And also to be forgiving and understanding of others Seeing the cast differences in my own life. … the pre trauma me … would be blaming and insulting my choices … the me now after trauma… has so much compassion… as I have lived different versions of life .. Your tomorrow is somewhat based on your yesterday So be conscientious of today… It doesn’t just go away… Part of it is there to stay… And it will impact you in a good or bad way… I could write novels of the painful experiences and memories After separation many said your free now … and expecting things to go back to old me However .. it was just the start of another decline Processing and facing all of that completely alone might have led me to other decisions Just like they Will induce a coma in a trauma patient to allow the body To process the Shock. … I think that’s what weed and alcohol did for me … Yet I’ve always had a beautiful brain and achieved wonderful things … but I know that not happening now … With everything I worked for, hoped for, and wanted out of life, gone… And looking at the state of the world, an utter decay… I don’t even want to live in my own country cause it’s a mess… If you don’t have a Y, there’s nothing to make you try But I finally found one … I want me back
I started smoking 1 yr ago, during a very difficult transitional period in my life. It helped for a while, but I slowly started to notice all of the drawbacks you mentioned. Your video helped me realize I've been in denial. Thank you.
Weigh the pros and cons to quitting. I quit while hiking the PCT. It takes about four days to get over bouts of anger or whatever. You know it was fun for a while on weed, but then it takes a toll on your circulatory system. I used to drink as well. It was fun for a while, but I just did dumb things on drugs and alcohol. I would get sleepy and not think clearly. So much wasted time!
Day 1 of being sober after smoking for over 10 years straight all day everyday. Im tired of smoking weed & wasting my life. I want better & im gone get better ❤️
I'm on my 6th day after 20 plus years of marijuana. I had the worst day of withdrawals yesterday, severe headaches, nausea and loss of appetite, I felt like i needed to go the hospital. Today is completely different, a little exhausted from the lack of sleep these past days but mentally much better and no headache and nausea. The dreams this past week have been unreal. I got this and you got this. Aloha!
You’re on point with the dreams being unreal… That was the first thing I noticed after the first couple days of stopping… I forgot that I even stopped dreaming all these years
Like anything, ganj should be used in moderation. I haven't had to completely give up, but I have learnt to control the ganja instead of the ganja controlling me. It can be done, you don't have to say goodbye forever.
yeah i've come to understand that i shouldn't smoke weed every day, and don't. Conversely I've also come to understand that i also should never not smoke weed. It does have benefits.
Bro I wish I could do this but I am 23 soon 24 I live alone and weed takes over my lifestyle … ima quit for a few weeks and then come back and just smoke like 1 joint every now and then I’ll have to see how I feel these next few weeks but today my last day
The problem with this is that for addicts, there is no moderation. A lot of people don’t even relapse when they feel bad… it’s when they’ve been feeling good and haven’t smoked in a while and feel they “deserve” a joint because of said accomplishment. Moderation can spiral quickly. I do think telling yourself “I’m only stopping for x weeks” and moving the goalposts is a good psychological trick, but looking forward to moderation or social smoking isn’t always the best option.
@@User59419I totally agree with this!! I feel like telling mycellf I will do it in moderation but knowing I smoke everyday is very hard. Sooo hard to find a middle ground. Smoking multiple times a day to just once a week or something just doesn’t even seem plausible 😭
@@NailahJenkins It didn't seem plausible to me either, trust me :) I'm only 2 weeks, but now rarely even think abt it. That first hump is usually hardest but I promise if you make urself busy it becomes way easier. Then it's just abt avoiding traps and pitfalls, u got this :)
I've gone off weed a few times now and always come back - I think for me it doesn't cause a lot of these 'problems'. I'm more focused, nicer, I can take a day off whenever I feel like it. Mentally more stable. all in balance
6 months has passed from my last joint,marihuana,I smoked it for 31years,no more panic,paranoid behavior,paranoid thinking,fear non stop,fear of normal life,blaming everyone for my mistakes,not lazy anymore,i was defending weed like its a religion,i am more confident i become day-to-day more confident, it's a fight for life.💪 Everything he is talking is true,everything.😉 And finally I can think normally. But brain damage is for life,unfortunately,31years is a long time for smoking 24/7,but now life is better than before,it's real,it's beautiful, if I did that,you can do it too.😉 ✌❤💚💙🍀🙏
Made the choice to change my relationship with cannabis. 7 days since I went cold on smoking it. There’s much better ways to have cannabis in your life instead of smoking it. It’s been a awesome reset after those first 3-4 days cravings. Stay strong guys, you got this too 💪🏾
Weed itself isn't addicting, and it's NOT BAD FOR YOU. People who suffer from self control and struggle with moderation will most likely suffer from addiction or poor self control habits But To each there own, weed helps me more than anything else ever has, not only for pain, but has helped me focus, has helped with panic attacks, my depression, my social anxiety, my really bad ADHD. Just over all mellows me tf out. I have really bad sensitivity issues to sound (kinda like super hearing except I can't control it) the volume gets turned up on certain things at random I can hear sounds others can't and from further distances too. I hate it, causes me to have massive headaches and it makes it hard to focus. But sadly, weed isn't exactly legal where I'm at. It's not something I can afford on a regular basis. But if I could smoke weed every day. I definitely would and probably would have a better and more productive happier life.
Been there. When you quit and can't eat for days, body temperature is all out of wack, can't sleep, and have wild emotion swings‐ you're going to realize how strong a substance it is. Once you get past those first few days/week(s) you're going to feel better than ever. You don't need it. It's a medicine and you're an addict missing out on life stoned all the time. Period.
Been smoking since 2008. Wounded in Iraq its helpped me with my phantom limb pain , dreams, and anxiety. I do believe there is a limit but still better then alcohol any day of the week
Wow, congrats on over 15 years 🙌🏼✨ This gives me so much hope for a loved one! I will search your channel to see if you talk more about how you maintained it… we’re dealing with a lapse after a few years despite other healthy habits…
I quit smoking about 14 years ago. I quite drinking this year for 8 months. I was thinking about starting to smoke again. I grew 6 beautiful plants. Cured them and rolled a big J. I did enjoy it. But i just don't have the energy for it. I really enjoy being clear headed and sleeping well. Waking up feeling great.
How bout just smoke a bowl then. You grew 6 beautiful plants and rolled a big ass J?? How bout just smoking a little nug from the dispensary. You guys have these personal issues and blame it on the weed!!! LOL
I've been trying to quit, haven't done it for 2 weeks already. I want to be able to remember, focus and pay attention to details. I forget stuff very often and I don't want this to affect me in my new job, also because I want to be able to remember things again.
8 days clean this is a spiritual battle because. I really enjoyed smoking weed alot. As the days go its getting easier and I'm proud of myself. It got to a point i was smoking all day and depending on weed.
@@darrenchoveaux8266 I'm on day 16 hang in there boss it gets easier as the days go. I use to smoke a lot lot so if I can do it, you can also mind over matter.
I’ve been a chronic user for 10+ years but have wanted to quit for a long time now. I’m unable to get through the initial withdrawal every time. It keeps me trapped in this shame cycle of trying to quit and feeling like a failure because I can’t, then feeling shame for continuing and repeat. I constantly question what things would be like if I could ever stop? Now no time ever feels like the right time because I can’t control my emotions when withdrawing and take it out on the people I care about. Just stuck in my own high paranoid head all the time.
I was exactly in your shoes until 3 days ago. Just gotta stop being a pussy and man up. YOU control your mind, you literally have to just not hit the bong. How I know that’s what it is, is cause I made all the same excuses as you, heard my friend was 7 days clean and I stopped immediately because I don’t want to fall behind in terms of success. That easy. Man up bro you got this, no pussy shit
I find for myself that it’s much easier for me to quit / take a break if I still have some left.. ie if I still have some on-hand and decide to take a break it’s much easier than if I run out completely, which induces panic of “re-upping” or having it available still. I have decided to give fully quitting a go after some things related to work and also after having had a bad flu. I was already feeling like shit from the flu / fever so I wasn’t in the mood to smoke up and feel even more delirious. If you have friends that have also quit (whether it’s booze or trees or something heavier..) talking to them about your intent to quit may help to garner some support from them. You can do it though dude just take it one day at a time. Get the first day of not having any out of the way, then stick to it for 2, before you know it you’ll have it out of the way and be through the worst of the withdrawal and cravings.
You can do it bro! I believe in you. I've been smoking weed (5-9 joints) every day for the last 12 years. I've been tapering myself off the weed for the last 2 weeks to quit. It has destroyed my life for long enough. I'm now 3 days without it. The first two days was really fucking difficult. I just slept throughout most of the day, but the insomnia was fucking crazy during the night. Then I just preoccupied myself with video games, anime, series and movies to just distract myself as much as possible, it really helped a lot. Also, I'd tell myself:"Okay, just another hour dude, just go another hour without weed." After an hour, I'd just reaffirm that to myself again and say "just another hour". This was extremely helpful for me. Just take it one step at a time. Today I actually felt so much better already, I actually can't remember when last I felt this way. I actually enjoyed mundane and simple things I didn't even notice before. It's as if I was asleep all this time and I'm starting to awake slowly but surely. I can't wait to see how my life changes for the better without this drug. I had mad cravings the first 2 days, but oddly enough today only now at night do I feel a slight agitation, but it's not that bad compared to the previous days. I guess I'm sharing this just to tell you, you're much stronger than you think you are and don't give yourself enough credit. If I can do it, you can too! Believe in yourself, because you matter.
Just use it 4x a month in forest for self love self development self realisation,, i mostly use it for learning new things, and keep tolerance level as much as possible
Couldn’t relate more to ‘losing myself’, though at the time I had no idea, I didn’t care because nothing else mattered but simple gratification and made all other moments dull
Happy for you bro! Smoking(vaping dry herb, not oils) weed seriously saved my life, but to each their own. I can't imagine where I'd be without it. If anything makes you lazy and unhealthy then you should do your best to cut that out of your life. I'm an athlete and I eat healthy and enjoy life all around. Cannabis helps me with so much and doesn't have that negative effect of being lazy and doing dumb stuff or get the munchies on candy and chips. Their also has to be a balance, such as micro dosing vs smoking blunt after blunt which is unnecessary in my opinion. Glad you were able to make better life changes.
That’s very true.Micro dosing is the answer. I’ve been smoking off and on for nigh on 40 years.But as you say ,I’ve never sat there smoking joint after joint ( unnecessary) I will instead roll a number and take 3/4 tokes and I’m good.!
I feel this too. The psychiatrist and neurologist want to knock me out with sedatives to help anxiety. I definitely have huge stressors in my life. I do not get lazy off herb. I get highly motivated. So, instead of being a dead zombie on propranolol or other anxiety meds... I have settled for microdosing herb.
Yooooooooooo! Thank you for this video. I'm looking to quit weed and liquor and long to feel and operate how you do with a clear mind. I relate to the beginning of your video a lot and it is exactly what I'm looking to feel like and accomplish being that it is something I use to combat anxiety. Thank you for the confirmation that everything is going to be alright since I'm trying to succeed in my business. Thank you for being a testimony IF you ever read this.
Thanks for sharing. Im on the same path and haven't been smoking for only a month now. Im starting to feel many of the things you talk about in this video and it is highly encouraging to know that from your experience it does get better. I really appreciate it.
Great video! Thanks for sharing. I’m currently on day 12. So far my biggest obstacle is insomnia. No joke I’ve had zero sleep about 5-6 nights so far. Feeling pretty rough because of it. Just want to get serious about working out but the lack of sleep is making that difficult. Your vid highlights the exact positives that I want to have in my life and giving me the hope and strength to keep on keeping on!
I decided to quit weed, alcohol, caffeine and suger from the 3rd of jan 2024 and its the hardest thing i ever tired to do. I also use to do alot of cocaine and i quit 5 years ago and from my experience it wasn't as hard as it is to quit weed and booze maybe becuase i was smoking ALL DAY for 20 years without breaks. In this process i also decided to switch to career so i started studying and ooh boy, i am having massive headaches. I can't sleep more than 3-5 hours which really effecting my studying. I cannt study more than 1h at time, i have to take breaks every hour or i m having headaches and also my eyes get blurry and i get very emotional and even crying. The only thing that i saving me is meditation which i been practicing since high school (thank you god if you exist). I have panic attacks and trying to focus on my heart rate. So far i don't have much positive effects after quitting but i am not a quitter (very ironic), although i enjoy things that i thought i wouldn't when getting high. Maybe it still too early .. any advise would be greatly appreciated !!
I don't believe in God because i don't think there's sitting up there and recording my life and than would be like; ok you were good or bad and you are allow to go in or not. Its sound like a fairy tale made by man in power to put fear in people in order to control them which would be a good thing like killing and stealing. So its the same thing as: Do you believe in Santa Claus? But i appreciate your effort, thank you. @@johngibson821
Do you stay away from alcohol as well? I’m not sure if I should stay away alcohol was never a problem but trying to be sober should that mean staying away from everything that alters your mind?
@@latinachick083109depends on your goals if you can use alcohol in moderation and it helps provide memories and experiences you deem worth the adverse side effects of drinking then make an educated decision whether or not it is worth keeping in your life
I started smoking weed years ago as a teenage, switched to cigarettes. Spent my whole life fighting Cigarettes addiction. I suffered severe depression and mental disorder. Got diagnosed with cptsd. Not until my wife recommended me to psilocybin mushrooms treatment. Psilocybin treatment saved my life honestly. 8 years totally clean. Never thought I would be saying this about mushrooms.
I love hearing great life changing stories like this. I want to become a mycologist because honestly mushrooms are the best form of medicine (most especially the psychedelic ones) There are so many people today used magic mushrooms to ween off of SSRI medication- its amazing! Years back i wrote an entire essay about psychedelics. they saved you from death buddy, lets be honest here.
Hey mates! Can you help with the source? I suffer severe anxiety, panic and depression and I usually take prescription medicine, but they don't always help. Where can I find those psilocybin mushrooms? I'm really interested in treating my mental health without Rxs. I live in Australia don't know much about these. I'm so glad they helped you. I can't wait to get them too. Really need a reliable source 🙏
YES sure of mycologist Pedroshrooms. Mushrooms literally got me off my feet and turned my whole life around. I am currently a housing manager for a recovery program. I wouldn't have been able to do that shit without psilocybin.
Thanks for sharing your story. That's rough I sympathize. Save your health save your mind. Life is better without heroin, cocaine, alcohol and cigarettes. And you have more money in your pocket. God bless everyone who has rejected the devils intentions to be addicted to alcohol and cigarettes etc which can cause so much damage to health. I will pray for you all.
Where do I reach this dude? If possible can I find him on Google
Getting on weed saved me. Getting off weed also saved me too.
Real talk
Wow bro I completely relate to this, Im 9 years deep into smoking my life away I think Is time I finally give it up. It sucks because I remember I started smoking during a very low point in my life where i felt like it was helping me.. now i just feel the opposite in many aspects
Beautiful comment...pure truth.
@kevinsander2681 I'll quit with you brother. I'm like you...let's do it.
@@GregtheGrey6969 Lets go brother we got this!
1 Year sober, best decision i ever made. My life improved drastically, after 13 years of smoking. Kind of insane, life is actually enjoyable now. Don't give up hope!
Did you notice improvement quickly?
I hope i feel this way too. been smoking for over 14 years, it’s now or never..
Right No !!!❤👍💪
So you don’t even do it every now and then ? You jus completely stopped ?
completely yes@@pauljunior7513
Been sober off weed and alcohol from close to 6 months this is the best I’ve ever felt
Good job dude
Did u stop both same time???
your body says thank you ! :)
I’m today I have 67 days how long I will be okay please I’m from Manchester thank you very much
Good job hope u still sober
I quit smoking two months ago when I realised my high state cost me a promotion at work. In a nutshell I failed strong eye contact during an interview even though my last joint was a week before. Constant smoking had fucked me up to where I was socially awkward and I couldn't even control it which was terrifying to realise. Constant blinking shuffling avoiding gazes, I knew the interviewer could see right through me and I was never going to get it and I didn't. Enough is enough. 2 months without weed my head is clearer my dreams are back and while I grieve the last couple years I spent in the dark cell of THC, I am grateful that I've stuck my head out the tunnel and taking control of my life again! Weed came into my life during grief and the irony is it was threatening to cause me even more down the line if I didn't have the reality check at work! My speech is getting better too. Less and less mumbling and jumbling up my words looking like an idiot and freezing mid sentence. Can't put a price on that! Never Again!
Exactly the same thing happened to me! I had a job interview, I convinced myself that the weed didn’t affect how I acted in the interview, honestly I think they saw right through me, even tho I didn’t do anything obvious, my answers were weak, my speech wasn’t as good as it used to be, and my ability to connect and finesse my way into the job was just not there. I wasn’t high that day, but in hindsight, my performance was entirely affected by the weed.
@@sarahmason8911 It's a painful reality check but one that was needed regardless for both of us. In the end I suppose it depends on what a person really wants out of life. For me professionally I couldn't get on in any serious capacity if I kept smoking and stayed high. As much as I miss the hits, the bubble, the pain numbing everything feels and looks so much better space that weed brought me. The hindsight regret of knowing what it would end up costing me was not worth thinking about. It's amazing how weed slowly takes over ones life if they are not careful. First is a hit in a blue moon socially then u learn how to roll then u want to hold ur own then u constantly checking ur phone wondering why the weed guy hasn't shown up yet then the solitude, being introverted and days turn to weeks weeks turn to months. U don't even recognise yourself anymore when u look in the mirror. I want more for myself so never again. Plus the withdrawals are brutal so won't put myself through that again 😂
God I want this. I keep doing what I don't want to do because it feels good. Good for you man! I even quit for 4 years in my 30s and went back to it the last 5 years
@@d_chatz8353 that means the next time you do quit properly, you’re gonna be stronger and better than before! Wish u the best
😂😂😂.
I’m 5 days off cannabis after smoking everyday for the last 4 years. I lied to myself forever that I need it and it makes me feel better… It’s been a little rough with withdrawal but I’m a man on a mission and will get this thc out of my system for good. Thank you for sharing your story.
It will feel so much better after the initial withdrawl! You can totally do it and I am sending you so much support. 🥰
Hope your still going. I'm here today to convince myself not to fill my script tomorrow. I've been off for 2 days. Love and Strength
@@love4h2oLB Thank you so much! I’m almost at 2 weeks sober!! I am already feeling better!
@@cjdesign4690 Thank you so much! I’m almost at 2 weeks sober!! If I can do it, you can do it too!! I wish you all the best in getting sober too!
It takes a long time to clear your lungs , our throats and bronchial tubes look like that dirty pipe we clean with 91 %0 rubbing alcohol to clean all that residue I'm still coughing up black tar .
"Start hanging out with people with common futures instead of common pasts" damn 💀
hard as fuck
Yo that hit.
For real. Makes so much sense
Well said
He got me at that same comment!
Fing brilliant...I love that! Common future!
Like present future...
Not present past.
🙏🙏🙏
Mannn i ate some mushrooms last year and never smoked WEED again. I’ve been more motivated, threw out a lot of harder substances, changed my life for good. In the most positive way possible.
Since I tired psychedelics for the first time, I’ve been trying to describe the experience to others so there can try it as well, but i couldn’t find the right words to describe it.
Did you do it alone? Like do you really need to have a tripsitter?
dr.elvisperry is your guy. My first time doing psychedelics was a great experience. Therapeutic guidelines
Yup it’s not advised to do alone. Everyone reacts differently and not always positive.
How does a middle class source this? He's on Tik Tok??
1) brain "healed"
2)improved quality of life
3)improved mental health
4)improvement in relationships
5) "beautiful gift of recovery"
I felt like everything he mentioned really was just a lack of disciplined in his life 😂
@@SuperBabyMario0C i agree
@@SuperBabyMario0Cweed is what causes a lot of people to not be disciplined. I already know you smoke weed all the time and you are still productive but the truth is you’re either in the minority or you are not as productive as you think you are being.
Nah I was productive I got a lot done over the past 5 years. In retrospect to the 5 years before but I don’t think weed change those aspects of life. My schedule was packed and because of those years my life rn is in a better place in a lot of aspects such as income, education, life lessons, fitness and just more discipline overall, I’ve experienced loss. So someone using weed as an excuse especially for things like being late for work something so easy like really? But I think if you’re already lacking in that weed will amplify it. Those are things that an adult like this guy should’ve been worked on since teenage years and my life wasn’t a walk in park, there was no room for a lot of set backs. Only thing is I’ve wasted money smoking lol. But I guess it doesn’t matter since now I’m a in a better spot. I wanna see my family be good too my parents to stop working and that won’t happen if I show up late to a job. I think if that’s a problem you should be overlooking other aspects in your lift don’t blame weed and if you can’t handle it then don’t do it. I started smoking because I stopped drinking it didn’t fit in my schedule to be lit, I could still skate, exercise, study, drive and many others things high much better than alcohol, and it’s healthier alcohol is so bad for you, try running a marathon drunk Vs high or skating the balance isn’t there. We’re all different but don’t say I’m not productive. If you cant do basic things to inprove your life then I suggest anyone stop doing any substances and work on them but small things like caring if you family knows you’re high or being late to job is ridiculous. But we all start at different points and some roller skate thru life, others have to walk thru it and I put myself in that.
@@SuperBabyMario0C you can feel however you want about smoking weed and it’s relationship to discipline, but the truth is that obviously this man didn’t have the same experience. Like someone else mentioned, smoking weed probably affected his discipline. There’s more to gain by accepting someone’s truth as they tell it rather than projecting yours. If you think he lacked discipline in his life because it improved when he stopped smoking, maybe that’s relative to your truth. But if he said he lacked discipline BECAUSE of all the weed he smoked, then that’s what it is, for him.
Smoked my entire adult life, now at 39 years old finally gone 6 months without weed or nicotine. So worth it! Basically the interactions i have with others has improved so much. My self confidence has improved. Ive always worked out, but my physical well being has improved, mental clarity has improved. If you’re just starting to get clean or are thinking about getting quiting the devils lettuce, i encourage you to do it. It sounds silly but do you love yourself? Do you want to see how good things could be? Treat yourself right, only one life, dont live it holding yourself back because you like smoking. Be better, be who youre supposed to be!
Thank you , i m in the same shoes and it only been 7-8 days and my emotions are off the charts. I started crying when i read your post
I’m the same age brother and smoked for twenty two years but want to stop too . We sound similar in our lifestyle too . Good luck and well done 👍🏻
Very well put been smoking my whole life I don’t know if I can quit
ive seen so many comments like this but this one was exceptionally inspiring and really just hit. thank you
@@hawgslam4 You are welcome but i just shared what i am going through and to be honest im feeling much better, expect my sleep is still all over the place. I hope you are doing better.
I'm 4 days sober after 10 years of smoking!! i can do it
keep it up! throw out all your stuff...it takes time, but worth it!
How are you doing friend? Hope you're journey is going well, and if it's not, I hope you're still finding joy 💜
Did u stop,?@brownsongbird
It takes a little bit of time too heal from it. I used to big hitter of weed my self. Your life will improve significantly
@@Ximevillanuevam a 6 month later?
I quit weed 2 years ago for around 9 months to get back in shape and get my first big boy job out of college. Once I got the job, got more money, amazing shape, I thought I could relax and smoke again. Here I am 2 years later, out of shape, not doing my best in my job, etc. Quitting for good, can’t afford to he handicapped like this
what a common and sneaky trap !! beware of the addictive voice, when you say "I thought I could relax and smoke again" you are not separating your real "you" from your addictive voice. That one was not your thought, that was your addictive voice! , the lizard brain. Next time, you can recognize it as a not-you, and dismiss it, choosing your best judgment instead of listening to the lies of your addictive voice. Thanks for you honesty
Same happend to me
Did you go through accute sleep difficulties when you quit?
Sounds like a mindset issue, you messed up that balance.
Try actually doing things and just smoking less and maybe differently. You smoked blunts or joints? Switch to a bong.
@@AxelZara thank you, totally agree on the mindset issue
Day 1 sober wish me luck fam💪
How are you doing?
@@kirstycrawford6107did you manage to stop? And how are you doing?
Me 2
@@plunkettkeith mega faded rn bro I failed
@@Youtokstagram That's all right man, you can try again. Don't let it tell you you can't
I'm off for 4 days now and it's tough I tell ya
I went to jail for weed-related charges when I was 19 and was there for several months.
I’ve been serious about quitting ever since, but ultimately unsuccessful at staying off it. I actively struggled for over a decade without breaking free- but I never gave up on sobriety.
Now I’ve finally hit a turning point and have been off weed for nearly a year. Life has consistently gotten better for me in many of the ways you described.
God speed brother!
I hoping yo have the same results with both this and alcohol!
@@JTG313damn, how you know he a drunk
Good on you man!
Sacred secretion. See your need to abuse yourself vanish.
Keep going my dawg❤
One of my professor on the first day of lecture said "Bad habits are your masters and good habits are your slaves". 10 days ago I decided to quit this after being an everyday regular for past 12 years. Have gone through the rough phase of insomnia, shakes, chills and what not after it. This made me realize how much of a servant I was to it. Watching this video made me more motivated to quit. I just hope I do not relapse. Thank You!!
Hope you're still doing well! I had CHS (cannabinoid hyperemesis syndrome), trust me, you don't want to experience that
Most weed users sleep like a baby, probably it is just you. The only drug you really need is Christ.
Watch out for the boredom plan ahead
Don’t hope man just don’t get through the hard push it’s pretty fuggin gay but it’s so nice brother
9 months later, how are you doing friend?
5 months sober and it’s the best thing I ever did to fix my life. Yall can’t imagine how your life will change for the better once you put drugs aside. Before I used to think my life was hard. Nah bro, I was making my life hard and miserable. Now I’m happier than ever and I don’t need no substance to change my mood and fix my way of thinking. The only think you have to accept is that you are AN ADDICT. AND THATS WHY YOU FEEL THAT WITHOUT WEED YOU JUST WONT BE ABLE TO BE HAPPY. ITS NOT TRUE. LIFE STARTS ON THE OTHER SIDE OF ADDICTION.
So real when y said i thought my life was hard but i was making it hard hahhaa BEAUTIFULLY SAID!
Well said and Congratulations
Still going?
After 23 yrs heavy use , 5 days sober
I’m done with this addiction
Same bro. 10 years of smoking I am now 8 days sober and I have a feeling like I am going to reaching full potential
@@Funtruck One of the thoughts I had exactly, My family deserves the best version of me. I really cheated myself out of opportunities, business, relationships and more importantly memories. Locked in now, We got this !
You still sober bruv ?
@@nonoahhh what trades and skills did you learn during your 23 years of "heavy" use?
Thank you ❤ I’m on day 5 sober and I can already feel my eyes opening up to the amount of opportunities that can come from sobriety, I want this so bad.
I’m gonna add to this, this video is great! I really hope everyone trying to get sober from weed gets to see this, cause this hits every single topic related to weed. Everything is so so accurate. THANKS.
Prayers ♥️
You can do it girl believe in urself
@@johnlally thank you! I’m on day 7 💚💚💚
One week in. Let’s gooooo!
After 13 years of Marijuana and 4 years K2 spice , I quit yesterday and I’m 1 day sober. Please wish me luck .
how's it going buddy?
2 days sober 20 y of smoking 💪💪💪💪💯
Hope you still going!! keep strong..
I’m 4 months sober after 20 years smoking. I’m going back to school and chasing my passions again. You got this man!
You got this!!!
Lmao I didn’t finish the video first 2-3 reasons seems tbh like his problem that he later blamed weed for lmao. Like sitting all day being late for work. Really bro? No working out? Sounds like it’s not weed lol. The brain thing idk I can’t relate either. Only thing was that instant gratification he said. Then being scare family knew you were high or aniexy another thing he blamed weed on Vs owning it himself tbh
@@LONGFORMGAMEScongratulations but weed shouldn’t have been the reason not to do those things. I smoke everyday day n I’m very productive and active but good luck to u
I quit smoking after doing it multiple times everyday for years. And I finally found myself again, the part of me I didn’t realize I had left behind but truly needed. I’ve changed in so many ways for the better. My advice to anyone who smokes like this and tells themself that it’s what they need, you have no idea what you’re missing.
Thanks
@@lilmittsdakid6313 God is with you!
I am so glad people are finally starting to talk about weed this way...i am so tired of hearing all the rhetoric around how amazing it is...and yes, I do feel it has some good things about it but wow, it is being overused and people are self-medicating an alarming rate...with weed that is stronger than ever. I support your path to healing. It is not easy.
it is great in the short-term, the problem is that it's habit forming, and the longterm effects are more bad than good...I stopped after 20 yrs and feel good finally.
@mountainhobbit1971 praise the lord 🙌🤣🤣
Weed =Breathing problems. Forgetfulness. Laziness. Memory off. Crabby when not high.
Ended up Crabby when high. Very short and on the verge of rage always.
@@benjamindixon4825me too bro we just using weed the wrong way
So true, thanks for sharing, I've been smoking weed for 45 years now. Cranky without it, short term memory loss, lazy, bad diet, etc.. Trying to quit, extremely challenging.
@user-uf2lp5nl8d No it is not, that is the weed talking.... there are little to no MAJOR withdrawal symptoms from cannabis alone.
Try not smoking for one day, to get your momentum going, then do it again, and before you know it you will feel a million times better.
True story
I’m sober 16 months now… let’s get it!
What made you quit?
Are you really? Sober? Wake up! You have lived behind the closed the door for 16 months... open it up... explore!
@@kwimmswhat do you mean by that ? 😂😂
@@moroloko7183 he's probably high. :P
CONGRATULATIONS 🎉
3 & a 1/2 months weed free for me & NO REGRETS😊
I’ve been a weed smoker for about 20yrs. Only time I was sober for the yr I was on probation. During that time my art, music and spirituality exploded. But right after my yr was up I went right back. Now a few yrs later I’m ready to quit on my own. I have slowed down but haven’t completely stopped yet. This video helped me realize more it’s worth it
Most importantly...YOU are worth it!
I AGREE WITH YOU , i WAS ON THE SAME BOAT.
you can do it!...I stopped 4 months ago after 20 years...feel much better!
Been smoking non stop from 14 to 34 I’ve noticed it’s holding me back I got ideas but no poa it’s crazy that when I smoke and get high I notice that’s it’s no good for me but when I’m sober and I forget how bad it is then soon as I smoke I’m like shit this is bad for me I stopped for a couple weeks then my mind tricked me by saying just have a smoke to remind you how bad it is for you then bang strait back on it again
Yeah, that's typical addiction, doesn't matter that much which drug. The brain will heal, mental health gets better, everything gets better. I have 4 and a half years off drugs.
Exactly, cannabis really wasn't the issue to the extent he is claiming.
His lifestyle, food habits,poor habits, friends, and environment were at a bigger play.
We often times blame and externalize things to be The problem for our deficiencies in life when in reality it's ourselves that is the issue. Cannabis was just the bandaid to mask to problems he wasn't dealing with.
@@ZenModePhilosophylmao ok. All these weak dorks can’t even quit weed they have to justify it 😂
@@joes.4149 joe do you workout
thank you so much for this video! I am a 36 yr old male that has been high and stoned for 23 years straight everyday multiple times non stop! today it is 12/10/23 and it is my second day weed-free! its the most heaviest thing I've ever had to overcome but I seriously believe the universe popped your vid on my RUclips home page for the motivation and understanding about bettering ourselves for ourselves so we can better situations and relationships with friends and family! your the man Doug! I appreciate you a lot and I'm very very proud of you! Aloha from Maui!
Stay strong, it's worth it. My ex partner smoked for 25 years, every day, multiple times a day. He destroyed everything good in his life, including our relationship
Did you make it?
How you doing?
Part of the mechanism for why weed amplifies anxiety is because weed dehydrates you. When you smoke, you're essentially introducing "contaminants" (THC, etc.) into the blood through the lungs, and in order for your body to clean everything up (aka become sober), it requires resources (water, minerals, vitamins, etc.). One of the most important minerals that you lose during this process is MAGNESIUM. Without sufficient magnesium, your sense of "calm" gets eroded and anxiety can easily skyrocket given the right environment and triggers. It also ties in with irritability and other mood disorders, but primarily, your thoughts will be scattered, you'll be less focused, more paranoid, and more fearful. Obviously this depends on your personal health status, hence why some people have absolutely no issue with anxiety or paranoia when smoking (at least not yet). This is also why long-term smokers have such higher likeliness for mental health issues. Each time you smoke, you're not only altering your brain and the way you think, but your body has to use vital nutrients to recover (note that this happens with ANY drug), and because you're high, your diet isn't the greatest anyway, so it's just a matter of time before you become chronically deficient in one thing or another, which will lead to various mood disorders and mental health issues, not to mention potential physical health issues.
How do I know all of this? I spent years studying nutrition and biochemistry (especially magnesium), as well as weed, after going through severe anxiety and insomnia which I was able to completely reverse naturally (no big pharma) with proper supplementation, diet, and lifestyle. I have no doubt that my regular weed use (1-6 times a week) was a major contributing factor, because once again, it DEPLETES minerals, especially MAGNESIUM
I started using weed because I developed bipolar disorder after my daughter was born. I had horrible anxiety and depression. The docs put me on meds but those take a while to work. They gave me Ativan because the anxiety was so bad. But after a while they didn’t want to give me anymore. As a last resort I started using cannabis and it immediately took all the mental pain away and made me feel good again. I used to vape flower a couple times a day but am down to micro dosing. Thanks for the info.I am going to incorporate that into my trying to quit
Whats your routine, if you'd be willing to explain?
It lowers my potassium levels like crazy
@@ma5takilla1The primary thing for me was simple magnesium supplementation. The products I used were MagSRT + Magnesium Breakthrough, two of the best on the market.
Dosage is roughly a total of 1000mg day between both supplements. Then I add magnesium-rich foods, magnesium lotion absorbed transdermally, and trace mineral drops.
I would advise anyone suffering mag deficiency symptoms look up Dr. Carolyn Dean on RUclips. She's an expert on magnesium and she has many case studies. Would recommend her book as well, it's been an incredible resource for me.
The rest of my supplement stack is taken in part from Morley Robbin's Root Cause Protocol. I also take cod liver oil, beef liver pills (or multi-organs), bee pollen, ashwagandha and collagen. It's worth noting I'm a bodybuilder so some of the above may not apply to you.
Lifestyle changes including grounding/earthing as much as possible, EMF blocking canopy during sleep, maximizing sleep hygiene, as much exposure to natural sunlight as possible, maintaining a regular eating schedule (same times every day), and a ton of cognitive behavioral therapy for coping with the psychological aspect of anxiety. Took me quite a few months to recover, but consistency and perseverance was key, and it worked. I eventually got back to what I'd consider "normal".
Mind you, this is the SLOW, HARD, but LONG LASTING NATURAL METHOD that involves a lot of struggle, but it's far better than needing anti-anxiety meds for the rest of your life...at least for me. Everyone is different though.
@@poonlagoon9570 Any drug will ultimately lower the status of all minerals, as your body will always be aiming for balance via homeostasis, so it will dump what it doesn't need through your urine. Your body taps its bones and tissue for reserves, but when that depletes, you will start having noticeable issues.
Been sober for 6 weeks now after a 5 year haze. I am never going back. I love having vivid and meaningful dreams again.
I quit smoking weed almost 3 years ago after smoking it for almost 30 years everyday. 24 days ago I quit drinking alcohol. I feel so much better already. Doing fitness 4/5 times a week. Only smoking tobacco is left. That's gonna be my next move. I'm 51 now so about time.
Wishing you the best of luck with it. I'm roughly the same age as you. Got clean 25 years ago. Many of my friends who continued to use are no longer here.
You can make it bro
Thank you. I understand literally everything you’re saying. I’m 30 years old, I was smoking weed daily since 17 years old. I’m 52 days clean, never felt better. No desire to smoke, no judgment on stoners I was one, but I definitely was smoking for all the wrong reasons and I missed out on a lot of opportunities in my twenties.
I’ve had a love affair with weed for many years just like you brother, I feel so good that I don’t do it any more, my new hobby is going to the gym and staying fit, to anyone reading this you can do this, just put your mind heart and soul into it! ☮️❤️🙏🏼
same, i am 1 year off after smoking daily for 10 years. best decision ever made
I've found the gym to and love it. Well done you ❤
I do both, and it's a great balance. Once I realized the real issue was within myself and my mind I flourished. I still smoke everyday, do all the healthy things like eating right and going to the gym. Run a successful business worth 6 figures and am the healthiest I have been and I'm only 29.
My doctors tell me I am doing great, and thats multiple doctors as well.
Weed isn't for everyone, it probably wasn't something you should have stuck with in the first place. Glad you found your path.
Sounds so boring. Jesus. 😂
@@kirstycrawford6107 well done to you as well sister stay on your purpose! ☮️❤️🙏🏼
4 months clean of everything, I lost my job, lost my mind, got arrested twice, ruined my life because of weed and drugs. Dealing with the consequences now with increased optimism. The only way to swing now is up.
29 days sober from weed, it’s been a rough road but I’m stickin to it
Lets GoOOOOOOOooo
how you getting on now bro
@@bennhenderson7898 72 days strong 💪🏾
5 days clean feeling better than ever. You can do it guys! God bless you
1. Brain healed
2. Improved quality of life
3. Improved mental health
4. Improvement in relationships
5. Recovery
Weed can be a lifesaver, but it is wise to listen to our body when it tells us that we don't need it anymore. Good things can also become bad things. Thanks for the video
Yup! And it always starts off all wonderful and new, a great enhancement, but after hitting that button over and over, it slowly and sneakily becomes a ball and chain.
I just recently quit weed and cigarettes. I also started exercising and eating healthier. It's been two weeks and I already feel better. 25 years of smoking nearly everyday has made me live a mediocre life and I am just so over it. Thanks for the video.
Yup it starts to cage you into a small and limited view of life and limiting the opportunities
People also don’t realize that even if you only use once/day, there’s a big chance it is impacting you during the “other 20 hours” where you’re sober, in all the ways you detail in this video. Although I’ve noticed that is more of an issue with some people than with others.
It affects everyone differently. For some people it may be working to ease their pain or stress but for others (myself included) it does some other things besides that which I don’t want in my life
@@l_valgreenjust man up and face your pain and stress without weed man. Weed addicts have low pain tolerance. Just gotta be stronger
Screw off, bro. Cannabis is a huge anti-inflammatory and extremely healing and medicinal. Your experience isn’t everyone’s experience.
This is beyond true. When I smoked I usually was fine (most of the time), but I ALWAYS had residual after-effects that distorted my mood.
heard best is once all 3-4 days
In my opinion the problem with all substances is when it becomes a habit, or a method of finding comfort when things are difficult. I smoked weed many times a day for a dozen years. I do believe it helped me through a transitional period in my life. When I didn't need it anymore, I stopped smoking daily. I still smoke on occasion and I enjoy it, but it is no longer an escape for me.
Self-awareness is the key.
The only honest comment I've read so far. A lot of hypocritical comments otherwise.
@@Vijai-et8xumaybe you just don't trust others
3 min in and I feel you are talking about me. Especially avoiding family events so they don’t know I’m high. Thanks for sharing
Been sober for 13 months. I miss it every day. I was a functioning stoner, able to maintain a 9-5 and even getting a promotion for my hard work. I would only smoke during the evening. Since my depression has came back, and my performance at work is just the same as it was before but I no longer have anything to look forward too. I still go to the gym and do all the same things I have before. I’ve struggle with sleep and lack creativity. It feels like I’m dead inside and it’s hard to justify the benefits of stopping. My family hates it so my relationship with them has improved. I am between a rock and a hard place with marijuana, as I never actually had any problems with it in the first place, and It helped me crawl out of a dark place. I fear I am slowly returning
I think if you were on the outside looking in that you would see the negative effects.
I would ask your family and those that supported you quitting what they say you acted like on it and how it made them feel.
Maybe change what your doing too.
Read new books, gain insight on other parts of your brain and behavior and how to improve, maybe get out in nature more or develop a new skill.
Volunteer in the community.
There is a lot you can do with your life aside from still being good at your job. The journey doesn’t stop at your job.
Don’t let it control your life you are more than that
that is you addictive voice lying to you, telling you that life will be better using weed. It is not you, and it is not your friend. if you've got issues, they need to be addressed, but weed won't address them
“Dead inside and nothing to look forward to” thats how i feel without it as well, 15 years being high, tryna stop for my kid
I started smoking pot when I was in my teens in the 70s and stopped when I turned 20 but now that I'm in my 60s I've started up again because of a few health reasons but for the most part I don't actually smoke, I vape at low temps and I eat edibles and it's helping a lot where the drugs they put me on just masked the symptoms and barely did that and came with a bunch of side effects. The one thing that I have to say is weed from the 70s was weak compared to what's out there today but I opt for lower THC flower or just take less of it then I would have back in the day. Because of it I've been able to cut back on prescription and over the counter drugs and I even stopped drinking alcohol which was never a real problem but when you get older you start being affected differently than when you're younger. Chronic anything isn't good for you! Good video!
After 11 years (started at 13). I can see the good opportunities I gave up, Just so I could smoke and chill… also kept me from learning how to process stress/trauma and regulate my emotions in those times. Basically numbs you from important moments in life.
I've gone a full 24 hours...it feels different lol been smoking (basically) everyday for the past 14 years. The thing that made me want to quit is the social interactions, it made me not want to interact with people because I was content in my own head....fast forward a decade and it impacted me in a way that I didn't see it, I became a bit of a lone wolf at work, at my BJJ gym. And I started getting anxiety whenever I wanted to go talk to girl..I like weee but the problem for me is I can't just smoke once a month. If I hit the bong once I got to hit more..
I guess the longer you smoked daily(more years), the more harder it gets to have control over your weed addiction is it? I smoked for 3 years regularly and it started affecting me really bad into my last few months and I stopped smoking daily. Took a 2 months gap and then now I have much control over it. I started smoking in my 20s not like 16-17 I guess that plays a role too
Can relate.
Quite a lot of BJJ people smoke... just dont smell (general rule) and use eyedrops.
I’m still a lone wolf sober…people are lame as fuxk and only surface level. If it’s not fantasy football or gossip most don’t care.
@@zenwuuwhy use eye drops? They aren’t your parents 😂😂
this made me cry in two different parts. this is great i really appreciate you sharing your experience with the world . the amount of depth, honesty, and emotional vulnerability really made it hit home for me.
Thanks, Doug! As a Certified Peer Support Specialist who works alongside Recovery Coaches, your 5 Gifts video is an excellent positive and empowering message about not just the benefits of cannabis cessation, but the joys and tremendous consequences of recovery in general. Thanks for sharing your clarity!😀
I quit smoking marijuana about 4 months ago and I’ll never go back to using it again. I used it for years. When I smoked it I never had any dreams and my sleep was never consistent. Now that I quit I have dreams every single night. I feel much better and think a lot more clearly.
how are you doing now:) I am 2 month in, but feel brain buzz from time to time, did you too?. if so, how long did it take you to feel better
yes cannabis affects your REM sleep, thats why its importnant not to smoke everyday. i only smoke on the weekends anf have dreams every night, helps me recover i feel (i train very hard in the gym so body gets pretty banged up).
Same.
Congratulations 🎉
1 week sober after 16 years! I feel like im finally back in my body its insane, never going back hopefully
One of the best and possibly most vital life changing video I've watched. All three of my kids are addicted to cannabis and its destroyed us. Thank you so much for your hard work and for sharing.
Having heard you completely out, and really can relate to you. I still smoke though. Having stated that, I ride with your reasoning. I also will mention how it does me different, especially in moderation. Now if someone does it with high frequency, it affects more than just the brain. I smoke to actually reduce my anxiety. I am also very active, so it cuts down opportunities to just sit around and smoke endlessly. Your take is valid to me because everything isn't for everyone, and perhaps someone who is abusing it can recognize their inner idiosyncrasies. Continue to be an ambassador. This is very helpful to many people. Kudos!
I just flushed two ounces .. this video is EXACTLY how I feel while smoking … it’s completely messing me up mentally … I’m a recovering crystal meth addict , 5 years and counting clean. That was the hardest thing I’ve ever done and I feel like giving up weed is going to be even harder and it’s giving me a terrible migraine .. ears ringing.. cold sweats … so as of right now I’m just fucking done with smoking … thanks for the video man I needed this
It is easier to quit than you think.
Hey how are you getting on?
Hey how are you getting on?
I genuinely hope you are continuing on the path.
Same here bro 4 years clean off meth and the last vice to kick is weed.
I 100% found myself here. Im on 2 weeks without weed and cigarettes, my eyes look better no fatigue, sleeping well,, wake up early after 7 hours of sleep totally fresh! Dont give up, guys! Just show how strong can you be. Enjoy rest of the life in the right way.
damn bro today my last day smoking then ima sort my life out 🙏
"I realized that I truly needed to spend time with people who have common futures andd not common pasts" this hit me right at home, very well said
I always liked weed but when I was raped, it was all I could think about. I couldn’t visualize myself going one day without smoking because I couldn’t take the pain of what happened to me. I’m 8 days sober and even if it’s hard, I’ll keep holding on. Thank you for making this video and giving me hope 🤍
You got this
@@matthewprice5079 thank you so much. it means a lot :)
Day 1 for me you got this I'm so sorry that happened to you if you ever need someone to talk to, I'm here.
@@matthewprice5079 Thank you. it means a lot 🤍
@@rickeyhaynes6316 Thank you so much. It means a lot 🤍
I'm on a similar journey. I'm about 3 months sober. Looking forward to more positive changes. So far, it feels like calmer mind, and ability to live more intentionally moment to moment.
Dude, its a slow burn, the improvements creep. Going on two years after 3 decades of heavy blazing, im still seeing improvements.
I’m a couple weeks clean from weed and a month clean from nicotine. Right now i constantly am being tested and in bad moods without. Glad to know that it gets better, I can’t wait to start feeling better. God bless all y’all ❤️💪🏻🙏🏻
Hey brother, how's it going? Have you managed and what's worked for you? I'm day 1 and really want this sober life
Did u totally stop?
Initially I stopped bc I was looking for a job…it’s now day 12 and I feel amazing… I can’t believe it but I’m good on that Mary Jane…even after the drug test…I’m good! I feel high off life and realized how much more I get done now, I think clearer and I’ve even lost weight …y’all know them munchies are crazy 😅 Good luck to all ✨
Update: 30 days later and it’s not even a thought… feeling amazing ✨✨✨
@@moonempress8366thanks for the update
@@moonempress8366finna try tomorrow I gotta quit before 2024
Update: 60 days later and clarity is like it was in my 20’s… lost 10lbs and still feel amazing! Keep going… you can do it! ♥️
Hey bro, congrats to you man. That's amazing
I'm on day 1 a day just want to know what helped you during your first week to a month?
For the last 25 years I did not understand what boredom was until I quit smoking for 5 months. There maybe benefits for most people bit quitting for me was torture. How anyone can do this world sober is beyond me.
Feeling "bored" is a problem little kids face, not adults. You have nothing inside. That's why you look outside yourself for things to do when you are not intoxicated.
There are so many things to do in this life. Boredom is a state of your mind, not the outside world. Read a book, find a hobby, exercise, the list is endless
Confidence and ambition instead of anxiety and lazyness... yeah
Why u say that??
Some people feel the first part when they are high
@@victorhardin2186I agree some people can and can’t I can’t
weed gives you fresh ideas but prevents you from getting anything done..
🎯💯
That's not true, it depends on the person. If you are lazy, then even after weed withdrawal you will remain lazy and not want to achieve anything.
@JKaymitBindestrich bro your on a video of quitting weed. Most of us were active smokers. Thats not the point. dont be dumb dude
I understand your point but pit doesn’t help.
Maybe you can smoke rarely just to get ideas, and be sober the rest of the time.
Been sober since October 2022 , my main reason was to get my cdl , I gained financially , my mental got sharper , I work out more , I feel like I’m taken more serious in life , more responsible , higher self esteem and confident , I don’t think I’ll go back it’s to much to lose now
How is it going now?
@@TazzRisingUp Still Weed free , but I was going thru a rough couple months like 3 months ago , almost gave up on the cdl life couldn’t find local jobs , I smoked half a joint , literally like 4 small puffs with a friend that doesn’t have a cdl so it doesnt effect him as if does me , and I regretted it instantly , it just felt like I was throwing my life away especially not having a job / career and I’m smoking about to get lazy and settle for less I felt like , and i had that paranoid high because I was thinking of how bad I am messing up in hard on myself because I want to reach my full potential , th I get a job call the next day after I smoked and I had to pass it up bcus I took those 4 puffs and my system was dirty so that was like a sign telling me don’t smoke again , so I took that as a sign it’s not meant for me to smoke in my life right now and continue to be patient , so I started to exercise a bit at home to burn off the sweat and get that Thc out , and it’s been another 3 months now weed free again since those 4 puffs that I didn’t even enjoy like I used to , and I found a local cdl job now for the past 2 months been working local as I always wanted ,so I had one relapse since I quit in 2022 October , and now I’m sober again 3 months after that and I’m continue again as I did the first time
@@TazzRisingUp & physically my body feels good and woke , it don’t have that sluggish feeling that weed used to do to me
I don’t know if it’s just me or not but! When I quit drinking and smoking weed I started to see people’s true colors around me 💪🏽🙏🏾💯🙌🏾 my happiness and peace is something I never felt before ! Jesus Christ took it away from me💯🙏🏾 I feel younger in my 30s more than 20s!
Well said😊
@@LeslieSullivan-j6v god bless💯💪🏽🙂
Thanks for that, today is my first day and just happened to come across your video, it's what I needed to hear to stay sober
Hope your still holding strong brotha
You got this.....
Congratulations 🎉
It’s been almost 2 years since i last smoked weed - and i feel the same as you ! Im so glad Im done with it .
Congratulations 🎉
Stoppwd now for almost 3 weeks, and the most impactful thing so far is clarity of thought, and way better memory.
Amazing Doug! I just quit 7 days ago(5 years of addiction). I can’t even tell how awesome I feel already. NEVER AGAIN!
Wish you well. I am on day 9 ( 45 years of addiction )
I'm on day 3
@@amzema3030 almost a month for me. Sleep is much better. Energy through the roof. Gym every day
@@MyKakasahow has it been going a month down the line? What has helped you?
All the things you said giving up helped you with I already do. I do 150mile hikes over 4 days regularly. Workout twice a day 5 days a week and am extremely motivated. But I still want to quit weed as I can only imagine how motivated I'd be without smoking. Just hard as the majority of things people complain about don't seem to happen to me. I've smoked consistently everyday for over 10 years. When ever I watch these videos my hope dies when they mention things entirely different to how I feel.
I don't think marijuana was intended to be used 24/7, in the same way alcohol shouldn't be used 24/7.
If you drink alcohol every day, especially in larger doses, if you have a sudden withdrawal, you will shake with seizures while seeing pink elephants.
Weed is a mild hallucinogen, and should be used with respect like with any other hallucinogen, with the proper set and setting.
In the 60s a term for smoking weed was 'getting high'. Then when stronger Columbian pot was used in the 70s, it changed to 'getting stoned'.
Then when modern Indica sinsemilla came along, it was 'getting faded'
But now that its legal, its lost the underground cult atmosphere of rebellion and secrecy, with the clique of friends that banded together to share their special interest and ways of obtaining.
Now that you can buy it at a store, its become conventional and boring, certainly not something to inoculate yourself with like a masochist.
The tricky part of weed is that you can get away with using it every day for a while before you even realize how much it is hindering you. It’s sneakier than alcohol or other addictive drugs in that way.
I truly wish I could enjoy it once a month or so, but it’s just too slippery of a slope, and I’ve had to learn that dozens of times over a dozen years.
I’ve been holding myself back with marijuana for the last four years, and what I’m realizing now that I’m a few days in recovery is that once it’s all out of my system, it would only be self-destructive to partake even occasionally. I keep thinking about how I’d feel AFTER I high and sobered up again, and I truly don’t think that I would feel good. Being totally sober is such a powerful thing, and I’m excited to get THC out of my system for good
What you shared about taking responsibility for having chosen to deal with emotions the way you did back then with drugs and stopping blaming your parents really hit. Thanks for posting this video.
I hope we both learn to forgive ourselves for our individual mistakes. Peace. And congratulations.
And also to be forgiving and understanding of others
Seeing the cast differences in my own life. … the pre trauma me … would be blaming and insulting my choices … the me now after trauma… has so much compassion… as I have lived different versions of life ..
Your tomorrow is somewhat based on your yesterday
So be conscientious of today… It doesn’t just go away… Part of it is there to stay… And it will impact you in a good or bad way…
I could write novels of the painful experiences and memories
After separation many said your free now … and expecting things to go back to old me
However .. it was just the start of another decline
Processing and facing all of that completely alone might have led me to other decisions
Just like they
Will induce a coma in a trauma patient to allow the body
To process the
Shock. … I think that’s what weed and alcohol did for me …
Yet I’ve always had a beautiful brain and achieved wonderful things … but I know that not happening now …
With everything I worked for, hoped for, and wanted out of life, gone… And looking at the state of the world, an utter decay… I don’t even want to live in my own country cause it’s a mess…
If you don’t have a Y, there’s nothing to make you try
But I finally found one … I want me back
I started smoking 1 yr ago, during a very difficult transitional period in my life. It helped for a while, but I slowly started to notice all of the drawbacks you mentioned. Your video helped me realize I've been in denial. Thank you.
Weigh the pros and cons to quitting. I quit while hiking the PCT. It takes about four days to get over bouts of anger or whatever. You know it was fun for a while on weed, but then it takes a toll on your circulatory system. I used to drink as well. It was fun for a while, but I just did dumb things on drugs and alcohol. I would get sleepy and not think clearly. So much wasted time!
That’s what it does to me
Day 1 of being sober after smoking for over 10 years straight all day everyday. Im tired of smoking weed & wasting my life. I want better & im gone get better ❤️
You can do it i am on day 5
@@emiliomaldonado1862 how's it going
Today is the day I decide to quit smoking weed everyday and eventually for good. Thank you for this video.
I'm on my 6th day after 20 plus years of marijuana. I had the worst day of withdrawals yesterday, severe headaches, nausea and loss of appetite, I felt like i needed to go the hospital. Today is completely different, a little exhausted from the lack of sleep these past days but mentally much better and no headache and nausea. The dreams this past week have been unreal. I got this and you got this. Aloha!
You’re on point with the dreams being unreal… That was the first thing I noticed after the first couple days of stopping… I forgot that I even stopped dreaming all these years
Like anything, ganj should be used in moderation. I haven't had to completely give up, but I have learnt to control the ganja instead of the ganja controlling me. It can be done, you don't have to say goodbye forever.
yeah i've come to understand that i shouldn't smoke weed every day, and don't. Conversely I've also come to understand that i also should never not smoke weed. It does have benefits.
Bro I wish I could do this but I am 23 soon 24 I live alone and weed takes over my lifestyle … ima quit for a few weeks and then come back and just smoke like 1 joint every now and then I’ll have to see how I feel these next few weeks but today my last day
The problem with this is that for addicts, there is no moderation. A lot of people don’t even relapse when they feel bad… it’s when they’ve been feeling good and haven’t smoked in a while and feel they “deserve” a joint because of said accomplishment. Moderation can spiral quickly. I do think telling yourself “I’m only stopping for x weeks” and moving the goalposts is a good psychological trick, but looking forward to moderation or social smoking isn’t always the best option.
@@User59419I totally agree with this!! I feel like telling mycellf I will do it in moderation but knowing I smoke everyday is very hard. Sooo hard to find a middle ground. Smoking multiple times a day to just once a week or something just doesn’t even seem plausible 😭
@@NailahJenkins It didn't seem plausible to me either, trust me :) I'm only 2 weeks, but now rarely even think abt it. That first hump is usually hardest but I promise if you make urself busy it becomes way easier. Then it's just abt avoiding traps and pitfalls, u got this :)
I've gone off weed a few times now and always come back - I think for me it doesn't cause a lot of these 'problems'. I'm more focused, nicer, I can take a day off whenever I feel like it. Mentally more stable. all in balance
6 months has passed from my last joint,marihuana,I smoked it for 31years,no more panic,paranoid behavior,paranoid thinking,fear non stop,fear of normal life,blaming everyone for my mistakes,not lazy anymore,i was defending weed like its a religion,i am more confident i become day-to-day more confident, it's a fight for life.💪
Everything he is talking is true,everything.😉
And finally I can think normally.
But brain damage is for life,unfortunately,31years is a long time for smoking 24/7,but now life is better than before,it's real,it's beautiful, if I did that,you can do it too.😉
✌❤💚💙🍀🙏
28 years here. Thanks for sharing!!
Made the choice to change my relationship with cannabis. 7 days since I went cold on smoking it. There’s much better ways to have cannabis in your life instead of smoking it. It’s been a awesome reset after those first 3-4 days cravings. Stay strong guys, you got this too 💪🏾
Weed itself isn't addicting, and it's NOT BAD FOR YOU. People who suffer from self control and struggle with moderation will most likely suffer from addiction or poor self control habits But To each there own, weed helps me more than anything else ever has, not only for pain, but has helped me focus, has helped with panic attacks, my depression, my social anxiety, my really bad ADHD. Just over all mellows me tf out. I have really bad sensitivity issues to sound (kinda like super hearing except I can't control it) the volume gets turned up on certain things at random I can hear sounds others can't and from further distances too. I hate it, causes me to have massive headaches and it makes it hard to focus. But sadly, weed isn't exactly legal where I'm at. It's not something I can afford on a regular basis. But if I could smoke weed every day. I definitely would and probably would have a better and more productive happier life.
Been there. When you quit and can't eat for days, body temperature is all out of wack, can't sleep, and have wild emotion swings‐ you're going to realize how strong a substance it is. Once you get past those first few days/week(s) you're going to feel better than ever. You don't need it. It's a medicine and you're an addict missing out on life stoned all the time. Period.
Your 💯 percent right
Been smoking since 2008. Wounded in Iraq its helpped me with my phantom limb pain , dreams, and anxiety. I do believe there is a limit but still better then alcohol any day of the week
Thank you for your service.
Wow, congrats on over 15 years 🙌🏼✨ This gives me so much hope for a loved one! I will search your channel to see if you talk more about how you maintained it… we’re dealing with a lapse after a few years despite other healthy habits…
I quit smoking about 14 years ago. I quite drinking this year for 8 months. I was thinking about starting to smoke again. I grew 6 beautiful plants. Cured them and rolled a big J. I did enjoy it. But i just don't have the energy for it. I really enjoy being clear headed and sleeping well. Waking up feeling great.
How bout just smoke a bowl then. You grew 6 beautiful plants and rolled a big ass J?? How bout just smoking a little nug from the dispensary. You guys have these personal issues and blame it on the weed!!! LOL
I've been trying to quit, haven't done it for 2 weeks already. I want to be able to remember, focus and pay attention to details. I forget stuff very often and I don't want this to affect me in my new job, also because I want to be able to remember things again.
8 days clean this is a spiritual battle because. I really enjoyed smoking weed alot. As the days go its getting easier and I'm proud of myself. It got to a point i was smoking all day and depending on weed.
Hey brother, iv been smoking for a decade and on day 1 of quiting. How's it going with you?
@@darrenchoveaux8266 I'm on day 16 hang in there boss it gets easier as the days go. I use to smoke a lot lot so if I can do it, you can also mind over matter.
This video came at the perfect time.. God bless you, brother 🙏 😊
I’ve been a chronic user for 10+ years but have wanted to quit for a long time now. I’m unable to get through the initial withdrawal every time. It keeps me trapped in this shame cycle of trying to quit and feeling like a failure because I can’t, then feeling shame for continuing and repeat. I constantly question what things would be like if I could ever stop? Now no time ever feels like the right time because I can’t control my emotions when withdrawing and take it out on the people I care about. Just stuck in my own high paranoid head all the time.
I was exactly in your shoes until 3 days ago. Just gotta stop being a pussy and man up. YOU control your mind, you literally have to just not hit the bong. How I know that’s what it is, is cause I made all the same excuses as you, heard my friend was 7 days clean and I stopped immediately because I don’t want to fall behind in terms of success. That easy. Man up bro you got this, no pussy shit
I find for myself that it’s much easier for me to quit / take a break if I still have some left.. ie if I still have some on-hand and decide to take a break it’s much easier than if I run out completely, which induces panic of “re-upping” or having it available still.
I have decided to give fully quitting a go after some things related to work and also after having had a bad flu. I was already feeling like shit from the flu / fever so I wasn’t in the mood to smoke up and feel even more delirious. If you have friends that have also quit (whether it’s booze or trees or something heavier..) talking to them about your intent to quit may help to garner some support from them. You can do it though dude just take it one day at a time. Get the first day of not having any out of the way, then stick to it for 2, before you know it you’ll have it out of the way and be through the worst of the withdrawal and cravings.
You can do it bro! I believe in you. I've been smoking weed (5-9 joints) every day for the last 12 years. I've been tapering myself off the weed for the last 2 weeks to quit. It has destroyed my life for long enough. I'm now 3 days without it. The first two days was really fucking difficult. I just slept throughout most of the day, but the insomnia was fucking crazy during the night. Then I just preoccupied myself with video games, anime, series and movies to just distract myself as much as possible, it really helped a lot. Also, I'd tell myself:"Okay, just another hour dude, just go another hour without weed." After an hour, I'd just reaffirm that to myself again and say "just another hour". This was extremely helpful for me. Just take it one step at a time.
Today I actually felt so much better already, I actually can't remember when last I felt this way. I actually enjoyed mundane and simple things I didn't even notice before. It's as if I was asleep all this time and I'm starting to awake slowly but surely. I can't wait to see how my life changes for the better without this drug. I had mad cravings the first 2 days, but oddly enough today only now at night do I feel a slight agitation, but it's not that bad compared to the previous days. I guess I'm sharing this just to tell you, you're much stronger than you think you are and don't give yourself enough credit. If I can do it, you can too! Believe in yourself, because you matter.
Broo under pressure the most beautiful diamonds are made. I say cold turkey.. and forget the rest. I say pass that point of no return..
I quit for 60 days one time and it still felt like day 1 so I kept smoking. I'm totally nuts without weed.
Just use it 4x a month in forest for self love self development self realisation,, i mostly use it for learning new things, and keep tolerance level as much as possible
Couldn’t relate more to ‘losing myself’, though at the time I had no idea, I didn’t care because nothing else mattered but simple gratification and made all other moments dull
Happy for you bro!
Smoking(vaping dry herb, not oils) weed seriously saved my life, but to each their own. I can't imagine where I'd be without it. If anything makes you lazy and unhealthy then you should do your best to cut that out of your life. I'm an athlete and I eat healthy and enjoy life all around. Cannabis helps me with so much and doesn't have that negative effect of being lazy and doing dumb stuff or get the munchies on candy and chips. Their also has to be a balance, such as micro dosing vs smoking blunt after blunt which is unnecessary in my opinion. Glad you were able to make better life changes.
Real talk man… I support this message
That’s very true.Micro dosing is the answer. I’ve been smoking off and on for nigh on 40 years.But as you say ,I’ve never sat there smoking joint after joint ( unnecessary) I will instead roll a number and take 3/4 tokes and I’m good.!
I feel this too. The psychiatrist and neurologist want to knock me out with sedatives to help anxiety. I definitely have huge stressors in my life. I do not get lazy off herb. I get highly motivated. So, instead of being a dead zombie on propranolol or other anxiety meds... I have settled for microdosing herb.
Yooooooooooo! Thank you for this video. I'm looking to quit weed and liquor and long to feel and operate how you do with a clear mind. I relate to the beginning of your video a lot and it is exactly what I'm looking to feel like and accomplish being that it is something I use to combat anxiety. Thank you for the confirmation that everything is going to be alright since I'm trying to succeed in my business. Thank you for being a testimony IF you ever read this.
Thanks for sharing. Im on the same path and haven't been smoking for only a month now. Im starting to feel many of the things you talk about in this video and it is highly encouraging to know that from your experience it does get better. I really appreciate it.
You’re telling my whole story man. I can’t believe I finally broke the chains.
Great video! Thanks for sharing. I’m currently on day 12. So far my biggest obstacle is insomnia. No joke I’ve had zero sleep about 5-6 nights so far. Feeling pretty rough because of it. Just want to get serious about working out but the lack of sleep is making that difficult. Your vid highlights the exact positives that I want to have in my life and giving me the hope and strength to keep on keeping on!
I decided to quit weed, alcohol, caffeine and suger from the 3rd of jan 2024 and its the hardest thing i ever tired to do. I also use to do alot of cocaine and i quit 5 years ago and from my experience it wasn't as hard as it is to quit weed and booze maybe becuase i was smoking ALL DAY for 20 years without breaks. In this process i also decided to switch to career so i started studying and ooh boy, i am having massive headaches. I can't sleep more than 3-5 hours which really effecting my studying. I cannt study more than 1h at time, i have to take breaks every hour or i m having headaches and also my eyes get blurry and i get very emotional and even crying. The only thing that i saving me is meditation which i been practicing since high school (thank you god if you exist). I have panic attacks and trying to focus on my heart rate. So far i don't have much positive effects after quitting but i am not a quitter (very ironic), although i enjoy things that i thought i wouldn't when getting high. Maybe it still too early ..
any advise would be greatly appreciated !!
God is real a water fast can really reset you
I don't believe in God because i don't think there's sitting up there and recording my life and than would be like; ok you were good or bad and you are allow to go in or not. Its sound like a fairy tale made by man in power to put fear in people in order to control them which would be a good thing like killing and stealing. So its the same thing as: Do you believe in Santa Claus?
But i appreciate your effort, thank you. @@johngibson821
@@johngibson821 Hmm I will try , thx :)
Are you feeling better?
@@khaleesi-lua Yes i do, much better, finally my sleep is coming back after almost 7 weeks of sleeping only 3-5 hrs a night.
Thank yo so much 💓
Spending time with people who have common futures, not common pasts. ❤
I quit weed a long time ago all that came from it was depression and insomnia
Those are side effects from withdrawal....did you push through?
@@muffinatordlux I've been having these "symptoms" for over 2 years until I started smoking again
Do you stay away from alcohol as well? I’m not sure if I should stay away alcohol was never a problem but trying to be sober should that mean staying away from everything that alters your mind?
@@latinachick083109depends on your goals if you can use alcohol in moderation and it helps provide memories and experiences you deem worth the adverse side effects of drinking then make an educated decision whether or not it is worth keeping in your life