Hey, everyone! Thanks so much for watching this week's video. I'd love to hear your opinions on some of the topics Jordan and I discussed! Drop a comment, let's get conversations started. Take care! - Buck
And I love how you only platform people w the same beliefs who transitioned as adults and blase blase. Silence and scream at the adults that transitioned as teenagers 🤣 it's a weird vibe to say the least
@@kthatrapqueen there are thousands of trans channels with opposing views to mine with way more views than who would NEVER give voice to me or anyone like who I have on so I am giving voice to the voiceless you silence. Start your own channel if you dislike it
You guys are really awesome. I'm a Transexual woman and I voice my opinions often on tiktok and Ive been called a transphobe for speaking the truth. I just want to get a message across saying that real Transexuals who just want to blend in with the crowd are not part of the trans agenda. Love you loads Trans-pa ❤️
I'm sorry. You don't deserve that. I got tattled on for ASKING folks to, "Please don't call us 'cis'. It's offensive. Just call us normal, strait or heterosexual, okay?" So someone reported me for hate speech. It's not "normal" to be trans or homosexual, but that does NOT mean a person is all BAD for it. But-you're BAD for not wanting to be a "minority victim", I'm BAD for being an "oppressive majority" cringing at a creepy new label. 🤷♀️ In reality, you are simply of sound mind like Buck, and I don't approve of the new fast-food style transitioning going on. Neither one of us is doing anything wrong. You're okay, kiddo. (((hugs)))💗
@@Be12397 when I mean living stealth it means that I live my life normally, yeah some people know who I am, a lot don't and I'm well liked and respected because I just act normally.
We have lost the human capacity for discretion (another face of nuance). Everything has to be so extreme. I met my first transexual when I was 9. My mother (an artist & teacher) asked a woman round for supper. I was struck by how elegant she was. Tall, with a husky voice. Intelligent and funny. It was late when she left. I asked my mother if she'd be safe going under the subway so late. My mum just said, with gentle amusement; "She'll be fine, she's got long legs and she used to be a man." My mum expressed so much in that sentence. Respect, acceptance and "love". As a 9 year old I thought nothing of it. This woman was just special, and it was the other things about her personality that stayed with me; her intelligence and charm.
"No one's going to call you she/her if you look like he/him, babe." Exactly. I respect Jordan because she has put in the work to pass. I feel like this pronoun game is all about pacifying those who don't pass...I don't think it's good because it bolsters a person's false sense of reality that they do pass.
@Al I see what you're saying. One of my friends is a trans woman who's 6'5" and big-boned, and although there have been a few strangers who have misgendered her, even that's not common. I wish I had the words to describe this. . . I'm not at all good with words. . . When someone tries their hardest to "pass", that does come across, and her whole spirit shines through, and as a woman, I can feel this tangible connection with her as another woman; and this is how all of her friends always see her as a woman. She's the exact OPPOSITE of the transgender customer who went viral a few years ago when a Gamestop employee used "sir" instead of "ma'am". That customer is someone who was dressed more femininely than I dressed for work, yet still, that person's whole response was aggressively masculine.
@@Alsyoutubeaccount Yes. That is totally correct. Some people are too masculine to pass. And, you have to ask yourself, Are you subscribing to their false sense of reality if you refer to them as she/her if they are not passing? Wouldn't a truly good friend gently tell them that they are not passing? For example, I am a biological female who is occasionally mistaken for a man. If someone calls me "he", I don't get bent out of shape about it. That simply means I am presenting as more masculine to this person and if I want to be perceived as a woman (which I am, biologically), then I need to put in more effort to look feminine. The heartbreaking truth is some men will never pass as women whereas trans men have an easier time passing, in my opinion.
@@zxyatiywariii8 I agree with you...a lot of it has to do with demeanor. Most people are not going to be deliberately cruel. I think most people can sense a trans woman is trying and will address her as feminine.
@@Alsyoutubeaccount there are biological women that just straight up look like men because they have super masculine features. I would imagine a non-passing trans woman would deal with similar superficial issues that those extremely masculine women do. It all boils down to coming to terms with that reality so you can move on with your life.
@@purevenus6359Watching true transexual channels brings me to a simple conclusion. They have gone to psychologist for years before physically transitioning. I think this has helped them understand some underlying issues before dealing with the dysphoria. Once the dysphoria is addressed they have a very good understanding of themselves and are able to transition with confidence and understanding of the their life going forward.✌️
@@Tread1775 I accept both of these people as the gender they have transitioned to. Right now, I’m seeing a lot of people who claim to be trans who just want to take over women’s spaces, or seem to really not know themselves at all and are angry about it, so they’re taking it out on anyone who questions them. It’s fine and cool to go through questioning what gender is, and where we fit in, given the constraints gender performance has locked us into. But the questioning shouldn’t stop at the angry stage in this one area. It should stop at place where genuine gender dysphoria begins. I don’t know if I’m making sense. I’m a born woman, but I spent most of my childhood desperately wishing I could become a man when I grew up. I saw a lot of reasons not to want to be a woman- no power, silliness, pretending to be sweet, and being quiet all the time. Then I grew up. I became a woman. I would never in a billion years want to be a man now. Sure, some of those reasons are because of stereotypes. I hate hairiness, even in bio men. I don’t like the feel of male skin. I greatly prefer my female genitals. I tend to be “gender nonconforming” in many ways. I lift weights. I do all the rehabbing of my houses alone. I walk into a hardware store, you better have a *plan* if you want to get me out, because they have every darn thing at hardware stores and I’ll stay past closing, finding all the cool tools I need for a project. But I’m so femme! I don’t wear it much, but I love makeup. I love flowing, purple dresses and tops. I’m a mom, and I love being a mom. I had two girls, one is still living, and she has Down syndrome and autism, and I enjoy her however she is, because like *every other human being ever,* she has some more “masculine” traits, and some seriously “feminine” traits. That’s who she is. And just like I have masculine traits and feminine traits, that’s just me- I’m human. As long as we aren’t suffering the kind of dysphoria as Buck and Jordan did, and they did their counseling and questioning over time and thought deeply about who they believed they are, it’s a normal part of humanity to share both masculine and feminine traits. We need to teach this to others. It’s okay to be a man wearing a dress and makeup- but that doesn’t mean you are now a woman. Nor does it mean you’ve gone through the mental anguish of a true trans person. Please bring Jordan back! I love her!
Thank you so much for discussing the offensiveness of the term "cis." I am a woman and I want to be called a woman. Thank you so much for these valuable discussions and your clarity and sanity.
You make my heart so HAPPY!!! Thank you for understanding that some of us women don't like to be called cis women. When we say it, we get a lot of hate sometimes. Much love
Yeah, agreed just woman no "cis". And we weren't "assigned" a gender at birth, just born. I'm sick of all these ridiculous language changes that they're trying to normalize like pregnant "people", can't even be addressed as pregnant women. 🥴
@@planettes I'm 51 years old and IDGAF how you live your life, or what you do. As long as people are not out here hurting kid's. And you're blaming me for this happening. I don't voice my opinion on anyone. So you can sit TF down.
The female body goes through so many more changes in their puberty than we do. I could never carry a child and grow it like a garden inside of me. My body doesnt need to wire itself to be an incubator for another life. Buck it's okay to say female puberty is crazier than mine. You dont even gotta tip toe around that idea. Sane people will get what you're saying
Buck! I'm a recent subscriber and a transsexual man (and i took back that term thanks to you) and I'm so happy I found you. I transitioned in 2010 and I don't relate to the community anymore. Keep up the good work. There are too many children being harmed by this insane agenda. Thanks to you and Blaire and others for being a voice for them.
I'm not trans. I also dont believe what consenting adults do is my business IF it doesn't affect others. The only reason I got involved in this conversation is when biological men started forcing themselves into women's spaces and they started using children as guinea pigs.
“The way society perceives you has more to do with your gender than how you perceive yourself.” What a powerful quote! This has been an awesome conversation!
It's pure nonsense. Your sex is male or female regardless of how other people perceive you. Two people could perceive you very differently. That doesn't magically change your sex depending on who's looking at you. Case in point, a lot of people perceive Buck and Jordan as a man and woman. I don't. The voice, face, hands and shoulders etc. tell me what my spidey senses know. If I somehow got it wrong, that wouldn't change the fact that they're female and male, regardless of my personal, subjective perception.
@@StandYourGroundHomestead Yes, which is why it needs to be challenged, so people are free to be who they are, not who patriarchal society wants them to be.
@@StandYourGroundHomestead Sex stereotyping plays a huge role in oppressing people in society. For example, if you look at a woman who doesn't conform to 'femininity' and decide that must make her a man.
@Friend Binary The patriarchy is getting creative and making a huge comeback via genderism, but there are too many thinking, progressive, rational people in this world to let it pass. That's why 'trans' ideologues are experiencing a backlash right now.
Yall really help me with coping with the fact that I'm holding off on medically transitioning till I have my shit together, and I am mentally and financially stable
Very delayed response, but I hope you were able to see a GOOD therapist, who doesn't just practice affirming care, and explore why you feel the way you do. If that ended up resulting in you medically transitioning, I hope it goes smoothly and was the right decision for you.
It’s always nice to come to Buck’s channel and listen to logical, truthful conversation without drama or hate. One of the few spaces where you don’t feel totally insane. The OG LGBTQ community is scarce although I do feel they are out there but too afraid to speak because of the inverted world we now live in. I never thought I’d see the day when the so called “community” became the bullies. I’m a straight, biological female who has spent the majority of my life with and supporting the LGBTQ community. I’m now 51 but in my teens became best friends with a gay biological male who introduced me to a world and people I loved. His friends soon became my friends and we did everything together. Several of the guys, including my BFF did drag, we all went to the shows every week, we did gay day at Disney each year, his love for Broadway shows became my love for Broadway shows. We saw so many shows together then would come home and put on shows for each other lip syncing and laughing our asses off! Our group of friends ranged from gay to lesbian to trans and we all got along and had the best of times…. Now.. it has become the most hateful, exclusive community no longer supporting each other. It has been infiltrated and taken over by wannabes. The way they treat detransitioners is horrible. They have made a mockery out of what the O.G.s paved the way for. Sadly, my BFF passed away on Christmas Day 2020 and in my opinion not from covid itself but from the hospital’s protocol of improper medical care for Covid patients. If he was still here, he’d be an outspoken voice like yourselves. Thank you for continuing to speak out. If the true, authentic LGBTQ community would just realize their voices are more powerful than the phonies destroying everything you all have worked so hard for and the many that came before you, they would be able to take back their community. You really have to wonder why politically they are pushing this agenda so hard, destroying the lives of children.. it’s pure evil. I have a 21 year old daughter who between 3 and 12 in today’s world would have been considered trans but guess what … she grew out of it, that is why children should not do things to their bodies, including hormones, that can’t be undone. Never stop speaking out. 🤍🫶 🙌 🏳️🌈
@@melissamiddleton3026 ♥️♥️♥️ Thank you so much! I helped his mom clean out his apartment and I have his record collection and Broadway posters, I feel the same way, always with me.
Beautiful story of remembrance of your friend. ❤️ I'm sorry you lost him, he sounds like he was a lovely person. But you have such wonderful memories of your time together. I completely agree with you about the hospitals during that time. They absolutely knew that intubating someone was more than likely a death sentence. But they wanted that govt money for those covid deaths on the certificate. I hope when all the dust settles, people come together and sue the h@# out of the govt, hospitals, CDC, fauci and anybody else they can! I'm getting my blood pressure up, I'll leave it there. Have a lovely day Hun! ♥️♥️
Hey Bro, thank you for doing a show with Ashley. That was a very uplifting and informative show! As a straight, white, male , Christian Conservative, I am beat up by the MSM 24/7 for being "transphobic" just because of my demographics. While there are def a lot of people who cannot accept others based on the content of their character, I believe most people of my demographic and ideological ilk are respectful of how other people feel and wish nothing but the best for them. I think the more you share your personal journey and your perspective, the better this world will become. PLEASE, keep pushing and talking and relating your message. YOU will help the world become a better place.
"It's cispeople pretending to be non-binary". I think we can name quite a few musicians of the past who would be called non-binary now a days. She's right real authentic NB and T people just get on with life like the TINY minority we are. Great interview Buck and Jordan.
I also think that there's a high number of people who actually have other kinds of problems, who think they are trans. A 100 years schizophrenia would often lead someone to believe they were Napoleon. Now it's likely expressed through some gender thing. The same with less severe problems. Questions need to be asked, so people can get the treatment the need and not just what they think they want.
@@hildajensen6263 That's not i mpossible ... but my bet is there are people who have a low degree of dysphoria who are reaching to go full transsexual but they don't need it. They used to grade transsexuality on a scale from 0-6 and only a 5-6 would get transition care. Now if they still used that scale they'd treat a 2 or 3 exactly like a 5.
@@HontasFarmer80 With the number of people calling themselvs trans, it's quite possible that we are both right. - And that there are even more things going on.
The ideology is just 'opting in' to the gender dysphoria that transexuals suffer with, and using that for their little cult. Transexuals have unique medical and health needs, and denying the existence of their disorder, and the twisted ideology is going to harm transexuals because they get lumped in with the gender cult. You're stunning Jordan and ty for your voice.
The medical professionals who defined, diagnose and treat gender dysphoria are the ones saying you don't have to have it to be 'trans'. They make a very clear distinction between gender dysphoria and being 'trans' itself. It's hypocritical to accept their expertise when it suits you, and reject it when it doesn't.
Yes I am surprised more transexual people don't speak out. People are appropriating their disorder for attention or sexual kicks. It's fucked up and makes normal actual trans people look bad.
I found the comment to be vain, superficial and sexist. As though women have to be beautiful. I know it was half joking, but the kind of joke that reflects what you really think. Meanwhile, it's not that they're ugly. It's that they're either boys, girls, men or women and 'gender' is just sexist bullshit, as the aforementioned joke helpfully demonstrates.
Thank you so so much. As a Biological woman it really makes such a difference to hear these conversations because I do feel we are trying to be erased and I truly feel that actual Trans people will suffer from this. It's just sad all around.
Another amazing voice you've connected with Buck! Really appreciate listening to the both of you have this conversation. ❤❤❤. Peace and love to you both!
I would be really pissed off if I were you when the “face of trans” is a hairy man with a beard and lipstick. Normies see that as what trans means when some of us know transsexuals are not like that. I wish you well. I have a lot of respect for you both!
@@elizabeth-ty3he You mean their identity as in rebranding the physical biological realities of their opposite sex-class of human beings as a some-thing that “suits” their feelings about themselves more than the identity options they’ve assigned their own bodies to represent? & all with a couple prefixes: trans and cis; & maybe some surgery, or maybe not. Depends on how “authentic” you wanna get, ‘cos it’s us pesky normies thinking our observed at birth material realities have the bandwidth to house our self-expression as simply the ‘what we are’ with the ‘who we are’ tbd by our singular & individuate selves.
“Normies” didn’t create the “hairy man w/a beard and lipstick” then proclaim him trans/transsexual. That would be the bailiwick of the likes of the much celebrated by TRA Alex Drummond (Google him) who says: “I identify as a lesbian as I am female and attracted to women… I’m widening the bandwidth of how to be a woman.” [Mind you not the bandwidth of manhood, but womanhood] “[Six years ago,] Drummond started living as a woman and kept her awesome bushy beard. She also decided not to opt for hormones or surgery. [Per Drummond] “Post-transition I can look in the mirror and actually like the person I see - and that’s. pretty cool.” Drummond “went into schools on behalf of @stonewallUK to talk to kids about being a lesbian…” On behalf of Stonewall. Stonewall sent forth a man in a plaid skirt, knee-high boots, bushy beard and lipstick 💄 as a trans example of broadening how to be a woman. But it isn’t just the beard is it? It’s every man with a penis who proclaims himself a woman as if having a penis , or the experience of male physical sexual development is or can be a female experience at all. It literally isn’t & cannot be. It’s men trying so very desperately to somehow normalize that they cannot cease to be men on any level as a womanhood experience. No sale. A man with awesome fascial feminization surgery is only ever a man with awesome fascial feminization surgery. If he is living a full life, that penis is going to come out. I’m not saying that’s a bad thing, just that it’s a man thing
Jordan is beautiful and as far as the group of people I'm involved with, she's not the type of trans woman that is concerning us women. It's the women with the beards, mustaches, etc. The one's who think if they put on a dress and prance a bit.. then they have to be considered a woman! That's BS! Especially when they're in women's spaces with their Johnson's swinging around for all to see!! Nobody would ever question Jordan or Blaire using the women's spaces, THEY LOOK LIKE WOMEN! Unfortunately, if y'all aren't able to get a handle on it in the near future, especially with the experiments on children, a lot of states, if not the whole country (except for CA) are going to put a stop to a lot of it. I read 11 red states have laws coming up for votes to stop the bathroom use and kids medication and surgery. Love you Buck and your honesty. Your community needs people like you.. ❤️
I find so much comfort in listening to what you and your guests have to say, within the gender conversation, and beyond it, to simply what it means to find the courage to stand alone with knowledge, resilience and love. Because standing alone is a very difficult thing to do, but unfortunately having integrity often leaves people in that place. The world is a much better place because you’re in it!
I'm old school bisexual in my 6th decade of life. I don't know any transsexuals now, so I have no one to ask, but I've been wondering how transsexuals are feeling. I remember how it used to be for my friends and how hard they worked at it, as well as how LONG the process took. The circus has been in town for the last few years, and it doesn't seem to be doing transsexuals any favors. Heartfelt thanks for opening up about this. Respect for using the word "nefarious". I agree. There are a lot of imposters. This strange patchwork of "activists" seems to be comprised of misogynists, narcissists, sex offenders, autogynephiliacs, lost youth, fad-chasers...you name it. Our flag and our community used to mean something. Take care and Happy Birthday, Jordan!
I came over from Blair's channel. I love the conversations you have Buck. Thank you so much for actually sticking to your convictions and being true. Sending you love
The "it’s not a privilege, I had to work really hard" really resonated with me because I’m an artist and how many times I’ve been called "gifted" or that I was born with my skills when no, it took all my life to perfect them, drawing/painting is a skill that anyone can learn and to reduce it to being "gifted" or somehow not my hard work but some kind of god given gift is ridiculous lol
There is sometimes that little bit of a gift to begin with, but it takes so many years of work and education that any "gifts" become meaningless or just an inspiration you once had. How many photographers hear the words "You take really great photos, you must have a nice camera".
Jordan is absolutely gorgeous!! Not only her looks but her voice and her demeanor, beautiful. And I agree totally that the damage being done to the community can have serious impact on all Transsexuals. If the allies and wackos push too far, the pendulum can swing way too far the opposite way and that would be tragic. Real Transsexuals might lose the access to the meds and procedures they need to live full lives. I pray that folks keep coming forward and speaking the truth like you do. Definitely bring Jordan back for another episode, she's is awesome ❤️
You might be right, these trans people who are pushing this agenda of men getting their periods now n all these new terms n calling straight people transphobes etc. it can blow up in their faces causing them to lose their rights to the meds they have to take to transition. That might be what’s needed to stop this insanity. Transsexuals will end up being the ones who suffer in the end because of these modern day clowns who label everyone transphobes just cause we won’t call them by their numerous pronoun changes.
thank you so much for speaking up. I myself wanted to come out 5 years ago... but the this whole politization of the debate actually made it for me impossible - unless i would like to risk to destroy every single contact i have. The past years were a huge throwback... but videos like this one really give me hope. Thank you so much!
Also, it always in groups feels like the ones that are doing it right and with class get judged by outspoken nobodies who really are just trying to imitate. Happens in all communities. You both are really high quality representations and i'm thankful for this content!
Cis bisexual woman here - I personally don't feel that "cis" is a slur (thus use it for myself) and have never minded being called that. I don't think using the word "woman" for transwomen takes something away from me, or that transwomen are trying to horn in on my space by calling themselves women. They should take that label if that is what they want, as in my view, there is space enough under its umbrella for all of us. Personally, I fully welcome transwomen, as fellow females, into female spaces. But I do like what Jordan said about how she feels the goal is "different but equal." This is a great goal We want everyone to have equality! But to achieve this, I think ciswomen must accept that referring to transwomen as women isn't a threat to our identities as women. I can imagine Jordan having many of the same experiences as I have had, with the only difference being that she is going though that at a later age. We should consider transwomen our little sisters as their female experiences begin to inform who they are. Different, maybe, but so what? Aren't we ALL different? I find it hard to understand why some women want to shut transwomen out of female spaces, and frankly, it angers me. After all, if a person took on a trans identity and used it to abuse women, that person is an asshole no matter their gender or gender identity. It's pointless to use the existence of a few assholes as a reason to discriminate against all transwomen and bar them from female spaces. Hope my thoughts are coming across clearly enough. Love you both, you talk good sense.
I am not trans but I do have a family member who is and I love them so very much. I have been trying to educate myself so that I won't hurt her because I don't know any better. I have been learning a lot from you, & Blaire along with the guest's you both have. I don't know either of you in person but I have a great love for you all and I want to thank you for educating me.
Jordan is awesome, she makes so many good points. The more I see the more I'm leaning towards starting hrt, like it's been over ten years questioning. Not sure if I'm simply afraid of transitioning, maybe the permanence of it all? or what's holding me back? but... Definitely empowering. Thank you. 👋
At least if you are questioning and you’ve been patient, you have a huge advantage to really vet this out. Maybe find a good Thera to comb thru your life with a fine tooth comb and push back on you to make sure you have true gender dysphoria and would be one of the few people whose life would improve with transitioning. I only say this (as a non trans lady) to save you from any pain associated with making this decision and finding out it wasn’t the right one. The more I hear these stories, the more I realize that abuse (any kind), body image issues, etc can be mistaken for gender dysphoria. I commend you for your patience and I hope you can figure this thing out in stages instead or rushing in like a lot of the youth is doing. I’ve heard some transsexual people describe the gender dysphoria as a never ending feeling that they were born in the wrong body that causes the need to change into the opposite sex and assimilate/pass as that sex in order to alleviate that dysphoria. I hope you get the answers you seek cause I can’t imagine that feeling.
I'm a Christian Conservative who has absolutely no hate for Transexuals or Homosexuals. I might not understand it, but I have compassion for people who don't feel comfortable in their own skin. What has made this such a hot topic is the current quest to wipe womanhood, women, masculine men and innocent children off the map. They are preying on our children who don't have the capacity to understand what is actually going on with them. It's evil and nefarious. I hate the term "cis" and I feel "non-binary" is an absolute denial of biology and doesn't even make sense. I can respect Trans people who are adults who can acknowledge their true biology even though that's not how they identify.
I respect you and your guests so much for speaking about things that you care and are passionate about. I've learned so much from your videos and I am looking forward to more conversations that you'll have. Much love to ya'll, may you both be blessed in your lives.
I can explain why women get so mad about "cis". The word woman describes an adult human female, which biologically, that's what we are. That's our lived experience and being a woman is a biological experience as well not just a social experience. It seems like the woke trans movement came along and said "nope, bio women can no longer be described as just the word women (which describes an adult human female). we now need to add cis to woman to describe them bc we don't like being called a trans woman, we just want to be called a woman". Then bio women naturally are like um no, we don't NEED a prefix for what we are. Also, just like blair white says, why is being called a transwoman so offensive? That's legit what they are. Women and transwomen have two completely different lived experiences as well as biological experiences/parts. If your speaking about both i don't see why its offensive to use the term woman for a biological woman and transwomen for a transwoman--- even biological woman or transwoman. Its so bad now we have biological men claiming to have periods ect. It's pure delusion and i have personally noticed that it's really, really hurting trans acceptance. Women have no spaces dedicated to us anymore, and if we have any concerns and or/uncomfortable WE get canceled or called transphobic. As a woman, it feels like everyone's feelings and rights come before ours-- like always. It's frustrating beyond belief. When it comes to shared spaces-- if you look like a woman like blair or Jordan, NOBODY would even know!!! And im sure they wouldn't be flashing their genitals to biological women. It just opens women's spaces up to predators and i feel bad for my stance bc i know there are transwomen like blair white who pose 0 threat. Now, when it comes to sports, its a hard no for me. Biology is a huge part of sports and women need to be protected esp in combat sports.
@@jayrose4748and we don’t like being called cis. LGBT ppl want their pronouns and god forbid you get it wrong, well women didn’t ask to be called cis, so shouldn’t we have the same right to be just called women as LGBT ppl when they demand their pronouns?!
In my opinion transgender people who are not transexual are just gender non-conforming. It has nothing to do with their biological sex. I totally accept transsexuals not having bottom surgery. I accept transsexuals who can't pass due to prominent original sex characteristics. It is still obvious which pronouns they want me to use. Blaire and Jordan have solidarity with other women. They give off female energy. Blaire is open about not having bottom surgery but it doesn't matter to me. I am 100% sure she would not flash it in the women's bathrooms or changing rooms. Not only because it would make her uncomfortable but also because as a woman she understands that is what flashers do to women. I perceive Blaire and Jordan as women who have a condition or disorder that necessitated transitioning. I have liked Blaire for quite awhile but I'm a lefty so I am delighted to have leftist version of her to follow.
It’s because you and Blaire and Jordan have a similar sexuality. Majority of the issues are caused by heterosexual men who transition. You can literally SEE and HEAR the difference when a TS is sexually attracted to men, cause they act very similar to women. Energy wise.
Thank you buck for introducing me to Jordan she is a solid individual. This interview was refreshing! It is always good to see when more than 1 of yall come together and both speak logically. Honestly a lot of times it's just 1 of yall like buck or blaire going against the ideology and it's always refreshing to see more than 1 trans person speaking with honesty and nuance about these topics
You wouldn't believe how much I agree to everything you two said in this video, I'm 20 years post transition and for the last 10 years I've been screaming that transgenders are counter productive and damaging to us transexuals, I've got so much things to say about this subject, thank you for making this videos.
Another great video ❤️ I love your positive energy and strong commitment, it's a perfect mix and it makes your videos both interesting and informative 🙏
I am transexual woman and i 100% agree that we need to reclaim the term transexual to mean a person with gender dysphoria! I know I’m a woman, i have lived over 10 years comfortably in women’s spaces (thanks to medical intervention), and I’m treated as a woman in society, and that is what it means to me to be a transexual woman. I definitely don’t want attention for being transgender/transexual.
I found out from outpatient rehab that dark humor is actually a coping mechanism and trauma response. By turning a serious or traumatic event into comedy makes it easier to deal with and almost lessens it in a sense. Love you Buck!!
I am so over all of the extreme beliefs and cancel culture. I love these types of platforms. Good people sharing their thoughts and experiences. So much love and respect for you both
@33:23 the next minute is pure gold. I have always felt that when people gender you It can be used as a test or feedback as to how you are presenting. Use it to look at your self and Know what needs work to align to how you want to be perceived and who you are. P.S. Thankyou for Presenting The real faces of the transexual community and showing what it can be...
I went to a training seminar once where we had to go around the circle to say our pronouns. As an obvious woman, I found it insulting. So wouldn't one think it would be offensive/triggering to trans people as well? Like... The whole reason you transitioned was to be seen as a man/woman so that you _wouldn't_ have to clarify it, right? Wouldn't having to still point it out only increase dysphoria? 10 years or so ago it would have been considered extremely offensive to ask someone their pronouns/gender. So it just sounds like some rule that cis "progressives" invented to try to virtue signal their inclusivity. Very surprised trans people go along with it (then again, nothing in the alphabet cuIt makes sense anymore). 🤷♀️ Anyhow, I'm only half way through but great talk so far! =)
I totally agree, being asked what your pronouns are is to me personally offensive, it should be obvious what my pronouns are, as you rightly say we transitioned and live our lives quietly as our authentic selves, we work hard to get through this and be productive members of society, as I’ve said before I’m so glad I went through all this in the 80’s and not now as it’s just unreal what is going on 40 years later
I am a member of a theater company that works with people with disabilities. We never had that ritual until we worked with new graduates from Harvard University through an arts development grant. Theatre groups are easy will try anything once. But when I brought this up to the executive director as to why were doing this, and doesn’t this out people who may not want to be out. And if there was an exception to the rule can they not speak up for themselves. And the director said “No one who is transgender is pushing this ritual.” And she was right. It was pushed entirely by Harvard grads with entitlement issues.
Oh Gosh!! Love this ideas exchange.. I struggle just like Jordan and Buck being hated by the trans community for sharing my opinions on trans who haven’t dysphoria 🤦🏻♀️ Thank you, you both made my 2023 ❤️
I think the hardest thing for a lot of women that do not like being called "cis women" is that most of us were not included in this conversation, so for many, it came out of nowhere... and it's a designation that we never asked for because we have ALWAYS been just called women. Having a label thrown at you that you never asked can be very intrusive and insulting, especially when crazies online are using that label and saying that "cis women" should be considered as inferior. Not to mention all the horrific new labels that have been forced on as and are even being used by government officials: cis woman, birthing person, non-man, chest-feeder...etc. It keeps getting worse! So many women's spaces are being taken away without our say and now even our identities are being washed down without our say.
And slowly but surely a community of transsexuals talking nothing but common sense emerge from the woke ashes of the LGBTQ+ community. I always enjoy listening to you and your lovely guests Buck. It takes some serious balls to deal with the crap you do but you're making a difference and if I encounter anyone who is confused on the topic I always direct them to you, the most informed and experienced man on the topic. P.s. thank you for expressing our distaste for the new label 'cis'. I don't know why we didn't seem to get a say in that choice there.
I don't see common sense or logical sense here. I see illogic and self serving hypocricy. The 'cis' thing is a case in point. Buck and Jordan might be nice and polite and not call women 'cis' to their face, but they still support the concept of 'cis' and 'trans', including having it encoded into policy and law.
Thanks, Buck. Complicated and often nuanced conversations like this need to be heard more often within the Trans community. In one respect Im very grateful to the hard work that many activists have done in recent years to make my inclusion into the "F" club relatively easy. However in the past couple years now, particularly w/ the rise of "woke ideology", many of the things Ive been hearing around such topics as nonbinary identities and self ID just makes me want to crawl under a freaking rock,. But to put this in context, in years past, there was so much "gate keeping" that we were subjected to(and still are in some cases) by various Therapists and Docs. However I honestly believe if you are going to publicly identify yourself as, Trans, then you need to have SOME degree of "skin in the game". I also suspect that if I were a Teen/YA today I would likely classify myself as, Non Binary. However having had the benefit of several decades of lived experiences being a Cishet male, and then 5 years ago at the tender age of 57, having my "egg crack" and beginning my journey to living full time as a Trans female. I know that I am NOT the same as a Cis/genetic woman. I am a Trans woman :)
As a transsexual guy, I love your content, Buck! Super informative and sharing the truth around the true meaning of people like us! I wish everyone could listen to what you're saying before they make a big decision like this!! Much love to you!
Bio woman here .. cis wasn’t a slur until we became just “two types of women who are both equally women”. I totally agree with you Jordan, I think trans pride is surely about it being ok *not* to be a woman. I see a woman when I look at you, but you’re male and that’s fine. I think it’s deranged how people deny biology and I do think that the ultimate agenda from the creepy fetishists is to get away with whatever they want..
The fetishists are always heterosexual males. The feminine ones who date men like Jordan and Blaire are rarely the issue it’s always the transbians and the bio female non binary and gender fluids causing chaos and changing words!
This is one ''cis' woman who is glad to hear the voice of reason in these crazy times. Thank you for speaking out. I will definitely be watching more of your vids! x
"It's a scary thing to be real in this world" Eeshk! Thank goodness for ppl like Buck, Jordan, Blaire, Marcus, as well as amazing ppl like Arielle who are so brave to speak up against what we are told to think. Keep on keepin it real! Much love!
Jordan is fricken awesome… I’d love to see her more often. She voices so many of my own opinions as a fellow trans woman. As a transsexual woman I understand other woman’s fear of men, especially since I have the same fears. As a 5’4 passing trans woman I am perceived the same as other women and treated by society as the same. That certainly makes men as much of a threat to me as they are to other women.
From this point on I'm jumping on the movement and referring to myself as transexual. I've been watching Buck for some time now. I'm very much in line with his points of views. This is the first time I've seen Jordan. I hope to see much more of her in the future. I'd love to see her and Blaire get on a podcast together. Great video. You are changing the world tranpa. We ❤️ you.
Wow Jordan, I would never guessed you are trans, you look amazing and have a female voice. I’m so fascinated with people like you two, you’re really teaching me so much. As a mother of preteen children this issue is a serious concern to me. It’s taking the fear out it and arming me with real information and empathy. Well done. Thank you.
Thanks for your videos Buck, it’s a lot of comfort for me listening in and learning. My daughter is transitioning and she’s part of the young people your talking about the trans craze I guess you would say. My daughter started socially transitioning in high school she’s 22 now and she’s doing the testosterone just recently. I told her to listen to your post-cast Buck and I gave her your name, I hope she does. I’m really scared for my beautiful girl, but I can’t say girl, or daughter, I have to say they them. My daughter wants top surgery now and she won’t tell me if she’s getting bottom surgery. She also say she non-binary and she says she’s bisexual, I’m really confused, my daughter says she is trans as well. Some days she dresses like a boy and sometimes she’s dresses like a girl. I feel like my child is just lesbian, but I’m not allowed to say anything or I’m a bad bigot and transphobic and mom I feel hated by my daughter, I’m so sad and heartbroken and so I try to keep my mouth shut, or I’m in trouble. I love my beautiful girl/ boy now I guess, she biologically a girl and still looks like a girl, but her voice is starting to change.
sorry haven't met a single person that's been pleasant after saying they identify as non-binary, and being really rude when asked what that entails, what it means to be non-binary. never gotten an answer just really rude remarks And I'm not transphobic, I just don't understand what non-binary is, cause feeling like one sex or the other or both at different times, means nothing to me, as I'm a man and I can't say for certain I know what feeling like a man is, I know the experience of being a man for 24-25 years but that's not something a non-binary person could claim if they are of the opposite sex. And any non-binary people seeing this, please done hesitate to challenge/respond and or answer any of this, I don't have any ill intent towards you.
Buck, another great guest! Jordan needs to speak up more... you've found another voice to amplify! Well done Buck. Jordan is another voice of reason, another adult in the room! Transsexuals like Jordan who fully assume the role of women, which INCLUDES speaking WITH women, not AGAINST them.... we can all get behind that. I'm a woman who's now classed as a "TERF", I'm not trans, I'm born female and completely comfortable with that. What I'm NOT comfortable with is all the hatred for women from supposed transwomen who still think and act like men, and misogynist men at that. What the hell is that all about?? How can these people say they're women, but at the same time HATE women???? What the hell???
Personally, I can't stand when people refer to biological women as "cis" women. I know "cis" is Latin for "on this side of" but for someone to prefix male and female genders with it in the early 90s doesn't mean I have to accept it. Let's face it, biology is biology. The fact that young people today appear to struggle with the question "What is a woman"? is just plain sad.
This is such an important conversation! Not only are women losing their rights but also the lgbt community. We fought so hard for both. I also think there are loud mouthed cis genders hiding behind a trans mask and they might be a minority but they are super loud
Anyway..don't know who this woman is...she looks like a woman sounds like a woman has the grace of a woman is not outlandish or disgusting and I appreciate that.
@@tiffprendergast nah...it's to prove that she is a girl or whatever..I'm tired of it all if you act normal...keep your b.s to yourself look like a human man or woman...don't try to have sex with a child ...then carry on...don't ram weird shit on the rest of human society that isn't that which is like 95 percent then by all means show some clevedge just literally act like a real woman .
When I was a teen, I developed endometriosis and I felt like my body was betraying me. I think that's why I always felt compassion and a kinship to trans people. Today, it's a totally different story. The young trans who are on the iternet are just caricatures trying to get rich and famous. I don't even believe some are truly trans. Thank you, Buck, for showing the world the positive side.
@2:40 this is my exact response to when people call me privileged for being skinny. No I dont have good jeans. I work HARD to have the body I have. I work out, I eat well. I don't abuse my body. People who sling the word "privilege" at everything are just unwilling to work for their goals.
Normally, this might sound sexist, but if I saw Jordan on the street I'd want to ask her out. In this context, that's a compliment on how amazing her "passing" is. Endgame: achieved.
Everyone can & should speak up! U 2 are awesome ppl!!! Thanks so much for speakin up & out / & the truth 🙏 bless u both! Community is wonderful & I feel we should all be one Community instead of dividing each other up in all these different boxes. I don't care if someone is heterosexual bisexual transsexual etc. We're all human and should have compassion and love respect for 1 another no matter what. But also not push our own ideals & opinions on others. We're all different in some way but that's ok 👍 what a boring world 🌎 this would be. Stick together ❤️ And jfyi I don't like the cis woman/man box! Hate it really! I do my best to try & love all ppl. But there's some who make that really very hard to do
Hey, everyone! Thanks so much for watching this week's video. I'd love to hear your opinions on some of the topics Jordan and I discussed! Drop a comment, let's get conversations started. Take care! - Buck
She's so bright and beautiful.
Felt myself constantly agreeing.
We need more sane voices like you two.
Hope you have her back on on the future =)
@Anne Onymous I agree 100%. The whole episode I was nodding my head in agreement with everything she said.
It's always people who transitioned LATE crying about transgender kids being allowed access to medical care.
And I love how you only platform people w the same beliefs who transitioned as adults and blase blase. Silence and scream at the adults that transitioned as teenagers 🤣 it's a weird vibe to say the least
@@kthatrapqueen there are thousands of trans channels with opposing views to mine with way more views than who would NEVER give voice to me or anyone like who I have on so I am giving voice to the voiceless you silence. Start your own channel if you dislike it
You guys are really awesome. I'm a Transexual woman and I voice my opinions often on tiktok and Ive been called a transphobe for speaking the truth. I just want to get a message across saying that real Transexuals who just want to blend in with the crowd are not part of the trans agenda. Love you loads Trans-pa ❤️
YOU DESERVE ALL THE LOVE AND RESPECT IN THE WORLD!!! ❤🧡💛💚💙💜
I'm sorry. You don't deserve that. I got tattled on for ASKING folks to, "Please don't call us 'cis'. It's offensive. Just call us normal, strait or heterosexual, okay?" So someone reported me for hate speech. It's not "normal" to be trans or homosexual, but that does NOT mean a person is all BAD for it. But-you're BAD for not wanting to be a "minority victim", I'm BAD for being an "oppressive majority" cringing at a creepy new label. 🤷♀️ In reality, you are simply of sound mind like Buck, and I don't approve of the new fast-food style transitioning going on. Neither one of us is doing anything wrong. You're okay, kiddo. (((hugs)))💗
Living stealth is looked down upon. What a world. Keep telling the truth!
@@Be12397 when I mean living stealth it means that I live my life normally, yeah some people know who I am, a lot don't and I'm well liked and respected because I just act normally.
@@andreaberryman5354 ❤️💖
We have lost the human capacity for discretion (another face of nuance). Everything has to be so extreme. I met my first transexual when I was 9. My mother (an artist & teacher) asked a woman round for supper. I was struck by how elegant she was. Tall, with a husky voice. Intelligent and funny. It was late when she left. I asked my mother if she'd be safe going under the subway so late. My mum just said, with gentle amusement; "She'll be fine, she's got long legs and she used to be a man." My mum expressed so much in that sentence. Respect, acceptance and "love". As a 9 year old I thought nothing of it. This woman was just special, and it was the other things about her personality that stayed with me; her intelligence and charm.
Love this story lol !
And let me guess...she just blended in with society.
The way I believe its intended to be.
"No one's going to call you she/her if you look like he/him, babe." Exactly. I respect Jordan because she has put in the work to pass. I feel like this pronoun game is all about pacifying those who don't pass...I don't think it's good because it bolsters a person's false sense of reality that they do pass.
What about people who try their hardest to pass but cannot? I think some people just look too masculine biologically to ever look “passable”
@Al I see what you're saying. One of my friends is a trans woman who's 6'5" and big-boned, and although there have been a few strangers who have misgendered her, even that's not common. I wish I had the words to describe this. . . I'm not at all good with words. . .
When someone tries their hardest to "pass", that does come across, and her whole spirit shines through, and as a woman, I can feel this tangible connection with her as another woman; and this is how all of her friends always see her as a woman.
She's the exact OPPOSITE of the transgender customer who went viral a few years ago when a Gamestop employee used "sir" instead of "ma'am". That customer is someone who was dressed more femininely than I dressed for work, yet still, that person's whole response was aggressively masculine.
@@Alsyoutubeaccount Yes. That is totally correct. Some people are too masculine to pass. And, you have to ask yourself, Are you subscribing to their false sense of reality if you refer to them as she/her if they are not passing? Wouldn't a truly good friend gently tell them that they are not passing? For example, I am a biological female who is occasionally mistaken for a man. If someone calls me "he", I don't get bent out of shape about it. That simply means I am presenting as more masculine to this person and if I want to be perceived as a woman (which I am, biologically), then I need to put in more effort to look feminine. The heartbreaking truth is some men will never pass as women whereas trans men have an easier time passing, in my opinion.
@@zxyatiywariii8 I agree with you...a lot of it has to do with demeanor. Most people are not going to be deliberately cruel. I think most people can sense a trans woman is trying and will address her as feminine.
@@Alsyoutubeaccount there are biological women that just straight up look like men because they have super masculine features. I would imagine a non-passing trans woman would deal with similar superficial issues that those extremely masculine women do. It all boils down to coming to terms with that reality so you can move on with your life.
I’d never think Buck was ever a woman, & I’d never think Jordan was born a man from watching this right now. Y’all look incredible!
This is what real transxuals have been for many decades.
@@purevenus6359Watching true transexual channels brings me to a simple conclusion. They have gone to psychologist for years before physically transitioning. I think this has helped them understand some underlying issues before dealing with the dysphoria. Once the dysphoria is addressed they have a very good understanding of themselves and are able to transition with confidence and understanding of the their life going forward.✌️
@@Tread1775 I accept both of these people as the gender they have transitioned to. Right now, I’m seeing a lot of people who claim to be trans who just want to take over women’s spaces, or seem to really not know themselves at all and are angry about it, so they’re taking it out on anyone who questions them. It’s fine and cool to go through questioning what gender is, and where we fit in, given the constraints gender performance has locked us into. But the questioning shouldn’t stop at the angry stage in this one area. It should stop at place where genuine gender dysphoria begins. I don’t know if I’m making sense. I’m a born woman, but I spent most of my childhood desperately wishing I could become a man when I grew up. I saw a lot of reasons not to want to be a woman- no power, silliness, pretending to be sweet, and being quiet all the time.
Then I grew up. I became a woman. I would never in a billion years want to be a man now. Sure, some of those reasons are because of stereotypes. I hate hairiness, even in bio men. I don’t like the feel of male skin. I greatly prefer my female genitals.
I tend to be “gender nonconforming” in many ways. I lift weights. I do all the rehabbing of my houses alone. I walk into a hardware store, you better have a *plan* if you want to get me out, because they have every darn thing at hardware stores and I’ll stay past closing, finding all the cool tools I need for a project. But I’m so femme! I don’t wear it much, but I love makeup. I love flowing, purple dresses and tops. I’m a mom, and I love being a mom. I had two girls, one is still living, and she has Down syndrome and autism, and I enjoy her however she is, because like *every other human being ever,* she has some more “masculine” traits, and some seriously “feminine” traits. That’s who she is. And just like I have masculine traits and feminine traits, that’s just me- I’m human. As long as we aren’t suffering the kind of dysphoria as Buck and Jordan did, and they did their counseling and questioning over time and thought deeply about who they believed they are, it’s a normal part of humanity to share both masculine and feminine traits. We need to teach this to others. It’s okay to be a man wearing a dress and makeup- but that doesn’t mean you are now a woman. Nor does it mean you’ve gone through the mental anguish of a true trans person.
Please bring Jordan back! I love her!
It's not about what you think though. It's about what they are.
@@Mel-wn9gb like Jordan Jersey said
"The way society perceives you has more to do with your gender than how you perceived yourself."
Thank you so much for discussing the offensiveness of the term "cis." I am a woman and I want to be called a woman. Thank you so much for these valuable discussions and your clarity and sanity.
You make my heart so HAPPY!!! Thank you for understanding that some of us women don't like to be called cis women. When we say it, we get a lot of hate sometimes. Much love
I agree with Rhonda.
You getting hate for saying that, shows how misogenistic some woke trans ppl are... Sending much love dear
Agreed.
Cis is a slur.
Yeah, agreed just woman no "cis". And we weren't "assigned" a gender at birth, just born. I'm sick of all these ridiculous language changes that they're trying to normalize like pregnant "people", can't even be addressed as pregnant women. 🥴
@@planettes I'm 51 years old and IDGAF how you live your life, or what you do. As long as people are not out here hurting kid's. And you're blaming me for this happening. I don't voice my opinion on anyone. So you can sit TF down.
The female body goes through so many more changes in their puberty than we do. I could never carry a child and grow it like a garden inside of me. My body doesnt need to wire itself to be an incubator for another life. Buck it's okay to say female puberty is crazier than mine. You dont even gotta tip toe around that idea. Sane people will get what you're saying
Buck! I'm a recent subscriber and a transsexual man (and i took back that term thanks to you) and I'm so happy I found you. I transitioned in 2010 and I don't relate to the community anymore. Keep up the good work. There are too many children being harmed by this insane agenda. Thanks to you and Blaire and others for being a voice for them.
I'm not trans. I also dont believe what consenting adults do is my business IF it doesn't affect others. The only reason I got involved in this conversation is when biological men started forcing themselves into women's spaces and they started using children as guinea pigs.
“The way society perceives you has more to do with your gender than how you perceive yourself.” What a powerful quote! This has been an awesome conversation!
It's pure nonsense. Your sex is male or female regardless of how other people perceive you. Two people could perceive you very differently. That doesn't magically change your sex depending on who's looking at you. Case in point, a lot of people perceive Buck and Jordan as a man and woman. I don't. The voice, face, hands and shoulders etc. tell me what my spidey senses know. If I somehow got it wrong, that wouldn't change the fact that they're female and male, regardless of my personal, subjective perception.
Stereotyping also plays a huge role in why your gender is perceived a certain way by society.
@@StandYourGroundHomestead Yes, which is why it needs to be challenged, so people are free to be who they are, not who patriarchal society wants them to be.
@@StandYourGroundHomestead Sex stereotyping plays a huge role in oppressing people in society. For example, if you look at a woman who doesn't conform to 'femininity' and decide that must make her a man.
@Friend Binary The patriarchy is getting creative and making a huge comeback via genderism, but there are too many thinking, progressive, rational people in this world to let it pass. That's why 'trans' ideologues are experiencing a backlash right now.
Fully transitioned in 1985. Moved on. Trans no longer dominates my whole existence.
Yall really help me with coping with the fact that I'm holding off on medically transitioning till I have my shit together, and I am mentally and financially stable
Good for you x
Very delayed response, but I hope you were able to see a GOOD therapist, who doesn't just practice affirming care, and explore why you feel the way you do. If that ended up resulting in you medically transitioning, I hope it goes smoothly and was the right decision for you.
It’s always nice to come to Buck’s channel and listen to logical, truthful conversation without drama or hate. One of the few spaces where you don’t feel totally insane. The OG LGBTQ community is scarce although I do feel they are out there but too afraid to speak because of the inverted world we now live in. I never thought I’d see the day when the so called “community” became the bullies. I’m a straight, biological female who has spent the majority of my life with and supporting the LGBTQ community. I’m now 51 but in my teens became best friends with a gay biological male who introduced me to a world and people I loved. His friends soon became my friends and we did everything together. Several of the guys, including my BFF did drag, we all went to the shows every week, we did gay day at Disney each year, his love for Broadway shows became my love for Broadway shows. We saw so many shows together then would come home and put on shows for each other lip syncing and laughing our asses off! Our group of friends ranged from gay to lesbian to trans and we all got along and had the best of times…. Now.. it has become the most hateful, exclusive community no longer supporting each other. It has been infiltrated and taken over by wannabes. The way they treat detransitioners is horrible. They have made a mockery out of what the O.G.s paved the way for. Sadly, my BFF passed away on Christmas Day 2020 and in my opinion not from covid itself but from the hospital’s protocol of improper medical care for Covid patients. If he was still here, he’d be an outspoken voice like yourselves. Thank you for continuing to speak out. If the true, authentic LGBTQ community would just realize their voices are more powerful than the phonies destroying everything you all have worked so hard for and the many that came before you, they would be able to take back their community. You really have to wonder why politically they are pushing this agenda so hard, destroying the lives of children.. it’s pure evil. I have a 21 year old daughter who between 3 and 12 in today’s world would have been considered trans but guess what … she grew out of it, that is why children should not do things to their bodies, including hormones, that can’t be undone. Never stop speaking out. 🤍🫶 🙌 🏳️🌈
So agree. I'm happy you had the great times w/your friend & I'm sure he'll still be around you watching out for you. Friends are forever.
Ps ... I am sorry the other agenda pushed killed your friend. This word science anymore is non believable.
@@melissamiddleton3026 ♥️♥️♥️ Thank you so much! I helped his mom clean out his apartment and I have his record collection and Broadway posters, I feel the same way, always with me.
@@melissamiddleton3026 Thank you. Without a doubt what they were doing in their treatment back then was a death sentence, even for a healthy person.
Beautiful story of remembrance of your friend. ❤️ I'm sorry you lost him, he sounds like he was a lovely person. But you have such wonderful memories of your time together.
I completely agree with you about the hospitals during that time. They absolutely knew that intubating someone was more than likely a death sentence. But they wanted that govt money for those covid deaths on the certificate. I hope when all the dust settles, people come together and sue the h@# out of the govt, hospitals, CDC, fauci and anybody else they can!
I'm getting my blood pressure up, I'll leave it there. Have a lovely day Hun! ♥️♥️
Hey Bro, thank you for doing a show with Ashley. That was a very uplifting and informative show! As a straight, white, male , Christian Conservative, I am beat up by the MSM 24/7 for being "transphobic" just because of my demographics. While there are def a lot of people who cannot accept others based on the content of their character, I believe most people of my demographic and ideological ilk are respectful of how other people feel and wish nothing but the best for them. I think the more you share your personal journey and your perspective, the better this world will become. PLEASE, keep pushing and talking and relating your message. YOU will help the world become a better place.
"It's cispeople pretending to be non-binary". I think we can name quite a few musicians of the past who would be called non-binary now a days. She's right real authentic NB and T people just get on with life like the TINY minority we are. Great interview Buck and Jordan.
I also think that there's a high number of people who actually have other kinds of problems, who think they are trans.
A 100 years schizophrenia would often lead someone to believe they were Napoleon. Now it's likely expressed through some gender thing.
The same with less severe problems.
Questions need to be asked, so people can get the treatment the need and not just what they think they want.
@@hildajensen6263 That's not i mpossible ... but my bet is there are people who have a low degree of dysphoria who are reaching to go full transsexual but they don't need it. They used to grade transsexuality on a scale from 0-6 and only a 5-6 would get transition care.
Now if they still used that scale they'd treat a 2 or 3 exactly like a 5.
@@HontasFarmer80 With the number of people calling themselvs trans, it's quite possible that we are both right. - And that there are even more things going on.
Thank you, Buck, for being openly out against the transitioning of children.
The ideology is just 'opting in' to the gender dysphoria that transexuals suffer with, and using that for their little cult. Transexuals have unique medical and health needs, and denying the existence of their disorder, and the twisted ideology is going to harm transexuals because they get lumped in with the gender cult. You're stunning Jordan and ty for your voice.
The medical professionals who defined, diagnose and treat gender dysphoria are the ones saying you don't have to have it to be 'trans'. They make a very clear distinction between gender dysphoria and being 'trans' itself. It's hypocritical to accept their expertise when it suits you, and reject it when it doesn't.
Yes I am surprised more transexual people don't speak out. People are appropriating their disorder for attention or sexual kicks. It's fucked up and makes normal actual trans people look bad.
She is a Diva!!! IJordan has such a kindness, a sweetness to say the truth... That's what this world needs desperately!
Excellent guest. Thanks for this interview. I’m a 55 year old biological woman. THANK YOU for considering us in your discussion on the subject.
Jordan: "...It's because they're ugly..."
BASED!!! I love a based, grounded individual! And it is so true!
I found the comment to be vain, superficial and sexist. As though women have to be beautiful. I know it was half joking, but the kind of joke that reflects what you really think. Meanwhile, it's not that they're ugly. It's that they're either boys, girls, men or women and 'gender' is just sexist bullshit, as the aforementioned joke helpfully demonstrates.
@@Mel-wn9gb you are entitled to that opinion.
@@Mel-wn9gb 🙄
She doesn't pass, tho.
@@fullup91 I don’t think he does either. Especially when he talks.
I remember when blue hair meant someone was cool.
Now it's a red flag.
You are so right
Thank you so so much. As a Biological woman it really makes such a difference to hear these conversations because I do feel we are trying to be erased and I truly feel that actual Trans people will suffer from this. It's just sad all around.
Another amazing voice you've connected with Buck! Really appreciate listening to the both of you have this conversation. ❤❤❤. Peace and love to you both!
I would be really pissed off if I were you when the “face of trans” is a hairy man with a beard and lipstick. Normies see that as what trans means when some of us know transsexuals are not like that. I wish you well. I have a lot of respect for you both!
You guys are the normies. You want everyone in their neat pink and blue boxes.
@mel. Transexuals just want to preserve their identity, that’s not the same as putting others in a box.
@@elizabeth-ty3he The very concept of 'gender identity' relies on putting people in boxes.
@@elizabeth-ty3he You mean their identity as in rebranding the physical biological realities of their opposite sex-class of human beings as a some-thing that “suits” their feelings about themselves more than the identity options they’ve assigned their own bodies to represent? & all with a couple prefixes: trans and cis; & maybe some surgery, or maybe not. Depends on how “authentic” you wanna get, ‘cos it’s us pesky normies thinking our observed at birth material realities have the bandwidth to house our self-expression as simply the ‘what we are’ with the ‘who we are’ tbd by our singular & individuate selves.
“Normies” didn’t create the “hairy man w/a beard and lipstick” then proclaim him trans/transsexual. That would be the bailiwick of the likes of the much celebrated by TRA Alex Drummond (Google him) who says: “I identify as a lesbian as I am female and attracted to women… I’m widening the bandwidth of how to be a woman.” [Mind you not the bandwidth of manhood, but womanhood] “[Six years ago,] Drummond started living as a woman and kept her awesome bushy beard. She also decided not to opt for hormones or surgery. [Per Drummond] “Post-transition I can look in the mirror and actually like the person I see - and that’s. pretty cool.”
Drummond “went into schools on behalf of @stonewallUK to talk to kids about being a lesbian…”
On behalf of Stonewall. Stonewall sent forth a man in a plaid skirt, knee-high boots, bushy beard and lipstick 💄 as a trans example of broadening how to be a woman.
But it isn’t just the beard is it? It’s every man with a penis who proclaims himself a woman as if having a penis , or the experience of male physical sexual development is or can be a female experience at all. It literally isn’t & cannot be.
It’s men trying so very desperately to somehow normalize that they cannot cease to be men on any level as a womanhood experience. No sale.
A man with awesome fascial feminization surgery is only ever a man with awesome fascial feminization surgery. If he is living a full life, that penis is going to come out. I’m not saying that’s a bad thing, just that it’s a man thing
Much love, Buck! What yall are saying is so important for people to hear!
Yes! Bring Jordan back 🔙
Jordan is beautiful and as far as the group of people I'm involved with, she's not the type of trans woman that is concerning us women. It's the women with the beards, mustaches, etc. The one's who think if they put on a dress and prance a bit.. then they have to be considered a woman! That's BS! Especially when they're in women's spaces with their Johnson's swinging around for all to see!! Nobody would ever question Jordan or Blaire using the women's spaces, THEY LOOK LIKE WOMEN!
Unfortunately, if y'all aren't able to get a handle on it in the near future, especially with the experiments on children, a lot of states, if not the whole country (except for CA) are going to put a stop to a lot of it. I read 11 red states have laws coming up for votes to stop the bathroom use and kids medication and surgery.
Love you Buck and your honesty. Your community needs people like you.. ❤️
Been following Jordan for years and years. Well before her transition. So glad to see you guys talk!
I find so much comfort in listening to what you and your guests have to say, within the gender conversation, and beyond it, to simply what it means to find the courage to stand alone with knowledge, resilience and love. Because standing alone is a very difficult thing to do, but unfortunately having integrity often leaves people in that place. The world is a much better place because you’re in it!
Thank you my friend! I appreciate you❤️
Jordan is such a beautiful woman, with a lot of commonsense.
Love this conversation 💕 ❤
@Devil's Logic yes in part. Biologically a man but is using what is available to control the symptoms of gender dysphoria by transitioning.
@@ceciliajones7816 there is literally nothing female about him. It's nothing more than an autgynaphilic costume.
Happy Birthday Jordan! Thanks Buck and Jordan for speaking out in a world that keeps getting crazier. 🤯
It sure does.
I'm old school bisexual in my 6th decade of life. I don't know any transsexuals now, so I have no one to ask, but I've been wondering how transsexuals are feeling. I remember how it used to be for my friends and how hard they worked at it, as well as how LONG the process took. The circus has been in town for the last few years, and it doesn't seem to be doing transsexuals any favors. Heartfelt thanks for opening up about this. Respect for using the word "nefarious". I agree. There are a lot of imposters. This strange patchwork of "activists" seems to be comprised of misogynists, narcissists, sex offenders, autogynephiliacs, lost youth, fad-chasers...you name it. Our flag and our community used to mean something. Take care and Happy Birthday, Jordan!
I came over from Blair's channel. I love the conversations you have Buck. Thank you so much for actually sticking to your convictions and being true. Sending you love
The "it’s not a privilege, I had to work really hard" really resonated with me because I’m an artist and how many times I’ve been called "gifted" or that I was born with my skills when no, it took all my life to perfect them, drawing/painting is a skill that anyone can learn and to reduce it to being "gifted" or somehow not my hard work but some kind of god given gift is ridiculous lol
There is sometimes that little bit of a gift to begin with, but it takes so many years of work and education that any "gifts" become meaningless or just an inspiration you once had.
How many photographers hear the words "You take really great photos, you must have a nice camera".
Thanks!
Jordan is absolutely gorgeous!! Not only her looks but her voice and her demeanor, beautiful. And I agree totally that the damage being done to the community can have serious impact on all Transsexuals. If the allies and wackos push too far, the pendulum can swing way too far the opposite way and that would be tragic. Real Transsexuals might lose the access to the meds and procedures they need to live full lives. I pray that folks keep coming forward and speaking the truth like you do. Definitely bring Jordan back for another episode, she's is awesome ❤️
You might be right, these trans people who are pushing this agenda of men getting their periods now n all these new terms n calling straight people transphobes etc. it can blow up in their faces causing them to lose their rights to the meds they have to take to transition. That might be what’s needed to stop this insanity. Transsexuals will end up being the ones who suffer in the end because of these modern day clowns who label everyone transphobes just cause we won’t call them by their numerous pronoun changes.
thank you so much for speaking up. I myself wanted to come out 5 years ago... but the this whole politization of the debate actually made it for me impossible - unless i would like to risk to destroy every single contact i have.
The past years were a huge throwback... but videos like this one really give me hope. Thank you so much!
Jordan is positively gorgeous! Inside and out!
Also, it always in groups feels like the ones that are doing it right and with class get judged by outspoken nobodies who really are just trying to imitate. Happens in all communities. You both are really high quality representations and i'm thankful for this content!
Loved this interview! She was so laidback and cool 🖤
Cis bisexual woman here - I personally don't feel that "cis" is a slur (thus use it for myself) and have never minded being called that. I don't think using the word "woman" for transwomen takes something away from me, or that transwomen are trying to horn in on my space by calling themselves women. They should take that label if that is what they want, as in my view, there is space enough under its umbrella for all of us. Personally, I fully welcome transwomen, as fellow females, into female spaces. But I do like what Jordan said about how she feels the goal is "different but equal." This is a great goal We want everyone to have equality! But to achieve this, I think ciswomen must accept that referring to transwomen as women isn't a threat to our identities as women. I can imagine Jordan having many of the same experiences as I have had, with the only difference being that she is going though that at a later age. We should consider transwomen our little sisters as their female experiences begin to inform who they are. Different, maybe, but so what? Aren't we ALL different? I find it hard to understand why some women want to shut transwomen out of female spaces, and frankly, it angers me. After all, if a person took on a trans identity and used it to abuse women, that person is an asshole no matter their gender or gender identity. It's pointless to use the existence of a few assholes as a reason to discriminate against all transwomen and bar them from female spaces. Hope my thoughts are coming across clearly enough. Love you both, you talk good sense.
This makes me feel more sane! Thank you!
I am not trans but I do have a family member who is and I love them so very much. I have been trying to educate myself so that I won't hurt her because I don't know any better. I have been learning a lot from you, & Blaire along with the guest's you both have. I don't know either of you in person but I have a great love for you all and I want to thank you for educating me.
Jordan is awesome, she makes so many good points. The more I see the more I'm leaning towards starting hrt, like it's been over ten years questioning. Not sure if I'm simply afraid of transitioning, maybe the permanence of it all? or what's holding me back? but... Definitely empowering. Thank you. 👋
Try living as the opposite gender for a month or more and see if it solidifies your mindset either way. Like a "test run" before you buy the car.
At least if you are questioning and you’ve been patient, you have a huge advantage to really vet this out. Maybe find a good Thera to comb thru your life with a fine tooth comb and push back on you to make sure you have true gender dysphoria and would be one of the few people whose life would improve with transitioning. I only say this (as a non trans lady) to save you from any pain associated with making this decision and finding out it wasn’t the right one. The more I hear these stories, the more I realize that abuse (any kind), body image issues, etc can be mistaken for gender dysphoria. I commend you for your patience and I hope you can figure this thing out in stages instead or rushing in like a lot of the youth is doing. I’ve heard some transsexual people describe the gender dysphoria as a never ending feeling that they were born in the wrong body that causes the need to change into the opposite sex and assimilate/pass as that sex in order to alleviate that dysphoria. I hope you get the answers you seek cause I can’t imagine that feeling.
I'm a Christian Conservative who has absolutely no hate for Transexuals or Homosexuals. I might not understand it, but I have compassion for people who don't feel comfortable in their own skin. What has made this such a hot topic is the current quest to wipe womanhood, women, masculine men and innocent children off the map. They are preying on our children who don't have the capacity to understand what is actually going on with them. It's evil and nefarious. I hate the term "cis" and I feel "non-binary" is an absolute denial of biology and doesn't even make sense. I can respect Trans people who are adults who can acknowledge their true biology even though that's not how they identify.
Jordan is beautiful and is a great person! Thank you for bringing her onto your channel.
I respect you and your guests so much for speaking about things that you care and are passionate about. I've learned so much from your videos and I am looking forward to more conversations that you'll have. Much love to ya'll, may you both be blessed in your lives.
Love Jordan!! I’ve followed her for years and she has always been vocal about very based opinions so much respect!!
I can explain why women get so mad about "cis". The word woman describes an adult human female, which biologically, that's what we are. That's our lived experience and being a woman is a biological experience as well not just a social experience. It seems like the woke trans movement came along and said "nope, bio women can no longer be described as just the word women (which describes an adult human female). we now need to add cis to woman to describe them bc we don't like being called a trans woman, we just want to be called a woman". Then bio women naturally are like um no, we don't NEED a prefix for what we are.
Also, just like blair white says, why is being called a transwoman so offensive? That's legit what they are. Women and transwomen have two completely different lived experiences as well as biological experiences/parts. If your speaking about both i don't see why its offensive to use the term woman for a biological woman and transwomen for a transwoman--- even biological woman or transwoman.
Its so bad now we have biological men claiming to have periods ect. It's pure delusion and i have personally noticed that it's really, really hurting trans acceptance. Women have no spaces dedicated to us anymore, and if we have any concerns and or/uncomfortable WE get canceled or called transphobic. As a woman, it feels like everyone's feelings and rights come before ours-- like always. It's frustrating beyond belief. When it comes to shared spaces-- if you look like a woman like blair or Jordan, NOBODY would even know!!! And im sure they wouldn't be flashing their genitals to biological women. It just opens women's spaces up to predators and i feel bad for my stance bc i know there are transwomen like blair white who pose 0 threat. Now, when it comes to sports, its a hard no for me. Biology is a huge part of sports and women need to be protected esp in combat sports.
I don’t know any trans women that get offended by being called trans. I’m know a small amount do but not a lot of us
@jayrose4748 and your the type of trans person I feel bad for bc the super woke activists kind are ruining it for everyone.
@@jayrose4748and we don’t like being called cis. LGBT ppl want their pronouns and god forbid you get it wrong, well women didn’t ask to be called cis, so shouldn’t we have the same right to be just called women as LGBT ppl when they demand their pronouns?!
In my opinion transgender people who are not transexual are just gender non-conforming. It has nothing to do with their biological sex. I totally accept transsexuals not having bottom surgery. I accept transsexuals who can't pass due to prominent original sex characteristics. It is still obvious which pronouns they want me to use. Blaire and Jordan have solidarity with other women. They give off female energy. Blaire is open about not having bottom surgery but it doesn't matter to me. I am 100% sure she would not flash it in the women's bathrooms or changing rooms. Not only because it would make her uncomfortable but also because as a woman she understands that is what flashers do to women. I perceive Blaire and Jordan as women who have a condition or disorder that necessitated transitioning.
I have liked Blaire for quite awhile but I'm a lefty so I am delighted to have leftist version of her to follow.
It’s because you and Blaire and Jordan have a similar sexuality. Majority of the issues are caused by heterosexual men who transition. You can literally SEE and HEAR the difference when a TS is sexually attracted to men, cause they act very similar to women. Energy wise.
Thank you buck for introducing me to Jordan she is a solid individual. This interview was refreshing! It is always good to see when more than 1 of yall come together and both speak logically. Honestly a lot of times it's just 1 of yall like buck or blaire going against the ideology and it's always refreshing to see more than 1 trans person speaking with honesty and nuance about these topics
I am a woman. I think we all work hard on a daily basis to look our best. 😊
I absolutely love all these interviews you do. Thanks so much for everything you do. 😊
You wouldn't believe how much I agree to everything you two said in this video, I'm 20 years post transition and for the last 10 years I've been screaming that transgenders are counter productive and damaging to us transexuals, I've got so much things to say about this subject, thank you for making this videos.
Another great video ❤️ I love your positive energy and strong commitment, it's a perfect mix and it makes your videos both interesting and informative 🙏
I am transexual woman and i 100% agree that we need to reclaim the term transexual to mean a person with gender dysphoria! I know I’m a woman, i have lived over 10 years comfortably in women’s spaces (thanks to medical intervention), and I’m treated as a woman in society, and that is what it means to me to be a transexual woman. I definitely don’t want attention for being transgender/transexual.
This was awesome! So glad I found this!
I found out from outpatient rehab that dark humor is actually a coping mechanism and trauma response. By turning a serious or traumatic event into comedy makes it easier to deal with and almost lessens it in a sense. Love you Buck!!
I am so over all of the extreme beliefs and cancel culture. I love these types of platforms. Good people sharing their thoughts and experiences. So much love and respect for you both
Jordan is absolutely STUNNING
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@@CashLundProdu must be gay…
I just ordered a t shirt, a coffee mug and sticker!!! I'm so excited!!!Thanks for everything Buck!!!
I very much have the same feelings as Jordan, thanks for sharing this.
@33:23 the next minute is pure gold. I have always felt that when people gender you It can be used as a test or feedback as to how you are presenting. Use it to look at your self and Know what needs work to align to how you want to be perceived and who you are.
P.S. Thankyou for Presenting The real faces of the transexual community and showing what it can be...
I went to a training seminar once where we had to go around the circle to say our pronouns. As an obvious woman, I found it insulting. So wouldn't one think it would be offensive/triggering to trans people as well?
Like... The whole reason you transitioned was to be seen as a man/woman so that you _wouldn't_ have to clarify it, right? Wouldn't having to still point it out only increase dysphoria?
10 years or so ago it would have been considered extremely offensive to ask someone their pronouns/gender. So it just sounds like some rule that cis "progressives" invented to try to virtue signal their inclusivity. Very surprised trans people go along with it (then again, nothing in the alphabet cuIt makes sense anymore). 🤷♀️
Anyhow, I'm only half way through but great talk so far! =)
I would be thrown into a terrible space if someone felt they had to ask what I was ...holy cow.
I totally agree, being asked what your pronouns are is to me personally offensive, it should be obvious what my pronouns are, as you rightly say we transitioned and live our lives quietly as our authentic selves, we work hard to get through this and be productive members of society, as I’ve said before I’m so glad I went through all this in the 80’s and not now as it’s just unreal what is going on 40 years later
I am a member of a theater company that works with people with disabilities. We never had that ritual until we worked with new graduates from Harvard University through an arts development grant.
Theatre groups are easy will try anything once.
But when I brought this up to the executive director as to why were doing this, and doesn’t this out people who may not want to be out. And if there was an exception to the rule can they not speak up for themselves.
And the director said “No one who is transgender is pushing this ritual.” And she was right. It was pushed entirely by Harvard grads with entitlement issues.
Im a hetrosexual female who is 63. I feel both of you make so much sense. More power to you both.
Oh Gosh!! Love this ideas exchange.. I struggle just like Jordan and Buck being hated by the trans community for sharing my opinions on trans who haven’t dysphoria 🤦🏻♀️
Thank you, you both made my 2023 ❤️
I TRULY appreciate both of you. Amen to every thing you said. Smart, wise, brave, hot AF, and valuable! Love love love!!!! 🥰🫶🏼🤘🏼
Ps I think I have a crush on both of you my gooooowwwwwd! Haha!
I think the hardest thing for a lot of women that do not like being called "cis women" is that most of us were not included in this conversation, so for many, it came out of nowhere... and it's a designation that we never asked for because we have ALWAYS been just called women. Having a label thrown at you that you never asked can be very intrusive and insulting, especially when crazies online are using that label and saying that "cis women" should be considered as inferior. Not to mention all the horrific new labels that have been forced on as and are even being used by government officials: cis woman, birthing person, non-man, chest-feeder...etc. It keeps getting worse! So many women's spaces are being taken away without our say and now even our identities are being washed down without our say.
And slowly but surely a community of transsexuals talking nothing but common sense emerge from the woke ashes of the LGBTQ+ community.
I always enjoy listening to you and your lovely guests Buck. It takes some serious balls to deal with the crap you do but you're making a difference and if I encounter anyone who is confused on the topic I always direct them to you, the most informed and experienced man on the topic.
P.s. thank you for expressing our distaste for the new label 'cis'. I don't know why we didn't seem to get a say in that choice there.
I don't see common sense or logical sense here. I see illogic and self serving hypocricy. The 'cis' thing is a case in point. Buck and Jordan might be nice and polite and not call women 'cis' to their face, but they still support the concept of 'cis' and 'trans', including having it encoded into policy and law.
Thanks, Buck. Complicated and often nuanced conversations like this need to be heard more often within the Trans community. In one respect Im very grateful to the hard work that many activists have done in recent years to make my inclusion into the "F" club relatively easy. However in the past couple years now, particularly w/ the rise of "woke ideology", many of the things Ive been hearing around such topics as nonbinary identities and self ID just makes me want to crawl under a freaking rock,. But to put this in context, in years past, there was so much "gate keeping" that we were subjected to(and still are in some cases) by various Therapists and Docs. However I honestly believe if you are going to publicly identify yourself as, Trans, then you need to have SOME degree of "skin in the game". I also suspect that if I were a Teen/YA today I would likely classify myself as, Non Binary. However having had the benefit of several decades of lived experiences being a Cishet male, and then 5 years ago at the tender age of 57, having my "egg crack" and beginning my journey to living full time as a Trans female. I know that I am NOT the same as a Cis/genetic woman. I am a Trans woman :)
As a transsexual guy, I love your content, Buck! Super informative and sharing the truth around the true meaning of people like us! I wish everyone could listen to what you're saying before they make a big decision like this!!
Much love to you!
Just subscribed, you can thank Blair. Jordan is stunning and so based, nice to see this day and age.
Bio woman here .. cis wasn’t a slur until we became just “two types of women who are both equally women”. I totally agree with you Jordan, I think trans pride is surely about it being ok *not* to be a woman. I see a woman when I look at you, but you’re male and that’s fine. I think it’s deranged how people deny biology and I do think that the ultimate agenda from the creepy fetishists is to get away with whatever they want..
The fetishists are always heterosexual males. The feminine ones who date men like Jordan and Blaire are rarely the issue it’s always the transbians and the bio female non binary and gender fluids causing chaos and changing words!
Thank you to your guest for the comment about the "new" trans people becoming the voice of the community.
This is one ''cis' woman who is glad to hear the voice of reason in these crazy times. Thank you for speaking out. I will definitely be watching more of your vids! x
"It's a scary thing to be real in this world" Eeshk! Thank goodness for ppl like Buck, Jordan, Blaire, Marcus, as well as amazing ppl like Arielle who are so brave to speak up against what we are told to think. Keep on keepin it real! Much love!
Jordan is fricken awesome… I’d love to see her more often. She voices so many of my own opinions as a fellow trans woman. As a transsexual woman I understand other woman’s fear of men, especially since I have the same fears. As a 5’4 passing trans woman I am perceived the same as other women and treated by society as the same. That certainly makes men as much of a threat to me as they are to other women.
You guys speaking means a lot thanks Tranpa
Another fabulous conversation! Thank you, Buck, for sharing ❤
From this point on I'm jumping on the movement and referring to myself as transexual. I've been watching Buck for some time now. I'm very much in line with his points of views. This is the first time I've seen Jordan. I hope to see much more of her in the future. I'd love to see her and Blaire get on a podcast together. Great video. You are changing the world tranpa. We ❤️ you.
Wow Jordan, I would never guessed you are trans, you look amazing and have a female voice.
I’m so fascinated with people like you two, you’re really teaching me so much. As a mother of preteen children this issue is a serious concern to me. It’s taking the fear out it and arming me with real information and empathy. Well done. Thank you.
Wow, I would NEVER guess she was trans - gorgeous!!
Thanks for your videos Buck, it’s a lot of comfort for me listening in and learning. My daughter is transitioning and she’s part of the young people your talking about the trans craze I guess you would say. My daughter started socially transitioning in high school she’s 22 now and she’s doing the testosterone just recently. I told her to listen to your post-cast Buck and I gave her your name, I hope she does. I’m really scared for my beautiful girl, but I can’t say girl, or daughter, I have to say they them. My daughter wants top surgery now and she won’t tell me if she’s getting bottom surgery. She also say she non-binary and she says she’s bisexual, I’m really confused, my daughter says she is trans as well. Some days she dresses like a boy and sometimes she’s dresses like a girl. I feel like my child is just lesbian, but I’m not allowed to say anything or I’m a bad bigot and transphobic and mom I feel hated by my daughter, I’m so sad and heartbroken and so I try to keep my mouth shut, or I’m in trouble. I love my beautiful girl/ boy now I guess, she biologically a girl and still looks like a girl, but her voice is starting to change.
Love you guys. Buck, you are just amazing. 100% support for you and what you speak
Thanks Buck for bringing Jordan on, she is beautiful inside and out.
Happy birthday Jordan ❤️ you are brilliant and beautiful!
Also, I love u Buck! Sooo glad your still here! An O.G. for real! These kids dont even know.
Jordan is gorgeous, and this video explains so well what's wrong with the community in 2023. Thank you Buck
sorry haven't met a single person that's been pleasant after saying they identify as non-binary, and being really rude when asked what that entails, what it means to be non-binary. never gotten an answer just really rude remarks
And I'm not transphobic, I just don't understand what non-binary is, cause feeling like one sex or the other or both at different times, means nothing to me, as I'm a man and I can't say for certain I know what feeling like a man is, I know the experience of being a man for 24-25 years but that's not something a non-binary person could claim if they are of the opposite sex.
And any non-binary people seeing this, please done hesitate to challenge/respond and or answer any of this, I don't have any ill intent towards you.
Buck, another great guest!
Jordan needs to speak up more... you've found another voice to amplify!
Well done Buck.
Jordan is another voice of reason, another adult in the room!
Transsexuals like Jordan who fully assume the role of women, which INCLUDES speaking WITH women, not AGAINST them.... we can all get behind that.
I'm a woman who's now classed as a "TERF", I'm not trans, I'm born female and completely comfortable with that.
What I'm NOT comfortable with is all the hatred for women from supposed transwomen who still think and act like men, and misogynist men at that.
What the hell is that all about??
How can these people say they're women, but at the same time HATE women????
What the hell???
Thank yall so much for saying this out loud!
Personally, I can't stand when people refer to biological women as "cis" women. I know "cis" is Latin for "on this side of" but for someone to prefix male and female genders with it in the early 90s doesn't mean I have to accept it. Let's face it, biology is biology. The fact that young people today appear to struggle with the question "What is a woman"? is just plain sad.
This is such an important conversation! Not only are women losing their rights but also the lgbt community. We fought so hard for both. I also think there are loud mouthed cis genders hiding behind a trans mask and they might be a minority but they are super loud
Anyway..don't know who this woman is...she looks like a woman sounds like a woman has the grace of a woman is not outlandish or disgusting and I appreciate that.
She needs a top on
@@tiffprendergast nah...it's to prove that she is a girl or whatever..I'm tired of it all if you act normal...keep your b.s to yourself look like a human man or woman...don't try to have sex with a child ...then carry on...don't ram weird shit on the rest of human society that isn't that which is like 95 percent then by all means show some clevedge just literally act like a real woman .
@@bonnie3030 You spend too much time on OnlyFans.
ThemTube hidin all the replies to this one.
Must be some real offensive stuff 😂
However. Still a man.
When I was a teen, I developed endometriosis and I felt like my body was betraying me. I think that's why I always felt compassion and a kinship to trans people. Today, it's a totally different story.
The young trans who are on the iternet are just caricatures trying to get rich and famous. I don't even believe some are truly trans.
Thank you, Buck, for showing the world the positive side.
@2:40 this is my exact response to when people call me privileged for being skinny. No I dont have good jeans. I work HARD to have the body I have. I work out, I eat well. I don't abuse my body. People who sling the word "privilege" at everything are just unwilling to work for their goals.
Hopefully more of us can speak. I’d love to go to a conference or some shit with y’all. Let’s get transsexuals empowered again
Great interview. I used to watch Jordan’s videos when I started my transition back in 2018. I cannot find her on YT now.
Normally, this might sound sexist, but if I saw Jordan on the street I'd want to ask her out. In this context, that's a compliment on how amazing her "passing" is. Endgame: achieved.
Everyone can & should speak up! U 2 are awesome ppl!!! Thanks so much for speakin up & out / & the truth 🙏 bless u both!
Community is wonderful
& I feel we should all be one Community instead of dividing each other up in all these different boxes. I don't care if someone is heterosexual bisexual transsexual etc. We're all human and should have compassion and love respect for 1 another no matter what. But also not push our own ideals & opinions on others. We're all different in some way but that's ok 👍 what a boring world 🌎 this would be. Stick together ❤️
And jfyi I don't like the cis woman/man box! Hate it really! I do my best to try & love all ppl. But there's some who make that really very hard to do