I applaud you for your loyalty and love you have for your husband. Sorry that he didn't have the same in return. May God bless you with eternal love and peace. Many people here bash on you to move on but they don't understand. Much respect 🙏. You are one in a million.
@@chakataleevery true. No Hmong man would allow their wife to marry a second husband, nor would he sit patiently while she runs back n forth between the two. This lady shouldn’t be praised and applauded. She has wasted her entire life on a “man” that doesn’t love or respect her as a partner. I can respect her heart but not her decisions. Once your spouse replaces you, you should respect yourself enough to remove yourself from his title and live a life with those who DO love and cherish you.
@ayang3040 i respect her love and loyalty. Her husband never abused her and took care of his obligations and gave her everything they built together. I don't agree with him having lust for someone else. The grass is not greener on the other side. This debate is about her decision, not what could or should.
@@chakataleeIf her decision was any different, she would be pinned as selfish with no patience. And then painted as a divorcee and that her flaws are the reason her dog of a husband cheated/remarried. Hmong community should not applaud or encourage these actions. It does not make her the better person, it makes her less of a human. But like I said, Hmong men could never walk the shoes of Hmong women. If the tables were turned, she would be exiled from her families and he would be sent running with his brothers to find another. And just because he didn’t take a dime, doesn’t mean he’s kindhearted. She deserved everything when she worked for the both of them and reared children for his bloodline.
STOP bashing this lady. She is a one-love, one-heart person because she is an orphan. She never receives love and material until this heartless man enters her life. So his fake love and gifts are her only known comfort and home. This type of mental recording or memory takes time to sort through, let go, and move on to find out that this Earth is not flat, and there are men out there who could really love her better than her cheater and dead husband. Sister - I send you many prays to find peace in your heart and looking for new love and enjoy your life to the fullest!
God only blesses the first spouse unless she/he betrays you…why wait for someone who doesn’t love you…? Move on and find someone who’ll love you…regrets…karma…I wouldn’t shed a tear for someone who does love me…😩!
cov poj niam uas tau txiv zoo ntsaug ces yeej ruam ruam tau ntxim ntxim ntxub li koj kov ov, twb tsis muaj kev hlub twb tsis tau lub txaj lub chaws os poj ruam, zoo rau qhov kab mob aw. 19 coj nws mus lawm, ntxov mus ces ntxov nov qab ov mog poj ruam aw....
I envy how you handled the whole infidelity and separation. You kept everything under control how hard, hurt, pissed, angry, and yet love conquered them all. You’re an amazingly patient person and psychologically intelligent. Do what’s best for you and your children. Don’t let others opinions influence your decision how to live your life. Bless your heart and may God be with you!
That's very narrow-minded of you. Family has nothing to do with the decision the husband made. Family can say "no" today, tomorrow, and the following, and that will still not change the mind of her husband. She's correct it's his fault, he made those choices. Sadly, she suffered because she chose to continue loving him.
You really are ntsuag ntsuag nos. You still can't even let him go because his love is the only love you came to know. You will find love again dear. He's a selfish man and chose lust over love.
Being the person that got left behind is one of the hardest battle to overcome in life and move forward. You’re a loyal person. Now that he’s gone, learn to love and live for only yourself. Enjoy the time you have with your children. Maybe, one day….you’ll be able to find another person to love. Only time will heal.
G tsim nyog txhawb koj mus kawm txawj kawm siab li os tus kwv tij, , peb cov txiv neej yuav tau hloov lub siab hlob mus vwm rau ib tug saib nrauv kom tau, yog tseem xav ua hluas ces txhob yuav poj niam xwb, yog koj yuav poj niam lawm ces yuav tau caiv lawb txoj kev ua hluas. Yuav tau ua ib tug qauv zoo rau yus tej me nyuam, rau teb rau chaw. Ua ntej thaum koj yuav tuag hauv lub ntiaj teb no mus.
Lady, tus niamyau ko tsuas ua zoo kom txeeb tau tus txiv thaum tseem muaj koj xwb. Hnub twg koj tawm kiag muaj tus tshiab tsis nyob tos koj tus txiv lawm ces niamyau mam tig tsuj nws. Vim koj pheej nyob, ua zoo, niaj hnub hlub ces niamyau thiaj ua txuj uv nej sawvdaws kom niag txiv txhob rov los. Seb nws tuag kiag niamyau yuav kiag txiv ne...
Hlub koj os niam tsev aw...ua ib siab os mog luag tsis hlub yus lawm ces yuav ua li cas los luag yeej tsis hlub, es tig los hlub yus tus kheej es ua ib leej niam rau tej me nyuam os mog.
Peb cov niam tsev hmoob peb cov poj niam hmoob txoj kev ua tso tso siab thiab ntseeg ntseeg tus txiv es tsis soj qab taug lwg tsis saib xyuas pob nyiaj es ntseeg tag 100 tsav yam na thaum koj paub ces koj tus txiv twb mus dhau deb twb mus muaj tus tshiab peb poj niam hmoob txhob ruam ruam tshaj ruam mas cas twb nyob meka teb lawm es tseem ntseeg npaum li nov ntag lo txoj kev mob siab ces yog tus txiv ua hluas lo tim peb cov niam tsev vim nws kwv nws tij paub tag koj tsis paub. Ces tim koj xwb
Tu siab tshaj. Tos peb Hmoob tsis vam meej los vim peb Hmoob tsis txawj hlub cov neeg txom nyem, nyob li cov me nyuam ntsuag. Txoj kev tuag twb xaiv tsis tau los mas, lawv. Peb ua neeg nyob ces muaj yug, yeej muaj tuag. Txhua tus neeg yeej tuag xwb, tsis plhis li os.
Koj tus txiv no zoo cuav xwb tsis yog zoo tseeb. Nws phem txog qhov nws txaus siab lawb tag nrho lub neej pov tseg mus rau lwm tus lub ob ceg. Cia tuag zoo dua vim nyob los tsis ntxiv dab tsi.
Ib lub neej tu siab heev. Tsim tau ib txoj kev sib hlub zoo2 cia mus tsis kawg, ib tus nim hloov siab mus hlub lwm tus, ib tus nim nyob nco tos ntsoov saib puas yuav muaj ib hnub rov qab los zoo li qub. Vim yog txoj kev ua zoo, twb tsis muaj kev niam txiv lawm los tus ncaim mus thiaj hais tsis tau ib los lus phem rau tus neeg ua zoo. Thov qhuas koj tus niam tsev uas muaj lub siab zoo, hlub ib leeg, ib tug tiag rau koj tiam neej nyob lub ntiaj teb no os
Lady, its hard to let go of the person u love, but he dont love u no more. U should have moved on to find ur own happiness. Stop dwelling on the past, it didnt mean anything to him or else he wouldnt have divorced u.
Cas yuav mloog lus ua luaj lis lo. Thov txhob mloog2 lus lawm lo peb cov ntxhais. A true testimony of someone who doesn't value themselves and allow other to trash them. Let it go. He doesn't love you. You were a stepping stone for him. That's it, stop living in denial.
Pom nrauj yog ib co siab phem tshaj plaws lawv ces npaj tsawv mus luag tug los nws tus xwb, tus txiv dev no cia 19 coj thiab tiag ces kab mob 19 yuav tsum coj niag nkauj maum dev mus thiab
File for spousal support and quit your job and live off his support and all your rental properties. I feel so sad with you but niam tais move move and love yourself, treat yourself, travel and hopefully you will find happiness. Don't ever take him back
Tus niamtsev aw yus hlub tus kheej ua ntej mus hlub luag os Txhob nkim kuamuag rau tus txivneej ntxeev siab rau yus . Koj hlub nws xwb e koj thiaj li tseem nco nws os . Tabsis nws twb tsis hlub koj e ntshe lub ntuj thiaj li muab nkawv txoj kev hlub tsis ncajncees ntawd sib cais ibleeg mus ib txoj ke lawm..
Sorry for your loss sis. I hope you find happiness for you too. Life is too short not to love yourself and be happy for yourself too okay. Take care of yourself and your mental health.
Vivncaus aw, luag tus niam yau yuav ua cas chim rau Koj naj. Luag twb txeeb tau koj tus txiv mus hlub luag ne. Yog luag tsi ua lub ntxias2 ces koj tus txiv yuav tsi hlub thiab yuav nws lawm los mas. Cas yuav hlub peb cov ua niam tsev tau tus txiv siab phem lim hiam li no tag npaum li os
Koj twb hais tias koj yog ib tug menyuam ntsuag es ua li koj ho tsis hlub koj tus kheej os sister? Ib tug neeg uas muaj dua tus tshiab/yuav dua tus tshiab lawm ces txhais tau tias nws yeej tsis muaj yus nyob hauv nws lub siab, lub neej lawm es tseg kiag txhob nkim koj lub sij hawm nco nws es tseem yuav tuav nws npe yuav mus nrog nws ua neej zaum ob es mam li mus tsim nws. Tej no ces lam hais xwb yeej tsis muaj tseeb kiag li. Koj tsuas los ua ib zaug neeg xwb es txhob cia yug los xiam tiam nawb. He was a selfish man and now he’s gone. Don’t even waste your time to nco a loser like him. Life is too short and please try to do things that are making you happy. May god guides you to find happiness in your life sister.
This is so sad... I feel your every pain sister. I'm crying so hard with you 😭 you weren't ready to let him go to anyone but yet you've lost him forever 💔
ua cas dab xwm kab ho tsis nthe nqho muab nej cov dab nej teev so quav pov tseg zoo dua teev tiam lawv los ntis news txaij nees nraug khawv yeej khawv yws rau nraum toj nraum pes es lawv dua twg lawm, los nrog peb ntseeg VAJTSWV zoo dua mog es thiaj tsis mob mob siab txog lub neej hauv ntiaj teb no mog
Tus niam tsev aw nws twb tsis hlub koj es ua ib siab txhob hlub txhob nco.....nws twb hais tias nws tsis hlub koj...koj puag nws los nws tsis kam nws hais tias nws tsis muaj feelings rau koj es ua ib siab tso nws. Nco ntsoov nws cov lus phem uas nws hais rau koj tias kom koj txhob quaj nws tsis hlub koj. Nws yeej hlub nws tus niam yau tshaj vim nws ua tau lub siab ncaj rau nws tus niam yau tabsi hos ua tsis tau siab ncaj rau koj es neb lub neej thiaj puas tag. Nws tuag nws rau qhov nws twb tsis hlub koj es txhob mus saib nws tim nws lub tsev. Nws twb tuag lawm es kav tsij mus ua lub neej tshiab los nrog koj tej me nyuam nyob txhob xav txog lub neej qub lub neej tu siab uas nws tsis hlub koj.
😢sorry you went through so much pain and heartache. Don’t waste your time longing for someone who doesn’t love you. Hate those home wreckers to the bone.
Txhob mloog cov lus hais tias “ua siab loj, ua tus zoo” … thaum luag tsis hlub yus ces tej lus pliag no yog “manipulation and gaslighting” lawm xwb. When you love someone blindly its is called “ruam”. Txhob ruam ruam.
Koj tus txij nkawm (partner) tsis hlub koj lawm los koj pheej muab nws nco hnub thawm hmo thiab caij ntuj qhua tawm caij ntuj no tas mus li es koj ho tau tus dab tsi pab koj. Koj tsuas tau qhov nco nws tas li xwb ces tsis tsim nyog dab tsi hlo li. Case no ntshe tej zaum tus txiv tsev no yog poob saum ntuj los ua neej rau nriaj teb xwb, tsis yog neeg yug.
Sorry but I’m going to hit a lot of nerves. My heart was breaking for you throughout the story until your late husband passed. Do you know that only you loved him that way? If he loved you he could not do what he’s done to you by leaving and made you watch him love another woman much more live his life with another woman. You’re not grieving his death but hurting from all the injustices you’ve endured in this lifetime. As a woman I have my pride and I wouldn’t be able to worship a man who betrayed me. Thanks for sharing your story.
Your husband marries you out of pity. His new wife has the audacity to act like she owes him. What a fool! Well, poor lady, hope you learn to love yourself and live well without him or the heartaches.
Hard to understand the kind of women though like you sister .yog koj tos rov tsim nws 6 next life ces koj rov bam dua xwb .vim mob nws los muaj koj thiaj mob ces txhais tau tias neb sib bam tiam dhau tiam 😅
Ab ntuj aw cas es peb cov tub nroj ntxhais ntsuag cas lub neej no tsis ncaj li os. Tub nroj ces zoo li tsob nroj txawj loj ces txawj siab phem. Cov tub ntsuag ces cov siab phem coob dua cov siab zoo os. Tub nroj tub ntsuag ces muaj nyiaj ces siab phem. Ntxhais ntsuag ces hnov zaj twg los cas tu siab thiab siab zoo tag li rau tus txiv xwb. peb cov ntxhais ntsuag ces muaj lub siab zoo xav tau lub zoo kom tus txiv hlub los cas tau txiv siab phem tas li xwb os. Sister aw nws twb tsis hlub Koj es Koj pheej tseem yuav quaj ua ab tsis na. Yog nws hlub Koj ces nws yeej tsis yuav ib tug li os. Hlub Koj tus kheej xwb. Siab phem li ntawv ntuj thiaj npam nws lawm nws thiaj mus lawm mas cas tseem quaj na. Yog tseem hluas ces nrhiav tu Tshab yog laus lawm ces nyob nrog me nyuam xwb mog.
I don’t get how the other woman could just sit there and watch how hurt his wife is…she must not have a heart at all. It’s the husband’s fault too but as a woman, seeing how hurt another is then you should back off.
I applaud you for your loyalty and love you have for your husband. Sorry that he didn't have the same in return. May God bless you with eternal love and peace. Many people here bash on you to move on but they don't understand. Much respect 🙏. You are one in a million.
Hmong men could never.
That's not true at all but we all must learn from this individual and better ourselves
@@chakataleevery true. No Hmong man would allow their wife to marry a second husband, nor would he sit patiently while she runs back n forth between the two. This lady shouldn’t be praised and applauded. She has wasted her entire life on a “man” that doesn’t love or respect her as a partner. I can respect her heart but not her decisions. Once your spouse replaces you, you should respect yourself enough to remove yourself from his title and live a life with those who DO love and cherish you.
@ayang3040 i respect her love and loyalty. Her husband never abused her and took care of his obligations and gave her everything they built together. I don't agree with him having lust for someone else. The grass is not greener on the other side. This debate is about her decision, not what could or should.
@@chakataleeIf her decision was any different, she would be pinned as selfish with no patience. And then painted as a divorcee and that her flaws are the reason her dog of a husband cheated/remarried. Hmong community should not applaud or encourage these actions. It does not make her the better person, it makes her less of a human. But like I said, Hmong men could never walk the shoes of Hmong women. If the tables were turned, she would be exiled from her families and he would be sent running with his brothers to find another.
And just because he didn’t take a dime, doesn’t mean he’s kindhearted. She deserved everything when she worked for the both of them and reared children for his bloodline.
STOP bashing this lady. She is a one-love, one-heart person because she is an orphan. She never receives love and material until this heartless man enters her life. So his fake love and gifts are her only known comfort and home. This type of mental recording or memory takes time to sort through, let go, and move on to find out that this Earth is not flat, and there are men out there who could really love her better than her cheater and dead husband. Sister - I send you many prays to find peace in your heart and looking for new love and enjoy your life to the fullest!
I absolutely agree with you. This is the only love she has ever known. Best wishes to her.
100% correct! This is call attachment disorder and wrong understanding of love and believe due to long-term mental/emotional history!
God only blesses the first spouse unless she/he betrays you…why wait for someone who doesn’t love you…? Move on and find someone who’ll love you…regrets…karma…I wouldn’t shed a tear for someone who does love me…😩!
cov poj niam uas tau txiv zoo ntsaug ces yeej ruam ruam tau ntxim ntxim ntxub li koj kov ov, twb tsis muaj kev hlub twb tsis tau lub txaj lub chaws os poj ruam, zoo rau qhov kab mob aw. 19 coj nws mus lawm, ntxov mus ces ntxov nov qab ov mog poj ruam aw....
I envy how you handled the whole infidelity and separation. You kept everything under control how hard, hurt, pissed, angry, and yet love conquered them all. You’re an amazingly patient person and psychologically intelligent. Do what’s best for you and your children. Don’t let others opinions influence your decision how to live your life. Bless your heart and may God be with you!
Well lady, good for you for hanging on but he doesn’t love you and his family don’t respect you by allowing him to do it.
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Yug Los xiam tiam ce yog li no ma
That's very narrow-minded of you. Family has nothing to do with the decision the husband made. Family can say "no" today, tomorrow, and the following, and that will still not change the mind of her husband. She's correct it's his fault, he made those choices. Sadly, she suffered because she chose to continue loving him.
Tus me niam tsev aw tsi txhob tu siab mog peb cov ntshaw2 jev hlub ces zoo tib yam li koj thiab os mog hlub2 koj os mog
Hoyo koj niag txiv twb tsis hlub koj es koj khuv xim dab tsi na. Tuag lawm ces zoo xwb mas. Tsis tas seev txog os. Nws twb tsus hlub koj lawm na
Cas yuav ntshaw txiv cuag na, tiam 21no peb tsis ntsaw txiv lawm peb twb tsis need txiv Los luaj teb ntov ntoo lawm os cov sisters.
You really are ntsuag ntsuag nos. You still can't even let him go because his love is the only love you came to know. You will find love again dear. He's a selfish man and chose lust over love.
Peb cov Niam nkauj txhawb Qaib nraug txhawb noog yeej hlub ti nkaus txha xwb os tsis Muaj leejtwg hlub tshaj no lawm os tus vivncaus❤❤
Tseem tshuav 1 co pojniam Hmoob tseem ruam 2 li tus niam tsev no. Hmoog mas meem txom kawg 😡😡
Being the person that got left behind is one of the hardest battle to overcome in life and move forward. You’re a loyal person. Now that he’s gone, learn to love and live for only yourself. Enjoy the time you have with your children. Maybe, one day….you’ll be able to find another person to love. Only time will heal.
G tsim nyog txhawb koj mus kawm txawj kawm siab li os tus kwv tij, , peb cov txiv neej yuav tau hloov lub siab hlob mus vwm rau ib tug saib nrauv kom tau, yog tseem xav ua hluas ces txhob yuav poj niam xwb, yog koj yuav poj niam lawm ces yuav tau caiv lawb txoj kev ua hluas. Yuav tau ua ib tug qauv zoo rau yus tej me nyuam, rau teb rau chaw. Ua ntej thaum koj yuav tuag hauv lub ntiaj teb no mus.
Txog yus, yus thiaj paub xwb os ua neej nas.
Cov niam yau es ua zoo zoo lawv yuav tsum ua zoo lawv thiaj tau yus tus txiv xwb yog ua phem ces tsam tus txiv khiav rov los rau yus lawm
tham lub neej zoo li zoo2 ua tab si qhov tseeb tsi zoo li
niam laws koj dab neeg tau tus siab heev 😢😢😢
Another depressing story, laj laj mloog tag li os
Thank you for saving me 30 minutes. I will skip
Kuv xav tías qhov nws tuag hluas2 twb yog vim ua phem tsi hlub koj es nws thiaj tuag ua ntej lawm.
Nws tuag ua ntej lawm los zoo os mog
Pab koj tu siab os, viv ncaus. Txhob ua dev leg os mog. Luag tsis hlub yus lawm, muab yus lub zog noj tag es khiav mus yuav tus hluas dua lawm xwb. Kav liam. Ntuj twb pab koj lawm os. Ntuj twb kee kiag nws ntawm nws niag niam yau lawm os. Koj hmoov zoo kawg li. Koj tsim tsis tau, tuaj tsis tau, cia ntuj mam txiav tsim.
Lady, tus niamyau ko tsuas ua zoo kom txeeb tau tus txiv thaum tseem muaj koj xwb. Hnub twg koj tawm kiag muaj tus tshiab tsis nyob tos koj tus txiv lawm ces niamyau mam tig tsuj nws. Vim koj pheej nyob, ua zoo, niaj hnub hlub ces niamyau thiaj ua txuj uv nej sawvdaws kom niag txiv txhob rov los. Seb nws tuag kiag niamyau yuav kiag txiv ne...
Your love for him is too strong let go and kind happiness
God always love good, honesty and prestigious people.
Hlub koj os niam tsev aw...ua ib siab os mog luag tsis hlub yus lawm ces yuav ua li cas los luag yeej tsis hlub, es tig los hlub yus tus kheej es ua ib leej niam rau tej me nyuam os mog.
Nej cov poj niam tsis Kam ua ntau thaj es tub tub nkeeg npav pw mloog xwb ces txhob tu siab. Poj niam zoo ces zoo li no mas.
Cov niam yau es ua zoo zoo lawv ua kom tau yus tus txiv xwb os yog ua phem tsam tus txiv rov Los rau yus lawm na
Thanks for sharing your love story sis. Ua cas kuv yuav ntshaw ib tug poj niam siab zoo zoo li koj os me muam.
Peb cov niam tsev hmoob peb cov poj niam hmoob txoj kev ua tso tso siab thiab ntseeg ntseeg tus txiv es tsis soj qab taug lwg tsis saib xyuas pob nyiaj es ntseeg tag 100 tsav yam na thaum koj paub ces koj tus txiv twb mus dhau deb twb mus muaj tus tshiab peb poj niam hmoob txhob ruam ruam tshaj ruam mas cas twb nyob meka teb lawm es tseem ntseeg npaum li nov ntag lo txoj kev mob siab ces yog tus txiv ua hluas lo tim peb cov niam tsev vim nws kwv nws tij paub tag koj tsis paub. Ces tim koj xwb
Tu siab tshaj. Tos peb Hmoob tsis vam meej los vim peb Hmoob tsis txawj hlub cov neeg txom nyem, nyob li cov me nyuam ntsuag. Txoj kev tuag twb xaiv tsis tau los mas, lawv. Peb ua neeg nyob ces muaj yug, yeej muaj tuag. Txhua tus neeg yeej tuag xwb, tsis plhis li os.
Koj tus txiv no zoo cuav xwb tsis yog zoo tseeb. Nws phem txog qhov nws txaus siab lawb tag nrho lub neej pov tseg mus rau lwm tus lub ob ceg. Cia tuag zoo dua vim nyob los tsis ntxiv dab tsi.
Nkag siab zoo yog 1 tug neeg yus nyiam luag tshaj luag nyiam yus ces txawm luag yuav ua zoo ua phem los yus yeej tsis ris siab yeej tseem hlub.koj tus txiv yog 1 tug neej ntse heev nws ua siab zoo siab ntev Kom koj tsis txhob pom nws qhov phem.vim nws yeej paub tias koj nyiam nws tshaj nws nyiam koj.koj ces koj nyiam thiab hlub nws.nws ces tsuas nyiam xwb tsis hlub.
Niam Ntsuab Teev aws, cas zaj no es nim yuav luag zoo li kuv thiab os. Lub neej li no mas tu siab tshaj li os.
Ib lub neej tu siab heev. Tsim tau ib txoj kev sib hlub zoo2 cia mus tsis kawg, ib tus nim hloov siab mus hlub lwm tus, ib tus nim nyob nco tos ntsoov saib puas yuav muaj ib hnub rov qab los zoo li qub. Vim yog txoj kev ua zoo, twb tsis muaj kev niam txiv lawm los tus ncaim mus thiaj hais tsis tau ib los lus phem rau tus neeg ua zoo. Thov qhuas koj tus niam tsev uas muaj lub siab zoo, hlub ib leeg, ib tug tiag rau koj tiam neej nyob lub ntiaj teb no os
Aub yau tsis paub piav peb cov poj niam hmoob txoj kev ruam li lawm os lawv xyov li lau peb yuav ruam txog thaum twg li os.
Poj niam hmoob ces yeej yuav ruam li no forever li os
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Lady, its hard to let go of the person u love, but he dont love u no more. U should have moved on to find ur own happiness. Stop dwelling on the past, it didnt mean anything to him or else he wouldnt have divorced u.
Cas yuav mloog lus ua luaj lis lo. Thov txhob mloog2 lus lawm lo peb cov ntxhais. A true testimony of someone who doesn't value themselves and allow other to trash them. Let it go. He doesn't love you. You were a stepping stone for him. That's it, stop living in denial.
Thank you for sharing this story ❤
Cas yuav muab tag nrho koj tus kheej lub siab mus hlub nws nkaus xwb😢😢😢
Tu siab ua luaj li os😭
Sorry for your loss sister😢tab sis txhob quaj2 heev luag twb tsi hlub koj os mog es hlub koj tus kheej ua ntej mog
Tuag los zoo lawm !!!!
Sib Hlub Tshaj yog neeg. Sib ntxub Tshaj yog neeg.
Mi niam nkaujNtsuag luag twb tsis hlub es thaum luag tuag es luag twb tsis pub txoj sia rau yus pom ces txhob nkim lub kua muag rau mog❤❤❤❤
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Koj cov dab neeg txoj no ua rau kuv kua muag poob tu2 siab os me ntxhai ntsuag tsi muaj niam muaj txiv tsi muaj chaw mus tu siab tiag2
Tu siab heev😢😢😢
Niam yau Tsis xav tha nws xwb pob 😂
Yog nws hlub kj tiag ces nws yeej tsis yuav lwm tus li o
Pom nrauj yog ib co siab phem tshaj plaws lawv ces npaj tsawv mus luag tug los nws tus xwb, tus txiv dev no cia 19 coj thiab tiag ces kab mob 19 yuav tsum coj niag nkauj maum dev mus thiab
File for spousal support and quit your job and live off his support and all your rental properties. I feel so sad with you but niam tais move move and love yourself, treat yourself, travel and hopefully you will find happiness. Don't ever take him back
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Women who are like these two deserve to be with this guy..
Tus niamtsev aw yus hlub tus kheej ua ntej mus hlub luag os
Txhob nkim kuamuag rau tus txivneej ntxeev siab rau yus .
Koj hlub nws xwb e koj thiaj li tseem nco nws os . Tabsis nws twb tsis hlub koj e ntshe lub ntuj thiaj li muab nkawv txoj kev hlub tsis ncajncees ntawd sib cais ibleeg mus ib txoj ke lawm..
She try everything to win your man heart.
Zoo kawg nws tuag lawm nyob los tsis zoo siab phem
Sorry for your loss sis. I hope you find happiness for you too. Life is too short not to love yourself and be happy for yourself too okay. Take care of yourself and your mental health.
Yog thawj tug mloog os
This story is depressing… How she explained her depression of someone who betrayed you.
Tus neeg tsis hlub yus ces ua ib siab os xam tias nshuav nws nqi es lwm tiam thiaj tsis tshuav nqi
Thanks to the comments, I didn't waste my time.
Vivncaus aw, luag tus niam yau yuav ua cas chim rau Koj naj. Luag twb txeeb tau koj tus txiv mus hlub luag ne. Yog luag tsi ua lub ntxias2 ces koj tus txiv yuav tsi hlub thiab yuav nws lawm los mas. Cas yuav hlub peb cov ua niam tsev tau tus txiv siab phem lim hiam li no tag npaum li os
Tus niam tsev muab ruam dhau lawm lau. Ruam tau meem2 txom. Luag twb tsis hlub yus los yus tsis hlub yus tus kheej ib qhov me2 luaj ntiv tes li na.
Koj twb hais tias koj yog ib tug menyuam ntsuag es ua li koj ho tsis hlub koj tus kheej os sister? Ib tug neeg uas muaj dua tus tshiab/yuav dua tus tshiab lawm ces txhais tau tias nws yeej tsis muaj yus nyob hauv nws lub siab, lub neej lawm es tseg kiag txhob nkim koj lub sij hawm nco nws es tseem yuav tuav nws npe yuav mus nrog nws ua neej zaum ob es mam li mus tsim nws. Tej no ces lam hais xwb yeej tsis muaj tseeb kiag li. Koj tsuas los ua ib zaug neeg xwb es txhob cia yug los xiam tiam nawb. He was a selfish man and now he’s gone. Don’t even waste your time to nco a loser like him. Life is too short and please try to do things that are making you happy. May god guides you to find happiness in your life sister.
Laj mloog tag cov neej neeg zoo li no vim tus niam loj ruam dhau
Wow! Sad but l😢patience women. Move on women he’s dead and he’s not worthy of your tear and love.
You're one in a millions. Not sure if you're a saint, tsis paub tu siab or just too desperate for someone who betray you.
This is so sad... I feel your every pain sister. I'm crying so hard with you 😭 you weren't ready to let him go to anyone but yet you've lost him forever 💔
If he can not be with you, it is right that he be with God.
Cov niag txiv neej hmoob dev no ces xav ntsoov txog lub ceb hluas xwb
Biggest betrayal!
Please know yourself worth. You let someone hurt your soul.
ua cas dab xwm kab ho tsis nthe nqho muab nej cov dab nej teev so quav pov tseg zoo dua teev tiam lawv los ntis news txaij nees nraug khawv yeej khawv yws rau nraum toj nraum pes es lawv dua twg lawm, los nrog peb ntseeg VAJTSWV zoo dua mog es thiaj tsis mob mob siab txog lub neej hauv ntiaj teb no mog
Quaj ib txhia es tseg ib txhia thiab lau. Nws twb tsis hlub koj es thiaj mus yuav niam yau lawm los mas.
Tus niam tsev aw nws twb tsis hlub koj es ua ib siab txhob hlub txhob nco.....nws twb hais tias nws tsis hlub koj...koj puag nws los nws tsis kam nws hais tias nws tsis muaj feelings rau koj es ua ib siab tso nws. Nco ntsoov nws cov lus phem uas nws hais rau koj tias kom koj txhob quaj nws tsis hlub koj. Nws yeej hlub nws tus niam yau tshaj vim nws ua tau lub siab ncaj rau nws tus niam yau tabsi hos ua tsis tau siab ncaj rau koj es neb lub neej thiaj puas tag. Nws tuag nws rau qhov nws twb tsis hlub koj es txhob mus saib nws tim nws lub tsev. Nws twb tuag lawm es kav tsij mus ua lub neej tshiab los nrog koj tej me nyuam nyob txhob xav txog lub neej qub lub neej tu siab uas nws tsis hlub koj.
All these stories about hmong men make me want to divorce my hmong husband right now lol
When a man chooses to be with someone, he no longer wants you and loves you.
I know you love your husband deeply, but it is time to slowly let him go.
Kev npam tus txiv dev no vim txojbkev siab phem
😢sorry you went through so much pain and heartache. Don’t waste your time longing for someone who doesn’t love you. Hate those home wreckers to the bone.
Txhob mloog cov lus hais tias “ua siab loj, ua tus zoo” … thaum luag tsis hlub yus ces tej lus pliag no yog “manipulation and gaslighting” lawm xwb.
When you love someone blindly its is called “ruam”. Txhob ruam ruam.
Omg tub poj niam nos cas yuav ruam tshaj plawv li is hmoob aw hmoob es…smh 🤦🏻♀️ txiv neej tsi tag rau nws xwb os.
Karma for him
Thov txim ntau2 os, niag twb tsis hlub koj es tuag los zoo, yog nws tseem nyob ces ntshe niaj hnub no koj tseem mob2 ntsi ntsoov nkaw ua neeg sib hlub. Tuag ces tsawg 1 tug neeg siab phem hauv lub qab ntuj no xwb.
Koj tus txij nkawm (partner) tsis hlub koj lawm los koj pheej muab nws nco hnub thawm hmo thiab caij ntuj qhua tawm caij ntuj no tas mus li es koj ho tau tus dab tsi pab koj. Koj tsuas tau qhov nco nws tas li xwb ces tsis tsim nyog dab tsi hlo li. Case no ntshe tej zaum tus txiv tsev no yog poob saum ntuj los ua neej rau nriaj teb xwb, tsis yog neeg yug.
niag ntsej muag poj niam ruam yog lawv hlub koj ce lawv yeej tsi mu yuav dua lwm tu li os niag pog ruam aw
Tus tsev aw kuv mas twb pab koj chim chim lm os.
Thiab cia li ua rau kuv chim rau kuv tus txiv li lm os😊
This makes my blood boil, this lady's kids should of taken her away and saved her from this evil man. He didn't value her love and loyalty.
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Sounds like he still loves you but he got lost under the other woman's legs. Don't cry or miss him anymore. He doesn't deserve your true love.
He loves you but he's not in love with you anymore.
Tus me Niam tsev aw tsis thas nco tsis thas poob kua Muag rau siab phem ntawd os
Cheating is still cheating.
Sorry but I’m going to hit a lot of nerves. My heart was breaking for you throughout the story until your late husband passed. Do you know that only you loved him that way? If he loved you he could not do what he’s done to you by leaving and made you watch him love another woman much more live his life with another woman. You’re not grieving his death but hurting from all the injustices you’ve endured in this lifetime. As a woman I have my pride and I wouldn’t be able to worship a man who betrayed me. Thanks for sharing your story.
Your husband marries you out of pity. His new wife has the audacity to act like she owes him. What a fool! Well, poor lady, hope you learn to love yourself and live well without him or the heartaches.
Wow they don’t respect u sister
Please move one
Leave that evil
Ua cas pog no nim khuv xim niag ntsej muag uas siv pog tiag taw tag es lawb pog veg pog yam muaj ntsej muaj plhus ntxiag na los lawd?
Confuse🤔
Vim tsis tau txais rev hlub dua ne.
Ces tau tus hlub dag xwb los nim muaj muaj siab mas.
Hard to understand the kind of women though like you sister .yog koj tos rov tsim nws 6 next life ces koj rov bam dua xwb .vim mob nws los muaj koj thiaj mob ces txhais tau tias neb sib bam tiam dhau tiam 😅
Ab ntuj aw cas es peb cov tub nroj ntxhais ntsuag cas lub neej no tsis ncaj li os. Tub nroj ces zoo li tsob nroj txawj loj ces txawj siab phem. Cov tub ntsuag ces cov siab phem coob dua cov siab zoo os. Tub nroj tub ntsuag ces muaj nyiaj ces siab phem. Ntxhais ntsuag ces hnov zaj twg los cas tu siab thiab siab zoo tag li rau tus txiv xwb. peb cov ntxhais ntsuag ces muaj lub siab zoo xav tau lub zoo kom tus txiv hlub los cas tau txiv siab phem tas li xwb os.
Sister aw nws twb tsis hlub Koj es Koj pheej tseem yuav quaj ua ab tsis na. Yog nws hlub Koj ces nws yeej tsis yuav ib tug li os. Hlub Koj tus kheej xwb. Siab phem li ntawv ntuj thiaj npam nws lawm nws thiaj mus lawm mas cas tseem quaj na. Yog tseem hluas ces nrhiav tu Tshab yog laus lawm ces nyob nrog me nyuam xwb mog.
Vivncaus ntsuag nos aw cas yuav nrog koj tu siab ua luaj os. Koj hlub neeg yuam kev lawm os. koj twb tag nqi rau koj tus txiv thiab nws twb tsis hlub koj lawm nws thiaj muaj tus tshiab cas koj tseem hlub thiab khuv xim nws os.
Koj ua ntsuag Koj twb tsis tuag es luag twb tsis hlub koj los koj tseem thov luag hlub koj. Koj tus txij nkawm puag thaum ub thaum i twb tuag hnub nws yuav niam yau lawm es txhob khuv xim nws. Nws twb tuag lawm ntev es txhob khuv xim. Koj tsis hlub koj tus kheej thiab saib koj muaj nqi luag thiaj saib koj tsis muaj nqi mas.
Koj tus txiv twb tsis tsim nyog tau koj txoj kev hlub thiab koj txoj kev zoo. Nkim koj lub neej hlub tus neeg siab dub.
I don’t get how the other woman could just sit there and watch how hurt his wife is…she must not have a heart at all. It’s the husband’s fault too but as a woman, seeing how hurt another is then you should back off.