Men of God! Mnalisha kondoo huko nje na wale mmeweka nyumbani amuwashuhulikii?!!!! Why does this "man of God" sound narcissistic in a way?... Its either his way or no way. Si hata mbwa husikiza makosa yake kabla abweke. No offense but this lady deserves better
@@wambuimwangi8369 I shamelessly second you on this! I can't blame the lady, the husband put her in that situation. The lady is a human being too, she has needs that the husband should fulfill. If he is taking all the time in church and forgetting his duties as a husband, God doesn't allow that! How do you put the 'kondoo' first before your wife? It only means one thing, his needs are being satisfied by his kondoos. You deserve better girl!
I love this woman. She is talking 💯 truth. The man has to understand that he lost his own marriage. You can't ignore her needs and expect her to just be a yes woman. She is young and beautiful and obviously needs more than prayers 24/7
ukweri.....when was the last tyme they made love....he kept quite.Pastor haongereshwe na wazee wa kanisa.Ladies out there will support,marriage aint about money and children,sex is vital
The pastor is human na hajacheat but the wife is pretending to be more human and cheated....hangevumilia like pastor...si I thought madem wa church huwait....
The pastor is human na hajacheat but the wife is pretending to be more human and cheated....hangevumilia like pastor...si I thought madem wa church huwait....
@@bobmafabi1334How sure are you doesn’t cheat. Taking church ladies out for lunch and dinner and Klever taking his wife. This man may be cheating and that’s why his attention isn’t on his children and wife.
@@janeshiku1368 Same men deny them attention for single day, washacheat, we all need emotional support n sex is very important, usipotosheleza wife, there is someone who will.
Huyu akioleka na askiari kama Mimi na anamuona annually, si dryspell itampeleka koinange 😢 Hata ukiwa housewife Bora account inoge na Niko na watoi na bwana,tamaa ya mwili isikupeleke hell mama
@@naomimoreka2446 cheating did not change the marriage. I feel like telling the husband her dissatisfaction would be better. If the husband doesn't change after the warning, moving on into a new relationship was a better option than cheating.
@@ambassadorofchrist6983 True broh... You can't impact a church when your family is in chaos This guy needs wisdom and knowledge about marriage You can't neglect your wife her needs and expect her to be by your side When temptations come,she will fall and the devil will use her as an entry point to destroy his calling
The pastor is human na hajacheat but the wife is pretending to be more human and cheated....hangevumilia like pastor...si I thought madem wa church huwait....
Stevo you are really wise; how do u make people that were in a hurry tarry for a whole hour and how do you manage to have such people give you their phones - that's a true miracle. this says you are on the right job. I think you can make the best psychology counselor...think about it.
Stevo you really have your ways and I respect that, this is a tough one ☝️ this woman has a point to be honest not that am supporting her but she’s making so much sense
When 2 people start in a relationship together, it's fun & stress free. The first couple months of the relationship will always be easy. Eventually, the jealousy will kick in, the clingyness will show itself, the arguments will come out of nowhere, & trust issues will develop. Things will start getting real. But this is when you get to see whether or not they are willing to stick around & make it work. Most people will give up, but if you have someone who stays around despite the circumstances, they're definitely a keeper..
It doesnt justify the cheating. A wise woman wouldve found a way to win her husband by all means like Esther. She couldve even taken him to a counsellor or therapy before taking steps to cheat. If she had tried all and he doesnt meet her conjugal need, then it would be on him.
Thanks for the upload BMS. 👏👏👏 Edit: Though I don't agree with what the lady did, I do agree with her sentiments 100%. Always have time for your partner. Pastor, don't be too busy for your wife. She is a human being. She has said here that she has sexual needs. It's very long time since you were together with her intimately. Do not be over-righteous pastor, or any member who is here thereof. This cuts across both men and women. New Living Translation 1 Corinthians 7.5 Do not deprive each other of sexual relations, unless you both agree to refrain from sexual intimacy for a limited time so you can give yourselves more completely to prayer. Afterward, you should come together again so that Satan won’t be able to tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
Next she will get a jobless guy who wants to sex her 24/7,she will still cheat because the guy is jobless,if she finds a guy without money,she will still say like " beb haujui pesa Zina tusaidia Zina toka wapi" Cheaters never lack a reason stay tuned on big man stevo channel to hear more reasons for de gal Dem cheating
There is something in relationships called communication,she doesn't use that effectively,she's giving excuses tu.If she needs the husband sexually,she should tell him, kwani anaogopa kumwambia?? Mbona anaambia caretaker n not husband? That's wrong,very wrong??? Hakuna kitu anajitetea hapo bana
@@geoffreysamba2386 since I subscribed to BMS channel av heard a thousand reasons why women cheat,99.9 %are fake,can't hold any water,only 0.1 % are understandable. For men they cheat but with no reason at all,they just cheat,for women they never lack a reason plus playing a victim in the quickest way possible. And to sum up the story,women cheat 10 times more than men in the current times,look at 10 cheating cases ,only one is a man,men are giving up on cheating,women have engaged the over drive gear,women of today are not easy to handle ooooo!!!!!😀😅😅😅😅
@@mwauramartha4223That’s not the same as attention. She lacks sexual attention and the companionship too and the Pastor isn’t giving her both unfortunately
When you truly love someone,you make time for them. You understand their needs and language of love. Please be there for them. No one is ever too busy. Pastor,be serious.
That can be a lame excuse cos she has been caught..if the husband is praying can't they pray together,these r the kind of women who go to church to marry godly men while they r not godly themselves,I wish my own will tell me one day let's go to church
Lem advice u girl, if ur married to pastor that's life u hv to live, always beside him n supporting everything he does, that the rule. So u got married to a wrong person n also him getting married to u it was another mistake. Bibi ya pastor anakaa pale mbele na handkerchiefs kama tatu, na maji na glass, time ya romance hakuna, juu Yuko busy praying n worshipping na kufunga kwa ajili ya kanisa, that facts take it or live it.
Love is not enough. When you get into a relationship it's not about you only anymore. Loyal people who decided to be loyal after knowing BMS si tuko? But again this lady has a very good and important point
The lady is genuine, the man is avoiding true questions. The man is not right. The man needs to listen. In this one, the man is wrong. He is hiding in the church, not doing his marital responsibility .
I agree he is devoted to God which is admirable however if he wanted this to be his life full time he should never have married or made choice 2 be a family man. His wife has cheated which is wrong however he is holding everyone up but his wife n kids. He told her she cant work so she 100% has to rely on him financially. She hiding him, his home n kids n he is not. He is not listening that he has neglected nor only her but the kids needs. She doesnt want him to stop church but bring some of that charity home too. Hope they can resolve this
Heri nikae single wanawake bana ukiwa na busy na kazi watasema wanataka attention ukiwa kwa nyumba wanasema huna pesa ...mwanamke hatumii akili ni hisia 💔💔💔
@@najmahamso8364 sikwa ubaya but madem wanafaa kufikiria ni nini wanataka kwa maisha..me better nifanye kazi nikiwa single wanawake wamenionesha maneno hii dunia
It's not about the things you do , but your presence is so vital to your wife. ... You don have to mind about the other people in church and you forget your wife, God is the one who started marriage and y he knew the weakness a human
Huyu mwanaume siwezi kaa na yeye ata 1week ako na pride Sanaa,wacha kuniguza tafadhali na ni Bibi yake Niko sure ata wife akitaka nyundo usiku anadai don't touch mi nimefunga,enda kwa care taker mamaa
Bro usiseme eti as long as you dont destroy your ralationship with God you are okey,family comes b4 church.make peace with your wife kwanza.then Go and serve.
The best feeling is when someone appreciates everything about you that someone else took for granted.. Kimathi the caretaker is really overworking here,,
The pastor is human na hajacheat but the wife is pretending to be more human and cheated....hangevumilia like pastor...si I thought madem wa church huwait....
@@eunoia7429 really now, Just cause you told him hakupatii attention Aanze vita sasa? You need to look at what you attracted to then Maybe the problem is you picking those kind of people
The real miracle is how this interview lasted 53 minutes considering how the pastor was screaming about time being wasted, getting late & being in a hurry every 45 seconds 🤣🤣. I still get amazed how BMS manages to do this
@@vikeke1782 She is reasonable and sensible. She is no loose woman. She is human & she did what anyone else would have done in her situation, male or female. ..got her physical needs met.
@@denisgichuhi4398 I can't blame u so u mean its men fault as women say. Did she communicate with his husband kuwa she want sex or attention.... Women take access control of sex and men take access control of marriage. Men decide who to marry not women. Women need to take accountability for wrong choices. Women got more excuses now amekosa vyote bwana na watoi now she belong to the street and she's welcome to single moms hood. Reason like a man kama uko after followers or likes women don't care about men kwanza. She was backup plan kwa Kimathi
No matter how old you are and you can't be honest it becomes void. Imagine I'm 26 and kuna mtu ananiambia ati I need to learn and a simple truth of telling a partner that you can't move on together is hard. If honesty is hard then izo advise zingine mtu apeleke tu uko. Remember that the true Definition of Love is that Love does not dwell in evil. Lakini ju dunia imefunza watu kizungu mingi wanaona they are obligated to define love. Kama mtu hawezi skiza Mungu we ni nani. Good to focus on God and Life.
People get into marriage thinking love is enough to keep the marriage...it doesn't. Knowledge n understanding is what does. Dr Myles Munroe said it all.
Askize points za bibi yake. 1 Peter 3:7 ESV Likewise, husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way, showing honor to the woman as the weaker vessel, since they are heirs with you of the grace of life, so that your prayers may not be hindered.
This is my pastor na mama kanisa who was jst giving me advice Abt getting married in our youth,,,am now confused and I had planned even harusi😢😥😭😭😭,I feel so 😞
The pastor is wrong absolutely. Live the woman out and point all your artillery to this sorry fellow. He is holding a Bible in his hand and has no clue what it says. Let him come to class, we will help him or let him get in touch with me. I hate when God is used and misrepresented. I don't claim perfection but this pastor has disappointed me as a Bible teacher
@@kadzo6614 based on my assessment of him he is more focused on his work than his family. But according to the nature of his work its alright... People cheat for selfish reasons then start pointing fingers on others and play the victim... "especially women"
@@raphaelnjenga3423 but it doesn't mean that you should stop doing God's work! Having sex with out your marriage is hearing and living under control of the devil. There's no other reason!
This lady is full of grace, respect and class. Any man would be lucky to have her for a wife. That Pastor has failed to play the role of a husband and a partner. Women want a man that they connect with emotionally. Money is not everything. I wish more men could watch this and learn something from it.
Watch part 2 here
ruclips.net/video/tpywgTPsVNQ/видео.html
Men of God! Mnalisha kondoo huko nje na wale mmeweka nyumbani amuwashuhulikii?!!!!
Why does this "man of God" sound narcissistic in a way?... Its either his way or no way. Si hata mbwa husikiza makosa yake kabla abweke. No offense but this lady deserves better
@@wambuimwangi8369 I shamelessly second you on this! I can't blame the lady, the husband put her in that situation.
The lady is a human being too, she has needs that the husband should fulfill. If he is taking all the time in church and forgetting his duties as a husband, God doesn't allow that! How do you put the 'kondoo' first before your wife? It only means one thing, his needs are being satisfied by his kondoos.
You deserve better girl!
Comrades uko down ,this is the point ungekua kama Anan Koffi .
Feel for that lady
Kindly pull it down vile amekuomba kwa upole
Legend has it that the pastor is still speaking to this day. He doesn't know how to shut up and listen.
😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹
I observed that problem too.
The guy can't just stop talking and listen first.
First problem right there
🤣🤣🤣🤣..
Very true,he can't listen 😅
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This lady is open and truthful. Life is not materials but intimacy
There’s no justification for cheating but I swear I feel where this lady is coming from💯
Where
Hoedacity yoooote
The question is... does that christian god understand... last i checked adultery regardless of reasons is a sin
How this girl even lived with this guy for 5yrs is a miracle....Hasikii!anyamazii
Imgn she's so strong
A prostitute will always he a prostitute
This man failed as a husband,,,, I don't support cheating but this woman is saying facts 💯💯💯💯🤗🤗
I hope you would hold the same thoughts when a husband cheats for not getting sexual satisfaction.
Wife is adulterous and no need to sanitize
I love this woman. She is talking 💯 truth. The man has to understand that he lost his own marriage. You can't ignore her needs and expect her to just be a yes woman. She is young and beautiful and obviously needs more than prayers 24/7
Pastor, pastor kitu Gani,,, 😜 I love the lady
ukweri.....when was the last tyme they made love....he kept quite.Pastor haongereshwe na wazee wa kanisa.Ladies out there will support,marriage aint about money and children,sex is vital
Kamwanamke kamalaya !! Youngman ur so smart ,ruun for ua life.hapa hauna bibi! Ni poko Wa kawaida! Hata anaongea aki smile kama mbuzii hapaaa
This woman is wise the guy doesn't understand other things that happens for a family
This Lady is saying the truth. She's a human and has feelings.
Communication is key
So the pastor Has no feelings just thinking
The pastor is human na hajacheat but the wife is pretending to be more human and cheated....hangevumilia like pastor...si I thought madem wa church huwait....
Feelings aje akii ...hio time kidogo mtu awezi vumilia and y can't u communicate ..na WA gulf feelings hutreat aje aki
@@DIon..Godismyshield nipewe connection ya mumama
This woman is very beautiful calm and she needs to be understood. We are all human beings. Ata mimi siwezi vumilia
The three As pastor!
1. Attention
2. Affection
3. Appreciation
And affirmation
The pastor is human na hajacheat but the wife is pretending to be more human and cheated....hangevumilia like pastor...si I thought madem wa church huwait....
Attention To Women Is Sex To Men
@@bobmafabi1334How sure are you doesn’t cheat. Taking church ladies out for lunch and dinner and Klever taking his wife. This man may be cheating and that’s why his attention isn’t on his children and wife.
Thats for Women for Men is
Provision
Protection
Providing
I love the calmness of this lady she does have a point but if you love someone let them grow...their marriage was way broken they were just holding on
I second you
We need part of this Lady, she has something that we men need to hear, providing isn't enough.
True
Am glad you understand juu men out here wanareact different
@@janeshiku1368 Same men deny them attention for single day, washacheat, we all need emotional support n sex is very important, usipotosheleza wife, there is someone who will.
Correct
My friend with ladies nothing is ever enough, wait until you get a shock then you'll understand this.
LIFE IS not about PEOPLE who acted TRUE in front of your FACE but it's about PEOPLE who acted TRUE behind your BACK
Power sentiments
25:20. Pastor anaonyesha kua na mashaka na Mkewe alivyoishika simu
We should know each other☺
Thump up comrd flvr ,did you seek this couple for reconciliation?There is always a second chance.forgiveness is a key pillars in Christianity.
@@denisharris2889 cvll
This man is a perfectionist..
Na mdomo miingi. Apewe wig Na kamisi
😂😂😂😂
Mum we feel you. You are very justified to get tired though not to cheat.
Huyu akioleka na askiari kama Mimi na anamuona annually, si dryspell itampeleka koinange 😢
Hata ukiwa housewife Bora account inoge na Niko na watoi na bwana,tamaa ya mwili isikupeleke hell mama
@@jeniffer2738 wacha account inoge ukingoja ukimwi hapo, for one year dryspell kwani hii ni ndoa ama biashara
Ata si ange enda mbali sasa caretaker ana cheki aje pastor woiye!
To me she is justified. You can't beat the feeling by the word of God. If u feel thirsty the only remedy is to drink water
@@naomimoreka2446 cheating did not change the marriage.
I feel like telling the husband her dissatisfaction would be better. If the husband doesn't change after the warning, moving on into a new relationship was a better option than cheating.
Lesson:
Sex is important in a marriage
When you marry a spiritual baby and you must be ashamed
Definitely
@@ambassadorofchrist6983 True broh...
You can't impact a church when your family is in chaos
This guy needs wisdom and knowledge about marriage
You can't neglect your wife her needs and expect her to be by your side
When temptations come,she will fall and the devil will use her as an entry point to destroy his calling
Very very
Absolutely true
This man needs to be a pastor in church and at the same time a husband at home!!
Correct instead of making excuses in the name of Church. Amefanya bibi aende hivyo
Kabisaa huyu mwanaume amesahau kuwa kama yeye ni bwana kwa nyumba
The pastor is human na hajacheat but the wife is pretending to be more human and cheated....hangevumilia like pastor...si I thought madem wa church huwait....
Anaongea kama radio
Kweli kabisa na ukishindwa kulima shamba mwenyewe... utalimiwa tu
Huyu jamaa anaboo sijui ni kuringa ama ni nini ila dem ako tu sawa roho safi and truthful ❤
Stevo you are really wise; how do u make people that were in a hurry tarry for a whole hour and how do you manage to have such people give you their phones - that's a true miracle. this says you are on the right job. I think you can make the best psychology counselor...think about it.
And the way he keeps quiet when things get hot.
Aki stevo... I like how yu work.
I love how he keep quiet after how things get tough😂😂😂
@@nancykathini2056 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣and he say sasa itakua aje
@@nancykathini2056 Akishaa pepeta moto ikiwaka, anaacha ichome venye itapenda😂😂😂
I declare this woman free from guild and sin.
Whoever hasn't sin, should cast the first stone.
Seek God for forgiveness 🙏amen.
I don't advocate for cheating but somehow this woman has a point...She feels neglected.
Very true
#SteveOuma A cheater Will always get an excuse.Have you ever seen a cheater in this platform without excuse??
Hapa pastor hajacheza game mzuri
There is no reason for cheating...
Lies, she knew what it takes to be a pastor's wife. Nobody forced her to marry him.
This is a good woman even the way she is talking.
One thing pastors should understand is that you are a pastor at church but always remember you are a husband at home.
That quiz "when was the last time we made love?" Is a painful reality that kills marriages.
Or he rather travel with her
❤
❤
Very true
Stevo you really have your ways and I respect that, this is a tough one ☝️ this woman has a point to be honest not that am supporting her but she’s making so much sense
When 2 people start in a
relationship together, it's
fun & stress free. The first
couple months of the
relationship will always
be easy. Eventually, the
jealousy will kick in, the
clingyness will show
itself, the arguments will
come out of nowhere, &
trust issues will develop.
Things will start getting
real. But this is when you
get to see whether or not
they are willing to stick
around & make it work.
Most people will give up,
but if you have someone
who stays around despite
the circumstances,
they're definitely a
keeper..
Stevo!!when I grow up I wanna be you,,u are the mind kenya need,,you too wise man!!
The good Sister is saying that she needs your time good Brother ! LISTEN , LISTEN, (TD Jakes voice)
TD is busy with men🤓🫣🫣
Ephesians 5:25
Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her
Hawata soma hiyo verse
Hasomi hiyo verse.
It's wrong what the lady did.
I think maybe hata nyumbani hamsikizi if she wants to express herself 😭
Well.said
And pastors learn to listen
Amen 🙏🏽
This lady has a point. You only go where you are appreciated not where you are accommodated
That's why communication in marriage is important
I have been following your content but this one is great. The man should be able to have his time with the family.
Surely charity begins at home.
Baldadash... She belongs to the streets.
Wah I can't say anything all is God first pastor i understood what you feel .. prayer is the key to everything in this life
To the extent of 4geting his responsibilities?
It doesnt justify the cheating. A wise woman wouldve found a way to win her husband by all means like Esther. She couldve even taken him to a counsellor or therapy before taking steps to cheat. If she had tried all and he doesnt meet her conjugal need, then it would be on him.
Charity begins at home pastor, be there for your family first
Yes but cheating.....is more evil
Exactly
But cheating??? No!
She has confirmed about her tiredness in that marriage..let her go to the caretaker and see if He is gonna Take Care of her.
This wife is governor mutuas ex excuse.
Let her get mapenzi calibers and let pastor be, cheating can't take u far and never solution to any problem.
Stevo let me commend you today for not badging in and letting it play out the way it did. That was very mature/cool/calm/collected of you.
How this man didn't want this interview at first to now thanking stevo at the end still baffles me.. enyewe hakuna coincidences in life...
Thanks for the upload BMS. 👏👏👏
Edit: Though I don't agree with what the lady did, I do agree with her sentiments 100%.
Always have time for your partner.
Pastor, don't be too busy for your wife.
She is a human being.
She has said here that she has sexual needs.
It's very long time since you were together with her intimately.
Do not be over-righteous pastor, or any member who is here thereof.
This cuts across both men and women.
New Living Translation 1 Corinthians 7.5
Do not deprive each other of sexual relations, unless you both agree to refrain from sexual intimacy for a limited time so you can give yourselves more completely to prayer. Afterward, you should come together again so that Satan won’t be able to tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
Next she will get a jobless guy who wants to sex her 24/7,she will still cheat because the guy is jobless,if she finds a guy without money,she will still say like " beb haujui pesa Zina tusaidia Zina toka wapi"
Cheaters never lack a reason stay tuned on big man stevo channel to hear more reasons for de gal Dem cheating
There is something in relationships called communication,she doesn't use that effectively,she's giving excuses tu.If she needs the husband sexually,she should tell him, kwani anaogopa kumwambia?? Mbona anaambia caretaker n not husband? That's wrong,very wrong??? Hakuna kitu anajitetea hapo bana
@@geoffreysamba2386 since I subscribed to BMS channel av heard a thousand reasons why women cheat,99.9 %are fake,can't hold any water,only 0.1 % are understandable.
For men they cheat but with no reason at all,they just cheat,for women they never lack a reason plus playing a victim in the quickest way possible.
And to sum up the story,women cheat 10 times more than men in the current times,look at 10 cheating cases ,only one is a man,men are giving up on cheating,women have engaged the over drive gear,women of today are not easy to handle ooooo!!!!!😀😅😅😅😅
@@westgatehygienecleaningsol3442 true
@Geoffrey why should he be told? He doesn’t know his husband duties? You’re not a lady so you wouldn’t understand.
If no bedroom games am also done .. it can never be me💃
😂😂🤭
Kama Mimi natafta mmoja mwenye anajali bed like this lady
David kitanda muhimu
Haiyaa Sophia ata wewe unapenda sana
That is it mechi kwanza
the chills when Kimathi was mentioned... I was like.. "ndo huyo"😂😂😂
You women, sukuru mungu ulipata mwanaume mwenye anaye mjuwa mungu in nani
I feel,Abby is representing many women.Abby tafuta huyo Kimathi tena❤️❤️I love her confidence,this lady must be from the lake side❤️❤️❤️
Never seen Stevo confused which side to take. The confusion in his face.
Dear mama kanisa, u could have demanded for it instead of going for the caretaker. Kwani kujiitishia ni shida
😆😆😆😆😅
😂😂😂😂
Demand from where na hampei attention
@@emilyfrancis8841 si amshike cha nguvu
@@mwauramartha4223That’s not the same as attention. She lacks sexual attention and the companionship too and the Pastor isn’t giving her both unfortunately
This is so painful lakini...may God intervene...I feel this man should listen to this woman.
Care takers are really doing their job well.... taking care
Kabisaaaa
Wanangalia maplot na mabibi ya wazaeeee🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 🌎🌎 is hard 🤔🤔🤔🤔
They are overperforming😅
Alaaaaaah 😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂
When you truly love someone,you make time for them. You understand their needs and language of love. Please be there for them. No one is ever too busy. Pastor,be serious.
That can be a lame excuse cos she has been caught..if the husband is praying can't they pray together,these r the kind of women who go to church to marry godly men while they r not godly themselves,I wish my own will tell me one day let's go to church
Hunipeangi time..... this line never gets old..
😂 😂 😂 And another one attention
will never get old
I wish my hubby is a pastor,,, hizi vitu za your presence has nothing to do with it
Time and attention (money) 🤣🤣🤣
That's the phrase of all ladies, attention and time, will they eat attention and time
I feel this lady 100%
Nataka mtu Kama ww
Nixawa bt awezi heshimu nyumba ya msee
and this is why pastors should desist from marriage and be celibate
Nipeni like basi wakenya am addicted from Tanzania 😂
Caretakers at it again! 😂 The actual custodians of every tenant's significant other.
Lem advice u girl, if ur married to pastor that's life u hv to live, always beside him n supporting everything he does, that the rule. So u got married to a wrong person n also him getting married to u it was another mistake. Bibi ya pastor anakaa pale mbele na handkerchiefs kama tatu, na maji na glass, time ya romance hakuna, juu Yuko busy praying n worshipping na kufunga kwa ajili ya kanisa, that facts take it or live it.
But you can see how the Pastor’s responsibility being taken over by the Care Taker pushed them closer.
May God restore this marriage waah family is the first church
SHE IS SPITTING THE TRUTH 🗣️❤
Love is not enough. When you get into a relationship it's not about you only anymore. Loyal people who decided to be loyal after knowing BMS si tuko? But again this lady has a very good and important point
Leftovers Women are many
The lady is genuine, the man is avoiding true questions. The man is not right. The man needs to listen. In this one, the man is wrong. He is hiding in the church, not doing his marital responsibility .
if he wanted to devote himself to God this much, he shouldn't have gotten married. on the other side, she should have talked to him before cheating.
Kweli kabisa
I agree he is devoted to God which is admirable however if he wanted this to be his life full time he should never have married or made choice 2 be a family man. His wife has cheated which is wrong however he is holding everyone up but his wife n kids. He told her she cant work so she 100% has to rely on him financially. She hiding him, his home n kids n he is not. He is not listening that he has neglected nor only her but the kids needs. She doesnt want him to stop church but bring some of that charity home too. Hope they can resolve this
if the lady was genuine she couldn't have gone to another man. kama ni sex aseduce bwanake. cheating can never be explained and excused
@@Cyclone1x true
Girl you are right, in this world we should be free
Divorce to do your stuff, why stay married?
Heri nikae single wanawake bana ukiwa na busy na kazi watasema wanataka attention ukiwa kwa nyumba wanasema huna pesa ...mwanamke hatumii akili ni hisia 💔💔💔
@@tonnyjimbi5150 hata mm ni mwanamke na nimetatizika na hawa wa mama haki
@@najmahamso8364 sikwa ubaya but madem wanafaa kufikiria ni nini wanataka kwa maisha..me better nifanye kazi nikiwa single wanawake wamenionesha maneno hii dunia
🥰🥰🥰🥰😂😂very free indeed
This girl is beautiful, in fact i see talent in her, she can be a good actress, kinda reminds me of Mishi Dora of Nairobi Diaries!
This dialogue should be recommended for all pastors to watch.
Church elders have to talk to him this brain washing shuld stop
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Pastors, pastor!
At least huyu hajakula kondoo🙏
Kindness can go along way if people would just stop and be kind to one another for no reasons and for nothing in returned.
Ulikua unataka atolewe kutu na nani kama humtoi? Anyway i dont advocate cheating.pastors think b4 you marry.
The lady has being waiting this day,thanks God steve came in
It's not about the things you do , but your presence is so vital to your wife. ...
You don have to mind about the other people in church and you forget your wife, God is the one who started marriage and y he knew the weakness a human
Huyu mwanaume siwezi kaa na yeye ata 1week ako na pride Sanaa,wacha kuniguza tafadhali na ni Bibi yake Niko sure ata wife akitaka nyundo usiku anadai don't touch mi nimefunga,enda kwa care taker mamaa
I don't go to church but I believe in Jesus Christ more than pastor himself
Very possible. The name "pastor" is over-rated, unduly over-respected.
I love this lady she's neglected na hii upastrolization 🤣
Bro usiseme eti as long as you dont destroy your ralationship with God you are okey,family comes b4 church.make peace with your wife kwanza.then Go and serve.
Haki pastor's wives wengi are dying inside slowly.
Me too I believe in God but churches and pastors is a no go zone
love the lord your God with all your heart soul and mind.........
She just hit the nail on the head
When I grow up I would like to be a care taker
Man stevo I really like the way you approach people ❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏🤝🤝🤝🤝👍👍👍 be blessed my brother
The best feeling is when someone appreciates everything about you that someone else took for granted.. Kimathi the caretaker is really overworking here,,
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@@auntiepiarants2238 😂😁😀
@@trizahpaul9249 hahaha wooi
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The pastor is human na hajacheat but the wife is pretending to be more human and cheated....hangevumilia like pastor...si I thought madem wa church huwait....
I don't support cheating but I understand this lady 💯
Every cheating lady will understand her
Hata kama ni mimi maybe ningecheat huduma uanza hme you can't neglecte your hme and expect huduma isimame. Hata haoni mahali amefail
@@velmamgh0i848 kwani Huyu pastor alioa tu Robot ikaange tu kwa nyumba 😂😥
@@djZezeman kwenda kabisa🚮🚮🚮🚮🚮🚮🚮
Which advice would u give your son about women
Well spoken mama, I feel you dear , you need to be loved and Feel loved!!
You need attention from your husband😍
the body needs to be satisfied just as the soul
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Side Chicks Think They're Wives now
Good point.
Mwili haipikiwi chakula
Try telling someone how you feel
Its called communication
No one is going to beat you..
I feel like she's trying to talk to the guy but he seems not to listen. Even now hamwachi aongee.
Ati no one will beat you😂😂 utachapwa ukumbuke kuimba wimbo wa "nifundishe kunyamaza"
You're right
No one will beat you? Kenyan men will prove you wrong. Utafinywa ulie
@@eunoia7429 really now,
Just cause you told him hakupatii attention
Aanze vita sasa?
You need to look at what you attracted to then
Maybe the problem is you picking those kind of people
I just saw part of it on tiktok , now I'm here to get it in details!!
Kindly i suppot this woman 100% uwezi niletea ukristo bwana acha aende atafute mama kanisa mwingine akae na yeye
All you need is love. Do you agree?
Love alone is not enough
love, attention and money
Mkiikoka sana tunakuliwa na washilika😂😂😂CAN SAMEBARY SHOUT A BIG AMEN
Amen! 😅
Pastor speaks allot like a type writer.
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na hataki kuchapa hiii kitu angetumia iyo nguvu kwa hii kitu ungekua fiti
🤣🤣🤣🤣 hii ni kali
Hornbill
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Steve the channel has really helped me in one way or another keep it up
The real miracle is how this interview lasted 53 minutes considering how the pastor was screaming about time being wasted, getting late & being in a hurry every 45 seconds 🤣🤣. I still get amazed how BMS manages to do this
Wueh Stivo nikama anakuanga na kamuti.. I doubt how this Man alipeana simu 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Infact I thought he was the one cheating 😥
@@euniceakande5173 bana jooh 😂🤭
He gets you hypnotised
Akili
This woman has a point ...🤔🤔kudoz to caretakers there doing a splendid job...taking care of lonely married women🤗
Ati she is right. How did they get the kids? The man is not playing meaning she doesn't show interest because she is satisfied by her actions
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 wah these caretakers will not see Heaven.
Gai eti good job to caretaker waaaah I'm speechless
😅😅ati lonely married women 😅😅
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Thank you God for every provision,and help us achieve our purpose in life🙏
Like this man hata hataki kusikia chenye bibiake anamwambia,ajue there's time for everything,
This guy is so lucky to have such an amazing woman!
Amazing for being run through ama wat do u mean by Amazing woman
@@vikeke1782 She is reasonable and sensible. She is no loose woman. She is human & she did what anyone else would have done in her situation, male or female. ..got her physical needs met.
@@denisgichuhi4398 I can't blame u so u mean its men fault as women say.
Did she communicate with his husband kuwa she want sex or attention....
Women take access control of sex and men take access control of marriage. Men decide who to marry not women.
Women need to take accountability for wrong choices.
Women got more excuses now amekosa vyote bwana na watoi now she belong to the street and she's welcome to single moms hood.
Reason like a man kama uko after followers or likes women don't care about men kwanza. She was backup plan kwa Kimathi
@@denisgichuhi4398 it's always men fault
@@vikeke1782 if you're not married you'll never get it
No matter how old you are and you can't be honest it becomes void. Imagine I'm 26 and kuna mtu ananiambia ati I need to learn and a simple truth of telling a partner that you can't move on together is hard. If honesty is hard then izo advise zingine mtu apeleke tu uko. Remember that the true Definition of Love is that Love does not dwell in evil. Lakini ju dunia imefunza watu kizungu mingi wanaona they are obligated to define love. Kama mtu hawezi skiza Mungu we ni nani. Good to focus on God and Life.
People get into marriage thinking love is enough to keep the marriage...it doesn't. Knowledge n understanding is what does. Dr Myles Munroe said it all.
so true. You cannot apply ( WISDOM) in what u don't UNDERSTAND and you cannot understand what you don't know (KNOWLEDGE) Dr Myles
I concur with u
I like the way they were in a hurry, all of a sudden they have time, till the man of God sat down, woiye
Askize points za bibi yake.
1 Peter 3:7 ESV
Likewise, husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way, showing honor to the woman as the weaker vessel, since they are heirs with you of the grace of life, so that your prayers may not be hindered.
I love her honesty.
Weee
Now she belong to the street and she wont see the kids again
MALAYA MWENZIO
@@aaaaaah290 malaya n ww sitombi men
Those are excuses for infidelity. She is speaking NONSENSE!!!!!
This is my pastor na mama kanisa who was jst giving me advice Abt getting married in our youth,,,am now confused and I had planned even harusi😢😥😭😭😭,I feel so 😞
I hope you are just kidding
Hypocrisy at it's best. Huyu ni dunia anapenda....Lot's wife.
@@maryalubisia4655 am even confused 😞 now
I love this woman,she has a point,this is the reason to why i can't be married by a pastor
The way Stevo changes his position when he sees something funerals me 🤣🤣🤣🤣
The pastor is wrong absolutely. Live the woman out and point all your artillery to this sorry fellow. He is holding a Bible in his hand and has no clue what it says. Let him come to class, we will help him or let him get in touch with me. I hate when God is used and misrepresented. I don't claim perfection but this pastor has disappointed me as a Bible teacher
Funerals u 🤣🤣🤣🤣now u r the one funeraling me
@maryalubisia4655 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hannah yaye🤣🤣😂🙉yaaani it makes you weak, i die aki 🤸🏃🔥🔥🤣🤣🤣😂😂
@paulotieno7632 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣he changes the position very innocently
There’s a lot of truth in what the woman is saying, she’s got needs too. Pastor bonoko huyu!
This is when you realise that aaahhhh!! Steve, was chosen
Love has no balance ukiwa idle na unampea all attention atasema huna pesa ,ukitafta pesa still unachezwa na excuses single life is best💪💪
Steve's facial expressions and answers make my days.🤣🤣🤣🤣
I hv nothing to say this is hot
This man sounds like the type to do something really crazy after this.
He sounds so boring with religious hypocricy; na cooked english...lol
@@kadzo6614 based on my assessment of him he is more focused on his work than his family. But according to the nature of his work its alright... People cheat for selfish reasons then start pointing fingers on others and play the victim... "especially women"
Narcissist hiding behind church
@@IANA2030 what's the meaning of this word narcissist cause siku hizi imekua kitu kidogo mtu ni narcissist
@@kadzo6614 Sasa kama ni wewe utapeana nyama kwa caretaker alafu uexpect bwanako akijua anyamazie.
Relations with God is better and better, continue pastor
Yeah 😂 God fast others will follows coz the day of judgement you alone will be there
@@justineabarasa672 alright thank you
Sure
The same God said a man will leave his mother and father and start his own house.
@@raphaelnjenga3423 but it doesn't mean that you should stop doing God's work! Having sex with out your marriage is hearing and living under control of the devil. There's no other reason!
This lady is full of grace, respect and class. Any man would be lucky to have her for a wife. That Pastor has failed to play the role of a husband and a partner. Women want a man that they connect with emotionally. Money is not everything. I wish more men could watch this and learn something from it.
Spiritual mind vs worldly mind.- there is no sync in the mission!- The spirit of delilah is rife in this earth.
I see,she has really been waiting for this day.
But I feel just sorry for the kids,they need both parents.
Kids don't need both parents, all they need is a happy home
Kumbe watu wako married but they are not their for their kids
@Irene Mutuku they need both parents but sometimes circumstances doesn't allow
@@irenemutuku533 they really need both parental care and love
The way the lady is behaving, I knew she was not innocent
Same to me
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