Honestly, I get the feeling that sis was never truly spoiled, but was more forced to act the part in order to stoke mommy dearest's ego. IE, the same vein of 'spoiled' that children of abusive parents are when the parent feels shame in public, so instead of abusing they go the other way, and if the child doesn't cooperate, when they're outside of the public eye there's hell to pay.
@@Undomaranel lol. Why would a true narcissist want to do that? They live in their own universe where everything has to evolve around them, where they are ALWAYS right and ALWAYS the victim of others. If you have that fixed mindset you don't have any drive to change. Remember the narcissistic prayer. Everyone who manages to "grow out" of it wasn't a true narcissist to begin with, but only had some traits that made them resemble them. Real narcissists rather die than admit that there is anything wrong with them or what they are doing.
I love it when LG posts the full story. It makes this channel so much better than those who post popular stories quickly and leave you wondering what has happened.
I agree completely. If LG doesn’t post an update, I know it’s because there isn’t one, not because the narrator (or computer voice) didn’t take the time to look for it. Thanks LG! ❤️
BIL needs to leave her spoiled narcissistic ass & fight for custody of that kid when it's born. Never let a child be raised by people like this, it only perpetuates the cycle of narcissism.
@@bhart3321 did you ignore the part where multiple people will help raise the child and the mother is getting mental help? After seeing how her mother actually is I can imagin that everyones going to avoid the child growing up like that
I'm so glad his sister is doing better and in therapy. She sounds like a completely changed person at the end of the story and I hope she'll be a better mom than hers was
Thankfully, emotionally stunted and damaged people can heal, grow, and change their behavior little by little... It may take a literal decade, but I've known a few people who grew from childhood terrors into decent adults. In both cases, I had so much visceral dislike stored up that I never could isolate that from the mature adults they belatedly grew into. I wish I could in some ways, but mostly it's irrelevant. One's dead, and one's a single mom in rural CA, while I live 12,000 miles across the Pacific Ocean.
at first, I was chuckling bc she didn't get what she wanted but when I saw the second update... oh god, spoiled kid or not, that was absolutely cruel, I'm glad she is doing better now
If I'm *NOT* mistaken. There are a few more parts to this story. Such as OP's mother forging her husband's signature on credit card applications, forging her husband's signature on the paperwork to try to send the OP to military school as a way of "disciplining" him. Which is what had lead to the divorce.
I'm the scapegoat, none of the rotation of GC's can/will take care of the bio's. Guess who they expect to step in? Yeah. Guess who already told them not to threaten her with a good time? I'll send them to a home - I already took care of bio dad's mother when he refused to. I won't do it again.
@@pansprayers my dad was the black sheep and cut contact back in 2004/2005. All the remaining siblings didn’t want to take care of their mom so the Golden child took her in. We have no contact with any of them but even he couldn’t handle her.
Man, I’m seeing this go down with my friend’s family. Big bro is golden child and she is the runt. They favored him (a car at 16, attended his after school activities) and it hurt her. She now makes WAY more than her brother and parents combined now, and spoils her in-laws with nice vacations. Calls her in-laws mom and dad, and they see her kids all the time. She’s never taken her side of the family on vacation ever, and tells them to ask their favorite instead whenever they ask her to come home for holidays. They weren’t invited to the wedding and they have never met her children. To the family’s credit, they’ve at least recognized that they were wrong and are trying to mend fences, but she doesn’t talk to them much and has let them know that they’re on their own financially. She’s convinced they only want to play happy family because she’s got deeper pockets.
I wonder what the bubble they live in is like and how comfy and cozy it must be, because you know if you went up to that person demanding your property and did the same thing to them, they'd look at you like you were absolutely crazy. How does it not occur to them that what they're asking for is flat out insane? It must be one helluva cushy bubble.
And notice she wanted the deed transferred to her name not her daughter's so she can maintain control. I wouldn't put it past her to turn around and charge her daughter rent after the house would get signed over.
Op’s growth and strength is impressive. Many times these children , now grown, shake and falter when faced with the rage of their lifetime tormentor. Bravo op
I am glad that OP didn't have any hate toward his sister in the end of everything and that he is helping his sister and her boyfriend. Instead of the narcissistic mother trying to take his house. All she had to do is talk to OP for help but nope just like all narcs she wanted complete control over everything. They can look at It as they just saved their children from the narcissistic behavior from that woman. Starting with the sister's baby since she was a racist too!
Not sure I feel so good about the sister. I'm an atheist but even the Vatican approaches a claimed "miracle" by trying to debunk it. She's faced with having to get a job and suddenly gets pregnant? I don't think we need to resort to miracles to figure out what happened there.
@@immortalsofar5314 Hopefully the sister has seen the error of her ways and continues to grow as a person. She may have sucked before, but she seems to be trying now.
Seems like he and his father maintained a solid spine when faced with the monster that is a narcissist. Considering how his father prepared it seems like he had a pretty solid set of morals and he passed that on to his son better than most could outside of abusive homes.
Op, you’re brilliant! My mum was awful. I went no contact early (17) and had to have NCO’s drawn up by our attorney due to her evil narcissistic mental behaviour. She legally cannot contract me, my husband or children in any way, shape or form. If she does, she goes to jail. I bypassed the restraining order nonsense and went full nuclear on her. I have zero contact with her side of the family as well. My life is blissful! Don’t feed the narcissist! Ever. I hope your sister goes no contact as well. For the baby’s sake. 👏👏👏
Well, that took a turn for the…wholesome! Nice to see OP and his sister managed to overcome their toxic upbringing and forge a relationship. That mother sounds like she was not only a narcissist, but a borderline personality disorder (I’ve known a few). Guess karma finally came for her…
I was ready eyed I’m not going to lie. Golden child syndrome is also abuse and if mother is dragging daughter by the hair telling her to get an abortion I don’t imagine her childhood was great
There's literally no signs of the mother having BPD. How about educating yourself before you throw around suggestions for random mental illnesses? BPD isn't NPD but worse, it's a completely separate condition which is actually opposite in some ways to NPD.
In the first part, I just *LOVED* how OP's mother would graciously allow the OP und his girlfriend to live in *ONE* room of the house on the condition that he continued to pay *ALL* of the household expenses. I have a feeling that that was probably her plan all along i.e. kick the OP out of *HIS* house, but somehow expect him to "finally" do the right "brotherly" thing und to continue to pay the household expenses.
I just came here after watching the "prequel" you just posted today. I'm very pleased at the net positive results. I'm glad OP found it in him to help his sister once sister was removed from her mother. It's clear the sister's childish behavior was entirely due to her mother's influence. Which, of course, doesn't excuse her behavior nor absolve her of the consequences. Op and sister must start their relationship from scratch. But, at least it's actually an option now! And Sister happened to choose a good man it seems.
After watching the prequel story to this, I feel really sad about the dad, and it makes me appreciate OP’s strength even more. OP, your dad taught you well, and I hope wherever you are now, you’re happy & fulfilled with life. I’m glad your sister finally got the wake-up call she needed too, and I hope she’s happy too. ❤️
Saw this story elsewhere, total lunacy. OP must have waited years to slap his B of a mother back! He's a better person than I, to still want to help get his sister. Hope he isn't being taken for a ride.
I've heard several times of how those who get bullied, upon returning the pain that has been put upon them to a bully, often put that energy behind their hits, I can only imagine just how good that must've felt for OP
The second the demand was made would’ve been the last time I saw either of them. Blocked on everything. Cease and desist letter from a lawyer. Cameras installed and locks changed. Neighbors notified. So much drama can be avoided if you treat everyone the same, family or not. They screw up, they get the boot and they stay out unless there is concerted effort to change.
Thank you LG for posting ALL of the story! Your channel is always the best in finding out everything about these posts. Heck, you even pull up comments from OP that she'd light on the situations. Thank you Thank you thank you❤
I always find it funny when someone assaults another person and then acts surprised and offended when that person retaliates. Also "I brought you into this world and I'll take you out of it" I'm sure the police would LOVE to hear about your casual murder threat as well as you trespassing and assaulting the owner of the place you're trespassing in ✌🏻
STORY #1 It always amazes me how detached from reality Karens can be. OP's birth-giver (she doesn't deserve to be called a mother) actually got it into her mind that she could claim OP's property by sheer force of will, law be damned. She might have been under the impression that OP would be a pushover, but frankly even that seems like nonsense - OP had been no-contact with her for years. OP, if you're reading this, I wish you and your girlfriend happy lives. Your father did a fine job raising you. And you're right; your birth-giver is going to burn in Hell. She's a cheater, a liar, a thief, and shows no remorse for any of it. UPDATE This is a better ending than I expected. OP managed to rescue his sister from their birth-giver's brainwashing and narcissism, and she's actually remorseful! OP is genuinely a hero. He could have told fiancé "She's not my sister anymore, so it's not my problem", he would have been in his right to, but instead he extracted them. Hopefully sister becomes a better person than she was.
I'm so glad you found a way to avoid calling her a mother without insulting people who help gay couples, single people and people with infertility achieve their dreams of parenthood.
I have never been so satisfied to hear the ending part of this story! LG, You’re an amazing Reddit story reader, it satisfies me so much when you add your own opinions too.
Can we address the elephant 🐘 in the room? How was the sister planning on paying for the upkeep of the house with no job and her boyfriend’s hours have been cut?
It was the mom's idea, who already had an airbnb and a job. She wanted it in her name, too, and might have been planning to rent rooms if not kicking the sister and her kid out from the get-go. Greedy narcissistic racist, y'know?
Entertaining story indeed. Even though it had several plot holes to be totally believable for me LG’s exceptional story telling skills kept our attention and interest. Great story tellers have this gift and LG is among the best out there.
Hmm, everything worked so perfectly. No emotional turmoil or struggle, OP had the upper hand the whole time, the therapist completely treated his sister and undid a lifetime of her mom’s manipulation, and the mom satisfyingly got everything she deserved and more. If only real life was this way.
This was a story about a Mother and her children.My 40 yrs old daughter still believes in unconditional love.She should watch this video.One of the best stories on this sub,a classic,Thanks L.G.
OP is a straightup Giga Chad for how he handled this. I tried to get my mother to handle my grandmother in the same way for years but she just wouldn't. The day of my grandmother's funeral was probably one of the happiest days of my mom's life.
OP 1: Damn love how genre savvy OP and his are! I love that OP found a way to be compassionate to his sister/future nibling while maintaining boundaries and not setting himself on fire. It’s sad that the mother is ruining her daughter and crippling her. I hope she becomes a better person away from the mother
He clearly read up on other peoples experience with narcs on reddit, there is a pretty solid amount of stories and information as most people there are (or at least were back when I read it) very open and wanting to make sure others didn't suffer like they did.
Wow.. sounds like my birth giver, so sorry that someone has to go through that. The only thing you can do with people like that is to cut them off and make sure others know what’s going on as well. And have video footage…
If I was the lawyer I would be furious, they slander the lawyer, if it was me I would sue for defamation, they basically said that the lawyer will do something illegal if paid enough.
This story illustrates very well the fact that narcissists can't love anyone more than they love themselves, not even their golden child will know that true sacrifice.
From personal experience as the scapegoat child: You're not a golden child because you're liked more, you're a golden child because you disobey less. Anything that breaks their expectations is disobedience, even if it's good for everyone involved.
I’m guessing the narcissistic parent will expect the non-golden children to think, “I just need to be obedient like Golden Child and I’ll be treated well too!” when in reality nothing the non-golden children do will be good enough in his or her eyes. Some parents are pathetic.
@@karaoconnoraliasraidra Definitely. My mom tried, this is sorta emotionally fueled so maybe over the place: I've been told stories that even as an infant I couldn't stand being held by her, preferring my brother, godmother, and grandparents. The unifying factor of those people is they were all some of the most selfless I ever met(I also got to build that view myself), I figure selfless people respond to a baby while narcissists force it to do what they want...Even a baby can tell the difference, is what I think happened. She took it personally, I think. My earliest formed memories were literally of apprehension towards what she was trying to convince me of. "What she does and what she says aren't the same." I didn't even have words to say it yet but this was the biggest confusion in my life. She kept gaslighting and a 5yr has to believe mom. It doesn't feel right, but I just don't know and she says she loves me more than anyone else. For whatever reason I knew it in my gut from before I was conscious, I disobeyed her, acted out. I was very polite and obedient otherwise. This only pissed her off more. I eventually did bend to her will in a sort of cognitive dissonance. It didn't pacify her at all, just gave her rope to take it farther and farther. I did have some protection up, deep down I knew she didn't care about me. However, you want to believe, you don't want to accuse, you want to fix... TBH, still have issues to this day. Using that confusion and goodwill, ah man, I still haven't escaped her wrath. All my life she did the baby equivalent of forcing me to hold her, right through panic attacks that made me blackout... All while claiming "I can't hate you because I'm your mother, I LOVE YOU." I've been diagnosed on the spectrum as well, and I figure my literal/legalistic mind is what pissed her off. Well honestly there's an aspect of me being like my dad, who was a great person, but my mom seemed to resent intellectuals/men and she blamed him for her failures/victim. Her father was a doctor who"abandoned"[had to work] her. My dad made mistakes, but looking back, he at least tried. He made things that hurt me truly, but I never used it as ammo... He truly cared. He supported her, stuck through thick and thin, etc. I watched her interact with every ex, etc...Over years, they were always wrapped around her thumb. Sometimes, while all of them are in the same room at the same time, no joke. It was wild. Men were just tools to use and throw away(I presume carried hatred from her father abandoning), and she was a manipulative genius. All those men were people who gave everything for her even after they broke up. Dad gave her the house, paid child support while he took care of me, etc...He was truly trying his best. From what he told me, "He couldn't ever figure out what was wrong or how to please her." He wasn't a socially smart man, but he was kind and had principles. She was also an incredibly talented artist who was supported but never wanted to try...then disdained those who had the talents she said she always wanted. math, not art. Yeah, so throw away what everybody else wants that you have and then attempt to destroy other people who have what you want because they use it. Anyways, I just never reacted the way she wanted and always had to analyze and dissect. What for me was neutral debate, apparently was enraging attack against her nature. To this day, I believe if she just was willing to grow and stop playing a victim card, then she could have gotten better. Horse and water stuff... (Not that I was perfect, clearly I was a difficult kid, but I really can't tell if that was my fault.) As you can tell, I kinda crossed a nerve, so I'll just stop here... I've spent the majority of my conscious life analyzing this topic and comprehending why... It's interesting, but also the way I survived. I played her prosecutor/defense attorney my entire life, I grew up kinda neglecting emotions for logic as a result. I could dissociate into analysis and maintain the dissonance in my emotions.
Thanks for posting the whole story at once. My favorite part is OP's sister having her turn around after some therapy. I personally know how it feels to realize that I was taught toxic behavior, and admitting it is not only the first step to being better, but a true sign of goodness in you. I hope she continues to get better, and fight her in demons with pride.
I came back to this story because of the prequel you posted recently. I know you may not have planned this, but I loved the timing of the impact resistant glass windows righr after the part of the story when the awful mother busted the house windows!! Also, always love the voices!
The sister becoming a better person was more than i could have hoped for. Im so glad OP gave her to opportunity to turn her life around and she took it. I hope their relationship continues to improve.
Ya know, the sister and BF had a pretty good case to file a wrongful eviction against the mom just as a final nail in the coffin. Even if you own the property and the other person doesn’t pay rent, once they stay there long enough, you have to file an unlawful Detainer to remove them and can’t just throw their stuff out
OP what you did for your sister and your brother-in-law is outstanding and you should get a Nobel peace prize. As far as your mother goes I am completely speechless.
The father was wise this why you never take a cheater back imagine if he had taken the mother back, the son would think that’s what being love means, he’s son would have been used his whole life by the mother, sister and even others. The dad is a real MVP for this, I am glade he did this well handled. You gave your sister a chance of having a good family
The OP should have exposed his mother to her workplace to get her fired after the racist side of her she kept hidden for so long, but I’m glad his mom lost nearly everything including her image
I know I made a comment the other day, but I just keep listening to this just so I can hear his imitation of the sister saying "BUT MOMMY, YOU PROMISED MEEEEEEE" 😅😅🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀 Crack me up!
I love this OP is the F**kin Man. Smart,Thoughtful, and f**kin cunning. I wish him and gf the very best. Nice to know that sister changed and happy to know that at least she was smart enough and got herself a decent hard working future husband.
When the mother slapped him accross the face, I can fully imagine OP's mind like: AND NOW LOOK AT ME AND THIS OPPORTUNITY STANDING RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME
Wow!! Just...WOW!! I... it's AMAZING to watch someone TOTALLY destroy their own life. OP's mom lost her favorite child due to her racism, she lost her reputation due to her narcissism. Sad.
6:45 😆 Little moments of solidarity. My alcoholic stepfather used to tell me he was God and “ when I say jump you say how high” too. What, is this a abusive parent cantrip or something?
Man I feel for the sister sounds like her mother forced her into little space constantly( for children with extreme past trauma this is very possible and scary as they have little to no control of it till they get help.) I'm glad she is getting better.
After checking out the preview video, I'm not surprised this is where OP's mom and sister ended up. It's a shame the mom kept trying to ruin her daughter's life, but I'm glad OP got out and that his dad had his back. (OP, I'm sorry for your loss.) I hope there's still a chance for OP's sister to get better.
OMG, so much craziness. Glad the sister got away from that horrible mom and it doing so much better. OP was great to help her, the fiance, and future child.
This story should be made into a movie it has so much ups and downs. I heard this one and couldn't find it so thanks for picking it up! I'm glad the sister grew up and got away from the mother. The mother will die alone and its all her doing.
Best part of the end of the story is how the OP isn’t giving anyone handouts, but giving his sister and her partner a hand up. Who knows how fast the mother would have burned through any handout. He lost his father but gained his sister and a brother
Right? The mother clearly does not seem to realize that her son is grown and independent. But she seems to think that not only can she still give him orders, but that he exists to make her golden child's life easier.
I always wonder how people can go so crazy. How they can get so derailed that they themselves can no longer distinguish between right and wrong. What must have happened there? Wow 🥺😲
Y'all know what the saddest thing is? That there really and truly families out there just like this. And some that are way worse. I'm pretty sure that if you think about it you may know a family like this. Or know someone who knows such a hugely disfununctional family.
Just goes to show, you can outgrow being spoiled but you can't outgrow being a narcissist.
Honestly, I get the feeling that sis was never truly spoiled, but was more forced to act the part in order to stoke mommy dearest's ego. IE, the same vein of 'spoiled' that children of abusive parents are when the parent feels shame in public, so instead of abusing they go the other way, and if the child doesn't cooperate, when they're outside of the public eye there's hell to pay.
@@dylanpalmer5151 or was "under Mama's influence or spell" until the good people came to the rescue
I mean I’m sure you can fix it if you try
@@Undomaranel lol. Why would a true narcissist want to do that? They live in their own universe where everything has to evolve around them, where they are ALWAYS right and ALWAYS the victim of others. If you have that fixed mindset you don't have any drive to change.
Remember the narcissistic prayer.
Everyone who manages to "grow out" of it wasn't a true narcissist to begin with, but only had some traits that made them resemble them.
Real narcissists rather die than admit that there is anything wrong with them or what they are doing.
I'm so glad the sister got better and started therapy. That little baby will be well loved.
I love it when LG posts the full story. It makes this channel so much better than those who post popular stories quickly and leave you wondering what has happened.
Agree.
I agree completely. If LG doesn’t post an update, I know it’s because there isn’t one, not because the narrator (or computer voice) didn’t take the time to look for it. Thanks LG! ❤️
Right it makes things so much better
Mom got a dose of Karma..well deserved I might add! Hopefully OP and sister won’t have any more problems with her..
This sounds made up
Lmao the fact that this guy always has cameras ready around his mom really shows how well he knows her and how smartly he prepares.
Sounds like OP'S BIL is a good guy and willing to do whatever it takes to care for his growing family.
BIL needs to leave her spoiled narcissistic ass & fight for custody of that kid when it's born. Never let a child be raised by people like this, it only perpetuates the cycle of narcissism.
@@bhart3321 it appears that once the daughter is away from that bitch of a mother that she's actually not a bad person.
@@DigitalCowboy000 yeah it's learned behaviour
@@DigitalCowboy000 Don't get me wrong but she has a LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOG AAASSS work to do in order to improve.
@@bhart3321 did you ignore the part where multiple people will help raise the child and the mother is getting mental help? After seeing how her mother actually is I can imagin that everyones going to avoid the child growing up like that
I'm so glad his sister is doing better and in therapy. She sounds like a completely changed person at the end of the story and I hope she'll be a better mom than hers was
Thankfully, emotionally stunted and damaged people can heal, grow, and change their behavior little by little... It may take a literal decade, but I've known a few people who grew from childhood terrors into decent adults. In both cases, I had so much visceral dislike stored up that I never could isolate that from the mature adults they belatedly grew into. I wish I could in some ways, but mostly it's irrelevant. One's dead, and one's a single mom in rural CA, while I live 12,000 miles across the Pacific Ocean.
at first, I was chuckling bc she didn't get what she wanted but when I saw the second update... oh god, spoiled kid or not, that was absolutely cruel, I'm glad she is doing better now
She lucked out big time with that nice boyfriend.
I am glad she is getting the help she needed and hope that she and OP can salvage something of a relationship.
Update: The story hasn’t ended. Crazy EM has been disowned by EVERYONE. No one wanted to deal with her after shit hit the fan.
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Good. I don't wish misfortune upon anyone, but it serves her right for being such a horrible person.
If I'm *NOT* mistaken. There are a few more parts to this story. Such as OP's mother forging her husband's signature on credit card applications, forging her husband's signature on the paperwork to try to send the OP to military school as a way of "disciplining" him.
Which is what had lead to the divorce.
That was the first story. OP's father only divorced her when he finds out that she was cheating on him with an ex bf from school days.
This guy’s post history should be made into a book
@@DomSte128 I never heard that part before.
@@highjinx68 probably can leave all the stories about flatulence out.
story one is a lot older than 2020! I'd read it on Facebook at least twice before Covid even hit the news in 2019!
The Golden child can still throw you in a nursing home. Happened in my family and it was hilarious
*abusive and racist I should’ve guessed
I'm the scapegoat, none of the rotation of GC's can/will take care of the bio's. Guess who they expect to step in? Yeah. Guess who already told them not to threaten her with a good time? I'll send them to a home - I already took care of bio dad's mother when he refused to. I won't do it again.
@@pansprayers my dad was the black sheep and cut contact back in 2004/2005. All the remaining siblings didn’t want to take care of their mom so the Golden child took her in. We have no contact with any of them but even he couldn’t handle her.
Or even worse, don't even throw them in a nursing home. Just leave them to their own devices.
Man, I’m seeing this go down with my friend’s family. Big bro is golden child and she is the runt. They favored him (a car at 16, attended his after school activities) and it hurt her.
She now makes WAY more than her brother and parents combined now, and spoils her in-laws with nice vacations. Calls her in-laws mom and dad, and they see her kids all the time. She’s never taken her side of the family on vacation ever, and tells them to ask their favorite instead whenever they ask her to come home for holidays. They weren’t invited to the wedding and they have never met her children. To the family’s credit, they’ve at least recognized that they were wrong and are trying to mend fences, but she doesn’t talk to them much and has let them know that they’re on their own financially. She’s convinced they only want to play happy family because she’s got deeper pockets.
@@Sanquinity That's exactly what my sister and I are going to do.
People demanding other people hand over expensive property always makes me shake my head and LOL. Its yours keep it and enjoy your life.
That's like half of the reddit content on RUclips these days
Right!! And the "give me your inheritance" what???
Not to mention that tax authorities may have a say on that.
I wonder what the bubble they live in is like and how comfy and cozy it must be, because you know if you went up to that person demanding your property and did the same thing to them, they'd look at you like you were absolutely crazy.
How does it not occur to them that what they're asking for is flat out insane? It must be one helluva cushy bubble.
And notice she wanted the deed transferred to her name not her daughter's so she can maintain control. I wouldn't put it past her to turn around and charge her daughter rent after the house would get signed over.
Op’s growth and strength is impressive. Many times these children , now grown, shake and falter when faced with the rage of their lifetime tormentor. Bravo op
Miracle baby? More like sister got pregnant to avoid working.
Mother is a piece of work, completely entitled. Snapping fingers like that is very rude.
At least the sister got better.
I'd have snapped mine right back, "come on get out of my house, chop chop"
Says a anonymous individual.
She developed way better than you.
To a villain, reverting to a good person.
Right, oh you need to work, here have a baby so now we can have more money problems.
@@momimhome7540 Got better as a person or better at fooling people?
I am glad that OP didn't have any hate toward his sister in the end of everything and that he is helping his sister and her boyfriend. Instead of the narcissistic mother trying to take his house. All she had to do is talk to OP for help but nope just like all narcs she wanted complete control over everything. They can look at It as they just saved their children from the narcissistic behavior from that woman. Starting with the sister's baby since she was a racist too!
Not sure I feel so good about the sister. I'm an atheist but even the Vatican approaches a claimed "miracle" by trying to debunk it. She's faced with having to get a job and suddenly gets pregnant? I don't think we need to resort to miracles to figure out what happened there.
@@immortalsofar5314 Hopefully the sister has seen the error of her ways and continues to grow as a person. She may have sucked before, but she seems to be trying now.
A nice change of pace, in so many of these stories I'm always amazed a how much people put up with, but this OP didn't back down at all.
Seems like he and his father maintained a solid spine when faced with the monster that is a narcissist. Considering how his father prepared it seems like he had a pretty solid set of morals and he passed that on to his son better than most could outside of abusive homes.
This was a much sweeter ending than I was anticipating! What a nice change of pace! 💙
Me too. I was expecting him to cowtow to his mom & spoiled or exspoiled sis.
Op, you’re brilliant! My mum was awful. I went no contact early (17) and had to have NCO’s drawn up by our attorney due to her evil narcissistic mental behaviour. She legally cannot contract me, my husband or children in any way, shape or form. If she does, she goes to jail. I bypassed the restraining order nonsense and went full nuclear on her. I have zero contact with her side of the family as well. My life is blissful! Don’t feed the narcissist! Ever. I hope your sister goes no contact as well. For the baby’s sake. 👏👏👏
Well, that took a turn for the…wholesome! Nice to see OP and his sister managed to overcome their toxic upbringing and forge a relationship. That mother sounds like she was not only a narcissist, but a borderline personality disorder (I’ve known a few). Guess karma finally came for her…
I was ready eyed I’m not going to lie. Golden child syndrome is also abuse and if mother is dragging daughter by the hair telling her to get an abortion I don’t imagine her childhood was great
@@aikikaname6508 if you want to read his other stories his Reddit name kragle and his name should pop up
There's literally no signs of the mother having BPD. How about educating yourself before you throw around suggestions for random mental illnesses? BPD isn't NPD but worse, it's a completely separate condition which is actually opposite in some ways to NPD.
This was an excellent video. People getting what they deserve and people learning from their mistakes. I love it.
It's like a movie
It warmed my soul when he slapped the audacity out of her.
*Chef kiss*
In the first part, I just *LOVED* how OP's mother would graciously allow the OP und his girlfriend to live in *ONE* room of the house on the condition that he continued to pay *ALL* of the household expenses. I have a feeling that that was probably her plan all along i.e. kick the OP out of *HIS* house, but somehow expect him to "finally" do the right "brotherly" thing und to continue to pay the household expenses.
I just came here after watching the "prequel" you just posted today. I'm very pleased at the net positive results. I'm glad OP found it in him to help his sister once sister was removed from her mother. It's clear the sister's childish behavior was entirely due to her mother's influence. Which, of course, doesn't excuse her behavior nor absolve her of the consequences. Op and sister must start their relationship from scratch. But, at least it's actually an option now! And Sister happened to choose a good man it seems.
After watching the prequel story to this, I feel really sad about the dad, and it makes me appreciate OP’s strength even more. OP, your dad taught you well, and I hope wherever you are now, you’re happy & fulfilled with life. I’m glad your sister finally got the wake-up call she needed too, and I hope she’s happy too. ❤️
I can honestly say the mum had me absolutely cracking up with the level of delusion. How OP didn’t laugh in her face I have no clue.
Saw this story elsewhere, total lunacy. OP must have waited years to slap his B of a mother back! He's a better person than I, to still want to help get his sister. Hope he isn't being taken for a ride.
I probably would've channelled my inner Mike Tyson, after being slapped, and close-fisted Mommy Dearest Expressed MALE to Bootyville.
I've heard several times of how those who get bullied, upon returning the pain that has been put upon them to a bully, often put that energy behind their hits, I can only imagine just how good that must've felt for OP
The second the demand was made would’ve been the last time I saw either of them. Blocked on everything. Cease and desist letter from a lawyer. Cameras installed and locks changed. Neighbors notified. So much drama can be avoided if you treat everyone the same, family or not. They screw up, they get the boot and they stay out unless there is concerted effort to change.
Sometimes it's best to cut people off and watch them destroy themselves from the side with a cup of tea
Agree.
Naw, tea didn't quite fill the bill for me. Several bottles of Jagger were emptied when mine burned their lives down. Oh well.
Update: EM has self destructed to the point where all families and the entire town hates her.
i love these stories. They always have the updates
I LOVE that he slapped her back!! That was my favorite part.
Thank you LG for posting ALL of the story! Your channel is always the best in finding out everything about these posts. Heck, you even pull up comments from OP that she'd light on the situations. Thank you Thank you thank you❤
It’s my pleasure Rachel :) thank you for watching, it’s great to know you enjoy my videos!
I always find it funny when someone assaults another person and then acts surprised and offended when that person retaliates.
Also "I brought you into this world and I'll take you out of it" I'm sure the police would LOVE to hear about your casual murder threat as well as you trespassing and assaulting the owner of the place you're trespassing in ✌🏻
I love this, I love that he completely triumphed over her and her narcissism and even was able to get through to his sister and get her back.
STORY #1
It always amazes me how detached from reality Karens can be. OP's birth-giver (she doesn't deserve to be called a mother) actually got it into her mind that she could claim OP's property by sheer force of will, law be damned. She might have been under the impression that OP would be a pushover, but frankly even that seems like nonsense - OP had been no-contact with her for years.
OP, if you're reading this, I wish you and your girlfriend happy lives. Your father did a fine job raising you. And you're right; your birth-giver is going to burn in Hell. She's a cheater, a liar, a thief, and shows no remorse for any of it.
UPDATE
This is a better ending than I expected. OP managed to rescue his sister from their birth-giver's brainwashing and narcissism, and she's actually remorseful! OP is genuinely a hero. He could have told fiancé "She's not my sister anymore, so it's not my problem", he would have been in his right to, but instead he extracted them.
Hopefully sister becomes a better person than she was.
I'm so glad you found a way to avoid calling her a mother without insulting people who help gay couples, single people and people with infertility achieve their dreams of parenthood.
dang! glad there was a happy ending! glad the sister came around.
Looks like the mother was successful in fixing her family, by removing herself from it.
I have never been so satisfied to hear the ending part of this story! LG, You’re an amazing Reddit story reader, it satisfies me so much when you add your own opinions too.
It's soooo satifying seeing the OP not give in or tolerate any BS from their family! It's refreshing honestly
Can we address the elephant 🐘 in the room?
How was the sister planning on paying for the upkeep of the house with no job and her boyfriend’s hours have been cut?
That went back to the mother telling him he would still be paying all the bills, even when he moved out.
It was the mom's idea, who already had an airbnb and a job. She wanted it in her name, too, and might have been planning to rent rooms if not kicking the sister and her kid out from the get-go. Greedy narcissistic racist, y'know?
Entertaining story indeed. Even though it had several plot holes to be totally believable for me LG’s exceptional story telling skills kept our attention and interest. Great story tellers have this gift and LG is among the best out there.
Glad you enjoyed it Larry! And thank you for such a nice compliment :)
With every update it started sounding more and more fake to me, but yea its entertaining.
wow LG. That was some toxic crap. Makes me thankful I had good parents. stay safe please. peace
Lmao to op slapping his mom twice
I don't condone it but damn, OP is a badass.
@@Azulakayes I condone it. She hit him first.
Naw, not twice, twice as hard, and it was with the backhand.
One helluva story! Thanks to OP for posting and thanks to LG for another enjoyable delivery.
Woow. The audacity. When the mom slapped him, and he backhanded her.
*Everyone clapped*
Yes, that was my favorite part. I have been waiting for someone to do that for a long time!
Standing ovation
I'm surprised he let her get that far before the slap.
Lols yeah, he dad raised him well
Out of all the things that never happened, this saga never happened the most. 😂 But it was entertaining and that's good enough for me. Great channel!
Lol true, like the OP’s with the most ridiculous tales have all the dialogues revised verbatim and karma is always 100% on their side. 😂
Hmm, everything worked so perfectly. No emotional turmoil or struggle, OP had the upper hand the whole time, the therapist completely treated his sister and undid a lifetime of her mom’s manipulation, and the mom satisfyingly got everything she deserved and more. If only real life was this way.
This was a story about a Mother and her children.My 40 yrs old daughter still believes in unconditional love.She should watch this video.One of the best stories on this sub,a classic,Thanks L.G.
OP is a straightup Giga Chad for how he handled this. I tried to get my mother to handle my grandmother in the same way for years but she just wouldn't. The day of my grandmother's funeral was probably one of the happiest days of my mom's life.
OP 1: Damn love how genre savvy OP and his are! I love that OP found a way to be compassionate to his sister/future nibling while maintaining boundaries and not setting himself on fire. It’s sad that the mother is ruining her daughter and crippling her. I hope she becomes a better person away from the mother
He clearly read up on other peoples experience with narcs on reddit, there is a pretty solid amount of stories and information as most people there are (or at least were back when I read it) very open and wanting to make sure others didn't suffer like they did.
🤯 All I can say is Holy S! (also, I have a lot of respect for OP's shiny titanium spine!) Great job as always LG!
Came from the prequel video. Was not disappointed.
"I no longer have children"... Well, you were never a mother to them anyway
Wow.. sounds like my birth giver, so sorry that someone has to go through that. The only thing you can do with people like that is to cut them off and make sure others know what’s going on as well. And have video footage…
Just came from a TTS video talking abt OP's childhood and hoo boy. Screw OP's mom.
Had to rewatch this after the prequel video.
If I was the lawyer I would be furious, they slander the lawyer, if it was me I would sue for defamation, they basically said that the lawyer will do something illegal if paid enough.
If this is not a fake story, it sure is written like one.
Awwww what a great story! Love the ending….
This story illustrates very well the fact that narcissists can't love anyone more than they love themselves, not even their golden child will know that true sacrifice.
From personal experience as the scapegoat child: You're not a golden child because you're liked more, you're a golden child because you disobey less. Anything that breaks their expectations is disobedience, even if it's good for everyone involved.
I’m guessing the narcissistic parent will expect the non-golden children to think, “I just need to be obedient like Golden Child and I’ll be treated well too!” when in reality nothing the non-golden children do will be good enough in his or her eyes. Some parents are pathetic.
@@karaoconnoraliasraidra Definitely. My mom tried, this is sorta emotionally fueled so maybe over the place: I've been told stories that even as an infant I couldn't stand being held by her, preferring my brother, godmother, and grandparents. The unifying factor of those people is they were all some of the most selfless I ever met(I also got to build that view myself), I figure selfless people respond to a baby while narcissists force it to do what they want...Even a baby can tell the difference, is what I think happened. She took it personally, I think.
My earliest formed memories were literally of apprehension towards what she was trying to convince me of. "What she does and what she says aren't the same." I didn't even have words to say it yet but this was the biggest confusion in my life. She kept gaslighting and a 5yr has to believe mom. It doesn't feel right, but I just don't know and she says she loves me more than anyone else. For whatever reason I knew it in my gut from before I was conscious, I disobeyed her, acted out. I was very polite and obedient otherwise. This only pissed her off more. I eventually did bend to her will in a sort of cognitive dissonance. It didn't pacify her at all, just gave her rope to take it farther and farther. I did have some protection up, deep down I knew she didn't care about me. However, you want to believe, you don't want to accuse, you want to fix...
TBH, still have issues to this day. Using that confusion and goodwill, ah man, I still haven't escaped her wrath. All my life she did the baby equivalent of forcing me to hold her, right through panic attacks that made me blackout... All while claiming "I can't hate you because I'm your mother, I LOVE YOU." I've been diagnosed on the spectrum as well, and I figure my literal/legalistic mind is what pissed her off.
Well honestly there's an aspect of me being like my dad, who was a great person, but my mom seemed to resent intellectuals/men and she blamed him for her failures/victim. Her father was a doctor who"abandoned"[had to work] her. My dad made mistakes, but looking back, he at least tried. He made things that hurt me truly, but I never used it as ammo... He truly cared. He supported her, stuck through thick and thin, etc. I watched her interact with every ex, etc...Over years, they were always wrapped around her thumb. Sometimes, while all of them are in the same room at the same time, no joke. It was wild. Men were just tools to use and throw away(I presume carried hatred from her father abandoning), and she was a manipulative genius.
All those men were people who gave everything for her even after they broke up. Dad gave her the house, paid child support while he took care of me, etc...He was truly trying his best. From what he told me, "He couldn't ever figure out what was wrong or how to please her." He wasn't a socially smart man, but he was kind and had principles. She was also an incredibly talented artist who was supported but never wanted to try...then disdained those who had the talents she said she always wanted. math, not art. Yeah, so throw away what everybody else wants that you have and then attempt to destroy other people who have what you want because they use it.
Anyways, I just never reacted the way she wanted and always had to analyze and dissect. What for me was neutral debate, apparently was enraging attack against her nature. To this day, I believe if she just was willing to grow and stop playing a victim card, then she could have gotten better. Horse and water stuff... (Not that I was perfect, clearly I was a difficult kid, but I really can't tell if that was my fault.)
As you can tell, I kinda crossed a nerve, so I'll just stop here... I've spent the majority of my conscious life analyzing this topic and comprehending why... It's interesting, but also the way I survived. I played her prosecutor/defense attorney my entire life, I grew up kinda neglecting emotions for logic as a result. I could dissociate into analysis and maintain the dissonance in my emotions.
Thanks for posting the whole story at once. My favorite part is OP's sister having her turn around after some therapy. I personally know how it feels to realize that I was taught toxic behavior, and admitting it is not only the first step to being better, but a true sign of goodness in you. I hope she continues to get better, and fight her in demons with pride.
So glad I got to know the prequel to this story. Thanks.
I came back to this story because of the prequel you posted recently. I know you may not have planned this, but I loved the timing of the impact resistant glass windows righr after the part of the story when the awful mother busted the house windows!! Also, always love the voices!
Woah. Good job op. You saved your sister, her fiance and their future child.
The sister becoming a better person was more than i could have hoped for. Im so glad OP gave her to opportunity to turn her life around and she took it. I hope their relationship continues to improve.
I hope things work out with brother and sister. Siblings need a bond to keep them from their crappy parent.
when he said "and that was only the first half" i was like "say what now??".
Ya know, the sister and BF had a pretty good case to file a wrongful eviction against the mom just as a final nail in the coffin. Even if you own the property and the other person doesn’t pay rent, once they stay there long enough, you have to file an unlawful Detainer to remove them and can’t just throw their stuff out
Hewo! Yay more stories to hear while I clean!
OP what you did for your sister and your brother-in-law is outstanding and you should get a Nobel peace prize. As far as your mother goes I am completely speechless.
The father was wise this why you never take a cheater back imagine if he had taken the mother back, the son would think that’s what being love means, he’s son would have been used his whole life by the mother, sister and even others. The dad is a real MVP for this, I am glade he did this well handled. You gave your sister a chance of having a good family
The narrator reading in the mother-in-law's voice just kills me 😂😂
at least his sister managed to get better in general
The OP should have exposed his mother to her workplace to get her fired after the racist side of her she kept hidden for so long, but I’m glad his mom lost nearly everything including her image
I loved how OP's sister turned around
That was part 1!? That's insane. This is great. Thanks LG.👍
I know I made a comment the other day, but I just keep listening to this just so I can hear his imitation of the sister saying "BUT MOMMY, YOU PROMISED MEEEEEEE" 😅😅🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀 Crack me up!
GREATEST - STORY - - EVER!!!
I love this OP is the F**kin Man. Smart,Thoughtful, and f**kin cunning. I wish him and gf the very best. Nice to know that sister changed and happy to know that at least she was smart enough and got herself a decent hard working future husband.
When the mother slapped him accross the face, I can fully imagine OP's mind like: AND NOW LOOK AT ME AND THIS OPPORTUNITY STANDING RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME
Yeah, I'll take "Things that didn't happened" for $800, Alex
That was intense
What a wild ride. Excellent video LG!
Moms righteous judgement was the son taking vengeance for his father by not being a doormat
Wow!! Just...WOW!! I... it's AMAZING to watch someone TOTALLY destroy their own life. OP's mom lost her favorite child due to her racism, she lost her reputation due to her narcissism. Sad.
6:45 😆 Little moments of solidarity. My alcoholic stepfather used to tell me he was God and “ when I say jump you say how high” too. What, is this a abusive parent cantrip or something?
I’m pretty sure the newest update from this story was that the mom ended up dying in a hotel room after she lost the house. I think it was last year
Man I feel for the sister sounds like her mother forced her into little space constantly( for children with extreme past trauma this is very possible and scary as they have little to no control of it till they get help.) I'm glad she is getting better.
This one was actually so nice I almost cried
After checking out the preview video, I'm not surprised this is where OP's mom and sister ended up. It's a shame the mom kept trying to ruin her daughter's life, but I'm glad OP got out and that his dad had his back. (OP, I'm sorry for your loss.) I hope there's still a chance for OP's sister to get better.
Woah this is one crazy story!! But I enjoy it . Thanks LG
OMG, so much craziness. Glad the sister got away from that horrible mom and it doing so much better. OP was great to help her, the fiance, and future child.
This story should be made into a movie it has so much ups and downs. I heard this one and couldn't find it so thanks for picking it up! I'm glad the sister grew up and got away from the mother. The mother will die alone and its all her doing.
This is a great story. I’m glad things worked out for op and his sister.
DAMN...that's a good therapist.
Totally would've made sure the last thing I did was smugly snap my fingers and say "Go!" just for that extra pettiness.
When OP said he slapped her back twice as hard….OOOHHH! So satisfying!
Best part of the end of the story is how the OP isn’t giving anyone handouts, but giving his sister and her partner a hand up.
Who knows how fast the mother would have burned through any handout. He lost his father but gained his sister and a brother
This is the worst god complex I've read until now
Right? The mother clearly does not seem to realize that her son is grown and independent. But she seems to think that not only can she still give him orders, but that he exists to make her golden child's life easier.
Amazing job of dealing with toxic mother.
Wow. That went absolutely nuclear.
I always wonder how people can go so crazy. How they can get so derailed that they themselves can no longer distinguish between right and wrong. What must have happened there? Wow 🥺😲
Y'all know what the saddest thing is? That there really and truly families out there just like this. And some that are way worse.
I'm pretty sure that if you think about it you may know a family like this. Or know someone who knows such a hugely disfununctional family.
All bec the dad decided to marry a bad wife this why I would always prefer a broken relationship over a broken home
Oh boy! They slandered a lawyer! This won go well!
Greedy Mother And Sister: If she has her own home and clearly loves OP’s sister more than OP…why doesn’t Mother open her home to the Sister?