mona take on the diddy situation was very disappointing & disturbing. how you been stomped as well by a man and still trying to make an excuse for diddy? this man is GROWN. all his exes even the light skin baby mom just said the same happened to her! like wtf. i’m in my 20s and can deadass say diddy is wrong wtf
didn’t expect anything different.. hood people identify with abusers.. any woman offended by people calling him out or taking diddy side probably got brothers who beat women
Stop saying y’all love these celebrities that YOU DO NOT KNOW! You may love their work or projects but we don’t know these celebrities. Diddy is a terrible person! Every rumor can’t be a lie. After listening to this take on the diddy situation it certainly sounds like he’ll still have a platform & supporters which is beyond sad. I now see why abusive men are able to still thrive smh
THIS. I'm a huge Kendrick fan and have BEEN one. When the beef was still hot and people brought up the wife-beater allegations, i didn't put it past him. I love his ART but there's no way i could love HIM, cause i don't know that nigga!! like c'mon yall.....
THIS. I'm a huge Kendrick fan and have BEEN one. When the beef was still hot and people brought up the wife-beater allegations, i didn't put it past him. I love his ART but there's no way i could love HIM, cause i don't know that nigga!! like c'mon yall.....
Mona is trying to identify her biases and phelps is enabling 😭😭 please don’t interrupt her progress, she is doing the right thing by being aware of her not being a girls girl. men def deserve sympathy and empathy but what mona is doing is that to the extreme
Perfectly said , I commend her for acknowledging and questioning herself .to see a woman getting beat like that and your mind tries to defend the man in any way is something to address and she’s trying to do that . And Phelps is not helping cause HE A MAN 😂
Lol… a better word would be “male-centered”. But Mona, Puff did these things when had the world at his fingertips AFTER 30. Repeatedly & has a history of being grimey in public. Difference between abuse & victimless crimes. And let’s not forget, he posted in December that everything he was accused of was baseless & ppl looking for a come-up. Fast-forward to this week: Puff apologizes AFTER the Cassie video is released, when he was caught. SMH
When they touched on Puff, Mona’s reluctance positioned her (to me) as an abuse apologist. This is not the first time she is almost diminishing abusive acts. Only man I’ve seen her loudly condemn is Academiks who was clowning a gay MAN.
Like?? i don’t get that about her, she’s said she has hit men in the past and they get into but but if she wasn’t this “felon at 21” and blah blah and a man was beating her, 1000% positive she wouldn’t be “everyone deserves another chance” bs. Wrong is wrong and puff been being called out for doing wrong for YEARS.
He also clowns women and is very awful ass well but, she also don’t like academiks because he’s a cornball and not gangster to all just people he think it’s weaker than him. I think it’s just she can’t go against people she’s a fan of even when they are dead wrong. It’s all unfortunate tbh
Yall - Mona said it was disgusting and he deserves what he’s getting over and over - She’s a comedian.. any hood comedian is going to likely have that take regarding the settlement. Our culture has joked about slavery, police brutality- if you want hard, dry news go watch the news. This is a hood, comedic podcast. I’m a feminist, social justice organizer. We don’t have to follow white feminism and constantly lean into the this purist, cancel culture with every single take. She’s evolved on parenting practicesc colorism..earlier in the episode was examining the concept of being male focused - she doesn’t have to joke like you, or being at your EXACT place of consciousness. You don’t HAVE to give a progressive label and condemn her for a joke you feel is in poor taste.
@@sbobsage5292 hold on…thing is, there was no joke involved at all, just luke warm banter on her being Puffs fan. Titles aside it takes a regular human being to clearly see right from wrong (Cassie getting stomped out), Mona isn’t some super woke “power to the people” lady, we all know this podcast has a level of comic relief BUUUUT at a human level she constantly has a slant to favour men’s perspective regarding most issues, comedic or otherwise. As much as she is a comedian she is also a social commentator and that’s just the plain truth and no one said anything about cancelling her, but she can and will get called out just like everyone else who has abuse apologist sentiments.
@@ogkush1916 he’s been accused of murder & rape just as he was accused of abuse which he indeed did as we have video footage to prove it. But it’ll be a cold day in hell before I go back & forth with someone grown named “OG Kush” only abusers defend abusers
@@ogkush1916stfu!!! Ok so if we had this energy for other people in our “community” then it’s not so self righteous than having this energy for diddy? Gtfoh the good he’s done was for self benefit not to help everybody otherwise people signed to his label wouldn’t die broke or are in slave contracts! We saying he don’t deserve sympathy and special treatment and all his wrongs swept under the rug. The companies he said he owned he doesn’t own. He said the truth will be revealed as if he’s innocent and the video proved him GUILTY! You not getting paid to ride his coat tail u crazy af
it definitely is. this is why im starting to dislike when phelps interjects… he is always half misinformed or always acts as an anti of something. clearly a drake d*ckrider.
I think being “male identified” or “male centered” is when a woman seeks or revolves her life around male validation, and that affects the decisions she makes and the way she lives her life. Sometimes it can be to come off as “better/different” than other women, they’re misogynist , or they lack self esteem.
Essentially a much more thorough way of saying "pick me". Internalized misogyny is the biggest factor, yes. I think it's good that there's a more serious label seeing as "pick me" has become humorized and over-used but there's a dangerous an intriguing psychology behind it.
Mona……baby this is disappointing…..it’s ok to say he’s 100% wrong and not talk about how much he meant to you. That’s not important especially in light of what so many victims face and need people to believe them. Your platform is full of women supporters and it’s disappointing to not fully stand with them with something so clear. We love you but this just felt like you were dancing around it
That’s not job. If that’s not her stance, then it’s not her stance. It’s literally not that serious. Whether Mona picks a side or not, her life goes on. Whether you stand with the victim or not, life goes on. She’s human and it’s not that serious.
Just laugh and move on. Yall literally put these normal people of high pedestals then get disappointed. Mona is literally just a girl. If you don’t like the opinion she gave, don’t watch. But in reality, it’s not that deep to you either so you’ll definitely watch again. 🤷🏾♀️
The video was needed because a lot of men didn’t believe Cassie . For the culture it was important . Men needed to see .u know nothing and who you think someone is has nothing to do with how they really are . The next time a man doesn’t believe a woman he will remember this and maybe take a beat and just process it for a second instead of jumping to the “she’s lying she wants a bag ,she trynna take a black man down “
That’s is why women chose the bear over being alone with a man. Men don’t get it because they don’t want to and many of them are sexual deviants and abusers. They just don’t have the power or money to act out on their twisted desires and abuse against women……
Women too. Alot of people didn't believe Cassie. Meanwhile, everyone knows since the days of Wendy Williams that there was absolutely a high probability that the accusations were indeed true.
I mean, do you know Cassie’s history when Puffs wife was alive? And why did Cassie even stay after ALLLL of that. Calculated risk much?? I said what I said.
@@slide5039 or maybe he’s a billionaire that has the means to be wherever she is if she tried to leave. Uk how many men terroize their abused s/o that don’t an anywhere near the resources he has. You can see her trying to leave in the video and look what happened. What a dumb comment
What tf is she talking about most of your audience is 25-40…. We allll know about the Diddy being shady😂 just because you were up his ass and dismissed the shit you heard cuz it “sounds” crazy… has nothing to do with the GP trying to throw him away. He’s done and that’s because of his actions. We are just reacting.
Mona this is the 1st time I have to disagree usually when you agree with men I can see where you’re coming from but DIDDY ABSOLUTELY NOT. He’s been doing this shit for damn near 20-30 years it’s not a mistake and he shouldn’t be forgiven at all.
I don't think she was saying he should be forgiven. I think she was just saying it's harder for folks that were there to watch the rise of Diddy, to now accept this truth.
@@jisheiladouglas4329how? They don’t know that man. People put waaay too much faith in these celebrities. There are artists who I absolutely love but if it came out that they did some sick shit with the kinda proof diddy has against him it would not be hard for me to immediately stop all support and defense of that person. Not coming at you at all, I just don’t get it even if that is what she meant
@dreamingbig98 I'm on the same page as you. Celebrities are people at the end of the day, and not always good people. But they sell an image, and garner support that for a lot of fans turns into love. I'm sure there's some kind of psychology behind it, but Mona at least said he was wrong. Maybe she shouldn't have focused so much on who he was presented to be, and the good that came from it, but she didn't claim he was some angel that deserves forgiveness, especially at his big age. That's all I'm getting at
Hood people that haven’t done the work identify with abusers , most of them have brothers and men in their family who are just like diddy.. they will immediately hop skip and jump around the facts.. deflection like a mf
The video needed to come out because of people like this, thinking they know a person based on idek what. You should never be that invested into a celebrity you don’t even know to where you’re trying to justify evil acts like that just because you grew up to their music? Regardless if you’ve been through it, a man beating and kicking a woman who’s clearly trying to escape is sick. If the beatings were real, him forcing her to have sex with men is real, which is a crime. Stop trying to make this about black men being ridiculed in America. He let people think she just ran out of money and was looking for a come up. He’s also hurt a lot of people in the black community as well, which they are speaking out about.
What is it with Mona defending abusers 🤣🤣 she said the same thing about Chris brown but it wasn’t a one time thing him beating a woman and it’s only thing to want to stand up for black men but holding Blk people accountable would serve our people down the long run for years he did these terrible thing to black peoples and got away with it because no one wanted to be a snitch and hold him accountable and turned a blind eye because he was a rich Blk man and we don’t want to stop our role models 😅 they’ve been saying stuff about him where you been at
One thing about Cassie husband, Diddy tried him on Twitter when he first got with Cassie but that white man is affiliated deeeep with the Compton Cowboys and literally helped her escape. He had to fall back. He ran a marathon for victims of domestic violence. He been knowing bout nasty man
I think people need to investigate not just why their kneejerk reaction is to extend grace and reasons/excuses to predators who are committed to harming people with less power than them, but also why they so easily overlook/deprioritize the victims. I say investigate but it goes past that. Change that kneejerk reaction on purpose too.
Who he is doesn’t matter. We witnessed him beat a woman up. We watched him lie before it was released and witnessed him fail to take accountability for the pain he caused her after. He’s an abusive narcissist and his legacy shouldn’t matter. That’s wild that’s her take on this .. I ain’t surprised but damn.
When people extend all this grace and overlook abuse they actually enable it. They become complicit. irl there’s often space to have real community and rehabilitate people. For people like Diddy tho, all this bail yall throw, he will use as ideas for how to pivot and keep avoiding accountability.
I don’t get how selling drugs for a couple years and getting locked up for it in your early 20s then leads you to regularly being an apologist for men who have abused multiple women over decades. I ran to the RUclips comments when I heard the beginning of this topic on Apple Podcasts because I was thinking I know she’s not about to set this up to start saying that DIDDY needs a chance for redemption after we all just watched that video. Weird folks man.
lol it really is. But if you pay attention when Phelps does get a chance to speak he just says “you nahm saying” “you know what I’m saying” over and over he never complete the sentence 😂
Crazy enough is that she isn’t a pick me. She genuinely sides with men and I don’t think it’s because she wants to seek different or be an ally. She really feels this way and empathizes with men no matter what
I’m sorry I missed the Brooklyn show!! Puffy been ain’t shit since he hit the scene. Wendy been telling us about his shenanigans since I was in middle school. He been busting ninjas and women upside their heads for decades.
My thing is the apology which only came because of all this backlash on social media and what's the video dropped this incident occurred over 10 years ago someone who was remorseful would have been made an apology and know the fact that she took a lawsuit out for him for 30 million is not the apology don't get it twisted
Mona you are 100% male identified I’m glad you are coming around to realizing it. Hope you can learn to unlearn those ways and thinking it’s dangerous to all of us women
Mona starting to pmo no shade, you always meat riding when it comes to the diddy situation. At first it was “stop assuming shit” when ppl been saying the same thing about diddy but know y’all got proof it’s “if that was someone- NAH they would get the same backlash tf 😂
I can’t believe y’all expected anything different.. and that’s no offense to you because you right.. but if you grew up in the hood you know these Mfs meat ride and identify with abusers..
29:48 We need to see it because like it or not the court of public opinion is very influential and unfortunately we live in a world where people do not believe victims solely based on their word
Being a drug dealer is a victim-less crime? Nah, tell that to the little kids waiting on their addicted mother to come home. The drug dealers who sell to pregnant women. Nahhhhh lol there are plenty of victims
Diddy been an asshole since making the band MONA. !!! Idk my unc was mean like that so I know a mean mf when I see one . & he was mean on making the band I hated him
I definitely think my mom favors my brother more than me. But he is also 19 yrs younger than I am, & I see it as her being able to do better as a mom the 2nd time around cause she was a young mother with me.
When everyone first found out puffy and Cassie were dating a lot of people looked at it as she was way too young to be with him and everyone thought she was just trying to come up and couldn't really sing rumors always circulated about how a puffy will put hands and feet on the women he was dating
Mona you have to watch the whole Gary Owens interview. He said people are going to take this clip and say you don't protect black women and so he was laughing about that being the clip that was going to be released from the interview and people did just that! They clipped it and ran with it.
This may be an unpopular opinion, but to the girl who messaged Mona for advice, I feel like in college you need to date with the intention to marry with someone else who is also in college. Not some random you met. So often black women are told to “enjoy our 20s” by remaining single and focusing on our studies meanwhile, the eligible men are dating, getting engaged to, and marrying non black women who went to school with the goal of finding a husband. If you’re one of the girls who wants to decenter men from your life then obviously, this message is not for you, but believe me when I say, you can still enjoy your 20s and have fun with the right man.
I don’t think Mona fully understands the magnitude of abuse that people have experienced from dealing with Diddy. Cassie was followed by his security. Threatened. Beaten. Humiliated. For years. Basically chained to him. Look at what happened when she tried to leave. The man ran down a hotel hallway in a towel. He does not care about anybody but himself.
It’s because she experiences DV and doesn’t understand the magnitude of it. She’s used to arguments turning physical and thinks that men can change. I’m glad she’s self aware about not being a girl’s girl but the fact that she doesn’t understand the issue with it is disturbing.
drug dealers give out things that can kill ppl but they don't need to do time is crazy lol yes ppl also have to choose to do it but if there is no one selling it than....
mona take on the diddy situation was very disappointing & disturbing. how you been stomped as well by a man and still trying to make an excuse for diddy? this man is GROWN. all his exes even the light skin baby mom just said the same happened to her! like wtf. i’m in my 20s and can deadass say diddy is wrong wtf
THANK YOU !
THANK YOU ! disgusting ! and very telling of HER ! she dont even know that man
didn’t expect anything different.. hood people identify with abusers.. any woman offended by people calling him out or taking diddy side probably got brothers who beat women
Very weird and disturbing but not surprising at this point.
Stop saying y’all love these celebrities that YOU DO NOT KNOW! You may love their work or projects but we don’t know these celebrities. Diddy is a terrible person! Every rumor can’t be a lie. After listening to this take on the diddy situation it certainly sounds like he’ll still have a platform & supporters which is beyond sad. I now see why abusive men are able to still thrive smh
Exactly !!! Y’all only know they music stop assuming they good ppl
THIS. I'm a huge Kendrick fan and have BEEN one. When the beef was still hot and people brought up the wife-beater allegations, i didn't put it past him. I love his ART but there's no way i could love HIM, cause i don't know that nigga!! like c'mon yall.....
THIS. I'm a huge Kendrick fan and have BEEN one. When the beef was still hot and people brought up the wife-beater allegations, i didn't put it past him. I love his ART but there's no way i could love HIM, cause i don't know that nigga!! like c'mon yall.....
Mona is trying to identify her biases and phelps is enabling 😭😭 please don’t interrupt her progress, she is doing the right thing by being aware of her not being a girls girl. men def deserve sympathy and empathy but what mona is doing is that to the extreme
I was gonna say this omg
Perfectly said , I commend her for acknowledging and questioning herself .to see a woman getting beat like that and your mind tries to defend the man in any way is something to address and she’s trying to do that . And Phelps is not helping cause HE A MAN 😂
This!!! Phelps def holding her back from critically thinking about this.
Faaaaacts!!!
And the whole reason why he might agree with her is because he’s a man. Diddy was grown-grown when he did that to Cassie, he knew better period.
Lol… a better word would be “male-centered”. But Mona, Puff did these things when had the world at his fingertips AFTER 30. Repeatedly & has a history of being grimey in public. Difference between abuse & victimless crimes.
And let’s not forget, he posted in December that everything he was accused of was baseless & ppl looking for a come-up. Fast-forward to this week: Puff apologizes AFTER the Cassie video is released, when he was caught. SMH
He actually doubled down on his previous statement from December and that is why the video was released.
All of this. There should be no question that his “apology” was disingenuous.
Any grown man who can force another grown man to give up his rights to his own biological son is dangerous I don't care what he does as a career
That part
!!!! so many red flags…
why are we discussing sympathy for diddy over the victims...
Phelps was feeling like Eve in barbershop “WHO DRANK MY APPLE JUICE” 😭😭😭🤣🤣
When they touched on Puff, Mona’s reluctance positioned her (to me) as an abuse apologist. This is not the first time she is almost diminishing abusive acts. Only man I’ve seen her loudly condemn is Academiks who was clowning a gay MAN.
Like?? i don’t get that about her, she’s said she has hit men in the past and they get into but but if she wasn’t this “felon at 21” and blah blah and a man was beating her, 1000% positive she wouldn’t be “everyone deserves another chance” bs. Wrong is wrong and puff been being called out for doing wrong for YEARS.
He also clowns women and is very awful ass well but, she also don’t like academiks because he’s a cornball and not gangster to all just people he think it’s weaker than him. I think it’s just she can’t go against people she’s a fan of even when they are dead wrong. It’s all unfortunate tbh
Yall - Mona said it was disgusting and he deserves what he’s getting over and over - She’s a comedian.. any hood comedian is going to likely have that take regarding the settlement. Our culture has joked about slavery, police brutality- if you want hard, dry news go watch the news. This is a hood, comedic podcast. I’m a feminist, social justice organizer. We don’t have to follow white feminism and constantly lean into the this purist, cancel culture with every single take. She’s evolved on parenting practicesc colorism..earlier in the episode was examining the concept of being male focused - she doesn’t have to joke like you, or being at your EXACT place of consciousness. You don’t HAVE to give a progressive label and condemn her for a joke you feel is in poor taste.
@@sbobsage5292 hold on…thing is, there was no joke involved at all, just luke warm banter on her being Puffs fan. Titles aside it takes a regular human being to clearly see right from wrong (Cassie getting stomped out), Mona isn’t some super woke “power to the people” lady, we all know this podcast has a level of comic relief BUUUUT at a human level she constantly has a slant to favour men’s perspective regarding most issues, comedic or otherwise. As much as she is a comedian she is also a social commentator and that’s just the plain truth and no one said anything about cancelling her, but she can and will get called out just like everyone else who has abuse apologist sentiments.
@@verymuchzena311Well said and TY!
Making light of the Diddy situation when it’s so heavy is diabolical 🤦🏽♀️ idc what’s on his resume he’s a terrible person & deserves a downfall
@@ogkush1916 he’s been accused of murder & rape just as he was accused of abuse which he indeed did as we have video footage to prove it. But it’ll be a cold day in hell before I go back & forth with someone grown named “OG Kush” only abusers defend abusers
@@ogkush1916stfu!!! Ok so if we had this energy for other people in our “community” then it’s not so self righteous than having this energy for diddy? Gtfoh the good he’s done was for self benefit not to help everybody otherwise people signed to his label wouldn’t die broke or are in slave contracts! We saying he don’t deserve sympathy and special treatment and all his wrongs swept under the rug. The companies he said he owned he doesn’t own. He said the truth will be revealed as if he’s innocent and the video proved him GUILTY! You not getting paid to ride his coat tail u crazy af
Alright Dr Umar,saved and baptised
She’s gonna be making an apology like she did with Ts Madison. It’s a ghetto bitch thing she can’t help it tbh
@@naeloveslove8690 you good love?
Not Like Us is def the song of the beginning of the summer.
THANK YOU!
Right. Idk what they talking about
it definitely is. this is why im starting to dislike when phelps interjects… he is always half misinformed or always acts as an anti of something. clearly a drake d*ckrider.
They’re Drake fans and I’m not going to deny Drake’s talent but Kendrick has the 🔥 song of the summer
I think being “male identified” or “male centered” is when a woman seeks or revolves her life around male validation, and that affects the decisions she makes and the way she lives her life. Sometimes it can be to come off as “better/different” than other women, they’re misogynist , or they lack self esteem.
Essentially a much more thorough way of saying "pick me". Internalized misogyny is the biggest factor, yes. I think it's good that there's a more serious label seeing as "pick me" has become humorized and over-used but there's a dangerous an intriguing psychology behind it.
@nahimgood4 I agree wit everything both yall said
I honestly think it's a Muslim thing the woman do follow (almost to fault) after the men and some Muslim men are abusive
!!!! She talk about her daughter like a DOG her son is a prince and it really be rubbing me the wrong Mf way
@@victoriac8523 so Muslim women excuse rape/SA?
We needed to see that video because people didn’t believe Cassie when she spoke her truth.
Nah I’m not showing him no mercy. He is cooked and he is done.
Mona……baby this is disappointing…..it’s ok to say he’s 100% wrong and not talk about how much he meant to you. That’s not important especially in light of what so many victims face and need people to believe them. Your platform is full of women supporters and it’s disappointing to not fully stand with them with something so clear. We love you but this just felt like you were dancing around it
That’s not job. If that’s not her stance, then it’s not her stance. It’s literally not that serious. Whether Mona picks a side or not, her life goes on. Whether you stand with the victim or not, life goes on. She’s human and it’s not that serious.
Just laugh and move on. Yall literally put these normal people of high pedestals then get disappointed. Mona is literally just a girl. If you don’t like the opinion she gave, don’t watch. But in reality, it’s not that deep to you either so you’ll definitely watch again. 🤷🏾♀️
@@patriciaa.jasmin9562 lol what’s not that serious?
@@patriciaa.jasmin9562what’s not that serious someone’s stance on domestic violence that has a public platform?
Hood people identify with abusers.. I will never understand the attachment to these famous people
The video was needed because a lot of men didn’t believe Cassie . For the culture it was important . Men needed to see .u know nothing and who you think someone is has nothing to do with how they really are . The next time a man doesn’t believe a woman he will remember this and maybe take a beat and just process it for a second instead of jumping to the “she’s lying she wants a bag ,she trynna take a black man down “
That’s is why women chose the bear over being alone with a man. Men don’t get it because they don’t want to and many of them are sexual deviants and abusers. They just don’t have the power or money to act out on their twisted desires and abuse against women……
Women too. Alot of people didn't believe Cassie. Meanwhile, everyone knows since the days of Wendy Williams that there was absolutely a high probability that the accusations were indeed true.
I mean, do you know Cassie’s history when Puffs wife was alive? And why did Cassie even stay after ALLLL of that. Calculated risk much?? I said what I said.
“you know nothing & who you think someone is has nothing to do with how they really are“ 😮💨😮💨😮💨
@@slide5039 or maybe he’s a billionaire that has the means to be wherever she is if she tried to leave. Uk how many men terroize their abused s/o that don’t an anywhere near the resources he has. You can see her trying to leave in the video and look what happened. What a dumb comment
What tf is she talking about most of your audience is 25-40…. We allll know about the Diddy being shady😂 just because you were up his ass and dismissed the shit you heard cuz it “sounds” crazy… has nothing to do with the GP trying to throw him away. He’s done and that’s because of his actions. We are just reacting.
Talking over Phelps & jumping from subject to subject without finishing the first subject makes my brain hurt sooooo bad 🥴
Mona this is the 1st time I have to disagree usually when you agree with men I can see where you’re coming from but DIDDY ABSOLUTELY NOT. He’s been doing this shit for damn near 20-30 years it’s not a mistake and he shouldn’t be forgiven at all.
Agreed
I don't think she was saying he should be forgiven. I think she was just saying it's harder for folks that were there to watch the rise of Diddy, to now accept this truth.
@@jisheiladouglas4329how? They don’t know that man. People put waaay too much faith in these celebrities. There are artists who I absolutely love but if it came out that they did some sick shit with the kinda proof diddy has against him it would not be hard for me to immediately stop all support and defense of that person. Not coming at you at all, I just don’t get it even if that is what she meant
@dreamingbig98 I'm on the same page as you. Celebrities are people at the end of the day, and not always good people. But they sell an image, and garner support that for a lot of fans turns into love. I'm sure there's some kind of psychology behind it, but Mona at least said he was wrong. Maybe she shouldn't have focused so much on who he was presented to be, and the good that came from it, but she didn't claim he was some angel that deserves forgiveness, especially at his big age. That's all I'm getting at
Agreed
Yea…yall weird asf. What if that was your daughter in the video? Would you still have the same empathy for the abuser?
Should’ve use my 6.99 on Zeus!
Hood people that haven’t done the work identify with abusers , most of them have brothers and men in their family who are just like diddy.. they will immediately hop skip and jump around the facts.. deflection like a mf
Soon as Phelps dense ass said “i dont read” i cut it off cause thats all i needed to know 😭😭😭
@@sisisimss 😭 just ignorant
@@sisisimss Phelps gives me this fake unbothered tough guy vibe. He’s a college graduate talking about he don’t read 😑
Phelps can never finish his thought, damn Mona. 😂😂😂
EVERY time 🥴
The video needed to come out because of people like this, thinking they know a person based on idek what. You should never be that invested into a celebrity you don’t even know to where you’re trying to justify evil acts like that just because you grew up to their music? Regardless if you’ve been through it, a man beating and kicking a woman who’s clearly trying to escape is sick. If the beatings were real, him forcing her to have sex with men is real, which is a crime.
Stop trying to make this about black men being ridiculed in America. He let people think she just ran out of money and was looking for a come up. He’s also hurt a lot of people in the black community as well, which they are speaking out about.
What is it with Mona defending abusers 🤣🤣 she said the same thing about Chris brown but it wasn’t a one time thing him beating a woman and it’s only thing to want to stand up for black men but holding Blk people accountable would serve our people down the long run for years he did these terrible thing to black peoples and got away with it because no one wanted to be a snitch and hold him accountable and turned a blind eye because he was a rich Blk man and we don’t want to stop our role models 😅 they’ve been saying stuff about him where you been at
One thing about Cassie husband, Diddy tried him on Twitter when he first got with Cassie but that white man is affiliated deeeep with the Compton Cowboys and literally helped her escape. He had to fall back. He ran a marathon for victims of domestic violence. He been knowing bout nasty man
I didn’t know that the white man was tapped in 😂 good for her
I think people need to investigate not just why their kneejerk reaction is to extend grace and reasons/excuses to predators who are committed to harming people with less power than them, but also why they so easily overlook/deprioritize the victims.
I say investigate but it goes past that. Change that kneejerk reaction on purpose too.
Who he is doesn’t matter. We witnessed him beat a woman up. We watched him lie before it was released and witnessed him fail to take accountability for the pain he caused her after. He’s an abusive narcissist and his legacy shouldn’t matter. That’s wild that’s her take on this .. I ain’t surprised but damn.
First time in DCMWG history that Mona’s request to be blocked out was granted 😂😂
There were one or two other times actually friend.
😂😂😂
I noticed that too😂
Actually the crazy thing is if you listen to the audio they didn’t block it out!!!
Omg when Mona opened up with the singing AND THEN Phelps hit the dance🤣💀😭😭
When people extend all this grace and overlook abuse they actually enable it. They become complicit. irl there’s often space to have real community and rehabilitate people. For people like Diddy tho, all this bail yall throw, he will use as ideas for how to pivot and keep avoiding accountability.
I don’t get how selling drugs for a couple years and getting locked up for it in your early 20s then leads you to regularly being an apologist for men who have abused multiple women over decades. I ran to the RUclips comments when I heard the beginning of this topic on Apple Podcasts because I was thinking I know she’s not about to set this up to start saying that DIDDY needs a chance for redemption after we all just watched that video. Weird folks man.
Diddy NEVER in LIFE gave "clean". He for sure always gave puppet master
Facts!
Facts to the fifth degree 💯💯💯💯
I understand it’s her show, but Phelps can’t ever finish a damn sentence without her cutting him off. It’s infuriating! 😤
lol it really is. But if you pay attention when Phelps does get a chance to speak he just says “you nahm saying” “you know what I’m saying” over and over he never complete the sentence 😂
@@wilsondarell6712yeah sometimes he don’t add much
Not Mona and Quadie done got into it bout da gasss 😭😭
Mona at this point you just side with the guys and gays. You aren’t a girls girl at all
Mona is my girl but she’s definitely male identified
“Powder Problems” is crazy work but true!😂😂😂
It was so great seeing you and the crew last night at the show. You are so down to earth. Love you Mona💜
lord please release mona from the shackles of being a pick me
Crazy enough is that she isn’t a pick me. She genuinely sides with men and I don’t think it’s because she wants to seek different or be an ally. She really feels this way and empathizes with men no matter what
@@achanel2015 that's literally what a pick me is....
I can’t believe nobody saved Phelps a slice of his own cake!!
“How much time we got left” is never something the listeners wanna hear
My ride to work is always better when you drop a new episode !!!!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I’m sorry I missed the Brooklyn show!! Puffy been ain’t shit since he hit the scene. Wendy been telling us about his shenanigans since I was in middle school. He been busting ninjas and women upside their heads for decades.
Phelps it’s ok to say you don’t understand what a word means without being upset. It’s ok. Lawd he just . . Every time lol.
My thing is the apology which only came because of all this backlash on social media and what's the video dropped this incident occurred over 10 years ago someone who was remorseful would have been made an apology and know the fact that she took a lawsuit out for him for 30 million is not the apology don't get it twisted
somebody remorseful WOULDVE DID THEIR TIME IN JAIL AND NOT REPEATED THE SAME OFFENSESSSS
Yo Phelps outta pocket for that “ depending on which room you were in” comment 😂💯
I was just about to say this! The silence and stare off🤦🏽♀️😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
That opening of Mina singing and Phelps dancing!!!! 😂😂😂
I’m 💀💀💀 not even 5 mins in😭😭 do you want me😂 *does dance with Phelps lmaoooo
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
The laughter about this messed up situation 😮
Phelps and Mona dapping at the end was so cute ☺️
Mona you are 100% male identified I’m glad you are coming around to realizing it. Hope you can learn to unlearn those ways and thinking it’s dangerous to all of us women
FACTS!!!! 💯
“Wtf Scruffles drooling like that for” I’m at work screamingggggggg 😂😂😂😂😂😂
1:50 opening the show with phelps dancing LMAO this gone be good 😂
Mona’s advice for the vm is top tier!!!! Let it go babe😂😂😂
Funniest part of the show! 😂
This the comment i was lookin for lmao cuz i kno I couldnt be the only to peep 🤣😂
Mona starting to pmo no shade, you always meat riding when it comes to the diddy situation. At first it was “stop assuming shit” when ppl been saying the same thing about diddy but know y’all got proof it’s “if that was someone- NAH they would get the same backlash tf 😂
High key want my 6.99 back 😒
I can’t believe y’all expected anything different.. and that’s no offense to you because you right.. but if you grew up in the hood you know these Mfs meat ride and identify with abusers..
@44:00, That awkward silence after . . . HAAAA!!! 🤣
Bro she tried to leave us at 30 mins in no babyyyy 😂✨💜🤣
They Not Like Us Is definitely a summer banger. but wait... "LANE 6! PUFFY!🗣" 😂
Phelps dancing to Mona at the start is life 😂❤
29:48 We need to see it because like it or not the court of public opinion is very influential and unfortunately we live in a world where people do not believe victims solely based on their word
I came here to say Phelps was CRAZYYYYYYY AF for saying they not like us is not a summer song. ARE YOU SLOW???? Sounding like a drake cheerleader
He has three songs on top 10 and They not like us is #1
Phelps dance in the beginning😂😂😂
Being a drug dealer is a victim-less crime? Nah, tell that to the little kids waiting on their addicted mother to come home. The drug dealers who sell to pregnant women. Nahhhhh lol there are plenty of victims
Right !! & the drug wars over blocks and money.. lol like watch the wire lol
Diddy is a horrible person, lock him tf up!
“Probably depending on what room you was in😐” the silence was TOO loud😂😂
It’s a real ninja’s birthday?! also thank you, I needed this nightly entertainment!
Mona on the vocals and Phelps on the dance sent me 🤣
Dang Phelps can’t get a word in😂😂 I see why he just say Yeap all the time. She straight Ig him
Not my good gas making it to the pod 😂. It was definitely not to share. Love you Mona! 🫶🏾
Depending on what room you was in.🫣🤫🤯 best episode ever🤭😝🎤👸🏽
I’m over hear screaming “put the cake on the screen” 😂
I spit out my water on the drake slap Canadian Bacon 🥓 😂
Diddy been an asshole since making the band MONA. !!! Idk my unc was mean like that so I know a mean mf when I see one . & he was mean on making the band I hated him
lol Mona said “I can celebrate my birthday on your birthday” SHE ALREADY MADE THE DECISION 😆
“We gotta get out the ghettoooo” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Mona funny asf
I definitely think my mom favors my brother more than me. But he is also 19 yrs younger than I am, & I see it as her being able to do better as a mom the 2nd time around cause she was a young mother with me.
49:13 noooooooo right here i lost it alllll 😂😂😂😂😂 ‼️
When everyone first found out puffy and Cassie were dating a lot of people looked at it as she was way too young to be with him and everyone thought she was just trying to come up and couldn't really sing rumors always circulated about how a puffy will put hands and feet on the women he was dating
Why scuffles drooling like that! 😂🤣😂
Nah Mona don’t feel you on the diddy topic..
For the love of God, PLEASE stop interrupting Phelps
Phelps definitely on bday behavior 💀😂
The ending was the funniest shit ever!!!! I can’t believe MONA ain’t been famous .
How you not get a piece of your own cake 🎂?!?! 😭😭😂😂🤣🤣💀
Wait don’t do me abt Scruffles 🐶 😂😂😂😂
The advice at the end lmaooooo
Phelps was killing them dance moves 😂
Mona you have to watch the whole Gary Owens interview. He said people are going to take this clip and say you don't protect black women and so he was laughing about that being the clip that was going to be released from the interview and people did just that! They clipped it and ran with it.
Can you start off singing, and Phelps start off dancing, every episode like this one lmao?
avid watcher but these episodes are getting assier n assier cmon mona
Assier is fckn hilarious 😹
Funny af
The way Mona be cutting Phelps off on a regular basis when he talking 😭😭😭
This may be an unpopular opinion, but to the girl who messaged Mona for advice, I feel like in college you need to date with the intention to marry with someone else who is also in college. Not some random you met.
So often black women are told to “enjoy our 20s” by remaining single and focusing on our studies meanwhile, the eligible men are dating, getting engaged to, and marrying non black women who went to school with the goal of finding a husband.
If you’re one of the girls who wants to decenter men from your life then obviously, this message is not for you, but believe me when I say, you can still enjoy your 20s and have fun with the right man.
Not 20 minutes of "I love Diddy" 😭😭😭😭
I see why she always praising her son vs her daughter. Her take on Blueface made me stop watching but this was the icing on the cake.
I don’t even think that’s it. She just has a skewed view of DV. She looks as it like a normal way of life
Happy Belated Phelps 🥳 Hope u enjoyed
CLAP CLAP cha cha cha with the nails is crazy 😂
This episode is everywhere
Monaaaaaaaa u rocking that Detroit tiger hattttt yessssssss
Just got off work watching this w a blunt
Happy birthday phelps
This is one of my favorite pods
I don’t think Mona fully understands the magnitude of abuse that people have experienced from dealing with Diddy. Cassie was followed by his security. Threatened. Beaten. Humiliated. For years. Basically chained to him. Look at what happened when she tried to leave. The man ran down a hotel hallway in a towel. He does not care about anybody but himself.
It’s because she experiences DV and doesn’t understand the magnitude of it. She’s used to arguments turning physical and thinks that men can change. I’m glad she’s self aware about not being a girl’s girl but the fact that she doesn’t understand the issue with it is disturbing.
drug dealers give out things that can kill ppl but they don't need to do time is crazy lol yes ppl also have to choose to do it but if there is no one selling it than....