HOW ARE YOU ALWAYS SPEAKING TO MY JOURNEYYYYY?!? You have been helping me through the toughest period of my life, you are a life saver, and you are helping me remember who I Am. Thank you big sis 🥹🙌🏽
WHOOP WHOOP! HOL’ ON! HOL’ ON! MY GWORLLLL!! She just released something! My spirit is about to lifteddddd!! 😂☠️❤️🙌🏾🎶 Excuse my shenanigans! I’m excited! ❤️🙌🏾💕
Congrats on the upcoming baby🎉 ❤. Something I wanna share is that ever since my father passed away it has put me in a space to evaluate the people that’s around me because my father was the closest thing I had. My family can be Very toxic/negative and not progressing in certain areas that I am progressing and evolving in. Im still in the process of healing my past trauma from childhood & from(Friends,Men etc). Being around so many people who are doing the same thing they’ve been doing since 2010 or earlier is very draining. I have been noticing a lot of things I am not interested in anymore or don’t care for anymore. I currently don’t have any friends and I don’t really talk to family so I’m in a very isolated and alone state I do like my isolation a lot due to not wanting certain stupidity/toxicity around me. I don’t want this forever. I want friends ,I want community that will pour into me. Positivity and uplift me and care about the things I care about as I will do the same. I just really have to work on myself to be the best version of myself so I can meet those people because my confidence my self-love & self-worth aren’t as high As I would like it to be, so I’m comfortable, letting my walls down to meet new people. It sucks having to feel like I will be distant from family members due to their behavior and actions.
From Mark 22:00, you touched a point that started me to recognize that I need to talk to my healed self. That five minute mark tho! “That’s not me, I can put that down. I get to be who I want to be!! Trust this person…” I am sure I rewatched the last five minutes 15xs. My soul did the work! Tiffany! You’re a gem. Your delivery in these videos are chef’s kiss… it’s the conversations I want to have but everyone’s not deep diving like this. Thank you.
Thank you Tiffany, so much! Last fall+winter I was going through a really hard time (break up + another rejection) and after that I started to dive in deep to myself. I let go some of my old beliefs and just started to become the person I always wanted to be. This summer I dated a guy, and it was amazing with him. We hit off really well, but eventually he started to become distant and said he didn't want to commit (but wanted to continue dating me while also dating others). I had to break it off because it was not aligned with what I wanted (to find the one to settle with). When we talked about these things I said to him that maybe I could try this 'casual' thing with him, but even during the conversation I knew deep down that it wasn't something I wanted. It was painful to break it off since I felt so safe with him, but I know it was the right thing to do. My friends said that, even my father said that. A year ago this was something I could NEVER had the guts to do. I used to cling to every boy who liked me, I was so caught up in the fantasy I never asked myself if this is something I want. I feel like I forced myself to like some of these people so I could have the validation. Now after a month of removing myself from him I realised that even though I knew my boundaries and ended things, I still didn't listen to my truest feelings completely when I was with him. During dating I was a little unsure: he was really different from me and I felt like it was becoming hard to be myself, but I ignored those feelings because there was a lot of good stuff too, and on paper he seemed such a perfect partner. What I'm trying to say that I had that moment of uncertainty: I didn't know what to do so I just thought to myself: "Time will tell." Even though I'm not 100 % on this; I feel like the universe took over and made this happen because it wasn't the right thing for me. You talked about the black&white thing, and I feel like it resonated with this experience because this boy did ask me how I was doing after 2,5 weeks, and I told him it's hard for me to let people go and he said that even though I may have to let go of the hopes I attached to him, he isn't going anywhere and that he cares about me and wants us to be friends. I'm having hard time trusting him, and I still need time to get over this thing and I even said it to him and he respects my wishes. And while I'm not ready to make a decision on the friendship, I feel so... hopeful (maybe?) that for once the options are not black&white (stay with me or go away forever basically lol) but something else. I learned so much from this experience, and also the reason I'm able to stick to boundaries while keeping an open mind is thanks to watching your videos during when times where more difficult. I feel like this video was such a good reminder to continue my own (healing) journey. ❤❤❤
sis, that is GROWTH 🥹🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾 you listened. I think the more we make those rough decisions that we nevvvver would have made before, the more confident we become in listening to our inner voice. it’s tough at first… and it definitely won’t be perfect, but you’re doing it! and I’m personally so, sooo proud of you. I really hope you’re proud of yourself 🤎
16:08 spoke to me 😪 I was in a relationship where I knew 100% did not want that boy anymore. But y'all I stayed!! coz when I told him I didn't want him anymore he wold act so crazy I was afraid he might kill me, stayed for 3 years till I moved back home from school where I felt safer coz my family was by my side. I now try to find a near perfect guy coz I'm afraid of being trapped, again so much that I even forgot that leaving is always an option.
Have you been spying on me?! 😂 I was literally thinking the past week or so about the fact that I've spent time alone trying to love myself before I got in another relationship. Now that I've been in another one and we broke up recently, I was like, "I spent time alone but didn't get to know myself." So I've at least been taking time to journal and explore that, but once I get time and money to get my kids a sitter and date myself... I'm gonna love me so hard 💖🥰
chur thank you girl I just got 1 month of skill share hehe, Plus a great and healing wangana. You talked about a lot of things that resonated with me, much love to you and your whanau
Ypu are soo beautiful I just had to say it❤❤❤❤❤always a pleasure experiencing your presence here , I am manifesting meeting you 1day cause it's gonna happen poit blank period!!!!Thank you goddess for being you🎉🎉
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Tiffany….its so much I want to say, but I won’t dump…..I honestly think that you’re going to save my life. Every video is needed. God bless you!
HOW ARE YOU ALWAYS SPEAKING TO MY JOURNEYYYYY?!? You have been helping me through the toughest period of my life, you are a life saver, and you are helping me remember who I Am. Thank you big sis 🥹🙌🏽
that means I’m doing my job 🥹 keep going mamas 🫂🤎
WHOOP WHOOP! HOL’ ON! HOL’ ON! MY GWORLLLL!! She just released something! My spirit is about to lifteddddd!! 😂☠️❤️🙌🏾🎶 Excuse my shenanigans! I’m excited! ❤️🙌🏾💕
Congrats on the upcoming baby🎉 ❤. Something I wanna share is that ever since my father passed away it has put me in a space to evaluate the people that’s around me because my father was the closest thing I had. My family can be Very toxic/negative and not progressing in certain areas that I am progressing and evolving in. Im still in the process of healing my past trauma from childhood & from(Friends,Men etc). Being around so many people who are doing the same thing they’ve been doing since 2010 or earlier is very draining. I have been noticing a lot of things I am not interested in anymore or don’t care for anymore.
I currently don’t have any friends and I don’t really talk to family so I’m in a very isolated and alone state I do like my isolation a lot due to not wanting certain stupidity/toxicity around me. I don’t want this forever. I want friends ,I want community that will pour into me. Positivity and uplift me and care about the things I care about as I will do the same. I just really have to work on myself to be the best version of myself so I can meet those people because my confidence my self-love & self-worth aren’t as high As I would like it to be, so I’m comfortable, letting my walls down to meet new people. It sucks having to feel like I will be distant from family members due to their behavior and actions.
Remarkable! Yet again girl, your videos are everything. Let's do the work!
This came at a point where I have lost myself and has reminded me of how much potential I have
Thank you
Beautiful message, thank you for the dedication you show to your channel ❤
my pleasure love… thank you for being here 🙏🏾
From Mark 22:00, you touched a point that started me to recognize that I need to talk to my healed self. That five minute mark tho! “That’s not me, I can put that down. I get to be who I want to be!! Trust this person…”
I am sure I rewatched the last five minutes 15xs. My soul did the work! Tiffany! You’re a gem. Your delivery in these videos are chef’s kiss… it’s the conversations I want to have but everyone’s not deep diving like this. Thank you.
I love this video series so much!! Let's keep doing the work!!!
Your content is helping me better accept the changes happening in my life. Thank you.
111 k followers Queen!!!! 🎉🎉🎉
You’re so awesome I thank God for you!!
🥹you’re so kind. sending you love!
Thank you for reminding me these things. ✨
It's my pleasure! 🤎
Thank you Tiffany, so much! Last fall+winter I was going through a really hard time (break up + another rejection) and after that I started to dive in deep to myself. I let go some of my old beliefs and just started to become the person I always wanted to be.
This summer I dated a guy, and it was amazing with him. We hit off really well, but eventually he started to become distant and said he didn't want to commit (but wanted to continue dating me while also dating others). I had to break it off because it was not aligned with what I wanted (to find the one to settle with). When we talked about these things I said to him that maybe I could try this 'casual' thing with him, but even during the conversation I knew deep down that it wasn't something I wanted. It was painful to break it off since I felt so safe with him, but I know it was the right thing to do. My friends said that, even my father said that. A year ago this was something I could NEVER had the guts to do. I used to cling to every boy who liked me, I was so caught up in the fantasy I never asked myself if this is something I want. I feel like I forced myself to like some of these people so I could have the validation. Now after a month of removing myself from him I realised that even though I knew my boundaries and ended things, I still didn't listen to my truest feelings completely when I was with him. During dating I was a little unsure: he was really different from me and I felt like it was becoming hard to be myself, but I ignored those feelings because there was a lot of good stuff too, and on paper he seemed such a perfect partner. What I'm trying to say that I had that moment of uncertainty: I didn't know what to do so I just thought to myself: "Time will tell." Even though I'm not 100 % on this; I feel like the universe took over and made this happen because it wasn't the right thing for me.
You talked about the black&white thing, and I feel like it resonated with this experience because this boy did ask me how I was doing after 2,5 weeks, and I told him it's hard for me to let people go and he said that even though I may have to let go of the hopes I attached to him, he isn't going anywhere and that he cares about me and wants us to be friends. I'm having hard time trusting him, and I still need time to get over this thing and I even said it to him and he respects my wishes. And while I'm not ready to make a decision on the friendship, I feel so... hopeful (maybe?) that for once the options are not black&white (stay with me or go away forever basically lol) but something else.
I learned so much from this experience, and also the reason I'm able to stick to boundaries while keeping an open mind is thanks to watching your videos during when times where more difficult. I feel like this video was such a good reminder to continue my own (healing) journey.
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sis, that is GROWTH 🥹🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾
you listened. I think the more we make those rough decisions that we nevvvver would have made before, the more confident we become in listening to our inner voice. it’s tough at first… and it definitely won’t be perfect, but you’re doing it! and I’m personally so, sooo proud of you.
I really hope you’re proud of yourself 🤎
Thank you
Your Videos have helped me sooo much. I always take notes! Definitely feel more empowered
Always on time! Grateful for you, your videos and this community 🤍 here’s to continuing to do the work & heal 🥂
16:08 spoke to me 😪 I was in a relationship where I knew 100% did not want that boy anymore. But y'all I stayed!! coz when I told him I didn't want him anymore he wold act so crazy I was afraid he might kill me, stayed for 3 years till I moved back home from school where I felt safer coz my family was by my side. I now try to find a near perfect guy coz I'm afraid of being trapped, again so much that I even forgot that leaving is always an option.
Beautiful words ❤❤❤ absorbed so well into my system 🌸🌸
I truly needed to hear this today ! Thank you ☺️
I knew this was gonna be a good one just from the first couple of seconds ❤
Right on time, I just journaled about finding myself and rediscovering my self worth
whew, this one is for me, I just love it episode. When you're healing the message hits different
This message is a God sent❤❤❤❤❤
You're Amazing❤ Thank you!!
Thank you for sharing this video. 😊
@tiffanytv we need a makeup tutorial. Your makeup always looks good 🌸🪷
Absolutely love your content!
thank you!!
Timely & Spot on 🎉
This is so good.
Omg I’ve been contemplating the keyboard!
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I needed this after what I just went through earlier today 😢 thanks Tiff 🖤 truly the best!
your videos have helped me so much over the past two years. thank you sis !!💗💗
Thank you I needed to hear all of that ❤❤❤❤
you’re so welcome 🫂🤎
Yayyy, so happy to be here just a few minutes after posting 🎉🎉🎉
Thank you so much for this! You are the older sister I never had.😊
T I F F A N Y. Wow. Thank you. 💕
LOVEEEE thisss
Bevy: Margarita! ❤️🤞🏽
Another babyyy! Me toooooo.....2 boys over here!!!! This one is Due dec. 😂
congrats mamas!!! 🥹🙌🏾🙌🏾
@@TiffanyTV same!!! 😚🫶🏽🙌🏽
Have you been spying on me?! 😂 I was literally thinking the past week or so about the fact that I've spent time alone trying to love myself before I got in another relationship. Now that I've been in another one and we broke up recently, I was like, "I spent time alone but didn't get to know myself." So I've at least been taking time to journal and explore that, but once I get time and money to get my kids a sitter and date myself... I'm gonna love me so hard 💖🥰
I'm also learning guitar so I'll probably take advantage of Skill Share
Proud of you, I hope you’re doing okay post break up. ❤
chur thank you girl I just got 1 month of skill share hehe, Plus a great and healing wangana. You talked about a lot of things that resonated with me, much love to you and your whanau
yesssss please utilize your free month during your healing 🙏🏾 such great balance
Ypu are soo beautiful I just had to say it❤❤❤❤❤always a pleasure experiencing your presence here , I am manifesting meeting you 1day cause it's gonna happen poit blank period!!!!Thank you goddess for being you🎉🎉
you look so cute ! Love this conversation!❤
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I'm 3rd here
But I love you 💖
Loveee the video, learned a whole lot. The continuous zoom in and zoom out was painful to go through 😅
How do I tell the difference between my intuition and my wounds
Hey ma, google this: how do i tell the difference between intuition and trauma
This one is really THE one.
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How are you pregnant and looking so good? Share tips ma'am
lol thank you! a lot of effort + intentionality because trust me, I don’t feel like doing it all the time 😅 but I feel great when I do!
the way i ran here when i saw the notification 😭🫶🏾
Lol me and you both❤😊