@@tionajaielijahking3059 No, I didn't have to do it but I wanted to... I was raised by a single mother whom I loved dearly. She was a great mother like you. Don't focus on the negative comments or negative people. Life gives you what you put energy into. Sending you positive energy.......
Remember what a blessing that place was when you got it. When you have controversy, always remember from whince you came. Maybe it's time to move on to the next stage. Don’t create a negative rental reference. The disagreement is not worth the consequence. Comply and move on up.
Unfortunately it’s not normal wear and tear. You’ve actually modified the door with placing the ring camera on it. If the door was not new you don’t have to purchase a new door but do have to repair it. When you move make sure to take pic of every room . Do a walk through with your landlord to address any concerns. I would move , if not happy. Don’t waste your time.
Landlord's are collecting alot of money and force tenants to have rental insurance and landlord's want to do the bare minimum and spend the least money.
Exactly wtf do I look like ? 😂😂 your comment is the only one that made sense tonight besides the other positive comments that was pertaining to other parts of the video. 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
🖐🏾Ah ah ah! She didn't say all that. She said, "he still comes over to -break me off- give me a *break* ... stay outta my business". One doesn't need to explain what's overstood.
Yesssss on teaching our King to wash his dishes! Raising him to be a self sufficient, not paying no mind to gender specific roles, strong, little man.. I'm absolutely here for it! You truly are such an amazing woman & Momma!!
If you want the ring camera n incurred that cost bcz of having it then youre obligated to pay. Thats not considered normal wear and tear. If the door was closed n it broke due to the storm then that would be something completely different. But the door isnt meant to stay open around the clock. What if it happened again would the landlord also b obligated to pay each time due to a tenants mis use of property due to a personal issue. If i break anything on purpose or accident while im renting im not going to argue about paying for it bcz thats not the right thing to do. Also i don't know how happy i would be if i as a landlord had my property damaged n it be glued back together for obvious reasons If youre being bothered like that then move. Its a super nice apartment but like you said, you need more space. They cant make you turn your porch light off they dont pay the bill. Shouldn't your ring camera catch who is leaving trash on your porch. You should look into habitat for humanity or other home ownership options. It wouldnt hurt
Okay I’m a Landlord in upstate NY if you intentionally left the door open so ot got ruined it’s on you . If it can be fixed it would be ok but if it can’t you need to replace it that’s how our court is. I had a tenant whose kids continued to leave the screen door open it got caught by the wind and was pulled back so it bent. They were court ordered to replace it. Check your contract is what I say. Like holes or things on walls my contract states no holes or you pay to fix also the stuff on the walls you would be responsible to have repainted. Just read your contract.
You must have a huge bank account and do the bare minimum to address your units. Hopefully this will change one day. Hopefully home prices will be forced down so people can actually own their own homes instead of rent.
As a former landlord here in PA it would be your responsibility to replace it since you left it open even though I understand it was for your ring doorbell. Here in PA it was able to be fixed the courts would give you the option to fix it or buy a new one. Good luck young lady..
Yes & the courts will always allow for the landlord to terminate your lease.Not sure when "oh well take me to court" became a trend but I wish people knew there are consequences that will make future housing or mortgages harder to get.It's a screen door,she needs to humble herself & fix it instead of trying to make it a moment.It's hard to come out of homelessness, going back is much easier.js
@@phoney4387 Well said, but people don't want to hear the truth. All these people talking about moving. Are they going to give her the money to move? Why move? Like you said, there will always be something when renting from others. Wheres the accountability? Mmhhmmmmmm.
Exactly, as long as you rent from someone you will always have a situation things happen and you want things done a certain way and they want things maintain a certain way hence a standoff until you buy your own home you will have these type of problems as a renter Don't let people tell you just move it's not that easy especially not in this era that we're living in remember sweetheart you just came out of homelessness and you have become such an inspiration remain humble.
And they’re probably not accommodating to her because she has this high and mighty attitude like it’s your job. Landlords don’t have to go above and beyond. When someone breaks in my apartment, we got a fix it unless it was an accident but leaving the screen door open is not an accident. She definitely needs to humble herself because she’s a renter not an owner.
I like yellow lighting because it's more cozy & inviting. 🤷🏼♀️ I'm a nurse & hate white lights because it's too harsh & sterile like the hospital. 😂 To each their own though girl. Love that you're starting to take care of yourself more! In order to better care for our babies, we gotta be around & healthy enough ourselves to be there for them. 🩷🖤💜 Keep killing it girl!
You are responsible for the screen door because it's because of you that it's broke. By leaving it open the wind destroyed it, had the door been closed the wind would not have destroyed the door. Right is right and wrong is wrong
Exactly, it's really just that simple. Things dont go our way just bcz we think it should or feel it should. Gotta put our adult pants on and deal with it I said the Exact same thing and that's the gods honest truth If I were a landlord I would be happy to pay for actual real wear and tear
You're correct, but she don't want to hear that. Things she named are so small to be complaining about. When you've really been through something. You don't sweat the small stuff. Btw, someone gifted her $100 to fix the door.
Since your lease is up in January start looking around now for other places to live. Check out the rental amounts if you like your area then check out other places in that area. If you start now, you will be ready by January, or, pay out December and January and just move into a more spacious home. You don't have to put up with those shenanigans period! I would move as soon as possible and find a place big enough for your needs so you and your baby can feel safe and be happy. ❤
If they take you to court, you’re not gonna win. I got a remember the other landlords and if they told you not to keep the door open because it gonna find you liable to buy a new one and then that’s gonna make your landlord not want to sign a new lease.
Sweetheart I understand your frustration but if you can renew your lease and plan to move next year . It is too close to January to be looking for a new apartment especially if you don’t know any other options at this time . The baby just started school and you would want to keep him in the same school district at least for right now . Keep your head up God has got you 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼.
If a screen door is left open, it's going to be damaged. On windy days, the door will fling back and forth and it defeats the purpose of the door. Unfortunately, the damage to the door may be on you since it was left open.
Hello Tiona I would stay there and stick it out. No matter where you go there is always something unless you get a home in the country off to yourself. That's what comes with it. All will be well.
@@VerleanHurd Right. I've been there... I'm 38 yrs.old 3 kids 1 grown 2 teens. I've lived in apartments before. I currently live in the country deep in the woods no neighbors but guess what....the oil field workers has come in taking over, tearing up the roads &crowding up the roads with so much traffic... it was so peaceful at 1st.
It's so relaxing watching Tiona clean, but then I realize I need to get up and clean too 🙄🤣 I Love the Autumn Vibe in the living room with the orange pillows and blanket 🧡🧡🧡
I just admire you. You're so strong and I really love how you just take such great care of your son. I've been watching for a while since TikTok and i want you to know, im proud of you!!! You're truly highly favored and God has so much more instore for you!!! Im a single parent of 3 and its hard but we find the strength to keep going!!!!!Sending love from Maryland ❤❤❤❤❤
Hey Ti! I am sending prayers and praying for you, Eli, and your home to cast any and every thing binding praying for protection peace and prosperity in your home! Take it to the Lord he will guide you and take you on the path you need to go! I have had a landlord like that and God put it on me to move and I am working hard now trying to get a second job so that I can buy a bigger house now that my grandma and mother live with me so everyone can have their own room and bathroom along with me an office so that I can have more room.and space in my room you will get your dream home and you will have great abundance in whatever you are blessed with you will be blessed with the resources you need and want to make all things happen and break every chain and break whomever is attacking you get behind thee devil and flee for I am an anointed child of God filled with his holiness no weapons formed against you shall prosper
Amen 🙏🏿 I pray that the Almighty direct you right through a path of ease and grace to your new home with enough space to accommodate your expanded family in JESUS NAME !
All iam going to say is always keep God first on your life 🙏 and make sure your baby daddy got his safe together 100 percent job and everything first don't let him move in and you end up taking care of him ,he sees all well your doing be careful
See that’s what I don’t understand about some of you RUclipsrs….It was our business when you use to tell us how much of a Deadbeat he was, but when we ask you questions about y’all relationship now, it’s a problem??🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
People need to leave people relationship alone end of the day they have a kid together and is good for the child to see both parents are getting along so please leave her alone and mind your business.
@@tionajaielijahking3059 it doesn’t matter to me. But you were telling your viewers stuff about y’all relationship in the past though. That’s all I’m saying. I’m just responding to the comment you said in your video.
Stop being entitled to somebody else life just cause they post it don't mean you have the right to know everything it annoying y'all think RUclipsrs gotta tell y'all anything
I will stick it out to your lease is up but in the meanwhile be looking for somewhere else to move to... So when your lease is up and you get a new place you can just leave
You're doing an excellent job as a mommy. Teaching that baby how to clean up is just the best.Cudos to your mom Tianna for teaching you to take care of yourself. Read Psalm 91 daily for protection Pray and ask the Lord what you should about staying or moving..
I think I'd try to find another place. My apt. Is subsidized and my landlord comes in once a year and looks around for stuff needing fixed. And I see her once a year for recertification. That's it. And I call if something needs fixed they come pretty quick....
Hun... I'd start looking for another place. I had a landlord like that.. Now I'm in a new house, a beautiful house and amazing landlords (older couple). If I could afford to buy, I would... But in NZ buying a house is literally impossible.
Tiona you are rocking this single mom thing. Don’t let nosey people upset you. What you do and who you do it with is YOUR business. No one should be prying into your personal life. I don’t understand why people feel they have a right to know your personal life. We all have boundaries on what we will share . Respect that people. Be blessed and have a phenomenal day
MOVE! If your already having issues then move babe, and talk to god to place you where he wants you both! And I think the purple jacket brought your beauty out soo much more! Good choice! ❤ best wishes for you and your little love momma….
Its time to move, my porch light stays on and Im not cutting if off its a part of security for me. Something is telling you to go dont be afraid to follow it. Its time to move on to bigger and better. God is pushing you out of there for something better!!!!😊
I would not want to deal with that either. Especially for your mental well being ! You have a kid to take care of. I would not stick it out if you don’t have too. ❤
Ive been at my place 18 years this december and everybody is movie they keep increasing the rent and dont want to upgrade...i have to pay 97.00 a month for consumers to come out and fix everything if it breaks because our maintence men dont know how to fix anything😢
I been at my residence about few years and I'm thinking about finding me another apartment to live as well. I'm to myself live alone my family comes over to visit me so I'm not completely alone. It's just I heard someone got killed over here. And it been another issue I told my landlord and all she can say it's some crazy people in this neighborhood 😳 the property management has cameras around..but I still don't feel that safe here. But I hope you and your son even myself Lord willing fine a pleasant safe home to live in. And be Happy. 🏠
You should try looking for a Town House, it has lots more space, It possibly your Landlord could be jealousy because you have to look at this way maybe they are looking at your blogs and maybe they are watching how you live just you and your son and they think you have money and don't see you struggling. I'm going thur the same thing as we speak. The tenant below me is hearing noise I'm supposedly banging on walls and having wild parties. The neighbors on my right or left are not hearing any noice only her below me. So, people will say anything when they are jealous😒
I know how you feel. I am going through the same thing where I live. They do not want to fix anything, and when they do, it takes months to get it done. I am looking for somewhere else to go. I pray that everything works out for you.
I’ve been there where you at it seems like the devil is attacking you from all sides through your son through your neighbors your landlord that just means you’re almost at your break through keep trusting god pray give it to him and leave it with him he’s gonna work it all out for your good stay blessed you’re awesome 😊
Tiona I noticed when you were washing the dishes you allowed the water to run and you were not using try to turn it off to lower waste. Water is a very precious commodity. I know some apartments water is included. However, depending on your lease especially in a house 🏡 it might not be included. It could get costly. Just a suggestion. You are a good mother. Thanks fir the content. I enjoy watching your videos.
I am a housing advocate. I work with people who are homeless or were previously homeless. Unfortunately lamdlords feel they can do whatever they want to this population because they probably don't have the financial means to do anything about it. I really wish you had an advocate to help you with issues with your landlord. A lot of times when someone does have one they realize they have to abide by tenant laws. Make sure you read ALL your tenant laws in your state. Also reach out to legal aid if you have to. I understand you wanting to leave but please please please make sure you can secure housing first. You have done soooo great since being housed.
Sweetie Move, ur home is the solice from the world for you and Eli, start looking and packing now. Also dont give them more ammo (videos) get ur ducks lined up and move quietly. Im praying for you i was a young mom (16) so i understand and she is 33 now. Get ur peace baby. God bless ❤❤❤ you're doing 👍🏾
Claim the damage on your renters insurance. Things are different no matter where you live. The important thing is you have shelter for you and your son. Let all the other stuff roll off your back. Your doing a great job
I’m just nosey about your hauls lol I love to see all that you find and get!! Who cares who you date, it doesn’t affect anyone but you and Eli. That’s all that matters.
I don’t blame you with wanting to move. Idk about you I know where I am finding apartments right now in CT is soooooo hard. And it is so hard to find a landlord that doesn’t suck. Whether you go private or through a company. I def say if you can find something that better accommodates you guys both go for it and start looking now because the places come and go sooo quick.
If for any reason that you didn't close and lock that screen door and the wind is blowing it back and forth than they can tell you that you have to pay for it. That your responsibility for repair if it isn't wear and repair and you do have to turn off the light fixtures on your property as well.
Hey! Life is definitely Lifeing but I will say. When it comes to wear and tear on these things in the home/apartment. I feel like if we didn’t damage it then we shouldn’t have to pay because some of these landlords don’t like to spend money on upgrading things in their rental properties. My stove fell apart after a couple months of living here and I thank god my landlord is good. He bought a brand new stove from Lowe’s and got it delivered and installed for us. Yes it’s not easy when you doing things alone but I haven’t watched your videos in mad long. But I so enjoy your vlogs and your transparency. It’s so relatable because us women can relate. And omg I know handsome boy is 5 now! Happy belated birthday to Eli 😎💙💙💙🎉🎉🥳🥳🥳🥳 your doing a good job love! 🫶🏽🙏🏽
Tiona please make sure if you are moving that you have a better place to go to. Start looking now. Now regarding the screen door, what was the condition prior to you living there? If you can not put it back to the same condition, you would need to discuss what would resolve it with the landlord. I agree if it was old why would you need to buy a brand new screen door. See if you can find a used one to replace in good shape of course. **URGENT**very important - you should have renters insurance to cover all your content. In case of fire or theft. Im hoping that you already have that. Shop around for a reputable insurance company. Generally it should not exceed $10/15 per month depending on the amount you request say about $20,000 worth of coverage. 😊
I wouldn't move yet! No place is perfect! Don't get mad at me but if the is blowing hard, the door needs to be closed. Or it will tear off the door. It's the truth! Sometimes the truth hurts. Stay there and build up yourself . I would tell my daughter the same thing if it was her in the situation. Sometimes you have to kiss behind behind you can kick it!!! Lol In my life I put up with certain situations and then when the time became right I made my move. Even on the job I tell coworkers bear certain situations and get your pension down the road. No job is perfect.
Yes landlord are a pain,me & my husband got robbed at our first place glad we weren’t there especially my kids ,then the AC kept leaking and the bathroom, furniture got damaged and they did nothing. We’ve been with family we’ll be moving soon and I’m getting a ring camera since I’ll be alone at night while my husband works. So I completely understand . Landlords just care about money
Hi, Tiona, I would try Shein. I think that a you tuber that I watch said she gets her gym stuff from there and it is reasonably priced. Congrats on you going to the gym good for you! The situation with the landlord that is horrible, you may want to consider moving, you and Eli have to stay safe whatever you decide I know will be the right decision, thank you for sharing with us I love this channel. BE BLESSED
Since it’s just you and Eli in the apartment, why do you not speak to your neighbors? If your neighbors are not good people you should move. Was your screen door damaged because it was open? If the answer is, yes. you are responsible for the damage. The best time you rent check every room, especially, doors and windows. Take care.
I would move! With all that has happened to you there, it’s NOT SAFE!! I also feel like you have every right to have a ring camera for some added safety. I would move BEFORE they tell me they are not going to renew my lease. So start looking for a new place! ❤❤
Hey T & Elijah! T our hearts 💔 to hear that you are going through this. We are here for you and Elijah! Whatever your decision is to move, we respect your decision and we got you on this. We Love ♥️♥️ you! ♥️❤️🩷♥️❤️🩷💖
Praying 🙏 I go thru the same thing myself & people bothers me to everyday! Tht why I have to continue to listen to my spiritual songs & praying & keep going !! Cause my babies look up to me & I don’t wanna lose control cause it wnt be pretty at all !!
I'm going to pray the Lord gives you discernment about what to do. You're a great tenant and shouldn't be treated less than. I would definitely consider moving if you aren't comfortable and you have to worry about your son's safety. But again weigh the pros and cons, and pray the Lord reveals everything and he will open a place for you and Eli if that's his will.
I took mines to hardware store they fixed for little of nothing it cheaper put right back in I wasn’t give no damn $50 at that time insurance not gonna cover it two she would have meet deductible first I hate she going threw that her apartment looks beautiful all low income gonna have some kind problems she could up in worse place they don’t want show till day you move in
It’s my be your time up from in that place God Have Something Bigger and Better for you and your Son and When Talking don’t getting So frustrated Kids put up on things very quickly pray this is the season in change very hard for I pray for Any young Mother do thing Specially Single Mom we All Love Our Son and Daughter 😇 you got this!!!!!
No matter where you move. Landlord have rules. So unless you can purchase your own place. You think hard about it before moving. Even all the parties and company you have could be seen as negative to a Landlord. The light staying on can be fix with a day to dawn light blub. The Landlord is looking at the electrical bill without going up on rent. Yes its hard to rent . Trying working it out until you can save to own.
Ur such an amazing lady...watching U clean makes me want to get up and do the same....KEEP DOING great things ...Hi Eli.....GOD BLESS you all. Luv ❤️ and many Blessings..😊😊
Hi TionaJai i subsribed your channel this year my advice do not throw away mop head just put them in the machine that save you money instead of keep replacing them. Love your channel ,
You are doing a wonderful job it sounds like you pay your rent on time and keep the property clean, if i was you o would start praying and asking God to reveal to you weather he wants you to stay there or ask the holy sprit to lead you to the place he needs you to be at.
Love your vlogs! You are right! I wait until Walmarts active wear is on clearance before I buy it. I got a pair of leggings for $11 on the clearance rack last month!
Hey Girle, My house was looking similar being a mom is hard and overwhelming at times. I just had to get my house back together it took me about a good week, but I got it done. Wow why they in your business about your baby daddy 😌. They have good deals in workout stuff at ross. Hope you can get that door fixed soon. Thanks for the cleaning motivation 💕💕🤗
Tiona I get it my sons father and I co-parent the same way. The only thing at least yout BD helps with dishes and such mine dont lol. Its possible for someone to be just friends with their BD or BM because thats the way my son's father and I are. I like it like that way its easy and drama free
From my experience I've lived in apartment house type rental situations and it has never been good. I prefer an apartment in a building or house with just my family alone. Tiona I don't know your situation but I have dealt with some nightmare landlords before.
Hey TianaJai and Elijah safety is more Important and trust me I understand when landlords are not certain with signal parents. Remember God always got you ❤!!
This is for your screen door. It's hard being single parent but remember God got you...just keep the faith.
That’s such a blessing Sir ❤
Aww thank you so much ❤️. You did not have to do that I really didn’t need it. An update on the door is coming.
May God bless you Chris 🙏
Bless you ❤
@@tionajaielijahking3059 No, I didn't have to do it but I wanted to... I was raised by a single mother whom I loved dearly. She was a great mother like you. Don't focus on the negative comments or negative people. Life gives you what you put energy into. Sending you positive energy.......
Remember what a blessing that place was when you got it. When you have controversy, always remember from whince you came. Maybe it's time to move on to the next stage. Don’t create a negative rental reference. The disagreement is not worth the consequence. Comply and move on up.
Unfortunately it’s not normal wear and tear. You’ve actually modified the door with placing the ring camera on it. If the door was not new you don’t have to purchase a new door but do have to repair it. When you move make sure to take pic of every room . Do a walk through with your landlord to address any concerns. I would move , if not happy. Don’t waste your time.
Make sure you close that screen door to prevent further damage. You never know when there will be a strong wind.
Landlord's are collecting alot of money and force tenants to have rental insurance and landlord's want to do the bare minimum and spend the least money.
Lessons learned ....very strong woman who wouldnt let any man hurt her and fool her twice...Respect!!! Love from Latvia ❤❤❤
Exactly wtf do I look like ? 😂😂 your comment is the only one that made sense tonight besides the other positive comments that was pertaining to other parts of the video. 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
🖐🏾Ah ah ah! She didn't say all that. She said, "he still comes over to -break me off- give me a *break* ... stay outta my business".
One doesn't need to explain what's overstood.
Yesssss on teaching our King to wash his dishes! Raising him to be a self sufficient, not paying no mind to gender specific roles, strong, little man.. I'm absolutely here for it! You truly are such an amazing woman & Momma!!
Exactly. I taught my son to clean, cook, wash dishes, and do laundry.
@@VerleanHurd same here! My son even picked up putting the toilet seat back down all on his own! 🤣 That made me such a proud momma. Haha
@@Hopedealer31 IKR.
If you want the ring camera n incurred that cost bcz of having it then youre obligated to pay. Thats not considered normal wear and tear. If the door was closed n it broke due to the storm then that would be something completely different. But the door isnt meant to stay open around the clock. What if it happened again would the landlord also b obligated to pay each time due to a tenants mis use of property due to a personal issue.
If i break anything on purpose or accident while im renting im not going to argue about paying for it bcz thats not the right thing to do.
Also i don't know how happy i would be if i as a landlord had my property damaged n it be glued back together for obvious reasons
If youre being bothered like that then move. Its a super nice apartment but like you said, you need more space.
They cant make you turn your porch light off they dont pay the bill. Shouldn't your ring camera catch who is leaving trash on your porch.
You should look into habitat for humanity or other home ownership options. It wouldnt hurt
Okay I’m a Landlord in upstate NY if you intentionally left the door open so ot got ruined it’s on you . If it can be fixed it would be ok but if it can’t you need to replace it that’s how our court is. I had a tenant whose kids continued to leave the screen door open it got caught by the wind and was pulled back so it bent. They were court ordered to replace it. Check your contract is what I say. Like holes or things on walls my contract states no holes or you pay to fix also the stuff on the walls you would be responsible to have repainted. Just read your contract.
You must have a huge bank account and do the bare minimum to address your units.
Hopefully this will change one day.
Hopefully home prices will be forced down so people can actually own their own homes instead of rent.
As a former landlord here in PA it would be your responsibility to replace it since you left it open even though I understand it was for your ring doorbell. Here in PA it was able to be fixed the courts would give you the option to fix it or buy a new one. Good luck young lady..
Yes & the courts will always allow for the landlord to terminate your lease.Not sure when "oh well take me to court" became a trend but I wish people knew there are consequences that will make future housing or mortgages harder to get.It's a screen door,she needs to humble herself & fix it instead of trying to make it a moment.It's hard to come out of homelessness, going back is much easier.js
@@phoney4387 Well said, but people don't want to hear the truth. All these people talking about moving. Are they going to give her the money to move? Why move? Like you said, there will always be something when renting from others. Wheres the accountability? Mmhhmmmmmm.
Exactly, as long as you rent from someone you will always have a situation things happen and you want things done a certain way and they want things maintain a certain way hence a standoff until you buy your own home you will have these type of problems as a renter Don't let people tell you just move it's not that easy especially not in this era that we're living in remember sweetheart you just came out of homelessness and you have become such an inspiration remain humble.
And they’re probably not accommodating to her because she has this high and mighty attitude like it’s your job. Landlords don’t have to go above and beyond. When someone breaks in my apartment, we got a fix it unless it was an accident but leaving the screen door open is not an accident. She definitely needs to humble herself because she’s a renter not an owner.
Hopefully something will happen that landlord's will no longer be landlord's anymore.
Hopefully renting will be a thing of the past.
I'M SO PROUD OF YOU! AN AMAZING MOTHER.......AND MAKING TIME TO TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF BY GOING TO THE GYM!!!!
I like yellow lighting because it's more cozy & inviting. 🤷🏼♀️ I'm a nurse & hate white lights because it's too harsh & sterile like the hospital. 😂 To each their own though girl. Love that you're starting to take care of yourself more! In order to better care for our babies, we gotta be around & healthy enough ourselves to be there for them. 🩷🖤💜 Keep killing it girl!
You are responsible for the screen door because it's because of you that it's broke. By leaving it open the wind destroyed it, had the door been closed the wind would not have destroyed the door. Right is right and wrong is wrong
Exactly, it's really just that simple. Things dont go our way just bcz we think it should or feel it should. Gotta put our adult pants on and deal with it
I said the Exact same thing and that's the gods honest truth
If I were a landlord I would be happy to pay for actual real wear and tear
You're correct, but she don't want to hear that. Things she named are so small to be complaining about. When you've really been through something. You don't sweat the small stuff. Btw, someone gifted her $100 to fix the door.
I like your videos because they are long, not no sample short. Let’s go almost at 100k
ITS TIME TO GO! , you have free range to choose where you go, so go , simple as that ,start planing and go❤️
Since your lease is up in January start looking around now for other places to live. Check out the rental amounts if you like your area then check out other places in that area. If you start now, you will be ready by January, or, pay out December and January and just move into a more spacious home. You don't have to put up with those shenanigans period! I would move as soon as possible and find a place big enough for your needs so you and your baby can feel safe and be happy. ❤
If they take you to court, you’re not gonna win. I got a remember the other landlords and if they told you not to keep the door open because it gonna find you liable to buy a new one and then that’s gonna make your landlord not want to sign a new lease.
Sweetheart I understand your frustration but if you can renew your lease and plan to move next year . It is too close to January to be looking for a new apartment especially if you don’t know any other options at this time . The baby just started school and you would want to keep him in the same school district at least for right now . Keep your head up God has got you 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼.
Nah it's not to close to Jan for her to start looking most ppl don't even start looking till the month before
I agree. When renting, there's going to always be something.
If a screen door is left open, it's going to be damaged. On windy days, the door will fling back and forth and it defeats the purpose of the door. Unfortunately, the damage to the door may be on you since it was left open.
When tiona got happy and started singing when she put the right lightbulbs in felt that as a single mom as well happy you found the right ones 🤞🏾🤞🏾
Hey boo 👋🏾💕
HUN IF YOUR BEING THREIGHTENED IT'S DEFINITELY TIME TO START SEARCHING FOR A NEW SAFE PLACE FOR YOU AND ELI TAKE CARE
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@@Poeticfloetic WHEN YOU TYPING FAST THANK THOUGH
No dilemma....Move...no one should have to put up with being treated the way that you are..especially when you are a good tenant ❤
Hello Tiona
I would stay there and stick it out. No matter where you go there is always something unless you get a home in the country off to yourself. That's what comes with it. All will be well.
I agree. People be acting like it's easy to pick up and move.
@@VerleanHurd Right. I've been there... I'm 38 yrs.old 3 kids 1 grown 2 teens. I've lived in apartments before. I currently live in the country deep in the woods no neighbors but guess what....the oil field workers has come in taking over, tearing up the roads &crowding up the roads with so much traffic... it was so peaceful at 1st.
One of the best mother/ PERSON on RUclips… we love u hey eli
2:31 I be putting them beads in the washer like I’m seasoning chicken too 😂
Stay strong the storm won't last forever 💪🙏
It's so relaxing watching Tiona clean, but then I realize I need to get up and clean too 🙄🤣 I Love the Autumn Vibe in the living room with the orange pillows and blanket 🧡🧡🧡
I just admire you. You're so strong and I really love how you just take such great care of your son. I've been watching for a while since TikTok and i want you to know, im proud of you!!! You're truly highly favored and God has so much more instore for you!!! Im a single parent of 3 and its hard but we find the strength to keep going!!!!!Sending love from Maryland ❤❤❤❤❤
Hey Ti! I am sending prayers and praying for you, Eli, and your home to cast any and every thing binding praying for protection peace and prosperity in your home! Take it to the Lord he will guide you and take you on the path you need to go! I have had a landlord like that and God put it on me to move and I am working hard now trying to get a second job so that I can buy a bigger house now that my grandma and mother live with me so everyone can have their own room and bathroom along with me an office so that I can have more room.and space in my room you will get your dream home and you will have great abundance in whatever you are blessed with you will be blessed with the resources you need and want to make all things happen and break every chain and break whomever is attacking you get behind thee devil and flee for I am an anointed child of God filled with his holiness no weapons formed against you shall prosper
Amen 🙏🏿 I pray that the Almighty direct you right through a path of ease and grace to your new home with enough space to accommodate your expanded family in JESUS NAME !
I would definitely move! I would start looking now. The 1st of the year, people tend to increase their rent.
All iam going to say is always keep God first on your life 🙏 and make sure your baby daddy got his safe together 100 percent job and everything first don't let him move in and you end up taking care of him ,he sees all well your doing be careful
There is something very therapeutic, about watching you clean. I don't know why, but I really enjoy it!
Great Vlog!! I love the music during your cleaning segment, who is the artist!?
See that’s what I don’t understand about some of you RUclipsrs….It was our business when you use to tell us how much of a Deadbeat he was, but when we ask you questions about y’all relationship now, it’s a problem??🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
Why does it matter what our relationship is ? Y’all gonna hate regardless cuz that’s what y’all do. It’s giving pressed !
People need to leave people relationship alone end of the day they have a kid together and is good for the child to see both parents are getting along so please leave her alone and mind your business.
@@tionajaielijahking3059 it doesn’t matter to me. But you were telling your viewers stuff about y’all relationship in the past though. That’s all I’m saying. I’m just responding to the comment you said in your video.
@@jerzl5946why that your business anyway she is a grown woman so leave her alone
Stop being entitled to somebody else life just cause they post it don't mean you have the right to know everything it annoying y'all think RUclipsrs gotta tell y'all anything
Hey tiona jai i first want to said I like your video you are a great mother I hope you find another place to stay
I will stick it out to your lease is up but in the meanwhile be looking for somewhere else to move to... So when your lease is up and you get a new place you can just leave
You can wash and reuse the mop, please save them
You're doing an excellent job as a mommy. Teaching that baby how to clean up is just the best.Cudos to your mom Tianna for teaching you to take care of yourself. Read Psalm 91 daily for protection Pray and ask the Lord what you should about staying or moving..
I think I'd try to find another place. My apt. Is subsidized and my landlord comes in once a year and looks around for stuff needing fixed. And I see her once a year for recertification. That's it. And I call if something needs fixed they come pretty quick....
Hun... I'd start looking for another place. I had a landlord like that.. Now I'm in a new house, a beautiful house and amazing landlords (older couple).
If I could afford to buy, I would... But in NZ buying a house is literally impossible.
Tiona you are rocking this single mom thing. Don’t let nosey people upset you. What you do and who you do it with is YOUR business. No one should be prying into your personal life.
I don’t understand why people feel they have a right to know your personal life. We all have boundaries on what we will share . Respect that people.
Be blessed and have a phenomenal day
@@peacefaith2939Bye Peace. I have faith you gain maturity.
MOVE! If your already having issues then move babe, and talk to god to place you where he wants you both! And I think the purple jacket brought your beauty out soo much more! Good choice! ❤ best wishes for you and your little love momma….
Its time to move, my porch light stays on and Im not cutting if off its a part of security for me. Something is telling you to go dont be afraid to follow it. Its time to move on to bigger and better. God is pushing you out of there for something better!!!!😊
Tiona a I can’t stress how good of a mother you are to Elijah. The blessings that you receive are well deserved. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I pray 🤲🏽 to god for you and your son safety and that god protect y’all both from all evill 🤲🏽💯
Id move I couldn't deal with the stress...plus no a/c or heat... consider moving boo
I would not want to deal with that either. Especially for your mental well being ! You have a kid to take care of. I would not stick it out if you don’t have too. ❤
Ive been at my place 18 years this december and everybody is movie they keep increasing the rent and dont want to upgrade...i have to pay 97.00 a month for consumers to come out and fix everything if it breaks because our maintence men dont know how to fix anything😢
I’ve been watching you for a little time now you are doing so fabulous. Keep going girl.
U need to call housing Authority because if you’re being threatened that’s a safety issue you can move before your lease is up 🙏🏽
I been at my residence about few years and I'm thinking about finding me another apartment to live as well. I'm to myself live alone my family comes over to visit me so I'm not completely alone. It's just I heard someone got killed over here. And it been another issue I told my landlord and all she can say it's some crazy people in this neighborhood 😳 the property management has cameras around..but I still don't feel that safe here. But I hope you and your son even myself Lord willing fine a pleasant safe home to live in. And be Happy. 🏠
You should try looking for a Town House, it has lots more space, It possibly your Landlord could be jealousy because you have to look at this way maybe they are looking at your blogs and maybe they are watching how you live just you and your son and they think you have money and don't see you struggling. I'm going thur the same thing as we speak. The tenant below me is hearing noise I'm supposedly banging on walls and having wild parties. The neighbors on my right or left are not hearing any noice only her below me. So, people will say anything when they are jealous😒
I agree if the door is damaged you pay for it. It should be able to be closed. You need to do something else with the ring
Yes video before moving in and after leaving and verify date and time.
I know how you feel. I am going through the same thing where I live. They do not want to fix anything, and when they do, it takes months to get it done. I am looking for somewhere else to go. I pray that everything works out for you.
I’ve been there where you at it seems like the devil is attacking you from all sides through your son through your neighbors your landlord that just means you’re almost at your break through keep trusting god pray give it to him and leave it with him he’s gonna work it all out for your good stay blessed you’re awesome 😊
Tiona I noticed when you were washing the dishes you allowed the water to run and you were not using try to turn it off to lower waste. Water is a very precious commodity.
I know some apartments water is included. However, depending on your lease especially in a house 🏡 it might not be included. It could get costly. Just a suggestion.
You are a good mother. Thanks fir the content. I enjoy watching your videos.
I understand. What you should do is save up for 6 months of rent before maki g the big move. Build your capital.
I am a housing advocate. I work with people who are homeless or were previously homeless. Unfortunately lamdlords feel they can do whatever they want to this population because they probably don't have the financial means to do anything about it. I really wish you had an advocate to help you with issues with your landlord. A lot of times when someone does have one they realize they have to abide by tenant laws. Make sure you read ALL your tenant laws in your state. Also reach out to legal aid if you have to.
I understand you wanting to leave but please please please make sure you can secure housing first. You have done soooo great since being housed.
Hello Tiona, always pray and see what God is saying 😊 i pray that God give you peace in the mist of it all❤❤
Wow! I’m sorry you are going through that as a tenant. If you having issues I would move. Safety has to be your number one priority.
Sweetie Move, ur home is the solice from the world for you and Eli, start looking and packing now. Also dont give them more ammo (videos) get ur ducks lined up and move quietly. Im praying for you i was a young mom (16) so i understand and she is 33 now. Get ur peace baby. God bless ❤❤❤ you're doing 👍🏾
Claim the damage on your renters insurance. Things are different no matter where you live. The important thing is you have shelter for you and your son. Let all the other stuff roll off your back. Your doing a great job
I’m just nosey about your hauls lol I love to see all that you find and get!! Who cares who you date, it doesn’t affect anyone but you and Eli. That’s all that matters.
Queen you do not have to explain anything to anyone about your relationship with your ex😮 keep it real
I hope you get your car soon. You’ll feel better too.
I don’t blame you with wanting to move. Idk about you I know where I am finding apartments right now in CT is soooooo hard. And it is so hard to find a landlord that doesn’t suck. Whether you go private or through a company. I def say if you can find something that better accommodates you guys both go for it and start looking now because the places come and go sooo quick.
If for any reason that you didn't close and lock that screen door and the wind is blowing it back and forth than they can tell you that you have to pay for it. That your responsibility for repair if it isn't wear and repair and you do have to turn off the light fixtures on your property as well.
Love your videos, especially when they are longer like this. Your doing a good job. Hang in there and God will open the doors!
I have and I am experiencing the same thing. Looking for a new house and have been. Housing market sucks right now and the rent is ridiculous.
Hey! Life is definitely Lifeing but I will say. When it comes to wear and tear on these things in the home/apartment. I feel like if we didn’t damage it then we shouldn’t have to pay because some of these landlords don’t like to spend money on upgrading things in their rental properties. My stove fell apart after a couple months of living here and I thank god my landlord is good. He bought a brand new stove from Lowe’s and got it delivered and installed for us. Yes it’s not easy when you doing things alone but I haven’t watched your videos in mad long. But I so enjoy your vlogs and your transparency. It’s so relatable because us women can relate. And omg I know handsome boy is 5 now! Happy belated birthday to Eli 😎💙💙💙🎉🎉🥳🥳🥳🥳 your doing a good job love! 🫶🏽🙏🏽
Tiona please make sure if you are moving that you have a better place to go to. Start looking now.
Now regarding the screen door, what was the condition prior to you living there? If you can not put it back to the same condition, you would need to discuss what would resolve it with the landlord.
I agree if it was old why would you need to buy a brand new screen door. See if you can find a used one to replace in good shape of course.
**URGENT**very important - you should have renters insurance to cover all your content. In case of fire or theft. Im hoping that you already have that. Shop around for a reputable insurance company. Generally it should not exceed $10/15 per month depending on the amount you request say about $20,000 worth of coverage. 😊
If you want to move i would definitely start looking now because the market is bad everywhere for apartments and home for rent!
I wouldn't move yet! No place is perfect! Don't get mad at me but if the is blowing hard, the door needs to be closed. Or it will tear off the door. It's the truth!
Sometimes the truth hurts. Stay there and build up yourself . I would tell my daughter the same thing if it was her in the situation.
Sometimes you have to kiss behind behind you can kick it!!! Lol In my life I put up with certain situations and then when the time became right I made my move. Even on the job I tell coworkers bear certain situations and get your pension down the road. No job is perfect.
I meant to say wind blowing
Before you can kick it! Typos today! Lol
Yes landlord are a pain,me & my husband got robbed at our first place glad we weren’t there especially my kids ,then the AC kept leaking and the bathroom, furniture got damaged and they did nothing. We’ve been with family we’ll be moving soon and I’m getting a ring camera since I’ll be alone at night while my husband works. So I completely understand . Landlords just care about money
Hi, Tiona, I would try Shein. I think that a you tuber that I watch said she gets her gym stuff from there and it is reasonably priced. Congrats on you going to the gym good for you! The situation with the landlord that is horrible, you may want to consider moving, you and Eli have to stay safe whatever you decide I know will be the right decision, thank you for sharing with us I love this channel. BE BLESSED
Since it’s just you and Eli in the apartment, why do you not speak to your neighbors? If your neighbors are not good people you should move.
Was your screen door damaged because it was open? If the answer is, yes. you are responsible for the damage. The best time you rent check every room, especially, doors and windows. Take care.
I would move! With all that has happened to you there, it’s NOT SAFE!! I also feel like you have every right to have a ring camera for some added safety. I would move BEFORE they tell me they are not going to renew my lease. So start looking for a new place! ❤❤
Hey T & Elijah! T our hearts 💔 to hear that you are going through this. We are here for you and Elijah! Whatever your decision is to move, we respect your decision and we got you on this.
We Love ♥️♥️ you!
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Landlords sound problematic, invest in purchasing a townhome or starter home ( for extra space).
Praying 🙏 I go thru the same thing myself & people bothers me to everyday! Tht why I have to continue to listen to my spiritual songs & praying & keep going !! Cause my babies look up to me & I don’t wanna lose control cause it wnt be pretty at all !!
Tiona,A friend of mine said that HUD is finding people houses Rent to own
❤ your apartment and how clean u keeps it! Love it you are a great mother!!!👍🏼👍🏼
My daughter has that same bed in your room but it didn't come with the light bulbs, Do you know what kind it takes?
Old navy sales on their dry weave tech athletic wear is the wayto go. E en their bras with the zippers or rows of hooks are supportive
I'm going to pray the Lord gives you discernment about what to do. You're a great tenant and shouldn't be treated less than. I would definitely consider moving if you aren't comfortable and you have to worry about your son's safety. But again weigh the pros and cons, and pray the Lord reveals everything and he will open a place for you and Eli if that's his will.
I hate to say that screen door is not normal wear and tear. They may ask you to pay but hope for the best
I took mines to hardware store they fixed for little of nothing it cheaper put right back in I wasn’t give no damn $50 at that time insurance not gonna cover it two she would have meet deductible first I hate she going threw that her apartment looks beautiful all low income gonna have some kind problems she could up in worse place they don’t want show till day you move in
You are so rite Tee landlord can be a trip and your peace mean it all if you had enough then go..God got you all the way..
30:02 love how you showing him hood to wash dishes❤❤❤
It’s my be your time up from in that place God Have Something Bigger and Better for you and your Son and When Talking don’t getting So frustrated Kids put up on things very quickly pray this is the season in change very hard for I pray for Any young Mother do thing Specially Single Mom we All Love Our Son and Daughter 😇 you got this!!!!!
It aint no better at my place only difference its management getting into it with the tenants and maintence acting inoppriate with the tenants
No matter where you move. Landlord have rules. So unless you can purchase your own place. You think hard about it before moving. Even all the parties and company you have could be seen as negative to a Landlord. The light staying on can be fix with a day to dawn light blub. The Landlord is looking at the electrical bill without going up on rent. Yes its hard to rent . Trying working it out until you can save to own.
Ur such an amazing lady...watching U clean makes me want to get up and do the same....KEEP DOING great things ...Hi Eli.....GOD BLESS you all. Luv ❤️ and many Blessings..😊😊
Hi TionaJai i subsribed your channel this year my advice do not throw away mop head just put them in the machine that save you money instead of keep replacing them. Love your channel ,
Always nice to look around . at the end it’s worth moving in the future. wish peace home your way 💗 god bless
You are doing a wonderful job it sounds like you pay your rent on time and keep the property clean, if i was you o would start praying and asking God to reveal to you weather he wants you to stay there or ask the holy sprit to lead you to the place he needs you to be at.
Love your vlogs! You are right! I wait until Walmarts active wear is on clearance before I buy it. I got a pair of leggings for $11 on the clearance rack last month!
Hey Girle, My house was looking similar being a mom is hard and overwhelming at times. I just had to get my house back together it took me about a good week, but I got it done. Wow why they in your business about your baby daddy 😌. They have good deals in workout stuff at ross. Hope you can get that door fixed soon. Thanks for the cleaning motivation 💕💕🤗
Tiona I get it my sons father and I co-parent the same way. The only thing at least yout BD helps with dishes and such mine dont lol. Its possible for someone to be just friends with their BD or BM because thats the way my son's father and I are. I like it like that way its easy and drama free
Nobody is saying they're not just friends ppl are just asking a question
Nobody is even saying they're friends, they're just asking a question
@@scorpiocara6798 angry much lol grab a Snickers.
@@Crystal4Christ4Evadramatic much? You know damn well that wasn’t an angry comment
@@Trache2336 😁😁😁😁😁
@@Trache2336 exactly, that's why I just rolled my eyes
It's ok....some people need to be fixed
From my experience I've lived in apartment house type rental situations and it has never been good. I prefer an apartment in a building or house with just my family alone. Tiona I don't know your situation but I have dealt with some nightmare landlords before.
Hey TianaJai and Elijah safety is more Important and trust me I understand when landlords are not certain with signal parents. Remember God always got you ❤!!
Get rentals insurance for your protection