I cried watching this because I watched someone close to me go from being the sweetest person on earth to being violent. It is not fair how someone pushes you that far and claims to love you............but oksalayo you won girl!❤
I nearly became that person the day I held a knife 🔪in my hand I was like no for dz thing, that's wen I saw every wrong angle of him and I dropped it and was like no maan u not worth it. The peace that fell on me that day
This comment hits home. I have been in a toxic relationship for the past 8 months and I ended up being the most violent person because he would put his hands on me every chance he got. I ended up wanting to hurt him as much as he was hurting me and it changed me completely. I was toxic to myself and I hate myself for letting him do that to me. I am still struggling, I wake up with so much anxiety and I feel myself losing the most purest parts of myself. I broke up with him 2 weeks ago and I vow never to go back like I have been doing before.
@@hlekanimathebula6991 i go through the same thing😭💔i ended being called "crazy" by him and the sad thing i feel like its very difficult to get over him,every chance i get im on my phone looking for his missed calls or something and guess what NOTHING
Baby!!! I know you went through the most in that marriage but girl, get your coin telling us these stories. I’m sure someone is learning from your experiences as well. Also, I’m glad you’re in a better space now.Much ❤️
The last part about still expecting the worst from people who love you right after exiting a toxic situation is so true. It's actually good seeing how you are now able to reflect and want better for yourself. Here's to growth.🥂
Yazi all along ndicimba wawugintswa ngumXhosa! It is so sad shame how we put up with men that break our spirits continuously but kudos to you for being able to pack up and leave! I wish your stories could go viral so many more young women can learn from you. ❤️... Power you to you! Healing and contentment to you and many other women that have managed to leave 🙏
"WE ❤ IT HERE!" " Best part about the present moment is that you have grown from those experiences and that you know what you will never allow yourself to be a part of ever again!" "This relationship broke you to the very bottom, and you have taken the broken pieces and put them together with the gold and become a wholesome woman from it!"❤❤❤💖
Omg my heart 💔 So sorry for all that you went through in your marriage. You are absolutely a beautiful girl and you deserve so much better than you’d been served. I hope you heal. Love and light to you 💕
I just discovered you a week back && I made sure to watch all of your videos because most of them are relatable && you honestly guide me so well , i love && appreciate you sis nakho😭❤
I'm watching this video with so much anger yho. I'm so mad that I can relate to this yho. I let someone I thought loved me have that much power yhuuu, I'm fuming. Thank you Sis, thank you for your videos 🥺❤️
No man cheats like a man who does not drink and smoke. I am not saying that men who drink and smoke do not cheat - They do! Kodwa the one who does not drink and smoke takes the crown 👑 There won't be peace in the relationship, they love women, abasheli abasheli. Professional liars too. speaking from experience. Ngiphumulile shem YOH!😢 😢😢
Hay sana the way u tell a story. Whuuuu shem. And you are so beautiful and strong. I’ve never laughed so much on RUclips. You are a vibe. And also teaching us a lesson. Thank you❤️❤️❤️❤️
I'm loving your story time❤️❤️.. Next you should balisela us about how you got to sustain that injury on your chest, I suspect it will be an interesting story
I love how aware you of how the marriage changed you and honestly the next to healing is acceptance. You're doing so well for yourself and I hope you eventually find the love you desire. ❤
Yoh sjambok 🤣🤣🤣Sisi kunzima outside, yini lobhuti wasmoshela uNakho wethu..I LOVE YOUR STORIES ,i can see you healead. This relationship was very Toxic now i'm glad you left.
Ey kodwa God’s grace is indeed sufficient. When we go through hard times it really is to mould you for okuzayo noku funda nje iibehaviours zabantu and know how to act in certain situations. I hope you are happy as i am to have been given the opportunity to go through this. Yi eye opener mfazi. I love your content. 🤍
Haike haike🤭 I came across this channel just now. Men are such strange creatures though, samething of this nature happened with me and my ex husband. Imini yabanye, ndambetha ndamvuthulula. Then I realised that he was just not for me...it's a long story wethu. New subie🥰🥰🥰
Oh uyangichaza shem angfuni kungasho!!!! I love you.. Your personality and everything about you nje❤️❤️❤️.. It's the sjambok story for me😂😂😂😂😂Hhay sana you did him dirty. He deserved it though 🤣🤣
First saw you on Tiktok... Who knew??? 😳😳😳 you have gone through so much.... Watched three videos from this afternoon... You have a lovely personality 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
A Diary of a Black Mad Woman, lol I got satisfied also when it was at a point where you beat him but once again, I'm so proud that you got out of that marriage because of the way you tell chile, it was not healthy.
I'm good sis thanks for asking, I'm healed and in a new relationship where I am myself now. But it all started with me loving myself again and it worked♥️♥️
I honestly think you Must continue with these storytimes coz wow look at how the channel is growing 😭😭😭😭❤️❤️😍😍😍😍
Right🥺🥺🥺. Thank you bay🐝
True, I subscribed because of them 😅
And stayed for the makeup
I second that❤️❤️❤️❤️🙌
Soooo true🙌👌🎉🍾🥂
I think most/ some of us relate here and there to the stories
I cried watching this because I watched someone close to me go from being the sweetest person on earth to being violent. It is not fair how someone pushes you that far and claims to love you............but oksalayo you won girl!❤
Ooh I’m sorry love.🥺♥️
I nearly became that person the day I held a knife 🔪in my hand I was like no for dz thing, that's wen I saw every wrong angle of him and I dropped it and was like no maan u not worth it. The peace that fell on me that day
This comment hits home. I have been in a toxic relationship for the past 8 months and I ended up being the most violent person because he would put his hands on me every chance he got. I ended up wanting to hurt him as much as he was hurting me and it changed me completely. I was toxic to myself and I hate myself for letting him do that to me. I am still struggling, I wake up with so much anxiety and I feel myself losing the most purest parts of myself. I broke up with him 2 weeks ago and I vow never to go back like I have been doing before.
@@hlekanimathebula6991 please dont go back no matter how much you miss him. Find a destruction, read a book, take a walk, never go back baby
@@hlekanimathebula6991 i go through the same thing😭💔i ended being called "crazy" by him and the sad thing i feel like its very difficult to get over him,every chance i get im on my phone looking for his missed calls or something and guess what NOTHING
Baby!!! I know you went through the most in that marriage but girl, get your coin telling us these stories. I’m sure someone is learning from your experiences as well. Also, I’m glad you’re in a better space now.Much ❤️
The last part about still expecting the worst from people who love you right after exiting a toxic situation is so true. It's actually good seeing how you are now able to reflect and want better for yourself. Here's to growth.🥂
The second story with the sjambok 😂😂😂😂 Lalela take your crown queen 👑
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yazi all along ndicimba wawugintswa ngumXhosa! It is so sad shame how we put up with men that break our spirits continuously but kudos to you for being able to pack up and leave! I wish your stories could go viral so many more young women can learn from you. ❤️... Power you to you! Healing and contentment to you and many other women that have managed to leave 🙏
"WE ❤ IT HERE!" "
Best part about the present moment is that you have grown from those experiences and that you know what you will never allow yourself to be a part of ever again!"
"This relationship broke you to the very bottom, and you have taken the broken pieces and put them together with the gold and become a wholesome woman from it!"❤❤❤💖
Love this 💜
The shampok story and the glass grabbing, iyooh. Lol 😆🤣😂😹 I am laughing soo loud!
Andise addicted to this channel 💖
As u should hun🙏🏾♥️
Girl same 😂❤️
I soooo love the sjambok part 🤣💦🤣💦🤣💦🤣💦🤣. I have two sjamboks in my car, for taxi drivers though 🤣💦🤣💦🤣💦.
I'm so happy you chose yourself. I know how hard it is to do that. ❤️❤️
Omg my heart 💔
So sorry for all that you went through in your marriage. You are absolutely a beautiful girl and you deserve so much better than you’d been served. I hope you heal.
Love and light to you 💕
Yoh that man put you through so much. I’m glad you finally walked away❤️.
I just discovered you a week back && I made sure to watch all of your videos because most of them are relatable && you honestly guide me so well , i love && appreciate you sis nakho😭❤
I'm watching this video with so much anger yho. I'm so mad that I can relate to this yho. I let someone I thought loved me have that much power yhuuu, I'm fuming. Thank you Sis, thank you for your videos 🥺❤️
We need therapy ...
No man cheats like a man who does not drink and smoke. I am not saying that men who drink and smoke do not cheat - They do! Kodwa the one who does not drink and smoke takes the crown 👑 There won't be peace in the relationship, they love women, abasheli abasheli. Professional liars too. speaking from experience. Ngiphumulile shem YOH!😢 😢😢
True
That's true professional liers
Hay sana the way u tell a story. Whuuuu shem. And you are so beautiful and strong. I’ve never laughed so much on RUclips. You are a vibe. And also teaching us a lesson. Thank you❤️❤️❤️❤️
Our baby definitely listened when I said some English or subtitles for her aboard subbies 😍😍😍
🙏🏾♥️
woow gal as young as you are, you've been through a lot but i'm glad you're in a good space now❤
And nyan amadoda ayazitshintsha izimilo zethu but am glad wethu you finally leave him cz eso step sinzima mtase....
I'm so happy to be part of this family... 💖Ndiyakuthanda Nakho. You're officially my ultimate fav💟
I love you hun♥️🙏🏾
Discovered this channel yesterday and I love it here 🥺❤️
We love you 🥰😍🥂
I discovered it today😍😍😍
Nah I'm really hooked to your channel🥺😭❤️
It's the sjambok story for me😂😂🔥🔥
😂😂😂 thank you for coming through bay🐝
One thing about this channel,
It will be on 10k followers by the end of the year 😊🤌🏽... I love it here 🥺❤️
🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯 manifesting this beautiful energy bay🐝
I'm binge watching your videos today, I'm loving it 👌
Your grandmother is a whole mood...
I'm loving your story time❤️❤️.. Next you should balisela us about how you got to sustain that injury on your chest, I suspect it will be an interesting story
😂😂
I always wonder how these toxic abusive husbands/boyfriends feel when they watch their exes storytimes😏
They dont feel anything cz they are heartless monsters
They are forever in denial. They will just say you are lying.
39:22 sounds like a movie!!! Jonga sana, we need a movie of your married life! Whaaaatttt! Hahahahaha so proud of you right now 😂.
Yhoo...amadoda sana...you've been through a lot shem. It's good you left and you are doing you boo💞👊🏽👊🏽🙏🏾💫
Road to 50k followers because hhaibo we love it here❤️
Wish you the best of luck for your channel 🙏🏽🤗 you killing it! Definitely gonna watch all ur videos 🤞🏼🤞🏼
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣yhooo isjamboek haa girl, you are my rolemodel👍🏽👍🏽
😂😂😂
Love your story times !!😭❤️🤞🏾
Last 2 stories cracked me up Yhoo 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Im glued to your channel yhooo i keep repeating your videos ❤️❤️🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂
I love how aware you of how the marriage changed you and honestly the next to healing is acceptance. You're doing so well for yourself and I hope you eventually find the love you desire. ❤
The pap story reminded me on Madea ,lol child Madea taught you very well! I'm glad you left though!
Nakho u are so young to have gonne through this shi#t
and i really enjoy your storytimes 🥰
Yoh sjambok 🤣🤣🤣Sisi kunzima outside, yini lobhuti wasmoshela uNakho wethu..I LOVE YOUR STORIES ,i can see you healead.
This relationship was very Toxic now i'm glad you left.
Yay the sjambok part killed me😅😅
😂😂
♥️♥️♥️I love you bbe🥰🥰🥰....but the second story of the sjambok...so hilarious 😂😂😂😂😂
2 videos in one week? Chile it's the consistency for me😩🙌👏👌🎉🙌 road to 4K subbies💃💃💃💃💃🍾🥂
🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🥂🥂🥂🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️❤️❤️
Ey kodwa God’s grace is indeed sufficient. When we go through hard times it really is to mould you for okuzayo noku funda nje iibehaviours zabantu and know how to act in certain situations.
I hope you are happy as i am to have been given the opportunity to go through this. Yi eye opener mfazi.
I love your content. 🤍
Bra🥺🥺🥺🤞🏾🤞🏾♥️🙏🏾
The sjambok part 😂😂😂
😂😂😂 outside tap. I am dying
Nakho i love you ... that man put you through alot..... 2nd story is funy tho
Big up for choosing yourself ,i also chose myself when i had my twins for now i can say its going well for me
Oh! Yhini!! wade wamtywatyusha🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The second story had me on the floor 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣
😂😂😂it's the sjambok for me 😂😂
Not a sjambok chile 😂😂😂😂
Love the final look 😍
😂😂
🙏🏾♥️
Amadoda ayasitshintsha shame ndiyayaz..am enjoying your stories 🥰😍
♥️🙏🏾
Haike haike🤭
I came across this channel just now. Men are such strange creatures though, samething of this nature happened with me and my ex husband. Imini yabanye, ndambetha ndamvuthulula. Then I realised that he was just not for me...it's a long story wethu. New subie🥰🥰🥰
Oh uyangichaza shem angfuni kungasho!!!! I love you.. Your personality and everything about you nje❤️❤️❤️.. It's the sjambok story for me😂😂😂😂😂Hhay sana you did him dirty. He deserved it though 🤣🤣
That shadow though! When you added the sort of like black shade👌👌
yho our husband was next level toxic😭😭😭😭😭😭im so glad you had the courage to finally leave and never look back
Your numbers are doing the things girl....and your soon adorable 😍
First saw you on Tiktok... Who knew??? 😳😳😳 you have gone through so much.... Watched three videos from this afternoon... You have a lovely personality 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
😂😂 The second story, Thixo... Am here for it
😂😂🙏🏾♥️
Loved this story time, definitely subscrubing. I love these stories because it's definitely going to teach someone out there to choose themselves
A Diary of a Black Mad Woman, lol I got satisfied also when it was at a point where you beat him but once again, I'm so proud that you got out of that marriage because of the way you tell chile, it was not healthy.
Girl!! I saw my self in helen 🤞🏾😫🥺
🤣🤣the sjambok story. I’m sorry but that’s funny
Hai your ex husband was really something else yoh.I'm glad you are out of that situation.
Love you 😍 you are such a strong person
I couldn't share my story better than you did but I'm glad I left
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. Girl you are addictive
😂😂😂I like that😂
I’m also slow to processing things😂😂🤣and I hate myself for that
Siyadika😫
38:51 yooooh! Sana!!! Unesibindi! Good on ya 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
The sjambok part😂😂😂😂😂
Yho ha.a Nakho🤣💗
Indoda must behave 😂
I always enjoy your stories yhooo😍😍😍😍😍😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘
Love you bbe 😍😍learning Xhosa how can I oder your products?
Wait a minute,Ma'am?? Where are ads?? Better yet,a rosa nera one!! A young promo or something abeg!!
Otherwise love it here🤗🤗🤗❤❤❤❤
Waiting for next story time as I watch.
Anifuni ndiphumle shame
Oh my I just subscribed I have been following this story time and I got hooked hayi uyangcaza sisi
🙏🏾♥️thank you bay🐝
Keep up the story time I’m loving it 💯👌🏾🔥🔥
You have a nice voice
Oh Nakho. That level of toxic, I understand it, been there, done that, I am not ever giving another person a chance to take me there again.
Hi baby sorry for u to see that low level of lifestyle but thanks God u a r alife keep well Ntombi Love u a lot😍🥰
I just had to see this.😥😓i used to be the sweetest but now im insecure and toxic hey
I love ur story times and your personality 💖💖💖
This was so nice to watch ❤️❤️❤️
The growth sweety😍
Amazing hey . Thank you bay🐝🐝🐝
i can relate, mine i dated the same kinda person ngamluma in public 😃😀
Lol I love it when you say 'and and and'😋😅 lol and how you roll your eyes like a clown🔥🤣 hahahah I love your storytimes
It's the consistency for me😍😍😍 Hay imvubu🤣🤣🤣🤣You Were Really Tired
Very tired😂😂😂.
No body:
Nakho: "that man lied for a living" 😅♥️
Hahahha your grandma! 🤣 love her! 💕
Ndikhona ndilapha mtase andisekho obsessed with your story times jonga ndimamela ndizinze 🤣🤣🤣🤭🤭hayinnn mayi khule le channel mahn♥️🕯
Into endikuthanda yona!😍😍😍😍😍
He lies for the living ain't on the floor laughing🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
To think the story you telling is exactly mine, the previous relationship I was in... 😔😔
I hope you okay
I'm good sis thanks for asking, I'm healed and in a new relationship where I am myself now. But it all started with me loving myself again and it worked♥️♥️
Just after I heard Mamzangwa I subscribed ❤️
Mancuthu😊🙏🏾♥️
Jonga nam 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 Makhwalo ❤️❤️
Sesiku 4k hunnay 🥳🥳♥️
Bay🐝!! 🍾🍾🍾🥂🥂🥂
You the best beyps 🥰🥰
No thats the right attitude not reacting immediately
hayi mani ntombi wambhuqa ahaaa🤣🤣
Love love it here 🥰🥰
We love you😍♥️
Girl I had to subscribe when u said you took his glasses off and threw them away🤣🤣🤣😭
Nakho the PI🤣🤣🤣🤣
I love you stories ❤♥💛
😂😂🤞🏾♥️🙏🏾