You’re soo amazing for bringing this to light. My mum is a narcissist and it’s painful that anyone has to go through this type of abuse. I hope allah makes things easier for anyone experiencing that.
I am sorry. My friend is suicidal and has been divorced 4x before age 30 due to HOW MUCH her mother insists on getting involved in her relationships upto starting rumors. Somalis don't believe parents can be toxic but they can be.
@@IsmaAragto that hurts to hear, I guess you’ve tried to help her. Some Somalis parents don’t know that their children are allowed to be separate and have boundaries. It’s always about them.
@@ba1354 saax. Wallahi, I get it. When you said your mum is a narcissist, she popped to my head. I mean the word toxic doesn't do justice to explain some of the atrocious behaviors my friend's mother exhibits. I am encouraged that Somalis are starting to have a conversation about mental illnesses and some of the toxic traits of people who have it and what they put through others. May Allah guide your mother, ease your pain hon, and make your happier for the rest of your life. It can be EXHAUSTING dealing with people with personality disorders. Edit: Somalis don't believe parents can error which is just wrong. The mentality of parents being ALWAYS correct under any circumstance is horrible and just wrong. Parents are human beings too and when they are toxic, it is the children that get scarred for life.
I would love to talk to your friend and give her support. It’s soo hard because you want to please them but at the same time they cause you soo much pain. Definitely! Im soo happy she’s talking about it. The saddest part is that they can’t be cured because it’s a personality disorder. They’ll never change you just have to remove yourself from the situation and have boundaries. You’re a good friend, god bless you babe. You’re soo sweet to empathise with her. Narcissist create other narcissists. You’re edit is soo relatable! Amen
@@ba1354 Saax. You are amazing too and have great awareness. Her mother is so overbearing it is hard to get away but I am sure talking to people who deal with similar things help tremendously. Yes, we want to be filial child to our parents but sometimes it is hard. You are right that personality disorders can be cured. I heard therapy is HORRIBLE for narcissists because they become aware of how others view them and they learn to hide it and become masters of disguise. Doctor Phil does segments now going in details and she follows what program which helps her come to terms with reality.
Omg everything aad sheegtay is about the situation I have been through and am going trough just in a different way with different person with almost same character
Girl count your blessings subhan allah you escaped something that could have gone very wrong escaping narcissist is really not easy alot of people are still suffering 20 years plus
I have dealt with Narcissists before. Falling in love with a Narcissist is not something anyone would want to do. They are the worst bunch of people to ever associate with. If you spot a Narcissist, call them out and run for your life. Nothing is more important than your own mental health.
Afnan MashaAllah video yaashada gabdo badan wey ku cibra qadaanayaan oo wax badan ka faaidayan thank you for sharing your story and warning signs of a narcissist. Thank you for educating beautiful Somali girls.❤️❤️
We need a lot of Somali people that can talk narcissistic behaviour most men and women are Narcissistic and we don’t know how to deal with them thank you sister Narcissistic are evil’s 👿 everything you said is true
Yehh she is back people who are saying afnan is joules of what. Allhamdullilah she has beautiful life and amazing beautiful daughter may Allah protect her
Ugu dambayn ninki iyo naagti ku qiyaamay way is guursadeeen, 2badii xaq daro ku heshiisa xaqaa isku dira baa hore loo yiri, nabsi wuuka so baxayaa goor uu kasoo baxaba abaayo iska sabar insha allaaah.😍
@@rahmohusseinahmed9723 wallo runtii niinkas waxuu sameeyay e gabadha yar u gaystay wax aan u ceeb qarinayo ama xata loo ceeb qarin karo maaha wax qof damiirleh sameeyana maha qoraalkiina wanba ka saray halkan wayo mansha allag afnan yar sheekadi way joojisay marka muhiim maha in aan canaanta illahay nolool qurux badan ha siiyo
Keep going Afnan what doesn’t kill you make you stronger, you brave, beautiful and strong young woman MashAllah. Keep spreading the awareness of narcissism and their evil traits
Amusnantisa waxay cadeyn utahay in afnan run shegayso100% wuxu sameyay wu ogyahay qaainka weyn afnan alhamdilah dheh in kas noloshada ilaah kasaray gabadhada yarna equruxda badan mashalah alaha ku dhafo
Darling haters will always keep you down don’t let that happen. You are an amazing young woman full of knowledge ❤️❤️❤️ you are by the way teaching somali women something they don’t know
You escaped the right time Abaayo otherwise you could become crazy. There are a lot of girls still under narcissim. They are trying not to lose the relationship because of their children but actually they are not there mentally.
Qof san u dhaqmayo walhi wan so arky dabecdahn ku arky waxksto ogahy wu inkiraya xadhidh la lah lakin hada wan iskaga hadhy thanks xabibti afanan waxbdn no faidaysay adigan illhay ha ku xafido dhib danbe illhay kuma tuso sister never give up🥰
Wlhi Aniga xita qofkaas Aniga is guursana Wan iska furay wlgi wayo waxkasto ogyhy inkiray been baden inkiraad badan waxkasta asiga Raba in lo hagaliyo rabaha
@@fatimazahramahmoud7647 ha wlhi asiga naag qabo dhahay Wan furay marka naagtisa bartay hor keenay inkiray cadeemo gbdha keentay kuyir Wan qaba bax dhahay hhh elx hada Wil u haya
Afnan, I respect you habo, as a young somali single mum, laakiin maad fahmin the real meaning of 'narcissism', . Habo you went through this experience and you have every right to voice your opinion. Laakiin you can not voice nacarsism based on a personal experience. Waligaa waydii a phycologist. You are hurt, you went through a lot, but let's not Confuse people habo. You are stronger and better than this habo
why are you discrediting and dismissing her on public like that. What she's describing is real and you don't need a psychologist to tell you who a narcissist can be. Maybe Google it yourself.
@@FG-md6ls habo, the simple fact of the matter is even yourself do not understand what that words mean by telling me head to sheekh Google. This young lady was doing fantastic, but this is a cry for help, she is strong masha Allah, but something is triggering her and whatever that is , this should not be the answer. I never discredited her. Laakiin waxani waa war war, to most of you, this might be a distraction iyo sheeko. However the way I see it, this young lady needs a hug iyo duco and for her to take break from waxan oo dhan
I was married to one but I left him 6 years ago alxhumdliah.. Narcissistic personality is very dangerous disorder! If you see any of this Symptoms run 🏃🏾♀️ 🏃🏾♀️ 🏃🏾♀️ for your life and save your self !!
Manshallah allah ku barakeeyo aduuka iyo akharyro baa nuur caal nuur. May allah protect you your daughter inshallah sister well done keep going do whatever you can I love so much take care.
Maanshaa Allaah Enjoy Habo mcn You are so brave and shines from your storyline and 75% of Somali women including me has been absolutely experienced like yours, but you left the right time and ALX you have focused your life and your precious daughter Maanshaa Allaah. You are so beautiful and stronger than them absolutely. Go Go Go and keep strong 💪🏽 forward to your life and Most of Somali Strong ladies will support you for very long time 🇸🇴🌹👍🏾👌🏾👍🏾👍🏾🌹🌹🌹👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽😍🥰😘❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Gabadhan hadalkeda waa run qofka marku wanaagsanyahay jaceelna uu haayo si fudud ayaa lagu qayaani karaa maraka xumaanta ka doodid oo wanaaga lagu xasuusiyo waad daciife wayo adi waxa ogtahay wanaga qiimahiisa marka xiligaas qalad iyo sax makala saari kartid afnaan horey u soco abayo
Narcissists are known to lack caring about the feelings of other people. They may see others as mere objects, put in place to meet their own needs. However, this can cause a problem for narcissists, because in order for them to benefit from the praise and admiration of others, those others must, on some level, have value.
There’s a lot to take from your story Eedo. I’m a 57 year old Hoyo and I’ve a degree in physiological and sociological analyses of abuse and abusive behaviors…. The other day a video of him was being shared on Wassap ( apparently it’s from TikTok) seeing a few seconds of his face tells a lot of his behavior. Eedo don’t give up. I’m so proud of how far you came in such a short time. Alhamdullilah. You’ve connected to ilahay and you moved. You’re beautiful and he doesn’t deserve you at ALL!! ❤️ 🤗
Love you Afnan. May Allah guide you. Don't dwell so much on your past. I will be happy very happy when I see you graduate, find a good job that you like and buy a house and marry a gentleman. Show us the power of incredible somali girls as you are an exaplanary. You have the support of many somalis home and abroad. You are on fire.
Oh my gosh everything u said is right about narcissistic. I love 💕 how strong your Afnan. We need qisadaada cause it’s cashir loobahanyahay inlabarto oo lafahmo. Your young and beautiful keep going and keep your story hana ubixin dadka hadalka badan waayo adiga goal aad leedahay and you will reach InshaAllah.sending you my love and support 😻🌹🥰🥰🥰🥰
I wanted to know When he kicked u out ur home pregnant, Where was his parents? Why didn’t they buy u ur ticket to at least show they are sorry for what their son did to u. It shows he learned the behaviour from his parents, they condoned the way he treated u. It’s disgusting… Don’t let ur daughter be part of that protect her while u can. U can forgive someone but it doesn’t mean they need to be part of ur life
Part 14 ban sugeyna. Wllo gabar gesiyad ba tahay ceeb ma lihid cidi ku xumeysey ba ceeb lee.Ilahey ha kula koriyo gabadhada yar hana ku xafido. Mida labad storyga ka shekee ha amusin. Somalidu waxun bey qariyan. Experience kaga dad badan ba ka faiida. U are a hero keep going. Dadka negatif wada ha uu jojiin. Waxan ku rajenaya mustaqbal quruux badan. Jiir oo joog noloow quruuxey. Love u
I know you said you will discuss the effects narcissism has on the victim’s mental health in the next video. Can you please give us a life update after that video?
Afnaan abaayo narcisist waan so jeclaaday walina waan jeclahay 😭 waliba waan guursaday qof kale si aan u hilmaamo mana hilmaamin waan sii jeclaaday hadda waxa aan danbi ka geli hayaa ninkayga cusub i give mostly silent treatment anigoo ex-kaygi xusuusan nsha allah ilahay ayaa la kaasan doonaa si aanan nabsi u uruursanin🥰. Keep moving abayo adigana.
Hdaad SidaYdoo kle soo GaadhaY part 13 ♥️
Ugu duce wlazheen nolol ta ugu Qruxda badan🥰👸🏻
Allaah dhib dambe kuma tuso
Ilahay nolosheeda farxad ha ugu dhamneyne
Allh ayada dhaman gabdhaha ayadoo kle ah nolol quruxbadan hasiiyo
Beenta haku taaqeriin. Ilahay ka caabso. Xii lagu sheego ma iska yeele adiga. Adiga No maskax miise? Afnan beenteda waye
Never tell narcissist your secrets and weaknesses because it will be the weapon they will use against you.
True sister they will use your fears against you devil people 😥
@@zahrayasin9044 lkn cay yaan lagadhıgın waa xanun nafsaanıya
@@sacdiish5616 sister yaa kuugu yidhi waa xanun nafsiyana adigo an aqoon u lahayn narcissist haka hadlin waa kas iyo maan waxay sida ugu dhaqmayaan waa dad daciifa oo liita oo jecel inay dadka hoos udhigaan, qalbiyadodu waa madow waayo waxba ma jeclan karan xita naftooda, awladoda iyo azwajtooda noloshoday babi iyan cudur daar haw radin waa shayadinul insiga illaahay quranka ku sheegay waa munafiqiin.
@@zahrayasin9044 mxaa ixabuusata wll narsıstıc wa cudur nafsanıya wa sıda personel dısorder wuxuuna qaba badana ılmaha koolkolınta lagabadsha ama ılmaha anan arag jacaylkıı walıdnımo ıyo qımıhı ay kulahayen kadıb markay waynadan waxay ıskudayan ınay ıyagu buuxsadan booskaga lkn waxay samaynayan sıkabadıs ah taas oo usabab noqonkarta naxarııs laantıı ıyo jabab badan ay somaren dadkaas.wana ladawaynkara haday tagan qaybta cychology ga lanahadlan dhaqtarkoda
@@sacdiish5616 xitaa haday therapist Adan daawo male waayo sense of self male waa empty shell walal kuma xuubsan laakiin xanunka ay dadka mariyan qof arkay oo kaliya ayaa garanaya ta labaad markay bananka joogan dad fiican bay metelan albabka dabadisana waa shaydan aduunka farxad kuma haystan sida darted ta dadka inay burburiyan aya farxad u ah.
Afnaanay wax waad aragtay subaxanallah. Abaayo horay usoco. Waxaan kufaraxsanahy waalidkaa inay waxkubareen aqoon diineed iyo mid madiba waad leedahy ee horay usoco oo hormari naftaada marwalbana iskuday inaad dhaqaale samaysato. Well done.
Sax waa fakar fican in aya dhaqalo sameyso ama ganacsi hoyo kaliya hadaa tahay waa in ad isku tashataa
Maashaa Allah tabaaraka rahmaan, danbigeeda iyo kan waalidkeed Allah dhaafo waalid share abadan ayaa soo barbaaroyey weyka muuqataa, Allah u dhaafo
Thanks
Abayo keep telling your story . Dont let haters get u down . We here to support u all the way💓 Team Afnan ismuujiyaaa
Waa runnta Wllhi abayo love u afnan❤️🔥❤️😘
@@amiramohamed3341mahadsanid abayo. We support afnan❤
WOW u are beautiful 😍 ❤
@@fosab9518 You welcome 🙏🏾❤️❤️🔥
True I’m with u hun mashallah you are smart girl ❤️❤️❤️
Ilaaa part 13 hada la socotid is muuuuji👍
EVERYTHING YOUR SAYING IS THE TRUTH THANK YOU FOR BRINGING THIS TO THE LIGHT SO MANY WOMAN SUFFER MAY ALLAH REWARD YOU
You’re soo amazing for bringing this to light. My mum is a narcissist and it’s painful that anyone has to go through this type of abuse. I hope allah makes things easier for anyone experiencing that.
I am sorry. My friend is suicidal and has been divorced 4x before age 30 due to HOW MUCH her mother insists on getting involved in her relationships upto starting rumors. Somalis don't believe parents can be toxic but they can be.
@@IsmaAragto that hurts to hear, I guess you’ve tried to help her. Some Somalis parents don’t know that their children are allowed to be separate and have boundaries. It’s always about them.
@@ba1354 saax. Wallahi, I get it. When you said your mum is a narcissist, she popped to my head. I mean the word toxic doesn't do justice to explain some of the atrocious behaviors my friend's mother exhibits. I am encouraged that Somalis are starting to have a conversation about mental illnesses and some of the toxic traits of people who have it and what they put through others.
May Allah guide your mother, ease your pain hon, and make your happier for the rest of your life. It can be EXHAUSTING dealing with people with personality disorders.
Edit: Somalis don't believe parents can error which is just wrong. The mentality of parents being ALWAYS correct under any circumstance is horrible and just wrong. Parents are human beings too and when they are toxic, it is the children that get scarred for life.
I would love to talk to your friend and give her support. It’s soo hard because you want to please them but at the same time they cause you soo much pain. Definitely! Im soo happy she’s talking about it. The saddest part is that they can’t be cured because it’s a personality disorder. They’ll never change you just have to remove yourself from the situation and have boundaries. You’re a good friend, god bless you babe. You’re soo sweet to empathise with her. Narcissist create other narcissists. You’re edit is soo relatable! Amen
@@ba1354 Saax. You are amazing too and have great awareness. Her mother is so overbearing it is hard to get away but I am sure talking to people who deal with similar things help tremendously. Yes, we want to be filial child to our parents but sometimes it is hard. You are right that personality disorders can be cured. I heard therapy is HORRIBLE for narcissists because they become aware of how others view them and they learn to hide it and become masters of disguise. Doctor Phil does segments now going in details and she follows what program which helps her come to terms with reality.
Omg everything aad sheegtay is about the situation I have been through and am going trough just in a different way with different person with almost same character
Labisyaadada waa shidanyihiin ✨mashallah team Afnaan al de way
Wlhy zaid
Girl count your blessings subhan allah you escaped something that could have gone very wrong escaping narcissist is really not easy alot of people are still suffering 20 years plus
#team afnanan Aden hada thy like ha laga arko strong women aa thy keep going ❤️😘
Thanks for speaking up. It helps us to understand the real issue of mental health is big in our community.
I am so sorry you had to go through this! This story is the story of every Somali woman. 😓😫😰😭😪
Caadi bu kuuwaali Rabay qumaygu allaah baa kaa kudhaafiyay mcnto guulayso Queen🥰💋❤❤❤❤
Ilaaka bixiyey
I have dealt with Narcissists before. Falling in love with a Narcissist is not something anyone would want to do. They are the worst bunch of people to ever associate with. If you spot a Narcissist, call them out and run for your life. Nothing is more important than your own mental health.
Gaslighting is the worst psychological abuse
Afnan MashaAllah video yaashada gabdo badan wey ku cibra qadaanayaan oo wax badan ka faaidayan thank you for sharing your story and warning signs of a narcissist. Thank you for educating beautiful Somali girls.❤️❤️
We need a lot of Somali people that can talk narcissistic behaviour most men and women are Narcissistic and we don’t know how to deal with them thank you sister Narcissistic are evil’s 👿 everything you said is true
Thank you so much for this. It's has been an eye opening experience 🥰 you are very brave.
Yehh she is back people who are saying afnan is joules of what. Allhamdullilah she has beautiful life and amazing beautiful daughter may Allah protect her
yeah right wallahi #teamafnan 4ever we love her sm and we don't care about haters!!
Literally! Like jealous of what and who? Lol
Jealous of a narcissist 😂😂 who does that?
@@fatom1947 they hating on her cos she killing it. 🔥🔥
@@afnanadan3755 love you abayo keep slaying.
Video yadaaada story wax badan ka faaidnay Masha’Allaaah keep doing queen 👸🏽🥰❤️can’t wait to 14 part
Ma hooyo ayaa naracisistic noqonkarta subxanallaah
Ugu dambayn ninki iyo naagti ku qiyaamay way is guursadeeen, 2badii xaq daro ku heshiisa xaqaa isku dira baa hore loo yiri, nabsi wuuka so baxayaa goor uu kasoo baxaba abaayo iska sabar insha allaaah.😍
Mash alha abay we love you 😍 ❤
Ku darso naagtu sey isku leedahay ha hadlin sida afnaan adkeyso ayey dhimane niyada iyo jirkaba
The most painful story for me😭😪 is that don`t break medicine because the world is school
And people are questions and the days are answers 💯💯👋
Intaaa no mahad celisey
Ka badan baan ku mahad
Celiney wana ku jeclnahay
Horana u soco Afnan
Maasha allha Tabarkalaah gadhahena Guul Iyo gubanimo
dadka leh halkaa kujooji qisadaada waxay doonayaan inay adiga guul daraysato kaa dhigaan hadii aad maqashid soo jeedintooda ayna yidhaahdaan iyadaa qaldan, anigu waxan kuleeyahay wll Sheekadaada ka sheekee intaad awoodo hana ujoojin haters
ma aqaani dadkan leh sheekadaada jooji inay backup uyihiin qofkan aad ka sheekaynayso si uu ugu isticmaalo mind games ka iyo tactics ka uu isticmalayo lkin ha ujoojin walal dhamaan tooda inooma kala sokeeyaane
Waan kugu raacsanahy
@@rahmohusseinahmed9723 nafisaada iyo waxan aad ka sheekaynaysaa waanxay
halkaa waxa iiga cadba inaanay waxba kaaga bixin qisadan oo gabadh laxumeeyayuun inay sheekaynayso kuula muuqato, fadlan laba ragcadood tuko deeto adigoo miyir qaba casharada kaqaado qissadan,
@@rahmohusseinahmed9723 😂😂😂
waa sax rabbi ayaa kuguleh anna waan kugu baraarujinaayay .
Lkin wll waa ayaan darro malinky bilawday ilaa maanta hadii aad lasocoty wax casharina kaaga bixin
Runtii casharro badan ayaa kujira axaadiis badan oo nolosheenu ubaahantahay ayay markay wax sheegaysaba inoo akhriyijirty ama aayada quraana oo ay dhaqankeedu aha inay iyaga ka dhigato marjeceeda waana cashar, sidookale haday noqoto samir ku xidhnaanshaha ilahy, ducaysasho waxaaso dhami waa cashar kudhaafay oo aanad qadan, tan ugu waynina waa habkii markay dhibaatada kujirty ilhay ulaxidhiidhi jiray adoontiisa sababtoo ah xaladay kujirto xadiis mise aaayad kahadlaysa ayay helijirty, waxan ay iminka kasheekaynaysana maha ninkeedi waa xanuun jirra oo dadkeena kudhaca marky tusaala bixinayso ayay example kaso qadaysaa siyaabuhu ula dhaqmijiray si sicad loogu fahmi.
@@rahmohusseinahmed9723 Thank you wll ❤️
anigu siday jeceshahay ayaan lajeclahay waanna ku garabtaaganahay Afnan
@@rahmohusseinahmed9723 wallo runtii niinkas waxuu sameeyay e gabadha yar u gaystay wax aan u ceeb qarinayo ama xata loo ceeb qarin karo maaha wax qof damiirleh sameeyana maha qoraalkiina wanba ka saray halkan wayo mansha allag afnan yar sheekadi way joojisay marka muhiim maha in aan canaanta illahay nolool qurux badan ha siiyo
Keep going Afnan what doesn’t kill you make you stronger, you brave, beautiful and strong young woman MashAllah.
Keep spreading the awareness of narcissism and their evil traits
Amusnantisa waxay cadeyn utahay in afnan run shegayso100% wuxu sameyay wu ogyahay qaainka weyn afnan alhamdilah dheh in kas noloshada ilaah kasaray gabadhada yarna equruxda badan mashalah alaha ku dhafo
You are a survivor. Well done for sharing your story.
Darling haters will always keep you down don’t let that happen. You are an amazing young woman full of knowledge ❤️❤️❤️ you are by the way teaching somali women something they don’t know
Run badanaa mayaqanan somalida
Beenta haku taaqeriin. Ilahay ka caabso. Xii lagu sheego ma iska yeele adiga. Adiga No maskax miise?
@@boqorkaciyaarta1372 war orod na dhaaf
So strong of you to share all of this but make sure to protect yourself. I pray this all becomes easy to deal with and you will have your justice
I was saying on your earlier stories how he was gaslighting most of the time. I’m so glade you have found your worth keep shining sis 🤩
You escaped the right time Abaayo otherwise you could become crazy. There are a lot of girls still under narcissim. They are trying not to lose the relationship because of their children but actually they are not there mentally.
That is so sad to hear
Waxkasto ad sheegtay waruntaa qof waxa fahmikara ay kudhacday arintan. Mansha Allah you’re very smart ❤️
we love you our young sister. keep going.
Qof san u dhaqmayo walhi wan so arky dabecdahn ku arky waxksto ogahy wu inkiraya xadhidh la lah lakin hada wan iskaga hadhy thanks xabibti afanan waxbdn no faidaysay adigan illhay ha ku xafido dhib danbe illhay kuma tuso sister never give up🥰
Wlhi Aniga xita qofkaas Aniga is guursana Wan iska furay wlgi wayo waxkasto ogyhy inkiray been baden inkiraad badan waxkasta asiga Raba in lo hagaliyo rabaha
@@halimajeylani9243 alx xabibti hada iska furtay mid wangsan illhay ha kugu adiyo dunidan dad xun xun ku nol🙏🥰
Isku mid baan nahay wlhay heer waxan gaaray aan isku arko inaan khaldanahay isaguna saxan yahay mar kasto isagoo iga khaldan baan raali galin jiray yaaaab!!!!!!!!
@@fatimazahramahmoud7647 ha wlhi asiga naag qabo dhahay Wan furay marka naagtisa bartay hor keenay inkiray cadeemo gbdha keentay kuyir Wan qaba bax dhahay hhh elx hada Wil u haya
@@halimajeylani9243 mcnto anaga Dumar hadaan nahay masaakiin daacad ah baa nahay ilaahay shartooda ha naga qabto
Afnan, I respect you habo, as a young somali single mum, laakiin maad fahmin the real meaning of 'narcissism', . Habo you went through this experience and you have every right to voice your opinion. Laakiin you can not voice nacarsism based on a personal experience. Waligaa waydii a phycologist. You are hurt, you went through a lot, but let's not Confuse people habo. You are stronger and better than this habo
why are you discrediting and dismissing her on public like that. What she's describing is real and you don't need a psychologist to tell you who a narcissist can be. Maybe Google it yourself.
@@FG-md6ls habo, the simple fact of the matter is even yourself do not understand what that words mean by telling me head to sheekh Google. This young lady was doing fantastic, but this is a cry for help, she is strong masha Allah, but something is triggering her and whatever that is , this should not be the answer. I never discredited her. Laakiin waxani waa war war, to most of you, this might be a distraction iyo sheeko. However the way I see it, this young lady needs a hug iyo duco and for her to take break from waxan oo dhan
We love you sister you’re strong woman queen 👸
They want to shut you up, but don't let them!
I was married to one but I left him 6 years ago alxhumdliah.. Narcissistic personality is very dangerous disorder! If you see any of this Symptoms run 🏃🏾♀️ 🏃🏾♀️ 🏃🏾♀️ for your life and save your self !!
Aad ayaan ugu farxay sida somalida gabdhahooda iyo wiilasha qaar u garab taagan yihiin gabadhan keep going sister we are with you
Mashaa allaah Habo ilaahay haku barakeeyo.
Aqlaaqdaada diintaaata iyo daganaataba ilaahay hakuu ziyaadiyo
You doing good job my sister I had the same experience with my ex husband so I do feel you and keep going loving your self ❤️
All i can say is “qabri baad kasoo laabataye qaadir mahadii dheh” Afnaaney! ❤️❤️❤️🥺🥺
We are behind you 100% sis keep going queen
yes we're with her mashaAllaah
Beenta haku taaqeriin. Ilahay ka caabso. Xii lagu sheego ma iska yeele adiga. Adiga No maskax miise? Dont just trust her
Manshallah allah ku barakeeyo aduuka iyo akharyro baa nuur caal nuur. May allah protect you your daughter inshallah sister well done keep going do whatever you can I love so much take care.
Great Somali young mom ❤️ we are here to support you sister 🥰
Tusalaha Hablaha somaliyeed ayaa tahy Hppti be strong woman💪💖💯
Welcome back Afnan we love you and stay strong ❤️
I’m so sorry you went through this. You are a beautiful young girl and you deserve better. I’m glad you see how psycho he is.
Qof Walba Oo Samra Wuu Heli Doonaa Zamirka Guushiisa❤️
Queen always queen 👸♥️
Great Somalida wey u baahan tihiin in ey bartaan dadka noocaas ah. Wayoo badinaa Mala yaqaano. 💖😘😘💖💖
She lies. Wa tuugo. Wa beenteda. Maseer hayo you just hear her version of the story?
Afnaan wll hore usoco waxad tahay inanyar annigu waxan kaa waynahay 1 sano ilaa iyo yarantaydina taarikh waan soo maray qofku dhibta kudhacda wuxuu ka qaata adadayg iyo awood iyo maskax kawyn da'diisa guulayso wllo dibna hasoo eegin ilaahayna sidaa ugu xidhnoow dhib iyo warwar ma arkayside
Afanan is the strongest bravest person ever / we love you and don’t listen to haters honestly xxxxx 🖤🖤🖤🖤
I agree 💯
thanx afnaan, keep telling your story cause it benefited us and informed us about narcissism
all of us love you and will keep supporting you ❤️❤️
We all love you and will stand by you sis keep going 🥰🥰💝🥰
🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺 waxaan dareema walaahi markaan story gaada aaah i don’t know but hada you are very strong 💪 and we love you 😍
Maanshaa Allaah Enjoy Habo mcn You are so brave and shines from your storyline and 75% of Somali women including me has been absolutely experienced like yours, but you left the right time and ALX you have focused your life and your precious daughter Maanshaa Allaah. You are so beautiful and stronger than them absolutely. Go Go Go and keep strong 💪🏽 forward to your life and Most of Somali Strong ladies will support you for very long time 🇸🇴🌹👍🏾👌🏾👍🏾👍🏾🌹🌹🌹👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽😍🥰😘❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
MASHALAAH Avery intelegent and strong young lady،may ALAAH protect you
I can't wait part 14 we love you afnaney👸❤
we love you! don't listen to haters wallahi you're strong woman! just remember that keep going :) ❤️
❤️❤️🥰
Gabadhan hadalkeda waa run qofka marku wanaagsanyahay jaceelna uu haayo si fudud ayaa lagu qayaani karaa maraka xumaanta ka doodid oo wanaaga lagu xasuusiyo waad daciife wayo adi waxa ogtahay wanaga qiimahiisa marka xiligaas qalad iyo sax makala saari kartid afnaan horey u soco abayo
you so smart habo allahumma barik
I wanna say to you don't look back just go forward
I am sure you can reach your goal.
Subaxanallah rabbi ayaa mahadaa is ka leh kaa soo samata bixiyay wax aad ka sheekeyso waad soo aragtay afnaaneey
Narcissists are known to lack caring about the feelings of other people. They may see others as mere objects, put in place to meet their own needs. However, this can cause a problem for narcissists, because in order for them to benefit from the praise and admiration of others, those others must, on some level, have value.
Illaahay nabsi bax haku siiyo habo,karti iyo dadnimo ayaa kaa muuqTa,masha allaah
sorry Afnan what you been through your strong young lady
keep going forward inshallah ALLAH is with you.
Wale dumarka Somali cashar wad u dhigtay Allah ku anfaco raga Somali badan koda wa wada NARS’s
Afnaaneey garabkaaga ayaan nahay ee hortaada u soco insha llh 💯🥰❤
Hadad so gadhay part13 udu ceeya walashen waynu gulaysan inzha allah afnaaney
We loved 😍❤ afnaan saan kusugayay lee macney🥺 Allha kula garab galo nolsha hardanka ah boqoradeydi👸❤💯💉
Wisada gabadhaan ciil ayaan kudareemaa
Waa gabar yar oo caqlibadan masha Allah waxaan aad uga helay sidey Allah ugu xirneed
Hore usoco
Hana ujoojin dadka masejyada xunxun kusooqoraayo iyo naago aan caqli badan leheen oon yutub ku arkey
Ninkaas bahdilaad xun ayuu kugu haayey lkn Alx Allah ayaa kasoo bixiyey
Inuu kuwaalo
Ayuu rabey
Strong woman go forward
Strong women 💕👸🏻
There’s a lot to take from your story Eedo. I’m a 57 year old Hoyo and I’ve a degree in physiological and sociological analyses of abuse and abusive behaviors….
The other day a video of him was being shared on Wassap ( apparently it’s from TikTok) seeing a few seconds of his face tells a lot of his behavior.
Eedo don’t give up. I’m so proud of how far you came in such a short time. Alhamdullilah. You’ve connected to ilahay and you moved. You’re beautiful and he doesn’t deserve you at ALL!! ❤️ 🤗
Asalam Aleikum mam inte kalaso xariiraa Ina Ila talisid aa jeclan lahaa
Love you Afnan. May Allah guide you. Don't dwell so much on your past. I will be happy very happy when I see you graduate, find a good job that you like and buy a house and marry a gentleman. Show us the power of incredible somali girls as you are an exaplanary. You have the support of many somalis home and abroad. You are on fire.
Qurxy hada waa seexarabaaaaaa. Ee biri baa daawan insha Allah😅😅😅🤸🤸🤸😂.part one ilaaaa part 13 mid imadhaaaaafin
Anba beri soo daawanaa hhh
Afnan waxan hayaa 3 qiso oo hadii an fiiriyo tada ka xanun badan waxan rabay inan ku dhiibo halkee kala soo xiriiraa abayo
mid halkanoo codka dameeraha leh oo suldaamad isku sheegaysa ayaa Afnaan views kuraadinaysa oo daba dhigatay
Naa waan ogahay afnaan la’ aan inaad baar kujirto ee nooga fuq inantayada oo noo nabad gali
Afnaaney Guulayso Aduun iyo Aakhriroba wll
Oh my gosh everything u said is right about narcissistic. I love 💕 how strong your Afnan. We need qisadaada cause it’s cashir loobahanyahay inlabarto oo lafahmo. Your young and beautiful keep going and keep your story hana ubixin dadka hadalka badan waayo adiga goal aad leedahay and you will reach InshaAllah.sending you my love and support 😻🌹🥰🥰🥰🥰
Thanks Afnan you are stronger keep going we love you queen 👑
I wanted to know
When he kicked u out ur home pregnant, Where was his parents? Why didn’t they buy u ur ticket to at least show they are sorry for what their son did to u. It shows he learned the behaviour from his parents, they condoned the way he treated u. It’s disgusting… Don’t let ur daughter be part of that protect her while u can. U can forgive someone but it doesn’t mean they need to be part of ur life
She lies. Wa tuugo. Wa beenteda. Maseer hayo you just hear her version of the story?
Adults communicate and sort out problems unless narcissistic move on sister INCHALLAH
Our beautiful queen afnaney we stand by ur side always
I’m proud of you my sister go forward dear 👏👏
Waxaad tahay fariid yaa igu raacay like saar👍
Emotional blackmail inoo soo badi hablo badan baa ubaahan.
Nolol quruxbadan oo Ilaahay ka cabsigiisu uhoreeyo wax kasta ood jeceshahay waad helaysaa
Masha Allah, keep educating yourself and the others.
Masha Allah eedo Allah ku xifdiyo
Horumarkaga Dadba ka xun ee xasadka ha u joojin waa kula jirna yar iyo weynba
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I am Glad Inaad Iska Qabatay Before Uusan Meeldheer Kula Tagin I Really Feel You Sis!!
Part 14 ban sugeyna. Wllo gabar gesiyad ba tahay ceeb ma lihid cidi ku xumeysey ba ceeb lee.Ilahey ha kula koriyo gabadhada yar hana ku xafido. Mida labad storyga ka shekee ha amusin. Somalidu waxun bey qariyan. Experience kaga dad badan ba ka faiida. U are a hero keep going. Dadka negatif wada ha uu jojiin. Waxan ku rajenaya mustaqbal quruux badan. Jiir oo joog noloow quruuxey. Love u
I know you said you will discuss the effects narcissism has on the victim’s mental health in the next video. Can you please give us a life update after that video?
Masha allh ani waxaan kaabartay dadka narsisamka ah dabeecadohooda illhey haku xafido waxaan rajeynaah in dad badan waxkaa barandoonaan
13 wnsugi waayay hada daawanaya thnks afnaan horay usoco mcneey team afnaan👸❤🥺
If not getting to the point was a person
Afnaan abaayo narcisist waan so jeclaaday walina waan jeclahay 😭 waliba waan guursaday qof kale si aan u hilmaamo mana hilmaamin waan sii jeclaaday hadda waxa aan danbi ka geli hayaa ninkayga cusub i give mostly silent treatment anigoo ex-kaygi xusuusan nsha allah ilahay ayaa la kaasan doonaa si aanan nabsi u uruursanin🥰. Keep moving abayo adigana.
Qof xun hadii illhey kasoo saaray hakulaaban ee qofkaaga cusub kudhag
Kan cusub suu kuu yahay. Malana nooshahay.
Naa wllo kaagaan ku dheg mar haduu kaatagey sidii uunbuu kuu dhibi joog
Abayo jeceel sii ninkaaaga maskiinka dambi haka gelin
Waad nasiib badan tahay hadad nolol la qaybsaneyso qof an narastist ahayn ee ninkaga wanaji walalo
Subxanallaah inuu ku waalo buu rabay ilaaahay baa ku caawiyay alxamdulilaah horey u soco qur.aanka akhriso ama dhagayso
Babes…I’m in love with you and your personality 😍😍ManShaAllah
It's really annoying and problematic that many of these bad guys' techniques are things they use to make them think they are successful.
Yes you right! It scared me how most somali people are just like this