The way Tom said he would’ve made it work 🥺 and manned up and found a way…It showed a lot abound him 🥺 It’s hard to live with the what if.. It affects men too not just woman. Thank you both for sharing
Respectfully I believe that most of these couples are still together because of the tv show IMO they stick together because they have this show which pays the bills …I haven’t tuned in for years and I’m Shocked most of them are still together
Agreed. Tom is a piece of shit and treats Katie like shit. He clearly is in love with other tom. It’s a ducking joke. And Lala, lmao she got a baby and she’s gonna take that and the money and run.
Lala thinking "her book" should go straight to the best sellers list, spins me out! 🤯 Is that why someone writes a book? Sh*t no! Get real Lala, love your baby & your life, then see about writing a book that hits the BS list. ❤🙏
So brave of Katie to speak up and say that but Tom shouldn't have said if she wanted to keep tge kid I would have been there. Really?? Seriously?? It's not so simple. But anyway, I do like these two. They've stayed together through thick and thin. It's not easy when everyone else is just popping babies but I hope they get their beautiful baby some day soon 🥰
@@michaelrichardi6047 I thought that also but it was a bit shady and he'd support her more but not having mentioned it. I do think they'll make great parents
@@michaelrichardi6047 I agree, he’s from Minnesota where I am from, it’s not uncommon here for people to have kids young right out of HS! He would support her no matter her decision, he’s a good guy.
@@stupidrudecat3411 is it though? Seems theyre doing fine. Sandy is the one having a hard time dealing bc he can't have complete control over Tschwa. How incredibly immature and covetous
@@stupidrudecat3411 lol. How old are you? No offense meant but thats fairly immature to say . Sandy is clearly bothered. And lots of their arguments revolve around him. As do Tom and Toms arguments. He over-steps his boundary frequently in their relationship. They've been together a very long time are married and plan on having children. So . Thats that.
What some people don't realise is, in some states and countries, it absolutly does not take a lot for fathers to lose coustody of their children. Even in then U.S. some states automatically give custody to mothers. It is not always fair and the courts are not ways fair. People who have no children or 1 child and have NEVER been through the end of a relationship with children involved would never and could never understand what could happen. Lala can act like she knows but she truly has no idea.
Ok so am I wrong here. My thinking of this whole katie being involved in the bar is that, she is toms wife. Does Tom Sandoval think he can have 2 bars with Tom Schwartz and his wife not be involved? I don't get bc if my husband had a bar, I would be involved. Is that something that only happens in real life? I'm confused. Also, the funnest thing is tom Sandoval screaming "eff yall for making me feel like a psycho path." While in fact acting like a psycho path.
@Addison Clark and I think it’s ironic how liberals are “sheep” yet conservatives hear one thing from another conservatives and start to repeat it over and over again even if it not true
I really think Katie needs to work on her mean girl thing and the whole trying to create teams of people against one before she has a kid and teaches them to do that to people
What they need is a divorce. She’s been telling him how to love her for yearssss and she practically begged him to purpose. He was not the one. They’re forcing everything, even pregnancy. This is going to end bad.
LMAO 😂 😂😂 Okay with 4 drinks a week BUT! Tom no pot!? 😞 No mushrooms 😏 & the Drs expression to die for 😂😂 Not the baths……😥 I’ll stop smoking 😂😂😂😂😂 I love him….. Yes Katie was wrong to give him ultimatum to marry her & should of been Tom’s red flag. But! I do like the two & wishing them the best. I’m glad Tom finally spoke up to Tom and I hope he lets his voice be heard more.
James goes from sober to talking about having drinks. What? Tom is totally disrespectful to yell at you friends wife. You're being super aggressive for no reason.
I love Katie for this. Super real. We definitely need to de-stigmatize these experiences as women. It’s sets us back as females to judge others. This is not a blanket statement of course. Because there are individual cases that should be thought out more, but in the end, generally speaking women should have the freedom to chose what to do with their bodies. Just like men.
@@ashleyj.8690 I know it’s easier said than done. But don’t lose hope. My mom had me at 39. Life has endless possibilities, and that is a fact. But I agree with you there’s always a plan that goes beyond our understanding at times. I know it’s hard releasing guilt. As women we feel guilty for everything. Even after having children, many of us still feel guilty for any misstep or mistake made while raising a child. Society has made us feel overly ashamed of many things. I’ve worked really hard on realizing and understanding I’m not perfect. Because when I was younger, I truly was my own worse critic. Which made me very sad at times. It can be very unhealthy. You kind of discredit every other part of you that is great, when you focus on mistakes or shortcomings. But I wish and pray for the best for you and your husband. Sending only positive energy and thoughts your way.
@@isabelpulecio9476 …. Aw, thank you So much for All of your kind & sweet words…. I definitely needed too hear that, you’re very sweet for replying ❤️💚🌺❤️ & you’re so right. I shouldn’t be so hard on myself. Hope you have a wonderful evening, peace n love🌺💚🦋💜
What we "definitely need to do" is to show people, females and males, what fetuses look like in the womb. How developed they are at what point, while making sure they understand the full details of what abortion actually involves. How the fetus is blended up/dismembered while alive, then extracted (or falling out in chunks into a toilet at the clinic) immediately afterwards, so that everybody then has *fully informed consent. So that they truly know and understand before they climb onto that table.* Because most people don't know when they go in for one. They have no idea A) what the fetus looks like inside at that moment, nor are they given B) the information about how the fetus will be dismembered alive/blended alive/extracted from them. And I do mean blended/dismembered. The head pulled from the neck and arms and legs ripped from the body with tongs sometimes, depending, or the entire thing just blended up if it's up to the three month mark. (later stage abortions require the dismembering/decapitation of the fetus, again, while alive.) They think it's just this "quick and easy, painless solution" to something that's "just a few clumps of cells"....because that's the propaganda they've been given. I've watched vids where they show the truth to various young females who, prior to being shown the vids and given the full explanations, spoke just like you. Verbatim. The easy breezy casual voiced, pro choice stance that tries to sound nonchalant and reasonable. Then they saw the photos/videos and got the full explanation for what truly happens during an abortion, and were in tears after, their worlds shook. Because nobody told them, and they never bothered to research it for themselves. They just blindly accepted that easy breezy casual pro choice liberal propaganda stance we've all been fed without ever researching it for themselves. But now they knew. Now imagine if EVERYBODY was shown these same explicit vids/photos and given the full detailed run down of what abortions involve, and at what stage of a pregnancy. *More women would be a lot more careful to make sure whoopsies didn't happen in the first place. And more women would be less apt to adopt the easy breezy "it's all good" nonchalant tone you're adopting.* People need to know, and that's the #1 abortion-related problem we have right now. *Lack of informed consent and true understanding of how the abortions are actually performed.*
If I was Tom there be no way I would have a child with this woman she's entirely too toxic. If Tom has a baby with her he'll forever be anchored to this woman. It's a trap dude run !!!
The irony of them throwing away God's greatest gift to them, because of inconvenience, then wanting another gift, and God's saying not so fast. You didn't even appreciate or value it the first time around. Lesson? Perhaps.
True my close friend got an abortion with her first pregnancy she never got pregnant again and most likely she never will she is over 40 now. There is certain risk with abortion.
What she doesnt undestand is that first thats not her business and I know that if Shwartz gives her power he is going to regret it and second I wouldnt risk either to let her do another drama like the book signing for me she’s really a bully
Cheap bravo still providing clips rather than full videos on u tube. Hope they get what they deserve in a year or less. Want to see vanderpump rules but they simply don't make it accessible by utube...which they could do. Fake anyway from the inception.
I hope her past decision is not the reason she is having fertility problems now. I've heard a lot of women say they had an abortion and could not conceive years later. That would constantly come into their mind as to some type of karma or gods way of stopping it. It's not an easy decision to make, I'm sure she has suffered emotionally and mentally enough. The choice to have a baby is hard when your at the best and most stable point in your life. Never mind at 20 without a pot to wizz in. I was 17 when I had my son. It was very difficult but I promised myself and my baby I would work my butt off to give him a great life. And I did. I never relied on anyone, no government funds, his father was no where to be found so there was no financial support either. But I was very focused. By 23 I owned my first home. Paid cash for my new vehicle. Had excellent credit and managed one of the world's most well known financial institutions. (We not the actual institution, just one location) I rose to the top very quick because I needed too. I needed to pay my mortgage and all the bills. I paid for daycare and evening babysitting while i went to my night job waitressing. You can do it, if you put your mind to it. But I can totally understand why Tom and Katie weren't ready for it. I do not regret my choice at all, I do see where I missed out on a lot of things my friends and school mates were doing but none of them were in the financial position i was in at 23 either. Still to this day some of them are living in their parents basement. Actually I got a call out of the blue about a month ago from the guy I was madly in love with in high school. He is apparently a drunk and at 47 lives in his mommy's basement. I was so in love with him but being pregnant kinda killed that opportunity. Thank god! I couldn't wait to get off the phone with him and have avoided taking his calls or responding to a text message. Anyways I guess we all have a path to choose. I just hope Katie and Tom don't beat themselves up over the choice they made as very young adults.
When I see Tom Schwartz a semblance of Chris Watts ( who murdered wife, 2 daughters and unborn son), he exhibits the same passive/ aggressive demeanor and character traits. He is just "WAITING TO EXPLODE". Very frightening, hope he seeks help.
The A word and she wasn't even assaulted. So, you killed a baby because in that moment you didn't think you'd be together..... but NOW YOU ARE READY OH WHAT JOY. HOPE YOU DONT PULL OUT OF THIS ONE TOO INCASE YOU DONT WANT TO BE A SINGLE MOM! GOODBYE Katie and Lala, baby killers FOR SPORT.
Lmfao at sandavol completely misunderstanding the phrase “the hill you want to die on” Jesus Christ
He seems less than smart sometimes.
He's so narcissistic
He’s such a pretty dummy
Classic Dunning-Kruger effect
The way Tom said he would’ve made it work 🥺 and manned up and found a way…It showed a lot abound him 🥺 It’s hard to live with the what if.. It affects men too not just woman. Thank you both for sharing
Meaningful topics of abortion and what they go through in healthcare are very interesting to watch and gives this show more substance
i agree.
So thankful we have Karen's like u out there to tell us what is or isn't substance in what we watch ..be my life coach??? U have all the answers ❤💯❤💯❤
Respectfully I believe that most of these couples are still together because of the tv show IMO they stick together because they have this show which pays the bills …I haven’t tuned in for years and I’m Shocked most of them are still together
Agree
Especially Katie and Sandoval. You can’t convince me they don’t hate each other
Agreed. Tom is a piece of shit and treats Katie like shit. He clearly is in love with other tom. It’s a ducking joke. And Lala, lmao she got a baby and she’s gonna take that and the money and run.
Facts
@@ariannagalluzzo Yep 🤣😅
James needs to not cut his watermelon without a chopping board. Lala is untrustworthy.
that part bothered me so much poor countertop
Lol yep and yep
Lala thinking "her book" should go straight to the best sellers list, spins me out! 🤯 Is that why someone writes a book? Sh*t no! Get real Lala, love your baby & your life, then see about writing a book that hits the BS list. ❤🙏
So brave of Katie to speak up and say that but Tom shouldn't have said if she wanted to keep tge kid I would have been there. Really?? Seriously?? It's not so simple. But anyway, I do like these two. They've stayed together through thick and thin. It's not easy when everyone else is just popping babies but I hope they get their beautiful baby some day soon 🥰
When tom said that I got vibes maybe he didn't want to have an abortion but repected Katie and supported her
@@michaelrichardi6047 I thought that also but it was a bit shady and he'd support her more but not having mentioned it. I do think they'll make great parents
@@michaelrichardi6047 yea I got that too.
@@michaelrichardi6047 I agree, he’s from Minnesota where I am from, it’s not uncommon here for people to have kids young right out of HS! He would support her no matter her decision, he’s a good guy.
It's got to be hard but I know a handful of couples that's happened to.
Honestly, they shouldn't have kids together, I dont envy that relationship.
Yeah 11 years together is nothing 🙄
@@natashab3412 time is nothing when the relationship is constantly on the rocks
@@stupidrudecat3411 is it though?
Seems theyre doing fine.
Sandy is the one having a hard time dealing bc he can't have complete control over Tschwa. How incredibly immature and covetous
@@natashab3412 they’re okay right now, this has nothing to do with sandy, they just aren’t a great couple, lots of cheating and fighting 🤷♀️🤷♀️
@@stupidrudecat3411 lol. How old are you? No offense meant but thats fairly immature to say .
Sandy is clearly bothered.
And lots of their arguments revolve around him. As do Tom and Toms arguments.
He over-steps his boundary frequently in their relationship.
They've been together a very long time are married and plan on having children. So . Thats that.
Katie is so brave for sharing that .hope they get their bundle of joy soon
She killed a potential child
@@jackiesanchez4663 I’m laughing hysterically at anyone who thinks women who have had an abortion are going to hell or something. You are sick!
Bravery would be taking responsibility for yourself and your actions at all costs.
Brave for sharing she murdered her child??
I just think it’s weird how people are for abortion but also lose their minds when 1 doesn’t have a mask on
Respect should come first tom b4 baby
Well alcohol really messes up that sperm count you know mate
Also he has genetic challenges in his family.
I'm glad Katie is sharing her experience with abortion, we need to de-stigmatize it
Absolutely!
Agreed!!
Tom said if she wanted the kid he would man up🤦🏻♀️
de-stigmatize it? It..
you cant even say what you are talking about
Uhhhhh no.
Katie you are so brave for sharing this so much respect
@Addison Clark maybe don't watch adult content if you're not mature enough to discuss .
So brave and selfless for her to share that. No woman wants an abortion it’s not something they think of fondly. Glad she shared her story
What some people don't realise is, in some states and countries, it absolutly does not take a lot for fathers to lose coustody of their children. Even in then U.S. some states automatically give custody to mothers. It is not always fair and the courts are not ways fair. People who have no children or 1 child and have NEVER been through the end of a relationship with children involved would never and could never understand what could happen. Lala can act like she knows but she truly has no idea.
Tom Tom are like two women on their period type drama 🤣😂🤣
Kati looks gorgeous in the confessionals love this haircut on her
Lala is the worst human being. Is it any wonder “her man” cheated.
Thats harsh, there is no excuse for a man cheating on a women who literally just gave him a child.
You lose them how you find them………
@@chantellefisher8849 I guess thats kinda true. But she was talking about her "fiance who is a stand up man." LOL.
I’ve come to realize the reason Katie and Sandoval do not like each other so much is because their so much like one another 🤷🏼♀️
They both want to control Schwartz
This is powerful! Glad she is using the show to create awareness...
@Sheila Keenan you do get a second chance though.
Tom couldn’t stick it out for a whole shift behind a bar, I honestly can’t see him sticking out fatherhood.
Ok so am I wrong here. My thinking of this whole katie being involved in the bar is that, she is toms wife. Does Tom Sandoval think he can have 2 bars with Tom Schwartz and his wife not be involved? I don't get bc if my husband had a bar, I would be involved. Is that something that only happens in real life? I'm confused. Also, the funnest thing is tom Sandoval screaming "eff yall for making me feel like a psycho path." While in fact acting like a psycho path.
Yes. Exactly
Wow, Katie is brave for being open about her abortion. Such a tough decision to make, I hope she’s healed from it.
I agree
@Addison Clark it’s not but clearly conservatism is.
@Addison Clark Lmdao and I suppose you consider yourself a “lion” . Your whole mentality is a joke
@Addison Clark and I think it’s ironic how liberals are “sheep” yet conservatives hear one thing from another conservatives and start to repeat it over and over again even if it not true
I like Raquel I feel like she's a really kind genuine person
She's weak and submissive.
Or good at pretending
@@wanefelicia8779 The tea!!😂
Tom and Katie aren't emotionally ready for children.
That mustache and goatee
Brock and James had a little rendez vous
Lol
I really think Katie needs to work on her mean girl thing and the whole trying to create teams of people against one before she has a kid and teaches them to do that to people
Watching this back kinda sad Tom and katie are divorcing now
god these people need to be cancelled.
It probably wasn’t even tom’s if they used condoms lol
If Katie never has children this will be very devastating
I wanna be Raquel's friend. She seems so sweet. 🥰
Aaaaa this aged like milk
@@mooltz Oh... my... gahhh... 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😅😅😅😅😅 I'm laughing so freaking hard. I completely forgot about this, and yes... Yes, it did... 😅
@Quantum Mystery Oh, man. 😅🤣🤣🤣
Katie leave Sandoval to his friendship with "your man", otherwise it will go kaput! Even if you end up having a baby. You are just too aggressive!
I love Raquel but what the hell was she wearing in the interview?!
James cutting a watermelon on the counter 🤣
Now that everyone is having babies they want one 🤣
What they need is a divorce. She’s been telling him how to love her for yearssss and she practically begged him to purpose. He was not the one. They’re forcing everything, even pregnancy. This is going to end bad.
Sandavol working out 😂😂😂😂😂😂 hes 🥴🥴🥴
My thoughts exactly 😂😂😂😂
I love Katie , she’s a strong woman who puts up with alot
Tom is not smart, shes too smart for him, she can't even use a phrase like If this is the hill you want to die on....then..
LMAO 😂 😂😂
Okay with 4 drinks a week BUT!
Tom no pot!? 😞
No mushrooms 😏 & the Drs expression to die for 😂😂
Not the baths……😥 I’ll stop smoking 😂😂😂😂😂 I love him…..
Yes Katie was wrong to give him ultimatum to marry her & should of been Tom’s red flag. But! I do like the two & wishing them the best.
I’m glad Tom finally spoke up to Tom and I hope he lets his voice be heard more.
You’re such a good mom and dad. Sure, we killed our first baby. But we’re so great, I’m sure of it. 🙄
TOXIC katie she's a mean girl.
James goes from sober to talking about having drinks. What? Tom is totally disrespectful to yell at you friends wife. You're being super aggressive for no reason.
I don't blame TS for questioning Katie's ideas and her commitment. Katie is the laziest person ever.
How is she lazy? Do you know that for a fact?
They both are lazy
@@Justme0288 uh do you watch the show? She admitted to be lazy after no longer wsitressing
I use to enjoy La La as she was always a hot mess however, now she is just down right mean... I honestly can't stand Katie and that has never changed!
This did not age well
I love Katie for this. Super real. We definitely need to de-stigmatize these experiences as women. It’s sets us back as females to judge others. This is not a blanket statement of course. Because there are individual cases that should be thought out more, but in the end, generally speaking women should have the freedom to chose what to do with their bodies. Just like men.
@@ashleyj.8690 I know it’s easier said than done. But don’t lose hope. My mom had me at 39. Life has endless possibilities, and that is a fact. But I agree with you there’s always a plan that goes beyond our understanding at times. I know it’s hard releasing guilt. As women we feel guilty for everything. Even after having children, many of us still feel guilty for any misstep or mistake made while raising a child. Society has made us feel overly ashamed of many things. I’ve worked really hard on realizing and understanding I’m not perfect. Because when I was younger, I truly was my own worse critic. Which made me very sad at times. It can be very unhealthy. You kind of discredit every other part of you that is great, when you focus on mistakes or shortcomings. But I wish and pray for the best for you and your husband. Sending only positive energy and thoughts your way.
@@isabelpulecio9476 …. Aw, thank you So much for All of your kind & sweet words…. I definitely needed too hear that, you’re very sweet for replying ❤️💚🌺❤️ & you’re so right. I shouldn’t be so hard on myself. Hope you have a wonderful evening, peace n love🌺💚🦋💜
What we "definitely need to do" is to show people, females and males, what fetuses look like in the womb. How developed they are at what point, while making sure they understand the full details of what abortion actually involves. How the fetus is blended up/dismembered while alive, then extracted (or falling out in chunks into a toilet at the clinic) immediately afterwards, so that everybody then has *fully informed consent. So that they truly know and understand before they climb onto that table.* Because most people don't know when they go in for one. They have no idea A) what the fetus looks like inside at that moment, nor are they given B) the information about how the fetus will be dismembered alive/blended alive/extracted from them. And I do mean blended/dismembered. The head pulled from the neck and arms and legs ripped from the body with tongs sometimes, depending, or the entire thing just blended up if it's up to the three month mark. (later stage abortions require the dismembering/decapitation of the fetus, again, while alive.) They think it's just this "quick and easy, painless solution" to something that's "just a few clumps of cells"....because that's the propaganda they've been given. I've watched vids where they show the truth to various young females who, prior to being shown the vids and given the full explanations, spoke just like you. Verbatim. The easy breezy casual voiced, pro choice stance that tries to sound nonchalant and reasonable. Then they saw the photos/videos and got the full explanation for what truly happens during an abortion, and were in tears after, their worlds shook. Because nobody told them, and they never bothered to research it for themselves. They just blindly accepted that easy breezy casual pro choice liberal propaganda stance we've all been fed without ever researching it for themselves. But now they knew. Now imagine if EVERYBODY was shown these same explicit vids/photos and given the full detailed run down of what abortions involve, and at what stage of a pregnancy. *More women would be a lot more careful to make sure whoopsies didn't happen in the first place. And more women would be less apt to adopt the easy breezy "it's all good" nonchalant tone you're adopting.* People need to know, and that's the #1 abortion-related problem we have right now. *Lack of informed consent and true understanding of how the abortions are actually performed.*
Ironic...had a baby and aborted it and later on couldn't have one.
If I was Tom there be no way I would have a child with this woman she's entirely too toxic. If Tom has a baby with her he'll forever be anchored to this woman. It's a trap dude run !!!
Bullshit. Hes lucky she stays w him
@@natashab3412 no way! She is disgusting!
@@marciejade1408 spend a year with him a bet you'd be saying otherwise. He's an adorable character BUT he's man-baby
@@marciejade1408 she not disgusting 🚫
All they need is the fertility vase of the ndebele tribe.
(does that mean anything to you?)
It takes a adult man to make a kid…. And Schwartz is not….
Why so much plastic surgery already
That poor baby
Tony Stark!
Why were yall fking without protection?
Some boys should have been born female. Sandoval being one Gus from Floridabama shore is another
@Sheila Keenan NOOOOOO 🤣🤣
The irony of them throwing away God's greatest gift to them, because of inconvenience, then wanting another gift, and God's saying not so fast. You didn't even appreciate or value it the first time around. Lesson? Perhaps.
True my close friend got an abortion with her first pregnancy she never got pregnant again and most likely she never will she is over 40 now. There is certain risk with abortion.
Hey Good Ole Tom ?!🤔 STEP IT UP & be a DAD ?! 👏😎✊
It’s CALLED THE DAY AFTER PILL! No one needs to get an Abortion anymore! I Don’t get it . And Yes it was available over 10yrs. ago.
Exactly
You must be very young.
@@natashab3412 46 years young
@@faithfullfertility2090 are you answering for her or do you have 2 accounts,? 🤔
Age has nothing to do with wisdom from God’s word
Tried to watch this video but Katie and Sandoval both... just gross. Can't do it.
What did Katie do ?!
@@natashab3412 I just think she is a bully and over the years her behavior towards people has been generally abusive.
@@MidwestMusicGurl shes not really one here though imo
I actually think others have been worse. And that she gets a bad rap many times
I think Katie we will be single again..🤔
We need younger cast . They’re old and burned out
I undestand Sandoval cause Katie cant control her self fr
How so ?
Sandoval is the one whose unhinged at times. And jealous and possessive.
What she doesnt undestand is that first thats not her business and I know that if Shwartz gives her power he is going to regret it and second I wouldnt risk either to let her do another drama like the book signing for me she’s really a bully
@@meldelmont2174 Sandoval was the idiotic one at the signing.
Katie is married to TSchwa. So of course she's going to be involved.
Grow up!
@@natashab3412 HAHAHAHA breath is just a show i could care less 🤣 is just my opinion
@@meldelmont2174 duh
Abortion isn't birth control.
This comment is life!
Tell that to Sherri Shepherd, former host of the View
I cant stand the two Toms or Katie
Lala is authentic, adore her 🌸
Cheap bravo still providing clips rather than full videos on u tube. Hope they get what they deserve in a year or less. Want to see vanderpump rules but they simply don't make it accessible by utube...which they could do. Fake anyway from the inception.
This show sux now, all the half way interesting cast are gone!!!
Show suuuuuuuucks without OGs
These are the OGs 🤡🤡🤡
Yet another reason I don't like Katie...
Of course an abortion storyline 🙄
I hope her past decision is not the reason she is having fertility problems now. I've heard a lot of women say they had an abortion and could not conceive years later. That would constantly come into their mind as to some type of karma or gods way of stopping it. It's not an easy decision to make, I'm sure she has suffered emotionally and mentally enough. The choice to have a baby is hard when your at the best and most stable point in your life. Never mind at 20 without a pot to wizz in. I was 17 when I had my son. It was very difficult but I promised myself and my baby I would work my butt off to give him a great life. And I did. I never relied on anyone, no government funds, his father was no where to be found so there was no financial support either. But I was very focused. By 23 I owned my first home. Paid cash for my new vehicle. Had excellent credit and managed one of the world's most well known financial institutions. (We not the actual institution, just one location)
I rose to the top very quick because I needed too. I needed to pay my mortgage and all the bills. I paid for daycare and evening babysitting while i went to my night job waitressing. You can do it, if you put your mind to it. But I can totally understand why Tom and Katie weren't ready for it. I do not regret my choice at all, I do see where I missed out on a lot of things my friends and school mates were doing but none of them were in the financial position i was in at 23 either. Still to this day some of them are living in their parents basement.
Actually I got a call out of the blue about a month ago from the guy I was madly in love with in high school. He is apparently a drunk and at 47 lives in his mommy's basement. I was so in love with him but being pregnant kinda killed that opportunity. Thank god! I couldn't wait to get off the phone with him and have avoided taking his calls or responding to a text message. Anyways I guess we all have a path to choose. I just hope Katie and Tom don't beat themselves up over the choice they made as very young adults.
So sad Tom wanted her keep the baby,
I could tell
Bingo!
Lol. What. No way.
Katie was born a middle aged control freak , still sad news they split up
We need Jax and Stassi back! The shows not the same without the OGs.
I'm so glad they're not in it. It's time to move on
@@floridabrit9572 definitely
They’re too old now it’s depressing
These are the OGs.
Sandy is awful
He needs therapy
Jesus is your free gift to heaven when you believe in his death, burial and resurrection you are immediately saved
Katie and Lala are two WORST females on the show.
Next stop, BH housewives 😂
Love Katie
When I see Tom Schwartz a semblance of Chris Watts ( who murdered wife, 2 daughters and unborn son), he exhibits the same passive/ aggressive demeanor and character traits. He is just "WAITING TO EXPLODE". Very frightening, hope he seeks help.
@@sheilagadde5975 idts. Tom is a lot more multidimensional AND has a great sense of humor . So nah.
@@sheilagadde5975 that said., he Def needs work
Getting abortion you need to understand there is a certain risk of not being able to conceive again.
Let’s ALL share our abortions. I had two! No regrets
demonic
I just cant w/ the reasoning for abortion, someone else said it below the best! ABORTION is NOT birth control.
Um...would you want to be a single mom? Not wanting to be a single mom is a valid reason for a abortion.
@@desiprincess99 Wow, wildly insane.
Ewww lost all respect for them
I am sure they have a card that they swipe for rewards at the planned parenthood clinic...oh the irony of the business name!
Hypocrisy at its finest 👌
It’s pretty sad 😔 they are still together and they killed that child
The A word and she wasn't even assaulted. So, you killed a baby because in that moment you didn't think you'd be together..... but NOW YOU ARE READY OH WHAT JOY.
HOPE YOU DONT PULL OUT OF THIS ONE TOO INCASE YOU DONT WANT TO BE A SINGLE MOM!
GOODBYE Katie and Lala, baby killers FOR SPORT.