Came across your channel a few weeks ago. Enjoying it and finding time to watch all of them 😊 I’m in the same age range, I applaud you for doing brave to go a different direction in life and go after what you want in life 👍🏻👍🏻 Your interview is so easy going, like talking to a friend ❤️. Keep up the good work in your channel and keep exploring what’s in front of you 💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻
The video is so insightful and it is beautifully well thought out and crafted. The flow and the questions along the way to induce thinking is good. To always go back to one’s intentions when the going gets tough and to support one’s partner is the highest peak of love. Can I convince you that I have convinced myself? 👍
it is so calming video, like listening to your 大姐 how to overcome this difficulty. I have been unemployed for 3 months now, not because I chose to but same with your experience in 35 y.o . I am 35 y.o now experienced what you experienced 10 years ago which really cool. I need to find myself, I lost it and worry about the future. Finding job in 30s with no special skill is really hard.
Yes, it is difficult and could be challeging, especially unexpected lost of job. Be open-minded, try and learn new things, and take care your physical and mental health. All the best!
@@higoatohdeer Any content is gd content. They are always so engaging and inspiring especially the interaction between 高羊 and you. Looking forward to your regular uploads👏
U have a very supportive and loving husband ❤😊 Well! When stepping into 40 or 50, many people start thinking the meaning of life. We all don’t like to live like a robot. 👍
After working hard and sacrificing more than half of our lifetime, people are wondering is there a better way to live the other half. Perhaps the mind has awaken 🤯
@@waihengyong7165 yeah, you're right. We've tried bungee jumping before, our travels mostly will do some outdoor activities like hiking etc. But some of those activities like sky diving, skiing are expensive, hahah.. now I guess we'll continue to do more hiking and trekking, more affordable and still very enjoyable 🤣😂
Actually, I am not sure who is Goat and who is Deer. Haha..anyway, Deep thinking (self-reflection and evaluation) according to your hubby, wow! this is what I sometimes do, and it is a neverending effort yeah. However, the rationalisation based on individual experience at different levels (emotional, psychological, spiritual/belief systems, nostalgia/past, and appreciation or value systems) may logically answered a decision that none others may comprehend. This is why 'thinkers' are also 'dreamers' and to contemplate 'out of the box' may be challenging to impress/convince others, but is significantly creative in and individualised manner. In short, when oneself explores the inner-talking after listening/researching to validate/evaluate, 'new' knowledge and sometimes, 'opportunities', or at least, 'appreciation' can be given birth; our brain is probably capable of stuff we don't explored deep enough!
@@higoatohdeer Hahaha... So des ne!! What an interesting origin. Just this intuitive branding will go a long way. Both of you are enlightened by the pain, cold and peace above tsum clouds. That for sure :)) looking forward for more deep contents and all the best with the channel and creation!
Thanks! haha.. Goat oh Deer :P actually, your story rings a bell in my mind and i bet too, in many wishful souls everywhere. Your insights resonates with mine, and really like how you explained them naturally. Gan xie!! Contentment, Appreciation (of non-monetary implusiveness), Nature (definitely, my top pick too, haha), Gap between reality and fantasy (hmm.. this is a tough topic), the other 'Content' (actually, I have this dream/similar thoughts) that are socially responsible and meaningful to many lives... hope one day we can exchange ideas yeah ;) oh! i wanna say, you have very good 'men choi' yeah. Love to hear your analogies and shared experiences. And more importantly, your hubby is so supportive and both of you are lovely in vlogs ^^
@@higoatohdeer still exploring. Coincidentally I think same age. Lol.. High five. Deer is a symbol of peace no wonder and goat is probably the one that pokes, tall and above observing what needs to be given that stroke. Hahaha.. Your Cantonese is really deep and funny.
各位打工仔朋友是不是都有想過裸辭或離開舒適圈？你有沒有試過踏出那一步？有的話，你的體驗如何？沒有的話，是什麽讓你卻步呢？歡迎留言和我們分享🙂
谢谢你对于这个话题分享自己的想法。我本身工作很多年，职位升的越高，责任越大，相对在工作花的时间也变得更长。各人选择的路不一样，看到的景色也是不一样。本身也相当佩服你的勇气选择踏出这一步。
通常賺錢越多，付出就越多。各取所需，想通考量過就好。祝你心想事成，得償所願✨
我非常认同. 我也刚脱离corporate花花世界八个月了. 但我已经55岁了，是我今年给自己最大及最好的生日礼物.
活在当下，真的不需要有方向！ 随心所欲， 过自己喜欢的生活，保持良好的心态及心情，是给自己最棒的负责！
很棒的生日禮物❤近日聽説40歲是少年，60歲是中年，現在大家都有可能活到百歲。我也贊成該提早退出職場，可以重新體驗不一樣的人生下半場。
偶然下睇到呢條片，用1時鐘去制作，內容要豐富有深度先得，點知越睇越有感覺，多謝倆位咁坦誠分享。
讀書唔多的我，畢業開始做寫字樓，由一般文職工作，後來轉做會計直到離開舒適圈，因為老公幾年前病逝，沒有兒女的我，父母老爺奶奶亦早前去世，頓時活着毫無意義，渡日如年，但日子總要過，經濟壓力無以前咁大，在50歲前離開舒適圈，轉做體力勞動頗大，可以服務別人的工作，開始時做醫院病房助理，因未能適應而辭職，現在做咗院舍護理員已有一年半，過程中起起跌跌，太太所講的感受我都有，所以好有共鳴感，到目前呢刻，雖然仍未找到合適及鍾意工作，感恩沒有後悔，開闊咗自己目光。
最後，多謝分享余光中的詩，作為提醒「生命若不是現在，那是何時？」
好開心你鍾意我哋嘅分享。大家都渴望行出一條屬於自己嘅路（有滿足感，同埋自在）。睇嚟你的人生選擇都行得唔錯，希望大家將來會行得更加好。以前我以為人老咗就冇乜所謂嘅人生，而家感覺45、50歲先啱啱開始。
我在 corporate 工作了14年，32岁裸辞后尝试创业两年后遇到疫情 就逼不得已把生意亏着卖了。后来遇见我先生，就建立家庭， 目前是 stay at home mum 陪伴9个月的宝宝。生命不会完美、永远顺遂，但确实有滋有味，有体会 有故事 😊
喜歡你的人生體驗，尤其是“有滋有味 有体会 有故事”。希望有更多的體驗🤗
用笑去逃避
看了你们这条片，真的对我人生有了不一样的启发。现在我要认真思考接下来规划。
我們人到中年，的確會想多：有沒有別的可能性😉我們一起加油吧！
想往那個方向走？
多謝分享❤，可能同你哋情況有相近，亦感恩同樣得到丈夫嘅支持，聽落去非常之有同感，我十年前辭過職兩年，因有啲嘢想做想achieve, 開心完成後後再返職場，十年後嘅今日，剛離職數月，今次係唔想再做依家厭惡的。
分享之後先發現有唔少人喺職業生涯中都有休息一兩年嘅經歷，可能係想試吓唔同嘢，或者係攰咗想休息，原來大家都有呢啲諗法。十年後嘅你，今次感覺點呀？想玩啲咩？
喜欢听你们夫妻俩吹水。相似年纪，也是很厌倦了打工，但是因为两个孩子，很多现实的问题，没办法裸辞。希望伱们出更多讨论人生的片子。❤
有孩子的確不簡單，唯有再扛扛。爲了夢想只需要勇氣，但要賺錢養家又是另一回事。我們不時都喜歡私下討論生活（紙上談兵），但真正有親身經歷與體驗的有限。承蒙大家的正面反馈，可能接下來也會分享一些體驗與感想。
好开心，听到有相似的感想。可能人到了四十多， 年过半百，灵性觉醒，两轮同样辞职的离开舒适圈经验，像是轮回。不过是第二次会比第一次更加强大，经验也比较多，成长了。
"觉醒"這個用詞，我喜歡。辞职大概就意味著想探討其他生活方式的可能，多嘗試與失敗也無妨。大家一起加油成长吧！
十分欣賞你們，看到你們所講人生已經過了一半，是時候要過自己想要的生活👍給我有更大的勇氣辭去大公司的穩定收入，我所面對的事及擔憂跟你一模一樣，所以很有認同感，經常想公司辭掉我😂我要學習跟你一樣樂觀、積極去面對，希望將來你們能夠繼續談一些人生話題，加油啊💪💪
打工人的夢想，不是辭職，就是希望被公司辭有錢賠。在大公司上班的，多數都有財務自由的能力，想開了就不必困住自己。裸辭（或退休）是心理與財務的雙準備，好了就可以出發。替你開心你找到出路，希望大家的生活會更美好。
多謝你們的分享，說穿了很多打工人仕的心聲，廣東話好有親切惑👍😊有伴侶支持可以去追尋夢想，很棒哦👏👏
@@debbietong9578 多謝你支持🙌 打工仔有打工仔的苦，老闆或自由工作者也有各個崗位的苦，就看自己比較適合哪一樣。祝你無論做哪一樣也能順心如意！
我很认可你两夫妇的思想thinking。请做多一点的“吹水”。我五十七岁了（刚被retrenched），向你们学习。这 个老公不错，很有智慧。打个赞👍。
有時被裁，也是一個從新出發的契機。我們一起加油💪💪💪
好喜歡粵語 雖然我聽不懂 但總覺得好舒服❤
聼多了就會懂了😂多謝支持🤗
多謝！
多謝支持🤗
看到你在45岁选择辞职，追寻自己的梦想，我深感共鸣。我们每个人都有权利去实现自己的愿望和追求快乐。为此，我想通过赞助一个专属于你的定制网站或在线商店来支持你的梦想和生活，希望这能为你带来帮助和勇气。这是我送给你的一份小小心意，愿它能成为你实现梦想路上的助力。
佩服你能勇敢作出选择，我还停留在选择的阶段，即便现在孩子已出身，也没有贷款了，公积金虽不多，但勉强可以度日。但现实总归现实，本身也有旅居的打算，但这些必须有金钱去推动，估计自己最快也要戴着面具继续上班至退休年龄才能实现这个梦想。
有了動力，就慢慢學習想辦法。時間與行動是你最好的朋友。加油💪💪💪
說到心坎裏．😢
最近工作都感到好多無奈
但自己的學歷不高
沒有信心離開現職公司
家中有小孩, 多年前已希望做全職媽媽
可是丈夫不太支持😢
人生有很多困難，也有很多條路，慢慢想，慢慢準備，現在不可以，希望將來可以。加油！
多謝分享 你倆口子真幸福 找到靈魂伴侶 祝生活愉快
祝你得償所願✨
喜欢你的影片，讲出我的心声，正在努力存钱然后裸辞
有方向與動力是件幸福的事，加油！裸辞后想做什麽？還是自由是沒方向的😂
我也是在33岁选择了裸辞，远离corporate 已经5年了，这五年所获得的成长，才是最大的收获❤
哈哈，離開corporate的確會有很多生活與思想上的成長，恭喜你❤比我們早十年得償所願，你是我們的前輩！可以分享一下你裸辞的契機嗎？
我試過你這樣的經歷，十年過後，發現原來當時的擔心是沒有必要的，不過別人說什麼都沒有用，唯有讓時間慢慢過去，突然有一天，環境轉變了，心境亦會改變了。活在當下，講就四個字，學習我覺得需要大半生，一直去經歷，一直去成長，直至到每人的終點。
謝謝分享，很開心你開悟並成長了！同意你的領悟，真的需要時間與經歷的熏陶，才發現很多擔憂都是無謂的。
有个相知相伴的伴侣真的人生最美好的，羡慕你们夫妻的相处模式。
的確難得，可能是上輩子燒好香，也可能是性格的關係，我們也很感恩。同時鏡頭后還是有很多性格與情緒上的挑戰，基本上是一生也可能學習不好的事。希望大家都可以遇上同道中人的伴侶。
Came across your channel a few weeks ago. Enjoying it and finding time to watch all of them 😊
I’m in the same age range, I applaud you for doing brave to go a different direction in life and go after what you want in life 👍🏻👍🏻
Your interview is so easy going, like talking to a friend ❤️. Keep up the good work in your channel and keep exploring what’s in front of you 💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻
TQ for watching ALL our videos 🙏
We are lucky to be blessed with options 😇
We like to keep things a bit informal, and thanks for the encouragement ✨
無意中看見你們的頻道，不知不覺整個影片的1小時都完全看完，我是來自香港，感覺你們說的話很舒服呢，可以令我反思一下你們夫妻之道。謝謝
@@jcmho4167 多謝你支持！夫妻之道確實不簡單的，我們也還在努力學習中，以後有機會可能可以做一集傾下😊
我同你狀況差不多，不過如果冇被動收入，始終難以提前退休，我裸辭了8個月，去左好多旅行，好寫意，唔洗煩公司野，但就有出冇入，真係會變得就住洗。如果財務還許可，我想搵份冇咁困身既半職工，全職既話實在太困身，壓力大好多
啱嘅，有儲蓄同被動收入係必須嘅（只係幾多嘅問題）。通常一開始係蜜月期，想旅行、享受、輕鬆生活。之後就會好似你講咁，仲有啲收入會安心啲，同埋有工作可以有打發時間。對我哋嚟講，退休唔係唔工作，而係工作嘅目的唔再係為咗搵錢，而係做自己想做嘅嘢，順便賺少少錢（呢個亦係我哋揀RUclips嘅主要原因）。上半生已經為錢搏命，接下嚟應該為自己。我哋一齊加油，令生活更好💪
@@higoatohdeer 你們同我諗法好似，人到中年，好想嘗試轉換生活模式，做自己喜歡既野，而唔係日日返工做埋同一樣野，大家繼續加油，享受人生，身心都健康。
講得好好 要有閒情先會享受到自己想要做既事，放工後做既好多時都係報復性娛樂
希望大家都會有閒情🤗
聽完其實好有共鳴同感因為我年紀都差唔多。我都好想踏出呢一步，（裸辭）。想去做自己既事，就算結果唔係你預期，都有好一個經驗。但呢個經驗係無價嘅😭
@@chiutam5768 希望你早日夢想成真！的確，結果是什麼不重要，過程才是最重要的，令我們學習、累積、磨練，成為更好的自己。大家一齊努力！💪😊
The video is so insightful and it is beautifully well thought out and crafted. The flow and the questions along the way to induce thinking is good. To always go back to one’s intentions when the going gets tough and to support one’s partner is the highest peak of love. Can I convince you that I have convinced myself? 👍
You are really thoughtful and meticulous, so glad that our thinking are aligned (知音難求). Thanks for the support 🤗
要離開同事人事之間壓力 解決吾到 因為上司係來源 原來相同問題都發生其他人
@@ipswfile 的确好多人离职原因係因为上司，我离职时嘅上司其实好唔错，可惜公司变动非常频密，好上司好可能转眼间就换咗，加上公司制度似係迈向我唔想见到嘅情况，即係越吹得就越升到职，所以索性找其他可能性
Always blessed to have options, and be able to act on them. ❤
Yes, we are blessed. We should make the most of what is available to us 😊
沒有財務壓力，可以考慮小休後半職，有點收入又可與社會連接， work 中有life，life 住，work.除非嚴重社恐
"work中有life"這句我喜歡❤
@@higoatohdeer 不能選 不工作，就苦中作樂。在香港，沒請家務助理，在家是工作，在公司作樂。我同事有兩個小孩，大呻回家一堆事累死，上班反而有me time.
@@mantan9575 父母最怕學校假期，比上班更累😂 辛苦了天下父母的犧牲🙏
it is so calming video, like listening to your 大姐 how to overcome this difficulty. I have been unemployed for 3 months now, not because I chose to but same with your experience in 35 y.o . I am 35 y.o now experienced what you experienced 10 years ago which really cool. I need to find myself, I lost it and worry about the future. Finding job in 30s with no special skill is really hard.
Yes, it is difficult and could be challeging, especially unexpected lost of job. Be open-minded, try and learn new things, and take care your physical and mental health. All the best!
@@confusedmeee and trust that 一切都是最好的安排。Like what Steve Jobs said, you can only connect the dots looking backwards 🍀
我觉得你们越来越进步了。
還是在掙扎求存，有待努力。謝謝你的鼓勵❤
Thanks
第一次收到打賞，真係歷史性嘅一刻，多謝支持🙏😃❤
講到好好 。我都係中年裸辭 。原因都係好似你咁 。所以你講中哂我的心事 。你好幸運搵到身邊人支持你 。❤
打工到中年嘅相同命運，慶幸大家都有機會作出呢個選擇。之後有機會要探討大家裸辭之後做咩，依家又點樣？
很棒的分享👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
謝謝支持🙏
你說中了我的心境，的剛剛都決定裸辭，月底last day，最近都在想可以嗎？終於找到有同路人，係明白我，謝謝你分享😊😊
人生難得遇上志同道合嘅知音，未來嘅路仲好長，大家一齊共勉啦！🤗💪
我賠錢走人，目前裸辭一個禮拜，確實難熬，畢竟我也滿年輕，不到40，小孩不大，但也沒有小到需要我一手一腳帶，小孩開學後希望我想做的事都能做到
@@soso-op7ve 賠錢走人，可想而知你的壓力與決心。關關難過關關過，照顧好自己，加油！
一樣 可是我沒有離開的勇氣😢
@@higoatohdeer 其實工作稍微有壓力而已，同事相處也很好，就是工時很長，無法看顧家裡，也累了，剛好一件重要的事必須處理，只好即刻賠錢走，不然原本想捱到領完花紅走都可以，果然做一件事是需要衝動的，還好這8年做了很多理財準備，目前躺平還算可以
Cant wait to see more uploads from you both. Keep your good spirit up. Add oil add oil!
thanks for your support🥰! any specific topics would you like to see more?
@@higoatohdeer Any content is gd content. They are always so engaging and inspiring especially the interaction between 高羊 and you. Looking forward to your regular uploads👏
U have a very supportive and loving husband ❤😊
Well! When stepping into 40 or 50, many people start thinking the meaning of life. We all don’t like to live like a robot. 👍
After working hard and sacrificing more than half of our lifetime, people are wondering is there a better way to live the other half. Perhaps the mind has awaken 🤯
非常好的分享
多謝 😊😁
呢集好似搵到 流量小密碼 - 可以一邊旅行 一邊講下點旅居 等大家放鬆吓 - 大家都有需被提醒 （經常提醒）自己嘅目的係乜嘢
還在探討要如何從旅遊轉到旅居，感覺快要到這階段，但又還沒到。你講得啱，我哋好似學會咗好多嘢，但又唔記得咗好多嘢，係要時刻提醒自己。你有咩目標呀？
@@higoatohdeer 可以 講吓 大馬 租屋 交通 衣食住行 費用 。。。再去印尼？ 新加坡 ？日本 南部 /鳥取 （物價平 又冇乜人知 🤣）？ 清邁 ？你地講野好笑呀 ，講多啲 ，拍少啲景 😂 好似唔係鼓勵說話 - 另一個密碼係 靈異野 。。。🤔不過要睇下你地鐘唔鐘意 。。我上個月被 炒 。。不過我自己攞黎架 做野已經冇心機 - 我49 - 本來想賺多一兩年錢 但其實每日返工都好難頂 - 而家老闆作出決定 都係好事 。每日做瑜珈 煮飯仔 但我未諗到之後做乜 - 我都好鐘意 GRAPHIC 可能畫畫 （procreate - 我要去學）畫搜圖
@@leehown2008 係香港人呀？感覺香港嘅生活壓力好大。已經有好多人成日分享大馬生活旅居嘅片，加上我哋係本地人，同旅居人嘅睇法唔同。等我哋去其他國家旅居嘅時候再同大家分享。靈異唔係我哋嘅强項，哈哈。唔打工要諗做咩真係好費神，最緊要多學習，多嘗試，當作是一個重新出發的契機，好好照顧自己🤗
@@higoatohdeer 係香港人。香港生活壓力係大啲，乜都要靠自己。等你旅居片。你地都拍咗好多 飲食片 我慢慢睇返。都係你咁話 船到橋頭自然直 - 希望唔係瞓直 - 等待既時間就放鬆心情
很棒的分享！你和你老公的观点和分析非常有启发，谢谢！可以多做类似的单元。
謝謝，大家不嫌棄我們的觀點就好。隨著進入人生的不同階段，做的影片也應該會有改變。
The woes of an introvert! I quit my job because my company doesnt allow working from home. 明明可以在家办公却要每天来回3小时然后对其他人嬉皮笑脸。真的累和毫无意义。
哈哈，公司本身就是個複雜體系，那就找一家喜歡WFH的吧！Covid + WFH就是Introvert的黃金組合😂祝你找到更好的！
should do those required energy such as bungee jump, paragliding, trekking etc early
@@waihengyong7165 yeah, you're right. We've tried bungee jumping before, our travels mostly will do some outdoor activities like hiking etc. But some of those activities like sky diving, skiing are expensive, hahah.. now I guess we'll continue to do more hiking and trekking, more affordable and still very enjoyable 🤣😂
chill couple 😂😂😂💜💜💜
Our age chill us down 😂
我覺得同人類有思想上嘅交流係好危險㗎， 你唔知幾時講嘅嘢，人哋唔啱聽，就會得罪咗人， 所以人越大，越唔會將自己真正嘅諗法講出嚟😅😅😅
例如一個識咗廿幾年嘅朋友，講咗佢婚姻出現咗問題幾年，但係都講得好含糊, 佢話佢老公對佢好好，有一日佢突然之間話已經分居咗，我就問佢咁你哋有啲咩導火線呀？ 佢就嬲嬲哋話你識咗我咁多年，都唔知道發生咩事㗎咩？仲要我講!？我心諗我點知呀~ 之前我都唔好意思問太多，你又講得好模糊， 可能佢心情唔好，我都唔想再多問， 等佢自己搞清楚嘅狀況先，好似問乜都係錯，問乜佢都會爆😅😅
又係另一個識咗二十幾年嘅朋友， 喺疫情期間飛幾個鐘探親， 嗰陣時疫情啱啱開始，意大利嗰邊死好多老人家， 然後我就同佢講， 飛嚟飛去好危險喎~你屋企有老人家， 如果老人家中咗, 死亡機會大好多, 跟住佢unfriend咗我, 仲要畀我其餘兩個朋友話我過份, 我唔係醫生, 憑乜嘢講呢句說話😢😢😢 之後其中一個係醫生，佢幾年後再飛嚟探親都話驚佢屋企個老人家中招，要自己隔離兩日，即係自己就會做，最緊要自己親戚唔好死， 人哋親戚死唔死，唔關自己事~ 唔出聲， 唔得罪人~
人際關係的確一啲都唔簡單。有時候有幸識到啲簡單坦然、大癲大廢嘅朋友，會輕鬆好多。講嘢係一門好高深嘅學問，我哋大部分人都唔識。沉默是金，哈哈。大家保重！
你第二個朋友真係極品，不過佢可能覺得你咒緊佢屋企老人家😂😂😂😂
個醫生朋友死人地唔死自己屋企人就得呢種行為，其實現實中超級多呢種人架，就算你問佢哋意見都局外人不負責任咁答你，或答唔知。基本上呢種人係要維持大家關係和諧，唔對任何自己以外既事負責，怕你到時出事搵佢麻煩。
不過你個醫生朋友係Covid 都唔提醒下朋友，反而自己會做啲措施去預約，超級唔夠朋友啦😂😂😂😂😂
@@TA-34911 我個醫生朋友話~ 人哋梗係會評估風險佢嗰位長輩嘅健康狀況而作出的決定~你咁講咪唔尊重佢嘅決定， 佢會覺得你係咪質疑佢想害死佢父母？ 我話唔係，但係佢話連上飛機都唔戴口罩,又唔隔離, 嗰陣時係好初期，又未知道有啲乜嘢醫治嘅方法同真正死亡率, 咁就真係好危險, 要睇清楚啲先啫~ 或者係我太心急激動，表達能力唔好掛~ 之後我再打畀unfriend我個朋友， 想解釋下 ， 大家拆掂佢 ，佢就block埋我個電話添~ 我學識成年人嘅世界係冇床頭打交床尾和㗎~ 大家都玻璃心。
Unfriend 其實都有好處，就係唔使每次佢返嚟探親, 都一家大細嚟我屋企食飯， 即係不請自來，直接話上嚟我屋企探我食飯， 我話嗰日我要返工，放咗工到黃昏~好攰，不如大家出街食飯，我搵餐廳我請，佢話唔得， 佢堅持要來，佢話佢哋食得好簡單~ 可能因為有個小朋友，佢哋唔想出街食飯， 但佢唔會邀請我去佢屋企食飯㗎噃， 因為佢係返娘家探親，佢個屋企並不在呢個鎮仔度， 所以醫生朋友又好，呢位unfriend我嘅朋友又好，永遠都係得我煮，冇佢哋煮， 到我生咗小朋友，好攰，我話出街食，永遠都係我請食飯~ 我請食飯佢哋仲係唔多老禮~佢哋心諗點解唔可以喺你屋企度食 (即係識咗十幾年，都一直喺我屋企食㗎嘛....., 咁嗰陣時係窮苦留學生，就梗係自己煮啦，下下出街食咁貴咩~) 我老公話你地識咗咁多年，佢哋擺明恰你，你冇曬底線~ 所以新識嘅朋友， 我會煮一次，如果佢唔邀請我去佢屋企，無有來有往就算， 冇下次， 最多出去飲杯嘢吹下水咪得囉~ 我使乜搞個海鮮全餐啫~
@@kapochan6688 你老公講得啱，你啲舊朋友擺明恰緊你。唔好介意我坦白，你應該一路以來都俾佢地恰，佢地應該覺得你係最低層既係你地呢堆人既關係中，而你應該又唔係好介意恰唔恰，朋友無所謂，俾你佔少少便宜，長久一路維持呢個關係。所以當你以下犯上，佢地就唔慣，覺得你識咩呀，收聲喇，甚至unfriends 你，呢啲咁既朋友，其實當普通朋友算喇，咪鬼俾佢地去你屋企喇，污染你屋企空氣呀🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@TA-34911 你講中咗呀 ~ 我同我老公爭論咗20年，做人唔使咁計較~ 但最後係有冇心嘅問題囉， 而家我有第二個好方法趕走個醫生朋友一家， 有一次佢又係好堅持話一定要嚟我屋企探我~加食午歺， 跟住我話好呀~咁一人準備一味餸，即係 bring a dish , 我話唔一定要自己整 ，可以外賣, 結果佢用0.001秒話~吓！咁煩~咁唔好喇。 佢哋每次嚟我都要準備半日， 打掃屋企同準備食材 ，你煩我就得？( 仲要佢係食齋，所以要特登諗冇薑蔥蒜嘅菜式, 特登去買素食蠔油，冬菇粉之類嘅嘢， 真係絞盡腦汁㗎) 如果我真係想去人哋屋企坐串串門子，我會話~我買外賣嚟你屋企，你乜都唔使做~ 或者我會話，我過咗午膳時間嚟坐坐聚聚一陣，買埋蛋糕下午茶(加小禮物) ~ 去之前仲會加句~你唔畀執屋呀下! 我鍾意你屋企嘅生活氣息！哈.......
大佬啊，为什么裸辞后一定是得空/闲情？是转换跑道，不是pension leh...
正是 👍 大家都認爲只有打工才是真正的工作😊
我也是這樣
同道中人，一起加油！
我也想。。可是怕后悔
也不懂要做什么😢
不懂要做什麽，可能代表還沒準備好。我們也是學習探索了很多年（改變了無數次想法），part time開始做，好像找到路了，心就比較定。慢慢加油，時刻提醒自己要如何把生活過好！
good!
Thank you
考慮轉工重點應是什麼？ 一間老闆不錯，同事中矩中舉，但不喜歡工作類型，應不應該轉工？
冇咩特別嘅事都唔會諗住辭職嘅，通常係因為有好大嘅不滿（對外邊，或者心入面）或者有啲要求先至會諗辭職。我會考慮Push（現況有咩唔好，惡劣，頂唔順，無前途，等等）同埋Pull（我向往咩更好嘅嘢，夢想，目標，時間不等人，等等）Factors。
请问老公都是full time content creator？
自由工作者（程序員），所有空擋時間都拿來做content了。
在香港說，要自由又有自尊，住房必已備妥，樓齡可以住到九十歲，流動資產須有今天年支出乘以九十減現年齡的一點五倍。若現年四十，年支出三十萬，即要有樓加上二千三百萬！
係呀，香港、新加坡嘅生活水平好高，收入相對都比東南亞國家高出四倍。我哋見到人哋嘅出路都係努力儲錢，跟住搬去一蚊變四蚊嘅國家生活。
@@higoatohdeer同意，正有此打算
自由是没有方向的😮...好像有点道理
知己😱😱😱
@@higoatohdeer 哈哈哈，就感觉有点瞎掰但又好像有那么一回事🤣
@@sam-mw1ou 的確如此😂
加油
谢谢 🙏
做下兼職或被動收入
有什麽提議？
裸辭？當然可以，有人養才有資格這樣說，好像我妹，她是50歲才結婚，妹夫就說別去工作了，妳已經做了廿年的工，又不是專業人士（因為我們是越南移民，也沒什麼專業，所以一般打工仔，工資反正不高），不如這樣，妳就在家照顧自己的母親（我娘）😂，一個星期給她兩百塊零用錢！因為食住全包了，就是說一個月大概八百塊吧！（目前已經上升兩百五一個星期），那我妹就覺得好幸福！所以，有人養是可以什麼都說的，活在當下呀！不跟同事爭呀！自由啦！不埋怨，隨心所欲呀😂！沒人養那有那麼多理想，那有那麼多廢話😂！上班去吧！所以總括一句，妳是幸運的。好好享受妳的當下吧！
係，自由係需要本錢同埋運氣嘅。正如你所講，如果可以揀，就好好享受你嘅當下啦！人生，始終需要有啲希望，祝你好運🍀
祼辭好平常，我幾乎每份工都是裸辭的，破釜沉舟嘛！大概十份八份吧！不喜歡就不勉强，即使賠錢也要走。Covid以後就再没有找工作了，也覺得不必了，就當提早退休吧！
就證明你的勇氣或瀟灑一點也不平常👍不少人看破了，的確沒有必要勞碌一生。希望你找的了你想過的生活。
@@higoatohdeer 是的，我很欣賞你們真誠的分享，職場有許多你虞我詐，裝好心和虚偽，尤其是華人社會，很多方面西方人比較直白，更清楚不用猜猜度度的，為我們減壓的人生努力，不僅僅成為金錢的奴隸💪
@@LOLO-zb8qn 大家看開了，看明白了，開悟了就好👍恭喜升呢！
有另一半裸辭有乜驚，一個人都敢啦
@@tomosakalingfan8472 你的樂觀與勇氣非常可嘉👏👏！就如影片裡提到,有不少朋友因為家人或另一半不支持令他們有精神壓力，最後依然沒踏出那一步。恭喜你看穿一切，能隨心而行
咁唔係一定要完全退休嘅可以搵啲兼職過吓日神
係呀。覺得退休冇嘢做係好可怕嘅，應該有啲工作寄託，只係唔再為咗錢犧牲生活。
钱够吗？
@@waihengyong7165 才剛一年，現在還好，但旅遊不敢亂花錢了😅省省用
之前公司的上司评价我说
“工作能力可以，但是办公室的政治你就是一张白纸”
我只是想好好工作，不想卷入高层们的权力斗争，难道真的人在江湖，身不由己？
目前若还有经济负担的话，可以如何裸辞？😢
“人就是江湖，你怎樣退出？” 以前有一套武俠片令我記憶猶新的臺詞。不懂人際，除非公司有Individual Contributor的崗位，不然就放棄升職。其實我們最終都逃離不了江湖，只是少一點江湖而已。
经济负担是逃離不了的，但可以慢慢解決。10年-30間，人人都有機會實現財富自由。曾聽説一位在日本低收入打工族的故事，非常討厭上班，他的目標是犧牲一切，儘快存到可以讓他退休的金額，最後他就自由了。他條件不好，但非常自律，因爲他的目標很明確。
加油吧！先有夢想，後有行動。
你好👋🏻我係香港人，好開心看到你裸辭的分享！
我好奇兩個問題，你們是有收息之類來製造Passive income嗎？還有你們是沒有兒女嗎？
因為我才剛第一次看你you tube,想了解多一點。
你好。依家迷鹿只係靠做RUclips有少少零用錢收入，都冇乜特別嘅Passive Income，就係普通嘅公積金、股息、政府信託基金咁。正如影片所講，冇小朋友。喺馬來西亞，生活成本唔高。
Actually, I am not sure who is Goat and who is Deer. Haha..anyway, Deep thinking (self-reflection and evaluation) according to your hubby, wow! this is what I sometimes do, and it is a neverending effort yeah. However, the rationalisation based on individual experience at different levels (emotional, psychological, spiritual/belief systems, nostalgia/past, and appreciation or value systems) may logically answered a decision that none others may comprehend. This is why 'thinkers' are also 'dreamers' and to contemplate 'out of the box' may be challenging to impress/convince others, but is significantly creative in and individualised manner. In short, when oneself explores the inner-talking after listening/researching to validate/evaluate, 'new' knowledge and sometimes, 'opportunities', or at least, 'appreciation' can be given birth; our brain is probably capable of stuff we don't explored deep enough!
Haha, you are probably more enlightened than we are 😊Hi Goat is husband (tall, born in year of goat), Oh Deer is wife (easily get lost).
@@higoatohdeer Hahaha... So des ne!! What an interesting origin. Just this intuitive branding will go a long way. Both of you are enlightened by the pain, cold and peace above tsum clouds. That for sure :)) looking forward for more deep contents and all the best with the channel and creation!
Thanks! haha.. Goat oh Deer :P actually, your story rings a bell in my mind and i bet too, in many wishful souls everywhere. Your insights resonates with mine, and really like how you explained them naturally. Gan xie!! Contentment, Appreciation (of non-monetary implusiveness), Nature (definitely, my top pick too, haha), Gap between reality and fantasy (hmm.. this is a tough topic), the other 'Content' (actually, I have this dream/similar thoughts) that are socially responsible and meaningful to many lives... hope one day we can exchange ideas yeah ;) oh! i wanna say, you have very good 'men choi' yeah. Love to hear your analogies and shared experiences. And more importantly, your hubby is so supportive and both of you are lovely in vlogs ^^
I’m glad the stories and reflections resonated with you, I guess you have gained the wisdom of life as well. Thanks for the kind words.
@@higoatohdeer still exploring. Coincidentally I think same age. Lol.. High five. Deer is a symbol of peace no wonder and goat is probably the one that pokes, tall and above observing what needs to be given that stroke. Hahaha.. Your Cantonese is really deep and funny.
可能妳哋冇生小朋友，如果有仔女，諗嘅嘢會完全唔同，妳哋二個大人，可以自由自在做自己，逍遙自在～
係呀，有細路嘅負擔同顧慮都比我哋多。天倫之樂，都係人生另一種享受，好好過自己揀嘅生活🤗
千奇唔好生生佢出來你苦佢又苦
Thanks
One tip for each of us? 😆 Thanks again 🧡
Thanks
多謝支持🙏