I always learned to open the door for every PERSON behind me, and wait so they don't get the door slammed in front of them. Telling an other persons that they look good, have something nice on them or ask if they change something, is always doing good. Telling the persons that cooks that you are grateful for the person cooking dinner, always warmth peoples heart. Just don't do it only for women, but for everybody. That is the actually chivalry we need.
My aunt and uncle were married 25 years before he passed. I ate many meals with them and he made it a practice to give her a pat on the back with a thank you.
Exactly, in our Irish household the children are brought up with these habits of simple manners and grace. I have never not been thanked for the dinner l make and my kids don't walk in front of others they know to be polite and step back and hold the door, if the other person is rude then that is on them not those that know better, manners cost nothing 👍.
Definitely I agree with you mate ✨ We're on the same page of life here. It's a basic one which you got to do for any person irrespective of their age & gender. Don't do it expecting ROI, it should be your asset and believe the cosmos, you'd be blessed 😌🌟
Yes!!! Chivalry is an important characteristic in a good man. Us real women love it, it does make us feel special! And shame on the women for discouraging men to be chivalrous. Appreciate it girls! It’s a sign of admiration and respect from a man. To all the chivalrous men, we women thank God for you! Keep it up! You will be richly rewarded ☺️💗
I think only the older women respect it nowadays and you have to be careful about who you open a door for because they take it as disrespect and try to embarrass you for it
Sorry, you feel that way. I personally would. Those women in your life that didn't appreciate it, did not deserve it or did not recognize it, cause they didn't experience it because they, unfortunately for them, didn't spend time around men like you. I think God helped you dodge some bullets. I hope bad experiences don't drive you away from those who do and those you meet that will appreciate you. I wish you good luck in everything. 🖤
Jabed Ahmed I have friends who think this way. I don't like that mentality. It's simply someone doing a kind gesture. Opening the door, pulling out the chair, or laying your napkin on your lap for you is not saying you are incapable of doing it yoursel nor is it robbing you of your Independence. It's just someone showing they care about you. That's it. As a proud black independent female, I still love being treated like a lady, even when I know I can do things on my own. It's sexy to me, personally.. I wish less women were offended by kindness.
Close the door in her face and say: go ahead, open it yourself then. Let her have what she wants in a way that makes her realize how stupid she's being.
Why a women have to value a door been open do a man value her when she giving life to his kids. Mayb sir y need to hit the birth room next time u talking about value opening a door
Nawl I will accept any day even though I am independent. It just has to be the right woman that knows that having a good man will only make her stronger.
And this is the reason that I miss having a lady. Opening the door. When she sits in a restaurant help her sit down. When I did that the first time with my ex she was really shooked. I'm 30 so everybody knows that in our generation. Not many men do that. But like Steve said. She can sit by her damn self. But when u do it for your lady. Oof the energie she puts out is amazing.
My mom told my everything steve is saying but 75% of steve his audience is over 35 women these day's are different don't just talk to the boy's but talk to the girl's to 💯
Domestic violence against women perpetrated by men all around the world is in all-time high. Maybe women are forced to go about their own being independent cause men are killing them due to entitlement and just to get even.
I can open it myself. My arm isn’t broken. What do you expect, a thank you? Just some of the things I’ve been told by American women. I am only chivalrous toward Asian and Latin women now because they still appreciate the show of respect.
Chivalry is dangerous as hell in this modern day climate. Period. I have been beat up by an umbrella by an elderly lady when I opened a door for her. Never more.
Love the way Mr Harvey isn't afraid to celebrate good ol'fashioned things that are missed by many. And gentlemen, even if some would be offended by chivalry, many ladies still very much appreciate it 😀💖☺️
Steve must've forgot. If you buy a girl flowers for no reason and she tells her friends her friends are going to tell her that the only reason why he bought her flowers is because he must have done something bad
Whole heartedly agree about making your girl feel special and going the extra mile. It's doing that extra just cuz you want to not cuz you have to. If a girl starts expecting me to open her door every time that isn't chivalry that's just me doing my duty in her mind. Let's not get the two confused now. Chivalry is an option not a mandate.
Chivalry is the best way not to get laid! I tried it for years and got nothing. The second I started treating women like I don’t give af I started getting laid. The next time you see an attractive woman parking with her bf check to see if he opens the door for her.
John Doe I see your point. Nowadays, it’s difficult to find women who seem to truly value this in a relationship. And it’s even harder when this method is encouraged, but can lead you to a dead end with women.
Jeremie Tshibasu Wasted years believing whoever I was into at the time would eventually notice that I do all the things they say they want from a man. Not once did it ever work. Not once! Now I say things that I can’t believe I don’t get smacked for to girls I hardly know and I get girls asking me if they can take me out or just putting themselves in front of me over and over waiting for me to ask her over. I don’t do dates either. They can come over or not cause I have more options than I have time for. And more often than not they come over. I don’t get it but I see what works and doesn’t. Last thing I will say is always pay attention to a woman’s actions not her words.
Jeremie Tshibasu Don’t be sorry I’m better off for it. I’m getting laid more than ever and even though the truth about women is hard to accept it’s better to live with your eyes wide open.
And where there is death, there is life. There are still elements of chivalry left that people practice, but it is so insignificant that either people don’t notice or they aren’t offended by it.
Im 26 and i appreciate chivalry. Some couples in my generation though don't do it and the generation after mine just makes it worse in my opinion with the whole friends with benefits crap and no labels yet acting like a couple, living together and men expecting to be chased and not doing the chasing etc.
You feminists wanted your equality, you got it and you're still not happy. You want a traditional man when you're not even a traditional woman anymore. it's a bad deal for men and none of us want to sign it.
@Sterdezy Men aren't traditional anymore either. And if you ask me, men created the modern woman. You guys always had the head start. We're just following your lead. Look at the end result. Now no one is dating or getting married anymore.
I follow the rules of chivalry. I always let my opponent dismount his horse before attacking him. I only beat my peasants with wood or a whip when they displease me. And I married off my 13 year old daughter to a 40 year old landed noble to improve my country's ties with Germany.
"But if you opened the car door for her, what would you get in return for that" Umm nothing? Chivalry is dead because there are no more traditional women, who in their own right earn and deserve that Chivalry
Thank u Steve for trying to make mens out r mens i really appreciate yr help and concern Margie won the lottery when she met u God Bless u and yr family
One Steve ain't telling the truth. Chivalry isn't dead those our gf or wife. Now to other women yes it's dead, and women killed it. I never understood why, but they don't like it. A black chick told me she love to have a guy like that, but don't want one. I'm sitting all confused. Lucky I found a gf who loves me for me.
You heard what he said, ladies let me talk to the men for a minute. This dude is a clown. If i open a door it's behind me sooo i don't lose my spot in line. Steve has these Women on a Pedestal. Soooo much he lost his job to one. Way to go Steve. Whose opening the door for you with your boxes in your hand?
@@itsyaboi1846 : That's what I am saying, the guy is supposed to look stupid for these Women according to Steve. Hold the door open, pay for everything. Take care of transportation and etc. What do Women do complain they have to cook or give up some ass. Come on now and alot of them suck doing both of those. Sooo glad he is off that show.
@Elle D : I feel you, but i truly don't think Women know what they want, if a man is a gentleman he will be labled too soft. Steve never truly tells it on the flip side. Let him tell what a woman should do he will not have an audience anymore.
Last time I opened a door for a women at restaurant, she stumbled through to it, and fell face down on the pavement. That was 5 years ago. Now, I don’t take that risk.
With this new generation hell yeah chilvary is dead, you open a door for a woman these days you might get a thank or you might get a f*** you it all depends, but alot of times you just get ignored But it seems the older women respect and compliment you for your efforts Then for men you have to be careful how or if you want to compliment a lady, especially with the metoo movement because everything can be narrated to seem like an inappropriate gesture, it's giving women a bad look to men I've seen the change and women and men aren't interacting as much as we use too
i agree you should go the extra mile for your women. but when it becomes an obligation that i'm supposed to do or else that's where i draw the line because if it's not done with love it's worthless anyway.
@Elle D i 100% agree. but what i was contesting is the feeling of obligation some women put on their man to open door, buy roses, say compliments etc.... . sometimes life can be overwhelming to the point where someone loses focus on these minor details that any relation can survive without. i guess what I'm trying to say is a man should go the extra mile for his women and a woman should understand her man situation if he forgets and seem off. as far as dealing with strangers, closing a door on the person behind you is a dick move and not helping elders is just what assholes do. what i was contesting is in the frame of a relation between a couple
@@r3mii-CL unfortunately, i can say that is not only in america, i've been almost everywhere in Europe and if ya try chivalry she'll say sth like " Do ya think i can't do it alone!" It's pretty funny😂
I was tought Chivalry as a Kid, at my Job I open the door to a Japanese and Colombian Women, they both say to me, in a different day, "Thank You, your such a Gentleman." I say, "Your Welcome." But to an American Woman, she said to me, "No thanks, I open the door myself." I say, "Alright." Face it, Modern Women killed Chivalry.😡
I appreciate chivalry a lot. Whats the use of a man (partner) if they cant treat me special and making me do everything by myself? Thank goodness i live in eastern world, asian women loves chivalry
Ron C And without us that wouldn’t be possible so we give life as well we fertilize the seed and it grows inside of them because that’s the way god made it she shouldn’t be exalted above me for that because if men could give birth we would
@@dukeroe such an interesting discussion. And such a sad one. We've been so brainwashed that we fight instead of celebrating and appreciating the necessity of men and women. We each need the other for life. I for one am glad God created both 😊
A Daily Daughter I know for a fact that I need a woman I need her for reproducing, pleasure, companionship, and a bunch of other reasons but I also want them I appreciate how special women are and I understand their worth and importance but I also understand mine as a man and I appreciate my self equally
Sorry Steve but chivalry is dead and these modern day women and feminists killed it. On my last date I opened door for my date made sure she sat down comfortably then I sat down. I got my food waited for her. And then when we stood up to leave I opened the door and she said are you doing this because I'm women and weak..???
It's kinda sad that a few women influenced a lot of women to complain about something that many enjoyed so no majority don't receive it and many complain. We are so easily manipulated. Now if a woman says she appreciates it, she is often called weak or stupid 🙄
I believe that if you are engaged, or married then yes open the door compliment even cater to YOUR woman. BUT if you are just dating her don't you do it!
Meeen i'm 23 year old women and in our generation its hard to find someone that does this... they never been tought or didnt even wanna be tought so with that beeing said we sadly have to accept the bare minimum and thats really exhausting. And by the way i think thats the reason why we women are overly indepentant these days because we have no choice but the be that way!
You feminists wanted your equality, you got it and you're still not happy. You want a traditional man when you're not even a traditional woman anymore. it's a bad deal for men and none of us want to sign it.
I don't think chivalry is dead..but there has to be a good balance My boyfriend is very sweet, gives me flowers for no reason, he backed me a cake when I got some good grades at university, opens the door for me sometimes.. But I also believe in sharing the bill or paying for groceries from time to time, cooking a good meal, giving him presents to surprise him..because I'm not with him because of his money It has to be even And gosh I'm from Italy it should say it all hahah buuuut with some common sense cause he is not a bank and I want to spoil him a little too!
Most women do not care of chivalry anymore. However, only "specific" kind of women who accept of men kind of chivalry. When I do open a door, especially with Black women, you get nothing. Chevary is still here, but it is now rare.
Non black women respond well to chivalry. I don't bother opening doors for black women, they behave as if you're begging them anything. Manners is displayed only to those who value it.
@@princentirwimura6920 they don't know the value of thank you and appreciation for a man for what he does they take it as a requirement not as kindness and never say thank you
To all the WOMEN that commented on this site! Chivalry is a man-made concept! What is better than chivalry is Matthew 22: 39) And the second is like it: 'Love your neighbor as yourself.' A lot of women today do not have a chivalrous bone in their body! How can you tell or chastise someone to uphold a standard in doing for you, when you yourself don't reciprocate those same standards? It is called a lack of accountability and SELF-ENTITLEMENT!
I make certain my grandboys hold hold the doors open for me. Just stand there until they come back and do the deed, properly. They are learning also how then to treat the girls in their lives.
I don't think it's dead just forgotten. Father's don't teach their son's that any more. I am thankful. My husband will carry all the heavy stuff and he'll hold open doors for me but its more the opening car doors or pulling out chairs part that he doesn't do. but I am thankful for what he does do. I've gotten flowers from him from time to time for no reason. but not as much as when we were dating.
Please never ask a BLACK WOMAN if she's losing weight. A lot of black women like having extra weight, mainly in the booty and thigh areas. You see women on RUclips making videos about how to gain weight.
Ok, a lot of angry men here. I would love to accept chivalrous gestures, but like Steve and a lot of you are saying, what do you get in return? I'm trying to be a lady, hold off on the cookie and feel this thing out, but you don't want my charms and good conversation alone. The "sentiment" can just come off as disingenuine, which I thought went into the definition of chilvary.
Donna Banks btw I love being kind to women without expecting or wanting anything in return it just feels good to make others feel good but I still want to know what dose she do to make me feel good
We've been so programmed to see everything in terms of "what do I get out of it"... The Bible says man shall be lovers of self (2 Timothy 3 verse 2). Its so true. We've been taught not to value putting others before ourselves. But imagine if BOTH parties put the other first. Wow, they'd both be so giving and always looking for ways to help and please the other. Sounds beautiful 😀
Chivalry kind of goes against this whole "men and women are equal" type of mentality. Logically speaking of course. I just play along. Saves me energy in the long run bruh.
Lol... You're funny 😊 In clarification, I don't believe having different roles means not being equal. As long as both are treated with respect. Many women hate what he's describing. Many still love it😀
Men aren’t supposed to do anything. Because it was this way back when he grew up doesn’t mean it’s still for today. Women have 2 arms. They can open doors. It’s pathetic.
I always learned to open the door for every PERSON behind me, and wait so they don't get the door slammed in front of them.
Telling an other persons that they look good, have something nice on them or ask if they change something, is always doing good.
Telling the persons that cooks that you are grateful for the person cooking dinner, always warmth peoples heart.
Just don't do it only for women, but for everybody. That is the actually chivalry we need.
My aunt and uncle were married 25 years before he passed. I ate many meals with them and he made it a practice to give her a pat on the back with a thank you.
Exactly, in our Irish household the children are brought up with these habits of simple manners and grace. I have never not been thanked for the dinner l make and my kids don't walk in front of others they know to be polite and step back and hold the door, if the other person is rude then that is on them not those that know better, manners cost nothing 👍.
Definitely I agree with you mate ✨
We're on the same page of life here. It's a basic one which you got to do for any person irrespective of their age & gender. Don't do it expecting ROI, it should be your asset and believe the cosmos, you'd be blessed 😌🌟
Yes!!! Chivalry is an important characteristic in a good man. Us real women love it, it does make us feel special! And shame on the women for discouraging men to be chivalrous. Appreciate it girls! It’s a sign of admiration and respect from a man. To all the chivalrous men, we women thank God for you! Keep it up! You will be richly rewarded ☺️💗
I think only the older women respect it nowadays and you have to be careful about who you open a door for because they take it as disrespect and try to embarrass you for it
Say it baby!
Say it
most often than not, chivalry is done by a womanizer that’s going to cheat on you.
What exactly is the reward here?
I was raised to have chivalry, open doors for women etc.. but let's be honest, alot of today's women do not appreciate it .
Underground Wes I do!
Thank you for every door you ever opened for a woman, God bless you. We need more men like you.
Find me lol😬😂😂
@@theartofcute217 no, woman are not special
Sorry, you feel that way. I personally would. Those women in your life that didn't appreciate it, did not deserve it or did not recognize it, cause they didn't experience it because they, unfortunately for them, didn't spend time around men like you. I think God helped you dodge some bullets. I hope bad experiences don't drive you away from those who do and those you meet that will appreciate you. I wish you good luck in everything. 🖤
if I ask her " babe, are u losing weight?" she gonna tell me
" watchu mean im losing weight? u finna saying im fat?"
You could kinda hear it in the initial laugh.
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@theguide4715 Nobody cares. The era of complimenting women is over.
I opened a door for a women one time. She snared at me and said 'you dont think i can open a door for myself?'
Somehow its an offense to their honor.
Jabed Ahmed I have friends who think this way. I don't like that mentality. It's simply someone doing a kind gesture. Opening the door, pulling out the chair, or laying your napkin on your lap for you is not saying you are incapable of doing it yoursel nor is it robbing you of your Independence. It's just someone showing they care about you. That's it. As a proud black independent female, I still love being treated like a lady, even when I know I can do things on my own. It's sexy to me, personally.. I wish less women were offended by kindness.
Close the door in her face and say: go ahead, open it yourself then. Let her have what she wants in a way that makes her realize how stupid she's being.
It’s okay. Don’t lose your chivalry! There are still more women that want to be honored!
No you just have to do it for the correct woman.
CHIVALRY IS THE WAY TO GO! BUT I MUST CONFESS; I CAN'T REALLY BLAME THE GUYS NOWADAYS, CAUSE TODAY'S WOMEN DON'T VALUE IT!
Man that sucks!!! My husband isn't that type and I wish he was because I love that stuff. Once in a blue he remembers to be lol
Apollos, I think you are right, and that’s unfortunate.
Classy Cassy Judwith
Why a women have to value a door been open do a man value her when she giving life to his kids. Mayb sir y need to hit the birth room next time u talking about value opening a door
@@bobbiejackson732 the sense of entitlement because they gave birth doesn't justify taking chivalry for granted. It's equal responsibility
Chivalry isn't accepted nowadays cus women "independant" - the hard truth
Nawl I will accept any day even though I am independent. It just has to be the right woman that knows that having a good man will only make her stronger.
As the great David Chappelle said :
Chivalry is dead and women killed it
And this is the reason that I miss having a lady.
Opening the door. When she sits in a restaurant help her sit down.
When I did that the first time with my ex she was really shooked. I'm 30 so everybody knows that in our generation. Not many men do that.
But like Steve said. She can sit by her damn self. But when u do it for your lady. Oof the energie she puts out is amazing.
My mom told my everything steve is saying but 75% of steve his audience is over 35 women these day's are different don't just talk to the boy's but talk to the girl's to 💯
No. But it’s hard sometimes to find women who actually respect and appreciate it.
Awww Jeremie that sucks! Well keep being you because you will find a woman that does
I love it, how about u give me some?
dawset riley I wish you all the best in all you do, May God bless you no matter what you’re going through.
I still appreciate chivalry! There are women that still appreciate it.
S. Wilkinson Thank you and I appreciate that. But it’s a lot harder for men out there. You kind of women can be rare to find.
"Chivalry is dead and women killed it."
- Dave Chappelle.
You're all welcome. 😎
Not all women some of us still appreciate when men step up and do this stuff for us. Anytime a guy opens the door for me I am so so appreciative.
@@beachgirljr, "Some of us", that just says it all.
I can't speak for everyone that goes for men not all men have chivalry. The ones that do are appreciated
Unique79 the crazy feminists killed it.
Domestic violence against women perpetrated by men all around the world is in all-time high. Maybe women are forced to go about their own being independent cause men are killing them due to entitlement and just to get even.
This is so true. A little chivalry won't hurt from Your Man. Seriously! A thank you for EVERYTHING You do for HIM would WORK too!!!!!!!!!!
I can open it myself. My arm isn’t broken. What do you expect, a thank you? Just some of the things I’ve been told by American women. I am only chivalrous toward Asian and Latin women now because they still appreciate the show of respect.
Chivalry is dangerous as hell in this modern day climate. Period. I have been beat up by an umbrella by an elderly lady when I opened a door for her. Never more.
No. No one forgot to teach chivalry, chivalry is innate and instinctive to men.
Feminism and Me Too are the problem
Love the way Mr Harvey isn't afraid to celebrate good ol'fashioned things that are missed by many. And gentlemen, even if some would be offended by chivalry, many ladies still very much appreciate it 😀💖☺️
Steve must've forgot. If you buy a girl flowers for no reason and she tells her friends her friends are going to tell her that the only reason why he bought her flowers is because he must have done something bad
Yeah I Remember that to!
Yeah but a good woman wouldn't allow herself to think badly of you because of outside people. She will have faith in her man.
Whole heartedly agree about making your girl feel special and going the extra mile. It's doing that extra just cuz you want to not cuz you have to. If a girl starts expecting me to open her door every time that isn't chivalry that's just me doing my duty in her mind. Let's not get the two confused now. Chivalry is an option not a mandate.
Chivalry is the best way not to get laid! I tried it for years and got nothing. The second I started treating women like I don’t give af I started getting laid. The next time you see an attractive woman parking with her bf check to see if he opens the door for her.
John Doe I see your point. Nowadays, it’s difficult to find women who seem to truly value this in a relationship. And it’s even harder when this method is encouraged, but can lead you to a dead end with women.
Jeremie Tshibasu Wasted years believing whoever I was into at the time would eventually notice that I do all the things they say they want from a man. Not once did it ever work. Not once! Now I say things that I can’t believe I don’t get smacked for to girls I hardly know and I get girls asking me if they can take me out or just putting themselves in front of me over and over waiting for me to ask her over. I don’t do dates either. They can come over or not cause I have more options than I have time for. And more often than not they come over. I don’t get it but I see what works and doesn’t. Last thing I will say is always pay attention to a woman’s actions not her words.
John Doe I’m sorry about that bro and I also thank you for your wisdom.
Jeremie Tshibasu Don’t be sorry I’m better off for it. I’m getting laid more than ever and even though the truth about women is hard to accept it’s better to live with your eyes wide open.
Preach Steve!!!
Forgotten? No.
Dead? Yes.
Chivalry died about 20 years ago.
And where there is death, there is life. There are still elements of chivalry left that people practice, but it is so insignificant that either people don’t notice or they aren’t offended by it.
And hope should be dead (unless they fix the indicator).
@@zhangningful sometimes, Hope is all you got to keep going.
Im 26 and i appreciate chivalry. Some couples in my generation though don't do it and the generation after mine just makes it worse in my opinion with the whole friends with benefits crap and no labels yet acting like a couple, living together and men expecting to be chased and not doing the chasing etc.
You feminists wanted your equality, you got it and you're still not happy. You want a traditional man when you're not even a traditional woman anymore. it's a bad deal for men and none of us want to sign it.
@Sterdezy Men aren't traditional anymore either. And if you ask me, men created the modern woman. You guys always had the head start. We're just following your lead. Look at the end result. Now no one is dating or getting married anymore.
I follow the rules of chivalry. I always let my opponent dismount his horse before attacking him. I only beat my peasants with wood or a whip when they displease me. And I married off my 13 year old daughter to a 40 year old landed noble to improve my country's ties with Germany.
Women killed it
Chivalry is so dead these days that when I met a man that ALWAYS opens door for me I was shocked.
Does he have any friends?
@@akiras7718 oh yeah hi ...Nourat asked me to contact you!
"But if you opened the car door for her, what would you get in return for that" Umm nothing? Chivalry is dead because there are no more traditional women, who in their own right earn and deserve that Chivalry
Thank you, Steve Harvey. God bless you. I needed to hear someone speak on chivalry.
You need I do not. Nor do I want. #drizzledrizzle from 2024.
Thank u Steve for trying to make mens out r mens i really appreciate yr help and concern Margie won the lottery when she met u God Bless u and yr family
Not in the south. I still open and hold doors for women.
Jason Wilson Good on you bro! 👍🏾
Hi
Chivalry on life support right now. You best believe women gon be the one to pull the plug
"Baby, you losing weight?" "Oh, so now you think I'm fat?"
Steve, I love the way you think! I am so happy that you are reminding men about chivalry! Love you Steve!
But that does not mean all men have obligation to agree. Still their right to practice it or not ( I'm a mam btw).
Chivalry is dead and a woman killed it.
One Steve ain't telling the truth. Chivalry isn't dead those our gf or wife. Now to other women yes it's dead, and women killed it.
I never understood why, but they don't like it. A black chick told me she love to have a guy like that, but don't want one. I'm sitting all confused. Lucky I found a gf who loves me for me.
You heard what he said, ladies let me talk to the men for a minute. This dude is a clown. If i open a door it's behind me sooo i don't lose my spot in line. Steve has these Women on a Pedestal. Soooo much he lost his job to one. Way to go Steve. Whose opening the door for you with your boxes in your hand?
@@sonicthehedgehog8348 Ikr, like if she ain't my mom,gf/wifeor elder. I don't have to open the door for you. Females will curse you out cause of it.
@@itsyaboi1846 : That's what I am saying, the guy is supposed to look stupid for these Women according to Steve. Hold the door open, pay for everything. Take care of transportation and etc. What do Women do complain they have to cook or give up some ass. Come on now and alot of them suck doing both of those. Sooo glad he is off that show.
@Elle D Yeah that'snot the females of my generation I'm 21 and the females rather have a guy who is in and out of jail than a good man.
@Elle D : I feel you, but i truly don't think Women know what they want, if a man is a gentleman he will be labled too soft. Steve never truly tells it on the flip side. Let him tell what a woman should do he will not have an audience anymore.
If you want chivalry then stay classy. Chivalry should not be wasted.
Women claim to want empowement till something needs to be paid for.
Then chivalry is not only acceptable, but expected.
Women killed it expecting that men should be the only ones going the extra mile
I always enjoy your programme. But chivalry exists in through love
Man o man.
Hi Chrissy
*_What about Mordhau?_*
Yay! Go Steve! Keep the love and the positivity going! Beautiful!
Last time I opened a door for a women at restaurant, she stumbled through to it, and fell face down on the pavement. That was 5 years ago. Now, I don’t take that risk.
*She was drunk
Y’all know Steve Harvey’s first name is actually Broderick 😂
With this new generation hell yeah chilvary is dead, you open a door for a woman these days you might get a thank or you might get a f*** you it all depends, but alot of times you just get ignored
But it seems the older women respect and compliment you for your efforts
Then for men you have to be careful how or if you want to compliment a lady, especially with the metoo movement because everything can be narrated to seem like an inappropriate gesture, it's giving women a bad look to men I've seen the change and women and men aren't interacting as much as we use too
we just do dont it chivary is stupid I don't undrestand why you want it
@@sterdezy1569 the point is having respect for others, common courtesy, and not being a complete demon on the streets when your out
Well I guess I'm old fashioned bcuz to me chivalry is still in my book #notforgotten
Old fashioned? I bet you're a single mother though. The irony.
@@jjlatinopedia yeah. I'm a single mom. My husband passed away a few years ago. I'm not interested in dating right now. That's why I'm single
@@nickierasberry6376 How did I guess? No, you're single because you are damaged goods. Don't kid yourself.
And like you said I got a wife out of my league so damn well im opening that door I want to show what I got and that I appreciate what I have.
Steve your gonna make me cry.........shadow
i agree you should go the extra mile for your women. but when it becomes an obligation that i'm supposed to do or else that's where i draw the line because if it's not done with love it's worthless anyway.
@Elle D i 100% agree. but what i was contesting is the feeling of obligation some women put on their man to open door, buy roses, say compliments etc.... . sometimes life can be overwhelming to the point where someone loses focus on these minor details that any relation can survive without. i guess what I'm trying to say is a man should go the extra mile for his women and a woman should understand her man situation if he forgets and seem off. as far as dealing with strangers, closing a door on the person behind you is a dick move and not helping elders is just what assholes do. what i was contesting is in the frame of a relation between a couple
You are genius #Steve
3:07 hand on her back .women love that.👍👍
Chivalry is dead because of these toxic feminists ruining it!
Starkiller Gaming- date different woman.
Starkiller Gaming stay away from American women
@@r3mii-CL unfortunately, i can say that is not only in america, i've been almost everywhere in Europe and if ya try chivalry she'll say sth like " Do ya think i can't do it alone!" It's pretty funny😂
It’s good that it’s dead because it’s sexist towards men
Yo ı thought he meant like killing battle honor and stuff.
Someone tell my man about MGTOW
Steve is beta asf.
Steve has to be beta because of his audience, otherwise they won’t clap 😂
I was tought Chivalry as a Kid, at my Job I open the door to a Japanese and Colombian Women, they both say to me, in a different day, "Thank You, your such a Gentleman." I say, "Your Welcome."
But to an American Woman, she said to me, "No thanks, I open the door myself." I say, "Alright."
Face it, Modern Women killed Chivalry.😡
Do women still appreciate men opening doors for them as in the old days? There's a section of women who think it's degrading .
I appreciate chivalry a lot. Whats the use of a man (partner) if they cant treat me special and making me do everything by myself? Thank goodness i live in eastern world, asian women loves chivalry
Yes I don’t need my car door open but I do expect a man to go ahead and open doors for me my husband always did that...
Sherron Teal and do you ever open it for him? Gender equality
salaah khayr ALWAYS!
Hello @sherron
I still expect and still get chivalry from men. Ladies you teach men how to treat you!
At least you appreciate it. Most women these days seem to be offended by it.
Well said!
Underground Wes I do appreciate it. And I always tell them so.
LVNCSR Thank you!
palmtreemrs I believe this also I’m 71 and always been treated well by men that’s because they know I won’t except less...
Awesome! Love you Steve
Hi @QueenC
Because women gives us life. Literally.
Ron C And without us that wouldn’t be possible so we give life as well we fertilize the seed and it grows inside of them because that’s the way god made it she shouldn’t be exalted above me for that because if men could give birth we would
@@dukeroe such an interesting discussion. And such a sad one. We've been so brainwashed that we fight instead of celebrating and appreciating the necessity of men and women. We each need the other for life. I for one am glad God created both 😊
A Daily Daughter I know for a fact that I need a woman I need her for reproducing, pleasure, companionship, and a bunch of other reasons but I also want them I appreciate how special women are and I understand their worth and importance but I also understand mine as a man and I appreciate my self equally
@@dukeroe hope you find someone perfect for you😊
A Daily Daughter Me too fr she somewhere ready to enhance my ability’s
Wonderful advice!
Flowers 💐 cost too much Steve
Sorry Steve but chivalry is dead and these modern day women and feminists killed it. On my last date I opened door for my date made sure she sat down comfortably then I sat down. I got my food waited for her. And then when we stood up to leave I opened the door and she said are you doing this because I'm women and weak..???
All is cool by me, but opening Car door is what i can never get use to, maybe in the nearest Future when i marry and have a car as well.
Chivalry is dead and women killed it
David Yeah
100%
The feminist killed it
David i see u a Dave Chapplle fan like me bro 😂💯ruclips.net/video/ry4QeTDARH4/видео.html
It's kinda sad that a few women influenced a lot of women to complain about something that many enjoyed so no majority don't receive it and many complain. We are so easily manipulated. Now if a woman says she appreciates it, she is often called weak or stupid 🙄
Awesome!
I believe that if you are engaged, or married then yes open the door compliment even cater to YOUR woman. BUT if you are just dating her don't you do it!
What? Why???
Well opening a door for a woman seems to be a dishonor for them nowadays, and this is only one of the things.
I personally love it:)
Not all females deserve it...only a true woman...
Meeen i'm 23 year old women and in our generation its hard to find someone that does this... they never been tought or didnt even wanna be tought so with that beeing said we sadly have to accept the bare minimum and thats really exhausting. And by the way i think thats the reason why we women are overly indepentant these days because we have no choice but the be that way!
You feminists wanted your equality, you got it and you're still not happy. You want a traditional man when you're not even a traditional woman anymore. it's a bad deal for men and none of us want to sign it.
Yes world is different
Chivalry is in my DNA
I don't think chivalry is dead..but there has to be a good balance My boyfriend is very sweet, gives me flowers for no reason, he backed me a cake when I got some good grades at university, opens the door for me sometimes.. But I also believe in sharing the bill or paying for groceries from time to time, cooking a good meal, giving him presents to surprise him..because I'm not with him because of his money It has to be even
And gosh I'm from Italy it should say it all hahah buuuut with some common sense cause he is not a bank and I want to spoil him a little too!
He know you are not crazy feminist but lastly treat him the same as he does to you
Women killed chivalry. End of discussion.
being a cavalier doesn't pay for furies
He needs to start telling the truth
Most women do not care of chivalry anymore. However, only "specific" kind of women who accept of men kind of chivalry. When I do open a door, especially with Black women, you get nothing. Chevary is still here, but it is now rare.
Not all black women don't appreciate it. Don't single us out
@@queenc8280 Thank you for saying what I was about to. We black women actually Do appreciate it because it is so rare coming from our brothers. Js.
@@lvncsr6166 Exactly!!!!!
Non black women respond well to chivalry. I don't bother opening doors for black women, they behave as if you're begging them anything. Manners is displayed only to those who value it.
@@princentirwimura6920 they don't know the value of thank you and appreciation for a man for what he does they take it as a requirement not as kindness and never say thank you
Steve Harvey everyone
To all the WOMEN that commented on this site! Chivalry is a man-made concept! What is better than chivalry is Matthew 22: 39) And the second is like it: 'Love your neighbor as yourself.' A lot of women today do not have a chivalrous bone in their body! How can you tell or chastise someone to uphold a standard in doing for you, when you yourself don't reciprocate those same standards? It is called a lack of accountability and SELF-ENTITLEMENT!
Yeah nowadays they don't want that, women say that's how we start undermining them
I make certain my grandboys hold hold the doors open for me. Just stand there until they come back and do the deed, properly. They are learning also how then to treat the girls in their lives.
And how about treat other boys
feminist would get offended though
Steve is dope
Chivalry was about medieval combat etiquette, anyway.
I don't think it's dead just forgotten. Father's don't teach their son's that any more. I am thankful. My husband will carry all the heavy stuff and he'll hold open doors for me but its more the opening car doors or pulling out chairs part that he doesn't do. but I am thankful for what he does do. I've gotten flowers from him from time to time for no reason. but not as much as when we were dating.
We were tough since we were kids from parents, books and TV shows, it just Modern Women Kill Chivalry.
Don't need to teach them, just teach kindness. To early teaching chivalry without understanding can be danger.
Please never ask a BLACK WOMAN if she's losing weight. A lot of black women like having extra weight, mainly in the booty and thigh areas. You see women on RUclips making videos about how to gain weight.
Ok, a lot of angry men here. I would love to accept chivalrous gestures, but like Steve and a lot of you are saying, what do you get in return? I'm trying to be a lady, hold off on the cookie and feel this thing out, but you don't want my charms and good conversation alone. The "sentiment" can just come off as disingenuine, which I thought went into the definition of chilvary.
Read the comments again, the "cookie" isn't even what dudes are after just mutual respect.
Elle D If I’m Not after sex and I’m kind to you what is your response to make me feel good after I’ve given you my energy to make you feel good
Chivalry is dead and women killed it. - Dave Chappell
Modern woman are like wtf are you doing?!
and what does she do to make me feel special???..existing is not enough.
Didn't you hear Steve: the kindness comes right back to you.
Donna Banks in what way Ik how I should show my kindness but how does she show hers Steve never answer that he just left us with a vague cliche
Donna Banks btw I love being kind to women without expecting or wanting anything in return it just feels good to make others feel good but I still want to know what dose she do to make me feel good
We've been so programmed to see everything in terms of "what do I get out of it"... The Bible says man shall be lovers of self (2 Timothy 3 verse 2). Its so true. We've been taught not to value putting others before ourselves. But imagine if BOTH parties put the other first. Wow, they'd both be so giving and always looking for ways to help and please the other. Sounds beautiful 😀
Chivalry kind of goes against this whole "men and women are equal" type of mentality. Logically speaking of course. I just play along. Saves me energy in the long run bruh.
Lol... You're funny 😊 In clarification, I don't believe having different roles means not being equal. As long as both are treated with respect. Many women hate what he's describing. Many still love it😀
Women killed chivalry
zero your profile pic made me think I lost an eyelash
Women don't like flowers anymore! They trips to Dubai and range rovers
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Chivalry is dead, feminists killed it!
Chivalry makes men more attractive. For sure
Say that! And what's Even More attractive is when they Don't want anything in return.
@@lvncsr6166 yeah and sadly women don't offer anything in return like a smile or even a thank you..
TEACH😍😍🤩🤩
Hello @pamela
Chivalry is dead because women killed it.
Men aren’t supposed to do anything. Because it was this way back when he grew up doesn’t mean it’s still for today. Women have 2 arms. They can open doors. It’s pathetic.
Nice