How We REALLY Met | Muslim Dating, In-Law Refusals + Wedding Drama | The X-Pod

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  • Опубликовано: 28 сен 2024

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  • @rahatmohammed1508
    @rahatmohammed1508 Год назад +25

    You've shared a very important lesson with young people looking to marry so thank you. Your rizq is written for you and your character was more important than your job to me. I think Allah swt put a lot of barakah into your lives when you married each other and even more when you had Amaya. Have loved having you as a son in law and Maryam has grown to love having a brother too alhumdulillah 😂

    • @nazmed8141
      @nazmed8141 Год назад +8

      It sounds like you are the reason this marriage succeeded. Your daughter is lucky to have a mother who looked out for her happiness and didn’t care about cultural expectations or made things difficult. I relate to this as my mother supported me through the process of marrying my husband and it means the world . May Allah reward you .

    • @Zazezoo
      @Zazezoo 7 месяцев назад

      @@nazmed8141l agree!!!

  • @brittanykimber
    @brittanykimber Год назад +29

    The transparency! 🙌
    The X's dropping knowledge and changing lives. You guys always leave me wanting more. 😊

  • @reenabegum4020
    @reenabegum4020 Год назад +9

    Honestly I genuinely appreciate you guys for being so honest and making these kind of videos to show us how life is not always easy, especially marriage. You guys really covered the Islamic point of you as well as different realistic situations that can and will take place In life💕💕💕

  • @WASABINIQABII
    @WASABINIQABII Год назад +36

    This convo meant so much to me hearing this is truly what I needed to believe my engagement and marriage can work too InshaAllah. We’re biracial and also long distance and also have broken families so it’s very hard to stay positive ❤ Thankyou. Bismillah Alay MashaAllah

  • @Noorinkaa
    @Noorinkaa Год назад +8

    May Allah swt bless you both 🤲🏻♥️ you’re the only RUclipsrs I actually comment on, you truly deserve the best, any video I watch ends up motivating me to get better in Islam. Lotsa love from Paris!!!

  • @narixoxo6448
    @narixoxo6448 Год назад +7

    Being from the Carribean, I feel like I know how difficult it was for sufyan to communicate with his family about the wedding. Carribean parents are not the easiest at times, but Alhamdulillah we live and we learn for the future generation inshaAllah

    • @Zazezoo
      @Zazezoo 7 месяцев назад

      I find Asians to be worst 😅
      Isn’t he mixed and I think the Pakistani family might have been worst, but still our families regardless of the issues, they helped shape us and make it more beautiful!!!

  • @Sabreen.1
    @Sabreen.1 Год назад +18

    This is the truthfulness that the younger unmarried generations were waiting for ! The biggest Thank you for sharing

    • @TheXs.Official
      @TheXs.Official  Год назад +2

      Ameen wa iyyaki sis! 🤲 Thank you for this lovely feedback ❤️ we're so humbled. 🤗
      & Ooooooo, we love this idea 😍 and will do it in shaa Allah! We're so excited for the topics we've got coming up, too. 🤓❤️ I love these kind of cosy, real discussions. JazakAllah for watching and keeping us and little Amaya in your duas! 💖 - Amara xx

    • @Sabreen.1
      @Sabreen.1 Год назад +1

      @@TheXs.Official of course, will do

  • @Fia-fn4ly
    @Fia-fn4ly 4 месяца назад +1

    This was so helpful. Makes me feel less alone in the tests we go through during our engagement.

  • @rubymehtab8716
    @rubymehtab8716 Год назад +3

    You guys are pleasant and nice and truly genuine. It’s so nice to see people like you representing the Muslim youth. Mashallah may god bless you so much

  • @studytune1012
    @studytune1012 Год назад +5

    Alhamdulillah you still found each other at the end

  • @rashadabdulazeem5387
    @rashadabdulazeem5387 Год назад +7

    It sounds like your wife was really roasted by your family brother. That was really unfortunate. Sometimes we as parents lack wisdom and empathy and we go full steam ahead with a sledge hammer, instead of the olive branch. I couldn't imagine making someone feel uncomfortable who visits my home. We should treat them with kindness even if mistakes are made. Unfortunately, some Muslims have a "take no prisoners" mentality when it comes to mistakes by other Muslims and they hurt other Muslims with their harshness, this was not the example of our beloved prophet Muhammad (saws). Al-hamdulilah you two preserved as a beautiful couple.

  • @rastakibzy2508
    @rastakibzy2508 Год назад

    This is honestly such a good convo especially for those who are trying to get navigated and are just as confused about how to go about it despite being muslims. Thank you for being real

  • @zahraasu6566
    @zahraasu6566 Год назад +3

    She looks lovely in her dress abaya.. MashaAllah

  • @peace4ever786
    @peace4ever786 Год назад +4

    This was incredible to listen to. Thankyou for your honesty. Allahuma Barek!

  • @hashtag9877
    @hashtag9877 Год назад +1

    you are both spo brave for doing this. you can see how emotional this is for the both of you. loved listening to this. may allah protect your family and keep you both happy

  • @FazlinAkiemdien-mf5il
    @FazlinAkiemdien-mf5il 6 месяцев назад

    Alhamdulilah just love this couple especially the wife love her bubbling ways and her openness ❤🙌

  • @malehlohonolomokhele8339
    @malehlohonolomokhele8339 Год назад

    Love you guys, that DRESS is speaking to me oh my goodness

  • @WASABINIQABII
    @WASABINIQABII Год назад +1

    41:13 REALLY REALLY TRUE!!! THANKYOU!!

  • @aj__love5919
    @aj__love5919 Год назад

    I enjoyed this so much! JazakAllah for sharing your experience 😊

  • @OWO1969
    @OWO1969 Год назад

    Thank you, enjoy the back story.❤much love.

  • @MoMbarek250
    @MoMbarek250 Год назад

    I loved this video, reminds me to further trust in Allahs plan for the future and not every obstacle/fault is a sign to leave but is a test. Definitely subscribing and can't wait to watch more of your videos. :)

  • @maxinehall5382
    @maxinehall5382 Год назад +1

    What a wonderful and engaging couple❤❤❤

  • @aqhasan
    @aqhasan Год назад

    Wonderful experience, finally you made it

  • @Starssobrightk
    @Starssobrightk Год назад

    Keep them coming alhumdulillah very informative

  • @kingky2002
    @kingky2002 Год назад +2

    Alhamdulilah, it all worked out

  • @winona43xp
    @winona43xp Год назад

    Very insightful video thanks ❤

  • @AP-tz3tp
    @AP-tz3tp Год назад

    Enjoyed listening whilst ironing

  • @hamidaalhassan9242
    @hamidaalhassan9242 Год назад

    Masha Allah I enjoyed the pod so much

  • @movieoks4726
    @movieoks4726 Год назад

    You guys are really great couple may Allah bless you guys more success and happiness and healthy life ❤🤲🫰

  • @Dsomler
    @Dsomler Год назад

    beautiful love story

  • @mrsamirza4392
    @mrsamirza4392 Год назад +1

    Yeah ❤😊

  • @ibrahsekandi8254
    @ibrahsekandi8254 Год назад

  • @Yaab1
    @Yaab1 Год назад +44

    I just watched with my daughter who is 17 and we discussed a lot of things in your video and hopefully things are noted , coming from young couples mouth like your selves . Thank you for educating our kids and my daughter in fact introduced me to your channel and now we love you more then ever. ❤

    • @TheXs.Official
      @TheXs.Official  Год назад +3

      This is sooooo sweet 🤗 I love that you watch and discuss with your daughter! 🤗 Ma shaa Allah ❤️ I hope you both really enjoy the topics we have coming up in shaa Allah. 🤲💖 Lots of love to you both xx

  • @WASABINIQABII
    @WASABINIQABII Год назад +17

    Thankyou for this. Many people think marriage and engagement etc should be easy and not always is, and that doesn’t mean the marriage can’t be great ❤ Barak Allah Feke

  • @CalvinBoyce-rr5pz
    @CalvinBoyce-rr5pz Год назад +73

    I love you guys and love the dedication to your religion. I’m Christian but really appreciate you guys. Much love ❤️

    • @TheXs.Official
      @TheXs.Official  Год назад +16

      The Christian and Muslim faiths are so intertwined in some ways! We have lots in common 😄 much love to you too ✨

  • @maryamk.5733
    @maryamk.5733 Год назад +9

    This podcast is really inspiring. Sheitan can do anything to cut the link with your future spouse ... even when you're married it's worse . It's real tho. But if Allah reunite no one can break it (we have to do the right thing in order to have The Greatest on our side). May Allah protect love for all People who wants to get married and those who are married too ❤

  • @nadia.c5
    @nadia.c5 Год назад +19

    very curious to know what went down when Amara came to visit, how could meeting someones family especially the first time go that bad

  • @annasingankutti5832
    @annasingankutti5832 Год назад +6

    I wanna hear Amaraaa talk more and her perspectiveeeee 💚🙏🏽 but loved the video. Thanks for the honesty.

    • @TheXs.Official
      @TheXs.Official  Год назад +2

      So happy you loved the video! 🤗 I'll talk more in another video in the future shaa Allah. ❤️ The run up to marriage was a super hectic, stressful time all around that I semi repress 😅 once I've fully caught up, I'll get back to you 😂 x

  • @claudettegill8400
    @claudettegill8400 Год назад +29

    What a lesson for me. I am years married, a Christian by faith but knew nothing about Muslim faith, and I am amazed how much I have learnt from you all. I saw your wedding video which was absolutely beautiful but now learning about the ups and downs before the wedding was eye opening to me. I love you all, stay strong in your faith, respect and love and I am sure you will be able to get through to the number of years I did. Hug the baby, she is so cute.❤🙏🏽🫶🏽🕊

  • @safiyassacredspace
    @safiyassacredspace Год назад +8

    Beautiful conversation and beautiful couple. I love that while you guys are of a particular faith that encourages a particular lifestyle, your so relatable. I enjoy your content. Thank you for your continued transparency and sharing your life w/ us.

  • @OfficialMNIB
    @OfficialMNIB Год назад +7

    - Oh hello there long form content - 🙌🏼

  • @Sukna-m8y
    @Sukna-m8y Год назад +5

    I really enjoyed this😊 thank you sharing with us, it carried so much value and lessons. Noted❤️

  • @sybilbailey5503
    @sybilbailey5503 Год назад +4

    I always enjoy and listening to you both. There is lesson in every vedio. Am a Christian but love your vedios🇬🇧🇯🇲

  • @rashadabdulazeem5387
    @rashadabdulazeem5387 Год назад +4

    Thank you for sharing this experience with us. Life is not always a bed of roses, there are peaks and valleys but you two persevered and worked through your challenges. Al-hamdulilah, I hope your story will be a help for others who may face similar challenges.

  • @wasifurfan8627
    @wasifurfan8627 Год назад +3

    also 52 mins was gooooooooooooooooooooodddddddddddd lol need more long vlogs like this lol beautiful couple Ma sha Allah

  • @zainabomer7511
    @zainabomer7511 Год назад +2

    I thought about this verse @min 33 ,Get married first then Allah will enrich you from him his bounty. Surah An- nur 32-43.

  • @marlynmorgan3658
    @marlynmorgan3658 Год назад +2

    The harder the battle, the sweeter the victory! You were both worth fighting for, and that's why you were victorious! A lesson for many! 😊❤❤❤

  • @ijuneberry
    @ijuneberry Год назад +2

    Subhannallah the part about university it’s really testing in so many ways. In the US it’s specially I believe it’s really harder. So many philosophies that are there to change Muslim youths believes.

  • @genlang4782
    @genlang4782 Год назад +2

    I love this segment guysss... It would be good to do dilemmas at some point! May Allah continue to bless your marriage and parenting to lil buba, Ameen 🤲🏾

  • @zahidanoor5340
    @zahidanoor5340 Год назад +2

    You guys made it. Alhumdullialh

  • @halalpolice23
    @halalpolice23 Год назад +1

    I really thought she is 21 or younger and he is probably 25 or younger. I wasn’t expecting her being 24 and him 29 before marriage👏🏾
    Maasha Allah Allahumabarik ❤ May Allah SWT bless you both and protect your from evil eyes

  • @lydias5539
    @lydias5539 Год назад +3

    Very nice video. You guys are a beautiful couple!

    • @TheXs.Official
      @TheXs.Official  Год назад

      That's very kind of you. 🤗 Thank you for watching!

  • @wasifurfan8627
    @wasifurfan8627 Год назад +1

    wow i cried and was happy for you both, absolutely love ur vlogs, the best on utube xx just real.. also it looks like u have moved in a new house lol your kitchen and living room look different. lol sorry abit nosey lol

  • @rozaliaslaboiu7810
    @rozaliaslaboiu7810 Год назад +2

    I just loved this sincere discussion between you guys. I had much to learn from you both. Thank you.

  • @edmaureendixon3535
    @edmaureendixon3535 4 месяца назад

    Hi, remember when one door closes another one open bigger and better than the one before ie your new job after losing the other.

  • @danyalbashir1648
    @danyalbashir1648 Год назад +8

    Wow and mashallah.
    This podcast was beautifully spoken. A lot the truth was spoken in regards to the authenticity and reality of pre-marriage life. May Allah Almighty make it easier for you and those going through similar situations.
    Ameen 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼

  • @S4FX
    @S4FX Год назад +1

    May Allah swt bless your marriage Ameen ❤️🤲

  • @Rugiatu-kanu
    @Rugiatu-kanu Год назад +2

    So amazing ❤ i really do enjoy it ❤

  • @miadaomer3958
    @miadaomer3958 Год назад +1

    Loved hearing your journey!

  • @swallace8765
    @swallace8765 Год назад +1

    love this video I learn so much about your Faith, Blessings

  • @waldensiansylph4869
    @waldensiansylph4869 11 месяцев назад

    That’s too bad that your parents didn’t help facilitate a wholesome process (Sofian’s). This is an innocent girl trying her best in life, with a desire to please those around her, and Sofian’s family is lucky he found a nice girl like you! Her shattered background does make her more vulnerable, but also with more depth. Protect her at all costs. For the West, this is so wholesome. God sees the sincerity of the people involved, not a thousand rules. He sees the heart and genuine desire to do things the right way, He sees that more important than rigid steps. If you are doing things in a pure way, no matter how you go about it, He will bless and He has blessed you both ❤️🙏🏼
    On a side note, seems good you lost that job, because sounds like you were miserable there. you needed a new environment and to start of your make life freak with a new perspective, maybe it was a blessing from God in disguise.

  • @zeynebaali8292
    @zeynebaali8292 Год назад

    May Allah (s.w) bless your marriage and protect you from all bad circumstances .❤❤❤

  • @Hope-bn9xz
    @Hope-bn9xz Год назад

    SubhanAllah
    It's been a roller coaster ride for you both, but Alhumdulillah so glad you both came through ❤
    JazakAllahkhair for your story so many lessons to learn from your story, hopefully it will benefit others In sha Allah 🌹

  • @besmela2462
    @besmela2462 Год назад

    Allahuma barik very honest

  • @Amzy_co
    @Amzy_co Год назад

    MashaAllah MashaAllah wish everyone has what you have. May allah give you both a lot more and your families. You guys are cute

  • @hennadesigns3845
    @hennadesigns3845 Год назад

    what’s the percentage of Muslim in Jamaica?

  • @wandaasgarali1737
    @wandaasgarali1737 9 месяцев назад

    Barak Allah Hufeek. Thanks . Jazak Allah Khairun. Masha Allah

  • @OWO1969
    @OWO1969 Год назад

    Thank you, enjoy the back story.❤much love.

  • @TheDufteLady
    @TheDufteLady Год назад

    You are such a beautiful couple 🫶🏾🌸

  • @VirtuousJazzy66
    @VirtuousJazzy66 Год назад

    Humbling experience..beautiful family🎉

  • @anonymousm3861
    @anonymousm3861 Год назад

    Hey can you share your feet care routine

  • @BronsonAlive
    @BronsonAlive Год назад

    Very real and wonderful story.

  • @zainaireland452
    @zainaireland452 9 месяцев назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @karlenebrown636
    @karlenebrown636 Год назад

    Happy Saturday ❤

  • @einas1995
    @einas1995 Год назад +3

    Thank you for bringing up the topic. I’m sure many people pursuing marriage and getting to know someone are finding it beneficial.

  • @ibnfulan5716
    @ibnfulan5716 Год назад

    🤲🏾💯

  • @rejoicetsegah9079
    @rejoicetsegah9079 Год назад

    ❤❤

  • @Al-Aswad789
    @Al-Aswad789 Год назад

    Assalam aleikum The X’s

    • @TheXs.Official
      @TheXs.Official  Год назад

      Wa alaikum as salaam! Always lovely to see you in the comments ☺️

  • @violethimeezembikandjavera1712
    @violethimeezembikandjavera1712 Год назад +1

    So amazing 👏 much love from Africa ❤

  • @sara-bw2lk
    @sara-bw2lk Год назад

    Brit his guy looks exactly like the dude from the show love is blind I thought he converted

  • @asammushtaq956
    @asammushtaq956 Год назад

    No such thing as Muslim dating
    Dating is dating and its haram
    Dont let anybody tell you otherwise
    You cant make something which is haram halal by adding the words muslim or halal in front of it

    • @TheXs.Official
      @TheXs.Official  Год назад +2

      It’s a tag. If you watch this video and the ones we have linked throughout, you will see that we clearly explain there is no such thing as dating in Islam. There is courting, however, which isn’t much of a tag word. This is RUclips. You missed the point.

    • @fahadmalik8862
      @fahadmalik8862 5 месяцев назад

      @@TheXs.Official Courting is an decades old tradition upon without the parents guidlines and was later used in social uproars in streamlining the permission in culture.