For me, it's some of both. I only wear clothes because it would shock other people if I didn't. 😊 I wear dark colors for serious occasions, light, happy colors for family get togethers, and generally I wear what's appropriate. So, yes, I wear what I think will please other people, to a point. But if they want to take away my pink, heaven help them!
Who is looking at what people wear. On the street, most people are in a world of their own, on a phone why would they be interested in who wears what . Some may see you for a second. Where whatever you want and be confident in your choices.
Depending on your personal style, I don't see a denim jacket as an age thing. If your style has changed and you no longer have as casual a style, then I can see it, but if your style is still natural and casual, I don't think it can look wrong.
Sage advice Kay. As I have aged (retired), I have noticed how little anyone cares what I wear. It doesn't matter much in any real way so it is a great time to wear what truly suits you, including items like bows, ruffles, and bold prints.
I just asked myself that yesterday. I had bought a pair of Levi wide leg jeans a year ago and questioned myself if I was too old to wear them. I just turned 66 in May. So, I ironed them, yes, I like to iron, always have. I don’t care much for steamers, they stress me out, lol! Anyway, at the last minute I ironed a back up pair of jeans. After my shower I put them on with a plain Banana Republic Factory V neck t-shirt and their white sneakers. I did my minimal make up, my hair and added a small pearl and gold chain necklace, small pearl earrings and small pearl and gold bracelets. I rocked that look. My other jeans are waiting for me to wear today and I’m questioning if I should wear them with a tank top or button down shirt. I actually braved it this week and wore a tank top for the first time in years out in public. I was not only proud of myself but also felt good in it.
@@karenmiller5745 One of our chores as a kid was having to iron clothes. My husband even irons his clothes and he didn’t used to before we got married. Plus, in my opinion, steaming takes longer than ironing.
That sounds like a great classic outfit! I’d pair it with a leather jacket in cooler weather. The tank or button down would both be great with jeans. I love wideleg jeans! I’m the same age you are.
I’m not too old to wear anything, I’m 64. I’m happy about my figure and I have good legs, even the skin, thanks to my two Grandma’s “great legs DNA” and me keeping my weight to a healthy one, 125 lbs. I wear short skirts/dresses or shorts almost every day, why not? I’m not too crazy about my wrinkled arms, it’s from aging-related collagen loss, not “lack of toning/exercise” and genes, some women get this more than others, or earlier or later than others. But, that doesn’t stop me from wearing sleeveless tops when I need or want to. We can’t help aging, so why should we feel ashamed? Men don’t!
Thank you, Kay! I needed that! I just lost a bunch of weight, and have the fun (yet challenging) task of buying a lot of new things. This age question has popped up in the fitting room over and over! My rule is, take your teen granddaughter with you when you shop, she’ll be honest with her opinions and you’ll look great! I’m 74 and love feeling great again!
I was so unsure of myself when I retired 2 years ago; what to wear and how to spend my days. I also lost all my hair with cancer treatments. Talk about loss of confidence! I’ve decided now that I can wear whatever makes me feel good about myself and whether it’s shorts, jeans or athletic wear I do it. Still like looking modern and put together though. Great video Kay!
I think your approach is absolutely wonderful! We are changing and growing as we age. I am not the same person I was at 20 and I don't want to be. I decided that I will wear what makes ME feel confident and beautiful. Your advice and care is priceless, thank you!!
I have a dress I wore to a niece's wedding in 2012 which fits me again and looks really cute and is a small dotted print which also seems modern. It is sleeveless...and I am going to wear it to a friend's daughter's wedding anyway, regardless of the upper arm swing. I have embraced those as part of my heritage and remember lovingly my Mom's upper arms that looked like that. I may lift a weight now and again, but feel no compulsion to do so for this occasion. Yes, love who you are unconditionally, as you do others.
You are so spot on Kay!! I love this advice. As a 55yr old, lots of changes have occurred in the past 3 yrs. Most everything you mentioned I can relate to. I thank the Lord for you and your words of wisdom for us older ladies. God bless you richly ❤
At age 70, I have no time to waste on anything that doesn't make me happy. I have tanned slim legs and love wearing shorts. But the A-line mid length blue denim shorts that I loved so much 5 years ago that I got them also in white, just didn't look right this year. Whether my body has changed or the fabric got tired, doesn't matter: they went in the clothes bank. As will the butter yellow denim shorts that are just a tad too short 🤷♀️
Great video Kay. This is the dilemma I’m facing as I will be 70 on Wednesday. I began de-cluttering the clothes in my wardrobe about 9 mths ago as I just wasn’t feeling like the styles I’d been wearing for the past 10 years suited me anymore. No more animal prints or florals. I have some new shirts and jumpers with stripes, but I’m mostly comfortable in solid colours. However… when I see photos of myself in these new clothes, I don’t recognise myself anymore. I’m happy feeling comfortable in my new wardrobe of clothes and ( reluctantly) my older body, so I guess I’m just fitting into a new and different season of my life. Thanks for the thought provoking content and encouragement . I love your new hairstyle. With love from Sheron in Toowoomba. Queensland, Australia. ❤️🌻
I am making the change away from floral prints & obvious animal prints & I personally dislike palm prints for summer. Going for solid colors or as a petite woman small stripes in a top no large horizontal stripes. Still wear shorts in hot, hot humid summer weather. My legs are great.
I think this is my favorite of all your videos. I just turned 58 and aging can be hard as our bodies change. Menopause has been brutal on me and I just don’t feel like myself so what I wear plays a big part in how I feel about myself. I have other health issues so comfort is a big deal, but sometimes I feel like I have to sacrifice fashionable for comfort. Thank you for your gracious wisdom. I think this will be a game changer for me. If I like it, and I feel good in it, and it’s current then I don’t have to worry what others think of me in it. And vice versa, if I don’t feel good in it, then I don’t have to wear it and be ok with that.
I do avoid a lot of those little-girlish details like ruffles, flounces, puffed shoulders, Peter Pan collars, etc. I need sophisticated clothing and I love classic tailored items in 100% natural fibers and materials, and in feminine, mostly light, neutrals and colors. I like classic prints, too, like dots, stripes, checks and tartan and a few very carefully selected floral/foliage prints. I avoid shopping at those mature brands, the use a lot of old-ladyish styles like big long shirts and cardigans, tunic tops, skinny jeans and 3/4-sleeves. The too-bright colors and novelty prints aren’t modern and the prints and accessories are scaled for much bigger women, I’m petite and slender. I do buy the occasional item at Talbot’s, usually basics, so long as they’re not so long as to be unflattering (not every item comes in Petite, unfortunately). I always show my waist by tucking in all my tops or wearing waist-length ones. Those long tops hanging down to the thighs are the most aging thing ever, especially in florals. Don’t hide or tent your female shape, show it, it’s beautiful at any age or weight!
This was a great video! I agree with everything you said! I’m petite and 73. I love wearing ruffles and bows and different shades of pink but I have to say feminine tends to be one of my style preferences. I really think it’s more about one’s body shape and style preferences than age. For example I have very unattractive knees and so I stay away from short skirts and shorts because of that. Thank you for your research!💕
This video has been a revelation and makes so much sense!! It's given me an entirely different way of looking at clothes. Instead of thinking about if it is too young, thinking instead about whether it chimes with the woman I am now. Thank you so much for your insight and your positivity and wisdom about the aging process and reminding us we can age with beauty and grace and still have so much to offer ourselves and the world about us.❤
Love this video! Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this timely topic. It will help me when I do my long “put off” closet clean out. I will definitely go with my gut and realize that I truly have changed on the inside, as much as the outside! P.S. I received a last minute invitation to join my son and his gf on a California wine tasting trip last month. Because of you, I had everything I needed to wear and mix and match. And not boasting, but this KY girl looked as well put together and modern as anyone. Thank you, Kay. You make a difference in so many lives. ❤
You are so right - we change and we outgrow certain things. As long as we have fun and are grateful what we have, there will always be amazing things available. Thank you for this video.
Thank you for tackling this question and answering it so very well. By the way, I’m 74 and I’ve been enjoying so much your daily blog and your videos for a few years now. I also enjoy your daily devotional. Thank you so much for all you do. Getting old is definitely not for sissies, but you do take some of the trauma out of it! 😉
Your approach to this subject was so perceptive and accurate, Kay. My weight hasn’t changed but I just don’t feel right wearing clothes I wore even in the last couple of years. Thanks to you, my new understanding of my style is rewarding and much easier. Blessings!
I bought several dresses all the same style with different prints. I try them on now and they look ok, but they’re not me anymore. They remind me of when I was ill and I associate them with how poorly I was before my surgery. I feel it’s sensible to now let them go. Thank you Kay
It's always a good idea to be thoughtful about any new purchases, at any age. The items we wear set the 1st impression to anyone who sees us, and it should be in sync with how we feel in our own skin. Great video with honest and heartfelt advice ❤!
So glad you did this video. I ask myself this question almost every day. I can see where it might not be just my age, but my style and taste in clothes has changed. Thanks!
I learned a trick. If you’re unsure of any outfit :::: Take a photo of yourself in the dressing room to see if it looks good for your body type; color or style.
Feeling comfortable in your clothes is important If you dont Dont wear it !!😊 We all have good points and not so good ones They change too So its a challenge !! Great video KAY ❤
Great topic Kay! I've heard all of those "rules" and you are right, we should wear what makes us feel our best. I like your new shorter hairstyle, I think shorter hair is great when it's summer and we are more active and it's warmer out! It was really good to hear that some of those fashion rules we have all heard are not necessarily what we all need to heed!
Kay, We’ve been away on vacation and I’m just catching up on your video episodes. The words of advice and insight you’ve given here should be published in a booklet! I was taking in every word you spoke, nodding my head or shouting “Yes!” Years ago, a friend and fellow seamstress talked me in to having my “colors” done which was one of the smartest investments in myself I’ve made since earning my Masters in 1980! Not only did this professional Colorist provide me with my “Season” she spent 3 hours with me and I also learned what my “Style Aesthetic” was. These two keys have saved me thousands of dollars both retail shopping for ready-to-wear clothes and in purchasing fabrics for sewing my wardrobe pieces. Not everyone sews, I get that. (I make a small living sewing for those that don’t.) But, my point is, if you take the time to invest in having your colors done and pinpointing where your style aesthetic lies, you will be forever pleased with the choices you make. If you see a jumpsuit in a big, bold floral print on a tiny, petite young woman, and you are a “soft summer” with a “classic romantic” aesthetic, then go shopping for a floral jumpsuit in your color palette! I can’t wear bold, bright colors - they drown out my skin tone - so I search other sources to find the item I want in the colors I know will compliment my skin tone! Kay, you are so knowledgeable in ways to help us build a cohesive, workable wardrobe! Your advice and is so welcoming and appreciated! Sensational episode! ❤ P.S. Thank you, too, for the City Beauty link and coupon offer!
I don’t care for City Beauty so much. I’ve tried a number of their products and they don’t do what they promise. I do think their hand cream is great and see improvements in my hands!
I can’t use the products either. The neck and jaw cream caused terrible itching and the lip plumper was very sticky. I like their packaging color scheme though.
I’ve been changing my style recently, nothing to do with what I think I should or shouldn’t wear at my age (62) but I have changed how I see myself and how I want to look , my rules my style , I wear what I want , brilliant video 👍
Thank you Kay, and good morning. What a beautiful, informative and bonus video. God bless you, for all the enlightenment and encouragement. 🥰🙏👍❤️✝️🌟💫🌺🌸✨🌼
I'm curious to learn more details about color. What colors are more for younger women, or do you mean color trends and avoiding wearing colors that are no longer popular?
Good points. I don't feel comfortable in shorts anymore. Using ankle length pants in lightweight fabrics instead. I found some cute T-shirt dresses that are knee length. Using leg makeup helps. For dog walks I wear old capris or joggers..only never as an outfit anywhere else.
Thank you for explaining that concept, Kay- you are absolutely right! Just as a teen doesn't wear what she did at 5, we progress in what we look/feel best in. Regarding colors as we mature, can you go a little more into this? Colors to be careful of as they are thought to be more juvenile?
Your hair is beautiful today, and I love that color blouse on you! Thanks for the tips. This aging thing is hard & I often feel that I don't quite know "me" anymore.
The older I get, the more clothes I have collected. So many of the clothes I own are just plain out of style. Nothing ages me faster than wearing a style that is not in fashion anymore. Who could possibly look stylish in outdated clothes?!
As long as it doesn't scream Juniors or I borrowed this from my 14 yr old daughter's closet, wear what flatters you. If you're lucky enough to have not gained a lot of weight, have great legs, have feet/ankles that can handle heels, have un sun damaged skin--rock those shorter dresses & shorts, halter necklines, body con tops/dresses, high heels. Whatever suits you & makes you feel beautiful & happy is what is important.
Thank you for this informative video. What looks “appropriate” often depends on body shape and physical characteristics not age. I have seen younger and older women in clothing that is too tight causing straining seams, lumps/bumps/cellulite, cameltoe, muffin top, or fat rolls to take center stage. Sometimes it’s the opposite and the focus becomes whether women will actually be swallowed whole by her clothes. Some women might be showcasing wrinkled knees, batwings, or pooch with certain clothing choices. Having said that, fashion trends often are unflattering even on the models and fashionistas trying to wield influence. Don’t be a blind follower! **If your goal is to look stylish in your clothes, simply wear whatever you like that fits properly and showcases your best features. **If you could not care less about style, clothes, how others perceive you, wear whatever you like and forget the other considerations. It’s a free country!
I am 66 now and was a hairdresser in my 20’s, starting at 18z . I made the dumb mistake of telling women that 25 was too old for long hair!! I do believe in if it giggles or you can grab it, it needs to be covered. I like your tske on staying modern and not going for a trend that a woman in her 20’s and 30’s can pull off.
Love this. I thought exactly this a month ago as I was putting on blue nail polish. Do 60 year old grandmothers wear blue nail polish? I decided I really like the color so yes.
Child of the 70's, psychedelic/hippie fashion, cut offs and halter tops, all worn with hiking boots or just barefoot, all were my "fashion style"...Long straight hair and granny glasses, too. I morphed into classic white Ts, docker type bottoms, fitted, sleek styles. That said, if budget allowed and a more varied life style came along, I'd wear some of those psychedelic styles with a clear conscience. I still wear two piece swimsuits along with one piece styles...whatever suits the, ahem, more "mature" bust line...well, and maybe the earth mother jelly rolls at my waist. No matter what garments adorn my body, I seek most to communicate smiles and confidence to God's Glory and ignore the naysayers. Thank you for this well thought out video.
I am so grateful you introduced me to City Beauty Sculpting cream. The results have been amazing when I pair it with a little castor oil. I just ordered their cream for crepey skin. I have high hopes for that! I may try their lip glosses now.
Great video! Pretty much the way I think, but this helped solidify my thoughts. I say, "go with your gut!" I will also wear a "questionable" item for the day, and see how I feel at the end of the day. Usually this works, and makes it easier for me to pass it on, or put it back in my closet. ❤
Wonderful advice! I have a blouse (expensive) that I have had for years - I've put it in the box for goodwill - I've taken it back! ha Now I'm really going to give it away. It is not "me" anymore and I know it.
Kay, This video was just excellent. You brought up so many good points. As I was listening I was thinking this has nothing to do with age but what our unique style is that we want to present. I think younger girls/women ask the same thing but replace with the words too old with does this suit my style? I appreciate your videos so much because unlike others you make me think much differently about how I dress. 💄👠👛💕
As a woman of a certain age, I wear pretty much what I want. However, I do modify my choices. For example, I do wear leather (faux) pants, but I do not wear the skin tight versions. Now, if you are very petite and this suits you, have at it. I want to stay current, but I am not trying to look like my younger self. Personally speaking, my younger self may have looked better, but I am honestly much more comfortable in my body and like the person I have become.
Kay another great video and advice. I never thought about growing out of my wardrobe in that way. Also need advice on hanging on to my things in case they come back in style. So I think I need to ask myself if they do come back in style, have I outgrown that style. Food for thought.
In my experience, if something comes back in style it’s usually a little different and I end up wanting a new one rather than the old one I’ve kept all those years. So I don’t keep things for that reason. I only keep things I consider to be true classics. But I think that is very much an individual decision. Thanks for watching and sharing. 🥰
I have rethought my wardrobe starting in January 2024. Keeping clothing I really do not like: give to thrift shop. Same with clothes that are not comfortable or looks right (seam is twisted or shoulders too wide - I a petite). Gave away so someone else may enjoy. Discovered I had too many tops! It is work cause you have to try on each piece & decide if you really will wear it & like wearing. It's June still working at it. With fewer clothes it's easier to take care of & manage my clothing.
As I am more of an off the beaten path traveler, there are always a lot of Aussies where I go. Love their saying ‘mutton dressed s lamb’. Unfortunately, it’s always Americans fitting this description.
While I agree that age should not be a factor, I don't like seeing a 70 year old woman with bad varicose veins in shorts. It's one thing to wear that at home or private event, but I think we should always dress to highlight our best features and I don't wear anything that shows off my worst ones. There is a way to dress stylishly and attractively but it may mean there are things I just can't wear anymore.
I rock and sell on RUclips some awesome Vintage jewelry and lovely fashion especially jewelry most people can wear at any age. No you’re not too old to wear lovey joyous jewels and fun accessories . I love hunting the treasures that look good on almost any age.👠👛💍🧚🏻♂️🛍️👑
I think the gingham jumpsuit is gorgeous on you, but long. What I think it is, is that everything must have a dignity and elegance about it. That doesn't mean not romantic, not sensual, not alluring in the right setting. Possibly the opposite, but it does mean flattering your body, your silhouette. Sleek, flowing, tailored, absolutely always in a flattering colour even if you have to repeat it. Repeat necklines that flatter you. Darts in the right place, or buy a mens shirt and add the darts. A woman in a caftan and head scarf can be the most alluring thing ever, even though much of her is covered. There are still wrists, ankles, necks and queenly posture
I love your new haircut ❤! I also enjoy your videos I’m always thinking the same thing am I too old (67) to wear something? my husband says wear what you want then my daughter says no Mom you look old 😮.❤
Hi Kay! I have been following you for over a year now, and I always enjoy your videos, love your outfit and advice. Watching this video, I was wondering if the models could be more a fair representation of women over 55 or 60? That would make it more interesting 😊and validating Thanks
I’m a classic dresser so even when I was younger I never showed cleavage not my style .. halter tops that’s a no for me I wore those when I was 19 …. Showing midriff also a no no …some items just age us more .. and I’m petite
I agree with your previous video about dressing modern rather than youthful and this video reinforces that principle. keeping outfits simple and classy means you can wear anything that makes you feel confident and smart love all your ideas kay many thanks
I think that we should wear what makes us happy, not what makes others happy.
Absolutely. 💯
For me, it's some of both. I only wear clothes because it would shock other people if I didn't. 😊 I wear dark colors for serious occasions, light, happy colors for family get togethers, and generally I wear what's appropriate. So, yes, I wear what I think will please other people, to a point. But if they want to take away my pink, heaven help them!
If you love it, feel confident and beautiful in, wear it! Other people who criticize don’t deserve our attention.
Who is looking at what people wear. On the street, most people are in a world of their own, on a phone why would they be interested in who wears what . Some may see you for a second. Where whatever you want and be confident in your choices.
I asked you over 3 years ago if i was too old for pale blue denim jacket.
You said Gosh no! I am still wearing it at nearly 69 and love it.
Depending on your personal style, I don't see a denim jacket as an age thing. If your style has changed and you no longer have as casual a style, then I can see it, but if your style is still natural and casual, I don't think it can look wrong.
I’m 72 and I’ve never asked myself if I was too old to wear something. I shop in all the departments juniors, maternity, plus size and men’s
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@Sharon, you sound awesome!💖
Sage advice Kay. As I have aged (retired), I have noticed how little anyone cares what I wear. It doesn't matter much in any real way so it is a great time to wear what truly suits you, including items like bows, ruffles, and bold prints.
I just asked myself that yesterday. I had bought a pair of Levi wide leg jeans a year ago and questioned myself if I was too old to wear them. I just turned 66 in May. So, I ironed them, yes, I like to iron, always have. I don’t care much for steamers, they stress me out, lol! Anyway, at the last minute I ironed a back up pair of jeans. After my shower I put them on with a plain Banana Republic Factory V neck t-shirt and their white sneakers. I did my minimal make up, my hair and added a small pearl and gold chain necklace, small pearl earrings and small pearl and gold bracelets. I rocked that look. My other jeans are waiting for me to wear today and I’m questioning if I should wear them with a tank top or button down shirt. I actually braved it this week and wore a tank top for the first time in years out in public. I was not only proud of myself but also felt good in it.
I love to iron too! Always have!!!!!!!!!! I iron my husband's clothes, my clothes and the grandchildren's when they stay with us!
@@karenmiller5745 One of our chores as a kid was having to iron clothes. My husband even irons his clothes and he didn’t used to before we got married. Plus, in my opinion, steaming takes longer than ironing.
That sounds like a great classic outfit! I’d pair it with a leather jacket in cooler weather. The tank or button down would both be great with jeans. I love wideleg jeans! I’m the same age you are.
Ha, I also turned 66 in May and also have a pair of wide legged jeans that I like to wear when I'm in the mood for that look. Go us!!
@@Anagrams458yay, go us!!!
I’m not too old to wear anything, I’m 64. I’m happy about my figure and I have good legs, even the skin, thanks to my two Grandma’s “great legs DNA” and me keeping my weight to a healthy one, 125 lbs. I wear short skirts/dresses or shorts almost every day, why not? I’m not too crazy about my wrinkled arms, it’s from aging-related collagen loss, not “lack of toning/exercise” and genes, some women get this more than others, or earlier or later than others. But, that doesn’t stop me from wearing sleeveless tops when I need or want to. We can’t help aging, so why should we feel ashamed? Men don’t!
What a beautifully positive post. Thank you!❤
You are right on point! If you feel good in your clothes- wear them with a smile 😃
Absolutely. Thanks for sharing, Kimberly. 😊
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Agree with you that we should wear what we want. As to why we avoid it, probably to avoid exposing ourselves to judgment or feeling unattractive.
Thank you, Kay! I needed that! I just lost a bunch of weight, and have the fun (yet challenging) task of buying a lot of new things. This age question has popped up in the fitting room over and over! My rule is, take your teen granddaughter with you when you shop, she’ll be honest with her opinions and you’ll look great! I’m 74 and love feeling great again!
Oh yes, my 15 year old grand girl tells it like it is! 😊
I was so unsure of myself when I retired 2 years ago; what to wear and how to spend my days. I also lost all my hair with cancer treatments. Talk about loss of confidence! I’ve decided now that I can wear whatever makes me feel good about myself and whether it’s shorts, jeans or athletic wear I do it. Still like looking modern and put together though. Great video Kay!
I think your approach is absolutely wonderful! We are changing and growing as we age. I am not the same person I was at 20 and I don't want to be. I decided that I will wear what makes ME feel confident and beautiful. Your advice and care is priceless, thank you!!
I have a dress I wore to a niece's wedding in 2012 which fits me again and looks really cute and is a small dotted print which also seems modern. It is sleeveless...and I am going to wear it to a friend's daughter's wedding anyway, regardless of the upper arm swing. I have embraced those as part of my heritage and remember lovingly my Mom's upper arms that looked like that. I may lift a weight now and again, but feel no compulsion to do so for this occasion. Yes, love who you are unconditionally, as you do others.
I forgot to add...I am 72 now.
You are so spot on Kay!! I love this advice. As a 55yr old, lots of changes have occurred in the past 3 yrs. Most everything you mentioned I can relate to. I thank the Lord for you and your words of wisdom for us older ladies. God bless you richly ❤
At age 70, I have no time to waste on anything that doesn't make me happy. I have tanned slim legs and love wearing shorts. But the A-line mid length blue denim shorts that I loved so much 5 years ago that I got them also in white, just didn't look right this year. Whether my body has changed or the fabric got tired, doesn't matter: they went in the clothes bank. As will the butter yellow denim shorts that are just a tad too short 🤷♀️
Way to be decisive! 🙌🏻 I love that. 😊
Nooooo keep the yellow shorts! Maybe add some crochet trim or a band of tassels or anything playful or feminine?
Great video Kay. This is the dilemma I’m facing as I will be 70 on Wednesday. I began de-cluttering the clothes in my wardrobe about 9 mths ago as I just wasn’t feeling like the styles I’d been wearing for the past 10 years suited me anymore. No more animal prints or florals. I have some new shirts and jumpers with stripes, but I’m mostly comfortable in solid colours. However… when I see photos of myself in these new clothes, I don’t recognise myself anymore. I’m happy feeling comfortable in my new wardrobe of clothes and ( reluctantly) my older body, so I guess I’m just fitting into a new and different season of my life. Thanks for the thought provoking content and encouragement . I love your new hairstyle. With love from Sheron in Toowoomba. Queensland, Australia. ❤️🌻
Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts, Sheron. I’m sure many of us are right there with you. I’m so glad you enjoyed the video. 😊
I am making the change away from floral prints & obvious animal prints & I personally dislike palm prints for summer. Going for solid colors or as a petite woman small stripes in a top no large horizontal stripes. Still wear shorts in hot, hot humid summer weather. My legs are great.
I think this is my favorite of all your videos. I just turned 58 and aging can be hard as our bodies change. Menopause has been brutal on me and I just don’t feel like myself so what I wear plays a big part in how I feel about myself. I have other health issues so comfort is a big deal, but sometimes I feel like I have to sacrifice fashionable for comfort. Thank you for your gracious wisdom. I think this will be a game changer for me. If I like it, and I feel good in it, and it’s current then I don’t have to worry what others think of me in it. And vice versa, if I don’t feel good in it, then I don’t have to wear it and be ok with that.
I do avoid a lot of those little-girlish details like ruffles, flounces, puffed shoulders, Peter Pan collars, etc. I need sophisticated clothing and I love classic tailored items in 100% natural fibers and materials, and in feminine, mostly light, neutrals and colors. I like classic prints, too, like dots, stripes, checks and tartan and a few very carefully selected floral/foliage prints. I avoid shopping at those mature brands, the use a lot of old-ladyish styles like big long shirts and cardigans, tunic tops, skinny jeans and 3/4-sleeves. The too-bright colors and novelty prints aren’t modern and the prints and accessories are scaled for much bigger women, I’m petite and slender. I do buy the occasional item at Talbot’s, usually basics, so long as they’re not so long as to be unflattering (not every item comes in Petite, unfortunately). I always show my waist by tucking in all my tops or wearing waist-length ones. Those long tops hanging down to the thighs are the most aging thing ever, especially in florals. Don’t hide or tent your female shape, show it, it’s beautiful at any age or weight!
This was a great video! I agree with everything you said! I’m petite and 73. I love wearing ruffles and bows and different shades of pink but I have to say feminine tends to be one of my style preferences. I really think it’s more about one’s body shape and style preferences than age. For example I have very unattractive knees and so I stay away from short skirts and shorts because of that. Thank you for your research!💕
Thanks for the reassurance, Kay! You're my favorite influencer.
This video has been a revelation and makes so much sense!! It's given me an entirely different way of looking at clothes. Instead of thinking about if it is too young, thinking instead about whether it chimes with the woman I am now. Thank you so much for your insight and your positivity and wisdom about the aging process and reminding us we can age with beauty and grace and still have so much to offer ourselves and the world about us.❤
Kay, your advice is consistently spot-on and useful. I am so glad you are doing this work!
Thank you. That is very encouraging. 😊
Love this video! Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this timely topic. It will help me when I do my long “put off” closet clean out. I will definitely go with my gut and realize that I truly have changed on the inside, as much as the outside!
P.S. I received a last minute invitation to join my son and his gf on a California wine tasting trip last month. Because of you, I had everything I needed to wear and mix and match. And not boasting, but this KY girl looked as well put together and modern as anyone. Thank you, Kay. You make a difference in so many lives. ❤
I love your new hair cut. I keep meaning to tell you but I think you look so chic. Thank you for todays video!
Than you so much. I’m enjoying it. ☺️
You are so right - we change and we outgrow certain things. As long as we have fun and are grateful what we have, there will always be amazing things available. Thank you for this video.
Thank you for tackling this question and answering it so very well. By the way, I’m 74 and I’ve been enjoying so much your daily blog and your videos for a few years now. I also enjoy your daily devotional. Thank you so much for all you do. Getting old is definitely not for sissies, but you do take some of the trauma out of it! 😉
Hahaha! We’re in this together! 🙌🏻
Your approach to this subject was so perceptive and accurate, Kay. My weight hasn’t changed but I just don’t feel right wearing clothes I wore even in the last couple of years. Thanks to you, my new understanding of my style is rewarding and much easier. Blessings!
I bought several dresses all the same style with different prints. I try them on now and they look ok, but they’re not me anymore. They remind me of when I was ill and I associate them with how poorly I was before my surgery. I feel it’s sensible to now let them go. Thank you Kay
You bring up an important point. Any article of clothing that has a negative connotation has no right to be in your closet.
It's always a good idea to be thoughtful about any new purchases, at any age. The items we wear set the 1st impression to anyone who sees us, and it should be in sync with how we feel in our own skin. Great video with honest and heartfelt advice ❤!
Absolutely! I completely agree. Thanks so much for sharing. 🥰
Love the new hair ! Looks cute and sassy !
Thank you!! ☺️
Thank you, Kay, for all your informative and encouraging videos. You are a blessing! ❤
So glad you did this video. I ask myself this question almost every day. I can see where it might not be just my age, but my style and taste in clothes has changed. Thanks!
I learned a trick. If you’re unsure of any outfit :::: Take a photo of yourself in the dressing room to see if it looks good for your body type; color or style.
So true how this works
@gigigirl...thank you so much. I've never thought of this! You techy young ones!!
Great nonjudgmental video with lots of good information.
Feeling comfortable in your clothes is important
If you dont
Dont wear it !!😊
We all have good points and not so good ones
They change too
So its a challenge !!
Great video KAY ❤
Kay, that lilac color is stunning in you! Love this content. Almost 63 and need your consulting!
Thank you. I just can’t get enough of this color lately. 💜
Kay! I love your new hair style. It is so attractive.
Great topic Kay! I've heard all of those "rules" and you are right, we should wear what makes us feel our best. I like your new shorter hairstyle, I think shorter hair is great when it's summer and we are more active and it's warmer out! It was really good to hear that some of those fashion rules we have all heard are not necessarily what we all need to heed!
I’m so glad you enjoyed the video. Thanks for watching. 💙
Kay, We’ve been away on vacation and I’m just catching up on your video episodes. The words of advice and insight you’ve given here should be published in a booklet! I was taking in every word you spoke, nodding my head or shouting “Yes!” Years ago, a friend and fellow seamstress talked me in to having my “colors” done which was one of the smartest investments in myself I’ve made since earning my Masters in 1980! Not only did this professional Colorist provide me with my “Season” she spent 3 hours with me and I also learned what my “Style Aesthetic” was. These two keys have saved me thousands of dollars both retail shopping for ready-to-wear clothes and in purchasing fabrics for sewing my wardrobe pieces. Not everyone sews, I get that. (I make a small living sewing for those that don’t.) But, my point is, if you take the time to invest in having your colors done and pinpointing where your style aesthetic lies, you will be forever pleased with the choices you make. If you see a jumpsuit in a big, bold floral print on a tiny, petite young woman, and you are a “soft summer” with a “classic romantic” aesthetic, then go shopping for a floral jumpsuit in your color palette! I can’t wear bold, bright colors - they drown out my skin tone - so I search other sources to find the item I want in the colors I know will compliment my skin tone! Kay, you are so knowledgeable in ways to help us build a cohesive, workable wardrobe! Your advice and is so welcoming and appreciated! Sensational episode! ❤ P.S. Thank you, too, for the City Beauty link and coupon offer!
I don’t care for City Beauty so much. I’ve tried a number of their products and they don’t do what they promise. I do think their hand cream is great and see improvements in my hands!
I can’t use the products either. The neck and jaw cream caused terrible itching and the lip plumper was very sticky. I like their packaging color scheme though.
Great video. I find myself asking does this look to old on me!! Some of the items I had when I worked did! I don't want to look to "old" either.
Thanks so much for watching, Kaye. 😊
I’ve been changing my style recently, nothing to do with what I think I should or shouldn’t wear at my age (62) but I have changed how I see myself and how I want to look , my rules my style , I wear what I want , brilliant video 👍
Thank you Kay, and good morning.
What a beautiful, informative and bonus video.
God bless you, for all the enlightenment and encouragement.
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I'm curious to learn more details about color. What colors are more for younger women, or do you mean color trends and avoiding wearing colors that are no longer popular?
Your hair cut is adorable!!
Good points. I don't feel comfortable in shorts anymore. Using ankle length pants in lightweight fabrics instead. I found some cute T-shirt dresses that are knee length. Using leg makeup helps. For dog walks I wear old capris or joggers..only never as an outfit anywhere else.
Thank you for explaining that concept, Kay- you are absolutely right! Just as a teen doesn't wear what she did at 5, we progress in what we look/feel best in. Regarding colors as we mature, can you go a little more into this? Colors to be careful of as they are thought to be more juvenile?
Love this video! Great advice and reassurances. Age is just a number.
Your hair is beautiful today, and I love that color blouse on you! Thanks for the tips. This aging thing is hard & I often feel that I don't quite know "me" anymore.
The older I get, the more clothes I have collected. So many of the clothes I own are just plain out of style. Nothing ages me faster than wearing a style that is not in fashion anymore. Who could possibly look stylish in outdated clothes?!
The distinction of perhaps you’ve “outgrown” something is really helpful.
I just have to say the blouse you are wearing in this video is beautiful on you, that is your color!
As long as it doesn't scream Juniors or I borrowed this from my 14 yr old daughter's closet, wear what flatters you. If you're lucky enough to have not gained a lot of weight, have great legs, have feet/ankles that can handle heels, have un sun damaged skin--rock those shorter dresses & shorts, halter necklines, body con tops/dresses, high heels. Whatever suits you & makes you feel beautiful & happy is what is important.
I love your wisdom. Such a great conversation!
And, I love that purple shirt. Looks stunning on you!
Thank you for this informative video. What looks “appropriate” often depends on body shape and physical characteristics not age. I have seen younger and older women in clothing that is too tight causing straining seams, lumps/bumps/cellulite, cameltoe, muffin top, or fat rolls to take center stage. Sometimes it’s the opposite and the focus becomes whether women will actually be swallowed whole by her clothes. Some women might be showcasing wrinkled knees, batwings, or pooch with certain clothing choices. Having said that, fashion trends often are unflattering even on the models and fashionistas trying to wield influence. Don’t be a blind follower! **If your goal is to look stylish in your clothes, simply wear whatever you like that fits properly and showcases your best features. **If you could not care less about style, clothes, how others perceive you, wear whatever you like and forget the other considerations. It’s a free country!
Your advice is always so helpful and positive. Thanks again for all your help.
Great video, and so practical!
I absolutely love your hair!
Thanks you. 😊
I am 66 now and was a hairdresser in my 20’s, starting at 18z . I made the dumb mistake of telling women that 25 was too old for long hair!!
I do believe in if it giggles or you can grab it, it needs to be covered. I like your tske on staying modern and not going for a trend that a woman in her 20’s and 30’s can pull off.
Oh, that used to be what “the rule” was. 🤣🤣 I remember hearing that.
Love this. I thought exactly this a month ago as I was putting on blue nail polish. Do 60 year old grandmothers wear blue nail polish? I decided I really like the color so yes.
Hah! I’m 68 and wear blue nail polish often. I teach high school and my students often compliment me on my nail color. 😊
What a great video! Kind, wise, gentle advice. Glad I found this channel 😊 Greetings from Canada!
Kay you are so gracious and I truly appreciate you and thank you for your videos. This video was done so well.
Your hairstyle is so cute on you!
Thank you. I’m enjoying it. 😊
Love your shorter haircut.
You make a great point. Some of my clothes are just not me anymore even if they still fit great.
Child of the 70's, psychedelic/hippie fashion, cut offs and halter tops, all worn with hiking boots or just barefoot, all were my "fashion style"...Long straight hair and granny glasses, too. I morphed into classic white Ts, docker type bottoms, fitted, sleek styles. That said, if budget allowed and a more varied life style came along, I'd wear some of those psychedelic styles with a clear conscience. I still wear two piece swimsuits along with one piece styles...whatever suits the, ahem, more "mature" bust line...well, and maybe the earth mother jelly rolls at my waist. No matter what garments adorn my body, I seek most to communicate smiles and confidence to God's Glory and ignore the naysayers. Thank you for this well thought out video.
I say wear whatever you like and feel good in.
I really like your new hairstyle it makes your eyes show up so pretty!
Thanks so much. 🥰
I love your haircut…
Kay you articulated that very well!
I am so grateful you introduced me to City Beauty Sculpting cream. The results have been amazing when I pair it with a little castor oil. I just ordered their cream for crepey skin. I have high hopes for that! I may try their lip glosses now.
You are so welcome! 🤗
Great video! Pretty much the way I think, but this helped solidify my thoughts. I say, "go with your gut!" I will also wear a "questionable" item for the day, and see how I feel at the end of the day. Usually this works, and makes it easier for me to pass it on, or put it back in my closet. ❤
Thanks for sharing!! 🥰
Wonderful advice! I have a blouse (expensive) that I have had for years - I've put it in the box for goodwill - I've taken it back! ha Now I'm really going to give it away. It is not "me" anymore and I know it.
Good story. Thanks for sharing. 💕
I love this!! I don't think I've thought of it in quite this way. Thank you!!
You're so welcome!😉
Love your new haircut 🙂 . Good video🥰
I love your new hairdo. It really looks good on you.
Oh thank you!😊
Kay,
This video was just excellent. You brought up so many good points. As I was listening I was thinking this has nothing to do with age but what our unique style is that we want to present.
I think younger girls/women ask the same thing but replace with the words too old with does this suit my style?
I appreciate your videos so much because unlike others you make me think much differently about how I dress. 💄👠👛💕
Well said! Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts. And thank you for watching. Have a great weekend! 💜
Great video! Your hair looks so cute and perfect for summer. I’ve liked all your haircuts. I am so bad at fixing my hair, still trying! lol!
Thank you. 😊
Oh my gosh !!! I so needed this! I have been doing the am I too old for this or at my age of 65 should I wear this? Thank you!!!
I’m very glad this was helpful. Thanks for letting me know. 💜
As a woman of a certain age, I wear pretty much what I want. However, I do modify my choices. For example, I do wear leather (faux) pants, but I do not wear the skin tight versions. Now, if you are very petite and this suits you, have at it. I want to stay current, but I am not trying to look like my younger self. Personally speaking, my younger self may have looked better, but I am honestly much more comfortable in my body and like the person I have become.
Well said! 💜
Nice video. Also, your hair style looks great !
Kay another great video and advice. I never thought about growing out of my wardrobe in that way. Also need advice on hanging on to my things in case they come back in style. So I think I need to ask myself if they do come back in style, have I outgrown that style. Food for thought.
In my experience, if something comes back in style it’s usually a little different and I end up wanting a new one rather than the old one I’ve kept all those years. So I don’t keep things for that reason. I only keep things I consider to be true classics. But I think that is very much an individual decision. Thanks for watching and sharing. 🥰
I have rethought my wardrobe starting in January 2024. Keeping clothing I really do not like: give to thrift shop. Same with clothes that are not comfortable or looks right (seam is twisted or shoulders too wide - I a petite). Gave away so someone else may enjoy.
Discovered I had too many tops! It is work cause you have to try on each piece & decide if you really will wear it & like wearing. It's June still working at it. With fewer clothes it's easier to take care of & manage my clothing.
Love your information.
Glad it was helpful! Thanks for watching. 🥰
Spot on, Kay🎉
As I am more of an off the beaten path traveler, there are always a lot of Aussies where I go. Love their saying ‘mutton dressed s lamb’. Unfortunately, it’s always Americans fitting this description.
Thanks for sharing. 😊
While I agree that age should not be a factor, I don't like seeing a 70 year old woman with bad varicose veins in shorts. It's one thing to wear that at home or private event, but I think we should always dress to highlight our best features and I don't wear anything that shows off my worst ones. There is a way to dress stylishly and attractively but it may mean there are things I just can't wear anymore.
Great info Kay. I wonder why you are not wearing any rings
Great advice!
I rock and sell on RUclips some awesome Vintage jewelry and lovely fashion especially jewelry most people can wear at any age. No you’re not too old to wear lovey joyous jewels and fun accessories . I love hunting the treasures that look good on almost any age.👠👛💍🧚🏻♂️🛍️👑
Excellent content!
Great video, however this is the first time I have heard that some colors are juvenile and some mature! I’d like to know what colors are which.
Well said ❤
I think the gingham jumpsuit is gorgeous on you, but long. What I think it is, is that everything must have a dignity and elegance about it. That doesn't mean not romantic, not sensual, not alluring in the right setting. Possibly the opposite, but it does mean flattering your body, your silhouette. Sleek, flowing, tailored, absolutely always in a flattering colour even if you have to repeat it. Repeat necklines that flatter you. Darts in the right place, or buy a mens shirt and add the darts. A woman in a caftan and head scarf can be the most alluring thing ever, even though much of her is covered. There are still wrists, ankles, necks and queenly posture
I love your new haircut ❤!
I also enjoy your videos I’m always thinking the same thing am I too old (67) to wear something?
my husband says wear what you want then my daughter says no Mom you look old 😮.❤
Hi Kay! I have been following you for over a year now, and I always enjoy your videos, love your outfit and advice. Watching this video, I was wondering if the models could be more a fair representation of women over 55 or 60? That would make it more interesting 😊and validating
Thanks
I agree!
Thanks!
Great video!
Glad you enjoyed it
I’m a classic dresser so even when I was younger I never showed cleavage not my style .. halter tops that’s a no for me I wore those when I was 19 …. Showing midriff also a no no …some items just age us more .. and I’m petite
Thanks for sharing your thoughts. 🥰
Kay liked your hair better before
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And some tee shirts or swim wear with spider man and other cartoon figures…..
I agree with your previous video about dressing modern rather than youthful and this video reinforces that principle. keeping outfits simple and classy means you can wear anything that makes you feel confident and smart
love all your ideas kay many thanks
Thanks for sharing!! 🥰