Exactly. Aren't most American black men single and childless? Young black single moms are having illegitimate children with a much smaller group of sexually irresponsible men who often father many children with many women. And those black single moms don't want to take responsibility for choosing those type of men. The women act like it's all black men that are the problem, instead of their own choosing skills. These single moms are choosing Pookie and Ray-Ray. The women are not being tricked by Pookie. They are attracted to these men BECAUSE of the Pookie qualities.
Kamryn is such a refreshing display of femininity. When a feminine black American woman expresses the fact that women need to be held accountable, the hyena comes out ready to attack. The most beautiful woman on Anton's panel is Kamryn.
When will we understand that we will NEVER be able to fix this problem because women are INCAPABLE of taking accountability at scale. We are cooked and we need to accept it.
You know when the Oprah chorus was trashing Black Men for how long, Randi spoke nothing of attack. But when the attention turns to a Single Baby Momma’s role in poor decision making for breaking up families, suddenly it’s an “attack.”
@@rawketeerMy brother n law had to do time for not paying his child support. Was he held accountable or nah? Id love to know the percentages on the men held accountable and the ones that arent. Then id like for you to explain when the women are held accountable? Because if she doesnt want to be a mother, she gets to make that choice free of accountability.
@@rawketeerthe men who don't pay child support are STILL held accountable. Their lives are wrecked by it. They serve time, lose jobs, get their drivers licenses and passports revoked, etc. There's a large number of guys who are in homeless shelters and are couch surfing because of child support payments, or because of not being able to afford them. A lot of them end up having to hustle and work under the table just to survive. Women generally don't experience any of that. They get help from the government and from other people.
Randi coming from a two-parent household trying to argue points ON SINGLE MOTHERHOOD against a woman RAISED IN A SINGLE PARENT HOME is hilarious. Not only did Randi name call referring to Kam as "Lame" but she was so busy interrupting and trying to respond that there was no way she could have listened to the valid points Kamryn made. Randi is just as bad as Btaylor, Kay, and Kayla from Lapeef LOL.
My point exactly bro 😂 and I think Anton likes that coz he once said that she speaks her mind and DGAF... She cusses and insults the other panelists that don't agree with her..
Exactly! Why none of them pointing out the fact that these "trying" gate keepers chose to procreate with that dude BEFORE knowing she and the innocent being would have security and stability first from that dude? Why these "trying" gate keepers keep falling for the banana in the tail pipe? Why these 'trying" gate keepers have all of these government incentives for having a child. You know, like FREE legal representation in family court while the father must come out of pocket to pay for his attorney fees along with his cost of living expenses and the monthly child support as he's trying not to lose his job, his child, his freedom,, his driving privileges, and his sanity? There's no pressure on these "trying" gate keepers.
When it comes to single mothers, when the child succeeds, she is seen as a hero. When the child becomes a product of the penal system, it's "Where was the father?" The fact is that there are far more unsuccessful single mothers than successful ones. Randi couldn't grasp that concept.
Facts, because they lack accountability. It's never their fault, they know they dealing with ain't ish ninjas. I as a man can be amongst a group of other men, and can tell this ninja ain't ish, from a three minute conversation, like bruh what you on? But they be round these dudes, and sleeping with them, unprotected at that, and they don't know? Foh😂
The late kevin samuels said it himself when he told this one woman who called. He said "you want all the credit when things go well but you also gotta take the credit when things go bad".
The single mother is always privileged and given so much grace, while the single father doesn’t get the same grace and gets bashed without even getting his side of the truth. That’s the issue
He doesn’t get any grace for not putting up with women’s trash behavior. He’s supposed to put up with it no matter what. He’s not supposed to find his peace, know his worth, put himself first the way they tell each other to.
Anton I'm a single father. My wife passed 11 years ago. I have been raising a 16-year-old daughter for 11 years by myself. These women out here are trash. The word trash is a very harsh word I'll say damage and a lack of accountability. They take blame for nothing. Which is caused me to not have remarry since. I refuse to bring that type of energy around my daughter and I hate that she's missing out on balance because I truly believe that a child does best with a mother and a father in the household. But these women don't want to take accountability for the actions in the people that they pick.
The women break up with the men more than the men leave the woman and kids though that’s a fact it’s not like the men can’t force themselves in the household
You can't imagine how nasty and rude Randi must have been in her younger years before she hit the wall,just IMAGINE..She is the type to argue why 2+2 should NOT be 4
Not every single mother has the same soapy sob story of her being abandoned out of nowhere and/or for no reason. Not all of them are the sweet innocent little victim they want you to believe they are. Some of them were sleeping around and didn't even know who the biological father is. Some of them cheated and tried to pin the affair baby on the man they betrayed. Some of them baby trapped a man who didn't want kids. She tampered with the condom. Some of them thought that forcing a baby on the man was going to fix a dying relationship. Another "oopsies" pregnancy. Some of them ruined the relationship. The man still wants to be in the child's life, but the mother is so petty, bitter, and vindictive that she is keeping the child away from the father. She holds their child up for ransom until he bows down and follow every one of her tyrannical decrees. Some of them purposely chose to procreate with the worst type of men.
Kam is right, I'm a put it like this, character and personality goes out the window if they attracted to the guy n he hits it right 😂 9 months later a baby is born, Kam is 100% correct
This is why they break all their rules for the men they are attracted to like pookie and tyrone. Then when they give them a baby without a ring first, they look for sympathy from the internet.
How do you have a baby with a "well to do" man with trash character who just decides to "walk out" on you out of nowhere. Makes no sense at scale. Maybe you were a side chick or he was toxic from the beginning. The average man man doesnt just leave his kids.
Exactly. You have men like Future with many baby mamas yet us men will be painted with the same brush. Women have zero logic, they hate being objective about things and it's sad
Those two girls are thinking with emotions and not logic . Kamryn was speaking nothing but the truth and they couldn’t handle the truth . Living in reality is a lot better then delusion
a 2 parent household just dont happens much anymore what's the big deal ? Truly the single mom have being doing a terrible job at it. All these dudes in jail came from a single mother. MOst want to raise their kids on their own. They push dudes away, relocate far away from men. Some are just EVIL AND DIFFICULT to deal with.
Randi is so awful, absolutely very disingenuous. Women file for divorce. They break up their homes. Also, they chose to date low caliber men. That's also a fact. Randi constantly gives bad advice. Good job, Kam, for standing up and putting those chicks in check.. that was beautiful to see. They just made themselves look awful.
Most of the time the father doesn't walk out on the child, the father gets away from the unbearable woman and is not allowed to interact with his child for said reason.
Okay the dad is not there, we established that. Why is the dad not there? There are so many dynamics that are being left out. How we know that the dad chose to walk out? There are so many women that separate from the men and keep the men away from the kids. How about the women that make the dad life hard when it comes to spending time with his kids? Why are we only focusing on the guys that choose to leave freely. Not all men leave freely. Also once the man leaves, does that mean everything stops. Yes it leaves that woman in a tough spot, but do it stop there? So once the child is here and that man is gone, does that means the woman should put their best foot forward to raise that child? Just because you chose to keep the child don’t mean you get a pass to be a shitty mother. It’s like you woman want to give the women a pass only because they decide to keep the kid. So moving forward all single mother are allowed to be shitty because the dad is not there! So now both of them are wrong.
@coachray, basically the women are mad at the whole single mom thing and are using the father as a scapegoat/ punching bag 😒 I was watching this with my face twisted up because as soon as the finger got point at the fathers, the women on the panel (doing the finger pointing) brains immediately shut off and the conversation ended there. I’m sitting here like🙁 oh, okay.. I know exactly what this behavior is so why even have a conversation when clearly not everyone on the panel is ready to have it? I honestly think that does more harm than good. Reason is because the audience is just gonna pick a side according to how they *Feel* so what did the panel ultimately accomplish? Maybe someone can help me out with that question
The fact they are skipping over millions of Fathers fighting in family court is the biggest joke. It’s waaaay too many variables. Men are gonna come with facts the ladies just spewing feelings.
Kulinary Kam is the name of the star of this episode. She absolutely cooked them birds. She met aggression, emotion, hostility and ignorance with calmness and facts.
All jas does is dodge accountability and plays victim. She a lil kid like alot of single mothers. There even married women like this to but you see it most from single mother's
@@ByrdMan37You can’t be held accountable for the mother going to court, lying, and doing everything in her power to get you the least amount of time with your child while getting the most amount of child support.
A decade and a half ago a middle aged coworker of mine asked me for advice and when I advised her to not give it up with some sort of commitment she cursed me out, called me crazy, and told me no man was going to marry a woman that didn’t put out 🤣
Why do they keep talking about the man leaving? What if the woman forced him to? Or cheated on him? Or was abusive? They want to blame men for everything. By default, it’s the man’s fault?!
I was watching this on my TV and had to pull it up on my phone so I could comment. Kamryn was ABSOLUTELY 💯. But Kamryn has accountability when these other chics don't!
Kamryn makes a valid point about the power that women wield with bearing a child. That should not be taken lightly, in that women have to protect themselves and do their due diligence in vetting out their partner. Simply because they bear the most when it comes to bringing a child into the world. I say this being a child of a single parent. I saw the struggles my mother went through with little to no support from my father. Single parent mothers should not bear the blame for bad outcomes when raising their children. Thus, once the child is here and the father is absent, she has to work double hard to make up the difference. My point is single parenthood is not an ideal situation and given a choice, most people would rather have children with a partner that will share the responsibility.
For the past 60 years we have been blaming deadbeat daddies while single mothers were able to do the same amount of damage to the black community with impunity. Now that we are finally holding women accountable they’re malfunctioning.
THANK YOU Kamryn…. You are 100% correct. They tried to hop on your head when you made the most valid point. As a MAN… I have no desire to have a child with a woman unless I’m married to her…. Meaning MARRIAGE FIRST! Not baby first. There are so many childless men like me that follow the same rule. These women are so lame and unacceptable. I’m sorry. I got to keep it a buck.
Wasn’t the question about women holding women accountable? I think we’re seeing what happens when another woman tries to! Kam tried to hold women accountable and immediately got attacked, called names, killed with side eyes, shamed, and ganged up on! They showed exactly why women don’t 😮lol I don’t even think they understood that!
Imagine you and a man decided to buy a car together. After purchasing the car, y'all realize it's a lemon. Dude is like, I didn't sign up for this, lets file a lemon law claim and get rid of the car. And the woman is like, nah... I'm keeping it, and you need to help me repair it. The man didn't sign up for that. Y'all accidentally bought a lemon, and she wants to keep it, now it's his responsibility too? Nah mama.
@@leonardtarver149 Lol, good one! Black women making it seem like they just have bad luck. 72% of our kids are born out of wedlock, that's just bad luck, I call bs! Especially the ones with multiple baby daddies like Quane, this is a pattern, it's not just bad luck. My sister who has a masters degree, married a nigga she met on a "girls trip" to DR. A man almost 10 years younger than her, who can't speak english, with no education. I told her not to marry that nigga, he had more red flags than the beijing olympics. You know what she told me? The heart wants, what the heart wants. Then he put 2 babies in her, and left her. Now she a single mom, did her heart want that? It's not bad luck, they let emotions cloud their judgement, I don't wanna hear the excuses.
But the man consented to buying the car and even signed his name on the loan, he knew the risk that the car could be a lemon and he still signed the loan. He should have spoke to the vvo man prior to signing to see what her thoughts would be if the car they bought is a lemon. His fault. Sorry. You think a bank would let him out of that loan based upon that?Nope
@@rawketeer So if I marry a woman, and she became the bread winner because I lost my job, and I cheat on her, and have a baby with another woman, and I can't pay for the child support, you think it's fair for the wife to have to pay for a child that's not hers? According to you, yes, because she decided to marry me knowing the risk I could cheat. A woman has the power to put the baby up for adoption or get an abortion, and walk away scott free, the man has no choice in the matter. She can even put the baby up for adoption against his will, and he can't do anything about it. What you are talking about is called inequality.
These women are broken beyond repair and refuse to be held accountable for their poor choices. Its crazy how the only one who gets it is married with a stable family while the rest are still on the 🎠 making the same bad choices and same ol excuses creating more broken families. These single mothers are gonna die on that no accountability hill.
Imagine holding onto a grenade thats just had the pin pulled out. You had 9 seconds (months) to fix the issue yet it’s somehow still his fault when he ran and you didn’t 🤡
Looking to avoid accountability by asking them to bloody their hands with the death of a child? People like you are just the male equivalent of the 304s...
@@eddyoriginal777 The craziest part is...very few of these single moms were single moms due to grape related incidents. So basically...🎶you let em hit it raw...🎶
Why is it always assumed that the father willingly leaves his children/Relationship? Alot of these women are scandalous when they want to leave they want to take everything even that parental rights.
Just because a man is not a good husband/boyfriend doesn't mean he can't be a good father. They are not mutually exclusive. There are some family court lawyers that believe a man should lose custody or believe father and husband are one in the same. That should not be the case nor is the sentiment true. The roles are completely different. Countless men have admitted they were good at one and not the other. Unfortunate yes, but that's reality. End of the day the men are not given the same grace for their shortcomings unlike the women, yet we're supposed to soldier on knowing that inequality. Part of the reason men have checked out of society altogether.
“But people change after having a kid”. Stop having kids with men that are not willing to commit to you through marriage! Yes divorce happens but a genuine married man will think twice before leaving his wife and kids
I'm on kamryn side with this one. I'll just spin it different. During dating situations your inner spirit(s) will give you what I refer to as WTF moments. Example: you ever been with someone and they may have said or did something that you would say to yourself.....WTF? Pay attention to those moments because if you see yourself saying wtf 3 to many times; leave or stay and watch wtf multiply.
There's no commitment being required prior, so how do they know if the men will commit after the child? 41% of black mothers aren't even married to or cohabitating with their partners at the birth of their first child.
Quane is another angry SM. They're pissed because Kamryn did what they should have. Quane is also very disrespectful, this conversation shows us all of the hyenas on the panel and Randi is horrible she looks tired and mad!
It's crazy how these chicks are quite literally the only ones that can't tell a dude that isn't about to stay and hold them and their babies down. Accountability is completely absent, so there really isn't any reason to talk to them about it anymore. Leave them with the results of their decisions, and focus on building something better for you and yours moving forward.
Fellas, this is not the solution to our problems. I understand this is a show, but arguing with random women solves absolutely nothing. Leave these people to their own devices and let them realize their mistakes on their own.
The question is; what about the single mothers who make life hard for active dads? Dads who pay child support, or don’t pay child support but support the child by purchasing clothes, food, insurance, as well as spending time…. But the mothers who make life very hard for the dads who are good and do good by their children? They spend too much time on dads who aren’t active. Speak on these things bc if your brothers, cousins, uncles, friends go through these issues why aren’t women advocating and holding these women accountable understanding that fathers are necessary for their children….. I’m going through this and it sucks. My bm wants all control but when problems arise expects me to clean up her mess/bad decision making….. I love my child and give my life for him, all I want is to raise my son to be a productive citizen and guide him from making the mistakes I made….
Listen, there's always been hit pieces on men who leave children behind, Especially black men y'all just started to get some blame for certain things you did and you can't take it.🤔
As a single father I wish more women would understand how easy it is for the mother to torture the father into submission and desertion. In my case I was raised in a 2 parent household and it wasn't no way i wasnt going have my child. BUT I ALMOST HAD TO TURN INTO A little BITCH as many times as I had to turn the other cheek for my goal to happen. Sitting around crying behind closed doors cus u straight HELPLESS👎🏾All my homeboys are good fathers but its torture for NO REASON sometimes and its very easy to say "I love my child but i cant deal with what im being put through." Think about that
If women 'feel' that they are being held more accountable for being pregnant, wouldn't it be smarter to be even more critical of who they have children with? That's the logical thing to do but then again what woman cares about logic
My mother had 4kids ,3 different fathers. Tha k God me and my sister have the same parents. I never wanted to be like my mother and choose wisely. I've been withmy wife for 14yrs ,and we have to beautiful kids a boy and a girl. Women say it's my body my choice ,hold yourself accountable to choose better and want better for yourself and your future kids .
If women are taught how to look at character prior to anything else, so much could be avoided. Fathers teach their daughters a lot in life. I remember lessons my father taught me & he was not in the house with me and my mother. I think if I were raised with him in the household, I would not have made the same choices I made. I'm GenX & looking back I now realize all the things I did wrong. I did a lot correctly coming from where I started. When women choose men with high moral characteristics that does not change. People with integrity always have integrity their entire life. It never waivers.
It’s crazy how my daughter just graduated high school yesterday and I was a single father for her whole life and not one time did I said I need a woman to bring out my masculine side😂😂😂😂
I realized a week ago that I have female friends/counter parts of other ethnicities and the only ones that bring the age old shaming tactic of "your mama was a single mom" or "your mama was such and such ethnicity" is black women. Why is that not seen as creepy when they say "it was good for your momma, why isn't it good for you?"
MEN should do the same to avoid bad relationships. HIRE A SURROGATE and raise your child the way that you want without disagreements, arguments, child support and visitation..
You never hear a single mother saying, “ya know he was a respected man, a leader, proceeded/protecter, my parents loved him. An overall standup guy, he just up and left me with the kid.” Kamryn was on point. Enjoy her now, she’ll be gone soon
How do you stop 30 black women from having babies from the same 3 guys .
Exactly. Aren't most American black men single and childless? Young black single moms are having illegitimate children with a much smaller group of sexually irresponsible men who often father many children with many women. And those black single moms don't want to take responsibility for choosing those type of men. The women act like it's all black men that are the problem, instead of their own choosing skills. These single moms are choosing Pookie and Ray-Ray. The women are not being tricked by Pookie. They are attracted to these men BECAUSE of the Pookie qualities.
Take away section 8 and food stamps and stop dating blsck women
Exactly
Facts, big freaking facts bruh😂😂
This 🎯🎯🎯
Kamryn is such a refreshing display of femininity. When a feminine black American woman expresses the fact that women need to be held accountable, the hyena comes out ready to attack. The most beautiful woman on Anton's panel is Kamryn.
When will we understand that we will NEVER be able to fix this problem because women are INCAPABLE of taking accountability at scale. We are cooked and we need to accept it.
It's a wrap...save the ones you can from the frying pan.
Wow... What a defeatist Coward. No wonder you're no good with ladies...
You should stay away from them.
They are fried… I see the craziness in their eyes as Kam was Talking, it’s over
@reemoe9374 It’s wild. They see red the moment anyone attempts to hold ANY woman accountable. They go on the attack like a pack of hyenas. It’s over…
Randi is trash for not knowing the dad side of the story but constantly attacking the men
True
You know when the Oprah chorus was trashing Black Men for how long, Randi spoke nothing of attack. But when the attention turns to a Single Baby Momma’s role in poor decision making for breaking up families, suddenly it’s an “attack.”
The CDC says black men are the best fathers. Black women are the least desirable, this is an example.
That's because she believes all women.
Randi always loses her argument,.she yells and over talks. Another masculine combative ...
Notice the chicks with attitudes have no husband 😂😂😂
I’m saying this got to be a joke 😂
Unfortunately Randi is married according to the panel
Bingo.
@@smitht1988
Simps exists.
Her husband is questionable @@smitht1988
The Dad is held accountable… single mothers are not… what’s hard to understand? 💀
How is the dad held accountable when the majority do not pay child support?
@@rawketeerI don’t think you understand the conversation on “being held accountable.
@@rawketeerMy brother n law had to do time for not paying his child support. Was he held accountable or nah? Id love to know the percentages on the men held accountable and the ones that arent.
Then id like for you to explain when the women are held accountable? Because if she doesnt want to be a mother, she gets to make that choice free of accountability.
@@rawketeerthe men who don't pay child support are STILL held accountable. Their lives are wrecked by it. They serve time, lose jobs, get their drivers licenses and passports revoked, etc. There's a large number of guys who are in homeless shelters and are couch surfing because of child support payments, or because of not being able to afford them. A lot of them end up having to hustle and work under the table just to survive. Women generally don't experience any of that. They get help from the government and from other people.
@@rawketeerso taking their freedom isn't being held accountable?
Kamryn is a whole wife. Her husband is a lucky man. These other women are broken something serious.
Even if she was single she’s a smart woman. Her relationship status is irrelevant. It’s the fact that she has common sense and the other women don’t.
Randi coming from a two-parent household trying to argue points ON SINGLE MOTHERHOOD against a woman RAISED IN A SINGLE PARENT HOME is hilarious. Not only did Randi name call referring to Kam as "Lame" but she was so busy interrupting and trying to respond that there was no way she could have listened to the valid points Kamryn made. Randi is just as bad as Btaylor, Kay, and Kayla from Lapeef LOL.
My point exactly bro 😂 and I think Anton likes that coz he once said that she speaks her mind and DGAF... She cusses and insults the other panelists that don't agree with her..
#CantMakeThisShitUp 😅
Facts. Anton is just using her for some toxic views cause with his experience he knows she has a shelf life
She is bitter
Why is a trying single mother celebrated but a trying Dad is not?
Talk to em bro 🤔
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Exactly! Why none of them pointing out the fact that these "trying" gate keepers chose to procreate with that dude BEFORE knowing she and the innocent being would have security and stability first from that dude?
Why these "trying" gate keepers keep falling for the banana in the tail pipe?
Why these 'trying" gate keepers have all of these government incentives for having a child. You know, like FREE legal representation in family court while the father must come out of pocket to pay for his attorney fees along with his cost of living expenses and the monthly child support as he's trying not to lose his job, his child, his freedom,, his driving privileges, and his sanity?
There's no pressure on these "trying" gate keepers.
Many articles and some studies that say the outcome for childrens with single dads are better than with single moms.
Yes sir!!!!
When it comes to single mothers, when the child succeeds, she is seen as a hero. When the child becomes a product of the penal system, it's "Where was the father?" The fact is that there are far more unsuccessful single mothers than successful ones. Randi couldn't grasp that concept.
Facts, because they lack accountability. It's never their fault, they know they dealing with ain't ish ninjas. I as a man can be amongst a group of other men, and can tell this ninja ain't ish, from a three minute conversation, like bruh what you on? But they be round these dudes, and sleeping with them, unprotected at that, and they don't know? Foh😂
@@King-ns7itthat female intuition works for everything except what it’s actually supposed to work for 😂😂
The late kevin samuels said it himself when he told this one woman who called. He said "you want all the credit when things go well but you also gotta take the credit when things go bad".
Stop having babies out of wedlock.
Simple and plain.
@tevincastle, unfortunately, simple is not in their vocabulary or thought process
they can't no to pookies' and ray rays'🍆
they can't help themselves
They don't want to do that.
The single mother is always privileged and given so much grace, while the single father doesn’t get the same grace and gets bashed without even getting his side of the truth. That’s the issue
The single father isnt even acknowledged
He doesn’t get any grace for not putting up with women’s trash behavior. He’s supposed to put up with it no matter what. He’s not supposed to find his peace, know his worth, put himself first the way they tell each other to.
Anton I'm a single father. My wife passed 11 years ago. I have been raising a 16-year-old daughter for 11 years by myself. These women out here are trash. The word trash is a very harsh word I'll say damage and a lack of accountability. They take blame for nothing. Which is caused me to not have remarry since. I refuse to bring that type of energy around my daughter and I hate that she's missing out on balance because I truly believe that a child does best with a mother and a father in the household. But these women don't want to take accountability for the actions in the people that they pick.
Sorry for your lost.
You must have a 4th grade education also
@@professionalpookie No. I decided to dumb it down for ignorant statements.
@@Sector129 Thank you. God's Will.
@@andrejamison2723 that's why the grammar is so bad?
The women break up with the men more than the men leave the woman and kids though that’s a fact it’s not like the men can’t force themselves in the household
They won't talk about it that won't fit the narrative
Just had a friend whos baby momma left him and she has three kids from three different dudes
@@Underratedcommentator damn shame
@@UnderratedcommentatorTBF he should have chose better.
It doesn’t fit the victim story
You can't imagine how nasty and rude Randi must have been in her younger years before she hit the wall,just IMAGINE..She is the type to argue why 2+2 should NOT be 4
Them Detroit chicks😂😂😂
Not every single mother has the same soapy sob story of her being abandoned out of nowhere and/or for no reason. Not all of them are the sweet innocent little victim they want you to believe they are.
Some of them were sleeping around and didn't even know who the biological father is.
Some of them cheated and tried to pin the affair baby on the man they betrayed.
Some of them baby trapped a man who didn't want kids. She tampered with the condom.
Some of them thought that forcing a baby on the man was going to fix a dying relationship. Another "oopsies" pregnancy.
Some of them ruined the relationship. The man still wants to be in the child's life, but the mother is so petty, bitter, and vindictive that she is keeping the child away from the father. She holds their child up for ransom until he bows down and follow every one of her tyrannical decrees.
Some of them purposely chose to procreate with the worst type of men.
So true but women just give all women grace and the benefit of the doubt. And they will never stop doing that
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Exactly!
Kam is right, I'm a put it like this, character and personality goes out the window if they attracted to the guy n he hits it right 😂 9 months later a baby is born, Kam is 100% correct
This is why they break all their rules for the men they are attracted to like pookie and tyrone. Then when they give them a baby without a ring first, they look for sympathy from the internet.
How do you have a baby with a "well to do" man with trash character who just decides to "walk out" on you out of nowhere. Makes no sense at scale. Maybe you were a side chick or he was toxic from the beginning. The average man man doesnt just leave his kids.
A man can’t leave a household he was never in to start. 🤷🏾♂️
If 10% of men are making 100% of the baby mamas, who are we going to criticize? The 10% or 100% in order to resolve the issue?
They’ll say all to save face for lusting after thugs
Exactly. You have men like Future with many baby mamas yet us men will be painted with the same brush.
Women have zero logic, they hate being objective about things and it's sad
You grew up in a 2 parent household, and the choices you made led you to being a single mother
🎶She didn't have second thoughts...🎶
Bitter baby mamas 😂
LOL and the dead giveaway are those wrinkles between the eyebrows. Bitter and angry black women.
Those two girls are thinking with emotions and not logic . Kamryn was speaking nothing but the truth and they couldn’t handle the truth . Living in reality is a lot better then delusion
a 2 parent household just dont happens much anymore what's the big deal ? Truly the single mom have being doing a terrible job at it. All these dudes in jail came from a single mother. MOst want to raise their kids on their own. They push dudes away, relocate far away from men. Some are just EVIL AND DIFFICULT to deal with.
Randi is so awful, absolutely very disingenuous. Women file for divorce. They break up their homes. Also, they chose to date low caliber men. That's also a fact. Randi constantly gives bad advice. Good job, Kam, for standing up and putting those chicks in check.. that was beautiful to see. They just made themselves look awful.
JAS, CAM, Q, and TRIGGER 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 fellas be aware 😳
Island girl so two face
Kam nicca really she a married feminine woman tf you meant quane foo
Pissed me off Anton isn’t talking cuz these women are emotional and hard to listen too besides kamryn
@tyson, it was annoying to say the least
I was ready for him to chime in when Randi was ranting lol
Cause he probably tired of saying the same shit
Sign language galore
Most of the time the father doesn't walk out on the child, the father gets away from the unbearable woman and is not allowed to interact with his child for said reason.
Okay the dad is not there, we established that. Why is the dad not there? There are so many dynamics that are being left out. How we know that the dad chose to walk out? There are so many women that separate from the men and keep the men away from the kids. How about the women that make the dad life hard when it comes to spending time with his kids? Why are we only focusing on the guys that choose to leave freely. Not all men leave freely. Also once the man leaves, does that mean everything stops. Yes it leaves that woman in a tough spot, but do it stop there? So once the child is here and that man is gone, does that means the woman should put their best foot forward to raise that child? Just because you chose to keep the child don’t mean you get a pass to be a shitty mother. It’s like you woman want to give the women a pass only because they decide to keep the kid. So moving forward all single mother are allowed to be shitty because the dad is not there! So now both of them are wrong.
I believe many baby mommas today never lived with or had a serious relationship with the father so the man did not leave he was never there.
@coachray, basically the women are mad at the whole single mom thing and are using the father as a scapegoat/ punching bag 😒
I was watching this with my face twisted up because as soon as the finger got point at the fathers, the women on the panel (doing the finger pointing) brains immediately shut off and the conversation ended there. I’m sitting here like🙁 oh, okay.. I know exactly what this behavior is so why even have a conversation when clearly not everyone on the panel is ready to have it?
I honestly think that does more harm than good. Reason is because the audience is just gonna pick a side according to how they *Feel* so what did the panel ultimately accomplish? Maybe someone can help me out with that question
The fact they are skipping over millions of Fathers fighting in family court is the biggest joke. It’s waaaay too many variables. Men are gonna come with facts the ladies just spewing feelings.
Kulinary Kam is the name of the star of this episode. She absolutely cooked them birds. She met aggression, emotion, hostility and ignorance with calmness and facts.
😁
The ladies ganged up on Kamryn quick lol so messed up
Randi is intolerable, she gon age herself fast with all that yip yap and bitter attitude.
It's no way she has a masculine man with that mouth
It’s plenty of fathers that told them mothers they not ready for a baby but she decided to take it upon herself to keep the baby
So you're ok with her killing the baby?
@@Coronaboii88 I answered the question without you having to ask the question
@@Lituationstv Copy! Just wanted to make sure you wasn't actually opting for women to kill babies.
So your answer to your mistakes is to recommend the murder of another from your community?
@@Coronaboii88Ask the women that be visiting the abortion clinics like the light is on at Krispy Kreme...
Randi like the girl that grew up in the suburbs with 2 parents and still trying to be the rebel welcome to what men had to deal with for decades
Kamyn is so logical, Bless her.
All jas does is dodge accountability and plays victim. She a lil kid like alot of single mothers. There even married women like this to but you see it most from single mother's
lol I’m a single mother? I have kids?? Lol
They really don’t take accountability for their part now granted men also need to be held accountable this is a two way street
@@ByrdMan37You can’t be held accountable for the mother going to court, lying, and doing everything in her power to get you the least amount of time with your child while getting the most amount of child support.
Just marry before you carry… it’s the safest decision ladies …for the most part.
A decade and a half ago a middle aged coworker of mine asked me for advice and when I advised her to not give it up with some sort of commitment she cursed me out, called me crazy, and told me no man was going to marry a woman that didn’t put out 🤣
That don’t work either bro. It’s 2024 at any point they can leave
Y’all need to get a single dad on yall panel. Yes im a single dad
You right they do need to have a single dad on the panel. It would break up the dynamics alot
Why do they keep talking about the man leaving? What if the woman forced him to? Or cheated on him? Or was abusive? They want to blame men for everything. By default, it’s the man’s fault?!
They’re lying…. Plain and simple. No one asks the important questions because society has deemed it rude to pry.
What if she never told him about the child?
Because in they heads no matter what a woman does as a man you suppose to stay and fight
I was watching this on my TV and had to pull it up on my phone so I could comment. Kamryn was ABSOLUTELY 💯. But Kamryn has accountability when these other chics don't!
Kamryn makes a valid point about the power that women wield with bearing a child. That should not be taken lightly, in that women have to protect themselves and do their due diligence in vetting out their partner. Simply because they bear the most when it comes to bringing a child into the world. I say this being a child of a single parent. I saw the struggles my mother went through with little to no support from my father. Single parent mothers should not bear the blame for bad outcomes when raising their children. Thus, once the child is here and the father is absent, she has to work double hard to make up the difference. My point is single parenthood is not an ideal situation and given a choice, most people would rather have children with a partner that will share the responsibility.
For the past 60 years we have been blaming deadbeat daddies while single mothers were able to do the same amount of damage to the black community with impunity. Now that we are finally holding women accountable they’re malfunctioning.
Why is it assumed that the father left? Couldn't the mother have left the father and taken the children with her???? Or is that impossible???
THANK YOU Kamryn…. You are 100% correct. They tried to hop on your head when you made the most valid point. As a MAN… I have no desire to have a child with a woman unless I’m married to her…. Meaning MARRIAGE FIRST! Not baby first. There are so many childless men like me that follow the same rule. These women are so lame and unacceptable. I’m sorry. I got to keep it a buck.
Wasn’t the question about women holding women accountable? I think we’re seeing what happens when another woman tries to! Kam tried to hold women accountable and immediately got attacked, called names, killed with side eyes, shamed, and ganged up on! They showed exactly why women don’t 😮lol I don’t even think they understood that!
the problem compounds itself with every generation.
A woman can stop a man from being a father
Imagine you and a man decided to buy a car together. After purchasing the car, y'all realize it's a lemon. Dude is like, I didn't sign up for this, lets file a lemon law claim and get rid of the car. And the woman is like, nah... I'm keeping it, and you need to help me repair it. The man didn't sign up for that. Y'all accidentally bought a lemon, and she wants to keep it, now it's his responsibility too? Nah mama.
She wants you to make Lemonade with it 🤣🤣
@@leonardtarver149 Lol, good one! Black women making it seem like they just have bad luck. 72% of our kids are born out of wedlock, that's just bad luck, I call bs!
Especially the ones with multiple baby daddies like Quane, this is a pattern, it's not just bad luck.
My sister who has a masters degree, married a nigga she met on a "girls trip" to DR. A man almost 10 years younger than her, who can't speak english, with no education.
I told her not to marry that nigga, he had more red flags than the beijing olympics.
You know what she told me? The heart wants, what the heart wants. Then he put 2 babies in her, and left her. Now she a single mom, did her heart want that?
It's not bad luck, they let emotions cloud their judgement, I don't wanna hear the excuses.
That was a great analogy fam 🔥🔥🔥
But the man consented to buying the car and even signed his name on the loan, he knew the risk that the car could be a lemon and he still signed the loan. He should have spoke to the vvo man prior to signing to see what her thoughts would be if the car they bought is a lemon. His fault. Sorry. You think a bank would let him out of that loan based upon that?Nope
@@rawketeer So if I marry a woman, and she became the bread winner because I lost my job, and I cheat on her, and have a baby with another woman, and I can't pay for the child support, you think it's fair for the wife to have to pay for a child that's not hers?
According to you, yes, because she decided to marry me knowing the risk I could cheat.
A woman has the power to put the baby up for adoption or get an abortion, and walk away scott free, the man has no choice in the matter. She can even put the baby up for adoption against his will, and he can't do anything about it.
What you are talking about is called inequality.
These women are broken beyond repair and refuse to be held accountable for their poor choices. Its crazy how the only one who gets it is married with a stable family while the rest are still on the 🎠 making the same bad choices and same ol excuses creating more broken families. These single mothers are gonna die on that no accountability hill.
Imagine holding onto a grenade thats just had the pin pulled out. You had 9 seconds (months) to fix the issue yet it’s somehow still his fault when he ran and you didn’t 🤡
Looking to avoid accountability by asking them to bloody their hands with the death of a child? People like you are just the male equivalent of the 304s...
Imagine not having sex to begin with 🤯
@@MrTwonetwone the fact you put so much weight to it shows how little you understand it.
@@WolfekingAlex go cry
@@MrTwonetwone about you being bad with women?
Accountability.
Is kryptonite to single women
Lol its crazy theyre so hurt by truth they still have to blame the men they picked who had no control over her body. Its comedy at this point
@@eddyoriginal777 The craziest part is...very few of these single moms were single moms due to grape related incidents.
So basically...🎶you let em hit it raw...🎶
@A77-c5h i even looked up the fkn stats. the percentage is so low that i had to calculate it on my own no joke. its about 0,0001%
I can tell Kam is a wife or should be ❤️❤️❤️❤️ so soft spoken but smart
Ain’t hard to tell why Quané a single baby momma 🤣🤣🤣🤣
She cut Kamryn off first but was quick to tell Kam dont cut me off😂😂
Never f with a single mom period
These women still don't get it you should be vetting a man based of charcter first anyway
Salute to Kam for holding it down against these Hyenas.
The married women on this panel show why they ended up married. The single women show why they will forever be deemed for recreational purposes
Why is it always assumed that the father willingly leaves his children/Relationship? Alot of these women are scandalous when they want to leave they want to take everything even that parental rights.
That part
13:26 🎯🎯🎯Kam is very aware and smart
This Chick Randi Is Unhinged 😵💫
Keep moving the goalpost for single mothers
Yall not being mindful of the men
TK took me out with the Sonic the hedgehog ring noise. And Randi and Quane where Big Mad 😂😂
Took me out too.
I see now we not gone get nowhere with most of this generation of women
Ladies listen to me.. You are in control of your body. Be responsible and stop tryna cast the blame to ease yo egos pain.
Why do people continue to think, single mothers are due to fathers leaving or walking out
Don’t forget the man could have passed away, or find out the kids weren’t his.
Just because a man is not a good husband/boyfriend doesn't mean he can't be a good father. They are not mutually exclusive. There are some family court lawyers that believe a man should lose custody or believe father and husband are one in the same. That should not be the case nor is the sentiment true. The roles are completely different. Countless men have admitted they were good at one and not the other. Unfortunate yes, but that's reality.
End of the day the men are not given the same grace for their shortcomings unlike the women, yet we're supposed to soldier on knowing that inequality. Part of the reason men have checked out of society altogether.
Women ALWAYS have that "not me! My circumstances are different," when it IS them!
“But people change after having a kid”. Stop having kids with men that are not willing to commit to you through marriage! Yes divorce happens but a genuine married man will think twice before leaving his wife and kids
I'm on kamryn side with this one. I'll just spin it different. During dating situations your inner spirit(s) will give you what I refer to as WTF moments. Example: you ever been with someone and they may have said or did something that you would say to yourself.....WTF? Pay attention to those moments because if you see yourself saying wtf 3 to many times; leave or stay and watch wtf multiply.
Good advice 💯
And thats what's up they CHOSE THESE dead beat dads
Intuition. The problem is when people ignore their gut instinct. If something feels off, pay attention! 🚩
There's no commitment being required prior, so how do they know if the men will commit after the child? 41% of black mothers aren't even married to or cohabitating with their partners at the birth of their first child.
Quane is another angry SM. They're pissed because Kamryn did what they should have. Quane is also very disrespectful, this conversation shows us all of the hyenas on the panel and Randi is horrible she looks tired and mad!
Keep your legs shut and your eyes open till marriage 💛
I’m loving this. Please do more of these.
It's crazy how these chicks are quite literally the only ones that can't tell a dude that isn't about to stay and hold them and their babies down. Accountability is completely absent, so there really isn't any reason to talk to them about it anymore. Leave them with the results of their decisions, and focus on building something better for you and yours moving forward.
It's a simple equation. The most effective way to know if someone is willing to commit is to require commitment.
Fellas, this is not the solution to our problems. I understand this is a show, but arguing with random women solves absolutely nothing. Leave these people to their own devices and let them realize their mistakes on their own.
It's for entertainment purposes mostly
Randolph said a bunch of nothing
The mother gets the credit when the child does good. The dad gets the blame when that kid is unsuccessful.
The question is; what about the single mothers who make life hard for active dads? Dads who pay child support, or don’t pay child support but support the child by purchasing clothes, food, insurance, as well as spending time…. But the mothers who make life very hard for the dads who are good and do good by their children? They spend too much time on dads who aren’t active. Speak on these things bc if your brothers, cousins, uncles, friends go through these issues why aren’t women advocating and holding these women accountable understanding that fathers are necessary for their children….. I’m going through this and it sucks. My bm wants all control but when problems arise expects me to clean up her mess/bad decision making….. I love my child and give my life for him, all I want is to raise my son to be a productive citizen and guide him from making the mistakes I made….
Nobody is choosing fathers thats the problem, they are just having fun and babies are being born
I appreciate women like Kamryn.
Listen, there's always been hit pieces on men who leave children behind, Especially black men y'all just started to get some blame for certain things you did and you can't take it.🤔
That's the thing though the woman didn't stay she Left the relationship and the kids
I respect kamryn so much, this is why she is married 😁😁
Kam doing better than women raised by single mothers and both parent households when it comes to what jas is saying the sisterhood is real
"If my wife spoke to me like that, all you would hear is Sonic Rings Everywhere" 😂😂😂
Randi likes to hear herself talk and ain't saying nothing. She is super annoying.
As a single father I wish more women would understand how easy it is for the mother to torture the father into submission and desertion. In my case I was raised in a 2 parent household and it wasn't no way i wasnt going have my child. BUT I ALMOST HAD TO TURN INTO A little BITCH as many times as I had to turn the other cheek for my goal to happen. Sitting around crying behind closed doors cus u straight HELPLESS👎🏾All my homeboys are good fathers but its torture for NO REASON sometimes and its very easy to say "I love my child but i cant deal with what im being put through." Think about that
We need “Kam” on this panel as a mainstay
Quané shouldn't have to "leam on her community" because the "community" didn't get her pregnant, the man she laid with did!
Baby mother number 5 "Yeah, I met all four baby mothers before me, but I'm not like them. He told me so. "
If women 'feel' that they are being held more accountable for being pregnant, wouldn't it be smarter to be even more critical of who they have children with? That's the logical thing to do but then again what woman cares about logic
My mother had 4kids ,3 different fathers. Tha k God me and my sister have the same parents. I never wanted to be like my mother and choose wisely. I've been withmy wife for 14yrs ,and we have to beautiful kids a boy and a girl. Women say it's my body my choice ,hold yourself accountable to choose better and want better for yourself and your future kids .
If women are taught how to look at character prior to anything else, so much could be avoided. Fathers teach their daughters a lot in life. I remember lessons my father taught me & he was not in the house with me and my mother.
I think if I were raised with him in the household, I would not have made the same choices I made.
I'm GenX & looking back I now realize all the things I did wrong.
I did a lot correctly coming from where I started.
When women choose men with high moral characteristics that does not change. People with integrity always have integrity their entire life. It never waivers.
It’s crazy how my daughter just graduated high school yesterday and I was a single father for her whole life and not one time did I said I need a woman to bring out my masculine side😂😂😂😂
I realized a week ago that I have female friends/counter parts of other ethnicities and the only ones that bring the age old shaming tactic of "your mama was a single mom" or "your mama was such and such ethnicity" is black women. Why is that not seen as creepy when they say "it was good for your momma, why isn't it good for you?"
Yoooooo when Tukay hit the coins button 😂😂😂😂😂
MEN should do the same to avoid bad relationships. HIRE A SURROGATE and raise your child the way that you want without disagreements, arguments, child support and visitation..
Imagine if men decide to take that route the feminist will come out complaining and fighting that idea.
Many parents do change their parenting style from child to child. Parents are normally harder on the firstborn and the softer on the others following.
Of course dads ain’t there the mom doesn’t want and make sure they ain’t there. This lady must live on mars or something
You never hear a single mother saying, “ya know he was a respected man, a leader, proceeded/protecter, my parents loved him. An overall standup guy, he just up and left me with the kid.”
Kamryn was on point. Enjoy her now, she’ll be gone soon