The school is careless. Those kids were damaged long before now but allowing it to happen under their watch shows that they were very careless. They took their time and neither of them was fazed. After she finished cowgirl, she did reverse cowgirl without fear for crying out loud and they were so comfortable like it is normal and no one is coming to catch them in the act, gisting, laughing... No one was even watching the door to alert the others because they knew that no one is coming.
This issue of giving children access to phones with internet connection is most irresponsible. I am 31 and I am so so very careful of what I watch on the internet. Most times, I stay off social media and intentionally restrict what I see and hear just for my sanity not to talk more of a child
Sex education is important. Period! I recently had a conversation with my 18 year old, the issue was about irregular cycle and she claimed not to have had her period since January and was taken to the hospital where they assumed some hormonal imbalance until the results of the tests carried out gets concluded. My first question was to ask her if she was sexually active and I asked if a pregnancy test was carried out first off. Everybody there chewed me out saying I went overboard and that I did not trust my daughter. Discussions about sex education with our children from a young age is important and we as parents should not see it as embarrassing or shameful or an indication of distrust. Having said that, the parents of this poor girl, in my own opinion may or may have not done their due diligence with regards to sex education. As parents, we can only speak to our children and hope they imbibe the morals we try to impart in them. We cannot possibly be with them 24/7. They may or may have not done their part but it is imperative for the school to accept full responsibility for our wards while in their care. I disagree with Morayo's approach on this issue. The school is 100% culpable. I agree with the lady with the braids hanging down her shoulders and the other lady beside Morayo. There should be some round the clock supervision in place by the school regardless of where ever these children were taken, Dubai or not. How was the school unable to reach the parents for over a month? Was the child not coming to school? Did they not have a residential address? What about email addresses and telephone numbers? Next of kins to contact in case of emergency? There are so many questions that needs to be answered on the school's part. Suspending the girl is not the answer. All the kids involved need therapy. In fact, the whole school needs it. And I agree that efforts should be made to have the video taken down immediately. We do not need that little girl having to go through life with that kind of stigma.
God bless you, we became better citizens growing up because the therapist our parents visit is the back side of their palms...or slap you on the face...you have no choice that to reset and behave well... but these days it is called abuse... I rest my case
I am so pissed right now but I can’t even tell who I’m angry at; the kids for engaging in this pornography (not rape), the parents for not being responsible enough to monitor how a 10yr old is sexually active or the school for failing in all angles. Goodness! One can easily ask “why release a 10yr old to Dubai?” But that girl has been exposed, experienced. Those kids, 4 or more of them has been sexually exposed and it has been going on before the trip.
Thank you! It doesn't matter where a badly-trained child is, they will exhibit it. Yes, they should be monitored by the school while in their care but home, home, home, let's look to these children's home for this. Like the ladies are saying, this is the main problem here!
Ladies, even if the child was already exposed, it does not justify the fact that the school failed to protect her. That child did not go to Dubai on her own, nor did her parents take her there. What happened to her was not on her parent's watch. Period! That school is a dangerous environment and I hope they stayed closed indefinitely. A 10 yet old child can NOT consent!
First of all one question was she the only student that was taking there ? Or was she the only girl there yes the school had their own fault but the parent should be held as well for heaven sake not just the school
Absolutely, I can't wrap my head around what am viewing right now...what a shame to the parents and the entire administration of the school for failing the girl.
They are minors!!! If I hired a baby sitter to watch my child and I call from work, I expect that that babysitter has not stepped out of the house and left my child who is a minor for any reason whatsoever. So to answer your question, the adults responsible for these children do not get to go out and leave the children unattended. I went on trips out of state as a child myself and we had chaperones at a ratio of 1 to 6 and we were 15, 16, 17 years old. There was never a time that boys and girls were left to do whatever they wanted. There was always a chaperone breathing down our necks. I’m not absolving the parents here. Something definitely went wrong somewhere that little kids are making pornography. I’m sorry but we do not do enough to protect children in Nigeria. To send children out of the country unsupervised is just beyond what I can comprehend. Even if it happened in a home, the adult responsible for those kids would be in serious legal trouble. Both civil and criminal.
Many Parents did this time have failed. These days, you discipline a child, the parents come and be shouting up and down. I work in school and it's gradually becoming impossible to give them the discipline (not abused) we received in our time (Mr Do-good). This is why society is changing and I'm afraid there's worse to come.
Firstly, watching that video breaks my heart and something from an investigative side needs to be unraveled: 1. The girl child involved was she introduced by an uncle, aunt, nanny, or anybody she would easily trust that could have molested her and caused her to be exposed early to sex. 2. It was recorded, understand that there is a dark industry of child phedephile which is ran by people that mange children made up of teachers, guidance and councellors who could have influenced this children to do the recording for their consumption and circulated for profit. 3. In fact listening to the fact that the school had a teacher who had raped a student previously. The teacher that was caught may not be the only one involved and there maybe a cartel that actually run n enterprise around taking advantage of children, this is where the investigator needs to focus on. There is more than what meets the eye. If you ask the child you may not get an answer, you need an expert to get info from them because these children may have been initiated to a cult like group of secrecy, which been children they have been taken aback and can be deceived.
Great points but let's remember that watching the video is child porn and in many countries people have been imprisoned for having it on their phone. I'm sickened by how much it has been shared, p**dophiles now have access to it.
Last year this 16 years old girl stayed with me in school as my roommate. This girl got pregnant and her boyfriend 20 years took her to the pharmacy and did an abortion that almost killed her. I noticed the way she was shrinking and kept asking her what the problem was she kept lying. Go to the school clinic she refused until I had to request for her mum no which she never wanted to give me until I insisted and she gave me. Dr kept asking her what was her symptoms she kept lying until she was transferred from the school clinic to a teaching hospital. After a few hours she confessed to me she got pregnant and her bf took her to where they removed it. Mind you she was in year one. the funniest part was she told me it was not their first time and I was shocked. See parenting is intentional, parents need to instil morals in their children. While instilling morals live an exemplary life. Don't teach your child A n do B it doesn't work that way. Catch them young while you can. Charity begins at home. Our woke generation too is not helping matters. Tell them this thing is wrong and watch them sing mind your business into your head.
My goodness! What?! At ONLY 16?! And it's NOT her FIRST?!! What went WRONG with her life for this to happen? The thing now is that she is damaging herself for life.
I am sad for who made this comment and the 13 persons that liked it. I believe you are entitled to your opinion but this statement reflects largely how you see the world. You use the word “damaged” for a human being living in a world so complex and layered; you don’t know the girls backstory yet you liken her to a product made in China.
And please parents of the kids in that room, all of them, don't dare say you don't have money for therapy oh, you had money to send them to Dubai so you must have money for therapy
It isn't possible, because if it's ban in Nigeria, u can still have access on Google. The most important thing is there should be proper way to talk to ur child
Why is it only the girl that everyone is talking about and the school have to quickly suspend? Did she carryout the act alone? Where are the boys with her? It's annoying because the boys are seemly protected. Everyone involved including the school officials that travel with them should be held accountable.
The lady in green gown you are the one making good sense in this discussion. The teachers who took them there must be held accountable. They are youth remember and want to explore everything. They are curious to know everything and practicalize and respond to every feelings, that why we talk about “ youthful exuberance “. Where were the teachers, probably the teachers have gone to do their own things. Mind you I am not condoning the act. Monitoring and supervision helps to checkmate some wrongful activities of children.
For the first time am disappointed by Morayo's stand on this issue, why is she defending the school because it is very clear she is on a mission but the girls did due diligence to issue.
If the school had reached the parents immediately, this wouldn’t have escalated to this point. Number one this is a slap to the parents because they failed as a parents, secondly the school needs to tell us more for withholding the info for a month🙄🙄
Morayo you need to come and apologise for what just came out from your mouth , that those that haven't seen the video should go and watch it online. If this video is shown to the authorities in uk, you be ban from working with children . Please take this video down ASAP. You should never encourage people to watch it.
For once I have seen someone who made an absolute sense I totally agree with you on this I am baffled that people are watching and sharing that video of a minor for crying out loud shows how our society has no law protecting children and then the ladies on the view are boldly saying they have watched the video I am disappointed really
@@vivikastitches , Nigeria still have a long way to go, if its here in the uk, this morning show, they will bring a professional to discuss about it. There is no law in Nigeria. May God help that country in Jesus name.
Schools are different from the way they were before, students talked back to their teachers as they like, and teachers that are not cool with these are sacked. Students can report teachers they don't like to the authorities and the next thing is being sacked. Most of these teachers tread carefully for the fear of losing their jobs. No one to instill discipline in them. I pity this generation. Parents have more work to do.
You just said something everyone seems to pretend not to acknowledge. Teachers are always on the receiving end of unruly behavior of children who have bad orientation by parents who themselves need parenting. I was shocked at a parent who watches pornography with her son of less of about 8 years and she feels it's okay. A parent who is simply having a bad day will assault a teacher and the teacher will on demand be asked to apologize with his job been threatened. Schools are too careful to correct a student/pupil who are stubborn not to take it and they will have the ba k of their parents who comes on the face of the teachers with threats.
@@benedictiribhogbe5686 some parents have failed in their duties and they expect magic in schools. Schools now are all about education, being the best in subjects and all, no moral, no discipline, students can flaunt rules and regulations and the max you will see is one week suspension for something so brutal.
...Product of inefficient/poor parenting, agreed. But this particular incident is largely the fault of the school authority because it happened while the children were in their custody, period! No matter the bad parenting or moral deficit on the part of the children, if the school had taken their responsibility seriously, they would have put proper checks, monitoring measures and controls in place and the children (no matter how corrupt) would not have had the opportunity to misbehave while in the school's custody.
Fantastic! Exactly how it would be argued in a court of law. Complete negligence albeit the children were already exposed to dirty stuff. The children were in the school’s care when the act happened. Forget the unfortunate fact that the children don yama.
Please do you ladies seriously believe the school had been trying to reach the mother for a whole month? In this day and age of even person hawking pepper having a phone? I’m sorry I don’t buy that. And it just so happens she immediately went to the school as soon as they were able to get her? Please note I’m not making excuses for the mother. After I heard her plea, I immediately slammed her with blame. The fact that it took another parent to call her attention to the nitty gritty despite the school having mentioned it to her (even though they minimized the severity of it), makes me question her parenting style.
I don't ever leave comment but this is outrageous from you guys.. Telling people to go and watch the video is so irresponsible of you guys especially Morayo. TVC is also very irresponsible by posting this show and not making sure that part was extracted out. That in itself is child abuse.. Paraventure it happened to your kid or someone in your family would you advice people to go watch it?? Your show should advocate for the video to be removed not otherwise.. I have reported this episode to RUclips in order for you to do the needful. It is called CHILD ABUSE! And please ladies it won't hurt to also educate yourself a little more about media etiquette.
Just disappointed in the ladies on the view saying that they have seen the video remember this is a child a minor in a sane country whoever that is in possession,watch or share that video will be charged for child ponorgraphy which is a very serious thing let's be guided. And boldly saying on national TV that they have seen the video really disgusts me and makes me wonder the ethics of their journalism
You need to understand grammatical expression in journalism... The ladies they WATCHED it what you are the used the word SEE it... In fact one of them said I couldn't watch it.
I want you to remember that this incident happened not in the house of the girl but the parents gave this child to the school authorities to represent them in about side county,the parents hand is no more responsible to take care of that girl,is the school that has to take care of the children they took out ,if it happened in parents house it will be different,why the school did not send sin message to the parents,is that they could not reach them on that ,for me the problem is from the school who did not take care of them outside there.
Well said ladies, the parents has a huge responsibility, but the school is also culprab!! The mother failed to look inward before she went public. This is very scary!!
If parents releases their children to the school and expects the school to continue where they left off, it means that the parent have done their own parenting duties to an extent. Parents have major role is the lives of their children take it or leave it. Seeing as the whole issue is going, the school could do so very little. You can’t expect the school to start all the way from the beginning in training a child that has already been spoiled right from home. Children that waited until after midnight to sneak out knowing fully well that the house masters/mistresses will be asleep, do you think they don’t know what their doing? How could anyone have gone to check when the kids themselves have calculated their actions? I’m confused, enlighten me! Morayo is 100% correct on this one.
God bless all those who speak the truth about the fact that this isn't a government or school issue perse but we must emphasize the parental failure with this modern parenting thingy
Seeing that video both the girl and boy & the other mate's in that room shows that they are proud of their actions. The boy recording was telling us their age, they all need discipline and therapy.
@@folaajayi754 if you don't like it it's your own personal issue, BBN is not the problem, why deviate and throw blames on absolutely nothing that concerns the problems at hand? focus on the main problems and not a rated entertainment show.
@@tiktoktv107 it should not even be on the Tv I mean big brother Naija.if it’s rated 18 then it should be on the Tv .anyone who wants to watch it should go and look for it
Well done and well said Mariam!! you took the words out of my mouth. The schools are meant to help in parenting as well, the schools are meant to train us on human behaviour, respect, responsibility and accountability not just academics,the parents can not do it all.ln my days we would rather do certain things at home than in school but today it's the opposite.lf l took someone else's children on holiday certain responsibility falls on me to look after them,be the parents at that time,guide them,making sure they are safe and protected from harmful things morally and otherwise ....I would say the government should come down on the school too, not the parents, but then again how can the government come down on the school when the government themselves are not responsible? God help 9ja the motherland and be merciful on her. Sending lots of love and light. Thank you.
@@omotolaniogunremi594 That's the point of going to school though, it's called training.The times away from your parents and in school they must continue to maintain the discipline, accountability,certain moral standard and responsible pupils while under their care...lf they were adults it's a different thing but children still needs guidance at all times both at home and in school.
How is it possible that the school couldn't get across to the girl's parents?How were they able to reach them, when the parents paid all the allowance for her trip?
It's all about the girl and her parents, but the girl wasn't the only one whose face was seen in the video. But it's all centered on the girl. When the case of Late Mrs Osinachi came up (may her soul rest in peace) everyone was screaming, " parents train your male children too!" But here is another one and it's all centered on just the girl's part forgetting she wasn't doing it alone.
Who are the children role models? Celebrities who dress half naked and some who smoke. They are manifesting what they watch. The school learns how to cover up. Where did the school learn it from?
The most ridiculous argument here is that they tried to reach the mother for 1 whole month! Please how was the child going to school? Someone took her there every day now?!?
@@bukolaajayi6178 That's a possibility but it's not stated. Even so, they could have done more to get to the parents. Thanks for bringing that up, anyway.
I have read so many positive and negative comments , listen to both sides of the argument from various school of thoughts. Everyone is to be blame for this child's failure. These group of people are responsible. 1. Liberial society 2. Parents 3. Social media. 4.Nigerian celebrities. 5. Peir mates from home and abroad. 6. The institution
The mother brought more awareness to the matter, she even mentioned her daughters name. She failed her child. I have been really down since morning, I have a daughters, I can't imagine such thing. They need to get the remaining the children from her, I trust her in the uk, the social services who have been involved . It's really disheartening. I pray that girl get delivered, she needs real deliverance.
Why didn't the school open up fully to the parent? Why take a minor for pregnancy test more than once without involving parents or guardian? What were the measures put on ground to properly monitor these kids while they were at UAE? That is where I believe the school has a case to answer. As for the parents, hmm, my heart is heavy... all children involved need counseling and help especially the girl. Oh dear Lord, very 😔 sad
Not boarding school, they went on an a trip to Dubai. She is a day student, I have been so disturbed since morning. The girl must have been abused from home . The men around the girl must be investigated.
Sex education orientation should be a priority at CHURCH MOSQUE SCHOOL and PARENTS should take up the responsibility to reach out to their children especially mother should be more closer to their female children..... Parents has FAILED School had also failed and disappointed the public...... Parents impact upon the children are follows PARENTS.....70 PERCENT SCHOOL.....20 PERCENT SOCIETY ..10 PERCENT PARENTS must accept their faults and move
The truth is that first hand both the parents and school need to accept responsibility but majority of the blame is to the parents of all the children are not properly raised up, again why should those kids have access to phone without parental control, also Nigeria ministry of education need to know the norms and moral upbringing inculcated in our schools most expensive school teachers can’t really caution kids in school I know of a scenario where a teacher was asked to kneel and apologize to a pupil and tomorrow you want the teacher to correct the student. We as parents don’t need to give everything to a kid a let them know why.
The school is covering the fact that they neglected the kids But the point we are failing to understand is if children want to do wrong they are smart not to be caught The reason why the school cover up is because they don’t want their school out The kids if they don’t want to be caught they won’t be caught The kids are very smart Now let’s talk about this system Nigeria have lost everything called moral culture in school and home Because Nigerians travel too much we got over civilized and we think discipline in school now is old school Giving phones is eye opening What are they doing with phones ?
another issue is Nigerians quick to adopt another peopel`s way and even do worst. all the ladies now talks about sex everyday. i coomented on a page that sex is overraated. the way they chewed me out was like am a clown. the depraved society is a factor, internet and fashion is another, but people cant understand that
I can't even imagine what these people are saying. 10yrs old taking outside on a trip and u mean no teachers allocated to take care nor monitor this kids and u guys are trying to exonerate the school and blam parents are you guys really serious? Even in hostels the female kids are free to walk into the male section without supervision nor to talk of children lodge in a hotel? All of you are really crazy. Pray this doesn't happen to your child. Total carelessness on the part of the school. Everyone is mad in this country blaming the parents for such ridiculous act that would have been avoided if there was a teacher located to monitor this children. Those children shouldn't stay in the hotel room alone in the first place. I manage a hotel and there are rules when it comes to accommodating children, there must be an adult in their rooms. Are you guys mad?
You don't need to start raising insult just because you are trying to pass a notion. Mind you this is not about passing blames but to also be aware that this upcoming generations are so vast with whatsoever they are exposed to and one needs proper monitoring
When you run a home & school system where children are not been flogged and punished for their bad indecent behaviors. Spare the rod, spoil the child. #badparenting #badschooldiscipline
Oh please, flogging is a not responsible way of dealing with bad behavior. Flogging children in Nigerian society haven’t changed Nigeria for the better.
Parents should try to make friends with their children. Let your children see you as friends to be able to confide in. If you don't talk to your children as friends, they will go to their peers for advice and encouragement.
Why children will be on instagram Charity begins at home Then let’s fix the school Teachers need to be able to continue from where parents stop not just allowing them do what they like My son is in elementary school I realize that he act right at home but misbehave at school When I met with the teacher I asked how he does in class I was told he don’t listen And I know America they don’t beat kids I told the teacher when he refuse to listen they should tell him they are going to call the mum He acts right Parents can’t CANT send their kids to school and just leave them saying it’s the teachers work no Parents should always go to their kids school always
Nigeria is beginning to look like the worst place to be a female. Some of the comments on this thread make me uncomfortable. A 10yr old child was drugged and raped and people are victim blaming. My question to the Guardians of outraged morality towards females, please did you expect her to fight off several boys? Let's us even assume it was not but a case of rape why were the parents not told. Also why are the boys not being blamed just the girl.? The comments I have read are disturbing. This is the reason why female rape victims say nothing. I expected unbiased comments from the ladies on the programme.
@@jiddec so why are the boys not being blamed as much she is . I am not supporting the act however both the boys and the girl should be held equally responsible. Not slut shaming the girl and giving the boys in an easy out
@@omotolaniogunremi594 Her mother said she was given something to drink and unlike a lot of people I am willing to give the little girl the benefit of believing her until its proven otherwise. When anyone male or female is given a drug or anything that alters their normal state and is made to indulge in sexual relations that is rape. Whether or not he/she has previously had sexual intercourse. If anyone should be disciplined if she is lying it should all of them not just the girl. Slut shaming her while the boys are given an easy pass with the excuse of boys will be boys is what I am against. Simple if she guilty of bad behavior so are the boys they should all be dealt with.
Mariam that Ankara style is screaming Beautiful Africa. You all brought great angles to the subject matter - well done. While parents and the school do their best pls pray pray and pray for your kids. We live in a word were the devil is even more vicious against kids and the home unit I was 10yrs when I first saw a porn. How. My class mate Hassana asked me if I had seen a blue film before, I had know idea films had blue yellow red or whatever colour. I only knew there was coloured or back and white TV. She said other class mates go to watch it at Kemi's house during break. Kemi was an only child of a military officer and a nurse. Both parents are always at work and Kemi is home with the military aid who is a young man They live close to the school. The school was an Army Children's School. So I hadn't seen this thing called blue film and I was curious, so I followed Hassana. When we got there Kemi another girl Mbafe and six boys all ages 9 to 11 from our class were sitting and watching porn - the military aid who is the adult did not seem to bother at all. I was shocked/scared at the adult stuff being aired openly, but my class mates where comfortable watching and this was not internet era. Fortunately about two minutes after we came In NEPA took light, because although I was scared I was also curious to join the rest and watch. I guess that was the Holy Spirit shielding me even then. Please pray for your kids.
There should be a proper planning on how to look at after the children before they leave Nigeria, if they know they don't have enough staff to look after those children they should have cancelled the trip. You can't tell me a parent you give hand your children over to the school and after hearing news like that, is wrong. The school should be held responsible.
In the West, ALL FOUR OF YOU would have been arrested by now. It is BASIC knowledge that you should NEITHER share, save, NOR WATCH such video - ONLY law enforcement agents are pernitted to eatch such videos - and they can ONLY do so strictly for the purpose of extracting evidence. AnyONE else who watches such has committed A CRIME because it is tantamount to INDECENT exposure of a minor. Come on - are you all so IGNORANT? YOU did NOT have to watch the video to discuss the matter. The mother and school's accounts of the situation are sufficient basis for your talk. To think that YOU MORAYO encouraged viewers ON INTERNATIONAL TV to go WATCH SUCH VIDEO???? The Nigerian media space IS FRUSTRATINGLY PRIMITIVE.
@@TemiTeeO Honest, this SINGULAR ARROGANT IGNORANCE by ALL FOUR of them could cost them any international travelling plans they have BECAUSE they have CLEARLY watched AND PROMOTED THE WATCHING of such indecency. THIS is the problem in THAT country - SO MANY IGNORANT people hold SENSITIVE KEY public positions BUT KNOW ABSOLUTELY NOTHING about the roles they function in. This is BASIC Media-Studies 101.
I couldn't bring myself to go and watch the video,I just can't.. What do I really want to see???!!!.. It's disheartening to hear about this,not to talk of watching it,I just can't..
What does it say that all these adults have watched this video. This is child pornography. How many more children are going to be abused because of the wide exposure of this video
@@omotolaniogunremi594 please don't say that. It's not that simple! If Sickos get a hold of this video it will only encourage more of it! This is why child pornography is banned in many countries! It also promotes sex trafficking in children because people pay money to get a hold of this evil! Please the circulation of this video should IMMEDIATELY BE BANNED! We can talk about it from what we know now but immediate ban is necessary for the video! Nigeria is already lawless we don't need this on our hands
A male house master supposed to stay with the boys in the same room. Same with the girls... A female house mistress is supposed to stay with the girls in the same room.
This girl in this act has been abused,infact I believe one wicked adult somewhere was the one that damaged this girl but her parents don't know,it might even be someone they trusted so much,let her sit her daughter down and ask her,to know where the problem came from Again,what this girl really need is rehabilitation, counselling and prayers,because this is not her first time,her actions and body movement shows that she's been long in that act,according to the mother,the school took them out and left them uncared for,and my question is this,is this girl the only girl there?is she the only child there? Then why her? There's no need of pushing blames,the mother is not close to her daughter,she's not her daughter's best friend if not she would have known who defiled her little daughter and when it happened
How come the girl herself didn't tell her mom what happened. Obviously , She did it intentionally. It's very clear the mother does not normally have conversation with the kids. How can something happened to your daughter for a whole Month and the girl did not tell her mom. They know me in my children school oo.
@ Morayo your analysis is not valid. Whoever is the guardian or custodian of a child is responsible for whatever the child does under their care. The school should have made adequate preparation to monitor the children and keep them under their care. Most hotels in Dubai have levels for female only, male only and family only so there is no reason for them to be alone together
Parents these days don’t have the emotional intelligence quotient to handle complex situations like this. In today’s age the idea of “control” won’t help parents get the desired result. Give your kids the emotional tools and remove fear and shame from the idea of sex. The way we have weaponized shame in our society prevents our children from being vulnerable with you. Encourage vulnerability and accountability in your home - model it by setting the example, this will help them come to you with their darkest thoughts. They won’t hide because they are afraid of getting punished. Curiosity should be rewarded with truth. We live in a hyper sexual world now, the moment your child leaves your home you can’t control what goes into their mind.
Please dear Nigerians, try and learn what RESPONSIBILITY means!!! Parents have close and clear understanding about whom YOU'RE transferring your parenthood to!!! Legally- when crime issue involved minors,you USE THERAPY to heal the minors, but, when it involves adult either by virtue of RESPONSIBILITY OR NATURAL MEANS, the adult involved I.e in-charge of RESPONSIBILITY are charged for the criminal offences!!! Please children ARE children, focus on whom is responsible for THESE children at the occurrences of this crime!!! Then, serve duly punishment for every adult involved!!!
I blame the school for not chaperoning the kids properly. Whether the kids are experienced or not, the act did not take place in their parents home, but while under the custody of the school. The school failed. You ladies are tearing a woman that is going through this humiliation apart. There is no perfect parent or kid. It’s unfortunate these kids are misguided. Many of the so call big men in Nigeria, their kids have been raped and pregnant by their houseboys or drivers but smuggled out of country to either abort or have the baby. The school took kids to Dubai without adequate supervision while there. The teachers are not better, many of them molest these kids too. If it is in a civilized environment that school will never be opened again after being sued for negligence. It happened in Dubai, not in Nigeria. You can’t even take care of home front before talking about going out of the country with kids.
Instead of doing everything to help the situation, she may be going through the first stages of depression by now, instead, Nigerians will continue to point blaming fingers and quote the old books, when they themselves do far worse when no one is watching where are the boys? why is the girl the only one getting the flacks? The level of misogyny is alarming Help them deal with this trauma and not add to the problem.
Unfortunately, most parents these days do not understand the mindset of this 21st century generation. Religion and unnecessary traditions and lack of good parenting add up to all these. Also sex education is very relevant from an early age.
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The school is careless. Those kids were damaged long before now but allowing it to happen under their watch shows that they were very careless. They took their time and neither of them was fazed. After she finished cowgirl, she did reverse cowgirl without fear for crying out loud and they were so comfortable like it is normal and no one is coming to catch them in the act, gisting, laughing... No one was even watching the door to alert the others because they knew that no one is coming.
This issue of giving children access to phones with internet connection is most irresponsible. I am 31 and I am so so very careful of what I watch on the internet. Most times, I stay off social media and intentionally restrict what I see and hear just for my sanity not to talk more of a child
Thank you so much.
This is a peer group influence. All the students involved should be suspended, not only the girl, and they should be well counselled
exactly my point
Who was videoing it and who shared it? This goes deeper. This school cannot be exonerated.
Exactly d girl I’m sorry was just gullible !and was following instructions d pple she called friends
Yes. Exactly. Who ever made that video, comfortably, could be worse.
Sex education is important. Period!
I recently had a conversation with my 18 year old, the issue was about irregular cycle and she claimed not to have had her period since January and was taken to the hospital where they assumed some hormonal imbalance until the results of the tests carried out gets concluded.
My first question was to ask her if she was sexually active and I asked if a pregnancy test was carried out first off.
Everybody there chewed me out saying I went overboard and that I did not trust my daughter.
Discussions about sex education with our children from a young age is important and we as parents should not see it as embarrassing or shameful or an indication of distrust.
Having said that, the parents of this poor girl, in my own opinion may or may have not done their due diligence with regards to sex education.
As parents, we can only speak to our children and hope they imbibe the morals we try to impart in them. We cannot possibly be with them 24/7.
They may or may have not done their part but it is imperative for the school to accept full responsibility for our wards while in their care.
I disagree with Morayo's approach on this issue. The school is 100% culpable. I agree with the lady with the braids hanging down her shoulders and the other lady beside Morayo.
There should be some round the clock supervision in place by the school regardless of where ever these children were taken, Dubai or not.
How was the school unable to reach the parents for over a month? Was the child not coming to school?
Did they not have a residential address? What about email addresses and telephone numbers? Next of kins to contact in case of emergency?
There are so many questions that needs to be answered on the school's part.
Suspending the girl is not the answer. All the kids involved need therapy. In fact, the whole school needs it.
And I agree that efforts should be made to have the video taken down immediately.
We do not need that little girl having to go through life with that kind of stigma.
Sorry, the lady has long weave on abi na bone straight. I don't know what y'all call the hair do. Which is very beautiful by the way.
I am still in shock!!!
We need teen sex education not chid sex education. The parents and school should be blamed.
They school are just covering up something! I don’t believe they couldn’t reach the girl parents for one month ! No naa
God bless you, we became better citizens growing up because the therapist our parents visit is the back side of their palms...or slap you on the face...you have no choice that to reset and behave well... but these days it is called abuse... I rest my case
I am so pissed right now but I can’t even tell who I’m angry at; the kids for engaging in this pornography (not rape), the parents for not being responsible enough to monitor how a 10yr old is sexually active or the school for failing in all angles. Goodness! One can easily ask “why release a 10yr old to Dubai?” But that girl has been exposed, experienced. Those kids, 4 or more of them has been sexually exposed and it has been going on before the trip.
Thank you! It doesn't matter where a badly-trained child is, they will exhibit it. Yes, they should be monitored by the school while in their care but home, home, home, let's look to these children's home for this. Like the ladies are saying, this is the main problem here!
Ladies, even if the child was already exposed, it does not justify the fact that the school failed to protect her. That child did not go to Dubai on her own, nor did her parents take her there. What happened to her was not on her parent's watch. Period! That school is a dangerous environment and I hope they stayed closed indefinitely. A 10 yet old child can NOT consent!
First of all one question was she the only student that was taking there ? Or was she the only girl there yes the school had their own fault but the parent should be held as well for heaven sake not just the school
Parents, say no to excursions that make your children sleep outside the home
Absolutely, I can't wrap my head around what am viewing right now...what a shame to the parents and the entire administration of the school for failing the girl.
They are minors!!! If I hired a baby sitter to watch my child and I call from work, I expect that that babysitter has not stepped out of the house and left my child who is a minor for any reason whatsoever. So to answer your question, the adults responsible for these children do not get to go out and leave the children unattended. I went on trips out of state as a child myself and we had chaperones at a ratio of 1 to 6 and we were 15, 16, 17 years old. There was never a time that boys and girls were left to do whatever they wanted. There was always a chaperone breathing down our necks. I’m not absolving the parents here. Something definitely went wrong somewhere that little kids are making pornography. I’m sorry but we do not do enough to protect children in Nigeria. To send children out of the country unsupervised is just beyond what I can comprehend. Even if it happened in a home, the adult responsible for those kids would be in serious legal trouble. Both civil and criminal.
WRONG, they are not toddlers, they should have discipline at that age. The children have useless parents
Many Parents did this time have failed.
These days, you discipline a child, the parents come and be shouting up and down. I work in school and it's gradually becoming impossible to give them the discipline (not abused) we received in our time (Mr Do-good).
This is why society is changing and I'm afraid there's worse to come.
Firstly, watching that video breaks my heart and something from an investigative side needs to be unraveled:
1. The girl child involved was she introduced by an uncle, aunt, nanny, or anybody she would easily trust that could have molested her and caused her to be exposed early to sex.
2. It was recorded, understand that there is a dark industry of child phedephile which is ran by people that mange children made up of teachers, guidance and councellors who could have influenced this children to do the recording for their consumption and circulated for profit.
3. In fact listening to the fact that the school had a teacher who had raped a student previously. The teacher that was caught may not be the only one involved and there maybe a cartel that actually run n enterprise around taking advantage of children, this is where the investigator needs to focus on.
There is more than what meets the eye.
If you ask the child you may not get an answer, you need an expert to get info from them because these children may have been initiated to a cult like group of secrecy, which been children they have been taken aback and can be deceived.
Hmmmm
It may as well have been in school that she was exposed...
Great points but let's remember that watching the video is child porn and in many countries people have been imprisoned for having it on their phone. I'm sickened by how much it has been shared, p**dophiles now have access to it.
Last year this 16 years old girl stayed with me in school as my roommate. This girl got pregnant and her boyfriend 20 years took her to the pharmacy and did an abortion that almost killed her. I noticed the way she was shrinking and kept asking her what the problem was she kept lying. Go to the school clinic she refused until I had to request for her mum no which she never wanted to give me until I insisted and she gave me. Dr kept asking her what was her symptoms she kept lying until she was transferred from the school clinic to a teaching hospital. After a few hours she confessed to me she got pregnant and her bf took her to where they removed it. Mind you she was in year one. the funniest part was she told me it was not their first time and I was shocked. See parenting is intentional, parents need to instil morals in their children. While instilling morals live an exemplary life. Don't teach your child A n do B it doesn't work that way. Catch them young while you can. Charity begins at home.
Our woke generation too is not helping matters. Tell them this thing is wrong and watch them sing mind your business into your head.
My goodness! What?! At ONLY 16?! And it's NOT her FIRST?!! What went WRONG with her life for this to happen? The thing now is that she is damaging herself for life.
That girl has been damaged way longer before now and the school & parent should be questioned.
I am sad for who made this comment and the 13 persons that liked it. I believe you are entitled to your opinion but this statement reflects largely how you see the world. You use the word “damaged” for a human being living in a world so complex and layered; you don’t know the girls backstory yet you liken her to a product made in China.
her parents not the school or teacher
Not only the girl all the kids please
@@tinkerman6064 stop acting unintelligent, damage in this context is meant psychotically
And please parents of the kids in that room, all of them, don't dare say you don't have money for therapy oh, you had money to send them to Dubai so you must have money for therapy
This is seriously serious. I’m short of words
Infact speechless 😶
Ban pornography in Nigeria. We don't need this in Africa. The West that promotes it is dealing with stagnant population growth.
It isn't possible, because if it's ban in Nigeria, u can still have access on Google. The most important thing is there should be proper way to talk to ur child
Religion has failed us too
@@olaleyeamos7289 You don't understand how the ban works. it's banned in some countries even with google you cannot have access to it.
@@olaleyeamos7289 if it is banned how can you access it on the internet? You can not, it is banned in many islamic countries
Why is it only the girl that everyone is talking about and the school have to quickly suspend? Did she carryout the act alone? Where are the boys with her? It's annoying because the boys are seemly protected. Everyone involved including the school officials that travel with them should be held accountable.
I just tire
When you have irresponsible adults, why should the kids be different? This is q product of a depraved society
The lady in green gown you are the one making good sense in this discussion. The teachers who took them there must be held accountable. They are youth remember and want to explore everything. They are curious to know everything and practicalize and respond to every feelings, that why we talk about “ youthful exuberance “. Where were the teachers, probably the teachers have gone to do their own things. Mind you I am not condoning the act. Monitoring and supervision helps to checkmate some wrongful activities of children.
For the first time am disappointed by Morayo's stand on this issue, why is she defending the school because it is very clear she is on a mission but the girls did due diligence to issue.
My thoughts honestly
that Morayo i don give up on her tipe-tipe. she`s quite sentimental and self centered. her contributions or stand always off
If the school had reached the parents immediately, this wouldn’t have escalated to this point. Number one this is a slap to the parents because they failed as a parents, secondly the school needs to tell us more for withholding the info for a month🙄🙄
They reach on time or not
Those kids have been damaged before the Dubai trip
To me thank God it came out they can start getting help now
@@egwonookpako9179 You make a lot of sense bro
Morayo you need to come and apologise for what just came out from your mouth , that those that haven't seen the video should go and watch it online. If this video is shown to the authorities in uk, you be ban from working with children . Please take this video down ASAP. You should never encourage people to watch it.
For once I have seen someone who made an absolute sense I totally agree with you on this I am baffled that people are watching and sharing that video of a minor for crying out loud shows how our society has no law protecting children and then the ladies on the view are boldly saying they have watched the video I am disappointed really
@@vivikastitches , Nigeria still have a long way to go, if its here in the uk, this morning show, they will bring a professional to discuss about it. There is no law in Nigeria. May God help that country in Jesus name.
Couldn't they dispatch a letter to the girl's parents home address. I Chrisland should be properly scrutinised
I have a problem with you telling people to go and watch it. It is a criminal offense to view child pornography!
Imagine......I was shocked
Schools are different from the way they were before, students talked back to their teachers as they like, and teachers that are not cool with these are sacked. Students can report teachers they don't like to the authorities and the next thing is being sacked. Most of these teachers tread carefully for the fear of losing their jobs. No one to instill discipline in them. I pity this generation. Parents have more work to do.
You made a lot of sense
You just said something everyone seems to pretend not to acknowledge. Teachers are always on the receiving end of unruly behavior of children who have bad orientation by parents who themselves need parenting.
I was shocked at a parent who watches pornography with her son of less of about 8 years and she feels it's okay.
A parent who is simply having a bad day will assault a teacher and the teacher will on demand be asked to apologize with his job been threatened.
Schools are too careful to correct a student/pupil who are stubborn not to take it and they will have the ba k of their parents who comes on the face of the teachers with threats.
@@benedictiribhogbe5686 some parents have failed in their duties and they expect magic in schools. Schools now are all about education, being the best in subjects and all, no moral, no discipline, students can flaunt rules and regulations and the max you will see is one week suspension for something so brutal.
...Product of inefficient/poor parenting, agreed. But this particular incident is largely the fault of the school authority because it happened while the children were in their custody, period!
No matter the bad parenting or moral deficit on the part of the children, if the school had taken their responsibility seriously, they would have put proper checks, monitoring measures and controls in place and the children (no matter how corrupt) would not have had the opportunity to misbehave while in the school's custody.
Fantastic! Exactly how it would be argued in a court of law. Complete negligence albeit the children were already exposed to dirty stuff. The children were in the school’s care when the act happened. Forget the unfortunate fact that the children don yama.
Please do you ladies seriously believe the school had been trying to reach the mother for a whole month? In this day and age of even person hawking pepper having a phone? I’m sorry I don’t buy that. And it just so happens she immediately went to the school as soon as they were able to get her? Please note I’m not making excuses for the mother. After I heard her plea, I immediately slammed her with blame. The fact that it took another parent to call her attention to the nitty gritty despite the school having mentioned it to her (even though they minimized the severity of it), makes me question her parenting style.
What are you guys saying concerning other parties
I don't ever leave comment but this is outrageous from you guys.. Telling people to go and watch the video is so irresponsible of you guys especially Morayo. TVC is also very irresponsible by posting this show and not making sure that part was extracted out. That in itself is child abuse.. Paraventure it happened to your kid or someone in your family would you advice people to go watch it?? Your show should advocate for the video to be removed not otherwise.. I have reported this episode to RUclips in order for you to do the needful. It is called CHILD ABUSE! And please ladies it won't hurt to also educate yourself a little more about media etiquette.
@Ayomi Ayomi, my sentiments exactly! Outrageous! Shame on this panel of ladies.
Just disappointed in the ladies on the view saying that they have seen the video remember this is a child a minor in a sane country whoever that is in possession,watch or share that video will be charged for child ponorgraphy which is a very serious thing let's be guided. And boldly saying on national TV that they have seen the video really disgusts me and makes me wonder the ethics of their journalism
You need to understand grammatical expression in journalism... The ladies they WATCHED it what you are the used the word SEE it... In fact one of them said I couldn't watch it.
Yeah ... these women are not smart lol
I want you to remember that this incident happened not in the house of the girl but the parents gave this child to the school authorities to represent them in about side county,the parents hand is no more responsible to take care of that girl,is the school that has to take care of the children they took out ,if it happened in parents house it will be different,why the school did not send sin message to the parents,is that they could not reach them on that ,for me the problem is from the school who did not take care of them outside there.
Well said ladies, the parents has a huge responsibility, but the school is also culprab!! The mother failed to look inward before she went public. This is very scary!!
If parents releases their children to the school and expects the school to continue where they left off, it means that the parent have done their own parenting duties to an extent. Parents have major role is the lives of their children take it or leave it. Seeing as the whole issue is going, the school could do so very little. You can’t expect the school to start all the way from the beginning in training a child that has already been spoiled right from home. Children that waited until after midnight to sneak out knowing fully well that the house masters/mistresses will be asleep, do you think they don’t know what their doing? How could anyone have gone to check when the kids themselves have calculated their actions? I’m confused, enlighten me! Morayo is 100% correct on this one.
I think they got the "truth or dare" game idea from Big-Brother Naija. This is one of the negative impact of internet and social media.
God bless all those who speak the truth about the fact that this isn't a government or school issue perse but we must emphasize the parental failure with this modern parenting thingy
Seeing that video both the girl and boy & the other mate's in that room shows that they are proud of their actions. The boy recording was telling us their age, they all need discipline and therapy.
Pls what's the age he mentioned?
@@gesiereinyeinengi7518 he was not the one filming but he said the boy was 13 and the girl was 11
@@tonyebiere551 hmmmm, I see..... 🤦♂️ 🤦♂️ 🤦♂️ 🤦♂️
Truth or there game? They learnt it from BIG BROTHER NAIJA
Abegi... Bbn is rated 18+, only an irresponsible parent will allow any child watch bbn
Please what are the moral values of bbnaija? Absolutely nothing.
@@folaajayi754 if you don't like it it's your own personal issue, BBN is not the problem, why deviate and throw blames on absolutely nothing that concerns the problems at hand? focus on the main problems and not a rated entertainment show.
@@tiktoktv107 it should not even be on the Tv I mean big brother Naija.if it’s rated 18 then it should be on the Tv .anyone who wants to watch it should go and look for it
@@Odin00 nothing entertaining about it.BBnaija is part of the problem
Well done and well said Mariam!! you took the words out of my mouth. The schools are meant to help in parenting as well, the schools are meant to train us on human behaviour, respect, responsibility and accountability not just academics,the parents can not do it all.ln my days we would rather do certain things at home than in school but today it's the opposite.lf l took someone else's children on holiday certain responsibility falls on me to look after them,be the parents at that time,guide them,making sure they are safe and protected from harmful things morally and otherwise ....I would say the government should come down on the school too, not the parents, but then again how can the government come down on the school when the government themselves are not responsible? God help 9ja the motherland and be merciful on her. Sending lots of love and light. Thank you.
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Na the school born you?... So, if the school does all these, what's the role of the parents?
@@omotolaniogunremi594 That's the point of going to school though, it's called training.The times away from your parents and in school they must continue to maintain the discipline, accountability,certain moral standard and responsible pupils while under their care...lf they were adults it's a different thing but children still needs guidance at all times both at home and in school.
Will you parents allow the training to be done??? Won't there be a story of they are physically abusing my children???
@@tolulopeeniolafabunmi8266 You don't have to touch a child to train a child,it's called guidance not abuse.
How is it possible that the school couldn't get across to the girl's parents?How were they able to reach them, when the parents paid all the allowance for her trip?
What is a 10 years old doing with a smartphone....
This happens a lot, the only reason it is making headlines is because it was recorded
It's all about the girl and her parents, but the girl wasn't the only one whose face was seen in the video. But it's all centered on the girl. When the case of Late Mrs Osinachi came up (may her soul rest in peace) everyone was screaming, " parents train your male children too!" But here is another one and it's all centered on just the girl's part forgetting she wasn't doing it alone.
It's very hard for people to internalize lessons. So sad to see.
People should stop saying that the girl was rape, she was not raped, she was enjoying her self, it's obvious that the parents has failed and lost it.
Who are the children role models? Celebrities who dress half naked and some who smoke. They are manifesting what they watch. The school learns how to cover up. Where did the school learn it from?
The most ridiculous argument here is that they tried to reach the mother for 1 whole month! Please how was the child going to school? Someone took her there every day now?!?
I think it's a boarding school or they are boarders
@@bukolaajayi6178 That's a possibility but it's not stated. Even so, they could have done more to get to the parents. Thanks for bringing that up, anyway.
Right?! She's a day student and the mother always sent her off to school
Aftermath of the much-celebrated #BBnaija
I have read so many positive and negative comments , listen to both sides of the argument from various school of thoughts.
Everyone is to be blame for this child's failure. These group of people are responsible.
1. Liberial society
2. Parents
3. Social media.
4.Nigerian celebrities.
5. Peir mates from home and abroad.
6. The institution
The mother brought more awareness to the matter, she even mentioned her daughters name. She failed her child. I have been really down since morning, I have a daughters, I can't imagine such thing. They need to get the remaining the children from her, I trust her in the uk, the social services who have been involved . It's really disheartening. I pray that girl get delivered, she needs real deliverance.
@@fogandmists3344, with prayers
Rich people would never train there children.
Why didn't the school open up fully to the parent? Why take a minor for pregnancy test more than once without involving parents or guardian? What were the measures put on ground to properly monitor these kids while they were at UAE? That is where I believe the school has a case to answer.
As for the parents, hmm, my heart is heavy... all children involved need counseling and help especially the girl. Oh dear Lord, very 😔 sad
The boarding system of schooling should be COMPLETELY SCRAPPED!
Not boarding school, they went on an a trip to Dubai. She is a day student, I have been so disturbed since morning. The girl must have been abused from home . The men around the girl must be investigated.
Sex education orientation should be a priority at
CHURCH
MOSQUE
SCHOOL and
PARENTS should take up the responsibility to reach out to their children especially mother should be more closer to their female children.....
Parents has FAILED
School had also failed and disappointed the public......
Parents impact upon the children are follows
PARENTS.....70 PERCENT
SCHOOL.....20 PERCENT
SOCIETY ..10 PERCENT
PARENTS must accept their faults and move
The truth is that first hand both the parents and school need to accept responsibility but majority of the blame is to the parents of all the children are not properly raised up, again why should those kids have access to phone without parental control, also Nigeria ministry of education need to know the norms and moral upbringing inculcated in our schools most expensive school teachers can’t really caution kids in school I know of a scenario where a teacher was asked to kneel and apologize to a pupil and tomorrow you want the teacher to correct the student. We as parents don’t need to give everything to a kid a let them know why.
The school is covering the fact that they neglected the kids
But the point we are failing to understand is if children want to do wrong they are smart not to be caught
The reason why the school cover up is because they don’t want their school out
The kids if they don’t want to be caught they won’t be caught
The kids are very smart
Now let’s talk about this system Nigeria have lost everything called moral culture in school and home
Because Nigerians travel too much we got over civilized and we think discipline in school now is old school
Giving phones is eye opening
What are they doing with phones ?
another issue is Nigerians quick to adopt another peopel`s way and even do worst. all the ladies now talks about sex everyday. i coomented on a page that sex is overraated. the way they chewed me out was like am a clown. the depraved society is a factor, internet and fashion is another, but people cant understand that
Wahala! I can’t find the right words sef. Nawa oh!
I can't even imagine what these people are saying. 10yrs old taking outside on a trip and u mean no teachers allocated to take care nor monitor this kids and u guys are trying to exonerate the school and blam parents are you guys really serious? Even in hostels the female kids are free to walk into the male section without supervision nor to talk of children lodge in a hotel? All of you are really crazy. Pray this doesn't happen to your child. Total carelessness on the part of the school. Everyone is mad in this country blaming the parents for such ridiculous act that would have been avoided if there was a teacher located to monitor this children. Those children shouldn't stay in the hotel room alone in the first place. I manage a hotel and there are rules when it comes to accommodating children, there must be an adult in their rooms. Are you guys mad?
You don't need to start raising insult just because you are trying to pass a notion. Mind you this is not about passing blames but to also be aware that this upcoming generations are so vast with whatsoever they are exposed to and one needs proper monitoring
The school cannot be held liable for the failure of the parents
When you run a home & school system where children are not been flogged and punished for their bad indecent behaviors. Spare the rod, spoil the child.
#badparenting
#badschooldiscipline
God bless you sir...
In our time, even if you try am, you no go get this kind mind... You go collect.
Oh please, flogging is a not responsible way of dealing with bad behavior. Flogging children in Nigerian society haven’t changed Nigeria for the better.
@@jaybee4577 you think so?
You all in the video don’t get it!!!
Parents should try to make friends with their children. Let your children see you as friends to be able to confide in. If you don't talk to your children as friends, they will go to their peers for advice and encouragement.
Social media has done more harm than good to these kids
Why children will be on instagram
Charity begins at home
Then let’s fix the school
Teachers need to be able to continue from where parents stop not just allowing them do what they like
My son is in elementary school I realize that he act right at home but misbehave at school
When I met with the teacher I asked how he does in class I was told he don’t listen
And I know America they don’t beat kids I told the teacher when he refuse to listen they should tell him they are going to call the mum
He acts right
Parents can’t CANT send their kids to school and just leave them saying it’s the teachers work no
Parents should always go to their kids school always
Mba mba, the child has been damaged by somebody. Somebody is behind this and directing the children and who has the video
God bless dat woman in green ,wat time do dey children have to do all dis where wer d teachers or supervisors!!!even dey wer very careless
People should stop watching the video. These are children for God's sake. Leave the analysis to law enforcement.
My thoughts exactly it's really shameless for people to have said they watched the video in a sane country they will not get away with it
Nigeria is beginning to look like the worst place to be a female. Some of the comments on this thread make me uncomfortable. A 10yr old child was drugged and raped and people are victim blaming. My question to the Guardians of outraged morality towards females, please did you expect her to fight off several boys? Let's us even assume it was not but a case of rape why were the parents not told. Also why are the boys not being blamed just the girl.? The comments I have read are disturbing. This is the reason why female rape victims say nothing. I expected unbiased comments from the ladies on the programme.
She's not drugged and raped. They're all minors.
@@jiddec so why are the boys not being blamed as much she is . I am not supporting the act however both the boys and the girl should be held equally responsible. Not slut shaming the girl and giving the boys in an easy out
Drugged? Raped? Sir/ma are you talking about the same topic?
@@omotolaniogunremi594 Her mother said she was given something to drink and unlike a lot of people I am willing to give the little girl the benefit of believing her until its proven otherwise. When anyone male or female is given a drug or anything that alters their normal state and is made to indulge in sexual relations that is rape. Whether or not he/she has previously had sexual intercourse. If anyone should be disciplined if she is lying it should all of them not just the girl. Slut shaming her while the boys are given an easy pass with the excuse of boys will be boys is what I am against. Simple if she guilty of bad behavior so are the boys they should all be dealt with.
@@nka8786
Did you watch the video to the end?
Mariam that Ankara style is screaming Beautiful Africa.
You all brought great angles to the subject matter - well done.
While parents and the school do their best pls pray pray and pray for your kids. We live in a word were the devil is even more vicious against kids and the home unit
I was 10yrs when I first saw a porn. How. My class mate Hassana asked me if I had seen a blue film before, I had know idea films had blue yellow red or whatever colour. I only knew there was coloured or back and white TV. She said other class mates go to watch it at Kemi's house during break. Kemi was an only child of a military officer and a nurse. Both parents are always at work and Kemi is home with the military aid who is a young man They live close to the school. The school was an Army Children's School. So I hadn't seen this thing called blue film and I was curious, so I followed Hassana. When we got there Kemi another girl Mbafe and six boys all ages 9 to 11 from our class were sitting and watching porn - the military aid who is the adult did not seem to bother at all. I was shocked/scared at the adult stuff being aired openly, but my class mates where comfortable watching and this was not internet era. Fortunately about two minutes after we came In NEPA took light, because although I was scared I was also curious to join the rest and watch. I guess that was the Holy Spirit shielding me even then. Please pray for your kids.
Why are you saying people should go online and watch it. Pls this is criminal
There should be a proper planning on how to look at after the children before they leave Nigeria, if they know they don't have enough staff to look after those children they should have cancelled the trip. You can't tell me a parent you give hand your children over to the school and after hearing news like that, is wrong. The school should be held responsible.
In the West, ALL FOUR OF YOU would have been arrested by now. It is BASIC knowledge that you should NEITHER share, save, NOR WATCH such video - ONLY law enforcement agents are pernitted to eatch such videos - and they can ONLY do so strictly for the purpose of extracting evidence. AnyONE else who watches such has committed A CRIME because it is tantamount to INDECENT exposure of a minor. Come on - are you all so IGNORANT? YOU did NOT have to watch the video to discuss the matter. The mother and school's accounts of the situation are sufficient basis for your talk. To think that YOU MORAYO encouraged viewers ON INTERNATIONAL TV to go WATCH SUCH VIDEO???? The Nigerian media space IS FRUSTRATINGLY PRIMITIVE.
I was personally shocked when they all said they watched the video🙄🤭🤭
@@TemiTeeO Honest, this SINGULAR ARROGANT IGNORANCE by ALL FOUR of them could cost them any international travelling plans they have BECAUSE they have CLEARLY watched AND PROMOTED THE WATCHING of such indecency. THIS is the problem in THAT country - SO MANY IGNORANT people hold SENSITIVE KEY public positions BUT KNOW ABSOLUTELY NOTHING about the roles they function in. This is BASIC Media-Studies 101.
@@noneyourbiz It is very sad😢😢. I’d thought they should have known better
@@TemiTeeO Have listened to them discuss some other sensitive topics, with little knowledge of the subject-matter. But this one? Beyond the pale.
I couldn't bring myself to go and watch the video,I just can't.. What do I really want to see???!!!.. It's disheartening to hear about this,not to talk of watching it,I just can't..
What does it say that all these adults have watched this video. This is child pornography. How many more children are going to be abused because of the wide exposure of this video
If they don't watch it, how will they discuss it?
@@omotolaniogunremi594 😂 😂 😂 😂.. I tire oooo
@@omotolaniogunremi594 please don't say that. It's not that simple! If Sickos get a hold
of this video it will only encourage more of it! This is why child pornography is banned in many countries! It also promotes sex trafficking in children because people pay money to get a hold of this evil! Please the circulation of this video should IMMEDIATELY BE BANNED! We can talk about it from what we know now but immediate ban is necessary for the video! Nigeria is already lawless we don't need this on our hands
You really hit the nail on the head.
Please wait oh what is a 10 year old doing with a phone for heaven sake call me old school I will never give my 10year old a phone
Couldn't the school reach the father of the girl? I mean the woman isn't a widow. I hear little of the father of the child.
The males in the girl's household and elsewhere should be scrutinized. She has been active before now.
Marian, you are a darling
Your points are on point
Even may be she also see her parents doing it
No offence,but ave you seen her Mum?
Lol
Big brother Naija(BBN) does she watch it with her parents or friends??????????
Where can i get the video
Get out of here. Go do something productive.
Imagine, We need to educate our children more and guide them because the level of exposure in the world today
Becee thanks I always appreciate you , you are the best
A male house master supposed to stay with the boys in the same room. Same with the girls... A female house mistress is supposed to stay with the girls in the same room.
Even at that some children will still find their way, na today?
Why do you keep cutting people off when they call? Not cool
Why are they shutting down the school
Her parents didn’t play their part!!!!
It’s not the school’s fault! It’s the parents fault!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
YOU PEOPLE ARE TALKING ABOUT Q 10 YEAR OLD CHILD , NOT 13 OR 15 OR 16!
This girl in this act has been abused,infact I believe one wicked adult somewhere was the one that damaged this girl but her parents don't know,it might even be someone they trusted so much,let her sit her daughter down and ask her,to know where the problem came from
Again,what this girl really need is rehabilitation, counselling and prayers,because this is not her first time,her actions and body movement shows that she's been long in that act,according to the mother,the school took them out and left them uncared for,and my question is this,is this girl the only girl there?is she the only child there?
Then why her?
There's no need of pushing blames,the mother is not close to her daughter,she's not her daughter's best friend if not she would have known who defiled her little daughter and when it happened
How come the girl herself didn't tell her mom what happened. Obviously , She did it intentionally. It's very clear the mother does not normally have conversation with the kids. How can something happened to your daughter for a whole Month and the girl did not tell her mom. They know me in my children school oo.
It is not rape. The children were not even new to it from what I saw. God will heal our land
@ Morayo your analysis is not valid. Whoever is the guardian or custodian of a child is responsible for whatever the child does under their care. The school should have made adequate preparation to monitor the children and keep them under their care. Most hotels in Dubai have levels for female only, male only and family only so there is no reason for them to be alone together
Why is the talk about just the girl,
What about the boy?
Parents these days don’t have the emotional intelligence quotient to handle complex situations like this. In today’s age the idea of “control” won’t help parents get the desired result.
Give your kids the emotional tools and remove fear and shame from the idea of sex. The way we have weaponized shame in our society prevents our children from being vulnerable with you.
Encourage vulnerability and accountability in your home - model it by setting the example, this will help them come to you with their darkest thoughts. They won’t hide because they are afraid of getting punished. Curiosity should be rewarded with truth.
We live in a hyper sexual world now, the moment your child leaves your home you can’t control what goes into their mind.
Please dear Nigerians, try and learn what RESPONSIBILITY means!!!
Parents have close and clear understanding about whom YOU'RE transferring your parenthood to!!!
Legally- when crime issue involved minors,you USE THERAPY to heal the minors, but, when it involves adult either by virtue of RESPONSIBILITY OR NATURAL MEANS, the adult involved I.e in-charge of RESPONSIBILITY are charged for the criminal offences!!!
Please children ARE children, focus on whom is responsible for THESE children at the occurrences of this crime!!! Then, serve duly punishment for every adult involved!!!
Who let a 10 Yr old out of their reach or watch
Am so cold and scared
I blame the school for not chaperoning the kids properly. Whether the kids are experienced or not, the act did not take place in their parents home, but while under the custody of the school. The school failed. You ladies are tearing a woman that is going through this humiliation apart. There is no perfect parent or kid. It’s unfortunate these kids are misguided. Many of the so call big men in Nigeria, their kids have been raped and pregnant by their houseboys or drivers but smuggled out of country to either abort or have the baby. The school took kids to Dubai without adequate supervision while there. The teachers are not better, many of them molest these kids too. If it is in a civilized environment that school will never be opened again after being sued for negligence. It happened in Dubai, not in Nigeria. You can’t even take care of home front before talking about going out of the country with kids.
Beecee your makeup is not okay at all . Pls change your makeup artist.
I think she changed her powder or foundation shade to a wrong one.
Instead of doing everything to help the situation, she may be going through the first stages of depression by now, instead, Nigerians will continue to point blaming fingers and quote the old books, when they themselves do far worse when no one is watching where are the boys? why is the girl the only one getting the flacks? The level of misogyny is alarming
Help them deal with this trauma and not add to the problem.
Unfortunately, most parents these days do not understand the mindset of this 21st century generation.
Religion and unnecessary traditions and lack of good parenting add up to all these.
Also sex education is very relevant from an early age.