It ain’t over til it’s over. I tried dating when I was separated and on the brink of divorce. At first it was just for fun and to prove to myself that I still “had it” after all of those years of marriage. That dating situation turned into a full blown relationship but my husband and I decided to reconcile and I broke that man’s heart. Although my marriage still ended up failing. I knew then that I wouldn’t date until that ink dried. I look back at my ignorance and just smh 🤦🏾♀️. I was praying for God to bless me with a man while I was still attached to the first blessing 😂😂😂😂😂. God don’t bless no mess. You live and you learn. Thank God for growth ❤
Oh my, I love this conversation, and I agree with Queen Shiba, but everyone is entitle to their opinion. However I trust God and want to honor his word. My ex-husband and I was separated for 6 years, before our divorce was finally and God kept me through it all. I stayed prayed up. When you stay prayed up you can do anything with God.
I agree. It’s crazy to want 50/50 financially but then home and child care is so unevenly divided. But there isn’t anything wrong with a person financially providing if it’s understood we have entered gender roles and home and child will be mainly the other partner’s responsibility.
I think if both parties are done and you have done all you can do and in most cases before most people separate and divorce you have already been having problems for years before that decision is made. Most of the time cheating is involved. Life goes on and nothing wrong with dating as long as you know you are done.
OMG, I can relate to so many of your stories. Kickin it With Kourtney, I had a similar experience with my ex-husband. You are spot on with your perspective.
I love this conversation ❤ Queen Shiba it's time to think out side your race ok ladies let's keep it 100 it's not many Bm out here alot undercover dl,married just lazy,in prison it's ok to let other men love you fr I support you
This is a GREAT convo to have. So, IMO, it's subjective to the situation. I dated but wasn't intimate w/ anyone. My kids were grown & out of the house already. MY preference was to wait until the ink was dry before committing to someone else. However, if you've been separated (for about 1 yr.) b/c the divorce hasn't been finalized, I can understand. Children, assets, and living arrangements can delay a divorce. YOU just have to be SURE (unequivocally) in your heart & mind that it's over before you make a move.
Love the conversations as usual! These are tough discussions because people are so passionate about their points of view but still conducted in a respectful manner. Thank you
Hello Queen Sheba 😢I love everything you talk about you and Tisa you ladies are numbers one on RUclips to me you ladies are very smart and intelligent I love what you black ladies represent real talk anyway keep doing amazing job and MAKE JEHOVAH GOD KEEP BLESSINGS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY IN THE NAME OF HIS SON JESUS CHRIST AMEN 🙏 QUEEN Happy New Year 🎉🎉 sis ❤.
I think if you know it’s done and you aren’t coming back, I think you can date. There was no returning to my ex-husband. I agree with Millichun I took a break and then I started dating about 7 months later.
My mom and dad was separated when I was 2 or 3 and they didn’t actually get divorced until he married my stepmom when I was 14. He had been with my stepmom since I was 7
In the Divorce/dating example with Remy Ma and Pappoose. That’s different because they still live together. They need to file the papers and get out that house together. If you have filed the papers and living apart, date to your hearts content.
Exceptional Black men stll exist, My man, husband is retired military, currently works as an engineer makes a lot, and he pays every bill..bought us a new home, he loves all of me. I make a lot, of money. He will do anything for me and mine. He was well raised, he provides, Loves, and protects me. I met him at age 50, and he was 48.
It seems like you’re talking about two different things. You’re talking about one spouse cheating on another and the marriage ends and then the marriage has ended, you’re separated waiting for the divorce and dating and moving on with your life
Chy I have two friends who are married to white men 😐 chyy get THE RIGHT MAN! I’ve def seen attractive white men but the attraction wasn’t enough to do anything but notice his attractiveness although I’m not against it it’s just not something I’ve really ever pursued or taken serious
It ain’t over til it’s over. I tried dating when I was separated and on the brink of divorce. At first it was just for fun and to prove to myself that I still “had it” after all of those years of marriage. That dating situation turned into a full blown relationship but my husband and I decided to reconcile and I broke that man’s heart. Although my marriage still ended up failing. I knew then that I wouldn’t date until that ink dried. I look back at my ignorance and just smh 🤦🏾♀️. I was praying for God to bless me with a man while I was still attached to the first blessing 😂😂😂😂😂. God don’t bless no mess. You live and you learn. Thank God for growth ❤
I appreciate your honesty in this regard and your concern for the other person.
Oh my, I love this conversation, and I agree with Queen Shiba, but everyone is entitle to their opinion. However I trust God and want to honor his word. My ex-husband and I was separated for 6 years, before our divorce was finally and God kept me through it all. I stayed prayed up. When you stay prayed up you can do anything with God.
Facts.
You don’t open the door that’s in front of you until you have closed the door that is behind you.
I agree when I left I was done. I dated. I had a ball. I’m now happily married again
High 5❤❤
Same! 💜💜
This is what we need Queen Shiba!!!! Omg! So ready for this full conversation ♥️
The first four minutes and I'm locked in! I love the chemistry you all have 👑👑👑👑
They want you to go 50/50 then attempt to be the head of the house calling the shots. Boy you are a roommate!!
I agree. It’s crazy to want 50/50 financially but then home and child care is so unevenly divided. But there isn’t anything wrong with a person financially providing if it’s understood we have entered gender roles and home and child will be mainly the other partner’s responsibility.
I agree!
I think if both parties are done and you have done all you can do and in most cases before most people separate and divorce you have already been having problems for years before that decision is made. Most of the time cheating is involved. Life goes on and nothing wrong with dating as long as you know you are done.
Loving the animal print. Real Queens 👸 ✨️ 🙌 💖
I was waiting for this conversation. Let me go and make a cup of coffee and enjoy
This needs to be on tv
Thank you
Courtney appears to be refreshingly AUTHENTIC.
OMG, I can relate to so many of your stories. Kickin it With Kourtney, I had a similar experience with my ex-husband. You are spot on with your perspective.
I believe that until we all walk in these shoes we really don't know what we would do.
Real Conversations Love this sis Queen Shiba
I love this conversation ❤ Queen Shiba it's time to think out side your race ok ladies let's keep it 100 it's not many Bm out here alot undercover dl,married just lazy,in prison it's ok to let other men love you fr I support you
I CAN'T WAIT FOR THIS. THANKS QUEEN.
This is a GREAT convo to have. So, IMO, it's subjective to the situation. I dated but wasn't intimate w/ anyone. My kids were grown & out of the house already. MY preference was to wait until the ink was dry before committing to someone else. However, if you've been separated (for about 1 yr.) b/c the divorce hasn't been finalized, I can understand. Children, assets, and living arrangements can delay a divorce. YOU just have to be SURE (unequivocally) in your heart & mind that it's over before you make a move.
I am with you, Queen Shiba. That is just my opinion
Good Afternoon Queens.
Love the conversations as usual! These are tough discussions because people are so passionate about their points of view but still conducted in a respectful manner. Thank you
I appreciate that! It's important to have these conversations respectfully.
I get my whole life each time ‼️Love these beautiful ladies and great conversations 🎉🎉🎉 And Happy New Year LADIES AND PALACE 🎉🎉🎉🎉
Great, great segment ladies, thank you!!!
I love the looks! 🔥🔥🔥
Heyyyy Sis Queen Shiba and Ladies
Hello Queen Sheba 😢I love everything you talk about you and Tisa you ladies are numbers one on RUclips to me you ladies are very smart and intelligent I love what you black ladies represent real talk anyway keep doing amazing job and MAKE JEHOVAH GOD KEEP BLESSINGS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY IN THE NAME OF HIS SON JESUS CHRIST AMEN 🙏 QUEEN Happy New Year 🎉🎉 sis ❤.
I need more I was like noooo it’s over lol love the conversation
Great conversation ladies 💚💚💚💚
This was a good episode can’t wait for part 2
I LOVE this!! Great show ladies ❤
This was dope asf! Keep doing what ya’ll doing cause eww its good! I done sent it to all 3 of my sisters.
I'm glad you enjoyed it! 🥰
@yes indeed🥰
I absolutely love this episode. I can relate to almost every topic discussed on this episode. Keep doing y’all’s thing. ❤
We will!
There’s no room for a Leader if it’s 50/50🎯
Looking forward to this discussion!
I agree with Kourtney and Queen Shiba
So loving this
I think if you know it’s done and you aren’t coming back, I think you can date. There was no returning to my ex-husband. I agree with Millichun I took a break and then I started dating about 7 months later.
This was amazing, I went thru a similar situation of the side she waiting in the wings, I let her have it. I chose me. Thanks for sharing Queens 🩷🩷🩷🩷
I'm glad you were able to choose you! ❤️
Happy New Year, Queens!❤❤❤❤
Same to you!
Hello Queen, this was a phenomenal episode. I can't wait for the next episode!🎉
Thank you so much! 🤩
Happy New Year Queen and Palace
Love this! 🫶🏾
I Totally Agree Kourtney
Bravo! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Another fantastic conversation!!!! Keep em coming ❤
We will!
Hello Queen and Palace 😍
Good conversation
Excellent episode, waiting for the next one
On point !😍
Good afternoon 🫅🏾Mods and Palace. Happy 2025🎉
Excellent 🙌🏾🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I'm glad you enjoyed it! 🤩
REPLAY GANG❤
Happy New Year 🎆🎈
Happy new year
Happy New Year! 🎉🎉🎉🎉 👑 Shiba, peace & blessings 2025.
8:47 nope Im moving on😂 goodbye dude ✌🏾out no blurred lines. Dude we over paperwork is paperwork we aint dwelling on Not Ting!
As long as you are not dipping back i think its okay to date, the process has to be started though
Married people dating is a dealbreaker for and why I filed for and am happily divorced. Married is married is married imo!
My mom and dad was separated when I was 2 or 3 and they didn’t actually get divorced until he married my stepmom when I was 14. He had been with my stepmom since I was 7
When it's over, it's over... Once the papers are signed, there are no obligations except to move the F on!!!
TISHAAAAA CAMPBELL !!! omg Milli yall are twins
Aren’t they!
Im ,,,Definitly With Sis Queen Shiba On,,This 1 i Wouldnt Date Till Im,,Divorced and,,,Healed People forget Bout That,,,Part Heal Your Self First
Happy New Year
Happy new year
New Year’s Blessings Queen Shiba
All of you ladies look so nice
In the Divorce/dating example with Remy Ma and Pappoose. That’s different because they still live together. They need to file the papers and get out that house together. If you have filed the papers and living apart, date to your hearts content.
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As long as you are separated and live apart and both want a divorce it's fine to move on. You don't have to wait till the actual ink dries.
50/50 depends on what works for your relationship/ household.
Looking at the replay
Lol " I live my life fiction!"
What about the stay at home dads? Is 50/50 okay in this situation 🤔 😳 😊😅?
Dudes want 50/50 but then act as if they’re doing it all.
there’s nothing wrong with dating while separated.
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Exceptional Black men stll exist, My man, husband is retired military, currently works as an engineer makes a lot, and he pays every bill..bought us a new home, he loves all of me. I make a lot, of money. He will do anything for me and mine. He was well raised, he provides, Loves, and protects me. I met him at age 50, and he was 48.
So inspiring to hear! 🥰
IMO Woody Allen has ruined it for everyone
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It seems like you’re talking about two different things. You’re talking about one spouse cheating on another and the marriage ends and then the marriage has ended, you’re separated waiting for the divorce and dating and moving on with your life
Milli I can’t do with you I live my life in fiction
Girl!!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂
Chy I have two friends who are married to white men 😐 chyy get THE RIGHT MAN! I’ve def seen attractive white men but the attraction wasn’t enough to do anything but notice his attractiveness although I’m not against it it’s just not something I’ve really ever pursued or taken serious
Happy New Year Queens
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