Oh my, I love this conversation, and I agree with Queen Shiba, but everyone is entitle to their opinion. However I trust God and want to honor his word. My ex-husband and I was separated for 6 years, before our divorce was finally and God kept me through it all. I stayed prayed up. When you stay prayed up you can do anything with God.
OMG, I can relate to so many of your stories. Kickin it With Kourtney, I had a similar experience with my ex-husband. You are spot on with your perspective.
I agree. It’s crazy to want 50/50 financially but then home and child care is so unevenly divided. But there isn’t anything wrong with a person financially providing if it’s understood we have entered gender roles and home and child will be mainly the other partner’s responsibility.
This is a GREAT convo to have. So, IMO, it's subjective to the situation. I dated but wasn't intimate w/ anyone. My kids were grown & out of the house already. MY preference was to wait until the ink was dry before committing to someone else. However, if you've been separated (for about 1 yr.) b/c the divorce hasn't been finalized, I can understand. Children, assets, and living arrangements can delay a divorce. YOU just have to be SURE (unequivocally) in your heart & mind that it's over before you make a move.
I love this conversation ❤ Queen Shiba it's time to think out side your race ok ladies let's keep it 100 it's not many Bm out here alot undercover dl,married just lazy,in prison it's ok to let other men love you fr I support you
Love the conversations as usual! These are tough discussions because people are so passionate about their points of view but still conducted in a respectful manner. Thank you
I think if you know it’s done and you aren’t coming back, I think you can date. There was no returning to my ex-husband. I agree with Millichun I took a break and then I started dating about 7 months later.
Hello Queen Sheba 😢I love everything you talk about you and Tisa you ladies are numbers one on RUclips to me you ladies are very smart and intelligent I love what you black ladies represent real talk anyway keep doing amazing job and MAKE JEHOVAH GOD KEEP BLESSINGS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY IN THE NAME OF HIS SON JESUS CHRIST AMEN 🙏 QUEEN Happy New Year 🎉🎉 sis ❤.
I think if both parties are done and you have done all you can do and in most cases before most people separate and divorce you have already been having problems for years before that decision is made. Most of the time cheating is involved. Life goes on and nothing wrong with dating as long as you know you are done.
In the Divorce/dating example with Remy Ma and Pappoose. That’s different because they still live together. They need to file the papers and get out that house together. If you have filed the papers and living apart, date to your hearts content.
My mom and dad was separated when I was 2 or 3 and they didn’t actually get divorced until he married my stepmom when I was 14. He had been with my stepmom since I was 7
Exceptional Black men stll exist, My man, husband is retired military, currently works as an engineer makes a lot, and he pays every bill..bought us a new home, he loves all of me. I make a lot, of money. He will do anything for me and mine. He was well raised, he provides, Loves, and protects me. I met him at age 50, and he was 48.
It seems like you’re talking about two different things. You’re talking about one spouse cheating on another and the marriage ends and then the marriage has ended, you’re separated waiting for the divorce and dating and moving on with your life
Chy I have two friends who are married to white men 😐 chyy get THE RIGHT MAN! I’ve def seen attractive white men but the attraction wasn’t enough to do anything but notice his attractiveness although I’m not against it it’s just not something I’ve really ever pursued or taken serious
The first four minutes and I'm locked in! I love the chemistry you all have 👑👑👑👑
Oh my, I love this conversation, and I agree with Queen Shiba, but everyone is entitle to their opinion. However I trust God and want to honor his word. My ex-husband and I was separated for 6 years, before our divorce was finally and God kept me through it all. I stayed prayed up. When you stay prayed up you can do anything with God.
Facts.
You don’t open the door that’s in front of you until you have closed the door that is behind you.
This is what we need Queen Shiba!!!! Omg! So ready for this full conversation ♥️
I agree when I left I was done. I dated. I had a ball. I’m now happily married again
High 5❤❤
Same! 💜💜
I was waiting for this conversation. Let me go and make a cup of coffee and enjoy
Loving the animal print. Real Queens 👸 ✨️ 🙌 💖
OMG, I can relate to so many of your stories. Kickin it With Kourtney, I had a similar experience with my ex-husband. You are spot on with your perspective.
They want you to go 50/50 then attempt to be the head of the house calling the shots. Boy you are a roommate!!
I agree. It’s crazy to want 50/50 financially but then home and child care is so unevenly divided. But there isn’t anything wrong with a person financially providing if it’s understood we have entered gender roles and home and child will be mainly the other partner’s responsibility.
I agree!
Courtney appears to be refreshingly AUTHENTIC.
Real Conversations Love this sis Queen Shiba
This needs to be on tv
Thank you
This is a GREAT convo to have. So, IMO, it's subjective to the situation. I dated but wasn't intimate w/ anyone. My kids were grown & out of the house already. MY preference was to wait until the ink was dry before committing to someone else. However, if you've been separated (for about 1 yr.) b/c the divorce hasn't been finalized, I can understand. Children, assets, and living arrangements can delay a divorce. YOU just have to be SURE (unequivocally) in your heart & mind that it's over before you make a move.
I love this conversation ❤ Queen Shiba it's time to think out side your race ok ladies let's keep it 100 it's not many Bm out here alot undercover dl,married just lazy,in prison it's ok to let other men love you fr I support you
I am with you, Queen Shiba. That is just my opinion
I absolutely love this episode. I can relate to almost every topic discussed on this episode. Keep doing y’all’s thing. ❤
We will!
I CAN'T WAIT FOR THIS. THANKS QUEEN.
Hello Queen, this was a phenomenal episode. I can't wait for the next episode!🎉
Thank you so much! 🤩
Good Afternoon Queens.
Heyyyy Sis Queen Shiba and Ladies
I love the looks! 🔥🔥🔥
Great, great segment ladies, thank you!!!
I agree with Kourtney and Queen Shiba
I LOVE this!! Great show ladies ❤
I get my whole life each time ‼️Love these beautiful ladies and great conversations 🎉🎉🎉 And Happy New Year LADIES AND PALACE 🎉🎉🎉🎉
Great conversation ladies 💚💚💚💚
Happy New Year, Queens!❤❤❤❤
Same to you!
This was a good episode can’t wait for part 2
Love this! 🫶🏾
I need more I was like noooo it’s over lol love the conversation
Looking forward to this discussion!
Excellent 🙌🏾🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I'm glad you enjoyed it! 🤩
Bravo! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
This was dope asf! Keep doing what ya’ll doing cause eww its good! I done sent it to all 3 of my sisters.
I'm glad you enjoyed it! 🥰
@yes indeed🥰
Happy New Year 🎆🎈
Happy new year
Love the conversations as usual! These are tough discussions because people are so passionate about their points of view but still conducted in a respectful manner. Thank you
I appreciate that! It's important to have these conversations respectfully.
Good conversation
This was amazing, I went thru a similar situation of the side she waiting in the wings, I let her have it. I chose me. Thanks for sharing Queens 🩷🩷🩷🩷
I'm glad you were able to choose you! ❤️
I think if you know it’s done and you aren’t coming back, I think you can date. There was no returning to my ex-husband. I agree with Millichun I took a break and then I started dating about 7 months later.
Happy New Year Queen and Palace
Another fantastic conversation!!!! Keep em coming ❤
We will!
I Totally Agree Kourtney
Excellent episode, waiting for the next one
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Hello Queen and Palace 😍
Looking at the replay
Hello Queen Sheba 😢I love everything you talk about you and Tisa you ladies are numbers one on RUclips to me you ladies are very smart and intelligent I love what you black ladies represent real talk anyway keep doing amazing job and MAKE JEHOVAH GOD KEEP BLESSINGS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY IN THE NAME OF HIS SON JESUS CHRIST AMEN 🙏 QUEEN Happy New Year 🎉🎉 sis ❤.
Happy New Year
Happy new year
Happy New Year! 🎉🎉🎉🎉 👑 Shiba, peace & blessings 2025.
Im ,,,Definitly With Sis Queen Shiba On,,This 1 i Wouldnt Date Till Im,,Divorced and,,,Healed People forget Bout That,,,Part Heal Your Self First
All of you ladies look so nice
I think if both parties are done and you have done all you can do and in most cases before most people separate and divorce you have already been having problems for years before that decision is made. Most of the time cheating is involved. Life goes on and nothing wrong with dating as long as you know you are done.
Married people dating is a dealbreaker for and why I filed for and am happily divorced. Married is married is married imo!
Good afternoon 🫅🏾Mods and Palace. Happy 2025🎉
50/50 depends on what works for your relationship/ household.
In the Divorce/dating example with Remy Ma and Pappoose. That’s different because they still live together. They need to file the papers and get out that house together. If you have filed the papers and living apart, date to your hearts content.
8:47 nope Im moving on😂 goodbye dude ✌🏾out no blurred lines. Dude we over paperwork is paperwork we aint dwelling on Not Ting!
My mom and dad was separated when I was 2 or 3 and they didn’t actually get divorced until he married my stepmom when I was 14. He had been with my stepmom since I was 7
When it's over, it's over... Once the papers are signed, there are no obligations except to move the F on!!!
What about the stay at home dads? Is 50/50 okay in this situation 🤔 😳 😊😅?
As long as you are separated and live apart and both want a divorce it's fine to move on. You don't have to wait till the actual ink dries.
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New Year’s Blessings Queen Shiba
Dudes want 50/50 but then act as if they’re doing it all.
Lol " I live my life fiction!"
there’s nothing wrong with dating while separated.
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😂😂😂😂😂
Exceptional Black men stll exist, My man, husband is retired military, currently works as an engineer makes a lot, and he pays every bill..bought us a new home, he loves all of me. I make a lot, of money. He will do anything for me and mine. He was well raised, he provides, Loves, and protects me. I met him at age 50, and he was 48.
So inspiring to hear! 🥰
IMO Woody Allen has ruined it for everyone
It seems like you’re talking about two different things. You’re talking about one spouse cheating on another and the marriage ends and then the marriage has ended, you’re separated waiting for the divorce and dating and moving on with your life
Milli I can’t do with you I live my life in fiction
Girl!!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂
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Chy I have two friends who are married to white men 😐 chyy get THE RIGHT MAN! I’ve def seen attractive white men but the attraction wasn’t enough to do anything but notice his attractiveness although I’m not against it it’s just not something I’ve really ever pursued or taken serious
Happy New Year Queens