Real People Confess Why They Cheated | Filipino | Rec•Create Confessions
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- Опубликовано: 16 сен 2024
- Have you ever wondered why cheaters cheat? In this video, cheaters open up about the real reasons behind their infidelity, sharing personal stories that led them to cross the line. From regrets to confessions, they confront the uncomfortable truth of why they cheated.
*The voices of the participants have been modified with an AI voice changer.
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it is not the courage to open up, it's the audacity.
Mismo, tol! Nasapul mo sa Itlog! Sometimes opening up about something you SHOULD be ashamed of, isn't courage... BUT SHAMELESS AUDACITY!!
Cheaters crave for love but aren’t willing to give it genuinely. Instead of facing issues in their relationship and breaking up, they choose to find someone else. Ayaw nila maging mag-isa at ma-heartbroken kaya naghahanap na lang sila ng fallback while in a relationship. And what's really annoying is when they do that just to make it look like their partner is the one at fault or lacking, even when the truth is they just don't know how to be contented.
Annoying talaga! Eto yung part ng sa babae. Nagmamahal lang sila kase natutugunan yung gusto nitanggap pag wala... wala na.
more on the guy's story only, not contended even when there is zero issues on his relationship, he did it for ego boost and vanity. while the girl's story for me, the girl was in a wrong relationship, toxic
@@o.b.c.6377 pero hindi pa rin reason yon sa girl. she can just simply leave the toxic relationship
@@yekaterina0116 yes i agree. Pero yung reason sa girl is more understandable kung bakit nya ginawa, is what im saying. Both reasons are not justified.
THIS IS A NICE CONTENT-KNOWING DIVERSE PERSPECTIVES OF VARIOUS PEOPLE ABOUT THIS!! BUT WE ALWAYS HAVE TO REMEMBER THAT THERE IS NO SUCH THING, LITERALLY NOTHING, THAT VALIDATES CHEATING. CHEATING IS CHEATING.
Cheating is sometimes validated due to societal pressures, personal insecurities, or unmet needs in relationships. Rationalizations like entitlement, dissatisfaction, or emotional neglect can lead to justifying unethical behavior.
@@pomp4401 Cheating can ONLY be validated by some parallel experiences from the same doers, which are the cheaters themselves. Dahil sila lang naman ang nagkakaintindihan. But outside the thinking of cheaters, no thing is a justification of cheating, not even "sometimes." Because the reality is, you are responsible for your traumas, insecurities, and whatever issue that you have within yourself. You cannot use these things as an excuse to cheat. That's why, you gotta work on yourself first before entering any kind of relationship, romantically in particular, for this topic. Do not project your issues, insecurities, unmet needs as a human being onto people and relationships by committing such unethical behaviour, morally wrong act.
@@pomp4401if needs are unmet in a relationship after communication , then leave. No need to cheat. It will never be justified
@@justshenn you are wrong
@@justshenn You're correct.
I can't believe I was able to watch 14 minutes' worth of pure SELFISHNESS. I'm not saying that the girl's story is more valid (Cheating is never valid!), but when compared to that guy's toxicity in the video, she's the "lesser evil" of them two, I guess. Ugh, there are no words for this guy who's a walking red flag. 🙄
Ang nakakabahala dyan kahit ganun na ang kwento nung sa side ng lalaki makaka loko pa ulit yan ng marami pang biktima
@@donndelfin1312Kawawa yung GF niya. Imagine ang bait mo sa partner mo and ganun gagawin kasi bored daw siya sayo. Like, mas gusto mo ba if salbahe ako?
There are layers to the woman who cheated on her boyfriend. She was neglected in their relationship, yet she didn't let go of him. Maybe she was hoping for her boyfriend to change and treat her better. And when she met the 2nd guy, she felt what she wanted to feel from her OG bf. Deep inside, she wanted to feel seen and appreciated, which the 2nd guy gave her. CHEATING IS WRONG- let's emphasize that... and only if she broke up with her OG bf from the start of their issues, maybe it could've been a better ending for her and the 2nd guy...
Meanwhile the guy's reason for cheating is because he found this crowning glory chick. In short, he cheated to prove something out of his friggin ego. Where most cheaters can relate 🙂
@@nxdn199x t*ng*nang ego yan
anong layers binabanat mo...MALANDI at MAKATI lang talaga siya lol!
Cheating is SOOOO wrong pero I can't help but note their different reasons.
Girl: I got neglected. The "carrying the bags" incident is a HUGE reflection kung ano yung status ng relationship nila. She found that very filler ng malaking void sa ibang lalaki.
Boy: Crowning glory, lakas makapogi pag marami kang chicks.
inang reason yan. sino ba satin ang hindi naranasan ma neglect? it's just an excuse! don't believe a cheater cus they're always a cheater. yuck!
@@hldydrmr I didn't say I believe her but ok
@@hldydrmrtrue. Cheating is cheating they picked to cheat. Pero you can’t deny the fact that cheating comes at venerable times.
For me people get tempted especially in through the hardest times but that’s really up to them when they cheat or not. As we concluded They didn’t have a strong mindset upon dealing into a relationship. Instead they do had a weak mindset kaya nila nag awa mag cheat
@@hldydrmrbut she got cheated on, lets also emphasize that. lol pag babae grabe pag lalaki okay lang? :p
Notice how they're after the excitement and thrill of the initial stage of the relationship, leaving behind the partner who stood by them through worst times. They don't value the history and commitment they've shared with their person. Cheating is cheating, and there are no valid excuses for it.
I'm referring to ALL cheaters, not just them.
Its wrong to justify “history”. Literally thats sunk cost fallacy. They couldve just left and start another relationship
I decided to left my ex the moment i realized i got cheated on. Gusto nya pang kumapit pero i chose to left kase sobrang unfair na ng situation lalo na he made me feel na he only needs me when it favors him. Umalis ako nang wala man lang narinig na sorry sa kanya despite him wanting me to stay.
See? People don't cheat because may mali sayo. Nag-cheat sila kasi pinili nila. My sympathy goes to the victims of cheating na up until now baka nag-susuffer pa rin doon sa ginawa ng mga taong nag-cheat sa kanila. Sa mga taong hanggang ngayon, hinahanap 'yung sarili nila dahil sobrang dinurog sila ng isang careless action.
Para sa mga cheater, sana mag-heal kayo at hindi na ipasa kung ano man ang meron sa inyo na hindi niyo maayos-ayos sa sarili niyo. At some point, it will hit you. Yung mga pinaggagawa niyo. It will. Tao rin kayo. Makakaramdam at makakaramdam kayo ng guilt. Makikita at makikita ninyo kung naging worth it ba yung na-inflict niyo sa partner ninyo.
I'm sorry but you have to take ownership of the consequence of your action and choices.
Sana talaga mag-heal kayo.
@@MeralynMelitante onga nang maging mabuting tao naman sila
I won't wish them to heal. I wish them hell.
Fr. The reasons are so backhanded too. Like calling yourself 'malandi' isn't a compliment and 'feeling pogi' when the only reason you're cheating is because you apparently have a nice GF who tolerates your bs. 🤡
Doon sa boy-cheater na nagsabi ng "i should set her free" and "second gf should know her place"
Son, you took yourself out kaya hindi na siya nakakulong sayo. Good for the woman na nainform siya agad, kasi boy-cheater will never ever let it known.
most of the cheaters are INSECURE.
not really, some do it for bragging rights, showing off and immaturity.
and PANGIT
@@polyento3535 those are also signs of insecurity. if you have a strong sense of self and your worth, you won't have to brag about anything.
Cheaters are narcissists. They're willing to sacrifice their relationship basta makuha lang ang gusto nila or masatisfy yung fantasy nila.
@@christineeee23 Trust me, men think differently than women. You might want to google what "immaturity" means also and maybe you'll understand what I just commented.
Natatawa talaga ako sa contrast ng dalawa 😭
Girls' perspective be like "Ang dami kong unresolved trauma dahil nag-cheat yung dati kong boyfriend sa akin noon, and he didn't care about me"
and the Guy's perspective is just:
"Yeah I was bored. We didn't have time, di naman ako umuuwi sa Pampanga. Plus the new girl is someone everyone wanted, I wanted to be king of the office!"
😭 idk idk the difference makes me laugh so hard. I believe na cheating is cheating no matter what the gender, but sometimes trash comes from different places, and some are cleaner than others (love and ego) 🤷
8:47 bro really thought he had the right to get mad
exactly, the audacity talaga
Its always the ugly ones
I have this realization about cheating that it’s not about the issue on contentment but more of an issue in being self-aware and controlling yourself. Actualy, I read or watched somewhere that people are naturally polygamous, the same as most animals are. Kumbaga, one of the instincts yun ng tao. However, tao tayo and may sariling pag-iisip compared with animals. Hence, if you let your instinct to cheat to win over you , then you are no different with animals that have no control over their actions. Parang ganun. In conclusion, cheating is a decision and will never be excused because you know it’s wrong but you still let yourself do that. Although, being self-aware and having control over yourself take alot of practice kaya naniniwala din ako na cheaters could still change for the better once they mature. Ayun!
And di excuse yung pagkukulang ng partner (kung meron man) to cheat. Kasi pwede ka naman makipagbreak if di mo na matiis talaga.
Making excuses for cheating is horrendous
They're all FOR THE STREETS!
Whoever says they are proud of cheating is telling a lie. I guess they’re just standing by their decision to avoid further shame. Just break up if you feel like you’re falling for someone else.
Fr. People who are proud of being a cheater/affair partners are almost always the type to back up when shit gets real. They call themselves baddies but still need validation from others or run away when consequences start showing up.
Cheating is cheating. No matter how you justify your action, you still choose to do wrong and cheat.
I was so shocked when he said he got mad at the second girl.
THE OTHER SIDE THAT WE'VE BEEN WAITING FOR!! ANG SAKIT SO MUCH
Cheating is still cheating. Walang reason na makakapag-justify ng panloloko mo sa partner mo.
Ang petty ng reasoning ng lalake. Cringy
Mas relatenga sa theme ung story ng lalaki kasi ung babae parang depended sya sa story na emotionally abused sya tapos sya pa pumipilit sa OG na magbago katulad ng kabit nya
The pain who got cheated on was the worst for me - unending cycles of self blame, relapses, and being hopeless. It destroyed me. But it made me smarter and wise. To my ex gf, I hope you’re happy now and I’m sorry if nagkulang ako. Jan 09, 2024 was the time we broke up and the time I’ve known you cheated
grabe iba talaga ang cheating ng babae sa lalaki. love and ego talaga.
trueee
Kapal nung muka ng side ng lalake, kesyo na bore daw, na gusto makuha ung hottest woman para ego boost. Tsk
"Love" ba talaga yun or is it their version of stroking their ego?
cheating is cheating no matter the reason what their situation was doesn't matter because yung victims nila yung totoong kawawa.
i get the vibe that the guy views women as objects…
real. yikes
At 33 years old, I’m still healing from my dad’s infidelity. Hanggang ngayon fractured ang relationships ko dahil sa nagawa ng papa ko. Hindi na ako marunong pa magtiwala sa tao. Going through therapy now but it takes WORK, TIME, and RESOURCES.
Same!
cheating is a choice, when people are insecure in their relationship they will cheat. Lack of conscience ,values and morality is dangerous. Always pray for GOD to guide you guys and always choose to do good, pag di na masaya let go! Don’t Cheat!
The Justification. 🤣 gaslighting pro max hahahaha
Kung sino pa mga panget sila pa malakas mag cheat jusko 😂😂😂
Doesn't mean na ung mga good looking should get a pass sa pag cheat. Bat di nalang maging decent and matino regardless sa itsura
Baka sa world mo lang kase na aattract mo mga panget. marami akong kilala at tropa na gwapong cheater. 😂
Yung guy na nakakaramdam ng validation sa dami ng chicks, may cinocompensate. Ano cinocompensate mo, kuya? 😂
Very Machismo core si Kuya.
ego, masculinity hahhahaha
pangit kasi kahit silhouette palang
Ratbu
Mukhang tank build version naman si kuya so baka may pera? 😂
Sobrang sakit to be cheated on. Until now hirap ako mgtiwala sa tao dahil I experienced that. 6 years na akong single and tinatanonga ko na lang kay Lord kung my tao ba talagang darating na hindi magchicheat sakin.
Kung sino pang mga panget sila pa cheater 😂
I was cheated on too. More than 10 years of relationship. We were young back then but maybe things could have been better if he told me he fell out of love and not because of someone new.
Same 10yrs na nangabet asawa ko sa boss nya sa callcenter to justify their relationship lagi nila ako pinagtutulungan na masama ako mukhang pera ako para lang mapagaan kunsensya nila
Cheating is non negotiable
pero pag may involved na bata napakahirap kumawala
All my past relationships cheated on me. Hearing all of this makes me puke. Im just praying that my husband will never cheat on me because the trauma of being betrayed , sobrang sakit at mahirap na magpatiwala.
Cheating is just an excuse for people who are insecure, emotionally unstable who finds comfort on other people instead of fixing or ending their relationship with the toxic one. It's a selfish act especially if the new person doesnt even know, they are just passing the pain to the other people. Dont make things complicated, if you're not contented and appreciated just let go.
sana yung susunod naman ung open relationship
Most people are happy in their marriage. Pero nagawa pa din nila mag cheat kasi nawala na yun newness and novelty sa relationship nila sa tagal. So na eexcite pag may bagong lover. Sa guys mostly pag msy nagkagusto pa sa kanila kahit may jowa, ka live in o asawa na sila. Feeling pogi sila o talaga pogi sila, di lang feeling. For a woman something much deeper. Maari in love sila sa mister/jowa nila. Pero may unresolved emotion, intense feelings o unfinished business sila sa isang guy. Kaya yun nagkaron uli sils ng contact, sumiklab uli yun damdamin nila. Meron nga pareho may asawa pero nagkagustuhan. Pero sa kin no excuse for chrating. You must remain loyal to your partner. Itatapon mo ba yun tumanggap sayo unconditionally and accept your past but still love you sa panandalian saya. Wag ka makipag contact sa taong may feelings ka, kinikilig ka, sexually attracted ka, may unresolved emotions and unfinished business ka sa social media.
Napaka cheap nung Manila girlfriend na crowning glory kuno. My goodness alam mo nang may jowa na pinatulan mo pa and you even have the audacity to ask him na makipag break sa unang girlfriend. Pero yung lalake, lakas maka feeling pogi. Itsura reveal nga, parang tank build naman.
HAHAH SILHOUETTE PALANG LAM MO NA , ANG PANGIT NG MGA CHEATERS
DAPAT SA GYM SILA MAG LAAN NG TIME 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Wag nyo rin tolerate if good looking man ang cheaters
@@user-dv9xx3yy8v Ofcourse!
"Pangit" or "gwapo/maganda" CHEATING IS CHEATING PERIOD
Partida na...pareho pang balyena itong dalawa lol!
came from a 7yr relationship / been cheated by my partner who is a teacher with her student :) di ako natutuwa sa mga ganito
Ui tabboo, reklamo tanggal lisensya
nakaka trigger eh no? 🙃 lagi na lang sila dapat iniintindi
It's been more than a year since I got cheated too. At the sight of this, I'm literally shaking and catching my breath. Betrayal trauma is real. :')
Kapag nagwowork sa DepEd, tanggal/revoke ang lisensya talaga, lalo't minor ung student. Kapag CHED, teacher and student relationship is no license revocation. Basta may utmost professional discretion. Pero kapag may cheating, a big NO. Since Teacher sya in the first place..
Sana pinakita niyo yun mukha para next time na makita namin yun mga cheaters, iiwasan namin sila. Iyang mga cheaters na iyan ang nagbibigay ng trauma sa mga loyal at faithful na tao
Whatever your reasons are, "The game of life is a game of boomerangs. Our thoughts, deeds, and words return to us sooner or later with astounding accuracy."
being proud that you got what you wanted in a relationship after cheating is crazy, I understand you got cheated on kase so have I pero cheating back and genuinely thinking that what you did was the right thing is delusional. I really hope rec create knew what they were doing when they let her be on the video
came here for the comment section ONLY ...why would I bother hearing their excuses??
Why 2 people lang yung ininterview?
Dapat meron ding person na nagkabalikan sila ng partner & how awkward it is to still go on kahit you both cheated
another person who still keeps cheating & why they still don't settle for one until now
another person na who got cheated on lang & never pa nagcheat
lol parang medyo common yung story, & seems like these 2 sobrang past na yung nangyari & buti walang preggy na naganap
Cheaters cheat because they choose to. Period.
Kung sino pa yung mga halatang panget physically, sila pa malakas ang loob mag cheat, syempre walang mawawala eh, najajustify ang uhaw nila.
Cheating shouldn’t be justified.
Who's justifying cheating🤷🤦
I LOVE THE GROWTH FROM THEM!!!
"Make me feel special" - yung longing ni girlfriend. Better to communicate kesa gumanti sa pain he caused you. And no you can't change people, manage your expectations and if u really can't get whatever treatment u demand. Leave. Don't cheat.
Kaya hindi pumayag yung mga kaybigan ko sa idea ng "ganti" nung nag cheat ex ko dati e. Nakakatakot raw sa feeling na baka maoverwhelm ka then sa susunod ikaw na talaga yung cheater.
I like the part that the guy is aware that a genuine lover can be rare in his life time. And that he realize the mistake of letting it slip away. I think the lesson changes him for the better.
I had this guy around March 2021, I mer him in a dating site. Our relationship lasted 1 year and 4 months, I caught him cheating on me. Pinagsabay nya kami ng kabet nya. So buong relationship namin ako pala yung kabit and I didn’t know. But now I moved on na, happy with my life and dating someone now after him. 😊
Lol, if you feel unworthy, unappreciated, unloved, and etc. na may un- LEAVE the relationship. Cheating is cheating
Ang hirap itama ng sitwasyon kasi cheating is cheating talaga kahit naiintindihan ng iba na ganon pero mali parin e
IF someone was "CHEATED ON" we can understand kung ano ang mga salitang gusto nilang sabihin ma- express lang nila ang "Hurt" na naramdaman nila, pero sa mga "NAG CHEAT", never ever use the word that they were "EMOTIONALLY ABUSED" regardless kung ano pa ang gender nila. Magpakumbaba na lang at magbago, bago mag demand ng pagbabago sa ibang tao.
Galing lang recently from almost 7 yr relationship, high school lovers pero ngayon, ipinagpalit sa malapit haha (which is workmate nya na may jowa rin). Dineny pa nya na wala talaga pero nakita ko sa post few weeks after ng breakup namin lol. Binigyan ko sya ng chance dati, coz during our freshmen yr sa college, may kaklase syang ka flirt. Therefore, once a cheater, always a cheater talaga hahaha
Cheating will always be cheating (it'sabsolutely wrong, kahit saan mo tignan)... no matter what your genders are....
Yan yung gustong gusto kong malaman. Bakit need mag cheat. Hai jusko. A big thanks sa nagcheat sakin. I'm better now.
Wow. Pure selfishness at its finest. Gusto ng genuine love that they are not willing to give..
Cheating is definitely wrong but this also gives us another perspective in a story we believe we all know. I hope we can be people who sit down, maybe agree and disagree at some parts, but mainly listen beyond the words that went out of their mouths.
There is time to speak up, but there's also a kind time to listen. Especially to the stories where we can't do anything but just merely forgive because we can't turn back time anymore.
Gets ko si girl. She was cheated on first. Kaya prang she is longing to be loved right. Kaso mali nya lng is di muna nya binreak si og bf nya. Well maybe kasi she was waiting for him to change for the better. Kaso dahil sa unexpected events nga, dahil sa panloloko ni og bf nya, si ate girl pla ang nabago..which is sad lng. Kaya pls to all genders, wag magcheat kasi di natin alam, baka bumalik sayo at makarma ka like what happened to the girl's story. Sya ung nabago, dahil nagcheat una si og bf nya.
The Last Part Thing That Someone Recovering Betrayal Needs Is To Lose Friends Or Family Members, Or To Be Criticized For The Choice To Work On Their Marriage.
3days ago?
@@jaylynmanuel3675 Yes! Tatlong Araw Na Nakalipas Opo!
paano e 4 hours ago lang uploaded yung vid
Kuhang kuha yung inis ko netong dalawa na ‘to.
proud daw sya pero ayaw ipakita mukha HAHAAHH
The only reason for cheating is NOT BEING CONTENTED. And the lack of ABILITY to communicate things. Ayun lang yun. Pwede naman kasi makipaghiwalay then bang here and bang there.
I've been there, I was that 2nd girl. kulang nalang din sabihan nya ko ng "know your place" and the worst part is I really believed him that it's my fault. in the end he chose the OG girl and she still took him back. he said he'll marry her, and i'm left alone misserable. In my defense I didn't know na may gf sya first 4 months of our situationship. He promissed to break up with the og gf for me, almost 2 years of waiting, he never did. He was so mad when I told the other girl and left me. Guys like that will never understand, aside from the guilt of dating him kahit taken na, sobrang nawalan ako ng self worth. Para akong basahan na tinapon lang.
Objectively, this video is really eye-opening to how people end up cheating with both of the persons in this video presenting two various perspectives and situations that led them to do so. It's really courageous of them to present their experiences when they did cheat with their partners knowing that they're previous experiences will be up for debate, along with their morals being questioned by us, the viewers who are complete strangers. Don't take this statement as me defending their actions as I believe that what they did was wrong (Which they did state at the end of the video), but more on pointing out how this video can help develop healthy conversations and self reflection through the various situations and perspectives presented by the two people in the video. Hopefully, they do stay true to what they said about learning from their mistakes in the past and optimistically that they've grown into better people, and hopefully to all of us who consumed this content, we can learn a thing or two by comparing our situations to theirs to avoid putting ourselves in the same positions as they did which is what led to them deciding to cheat (Example: How the woman already felt the mistreatment but still stayed.)
(More subjective part)
I didn't really appreciate how the guy was treating women as trophies (speaking as a guy myself) and started talking about how he believed getting together with this one woman would suddenly make him superior to his co-workers. I felt nauseous when he began talking about how his work GF spilled the beans to his real GF and he began talking about how she "knew her place" and how she "wasn't supposed to do that", I literally paused the video in shock because of the audacity to blame his work GF for "stepping over the line" even though it was his fault for deciding to get with her even though he himself knew he was taken and then he started blaming her for being honest to his real GF which he couldn't do. The number of times where I cringed whenever he referred to women as "chicks" just because it felt like he was treating women more like a number than actual human beings. (Which again, treating women as trophies.)
The woman, although still wrong for cheating, compared to the guy, felt more grounded in what led her to cheat. She was pushed to the edge by how (based on her recounting) less caring and unkind her BF was to her even after she caught him cheating but still decided to stay. She found what she needed in "Babe" and what she decided to do was history.
(Back to being objective)
Again, both were wrong for cheating, but it sounded like they've moved on and have realized their own wrongs. We have to remember that although we're capable and allowed to express our opinions, we have to remember that our biggest critics are always ourselves which I'm sure is true for the two people in the video. No matter what we say, nothing can ever hit as hard as what they think of themselves. Also we have to take everything with a pinch of salt knowing that this is only one side of the story and most likely will never get another side of it.
Thanks Rec•Create for another video!
teka di ako maka-move on sa pangalan na Xiavuh 😆
Tbh, I really don't care for any reason. Nagloko ka kasi feel mo neglected ka or nagloko ka kasi naboboost ego mo, either way mali pa rin. May ibang taong nasaktan at may ibang taong qquestionin nila ang self-worth nila dahil sa kasalanan nyo. I've been cheated on by an ex-bf. He prefers na maging kabit ng isang babaeng may asawa at si girl naman feel na feel niya ang ganda nya. Anyways, I simply dumped his ars3 kasi cheating is a total non-negotiable sakin. Kahit magmakaawa ka pa, wala na akong pakelam sa feelings mo. You made a choice and I made mine.
Thanks for sharing your experiences! Keep doing good 🫶🏽
CHEATING IS CHEATING. YOU CANNOT JUSTIFY IT.
Selfish ang mga CHEATER!!!!
True selish talaga miss 100 percent yan👌😁
One mistake can't be corrected by another mistake.
you really needed to cheat just to know what you want in a relationship? that's just stupid
Personally, I hate it when a woman depends so much to men. Women are not that weak, they just choose to act weak specially in front of a man, where they suddenly become this fragile being who can't even lift their bags.
So her reason sounds a bit ridiculous to me.
There might be other reasons why she felt neglected but her example sounds like an excuse to me. If she doesn't want to be treated that way she should've broken up with him before flirting with some other guy.
And calling a guy "babe" while considering it as nothing is also ridiculous 😅
So initally thats what I think about the side of the woman, but taking into consideration that what she's saying is true and some women just crave this princess treatment, then its incomparable to the guy's reason for cheating.
Her reason is she wants happiness, basically she crave her man's attention and want to be treated like a princess.
While him, he cheated for the sake of his fckng ego. To have this "chick" as his crowning glory. No feelings involved, it's all for his masculine image. Purely Disgusting. He even had the audacity to think his girlfriend will take him back omg.
The funniest part here, they're scared to be left alone. The fckn audacity. They are both selfish.
Humingi muna ng kiss, pero ang masamang part e yung kinilig sya lol
HAHSHAHZHXHhhh
I hope to hear things like this from my ex -- who used to cheat during our relationship.
Mas masakit pag babae na nag cheat, real emotions talaga unlike guys mostly for temporary happiness lang.
sexist mindset
@@thefakejet6261even our law is sexist🤣🤣🤣. "Violence agianst women and children"🤦
I was cheated with my long term rs, 4 yrs together when we got into college as a freshmen, nasa main campus ako then sya nasa ibang branch ng campus, then naging LDR ang set up namin biglang nagbago ang lahat to the point na ayaw na niya magpahawak Ng phone, na ubos ako Kaka overthink 2nd semester last month of school year, I met a boy in acquaintance gathering, sobrang gaan pakiramdam ko kapag kasama ko sya kaso lang may anak na sya pero hiwalay na sila ng nanay Ng anak niya, I'm not expecting anything na maging kami or mas maging malalim pa kung anong Meron Kami, basta ang alam KO Lang sobrang saya KO kapag kasama ko sya, our communication last almost 3 months, but I'm still with my bf pero sobrang guilty ako pero nagiging selfish nadin naman knowing na I'm cheated, I'm 18 the boy involved is 24 he graduated last school year. He's a lesson, that hurt me that much 😢
Really shtty. 😂 You'll never know the feeling of those who got cheated with. Very narcissist people who lack conscience and sympathy. Imagine the pain and struggle of losing yourself with that process, questioning your worth, self value.
not listening to allat bc the audacity to even speak is crazy. It's one of those times where I believe not everyone deserves freedom of speech. idgaf abt their reason, CHEATING IS CHEATING.
Cheating is one of the reasons why some people have so much distrust to opposite gender creating or amplifying the issues created by both misogyny and misandry. Although I think misogyny came as a underestimating women at old times not because of infidelity because women cheating was rare back then unlike now. And those men who thinks that they are hypergamous are just downright trash. One of the reason why I am still single because you take all the good girls and break and whenever I get attracted I get rejected and sometimes has to apologize to something I never did lol.
I agree that cheating is a choice but ok incel.
@@edgedeguzman3610 Of all the statements I provided you read the last one lol but I'm not really desperate for now I just settled being alone and kind of having temperamental issues so maybe that will cause me lash out of spite because of unknown status as being in a relationship. That's what happens if you also carry a parental burden called taking care of my younger brothers. Overall far from incel because I hate both misogyny and misandry because it creates division and infidelity is just one of the major reasons of this problem.
@@CliffordDLewis022 Your failures as a person and that burden of taking care of your siblings doesn't excuse that the fact you act like that. Please get help.
Difference ng babae sa lalaki, kapag sa babae internal validation kapag sa lalaki external.
They can try to justify it all they want. Cheating is still shameful. Shame!
I don’t even understand….
Kung nasa stage pakayo ng kerengkeng ninyo please do not enter into relationship kawawa lang ang mga partner niyo na nagmamahal ng totoo!
Being in a relationship isn’t just easy. But Cheating isn’t part of the ups and downs in a relationship….
“Parang pinagsabay ko sila” very wise 😅 bakit hindi ba?
Walang mabuting lalaki na pinag-aawayan ng dalawang babae. Walang matinong lalaki na ilalagay ang sarili sa ganyang sitwasyon.
Una maiinis ka sa lalaki pero bandang end ng video 9:55 -12:09 Mabibilib ka, kase may makikita kang pag-amin, accountability at pagsisisi talaga na natuto na talaga sya 100%.
10:35 Sa babae naman. As in walang accountability and pagsisisi kase "maganda naman daw yung results" Jusko po! Naging sarado na yung utak nya. Alam naman natin, na.. marami pang magandang pwedeng mangyari kung hindi sya nag cheat. Is not about the results na kung magada naging results e magiging okay kana dun sa nagawa mong bullshit. 🤦YOU CAN DO BETTER MA'AM!.
Yung sa lalaki makikita mong natuto na talaga mamahlin na nya ng tama yung next partner nya.
Sa babae naman may chance pa talaga syang mag cheat soon kase conditionally sya mag mahal na kapag hindi naging consistent si "Babe" at hindi nabibigay mga kailangan nya.. tendency hahanapin nanaman nya sa iba.
CORRECT!
“If i get this chick, i’ll be the king of the office” just say you’re insecure lmaooo
I understand the reason of Ate why she cheated, masakit Kasi tlga pag binabalewala kalng nang jowa mo, as if ibang tao ka
pero cheating pa rin yon, not justified.
CHEATING IS CHEATING. It's a choice.
There's nothing to understand. Pde naman makipag break. Ang mali di maayos ng isa pang mali
if may mali within sa relationship, wag na gumawa pa nang isang pagkaka-mali. Get out of the relationship first.
dimo naiintindihan mariel
and now i'm mad sa sarili ko dahil pinatawad ko haha
my anger issues cannot with this video 😭😭😭
My ex cheated on me and the experience wasn’t nice 😢 CHEATERS there’s nothing to be proud of.
sana talaga alam nila epekto sa mga niloloko nila
wow yung guy pa nagaassess kung sino ang matinong babae at hindi? beh assess yourself kahskshssjh
Gigil yung mga na cheat sa comsec ah.. Hihilom din po yan.
This is such BS. Cheaters should not be given the spotlight to tell their stories lol
Siguro ok to tell their stories pero dapat changed person na sila, ung nagsise na sa mga nagawang mali and di na nila inulit pa. Pero ung mga cheaters na pinagmamalaki or yabang ung mga kalokohan nila at never naging matino ang mga dapat sunugin ng buhay
There's always something to learn from bad actors. This video doesn't justify their cheating. They are just sharing their experiences for the viewers to learn more about life.
NO JUSTIFICATION will ever be good enough to say cheating is not wrong. CHEATING WILL ALWAYS BE WRONG.
DIS👏GUS👏TING👏