I was hoping to hear more of Mia’s perspective but felt like this episode was more focused on Alisha and it was just a rehashing of the episode where Alisha addresses the break up solo. I also wanted to hear more of what’s going on with Mia currently and why she’s distancing from YT.
I know I’m pretty late, but Remi is SO well spoken. I love the way she communicated her thoughts and feelings. I can clearly see how much respect and love she has for them both and I love that ❤️
Alisha seems to be the kind of friend who is super competitive and lowkey jealous of other successes. You can see Mia is so matured when it comes to this friendship, she is a lot more thoughtful and just over the situation.
Your comparing them but u can’t compare 2 diffrent personalities they both have grown from it in their own ways to be mature enough to sit in the room w the person who\u ghosted is brave in itself and so mature
I feel like using the word "ex-bff" for every video featuring Mia and Alisha is a lil too much like why do they even make a video if they are not friends anymore. It might be respectable for Alisha to address Mia as a friend or even an acquaintance instead of ex-bff.
I’m saying 🥺 the constant emphasis on it make their new friendships it seem like less-than opposed to the past or w Remi . I guess it’s for the drama factor but Bitch we know who Mia was …just say her name 😂😂
I feel like Mia saying that she felt like Alisha was using her break up as an opportunity to get back together with her as a friend was spot on! Even now. It’s been a year since truth or drink and you are using your story to benefit your podcast. Stop talking about it. Move forward. Would have loved to hear more about Mia and what she is doing now in her life. Even when she was on Lauren’s podcast. They all talk over her.
I love alishas word vomit about absolutely everything and mia sitting back with the greatest grin. Mias face totally says "why you so obsessed with me" lmao
you can tell mia is still very affected by alisha and her breakup three years ago. prime example of why friendship breakups are harder than romantic relationships
It’s crazy cause Mia and Alisha - your friendship RAISED ME. I died for the starbucks and target trips and cringe videos. That was everything to me! Feel like once you guys fell out, that era of RUclips was also dying and your subscribers too were evolving and shit. We grew up!! This was a great episode ❤️❤️❤️
Ugh thisss! Those target vlogs were a1 anyone else remember when Alisha would record Mia in Starbucks from a low angle and be like I like scones ah good times 😭👏
Seems like Alisha really wants to be friends again like she misses the nostalgia of their friendship and Mia is like I am changed and a different person who no longer wants/ or needs this relationship to grow. I would’ve loved to hear Mia some more in this episode I felt like Alisha was talking most of this episode
I think it’s because Mia has grown and realized what she DESERVES in a friendship. It seems like Alisha and Mia are in total different phases in life which is normal! Happens to a lot of us. Also Alisha is a little to full of herself to give Mia a genuine friendship it seems.
i feel like alisha is still holding onto the nostalgia of their past friendship. although, im glad mia has moved on. alisha eventually will move on as well :D
Listen I love love this BUT I feel like the whole ep after the ice breakers shouldn’t have just been about the breakup felt y’all should have touched on also why Mia left YT & how your friendship is now/ how y’all got back together. You know....? But all round love the details 😊
Totally agree but on the other podcasts Mia has been on she’s gone really deep into the reasoning behind why she left and what she does now so I felt like they didn’t want to repeat it but also I feel like they talked about it because it’s something that happened to the both of them so it made sense to talk about it on PB but amazing feedback💗
I definitely sense a competitive energy coming from Alisha to mia. Alisha even reminds me of a friend whom was kinda jealous of me and other friends and then at random moments she’d want to be super close to me then other days she’d be competitive and even very invasive. Idk i think mia is truly “ been there done that” friendship with alisha and alisha ( who lost more by the asian girl squad excluding her a lot) still a lil hung up on it. I also feel like alisha feels like she is more than other sometimes. Like more rich, too good, and a bit of a show off which can be annoying. But they are handling it all very well.
some viewers are saying that there's tension between mia and alisha, or mia and alisha are competing to say what they want during the video. But, I just think Mia is more private and hypercautious about personal relationships (such as Alisha and Mia's friendship breakup). Alisha and Remi are, in my opinion, obviously more open and vocal about their feelings/information about private things? Idk. I didn't really feel any tension between them. I thought hearing their journey was very interesting.
Exactly!! Alisha seems very open and even every open about her own mistakes and faults. Mia is more quiet and unsure what to say. Alisha is trying to move on and joke around about it while Mia is more serious about it still
This episode was kind of everywhere. Alisha's thoughts were difficult to understand. I understand certain things they might want to keep private, but I did have high hopes for this episode & I was kind of let down.
They constantly do that lol cuz this really wasn’t anything Alisha didn’t already tell us before about it. Just added that she was trying to fix it but Mia just wanted space, we don’t even know what even happened…unless what happened was Alisha being all about Alisha 🌚
Friendship breakups are very hard but sometimes when it's over and you reflect you can see how toxic the friendship actually was and it might have been for the best.. People can tolerate a lot from someone they don't want to lose and people evolve and grow, as well.. As long as you feel happy with the choice and realize that maybe that particular relationship was only meant to last for a season, it can make the pain a lot easier..
!!!! I agree 100% with this. I had a friendship breakup like 9 months ago and i'm honestly glad I stopped being friends with her bc she was toxic asf omg
This was awesome but the tension you can feel between Mia and Alisha is radiating quite big lmaooo. It looks like Mia is trying hard to not say something the whole time lmao. But then again, it could just be how she presents herself which is chill. Anyways this was great to watch!
I think that’s just the way she is lol bc she was the same way in wild til 9 , she did say she never wanted a podcast so maybe she just isn’t the most comfortable when doing them? 🤷🏽♀️
I think Mia just isn’t comfortable with podcasts. She barely contributes information. When she was on Wild til 9 it was the same thing. I feel like she’s super mellow and that’s not the vibe for either podcasts. I’m glad though that she doesn’t change her personality for podcast but like if they really wanted to talk about this they should’ve just done another RUclips video reflecting on the truth or drink.
@@laurencerousseau23 right! It seemed pointless to make this episode because they obviously know what happened but if you’re gonna get on here to talk about it but not really talk about it what’s the point? Just to prove to us that you guys are cool now? Lol
This is the first Podcast I’ve watched but I used to watch A/M/R back in their peak. Alisha seems like she hasn’t matured as much as the others have over the years. Remi and Mia have such good chemistry and would be amazing hosts together.
@@donavanalkatib I guess I didn’t write my post in the best way - I edited it now. I watched them (and grew up) watching them. Compared to Mia and Remi Alisha seems the least mature and the most stunted about that era of their life.
This whole video is Mia looking at Alisha with the “why you so obsessed with me” face. It’s very obvious Alisha is super stuck on the situation and Mia outgrew Alisha and she seems to be over the whole situation
@@jaypistolx fr it’s been like 2 years i feel like alisha is dragging it with all the wrong wayc “this is my ex best friend” we barley got to hear mia talk and she was the guest.
I watched Mia first for awhile when I was a freshman in HS (now their age), and only found out about Alisha through her and then Remi. Mia and Remi most definitely made the most impacts on me growing up, but I loved growing up and ‘adulting’ but still feeling likes kids and still going through serious situations. Like everyone said- wish Mia could have spoken more, but that’s okay. I love all three of you. Soooo much 🤍
Omg I relate to alisha so much here like when something went wrong in past friendships I always felt like I need to fix it right away instead of giving the situation time I feel so seen when she was talking about how she drove to Mia’s house wanting to save the friendship 🥺
I was hoping to hear Mia talk more about the situation and about her news. Sorry girls, not what I expected to hear on this episode. Alisha you need to give your guest the opportunity to speak by asking questions, it’s not just about you and your perspective.
I'm currently in a friendship ~stalemate~ & this just made me sob at my desk at work. Thank y'all for being so freaking transparent about this. It's helped more than you could ever know!
Same. I had a fallout too recently with a childhood friend. I just realized just now years and years of a friendship that she was never really a good hearted friend to me. So i made a conscious decision to finally leave her behind. Now i have a family and a kid and i only want real, loyal and good hearted friends. It was hard but im actually feeling much better now.
This is one of the first episodes of pretty basic that I’ve listened to and can we just take a moment and appreciate and recognize the amazing questions that remi asks?!?!
ok so to be very honest i only clicked on this video to hear the tea, but while watching it, it helped me realise what i could have done wrong in my past friendships and that everything that has happened in my past friendship could have been avoided if i hadn't gone into 'self defence' mode. and it helped me see the more mature ways of going about a friendship breakup.
I’m not done yet, but I’ll definitely look for that now when listening. I had a big friendship breakup two years ago. And I’ve always told myself it was because she was super toxic, which she was, but I would like to see how I can improve in my friendships too.
Mia never seems comfortable to speak out, she doesn’t say much and when she does it’s so low, I can’t even hear what she is saying. For some odd reason, Alisha gives me bully vibes. But who knows 🤷🏻♀️
This will always be the most iconic video on this channel. Let me tell you that I have been subscribed to Alisha and Mia since the get go. MamaMiaMakeup was so fun to watch and same with Alisha's and when I watch those videos back it feels like I'm reconnecting with my childhood self. The first RUclipsr I ever watch was them both at the same time and I never knew that they weren't friends anymore at that time. I'm 20 now and I have a job and I'm also in college and I look back after all those years and I want to thank them for making the woman I am today. Friendships are hard because I also have dealt with a lot because I was bullied a lot not just people don't want to be friends with me but they bullied me of what I looked like and why I have Down Syndrome. It affected me and it wasn't easy for me and also my parents when they found out I had it they started crying but they were also happy that I get to live a normal life. Friends come and go because I know what it is like and same with other people. When I was in Middle School I never had a best friend because I thought I wasn't good enough and then I realized that I came out of my shell and introduced myself to other people and they wanted to be my friend. After that this one person and I won't say her name was being mean and using me to get an another friend to be friends with her. When I said that to her they both started laughing and I was like you know what I have a lot of friends that do care for me and then I separated myself from them. In another episode can you girls do a friendship advice because that would help a lot. This friend I have now just can't stop blowing up my phone and it is so annoying but I also want her to know that I do want to be friends with her because she was like Remi in the middle and hearing and helping me with other friends.
Most of these comments have it all wrong. The fact that Alisha is so open about what happened, her feelings about the breakup , admitting her own wrongs, and her willingness to be friends again shows she has moved on and wants to move forward. It’s Mia who is very guarded and still holding a grudge. Alisha wants to be close again but Mia is still harboring some negative feelings. I hope Mia can finally let go of her hurt and anger because Alisha seems so much more positive and open to developing a genuine friendship with her again
Ikr these comments omg 😳 so negative like what’s wrong with everyone today! No one knows what’s happening between them and how could they possibly tell from just a video!! No one knows who they are irl or what happens behind the scenes, I hope they get closer again in the future too. 💖
@@immy9340 in truth or drink they basically said its alisha's faul why they break up... and even now alisha doesnt want to fully speak of why... she admitted she was kinda jealous of mia
just because someone doesn’t want to rekindle an old friendship doesn’t mean they’re holding some sort of grudge against the other person. they spent a few years apart and matured in different atmospheres, of course they’re not going to have the same connection they used to have and it’s completely okay if one person doesn’t want to try to get things back to the way they used to be. they’re civil enough to talk about it. mia doesn’t owe alisha her friendship.
There’s nothing wrong with not wanting to be friends with someone again. You can be nice to the person of course but you never owe anyone a friendship period.
in this situation it looks like Mia is the villain, she ghosted alisha so i feel like Mia's feelings about the break up would be blunt & harsh. it would be her explaining why she no longer wanted to be friends with alisha. Alisha was on the other end of the stick so her feelings are her being hurt & can be more easily accepted & expressed. but i agree that it seems like Mia moved on from the situation and her decision to ghost a friendship is still valid to her. alisha had no closure & didn't have any intent to leave the friendship so it's possible she's more open to having a friendship again.
Yeah, exactly. Everyone's telling Alisha to move on, which, yes, she eventually should, but anyone who has never gotten closure for something knows how mentally taxing it is and can take such a long time to recover from it. Mia doesn't appear to care much because she's the one who decided everything. She wasn't the one blind-sided and was ready for everything to come her way going forward, whereas Alisha did not.
I had my identity wrapped up in my best friendship too. It’s been 8 years and I’m just now coming to terms and not thinking about it behind the scenes. So hard! Loved the honest conversation- really brave and vulnerable
This video actually made me reconnect with my best friend that I had to break up with, thank you so much for this. We are back to normal now just because I wasn’t afraid to reach out! I love her so much and I’m so thankful to have her back in my life just because of this
ALISHA IS ME ! We take our friendship serious !!!! And we love you show off our friendships and be there for them when ever they need it and we prioritize them no matter what , so when a friendship is just a bit off we notice right away and it hurts us because we’re empaths and we hate people feeling down . I’ve learned to keep my distance now Bc sometimes we always end up more hurt than the other friend . Give it time and just always remember that everyone has their own personal things to deal with too , EVERYTHING IS NOT ALWAYS PERSONAL ♥️
I will say that it's always going to be easier for the person who initiated the breakup/is the reason for a/the fallout, since that person is the one aware of everything going on and is mentally prepared for it.
I think the “influencer” world keeps you young because I forget y’all are my age. Sometimes I feel like y’all are 25 or younger. Don’t worry about kids, Alisha! God has an amazing plan for your life! Timing is perfect for everything! I will still be happy having a kid at 35 lol. Let’s look at it as we got to enjoy our 20’s.
Next video should be like a behind the scenes of filming like what goes on, what you do to prepare, and tips+tricks for people who want to start their own podcast!!
I didn't even see this friendship dissolve in the past so obviously my viewpoint is skewed.....I didn't expect Remi to be friends with Mia to the point of her hanging out with the Asian girl squad group. I always thought she was being polite or not wanting to spark drama. It's weird being an adult and analyzing this friendship bc like ego and lack of communication was so pivotal to the hurt feelings. I still sense Alisha being willing to be friends (maybe not besties but friends again) and I can relate to way Mia seems to be like been there done that. Whatever happens in the future I hope all of the listeners take away that it's important to say what you feel and not shrink or hide your true self. :)
But Reno’s been part of the group for a long time. I personally wouldn’t stop associating with a group just because one of them stopped being friends with someone who had nothing to do with the group tbh.
@@planetley No no I agree I knew Rem was part of the squad but for a while it felt like the girls were paired off especially with Lauren and Mia so I didn't realize they were still hanging out as a group of 4 when the stuff with Alisha was going down
I love alisha and i watch her videos constantly but shes so annoying around Mia, they are def so so different now. I hate it when Alisha starts to say something and seems like its gonna be a whole explanation but then she just goes "but idk!" lol I know she prolly just doesn't know how to say what shes thinking or is maybe too embarrassed but still. its like c'mon girl spit it out lol i do agree with the other comments that she interrupted a lot and idk maybe she felt like she had to talk a lot to get her side of the story across since people were saying how they knew alisha was the toxic one.
that's part of the reason i stopped listening to PB! she just goes "but i don't know" ALL THE FUCKING TIME!! like girl? read a real book[not those basic books she's getting from amazon] and expand your vocabulary instead of saying "like" or "idk" every two words! i always lost the story she was telling because of that habit she has with these two words!
@@sharonb6870 I know!! It's like she knows like 5 words in english..so sad to think she's like 28? 27? And has such a bad level of english(it's even sadder to think it's her first and only language and still has such low english skills.).
I’m so proud of Alisha being so much mature than her past. I can relate more to Alisha’s pov because I also had the same experience. I really wanted to be friends with the person that I loved the most but I fucked up. I always blamed him and I suddenly realized that I was also in the wrong too. Maybe not all friendships do exist or are meant to be. I love both and love how they situated the situation maturely. I think that what alisha meant is that she just dosen’t wanna have any beef with anyone in her life which i really understand and I wanted to do that too. They’re all grown up and hopefully they’ll have a better future than the past.
i love that it seems they have genuine love for each other, like yall show what its like to be mature and to be loving towards other humans. keep it up babes
Ow I totally get how Alisha felt and feels maybe now, I'm just so happy to see that things really are temporarily and I am so happy that they get to be friends again, not everyone who goes through a friendship breakup ever gets to be close again, but you know it really warms my heart to see Alisha happy and relieved that everything is ok between them :3
Omg this explains so much! I started watching everyone else after Remi posted the big bear video but didn’t understand the drama afterwards! Now I know 😂
This reminds me of my most important friendship breakup. I was like how you guys were and respectful and ask people to not speak poorly of my ex best friend even when she was talking crap about me to absolutely everyone. She even ended up teaming up with another fallen friendship that she had know of while we were still friends. Now we’re corigal, (and sometimes hangout but only to go out with some mutual friends) but we both know it will never ever get back to that place ever again. It’s another unspoken thing that hurts to realize every time. The only time i’ve seen us have some hope is when we’re both out and drunk just us two dancing or whatever else we’d do when we were younger
As a Japanese, I see some cultural differences playing a role in their story🇺🇸🇯🇵 Mia's gotten a bit of Japanese blood, so she can be quiet at times which means a tendency to not vocalize own opinions. That's totally fine because it's culture! America teaches kids to speak up while Japan nurtures kids to suppress emotions and "read the air"🌸 I hope Alisha and Mia both thrive by understanding each other through recognizing these cultural differences💗
I just recently followed you guys so didn't know the history of all this, but I experienced a friendship and friendship breakup pretty similar to this. The supper close borderline romantic but not dynamic to then getting distant but no one is talking about it. Ooo friendship breakups suck worse than romantic ones!
Someone once said to me that friends are either in your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. Maybe Mia and Alisha had a season of friendship that was wonderful and needed at the time, and that season ended. It's normal for people to grow and change, and not always at the same rate. Nothing to say that down the line, there won't be another season, but it will be different from the last.
I low key feel like I’m eavesdropping on a therapy session. Like it almost doesn’t feel like a podcast? Anyone else? I’m loving being able to understand why the two of the people who raised me had a fallout tho
Thank you so much for this. I am going through a friend ship break up right now. Two friends that have been in my life for 26 and 28 years. I am trying to learn how to set boundaries and grow as me. I appreciate this SO much. Hopefully I find my Remi ❤
Why didn't Alisha let Mia talk enough? I get that is her podcast but what is the point of inviting Mia and not letting her talk?... Anyways, I used to like the both of them but now I can't understand Alisha's attitud. Ps. Remi and Mia do look nice and confortable.
I loved this episode, but had to stop listening on Spotify because of the paddle game. It wasn’t super podcast friendly and I felt like I didn’t know what’s as going on. Would love if you took this into consideration as I like to listen to PB too
i’ve started watching since they started recording the episodes for YT but i’ve also found myself thinking “if someone were just listening they wouldn’t understand anything” i felt in the last episode they did more visual things too. they’ve seem to do that since starting to record the podcast so i’m glad you mentioned it too and wasn’t just me lol
Honestly, from all the things they have said, Alisha def was the one that was not being honest or communicated well from what they have talked about. Glad they were able to reconnect though.
It's been (gosh I feel old) 15 years since I was 15 and was inseparable from my BFF at the time. We were as close as sisters and 1 day she became a popular bully. We stopped being friends for a long time and it still hurts me bad but we are finally friendly and we care about each other but it's not the same anymore,,to much hurt. Friendship breakups are truly the worst.
i really loved watching .i have been through friendship break up. what happened was the girl i was friends with believed the shit others said about me and NEVER talked with me , and out of no where stared ignoring me , i was so heart broken , she didn't tell what went wrong like what was the reason. i was like wtf .....then we drifted away...it was important year for me in studies so i had to deal with it and forget about it. i cried myself to sleep for like 2 and half weeks, then corona happened , in the pandamic i got to know all the things and went trough another friendship break up.... thankfully i had one friend with me ... she knew i have been going through shit and to other people they would think i am totally fine cause i am good at hiding my emotions. they didn't knew i was crying myself to sleep . so i stopped talking with everyone. i would just have small chat , i would just talk to my one and only friend, at that time i thought and realised i don't need anybody to live my life happily , but the bubbly side of me was gone . after like 1 and half year she reached out to me and apologized cause she got to know that i had always been the loyal friend , we talked about things, now she consider me as her best friend and i also she is a good friend of mine. because of all things i have trust issues like i can't trust people that easily now. my bubbly side is coming to life little by little. the reason i feel so sad and angry is i don't know what i did to deserve this. i have always been a loyal and good friend . funny thing is even though all this happened i didn't say any of her secret to anyone cause it is against my rules. so been through a lot but it taught me a lot of things. i became mature at really early age cause i was 15 when all these happened, i am 17 now and happier and i got my sister (that one friend who was with me all the time). so i am happy now.
I feel like alisha has not matured and is always wants to be center of attention. I stopped watching her a while back since her channel just changed so much and it was all about her, her, her! Mia I haven’t kept up with either but she’s always more genuine and down to earth.
However your friendship is now I am just so glad to see how real you are and explaining it all!! I have always been struggling to maintain friendship so this is very relatable to me. Misinformation and miscomunication is something that can break a friendship…
I was a remi watcher who switched over to loving Alisha after the podcast, so I am BEHIND on the drama. I didn’t even know Mia and Alisha knew each other before their truth or drink 💀But I am living for this 🙏
I am a new member of the Alisha, Mia, and Remi fandom but I love seeing them all interact. It just shows how you can recover from something hard. Every situation is different but I love there energy.
This is the difference between friendships in your twenties and your thirties! Priorities change, babies come, relationships happen, schedule conflicts…. All the things. The youthfulness of the twenties begins to wear off and the monotony of the thirties sets in and makes you miss your “old” life. It’s a hard transition and I’m trying to navigate it myself.
I love that you're able to talk everything through now, openly and honestly, and admitting to your own faults. I can relate to this a ton... having a friend so close that never crosses a relationship line but is feeling every part of the friendship as if it is. It truly gives you a broken heart but time can heal and this shows it! Thank you for being brave and sharing!
This almost exact situation has happened to me and one of my bestfriends. I understand both sides so much and I'm glad that i was able to talk to her like you guys are right now.
very tense… just different energies. Mia doesn’t seem very talkative, the wild til 9 was the same vibe as well. Alisha is so hurt, She really wants to be in her life again but Mia seems to be putting up a wall
This was so great! Thank you guys for opening up as much as you did I feel like everyone can kinda relate to a friendship breakup. It’s nice to hear how much love you guys had for one another even though you guys were still upset at each other. Sometimes people need grow apart to come back together and sometimes people are in your life for a little but you can always learn from them and let go. Anyways nice podcast Also remi is a mature queen and I stan
I know ppl are saying that Mia isn't getting a chance to speak but I feel like she didn't want to add to the conversation. She's fine just leaving certain things to herself/private.
YALL NEED TO LEAVE MY GIRL ALISHAAAAA ALONEEEE. They have both matured just in different ways. Mia seems a lot more chill and to herself. But Alisha is being honest here and this is commendable. A lot of people can not admit jealousy to a person they called their best friend. They have both DEFINITELY MATURED.
Watching this two years later and wow! The fact Remi has traveled outside the country with Mia already and went to Japan is crazy. I love that for her ♥️
it’s kinda true when mia said how she felt that alisha only wanted to talk or become friends again when she went through her breakup and the big bear trip. it’s like she only wanted to fix it cuz it affected her, she only cared about it when she found out about the breakup through someone else and not her and she wanted to be the one mia would reach out to and she wanted the big bear trip to be more peaceful and calm and so she wouldn’t have to worry about it. it’s mostly about herself and not actually mia.
I was hoping to hear more of Mia’s perspective but felt like this episode was more focused on Alisha and it was just a rehashing of the episode where Alisha addresses the break up solo. I also wanted to hear more of what’s going on with Mia currently and why she’s distancing from YT.
I agree so much, it was so repetitive :/
I agree, but when did she address it solo? I’d love to watch that too!
the world revolves around Alinda. thats why I unfollowed her she is obsessed w herself and its cringe
@@lindsaylohana4856 I totally agree! I was looking forward more of Mia’s perspective on the issue.
Alisha was seeking closure but mia is so stubborn which she is entitled to be but this episode is weird
I know I’m pretty late, but Remi is SO well spoken. I love the way she communicated her thoughts and feelings. I can clearly see how much respect and love she has for them both and I love that ❤️
Ikr! God, Remi is such a delight. What a gorgeous human being 😍
I agreeeeee
Alisha seems to be the kind of friend who is super competitive and lowkey jealous of other successes. You can see Mia is so matured when it comes to this friendship, she is a lot more thoughtful and just over the situation.
agree
I just started watching PB and I noticed immediately that Alisha acts extremely petty whenever Remi gets more recognition or success then her
Your comparing them but u can’t compare 2 diffrent personalities they both have grown from it in their own ways to be mature enough to sit in the room w the person who\u ghosted is brave in itself and so mature
AGREE.
@@finalspace297 THISSS
I feel like using the word "ex-bff" for every video featuring Mia and Alisha is a lil too much like why do they even make a video if they are not friends anymore. It might be respectable for Alisha to address Mia as a friend or even an acquaintance instead of ex-bff.
Or even just address her as “Mia”
I’m saying 🥺 the constant emphasis on it make their new friendships it seem like less-than opposed to the past or w Remi . I guess it’s for the drama factor but Bitch we know who Mia was …just say her name 😂😂
They emphasize it for clickbait I would imagine
mia does legit the same thing LMAO
I feel like Mia saying that she felt like Alisha was using her break up as an opportunity to get back together with her as a friend was spot on! Even now. It’s been a year since truth or drink and you are using your story to benefit your podcast. Stop talking about it. Move forward. Would have loved to hear more about Mia and what she is doing now in her life. Even when she was on Lauren’s podcast. They all talk over her.
BROOOOO COME TF DOWN! MIA IS THE ONE WHO SAID YES TO IT! Jesus christ
It’s like they’re trying to silence her. Maybe they did her dirty and that’s why they don’t want us to see her side of the story
Hey if they are able to work it out between themselves no need to spread hate.
@@sumayasaid3715 bro she can come on her channel and talk about any time, don’t need to make it so controversial and deep
I love alishas word vomit about absolutely everything and mia sitting back with the greatest grin. Mias face totally says "why you so obsessed with me" lmao
Time stamp?
which part?
When?
MA’AM TIME STAMP?
She’s a grudge holder she should jus get over it
you can tell mia is still very affected by alisha and her breakup three years ago. prime example of why friendship breakups are harder than romantic relationships
mia didn’t seem bothered or fazed by any of alisha’s comments she didn’t contribute to the convo
Nah I feel like they both were affected just some are better at hiding it x
the way Alisha was the one mostly talking about the friendship break up..we hardly got to hear Mia’s side
Right! I wanted to hear Mia’s side more.
She must of did something wrong and deceitful to Alisha
It’s crazy cause Mia and Alisha - your friendship RAISED ME. I died for the starbucks and target trips and cringe videos. That was everything to me! Feel like once you guys fell out, that era of RUclips was also dying and your subscribers too were evolving and shit. We grew up!! This was a great episode ❤️❤️❤️
Me too sis♡
Me too😩😩
Same!! 🙌🏽 Even Alex was a big part of that era of life for me too. 🤷🏽♀️
I know o was thinking the same! I loved the cringe videos
Ugh thisss! Those target vlogs were a1 anyone else remember when Alisha would record Mia in Starbucks from a low angle and be like I like scones ah good times 😭👏
Seems like Alisha really wants to be friends again like she misses the nostalgia of their friendship and Mia is like I am changed and a different person who no longer wants/ or needs this relationship to grow.
I would’ve loved to hear Mia some more in this episode I felt like Alisha was talking most of this episode
I think it’s because Mia has grown and realized what she DESERVES in a friendship. It seems like Alisha and Mia are in total different phases in life which is normal! Happens to a lot of us. Also Alisha is a little to full of herself to give Mia a genuine friendship it seems.
@@dudulovesbubu6 yess
@@dudulovesbubu6 you clearly dont watch alisha's videos cause if you did the last thing you would call her is full of herself.
@@dassah.a3199 I actually watch her videos every week thank you. But everyone is entitled to their opinion.
@@dudulovesbubu6 I don’t think that’s the reason at all I feel like Mia is just a more quiet, reserved character who only speaks up if needed x
i feel like alisha is still holding onto the nostalgia of their past friendship. although, im glad mia has moved on. alisha eventually will move on as well :D
Listen I love love this BUT I feel like the whole ep after the ice breakers shouldn’t have just been about the breakup felt y’all should have touched on also why Mia left YT & how your friendship is now/ how y’all got back together. You know....? But all round love the details 😊
Totally agree but on the other podcasts Mia has been on she’s gone really deep into the reasoning behind why she left and what she does now so I felt like they didn’t want to repeat it but also I feel like they talked about it because it’s something that happened to the both of them so it made sense to talk about it on PB but amazing feedback💗
@Dennis Martinez she talked more about it on wild til 9 with Jeremy and Lauren
@@ciaralisnegron4493 ouhsu
Agreed
I definitely sense a competitive energy coming from Alisha to mia. Alisha even reminds me of a friend whom was kinda jealous of me and other friends and then at random moments she’d want to be super close to me then other days she’d be competitive and even very invasive. Idk i think mia is truly “ been there done that” friendship with alisha and alisha ( who lost more by the asian girl squad excluding her a lot) still a lil hung up on it. I also feel like alisha feels like she is more than other sometimes. Like more rich, too good, and a bit of a show off which can be annoying. But they are handling it all very well.
Just by this comment goes to show you don’t even watch her vlogs so just stop assuming 🙄
OMG!!! I’ve had a friend just like this. I had to take a step back, we’re still in each other’s life but on a different level of friendship now
Remy is honestly the supportive friend everyone needs in their life
some viewers are saying that there's tension between mia and alisha, or mia and alisha are competing to say what they want during the video. But, I just think Mia is more private and hypercautious about personal relationships (such as Alisha and Mia's friendship breakup). Alisha and Remi are, in my opinion, obviously more open and vocal about their feelings/information about private things? Idk. I didn't really feel any tension between them. I thought hearing their journey was very interesting.
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this is what I was thinking.
Exactly!! Alisha seems very open and even every open about her own mistakes and faults. Mia is more quiet and unsure what to say. Alisha is trying to move on and joke around about it while Mia is more serious about it still
This episode was kind of everywhere. Alisha's thoughts were difficult to understand. I understand certain things they might want to keep private, but I did have high hopes for this episode & I was kind of let down.
They constantly do that lol cuz this really wasn’t anything Alisha didn’t already tell us before about it. Just added that she was trying to fix it but Mia just wanted space, we don’t even know what even happened…unless what happened was Alisha being all about Alisha 🌚
Very let down
@@Mollywashere thb it sounds like it was her being all about herself
Friendship breakups are very hard but sometimes when it's over and you reflect you can see how toxic the friendship actually was and it might have been for the best.. People can tolerate a lot from someone they don't want to lose and people evolve and grow, as well.. As long as you feel happy with the choice and realize that maybe that particular relationship was only meant to last for a season, it can make the pain a lot easier..
!!!! I agree 100% with this. I had a friendship breakup like 9 months ago and i'm honestly glad I stopped being friends with her bc she was toxic asf omg
This was awesome but the tension you can feel between Mia and Alisha is radiating quite big lmaooo. It looks like Mia is trying hard to not say something the whole time lmao. But then again, it could just be how she presents herself which is chill. Anyways this was great to watch!
I see it too. Cringey.
Nope I felt that way too.
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I think that’s just the way she is lol bc she was the same way in wild til 9 , she did say she never wanted a podcast so maybe she just isn’t the most comfortable when doing them? 🤷🏽♀️
Alisha is the type to do shady shit & then act like she doesn’t know why someone doesn’t like her, & want to be close to people she doesn’t even like
how so?
Omg yes
Yup
She literally admitted to her toxicity during this entire podcast?? Some of y’all are so stupid
REM being a whole ass therapist and mature adult 👏🏽👏🏽
I think Mia just isn’t comfortable with podcasts. She barely contributes information. When she was on Wild til 9 it was the same thing. I feel like she’s super mellow and that’s not the vibe for either podcasts. I’m glad though that she doesn’t change her personality for podcast but like if they really wanted to talk about this they should’ve just done another RUclips video reflecting on the truth or drink.
I think they didn't give her any chances to really talk and express herself, Alisha kepts adding pointless comments without adding information
@@laurencerousseau23 right! It seemed pointless to make this episode because they obviously know what happened but if you’re gonna get on here to talk about it but not really talk about it what’s the point? Just to prove to us that you guys are cool now? Lol
@@Mollywashere exactly... It was a pointless episode. How long are they going to milk that story without saying a thing 😬
They didn't even let mia talk about herself I was wondering what she has been up to recently but this whole thing was ab the friendship breakup
Mia’s style is so pretty!!!! Her hair, her makeup, her tattoos, she’s iconic!
Mia is such an unbothered queen.
This is the first Podcast I’ve watched but I used to watch A/M/R back in their peak. Alisha seems like she hasn’t matured as much as the others have over the years. Remi and Mia have such good chemistry and would be amazing hosts together.
you clearly do not know the way Alisha was like before. she has matured a lot! its your first time watching too...
@@donavanalkatib I guess I didn’t write my post in the best way - I edited it now. I watched them (and grew up) watching them. Compared to Mia and Remi Alisha seems the least mature and the most stunted about that era of their life.
This whole video is Mia looking at Alisha with the “why you so obsessed with me” face. It’s very obvious Alisha is super stuck on the situation and Mia outgrew Alisha and she seems to be over the whole situation
lmaooo i caught the same vibe!
@@jaypistolx fr it’s been like 2 years i feel like alisha is dragging it with all the wrong wayc “this is my ex best friend” we barley got to hear mia talk and she was the guest.
Which is why its very devastating for alisha
@@letsjazzitup it’s been two years she really needs to stop, accept things aren’t going to be the same and move on like everyone else in the situation
@@princess-ky2iq mia legit does the same thing. its probably a mutually agreed publicity type thing, because lets be honest these get views
I watched Mia first for awhile when I was a freshman in HS (now their age), and only found out about Alisha through her and then Remi. Mia and Remi most definitely made the most impacts on me growing up, but I loved growing up and ‘adulting’ but still feeling likes kids and still going through serious situations.
Like everyone said- wish Mia could have spoken more, but that’s okay. I love all three of you. Soooo much 🤍
Friendship break ups are the worst. Alisha’s POV going through the breakup is too relatable. Seems like she still would like to be friends with Mia
well they are friends again or at least working on it. they filmed a video together a few months ago and they seemed fine
Remi truly deserves so much props for this
Omg I relate to alisha so much here like when something went wrong in past friendships I always felt like I need to fix it right away instead of giving the situation time I feel so seen when she was talking about how she drove to Mia’s house wanting to save the friendship 🥺
That is so me too
Same…
I was hoping to hear Mia talk more about the situation and about her news.
Sorry girls, not what I expected to hear on this episode.
Alisha you need to give your guest the opportunity to speak by asking questions, it’s not just about you and your perspective.
I still feel like Mia isn't telling everything that she feels which is fine, it's her choice. Also Alisha talking most of the time doesn't help lol.
I'm currently in a friendship ~stalemate~ & this just made me sob at my desk at work. Thank y'all for being so freaking transparent about this. It's helped more than you could ever know!
Same. I had a fallout too recently with a childhood friend. I just realized just now years and years of a friendship that she was never really a good hearted friend to me. So i made a conscious decision to finally leave her behind. Now i have a family and a kid and i only want real, loyal and good hearted friends. It was hard but im actually feeling much better now.
This is one of the first episodes of pretty basic that I’ve listened to and can we just take a moment and appreciate and recognize the amazing questions that remi asks?!?!
omg mia is so wholesome!!! such a beautiful soul :) she must be the coolest bestie to have
ok so to be very honest i only clicked on this video to hear the tea, but while watching it, it helped me realise what i could have done wrong in my past friendships and that everything that has happened in my past friendship could have been avoided if i hadn't gone into 'self defence' mode. and it helped me see the more mature ways of going about a friendship breakup.
I’m not done yet, but I’ll definitely look for that now when listening. I had a big friendship breakup two years ago. And I’ve always told myself it was because she was super toxic, which she was, but I would like to see how I can improve in my friendships too.
Mia never seems comfortable to speak out, she doesn’t say much and when she does it’s so low, I can’t even hear what she is saying. For some odd reason, Alisha gives me bully vibes. But who knows 🤷🏻♀️
That's what I'm saying I feel like she was a highschool bully she really gives me bully vibes fr fr
Agree she is a bully remember Jonmarie she was bully by alisha she just not nice person
This will always be the most iconic video on this channel. Let me tell you that I have been subscribed to Alisha and Mia since the get go. MamaMiaMakeup was so fun to watch and same with Alisha's and when I watch those videos back it feels like I'm reconnecting with my childhood self. The first RUclipsr I ever watch was them both at the same time and I never knew that they weren't friends anymore at that time. I'm 20 now and I have a job and I'm also in college and I look back after all those years and I want to thank them for making the woman I am today. Friendships are hard because I also have dealt with a lot because I was bullied a lot not just people don't want to be friends with me but they bullied me of what I looked like and why I have Down Syndrome. It affected me and it wasn't easy for me and also my parents when they found out I had it they started crying but they were also happy that I get to live a normal life. Friends come and go because I know what it is like and same with other people. When I was in Middle School I never had a best friend because I thought I wasn't good enough and then I realized that I came out of my shell and introduced myself to other people and they wanted to be my friend. After that this one person and I won't say her name was being mean and using me to get an another friend to be friends with her. When I said that to her they both started laughing and I was like you know what I have a lot of friends that do care for me and then I separated myself from them. In another episode can you girls do a friendship advice because that would help a lot. This friend I have now just can't stop blowing up my phone and it is so annoying but I also want her to know that I do want to be friends with her because she was like Remi in the middle and hearing and helping me with other friends.
Mia was always the most genuine in the friend group
I fucking love mias energy. She’s always seemed the most genuine. She never exploited the breakup or drama..
Most of these comments have it all wrong. The fact that Alisha is so open about what happened, her feelings about the breakup , admitting her own wrongs, and her willingness to be friends again shows she has moved on and wants to move forward. It’s Mia who is very guarded and still holding a grudge. Alisha wants to be close again but Mia is still harboring some negative feelings. I hope Mia can finally let go of her hurt and anger because Alisha seems so much more positive and open to developing a genuine friendship with her again
Does i matter tho yall will never know the truth soooo
Ikr these comments omg 😳 so negative like what’s wrong with everyone today! No one knows what’s happening between them and how could they possibly tell from just a video!! No one knows who they are irl or what happens behind the scenes, I hope they get closer again in the future too. 💖
@@immy9340 in truth or drink they basically said its alisha's faul why they break up... and even now alisha doesnt want to fully speak of why... she admitted she was kinda jealous of mia
just because someone doesn’t want to rekindle an old friendship doesn’t mean they’re holding some sort of grudge against the other person. they spent a few years apart and matured in different atmospheres, of course they’re not going to have the same connection they used to have and it’s completely okay if one person doesn’t want to try to get things back to the way they used to be. they’re civil enough to talk about it. mia doesn’t owe alisha her friendship.
There’s nothing wrong with not wanting to be friends with someone again. You can be nice to the person of course but you never owe anyone a friendship period.
in this situation it looks like Mia is the villain, she ghosted alisha so i feel like Mia's feelings about the break up would be blunt & harsh. it would be her explaining why she no longer wanted to be friends with alisha. Alisha was on the other end of the stick so her feelings are her being hurt & can be more easily accepted & expressed. but i agree that it seems like Mia moved on from the situation and her decision to ghost a friendship is still valid to her. alisha had no closure & didn't have any intent to leave the friendship so it's possible she's more open to having a friendship again.
Yeah, exactly. Everyone's telling Alisha to move on, which, yes, she eventually should, but anyone who has never gotten closure for something knows how mentally taxing it is and can take such a long time to recover from it. Mia doesn't appear to care much because she's the one who decided everything. She wasn't the one blind-sided and was ready for everything to come her way going forward, whereas Alisha did not.
haven't even listened and already can tell its going to be one of my favs
I had my identity wrapped up in my best friendship too. It’s been 8 years and I’m just now coming to terms and not thinking about it behind the scenes. So hard! Loved the honest conversation- really brave and vulnerable
This video actually made me reconnect with my best friend that I had to break up with, thank you so much for this. We are back to normal now just because I wasn’t afraid to reach out! I love her so much and I’m so thankful to have her back in my life just because of this
ALISHA IS ME ! We take our friendship serious !!!! And we love you show off our friendships and be there for them when ever they need it and we prioritize them no matter what , so when a friendship is just a bit off we notice right away and it hurts us because we’re empaths and we hate people feeling down . I’ve learned to keep my distance now Bc sometimes we always end up more hurt than the other friend . Give it time and just always remember that everyone has their own personal things to deal with too , EVERYTHING IS NOT ALWAYS PERSONAL ♥️
i love that Alisha is so salty while mia is unbothered
what did she say that suggests that? other than the "vibe" i dont see anything
I will say that it's always going to be easier for the person who initiated the breakup/is the reason for a/the fallout, since that person is the one aware of everything going on and is mentally prepared for it.
Right because she don't care and that's not right smh
I feel as though Mia should’ve been given the floor to talk a bit more, Alisha was talking way too much when Mia is the guest. Good episode though.
I think the “influencer” world keeps you young because I forget y’all are my age. Sometimes I feel like y’all are 25 or younger. Don’t worry about kids, Alisha! God has an amazing plan for your life! Timing is perfect for everything! I will still be happy having a kid at 35 lol. Let’s look at it as we got to enjoy our 20’s.
Next video should be like a behind the scenes of filming like what goes on, what you do to prepare, and tips+tricks for people who want to start their own podcast!!
I didn't even see this friendship dissolve in the past so obviously my viewpoint is skewed.....I didn't expect Remi to be friends with Mia to the point of her hanging out with the Asian girl squad group. I always thought she was being polite or not wanting to spark drama.
It's weird being an adult and analyzing this friendship bc like ego and lack of communication was so pivotal to the hurt feelings.
I still sense Alisha being willing to be friends (maybe not besties but friends again) and I can relate to way Mia seems to be like been there done that.
Whatever happens in the future I hope all of the listeners take away that it's important to say what you feel and not shrink or hide your true self. :)
But Reno’s been part of the group for a long time. I personally wouldn’t stop associating with a group just because one of them stopped being friends with someone who had nothing to do with the group tbh.
@@planetley No no I agree I knew Rem was part of the squad but for a while it felt like the girls were paired off especially with Lauren and Mia so I didn't realize they were still hanging out as a group of 4 when the stuff with Alisha was going down
I love alisha and i watch her videos constantly but shes so annoying around Mia, they are def so so different now. I hate it when Alisha starts to say something and seems like its gonna be a whole explanation but then she just goes "but idk!" lol I know she prolly just doesn't know how to say what shes thinking or is maybe too embarrassed but still. its like c'mon girl spit it out lol i do agree with the other comments that she interrupted a lot and idk maybe she felt like she had to talk a lot to get her side of the story across since people were saying how they knew alisha was the toxic one.
Yesss you explained it perfectly
that's part of the reason i stopped listening to PB! she just goes "but i don't know" ALL THE FUCKING TIME!!
like girl? read a real book[not those basic books she's getting from amazon] and expand your vocabulary instead of saying "like" or "idk" every two words! i always lost the story she was telling because of that habit she has with these two words!
@@shirosh809 girl preach!!! Like she’s taking pretty basic a little too literally
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I know!! It's like she knows like 5 words in english..so sad to think she's like 28? 27? And has such a bad level of english(it's even sadder to think it's her first and only language and still has such low english skills.).
I’m so proud of Alisha being so much mature than her past. I can relate more to Alisha’s pov because I also had the same experience. I really wanted to be friends with the person that I loved the most but I fucked up. I always blamed him and I suddenly realized that I was also in the wrong too. Maybe not all friendships do exist or are meant to be. I love both and love how they situated the situation maturely. I think that what alisha meant is that she just dosen’t wanna have any beef with anyone in her life which i really understand and I wanted to do that too. They’re all grown up and hopefully they’ll have a better future than the past.
i love that it seems they have genuine love for each other, like yall show what its like to be mature and to be loving towards other humans. keep it up babes
Ow I totally get how Alisha felt and feels maybe now, I'm just so happy to see that things really are temporarily and I am so happy that they get to be friends again, not everyone who goes through a friendship breakup ever gets to be close again, but you know it really warms my heart to see Alisha happy and relieved that everything is ok between them :3
Omg this explains so much! I started watching everyone else after Remi posted the big bear video but didn’t understand the drama afterwards! Now I know 😂
This reminds me of my most important friendship breakup. I was like how you guys were and respectful and ask people to not speak poorly of my ex best friend even when she was talking crap about me to absolutely everyone. She even ended up teaming up with another fallen friendship that she had know of while we were still friends. Now we’re corigal, (and sometimes hangout but only to go out with some mutual friends) but we both know it will never ever get back to that place ever again. It’s another unspoken thing that hurts to realize every time. The only time i’ve seen us have some hope is when we’re both out and drunk just us two dancing or whatever else we’d do when we were younger
As a Japanese, I see some cultural differences playing a role in their story🇺🇸🇯🇵 Mia's gotten a bit of Japanese blood, so she can be quiet at times which means a tendency to not vocalize own opinions. That's totally fine because it's culture! America teaches kids to speak up while Japan nurtures kids to suppress emotions and "read the air"🌸 I hope Alisha and Mia both thrive by understanding each other through recognizing these cultural differences💗
remi is half korean, and theyre also neturally polite, i dont think being japanese automatically means youre quiet
Well said. Koreans and Japanese might look familiar but their cultures are quite different.
Don’t think this has to do with anything as she has an OF. Shy where
I wish Mia was allowed time to tell her side of the situation.
needed to give the guest (Mia) way more time to talk and explain her side. Alisha we know how you feel already 😂😂😂
Sadly Alisha doesnt seem genuine at all. Thinks she's above everyone else
I just recently followed you guys so didn't know the history of all this, but I experienced a friendship and friendship breakup pretty similar to this. The supper close borderline romantic but not dynamic to then getting distant but no one is talking about it. Ooo friendship breakups suck worse than romantic ones!
girllllll i know exactly what u mean!!!
Seriously 😭
I'm a quarter in this episode and ya'll already made my day better... Luv ya'll
Someone once said to me that friends are either in your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. Maybe Mia and Alisha had a season of friendship that was wonderful and needed at the time, and that season ended. It's normal for people to grow and change, and not always at the same rate. Nothing to say that down the line, there won't be another season, but it will be different from the last.
I low key feel like I’m eavesdropping on a therapy session. Like it almost doesn’t feel like a podcast? Anyone else? I’m loving being able to understand why the two of the people who raised me had a fallout tho
This is a really good episode but I still feel a bit of tension watching this between alisha and Mia is it just me feeling that?
Yup
no i felt like i noticed that too, like alisha could barely look at mia in the eyes
Thank you so much for this. I am going through a friend ship break up right now. Two friends that have been in my life for 26 and 28 years. I am trying to learn how to set boundaries and grow as me. I appreciate this SO much. Hopefully I find my Remi ❤
I feel like Alisha wants to keep their friendship alive but Mia’s moved on.
Why didn't Alisha let Mia talk enough? I get that is her podcast but what is the point of inviting Mia and not letting her talk?... Anyways, I used to like the both of them but now I can't understand Alisha's attitud. Ps. Remi and Mia do look nice and confortable.
Would like to hear Mia talk more, Alisha kinda rambled and was all over the place but I think she was just nervous
I loved this episode, but had to stop listening on Spotify because of the paddle game. It wasn’t super podcast friendly and I felt like I didn’t know what’s as going on. Would love if you took this into consideration as I like to listen to PB too
What pádel game
same!!! I stopped listening after that
i’ve started watching since they started recording the episodes for YT but i’ve also found myself thinking “if someone were just listening they wouldn’t understand anything” i felt in the last episode they did more visual things too. they’ve seem to do that since starting to record the podcast so i’m glad you mentioned it too and wasn’t just me lol
Same, I used to listen while taking walks and it was really great, but now I feel like if I don’t watch I won’t understand what’s happening
Came here to say the same thing. I know they’re proud of the new studio but felt like this should have just been a video and not a podcast
Mia should come again and talk more, I love her and want to hear more of her and her life (as far as she's willing to talk about that is)
I really this so too I was hoping Mia would’ve talked more than she did lowkey
Honestly, from all the things they have said, Alisha def was the one that was not being honest or communicated well from what they have talked about. Glad they were able to reconnect though.
It's been (gosh I feel old) 15 years since I was 15 and was inseparable from my BFF at the time. We were as close as sisters and 1 day she became a popular bully. We stopped being friends for a long time and it still hurts me bad but we are finally friendly and we care about each other but it's not the same anymore,,to much hurt. Friendship breakups are truly the worst.
i feel like i've been waiting for this all my life
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i really loved watching .i have been through friendship break up. what happened was the girl i was friends with believed the shit others said about me and NEVER talked with me , and out of no where stared ignoring me , i was so heart broken , she didn't tell what went wrong like what was the reason. i was like wtf .....then we drifted away...it was important year for me in studies so i had to deal with it and forget about it. i cried myself to sleep for like 2 and half weeks, then corona happened , in the pandamic i got to know all the things and went trough another friendship break up.... thankfully i had one friend with me ... she knew i have been going through shit and to other people they would think i am totally fine cause i am good at hiding my emotions. they didn't knew i was crying myself to sleep . so i stopped talking with everyone. i would just have small chat , i would just talk to my one and only friend, at that time i thought and realised i don't need anybody to live my life happily , but the bubbly side of me was gone . after like 1 and half year she reached out to me and apologized cause she got to know that i had always been the loyal friend , we talked about things, now she consider me as her best friend and i also she is a good friend of mine. because of all things i have trust issues like i can't trust people that easily now. my bubbly side is coming to life little by little. the reason i feel so sad and angry is i don't know what i did to deserve this. i have always been a loyal and good friend . funny thing is even though all this happened i didn't say any of her secret to anyone cause it is against my rules. so been through a lot but it taught me a lot of things. i became mature at really early age cause i was 15 when all these happened, i am 17 now and happier and i got my sister (that one friend who was with me all the time). so i am happy now.
I feel like alisha has not matured and is always wants to be center of attention. I stopped watching her a while back since her channel just changed so much and it was all about her, her, her! Mia I haven’t kept up with either but she’s always more genuine and down to earth.
Remi is such a good friend!!!! I love her!!
However your friendship is now I am just so glad to see how real you are and explaining it all!! I have always been struggling to maintain friendship so this is very relatable to me. Misinformation and miscomunication is something that can break a friendship…
So happy you guys went on unfiltered !!! I would have never found this awesome podcast. Addicted haha
I was a remi watcher who switched over to loving Alisha after the podcast, so I am BEHIND on the drama. I didn’t even know Mia and Alisha knew each other before their truth or drink 💀But I am living for this 🙏
I literally just finished binge watching your podcast videos and there's already another one 😱
I am a new member of the Alisha, Mia, and Remi fandom but I love seeing them all interact. It just shows how you can recover from something hard. Every situation is different but I love there energy.
This is the difference between friendships in your twenties and your thirties! Priorities change, babies come, relationships happen, schedule conflicts…. All the things. The youthfulness of the twenties begins to wear off and the monotony of the thirties sets in and makes you miss your “old” life. It’s a hard transition and I’m trying to navigate it myself.
I love that you're able to talk everything through now, openly and honestly, and admitting to your own faults. I can relate to this a ton... having a friend so close that never crosses a relationship line but is feeling every part of the friendship as if it is. It truly gives you a broken heart but time can heal and this shows it! Thank you for being brave and sharing!
Thank you Queens. ✨ Sending you all good energy.
This almost exact situation has happened to me and one of my bestfriends. I understand both sides so much and I'm glad that i was able to talk to her like you guys are right now.
very tense… just different energies. Mia doesn’t seem very talkative, the wild til 9 was the same vibe as well. Alisha is so hurt, She really wants to be in her life again but Mia seems to be putting up a wall
Mia seems like the loveliest sweetheart ever x
This was so great! Thank you guys for opening up as much as you did I feel like everyone can kinda relate to a friendship breakup. It’s nice to hear how much love you guys had for one another even though you guys were still upset at each other.
Sometimes people need grow apart to come back together and sometimes people are in your life for a little but you can always learn from them and let go.
Anyways nice podcast
Also remi is a mature queen and I stan
I know ppl are saying that Mia isn't getting a chance to speak but I feel like she didn't want to add to the conversation. She's fine just leaving certain things to herself/private.
I love seeing you all together again, it makes my heart so warm!! 💛
This is more like, “After the friendship breakup : Alisha tell all”. We really got hear one side of the story.
I was mindblown to realise that it had been a year since the truth or drink. now that was the true out of body experience if you ask me
time FLIES
I already listened to this episode but I wanted to watch it too because it was so good☺️ all three of you are GLOWING🔥 also love mia’s outfit
sameeeeeee
YALL NEED TO LEAVE MY GIRL ALISHAAAAA ALONEEEE. They have both matured just in different ways. Mia seems a lot more chill and to herself. But Alisha is being honest here and this is commendable. A lot of people can not admit jealousy to a person they called their best friend. They have both DEFINITELY MATURED.
I agree with each of these comments I really hope they take the time to read and understand why we all feel this way
Watching this two years later and wow! The fact Remi has traveled outside the country with Mia already and went to Japan is crazy. I love that for her ♥️
One of the best videos💗I kind of reflected on my own breakups and it gave me clarity on how I truly feel about situations.
it’s kinda true when mia said how she felt that alisha only wanted to talk or become friends again when she went through her breakup and the big bear trip. it’s like she only wanted to fix it cuz it affected her, she only cared about it when she found out about the breakup through someone else and not her and she wanted to be the one mia would reach out to and she wanted the big bear trip to be more peaceful and calm and so she wouldn’t have to worry about it. it’s mostly about herself and not actually mia.