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@@Daveonarmodern woman, no kids, independence, and financial security is a lot better than these young teenage pregnancies. Some of these traditional women have three kids and looking for a daddy.
Never date a single mom unless you are a single dad and can demand the same things from her. If you are not single dad then you are 10th on her list of importance.
Unless he's incredibly rare like a good friend of mine, he physically can't make any kids of his own due to an accident from his child hood but he always wanted to be a dad He has 3 kids now
In the Philippines, a "foreigner" is never considered anything more than "a foreigner". So, inside your home you might have a good balance but, you have to remember that no one outside your home is ever going to accept that you are the father because, you are just a foreigner.
No one deserves anything in this life. We all have to work hard to achieve our dreams. No one is entitled to get something just like that. You desire something then go for it. Work hard to get it! Women always think that they deserve or are entitled to something without making some effort.
I just met a foreigner here in the PH who is specifically looking for a Filipina with a child, because he has always wanted a child but he is sterile. He's hoping to find one whose biological father ran off and has NOT been in touch since she told him she was pregnant. So he shouldn't date/marry a Filipina who already has a child?
@@pleaseactright1 Good point. Your friend knows Filipinas with children are bountiful. He can have his pick. It is rare to find single with no kids who are mid 20's and up.
@@pleaseactright1 The exception does NOT make the rule. One person out of BILLIONS, with a special circumstance, doesn't appeal to the masses. It's nothing more than trying to deflect the focus away from the main topic, should the MASSES do it or not.
@@ejtaylor73 Who said I was trying to make the exception the RULE? You clearly came up with that assumption all on your own. The end of his comment completely excluded the exception, “stop raising other men’s children”. I merely pointed out there are exceptions. My point has nothing to do with the MASSES.
Dating a single mom, unless she is a widow, is a very very bad idea. Her kids will always be before anything or anyone else. It's just not worth the trouble.
@@JoshStinson-e9jHe makes sense, though. Normally, when you get kids with your wife, it's your kids. In this case, however, it's her kids and believe me, nothing comes between a mother and her kids. And nobody in the right mind wants to be placed second in a relationship.
@@robertvermeer5951 I don't need my girlfriends 100 percent undivided attention 100 percent of the time, infact I'd hate it. People who talk like this are unhinged, they don't want a wife or girlfriend, they want a slave
The raising of the kid is the biggest thing I think for a foreigner. The fact that you girls said you would not change your discipline style & will do it the way you were shown only indicates a red flag to me. Saying telling & threatening with a stick is a good thing is beyond me. A kid doesn’t have to be “spoilt” by actually giving them choices & doing it differently. Maybe it would be good for you to learn & open up to other styles than be stubborn with your own? Also if a kid is sleeping in the bed with me, then hell no. No guy wants to share the most intimate place with another kid. Maybe the first year is understandable but you are creating separation from your husband & it’s a huge red flag. Enjoyed the video & glad you showed us your mindsets as single mothers
So you are single mom and married? And when you are married you trying to find a new boyfriend? I don't understand how is it possible to look for a new partner if she is still married, it's strange to date with a married girl
Im 32 had a filipina 42 with 2 adult kids...she would sometimes ask for upwards of 200k a month to support her kids and her. And I know her cousin cause I work with her in us. Run far far away fellas....
I have been a single dad to 4 kids, now adults and living their own life. I get very disappointed on the behalf of other single parents when I read the hate here in the comment section! It takes 2 to make a tango. Be clear up front on what you expect in the relationship, don't marry the first week after meeting and I think you will get a wonderful life with a Philippina singel mother!
the amount of animus towards single mothers in the comments is upsetting. I'm 70 and married my Filipina in 1985. Raised her kid, raised our own, bought a house, lived our life, and had our careers. This younger generation of males are so averse to single moms. Maybe it's the current generation. Kinda pathetic.
How can it be pathetic to want to raise a family of your own with Respect? She clearly didn’t have respect to wait and cared about having fun more. How is that a gift to a Husband.
oh yeah there's plenty of 55 year old men willing to take up that project. 30 year olds will never pick up the pieces left by another man. we want to start our own family not join one. it's a matter of dignity
Ironically, I am listening to these women date to marry yet have children before they get married wow, they are also not submissive more of an entitlement to a foreigner unfortunately their demand could not be met by local men, now is it because those men's days are numbered and they have no choice but to settle for the end game quite interesting
For me it's not the raising a child that's the problem. It's the fact that the women I love has had a baby with another man and she experienced that for the first time with another man. When I personally feel that is a huge thing for me, it's a certain bond between perents the first born child. And I don't want for her to have had that moment with another man. If I had children it would be completely different because the moment has gone. It's nothing personal or vindictive against single mums, my sister was a single mum now she's happily married to a man with two kids. It's just a normal feeling childless men have and it's not personal.. God bless
@@wanabetruckerdave3776 ok, not having 'dated' now since forever, my understanding of the state of men and women interacting' is woefully out of date. My curiosity has found me following some of the MGTOW views with some interest as well as the sort of 'back to basics' approach which they suggest. No matter who is to 'blame'--be it entitled and progressive women with careers and their own money or if it's men who are intimidated by strong, independent women and might be stuck in the 50s mentality, both are extreme examples and simply canNOT be the best way to exemplify men and women nowadays. It's lazy and probably wrong, but I'll have to admit, the relationship dynamic between single men and women these days is at a low ebb. Less marriage, less family, less money into social security of their own late date period of life, less schools, infrastructure effected...it's not a good thing.
@@chrisjuricichxl5 So much to unpack here...First is to define and use proper terminology. MGTOW is a movement of men that have simply given up and could careless about women and society; were as Redpill are men pointing out the ridicules standards and obligations both women and society put on men. Men in the Redpill community are actually trying to restore normalcy to relationships by exposing woke fem****t mind virus that's infected the western women (by design, I believe). This nonsense is now being exported to conservative cultures.
@@chrisjuricichxl5 As for who is to blame... that's easy, the evil, selfish succubus women from 100-150 yrs ago who started the "prog****ive" campaign for women's rights, the..."We are just as good as men and deserve blah, blah, blah." As for the men to blame, those would simple, simp, beta, lib**** men that catered to women in the hopes of getting into their pants. Both these groups broke the natural order that existed in the west, just fine, for hundreds of years.
lol they always avoid this question. I’ve never heard any of these vloggers ever address this. It seems to me most Filipinas are catholic or Christian in name but don’t really hold to the teachings or values a lot
@@mateor7302 it's because they have issues with contraception, birth control isn't a thing here, if you try to buy condoms the gossip will spread around the whole neighborhood, the gossiping around here is worse than high school, so they avoid buying condoms and, I'm not making this up, the girls who want to save themselves for marriage or preserve their virginity take it in the butt, not all but I've seen it more than once in the 2 years I've lived here, they always said that about catholic girls in the states thought it was just a joke until I got here, wish I was joking,
How can they looking for a new father if she is still married with another man? Two husbands at time? Then the second father has no any rights, he is just random strange in their life, so why such father should be interested in such relationships?
It would be wise to find one of the few unicorns out there. What are the requirements to be considered a unicorn? A woman who is unmarried, over the age of 30 with no children, few if any siblings and an orphan. Additionally she does not live on the same island where she was born and where the bulk of her extended family still live. Those types of women are out there, they are rare and they are already working to support themselves and are not in the adult entertainment industry.
On any local dating app you can find a hundred single mothers who are looking for a man........ ANY MAN ! If you want a wife with children , scroll through the bios, and pick the one you want !
Fellas it’s simple. If she is a single mom. She is not a God Fearing girl. It is supposed to be a country of the Church and having child out of Wedlock is a Sin in the Bible Multiple Times. The fact some men having lowered their ancestors sacred passing’s of this truth is shameful in itself. Actions Have Consequences. One day the whole world could be single moms if you forget to uphold this truth. Respect them like other Humans but Wedding them Allows Them to Think they are Better then God.
I’m talking to a single mom now. As I said in a reply to another comment, it would be nice if the dad was paying child support, but I don’t see that happening. So if you are going to date a single mom, it is a package deal. To me, I had expected to have kids, but it didn’t work out that way, so to me I get another chance at something I missed. So the girl I’m talking to does want more kids. To me all the kids have to be treated the same, if you love the mom you got to love the kid also. Fortunately for me, the girl I’m talking to her son is still relatively young (6), and dad has never been in the picture, so hopefully no conflicts. But if it was an older child and they blame you for the parents separation, one still has to try and not write off the kid
Nice discussion Leah keep up the good work 😎💪One thing that I have definitely learn about the Philippines 🇵🇭 is that it definitely common to seeing single moms there. I have dated single moms in my past. it can definitely be a gamble in my opinion it can comes with responsibllity if a man chooses to commit to a single mom with kids. im glad that I have experience with it. Single moms with kids are a package deal. my advice for mens if they choose to date a single mom be ready for everything that comes with it.
Never date a married woman even if the husband supposedly is no longer in the picture. You open yourself up to blackmail and criminal prosecution. So before you date any Filipina get the form proving they are not married. This is true regardless if they are moms or not.. I know this sounds cold and calculating but protecting yourself is important because no one else is going to.
Yes some of these guys don’t understand that dating a married woman, even if she hasn’t seen her husband for years can still be charged with adultery in the Phils. Also opens you to be blackmailed by the husband or his family. It’s a NO NO 🤷♂️
And there are child protective laws that forbid a foreigner to live with a child not of his biological own. The foreigner exposes himself to potential arrest and extortion. Legal adoptions are impossible if the father's name is on the birth certificate. If not, it's still a long and costly legal case. Can't be a real father, only a financial supporter on the sideline.
Single mother for me is a total dealbreaker. Why would anyone choose that 🤷♂️. You are there to rescue her and kids from poverty, you will never be her first priority, you may even be 3rd priority behind kids and family. Why would I put a filipina 1st in my life but she puts me 2nd/3rd 🤷♂️🤷♂️. If you want to be the rescuer and support her family ….. go for it.
I feel sorry for any woman left in a lurch to bring up a child but also it’s not worth it for a man to raise another man’s child. Plenty do but it’s most often a path that leads to upset and unhappiness. Find a lady with no children and if you want any have them yourself
I think honest reason is it might be hard to date and keep 10/10 beautiful single girl and also infidelity chance is higher with such women since you are not the only men chasing her. But it would be easier to date a 10/10 single mom who only wants a provider and a father figure for her children. So basically power imbalance is greater which is more power to the man because women is gotta behave if she wants this rare man willing to date her 😅
Meet my ldr the first of this month..we have been dating for 2 years .. She has 2 children and she is the most loving girl in the world.. Your odds are much better finding a fillipina that has children..they seem to be much more mature.. If you truly love your fillipina..you will accept there past..and what they bring to the relationship
It’s not about accepting their past cos you love them. Obviously you knew she had kids before you “loved” her. Most of us that don’t want that situation don’t go past the first chat if you know there’s kids involved, so no chance of being in “love”.
Sorry, totally off topic, but I caught your interview with Chad, then looked up your channel. Really enjoyed flicking through and have subscribed. I met my pinoy wife in HK, she was a single mum working as a domestic helper to support her son and family in Isabela. We met in 1998 and married in 2005. I adopted her son and he came to live with us in HK in 2005 and he's now with his partner and we now have a grandson. I look forward to catching up on all your videos and the future ones to come. FYI, I'm 67 and my wife is now 58, but looks 21 in my eyes.
Ohohhoohooo I could lecture about this one for hours understanding both sides of the story…. Let’s just say the simplified version. A girl who made the mistake of sleeping with only 1 guy in her life that one tiny fun night her value as a wife went from $1billion - to $100 VS a girl who has never touched a Guy …. Men have spent millions on girls that weren’t virgins. She just lost an investment a guy could have spent on her of millions in one night. It is single handedly the #1 thing a girl could do to fuck up the next 50years of her life. If you don’t think so your standards are poor. There’s no Excuse. She’s the equivalent to Adam & Eve.
had to thumbs down for the bad take..... I can't wait for the follow up video.... "Why you can trust a bargirl with your wallet" and the upcoming video "Overweight filipina's need love too"
@@GTO_CALIn the U.S., wives fill for divorce and break up homes 70%+ of the time. Mothers are incentivized to be single, and family courts empower them and remove men. It's NOT the same in dynamic in the PH...
@McStrokeAvision Yup. An old senior citizen who couldn't get a young or beautiful wife in his own country will settle for a single mother a fraction of his age in a developing country. He'll take the single mothers leftovers after their own men are finished with them.
I don’t mind if she has a child, but I expect the father to be providing financial support for that child. That’s not my responsibility. I’ll pay for the housing and daily things but their father had better be providing support or the mother should agree to file for child support. I myself pay child support monthly that’s a little more than 71,000 pesos. So my kids support are my priority as her child’s is hers.
I agree the father should be paying support, but from what I’ve seen that normally not the case. From what I understand there is no court ordered child support over there. So single moms get stuck footing the bill.
Local fathers don’t pay child support in the Philippines 🇵🇭when they’ve left the relationship. There’s no law like in the west . That’s why these single mothers are with foreigners.
@@bobbyjames4300 actually there is, she just has to actually go for it. Even when they separate (not divorce), the court could order the father to pay support. That’s why most of the time the fathers just bail.
The ideas in this video are horrible. First off biological fathers should be having to say and if their children leave the country..... That these brothers take the children whenever they want to go that's not how it works the children have a right to have a relationship with their father... If this is how you think this is not the type of women that these men are looking for. They'll be the same thing with your children take them and then run off
But how can they(she) give the biological father a say in whether the child goes to another country or not, if he ran off and can't be found? Which is what is happening. The mother of the child shouldn't have to stop moving forward if she can't find the father or get his cooperation is raising the child. Your theory only works if the biological father is staying in contact with the mother.
@@pleaseactright1 that's easy, in my world no fathers intentionally leave their children behind. The only issues occur as if the mother is trying to keep the father away. If I was the father in this situation I would never let my children leave and if mom wants to leave mom can give up custody...
@@mervinsecure1cambricsecure957 with all due respect, the world you live in in your mind is not the world this women are living in. It’s great that YOU wouldn’t abandon your child, I wouldn’t either, but that’s not the reality these women are facing. Now don’t get me wrong, these women knew the consequences of getting pregnant and the man running off. They’ve seen it happen to countless women before them. But the bottom line is, this is THEIR reality.
@@pleaseactright1 just take a minute and ask yourself do you know people like this. If you don't how do you know these type of people exist? I highly doubt all these men run off because I don't know any men that actually do that. I'm not here to overthink it. I'm just here to say what I see is most likely. You can ask yourself, do you know men that run off or is it that the men you know what to be with their kids but for one reason or another the mother was able to take full custody?
If the mother can't find the biological father, how is he going to have a say in whether the kids go or not? Some of these guys run off and intentionally don't want to be found. So she's suppose to just put her life on hold? Absolutely NOT. If he doesn't want to respond to her, then she has to move on with her life. My uncle married a woman with two children from a previous relationship. They've been married for 17 years now and the kids adore him. The kids are grown now. They are at every family function we've had and we love her and her kids. My 44yo old cousin lost her husband to a heart attack 10 years ago, who she had two girls with. She remarried to a wonderful man and they've been happily married for 5 years now. Shaquille O'Nealwas (Shack) was raised by a step dad. He said in an interview he would have gone down the wrong path if it wasn't for his step father. This is why I say there are exceptions.........
@@TC-yx1qtThere are many Pinay's get pregnant when they were underage. And when they are 18 they are single mom. So why not? Even if she is hot, Filipinos will straight reject her. And even few foreigner will date her. So yeah it is easier to date a hot girl if she is a single mom. Simple logic. And many men care the beauty so much that they can even neglect a single kid in the picture.
17 minute mark interesting how you bring up he is not the real father , my response to this would be ,,, it takes more to be a real father than forgetting to pull it out in time .i have an adopted daughter , we adopted her at only 5 days old ,still in the hospital at the time after birth , i have only ever seen her one way and that is as my child ,love her and raised her as my own true flesh and blood , now she is twenty years old and our relationship is as father and daughter , bond set in concrete , even though im white western man and she is asian , you could never telll my daughter im not her real father without her giving you a long scolding rant on what it takes to be a real father in the real world ... sorry about the rant but i have been listening to this ,your not the real father crap for 20 years 🤣 i mite not be the bio-logical father , but i sure am the real father . ✅😷
@@darrenrogers5735 I disagree, there is ONLY 1 true father, the biological. He may be a father FIGURE and dad, but the biological is the true father, even if he shirks his duties and responsibilities as one, he shares the bloodline.
I grew up in a religious family, and I have my own thoughts and beliefs in the Bible. If you believe, then yes, when you marry a single mother and you consummate the marriage, then you become one. And her children, become yours, and your children become hers also. ( Read the book of leviticus) So there is a responsibility to the children to raise them as your own. I raised my stepson as my own from the time he was two months old to an adult. He has grown up to be a responsible man and a great father himself. His mother was a alcoholic and had drug addictions. When we divorced, I was given custody of stepson and my biological daughter. Their mother eventually died from alcoholic psoriasis of the liver. The reason I am telling this is raising a child wasn't your biological child can be a very rewarding experience. My son didn't meet his biological father until he was 18, and even his biological father said to him (my son) that even though he was the biological father that the man who raised him (me) is his dad. But if the single mother wants the man to love and treat her children as his own, then she will have to realize that he will have to have equal say in how the children are raised. Not just her way but equal for both. God bless you all. (I have say bringing a child out of the Philippines can be very difficult. A good friend of mine got married in the Philippines and they had a little boy together, this is back in the late 1980s. My friend had come back to the USA because of work, and it took over two and half years of legal processes to bring his wife and biological son back to the USA. It all has to do with the laws in the Philippines and getting permission from the Philippine government. I'm going to imagine that getting to bring your Filipino wife and her children out of the country would be very, very difficult until the children became adults.) So if the foreigner wants to have a relationship with a single Filipino mother, then he should plan on staying in the Philippines. I don't know if the laws for children leaving the country have changed, but I doubt it.
Opposed to verses like: - 1 Corinthians 7:9 "But if they cannot exercise self-control, they should marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with passion." - 1 Thessalonians 4:3 "For this is the will of God, your sanctification: that you ABSTAIN from sexual immorality." - Hebrews 13:41 "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be UNDEFILED, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous." - Deuteronomy 23:2 “No one born of a forbidden union may enter the assembly of the Lord. Even to the tenth generation, none of his descendants may enter the assembly of the Lord." (This includes a child born out of wedlock). - Jude 1:7 "Just as Sodom and Gomorrah and the cities around them, since they in the same way as these indulged in gross immorality and went after strange flesh, are exhibited as an example in undergoing the punishment of eternal fire."
I heard a saying years ago. If your dating a single mom, don’t think of her kid as another man’s kid. Think of her kid as a extension of the woman herself.
Native American Catholic Husband to my Wives ... but never a "Partner." The term "Partner" in my world is either for a Gay Gentleman's Significant Other, or a Modern Masculine Feminist's soft hands Beta Simp. Wealthy High Value Western Alpha Men don't raise another Man's Off-spring, unless the Mother's Husband had past away and was a Honored Member of our Tribe. When I visit Cebu next winter I would only "Date For Fun" a Filipina Single Mother, but I would absolutely never ever Marry. After all, the Catholic Church is not a Lunch Buffet where People get to pick and choose what they think is Acceptable or Not.
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The worst message we can leave the next generation is that being a single mother is ok.
I think today's modern women don't want kids, they'd Rather have a good job and be independent and have their own financial security.
@@Daveonarmodern woman, no kids, independence, and financial security is a lot better than these young teenage pregnancies. Some of these traditional women have three kids and looking for a daddy.
@@Paul-McB Foreigner come to just use them for sex, you've got to be wise when choosing a Filipina.
Single mom’s started their lives making bad decisions
@Paul-McB I disagree. Both of what you described are equally as bad.
Never date a single mom unless you are a single dad and can demand the same things from her. If you are not single dad then you are 10th on her list of importance.
@@davidk6668 good advice, I'm a single dad who married a Filipina who does not have children jackpot 😁
Unless he's incredibly rare like a good friend of mine, he physically can't make any kids of his own due to an accident from his child hood but he always wanted to be a dad
He has 3 kids now
Filipinas are looking for the best option, and so should you. If one is available with no child vs the other. Go for the best option.
@@GTO_CALah no! You can always adopt together
@@mikokun7714 uh NO. since Filipinas can have there own kids,
Your statement makes no sense
What drives me crazy is that if a broke Philippines man rejects them and you believe that they are the prize. Lord help me!
Preach! Women are not exempt from scrutiny.
Desperate losers
she date to marry and she had kid before marriage... hmmm thats why u guyes look what they do and not what they say
In the Philippines, a "foreigner" is never considered anything more than "a foreigner". So, inside your home you might have a good balance but, you have to remember that no one outside your home is ever going to accept that you are the father because, you are just a foreigner.
Exactly
No one deserves anything in this life. We all have to work hard to achieve our dreams. No one is entitled to get something just like that. You desire something then go for it. Work hard to get it! Women always think that they deserve or are entitled to something without making some effort.
They are brainwashed by society.
See, single Filipina moma drama is the same as the west. You are privileged to accept them with their children. Stop raising other mens children.
I just met a foreigner here in the PH who is specifically looking for a Filipina with a child, because he has always wanted a child but he is sterile. He's hoping to find one whose biological father ran off and has NOT been in touch since she told him she was pregnant. So he shouldn't date/marry a Filipina who already has a child?
@@pleaseactright1 Good point. Your friend knows Filipinas with children are bountiful. He can have his pick. It is rare to find single with no kids who are mid 20's and up.
@@pleaseactright1 The exception does NOT make the rule. One person out of BILLIONS, with a special circumstance, doesn't appeal to the masses. It's nothing more than trying to deflect the focus away from the main topic, should the MASSES do it or not.
@@Paul-McB It's not really a good point, it's an exceptional circumstance that most won't find themselves in and does not apply.
@@ejtaylor73 Who said I was trying to make the exception the RULE? You clearly came up with that assumption all on your own. The end of his comment completely excluded the exception, “stop raising other men’s children”. I merely pointed out there are exceptions. My point has nothing to do with the MASSES.
Dating a single mom, unless she is a widow, is a very very bad idea. Her kids will always be before anything or anyone else. It's just not worth the trouble.
Come here and see the single mom I married you can’t get a girl half as pretty as this and you failed in life
@@ThatWasThenThisIsNow-yn1eq lol what kinda dude are you when you view a child as competition for your wife's attention
What kind of simp are you to raise another man child on your dime.@@JoshStinson-e9j
@@JoshStinson-e9jHe makes sense, though. Normally, when you get kids with your wife, it's your kids. In this case, however, it's her kids and believe me, nothing comes between a mother and her kids. And nobody in the right mind wants to be placed second in a relationship.
@@robertvermeer5951 I don't need my girlfriends 100 percent undivided attention 100 percent of the time, infact I'd hate it. People who talk like this are unhinged, they don't want a wife or girlfriend, they want a slave
The raising of the kid is the biggest thing I think for a foreigner. The fact that you girls said you would not change your discipline style & will do it the way you were shown only indicates a red flag to me. Saying telling & threatening with a stick is a good thing is beyond me. A kid doesn’t have to be “spoilt” by actually giving them choices & doing it differently. Maybe it would be good for you to learn & open up to other styles than be stubborn with your own?
Also if a kid is sleeping in the bed with me, then hell no. No guy wants to share the most intimate place with another kid. Maybe the first year is understandable but you are creating separation from your husband & it’s a huge red flag.
Enjoyed the video & glad you showed us your mindsets as single mothers
And imagine if the kid is a girl and she wants to sleep in the same bed , OMG. How stupid can some men get.
I will not take responsibility if i don't have authority. Guess im different.
Simps gone simp.
your right for that
So you are single mom and married? And when you are married you trying to find a new boyfriend? I don't understand how is it possible to look for a new partner if she is still married, it's strange to date with a married girl
Im 32 had a filipina 42 with 2 adult kids...she would sometimes ask for upwards of 200k a month to support her kids and her. And I know her cousin cause I work with her in us. Run far far away fellas....
They were fleecing you lol
Yes....anything close to that money is totally using the westerner....
Holy shit bro hmu if you donating
Steer clear lads, the kids are not your responsibility to support
It’s a package she says lololol, yea thanks that’s one package I will return.or will not go near.THEY ARE SO DELUDED.
Wow, you are so beautiful. Beautiful lady. Very femenine and amazing smile.
Simp
I have been a single dad to 4 kids, now adults and living their own life. I get very disappointed on the behalf of other single parents when I read the hate here in the comment section! It takes 2 to make a tango. Be clear up front on what you expect in the relationship, don't marry the first week after meeting and I think you will get a wonderful life with a Philippina singel mother!
the amount of animus towards single mothers in the comments is upsetting. I'm 70 and married my Filipina in 1985. Raised her kid, raised our own, bought a house, lived our life, and had our careers. This younger generation of males are so averse to single moms. Maybe it's the current generation. Kinda pathetic.
How can it be pathetic to want to raise a family of your own with Respect? She clearly didn’t have respect to wait and cared about having fun more. How is that a gift to a Husband.
Many thanks for this video!
With an open heart and accepting nature, you will find a great life ahead for yourself
oh yeah there's plenty of 55 year old men willing to take up that project. 30 year olds will never pick up the pieces left by another man. we want to start our own family not join one. it's a matter of dignity
I was a single dad , my filipina has 3 kids . we plan to have 2 of our own together..it works perfectly
Bro she got f’d 3 times bro! 3 times she was giving birth!!!!!!!! Men can not be having these low standards holy God
I absolutely LOVE the pigtales ❤ hairstyle on you, Leah
Ironically, I am listening to these women date to marry yet have children before they get married wow, they are also not submissive more of an entitlement to a foreigner unfortunately their demand could not be met by local men, now is it because those men's days are numbered and they have no choice but to settle for the end game quite interesting
For me it's not the raising a child that's the problem. It's the fact that the women I love has had a baby with another man and she experienced that for the first time with another man. When I personally feel that is a huge thing for me, it's a certain bond between perents the first born child. And I don't want for her to have had that moment with another man. If I had children it would be completely different because the moment has gone. It's nothing personal or vindictive against single mums, my sister was a single mum now she's happily married to a man with two kids. It's just a normal feeling childless men have and it's not personal.. God bless
1,000% Agree! The risk of her leaving you is significantly higher as well once it’s gone. That bond can only happen once.
Nasty! Who would travel abroad to shop at a used shop? I don't do sloppy seconds resulting in popping out another dudes DNA.
You blossomed and we’re pollinated you did that. But still very beautiful woman trying to change your circumstances
NEVER EVER DATE A SINGLE MOTHER EVER.
too late-- I married a single mother Filipina in 1985 and somehow we're still together despite that 'horrible state'. They're not all bad.
@@chrisjuricichxl5 1985 verses 2024... BIG DIFFERENCE
@@wanabetruckerdave3776 ok, not having 'dated' now since forever, my understanding of the state of men and women interacting' is woefully out of date. My curiosity has found me following some of the MGTOW views with some interest as well as the sort of 'back to basics' approach which they suggest. No matter who is to 'blame'--be it entitled and progressive women with careers and their own money or if it's men who are intimidated by strong, independent women and might be stuck in the 50s mentality, both are extreme examples and simply canNOT be the best way to exemplify men and women nowadays. It's lazy and probably wrong, but I'll have to admit, the relationship dynamic between single men and women these days is at a low ebb. Less marriage, less family, less money into social security of their own late date period of life, less schools, infrastructure effected...it's not a good thing.
@@chrisjuricichxl5 So much to unpack here...First is to define and use proper terminology. MGTOW is a movement of men that have simply given up and could careless about women and society; were as Redpill are men pointing out the ridicules standards and obligations both women and society put on men. Men in the Redpill community are actually trying to restore normalcy to relationships by exposing woke fem****t mind virus that's infected the western women (by design, I believe). This nonsense is now being exported to conservative cultures.
@@chrisjuricichxl5 As for who is to blame... that's easy, the evil, selfish succubus women from 100-150 yrs ago who started the "prog****ive" campaign for women's rights, the..."We are just as good as men and deserve blah, blah, blah."
As for the men to blame, those would simple, simp, beta, lib**** men that catered to women in the hopes of getting into their pants. Both these groups broke the natural order that existed in the west, just fine, for hundreds of years.
How are there so many single moms in a devout Catholic country that forbids premarital sex?
For the same reason it's ok for catholic priests to diddle kids.
lol they always avoid this question. I’ve never heard any of these vloggers ever address this. It seems to me most Filipinas are catholic or Christian in name but don’t really hold to the teachings or values a lot
Because most girls at 21 have had s3x with at least two guys and nobody uses condoms so there's a high chance of pregnancy
Because they only CLAIM to be Christian because that's what society expects.
@@mateor7302 it's because they have issues with contraception, birth control isn't a thing here, if you try to buy condoms the gossip will spread around the whole neighborhood, the gossiping around here is worse than high school, so they avoid buying condoms and, I'm not making this up, the girls who want to save themselves for marriage or preserve their virginity take it in the butt, not all but I've seen it more than once in the 2 years I've lived here, they always said that about catholic girls in the states thought it was just a joke until I got here, wish I was joking,
I much prefer dating women with kids. It's a bonus ❤️👍
Bro gotta be trolling. There are 1,000’s of hungry children just go feed them.
How can they looking for a new father if she is still married with another man? Two husbands at time? Then the second father has no any rights, he is just random strange in their life, so why such father should be interested in such relationships?
But a cactus flower remains in the desert until it withers and dies. Why complain about the circumstances you were born into.
It would be wise to find one of the few unicorns out there. What are the requirements to be considered a unicorn? A woman who is unmarried, over the age of 30 with no children, few if any siblings and an orphan. Additionally she does not live on the same island where she was born and where the bulk of her extended family still live. Those types of women are out there, they are rare and they are already working to support themselves and are not in the adult entertainment industry.
There are TONS of girls like that in every major city
@@TC-yx1qt So when's the wedding?
@@UP-2-U Why the F would any man wanna get married 🤣
@@TC-yx1qt Beyond me. Been single for20+ years.
On any local dating app you can find a hundred single mothers who are looking for a man........ ANY MAN ! If you want a wife with children , scroll through the bios, and pick the one you want !
All 3 of you are very lucky, and have great men who adore you, and your children, and will love you forever.
I would be more than happy to date a single mum I have no kids so would be happy to have a ready made family
Good for you 👍. Go and do it, see how you feel after a year or 2.
@@sentinel80 I will next year more than happy
Don’t be a simp make your own family that’s why you have nuts.
There are plenty of hungry children and plenty of girls without kids. How can you settle.
These chicks lost the choice of expectations when they made poor life choices.
Great Video! ❤🎉
Thank you Che hope to catch up with you soon. 🙂
Fellas it’s simple. If she is a single mom. She is not a God Fearing girl. It is supposed to be a country of the Church and having child out of Wedlock is a Sin in the Bible Multiple Times. The fact some men having lowered their ancestors sacred passing’s of this truth is shameful in itself. Actions Have Consequences. One day the whole world could be single moms if you forget to uphold this truth.
Respect them like other Humans but Wedding them Allows Them to Think they are Better then God.
I’m talking to a single mom now. As I said in a reply to another comment, it would be nice if the dad was paying child support, but I don’t see that happening.
So if you are going to date a single mom, it is a package deal. To me, I had expected to have kids, but it didn’t work out that way, so to me I get another chance at something I missed.
So the girl I’m talking to does want more kids. To me all the kids have to be treated the same, if you love the mom you got to love the kid also. Fortunately for me, the girl I’m talking to her son is still relatively young (6), and dad has never been in the picture, so hopefully no conflicts. But if it was an older child and they blame you for the parents separation, one still has to try and not write off the kid
Single mom = 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
Nice discussion Leah keep up the good work 😎💪One thing that I have definitely learn about the Philippines 🇵🇭 is that it definitely common to seeing single moms there. I have dated single moms in my past. it can definitely be a gamble in my opinion it can comes with responsibllity if a man chooses to commit to a single mom with kids. im glad that I have experience with it. Single moms with kids are a package deal. my advice for mens if they choose to date a single mom be ready for everything that comes with it.
No responsibility without authority. If you have no authority over someone else's child, then you have no responsibility for it.
Never date a married woman even if the husband supposedly is no longer in the picture. You open yourself up to blackmail and criminal prosecution. So before you date any Filipina get the form proving they are not married. This is true regardless if they are moms or not.. I know this sounds cold and calculating but protecting yourself is important because no one else is going to.
Not cold and calculating, if things work out you'll need the CENOMAR to get married, so no reason not to get it early.
Yes some of these guys don’t understand that dating a married woman, even if she hasn’t seen her husband for years can still be charged with adultery in the Phils. Also opens you to be blackmailed by the husband or his family. It’s a NO NO 🤷♂️
And there are child protective laws that forbid a foreigner to live with a child not of his biological own. The foreigner exposes himself to potential arrest and extortion. Legal adoptions are impossible if the father's name is on the birth certificate. If not, it's still a long and costly legal case. Can't be a real father, only a financial supporter on the sideline.
Interesting.
Their natural father should suppoythe child not a foreigner.
Single mother for me is a total dealbreaker. Why would anyone choose that 🤷♂️. You are there to rescue her and kids from poverty, you will never be her first priority, you may even be 3rd priority behind kids and family.
Why would I put a filipina 1st in my life but she puts me 2nd/3rd 🤷♂️🤷♂️.
If you want to be the rescuer and support her family ….. go for it.
I feel sorry for any woman left in a lurch to bring up a child but also it’s not worth it for a man to raise another man’s child. Plenty do but it’s most often a path that leads to upset and unhappiness. Find a lady with no children and if you want any have them yourself
What I'm hearing is dont date single moms in the ph. There are many many single women with no kids. Why pay extra for a used car?
Seriously, Filipinas are used cars? Good luck on your dating prospects, LOL
I think honest reason is it might be hard to date and keep 10/10 beautiful single girl and also infidelity chance is higher with such women since you are not the only men chasing her. But it would be easier to date a 10/10 single mom who only wants a provider and a father figure for her children. So basically power imbalance is greater which is more power to the man because women is gotta behave if she wants this rare man willing to date her 😅
Meet my ldr the first of this month..we have been dating for 2 years ..
She has 2 children and she is the most loving girl in the world..
Your odds are much better finding a fillipina that has children..they seem to be much more mature..
If you truly love your fillipina..you will accept there past..and what they bring to the relationship
It’s not about accepting their past cos you love them. Obviously you knew she had kids before you “loved” her. Most of us that don’t want that situation don’t go past the first chat if you know there’s kids involved, so no chance of being in “love”.
Sounds like John loves Jessel and her Son you are a lucky woman❤
Sorry, totally off topic, but I caught your interview with Chad, then looked up your channel. Really enjoyed flicking through and have subscribed. I met my pinoy wife in HK, she was a single mum working as a domestic helper to support her son and family in Isabela. We met in 1998 and married in 2005. I adopted her son and he came to live with us in HK in 2005 and he's now with his partner and we now have a grandson. I look forward to catching up on all your videos and the future ones to come. FYI, I'm 67 and my wife is now 58, but looks 21 in my eyes.
Ohohhoohooo I could lecture about this one for hours understanding both sides of the story….
Let’s just say the simplified version. A girl who made the mistake of sleeping with only 1 guy in her life that one tiny fun night her value as a wife went from $1billion - to $100 VS a girl who has never touched a Guy …. Men have spent millions on girls that weren’t virgins.
She just lost an investment a guy could have spent on her of millions in one night.
It is single handedly the #1 thing a girl could do to fuck up the next 50years of her life. If you don’t think so your standards are poor. There’s no Excuse. She’s the equivalent to Adam & Eve.
had to thumbs down for the bad take..... I can't wait for the follow up video.... "Why you can trust a bargirl with your wallet" and the upcoming video "Overweight filipina's need love too"
Don't.
Why are the guys not responsible for their children in the Philippines
Dude That's all over the world , especially in the states ..Child support out matches marriage
@@GTO_CALIn the U.S., wives fill for divorce and break up homes 70%+ of the time. Mothers are incentivized to be single, and family courts empower them and remove men. It's NOT the same in dynamic in the PH...
Because they know a simp is waiting in the wings to pick up the slack lol
@McStrokeAvision Yup. An old senior citizen who couldn't get a young or beautiful wife in his own country will settle for a single mother a fraction of his age in a developing country. He'll take the single mothers leftovers after their own men are finished with them.
@@McStrokeAvision its because these women let them smash raw and never wanted kids , they don't believe in simps
N o
I don’t mind if she has a child, but I expect the father to be providing financial support for that child. That’s not my responsibility. I’ll pay for the housing and daily things but their father had better be providing support or the mother should agree to file for child support. I myself pay child support monthly that’s a little more than 71,000 pesos. So my kids support are my priority as her child’s is hers.
LOL you'll never find that, 95% of mothers here are single moms wth ZERO financial help from the father
I agree the father should be paying support, but from what I’ve seen that normally not the case. From what I understand there is no court ordered child support over there. So single moms get stuck footing the bill.
Local fathers don’t pay child support in the Philippines 🇵🇭when they’ve left the relationship. There’s no law like in the west . That’s why these single mothers are with foreigners.
@@bobbyjames4300 Not true, the reason why they are with foreigners is because they're the only DESPERATE ones to save them lol
@@bobbyjames4300 actually there is, she just has to actually go for it. Even when they separate (not divorce), the court could order the father to pay support. That’s why most of the time the fathers just bail.
One plus about dating a single mom, I don’t need to worry about her being a lady boy. 👍
LMAO 🤣😂
guys just know not every situation is the same and if you as a foreigner have higher expectations and stricter rules then a filipino
PS leah is a rocket and smart so that's an exception
The ideas in this video are horrible. First off biological fathers should be having to say and if their children leave the country..... That these brothers take the children whenever they want to go that's not how it works the children have a right to have a relationship with their father... If this is how you think this is not the type of women that these men are looking for. They'll be the same thing with your children take them and then run off
But how can they(she) give the biological father a say in whether the child goes to another country or not, if he ran off and can't be found? Which is what is happening. The mother of the child shouldn't have to stop moving forward if she can't find the father or get his cooperation is raising the child. Your theory only works if the biological father is staying in contact with the mother.
@@pleaseactright1 that's easy, in my world no fathers intentionally leave their children behind. The only issues occur as if the mother is trying to keep the father away. If I was the father in this situation I would never let my children leave and if mom wants to leave mom can give up custody...
@@mervinsecure1cambricsecure957 with all due respect, the world you live in in your mind is not the world this women are living in. It’s great that YOU wouldn’t abandon your child, I wouldn’t either, but that’s not the reality these women are facing. Now don’t get me wrong, these women knew the consequences of getting pregnant and the man running off. They’ve seen it happen to countless women before them. But the bottom line is, this is THEIR reality.
@@pleaseactright1 just take a minute and ask yourself do you know people like this. If you don't how do you know these type of people exist? I highly doubt all these men run off because I don't know any men that actually do that. I'm not here to overthink it. I'm just here to say what I see is most likely. You can ask yourself, do you know men that run off or is it that the men you know what to be with their kids but for one reason or another the mother was able to take full custody?
If the mother can't find the biological father, how is he going to have a say in whether the kids go or not? Some of these guys run off and intentionally don't want to be found. So she's suppose to just put her life on hold? Absolutely NOT. If he doesn't want to respond to her, then she has to move on with her life.
My uncle married a woman with two children from a previous relationship. They've been married for 17 years now and the kids adore him. The kids are grown now. They are at every family function we've had and we love her and her kids.
My 44yo old cousin lost her husband to a heart attack 10 years ago, who she had two girls with. She remarried to a wonderful man and they've been happily married for 5 years now.
Shaquille O'Nealwas (Shack) was raised by a step dad. He said in an interview he would have gone down the wrong path if it wasn't for his step father.
This is why I say there are exceptions.........
Never date a single mom anywhere ever unless you're a single dad
Edit they make a good point about infertile men who want kids
I would not have a problem dating a single mom.
Yes, why dating a single parent filipina when you can date a young filipina without kids ?
Three Philippine ladies laughing is so sweet.
I found the best in the Philippines. A smoking hot single mom from N Cotabato. Getting married Nov 2024. She is model gorgeous
No such thing as a smoking hot single mom lol
She’s obviously got your number .
@119. So being gorgeous (in your eyes) is the main objective for you. Personally I prefer someone with morals and good personality 👍
@@TC-yx1qtThere are many Pinay's get pregnant when they were underage. And when they are 18 they are single mom. So why not? Even if she is hot, Filipinos will straight reject her. And even few foreigner will date her. So yeah it is easier to date a hot girl if she is a single mom. Simple logic. And many men care the beauty so much that they can even neglect a single kid in the picture.
I would not be with a woman that would leave her child for a man. Where do they do that 😂
17 minute mark interesting how you bring up he is not the real father , my response to this would be ,,, it takes more to be a real father than forgetting to pull it out in time .i have an adopted daughter , we adopted her at only 5 days old ,still in the hospital at the time after birth , i have only ever seen her one way and that is as my child ,love her and raised her as my own true flesh and blood , now she is twenty years old and our relationship is as father and daughter , bond set in concrete , even though im white western man and she is asian , you could never telll my daughter im not her real father without her giving you a long scolding rant on what it takes to be a real father in the real world ... sorry about the rant but i have been listening to this ,your not the real father crap for 20 years 🤣 i mite not be the bio-logical father , but i sure am the real father . ✅😷
You truly are the real Father man. Kudos to you!
@@darrenrogers5735 cheers mate
@@darrenrogers5735 I disagree, there is ONLY 1 true father, the biological. He may be a father FIGURE and dad, but the biological is the true father, even if he shirks his duties and responsibilities as one, he shares the bloodline.
@@ejtaylor73 Appreciate your comment!
Why make it sound complicated ? The expectation is Anyone that's a ATM ( Filipino or Foreigner)
I grew up in a religious family, and I have my own thoughts and beliefs in the Bible.
If you believe, then yes, when you marry a single mother and you consummate the marriage, then you become one.
And her children, become yours, and your children become hers also.
( Read the book of leviticus)
So there is a responsibility to the children to raise them as your own.
I raised my stepson as my own from the time he was two months old to an adult.
He has grown up to be a responsible man and a great father himself.
His mother was a alcoholic and had drug addictions.
When we divorced, I was given custody of stepson and my biological daughter.
Their mother eventually died from alcoholic psoriasis of the liver.
The reason I am telling this is raising a child wasn't your biological child can be a very rewarding experience.
My son didn't meet his biological father until he was 18, and even his biological father said to him (my son) that even though he was the biological father that the man who raised him (me) is his dad.
But if the single mother wants the man to love and treat her children as his own, then she will have to realize that he will have to have equal say in how the children are raised.
Not just her way but equal for both.
God bless you all.
(I have say bringing a child out of the Philippines can be very difficult.
A good friend of mine got married in the Philippines and they had a little boy together, this is back in the late 1980s.
My friend had come back to the USA because of work, and it took over two and half years of legal processes to bring his wife and biological son back to the USA.
It all has to do with the laws in the Philippines and getting permission from the Philippine government.
I'm going to imagine that getting to bring your Filipino wife and her children out of the country would be very, very difficult until the children became adults.)
So if the foreigner wants to have a relationship with a single Filipino mother, then he should plan on staying in the Philippines.
I don't know if the laws for children leaving the country have changed, but I doubt it.
that's a great lesson, thank you for the knowledge
Opposed to verses like:
- 1 Corinthians 7:9 "But if they cannot exercise self-control, they should marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with passion."
- 1 Thessalonians 4:3 "For this is the will of God, your sanctification: that you ABSTAIN from sexual immorality."
- Hebrews 13:41 "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be UNDEFILED, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous."
- Deuteronomy 23:2 “No one born of a forbidden union may enter the assembly of the Lord. Even to the tenth generation, none of his descendants may enter the assembly of the Lord." (This includes a child born out of wedlock).
- Jude 1:7 "Just as Sodom and Gomorrah and the cities around them, since they in the same way as these indulged in gross immorality and went after strange flesh, are exhibited as an example in undergoing the punishment of eternal fire."
Omg. 😂
God, the Filipino accent is so hot! 😅
I heard a saying years ago. If your dating a single mom, don’t think of her kid as another man’s kid. Think of her kid as a extension of the woman herself.
Indeed ❤
Native American Catholic Husband to my Wives ... but never a "Partner." The term "Partner" in my world is either for a Gay Gentleman's Significant Other, or a Modern Masculine Feminist's soft hands Beta Simp. Wealthy High Value Western Alpha Men don't raise another Man's Off-spring, unless the Mother's Husband had past away and was a Honored Member of our Tribe. When I visit Cebu next winter I would only "Date For Fun" a Filipina Single Mother, but I would absolutely never ever Marry. After all, the Catholic Church is not a Lunch Buffet where People get to pick and choose what they think is Acceptable or Not.
Three attributes women in Philippines look for in a man, money, high cash flow and support her entire family till the day you die 😂😂