The way this story is told brings much-needed awareness to the dangers of domestic abuse and the signs that are often overlooked. It's a powerful reminder for everyone to stay vigilant and support those in vulnerable situations.
No matter how much you love someone, you should love and respect yourself first. From when you have to walk on eggshells, he don't trust you, verbally abusive and blasting bullets at your bedroom door, that can not be forgiven. Run far... far away! Why go back to that?
The emotional depth of this video is staggering. Kate's ordeal and her unwavering determination to warn others highlight the dangers of ignoring toxic behaviors early on. The tragic loss of Tu and the trauma inflicted on Randall make this a story that deserves to be heard and remembered.
It is difficult for me to be sympathetic for Kate. She entered a relationship with a STILL married man, rather he was ALMOST DIVORCED or not. Then allowed him to move in with her. Then went back to him, after she has fleed him after HE PULLED A GUN ON HER; moving to A VERY SECLUDED AREA. SORRY, I JUST CAN'T!!! She's brave for telling her story sure, but it's sad she loved him more than she loved herself. Women need to understand Its okay to be alone. You can do bad all by yourself.
WHY...WHY....WHY...would any woman as smart as Kate.....with a terrific job, health, circle of friends...no financial worries.....even BOTHER to become involved with ANY man, let alone a fruitcake like this? I'm not anti-man, having had a lovely husband myself who passed away now, a long time ago.....(& no kids, by choice!). BUT Kate had everything before she met John...most of all, her peace of mind. She's fortunate that she escaped this one with her life! Some ladies never learn, & need to value themselves more!
I always say to woman or man if your partner he or she beat you once you need to leave because what give an adult a permission to beat another adult You must leave he or she is not your parents
when Kate ran away from this maniac john the 1st time to up north Sacramento , she should have gone to the cops where she was living and got this person arrested could have saved Turi's and Randal's life. Never giva a benefit of the doubt for a person either its a woman or a man when they show who they really are! just RUN and never look back - There's no need to give 2nd chances.
The way this story is told brings much-needed awareness to the dangers of domestic abuse and the signs that are often overlooked. It's a powerful reminder for everyone to stay vigilant and support those in vulnerable situations.
Walk away when any man says that they’re “almost divorced” and worse moving into your apartment
That's a red flag period
No matter how much you love someone, you should love and respect yourself first. From when you have to walk on eggshells, he don't trust you, verbally abusive and blasting bullets at your bedroom door, that can not be forgiven. Run far... far away! Why go back to that?
Randall seems like such an outstanding person and friend.
The emotional depth of this video is staggering. Kate's ordeal and her unwavering determination to warn others highlight the dangers of ignoring toxic behaviors early on. The tragic loss of Tu and the trauma inflicted on Randall make this a story that deserves to be heard and remembered.
It is difficult for me to be sympathetic for Kate. She entered a relationship with a STILL married man, rather he was ALMOST DIVORCED or not. Then allowed him to move in with her. Then went back to him, after she has fleed him after HE PULLED A GUN ON HER; moving to A VERY SECLUDED AREA. SORRY, I JUST CAN'T!!!
She's brave for telling her story sure, but it's sad she loved him more than she loved herself. Women need to understand Its okay to be alone. You can do bad all by yourself.
Why on earth go back to that man? I'll rather be alone and have peace in my life.
I was baffled to see her go back to this even after he literally tried to shoot her 💀
most women, have emotional necessities that blur their understanding😮😢I was like that too, not any more though😊
You kidding me right. After all he did and you went to live with him in a cabin? Really?
i was perplexed to watch that scene - I was like, for real??? cant you see he is isolating you !!! smh!
5:43 "almost divorce" huge red flag ladies
WHY...WHY....WHY...would any woman as smart as Kate.....with a terrific job, health, circle of friends...no financial worries.....even BOTHER to become involved with ANY man, let alone a fruitcake like this? I'm not anti-man, having had a lovely husband myself who passed away now, a long time ago.....(& no kids, by choice!). BUT Kate had everything before she met John...most of all, her peace of mind. She's fortunate that she escaped this one with her life! Some ladies never learn, & need to value themselves more!
totally true!!!
I always say to woman or man if your partner he or she beat you once you need to leave because what give an adult a permission to beat another adult You must leave he or she is not your parents
I think the fact he killed himself is indicative of some deep distress within him. I wonder what happened to him to make him feel such rage.
The John you knew wasn't real. This man showed you who he was should have believed him 😥😥😨
After all that I wouldn't have taken him back big mistake 😢
He also brought flowers to the airport to welcome the one he's almost divorced.'
Red flags but you still didn't get it 🤔
so instead of calling the police she calls an innocent helpless man to come and get shot??? the nonsense in this world!!!!
when Kate ran away from this maniac john the 1st time to up north Sacramento , she should have gone to the cops where she was living and got this person arrested could have saved Turi's and Randal's life. Never giva a benefit of the doubt for a person either its a woman or a man when they show who they really are! just RUN and never look back - There's no need to give 2nd chances.
One-sided story
She had so many chances to run but she didn't could be Stockholm syndrome. 10 years being his gf & playing wife that is where she efd up.
She is an adult. She doesn't have any criteria. Your choices have responsibilities.