Exactly Tony. When I was doing Prison Ministry, many of those women were in jail because they were with the wrong guy. Therapy is so important, so many women don’t know themselves, their worth, many do not know how to choose the right man based on good character and righteousness. Emotional immaturity, I had to heal and grow. Therapy helped me. Ladies, many of us were not taught how to choose a good man. We saw dysfunctional relationships and we need help. There are coaches, good books, videos, and the Bible helps us grow too. Prayer helps.
Amen sis! I also think that churches need to provide resources like this for their young men and women. Let’s do better! Any therapy that you recommend??
@@nancybuchanan9552 Hi, different reasons, but some were with drug dealers or doing crimes, knowingly and unknowingly, some were manipulated by their partners and attacked someone, some were with their partners when they got caught, some were blamed for their partnrers crimes or chose to take the sentence. Many were just settling for a man that were doing wrongful things and not thinking about the consequences. I learned the importance of taking responsibility for my choices especially my relationships or who can be in my circle. We as women must learn to trust our intuition again.
If you don’t want your child (children) to turn out like him, then why are you w/this type of man? Best advice Tony has ever given!!!! This one paraphrase hit me like a ton of bricks.
When I met my current boyfriend I honestly was not attracted to him so I step out of my comfort zone and gave him chance….I noticed that 6 months in He was just so sexy and good looking to me….He shy and timid but a wonderful man he gives me TIME and TIME again…
Same here !! I started to listen to stony Gaskins before I met my Fiancé and I applied everything he taught me into this relationship and WOW!! I have never been happier. I gave the shy timid man a chance and stopped going after grown boys. Blessings for you!
@UCCitZwHz5ChxB_jXtwXFxVw We all have been through some type of headache from a unstable man. I’m learning to stop over looking men with low character. By pouring more love into myself… Stay blessed Queen you made it out.💪
Listen to Tony ladies! I thought I did everything right. He was the sound man at church, we waited until married to have sex, but I ignored the red flags. He lacked stability, integrity & character. I thought it was God. I thought I could change him. I was wrong. I spent 9 years in confusion and chaos. He was addicted to pornography, mean, emotionally abusive & abandoned us every time things got hard. I’m free now, but I have to co-parent with him the rest of my kids life. Hard lesson, but I learned.
Congrats on being able to move on. But thank you for highlighting that this man was in the church. We, as women definitely have to vet these men and pay attention to the signs, especially with the ones in the church, on your job, etc. Watch a person's ACTIONS & HIS CHARACTER. It's the being shown for a reason. ♥️
I think once women unlearn the desire to be a "fixer" and let go of the "good woman ego syndrome" that says that being a good woman exempts you from trash men not wanting a relationship, dating life would be a breeze.
Wow this is deep. “If you can’t see your son being like the man you are dating then you need to stop seeing that man”. I had to end relationships real quick with men that curse at me, overly aggressive, always in the club, and doing drugs(especially since I’m in recovery) . My children future matters to me and what they are exposed to.
I honest-to-God believe the work you are doing is literally saving lives and reversing generations of curses. Thank you for following your calling and fighting the GOOD fight.
Tony, everything you describe in a man is what I just had to walk away from. The verbal abuse was horrible. Sometimes the men we want the most is the one's we need to be running from.
When I left my now ex who was a grown boy, what compelled me to leave was Tony's voice in my head, gon' about your business, along with his impersonation of taking the purse and leaving!!! Thank god for Tony 😊
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! GREAT INSPIRING AMAZING STRONG POWERFUL POSITIVE WORDS OF WISDOM! YES INDEED! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! SMILE ALWAYS!( EVEN IN STORMS THAT U GO THRU!) HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! GOD IS WORKIN IT OUT! ON HIS GOD GIVEN RIGHT TIME! GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY! GOD WILL SEE US THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING! GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! GOD HAS US COVERED! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR THIS BLESSED TODAY! AND FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS! AND FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ! PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! NOV2021
Those Tony Gaskins stares after he asks a rhetorical question get me every time. Another awesome video. Thank you. I'm looking forward to the video with you and AO.
Preach on, Tony. The son comparison is a great way to think about it. Not every man is fit to be a husband and father. Be okay with walking away from the man who is not husband material. Passing this messag on to my single girlfriends!!
I normally do not comment but WOW, this spoke to me! I didn't even get far into the video but I know more HEAT is coming! I feel like i need to watch this video each month lol. GOD BLESS YOU TONY G.
Hey Pastor Tony, there are 3 whole entire Family members I am intensely compelled to send this to, to free them … 🥺🙏🏽💕 But apparently I’m “that Girl” in my Family - so I can’t. Believing on God for their awakening & Freedom 😩🙏🏽💕
I shared one of Tony's videos with a woman who was in a long distance situationship several months ago. We clicked but then she became radio silent and I have a gut sense it was because she became offended by the truth. Its great to see Tony address this is a regular thing that happens when we try to help others and not to fear sharing the truth with others! Here I was concerned it wasn't in my place to share that video with her, now I know that sometimes we have to be OK with offending others.
Lord have mercy! Ladies, we have got to do better! Close your legs and run! Pray to God to bring you a real man and keep them legs closed until marriage.
I need to be sleep, but I can never listen to Tony subconsciously while sleep because I keep popping up laughing and looking at his facial expressions while trying to go to sleep. 😂
Mr. Gaskins thank you so much for your life lessons on this subject. If the Lord could reveal to me who my true king is just like for a lot of women... we wouldn't have to worry about grown boys
Honey you're preaching! I said this years ago while dating and the fact you bringing it back full circle is a blessing to me! Glory to God, God I thank you for freeing me! 🙌🏽
You are absolutely right. Would you want your son to be like this man? Our standards have diminished, but like you said, WE glorify cool, sexy, addictive personality, verbally abusive and expect them to be exemplary fathers. Not only is it unrealistic, its insane! Thank you for your words Tony, you have been an amazing resource.
I am shouting on that Outtro!!! Even though I did not peoperly vet n therfore was a SM, I sacrificed to be at every game, every school event, evrything my son had and I got so much pushback from my mother. She didnt understand because she wasnt there for me n sisters for our activities. It was lonely as a child to not be nurtured by my mother. I vowed to be there there for my children, but only had 1 to not make that mistake again. Thank you for this video. Just shared with my son.
He is worth it if he meets all your criteria you should have listed in you journal, diary or note pad when you were a child. If you never wrote it down, you need to do it now. If you need to see another woman’s notes, because you can not think of everything you need to look for, just ask me for mine.
Tony you are telling it like it is! We have to evaluate these men, certain things us as women shouldn't be tolerating from men. I teach my son to be respectful and how to take of himself..I've learned so much from your videos and I also follow Anthony O'Neal as well. I wish ya'll nothing but success if you form a channel..Get Well Soon! May God continue to bless you & your family!
Tony I’ve done much self reflection and realize that I want to do better in life for myself not for others. Thank you for your videos they have truly helped me.
I love it here!!! I don’t listen to anyone else about relationships Everything that you tell us is sooo true. Glory to God, all praises to the most high for your deliverance. Then teaching is to do better & be better. Thank you TG!
Thanks, Tony, great video I’m 23 not been in a relationship etc so your videos from a Godly standpoint too is great I’ve learnt a lot so I can avoid a lot of mess (I’m from a single-parent household so I’ve learnt a lot from my mum too but not everything) when it comes to dating/relationships. Communication, emotional intelligence, intention, morals, values, integrity and more are so so important! Great video I watch from London U.K. ✨🙌🏾 P.S you’re the funniest the dead stares or woman impression got me 😂😭
It's soo good that you learn before you date! I am 23 too and to heal after bad relationship is a hard task. I'm so glad young women are learning. Wish you peace, Sister! 🙏
I’m so paranoid from past relationships. I set a boundary with the person I’m with and let him know that I need time to myself with God. I’ve seen anger in his eyes and that’s something that scares me along with the mirroring. He keeps doing stuff like this so I’ll stay with him I’m not stupid. 🤷♀️ It’s very uncomfortable though and I’m even questioning his church. I need to know that I’m safe with the person and I want to be safe also. The man I am with doesn’t do anything bad like this but I think because people have left him in his life he doesn’t want me to leave him also and that’s scary for me. This is why woman and men need their own lives and I’m trying to find my own life.
Tonyyyyy! This was another confirmation that I made the right decision. My daughter’s father gives me so much trouble and is so inconsistent and inconsiderate when it comes to her. And he is addicted to weed, gets drunk and also addicted to m*stubation. I wish I discovered your channel before I got on my back to have her, but I’ve learned my lesson! Still learning and growing and making sure my daughter is my top priority. Thanks for all you do! God bless!
Tony's right. We got *-matized and slept with them that's how we got caught up I am in this boat now and trying to jump ship. Idk where the godly men are but it's time for me to love myself. I got into my marriage vowing the be a hundred percent faithful but I doubt my estranged husband meant the same and seemed to have ulterior motives. Tony's videos have helped to stand up against abuse and have helped me so much! Thanks Tony and blessings to you and your family!!
Those facial expressions keep me cracking up 😂Thank goodness I am saving myself for a good god fearing man vs some of these men women have settled for today because JESUS I couldn’t image dealing with the headaches. I look & watch everything about men I date because I can’t just marry anybody let alone have a child by them!
Man I love these videos! It's 12am here lol. I whole heartily agree!! I don't have any children, and sometimes people tell me I'm super picky when it comes to these men. 🤦🏽♀️ But people just don't know when I vet a man I'm also thinking about my future children. I want a husband for me, and a true father for my kid/s. I'm not a smoker, drinker, or clubber. I'm an corporate worker and an entrepreneur. I'm not perfect by any means, but I need someone to match my energy. I did the clubbing in my 20s but still went to work the next morning. 🤣 Change and growth is real. I now realize where my immaturity was then as woman. I'm currently looking at a man and comparing him from our 20s to him today in our 30s. I often smile at his growth and his level up. He is an emmaculate father, son, worker and business owner today.🙌🏽
That pause at 14:40 is so powerful and I have no words to justify my ex's behavior on Video games. And I slowly get the point that he is not the one if he doesn't change. I definitely don't want my boy to get addicted to games.
I’m so glad to hear you say that about the network. Because there have been times I can’t even begin to count how many of the videos that I have watched of yours that I wish so bad I could broadcast to the world. I wish I knew how to get that started for you Tony because I most definitely without hesitation would do it for you in a second.
Been watching you for a while now. I didn't know you had a few books out until you mentioned The new guy code in another video and I looked it up. Thanks for the reference to encourage me to offer it to my son. He's in prison and I'm always looking for supportive material to send him. Love your work Tony. When you say your topics are for somebody out there, I thank you!
This was beyond good and on time. So much respect for the way you handled your conversation with Anthony and your vision for helpful/useful entertainment on television 🙌🏾🙏🏾 May the Lord bring the right connections to see that into fulfillment.
Exactly Tony. When I was doing Prison Ministry, many of those women were in jail because they were with the wrong guy. Therapy is so important, so many women don’t know themselves, their worth, many do not know how to choose the right man based on good character and righteousness. Emotional immaturity, I had to heal and grow. Therapy helped me. Ladies, many of us were not taught how to choose a good man. We saw dysfunctional relationships and we need help. There are coaches, good books, videos, and the Bible helps us grow too. Prayer helps.
Amen sis! I also think that churches need to provide resources like this for their young men and women. Let’s do better! Any therapy that you recommend??
@@BrooklynBaby100 I suggest a therapist that can help with trauma and codependency.
@@BrooklynBaby100 🤣🤣
Why were the women in jail?
@@nancybuchanan9552 Hi, different reasons, but some were with drug dealers or doing crimes, knowingly and unknowingly, some were manipulated by their partners and attacked someone, some were with their partners when they got caught, some were blamed for their partnrers crimes or chose to take the sentence. Many were just settling for a man that were doing wrongful things and not thinking about the consequences. I learned the importance of taking responsibility for my choices especially my relationships or who can be in my circle. We as women must learn to trust our intuition again.
If a man’s morals is out of WACK, his love is out of wack! PREACH!!!!!🙌🏾
Wasn't that simply profound?
If you don’t want your child (children) to turn out like him, then why are you w/this type of man? Best advice Tony has ever given!!!! This one paraphrase hit me like a ton of bricks.
Me too
Yes that’s why he was just dumped
When I met my current boyfriend I honestly was not attracted to him so I step out of my comfort zone and gave him chance….I noticed that 6 months in He was just so sexy and good looking to me….He shy and timid but a wonderful man he gives me TIME and TIME again…
WOW! I pray for a wonderful life between you two . Love stories like yours
Same here !! I started to listen to stony Gaskins before I met my Fiancé and I applied everything he taught me into this relationship and WOW!! I have never been happier. I gave the shy timid man a chance and stopped going after grown boys. Blessings for you!
If a man morals is out of wack his love will be out of wack.. Good stuff TG
@UCCitZwHz5ChxB_jXtwXFxVw We all have been through some type of headache from a unstable man. I’m learning to stop over looking men with low character. By pouring more love into myself… Stay blessed Queen you made it out.💪
need to get that on a billboard👏👏😌😅
Listen to Tony ladies! I thought I did everything right. He was the sound man at church, we waited until married to have sex, but I ignored the red flags. He lacked stability, integrity & character. I thought it was God. I thought I could change him. I was wrong. I spent 9 years in confusion and chaos. He was addicted to pornography, mean, emotionally abusive & abandoned us every time things got hard. I’m free now, but I have to co-parent with him the rest of my kids life. Hard lesson, but I learned.
How did you get the strength to leave?
I think it was asking God for his strength. I think it’s God’s help and strength is what it really takes.
"abandoned us every time things go hard" whew, when I say I related to that, guuuuurl 😆
Congrats on being able to move on. But thank you for highlighting that this man was in the church. We, as women definitely have to vet these men and pay attention to the signs, especially with the ones in the church, on your job, etc. Watch a person's ACTIONS & HIS CHARACTER. It's the being shown for a reason. ♥️
Stay strong sister!
I think once women unlearn the desire to be a "fixer" and let go of the "good woman ego syndrome" that says that being a good woman exempts you from trash men not wanting a relationship, dating life would be a breeze.
Wow this is deep. “If you can’t see your son being like the man you are dating then you need to stop seeing that man”. I had to end relationships real quick with men that curse at me, overly aggressive, always in the club, and doing drugs(especially since I’m in recovery) . My children future matters to me and what they are exposed to.
I honest-to-God believe the work you are doing is literally saving lives and reversing generations of curses. Thank you for following your calling and fighting the GOOD fight.
❤️
Amen and amen again!
17:44
18:06
“If you don’t want your son to turn out like this man then close your legs and run!!!!! TG “.
4 Sho!!!
Tony, everything you describe in a man is what I just had to walk away from. The verbal abuse was horrible. Sometimes the men we want the most is the one's we need to be running from.
That’s right we do run 🏃♀️ hard lesson I’ve learned.
When I left my now ex who was a grown boy, what compelled me to leave was Tony's voice in my head, gon' about your business, along with his impersonation of taking the purse and leaving!!! Thank god for Tony 😊
Yesss I was in a situation with a man too where Tony’s voice was playing in my head. “ Got to go!”
@@j-tenn226 yesss! Anything less than respectful or gentlemen behaviour, got to go!
The headphone purse takes me down.😭
Love that phrase: gon bout yo business!! Gonna get the tee!
Changing the world one video at a time.
Praise God!
Bless you, Tony!
Love how you put that.
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! GREAT INSPIRING AMAZING STRONG POWERFUL POSITIVE WORDS OF WISDOM! YES INDEED! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! SMILE ALWAYS!( EVEN IN STORMS THAT U GO THRU!) HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! GOD IS WORKIN IT OUT! ON HIS GOD GIVEN RIGHT TIME! GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY! GOD WILL SEE US THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING! GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! GOD HAS US COVERED! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR THIS BLESSED TODAY! AND FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS! AND FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ! PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! NOV2021
Those Tony Gaskins stares after he asks a rhetorical question get me every time.
Another awesome video. Thank you.
I'm looking forward to the video with you and AO.
Preach on, Tony. The son comparison is a great way to think about it. Not every man is fit to be a husband and father. Be okay with walking away from the man who is not husband material. Passing this messag on to my single girlfriends!!
Tony when your network hits the airwaves, these grown boys gon’ be so sick!! 😩
They ain’t gonna know what to do no more!!!!
They will need a pamper 🥺🤣
I always rewatch these videos whenever I’m talking to a new guy and they typically get cut off after lol. Thanks for the gems Uncle Tony
Such a dedicated servant of God, serving in sickness and in health. Be blessed Mr. Tony. I thank you for showing up. Your work is appreciated.
I normally do not comment but WOW, this spoke to me! I didn't even get far into the video but I know more HEAT is coming!
I feel like i need to watch this video each month lol.
GOD BLESS YOU TONY G.
If you don't know what that man do, it's FRAAUUD! 🤣
Get better soon Tony. We need you 🙏🇦🇺
I think we can all agree that common sense ain't common anymore!
Hey Pastor Tony, there are 3 whole entire Family members I am intensely compelled to send this to, to free them … 🥺🙏🏽💕 But apparently I’m “that Girl” in my Family - so I can’t. Believing on God for their awakening & Freedom 😩🙏🏽💕
I shared one of Tony's videos with a woman who was in a long distance situationship several months ago. We clicked but then she became radio silent and I have a gut sense it was because she became offended by the truth. Its great to see Tony address this is a regular thing that happens when we try to help others and not to fear sharing the truth with others! Here I was concerned it wasn't in my place to share that video with her, now I know that sometimes we have to be OK with offending others.
Emotional Intelligence is so important. There are good books on it. I love your book you and Sherry wrote.
Thank you for your comment. Can you please recommend a couple of good books that help emotional intelligence? Thank you in advance 😊
Lord have mercy! Ladies, we have got to do better! Close your legs and run! Pray to God to bring you a real man and keep them legs closed until marriage.
Truly! 💜🙏🏾
If a man’s morals out of whack, a man’s love will be out of whack 🎯
A woman told me on her wedding day her husband told her that he quit smoking cold turkey the day she told him she hated smokers. 🙌🏽
Wow!! That man really cares for that woman.
Hope you feel better very soon!!
I needed this message 4 years ago. I hope someone learns from this. Please listen!!!
If I saw this message when it came out WHEWW, would’ve saved a big headache. Very important!
I need to be sleep, but I can never listen to Tony subconsciously while sleep because I keep popping up laughing and looking at his facial expressions while trying to go to sleep. 😂
Me too😅
I know just what you mean lol
Me too!
This is fina be me right now 😩😂😂
Same lol. Then he say something wild like “i don’t even know if that’s the right word to use but ima use it anyways cause it sound good” 🤣😂
Mr. Gaskins thank you so much for your life lessons on this subject. If the Lord could reveal to me who my true king is just like for a lot of women... we wouldn't have to worry about grown boys
Hey blessed tribe! Yesss Tony! All makes sense and your facial expressions are priceless! 🙌🙏🏻
Honey you're preaching! I said this years ago while dating and the fact you bringing it back full circle is a blessing to me! Glory to God, God I thank you for freeing me! 🙌🏽
Your messages are so powerful and they always hit home. I love watching them. Thank you!
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! GREAT INSPIRING AMAZING STRONG POWERFUL POSITIVE STRONG INSPIRING WORDS OF WISDOM! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! NOV2021
You are absolutely right. Would you want your son to be like this man? Our standards have diminished, but like you said, WE glorify cool, sexy, addictive personality, verbally abusive and expect them to be exemplary fathers. Not only is it unrealistic, its insane! Thank you for your words Tony, you have been an amazing resource.
I screamed when he looked at that phone for 12 seconds 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I love when he does that blank stare😳😳🤣
I ain’t even watched the video yet but I know the exact face you speaking of 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Screamed ok?! Hahahahahahahaha
😂😂😂
OMG wait what! I cannot wait to see you and Anthony O’Neal’s COLLABORATION 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽✊🏽💯
I am shouting on that Outtro!!! Even though I did not peoperly vet n therfore was a SM, I sacrificed to be at every game, every school event, evrything my son had and I got so much pushback from my mother. She didnt understand because she wasnt there for me n sisters for our activities. It was lonely as a child to not be nurtured by my mother. I vowed to be there there for my children, but only had 1 to not make that mistake again. Thank you for this video. Just shared with my son.
Love me some Tony Gaskins 😊 bless him n his family 💯💯💯
You preached on this video. I was laughing and saying amen at the same time!!
I haven't had cable in years but a network like this could definitely help me change my mind.
Tony, you are above the weather because the Greater One lives in you. By the stripes of Jesus Christ you are healed. Speedy recovery in Jesus Name 🙏
"Love is a moral act."T.G.
Wow! That is so profound! Hit the nail on the head, Mr. Gaskins! Blessings to you and your family!!!
He is worth it if he meets all your criteria you should have listed in you journal, diary or note pad when you were a child. If you never wrote it down, you need to do it now. If you need to see another woman’s notes, because you can not think of everything you need to look for, just ask me for mine.
Please do
Tony you are telling it like it is! We have to evaluate these men, certain things us as women shouldn't be tolerating from men. I teach my son to be respectful and how to take of himself..I've learned so much from your videos and I also follow Anthony O'Neal as well. I wish ya'll nothing but success if you form a channel..Get Well Soon! May God continue to bless you & your family!
😂😂😂😂 It’s the eye blinking for me😂
Tony I’ve done much self reflection and realize that I want to do better in life for myself not for others. Thank you for your videos they have truly helped me.
Emotions over Logic and Reasoning. That’s why it’s hard Tony 😬
Good Teaching 🙏🏾❤️💪🏾
I love it here!!! I don’t listen to anyone else about relationships Everything that you tell us is sooo true. Glory to God, all praises to the most high for your deliverance. Then teaching is to do better & be better. Thank you TG!
Thank you family 💪🏾
Thank you Tony! ❤️🙏🏾
Thanks, Tony, great video I’m 23 not been in a relationship etc so your videos from a Godly standpoint too is great I’ve learnt a lot so I can avoid a lot of mess (I’m from a single-parent household so I’ve learnt a lot from my mum too but not everything) when it comes to dating/relationships. Communication, emotional intelligence, intention, morals, values, integrity and more are so so important! Great video I watch from London U.K. ✨🙌🏾 P.S you’re the funniest the dead stares or woman impression got me 😂😭
It's soo good that you learn before you date! I am 23 too and to heal after bad relationship is a hard task. I'm so glad young women are learning. Wish you peace, Sister! 🙏
Tony's facial expressions on this video make me laugh so hard! Love this. If morals are out of whack the love will be out of whack.
There is no amount of anyting that he may have for me to give benefits that belong to marriage. Hope you feel better Tony.
You’re such a blessing! I love your family and ministry 🙌🏾🙏🏾
Yes! Yes! Yes! Keep Bringing It Brother! 💪🏽✊🏽👐🏽🤛🏽🤴🏽 So Much Clarity / Validation!💃🏽💃🏽🏃🏽💥💥
I’m so paranoid from past relationships. I set a boundary with the person I’m with and let him know that I need time to myself with God. I’ve seen anger in his eyes and that’s something that scares me along with the mirroring. He keeps doing stuff like this so I’ll stay with him I’m not stupid. 🤷♀️ It’s very uncomfortable though and I’m even questioning his church. I need to know that I’m safe with the person and I want to be safe also. The man I am with doesn’t do anything bad like this but I think because people have left him in his life he doesn’t want me to leave him also and that’s scary for me. This is why woman and men need their own lives and I’m trying to find my own life.
I suggest counseling.....you two can meet with your Pastor or a couple of the Family to get relationship tips! Food for thought....
Tonyyyyy! This was another confirmation that I made the right decision. My daughter’s father gives me so much trouble and is so inconsistent and inconsiderate when it comes to her. And he is addicted to weed, gets drunk and also addicted to m*stubation. I wish I discovered your channel before I got on my back to have her, but I’ve learned my lesson! Still learning and growing and making sure my daughter is my top priority. Thanks for all you do! God bless!
It's well but make sure you throw the whole baby daddy away
@@emmydarling4969 I did that long ago 😂 just glad I’m on the right track.
Love is a moral act. 😌🙌🏼
Tony's right.
We got *-matized
and slept with them that's how we got caught up
I am in this boat now and trying to jump ship.
Idk where the godly men are but it's time for me to love myself.
I got into my marriage vowing the be a hundred percent faithful but I doubt my estranged husband meant the same and seemed to have ulterior motives.
Tony's videos have helped to stand up against abuse and have helped me so much!
Thanks Tony and blessings to you and your family!!
Thank You Tony!!!😎😎
“If you are sleeping with a man that you would not want your son to be exactly like .. Close your legs and run” 🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️✌🏾
Ahhhh Tony Gaskins, you always right on time!!! Thank you 😊 🙏🏾
God bless you abundantly a thousand times more in Jesus Name
Thank you Tony! Be BLESSED!!!!!
It's funny to me, when Tony hits you with the pause and blink. 😀
Those facial expressions keep me cracking up 😂Thank goodness I am saving myself for a good god fearing man vs some of these men women have settled for today because JESUS I couldn’t image dealing with the headaches. I look & watch everything about men I date because I can’t just marry anybody let alone have a child by them!
Whew! Wish we had these kind of talks 36 years ago. KEEP it UP!
Sir, you have my respect. A man only knows a man.
Man I love these videos! It's 12am here lol. I whole heartily agree!! I don't have any children, and sometimes people tell me I'm super picky when it comes to these men. 🤦🏽♀️ But people just don't know when I vet a man I'm also thinking about my future children. I want a husband for me, and a true father for my kid/s. I'm not a smoker, drinker, or clubber. I'm an corporate worker and an entrepreneur. I'm not perfect by any means, but I need someone to match my energy. I did the clubbing in my 20s but still went to work the next morning. 🤣 Change and growth is real. I now realize where my immaturity was then as woman. I'm currently looking at a man and comparing him from our 20s to him today in our 30s. I often smile at his growth and his level up. He is an emmaculate father, son, worker and business owner today.🙌🏽
Lord have mercy God bless you 🙏🏼🙌❤brother Tony.
I love that concept let's all help each other God-bless you Tony your amazing
I never thought about men being insecure - especially the flashy cocky ones but it makes sense. Thanks Mr. Tony.
Yessss for the network! Get it!
That pause at 14:40 is so powerful and I have no words to justify my ex's behavior on Video games. And I slowly get the point that he is not the one if he doesn't change. I definitely don't want my boy to get addicted to games.
This is good 🙏🏾
We are responsible for what we allow
I’m so glad to hear you say that about the network. Because there have been times I can’t even begin to count how many of the videos that I have watched of yours that I wish so bad I could broadcast to the world. I wish I knew how to get that started for you Tony because I most definitely without hesitation would do it for you in a second.
You ain’t said nothing but the word!! 👏🏾 Thank you for you
Checking in
Thank you Mr. Gaskins
If u ever feel like it, can u plz plz plz do a video on time management n diligence 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Hi Mr.Gaskins thank you for another great video.God bless you
Love your vision for that network Mr. Gaskins. Pray it's manifested 🙌🏽💖🔥
One of your best. Every single word so good.
You are a blessing! Preach on and keep speaking wisdom 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Tony is the truth! Make us free!!!
Thai is right on time!!! I’m tapped in ✍🏼✍🏼✍🏼
Been watching you for a while now. I didn't know you had a few books out until you mentioned The new guy code in another video and I looked it up. Thanks for the reference to encourage me to offer it to my son. He's in prison and I'm always looking for supportive material to send him. Love your work Tony. When you say your topics are for somebody out there, I thank you!
Lol. Tony cracks me up!
Understood and agreed with, yes and amen!
Thank you for all your effort, time and truth, I learn so much from you Sir....God bless you, Okie Girl
This was beyond good and on time. So much respect for the way you handled your conversation with Anthony and your vision for helpful/useful entertainment on television 🙌🏾🙏🏾 May the Lord bring the right connections to see that into fulfillment.
AMEN!! "HELP SOMEBODY OUT"!
Yup it’s a chain reaction, each one teach one! No competition on bettering human relationships.
Loved that last 5 minute rants lol 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
This channel should be at 900k 💯. Gods timing 🙏🏽