Hmong people need to get rid of 40-50k funeral. Cut expenses. No funeral home rental. No eating cows. Just do 2 hours funeral at church, catered luncheon then unto cemetery service. Pay for casket, plot, vault, morgue/transport, catered food. $10k should cover all expenses. All siblings should pay equally. We must adjust to American standards and our own financial strengths only not on kwvtij Neejtsa expectations n traditions. Many of today young couples will prefer this method/approach and is very feasible.
Kuv tsis tau taub tias cas muaj 1 cov neeg es yuav ruam2 tiag2 li. Thaum xub twb kom yuav life Ins. es twb tsis kam yuav tab sis thaum yuav tau nyiaj no ces sij hais kom tus yuav life ins ntaw faib nyiaj no na. Koj yuav tsum nkag siab tias luag muab luag pob nyiaj mus them ces cov nyiaj ntaw yog luag li xwb.
This story is not about siblings fighting over money but about how money can reveal a person's true character. It revealed that the oldest brother was the most evil of all the siblings.
I never understand why siblings would fight over money or funeral issues until our family experienced it firsthand. You will never know how evil anyone really is until a parent died! Still recovering from all the heartache! So much back stabbing and betrayals!
If there’s over 6 of us siblings and I’m the only one paying for a life insurance policy. They better come up with something. Hmong parents need to think smarter nowadays. The mistake a lot of Hmong family make is that they expect the person with the life insurance policy to take full responsibility for the deceased funeral. That’s not how it works. And another mistake for the Hmong parents, if you want a grand funeral for yourself…better get your own life insurance policy. Have a power of attorney written will so them nasty kids don’t try to kill each other over money. Problem solved!!!
Totally agreed! Whoever buy insurance is just to cover their own ass, not to cover every body else's ass. If you don't have life insurance then just cough up the money and out of your own pocket, the end of the story.
I agreed on purchasing life insurance for the elderly…some complain they don’t have money to pay but have money to do so many leisure activities; at the end expect those with life insurance are exposed to contribute more. It’s not fair. It’s all about priorities
While I understand and respect the Hmong funeral culture, I feel it is way too expensive, which is the root cause and stress for the children and rivalry and hate between siblings. The funeral should be a time to mourn our loved ones and not slaving cooking for guests. Of course, the family should provide food for guests, but food should not be the focus as it's one of the major costs of the funeral. Just my two cents. I do hope that with time, we Hmong slowly change, so it does not create stress, burden, and hate between siblings.
From now on the parents should buy their own life insurance for themselves and stop depending on their kids, I’m a parent too I pay for own life insurance policy and i still buy a term too so that my kids get some extra money .
U can bet that if i buy life insurance policy for someone, it's to cover MY a$$, not everyone else's. Good luck to whoever is fighting for that money that I PAID for. Lol.
Peb cov funeral yuav tau pauv, vim tib qho nyiaj sib txeeb sib khib xwb. But as parents we need to save money for our own funeral too, not just rely and burden your children.
Why blame money? Blame yourself. Money, gold, richness, wealth, success, have no evil/have no mind. It's only you and the people thar surrounded you are evil. Blaming money will make you poor and poorer.
In this case, the other 2 sons are losers. The parents have put their trust in the kids too much and didn’t save for their own funeral. The 3 siblings that had life insurance didn’t give 2 shits about their older brother who claimed he didn’t have money, but was able to do so much for his in-laws. So he acted out by putting a restraining order on the sisters.
Nyuj ua nyuj thauj, neeg ua ris xwb. Ua zoo xwb thiaj muaj kev kaj siab, thiaj muaj kev muaj yeej. Neb ob tus ntxhais yeej nqeg peev ntau zog los ua neb niam neb txiv lub chawv xeeb chawv lav los neb yeej tau txoj hmoo ua ab tsi yog ab tsi. Tus neeg ua qia dlub, kauj khaum, nws tsi nqeg peev los pab los nws kuj nyob li ntawd xwb tsi nplua nuj. Yog lub neej tiam tshiab no tes yog tau tus nyab los tus vauv siab luj tes tsi luaj tws. Tabsi yog tau tus los tus vauv nplaum 2 tes tes ua ab tsi los tsi tsheej ab tsi lis os.
Ua neej nyob hais tsis tau tuag mam los hais niam qhuav pom me2 li ko xwb tsis yog nej niam los xyuas os yog phem dhau es nws rov hem nws tus kheej xwb txhob xav tias yus ua phem rau tej niam tej txiv es yuav dim no Vajtswv txoj lus tsuas qhuab qhia kom ua neej hwm niam hwm txiv xwb koj tsis hwm tsis hlub koj niam uas muab txoj sia rau koj es koj yuav ua cas ua tau ib tug neeg zoo mus hlub Vajtswv Tsevneeg mus ua tau tus qauvzoo rau neeg ntiaj teb kawm os
Wow, kicked his own parents out for his Hmong Lao in-laws. In the US, don't depend on sons. Once they're married, they're neutered and will do anything and everything their wife says, especially if the wife is a nkauj mos ab. When she says jump, he will say how high. If she wants his parents and 1st born gone, he'll do it.
Very few Hmong Americans become rich after marrying a Hmong Lao. Like the story a few days ago titled "Kawm tag daim degree xa nyiaj lawm", the Hmong American now need to support everyone, including those in Laos... not to mention the $20k - $50k s/he needs to go there, marry him/her, bring him/her in the US.
Zoo li nej cov nus muas yau thiab cov kwv tij ruam tib yam. Tus tij laug twb tsis tawm nyiaj ces muab nws cais tawm thaum lub hauv paus ces twb tsis muaj teeb meem. Ua cas tseem muab nyiaj rau nws tuav thiab.
Everyone one should buy it for themselves asap. So when you do pass away you have enough to cover your own funeral and don’t rely on your kids to must pay for the funeral expenses.
Peb ua neeg nyob peb yuav tau hlub tej laus vim peb muaj peb ib pab, peb yuav vam peb cov hlub peb thiab. Yog peb tsis ua ib tug qauv zoo rau peb tej me nyuam coj ces txog thaum kawg peb yuav ua li peb ua rau peb niam peb txiv thiab. Nkauj muam nraug mus yuav tau sib koom siab hlub tej laus vim peb ua yeeb ncuab los ua rau teb chaw ntshai peb thiab thuam peb. Tsis tag li xwb yuav sau tau ib zaj dab neeg rau teb chaws xyav yus lub koob mus ntev ntev uas luag yuav tsis muaj kev fwm peb tej me nyuam.
That's messed up what your brother did. Idc how drama queens u sisters may have been. It's your father's funeral and u daughters have the right to go see him for the last time. How selfish and evil he was when he didn't put out any money towards the funeral. I think he did that bc he's afraid u sisters will fight for the sunshine money. What a selfish evil brother.
Thanks for sharing, I believe every family goes through disagreements during the funeral. But, your brother was so messed up to have done that to you and your sister.
I heard too many of this kind of stories. 1st of all its shouldn't have been the kids responsible to bury the parents. I want to save enough so i wont put the burden on my kids when i go bye. For the old he just greedy, he want to gain only.
Ua cas tsis hnov cov nus tuaj tham txog cov muam li tsuas hnov cov muam tuaj tham cov nus nkaus2 xwb es nej sim xav seb cov muam zoo dua los cov nus zoo dua os lawv
Niam ntsuab Teev cas tsis hnov koj hais txog zaj neej neeg uas ob niam tub sib nrhiav tau es tus niam yuav mus tos tus tub tuaj nrog leej niam nyob tim american li lawm
Tos tej laus pheej hais lo lus tias RUAM tsab ntse ces yog li no mas thaum yus them ces yus niam ua tus tsis muaj nyiaj them li thaum lwm tus ho coj mus them tau nyiaj no ces yus ho yuav txeeb kom muab npaum ub npaum no los. Aub yo aub yo RUAM tsab ntse ces yog thaum no ntag o
Sister cov nus phem2 li koj ob tus nus ntawm ces ua neej yeej txog twg os mog, tam sim no mus ces cov teeb meem zoo li no ces yuav Muaj zuj zus rau peb cov hmoob lawm xwb nawv mog
Wow, your oldest brother must be really JEALOUS of you and your sister. Mob koj siab txog qhov nw ua phem li no rau nej. If it's me, I buh-bye that kind of brother forever. Tu neeg phem yeej tsis tau qho zoo.
Tus nyab nus dev ko cas tsis tuag cia kj txiv nyob nab siab phej li ko yuav npam kom tag tiam no hos yeej tsis tau lub neej zoo li nws yuav ua dev thawj thiab kom txog hnub nws tuag kiag ntsia mus ov
Ntshaw life insurance npaum ko cas nyias tsis yuav nyias naw, leej twg yog tus them ces yog leej twg li xwb mas hmoob ruam. Thaum them nyiaj mas tsis muaj neeg xav them tab sis thaum lwm tus tau nyiaj mas npav lub txeeb xwb pab nej txaj muag dhau lawm os hmoob aw....cas nej yuav ruam thiab ntshaw nyiaj ua luaj li na. Kav liam mas siab phem li koj niag nus ko ces yuav npam sai2 ntag lauv, ntuj nyob qis2 lawm .
Yeej yog li ntawv kawg yus nim xav tias yus muaj lawv tsa vim kom yus muaj chaw nyob no los muab sib tag nro xwb luag coj ntxawv kiag lawm thaum lawv tseem ua nkauj ua nraug cesyeej xav ntshe yuav tau tus yus yuav tau lub chaw ntsaub no tag sis thaum kawg muaj kev tu siab tshaj li os lawv aw
Hmoob mékas ruam, ib tug neeg tuag lawm cas nej yuav ua ntees loj ua luaj ? noj luam lug haus luam lug cuag li tus tuag ntawd yuav txawj sawv rov qab los, luag tej neeg tawv dawb txawm yog ib tug nom loj luag twb tsis ua loj npaum lib ib tug hmoob. Vim li cas nej hmoob mékas yuav mus hu dab vum loj ua luaj li ? kuv muaj ib co neeg txheeb ze nyob tebchaws mékas no twb tsis tau thau tus tuag los pam txawm siv noj tas ib ob tug npua thiab ib tug nyuj lawm, nej hmoob mékas mas cuag li ib sim neej tsis noj dua nqaij hlo li, thov kom paub txaj muag rau lub ntiajteb me ntsis thiab.
Tej teeb meem no tsis tim nyiaj, tim nej cov nus muag tsis txawj sib hlub, tsis txawj sib pab, tim kev sib khib, kev tsis hlub niam hlub txiv, kev siab phem, kev tsis txawj xav, kev tsab ntse li koj niag nus es tseem mus ua ntawv tiv thaiv neb ib viv ncaus, tej no yog tim neeg lub siab phem nkaus2 xwb vim mloog mas nej niam nej txiv nkawv twb tsis muaj nyiaj ntau npaum li cas rau nej sib txeeb. Yog phem npaum li koj niag nus ces mus tshaj los Vaj Tswv yeej tsis zam txim pub nws tsuas yog nws lam nkim sij hawm xwb.
This story is the most headache drama. The best solution is guys do your own part to chip in. Oh yau...tej nis no los ntxim ntxub ua luaj li os. Xyov li lauj....niaj laus laus nia lawn es cas yus tsis paub tias yus niam ta yus yis es pheej siab phem ua luaj. Neeg phem mas tsis paub hais lawn.
Tsis yog kev tu siab los ntawm nyiaj, it’s from greedy, cold hearted siblings!!! Money had no problems with your family. Your older brother was way too dumb and greedy, and your middle brother had no brain to let his wife control him. Your parents and you guys didn’t plan ahead. You guys allowed a few thousands to ruin a lifetime of sibling relationships.
Just saying… People who buy INSURANCE you’re buying insurance so that way when a LOVE one pass away the INSURANCE money can cover it! Instead of you paying from your pocket! You pay for the funeral and expenses! What’s left you can keep! Hmong way… you give money to relatives also because when my dad passed away that’s what they said! American way…. Only the people who paid for the insurance keeps it “the partner and the kids.”
The moment I heard the husbands didnt agree to them going to the funeral home with the restraint order… it means the sisters in this story probably drama queens that their husbands had enough of their drama too! The whole clan and mother didnt release the restraint order means that the sisters are trouble makers and their presence are absolutely unnecessary! I don’t believe a thing until I hear the brothers’ side.
Not true at all. The husbands drove their wives to the funeral they didn't want any trouble upon themselves so they didn't attend the funeral. Noting Hmong traditions, daughters are outsiders and are not obligated to give any money. The fact that they each gave 10k shows that they weren't petty or jealous. The older brother got the restraining order bc he wanted all the sunshine money, didn't want to share any with the sisters.
Hmong tradition or not, everyone should help regardless...it's their parents. Can't have the son and daughter in law carry all the loads.. I'm a daughter. When my mother passed away, we all chipped in 6 grand to help my one and only brother.
@@c.lee-soulisak327 based on hmong tradition, girls aren’t supposed to inherit the parents’s wealth mean they arent supposed to have life insurance policy either if they do not intend to help bury their parents. Since they do, it is only right that they contribute instead of making a business out of their parents. They probably mocking the brothers so they got restrained order. The brothers are wrong for being jealous but since the clan didn’t reject the restrained order mean the clan believe the sisters deserved it due to drama queen behaviors.
Kav tsij muab koj tus dab laug hlob ko tso plig os. Tsis tas yuav ua neej ua nus ntxiv lawm. Coj li nws ces Tom ntej mus tseem yuav ntsib kev phom sij heev...
Why can't you just do it without him? He didn't contribute anything anyways. 🤷♀️ wouldn't make a difference if you guys did the funeral or not. It's still your money and not his.
Oh tus nyab no siab phem tiag2 yog yus nyiam luag tus tub lawm yus yuav hlub luag niam liag txiv ho tus tub no lwm hun tus nyab no ua nws lub maib tuaj ces kawg nws pam paub mas
Cas tus ñus no yuav got free ride ne. Tab sis nyob nyob tus ñus no tsis lam cia li ua ntawv tsis pub neb tuaj pob. Neb yuav tsum tsim teeb meem dab tsi lawm nws thiaj goon neb rau court txwv tsis pub neb tuaj
Sounds like my evil sil. Even tho she bought life insurance for my parents she demands everyone pitch in for funeral bc her share of the money is for her only and does not cover funeral expenses 🤦🏻♀️
Hmong people need to get rid of 40-50k funeral. Cut expenses. No funeral home rental. No eating cows. Just do 2 hours funeral at church, catered luncheon then unto cemetery service. Pay for casket, plot, vault, morgue/transport, catered food. $10k should cover all expenses. All siblings should pay equally. We must adjust to American standards and our own financial strengths only not on kwvtij Neejtsa expectations n traditions. Many of today young couples will prefer this method/approach and is very feasible.
Kuv tsis tau taub tias cas muaj 1 cov neeg es yuav ruam2 tiag2 li. Thaum xub twb kom yuav life Ins. es twb tsis kam yuav tab sis thaum yuav tau nyiaj no ces sij hais kom tus yuav life ins ntaw faib nyiaj no na. Koj yuav tsum nkag siab tias luag muab luag pob nyiaj mus them ces cov nyiaj ntaw yog luag li xwb.
Yog no yeej yog neeg nkaus xav Kom luag poob es nws dim dawb thiab kaus luag xwb
This story is not about siblings fighting over money but about how money can reveal a person's true character. It revealed that the oldest brother was the most evil of all the siblings.
I never understand why siblings would fight over money or funeral issues until our family experienced it firsthand. You will never know how evil anyone really is until a parent died! Still recovering from all the heartache! So much back stabbing and betrayals!
If there’s over 6 of us siblings and I’m the only one paying for a life insurance policy. They better come up with something. Hmong parents need to think smarter nowadays. The mistake a lot of Hmong family make is that they expect the person with the life insurance policy to take full responsibility for the deceased funeral. That’s not how it works. And another mistake for the Hmong parents, if you want a grand funeral for yourself…better get your own life insurance policy. Have a power of attorney written will so them nasty kids don’t try to kill each other over money. Problem solved!!!
Totally agreed! Whoever buy insurance is just to cover their own ass, not to cover every body else's ass. If you don't have life insurance then just cough up the money and out of your own pocket, the end of the story.
I agreed on purchasing life insurance for the elderly…some complain they don’t have money to pay but have money to do so many leisure activities; at the end expect those with life insurance are exposed to contribute more. It’s not fair. It’s all about priorities
He has money. He just sent it all to his in-laws in Laos.
Txoj kev txhaum, txawm mus ntseeg vaj tswv los yeej tsis dim txoj kev npam os vim Tswv Ntuj ntxub txoj kev txhaum tshaj plaws. Kev ua txhaum yog dab phem tej hauj lwm, yog tswv ntuj tus yeeb ncuab loj tshaj.
While I understand and respect the Hmong funeral culture, I feel it is way too expensive, which is the root cause and stress for the children and rivalry and hate between siblings. The funeral should be a time to mourn our loved ones and not slaving cooking for guests. Of course, the family should provide food for guests, but food should not be the focus as it's one of the major costs of the funeral. Just my two cents. I do hope that with time, we Hmong slowly change, so it does not create stress, burden, and hate between siblings.
From now on the parents should buy their own life insurance for themselves and stop depending on their kids, I’m a parent too I pay for own life insurance policy and i still buy a term too so that my kids get some extra money .
1000% agreed!!
U can bet that if i buy life insurance policy for someone, it's to cover MY a$$, not everyone else's. Good luck to whoever is fighting for that money that I PAID for. Lol.
Peb cov funeral yuav tau pauv, vim tib qho nyiaj sib txeeb sib khib xwb. But as parents we need to save money for our own funeral too, not just rely and burden your children.
Yus niam yus txiv yug tau yus lawm yus tseem los ua plaub ua ntug crs yeej tsis tau txoj kev zoo nawb cov me nyuam
I don’t understand why people feel entitled to insurance money if they don’t pay for it.
Muam yeej hlub nus tshaj tiag mas
2 tug vidncaus, 2 niag nus nyab siab phem limhiam ntawd nkawd ua niam&txiv 1 qho xwb. Tom ntej no, Nkawd 2 tug pojniam yuav tso nkawd tseg, yuav raug 1 txhiab 100 qhov. Nkawd tuag tsis muaj tus rho nyiaj pam & faus 1 yam li nkawd ua rau niam&txiv. Kom niam&txiv txhob tso nkawd tseg, kavtsij los hem 2 tug nyab nrog kom ciaj khaub, tsis pus nyab muab nyiaj mus thas niamtais yawmtxiv li thiab.
So true..cov muam thiaj hlub tau cov nus xwb .
cov nus yeej hlub tsis tau cov muam.
Cov niag nus siab Dab tau nyab xob txhiaj, los ua tsev neeg tawg tag, kv los muaj 1tus zoo li ntawv thiab😢
Nej lub teb chaws loj g dav g los ca nej lub siab tsi loj tsi dav
Why blame money? Blame yourself. Money, gold, richness, wealth, success, have no evil/have no mind. It's only you and the people thar surrounded you are evil. Blaming money will make you poor and poorer.
I agree, it should be "kev tu siab vim ntshaw nyiaj"
In this case, the other 2 sons are losers. The parents have put their trust in the kids too much and didn’t save for their own funeral. The 3 siblings that had life insurance didn’t give 2 shits about their older brother who claimed he didn’t have money, but was able to do so much for his in-laws. So he acted out by putting a restraining order on the sisters.
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Well said!!!!!
Nyuj ua nyuj thauj, neeg ua ris xwb. Ua zoo xwb thiaj muaj kev kaj siab, thiaj muaj kev muaj yeej. Neb ob tus ntxhais yeej nqeg peev ntau zog los ua neb niam neb txiv lub chawv xeeb chawv lav los neb yeej tau txoj hmoo ua ab tsi yog ab tsi. Tus neeg ua qia dlub, kauj khaum, nws tsi nqeg peev los pab los nws kuj nyob li ntawd xwb tsi nplua nuj. Yog lub neej tiam tshiab no tes yog tau tus nyab los tus vauv siab luj tes tsi luaj tws. Tabsi yog tau tus los tus vauv nplaum 2 tes tes ua ab tsi los tsi tsheej ab tsi lis os.
He don't want you at the funeral you should ask for your 10k back? Remember you a outsider when you married your husband.
Make it simple. All kids come out evenly and stop tryna feed the whole community. That’s something us Hmong need to understand now days.
Ua neej nyob hais tsis tau tuag mam los hais niam qhuav pom me2 li ko xwb tsis yog nej niam los xyuas os yog phem dhau es nws rov hem nws tus kheej xwb txhob xav tias yus ua phem rau tej niam tej txiv es yuav dim no Vajtswv txoj lus tsuas qhuab qhia kom ua neej hwm niam hwm txiv xwb koj tsis hwm tsis hlub koj niam uas muab txoj sia rau koj es koj yuav ua cas ua tau ib tug neeg zoo mus hlub Vajtswv Tsevneeg mus ua tau tus qauvzoo rau neeg ntiaj teb kawm os
Wow, kicked his own parents out for his Hmong Lao in-laws. In the US, don't depend on sons. Once they're married, they're neutered and will do anything and everything their wife says, especially if the wife is a nkauj mos ab. When she says jump, he will say how high. If she wants his parents and 1st born gone, he'll do it.
Very few Hmong Americans become rich after marrying a Hmong Lao. Like the story a few days ago titled "Kawm tag daim degree xa nyiaj lawm", the Hmong American now need to support everyone, including those in Laos... not to mention the $20k - $50k s/he needs to go there, marry him/her, bring him/her in the US.
Need more life stories like this instead of cheating/divorce stories all the time
Zoo li nej cov nus muas yau thiab cov kwv tij ruam tib yam. Tus tij laug twb tsis tawm nyiaj ces muab nws cais tawm thaum lub hauv paus ces twb tsis muaj teeb meem. Ua cas tseem muab nyiaj rau nws tuav thiab.
Nkauj hmoob nplog liab tus me neeg rau khau khiab koj ntxim hlub heev os❤❤
Everyone one should buy it for themselves asap. So when you do pass away you have enough to cover your own funeral and don’t rely on your kids to must pay for the funeral expenses.
Peb ua neeg nyob peb yuav tau hlub tej laus vim peb muaj peb ib pab, peb yuav vam peb cov hlub peb thiab. Yog peb tsis ua ib tug qauv zoo rau peb tej me nyuam coj ces txog thaum kawg peb yuav ua li peb ua rau peb niam peb txiv thiab. Nkauj muam nraug mus yuav tau sib koom siab hlub tej laus vim peb ua yeeb ncuab los ua rau teb chaw ntshai peb thiab thuam peb. Tsis tag li xwb yuav sau tau ib zaj dab neeg rau teb chaws xyav yus lub koob mus ntev ntev uas luag yuav tsis muaj kev fwm peb tej me nyuam.
Neb cov nus muag mas yuav tsis tau txhais koob hmoov los ntawm nej niam thiab nej txiv li lau, cov poj niam hmoob nplog muaj coob tus siab yeej me22 lawv xav hlub lawv niam lawv txiv xwb, zoo li koj tus nyab tus nus ces kev npam kev khaum caum twb yuav cuag tsis txhob nyuab siab, txawm nkawv mua vaj tswv lawm los koj niam koj txiv yuav tsis tso nkawv tseg li hos
That's messed up what your brother did. Idc how drama queens u sisters may have been. It's your father's funeral and u daughters have the right to go see him for the last time. How selfish and evil he was when he didn't put out any money towards the funeral. I think he did that bc he's afraid u sisters will fight for the sunshine money. What a selfish evil brother.
Thanks for sharing, I believe every family goes through disagreements during the funeral. But, your brother was so messed up to have done that to you and your sister.
Only those close to you can do it to you! They rather love ppl from outside! If you have a perfect family, good for you!
Niag dab laug vauj thiab neeg dag qab siab phem neb 2tus muam khiav kom deb nawj
Yog lawm tsuav muaj peb cov muam hlub cov nyab nu xwb ho nyab tu hlub 3 cov muam ces tsawg xwb os lawv aw
Nyias uas rau nyias ris xwb, uas zoo rau cov laus ces yuav tau zoo. Uas phem ces yeej yuav tau phem xwb.
Tsev neeg no tsis txawj sib hlub. Myab nyiaj saib hlob. I hope we can all live in peace. How sad for the mom to witnessed all the drama.
Yog kawg, muaj ib feem hmoob cov nus yeej tsis hlub cov muam tiag, including kuv thiab tiag, tu siab tshaj los ua nus muag rau tiam no
Nyab Hmoob nlpog zoo tas2, go bring more over here…
I heard too many of this kind of stories. 1st of all its shouldn't have been the kids responsible to bury the parents. I want to save enough so i wont put the burden on my kids when i go bye. For the old he just greedy, he want to gain only.
Yog li tu naim tsev no hais nkawg li os kuv cov nu ib yam li os
Muaj ib cov nus ..tsis mutual.
Ntuj yeej muaj muaj qhov muag li leej twg ua phem ces tau phem xwb yuav npam sai sai no os
Ua cas tsis hnov cov nus tuaj tham txog cov muam li tsuas hnov cov muam tuaj tham cov nus nkaus2 xwb es nej sim xav seb cov muam zoo dua los cov nus zoo dua os lawv
Tsis hnov obtog lus, tabsis yog muaj tseeb tiag li koj hais ces koj tus nus yeej ua tsis yog lawm. Nws yog tus tsim kev kub ntxhov. Pab tu siab kawg peb ua neej nyob peb sd yeej muaj niam muaj txiv muab nkauj muam... peb yuav tau txawj sib hlub yuav tau ua qhov yog xwb thiaj tsis muaj kev tu siab..?
Niam ntsuab Teev cas tsis hnov koj hais txog zaj neej neeg uas ob niam tub sib nrhiav tau es tus niam yuav mus tos tus tub tuaj nrog leej niam nyob tim american li lawm
The oldest brother sounds like my older brother too😢
Tos tej laus pheej hais lo lus tias RUAM tsab ntse ces yog li no mas thaum yus them ces yus niam ua tus tsis muaj nyiaj them li thaum lwm tus ho coj mus them tau nyiaj no ces yus ho yuav txeeb kom muab npaum ub npaum no los. Aub yo aub yo RUAM tsab ntse ces yog thaum no ntag o
Buy your own insurance stop asking your kids to buy you insurance Og
Sister cov nus phem2 li koj ob tus nus ntawm ces ua neej yeej txog twg os mog, tam sim no mus ces cov teeb meem zoo li no ces yuav Muaj zuj zus rau peb cov hmoob lawm xwb nawv mog
Wow, your oldest brother must be really JEALOUS of you and your sister. Mob koj siab txog qhov nw ua phem li no rau nej. If it's me, I buh-bye that kind of brother forever. Tu neeg phem yeej tsis tau qho zoo.
Such an evil brother! He made his own decision so it’s no one’s fault but himself. Don’t feel sorry for your brother.
Tus nyab nus dev ko cas tsis tuag cia kj txiv nyob nab siab phej li ko yuav npam kom tag tiam no hos yeej tsis tau lub neej zoo li nws yuav ua dev thawj thiab kom txog hnub nws tuag kiag ntsia mus ov
Ntshaw life insurance npaum ko cas nyias tsis yuav nyias naw, leej twg yog tus them ces yog leej twg li xwb mas hmoob ruam. Thaum them nyiaj mas tsis muaj neeg xav them tab sis thaum lwm tus tau nyiaj mas npav lub txeeb xwb pab nej txaj muag dhau lawm os hmoob aw....cas nej yuav ruam thiab ntshaw nyiaj ua luaj li na. Kav liam mas siab phem li koj niag nus ko ces yuav npam sai2 ntag lauv, ntuj nyob qis2 lawm .
Koj hai tshaj plaw lawm os mog
Title should “Kwv tij nus muag sib txeeb niam txiv nyiaj tuag” no pob
Yus yog menyuam es cas tseem yuav mus nug tus laus tias cas tsis yuav life insurance pab txaj muag dhau lawm os
I have been hearing Hmong family like this. Money makes you blind and also, when all the siblings have their own life, things like that do happen.
Yog kawg, tsuas muaj cov ntxhais hlub niam thiab txiv xwb. Your older brother is irresponsible.
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What an evil brother. You should be happy with the money you got from your sisters. Ruam noj quav.
Tsis yog tim nyiaj….yog tim neeg lubsiab ua xwb
This is some crazy family
Tau tib co tub dev
Yeej yog li ntawv kawg yus nim xav tias yus muaj lawv tsa vim kom yus muaj chaw nyob no los muab sib tag nro xwb luag coj ntxawv kiag lawm thaum lawv tseem ua nkauj ua nraug cesyeej xav ntshe yuav tau tus yus yuav tau lub chaw ntsaub no tag sis thaum kawg muaj kev tu siab tshaj li os lawv aw
Hmoob mékas ruam, ib tug neeg tuag lawm cas nej yuav ua ntees loj ua luaj ? noj luam lug haus luam lug cuag li tus tuag ntawd yuav txawj sawv rov qab los, luag tej neeg tawv dawb txawm yog ib tug nom loj luag twb tsis ua loj npaum lib ib tug hmoob. Vim li cas nej hmoob mékas yuav mus hu dab vum loj ua luaj li ? kuv muaj ib co neeg txheeb ze nyob tebchaws mékas no twb tsis tau thau tus tuag los pam txawm siv noj tas ib ob tug npua thiab ib tug nyuj lawm, nej hmoob mékas mas cuag li ib sim neej tsis noj dua nqaij hlo li, thov kom paub txaj muag rau lub ntiajteb me ntsis thiab.
Not only hmoob meskas but all Hmong that practice it
Tej teeb meem no tsis tim nyiaj, tim nej cov nus muag tsis txawj sib hlub, tsis txawj sib pab, tim kev sib khib, kev tsis hlub niam hlub txiv, kev siab phem, kev tsis txawj xav, kev tsab ntse li koj niag nus es tseem mus ua ntawv tiv thaiv neb ib viv ncaus, tej no yog tim neeg lub siab phem nkaus2 xwb vim mloog mas nej niam nej txiv nkawv twb tsis muaj nyiaj ntau npaum li cas rau nej sib txeeb. Yog phem npaum li koj niag nus ces mus tshaj los Vaj Tswv yeej tsis zam txim pub nws tsuas yog nws lam nkim sij hawm xwb.
Nws tuag mam pom tias tshuav neb. Cov nus tsab ntse ces zoo li no tiag.
Tsov tom poj hmoob nplog tsab ntse.
Very fun story, sibling
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This story is the most headache drama. The best solution is guys do your own part to chip in. Oh yau...tej nis no los ntxim ntxub ua luaj li os. Xyov li lauj....niaj laus laus nia lawn es cas yus tsis paub tias yus niam ta yus yis es pheej siab phem ua luaj. Neeg phem mas tsis paub hais lawn.
2 niag nyab nus qia dub, tsis xav siv nyiaj them life ins, xav tau nyiaj noj dawb xwb. Yuav tau nyiaj xyobtxhiaj sai2, koob hmoov niam&txiv nqa tag lawm.
Tub yuav Poj nrauj, Poj hmoob nplog nplog, Hom tub no yog Hom twg ? Tij cov tsis muaj peev xwm xwb os.
Tim tus poj nrauj thiab tim tus niam nkauj mos ab xwb nawb lawv aw...
Tsis yog kev tu siab los ntawm nyiaj, it’s from greedy, cold hearted siblings!!! Money had no problems with your family. Your older brother was way too dumb and greedy, and your middle brother had no brain to let his wife control him. Your parents and you guys didn’t plan ahead. You guys allowed a few thousands to ruin a lifetime of sibling relationships.
Evilness runs deep. But karma is still the rule to govern all. Be very very careful.
Xav pom koj tus nus dev tsis tsim txiaj ko lub ntsej muag seb zoo li cas ne.
This is a typical hmong story.
Just saying…
People who buy INSURANCE you’re buying insurance so that way when a LOVE one pass away the INSURANCE money can cover it! Instead of you paying from your pocket!
You pay for the funeral and expenses! What’s left you can keep!
Hmong way… you give money to relatives also because when my dad passed away that’s what they said!
American way…. Only the people who paid for the insurance keeps it “the partner and the kids.”
The problem is that you never see the bad in your brother but blame his poj nrauj. He might be the bad blood.
The moment I heard the husbands didnt agree to them going to the funeral home with the restraint order… it means the sisters in this story probably drama queens that their husbands had enough of their drama too! The whole clan and mother didnt release the restraint order means that the sisters are trouble makers and their presence are absolutely unnecessary! I don’t believe a thing until I hear the brothers’ side.
I agreed. These sisters must be drama queens
Not true at all. The husbands drove their wives to the funeral they didn't want any trouble upon themselves so they didn't attend the funeral.
Noting Hmong traditions, daughters are outsiders and are not obligated to give any money. The fact that they each gave 10k shows that they weren't petty or jealous.
The older brother got the restraining order bc he wanted all the sunshine money, didn't want to share any with the sisters.
Hmong tradition or not, everyone should help regardless...it's their parents. Can't have the son and daughter in law carry all the loads..
I'm a daughter. When my mother passed away, we all chipped in 6 grand to help my one and only brother.
@@c.lee-soulisak327 based on hmong tradition, girls aren’t supposed to inherit the parents’s wealth mean they arent supposed to have life insurance policy either if they do not intend to help bury their parents. Since they do, it is only right that they contribute instead of making a business out of their parents. They probably mocking the brothers so they got restrained order. The brothers are wrong for being jealous but since the clan didn’t reject the restrained order mean the clan believe the sisters deserved it due to drama queen behaviors.
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Kav tsij muab koj tus dab laug hlob ko tso plig os. Tsis tas yuav ua neej ua nus ntxiv lawm. Coj li nws ces Tom ntej mus tseem yuav ntsib kev phom sij heev...
Insurance money are for funeral purposes...everyone is greedy in this case...
He did it to himself. Money is the root of all evil.
Reading the comments is enough…pass this story
Cas cov poj hmoob nplog no es hais rau tus phem li no os cas phem kawg thiab
xyov cas muaj 1 co neeg ntshaw2 luag thooj li as
He just likes my older brother. We have the same problem and have not talked to each other since my father passed away.
Why can't you just do it without him? He didn't contribute anything anyways. 🤷♀️ wouldn't make a difference if you guys did the funeral or not. It's still your money and not his.
Oh tus nyab no siab phem tiag2 yog yus nyiam luag tus tub lawm yus yuav hlub luag niam liag txiv ho tus tub no lwm hun tus nyab no ua nws lub maib tuaj ces kawg nws pam paub mas
Your older brother want all the sunshine money to himself
Your sister-law can not even afford $160 a month and they gonna have money to pay for your parent's funeral? You sister in-law was messed up big time.
Cas tus ñus no yuav got free ride ne. Tab sis nyob nyob tus ñus no tsis lam cia li ua ntawv tsis pub neb tuaj pob. Neb yuav tsum tsim teeb meem dab tsi lawm nws thiaj goon neb rau court txwv tsis pub neb tuaj
Cas yuav phem ua luaj cov niag nus zoo li no na
Oh koj yog ib niag dab laug siab phem tsis paub xav kiag cas yuav ua npaum no rau tej muam txaus txaj muag kawg nkaus
Your oldest brother was adopted. 😂😂
Tus neeg muaj feem tab sis tsis kam tawm nyiaj, tseg txhob muab nyiaj rau tuav. Qhov nws ua ntawv tsis pub neb mus koom ces yog khib nws dhau lawm xwb. Nws yuav pluag & raug txo mus tag ib sim.
Sounds like my evil sil. Even tho she bought life insurance for my parents she demands everyone pitch in for funeral bc her share of the money is for her only and does not cover funeral expenses 🤦🏻♀️
koj lam dag xwb neb mas ntshe 2 lub qhov ncauj mas tawg cuag pajkws, phem tiag2 li na okj na tseem tuaj foob rau saum fuabcua thiab,,,peb li muam muaj txog 6,7 leej tsis muaj teebmeem li,neb tsab ntshe dhau lawm xwb
Why is this story so much like my story. How money show people’s true evil.