ASMR Shh...Its Okay, Im Right Here | Comforting You to Sleep - Relaxing Safe Male Personal Attention

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  • Опубликовано: 12 ноя 2022
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    Autonomous Sensory Meridian Response (ASMR) is a tingling sensation that typically begins on the scalp and moves down the back of the neck and upper spine.
    The videos created by Whispering Gentleman ASMR are not intended to replace any medical care or counselling that you as an individual may require. The videos created on this channel are for the purpose of mindfulness, relaxation and entertainment.
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  • @JordanMeyer
    @JordanMeyer Год назад +2149

    My girlfriend “what are you watching?”
    Me: “a grown man is tucking me in , go back to bed.”

  • @emthegem9477
    @emthegem9477 Год назад +8333

    I was attacked recently and having a male presence feel comforting and not threatening was so nice. Thank you for making me feel safe in a time so scary.

    • @ANGEL-ei6pp
      @ANGEL-ei6pp Год назад +587

      Omg I hope your okay now!

    • @abbya4003
      @abbya4003 Год назад +436

      I’m so sorry that happened to you… I hope you are ok 💖

    • @liquidlemon3335
      @liquidlemon3335 Год назад +116

      Not everyone bad you know. Theres some truly good people ot there

    • @Skwadley
      @Skwadley Год назад +1077

      @@liquidlemon3335They know.

    • @maddiecook4227
      @maddiecook4227 Год назад +110

      Omg im so sorry that happened to you

  • @katrinajohnson834
    @katrinajohnson834 9 месяцев назад +1430

    I separated from my abusive husband recently and am going through the most devastating time of my life. I found this video two months ago, and it brought me to tears. Since then, your videos have become the only thing that can calm my mind and cure my insomnia. You make my loneliness and fear melt away, and I fall asleep smiling. You remind me that gentle men exist. Thank you so much for what you do, dear friend.

    • @WhisperingGentlemanASMR
      @WhisperingGentlemanASMR  9 месяцев назад +404

      Thank you for being so open my dear friend, your strength is clear for all to see. Stay strong Katrina, this is the new start you’ve been searching for. This will always be a place for you to escape to in your time of need for some much needed sleep and relaxation. I hope tonight’s video will help bring you a little peace this evening my friend

    • @drawkily
      @drawkily 5 месяцев назад +24

      so sorry to hear that. i hope that you're in better place with better people surrounding you! wish you the fastest healing❤

    • @katrinajohnson834
      @katrinajohnson834 5 месяцев назад +30

      @@drawkily thank you so much ❤️ I'm healing and moving forward with my life in a new and healthier direction.

    • @drawkily
      @drawkily 5 месяцев назад +5

      @@katrinajohnson834 didn't expect for a such quick response but I'm so glad that you're fine and moving on

    • @seba6532
      @seba6532 5 месяцев назад +4

      it’s okay💞🫂

  • @SlimeyBaron
    @SlimeyBaron Год назад +2039

    For a guy who looks so tough, you're incredibly relaxing and gentle! Felt super chill

    • @a.katherinesuetterlin3028
      @a.katherinesuetterlin3028 Год назад +88

      Ikr? He seems the sort to dress in comfy sweaters/jumpers and offer up fresh hot tea, cider or whatever else we might need for comfort...but when it's time to throw down the gauntlet, out come the edgy tattoos...that bigger, badass protective brother who's always got your back...but he ends up killing his enemies with kindness. Because they don't understand how he can look so tough but be so loving. He seems like he'd rather be a lover, not a fighter. That's my take on it. 🤷‍♀️

    • @lulow1291
      @lulow1291 Год назад +29

      hes like braum from leauge of legends

    • @Bignfluffy
      @Bignfluffy Год назад

      @@a.katherinesuetterlin3028 so fucking cringey

    • @Novarcharesk
      @Novarcharesk Год назад +52

      The aesthetic of the gentlest man being the strongest, toughest looking one is one of my favourites 😅

    • @onyxgate1
      @onyxgate1 Год назад +4

      ​@@lulow1291 true tho

  • @ambrose1919
    @ambrose1919 Год назад +3162

    You saved my life tonight. Literally. Thank you for telling me I'm stronger than I think. You said every single word I needed to hear. To save me and made me remember my kids. Thank you

    • @jeric0777
      @jeric0777 Год назад +239

      Still doing okay? I hope so. Sending prayers your way. ❤

    • @JaneParkerBowls
      @JaneParkerBowls Год назад +94

      Sending love amber

    • @ambrose1919
      @ambrose1919 Год назад +361

      I'm really trying. I've reached out for help but I put on such a great poker face I don't think anyone takes me seriously. Not even my therapist. So i turn to these face brushing videos to ground me time and time again. But thank you for checking on me. That shows me that I really might matter

    • @jeric0777
      @jeric0777 Год назад +127

      @@ambrose1919 Of course you matter, but I get it. A lot of us have been there. Even as moms. Just take it one day at a time and when you're in the thick of things, remember this too shall pass. Most of our problems, no matter how devastating, are temporary. Don't apply a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Hang in there. 🙏 Much love from a fellow struggling mom. 💕

    • @wargodest
      @wargodest Год назад +66

      @@ambrose1919you're doing great ❤ and you DO matter! Your kids love you, and you seem like a lovely human being:) you will conquer these challenges in your life, I believe in you

  • @levitatingeternity918
    @levitatingeternity918 2 месяца назад +161

    As a man myself, it's so so sweet to have another man be so gentle and supportive. I never thought i needed the company of someone who doesn't even know me.
    Thank you Mr Gentleman. You really did make me sleep easy knowing you were there.

  • @ashhoffer6782
    @ashhoffer6782 Год назад +967

    As an SA survivor, videos like these always surprise me. I almost never watch male asmrtist, but ones like you are the exception. My progress has a multitude of causes, and videos like this are a big part of it. Thank you

    • @spencerswindler420
      @spencerswindler420 Год назад +46

      I hope you're doing well

    • @Ksinloveee
      @Ksinloveee 10 месяцев назад +28

      I’m sorry you had to go through that and I hope your doing better now honey❤️

    • @555elise
      @555elise 8 месяцев назад +13

      i hope you're okay now, you're so strong 🫶🏻

    • @phoebe2234
      @phoebe2234 8 месяцев назад +11

      I'm so sorry I wish you nothing but the best

    • @liverbirdxoxo1984
      @liverbirdxoxo1984 6 месяцев назад +7

      i hope you are healing… one day at a time.. it really does damage so much… you will get there… xoxo

  • @CerbeRawr
    @CerbeRawr 9 месяцев назад +468

    Honestly mate, you're one of the bravest fellas out there
    I've scrolled in the comments, seeing some truly heartbreaking things, and you.. you simply answer nicely, doing that has a weigh on someone's heart so I'm just saying, i have a lot of respect for ya and what you've done

    • @bryanthomas4907
      @bryanthomas4907 2 месяца назад +7

      It's nice seeing that ppl still value kindness. I'm often not sure but it's the little things...

    • @sarahlouiseruberg4292
      @sarahlouiseruberg4292 Месяц назад +1

      What a nice thing to say ❤

  • @TheWall2509
    @TheWall2509 Год назад +2826

    I remember when this dude posted his first ASMR video, now look. He puts so much effort and quality into these videos, yet I feel like he's highly unappreciated. Keep up the good work.

    • @WhisperingGentlemanASMR
      @WhisperingGentlemanASMR  Год назад +409

      It means so much to me that you’ve been here from the start my friend. Thank you

    • @patriciagrell9865
      @patriciagrell9865 Год назад +36

      Oh he's very much appreciated. When I'm feeling down I watch him. I've been dealing with a lot of resentment and working hard on letting things go. His calm voice is very reassuring.

    • @catcolb11
      @catcolb11 Год назад +6

      I'm so happy I found your ASMR channel. It was literally my first experience with ASMR and I've been hooked ever since. Thank you for this safe space.

    • @War_lover757
      @War_lover757 Год назад +9

      I was the 1000th person to like!!!! (this has never happened to me before)

    • @1chadmon
      @1chadmon 10 месяцев назад +4

      Omg, I found this just at the right time.❤️‍🩹

  • @shantellyvette
    @shantellyvette Год назад +354

    It's something about a big strong man being soft and gentle that is soooo soothing and safe feeling. Thank you for existing and making this kind of content!!! ❤

  • @daafitko
    @daafitko Год назад +426

    I don’t know if this was intended for a male, but having a genuine caring friend , even if only in a video feels amazing, thank you , thank you very much

    • @SelinaCat
      @SelinaCat Год назад +43

      I think so many of us feel comfortable with his videos because he is careful to make it open to anyone. 😊

    • @ReverbCanvas
      @ReverbCanvas 11 месяцев назад +1

      Yeah I feel what you say

    • @IsaacFoster..
      @IsaacFoster.. 10 месяцев назад +15

      I'm glad I'm not alone. We'll get through this, brother.

    • @user-ef1uu4yq8s
      @user-ef1uu4yq8s 10 месяцев назад +9

      ⁠@@IsaacFoster.. just in case it’s been a while since you’ve heard it - you’re doing great, and i’m so glad you’re here💛

  • @jeffkoe310
    @jeffkoe310 Год назад +258

    Isn’t it amazing that hearing another human being saying supportive and caring things in a soothing way can shift your mood and make you feel safe? I need to do this more for my friends and family.

    • @shannahtheninjaneko6927
      @shannahtheninjaneko6927 6 месяцев назад +6

      I will try to do this more too ❤ Give the love most of us never had, but the love most of us deserve

  • @teefarox92
    @teefarox92 Год назад +976

    Can I just say, this dude has one of the most beautiful, warm and friendly looking smiles I have ever seen on a person. It just makes you feel better instantly. Thanks man, for everything you do. I love all your videos, they always make me feel better after a stressful nights work. Lots of Love form Australia.

    • @Strawberry_gaming-
      @Strawberry_gaming- Год назад +11

      I know right he has such a friendly and safe look about him it’s really soothing

    • @bowenmotley2688
      @bowenmotley2688 10 месяцев назад

      😕

    • @MackenzieMackazana
      @MackenzieMackazana 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@bowenmotley2688what

    • @brooke1639
      @brooke1639 3 дня назад

      Looks like Charles Bronson Movie. Looks like he could switch on someone at the drop of a hat.

  • @IsaacFoster..
    @IsaacFoster.. 10 месяцев назад +115

    As a dude myself, I've always listened to female asmr videos. But damn this is so good. Thank you brother.

  • @lorenamcd7572
    @lorenamcd7572 10 месяцев назад +86

    you have a very comforting "guardian angel" energy. thank you for this video

  • @ReverbCanvas
    @ReverbCanvas 11 месяцев назад +26

    I’m a guy, but there’s something particularly soothing about a buffed guy being so tranquil. Very wholesome, great quality, instantly subbing bro.

  • @TheUnderNerd
    @TheUnderNerd Год назад +573

    Man. I wish I had a male presence in my life that would just keep me company and give some physical attention without taking it as me being interested because I let them play with my hair or hug me for a while.
    Videos like these bring me so much solace. Thank you

    • @moonstenebrocity
      @moonstenebrocity Год назад +19

      me too :((

    • @ThePower1037
      @ThePower1037 Год назад +17

      Man I hope I can find the strength to fix all of my short comings, I hope you find someone that cares for you as well. :)

    • @TheUnderNerd
      @TheUnderNerd Год назад +9

      @@ThePower1037 Thank you, mate. I hope the best for you as well 🫂

    • @phoenixmarine974
      @phoenixmarine974 Год назад +1

      me three

    • @Novarcharesk
      @Novarcharesk Год назад +13

      Then you’re expecting a fantasy. You don’t demand this kind of intimate attention from a man and then expect him to not respond by being into you. Go to a masseuse or maybe just get a husband who says this shit to you.

  • @lowkeylokieanimations
    @lowkeylokieanimations 10 месяцев назад +86

    Grew up with a father that never cared for my emotions or struggles. This made me feel like I wasn’t being neglected- I felt so safe and loved ❤ Thank you for making this!

    • @victoriataylor5584
      @victoriataylor5584 6 месяцев назад +2

      Most men are that way, my father wasn't very affectionate with me either, but he did help me through my struggles.

    • @victoriataylor5584
      @victoriataylor5584 6 месяцев назад +3

      They tend to think differently than women, but there are men that are sensitive, and caring just like this man.

    • @victoriataylor5584
      @victoriataylor5584 6 месяцев назад +1

      God bless this man.

  • @Mimi0803
    @Mimi0803 11 месяцев назад +69

    Having to deal with cancer and then having to go through the emotional roller coaster of my dad saying he was cutting me off (not money wise- just out of his life) before turning around and being like “ haha that was funny- alright good talk”
    Your voice calms me down so much. Even though my dad said he was only joking and didn’t mean anything he said- I’m out here fighting my emotions and soul from tearing myself into nothing.
    I know this is a really silly comment and maybe I’m just emotional and stressed. But thank you genuinely- I always come to your videos when I’m down and even now- your voice and kindness is helping me calm down from the emotional turmoil rn.

    • @WhisperingGentlemanASMR
      @WhisperingGentlemanASMR  11 месяцев назад +30

      I’m sorry you’re going through this clearly difficult time my friend. But I’m pleased to hear I’m able to provide some level of relaxing escape from time to time. And it’s definitely not a silly comment. It took a great deal of courage to share your feelings like that and I respect it so much. You’ve got this my friend, even if at times it feels otherwise. Never forget how strong you are

    • @Army4Anime-hx8pc
      @Army4Anime-hx8pc 7 месяцев назад +1

      You've been through a lot. You're really brave.

  • @pumpkintartable
    @pumpkintartable 4 месяца назад +41

    30 seconds in, I realized no one has ever treated me this way and started crying

    • @LucasDavis-fb3vd
      @LucasDavis-fb3vd Месяц назад +1

      I'm sorry.your a great person and
      You deserved to be loved.I hope you have a wonderful day

  • @Quiznackle
    @Quiznackle Год назад +280

    It's new years eve and I've been up all night trying not to have a panic attack... for some reason nothing has calmed me down tonight, my insomnia is up the wall and I just can't freaking sleep. I clicked on this and finally felt immediate calm for the first time all day. Thank you so much for this, sir!

    • @WhisperingGentlemanASMR
      @WhisperingGentlemanASMR  Год назад +63

      I hope you’re okay now my friend and I’m glad I was able to help in some way ☺️

    • @Puki548
      @Puki548 10 месяцев назад +4

      Same. Saved me from a panic attack and helped me a lot. ❤

  • @Patriciar83
    @Patriciar83 Год назад +313

    Dark backgrounds asmr videos are a plus for those who wants to relax and sleep. Thank you :) Also love your slow gentle hands movements.

  • @astrid6591
    @astrid6591 5 месяцев назад +21

    it's genuinely surprising to be comforted by a male that isn't trying to get into my pants or trying to get something out of me. It makes me confused, but this is very healing for me. Thank you for all that you do for these people online

  • @sweetr1832
    @sweetr1832 Год назад +97

    My little kitten was asleep in front of the screen, until I put this on and she's now intensely following and listening for a while when you pet the camera, then dozing off again. She's a rescue, I want to believe she understands what you're saying 💙

    • @scheiler6214
      @scheiler6214 Год назад +14

      Thats so sweet...kittys need soothing too ❤

    • @notjavier3639
      @notjavier3639 10 месяцев назад +2

      What’s it’s name

  • @robsutherland5744
    @robsutherland5744 Год назад +240

    Thank you for using some of the precious hours of your life doing this. To me it is genuinely extraordinary. Sharing your own observations and generosity and honesty with us makes me feel pretty humble. I hope you ate well today.

  • @dromkammarsrebecca9642
    @dromkammarsrebecca9642 4 месяца назад +7

    If you have children, they are the luckiest kids alive. If you have a partner, it's the luckiest person alive. Everyone deserves a father and partner like you.

  • @mr_mustache_man7789
    @mr_mustache_man7789 11 месяцев назад +32

    i just lost my dog yesterday in a horrible way, and it’s hard to go to sleep cuz my mind won’t stop picturing it. thanks for this, it’s really comforting

    • @WhisperingGentlemanASMR
      @WhisperingGentlemanASMR  11 месяцев назад +12

      I hope you’re okay my friend

    • @clairstrange4362
      @clairstrange4362 21 день назад

      I’m so sorry for your loss. I know that pain all too well. Sending you love and prayers and condolences. Fly high, sweet pup 🌈🩷🙏

  • @DEAD_FORLIFE
    @DEAD_FORLIFE Год назад +92

    Just at the start of the video I started crying because I recently lost my forever friend bc he committed suicide and I barely been eating, sleeping, or doing anything and this video made me cry and relaxed thank you for helping me today I was on the edge to leaving this world until I came across this video thank you so much❤

    • @christianschmidt4550
      @christianschmidt4550 10 месяцев назад +6

      I hope you’re doing well

    • @letsalllovelein
      @letsalllovelein 10 месяцев назад +3

      I'm so sorry. I hope you're alright now :(

    • @Army4Anime-hx8pc
      @Army4Anime-hx8pc 7 месяцев назад +3

      ​@@Sabrina-hu1bs
      Because their friend meant a lot to them. No matter where it is in the world, people still need people. Give some grace for someone who has suffered a loss. You don't know when you will need grace too.

    • @Army4Anime-hx8pc
      @Army4Anime-hx8pc 7 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@Sabrina-hu1bs
      Потому что их друг много значил для них. Независимо от того, где это находится в мире, люди все равно нуждаются в людях. Окажите милость тому, кто понес утрату. Вы не знаете, когда и вам понадобится благодать. я знаю, что плохо говорю по-русски. Я все еще учусь.

    • @Army4Anime-hx8pc
      @Army4Anime-hx8pc 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@Sabrina-hu1bs
      Потому что их друг много значил для них. Независимо от того, где это находится в мире, люди все равно нуждаются в людях. Окажите милость тому, кто понес утрату. Вы не знаете, когда и вам понадобится благодать. я знаю, что плохо говорю по-русски. Я все еще учусь.

  • @ComeOn_ASMR
    @ComeOn_ASMR Год назад +144

    Omgg the gentle whispers, slow hand movements, gentle brushing, dark background, 1h30 length….
    I am so grateful for this video ❤😊🫶😴

  • @ericakilbourn9716
    @ericakilbourn9716 Год назад +21

    This reminds me of the time my, (now husband), boyfriend and I were in a car wreck. I was really shaken up (physically mostly fine). We were at his friend's house and we were both trying to just calm down and feel okay, and crying a little. Then randomly his friend walks in the room quietly with a tiny puppy! We had no idea there was a dog in his house, it was such a sweet thing to do, and a nice distraction ❤

    • @WhisperingGentlemanASMR
      @WhisperingGentlemanASMR  Год назад +4

      That definitely sounds like something much needed after such an ordeal my friend.

  • @samurailevi49
    @samurailevi49 11 месяцев назад +78

    I suffer from multiple forms of anxiety including PTSD, General Anxiety, Panic Disorder, and Social Anxiety. I can get up to 15 panic attacks in a single month due to the overwhelming nature of all of these anxiety problems. You’ve made me feel instantly calm which isn’t easy. I can’t thank you enough! 🙏

    • @Yeettube2777
      @Yeettube2777 11 месяцев назад +7

      Bro I be getting like 30 a month.
      But mine is no more or less
      valid than yours.
      Salut to you fellow ptsd anxiety disorder brotheren .

    • @samurailevi49
      @samurailevi49 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@Yeettube2777 Oh that sounds horrible! I’m so sorry to hear that!

    • @askherhowshesdoeen
      @askherhowshesdoeen 5 месяцев назад +2

      I'm sorry to hear about your anxiety, ptsd and panic disorder, I suffer from the same things as well as bipolar. If you have access to a psychiatrist, maybe try asking about hydroxyzine and propranolol? They have changed my life and I went from having 2 panic attacks per day (which lasted 45 minutes each and felt like heart attacks and seizures, leaving me unable to walk without my legs locking up) to virtually none. It has been a miracle. I hope you find relief, friend❤️

  • @lexibbx2
    @lexibbx2 Год назад +56

    I have to say I clicked on this video by accident but for some reason I was like “ eh we’ll see” and I’m so glad I did I’ve watched a few videos now and they are so very soothing and comforting and such beautiful quality.

    • @WhisperingGentlemanASMR
      @WhisperingGentlemanASMR  Год назад +13

      Thank you so much my friend and welcome to this safe space

    • @SelinaCat
      @SelinaCat Год назад +2

      This was the same for me! It just goes to show how many toxic microaggresions we as women are subjected regularly.

  • @Animorpha1
    @Animorpha1 Год назад +152

    As someone who isn’t comfortable AT ALL around men for trauma reasons. I couldn’t stand male Asmr videos. I felt…I guess too intimidated….too intimate.
    He’s honestly the first one I could *tolerate* at first. I kinda forced myself to watch more and I’ve gotten more comfortable. I think it’s the fact that he keeps his voice at a consistent lower whisper. Which I think doesn’t trigger(bad trigger) me as much.
    I still can’t keep eye contact for very long but I’m trying.
    Edit/PS: I also like that he doesn’t sexualize anything which is something some Asmrtists do. It makes thing feel more platonic and like I have more “control”.

    • @grimesdaughter9042
      @grimesdaughter9042 Год назад +26

      I know what you mean. I'm asexual and the suggestive nature of many (male and female) ASMRtists makes it impossible for me to relax to their voices or RPs. It just feels 'weird' having this stranger appearing to 'flirt' with me. I love most ASMR where a friend appears to take care of me ☺. That's truly a great, comforting feeling. Still less so with male ASMRtists, but our whispering Gentleman is one of a few I can not only 'tolerate', but genuinely relax to.
      I wish you a restful sleep and I hope that the pain of your trauma will leave you one day. ❤

    • @suzysstyles
      @suzysstyles Год назад +4

      I just wanna be loved 😅❤ for real

  • @fuddlewacken
    @fuddlewacken 7 месяцев назад +9

    I dont think Ive ever had such nourishing words of kindness, encouragment and care spoken to me in my whole life. I didnt know i wanted this in my own personal life so much. Just to be comforted.

  • @relaxrapa
    @relaxrapa 11 месяцев назад +10

    I have never felt more comforted by a man in my entire life, thank you, im literally in tears 😭 ❤️

  • @kokochono5054
    @kokochono5054 10 месяцев назад +71

    I hate how helpful this is. Im crying, thank you for the comfort.

  • @jazminvalero8732
    @jazminvalero8732 7 месяцев назад +42

    Just lost my cat of 17 yrs today. This was calming and helped me stop crying for the first time in awhile. Thank you

    • @CreateWithFiaa
      @CreateWithFiaa 6 месяцев назад +6

      I'm so sorry for you, but just know that your cat is happy because it got to spend it's entire life with an amazing owner like you, my friend :)

    • @victoriataylor5584
      @victoriataylor5584 6 месяцев назад +4

      I'm so very sorry about your cat.

    • @jazminvalero8732
      @jazminvalero8732 6 месяцев назад

      @@victoriataylor5584 Thank you 🤍

    • @askherhowshesdoeen
      @askherhowshesdoeen 5 месяцев назад +2

      I'm so sorry for your loss, your cat was so lucky to be so loved by you🩷 I hope you are healing now

    • @jazminvalero8732
      @jazminvalero8732 5 месяцев назад +2

      @@askherhowshesdoeen Thank you so much for this ♥️ It was really needed today

  • @amyingram70
    @amyingram70 Год назад +17

    I just wanted to thank you for doing this video. 5 years ago January my Mother passed. Friday I made the painful decision to pull the life support for my Dad and he passed. Your words are healing, soothing, and diminishes the pain for a moment. Thank you.😪😪😪

  • @lyrixmaples
    @lyrixmaples 3 месяца назад +8

    For me seeing a non threatening man is rare and im glad youre one of the good ones ❤

    • @WhisperingGentlemanASMR
      @WhisperingGentlemanASMR  3 месяца назад +2

      Thank you my dear friend

    • @lyrixmaples
      @lyrixmaples 3 месяца назад +1

      @@WhisperingGentlemanASMR thank you for helping us relax and sleep and for being there when we need it most

  • @stupidcircle4413
    @stupidcircle4413 Год назад +25

    Been fighting that "fight or flight" for years when it comes to ASMR, as much as I enjoy it ( typing difficulty even now so please pardon, lots of mistakes) this one is very close and comforting. Please do more. On the autism spectrum it's a rare case but I and my niece enjoy these. 💝

  • @moonstenebrocity
    @moonstenebrocity Год назад +37

    finding such a comforting, gentle, quiet male presence is something very strange to me, but exactly what i need in this moment. i’ve been struggling with anxiety/panic attacks & intrusive thoughts & take ages to fall asleep. but i already know i’ll fall asleep fast to this! it’ll probably become part of my bedtime routine 💌 thank you so much for posting this & showing me men can be deeper & kinder & gentler than i ever imagined

  • @Natasha-pc2zg
    @Natasha-pc2zg Год назад +14

    When I first clicked on your video I felt triggered by my experiences from previous men that looked like you. But hearing your warm words and soft assurances is seriously reprogramming my brain. Thank you, I needed this!

  • @yurikazamiknight2436
    @yurikazamiknight2436 9 месяцев назад +28

    This man right here. This absolute legend.
    I've listened to ASMR after ASMR, and this beast of a man, soft as a kitten, can soothe us better than the majority of women who claim they can put you to sleep.
    I'm a guy, and this is hella relaxing.
    You sir, are a legend.
    ❤I wish you great luck on your adventures.

  • @Lucky369
    @Lucky369 2 месяца назад +3

    I was assaulted, and you helped me feel better....I'm healing

  • @glitterzombigoesnuts
    @glitterzombigoesnuts Год назад +141

    I’m not sure if you know this, but I believe you have a natural intuition of what people need to hear in order to truly relax after a hard day and that simple gift of intuition provides so much comfort and security. Even if it’s only for a little while. Your kindness shows it’s true and beautiful colors in this video. Thank you for your contribution to the ASMR community. Thank you for your time and commitment to helping others relax and/or sleep. You’re a gift to this world. Never forget that. ❤ also I don’t want you as just a friend. I want to adopt you as family 😂 what would I give to have such a kind and caring sibling?

    • @kimmills3264
      @kimmills3264 Год назад +8

      agreed he is empathic, so a wonderfully in tune to his own feelings and of the heart and mind to share himself in this way. 🤗🙏

    • @mattb1568
      @mattb1568 Год назад +5

      Don’t forget, by being open to this goodness, you yourself are a gift to this world. It’s in our nature. Exude your goodness, to yourself and to the people around you who are open as well

  • @amisapp5033
    @amisapp5033 Год назад +25

    If I had to live on a desert island for the rest of my life and could pick only one ASMR channel, it would definitely be yours my friend. It’s pure magic, every time it helps me to fall asleep peacefully, your words, gentle movements, soft sounds, length, background, everything is perfect. Thank you so much for creating this real safe space. 💝

  • @emilyking3988
    @emilyking3988 Год назад +66

    I stumbled across a male ASMR artist and never in a million years would I have thought it would be so amazing! I've always preferred female voices but this gentleman is absolutely amazing. The affirmations are wonderful. Will definitely be listening to some more. Happy holidays ❤️

  • @TheAndrewRitchie
    @TheAndrewRitchie Год назад +26

    I needed to feel safe and protected last night and you gave that to me. All worries vanished. You’re wonderful. Thank you.

  • @griffenderwood143
    @griffenderwood143 Год назад +13

    Sir you got me crying when you said (it's ok I am here now). i love your content and it always make me shed some tears on the way you talk to us.❤

  • @axel_is_online7025
    @axel_is_online7025 Год назад +51

    After finding out I lost another family member and not being told about the service tomorrow until today... Having some kind of calming force helps. Thank you, really.

    • @laiatezenas3300
      @laiatezenas3300 Год назад +7

      I am sorry for your loss and hope that you will be surrounded by loved ones. It's so important to not be alone during such times. Sending you much love!

  • @aleeshagarcia6798
    @aleeshagarcia6798 Год назад +7

    How do you know people need this? Thank you for taking the time to be so kind. I really appreciate the warm expression. Genuinely the best ASMR video I've found to let me feel safe enough to sleep. Doesn't feel like you are alone with the camera. 😊

  • @kelseyjanae1
    @kelseyjanae1 Год назад +11

    You were made for this. This is a BEAUTIFUL life purpose of yours...helping people to literally reprogram their minds and nervous systems into safety. Truly extraordinary. You're a star. Keep going.

  • @lauryn6059
    @lauryn6059 Год назад +20

    I think the lighting is one of my favorite things about your videos!!! Very underrated and very relaxing. It’s perfect because it’s dark for sleep and there’s not much blue light due to the yellower tint. It’s perfect

  • @maddierude5469
    @maddierude5469 Год назад +572

    Blank space for anyone who needs it!
    Everyone get some rest, sweet dreams ❤

  • @JoyfulIsAnOctopus
    @JoyfulIsAnOctopus 11 месяцев назад +6

    Thanks. I like that you are keeping your tone comforting and not seductive.
    Ive had issues with panic attacks and nightmares recently and since Im a teen no one gives me comfort like this.

    • @wornouthoodie
      @wornouthoodie 11 месяцев назад +1

      I agree. I’m sorry you have to deal with that. My friend deals with similar things as well and it really upsets her. Good luck 💙

    • @JoyfulIsAnOctopus
      @JoyfulIsAnOctopus 11 месяцев назад +2

      @@wornouthoodie Thanks

  • @hathorearth1718
    @hathorearth1718 Год назад +14

    I don't know what we did to deserve your hardwork man but it's so well appreciated 🙏. I'm new to this channel and I gotta say this is the stuff I've been looking so long for. I find a lot of asmr artists don't really know how to talk softly enough and but this is perfect.

  • @steviecreek
    @steviecreek Год назад +11

    Omg dark backgrounds are so under appreciated and under used in the ASMR community. 💙💙💙 love this!

  • @monicadominguez9455
    @monicadominguez9455 Год назад +15

    This person is soooo kind ❤ I feel so safe. Reminded me of a father comforting a child.

  • @allyn7400
    @allyn7400 10 месяцев назад +8

    It’s very rare a man makes me feel safe and loved. So thank you! this is so healing ❤

  • @ChimeraGirl_
    @ChimeraGirl_ Год назад +10

    He has such kind, expressive eyes and a warm smile. His videos really make me feel safe and comforted. I deal with frequent bouts of insomnia often triggered by stress and his videos put me at ease and help me sleep. :) Thank you, kind Sir!

  • @everyone8043
    @everyone8043 Год назад +37

    Thank you for the slow gentle movements. So relaxing. (None of the mouth clicking which I find irritating.)

    • @zafusca
      @zafusca Год назад +3

      yeah me too i don't like most the asmrist do

    • @Wants2knowitall
      @Wants2knowitall Год назад +2

      Thank you for this. I, too, hate the clicking and mouth noises. I thought I was the only one bc so many ASMR artists do it.

  • @mark9538
    @mark9538 Год назад +33

    Thank you for being so relaxing, you're one of the only RUclips channels I come back to for comfort and relaxation. You have made me feel a lot better with my anxiety lately and I appreciate it. Take care mate 🙂

  • @TheCyberWolf1
    @TheCyberWolf1 Год назад +13

    I like how calm he is… I suffer from ptsd and this incredible gentleman can calm me down just like that that’s both amazing and impressive 😊

    • @Bangkok357
      @Bangkok357 7 месяцев назад

      Me too. These comforting safe feeling held videos allow the constant PTSD inner vibration to settle, at least for the night

  • @aldacapuchino3912
    @aldacapuchino3912 Год назад +6

    I have issues with men being rude, using me and abusing me. And this video gave me so much relief and release I cried the first part. Also I miss my Dad so much he was my strength and having a male voice saying empowering things helps and some kind of healing there too. God I’m lonely.😂 Thank you for your work.

  • @sweetheartjorgette348
    @sweetheartjorgette348 Год назад +8

    I absolutely ❤️❤️❤️ the rain shower in the background …together with his whispers omg it’s just a perfect match

  • @ally00bu
    @ally00bu Год назад +4

    The patience he has to sit there and film this for 1.5 hours( after editing!! So realistically 2 hrs minimum PLUS EDITING TIME) is genuinely insane and does not go lost on me, we truly appreciate you sir❤

  • @Ari-chan_suzuki21
    @Ari-chan_suzuki21 2 месяца назад +1

    Idk how you sensed my pain, but dang. The way I burst into tears after hearing your kind words because i'm going through a rough patch. Thank you for this video it really helped me out.❤

  • @user-vg1gw5wx2q
    @user-vg1gw5wx2q Год назад +59

    Потрясающе.колоссальное ощущение вашего присутствия .спасибо огромное за мурашки .

  • @SageRavenGale
    @SageRavenGale Год назад +11

    I had a very intense panic attack right before I landed on this video. Your soothing voice and encouraging words helped lull me into a safe sleep. Thank you from the bottom of my heart 🥺

  • @zahraaqasem7623
    @zahraaqasem7623 Год назад +5

    Thank you so much for this; I was having a meltdown and crying because of the overwhelming and stressful week I had, and my anxiety was eating me up alive because I also start college in a day, and I’m not ready for it, so I'm grateful I clicked on this video you truly are a gift in how much comfort you radiate, I am now feeling much better because of you, so, thank you, again very much :’)

  • @insomniac1184
    @insomniac1184 4 месяца назад +22

    Heres some empty space if anyone needs it ✨
    Goodnight 🌌🌠🌜

  • @Wants2knowitall
    @Wants2knowitall Год назад +7

    The pep talk at 30:16 was exactly what I needed this week. Rn there is someone underestimating me. You reminded me that I am strong and can do this. Thank you, my friend.

  • @rurie8500
    @rurie8500 Год назад +46

    ✨𝕋𝕚𝕞𝕖 𝕊𝕥𝕒𝕞𝕡𝕤✨
    0:02 - 13:40 intro face touching w/ comforting words 💜
    13:41 - 14:04 wooden hair comb
    14:06 - 18:35 tracing wooden comb along your skin
    18:36 - 30:00 very soft brush along your skin
    𝘌𝘯𝘫𝘰𝘺 𝘢𝘨𝘢𝘪𝘯 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘴𝘰𝘶𝘯𝘥 𝘰𝘧 𝘳𝘢𝘪𝘯 🌧 ☔
    30:11 - 43:54 face touching w/ comforting words 💜 🌧
    43:55 - 44:20 wooden hair comb 🌧
    44:20 - 48:53 tracing wooden comb along your skin 🌧
    48:54 - 1:00:16 very soft brush along your 𝘴𝘬𝘪𝘯 𝘳𝘢𝘪𝘯
    𝘌𝘯𝘫𝘰𝘺 𝘢𝘨𝘢𝘪𝘯 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘨𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘭𝘦 𝘴𝘭𝘦𝘦𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘮𝘶𝘴𝘪𝘤 🎶💤
    1:00:23 - 1:14:18 face touching w/ comforting words 💜 💤🎶
    1:14:18- 1:14:36 wooden hair comb 💤 🎶
    1:14:37 - 1:19:06 tracing wooden comb along your skin 💤 🎶
    1:19:07 - 1:30:34 Outro very soft brush along your skin 💤 🎶
    𝙼𝚊𝚢 𝚢𝚘𝚞 𝚊𝚕𝚕 𝚑𝚊𝚟𝚎 𝚜𝚠𝚎𝚎𝚝𝚍𝚛𝚎𝚊𝚖𝚜, 𝙶𝚘𝚘𝚍 𝙽𝚒𝚐𝚑𝚝 𝚎𝚟𝚎𝚛𝚢𝚘𝚗𝚎 💜✨🙏🥰💤

    • @melodias5468
      @melodias5468 11 месяцев назад +1

      Your hardest worker known to earth forget the rock forget the brown ex marine

    • @catcolb11
      @catcolb11 11 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you. Good night to you as well. 🧸🌛🌠

  • @desirees.4200
    @desirees.4200 Год назад +16

    I was crying in less than a minute. It was relieving. Thank you for your video 🤗

  • @glasofredwine
    @glasofredwine 13 дней назад +2

    It’s the middle of the night and I’m having anxiety attacks because someone I deeply care about is giving me silent treatment. Your presence is helping me, thank you 🫶🏻

  • @gabrielvilligan923
    @gabrielvilligan923 Год назад +22

    Best asmrtist on RUclips keep up the good work

  • @jadytea7417
    @jadytea7417 4 месяца назад +3

    God, for the first time, I have experienced genuine goosebumps that lasted for the entirety of this video. And your accent is deeply noted and deeply loved as well. SUCH an AMAZING experience!

  • @TheAndreag91
    @TheAndreag91 8 месяцев назад +2

    To me this has been really important. Having this male care, feeling protected and not awkward at all. Its comforting and sweet, thank you so much, your vibe is really pretty.

  • @catherinesanders1111
    @catherinesanders1111 3 месяца назад +2

    Thank you for helping me calm down when I’m anxious and during a really dark time in my life

  • @HikiOmo
    @HikiOmo 11 месяцев назад +4

    I saw you in the thumbnail and was like: "He looks like a really good friend, I should watch this." I was not wrong.

  • @abbya4003
    @abbya4003 Год назад +15

    I just started the video… after almost spiraling down, so thank you I truly already feel comfort 🥺💖

    • @Army4Anime-hx8pc
      @Army4Anime-hx8pc 7 месяцев назад +1

      I get what you mean.
      Have a good night tonight. You can make it through tomorrow. ❤

  • @money4bratz
    @money4bratz Год назад +8

    he has the most calming and innocent eyes😊

  • @anamarquez3959
    @anamarquez3959 11 месяцев назад +4

    There's something really magical in the way that a big, bearded, apparently "rude" man like this 😊 looks at the camera with so sweet eyes... I like him very much ❤ Thanks for sharing your kindness 💋

  • @PurplexxInuxBokuSS
    @PurplexxInuxBokuSS Год назад +9

    These gentle and slow positive affirmations are such godsent. Thank you kind internet sir. 🥺💖

  • @lyciumchld
    @lyciumchld Год назад +12

    I really wish ASMR produced tingles for me, but even though it doesn't, I find this channel in particular to be very useful for comfort and sleep. Additionally, the brushing and tracing help with some mild neurochemical response to touch, which helps my mood and calms me down a great deal, almost instantly. It's really quite remarkable. I've watched a variety of asmrtists and while I like several for different reasons this channel is the one I watch most by far because the content is the most effective at producing calm and sleep. Very appreciative.

  • @tears_as_lube
    @tears_as_lube 3 месяца назад +2

    Thank you for saving so many lives.

  • @Sophieluxpetite
    @Sophieluxpetite Год назад +11

    He’s fit, he has tattoos, he has a moustache and he’s soft and caring. So I guess positive masculinity exists?? 😮

  • @Estellemusic
    @Estellemusic 11 месяцев назад +6

    I've made so much mental health progress in the last few weeks... But tonight everything fell apart around me and I feel so weak and fragile. Thank you for... this. All of it. I cried again, but these were tears of relief and gratitude. Thank you.

  • @theonionqueen3519
    @theonionqueen3519 Год назад +6

    I love the lighting you used! It’s so warm, makes it easy to fall asleep to. And your movements are so gentle and calming, I’m seriously in love with this video!

  • @Puck-ez1mn
    @Puck-ez1mn 4 месяца назад +2

    I feel so uncomfy in my room usually cause i hate the dark and i feel like I'm always being watched it's weird - but this guy's voice and like, presence through the video is so comforting :)

  • @Sunny_vrg
    @Sunny_vrg Год назад +8

    I love how when you brush your hand it makes a sound effect it's so nice!

  • @ilovekeiy
    @ilovekeiy Год назад +13

    I was having a panic attack and dealing with intrusive thoughts, these are the words i needed today. Thank you

  • @yurisa3270
    @yurisa3270 Год назад +5

    I got diagnosed with cancer since the beginning of 2022 and spend most of my time in the hospital fighting for my life with only a age of 17 and since then i have a very hard time falling asleep alone because i am scared something will happen to me or i will never wake up again but this video and you makes me feel very safe and takes my fear away. Even though i am 18 now i feel like a little kid wanting to run to my parents bedroom crying because of fear as if i had a nightmare. Your voice helped me calm down and finally feel sleepy again so i hope i will sleep good for the first time since a long time! Thank you so much for this video and your time☺️

    • @ritiksharma2544
      @ritiksharma2544 Год назад

      Everything will be fine my love! 🥺 I love you and proud of you my warrior!💝

  • @ZephyrAnimationss
    @ZephyrAnimationss Год назад +2

    this is peak asmr right here. he's like a genuine friend. other asmrtists can't do what you can. keep up the good work!

  • @noorbano7661
    @noorbano7661 Год назад +2

    This is love. I didn't want to skip or left the video. I find this really comforting. I literally felt like my brain was freezed. He is an angel. 💫❣

  • @braydenharvey6012
    @braydenharvey6012 Год назад +4

    Stumbled across this and started sobbing 3 mins in from how comforting you are straight off the bat

  • @Roselinn
    @Roselinn Год назад +15

    Perfect timing! I’m sick in bed rn and can’t get myself to sleep… Never thought I would say this to anyone, but thank you so much for making me much more comfortable and sleepy 😴🙏🏼

  • @Udayzeus
    @Udayzeus Год назад +2

    This was incredible. I have always listened to female voice ASMR and never found male voice ASMR to be relaxing until now. This is actually like listening to a friend. Thank you so much. 😌

  • @mzimi
    @mzimi 8 месяцев назад +3

    I usually don't watch many male asmr artists but I have been having a hard time again lately which has made me feel like a scared little kid who needs their dad again. You gave me that safe comforting presence that I have been needing. I feel a bit stronger again thanks to you.

  • @morena927
    @morena927 Год назад +23

    🙏🏽Merci pour ces mots réconfortants, merci pour ta bienveillance et le temps que tu donnes, take care of you Steven !