Ross And Rachel Break Up
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- Опубликовано: 19 фев 2009
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Even if he didn’t cheat, Ross admits himself that he wouldn’t be okay if Rachel slept with Mark. Why do something to someone that you don’t want to be done to you.
But Ross would obviously not go on a break and allow that to happen. Plus Rachel told Monica "We broke up" earlier in the episode.
That being said, he's still in the wrong for getting drunk and screwing things up.
Mohamed Diarra rachel act’s as if she didn’t kiss mark
God Aim
But she didn’t. Not at the time of the break.
God Aim bruh she did three weeks later n after the kids she ended the date n rejected him n he never bothered Rachel again
Brandon Jackson ross fucked up by doing it THAT fast. she said break not breakup. technicalities aside, your bf, after announcing you want some space, has sex w someone else right after. might as well be cheating
It was so sad when she was sitting in the coffee shop
She acted her ass off! She genuinely looked broken. I've looked like that during one of my heartbreaks lol
Needed a hug.
That Was Sad To See Her And Ross Break Up
@@SUPERHAV85 he made a mistake
you know that this is a show right? these are not real people lmao
Clearly one of the best scenes in the entire show, that felt so real.
Too bad it was one of the most toxic relationships ever
Actually Jennifer claimed that David's acting made her cry for real. Crying wasn't in the script.
nahh. Ross is too toxic
@@50ULL355 it want
Yeah. And the analogies with “With or Without You” by U2? I mean, the moment he embreces her waist is EXACTLY the cover of one of the U2’s cover. Maybe it was not wanted, but it makes everything more real.
Fun fact: Schwimmer's acting was so good here, where he hugged Rachel and she started crying, those were real real tears, I heard Aniston started crying for real.
Because David was in love with Jennifer and they did want to date. Their first kiss was on live television as Ross and Rachel.
Man, shut up
@@ameliawilder28 Actually, there's a report that says that before rachel and ross kissed on TV, Rachel herself told Ross that it would be a bummer if their first kiss was on tv and not in real life, and before the TV kissing moment, both Rachel and Ross kissed privately in reality
They had a crush on each other in real life!
This scene felt super realistic and I cried too. They both are great actors.
Jennifer Aniston is an amazing actor , this scene looks so real especially the part where she screamed "Yet she was worth jeopardizing our relationship"
*Actress
Actress, not actor.
she (Rachel) has the right to break up with Ross or else, she would end up jeopardizing their relationship with Brad Pitt at that time....
Ok
They werent acting tho thats the thing. Those were real tears
Jennifer and David knocked it out of the park in this episode and so did the other cast members. I mean wow. One of my fave episodes. How they made us cry and laugh at the same time. One of my fave shows. Today's shows cant hold a candle to these kind of shows.
You laughed and cried too? 😂😭
Oh man when they started crying I started to tear up myself
@@slackerman4161 the acting and writing is on par with the sopranos (well at least in this episode)
@@slackerman4161 Sopranos is not a sitcom. Its like comparing Breaking Bad to Power Puff girls.
Yep
I vote this as the saddest scene in Friends.
that would be the final scene of the show actually
when we was begging her, saying he was going to miss the arms, etc. it made me cry
Or the one when Phoebe says goodbye to the triplets... Breaks my heart every time. 😔
Jennifer and David really really acted their asses off here. It was so emotional and heartbreaking
What about when that girl stole Chandler's Pants?
"This can't be it"
"Then how come it is"
**Tears start rolling** - When the viewers cry along with the characters, you know that the actors have pulled it off so damn well! Hands down the best acting & saddest scene on FRIENDS!♥️
🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
even other actors started crying
I’m just rewatching this after finding out my partner of 6 years cheated on me… it hurts
this script and this conversation is just so well written. and the played it really well of course.
In my eyes the problem wasn't ever "We were on a break" or " We weren't on a break." Becuase they were, Rachel was even the one who initiated it. But I don't think that was ever the problem, the problem in my eyes was that, Ross got drunk the night of and went to a club and slept with some random girl and then tried to lie about it, when in reality he should've told Rachel when she went to his apartment the next morning to ask if they could still be together. And yes, I know Rachel had Mark over the same night, but if anyone remembers correctly, she actually told Mark not to but he insisted and just invited himself over. And while Ross was sleeping with some random girl, Rachel was trying to call him saying that she wanted to fix them.
You are absolutely right
But Rachel said she and mark slept together. But she didn’t lie about it so I’m on Rachel’s side. Ross is in the wrong for not telling her sooner
@@_4dak826 rachel was saying that as a "what if" and asking how ross would feel if he was in her shoes. it didn't actually happen
Bullshit. Ross called Rachel while he was at the bar and Ross overheard Mark's voice on the phone. Rachel tried to lie and say "it's no one" but Mark spoke again and Ross asked, "Is that Mark?"
Why the hell did Rachel even allow Mark up there? That moment + "we need a break from us" gave Ross all the information he needed to believe she wants to break up and sleep with Mark.
Everything that happened the next morning is a related, but different matter.
@@PrimeSuperboy Mark was there bcs he invited himself over. He wanted Rachel and knew him being there for her would give him a chance. I always think that him speaking when Ros called was on purpose, so he could give him that idea. Rachel tried to hide it bcs she knew Ros was paranoid about Mark and didn't want to hurt him more, but Ros heard him and got himself the idea of them together. Even though nothing had happened between Rachel and Mark. She told him off and tried to contact Ros again but he already got the idea to sleep with someone else to hurt her the same way he thought she hurt him bcs from the beginning his insecurities about himself got over him and ruined the relationship. They were on a break but that still doesn't justify his sleeping with somebody else the night they went on a break, bcs simply when people go on a break, you give some rules what is alowed or what is not and if you don't recieve them, you don't go inviting other girls into bed with you.
I never realised how toxic Ross was in this scene and how well David pulls it off. The way he flips thirty times between begging for forgiveness from Rachel and blaming Rachel is unreal, but it feels so real; like a man clinging at any straw to keep this relationship together.
Had he simply said to her at the first instance. Rachel, we need to talk. I made some very poor choices last night and led me to make some truly bad choices. What *I* want does NOT matter any more. What matters is how you feel *we* if there is any *we* after this should proceed. And I will completely understand and stand by your decision. Just know that it was never my thoughtful, conscious intention to hurt you, but I did. Last night, after the where Mark was in your apartment, I lost it and me and the photocopy girl slept together. I was pretty drunk, but that's no excuse...just telling I did not do this with a clear mind. I am so, so sorry. I just can't lie to you about this.
That might have painted Ross in a different light. But in this scene he is toxic. She asks him to leave several times and he stays. It ain't like that's an apartment they share. Best thing would have been to leave and give her space and let Rachel decide what happens. WHY? Because he defined their *new* starting point if there is one!
@@victorpradha9946ikr, if he had just been honest from the start, and Rachel still decided to be a bitch, he could at least say he did right by her.
What I don’t understand is why the writers made him go this far. Going to bars and sleeping with the first woman that jumps on him was NOT on his priority list when he broke up with carol. I get it, she traumatized him, but come on, if you don’t have it in you, you don’t just develop it, and even then, it’s been what, 2-3 years in this time period since the divorce? See a therapist dude, your partner should be allowed to choose how much of your bs to put up with. Oh and when Ross said he doesn’t cheat? Um, did everyone just simply forget Julie? He made out with Rachel while STILL BEING WITH HER, he has it in him to cheat. Poor girl did NOTHING to deserve that other than love him and be kind to him
Yes but hé try, he fight for her😢
Honestly Ross is one of the biggest reasons I never got into Friends like that. Ross is a very selfish, toxic, possessive and manipulative person throughout the entire show. He not a nice guy he's a "nice guy" if that makes any sense. I understand him making a mistake by sleeping with someone else, I understand him wanting Rachel back but if he really cared about her he would've A. Told her what happened directly after it happened and B. Told her everything and then leave the fate of the relationship in her hands. Not saying that's the easiest thing to do in that type of situation but when you really love and care for someone and want the best for them it's not about you. How you feel doesn't matter or at least it doesn't matter not nearly as much as the person who is in the right in the situation. If he had just said what he had to say and then just given her space and let her decide what to do THAT would've been truly loving and caring about her. He messed up. He fucked up. The least he could do to make it up to her is give her enough space to let her sort out her feelings and if it turns out she did want to end it well then oh well...she wants to end it. It sucks but if you love someone you got to let them go. Like I said Ross never really cared about her or at least not as much as he cared about himself.
I thought exactly the same thing. He didn't help himself.
I think Rachel made the right decision. Even if they stayed together, they would eventually separate after some time. Rachel wouldn't be able to forget it.
She is a crybaby
@@chris-gx7rsNope, she was right. For someone who claimed to love her, he sure jumped into bed with someone else pretty quickly. 🙄
@@taraz6786 exactly. I know he wwsnt on his right mind, but come on?!
@@chris-gx7rswould you be upset if your partner cheated or slept with someone that quickly after a long time relationship?
@@suzannec8400 yeah but the same thing applies to Ross . That’s exactly what he thought when Mark was at Rachel‘s house.😅
I feel for Rachel. I had relationship like this before I met my husband. We really loved each other. At least I did. ) But one day after we had fight he slept with another woman.
He begged to forgive him, that he was drank and upset. At that time I still loved him, but it was so disappointed. I couldn’t forgive, even I didn’t want to see him anymore. It hurt me a lot. I decided to move on. And now I have a great husband, two sweet sons. I am happy. I’m grateful for everything.
How did u react when u found out?
@@mfflscotty2095 , I cried. Believe me, I cried a lot ))) then just packed my things and moved to my sister.
I went through a similar thing, I left him too…i was so disappointed and heartbroken at the fact that he went to another woman after we were going through a rough patch. I really do hope I find someone like you did love, I’m glad you found someone!!🥺🤍
@@yanismota3378 , thank you 😍 don’t worry you will find love of your life. I’m sure
@@yanismota3378 were u guys on a break?
I love the way that the colors of their outfits match - they are breaking up, and a mess, but in many ways still a unit, because they’re in love even after that
Man shut up
Edit: guys please just read between the lines - it's not about the break or break up
Why you say it like he was being an asshole?
You know the circumstances you know he heard mark on the phone you know he was drunk,you know he didn't even like the other girl,yeah he fucked up,but there's a huge difference between fucking up on purpose and or fucking up in his position
@@angelacosta5457 i didnt say he was the only one in the wrong 😂 im just saying with how everything went down it was the right decision to make 🤷♀️ im probably wrong but thats just my opinion
Funny. The stuff that led up to her who slept with a thousand guys to that point and was pretty ignoring and rude and hurtful for a while up to that point, being angry and breaking up with him but it's all his fault.
Mmm no after u break up with someone u can do anything
@@mrpumavol7.044 dfdkdjdjfjs fair enough
I don't like the re-editing on this, especially the intrusive music towards the end. Friends was perfect as it was. You can't 'improve' it.
Kerensa Birch read the description. The uploader says that he had to edit it so he/she could upload it.
Victoria Vedder
Maybe but I still don't like it. Did the annoying music have to be added as well?
Chris Qiu no it’s not. i just finished the original episode and it wasn’t there.
Who cares 😒
Its u2.... the song just made it better...
can't blame Rachel. I would have let go of him too.
then gl on having bf lol
@@musakhan2157 I'd rather be single than having a bf like him.
@@musakhan2157 not every guy is as stupid as Ross is so I'm sure she'll find a bf Better than him and a relationship better than Thiers.
@@rithikdeshpande7884 nah she can’t because he’s a better person than her
@@vvthetalentlessduo6976 you talking about Ross and Rachel? I was talking about the girl who commented that.
Ross as a person is better than Rachel but he's fucked up when it comes to relationships
If you are talking about the girl who commented by judging her Lmao so what's a better person? A person who would let their bf/gf crawl back to them when they didn't wait for a few hours before sleeping with somebody.
Technicalities are debatable. They were/weren't on a break is a long debate but him sleeping with somebody hours after a breakup when they haven't even talked what a "break" means to each of them properly (He just walked out) shows how important that realtionship was for him.
He used that break as a window to sleep with somebody else. People say shit in anger. You talk it out instead of walking away.
And then having the audacity to crawl back as if nothing happened and throwing it all on Rachel alone when they both fucked up. (Ik Rachel did that too in that letter.)
He chose to do something according to his assumptions. Fine. Now own up to your actions and don't expect others to accept your choices that clearly were hurtful to them. That's assholery.
And Rachel asking for a break is wrong? People in relationships sometimes need some space to get their shit done without having to juggle between so many things and not giving anything enough. She asked for a break, didn't go out and sleep with someone else
Also the fact that she said most of that outta frustration and that shows by the fact that she called him hundreds of times the very same night. Let's be mature. People say shit in anger.
I remember being 14 years old and crying my EYES out at this scene!
how much are you now?
@In deadly oohh shoot🤣 what was I thinkin🤣🤣
@In deadly 🤣😄
He’s 37
@@asmrroseworld5021 I’m 39 now- wow! And I STILL cry at this scene
I hate how he says "are you going fight for us or just bail?" No. Just no.
He has the nerve to say that. When he drove her girlfriend to the point of asking for a break which he then reponded to by bailing out of the room and proceeded to sleep with someone else. Talk about throwing your relationship out the window. Ross was too much of a mighty selfish jerk most of the times.
nyongtory4e selfish? He was broken and insecure about Mark, even Joey stated that the actions mark did probed mark had other intentions, as Rachel didn’t take in Ross’s suspicions and just got annoyed about it which is what lead them to a break, and of all the people she brought to the apartment, she brought mark, and as soon as ross heard Mark, he was broken, because he believed they were broken up and Male and her were together, which pushed him over the edge
@@Unwisesaucer This are all excuses for Ross's trust issues and insecurities. And those cannot be blamed on Rachel. Because she made it clear from the start he was a friend. He was her only friend in this brand new job in fashion world, thays why she wss so excited. And Mark never made a move on Rachel while she was with Ross. He asked her on a date weeks after they officially broke up. Which ended up badly because after the date Rachel rejected him. Because she NEVER saw him as a romantic partner as she told Ross many many times. See, the problem is that just the mention of Mark's name made Ross jealous, not what Mark did himself. And Mark showed himself on Rachel's apartment, she never invited him over. Its still no reason enough to go have sex with someone else. If he really thought Rachel was sleeping with someone else after their supposed 'break up', then thats just shows how little he thought of her and how little respect she had for her, and their relatiomship. She is better off without someone like him.
@@nyongtory4e or maybe Ross has trust issues about the fact that Carol cheated on him and it's pretty obvious that Mark had intentions and Rachael saying that there's nothing there with Mark is irrelevant. All Mark would have to do is get Rachael alone to make a move! Funny how you talk about making up excuses for Ross when you're pretty much making up excuses for Rachael and here are facts:
If you hear Mark on the other line with your girlfriend whom you're on a break up with and you know Mark was after her are you telling me you wouldn't think they were having sex!? On top of that Ross was vulnerable and had 2 idiot friends namely Chandler and Joey who told him shit advice. He then got drunk and and a very attractive woman threw herself at him and let me add more emphasis on the fact that Ross is *DRUNK* and you think that Ross, who is being influenced by intense emotions and alcohol, isn't going to sleep with the hot and sexy woman practically throwing her body on him??? Gimmie a break
@@K-Stac Okay but you're implying that Rachel is promiscuous. Women often think men are their friends while men are secretly trying to fuck them. Their cluelessness doesn't mean they want to fuck them too. And it's even more frustrating when you factor in that Rachel never even acted interested in Mark and verbally said many times that she was not.
Ross is the toxic version of a nice guy who hides behind a goofy exterior. All Ross manages to do for ten seasons is prove why he is an awful romantic partner and how he never works to change, no matter how badly he needs to, one of the worst man
Ross is a perfect example of a self-proclaimed “nice guy”. Incredibly self-absorbed, relentlessly disrespectful to others, and insistent that he must always get his own way
Not remotely defending Ross here because his actions and choices were indefensible, but most people really only ever make poor choices, commit bad acts when they're emotionally wounded, hurt, vulnerable, and dismayed. They act out of their pain. Wrong and hurtful, BUT...not rare phenomena among people. It really reflects on a failure of respect for themselves and those they proclaim to love.
After a lot of people realized this, i'm surprised that there's still people defending him, even when he tried to guilt trip Rachel and pin everything on her
@@Luke_existent those are Ross's toxic fans and i see many incels taking his side too so they are already very hopeless lol
I'm not that into Friends but I've watched enough clips and episodes of the show to safely say that Ross Gellar is one of the biggest dicks in all of TV. Even regardless of this scene he's an extremely selfish, possessive and manipulative person. He's funny in the show I'll give him that but he's still a huge dick of a character. He never really cared about Rachel he only cared about himself. If he really cared about Rachel he wouldn't let the whole Mark thing bother him. If he cared about Rachel he would've understood how important her job was to her and that she just didn't have the time to be with him like that. He shows plenty of scenarios where he only cared about himself. He didn't care about her. He didn't care about their relationship he only cared about himself. Ross is a dick and I will stick to that analysis to whomever wants to say different.
@@Luke_existent These scenes are perfect because they portray perfectly how things may occur in the safety of a private conversation, like insulting wrongly joey because he's just a womanizer or her hitting him with the book or ross trying to kiss her towards the end to magically make things ok.. Just like rachel was so invested in ross never hurting her, I think ross was equally invested on the idea that when two parties want to hold a relationship, by taking a step out of it, is losing faith for the relationship. What I mean to say is, like Rachel's most important thing is that he would never hurt her, Ross' most important thing is whatever happens at the end of the day the most important thing is to believe in their relationship and Rachel jeopardized that. And Ross didn't take the safe road -took the wrong road to be exact- in this chaos to ensure more chances to have Rachel back. If he was out of line for attempting to get Rachel back afterwards, Rachel was out of line to expect she can take a piss on the relationship without consequence.
Prooving to lose faith on the relationship is a very different state than having a big all-out fight. Rachel by the end seems to understand that and the true reason is she just can't move on from the actual consequence that was the worst-case scenario.
I hate how ross keeps attacking rachel "you're the one who does this"
They didn't even agree before "the break", he went away.
@@antaylorsversion6996 exactly.
Whatever You want I think they mean throughout the entire series. In this circumstance they meant that after Ross was caught sleeping with another woman he kind of turned it around on Rachel, essentially blaming her, saying that if she had never called for their (totally reasonable) break then it wouldn’t have happened in the first place.
They always turn it around to make you feel it's your fault..classic then trying to be overly infection taking advantage of your weak state.its obvious she loves him but she can't trust him anymore..it changed
ikr? in my opinion he had no right to get deffensive or attack rachel cause he was the one that slept with the other woman the SAME night they "broke up"
Watching this again and being reminded of how awful it was makes me even more annoyed at Ross for not taking responsibility and even joking about it. It was made into this argument about whether it was a break or not when in reality I don't think it matters. I would feel incredibly hurt if my boyfriend slept with someone the same night we broke up even if it was a "proper" break up. It would definitely change the way I thought about him.
what about Ross' feelings?
You sound biased.
Why did Rachel hangout with Mark, the one person Ross is jealous of, same night they were on a break?
Ross made an effort of calling her up to fix things! Ross was at no fault at all.
Jennifer Aniston herself agreed that the character Rachel was in wrong.
Ya but remember Ross character during this season was behaving a victim after his divorce with Carol. He never could admit he was a fault with many things during his relationship with Rachel.
@@Nicole-by3ng
And Rachel could? She tried to blame Ross for everything. Both were wrong. Ross on reactions, Rachel on communication. She made pretty much everything she could to make Ross to think there was something between her and Mark. And Ross behaved like insecure, jealous idiot.
@@SshivamKhopkar so? Because Jennifer Anniston says something that should be the right thing? Both were in the wrong but Rachel just got a little angry and Ross slept with someone on the same night he broke up that’s disgusting. Mark invited himself over rachel asked him not to come
@@waterunderthebridge3473but Ross didn’t know that. All he knew was that the guy he was worried about was at her appartment the night they broke up and she was trying to hide him being there
Oh when he kneels down I cried so much!
I thought he was gonna go down on her, if you know what I mean.
@@russkate88 go down on her while she's crying? What's wrong with your head?
@@lillylovesrain7072 just to prove how much he loves her and to try make things right again
@@russkate88 okay I have a such a Chandler joke about that in my head but it's only funny in person.
Yep
The actors cried while filming this...I understand why:(
This is not his first time guys, ross cheated on Julie and Bonnie as well oh and yes he emotionally cheated on Emily, all these women de a better man, ross is the worst and most toxic man ever, poor girls, sad
This is definitely an episode that a laugh track was not needed
I can't watch this scene without crying every single time 😪 the acting is unbelievable, you actually feel the hurt from Rachel's side and the regret and upset from Ross's side. Both actor's said they cried really after filming this scene that say's how powerful it was. Wow what talented and excellent actors they both are. Its such a believable and relatable scene 😪😪💜💙
That's because it's been very real for Jennifer. These things have happened to her in real life. My heart goes out to her. If I ever had the change to be in a relationship with her my days of looking at another is absolutely over. Period.
I started balling my eyes out when Ross and Rachel was crying and then he got on his knees and begged for forgiveness😭😭
Dramatic tension with Ross and Rachel, and awkwardly comedic with the friends being stuck in the room. The writing here is seriously gold!
Ross is one of the most problematic, pathetic and worst character in the history of fiction, Ross is a perfect example of a self-proclaimed “nice guy”. Incredibly self-absorbed, relentlessly disrespectful to others, and insistent that he must always get his own way
@ He is not a good person: lets' take Bonnie first. Remember how infatuated he was with her? That was, until she shaved her head. His parents prized him and he thought it was fun to be mean with his own sister. He proposed to Emily keeping Rachel in mind. He attempted to get Rachel to stay back and miss a good job opportunity at Paris, convinced her with the promise (for the sake of)their ‘romance’.
@ He's just way too Clingy.: And doesn't have a life of his own apparently. Carol made it clear that she was in love with SUSAN. BUT NOOOOO! NOT IN ROSS LAND! He just kept competing with Susan even when Carol needed help the most, resulting in a useless, annoying and TOTALLY avoidable (but somehow humourous happenings), like Ben's birth. Speaking of whom…
He tries way too hard: he takes away Ben's Barbie doll in an attempt to make him 'not girly'. How pathetic! When Rachel was going to deliever the news of being pregnant with Emma, Ross thought she was going to confess her 'love' for him. How delusional can one get? Oh and he deserved that hit from Julie because he wasn't planning on telling her about his kiss with Rachel. He intended to keep it a secret so as to upkeep his only smooth relationship.
He tried to sabotage Rachel and guilt her: done that on too many occassions… too much to remember.
He totally over reacted about Monica having a relationship with Richard when he himself did something bad as a MINOR with his 50 y/o school librarian.
Ross. Is. Creepy.
Let's not forget the I HATE RACHEL CLUB: Just cause the loser couldn't get her to love him.
The list is endless he's easily the worst one
Man I forget how real this acting was in this scene. Hats off to Jennifer and David for pouring everything they had felt for each other into this scene
"Well you had a hell of a time at the wake."
That's the point right there.
yup they were on a break but damn he wasted no time.
and then he comes at her with "you're the one who bailed on us"
Well he's right.
No, he isn't
@@user-el3zi8kn5l yes he is.
No
@@user-el3zi8kn5l yes
Thanks to the entire cast of Friends. They got me through some ups and downs in my younger life. I will never get tired of watching them. They truly are like an old friend.
This aggravates me so much when he cheated on her. He sent all that stuff to her office basically pissing everywhere marking his territory. he was so obsessed with her then but she finally confronts him and then he leaves their fight, and sleeps with the first person he sees. He then dared to say that she was the one walking out. Ross is my absolute least favorite character
He didn’t cheat. THEY WERE ON A BREAK!
@@RaferJeffersonIII he did cheat, it might have been a break but it was never a break UP , two very different terms pal
@@Richard99-ob6bh are you following me around?
Are you actually a dude? You seem quite invested in this for an adult male
Maybe this is how Jen reacted when Brad cheated.... :/ Sad...
I think this is exactly how Jennifer ansd ant reacted when she found out about Brad Pitt doing that to her am I think even worse
I didn't even think about it until now 😢
Seriously it doesn’t matter if they were or were not on a break, Rachel even says that he had a hell of a time at the wake because he slept with someone right away after the “break”. Either way he was in the wrong...I get so mad at ross in this episode-I always feel the urge to slap him with that newspaper like Rachel did😂😂
Yep, for once, Rachel is right and Ross is the selfish one
I mean yeah ross is a Piece of Shit, but she handled the situation (before the cheating) like an idiot.
Hell, the guy did not get to see her in like a week, and when he goes to work to have a nice anniversary, she insults him and treats him like garbage.
And then she goes “we should take a break”, allows mark to get in, which makes drunk ross think he was right to be jealous, and which totally destroys him, and he goes (and I wanna point out, he was drunk) dancing with an hot girl; next thing he knows, he is in bed with her. Not to justify, but it took three people to break that relationship, and Rachel was one of them
@@stefanosoletta9242 I like how you left out he disturbed her multiple times at work, went to her work multiple times to just because of his insecurities, and even yelled at her colleges.
@@lifeisbitvlover171 He has been the "selfish" one many times too.
@@stefanosoletta9242 The guy was suffocating her at a time where she is already stressed. If he was going to turn up, why didn't he just leave a nice mini gift from the picnic, give her a quick kiss and celebrated later with her. Instead, he unilaterally decided that her work wasn't important because it wasn't something dinosaur-related and just stressed her out more.
Also, he finds it okay to turn up uninvited to her work but not to an apartment which he has open access to and his GF might be cheating on him with the guy he suspected was into her? It makes no sense.
Since when did a break mean an opportunity to go have sex with someone else? A break, is a little time apart to make sure you both want the same things before deciding if a relationship is really what you want, but it does not and will NEVER mean, you can sleep with anyone you want to while on a break 🤦🏾♀️
But you know a break can last forever
@@oluwatuyiayomide6386 yea well he slept with someone else the very first night it happened, thats kinda fucked up
I think it's stupid ppl take breaks from relationships. It's like, if it don't work out then break up. If ya somehow can't lice without each other then get back together. It's just soo dumb.
Ross only fans think that gave him a free pass!
@@oluwatuyiayomide6386the duration is for the couple to choose
I agree with her too! I just can't believe this costed them 10 seasons of separation.
7 seasons. This was season 3.
@@BeeKee404 true. I completely forgot about this from 8 years ago. Glad I rewatched this, thanks :)
@@punnoosecheriyan right. It was getting a bit ridiculous from a show perspective to keep them a part. They got married and had a baby and they still hadn't gotten back together.
Of started dating Ross pictures up to a thousand guys at that point. Andros was so innocent. So it was a chance things weren't going to go well. And they'll Rachel stopping by the scared little puppy tail, him whining and begging and stuck pair. Oh wait, it's Ross.
@@notthefather3919 Agreed! They were broken up way too long. The whole Rachel and Joey thing🤮 It should’ve been Ross and Rachel getting back together instead of that stupid shit show of a couple
It broke my heart when she said i thought you would never ever hurt me 🥲
no, it's fair. .yeah they were on a break.. so what? in the same night he went and slept with another woman despite the big love stuff and then the second day he wants everything as it was and she to be ok with it? sorry, if I was to be her I would have never accepted him back in spite the love because I could have never be sure that in though moments he could be trusted.. trust is a big thing and once destroyed even the big loves can't work without it.
PREACH SISTER PERIODTTTT.
exactly and plus even if they were broken up why on earth would ross still sleep with someone if hes always saying how much he loves rachel and how he always has. and i know its just a show.
Sometimes you have to think on other
side also, he is so sad that he lost his childhood crush, the one who he dreamt the beautiful and coziest for entire life...he would never cheat on her...and he was drunk..sad and drunk are the two things makes a person out of his mind...so its not a mistake totally..i blame her...for using such big words.
@@hemanth3931 bad excuse and nthing else actually people who cheats are not respecting themselves
After Rachel willingly let someone that she knew made Ross jealous into her home.
Jennifer Aniston stated she really cried in this scene. David made her cry. Very heart felt scene. BRAVO 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾
0:08 Gunther: I'm sorry. Was I not supposed to?
One of my favourite quotes from him.
She kissed Ross when he was with Julie ... Should've lowkey seen it coming.
excellent point!
IF he cheated with you he is going to cheat on you...
And then he cheats on Bonnie as well
Damn, I wouldn't think of that. Subconcious revenge on his ex-wife continues...
Yeah, but it was Rachel..even he hated himself for what he did..she’s the love of his life..
When you have a fight with your significant other, never use the word "break" unless you actually mean it's time to break up.
Yes. That was a pretty serious and meaningful Wordfeud.. Especially after not seeing Ross for quite awhile, being very rude mean and hurtful at work whether she was right or not to do so on their anniversary night excetera excetera. Yelling afterwards and then using that word breakup.. all the comments here. Except they're from people that are strong fans of these two being together, and probably female saying you can't be with another woman but me until I make the move myself first her something or other whatever
If you don’t wanna give up on each other just yet, but want time apart I think the word break would be rather appropriate
Intelligence is knowing whether or not they were on a break
Wisdom is knowing that wasn't the important thing
on an interview, the actor who played Gunther explained that he was criticize by a person who said: "u shouldnt told Rachel that Ross slept with the girl from the photocopy! u r a bad guy who ruined other people relationship!" man thats a die hard Friends fan!
how crazy that people don't understand these are fictional characters lmfao.
@@Victoria-gv3qh you are right but the situations they faced happens in real life so people kind of take it to their heart n get so close to such characters. For me this is one of the saddest moments in Friends which brought me to tears.
I don’t think what Gunther did was bad, it’s the intention behind it that I’m against it. He didn’t do it because he thought she should know, he did it cause he was hoping he would be the shoulder she’ll cry on and forget Ross. The intention was purely selfish.
@@TheYouy89 Plus look at how smug he looks when Ross rushes in. If he had told her for the right reasons, I would get it but his crush on Rachel varied from creepy to obsessive over the course of the 10 seasons. Rachel did not deserve to find out this way. I will add that after this, I never wanted Ross and Rachel to get back together. He was controlling, obsessive and manipulative, and honestly his comment to her that Mark was only being nice to sleep with her was bang out of order! While they both end up being pretty toxic towards each other after this, she did not deserve to be treated this way. Rachel did nothing wrong. Ross did. Sorry for the rant, but this really reminds me of how my ex reacted when I got a new job working with a group of men. Looking back on this season and how Ross acted about Rachel's job, it's really similar to what happened to me, and it makes me see the season in a new way.
@@TheYouy89 spot on. I'm glad Rachel kept Gunther in the friend zone because as you said, his intentions were self serving.
OMG the acting here is incredible - I never realised how good it was until I have started to rewatch. Jennifer especially got it spot on especially with her resentful body language. Hats off to both of them - it’s goosebumps type of stuff
When Rachel sat on the couch with Ross, and felt that pain, I felt it too.
I hate how this has been edited.
They had to
Yup.
nah man, it was amazing
the only part i hated though was th3e fact that some clips were deleted from this video
This scene is always going to spark an argument and it all depends on values and own experiences. No one is right or wrong
Correct. Milk completely right or wrong to this. But my immediate response, although I would think I wouldn't do such a thing, feel for Ross. Him distraught, drinking alcohol, being seduced, one of which was her. But yeah, we can think about the respect and love he holds her Rachel and threw it out the window the very night she yelled and broke up with him
I mean if he's sure that he didn't do anything wrong, why is he trying to hide it and acting so desperately, he's behaving exactly like a cheater and guess what he's indeed a cheater lol
If I did what Ross did against my girl, it would be close to impossible to forgive myself. Would never dream of hurting a girl in any way in my life😭
Good you Have vakues
This scene is truly heartbreaking, and it felt so real. I mean, Jennifer and David nailed it with their performances, and I can sympathize with both Rachel and Ross. Definitely one of the best scenes in the show in terms of acting 🤭
this entire scene just gives me goosebumps. gosh what good acting on david and jen’s part
A breakup is when you stop dating each other. What she was talking about was a break, get some space from each other for a bit. He is totally guilty. >=I
Fiona McNinch it’s still a breakup
Enanny06 Exactly..Just because the word “up” isn’t used doesn’t make it less than what it really is. Rachel was the one who initially suggested taking “a break from us..”
Yeah, I've been back and forth on this for awhile. When he said "Do you really think I would've done that if I didn't think you and Mark were doing the same thing?" or something along those lines, I hate that shit. Two wrongs never make a right, it makes shit worse. And shit, before I go fuck someone after my partner tells me they want a break, I would love or care about them enough to keep my legs closed until I speak with said partner again and discuss what this "break" entails. Full on break up or just a breather? Might sound corny but seriously, communication is key.
Oh my god don't start this break or break up
Nobody in real life would take a break, people have too much on their plate.
I love this scene...this episode...they made it look so real and I cry so hard since I relate it so much. I just can't stop watching this
Same
This is my favourite episode ever like I literally I can't stop watching it
This was Rachel’s fault because she wanted to take a break
this makes me cry every time
If you’re still around, me too, Heather
Why?
This was so funny and entertaining and sad all at the same time. Damn David and Jen and the rest of the cast did one hell of an amazing job. Wow.
This was one of the saddest breakups it was so real 😢🥺
One of my top five favourite scenes to ever play out on national television. I'm not going to say my part on the subject, as that would take wayyy too long now and I already know how I am when I really get into comments.. But just the crack of his voice at 6:21 on the "okay"..
The whole emotion just dripping through that scene, the way the actors just let themselves go, flowing with their characters all the way...
Man, this was acting... If dreams do come true maybe I'll be a that point someday. 💕
This episode breaks my heart everytime I watch it
What episode and season is this
that "then how come it is?" always makes me tear up
Perfect! I needed to watch this soooo bad today!!! Thank you for posting it!
The loud music added in over the most emotional parts of the scene kinda ruins it tbh
I dont count it as cheating. Ross didnt cheat on her technically since she was the one who initiated the break.. BUT in saying that, Rachel has every right to feel hurt that he slept with someone a few hours after the break up and I would NOT have taken him back either. I see both sides of the argument but definitely with Rachel on this. For him to just sleep with someone right away a few hours after a break without fighting for you is a slap to the face and I wouldnt want someone like that in my life. Not to mention how insanely jealous and possessive he was acting during the lead up to the break up.
She kissed mark right after the break up
@@godaim381 It was like several episodes later which would be several weeks in TV land I assume plus HE kissed her and she pulled away. Big difference with having sex with someone a few hours after a 'break' to getting kissed by someone several weeks after a permanent break up. Cant even compare lol
The way I see it, the break meant end of the relationship to Ross, so he could do whatever he wanted after that. Clearly, this definition was not the same as Rachel's definition of the break, which meant being on a pause, like stop hanging out or communicating for an indefinite amount of time, while still being in a relationship). Had she told Ross what she meant by a break, probably Ross wouldn't have slept with that other girl. Also, him sleeping with another girl a few hours after the break up was done out of being devastated. He was hurt from the break up and just rushed into someone else, so as to comfort himself. I don't think that he didn't care about Rachel or that he didn't respect the relationship enough to go sleep with someone the second the relationship ends.
There's a lack of communication by both of them which led to all this situation. While I understand she was hurt because she didn't want to end the relationship and still cared about Ross and sees his action as cheating, she is to blame too.
Everyone seems completely content to ignore how horrible Ross was leading up to the break and I'm glad to see someone finally say it. He was just so jealous and possessive and insecure of Rachel finally having an awesome career. He is such an awful character.
Why does everyone keep forgetting that Ross did it only bcoz he thought Rachel was sleeping with Mark right after they broke up
He didn't go out to cheat on her
He called her to make things right but finds out that the guy he ws constantly worried about is with her girl in her apartment right after she broke up with him
How would u feel if u were afraid of ur GF getting too close to someone, & then hours after ur breakup, u find that she is with the same person who is somehow a reason fr ur insecurities.....that just broke Ross completely & he went overboard
At that moment he thought that this is over & he lost her forever
He lost his ability to think rationally about it after that point
The photo copy girl found her when he ws at his most vulnerable state in his love life
I'm not saying Rachel getting hurt over it was unjustified....anyone would be deeply hurt by that
But Ross being blamed fr it like Rachel didn't have any role in it is also unfair
Who can not relate to this scene? The situation felt so realistic and suddenly it's like you're not watching a sitcom. Whoever wrote that episode 👏👏👏
'Has to be the single most complicated love story in TV history.
@JusMister Sullivan Okay, but without the blood and guts.
Who hasn't gone through this 😢
The U2 needs to go. We lost half of Rachel's lines after the music started, including the big one.
The rest was good acting. But the scene where he runs in to Central Perk and she's just sitting there staring. Man.. that always gets me.
She feels dead inside
My god... they are such amazing actors.
And thats the moment when the phrase "we were on a break" started! 😅
But Monica and phoebe's reaction when Ross said joey and chandler told him😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
"Order a pizza like I'll forgive you?"
Hahahaha
Best scene ever. You can definitely tell those tears at the end are real. Love how everyone else was listening to the entire conversation 😂
Rachel looked really pretty that day
This has to be the fastest 7:20 minutes I have ever lived thru. Didn't realise it was gone until the clip stopped.
Thank you whoever created this video. I lived this exact scene.
being in a rocky relationship, this really shook me up :[
i was just listening to this doing something else and even if there was this loud backgroud music i still cried. i think we've all been there once, some caught and some are not. the point is it really hurts the both of you, it traumatized me and haunts me everytime, the feeling of breaking someone you've treasured a lot just because of a short moment.
So badly edited that the entire thing was ruined. Why bother?
Damn it Gunther!
Fakes worry* "Was I not supposed to say anything?" *Drops act, continues cleaning xD cracks me up every time lol the little shit.
Gunther was a little bitch.
He seemed satisfied with what he did. He liked Rachel and was jealous of her relationships with other guys, especially Ross. And yet he never tried to ask Rachel out.
Dea Hunçi If he really liked her he would have told her for the right reasons not for his own selfish reasons
@@deahunci4722 I loved the fact that Rachel was oblivious to Gunther liking her and that she always overlooked him and that she'd have her relationship dramas in front of him all the time.
That was sad😢
I felt so bad for Monica too, Rachel is her friend and Ross is her brother..... I just noticed Chandler comforting Monica.... so glad Monica and Chandler ended up together 😊❤
How did he honestly expect Rachel to react?
Being on a break ≠ being broken up
Later in the same episode she told Monika that they BROKE-UP, before this scene
After so many years and 4 the first time I'm watching this part.. believe it or not the way Ross is trying to see a way to make it work for his mistakes just cuts me deep, some how it just hurts me... it feels so so real... I even cried not gonna lie
So was it really a mistake?. The avoidance by Rachel 4 weeks, the rude hurtful actions at work whether Ross was wrong or not on their anniversary night, Rachel being very angry and yelling at Ross and breaking up with him. Having a source of tension her apartment that same night xcetera
Just fantastic acting....cannot get better than this people....i almost tear up when i watch this.
Brilliant... to be able to evoke comedy during one of the most heart-breaking scenes on FRIENDS...
Regladless if you are on a “break”, if you have any chance of the relationship continuing, YOU DONT SLEEP WITH OTHER PEOPLE until you know it’s 100% over.
he liter;llyc alled her at night but she was in her appartment ith mark the one he was jelous of it was both peopke mistake
@@sanyaidnaniproudofliam6789 tbh, I dont remember all the details post “break”. But I stand by what I say. To sleep with some THE SAME NIGHT is unforgivable to me. It was a spat. Couples fight and make up in a day or two. Now, if it’s been a couple weeks and nothing got resolved, I’d be more inclined say, yeah it’s not looking good. But Rachel realized she made a mistake and went to make up the day after the spat.
Friends really knows when to cut the laugh track.
"A mistake?? What were you trying to put it in, her PURSE???"
Me and my husband went through this in highschool. We had broken up, i broke up with him and we got back together as week later but during that week he started sleeping with someone else and failed to brake up with her. We Litterally LITTERALLY had this exact fight.
I was screaming and furious and he was crying and on his knees begging becasue we have so much history.
And then you end the dark marrying the guy
Sounds like he just collects women who give him free sex. Now that hes married, he will have to pay a stripper.
They were technically broken up, but the fact that he was over it quick enough to sleep with somebody else only a couple hours later, is the real issue. At that point Rachel would just think Ross wasn’t even bothered that they’d split up.
I don't like how you cut the other friends' comments out......
This broke my soul as a kid and even more as an adult because i can relate to the hurt.
I’ve been in 2 relationships where this happened, and it hurts so bad-it’s not cheating but it’s still disrespectful. Both times the “break” was a short amount of time dedicated towards growing as people, both men used it as an opportunity to sleep with as many women as they could in a short amount of time, even though it was a set boundary that we wouldn’t sleep with other people. Super disrespectful-I never understood how people could ever take Ross’s side in this.
Well...can you remind me if Rachel gave the same rule to Ross? Because if she didnt...then Ross did nothing wrong
Yet she never told that to Ross and she told Monica right after that they had broken up .
Yes it was not right what Ross did but he did not cheat .
With or without you in the back just making this scene comes more alive ....touched❣️
Jennifer and David’s acting in this scene is incredible