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Some of us don’t want to smile in a keke, neither do we want to cry in a Rolls Royce. We rather genuine laughs with a faithful husband in a Honda Accord😂😂😂
Talking about Tolerance Nigerians can be gullible no disrespect meant to you oh I'm just using your reply as a context...there's no Human being on earth that could be that patient and calm then certain people knows how to paint a perfect public picture I'm talking about those anonymous msgs she'd express herself in ways you can't think of perfectly behind closed doors only if those side chic's Sophie and co can own up....y'all wld see Sophie act out throw tantrums no be person dey provoke her??Omo I don't hate Chioma oh but she's the last person I'd see as a Real one I don't respond multi faceted people abegg
"There is no role being modeled here", Neze, I love you for this truth. I have been married for 17 years. I have 3 daughters and a son but I WILL NOT SETTLE FOR THIS FOR ANY ON MY 3 DAUGHTERS. God Forbid.
Chioma alone knows why she has chosen to marry Davido, and her decision should be respected. But I completely agree that she certainly shouldn't be the go-to role model, nor should her choice be the standard.
It's indeed terrible. Even in my countrt Cameroon. I appreciate he loves her. But as they are married he should respect her and not cheat like that. People have no idea how devastating it is to loose your sanity in a relationship with a cheating patner. I hope he changes for the better. It's sick what our generation spplauds!
My GRANDPARENTS had a kingdom marriage, everyone including my mum, her siblings, community people knew how self disciplined and faithful my GRAND-DAD was, infact my grand-mom was being accused of using juju on him. And no he was not poor, he was well travelled, he was the first METHODIST MISSIONARY to the United Kingdom, Very Rev. Asuquo J. Udo, he travelled everywhere with his wife to different parts of the world, even when he had options of going alone, he always insist on carrying his wife, he was always known to be a FAMILY-ORIENTED MAN. Even he died a month before i was born(1993), his story was told to us his grandchildren by elders of the community and some of his associates and ofcourse my grand-mom will not stop talking to me about how self disciplined her husband was, and it was rare in her time to see such man, even when she didnt ask for fidelity, he gave her fidelity. Yes, they are faithful men, and its not about money, but about discipline
Real love doesn't come with pain. It's beautiful to see the big wedding they had. I agree with you Neze dear. Chioma is beautiful and bet her last coin on something she can get a quarter of for the name and trophy. That doesn't make her a role model. This won't be our girls. Indeed stronger are women who walk away from all the abuse for their peace of mind. Women of African abuse endurance is not healthy. Money is not everything.
Well articulated point my sister,it starts with us to say no to dis abuse from men&later on covered with expensive gifts but not changing deir ways&in da end,dey become meaningless till u walk away after wasting almost all your life in pain!
i saw a comment about someone asking for Chioma's beleesing for her daughters and i commented so you wish for your daughters to be impregnated and moving with a man before marriage and go through multiples affairs? you seriously consider it a blessing? with this kind of mothers why would you need enemies.
They have chosen to be together and that is fine for them. But words like “virtuous”, “role model” certainly do not apply to this woman. PLEASE!! Let this not become what young girls want to get into now.
east africa women especially rwanda and kenya we are a movement🤣🤣🤣🤣..nigeria women come for benchmarking😊😊😊mama tears in marriages,,mama enduarances for abuses😶🌫😶🌫😶🌫
My love for Neze!!!We all love David and Chioma,but people shoud stop normalizing abnormalies....I pray God continue to bless their home... This video is ONLY FOR THE WISE❤❤❤❤❤
Basketmouth wife left, AY wife left, Rudeboy wife left with all the money they all have after how many years. So what makes u fans think she will not leave? Most people don't understand marriage is different from friendship. Actually the baby mamas won cos they have more peace and sanity than the wife.Thank you Neze....
I Africa it’s all about poverty which makes women acts like dump. When my mother visited me in UK, she looked at the system of freedom and said to me that, if she was living here she would have left my dad long time ago.
There are lots of single mothers sleeping with men who just give them sex. They cook for the same man to attract him and open their children to risk of abuse because of sex. Some of this women struggle a lot without a man. Trust me things are not always as they appear
Trust me being a single mother is hard in the uk. A lot of them who left their husbands due to cheating are busy cooking for a man so that he can sleep with them. They also expose their children to risks of abuse from the different men that will visit if they can find because there seems to be a scarcity of good single available men. And I talk from experience as someone who’s stayed in the uk since the 90s. I saw a lot of this women pretending that they did not need men but codedly sleeping with a man. Please don’t delete my comment.
My God!!! I’m in my early twenties and I consider myself as a blessed girl for finding barrister Neze! There’s so much noise out there and the truth is suppressed! God blessed Neze ❤❤❤🎉
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Neze! It’s really sad to find out apparently that blatant promiscuity is acceptable for rich young men in Nigeria in 2024 and the one who ends up marrying them is considered to have won the jackpot, according to some bloggers (mostly men)! I will say this. The wedding ceremonies were spectacular and beautiful and opulent and fantabulous and the newly weds looked completely adorable and gorgeous. However, I still have my reservation about the character of the groom and pray that maturity and self respect for himself and his marriage and kindness and sensitivity to his wife directs his future decisions about ‘the other room’ activity.
I hope she can mentally tolerate it, and cope with it, but I hate the way ppl are praising her. If a woman did this to a man. She would be dragged to hell by both man and woman.
We are quick to judge people in the lime light, whereas you find even in the slums that a man has multiple children with different women, but since they aren't popular.. we don't sit here and condemn their actions. I don't support promiscuity but those who do this, know what is in their minds and hearts.
Neze, you have spoken facts. The part where you said, the strong person is the person that even in the midst of the things she stands to gain, still chose to walk away from emotional abuse and the likes. I felt that. I can relate too.
I just pray she doesn't contract deadly diseases that comes from such relationships, a man who enters very hole, and impregnate any thing on skirt, that money will turn to shit in a twinkle of an eye, I love her, I just pray Davido changes, and all the demons responsible for all this ashawo character will live him, oginidu haaa.
My sister if a Man ever calls you strong 💪, 🏃♀️ 🏃♀️ 🏃♀️ run ,run to the hills and never accept as a woman never accept ,women are the weaker vessel,omo we have 2 face,Davido,Diamond, Heck Samidoh yes am Kenyan and if I tell you follow the gospel according to Neze 😅😅😅🤼♂️🇰🇪
You had me at coronary heart disease step out abort mission, congenital heart disease pick your bags run away,deep vein thrombosis leave the room🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 you are so funny,entertaining and teaching all at the same time. This is my best channel on here!!!
The wedding and all its glitz is just for a day. Marriage is for a lifetime. I pray it all ends well. All the red flags do not look good. She seems to have moulded herself to please Davido. It could end in tears. I'm thinking in the extreme as PDiddy and Cassie come to mind. All that glitters is not gold
please don't let us sing doomsday for their relationship. They have been in relationship for quite a while and i think Chioma is aware of what she's up for against. Let's allow them be.When she feels she can no longer tolerate the humiliation, she will make her decision. Though they should not be the standard
Back to sender!! Life is a game she won the one she played and will continue to win the rest🙏🙏🙏👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻Amen If she didn’t marry him she would always be known as „Davido baby mama“……. Let her go all the way…. They understand each other. Millions will still die to marry Davido!‘n
@@josephinehagan6584 like you said she's aware who she married so if he does cheat later on she must not act surprised because it Davido and it won't be his first or last time cheating
Chioma is not my standard. the standard is to marry a man that can be a good husband and a model to my children before having children. this is not goal jo. I believe that if she was raised well or adhere to her parents upbringing, she should not have dated someone like Davido not to mention having babies out of wedlock then marrying him.
You are trying hard to paint her black because you can't see yourself getting the grace she has. Envy is just consuming some of you. Who knows the man you will end up with
Just because ppl got finger they just type rubbish who told u she had hertein out ofwed lock even the first don she was a fiance they twin she married davido in court before they were born. Get a life focus on ya life
@@chioma6844 lol, I’m not shallow minded like you. Do you think you have to marry a rich man to make wealth, it’s lazy people like you that sell their integrity for money. I won’t and can never sell my peace for money unlike you
THANK YOU NEZE. When I saw your title, I ran here to flog you but when I listened to your comments, I was reassured that you are as wise as I thought. This relationship and this beautiful young woman should not be any body's role model. We are happy for her but she is in an abusive and toxic relationship. If this man was ordinary poor Femi in Ojuelegba, will these people say that he is a good man, that she is lucky to be married to him? The double standard is nauseous.
Am in the shop here somewhere in Accra, shouting neze nnem speak ooooo, people are watching, wetin kwansine me,neze Amor 🔥 o..Only u can tell me the truth I need to hear❤❤❤❤
At all lol. No money in the world could make me open my life to emotional turmoil or the possibility of diseases. I’ve been in that exact situation and I walked away. Glad I did.
I’m always perplexed people only focus on the fact that he’s fathered all these children while with Chioma but no one talks about the incurable diseases he could have inflicted her with. To father those children - he was NOT practicing safe sex. I’m almost scared to say that if fathering children with ALL those women while with her is all that resulted from his promiscuity - they both got lucky! 😢
I have said this on a few of the videos I watched. The women kept dogging the Sophia, lady and kept saying his other children don’t matter on chioma and her children. And how much he loves her. And I said not enough to protect her from disease and no matter what all his kids matter. They shouldn’t be shunned or mistreated and talked about by these women who idolize chioma….
@@sugarbush0659 All his kids matter EQUALLY because HE CHOSE to sleep with ALL the mothers. I don't understand why people are being so sentimental concerning the Chioma. Dey no go share for her money, dey no go share for her pain.... so why can't they be objective and truthful ? There is so much to teach our young girls NOT TO DO, using Chioma and Davido as a case study. But it seems the morals our grandparents and parents taught us then no longer have meaning to most in the present day Nigeria. Imagine somone in the comments section responding to a comment like yours that those who disapprove of the wedding are jealous of the ' GRACE ' upon Chioma !!!! HABA ! Which kin grace be dat ?!!! Grace that makes your biyfriend/ fiance/ husband to be kneeling down and crying for girls' toto all over the world ? Grace that make you a step mother to only God knows how many ( innocent ) children all over the world ? ! Abeg, that is the kind of ' grace ' many women do not pray for, and cannot handle o ! UNTIL we begin to tell ourselves the truth ( that the Nigerian society has become so corrupt because of this inordinate desire for wealth and riches to the level where the SOURCE no longer matters ) we will not be able to curb the current trend of Yahoo Plus boys and Olosho girls like the Celine and Afibas in our soceity. I weep for the teenagers and youths of Nigeria because the ( most )parents have failed woefully ....
It's all about the money here in Africa. Imagine someone saying True love comes with Pain...wow! really? To each his own, don't let anyone force his or her opinion on you
It’s sad that you have come to these conclusions probably based on your experiences or what’s happening around you. Cheating cannot be normalised! It’s not every man that cheats whether they are poor or rich! So it’s disheartening to limit people to your abnormal two options: poor + cheat or rich + cheat! So sad. It may interest you to know that there are men who are sexually responsible and have treated their women with love & fidelity whether are rich or poor.
@@Mimi-jk9jc and who says you cannot find a Rich man who doesn't cheat. Who also says you cannot be Rich and have options. All I see in your statement is low self-esteem which, unfortunately, a lot of women have in this part of the world.
Soo sad that our generation is blinded by money and have no standards. A well elaborated and educative video. Women who see themselves as high valued will accept every single thing you mentioned here. You expressed my mind
Nezeville, one word, WEALTH!!!! I've come to realize that Wealth is the god of the average Nigerian, they worship it and would do anything for it. If Davido was an average Naija guy who happened to be in the spotlight, people would've cussed Chioma out and labelled her a fool but Davido is wealthy so his multiple cheatings, babymamas and over all sexual indiscipline is acceptable and now Chioma is the epitome of a loyal, strong woman for condoning all the embarrassment and going ahead to marry him. And men are at the fore front of all the praise showered on Chioma because men want a woman who would condone their cheating and stay put and still do her wifely duties. But I also don't really blame Chioma for going ahead to marry Davido, to me she's been tainted and marked by him, if they go their separate ways today, I believe Chioma would have a tough time finding a genuine man that would want to be in her life and her children's.
Ah! I wish RUclips can allow me to like this video 100 times!! You said my thoughts so well. I’m so sick of other RUclipsrs glorifying this behavior for fear of not being canceled. Yes, we respect her decision to marry David, but the sexual irresponsibility is real. There are diseases out there! What role models are we showing our next generation by not speaking the truth.
Thank you my sister, we've lost all moral compass as a society. I see comments on Chioma and Davido's marriage and I know that the standards we are teaching our daughters (and sons) are falling lower and lower each day. We are teaching them that in the presence of fame and money (or their absence), it is okay to accept community peni-ses as husbands. We say that's what true love is. Smh. But what good is material possessions in the face of HIV, numerous baby mamas and children? Shouldn't we teach our children to love and respect themselves and choose peace of mind above everything? Why can't love be pain free and respectful?
You absolutely right Neze i said it if we know the pain she's been throught we'll not say the things we are saying but that's her choice so we are happy for them he celebrated her and treated as the queen she is because he knows what he put her throught he knows the pain she endured because of him so i guess that's his way of saying i'm sorry and it's you i love so let's pray that he doesn't bring any more babies from change women may God bless their union
I celebrated my 23 years of marriage on the 20th of June, but as at 23 years ago we don't have much but we were so happy and blessed with 2 boys but today our joy have no boundaries , i think the problem in Africa is all about money 💰 so sad how even pastors and fatherly personalities clapping for nonsense
I agree the fact that black woman has to be strong for non sense and struggling love . She was never custom for real love .. all she is gaining his lifestyle and luxury...@@estyonyi8153
A virtuous woman as described in the Bible or dictionary, is not one that goes under shame n disgrace for her promiscuous husband! Being a virtuous woman is far more than this n we should not encourage our young girls to be virtuous in this sense. This is all about money! She wouldn't have done that for a poor man! Who wants their child to suffer pains, agony n emotional distressed in such a young age only because of money? As u rightly said, money is not everything! I agreed 100% with your thoughts on this. Thank u.
I have been looking for a voice of reason so thank you for this video! I am genuinly happy for her however you articulated all my thoughts exactly. I beleive he loves her but love isn't enough. I wish them well and truly hope God keeps them. Hopefully they can also surround themselves with people who would emulate what a true Godly marriage is. Hopefully David calms down too...hes married and should behave as such. For all you single ladies out there, please don't marry based on potential- marry based on what you see now and just know that if you can't deal with certain things now, marriage won't change it. Marriage does not stop a man from cheating on your or abusing you. Lastly, no one is perfect so as long as who you are considering is truly and sincerely a child of God and beleives he's accountable to God, wants to please him (loves God truly more then you), will love you like Christ loves the church and is growing in their faith (and you are also in the same boat) God will keep you both. Marriage is beautiful and there are good decent men out there.
God bless you, Nezeville. I don't wish such marriage on my daughter. Congratulations to Chioma, May God continue to give her the grace to endure. Mother's must train their daughter on self-worth. Well articulated as always, Nezeville. Speaking my mind, emotional abu$e is as bad as physical abu$e. Emotional instability can also affect one's health physically. Women raised in the diaspora are educated from early on not to condone any sort of abu$e for whatever reason.
Nezeville, l have not seen anyone who best narrates events on her platform. Nezeville is a highly intelligent lady with excellent communication, eloquent and articulate. She is also extremely beautiful and stunning. Your fan from 🇬🇧
Congratulations to both of them and I am super happy with this happy ending to their story. However - I echo you to say Chioma’s decision is not the standard at all - we must not dilute moral standards. The drama she’s put herself and her family through is unnecessary, but her patience and decorum needs to be studied and it paid off. Sometimes, love is not enough.
We women leave men because they cheat and end up single and date married old men, what's the point I support her fully. To date a celebrity you must have a strong heart oooo no be joke
Neze Nne, Nke a bu blockbuster... This episode is more captivating than ever. I see deep spirituality, excellent wisdom and profound judgement in this delivery. You couldn't have done a better job, dear Neze. You shone like a GALAXY OF STARS in this one. This is the best marriage and relationship counsel there is in recent times. You're living your DIVINE PURPOSE, Neze. The impact of this MINISTRY is immeasurable. Thank you EZINNE... NEZE Bless you!.
Thank you o my dearest Neze...! I just don't understand how the Nigerian society has descended so.low into such a moral abyss !!! How can a girl like Chioma be held up to our teenagers and youths as the epitome of the African woman.. ? How can she be said to have made a good marital decision ?!!!! If Davido was a poor struggling musician, all these people hailing Chioma for waiting on the philandering Davido for marriage after years of being a baby mama, would be raining abuses and curses on her o ! I tend to stay away from all trending headlines and stories featuring all these so called celebs, especially those involving ladies who hook up with, and become baby mamas to all these rich men. The fact that some eventually become 'upgraded ' in their status from baby mamas to wives after years of mental torture and emotional damage makes no difference to me. Such girls can NEVER be held up as ROLE MODELS to our impressionable teenagers and youths . The problem is that morhers have sooo lost it... !! What do you expect of a mother (who herself if given the chance would have a one night stand with the likes of Davido, Ned Nwoko, Wizkid, Flavour...etc) to tell her young daughter if faced with such a similar choice...? Of course such a useless woman would think it's her greatest pride to have any of such rich men as her daughter's baby daddy or husband.... Personally, I believe girls like Chioma do not have a proper sense of self worth, and suffer from low self esteem. Because, how do you explain a girl waiting for years on a guy that you KNOW cheats on you, has several other baby mamas.... ?!!!!! ( See where that got Annie Idibia,..... how she almost became a basket case ranting on social media years afyer marrying Tuface.) Which SELF RESPECTING, VIRTUOUS lady does that ?!!! When people like me talk like this on social media, others try to crush our words by claiming we are merely jealous.... Abeggi, jealous of what naaa ? Jealous of the nights these baby mamas will spend alone, knowing their guys are busy somewhere sleeping with and impregnating other star struck fans ? Or is it the high blood pressure or mental issues these celebrity baby mamas and wives usually develop after some years ( Anita Okoye, Annie Macaukey Idibia, Anne Banner...the list is endless) ? Nigerians are soo soo gullible, especially when it comes to these rich and famous celebrities in the entertainment industry.... Many ( fans ) do not even know the sacrifices these people are obliged to make in the spiritual realm before they are given this level of fame and wealth..... No one bothered to THINK about the no of people around this Davido that have died over the years, the death of this couple's son, the subsequent birth of twins in same month,.... My firm belief is that Davido married Chioma because one way or the other she knows that their son was used as the ultimate sacrifice for the sustenance of his fame and wealth, and this is his way of paying her back and buying her silence. USE YOUR BRAINS PEOPLE....!! THINK !!!!!
@@chizzy-y7s Sacrifice for the fame in the music industry. Some people like fame and will do anything to remain on-top. Not saying he did rituals but just citing that it could have been for the fame and not just the money
Correct, a sensible person has spoken. Thank you @Nezeville. People tapping into"blessings" & using certain others as yardsticks, tire me. God bless you for touching on this.
Thank you Neze ur type is rare, younger generation need to be taught the right thing. Ds was the thing with 2face and Annie Idibia and aftermath she always comes to social media to shout out what she was already aware of
The praise from people is born out of the fact that she won among all the women. What I see in it is the wealth and affluence involved was a big attraction for Chioma. Though she met Davido before he became very famous she too was too young to get involved in what she did. I am surprised that from her background at her age the parents watched and saw their daughter drop from school to follow a lifestyle completely alien to igbos. Having children out of wedlock and actually living with the man before marriage. The wedding was a crowning of all the pains she took her family through. As at now she has nothing to loose because she will enjoy the comfort ahead needs. But will she have to put up with the ridiculous life of Davido? Definitely maybe as at now her age is not allowing her to feel it. She is still living in a make believe world. Wish her the best
Everything about Neze is correct 👍🏾 your accent correct ✅ Your vibes correct ✅ Your voice correct ✅ Your energy correct ✅ The way you mix comedy and truth, girl !you got talent, you should be a journalist 😂 The way you make us understand the story 👌🏾
Totally agree with you, @estherbebe2303! ... Thats what brings me to her videos wherever I get a chance. In this age of misinformation/dysinformation, we need someone who says the truth; no matter how horrible that truth may be! ❤️ you Barrister!
As it’s time to be real. Accent needs to be tone down Abit…I sometimes struggles to listen to her. More Nigerian accent is clearer an easy listening. I do appreciate your videos.
I personally know someone that died of a broken heart, her husband cheats on her like there's no tomorrow. She was a very unhappy woman and her husband is just a regular guy. Gone at only fourty six years. Women be careful oooh.
Barr.Neze you will not see pagatory for that song that you included .😂😂😂 Infact, I shall sit beside you when we get to heaven because,😂this gist too sweet! I was waiting for this unpopular opinion because I would NEVER put my mental health, sexual health, and physical health at stake in the name of "virtuous woman" just because of money. Let me gladly be among those "jealousy" individuals, but that union, is nothing to be proud about. Mind you, The real marriage is yet to start😂😂😂(this comes from a married woman). The fire hasn't even started. Let her enjoy the glamour, gold, and bliss that comes with the ceremony. The REAL MARRIAGE is coming, ooh!😅
I thought i was losing my mind reading those filthy comments. I had started to lose hope. Thank God there are people who are still thinking correctly .that mariage is doomed and cursed .money is not everything
@@roseorewa603 can you imagine if it was a simple broke guy not famous not rich ? Would it be the same story ? Would she stay ? I'm afraid of a woman who stays with a guy who cheats without even protection .is she not afraid of her health ?
Thank you for this hard truth. Calling Chioma a role model is a gross anomaly!it is sad what women of this generation have reduced themselves to. No self worth ! It’s sad!
So like I commented in your previous video " Chioma is still young with good shock absorbers...let's wait till she is in the thirties approaching the forties and if she will still contain all the excesses happening now.. Then we will understand her love better. Marriage is no joke ooo.
Maybe that's the plan. Give it 10 more years amass so wealth and leave at 40 with the rest of your life ahead of you and your children at a reasonable age.
Another reminder that I’m following one with a value system!. I will never understand settling for a man without character cos of wealth sha, cos anyone can personally work towards financial freedom; nevertheless over the years I’ve also just learnt to respect people’s choices even if I’ll never be able to rap my head around such decisions. God help us all 🙌🏽
Go Nezeville ,well said. ..Stronger is the person who chose to WALK... You are a woman of great wisdom. Abi oo,my sentiments exactly. The narrative needs to change for next generation. Thanks for speaking real truth
Barrister Neze!!!!! Wish I could love this a 100 times!!!! Please continue to preach, those who have ears & need to hear will eventually get it. Sending you flowers and positive vibes 😁💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
This message should go viral! Thank you for a great message and I hope many women would learn from this. I grew up in a family where my dad was a cheater and my mum took it but it damaged me as their child and I am still trying to heal at 41 years old.
So sorry😢. You will be fine. I just want you to know it was not your fault. You didnt choose your parents. You just have to keep improving yourself and hope for the best.
How I wish most of our young girls can have access to this channel. Thank you Neze for always taking time to educate and enlightened us. Our next generation really need this enlightenment
Preach Mama❤❤. I've heard loud and clear. What is the point of luxury if it can't make me smile? I better dey water side, make I know say I dey suffer, at least I'll still have dreams of a better future. When you are rich and still in pain, the next thing is to take your life 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️. May God help us to have peace
Neze got me laughing with this song.....I wish them the best .. peace and sense is found in Christ, may they find him. Is ironi ooo....not our role model. You nailed it! It's extreme poverty that make many think those things are normal.
This is an absolute analysis. Yes o! 👍👍👍 💯 This is by fire by force situation CERTAINLY NOT a role modeling let alone virtuous. This is a case of who wins. While, I appreciate the fact that Davido loves Chioma. I will not be surprised if before the end of the year Davido has yet another child from another woman. What a relationship! I believe that it's all about money and of course, her choice. The love of her youth. However, look at them on the staircase! It's a Wow ! Lovely, isn't it? I pray that they enjoy their union. That this step will be a great turning point for the best for Davido. And he will learn to love his family.
THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU!!! You are saying everything that people are thinking, but are afraid to say it because of the backfire they will get online. They are pretending... I have a daughter, and my daughter will NEVER be her example.
I find her marrying Davido so ludicrous that I started thinking maybe he gave her an STD. I hope people don't think that this new marriage will end old habits. In fact, Davido will use his prior lifestyle to support continuation of it post marriage. His cheating isn't about Chioma. It's about his ferocious appetite to have access to sex anywhere and any time. That's stronger than public humiliation of Chioma. Those children of his are evidence of promiscuity, but what about those who bore no fruit for him? Sex addict is what it's giving. Any way, Chioma knows why she decided to jump the broom. God grant her a higher ability to see no evil and hear no evil. At least in America spouses are granted spousal and child support once divorced. You never know her aim.
God bless you neze for saying this truth. This is my first time of commenting on your comments section, I would rather listen. But I couldn't hold back. Thank you.
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Some of us don’t want to smile in a keke, neither do we want to cry in a Rolls Royce. We rather genuine laughs with a faithful husband in a Honda Accord😂😂😂
Amen to this
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This comment is too real
Peroid
God bless you
You date and marry according to your level of “self esteem”
Drops the mic. 💯
That is Deeeeeeeep🤗
Yeerrrr this hits hard
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Gbam
Finally, someone said it. Chioma is not a virtuous woman, she might be patient and tolerant, but she should not be a role model for young girls
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I know that u are a role model
Gbam!
Talking about Tolerance Nigerians can be gullible no disrespect meant to you oh I'm just using your reply as a context...there's no Human being on earth that could be that patient and calm then certain people knows how to paint a perfect public picture I'm talking about those anonymous msgs she'd express herself in ways you can't think of perfectly behind closed doors only if those side chic's Sophie and co can own up....y'all wld see Sophie act out throw tantrums no be person dey provoke her??Omo I don't hate Chioma oh but she's the last person I'd see as a Real one I don't respond multi faceted people abegg
"There is no role being modeled here", Neze, I love you for this truth. I have been married for 17 years. I have 3 daughters and a son but I WILL NOT SETTLE FOR THIS FOR ANY ON MY 3 DAUGHTERS. God Forbid.
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My dear, you are right. You know money to so many people is the definition of love
Go yo hell in your pain envy kpai you.
Don't ever think of being like anybody, just be yourself!
Chioma alone knows why she has chosen to marry Davido, and her decision should be respected. But I completely agree that she certainly shouldn't be the go-to role model, nor should her choice be the standard.
Rightly said Neze 👍 Chioma is not a standard for all women. She just made her choice based on her values and level of tolerance.
Very true
Role model for where #chioma l no
The audacity of this woman to speak this truth! Thank you ❤
She is a lawyer
A@@IFEANYIDIVINEEBRI she is a barrister
I feel like hugging Neze right now 😂. This is exactly my point, it has nothing to do with hate or jealousy
That’s what they always say when you call out something bad to get away with it even if it’s involving you people are madder as each day passes by
As a 21yr old lady, I strongly believe and I have seen people smile and laugh in luxury.
Thank you Neze, the amount of women praising this is troubling. I am afraid for this country.
It's indeed terrible.
Even in my countrt Cameroon.
I appreciate he loves her. But as they are married he should respect her and not cheat like that.
People have no idea how devastating it is to loose your sanity in a relationship with a cheating patner.
I hope he changes for the better.
It's sick what our generation spplauds!
I agree.
It big wedding they want
@@limfenyuykinyuy4861 Agree💯.
Very troubling. It’s same in my country Ghana. I can’t and will never wish this kind of man for myself.
My GRANDPARENTS had a kingdom marriage, everyone including my mum, her siblings, community people knew how self disciplined and faithful my GRAND-DAD was, infact my grand-mom was being accused of using juju on him. And no he was not poor, he was well travelled, he was the first METHODIST MISSIONARY to the United Kingdom, Very Rev. Asuquo J. Udo, he travelled everywhere with his wife to different parts of the world, even when he had options of going alone, he always insist on carrying his wife, he was always known to be a FAMILY-ORIENTED MAN. Even he died a month before i was born(1993), his story was told to us his grandchildren by elders of the community and some of his associates and ofcourse my grand-mom will not stop talking to me about how self disciplined her husband was, and it was rare in her time to see such man, even when she didnt ask for fidelity, he gave her fidelity. Yes, they are faithful men, and its not about money, but about discipline
It's about love ..respect ..stability and peace of mind ..commitment is key !! Money can't buy love
Well said darling ❤
Hmm....Neze!!
Very well said...u hv hit the nail @ the Head....a word is a enough for d wise ....
Well the difference is, your grandpa was married. Davido was not married then… now he is. So let’s judge from now.
U see,a reserved man
Real love doesn't come with pain. It's beautiful to see the big wedding they had. I agree with you Neze dear. Chioma is beautiful and bet her last coin on something she can get a quarter of for the name and trophy. That doesn't make her a role model. This won't be our girls. Indeed stronger are women who walk away from all the abuse for their peace of mind. Women of African abuse endurance is not healthy. Money is not everything.
Well articulated point my sister,it starts with us to say no to dis abuse from men&later on covered with expensive gifts but not changing deir ways&in da end,dey become meaningless till u walk away after wasting almost all your life in pain!
🎉collect your flowers ma
Fact
i saw a comment about someone asking for Chioma's beleesing for her daughters and i commented so you wish for your daughters to be impregnated and moving with a man before marriage and go through multiples affairs? you seriously consider it a blessing? with this kind of mothers why would you need enemies.
Are you envious of them?
They have chosen to be together and that is fine for them. But words like “virtuous”, “role model” certainly do not apply to this woman. PLEASE!! Let this not become what young girls want to get into now.
Thanks so much for this Neze. Yes kingdom marriages still exist. the standard still remains peace of mind and sanity intact.
Am from Kenya and just love this intelligent woman
east africa women especially rwanda and kenya we are a movement🤣🤣🤣🤣..nigeria women come for benchmarking😊😊😊mama tears in marriages,,mama enduarances for abuses😶🌫😶🌫😶🌫
Yes, our Neze is wonderful with a supportive husband, just like the Kenyan Lynn Ngugi.Both channels are educative.
@@fatimasani6151How sure are you? Are you living with them in their home. Please please.
@@tonero8562how are u sure it isn't true? Are you living with them?negative dem0n
@@tonero8562This is about women supporting, guiding and counselling other women for a better life/future regardless of country of origin.
My love for Neze!!!We all love David and Chioma,but people shoud stop normalizing abnormalies....I pray God continue to bless their home... This video is ONLY FOR THE WISE❤❤❤❤❤
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Exactly ,The wise and deep thinkers.
No the video is for the negative thinkers and haters
God cannot bless what is contrary to his word.
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How do I like this video two times? A very balanced opinion.
Basketmouth wife left, AY wife left, Rudeboy wife left with all the money they all have after how many years. So what makes u fans think she will not leave? Most people don't understand marriage is different from friendship. Actually the baby mamas won cos they have more peace and sanity than the wife.Thank you Neze....
Even Oni of Ife's wife left.
@@eghosaritaeke-oyewusi8372right...
I Africa it’s all about poverty which makes women acts like dump. When my mother visited me in UK, she looked at the system of freedom and said to me that, if she was living here she would have left my dad long time ago.
Hmmmmm
Truth.
There are lots of single mothers sleeping with men who just give them sex. They cook for the same man to attract him and open their children to risk of abuse because of sex. Some of this women struggle a lot without a man. Trust me things are not always as they appear
Hmmm really 🤔🤔
Trust me being a single mother is hard in the uk. A lot of them who left their husbands due to cheating are busy cooking for a man so that he can sleep with them. They also expose their children to risks of abuse from the different men that will visit if they can find because there seems to be a scarcity of good single available men. And I talk from experience as someone who’s stayed in the uk since the 90s. I saw a lot of this women pretending that they did not need men but codedly sleeping with a man. Please don’t delete my comment.
It’s a sign that he’s despised you so much that he chose you cause you can endure and overcome and never leave .
Exactly! My thoughts exactly
So true...
My God!!! I’m in my early twenties and I consider myself as a blessed girl for finding barrister Neze! There’s so much noise out there and the truth is suppressed! God blessed Neze ❤❤❤🎉
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Neze! It’s really sad to find out apparently that blatant promiscuity is acceptable for rich young men in Nigeria in 2024 and the one who ends up marrying them is considered to have won the jackpot, according to some bloggers (mostly men)! I will say this. The wedding ceremonies were spectacular and beautiful and opulent and fantabulous and the newly weds looked completely adorable and gorgeous. However, I still have my reservation about the character of the groom and pray that maturity and self respect for himself and his marriage and kindness and sensitivity to his wife directs his future decisions about ‘the other room’ activity.
I am a Nigerian and I hate that people hail promiscuity. Well the bride already knows how promiscuous the groom is and going to be.
I hope she can mentally tolerate it, and cope with it, but I hate the way ppl are praising her. If a woman did this to a man. She would be dragged to hell by both man and woman.
@@doreenchibuzor4340you mean poor people are not promiscuity?
We are quick to judge people in the lime light, whereas you find even in the slums that a man has multiple children with different women, but since they aren't popular.. we don't sit here and condemn their actions. I don't support promiscuity but those who do this, know what is in their minds and hearts.
@@rosewangari1534 tnx
Thank you Anti Neze, as always I have learned a lot 4r this video
No wonder why ur husband says that he can't get enough of u. Neze Neze Neze, u something else I just lve u.❤❤❤
Some women still have their dignity intact even when money is involved
Example Sophia Momoudu who refused Davido's mansion
@@aballec7710 that’s a horrible exemple Sophia is no different than chioma. She wasn’t picked that’s why she mad & making all sort of drama
Sorry to inform you she knows her worth that's why this man didn't marry her men marry the women that don't know there worth@@livetodaybrown5846
Neze, you have spoken facts. The part where you said, the strong person is the person that even in the midst of the things she stands to gain, still chose to walk away from emotional abuse and the likes. I felt that. I can relate too.
I just pray she doesn't contract deadly diseases that comes from such relationships, a man who enters very hole, and impregnate any thing on skirt, that money will turn to shit in a twinkle of an eye, I love her, I just pray Davido changes, and all the demons responsible for all this ashawo character will live him, oginidu haaa.
@@ngozidavidakanno7136Nobody dey force davido to do what is not good, na he mimd set make he dey do it, davido too like toto 😂
My sister if a Man ever calls you strong 💪, 🏃♀️ 🏃♀️ 🏃♀️ run ,run to the hills and never accept as a woman never accept ,women are the weaker vessel,omo we have 2 face,Davido,Diamond, Heck Samidoh yes am Kenyan and if I tell you follow the gospel according to Neze 😅😅😅🤼♂️🇰🇪
Even if at the end you can die.
My love for RUclips viewers. Theirs thoughts are usually different from Facebook, Instagram and Tiktok users. They're more matured in minds.
Especially Tiktok
You can say that again. You see that Facebook ee, it has the very weirdest people on that app 😩😩😩 father lord.. chai tufia kwa 😅😅
Lol... tiktok is too immature. Facebook is too backwards.
@@chiamakaslifestyle3868yeah Facebook has folks with backward thinking.
You had me at coronary heart disease step out abort mission, congenital heart disease pick your bags run away,deep vein thrombosis leave the room🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 you are so funny,entertaining and teaching all at the same time. This is my best channel on here!!!
That's how social media people will hype you to death unless you use your sense,
The wedding and all its glitz is just for a day. Marriage is for a lifetime. I pray it all ends well. All the red flags do not look good. She seems to have moulded herself to please Davido. It could end in tears. I'm thinking in the extreme as PDiddy and Cassie come to mind. All that glitters is not gold
Well said.
please don't let us sing doomsday for their relationship. They have been in relationship for quite a while and i think Chioma is aware of what she's up for against. Let's allow them be.When she feels she can no longer tolerate the humiliation, she will make her decision. Though they should not be the standard
Back to sender!!
Life is a game she won the one she played and will continue to win the rest🙏🙏🙏👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻Amen
If she didn’t marry him she would always be known as „Davido baby mama“……. Let her go all the way…. They understand each other.
Millions will still die to marry Davido!‘n
It will not end in tears. Or should I say what you wish for her should come back to you? I wonder the kind of human beings that exist these days.
@@josephinehagan6584 like you said she's aware who she married so if he does cheat later on she must not act surprised because it Davido and it won't be his first or last time cheating
....I listened to women on social media applaud her choice and I was sick to my stomach...😢
Me too😢. The bar is set really low 😔
It's really sickening to see women applaud their self esteem being rolled in the mud because money is involved
@@moreniwura7805it's really sickening 😢😢
@@moreniwura7805❤❤❤❤
Aswear
Chioma is not my standard. the standard is to marry a man that can be a good husband and a model to my children before having children. this is not goal jo. I believe that if she was raised well or adhere to her parents upbringing, she should not have dated someone like Davido not to mention having babies out of wedlock then marrying him.
@@chioma6844fact check... before the twins..she had a baby before the twin (may God rest the young boy's soul)
@@chioma6844lie lie.chivido fans with their lie
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You are trying hard to paint her black because you can't see yourself getting the grace she has. Envy is just consuming some of you. Who knows the man you will end up with
Just because ppl got finger they just type rubbish who told u she had hertein out ofwed lock even the first don she was a fiance they twin she married davido in court before they were born. Get a life focus on ya life
You've said it all, Sis. Our sisters & young girls must do better👌🏼 We must not normalize this.
My favorite lawyer love u so much ma,❤😊
You have said it all my sister
VERY TRUE Mama🥰❤much love from Zambia
She Nailed it
Money can not buy peace of mind and morals
At all.
Truth
True
Thank you ma, i said same yesterday after congratulating them and I was so attacked that I had to delete it. Chioma is not the standard period
@@chioma6844you’re a fool
@@chioma6844 lol, I’m not shallow minded like you. Do you think you have to marry a rich man to make wealth, it’s lazy people like you that sell their integrity for money. I won’t and can never sell my peace for money unlike you
Why did you delete it.let them wail and cry the truth will stand strong forever.
@@chioma6844 maybe but that won’t still make it right or the standard
@@chioma6844 who is talking about Sophia, pls don’t divert from the main point
THANK YOU NEZE. When I saw your title, I ran here to flog you but when I listened to your comments, I was reassured that you are as wise as I thought. This relationship and this beautiful young woman should not be any body's role model. We are happy for her but she is in an abusive and toxic relationship. If this man was ordinary poor Femi in Ojuelegba, will these people say that he is a good man, that she is lucky to be married to him? The double standard is nauseous.
Am in the shop here somewhere in Accra, shouting neze nnem speak ooooo, people are watching, wetin kwansine me,neze Amor 🔥 o..Only u can tell me the truth I need to hear❤❤❤❤
I congratulate them but I can never wish chioma and davido’s marriage on my enemy .
😂😂😂😂😂😂wahala pro max
You've said it all.
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At all lol. No money in the world could make me open my life to emotional turmoil or the possibility of diseases. I’ve been in that exact situation and I walked away. Glad I did.
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Today, after watching your show for more than a year, I subscribed! You went against the grain and I am so proud of you! You spoke my mind succinctly.
I’m always perplexed people only focus on the fact that he’s fathered all these children while with Chioma but no one talks about the incurable diseases he could have inflicted her with. To father those children - he was NOT practicing safe sex. I’m almost scared to say that if fathering children with ALL those women while with her is all that resulted from his promiscuity - they both got lucky! 😢
I have said this on a few of the videos I watched. The women kept dogging the Sophia, lady and kept saying his other children don’t matter on chioma and her children. And how much he loves her. And I said not enough to protect her from disease and no matter what all his kids matter. They shouldn’t be shunned or mistreated and talked about by these women who idolize chioma….
@@sugarbush0659 What of those men who will cheat secretly without social media hearing about it. Just leave matter, it rains everywhere.
Exactly 🙌👌
Exactly! 👌👍
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All his kids matter EQUALLY because HE CHOSE to sleep with ALL the mothers.
I don't understand why people are being so sentimental concerning the Chioma. Dey no go share for her money, dey no go share for her pain.... so why can't they be objective and truthful ?
There is so much to teach our young girls NOT TO DO, using Chioma and Davido as a case study.
But it seems the morals our grandparents and parents taught us then no longer have meaning to most in the present day Nigeria.
Imagine somone in the comments section responding to a comment like yours that those who disapprove of the wedding are jealous of the
' GRACE ' upon Chioma !!!!
HABA ! Which kin grace be dat ?!!!
Grace that makes your biyfriend/ fiance/ husband to be kneeling down and crying for girls' toto all over the world ?
Grace that make you a step mother to only God knows how many ( innocent ) children all over the world ? !
Abeg, that is the kind of ' grace ' many women do not pray for, and cannot handle o !
UNTIL we begin to tell ourselves the truth ( that the Nigerian society has become so corrupt because of this inordinate desire for wealth and riches to the level where the SOURCE no longer matters ) we will not be able to curb the current trend of Yahoo Plus boys and Olosho girls like the Celine and Afibas in our soceity.
I weep for the teenagers and youths of Nigeria because the ( most )parents have failed woefully ....
Thank God for your intelligence, and sharing this, Neze. “The truth is the truth and has to be told”
"We do not promote skewed mentality." Well said Barrister🤝
It's all about the money here in Africa. Imagine someone saying True love comes with Pain...wow! really? To each his own, don't let anyone force his or her opinion on you
Would you opt for rich+cheat or poor+cheat? Reason: how many rich men do we have in Nigeria? How many cheats do we have in Nigeria?
@@Mimi-jk9jcCORRECTION: Is not every man who cheats and it is not every rich man who cheats.
It’s sad that you have come to these conclusions probably based on your experiences or what’s happening around you. Cheating cannot be normalised! It’s not every man that cheats whether they are poor or rich! So it’s disheartening to limit people to your abnormal two options: poor + cheat or rich + cheat! So sad. It may interest you to know that there are men who are sexually responsible and have treated their women with love & fidelity whether are rich or poor.
@@Mimi-jk9jc and who says you cannot find a Rich man who doesn't cheat. Who also says you cannot be Rich and have options. All I see in your statement is low self-esteem which, unfortunately, a lot of women have in this part of the world.
@Mimi-jk9jc lol, those aren't the only options
So many RUclipsrs have posted so-called unpopular opinion, but Neze is the only one who has spoken truthfully and without fear!
Soo sad that our generation is blinded by money and have no standards.
A well elaborated and educative video.
Women who see themselves as high valued will accept every single thing you mentioned here.
You expressed my mind
You deserve an award for this video ma👍♥️♥️♥️.
Nezeville, one word, WEALTH!!!!
I've come to realize that Wealth is the god of the average Nigerian, they worship it and would do anything for it.
If Davido was an average Naija guy who happened to be in the spotlight, people would've cussed Chioma out and labelled her a fool but Davido is wealthy so his multiple cheatings, babymamas and over all sexual indiscipline is acceptable and now Chioma is the epitome of a loyal, strong woman for condoning all the embarrassment and going ahead to marry him. And men are at the fore front of all the praise showered on Chioma because men want a woman who would condone their cheating and stay put and still do her wifely duties.
But I also don't really blame Chioma for going ahead to marry Davido, to me she's been tainted and marked by him, if they go their separate ways today, I believe Chioma would have a tough time finding a genuine man that would want to be in her life and her children's.
Ah! I wish RUclips can allow me to like this video 100 times!! You said my thoughts so well. I’m so sick of other RUclipsrs glorifying this behavior for fear of not being canceled. Yes, we respect her decision to marry David, but the sexual irresponsibility is real. There are diseases out there! What role models are we showing our next generation by not speaking the truth.
Thank you my sister, we've lost all moral compass as a society. I see comments on Chioma and Davido's marriage and I know that the standards we are teaching our daughters (and sons) are falling lower and lower each day. We are teaching them that in the presence of fame and money (or their absence), it is okay to accept community peni-ses as husbands. We say that's what true love is.
Smh. But what good is material possessions in the face of HIV, numerous baby mamas and children? Shouldn't we teach our children to love and respect themselves and choose peace of mind above everything? Why can't love be pain free and respectful?
You have said what others are afraid to discuss. .kudos!
You absolutely right Neze i said it if we know the pain she's been throught we'll not say the things we are saying but that's her choice so we are happy for them he celebrated her and treated as the queen she is because he knows what he put her throught he knows the pain she endured because of him so i guess that's his way of saying i'm sorry and it's you i love so let's pray that he doesn't bring any more babies from change women may God bless their union
Thank you ma..exactly my thoughts!!..wishing them a happy a blessed union 🙏
Wow Neze, this is an award winning presentation. Well said. Lots of lessons. Thank you and God bless you dear. ❤
I celebrated my 23 years of marriage on the 20th of June, but as at 23 years ago we don't have much but we were so happy and blessed with 2 boys but today our joy have no boundaries , i think the problem in Africa is all about money 💰 so sad how even pastors and fatherly personalities clapping for nonsense
Honestly it's sad how people applaud the wrong things and want to normalize it.
@estyonyi8153 crazy. I was trying to explain this to someone and it seem difficult for them to understand
I agree the fact that black woman has to be strong for non sense and struggling love . She was never custom for real love .. all she is gaining his lifestyle and luxury...@@estyonyi8153
@@doraokojie2523 you correct my dear
This lawyer Nezaville sabi well well!
A virtuous woman as described in the Bible or dictionary, is not one that goes under shame n disgrace for her promiscuous husband! Being a virtuous woman is far more than this n we should not encourage our young girls to be virtuous in this sense. This is all about money! She wouldn't have done that for a poor man! Who wants their child to suffer pains, agony n emotional distressed in such a young age only because of money? As u rightly said, money is not everything! I agreed 100% with your thoughts on this. Thank u.
I have been looking for a voice of reason so thank you for this video! I am genuinly happy for her however you articulated all my thoughts exactly. I beleive he loves her but love isn't enough. I wish them well and truly hope God keeps them. Hopefully they can also surround themselves with people who would emulate what a true Godly marriage is. Hopefully David calms down too...hes married and should behave as such.
For all you single ladies out there, please don't marry based on potential- marry based on what you see now and just know that if you can't deal with certain things now, marriage won't change it. Marriage does not stop a man from cheating on your or abusing you.
Lastly, no one is perfect so as long as who you are considering is truly and sincerely a child of God and beleives he's accountable to God, wants to please him (loves God truly more then you), will love you like Christ loves the church and is growing in their faith (and you are also in the same boat) God will keep you both.
Marriage is beautiful and there are good decent men out there.
Neze, I completely agree with you on this. People make their choices based on their values.
God bless you, Nezeville. I don't wish such marriage on my daughter. Congratulations to Chioma, May God continue to give her the grace to endure. Mother's must train their daughter on self-worth. Well articulated as always, Nezeville. Speaking my mind, emotional abu$e is as bad as physical abu$e. Emotional instability can also affect one's health physically. Women raised in the diaspora are educated from early on not to condone any sort of abu$e for whatever reason.
Nezeville, l have not seen anyone who best narrates events on her platform. Nezeville is a highly intelligent lady with excellent communication, eloquent and articulate. She is also extremely beautiful and stunning. Your fan from 🇬🇧
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Preach my sister❤
Neze is amazing
The way you articulate my thoughts on some subject matters is so beautiful. I totally agree with you on this
Thank you!!! “Why can’t you laugh in a limousine?”
you have earned a loyal fans, word of wisdom. some women don't even know they are in abusive relationships . Funny way of passing wisdom 😂😂😂😂
This hairstyle really suits you, your braid looks fantastic
Chioma has made her decision let's respect it. Chioma is not the standard for every woman thou.😂😂😂😂
Not at all. When she contracts some deadly disease, she wouldn’t be the standard!
Congratulations to both of them and I am super happy with this happy ending to their story. However - I echo you to say Chioma’s decision is not the standard at all - we must not dilute moral standards. The drama she’s put herself and her family through is unnecessary, but her patience and decorum needs to be studied and it paid off. Sometimes, love is not enough.
We women leave men because they cheat and end up single and date married old men, what's the point I support her fully. To date a celebrity you must have a strong heart oooo no be joke
@nnekairoegbu2360 I concur
Thankyou
God bless you Neze. When you see truth, you say it with your full chest.❤
Neze Nne,
Nke a bu blockbuster... This episode is more captivating than ever.
I see deep spirituality, excellent wisdom and profound judgement in this delivery.
You couldn't have done a better job, dear Neze.
You shone like a GALAXY OF STARS in this one.
This is the best marriage and relationship counsel there is in recent times.
You're living your DIVINE PURPOSE, Neze.
The impact of this MINISTRY is immeasurable.
Thank you EZINNE... NEZE
Bless you!.
HATS OFF FOR QUEEN NEZE. You deserve more than a glass of champagne
You and your DJ deserve an award for always using the perfect song 😂😂😭😭😂😭
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Azin ehnn
That crying song got be rolling 😂🤣🤣🤣. What is the title?
Nezeville has the best unbiased commentary ooo. She speaks from a place of abundance and not lack. Love the content nne
Thank you o my dearest Neze...!
I just don't understand how the Nigerian society has descended so.low into such a moral abyss !!!
How can a girl like Chioma be held up to our teenagers and youths as the epitome of the African woman.. ?
How can she be said to have made a good marital decision ?!!!!
If Davido was a poor struggling musician, all these people hailing Chioma for waiting on the philandering Davido for marriage after years of being a baby mama, would be raining abuses and curses on her o !
I tend to stay away from all trending headlines and stories featuring all these so called celebs, especially those involving ladies who hook up with, and become baby mamas to all these rich men.
The fact that some eventually become 'upgraded ' in their status from baby mamas to wives after years of mental torture and emotional damage makes no difference to me.
Such girls can NEVER be held up as ROLE MODELS to our impressionable teenagers and youths .
The problem is that morhers have sooo lost it... !!
What do you expect of a mother (who herself if given the chance would have a one night stand with the likes of Davido, Ned Nwoko, Wizkid, Flavour...etc) to tell her young daughter if faced with such a similar choice...?
Of course such a useless woman would think it's her greatest pride to have any of such rich men as her daughter's baby daddy or husband....
Personally, I believe girls like Chioma do not have a proper sense of self worth, and suffer from low self esteem.
Because, how do you explain a girl waiting for years on a guy that you KNOW cheats on you, has several other baby mamas.... ?!!!!!
( See where that got Annie Idibia,..... how she almost became a basket case ranting on social media years afyer marrying Tuface.)
Which SELF RESPECTING, VIRTUOUS lady does that ?!!!
When people like me talk like this on social media, others try to crush our words by claiming we are merely jealous....
Abeggi, jealous of what naaa ?
Jealous of the nights these baby mamas will spend alone, knowing their guys are busy somewhere sleeping with and impregnating other star struck fans ?
Or is it the high blood pressure or mental issues these celebrity baby mamas and wives usually develop after some years ( Anita Okoye, Annie Macaukey Idibia, Anne Banner...the list is endless) ?
Nigerians are soo soo gullible, especially when it comes to these rich and famous celebrities in the entertainment industry....
Many ( fans ) do not even know the sacrifices these people are obliged to make in the spiritual realm before they are given this level of fame and wealth.....
No one bothered to THINK about the no of people around this Davido that have died over the years, the death of this couple's son, the subsequent birth of twins in same month,....
My firm belief is that Davido married Chioma because one way or the other she knows that their son was used as the ultimate sacrifice for the sustenance of his fame and wealth, and this is his way of paying her back and buying her silence.
USE YOUR BRAINS PEOPLE....!!
THINK !!!!!
We think alike
Her dressing code too leaves much to desire her being a mother,wife,she can b stylish but not body revealing!
I agree but isn't his father already rich..why does he need to make sacrifices if he's already rich?
Your comment is everything. 💯
@@chizzy-y7s Sacrifice for the fame in the music industry. Some people like fame and will do anything to remain on-top. Not saying he did rituals but just citing that it could have been for the fame and not just the money
Correct, a sensible person has spoken. Thank you @Nezeville. People tapping into"blessings" & using certain others as yardsticks, tire me. God bless you for touching on this.
Thank you Neze ur type is rare, younger generation need to be taught the right thing. Ds was the thing with 2face and Annie Idibia and aftermath she always comes to social media to shout out what she was already aware of
The praise from people is born out of the fact that she won among all the women. What I see in it is the wealth and affluence involved was a big attraction for Chioma. Though she met Davido before he became very famous she too was too young to get involved in what she did. I am surprised that from her background at her age the parents watched and saw their daughter drop from school to follow a lifestyle completely alien to igbos. Having children out of wedlock and actually living with the man before marriage. The wedding was a crowning of all the pains she took her family through. As at now she has nothing to loose because she will enjoy the comfort ahead needs. But will she have to put up with the ridiculous life of Davido? Definitely maybe as at now her age is not allowing her to feel it. She is still living in a make believe world. Wish her the best
This is a really counseling and a reminder to all the single ladies at there 😢
May God bless you for this ma
Everything about Neze is correct 👍🏾 your accent correct ✅
Your vibes correct ✅
Your voice correct ✅
Your energy correct ✅
The way you mix comedy and truth, girl !you got talent, you should be a journalist 😂
The way you make us understand the story 👌🏾
Totally agree with you, @estherbebe2303! ... Thats what brings me to her videos wherever I get a chance. In this age of misinformation/dysinformation, we need someone who says the truth; no matter how horrible that truth may be! ❤️ you Barrister!
As it’s time to be real. Accent needs to be tone down Abit…I sometimes struggles to listen to her. More Nigerian accent is clearer an easy listening. I do appreciate your videos.
My dear, I am glad to see a woman with this mindset. Thank God.
Thank you!!!!!!! I was beginning to wonder if anyone saw anything wrong with the situation Davido has put Chioma in multiple times
I personally know someone that died of a broken heart, her husband cheats on her like there's no tomorrow. She was a very unhappy woman and her husband is just a regular guy. Gone at only fourty six years. Women be careful oooh.
🙏 imperative to guard your heart
I know someone similar as well
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My mum died of broken heart,if I don't learn from my mum's case I must be a cursed fool. Emotional abuse especially for a loyal woman is very hard.
@@trixwoman😢 so sorry for your loss 🫂
Barr.Neze you will not see pagatory for that song that you included .😂😂😂
Infact, I shall sit beside you when we get to heaven because,😂this gist too sweet!
I was waiting for this unpopular opinion because I would NEVER put my mental health, sexual health, and physical health at stake in the name of "virtuous woman" just because of money.
Let me gladly be among those "jealousy" individuals, but that union, is nothing to be proud about.
Mind you, The real marriage is yet to start😂😂😂(this comes from a married woman). The fire hasn't even started. Let her enjoy the glamour, gold, and bliss that comes with the ceremony. The REAL MARRIAGE is coming, ooh!😅
I thought i was losing my mind reading those filthy comments. I had started to lose hope. Thank God there are people who are still thinking correctly .that mariage is doomed and cursed .money is not everything
You have said it all no more no less. Let them be glorifying abnormality because of wealth.
@@roseorewa603 can you imagine if it was a simple broke guy not famous not rich ? Would it be the same story ? Would she stay ? I'm afraid of a woman who stays with a guy who cheats without even protection .is she not afraid of her health ?
She might be promiscuous too otherwise the emotional trauma is too much😢 for a committed person@@HanifaUwitonze
Same here......I sincerely thought i was in an alternate universe reading all those comments.
Very well said Neze
Thank you for this hard truth. Calling Chioma a role model is a gross anomaly!it is sad what women of this generation have reduced themselves to. No self worth ! It’s sad!
So like I commented in your previous video
" Chioma is still young with good shock absorbers...let's wait till she is in the thirties approaching the forties and if she will still contain all the excesses happening now..
Then we will understand her love better. Marriage is no joke ooo.
😂 love that shock absorbers😂😂
well said ! When you are 40 and the first grey hair starts showing and then he dates a fresh 20 yr old! Hmmmmmm
No joke 🤦🏻♀️
@@inerit5175e gbami oooo
Maybe that's the plan. Give it 10 more years amass so wealth and leave at 40 with the rest of your life ahead of you and your children at a reasonable age.
Another reminder that I’m following one with a value system!.
I will never understand settling for a man without character cos of wealth sha, cos anyone can personally work towards financial freedom; nevertheless over the years I’ve also just learnt to respect people’s choices even if I’ll never be able to rap my head around such decisions.
God help us all 🙌🏽
The problem is women working to get the wealth
Go Nezeville ,well said. ..Stronger is the person who chose to WALK... You are a woman of great wisdom. Abi oo,my sentiments exactly. The narrative needs to change for next generation. Thanks for speaking real truth
Barrister Neze!!!!! Wish I could love this a 100 times!!!! Please continue to preach, those who have ears & need to hear will eventually get it. Sending you flowers and positive vibes 😁💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
This message should go viral! Thank you for a great message and I hope many women would learn from this.
I grew up in a family where my dad was a cheater and my mum took it but it damaged me as their child and I am still trying to heal at 41 years old.
So sorry😢. You will be fine. I just want you to know it was not your fault. You didnt choose your parents.
You just have to keep improving yourself and hope for the best.
Same here. This is the thing men of that generation refuse to accept. Cheating husbands are emotionally abusing the wife and children.
@@adeshileadequateabigail4403 would do just that thanks for the words of encouragement. Jesus Christ has really changed my ashes into beauty!
How I wish most of our young girls can have access to this channel. Thank you Neze for always taking time to educate and enlightened us. Our next generation really need this enlightenment
Preach Mama❤❤. I've heard loud and clear. What is the point of luxury if it can't make me smile? I better dey water side, make I know say I dey suffer, at least I'll still have dreams of a better future. When you are rich and still in pain, the next thing is to take your life 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️. May God help us to have peace
Neze got me laughing with this song.....I wish them the best .. peace and sense is found in Christ, may they find him. Is ironi ooo....not our role model.
You nailed it! It's extreme poverty that make many think those things are normal.
This is an absolute analysis.
Yes o! 👍👍👍 💯
This is by fire by force situation CERTAINLY NOT a role modeling let alone virtuous. This is a case of who wins.
While, I appreciate the fact that Davido loves Chioma. I will not be surprised if before the end of the year Davido has yet another child from another woman. What a relationship! I believe that it's all about money and of course, her choice. The love of her youth.
However, look at them on the staircase! It's a Wow !
Lovely, isn't it? I pray that they enjoy their union. That this step will be a great turning point for the best for Davido.
And he will learn to love his family.
THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU!!! You are saying everything that people are thinking, but are afraid to say it because of the backfire they will get online. They are pretending... I have a daughter, and my daughter will NEVER be her example.
Thank you Neze for upholding your values and speaking the truth
I find her marrying Davido so ludicrous that I started thinking maybe he gave her an STD. I hope people don't think that this new marriage will end old habits. In fact, Davido will use his prior lifestyle to support continuation of it post marriage. His cheating isn't about Chioma. It's about his ferocious appetite to have access to sex anywhere and any time. That's stronger than public humiliation of Chioma. Those children of his are evidence of promiscuity, but what about those who bore no fruit for him? Sex addict is what it's giving. Any way, Chioma knows why she decided to jump the broom. God grant her a higher ability to see no evil and hear no evil. At least in America spouses are granted spousal and child support once divorced. You never know her aim.
Very well written! I concur!
True, you never know her aim.😮
Who knows the secret between them?
@@bankysCorner You're absolutely right! We can only guesstimate.
Just wish them well. All you said are based on assumptions. So no need for all that.
Honest truth many do not want to hear😢Finally, someone has shared my sentiments..
God bless you neze for saying this truth. This is my first time of commenting on your comments section, I would rather listen. But I couldn't hold back. Thank you.