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Some of us don’t want to smile in a keke, neither do we want to cry in a Rolls Royce. We rather genuine laughs with a faithful husband in a Honda Accord😂😂😂
east africa women especially rwanda and kenya we are a movement🤣🤣🤣🤣..nigeria women come for benchmarking😊😊😊mama tears in marriages,,mama enduarances for abuses😶🌫😶🌫😶🌫
"There is no role being modeled here", Neze, I love you for this truth. I have been married for 17 years. I have 3 daughters and a son but I WILL NOT SETTLE FOR THIS FOR ANY ON MY 3 DAUGHTERS. God Forbid.
Basketmouth wife left, AY wife left, Rudeboy wife left with all the money they all have after how many years. So what makes u fans think she will not leave? Most people don't understand marriage is different from friendship. Actually the baby mamas won cos they have more peace and sanity than the wife.Thank you Neze....
The wedding and all its glitz is just for a day. Marriage is for a lifetime. I pray it all ends well. All the red flags do not look good. She seems to have moulded herself to please Davido. It could end in tears. I'm thinking in the extreme as PDiddy and Cassie come to mind. All that glitters is not gold
please don't let us sing doomsday for their relationship. They have been in relationship for quite a while and i think Chioma is aware of what she's up for against. Let's allow them be.When she feels she can no longer tolerate the humiliation, she will make her decision. Though they should not be the standard
Back to sender!! Life is a game she won the one she played and will continue to win the rest🙏🙏🙏👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻Amen If she didn’t marry him she would always be known as „Davido baby mama“……. Let her go all the way…. They understand each other. Millions will still die to marry Davido!‘n
@@josephinehagan6584 like you said she's aware who she married so if he does cheat later on she must not act surprised because it Davido and it won't be his first or last time cheating
Real love doesn't come with pain. It's beautiful to see the big wedding they had. I agree with you Neze dear. Chioma is beautiful and bet her last coin on something she can get a quarter of for the name and trophy. That doesn't make her a role model. This won't be our girls. Indeed stronger are women who walk away from all the abuse for their peace of mind. Women of African abuse endurance is not healthy. Money is not everything.
Well articulated point my sister,it starts with us to say no to dis abuse from men&later on covered with expensive gifts but not changing deir ways&in da end,dey become meaningless till u walk away after wasting almost all your life in pain!
i saw a comment about someone asking for Chioma's beleesing for her daughters and i commented so you wish for your daughters to be impregnated and moving with a man before marriage and go through multiples affairs? you seriously consider it a blessing? with this kind of mothers why would you need enemies.
I Africa it’s all about poverty which makes women acts like dump. When my mother visited me in UK, she looked at the system of freedom and said to me that, if she was living here she would have left my dad long time ago.
There are lots of single mothers sleeping with men who just give them sex. They cook for the same man to attract him and open their children to risk of abuse because of sex. Some of this women struggle a lot without a man. Trust me things are not always as they appear
Trust me being a single mother is hard in the uk. A lot of them who left their husbands due to cheating are busy cooking for a man so that he can sleep with them. They also expose their children to risks of abuse from the different men that will visit if they can find because there seems to be a scarcity of good single available men. And I talk from experience as someone who’s stayed in the uk since the 90s. I saw a lot of this women pretending that they did not need men but codedly sleeping with a man. Please don’t delete my comment.
It's all about the money here in Africa. Imagine someone saying True love comes with Pain...wow! really? To each his own, don't let anyone force his or her opinion on you
It’s sad that you have come to these conclusions probably based on your experiences or what’s happening around you. Cheating cannot be normalised! It’s not every man that cheats whether they are poor or rich! So it’s disheartening to limit people to your abnormal two options: poor + cheat or rich + cheat! So sad. It may interest you to know that there are men who are sexually responsible and have treated their women with love & fidelity whether are rich or poor.
@@Mimi-jk9jc and who says you cannot find a Rich man who doesn't cheat. Who also says you cannot be Rich and have options. All I see in your statement is low self-esteem which, unfortunately, a lot of women have in this part of the world.
Neze, you have spoken facts. The part where you said, the strong person is the person that even in the midst of the things she stands to gain, still chose to walk away from emotional abuse and the likes. I felt that. I can relate too.
I just pray she doesn't contract deadly diseases that comes from such relationships, a man who enters very hole, and impregnate any thing on skirt, that money will turn to shit in a twinkle of an eye, I love her, I just pray Davido changes, and all the demons responsible for all this ashawo character will live him, oginidu haaa.
My sister if a Man ever calls you strong 💪, 🏃♀️ 🏃♀️ 🏃♀️ run ,run to the hills and never accept as a woman never accept ,women are the weaker vessel,omo we have 2 face,Davido,Diamond, Heck Samidoh yes am Kenyan and if I tell you follow the gospel according to Neze 😅😅😅🤼♂️🇰🇪
Thank you my sister, we've lost all moral compass as a society. I see comments on Chioma and Davido's marriage and I know that the standards we are teaching our daughters (and sons) are falling lower and lower each day. We are teaching them that in the presence of fame and money (or their absence), it is okay to accept community peni-ses as husbands. We say that's what true love is. Smh. But what good is material possessions in the face of HIV, numerous baby mamas and children? Shouldn't we teach our children to love and respect themselves and choose peace of mind above everything? Why can't love be pain free and respectful?
At all lol. No money in the world could make me open my life to emotional turmoil or the possibility of diseases. I’ve been in that exact situation and I walked away. Glad I did.
This message should go viral! Thank you for a great message and I hope many women would learn from this. I grew up in a family where my dad was a cheater and my mum took it but it damaged me as their child and I am still trying to heal at 41 years old.
So sorry😢. You will be fine. I just want you to know it was not your fault. You didnt choose your parents. You just have to keep improving yourself and hope for the best.
Africans celebrate married in a beautiful way and leave out the most important part ,which is "how is this union going to survive after the big ceremony?"
I thought i was losing my mind reading those filthy comments. I had started to lose hope. Thank God there are people who are still thinking correctly .that mariage is doomed and cursed .money is not everything
@@roseorewa603 can you imagine if it was a simple broke guy not famous not rich ? Would it be the same story ? Would she stay ? I'm afraid of a woman who stays with a guy who cheats without even protection .is she not afraid of her health ?
A virtuous woman as described in the Bible or dictionary, is not one that goes under shame n disgrace for her promiscuous husband! Being a virtuous woman is far more than this n we should not encourage our young girls to be virtuous in this sense. This is all about money! She wouldn't have done that for a poor man! Who wants their child to suffer pains, agony n emotional distressed in such a young age only because of money? As u rightly said, money is not everything! I agreed 100% with your thoughts on this. Thank u.
Thank you Neze ur type is rare, younger generation need to be taught the right thing. Ds was the thing with 2face and Annie Idibia and aftermath she always comes to social media to shout out what she was already aware of
I celebrated my 23 years of marriage on the 20th of June, but as at 23 years ago we don't have much but we were so happy and blessed with 2 boys but today our joy have no boundaries , i think the problem in Africa is all about money 💰 so sad how even pastors and fatherly personalities clapping for nonsense
I agree the fact that black woman has to be strong for non sense and struggling love . She was never custom for real love .. all she is gaining his lifestyle and luxury...@@estyonyi8153
Correct, a sensible person has spoken. Thank you @Nezeville. People tapping into"blessings" & using certain others as yardsticks, tire me. God bless you for touching on this.
Thank you o my dearest Neze...! I just don't understand how the Nigerian society has descended so.low into such a moral abyss !!! How can a girl like Chioma be held up to our teenagers and youths as the epitome of the African woman.. ? How can she be said to have made a good marital decision ?!!!! If Davido was a poor struggling musician, all these people hailing Chioma for waiting on the philandering Davido for marriage after years of being a baby mama, would be raining abuses and curses on her o ! I tend to stay away from all trending headlines and stories featuring all these so called celebs, especially those involving ladies who hook up with, and become baby mamas to all these rich men. The fact that some eventually become 'upgraded ' in their status from baby mamas to wives after years of mental torture and emotional damage makes no difference to me. Such girls can NEVER be held up as ROLE MODELS to our impressionable teenagers and youths . The problem is that morhers have sooo lost it... !! What do you expect of a mother (who herself if given the chance would have a one night stand with the likes of Davido, Ned Nwoko, Wizkid, Flavour...etc) to tell her young daughter if faced with such a similar choice...? Of course such a useless woman would think it's her greatest pride to have any of such rich men as her daughter's baby daddy or husband.... Personally, I believe girls like Chioma do not have a proper sense of self worth, and suffer from low self esteem. Because, how do you explain a girl waiting for years on a guy that you KNOW cheats on you, has several other baby mamas.... ?!!!!! ( See where that got Annie Idibia,..... how she almost became a basket case ranting on social media years afyer marrying Tuface.) Which SELF RESPECTING, VIRTUOUS lady does that ?!!! When people like me talk like this on social media, others try to crush our words by claiming we are merely jealous.... Abeggi, jealous of what naaa ? Jealous of the nights these baby mamas will spend alone, knowing their guys are busy somewhere sleeping with and impregnating other star struck fans ? Or is it the high blood pressure or mental issues these celebrity baby mamas and wives usually develop after some years ( Anita Okoye, Annie Macaukey Idibia, Anne Banner...the list is endless) ? Nigerians are soo soo gullible, especially when it comes to these rich and famous celebrities in the entertainment industry.... Many ( fans ) do not even know the sacrifices these people are obliged to make in the spiritual realm before they are given this level of fame and wealth..... No one bothered to THINK about the no of people around this Davido that have died over the years, the death of this couple's son, the subsequent birth of twins in same month,.... My firm belief is that Davido married Chioma because one way or the other she knows that their son was used as the ultimate sacrifice for the sustenance of his fame and wealth, and this is his way of paying her back and buying her silence. USE YOUR BRAINS PEOPLE....!! THINK !!!!!
@@chizzy-y7s Sacrifice for the fame in the music industry. Some people like fame and will do anything to remain on-top. Not saying he did rituals but just citing that it could have been for the fame and not just the money
Thank you our adorable Neze, i love you to the moon and back. I have 2 beautiful daughters who i will never wish this kind of life for. May they date and marry disciplined men. Amen!!! Thank you, Neze ❤🎉
Barr.Neze you will not see pagatory for that song that you included .😂😂😂 Infact, I shall sit beside you when we get to heaven because,😂this gist too sweet! I was waiting for this unpopular opinion because I would NEVER put my mental health, sexual health, and physical health at stake in the name of "virtuous woman" just because of money. Let me gladly be among those "jealousy" individuals, but that union, is nothing to be proud about. Mind you, The real marriage is yet to start😂😂😂(this comes from a married woman). The fire hasn't even started. Let her enjoy the glamour, gold, and bliss that comes with the ceremony. The REAL MARRIAGE is coming, ooh!😅
Barrister Neze!!!!! Wish I could love this a 100 times!!!! Please continue to preach, those who have ears & need to hear will eventually get it. Sending you flowers and positive vibes 😁💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Neze got me laughing with this song.....I wish them the best .. peace and sense is found in Christ, may they find him. Is ironi ooo....not our role model. You nailed it! It's extreme poverty that make many think those things are normal.
Thank you Neze for teaching us again and again , there is always too much to learn from your clips. Sometimes you have a way of twisting our brain to more wisdom . I pray for her though as it has happened . May they grow to maturity and learn to relearn .
God bless you neze for saying this truth. This is my first time of commenting on your comments section, I would rather listen. But I couldn't hold back. Thank you.
I love you when you preach to these girls or women that thinks money is everything in life. I listened to everything you said, you are unbelievably gifted ❤️
Thank you so much, my dear . Moral decadence, especially in our country, is something else. People now think that money is everything, and that's so sad 😢😢
First time to comment from Cameroon 🇨🇲. Thank you Barrister Neze for beautifully wording what has been going through my mind as I read all of the comments and captions that portrayed this wedding as a fairy-tale, match-made-in-heaven, dream-come-true love story. As a mother, I won't wish this on my daughters. I won't allow my son to treat women with so much disrespect. Money is not everything in life. God help us!
If you have history of cardiovascular disease,... thrombosis got me.. But so true! I am a first time commenter, being watching for a while though. Love your insightful contents. God bless Neze. ❤
The song is something else 🤭😂. No way someone can be another person🙅🏾♂️. Be honest with yourself and let the person know what they’re going to see in you in the future,never you fake it to make them stay believe me one day the real you will show up and guess what they’ll leave.
Neze I love you. All our young girls nowadays need to watch this video💯. Money can never equal true happiness. Instagram has messed up our women, they forget that the photos they see, are just a moment in time and not what happens most of the times
Well said Neze …. Coz that wedding we all know all is not well but she made her choice … nothing like her mother raised her well ot she she is strong …. So anything that happens it will keep happening she wil have to deal with it .
Congratulations to Chivido . God Bless their home. I thank you Nne for reading it out .. that list is endless. God bless the womb that bore you Neze nwa, Neze Omalicha, JEHOVAH God Has blessed you with a platform to speak to the world , your intelligence is God given all Praise be to His Holy Name HalleluYAH Amen 🙏🏼👍.
Chioma was in a competition and now that she won the ring it’s time for her to know thst marriage and dating are very different especially with Davido who is not going to change unless he gets help otherwise in the end Chioma will have enough . Davido knows all he is doing because the guilt he has that made him broke down in tears when he finally had to answer to Chioma,s parents about how he will treat their daughter when he laid on the ground shows a man who needs help . He just released a song titled God’s Timing.
May God help him Because it's actually spiritual. There is a spirit of lust that destroys people. And he is sure dealing with it. May God help him. Soo sad. I pray they enjoy victory at the end
@@limfenyuykinyuy4861 Amen 🙏. Maybe she needs to give herself to God now that her prayers are answered and pray for her husband to join her in God’s Grace.
I thought I alone saw those guilty tears on that video and prayed he gets the help he needs to make his relationship work . God help them as I really love them alot.
Infact I am happy you came out to say this as I was also flabbergasted by the comments I read that Chioma was patient and that she is stronger. Honestly it shows how some of this Gen z generation are just so money conscious. Honestly I’m shocked. There is no joy in being married to someone who you can’t trust when he’s not around you. I think they have been blinded by the love of designer stuff but when they get in they discover that it’s not worth it. Depression, mental health issues and high blood pressure are not worth designer bags, private jets etc etc but they will learn by experience
The main advice is in the last 10 minutes of this video. ❤ It doesn't rain everywhere oh. You should be genuinely happy in your relationship. Projecting negativity into your life. Settling for rubbish. To what end really? It's better to remain single sis than living through unnecessary nonsense.
Hi Neze i am watching from the United States most African women accept this because of what they were thought by there mother's becouse they see it happened to their moms and think it is the norm
It not all mothers, my mother is no nonsense. She taught us to be strong, live with a union that we are respected for , and honour . She taught us to be with a man that can put food on the table, being average or muti millionaire he must value and respect you. We are four girls all married to a man that honours us with pride of dignity. We grow up knowing our values, knowledge is power . Knowing liability on your path , will make any one walk up on you . We are out spoken and live with the sound of I must be honoured, am a strong woman and my value must be honoured 😊
I wish I could like this video a thousand times! Thank you Neze for speaking nothing but FACTS! While everyone was oogling and fawning over their wedding, I was looking like 🙄😒. Why are we celebrating such a tragic union? Shout out to her for all the money, etc she's gonna get but life will be just as it has been for her the past years. Hey, she like it...I love it 😌
May God bless you for telling the truth. I was shocked when everyone in my office praised her and like to go the part of chioma if the opportunity like that comes their ways
Ever since i came across this channel...my level of understanding and communicating with my partner changed for better..its either you or Arise TV or Never❤❤😊
Well said Bar. Neze - Know yourself and know your limits for only you can put value to yourself - young people should not be blinded by glitz and glamour but by the truth in their inner self for that is what you alone lives with.
You are the deal Neze🌻. We must not normalize nonsense esp for the upcoming generation . Stand for what is right even if you re the only one standing ,. Thank you ma, the only blogger I am subscribed to to get the happenings are lol even my kids know anti Neze as they call u 😂. Thank you for a genuine space , God bless you 🙏🏾
According to the fact check being a strong woman is that one who endures all the pain put on her by a man …the longer u stay in the marriage enduring it all the more ur marriage success is n the community is happy .
While I am happy for Chioma... I cannot recommend it to my sister or wish it for my daughter. Please it is not the standard.... It's not the ideal.... Let's not get carried away by d hype. T for Tanks
Well siad Barrister Neze.🎉🎉 Please let's teach our daughters that they can dream better, and best and shouldn't settle or conform to societal one-sided opinions. The blessing of God added no sorrow.
Trust Neze to come correct and without fear of being unpopular, we are happy for them and wish them the best. We hope her Hubby opens his eyes to the requirements of a man with a family and lives up to it. We wish them more happiness.
Some of our comments sound like we encourage our young girls to compete for a man and that whoever behaves well will eventually win the front seat. This is not a healthy situation. It is toxic.
Men can never compete for women, becos dey are always the price even at old age dey can marry ,that's why ned nwoko has six ,oya tell a alikija to marry 2jusbands let's see....so don't waste ur time waiting for a man to compete is has never happened
That's why u see women even praying in church for man ,v u seen a man wasting time in church for a woman....so nature made it a man can't compete for a woman cos he is the hunter but a woman waits for a man to come and sometimes she marries the one who is ready ....is just the bitter truth and God made it so from creation where he said...ur desire shall be the of a man and he shall rule over u
@@ezechukwu06yes I have seen men pray for their wives in church. I go to a Bible believing church and they’re many brothers who hold the sanctity in high esteem and want to marry right. Sometimes, what we haven’t seen we don’t know
I had to pause this video to explain to you what people mean when they said they better cry in private jet than yo laugh in keke.. Im going to do a video next month to talk about my marriage.. You see, so many married women are in abusive marriage . Marriage that their husband is not even well to do but still cheat around, but the woman decides to stay married for her own personal reasons. That's why some women prefer to be like Chioma who iis marrying a cheat but Davido still spends money on her and gives her best life.. Hope you guest my explanation why some people would prefer to cry in the arm of Davido who cheat than the arm of their broke husband who don't even care about their needs
The truth is that it's not every broke boyfriend or rich boyfriend that cheats. So whether with a broke or rich boyfriend/husband you should learn how to leave when you're cheated on. You don't need to stay there and cry in a Mercedes Benz, you can still laugh in the same car. That statement makes it look like there's no faithful man. So when you make the video, try to explain this to them to. Thank you
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Some of us don’t want to smile in a keke, neither do we want to cry in a Rolls Royce. We rather genuine laughs with a faithful husband in a Honda Accord😂😂😂
Amen to this
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This comment is too real
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God bless you
Am from Kenya and just love this intelligent woman
east africa women especially rwanda and kenya we are a movement🤣🤣🤣🤣..nigeria women come for benchmarking😊😊😊mama tears in marriages,,mama enduarances for abuses😶🌫😶🌫😶🌫
Yes, our Neze is wonderful with a supportive husband, just like the Kenyan Lynn Ngugi.Both channels are educative.
@@fatimasani6151How sure are you? Are you living with them in their home. Please please.
@@tonero8562how are u sure it isn't true? Are you living with them?negative dem0n
@@tonero8562This is about women supporting, guiding and counselling other women for a better life/future regardless of country of origin.
Don't ever think of being like anybody, just be yourself!
"There is no role being modeled here", Neze, I love you for this truth. I have been married for 17 years. I have 3 daughters and a son but I WILL NOT SETTLE FOR THIS FOR ANY ON MY 3 DAUGHTERS. God Forbid.
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My dear, you are right. You know money to so many people is the definition of love
Go yo hell in your pain envy kpai you.
Basketmouth wife left, AY wife left, Rudeboy wife left with all the money they all have after how many years. So what makes u fans think she will not leave? Most people don't understand marriage is different from friendship. Actually the baby mamas won cos they have more peace and sanity than the wife.Thank you Neze....
Even Oni of Ife's wife left.
@@eghosaritaeke-oyewusi8372right...
The wedding and all its glitz is just for a day. Marriage is for a lifetime. I pray it all ends well. All the red flags do not look good. She seems to have moulded herself to please Davido. It could end in tears. I'm thinking in the extreme as PDiddy and Cassie come to mind. All that glitters is not gold
Well said.
please don't let us sing doomsday for their relationship. They have been in relationship for quite a while and i think Chioma is aware of what she's up for against. Let's allow them be.When she feels she can no longer tolerate the humiliation, she will make her decision. Though they should not be the standard
Back to sender!!
Life is a game she won the one she played and will continue to win the rest🙏🙏🙏👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻Amen
If she didn’t marry him she would always be known as „Davido baby mama“……. Let her go all the way…. They understand each other.
Millions will still die to marry Davido!‘n
It will not end in tears. Or should I say what you wish for her should come back to you? I wonder the kind of human beings that exist these days.
@@josephinehagan6584 like you said she's aware who she married so if he does cheat later on she must not act surprised because it Davido and it won't be his first or last time cheating
Real love doesn't come with pain. It's beautiful to see the big wedding they had. I agree with you Neze dear. Chioma is beautiful and bet her last coin on something she can get a quarter of for the name and trophy. That doesn't make her a role model. This won't be our girls. Indeed stronger are women who walk away from all the abuse for their peace of mind. Women of African abuse endurance is not healthy. Money is not everything.
Well articulated point my sister,it starts with us to say no to dis abuse from men&later on covered with expensive gifts but not changing deir ways&in da end,dey become meaningless till u walk away after wasting almost all your life in pain!
🎉collect your flowers ma
Fact
i saw a comment about someone asking for Chioma's beleesing for her daughters and i commented so you wish for your daughters to be impregnated and moving with a man before marriage and go through multiples affairs? you seriously consider it a blessing? with this kind of mothers why would you need enemies.
Are you envious of them?
Thank you!!! “Why can’t you laugh in a limousine?”
I Africa it’s all about poverty which makes women acts like dump. When my mother visited me in UK, she looked at the system of freedom and said to me that, if she was living here she would have left my dad long time ago.
Hmmmmm
Truth.
There are lots of single mothers sleeping with men who just give them sex. They cook for the same man to attract him and open their children to risk of abuse because of sex. Some of this women struggle a lot without a man. Trust me things are not always as they appear
Hmmm really 🤔🤔
Trust me being a single mother is hard in the uk. A lot of them who left their husbands due to cheating are busy cooking for a man so that he can sleep with them. They also expose their children to risks of abuse from the different men that will visit if they can find because there seems to be a scarcity of good single available men. And I talk from experience as someone who’s stayed in the uk since the 90s. I saw a lot of this women pretending that they did not need men but codedly sleeping with a man. Please don’t delete my comment.
It's all about the money here in Africa. Imagine someone saying True love comes with Pain...wow! really? To each his own, don't let anyone force his or her opinion on you
Would you opt for rich+cheat or poor+cheat? Reason: how many rich men do we have in Nigeria? How many cheats do we have in Nigeria?
@@Mimi-jk9jcCORRECTION: Is not every man who cheats and it is not every rich man who cheats.
It’s sad that you have come to these conclusions probably based on your experiences or what’s happening around you. Cheating cannot be normalised! It’s not every man that cheats whether they are poor or rich! So it’s disheartening to limit people to your abnormal two options: poor + cheat or rich + cheat! So sad. It may interest you to know that there are men who are sexually responsible and have treated their women with love & fidelity whether are rich or poor.
@@Mimi-jk9jc and who says you cannot find a Rich man who doesn't cheat. Who also says you cannot be Rich and have options. All I see in your statement is low self-esteem which, unfortunately, a lot of women have in this part of the world.
@Mimi-jk9jc lol, those aren't the only options
Neze, you have spoken facts. The part where you said, the strong person is the person that even in the midst of the things she stands to gain, still chose to walk away from emotional abuse and the likes. I felt that. I can relate too.
I just pray she doesn't contract deadly diseases that comes from such relationships, a man who enters very hole, and impregnate any thing on skirt, that money will turn to shit in a twinkle of an eye, I love her, I just pray Davido changes, and all the demons responsible for all this ashawo character will live him, oginidu haaa.
@@ngozidavidakanno7136Nobody dey force davido to do what is not good, na he mimd set make he dey do it, davido too like toto 😂
My sister if a Man ever calls you strong 💪, 🏃♀️ 🏃♀️ 🏃♀️ run ,run to the hills and never accept as a woman never accept ,women are the weaker vessel,omo we have 2 face,Davido,Diamond, Heck Samidoh yes am Kenyan and if I tell you follow the gospel according to Neze 😅😅😅🤼♂️🇰🇪
Even if at the end you can die.
Thank you my sister, we've lost all moral compass as a society. I see comments on Chioma and Davido's marriage and I know that the standards we are teaching our daughters (and sons) are falling lower and lower each day. We are teaching them that in the presence of fame and money (or their absence), it is okay to accept community peni-ses as husbands. We say that's what true love is.
Smh. But what good is material possessions in the face of HIV, numerous baby mamas and children? Shouldn't we teach our children to love and respect themselves and choose peace of mind above everything? Why can't love be pain free and respectful?
That's how social media people will hype you to death unless you use your sense,
I congratulate them but I can never wish chioma and davido’s marriage on my enemy .
😂😂😂😂😂😂wahala pro max
You've said it all.
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At all lol. No money in the world could make me open my life to emotional turmoil or the possibility of diseases. I’ve been in that exact situation and I walked away. Glad I did.
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This message should go viral! Thank you for a great message and I hope many women would learn from this.
I grew up in a family where my dad was a cheater and my mum took it but it damaged me as their child and I am still trying to heal at 41 years old.
So sorry😢. You will be fine. I just want you to know it was not your fault. You didnt choose your parents.
You just have to keep improving yourself and hope for the best.
Same here. This is the thing men of that generation refuse to accept. Cheating husbands are emotionally abusing the wife and children.
@@adeshileadequateabigail4403 would do just that thanks for the words of encouragement. Jesus Christ has really changed my ashes into beauty!
My love for RUclips viewers. Theirs thoughts are usually different from Facebook, Instagram and Tiktok users. They're more matured in minds.
Especially Tiktok
You can say that again. You see that Facebook ee, it has the very weirdest people on that app 😩😩😩 father lord.. chai tufia kwa 😅😅
Lol... tiktok is too immature. Facebook is too backwards.
@@chiamakaslifestyle3868yeah Facebook has folks with backward thinking.
The way you articulate my thoughts on some subject matters is so beautiful. I totally agree with you on this
Nezeville has the best unbiased commentary ooo. She speaks from a place of abundance and not lack. Love the content nne
Barrister Neze that music ahahahahah got me rolling on the floor 🤣 😂 😆
Thank God for your intelligence, and sharing this, Neze. “The truth is the truth and has to be told”
Africans celebrate married in a beautiful way and leave out the most important part ,which is "how is this union going to survive after the big ceremony?"
God bless you Neze. When you see truth, you say it with your full chest.❤
I thought i was losing my mind reading those filthy comments. I had started to lose hope. Thank God there are people who are still thinking correctly .that mariage is doomed and cursed .money is not everything
You have said it all no more no less. Let them be glorifying abnormality because of wealth.
@@roseorewa603 can you imagine if it was a simple broke guy not famous not rich ? Would it be the same story ? Would she stay ? I'm afraid of a woman who stays with a guy who cheats without even protection .is she not afraid of her health ?
She might be promiscuous too otherwise the emotional trauma is too much😢 for a committed person@@HanifaUwitonze
Same here......I sincerely thought i was in an alternate universe reading all those comments.
Wow Neze, this is an award winning presentation. Well said. Lots of lessons. Thank you and God bless you dear. ❤
Finally someone who is not afraid to talk truth and sense. Thanks for encouraging these women.
A virtuous woman as described in the Bible or dictionary, is not one that goes under shame n disgrace for her promiscuous husband! Being a virtuous woman is far more than this n we should not encourage our young girls to be virtuous in this sense. This is all about money! She wouldn't have done that for a poor man! Who wants their child to suffer pains, agony n emotional distressed in such a young age only because of money? As u rightly said, money is not everything! I agreed 100% with your thoughts on this. Thank u.
Thank you Neze ur type is rare, younger generation need to be taught the right thing. Ds was the thing with 2face and Annie Idibia and aftermath she always comes to social media to shout out what she was already aware of
I have exclusive rights to that "koboko and bulala"😂😂😂😂
I celebrated my 23 years of marriage on the 20th of June, but as at 23 years ago we don't have much but we were so happy and blessed with 2 boys but today our joy have no boundaries , i think the problem in Africa is all about money 💰 so sad how even pastors and fatherly personalities clapping for nonsense
Honestly it's sad how people applaud the wrong things and want to normalize it.
@estyonyi8153 crazy. I was trying to explain this to someone and it seem difficult for them to understand
I agree the fact that black woman has to be strong for non sense and struggling love . She was never custom for real love .. all she is gaining his lifestyle and luxury...@@estyonyi8153
@@doraokojie2523 you correct my dear
Correct, a sensible person has spoken. Thank you @Nezeville. People tapping into"blessings" & using certain others as yardsticks, tire me. God bless you for touching on this.
Neze, I completely agree with you on this. People make their choices based on their values.
Thank you o my dearest Neze...!
I just don't understand how the Nigerian society has descended so.low into such a moral abyss !!!
How can a girl like Chioma be held up to our teenagers and youths as the epitome of the African woman.. ?
How can she be said to have made a good marital decision ?!!!!
If Davido was a poor struggling musician, all these people hailing Chioma for waiting on the philandering Davido for marriage after years of being a baby mama, would be raining abuses and curses on her o !
I tend to stay away from all trending headlines and stories featuring all these so called celebs, especially those involving ladies who hook up with, and become baby mamas to all these rich men.
The fact that some eventually become 'upgraded ' in their status from baby mamas to wives after years of mental torture and emotional damage makes no difference to me.
Such girls can NEVER be held up as ROLE MODELS to our impressionable teenagers and youths .
The problem is that morhers have sooo lost it... !!
What do you expect of a mother (who herself if given the chance would have a one night stand with the likes of Davido, Ned Nwoko, Wizkid, Flavour...etc) to tell her young daughter if faced with such a similar choice...?
Of course such a useless woman would think it's her greatest pride to have any of such rich men as her daughter's baby daddy or husband....
Personally, I believe girls like Chioma do not have a proper sense of self worth, and suffer from low self esteem.
Because, how do you explain a girl waiting for years on a guy that you KNOW cheats on you, has several other baby mamas.... ?!!!!!
( See where that got Annie Idibia,..... how she almost became a basket case ranting on social media years afyer marrying Tuface.)
Which SELF RESPECTING, VIRTUOUS lady does that ?!!!
When people like me talk like this on social media, others try to crush our words by claiming we are merely jealous....
Abeggi, jealous of what naaa ?
Jealous of the nights these baby mamas will spend alone, knowing their guys are busy somewhere sleeping with and impregnating other star struck fans ?
Or is it the high blood pressure or mental issues these celebrity baby mamas and wives usually develop after some years ( Anita Okoye, Annie Macaukey Idibia, Anne Banner...the list is endless) ?
Nigerians are soo soo gullible, especially when it comes to these rich and famous celebrities in the entertainment industry....
Many ( fans ) do not even know the sacrifices these people are obliged to make in the spiritual realm before they are given this level of fame and wealth.....
No one bothered to THINK about the no of people around this Davido that have died over the years, the death of this couple's son, the subsequent birth of twins in same month,....
My firm belief is that Davido married Chioma because one way or the other she knows that their son was used as the ultimate sacrifice for the sustenance of his fame and wealth, and this is his way of paying her back and buying her silence.
USE YOUR BRAINS PEOPLE....!!
THINK !!!!!
We think alike
Her dressing code too leaves much to desire her being a mother,wife,she can b stylish but not body revealing!
I agree but isn't his father already rich..why does he need to make sacrifices if he's already rich?
Your comment is everything. 💯
@@chizzy-y7s Sacrifice for the fame in the music industry. Some people like fame and will do anything to remain on-top. Not saying he did rituals but just citing that it could have been for the fame and not just the money
Thank you our adorable Neze, i love you to the moon and back. I have 2 beautiful daughters who i will never wish this kind of life for.
May they date and marry disciplined men. Amen!!!
Thank you, Neze ❤🎉
Barr.Neze you will not see pagatory for that song that you included .😂😂😂
Infact, I shall sit beside you when we get to heaven because,😂this gist too sweet!
I was waiting for this unpopular opinion because I would NEVER put my mental health, sexual health, and physical health at stake in the name of "virtuous woman" just because of money.
Let me gladly be among those "jealousy" individuals, but that union, is nothing to be proud about.
Mind you, The real marriage is yet to start😂😂😂(this comes from a married woman). The fire hasn't even started. Let her enjoy the glamour, gold, and bliss that comes with the ceremony. The REAL MARRIAGE is coming, ooh!😅
Barrister Neze!!!!! Wish I could love this a 100 times!!!! Please continue to preach, those who have ears & need to hear will eventually get it. Sending you flowers and positive vibes 😁💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Omg, this Neze woman is full of wisdom. God bless you for what you do & for sharing with us. Love your channel.
Neze got me laughing with this song.....I wish them the best .. peace and sense is found in Christ, may they find him. Is ironi ooo....not our role model.
You nailed it! It's extreme poverty that make many think those things are normal.
Thank you, Barrister Neze! You've said it alllll. God bless you
Thanks for opening our eyes 👀.
"Leave the room sister, you will die..."😂 Neze your story telling skill is something else.
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Thank you Neze for teaching us again and again , there is always too much to learn from your clips. Sometimes you have a way of twisting our brain to more wisdom . I pray for her though as it has happened . May they grow to maturity and learn to relearn .
God bless you neze for saying this truth. This is my first time of commenting on your comments section, I would rather listen. But I couldn't hold back. Thank you.
I love you when you preach to these girls or women that thinks money is everything in life. I listened to everything you said, you are unbelievably gifted ❤️
Thank you so much, my dear . Moral decadence, especially in our country, is something else. People now think that money is everything, and that's so sad 😢😢
First time to comment from Cameroon 🇨🇲. Thank you Barrister Neze for beautifully wording what has been going through my mind as I read all of the comments and captions that portrayed this wedding as a fairy-tale, match-made-in-heaven, dream-come-true love story. As a mother, I won't wish this on my daughters. I won't allow my son to treat women with so much disrespect. Money is not everything in life. God help us!
I love you so much Nezeville. Most especially the way you talk, it’s so intriguing
If you have history of cardiovascular disease,... thrombosis got me.. But so true! I am a first time commenter, being watching for a while though. Love your insightful contents. God bless Neze. ❤
Honest truth many do not want to hear😢Finally, someone has shared my sentiments..
The song is something else 🤭😂.
No way someone can be another person🙅🏾♂️.
Be honest with yourself and let the person know what they’re going to see in you in the future,never you fake it to make them stay believe me one day the real you will show up and guess what they’ll leave.
Neze I love you. All our young girls nowadays need to watch this video💯. Money can never equal true happiness. Instagram has messed up our women, they forget that the photos they see, are just a moment in time and not what happens most of the times
I love the way this woman speaks🙏
Well said Neze …. Coz that wedding we all know all is not well but she made her choice … nothing like her mother raised her well ot she she is strong …. So anything that happens it will keep happening she wil have to deal with it .
Congratulations to Chivido . God Bless their home. I thank you Nne for reading it out .. that list is endless. God bless the womb that bore you Neze nwa, Neze Omalicha, JEHOVAH God Has blessed you with a platform to speak to the world , your intelligence is God given all Praise be to His Holy Name HalleluYAH Amen 🙏🏼👍.
Never you're so funny 😁 😅 😂 you keep us entertained. Well done 👏🏽
I met a man who gave me soft life very soft but I still run 😂😂😂😂😂 she should enjoy her marriage
Tell us more please why did you run😂😂😂
😂
@@mammaman8400yes oo tell us
Haauuuntie, spill the tea la. I just got myself popcorn and sobolo please 😂😂😂😂
@@miss_A.B l no go fit shout crying in private Jet is not for the weak 😂😂🤣🤣🤣
Chioma was in a competition and now that she won the ring it’s time for her to know thst marriage and dating are very different especially with Davido who is not going to change unless he gets help otherwise in the end Chioma will have enough . Davido knows all he is doing because the guilt he has that made him broke down in tears when he finally had to answer to Chioma,s parents about how he will treat their daughter when he laid on the ground shows a man who needs help . He just released a song titled God’s Timing.
That was a ridiculous question. How has he been treating her?
May God help him
Because it's actually spiritual. There is a spirit of lust that destroys people.
And he is sure dealing with it.
May God help him.
Soo sad.
I pray they enjoy victory at the end
Spot on!
@@limfenyuykinyuy4861 Amen 🙏. Maybe she needs to give herself to God now that her prayers are answered and pray for her husband to join her in God’s Grace.
I thought I alone saw those guilty tears on that video and prayed he gets the help he needs to make his relationship work . God help them as I really love them alot.
My sis I agree with you completely. I watch how people praise what they don’t understand
Very well said Neze! Exactly my thought when I saw some of these commnets. U are very intelligent mama.
I love this video, and may God bless you for speaking truth
Infact I am happy you came out to say this as I was also flabbergasted by the comments I read that Chioma was patient and that she is stronger. Honestly it shows how some of this Gen z generation are just so money conscious. Honestly I’m shocked. There is no joy in being married to someone who you can’t trust when he’s not around you. I think they have been blinded by the love of designer stuff but when they get in they discover that it’s not worth it. Depression, mental health issues and high blood pressure are not worth designer bags, private jets etc etc but they will learn by experience
😂😂😂 Nezeville will not kill me Oshey true love comes with pain. I no wan dat kind pain abeg
“Somebody get me my epidural” 😂😂😂😂😂😌
The main advice is in the last 10 minutes of this video. ❤ It doesn't rain everywhere oh. You should be genuinely happy in your relationship. Projecting negativity into your life. Settling for rubbish. To what end really? It's better to remain single sis than living through unnecessary nonsense.
Queen May is the role model
Hi Neze i am watching from the United States most African women accept this because of what they were thought by there mother's becouse they see it happened to their moms and think it is the norm
True, we must stop teaching crap
It not all mothers, my mother is no nonsense.
She taught us to be strong, live with a union that we are respected for , and honour .
She taught us to be with a man that can put food on the table, being average or muti millionaire he must value and respect you.
We are four girls all married to a man that honours us with pride of dignity.
We grow up knowing our values, knowledge is power .
Knowing liability on your path , will make any one walk up on you .
We are out spoken and live with the sound of I must be honoured, am a strong woman and my value must be honoured 😊
Wow, I cannot believe that someone can tell the truth on the internet.
Well said!! Awesome.
Love #chivido!!
The fear of STDs is the beginning of wisdom. Congrats to Chioma but she is not my own role model.
Neze, God bless you for speaking the truth!!!!
Thank you!!!!!!! I was beginning to wonder if anyone saw anything wrong with the situation Davido has put Chioma in multiple times
Nezeeeeee 😂😂😂😂 you are a comedian. But with poise, education and class. Thanks for another source of advice
Thank you so much. Someone finally said it!!!
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾U couldn’t have said it any better.Thank u so much Barrister Neze. God bless u🙏🏽
I wish I could like this video a thousand times!
Thank you Neze for speaking nothing but FACTS! While everyone was oogling and fawning over their wedding, I was looking like 🙄😒. Why are we celebrating such a tragic union?
Shout out to her for all the money, etc she's gonna get but life will be just as it has been for her the past years.
Hey, she like it...I love it 😌
May God bless you for telling the truth. I was shocked when everyone in my office praised her and like to go the part of chioma if the opportunity like that comes their ways
Thank you Anti Neze, as always I have learned a lot 4r this video
I can NEVER tell Chioma and Davido's story to any young girl Child. NEVER EVER! pls don't even allow them hear it PLEASE!
This channel is so addictive 😊❤am here everyday from Zambia love you Neville ❤
You and me both! Hooked all the way from Lusaka
@@kalongochitengi6999 am from Lusaka too cheers
Ever since i came across this channel...my level of understanding and communicating with my partner changed for better..its either you or Arise TV or Never❤❤😊
Well said Bar. Neze - Know yourself and know your limits for only you can put value to yourself - young people should not be blinded by glitz and glamour but by the truth in their inner self for that is what you alone lives with.
My learned senior colleague, you have said everything the way I see it.
You are the deal Neze🌻. We must not normalize nonsense esp for the upcoming generation . Stand for what is right even if you re the only one standing ,. Thank you ma, the only blogger I am subscribed to to get the happenings are lol even my kids know anti Neze as they call u 😂. Thank you for a genuine space , God bless you 🙏🏾
According to the fact check being a strong woman is that one who endures all the pain put on her by a man …the longer u stay in the marriage enduring it all the more ur marriage success is n the community is happy .
While I am happy for Chioma... I cannot recommend it to my sister or wish it for my daughter.
Please it is not the standard.... It's not the ideal.... Let's not get carried away by d hype. T for Tanks
You said it all my darling. Always on point
Barrister Neze, I really love your thought process. I agree 💯 with everything you've said. Keep up the good work.
Forever is the destiny of their union 🎉❤
Thank you for saying the truth. I hope our younger women will listen and learn.
Neze this is why I love all your videos...... the truth is bitter but must be said.....
If she had her own money, she couldn't have married Davido
Well siad Barrister Neze.🎉🎉
Please let's teach our daughters that they can dream better, and best and shouldn't settle or conform to societal one-sided opinions.
The blessing of God added no sorrow.
😂😂😂😂😂Neze please don’t kill me with laughter. The heart diseases no be small o🤣🤣🤣
Barr Neze!!! I love this video😂😂😂 it’s all about values my dear.
If na to be strong woman i no do oooooo my love no dey come with pain and endurance,Nigerians normalise abuse and call it luv tofiakwa 😊
Mum neze God bless you for saying the truth, this people are after material things, they don't know that all that glitters is not gold
Neze i love you yhooo i can watch you anytime even if im not well i get so annoyed when i dont see your post
Trust Neze to come correct and without fear of being unpopular, we are happy for them and wish them the best. We hope her Hubby opens his eyes to the requirements of a man with a family and lives up to it. We wish them more happiness.
You always deliver. Love your analysis 😢
Some of our comments sound like we encourage our young girls to compete for a man and that whoever behaves well will eventually win the front seat. This is not a healthy situation. It is toxic.
@@faithmukodzani876 This is so true. Men should compete for women as women are the prize and should know their self-worth
Men can never compete for women, becos dey are always the price even at old age dey can marry ,that's why ned nwoko has six ,oya tell a alikija to marry 2jusbands let's see....so don't waste ur time waiting for a man to compete is has never happened
That's why u see women even praying in church for man ,v u seen a man wasting time in church for a woman....so nature made it a man can't compete for a woman cos he is the hunter but a woman waits for a man to come and sometimes she marries the one who is ready ....is just the bitter truth and God made it so from creation where he said...ur desire shall be the of a man and he shall rule over u
@@ezechukwu06yes I have seen men pray for their wives in church. I go to a Bible believing church and they’re many brothers who hold the sanctity in high esteem and want to marry right. Sometimes, what we haven’t seen we don’t know
I had to pause this video to explain to you what people mean when they said they better cry in private jet than yo laugh in keke.. Im going to do a video next month to talk about my marriage.. You see, so many married women are in abusive marriage . Marriage that their husband is not even well to do but still cheat around, but the woman decides to stay married for her own personal reasons. That's why some women prefer to be like Chioma who iis marrying a cheat but Davido still spends money on her and gives her best life.. Hope you guest my explanation why some people would prefer to cry in the arm of Davido who cheat than the arm of their broke husband who don't even care about their needs
The truth is that it's not every broke boyfriend or rich boyfriend that cheats. So whether with a broke or rich boyfriend/husband you should learn how to leave when you're cheated on. You don't need to stay there and cry in a Mercedes Benz, you can still laugh in the same car. That statement makes it look like there's no faithful man. So when you make the video, try to explain this to them to. Thank you
@@mahamanebaywa1362 bless you honey❤❤❤❤
Dont mind all this people
Gbam! Exactly, just like what mommy neze said, dem use suffer swear for anybody!.
Almost all men cheat.
@@Crystal4ya i just tire oo
Thank you Neze! You are the only person on this app that have sense. Some people think that everybody is all about material😢