In the popular fable The Monkey and the Cat, a monkey persuades a cat to retrieve chestnuts from the embers of a fire for the two to share, but the monkey quickly eats each chestnut as it is retrieved, and the cat burns its paw in the process. If you're dating a Filipina that is being used as a cat's paw, then run! It's good to have a family or friends that care for your Filipina, but if they are controlling her, then you need to quickly exit the relationship and find someone new.
And dont piss and moan about. She is either backing you up or Shes gone. Let her know where the line is and remind them as often as is required. If pain persists, distance yourself. There are good girls about. Dont waste a minute longer than needed
I've heard the "Family" warning Many times, but this was an excellent summary with good observable behaviors and actionable advice. Salamat po. Peace and Love, B Goat
this is why the Filipina is always one step ahead no matter what you do so try to not upset the family or set expectations you cannot keep because a fillipina will always choose her family over a man I know from personal experience it sucks but as a man you have to know what you are getting to as a man
Basically nonsense. NEVER believe some little woman with little or no education has some supernatural power. That's not actual reality. Get a spine! Be a man!
The best way to not have financial issues with a Filipina is to make sure that she and her family are self- sufficient. A rich foreign man should be an enhancement to a self- sufficient Filipina family. This way everyone stays happy.
IF you have a ton of disposable income, the odds of you getting your Filipina away from the influence of her family is great. Then, later on, the family will realize what’s up and come around. They don’t have any choice. But, why would you want to be involved in a family that was that fickle in the first place… there are too many Filipinas out there for you to be pissing around with headaches such as that
Hi Irish. First, you look amazingly beautiful in that green ensemble. Because I am older and want an older Filipina, the family is less influential but...they still want to access your money "when they need some". What I found out that works very well is what you said: Learn to say NO!
Exactly the same thing happened to me in the Philippines. I cut off after the second date. And this happened even twice. But if is majority of young Filipinas girls like that what is the option? It`s almost impossible find the needle in a haystack.
Seems like “Smart Girl” is doing okay? Is she with some one or did she take someone? Just curious. I’d like to know what I am investing my time in watching videos like these.
I really don't know why you blokes persist with relationships with se asian women. You marry her,the parents,siblings,cousins,aunts,uncles and the secret se asian boyfriend masquerading as one of the above. These people are ruthless when it comes to money.
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In the popular fable The Monkey and the Cat, a monkey persuades a cat to retrieve chestnuts from the embers of a fire for the two to share, but the monkey quickly eats each chestnut as it is retrieved, and the cat burns its paw in the process. If you're dating a Filipina that is being used as a cat's paw, then run! It's good to have a family or friends that care for your Filipina, but if they are controlling her, then you need to quickly exit the relationship and find someone new.
And dont piss and moan about.
She is either backing you up or Shes gone.
Let her know where the line is and remind them as often as is required.
If pain persists, distance yourself.
There are good girls about. Dont waste a minute longer than needed
I've heard the "Family" warning Many times, but this was an excellent summary with good observable behaviors and actionable advice. Salamat po. Peace and Love, B Goat
Well said Irish. Very helpful. Thanks
So the family acts as the Filipinas pimp.
this is why the Filipina is always one step ahead no matter what you do so try to not upset the family or set expectations you cannot keep because a fillipina will always choose her family over a man I know from personal experience it sucks but as a man you have to know what you are getting to as a man
Filipinas are for recreational use only
Basically nonsense. NEVER believe some little woman with little or no education has some supernatural power. That's not actual reality. Get a spine! Be a man!
The best way to not have financial issues with a Filipina is to make sure that she and her family are self- sufficient. A rich foreign man should be an enhancement to a self- sufficient Filipina family. This way everyone stays happy.
I agree. What's the best way to find a Filipina with a self-sufficient family? How do you determine that her family is self-sufficient?
@DavidHall
The problem is that there's really a very, very little self-sustainable Filipinas
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So there’s slim pickings when it comes to a Filipina that is Financially independent?
IF you have a ton of disposable income, the odds of you getting your Filipina away from the influence of her family is great. Then, later on, the family will realize what’s up and come around. They don’t have any choice. But, why would you want to be involved in a family that was that fickle in the first place… there are too many Filipinas out there for you to be pissing around with headaches such as that
Its was her older best friend that controlled her. Found out after we were married. No longer married. Bye bye...😅
Be careful, some will try to guilt trip you into giving money. It usually starts with some sort of sob story.
Make sure not a single dime is spent until she proves herself loyal and trustworthy.
Family! You nailed it.
Hehe "older sister" , maybe actually even chatting with her father, or brother , or just a man.
Hi Irish. First, you look amazingly beautiful in that green ensemble. Because I am older and want an older Filipina, the family is less influential but...they still want to access your money "when they need some". What I found out that works very well is what you said: Learn to say NO!
Do you have a Filipina girlfriend/wife already or are you looking for one?
Exactly the same thing happened to me in the Philippines. I cut off after the second date. And this happened even twice. But if is majority of young Filipinas girls like that what is the option? It`s almost impossible find the needle in a haystack.
Irish, are you in a relationship?🤔🇬🇧
Great advice Irish, right before I head over, valuable insight.
That’s why I’m making these videos so I’m so glad it’s helpful for you. Good luck!
Wise and beautiful.
Wow! I'm the first to comment today! I would like to congratulate you on your great content, keep up the good work, regards from Brazil
Do you want a brownie button, or a chest to pin it on?
Seems like “Smart Girl” is doing okay? Is she with some one or did she take someone? Just curious. I’d like to know what I am investing my time in watching videos like these.
totally awesome just like u my love
Beautiful top, Irish
I really don't know why you blokes persist with relationships with se asian women.
You marry her,the parents,siblings,cousins,aunts,uncles and the secret se asian boyfriend masquerading as one of the above.
These people are ruthless when it comes to money.