Lakesha and JaQuan: Babies and Baggage | Family or Fiance S2 E9 | Full Episode | OWN

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  • @d.m.3753
    @d.m.3753 4 месяца назад +499

    They really both sound like teenagers... I feel they need time to develop themselves separately....

  • @BingingInPeace-ev3bp
    @BingingInPeace-ev3bp 4 месяца назад +317

    Damn. That mother is trifling. The way she talks to the bride explains everything about why she chose this man.

    • @opulence_prime
      @opulence_prime 4 месяца назад +7

      🎯

    • @jaylenefarrell7175
      @jaylenefarrell7175 4 месяца назад

      She obese and angry cos of it

    • @thegoodnews6682
      @thegoodnews6682 4 месяца назад +2

      This the only comment needed

    • @faithwatkins7811
      @faithwatkins7811 4 месяца назад +9

      Absolutely the mother said how the sister had beautiful legs yet her other daughter the bride she's asking where is her shirt. Also the mother said she,was a single mother raising 3 kids by herself. The father was there now where was he back then?

    • @syria384able
      @syria384able 4 месяца назад +2

      Exactly

  • @mscott8242
    @mscott8242 4 месяца назад +246

    Her Mother is disgusting, I hope she watches this and feels embarrassed for the way she treats her daughter.

    • @alnisagroup3394
      @alnisagroup3394 4 месяца назад +8

      Her mother had a temper emotional tantrum and it’s so sick

    • @Mary-zd6ow
      @Mary-zd6ow 4 месяца назад +6

      I am sure this has been her personality for a while and she won't care.

    • @Magique88888
      @Magique88888 4 месяца назад +3

      she wont

  • @virginiapurvis3917
    @virginiapurvis3917 4 месяца назад +98

    Her mother has so much animosity towards her. 😢😢😢

  • @JanellFrazier
    @JanellFrazier 4 месяца назад +282

    He a grown man, you telling me he couldn’t book a hotel when he gets kicked out. That’s ridiculous 🤣🤣

    • @paralegalkc
      @paralegalkc 4 месяца назад +21

      No, he rather go running like a crybaby to his family like a little crybaby and making them not like her

    • @bellalenee263
      @bellalenee263 4 месяца назад +30

      Probably didn't have the money they did mention his job stability issues

    • @JC-tf6im
      @JC-tf6im 4 месяца назад

      Hobosexual…

    • @shaundramiller6448
      @shaundramiller6448 4 месяца назад +8

      No employment and one of the biggest matters with couples is that they don't have themselves financially stable individually BEFORE getting involved with each other.

    • @myamalik8175
      @myamalik8175 4 месяца назад +9

      With what money 😭

  • @positivelypinky
    @positivelypinky 4 месяца назад +294

    Her mom is so weird, she’s 1 of those ppl that embarrass her friends when she’s around mixed company. So sad but also she’s projecting her insecurities on her oldest daughter and it’s sick.

    • @mathmommy
      @mathmommy 4 месяца назад +15

      My mother has done the same this to me all my life. Once I realized it was about how she saw herself. It doesn’t bother me anymore.

    • @tarahill308
      @tarahill308 4 месяца назад +19

      I think her moms sees the part in her oldest daughter tht reminds her of herself n she doesn’t like it. Kids can be a mirror of yourself n she loves the part in her younger daughter tht reminds her of the good part in her. Both need to heal.

    • @LoveLyriks
      @LoveLyriks 4 месяца назад +27

      The mom idealizes the youngest bc that's what she wants to be, but projects her self hate on her oldest. It's disgusting

    • @alnisagroup3394
      @alnisagroup3394 4 месяца назад +6

      Poor mother! She is a monster and a narcissist.

    • @ladyt3182
      @ladyt3182 4 месяца назад +4

      Definitely need help and prayers.

  • @concealerthis
    @concealerthis 4 месяца назад +185

    This is a dangerous level of codependency…

  • @candicedavis3984
    @candicedavis3984 4 месяца назад +137

    His mom is judging her. She thinks he is too good for and he’s not, doesn’t even have a job and is out cheating. They need to hold their son accountable as well. This is part of the problem they think it’s all her.

    • @doublescorpio1118
      @doublescorpio1118 4 месяца назад

      He is. She has alot of baggage, irresponsible and he's young and free (especially if this woman that's pregnant is not pregnant by him). I wouldn't want my son, brother, nephew, friend, hell male coworker with someone like her. And I'm a mom of 4 daughters. I wouldn't want them marrying a man with kids.

    • @MzCandyApple5683
      @MzCandyApple5683 Месяц назад

      His family acknowledge that they didn’t know a lot about what he was doing. I like how much emotional intelligence his family has. Especially his mom.

  • @BleuReign13
    @BleuReign13 4 месяца назад +90

    So you got kicked out because you were talking to somebody and then you went to a woman's house and slept with her and still try to blame your then-girlfriend.? And to make it worse, his family member's co-sign that BS like there's no other option in the world than to move in with a stranger sleep with them and father a child just because you get kicked out.

  • @helena3631
    @helena3631 4 месяца назад +376

    First date he didn’t want to buy her water not even popcorn she was desperate as a single parent

    • @teresamarie7460
      @teresamarie7460 4 месяца назад +62

      What can a guy who is financially unstable offer a single parent...

    • @Nsynced
      @Nsynced 4 месяца назад +7

      drizzle drizzle

    • @beverlyvantull8452
      @beverlyvantull8452 4 месяца назад +15

      Wait isn't Communication is key... she said she didn't want anything

    • @krissy-mi1mb
      @krissy-mi1mb 4 месяца назад +13

      @@teresamarie7460he couldn’t even get her some free water 🫠

    • @Blessed-ly6kr
      @Blessed-ly6kr 4 месяца назад +6

      So sad😢... He's the one lacking in character. He knew she came w/a 📦.!!

  • @jessicarabbit3147
    @jessicarabbit3147 4 месяца назад +96

    His dad trying to blame her for kicking him out the house even AFTER learning he cheated multiple times……

    • @DeloresSimpson-go7yf
      @DeloresSimpson-go7yf 3 месяца назад +8

      Why does she want to marry him if he is a repeat cheater?😢

    • @Tiffany-un3hw
      @Tiffany-un3hw 2 месяца назад +2

      Exactly!! yet she’s still wanting to marry him. Desperate women think marriage will change their partner 🙄, then feel a way when they don’t have the support from family and friends they thought they would.

  • @virginiapurvis3917
    @virginiapurvis3917 4 месяца назад +57

    I appreciate his mother. Lakesha is fighting childhood trauma.

  • @carenbutler5376
    @carenbutler5376 4 месяца назад +249

    This couple isn’t ready for marriage

  • @geminienteratyourownrisk4151
    @geminienteratyourownrisk4151 4 месяца назад +71

    Jaquan is one of them guys that hops from woman to woman, when he can't handle something. Probably why he's on the dating apps and how he met her, he needed her too for somewhere to stay.

  • @augarethomas4605
    @augarethomas4605 4 месяца назад +129

    Lakesha's mom sees too much of herself in her daughter. Clean the mirror, baby, don't shatter it more!😢

    • @thehydratedhottie
      @thehydratedhottie 4 месяца назад

      this is the comment!!

    • @ynazzra
      @ynazzra 4 месяца назад +8

      YOU SAID IT! Absolutely spot on! She projects her own self hatred toward her daughter and it is heartbreaking because I don’t think Lakesha truly knows that.

    • @katherinefrazier5306
      @katherinefrazier5306 4 месяца назад +1

      AMEN!!! Say it! Speak the truth.

    • @Darrencollinsjr
      @Darrencollinsjr 4 месяца назад +2

      She's jealous and toxic

    • @pgdarling301
      @pgdarling301 3 месяца назад

      Yes!

  • @bellezaa735
    @bellezaa735 4 месяца назад +44

    LaKeisha is so pretty. I hope she can lift herself up.

  • @QCKrowns
    @QCKrowns 4 месяца назад +168

    His mother is stunning❤

  • @anissagr523
    @anissagr523 4 месяца назад +117

    The movie date was a red flag alone… idk how they even made it this far. Lmao

    • @HermanPowell-o5b
      @HermanPowell-o5b 4 месяца назад

      I WLD HV TOLD HIM IM GOING TO THE BATHROOM AND BOUNCE AND BLOCK HIS PHONE NUMBER.😮

  • @jerminajohnson536
    @jerminajohnson536 3 месяца назад +14

    crazy for the mom to say i just want you to look your best but the sister came down in pj's and she still praised her. mom in denial and need help herself.

  • @alwaysaccurate8725
    @alwaysaccurate8725 4 месяца назад +140

    His whole family down to the little brother🎉 top tier. Very logical and caring.

    • @AlieshiaTV
      @AlieshiaTV 4 месяца назад +7

      They rude

    • @nicklebaby
      @nicklebaby 4 месяца назад +30

      They do not hold him accountable.

    • @dominiquegills4311
      @dominiquegills4311 4 месяца назад +12

      Definitely don't hold him accountable

    • @HARRIS4276
      @HARRIS4276 3 месяца назад +7

      How is it top tier when the brother said his brother was doing what he needed to do to survive when he found another woman online just to live with. That’s a sorry way of thinking.

    • @jasminegreene8159
      @jasminegreene8159 3 месяца назад +1

      They babying him. Thats why he couldn’t even get a hotel room for himself, at this age. Smh.

  • @mscott8242
    @mscott8242 4 месяца назад +189

    There isn't anything wrong with a mother leaving the children with their FATHER! Fathers do this all the time, move out of state with women to explore relationships while their children stay in another state with their mother. Fathers are parents too!

    • @Myopinionmattersthemost
      @Myopinionmattersthemost 4 месяца назад +83

      No parent should be leaving their children to pursue a relationship, its selfish and irresponsible.

    • @caramel-cutie065
      @caramel-cutie065 4 месяца назад +19

      @@MyopinionmattersthemostThat part.👏🏽👏🏽

    • @tamarasherley
      @tamarasherley 4 месяца назад +2

      Thank You so much for saying that

    • @tarahill308
      @tarahill308 4 месяца назад +12

      @@Myopinionmattersthemosttrue but I think it’s deeper n she using him as a escape. If she knows she’s not all together for her kids mentally, leaving them with the father is cool til she gets herself together to be the mom she didn’t have. As we saw wht she was dealing with, with her own mom. I’m sure she doesn’t want the cycle to continue without her healing first.

    • @kp1360
      @kp1360 4 месяца назад +10

      I’m sorry, but it’s just unnatural for a mother to do this!!

  • @Brwnskinn518
    @Brwnskinn518 4 месяца назад +34

    It’s crazy she can cry when the younger daughter say the SAME THING…. U got tears for her. But when Lekesha said the same EXACT WORDS U HAD NO EMOTIONS

  • @danadane5497
    @danadane5497 4 месяца назад +70

    Lakeisha didn’t hug her mom nor did mom reach for a hug . 😢

  • @virginiapurvis3917
    @virginiapurvis3917 4 месяца назад +33

    People are so damn selfish. When you have children life is no longer just about you. The kids are 1st and foremost. She could have stayed consistent in her children’s lives while pursuing her relationship. Not sacrifice the kids for a man. Least of all, a man who cheated.

    • @DeloresSimpson-go7yf
      @DeloresSimpson-go7yf 3 месяца назад +2

      Perfect life would provably be that way but do we know at what age LaKeisha started having kids probably very young since she did not get love from her mom, probably looking for love outside the home in all the wrong places.

  • @Myopinionmattersthemost
    @Myopinionmattersthemost 4 месяца назад +61

    Lakesha is a pretty young lady but her mom has made her insecure. Lakesha has no business marrying anyone until she gets herself together. Also if she can not accept the potential child she shouldnt be in the relationship. Lakeshas mom only hears and understands her pov its pointless to even try to have a rational conversation with her. The father should intervene and stand up for his daughter, he comes off that he didn't protect her from the moms verbal abuse.

  • @apriljoy425
    @apriljoy425 4 месяца назад +46

    Ryan and his parents are so caring.

  • @Ebony0420
    @Ebony0420 4 месяца назад +19

    I LOVE how ppl are not judging this woman for allowing her kid’s fathers to help raise their own children. There is absolutely nothing wrong with a woman allowing the father to keep them. There are two parents, not one.

    • @RoziRoz25
      @RoziRoz25 4 месяца назад +11

      She moved to a different state with a man. This hits different, from a child’s perspective, I would wonder why my mom isn’t right here

    • @chat.lives.matter
      @chat.lives.matter 3 месяца назад +7

      ahem.. I'm judging her.. and him and this show for encouraging this. That young man should be building his future.. not catering to what some selfish, indecisive young woman with multiple kids and broken relationships wants.

    • @DeloresSimpson-go7yf
      @DeloresSimpson-go7yf 3 месяца назад +1

      @@RoziRoz25. How old are you? Keep living!

    • @DeloresSimpson-go7yf
      @DeloresSimpson-go7yf 3 месяца назад +2

      @@chat.lives.matter. Live on honey time and life have a way of toning down all that rah rah you are barking. You have not lived long enough to temper your words with wisdom.

    • @chat.lives.matter
      @chat.lives.matter 3 месяца назад

      @@DeloresSimpson-go7yf I learned a long time ago that when the response is about you and not the topic, that you have made your point. What do you have to offer-up regarding this situation other than judgement of me.. a person that you know nothing about? Would you advise your 25 year old son to settle with a woman with children from two other men? Would you advise your 25 year old son to marry into responsibility that he is not prepared to handle? She puts him out of the house when she's upset. Like she probably put the other two father's of her children out. What kind of man are you raising? Or are you just talking hypotheticals as a woman? I'm talking as a man.. and as a father of men.. who learned from me.. that if the woman has another man's kids, she's taken. And although she may want you, you just keep it moving until you find an un-taken woman worthy of your own untaken-ness. Now let's see if you can speak to the substance of what I'm saying Ms. Simpson.

  • @camilleh80
    @camilleh80 4 месяца назад +61

    I might be pregnant now 🤦🏾‍♀️ all while holding a cup of wine in hand

    • @iamreborn3463
      @iamreborn3463 3 месяца назад +1

      Classless

    • @beauteeful2000
      @beauteeful2000 2 месяца назад +2

      Lol, I was just saying that. And...why is it taking so long to take a pregnancy test? Why wait til you get on the show to mention that you might be pregnant?

  • @virginiapurvis3917
    @virginiapurvis3917 4 месяца назад +47

    Keisha has wayyyyyyy too much attitude towards his mother’s concerns. She was absolutely right that her kids need to be her 1st priority.

  • @virginiapurvis3917
    @virginiapurvis3917 4 месяца назад +36

    Lakesha said she felt like she abandoned her kids but LaQuan’s mom saying the same thing bothered her.

    • @DeloresSimpson-go7yf
      @DeloresSimpson-go7yf 3 месяца назад +5

      Laquan’s mom had a new understanding of Lakeshia after she saw and heard the brides interactions with her mother. God extends us ALL GRACE when we need it there are no perfect parents among us.

  • @k.m.8516
    @k.m.8516 4 месяца назад +19

    She wasn't ready for children, much less a husband. With a mother like that, she was doomed from childhood. The mother is a disgrace.

  • @Mesha89100
    @Mesha89100 4 месяца назад +15

    Mothers breed competition among their daughters, this is a prime example. She’s competing with her daughters, as well.

  • @BoujieKCTrucker
    @BoujieKCTrucker 4 месяца назад +75

    While I do not know if I could leave have left my children, why is a person a bad mother if her children live with their father?

    • @cevanbrown2314
      @cevanbrown2314 4 месяца назад +23

      For me its the reason behind why she left. She left to be in a relationship not neccessarily to better yourself for your family. If this relationship fails then what. She is starting over and the kids are settled. They dont want to start over with her making new friends and moving to the upper midwest.

    • @Myopinionmattersthemost
      @Myopinionmattersthemost 4 месяца назад +13

      Its not bad if it's for college, career, business venture, etc. But for mom or dad to leave to pursue a relationship is selfish.

    • @LakeishaLifestyle
      @LakeishaLifestyle 4 месяца назад +13

      Because society standards say that the children should be with the mother. Especially small children,
      not all women are equipped to be nurturing mothers. So I think it's responsible for women to recognize what type of mother they are and if they know they're not going to be a better parent than the father, as a responsible parent I think it is very good for women to admit that they can't take care of their kids properly and let them be in the care of the parent that can probably take care of them.

    • @tarahill308
      @tarahill308 4 месяца назад +2

      I personally think she knows she hasn’t heal n her man is a escape. I’m sure her mom has a cycle of why she is the way she is n passed it down. Who do you blame when it’s a cycle of unhealed moms who never had help? Of course it looks like she running away with a man but we Dnt see a dad either n tht could be another problem.

    • @Soyodiggity
      @Soyodiggity 4 месяца назад +6

      But she left the kids with the mom at first. And the mom said she didn't visit.

  • @gmrservicesnola5150
    @gmrservicesnola5150 4 месяца назад +35

    The way she grabbed the wall after the pregnancy test is wild😅

  • @yolandalewis3793
    @yolandalewis3793 4 месяца назад +46

    She needs to work on herself and heal from her mother

  • @ItsMike81
    @ItsMike81 4 месяца назад +37

    Too young and not mentally or emotionally stable enough for marriage.

  • @desidefense1463
    @desidefense1463 4 месяца назад +20

    He jobless.she looking for love and it's just a mess.

  • @Hotwingzlover84
    @Hotwingzlover84 4 месяца назад +72

    Maybe His Mother can Mentor her or something but, them getting married is a no no.

    • @paralegalkc
      @paralegalkc 4 месяца назад +3

      At first I didn’t agree with you because I was like his mom is looking down on her but then when we saw how her mother reacted and how his mother felt like she wanted to embrace this child I agree with you. I agree with you 100%.

    • @Hotwingzlover84
      @Hotwingzlover84 4 месяца назад

      @@paralegalkc Thanks! I think that she could teach her a lot. Her "Mom" seems jealous of her, or something. I have 2 Girls, and couldn't imagine mistreating them like that.

  • @ambermindless247
    @ambermindless247 4 месяца назад +20

    I wouldn’t leave my child to run up behind a man regardless of the child going with the other parent that’s foolish

    • @raya74
      @raya74 4 месяца назад +4

      Honestly I think she's slow af but what's worse selfish for choosing a guy over her own babies

  • @juliajoyce776
    @juliajoyce776 4 месяца назад +16

    It's crazy when the sister told her mom how she feels her mother cry

    • @biaccagreen7157
      @biaccagreen7157 4 месяца назад +10

      Man can you believe I thought I was the only one who noticed this and I a bet it’s because the mother sees lakesha as herself and sees the younger daughter as what she wished she could have been. Very disgusting and frankly sad, it’s a horrible thing for a child when they’re own parent is the enemy

    • @Sunshine_Worldd
      @Sunshine_Worldd 4 месяца назад +3

      ⁠Bingo!!

  • @janicescott-pair97
    @janicescott-pair97 4 месяца назад +26

    We all need healing. First, acknowledge it.

  • @fjones5890
    @fjones5890 3 месяца назад +12

    The dads in this episode are fine 😅

    • @GliTterGoDesS72
      @GliTterGoDesS72 3 месяца назад +3

      Ok I thought I was the only who thought that lol her dad got some nice teeth too

  • @justcallmebetty7717
    @justcallmebetty7717 4 месяца назад +19

    The Mom just wants to be SEEN on television, and the mother does show favoritism to the sister.

  • @LakeishaLifestyle
    @LakeishaLifestyle 4 месяца назад +43

    😂 It is always fun watching the couples reactions to the house, you can kind of tell what they have been accustomed to before getting on the show by their reaction to the space.
    Edit: love to see both parents of the couples there. 👑💐👑💐

    • @augarethomas4605
      @augarethomas4605 4 месяца назад +1

      Ain't it great?

    • @jaylenefarrell7175
      @jaylenefarrell7175 4 месяца назад +3

      Most of these couples have maturity of
      5 yr olds

    • @Harley157d
      @Harley157d 2 месяца назад +1

      The houses are tremendous. Not many people are accustomed to that style. Who wouldn't ohh and aah

  • @KTQ333
    @KTQ333 4 месяца назад +8

    To leave your 2 kids by 2 different men to go be with another man is absolutely absurd

    • @raya74
      @raya74 4 месяца назад

      💯 stupid and selfish
      She gonna regret that
      Babies need their mommy and she left them for this cheap jobless cheater

  • @vthe_listener886
    @vthe_listener886 4 месяца назад +20

    They definitely are trauma bonding. Pray for these young people😢

  • @raya74
    @raya74 4 месяца назад +14

    Shes repeating that cycle she felt abandoned by her mom and has done the same thing to her babies

  • @thephoenixrising4614
    @thephoenixrising4614 4 месяца назад +14

    Way too young to be talking about marriage and for her to leave her kids for a man, in addition to that he's cheated on her 6 times.... how many times do you need a man to tell you that he doesn't want you.

    • @raya74
      @raya74 4 месяца назад

      She has low self esteem and is slow
      What kind of man leaves her babies for man! That makes me so mad 😠

  • @virginiapurvis3917
    @virginiapurvis3917 4 месяца назад +37

    Jaquan can’t be a father to her kids that she doesn’t mother.

  • @gracefullyme
    @gracefullyme 4 месяца назад +20

    It’s obvious that a lot of these couples are signing up for this show for the plane tickets, mansion and tv. Clearly this is a train wreck.

    • @RoziRoz25
      @RoziRoz25 4 месяца назад

      Right he says he’s an actor on IG. And they were on Karamo

  • @susiesolangesimpson2828
    @susiesolangesimpson2828 4 месяца назад +22

    Based on what I could find…they’re still not married and just had their first kid together in January 😬

  • @laquitacamon5059
    @laquitacamon5059 4 месяца назад +38

    They all just need to go on Iyanla, Fix My Life…

  • @jes6161
    @jes6161 4 месяца назад +65

    That’s a hard 25 & 26. I thought they were in their late 30’s.

    • @TheDaintyGirlXO
      @TheDaintyGirlXO 4 месяца назад +23

      they look every bit of 25/26 and it’s evident in their decision making.

    • @jes6161
      @jes6161 4 месяца назад +13

      @@TheDaintyGirlXO Unfortunately, these days ignorant decisions aren’t indicative of someone’s age. They both look rough and older .

    • @augarethomas4605
      @augarethomas4605 4 месяца назад

      😂😂😂😂😂

  • @titibairfield
    @titibairfield 4 месяца назад +16

    Girl running after a man and not your kids God not gone bless this mess

  • @kosmikatom956
    @kosmikatom956 3 месяца назад +2

    Its always funny when they firt introduce themselves with the biggest smiles "we're getting married 😁😁😁" the way Id feel icky about doing that knowing how messy the relationship is 💀

  • @MrsDove-cn2hw
    @MrsDove-cn2hw 4 месяца назад +32

    The girl's mother said "why come?" Enough said.

  • @NJW2628
    @NJW2628 3 месяца назад +9

    Is her mother mad at the fact that her daughter looks like a younger and prettier version of her?

  • @Chiriberry617
    @Chiriberry617 4 месяца назад +5

    One thing about Tracey she gonna put them 6inch heels on every trip 😂😂😂

  • @msbossatlanta
    @msbossatlanta 4 месяца назад +29

    She’s codependent, her mother is simply not enabling her behavior running behind a man before loving your kids. You can’t say your hurt from your childhood and be neglecting your children. Marriage is not in there cards, his family is enabling his cheating as well

    • @tarahill308
      @tarahill308 4 месяца назад +7

      You also didn’t see dad. Most people blame the only parent in their life for trying to do both jobs n fail at trying to do the other parent’s part too. I hear so many single moms feeling drain from overextending without healing themselves from their own past trauma. The cycle continues without healing n who do you blame?

    • @LoveLyriks
      @LoveLyriks 4 месяца назад +5

      The problem with the mother is how clearly unloving she is to her. She ain't said one nice thing about her oldest daughter but heaps praise on the youngest is clearly a projection of her own feelings about herself. Her mama playing favorites is toxic. Her thinking just working and paying bills is toxic. A lot of parents aren't prepared emotionally to raise whole human beings and keep toxic cycles going. You can hear her mother just didn't like her bc she was introverted, but that's her daughter... Not her friend. It was never the daughters job to make a relationship between them. Even his mama was upset about what she saw and heard from the brides mother

    • @raya74
      @raya74 4 месяца назад

      There's no excuse for abandoning your babies in different states she's stupid and selfish

  • @Boldblackbutterfly
    @Boldblackbutterfly 4 месяца назад +5

    The brother has so much sense!!!

  • @angelamitchell6657
    @angelamitchell6657 4 месяца назад +7

    They should’ve had the mother daughter conversation with Tracey

  • @AlieshiaTV
    @AlieshiaTV 4 месяца назад +13

    The brother said a solid no 😂😂

  • @robynmickens1275
    @robynmickens1275 4 месяца назад +12

    Arizona doesn't have hotels?🤷🏾‍♀️ I wonder why that wasn't an option.

    • @Crystal-Love
      @Crystal-Love 4 месяца назад +8

      He doesn’t have a job!

  • @virginiapurvis3917
    @virginiapurvis3917 4 месяца назад +7

    When she put him out, he could have went to his parents house or brother. He cheated over and over again.

  • @Nesiadee
    @Nesiadee 4 месяца назад +5

    Get that mama GONE. She’s nowhere near done wreaking havoc in that young lady’s life. She almost looks excited to see it all fall apart. Talking about her clothes but had on the same jacket for 3 days in the heat 🙄

  • @ms.sevenohfo
    @ms.sevenohfo 4 месяца назад +19

    She's off and too emotional definitely red flags

  • @TheRealEvvonne
    @TheRealEvvonne 2 месяца назад +1

    I never asked my parents for their blessings before marriage. We have to live our own life. Period.

    • @momonie4
      @momonie4 2 месяца назад

      Exactly, I never needed anyone’s blessings before I married my hubby!!!

  • @MzBadAzz1984
    @MzBadAzz1984 4 месяца назад +28

    her mama is so jealous of her its such a sad thing smh

    • @ronteeseeyuhdarling7088
      @ronteeseeyuhdarling7088 4 месяца назад +3

      Jealous of what

    • @Arvndenise
      @Arvndenise 4 месяца назад

      Def not jealous. Maybe embarrassed, judgemental, irritated. Nothing to be jealous of. She left her kids. Mom doesn’t know how to express her frustration or be empathetic

  • @j.k.3
    @j.k.3 3 месяца назад +2

    This mom is jealous of her daughter. What a mean-spirited woman to place one child over another ugh! This young woman is beautiful and I hope she heals.

  • @11PrettyBARBIE
    @11PrettyBARBIE 4 месяца назад +8

    Mom’s gorgeous!!! And she makes handsome sons☺️💕

  • @awwiixxo
    @awwiixxo 4 месяца назад +37

    I think I’m pregnant while drinking a glass of 🍷 ok

  • @juanjuan2x
    @juanjuan2x 4 месяца назад +15

    I think the bride is stuck in a teenage mindset from whenever the trauma first began. I’d assume around the time she started having children.

    • @DeloresSimpson-go7yf
      @DeloresSimpson-go7yf 3 месяца назад +3

      Nope the trauma started in her childhood did you miss the Brides interaction with her mother? The mother has issues too.

  • @LeshaFBaby
    @LeshaFBaby 4 месяца назад +6

    With his mom, yes any mom would have concerns, you're with their son and abandoned your own..cause any future kids may get the same treatment..but his mom is very caring. It may be the mother figure she needs

  • @Dnice8295
    @Dnice8295 4 месяца назад +10

    This couple was on the Karamo Show and after watching this y’all need to go watch their Karamo episode ☕️

    • @iammrsricks7964
      @iammrsricks7964 4 месяца назад +3

      If they have done 2 tv shows , makes me wonder if they doing it for a show!

    • @terri334
      @terri334 3 месяца назад

      😒 I just saw it. 🙄

    • @iammrsricks7964
      @iammrsricks7964 3 месяца назад

      @@terri334 Ican you post the link

  • @Marshay
    @Marshay 4 месяца назад +6

    I don’t think because she put him out, it warrants him getting another woman potentially pregnant

  • @Boldblackbutterfly
    @Boldblackbutterfly 4 месяца назад +2

    The sister is very logical as well! The mother seemed to hear her better when expressing how her sister felt /feels.

  • @finegoddess
    @finegoddess 4 месяца назад +212

    If she left her child with the father, that's not leaving her kid 👀

    • @anissagr523
      @anissagr523 4 месяца назад +63

      It is tho when you aren’t leaving them to do something productive. She left them to go be with a man.

    • @laquitacamon5059
      @laquitacamon5059 4 месяца назад +16

      I agree!! They’re probably in better hands with the father..

    • @jadamcclendon6230
      @jadamcclendon6230 4 месяца назад +55

      @@anissagr523Why is it that woman have to carry the burden of being a bad parent? When following their hearts or dreams. Guys do it all the time and create new babies with new woman and that’s perfectly fine.

    • @anissagr523
      @anissagr523 4 месяца назад +37

      @@jadamcclendon6230 We aren’t talking about dreams. She went chasing down a man who couldn’t buy her a bottle of water on their first date. Move around. Men get talked about all the time when it isn’t for beneficiary reasons!!!

    • @jadamcclendon6230
      @jadamcclendon6230 4 месяца назад +11

      @@anissagr523 I said heart and dreams. Dreams are your desires in life. Hers was to find a man that would take care of her and her daughter. If she didn’t have the support or structure on how to do so is the reason why she chose him. Now I also said How is it that woman are bad parents when leaving a child compared to a man that can do it at ease and does not get look at like an unfit parent. Granted their are good man that do take care of their kids. And I’m not talking about all the bashing man receive nor woman so stick to what I wrote

  • @FarmerReLa
    @FarmerReLa 4 месяца назад +47

    Kicking a man out is extreme. If that's how arguments progress, they can't get far. Leaving your kids is irresponsible.

    • @BingingInPeace-ev3bp
      @BingingInPeace-ev3bp 4 месяца назад +16

      She kicked him out because he was cheating and regularly. Her mistake is that she kept taking him back.

    • @FarmerReLa
      @FarmerReLa 4 месяца назад

      And that's why I consider it extreme. It holds no value when you take him back every single time. ​@@BingingInPeace-ev3bp

  • @bossladiee
    @bossladiee 4 месяца назад +1

    LaKesha is so beautiful!!!! I pray that she gets peace in her heart and prevails💕

  • @justcallmebetty7717
    @justcallmebetty7717 4 месяца назад +8

    she's very childish, but her mother is a sorry excuse of a mom, she is a horrible person, and SHE LEFT THEM WITH THEIR FATHER!

    • @raya74
      @raya74 4 месяца назад

      Doesn't matter she left them- period! Her own flesh and blood for that cheap piece of dick who wouldn't even buy her a bottle of water in the beginning

  • @nikkilawrence6376
    @nikkilawrence6376 4 месяца назад +4

    The mother is petty but..when the father speaks she listens!! And Jaquan’s mother got better after understanding her more. But I agree that now was not the right time.

  • @ShawntaGrant-u3k
    @ShawntaGrant-u3k 4 месяца назад +8

    Her mom reminds me so much of mines but totally opposite… nothing my baby sister did was good enough. She would throw shade in front of others especially when my sisters in-laws were around. My heart aches for this young lady. We lost our mom 2 years ago and while cleaning out the home I found a letter addressed to my sister and it was so nasty I never shared it with anyone.. there’s no way I could let my sister see it… 😢 long story short my mom was jealous of the relationship my sister had with her mother in law.

  • @Aquaairintuitive1111
    @Aquaairintuitive1111 4 месяца назад +3

    Her oldest daughter is a mirror to herself. Lil does she know Lakesha will heal and she will still be bitter n old.

  • @dajawillis6214
    @dajawillis6214 4 месяца назад +4

    Watching this after seeing them on the Karamo Show is crazy😬

  • @Ginaaaa555
    @Ginaaaa555 4 месяца назад +4

    That man don't want to be a step dad 😂

  • @tearapowell3780
    @tearapowell3780 4 месяца назад +19

    They definitely remind me of teenagers

  • @FLYBIRDIE23
    @FLYBIRDIE23 4 месяца назад +5

    This feel like a middle school couple 😂

  • @carleneedwards3069
    @carleneedwards3069 4 месяца назад +6

    the mom is upset she is the one with low confidence and sees herself in her daughter

    • @pgdarling301
      @pgdarling301 3 месяца назад

      Overweight which is why she doats on the younger sister.

  • @LadyDivaIAm
    @LadyDivaIAm 3 месяца назад +3

    Two very immature people have no business going into a marriage. Because marriage takes maturity on both individual parts to come together as one. And especially when you're already so young and you have two kids that you left behind for a man. And then he goes out and sleeps with another woman he met on an app and gets her pregnant and then there's another baby involved. Again, 2 very immature kids.

  • @brinavland8621
    @brinavland8621 4 месяца назад +5

    And Tina turner legs was a reach! Lol

  • @smartpageprints8617
    @smartpageprints8617 4 месяца назад +1

    This guy is a great guy. I love the assurance that he gave her in the end. wow!

  • @nicklebaby
    @nicklebaby 4 месяца назад +3

    I don't like that everyone is blaming her for him sleeping around.

  • @janicescott-pair97
    @janicescott-pair97 4 месяца назад +5

    I believe, that is truly looking for security. They are not ready.

  • @missamanda1430
    @missamanda1430 4 месяца назад +3

    LaKeisha mother is something else .. I hope she learns to tune her momma out!!! She is gawgouz Her mom does not Affirm Her😔

  • @Qui-oi5vm
    @Qui-oi5vm 4 месяца назад +4

    She running to the man bc her mother don’t even show her the love she yearning for!!!

  • @zardo4
    @zardo4 4 месяца назад +7

    This is the most immature couple.

  • @dbeloved02
    @dbeloved02 4 месяца назад +16

    Did she say she drank fountain water omg!

    • @none8726
      @none8726 4 месяца назад +1

      I think she meant the water from the “fountain drink” soda machine vs. bottled

    • @BoujieKCTrucker
      @BoujieKCTrucker 4 месяца назад +2

      Right. Why didn’t she buy what she wanted? I know a lot people that like to buy movies snacks.😂

    • @TapiTTwala
      @TapiTTwala 4 месяца назад +1

      The girl's mom. That's sad.

  • @ladyrae870
    @ladyrae870 4 месяца назад +8

    His mom is absolutely right. I could never leave my children behind to pursue a relationship. That’s desperate. Your kids will grow up so fast.. you will be able to date just hold on!!!
    And I want to add ..
    Her mom is 100% the reason she’s like that !! 💔💔💔💔💔
    Her mom SUCKS !!!

    • @raya74
      @raya74 4 месяца назад +4

      Over a man who wouldn't even buy her a bottle of water in th3 beginning!

  • @ATAplayallday
    @ATAplayallday 3 месяца назад +1

    Leaving your kids is horrible. If there is no abuse towards them , physical/mental incapacities or addiction HOW OR WHY. She doesn’t love herself and needs to be by herself until she does. Her mama told her right about leaving those kids for a man