People cheat bcos it is their character and they have low values. Cheating is a choice. U do not cheat bcos u do not love ur spouse. Marriage is about commitment and loyalty. U don't need "love" to practice commitment and loyalty; u need respect. When u marry, choose to respect your spouse, the marriage and yourself. Many marriages that lasted decades were bcos of respect, loyalty, commitment.
Ok, I fell on your channel yesterday and I have been binging! I am from Uganda and thanks for the great content! Let me just note, love is different for men and women. Men can actually soldier through a "loveless" relationship - and maybe that's why they end up cheating and all....women, need to be "loved" i.e do things for them that just wow them - to keep the "love" alive. So I get both sides of the discussion.
Choosing someone who is ready above someone you ARE INFATUATED about has a name. it is called MATURITY. It's a second name of wisdom. Realities is.....LOVE DIES.
This discussion, was indeed a battle between logic and emotions in their extreem. Two sides of a relevant coin that may not meet. It is possible to find that butterfly love in a woman; and a man should consider himself blessed for it. The way to keep or sustain that love, is to recognise, acknowledge, treasure and encourage it by any means. It is like the love a woman has for her child and most times even more. Sometimes, it is possible for the woman to explain why she has that love for the man. It may be described as a strong, seemingly irrational but quite healthy attachment, that makes a woman vulnerable. Some men have it to some extent, but most men miss this treasure in women, due to their logical predisposition. No wonder, Kojo from a logical point of view, is emphatic, that there is no such thing as love. This is not true, else the Taj Mahal will not be in existence. No wonder, the ending of the discussion was a stalemate.
Functions of human. Doesn't include love. 1. Is social function 2 Economic function 3. Sex function Reproduction function sometimes comes in, but is not the main function. Thanks
If the one a woman loves has no money, no job, no planned future...and accomplished young handsome millionaire arrives today and proposes marriage...will the woman say no to a lifetime comfort and security....and choose her poor boyfriend whose future is still unclear and not even ready for marriage ? Lets be realistic !!
The lady and most people don't know the meaning of love. She has had some breakups, meaning the 2nd and 3rd etc broke her heart like the very first who was the heartbeat , the butterfly and all Now every heart has a hole yearning to be filled , mutually. That yearning and feeling and fillings is not love. Now love is a will and a decision....
Sorry my dear, but the butterflies die. 🤷🏽♀️ then you go to the next phase, it can still be exciting but usually about things you KNOW about the other person. Butterfly stage is infatuation and the person is who you THINK they are.
The butterflies die but the marriage continues if the couple has made the logical decision to stay together . The lady is arguing based on the importance she attaches to her feelings...being a woman, while the guys is rationalising and logicalising the subject....being a man !! These two will never come to any agreement on this issue !!
Driving hours through the thick forest to spend the night and return the next morning to rush off back to the city. I may have done things, paaa oh. Herh Women would rather be with someone who is ready due to societal pressures. Most have often been involved due to availability and security and not Love.
People cheat bcos it is their character and they have low values. Cheating is a choice. U do not cheat bcos u do not love ur spouse. Marriage is about commitment and loyalty. U don't need "love" to practice commitment and loyalty; u need respect. When u marry, choose to respect your spouse, the marriage and yourself. Many marriages that lasted decades were bcos of respect, loyalty, commitment.
Ok, I fell on your channel yesterday and I have been binging! I am from Uganda and thanks for the great content!
Let me just note, love is different for men and women. Men can actually soldier through a "loveless" relationship - and maybe that's why they end up cheating and all....women, need to be "loved" i.e do things for them that just wow them - to keep the "love" alive. So I get both sides of the discussion.
Choosing someone who is ready above someone you ARE INFATUATED about has a name. it is called MATURITY. It's a second name of wisdom. Realities is.....LOVE DIES.
I agree with the lady absolutely on this episode.
you can consciously love and keep the flame glowing if you want to
Like the discussion. Very interesting. Enjoyable
Fantastic episode! Informative and engaging. Great job Kojo and Animwaa.
This discussion, was indeed a battle between logic and emotions in their extreem. Two sides of a relevant coin that may not meet. It is possible to find that butterfly love in a woman; and a man should consider himself blessed for it. The way to keep or sustain that love, is to recognise, acknowledge, treasure and encourage it by any means. It is like the love a woman has for her child and most times even more. Sometimes, it is possible for the woman to explain why she has that love for the man. It may be described as a strong, seemingly irrational but quite healthy attachment, that makes a woman vulnerable. Some men have it to some extent, but most men miss this treasure in women, due to their logical predisposition. No wonder, Kojo from a logical point of view, is emphatic, that there is no such thing as love. This is not true, else the Taj Mahal will not be in existence. No wonder, the ending of the discussion was a stalemate.
Functions of human. Doesn't include love.
1. Is social function
2 Economic function
3. Sex function
Reproduction function sometimes comes in, but is not the main function.
Thanks
If the one a woman loves has no money, no job, no planned future...and accomplished young handsome millionaire arrives today and proposes marriage...will the woman say no to a lifetime comfort and security....and choose her poor boyfriend whose future is still unclear and not even ready for marriage ? Lets be realistic !!
Invested in butterflies. Can't live without butterflies. Butterflies butterflies 🦋🦋🦋😂😂😂
The lady and most people don't know the meaning of love. She has had some breakups, meaning the 2nd and 3rd etc broke her heart like the very first who was the heartbeat , the butterfly and all
Now every heart has a hole yearning to be filled , mutually. That yearning and feeling and fillings is not love. Now love is a will and a decision....
Sorry my dear, but the butterflies die. 🤷🏽♀️ then you go to the next phase, it can still be exciting but usually about things you KNOW about the other person. Butterfly stage is infatuation and the person is who you THINK they are.
.......laughed throughout this episode....killing butterflies etc 😀.love it!
Animwaa Addo is in love and it's so beautiful
The butterflies die but the marriage continues if the couple has made the logical decision to stay together . The lady is arguing based on the importance she attaches to her feelings...being a woman, while the guys is rationalising and logicalising the subject....being a man !! These two will never come to any agreement on this issue !!
She is right
This is one of the best episodes 😂
The butterflies dies in every relationship 😅
towards the end the man has some great point
its all up to both of you
Your pair is one of the best 😂
The butterflies were not made to live forever 😢
So they always die in every relationship 😂
Very interesting topic
He’s right she doesn’t wanna accept it. The delusional level is on a 💯. Most People that marry for love don’t last.
So this episode was about butterflies...🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣the lady is my sister from another mother,,, she must be a taurus🤣🤣😂
What if I don’t want the butterflies to die? It shouldn’t have to die… 😂
The butterflies always die😂
Butterflies butterflies 🦋 asem Ben kroaaa 😅
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Really, both of u sld just get married 😂😂😂
Driving hours through the thick forest to spend the night and return the next morning to rush off back to the city. I may have done things, paaa oh. Herh
Women would rather be with someone who is ready due to societal pressures. Most have often been involved due to availability and security and not Love.
Favourite day is Monday 😅
This lady is struggling from a trauma, cos this is scary 😂😂😂
You are blaming your lost spark on him. Funny
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Preferences 😂
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