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  • Опубликовано: 30 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 6 тыс.

  • @Tuko
    @Tuko  3 года назад +574

    What message do you have for Phyllis?
    You can reach her though 0714796764
    or support her through Paybill 891300, Acc 49103
    To share your story, send an email to lynnngugi4@gmail.com

    • @kate4kanini
      @kate4kanini 3 года назад +76

      @tuko, why have you deleted the comment l sent out to emali police? Am not afraid, what happened to our sister is worse than those dogs. Let them read

    • @MsPinnie
      @MsPinnie 3 года назад +19

      They both need counselling , if possible the perpetrator has to face justice..

    • @johanakimani9801
      @johanakimani9801 3 года назад +19

      I will send her something i have really felt pain,May God remember you sister Phyilis

    • @linankirote6858
      @linankirote6858 3 года назад +19

      I will assist you . Pole Sana this Earth is full of dangerous people . Let justice be taken

    • @angelamtini7995
      @angelamtini7995 3 года назад +21

      This is the worst and traumatising story I have heard aiìi so hurting 😢 😔 God have mercy on this gal n the kids

  • @oatz1010
    @oatz1010 3 года назад +221

    The part in the"truck"....i felt like someone took out my heart n squeezed it. "GOD OF VEGEANCE i plead with u to avenge for this lady. Iet the truck drivers be caught n justice prevail". This prayer is my donation to my wonderful sis n her kids....lots of lov frm Botswana.

  • @daisypeters8579
    @daisypeters8579 3 года назад +298

    We need Mother who will look at us and say, " my child if the marriage is abusive and not working, come back home, this your home as well. "

    • @marygitau3189
      @marygitau3189 3 года назад +7

      Wish all parent could hold their kids hands and give them a shoulder to lean on after a toxic marriage.

    • @magetobenard9823
      @magetobenard9823 3 года назад

      Sure aki

    • @charitykhalayi9120
      @charitykhalayi9120 3 года назад +2

      My mom is that woman and I thank God for her everyday

    • @annbrendakabui2824
      @annbrendakabui2824 3 года назад +9

      😥😥 parents nowadays are soo wicked,my marriage had failed immediately after I delivered my baby,could believe the way I was treated,after losing my job while I was pg,hehe couldn't believe that I was hacking in the streets with my infant on my back to meet my babies needs but God has been restoring me....problems comes to know your ally...coz I learnt alot at that time....my mum was Happy about my downfall she could tell me directly and face to face....but God is faithful...
      He has put my enemies in shame

    • @UzalendoNaUtu
      @UzalendoNaUtu 3 года назад +2

      Unfortunately she don't have parents especially a Mother

  • @l.c.m4383
    @l.c.m4383 3 года назад +483

    Lynn, this lady and her children need therapy and lots of love. If there is a way of contributing and help her please tell us.. She’s now part of my prayers.

    • @gracecittoh
      @gracecittoh 3 года назад +4

      Paybill and contacts are on the first comment pinned by Lynne

    • @veronicamwaniki1417
      @veronicamwaniki1417 3 года назад +1

      my sisiter huyo mama ako uhai tutakusaidia

    • @TriniRoyQuiReyes
      @TriniRoyQuiReyes 3 года назад +2

      Yes I pray she get the right people to help her get back to Life .

    • @annwambui7609
      @annwambui7609 3 года назад +1

      @@gracecittoh 0

    • @Azulakayes
      @Azulakayes 3 года назад +2

      She is detached and numb, this are signs of crazy trauma.

  • @QuantumBiz
    @QuantumBiz 3 года назад +202

    We can build a house for her. We are soooooo many here who are willing to help and educate her kids

    • @kendikisaka2395
      @kendikisaka2395 3 года назад +2

      House?

    • @richardochola6382
      @richardochola6382 3 года назад +11

      This lady's husband should be whipped to take responsibility...then we can start the question of support

    • @lencerotiwa549
      @lencerotiwa549 3 года назад +1

      Good idea

    • @kendikisaka2395
      @kendikisaka2395 3 года назад +1

      @@lencerotiwa549 okey

    • @254krew
      @254krew 3 года назад +1

      @@richardochola6382 two wrongs will never make a right

  • @Joylicious321
    @Joylicious321 3 года назад +198

    As a parent, we need to tell our children that they can always come back home. What happened to humanity?

    • @EWambereGlobal
      @EWambereGlobal 3 года назад

      Amen!!!! Make this the NORM ✊🏽

    • @thembinqwenya2013
      @thembinqwenya2013 3 года назад +2

      Is it possible to interpret in English by writing I always follow Tuko:::; but language barrier is my problem.

  • @mercywamuyu7073
    @mercywamuyu7073 3 года назад +192

    I wanna tag Edgar obare to fix, Emali police station, that hospital and so many other but again I trust and belive in Lynn's job and she does it at the best. We need to help this lady

  • @parmestawilliams1023
    @parmestawilliams1023 3 года назад +1032

    Lyn I live in London and watch your interviews all the time. This by far is the most disturbing, saddest and painful interview to date. I have worked for over 40 years as a social worker/mental health specialist yet Phylis experience has really touched me. I would like to help in whatever way I can. Can you please advise me whether the details to make a donation is ok for me to use. Additionally the correct number to contact her from the UK. God bless your compassion and the work you are doing.

    • @gracecittoh
      @gracecittoh 3 года назад +14

      Details are on the first comment pinned by Lynne

    • @annwanjiru4387
      @annwanjiru4387 3 года назад +5

      God bless you williams

    • @lizsarah4580
      @lizsarah4580 3 года назад +45

      I am also a Social Worker from UK who has seen lots of traumatic situations but this one has left me feeling seriously disturbed. We need to lobby for policy change on the issues touched here. Also for better police training.

    • @joymwendekyengo8927
      @joymwendekyengo8927 3 года назад +4

      God bless you..pls do..the details are pinned

    • @lucywangare7029
      @lucywangare7029 3 года назад +5

      God bless you for what you intend to do.

  • @timothykiruki6856
    @timothykiruki6856 3 года назад +210

    This case needs to be investigated by IPOA and CAJ. This is extremely sad.

    • @kendikisaka2395
      @kendikisaka2395 3 года назад +1

      Exactly,ukweli ijulikane.hatua ya kisheria ochikuliwe

    • @hilyam.i3226
      @hilyam.i3226 3 года назад +1

      Please!!!

    • @abrahamtirorastogiceo8042
      @abrahamtirorastogiceo8042 2 года назад +1

      Ipoa deals with cases touching on police officers.

    • @Boballerz
      @Boballerz 9 месяцев назад

      these are just stooges I can vehemently state here that they are just puppets only at the service of the well greased......I once went to CAJ and within a week my case file disappeared and the lawyer transfered to mombasa all the while taken round for a veeeery long run.

  • @joannjeri3361
    @joannjeri3361 3 года назад +30

    So sad indeed, I can't control my 😭 😭😭😭, Lynn tell Phyllis to transfer pesa kwa account ndio zingine ziingie , I have tried to send her something inafail,we are here for her even if all people hate her we as tuko we r not going to leave her, her life will never b the same again

  • @WanjiruMuya
    @WanjiruMuya 3 года назад +923

    Police officers are our worst enemies right now in Kenya😭

    • @susankuria5176
      @susankuria5176 3 года назад +47

      Ndio maana wanakaanga tu kama laana na mtu ako na mshahara

    • @ToM-ht9oq
      @ToM-ht9oq 3 года назад +5

      @ muya reason deep state.

    • @collinskiprono7543
      @collinskiprono7543 3 года назад +17

      Kabisa they are much worst than the Taliban

    • @rogath_silayo
      @rogath_silayo 3 года назад +22

      That's why my father told me to never be a police officer by any means!!!

    • @harrietkambua1399
      @harrietkambua1399 3 года назад +21

      Worst enemy kuliko ata Corona😏😏😏😏😏

  • @Shikustanley
    @Shikustanley 3 года назад +177

    This story has made me cry..I had to pray one prayer "God avenge for her!" Let pple know that you are a loving God thru this story!....oooh..I'll be praying for this family.

    • @mutiowinnie1115
      @mutiowinnie1115 3 года назад +1

      Amen

    • @junewangurunga7136
      @junewangurunga7136 3 года назад +1

      Amen.

    • @immaculatakadyanji5927
      @immaculatakadyanji5927 3 года назад

      Amen

    • @maureenochong1949
      @maureenochong1949 3 года назад +1

      Amen Amen

    • @gloriasarah9653
      @gloriasarah9653 3 года назад

      She has to be positive, its a miracle she and her children are still alive, there's people who would have raped her children too, and even killed all three of them and disposed off of their bodies in the desert, it's very important for her to look at the bright side and see how blessed she is, especially since she's still strong and not even infected with Aids or impregnated by one of those men m, most importantly she has to avoid her family members at all cost lest they lead her to a bad situation again, they are as demonic as her rapists

  • @ohwell7344
    @ohwell7344 3 года назад +45

    And to the people that denied her and her children medical help , may you also experience the worst pain ever in your life in every kind of way !

    • @mansolo6653
      @mansolo6653 Год назад

      Human beasts curse be upon them🙌🚫❗

    • @alexmuukambatx1956
      @alexmuukambatx1956 11 месяцев назад

      I support you may they have no peace

  • @christinendwiga2930
    @christinendwiga2930 3 года назад +271

    Halima,halima, halima, what you did to this lady, you will pay you and your generations. Phyllis, only God can heal you and he is a healer may he heal you totally. Hugs

    • @lucymwai7645
      @lucymwai7645 3 года назад +12

      Very true, Halima mungu ata mu curse mpaka kizaazi chake cha inne. Mpaka huyo dereva na conductor wake. Mungu awaone tu.coz hiii si kawainda.

    • @bigmo4197
      @bigmo4197 3 года назад +10

      Halima is the author of all this shit! what kind of a friend is that

    • @andrewireri4305
      @andrewireri4305 3 года назад +2

      Wanawake wa TZ ni waovu sana,Roho mbaya na chuki mingi.

    • @lucymwai7645
      @lucymwai7645 3 года назад

      @@andrewireri4305 I hope si wote wako na roho mbya. Lakini hiiii maneno na rundishia mama Phyllis, coz mimi ni mama watoto wengi. Lakini sijui nini Phyllis alifanyia mama yake mpaka akumuchukiya kiazi hiii. Ata wajukuu wake wana tezeka juu wamekosana. Anyway sisemi kitu, but Mungu alie juu mbinguni ahurumiee Phyllis na wake. Wametazeka ya kutosha.

    • @andrewireri4305
      @andrewireri4305 3 года назад +2

      @@lucymwai7645 Yes the Mother is the root cause of all these problems.

  • @millicentjuma9465
    @millicentjuma9465 3 года назад +205

    Poverty is the worst enemy you can never have around you ,the lady has gone through a lot.

    • @Bangala773
      @Bangala773 3 года назад +11

      Well said.. I hate poverty with a passion.. Its the one that led her to asking for lift

    • @winniechepkorir168
      @winniechepkorir168 3 года назад

      True

    • @bettybeaty545
      @bettybeaty545 3 года назад +7

      Let alone poverty,, but the spirit of rejection, God help

    • @damarislibese1339
      @damarislibese1339 3 года назад +3

      Poverty 😭😭😭😭 staki kukumbuka

    • @jescamassawe2519
      @jescamassawe2519 3 года назад

      Mhhhhhhhh poverty

  • @ThePrecy10
    @ThePrecy10 3 года назад +46

    How can we show love to this woman. I have cried my all. This so too much for one person.

    • @ruthmuange459
      @ruthmuange459 3 года назад

      Am really thinking of what i can do...she needs a permanent home,love a source of income a fresh start😭

  • @CK-pl4xu
    @CK-pl4xu 3 года назад +21

    Most of my life, I live fearful of what men can do,, listening to this is like amplifying that fear. I don't know if I have the energy to trust them anytime soon. May the Lord restore your faith in humanity. Thank you for reopening your wounds just to let us know. Bless your heart.

  • @kellendonnelly171
    @kellendonnelly171 3 года назад +338

    I think I’ve watched almost every Tuko talks show since I discovered the show a year ago. Most stores have moved me to tears. However, this story made me numb. At some point I thought I was going to throw up because of the numbness. I couldn’t even cry. That’s how numb I was.
    There are a lot of things I want to tell Phylis if I had a chance to see her in person. But the most important one is to tell her that SHE IS VERY VERY BRAVE. Her perpetrators (including her parents) tried to mess up her soul but they NEVER touched her spirit. Her spirit is alive and well. No one can remember and narrate such an ordeal and still stay sane. I am so glad that her suicide attempts never worked. God has a bigger plan for her here on earth.
    The second thing I would like to tell her is that with all the tragedies she has endured since she was born, Jesus has always been with her. He has NEVER left her. EVER. Let her run to Jesus and she will see what He will do for her. God is about to turn her life around. Not only will she be a testimony for the glory of God, but she will also help many many many other broken people. She will be a place of hope for many. God is about to use her. He will replace all her tears with authentic laughter from this day forward.
    And the third thing I would say is that she is such a BRAVE, wonderful and GREAT mom. No one should ever take that away from her. The forth thing I would like to tell her is that I prayed for her and I will continue to pray for her. I put her and her kids at the foot of the throne of God and He has just picked her up. May she never forget the very many people who are praying for her. I also want her to know that a lot of people around the world LOVE her and love her courage.
    Lastly, THANK YOU Lyn!!! The only thing I can say is that may the almighty God bless you, and the whole Tuko talks team and may He give you even a bigger platform than this because of your heart. Lyn, you are an angel wrapped in a human body…..who also happens to be soooo gorgeous ❤️🙏🏾😘

    • @wanguigrace2957
      @wanguigrace2957 3 года назад +2

      Love this. ❤️❤️❤️

    • @romonaokoola2991
      @romonaokoola2991 3 года назад +3

      Very encouraging words to our sister,you've summarized everything,God bless us all.

    • @gracenjoki2791
      @gracenjoki2791 3 года назад

      Oooh God my God restore ur life n ur kids

    • @irenetirop1636
      @irenetirop1636 3 года назад

      @kellen Donnelly, you are not alone. Me too I didn't shed a tear. But I feel my head is going to burst. It is so painful to listen to her story. May God be with her and her kids. May this be the end of her suffering. Those who are rejecting her now will one day come and ask for her forgiveness.

    • @felistusmunyao3891
      @felistusmunyao3891 3 года назад +1

      You such amazing lady I just wanted to comment something but you have done it may God bless you

  • @hellenomwagre7223
    @hellenomwagre7223 3 года назад +39

    Phylis this is the beginning of your blessings God is going to lift unconditionally your story moved me to tears you are a wonderful mum God bless you and your babies.

  • @shiruhnas
    @shiruhnas 3 года назад +26

    Phyllis,,, I call you shiru, I hope to meet you again dear,,,, am glad that you got the courage to express your pains as I adviced you in my encounter with you at mercylight hospital... May God see you thru sweetheart with your 2 lovely daughters

  • @gracemue185
    @gracemue185 3 года назад +69

    It's high time we talked about toxic parents,how do you listen to your child tell you about her problems and you are not bothered an inch ,am in tears for the lady.😭😭😭😭😭

    • @vastishie886
      @vastishie886 3 года назад +1

      Justice itafutwe kwa uyu dem

    • @BrantoneSamuel
      @BrantoneSamuel 3 года назад +1

      My Dear,acha tu!Nowadays wazazi pia...acha tu!

    • @LevyUlombo
      @LevyUlombo 7 месяцев назад

      Please am a Zambian who does not get Swahili language. Anyone to interpret

  • @agneslawrence9381
    @agneslawrence9381 3 года назад +36

    Our precious Lord,You said that we should not revenge but we should leave room for Your wrath for it is written:"It is mine to avenge;I will repay." Do it for her Lord...this is just too much...only You can do it for her Lord.

    • @rachaelkinyua7453
      @rachaelkinyua7453 3 года назад +2

      Amen 🙏...may these words reach to our heavenly Father...Dear God vengeance belongs to you we leave all the tears shed coz of this lady to you

  • @shew_mie
    @shew_mie 3 года назад +61

    I honestly have never heard a story like this. You're very strong. Superhuman. 😥❤

    • @dinamisiko890
      @dinamisiko890 3 года назад

      Hugs Phyllis 🤗it's gonna be well this broke my heart 💔so much,,may the almighty God see you through

  • @ashajama3189
    @ashajama3189 3 года назад +41

    After watching so many videos on Tuko, this is the most shocking and traumatic experience. I pray that God sees her through. This lady and her children need prayers seriously, counseling and therapy. Am even short of words. Haki binadamu??????

  • @lucymwaura2459
    @lucymwaura2459 3 года назад +77

    I at first shed tears, lots of tears while listening. I wondered why all these people were so heartless.. But that was before I started vetting myself and wondering how many people with a need I can effortlessly help I pass by daily without caring what their need is. God create in me a humane heart ❤️.

  • @verrohwg6086
    @verrohwg6086 3 года назад +175

    I can't keep my composure, this is the most heartbreaking reality I have ever seen. May God give you peace, healing and strength to move on. Phyllis the entire Tuko Family loves and cares about you. I know TukoFam will never give you what you lost but they will walk you through healing and forgiveness. All will be well.

    • @dorothyocholla7197
      @dorothyocholla7197 3 года назад +1

      Ooh Lord Jesus....have mercy upon us.
      Thos is the worst av ever heard

    • @23568982
      @23568982 3 года назад

      Me too.i have never watched like this ever.

  • @sheilakimani4718
    @sheilakimani4718 3 года назад +71

    I want to see this woman so uplifted...guys tumchangie sana Sana
    No one deserves what she's gone through 😭😭😭😭

  • @jepkuruibeatrice2405
    @jepkuruibeatrice2405 3 года назад +146

    the spirits of rejection and touture has been haunting her, but it's now over my sister you'll experience love, happiness, care and the good things you deserve in Jesus name.

    • @cindyaudy2307
      @cindyaudy2307 3 года назад +1

      In Jesus mighty name 🙏🏽 May God pay her back with happiness, joy, peace and prosperity for all this pain haki

    • @leskenmar
      @leskenmar 3 года назад

      Amen

    • @Iamhis254
      @Iamhis254 3 года назад +1

      Rejection is so evident in her life and her family
      See mum Achapwe na The Husband ,then she comes and Leaves The husband Because of being beaten ...What if This Is Something that actually her generation was used to ....my worry is with The Kids ...I will stand for them in Prayer that they Will be remnants and Will Have successful marriages in Jesus name

    • @mariontanuy1619
      @mariontanuy1619 3 года назад

      Amen

    • @thelioness4259
      @thelioness4259 3 года назад

      @@Iamhis254 AMEN 🙌🏾 😢😭

  • @samuelwanjiku8909
    @samuelwanjiku8909 3 года назад +17

    If only people understood God's justice system they would be careful how they live but may God heal your heart Phyllis

  • @Shiks122
    @Shiks122 3 года назад +34

    To Halima, may you never find peace. Shame on you wherever you are. To your ex-husband, you are a monster too…
    To Shiro, may you live to enjoy the fruits of your womb! You deserve the mother of the year award.

  • @phillipsidhojapap1461
    @phillipsidhojapap1461 3 года назад +65

    She doesn't have to go through this alone.. i can't imagine the difficult place she is in as a parent to her children (who are witnesses and victims of sexual assault) while going through personal issues (rejection, failed marriage, poverty, and rape). It's a miracle she is still alive and is being vulnerable and sharing her story.
    God have mercy on her and her children. Be her strength in this very time of need. And turn these ashes into diamonds

  • @charitykamau4785
    @charitykamau4785 3 года назад +277

    I blame Phyllis mother. How can u reject ur own child to suffer like this? Whoever contributed to Phillis suffering will never know peace. Very touching story

    • @vanessalaizer4363
      @vanessalaizer4363 3 года назад +9

      That mother is heartless

    • @blessedgodsgirl2703
      @blessedgodsgirl2703 3 года назад +18

      Toxic mother are dangerous

    • @wairimusimiyu
      @wairimusimiyu 3 года назад +3

      I don't believe in witchcraft...bt what was done to this woman of a mother...how dare you reject your own blood like this

    • @jaymokamande8069
      @jaymokamande8069 3 года назад +1

      Maybe the mum had high expectations on her

    • @wairimusimiyu
      @wairimusimiyu 3 года назад +8

      @@jaymokamande8069 it is true but Bado this is not how mothers behave

  • @sonniek.m1208
    @sonniek.m1208 3 года назад +69

    One thing is for sure, she loves her kids. Her words to her kids 😭
    This story broke my heart so badly. May God save them from this trauma. Deliverance prayers are needed as well. Praying for you Phyllis and your children.

  • @anthonymuchiri7876
    @anthonymuchiri7876 3 года назад +74

    Aaaiiii apana nooooooooo🙁🙁🙁🙁🙁we need to look for those animals n skin them alive ,she needs to get justice

  • @gracenderitu7602
    @gracenderitu7602 3 года назад +52

    I have never cried this much in an interview, this is so heartbreaking.
    You're a strong woman coz I don't know if I can face half of what you went through. You're about to get your breakthrough, hang in there mamaa..
    Vengeance is yours ooh Lord do it for this lady

    • @isaackibe7597
      @isaackibe7597 3 года назад

      It's sad to hear parents don't care any more,coz wangemsaidia mapema it's sad story

  • @veronicahnyambura3414
    @veronicahnyambura3414 3 года назад +163

    This is the most heartbreaking thing I have ever come across I have literally cried 😭😭

    • @A_kan965
      @A_kan965 3 года назад +4

      I’m not fluent in Swahili so they made her kids eat her out ?

    • @consolatanechesa3004
      @consolatanechesa3004 3 года назад +1

      True. Dear waaaa aki woe bona walifanya hivo aki dear .tulipita njia moja na ww. Mungu atakukumbuka dear xw

    • @beatricemwani6460
      @beatricemwani6460 3 года назад +1

      My dear sister you went thro alot but remember kuna God of justice no matter how long it takes, may God give u his grace

    • @thehappyskeptic814
      @thehappyskeptic814 3 года назад +1

      @@A_kan965 yeah they also forced themselves on the kids

    • @A_kan965
      @A_kan965 3 года назад

      @@thehappyskeptic814 thanks for the translation man…those guys are sick 🤦🏾

  • @D-better
    @D-better 3 года назад +25

    I can see and feel how she is struggling not to cry,she knows she is more than that and whatever she went through she gonna bounce back stronger. God is with you mama Ciku♥️🥺

  • @sheeswah7572
    @sheeswah7572 3 года назад +10

    Pastor T mwangi i hope you watch this your spiritual guidance is needed

  • @mwingirwaboniface7850
    @mwingirwaboniface7850 3 года назад +28

    As a man I have no words. As a human being I'm so so ashamed. What happened to humanity? Please God, be her peace. And the perpetrators, may they never know peace. I'm right now wishing I was an elephant, because being of the same species with people like this is just heartbreaking.

  • @geoffreyngolua2563
    @geoffreyngolua2563 3 года назад +62

    This the saddest and most heart breaking story I have ever listened. It makes one to lose hope with humanity. Let show her some love sharing the little we have with her. Let do it with sincere heart as pray for her. Let show love by action.

  • @eglahomwenga1494
    @eglahomwenga1494 3 года назад +12

    Tuko please update us on how Phyllis is doing .this story is excruciatingly painful 😢

  • @metrinekhasandi6672
    @metrinekhasandi6672 3 года назад +27

    Halima wherever you're you'll never have peace
    God have mercy on us...
    Phylice May God's grace give you strength peace and courage to overcome this hard situations

  • @TheLaymaxy
    @TheLaymaxy 3 года назад +68

    This woman is destined for greatness.

    • @salomematotay9454
      @salomematotay9454 2 года назад

      Amen 🙏🏻
      All the tears she shade will never go for nothing
      May God step in 🙏🏻

  • @simplybeautiful2479
    @simplybeautiful2479 3 года назад +162

    Her mum failed her completely, sometimes parents should understand that a child may not be perfect to their expectations, this is really sad 😭😭😭😭

    • @254repp5
      @254repp5 3 года назад +4

      Kutoka aanze na vile the mum didn't even help her when she was suffering domestic violence. Aki Ghai

    • @marywanjawanjiru6567
      @marywanjawanjiru6567 3 года назад +8

      Her mum is in human and she should not be called a mother,A mother is someone who carries all her family and loves them dispute any challenges in life.

    • @p.be.s
      @p.be.s 3 года назад +1

      Thank you….but no one is perfect.

    • @simplybeautiful2479
      @simplybeautiful2479 3 года назад

      @@254repp5 aki😔

    • @simplybeautiful2479
      @simplybeautiful2479 3 года назад

      @@marywanjawanjiru6567 she failed her aki😢

  • @janemuhura8052
    @janemuhura8052 3 года назад +36

    I hope everyone involved in her's and her children's suffering get the absolute worst karma

  • @paulinegladys4793
    @paulinegladys4793 3 года назад +110

    I can never disown my daughter no matter what, her mother would have been the first person to give her a shoulder to lean on.

    • @isadiaelvis2301
      @isadiaelvis2301 3 года назад +5

      She's gone through a lot.. I have a step mum who treats me much better than what her wicked biological mum does to her😥😥

    • @njokinjeri5917
      @njokinjeri5917 3 года назад +1

      Exactly ata heri uchukiwe na mama wakambo than your own mother. If she had accepted her when she was pregnant aki this whole thing hainge happen but God is with you regardless. You will be blessed by God's blessings, favour and love. Wanao kudharau watakusalimia kwa heshima.

  • @evansnyanaro6658
    @evansnyanaro6658 3 года назад +65

    I wish your mum had loved you the way you love your children. One of the strongest mum on earth.

    • @esthernjuguna2006
      @esthernjuguna2006 3 года назад

      Shinda ni mbaya sana ati Philis amepitia hayo yote lakini, Mungu halali atamuinua pamoja na watoto wake

    • @esthernjuguna2006
      @esthernjuguna2006 3 года назад

      Kama angekua na ufahamu wa kushika number ya ile gari, wooii na police wakawaacha waende bila ata pesa. Mungu wangu aki shinda ni mbaya sana na inaweza pata mtu yoyote

    • @esthernjuguna2006
      @esthernjuguna2006 3 года назад

      Wamama tujaribu kushikilia watoto wetu iwe vijana ama wasichana juu wote ni watoto wetu na hakuna anaye penda kuishi maisha mambaya

    • @esthernjuguna2006
      @esthernjuguna2006 3 года назад

      Saa hii Philis akifanikiwa mama yake atamtafuta akisema my daughter.Mungu simama na yeye na watoto wake

    • @janejoel8264
      @janejoel8264 3 года назад

      aki ... she's caring mum

  • @DoreenMutheu
    @DoreenMutheu 3 года назад +43

    May we all learn to have kindness towards one another. Hugs hugs hugs to Phyllis, may you never suffer again.

  • @mosesmwangi8081
    @mosesmwangi8081 3 года назад +26

    This is so damn heartbreaking, Emali police station, Sultan hamud hospital, shame on you!

    • @Katrina-uq3dl
      @Katrina-uq3dl 3 года назад

      Especially Emali. Those policemen r hurtless.

  • @odhiamboaim8401
    @odhiamboaim8401 3 года назад +158

    Lyn of all the interviews you've done this one is the most painful, may God stand on her way, believe you from the husband to halima and the truck crew, God is a just God and they'll pay I promise you in Jesus name.

    • @AK-qm3rk
      @AK-qm3rk 3 года назад +3

      True to that!!!! This on is on another level Jesus Christ!!!! Menn tushasikia nzote Lakini hii , nilidhani it’s only on the movies😞😞😞😞.

    • @fatumaadam7970
      @fatumaadam7970 3 года назад +2

      😭😭😭

    • @estheressy4215
      @estheressy4215 3 года назад +1

      😢😢😢😢😢😢

    • @fleur-de-lyscoeurbleu3059
      @fleur-de-lyscoeurbleu3059 3 года назад +2

      Amen

    • @davidmuhia1191
      @davidmuhia1191 3 года назад

      True 😌

  • @richardthiongo2049
    @richardthiongo2049 3 года назад +10

    Waah this story is soo touching.. Pls lets put joy on her face and give her something..

  • @frankmugo6093
    @frankmugo6093 3 года назад +45

    50 seconds that's as much as I can watch this 😢😢 First heard the story being narrated in another platform and hoped that it was untrue, never stopped thinking about this lady and the kids. May these heartless beasts not get away with this, they cannot live among humans.

  • @BTErides
    @BTErides 3 года назад +13

    This is very disturbing, whatever she is going through is unexplainable. The God of justice will surely come through for her. It shall be well. I will support in whatever way i can.

  • @jessynancy738
    @jessynancy738 3 года назад +224

    Most of the people who victimize others end up bringing curses on theirs generations...They make theirs kids pay their evil deeds in future😪😪😪..May God give you peace mummy and may he pursue justice ⚖👩‍⚖️🙏🙏

    • @joycegacheri5177
      @joycegacheri5177 3 года назад +3

      Very true my dear they don't know ukute watoto wao watatumika vibaya kama mzazi unabebesha watoto wako dhambi zako may God forgive us 😭😭😭😭😭

    • @jessynancy738
      @jessynancy738 3 года назад +8

      @@joycegacheri5177 I wish God can make them suffer baadala ya watoi wao coz you find most of them watoto wao they are very much different...but wazazi wao ni mashetani

    • @delishbby8542
      @delishbby8542 3 года назад +4

      That's very true curses will destroy their generations

    • @jessynancy738
      @jessynancy738 3 года назад

      @@delishbby8542 people are so evil aki

    • @collinsmeica1581
      @collinsmeica1581 3 года назад +4

      Another reason why religion is tough...why would an innocent child who knows nothing about this pay for it?

  • @jkiki38
    @jkiki38 3 года назад +135

    I’m I allowed to lay a curse on that makanga and driver ? May them Never know peace ! May them be haunted by this act until their dying day 😭😭 May this world burn them alive as they watch 😭😭 This is the most painful tuko story I have ever listened to 🥺🥺🥺

  • @wachuruo2085
    @wachuruo2085 3 года назад +73

    Am astonished in disbelief, thats why as a person I will always be kind to every individual l meet,in my prayers together with your children dear,God loves you, I am psychologist willing to offer therapy mostly for the babies,.

  • @dominicnjoroge4421
    @dominicnjoroge4421 3 года назад +9

    Life is hard but hearing stories like this can make you rethink your life.

  • @ruthngobia8064
    @ruthngobia8064 3 года назад +92

    Honestly I can't still comprehend why civil servants that we pay with our taxes can be this inhuman????why do people behave like this can't happen to them or their loved ones? And to men who have decided that violating women is right..time will catch up with you. How can a mother encourage violence by telling her child to stay in a violent marriage? How can you hate your child this much? God I pray that you give me the love to love my neighbors and to be a better mom to my child (ren)

  • @Grumpygirl397
    @Grumpygirl397 3 года назад +17

    I just want to give this lady a long, tight hug.

  • @papadavie8460
    @papadavie8460 3 года назад +4

    Vengeance remains in God's hands... Take heart my sister. May God console your hearts

  • @gracemugoh1417
    @gracemugoh1417 3 года назад +45

    Tuko fam we are the family to the rejected, the famililess. Phyllis we are your new family. Hatukuachi. May God give you and your children a new beginning.

  • @davidndambuki1733
    @davidndambuki1733 3 года назад +13

    This is painful 😭😪am a truck driver n this has broken my heart fully! May God fight for this family!

  • @mosesombongi4155
    @mosesombongi4155 3 года назад +69

    I've watched lots of TUKO stories but this actually brought me to tears. The thought of it all is just shocking, and moreso overbearing, considering the child's participation. I'm praying for you Phyllis. God shall open a new chapter in your life.

    • @theressathuo1303
      @theressathuo1303 3 года назад +2

      Ohhhh my God!!!!!! Am so sorry to hear what you went thru and may God help you and your kids to get thru all you went thru. How could that driver and co-driver be so evil to even a kid???? What kind of officers are at Email police station and how could that woman officer behave in such a satanic manner. ? That Sultan Hamid hospital is a Government hospital and this was a matter of life and death? They needed treatment within 72 hours to protect them from contacting AIDS. Was 500 Sh worth their lives???? I just can't believe there are people who value money more than life. That woman you are calling your mother didn't deserve to have you as her daughter. Email Police station and Sultan Hamid hospital should be ashamed of themselves .

  • @mercyatieno6475
    @mercyatieno6475 3 года назад +4

    This story has made me cry non.stop... this world is cruel... What made it more painful is when she said "that when your rejected even Satan turns his back on you" it's very painful.... May the Almighty fight this battle... It shall be well Phyllis

  • @PeterMutuku254
    @PeterMutuku254 3 года назад +102

    Emali Police Station officers present on that date should be questioned

    • @jimmymakovo6351
      @jimmymakovo6351 3 года назад

      💯

    • @faidaflow
      @faidaflow 3 года назад +6

      Fired. Not questioned

    • @evaandmax5869
      @evaandmax5869 3 года назад

      Very true

    • @maureenmaina9143
      @maureenmaina9143 3 года назад +1

      And also cursed, kwanza that lady.... Mungu akuone!! I thought you could have been the first to help...

    • @musenyalinette9226
      @musenyalinette9226 3 года назад +1

      Even to make the matter worse she is police woman who maybe have kids like her she need to get fired wicked police woman

  • @ramak.9587
    @ramak.9587 3 года назад +105

    Khalima wherever you are, ur the main reason of all this. Nothing we can do but God will do everything😭😭😭😭😭😭. Khalima! Khalima! Khalima!😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @mercylinerobert1979
      @mercylinerobert1979 3 года назад +6

      God punish her,some parents are evil

    • @artisthusnatalal3099
      @artisthusnatalal3099 3 года назад +6

      *Aaarrgh halima ametu put down. I hope she aint a muslim ametuaibisha dini yetu haitufunzi hivyo* 🤨

    • @ramak.9587
      @ramak.9587 3 года назад +3

      @@artisthusnatalal3099 for sure for real I feel so dwn aki. Khalima the only mother who raised our prophet after his mum Amina passed away final umetuangusha. Wy Khalima kwa nini. Leave about the mother hukuonea huruma hao watoii surely! Malaika wa Mungu unawaacha wanapitia mateso unyanyasaji wa kila aina. Mungu akusamehe Khalima popote ulipo. Iyo pesa ulidhulumu kumbuka dhulmatil yaumul Qiama.

    • @justiceserved2418
      @justiceserved2418 3 года назад +1

      Nooo...her husband is the first person to blame..he mistreated her to an extent ya yeye kumfukuza na akapitia hizo zote...if he didn't mistreat her age could have been safe

    • @rhoduskal-cious3243
      @rhoduskal-cious3243 3 года назад

      Halima ni mtu mbaya sana! Huko alipo malipo yake ni 10 folds! 🙏
      Hata fika mbali!

  • @haruncopper3265
    @haruncopper3265 3 года назад +12

    Let contribute and built a nice house for this woman tuko family

  • @hellenpeter1932
    @hellenpeter1932 3 года назад +5

    Was just discharged yesterday from hospital,I can't fast and pray for this lady but I will pray for her...please anyone who serves the Almighty God who I serve,let's hold our hands together and pray for her........please my good Lord,see this lady through

  • @abigaelomare3294
    @abigaelomare3294 3 года назад +33

    Sad story ever..I have watched while shedding tears. All the tears that everyone has cried for you dear Phyllis will never go unpaid by our God in heaven.

  • @ClemorCreatives
    @ClemorCreatives 3 года назад +160

    I feel like Parents need to love and protect their children...she couldn't have gone through most of these things if her mum really cared for her

  • @tulipp91
    @tulipp91 3 года назад +32

    I watched the two parts of this story yesterday, crying and so mad and stressed by the pain Shiru has gone through. My husband came from work and found me crying, I couldn't explain the reason as to why I was crying, he still don't know why I was so disturbed and mad throughout the night, I just wish I could help this lady financially, I wish I could delete all the bad memories she's had.
    One thing I kept telling myself through out the interview is that, "this gal is so beautiful."
    I just pray that she heals, gets help financially, get peace and joy, God is able and since she trusts in Him, then the new morning has come Shiru, DO NOT BE AFRAID, FOR THE LORD IS WITH YOU AND YOUR KIDS.
    May God give you an angel of a husband who'll accept you and be the loving family that u never had.
    Dear God, remember this lady please in Jesus name.

    • @vee_veroh
      @vee_veroh 3 года назад

      😭😭😭🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @zipporahwanyonyi3219
    @zipporahwanyonyi3219 3 года назад +10

    Hugs mum😭😭the story moved me to tears 😭😭😓😪, how can people be so inhuman😥, May God give you strength momma😭🙏

  • @alicealfred262
    @alicealfred262 3 года назад +18

    Aki with a heavy heart I pray that Lord almighty heal this woman and her children, give her the ability to forgive herself and the children to forget this experience and give her and her children comfort. AND PLEASE DEAL WITH ALL THESE PEOPLE WHO DID THIS VENGEANCE BELONGS TO YOU.

  • @RasKenya
    @RasKenya 3 года назад +43

    The world is in trouble. To everyone, be the best version of humanity wherever you are. Heal the world. Even mere rejection can drive a soul into heartbreaking situations. Saddest story ever.

  • @arapuria.
    @arapuria. 3 года назад +591

    How can people be this heartless 😭😭😭😭😭😭 can't continue watching this.😭😭😭
    All gonna be well mama.God is fighting for you and sooon you will have something good to say

    • @janecharles5087
      @janecharles5087 3 года назад +4

      Umefanya nikuje huku nimeona umepost fb

    • @winnieboit1102
      @winnieboit1102 3 года назад +3

      @Arap Uria imebidi nikuje ni watch after nliona post yako fb😢😭😭

    • @wilsonkanyi5276
      @wilsonkanyi5276 3 года назад +6

      umenileta hapa bro from FB

    • @murithilinet9369
      @murithilinet9369 3 года назад +3

      My God 💔😭

    • @linetekageha3885
      @linetekageha3885 3 года назад +6

      I know her on a personal level and can confidently say that she is a shameless liar. Please dont buy into this well choreographed pack of LIES !!

  • @franko569
    @franko569 2 года назад +1

    This lady is a strong woman. May God grant her strength

  • @jacklinenkatha5887
    @jacklinenkatha5887 3 года назад +18

    Your story broke me. Am still in tears as I type this. May God see you through. Your destiny is Greater than you think. May God heal you and give you more strength Phyllis.

  • @KaariMukura
    @KaariMukura 3 года назад +29

    This one is the most painful of all Tuko has brought us. I am in tears. God save the world.

  • @silviamwende2183
    @silviamwende2183 3 года назад +79

    How can people be so heartless 😭😭😭 but what makes me smile is that there is a God in heaven and His faithfulness endures forever.

    • @PaddyKish254
      @PaddyKish254 3 года назад

      Izo siku hakua heaven?

    • @marionmacharia9314
      @marionmacharia9314 3 года назад

      @@PaddyKish254 He was and he still is. His ways and thoughts aren't like ours.

  • @fredmsebi
    @fredmsebi 3 года назад +9

    Since i started watching Tuko news,i have never shade tears. But this one, it's worth my tears. I know i'm not alone on this one. I'm driver,but this ones,they don't deserve to be on our roads.
    The OCS, at Emali police station should be questioned. Why didn't he offer, Phyllis and her children with transport, and he has Government vehicle at his station, and he has the capacity to do so?.
    About the doctors, they should have considered, Phyllis case, since she had an OB. Sh 500 should not have been an obstacle to her medication, regarding her case. Those doctors should have reasoned with her.
    For the parents, they should stand with there children's, regardless of what they have put them through.
    Lynn Ngugi make serious follow up, on this story.
    If that track was coming from Namanga border, i think there is data at border of this monsters. So the responsible institutions should start from there.

  • @madeleinemartin9911
    @madeleinemartin9911 3 года назад +98

    Maybe the 2 men are also here commenting how sad this is. I prayer that this woman's tears don't go in vain. Anyone who's caused her to suffer should see no happiness. Including her family!

    • @linetekageha3885
      @linetekageha3885 3 года назад +2

      I know her on a personal level and can confidently say that she is a shameless liar. Please dont buy into this well choreographed pack of LIES !!

    • @carolshaniya8295
      @carolshaniya8295 3 года назад +5

      @@linetekageha3885 go to he'll devil 👿

    • @joanjeronno8972
      @joanjeronno8972 3 года назад +5

      @@linetekageha3885 ok.she is a liar.But you are not God to judge her. Uko na watoto na wee pia uko na familia so zip your disgusting mouth

    • @lydiahnyaboke4400
      @lydiahnyaboke4400 3 года назад

      @@araagsanahmed4037 are you saying that she is lying? What's the really story then

    • @lydiahnyaboke4400
      @lydiahnyaboke4400 3 года назад +3

      @@linetekageha3885 but what about that OBs and recordings that she presented? Even the counselor said the child did not sleep due to trauma - nightmares, does it mean even the child is lying???

  • @09Dorcas
    @09Dorcas 3 года назад +62

    Shame on Emali police station and especially that policewoman n deputy ocs.Changing uniform without overhauling the system is an exercise in futility.They ought to be taught on how to handle such sensitive cases.I'm so appalled!
    And to Sultan Hamud Hospital health workers, where did humanity go?Have we worshipped money this much?
    I weep for my beloved country.
    Animals are much kinder to each other.

    • @marycinaida9429
      @marycinaida9429 3 года назад +5

      Kama kuna watu nachukia kwa hii life ni police wanawake.......

  • @marysande4088
    @marysande4088 3 года назад +160

    This is the most painful story have had on Tuko. How can human being so hurtles. Oh God what has the world turned into.

  • @miakolmonythak2529
    @miakolmonythak2529 2 года назад +1

    You are very brave woman God will reward you and your children.

  • @monicangure1945
    @monicangure1945 3 года назад +15

    This story is touching 😭😭 those men will never hv peace..... I love the way kids sticked to they mum despite what happened to them . May peace be upon you and ua kids

  • @StephenKasolo
    @StephenKasolo 3 года назад +416

    But there is God in heaven.. watavuna tu malipo ni hapa duniani.

    • @MAJIK_FINGAZ
      @MAJIK_FINGAZ 3 года назад +16

      so God was just watching and doing nothing when all that was going on?

    • @bernardkimanthi9161
      @bernardkimanthi9161 3 года назад +3

      True. All cruelty you do to a fellow human will paid with your own bitter tears someday.

    • @doreenndinda1293
      @doreenndinda1293 3 года назад +2

      @@MAJIK_FINGAZ ni mapito

    • @lilachie
      @lilachie 3 года назад +2

      @@MAJIK_FINGAZ manze

    • @estherphilip7211
      @estherphilip7211 3 года назад +1

      True let's pray for her

  • @paularuth8116
    @paularuth8116 3 года назад +48

    The way she's holding back her tears 😢 😭 💔 😪

  • @doreenkinyua7722
    @doreenkinyua7722 3 года назад +5

    This story reminds me of the story of Joseph and David in the bible. Am not good at bible stories but one thing I know is that despite all that, they all came up strong regardless of all the rejection they endured from their family members. Phillis, you are a strong woman and never for once think that you are rejected. You are loved by so many people and most importantly you are loved by God. Jeremiah 29:11 says for I know the plans I have for you, the plans for prosperity and not disaster, to give you a future and hope. You are indeed a beautiful and amazing woman. There is this song that sings [I'M BROKEN AND IT'S BEAUTIFUL] by Kelly Clarkson it's an amazing song because it always keeps me going. You will always be in my prayers girl. May the good Lord always protect you.

  • @lynnettewairimu5377
    @lynnettewairimu5377 3 года назад +11

    I have never cried so much watching a Tuko video. I just want to hug her and tell her everything will be ok

  • @themumbua
    @themumbua 3 года назад +54

    When a parent rejects a child its a seed of rejection planted and that child fights rejection all her life, some conqure but some lose the battle, she is so strong even to just talk about it. May God heal every part of her🙏🏽🙏🏽.

    • @maryzakayo9088
      @maryzakayo9088 3 года назад

      yeah this is like a curse the other way round thus y u see every where she go not getting any help. your parents are very important ple in ur life thus y Pastors are preaching every day but stil we don't get it. First am sorry for whay happened to this woman. 2nd before doing anything again in ur life, go back to ur Mother talk to her ask for forgiveness of whatever u did wrong to her coz u mentioned here that, she said u went to T.Z without telling her. It seems the relationship between this 2ple is really bad. No matter what, u have to give respect to ur parents or u mes up all ur life. Some things in life is not normal to happen thus y u see ple start thinking about killing themself. What am trying to say here is that, yeah the story is sad , we can pray for her with the Kids and try to help her with some Money YES, BUT if she doesn't water her ROOTS(PATENTS) well we are doing NOTHING.

    • @naiskaurrai2464
      @naiskaurrai2464 3 года назад +6

      But it’s not parents who plant the seed of rejection. It’s the devil. Back in 2011-2014. I really struggled with the spirit of rejection. My Mum used to see me and want to vomit,my siblings and family hated me. I would contribute an idea to a conversation and everyone would attack me. I tarmacked looking for a job for 4 longs years. Nothing worked. I contemplated suicide but I had a son who I could not imagine him alone in this cruel world I was living in without anyone to protect him. But God sought my heart and he sent me people to woo me to salvation till I gave up and gave my life to Christ and the first thing I was delivered from is from the spirit of rejection. And in turn I got a lot of favor…upto date,my life has been a living testimony of the goodness of Jesus.

    • @onlybygrace7741
      @onlybygrace7741 3 года назад

      You are correct

    • @lynnetteresian370
      @lynnetteresian370 3 года назад +1

      @@naiskaurrai2464 How did you get delivered from it I feel like I have the spirit too

    • @narcissisticabuseawareness3607
      @narcissisticabuseawareness3607 3 года назад +2

      @Lynnette Resian You will get true healing if you learn about narcissistic abuse

  • @joanwangechi7623
    @joanwangechi7623 3 года назад +78

    The struggles a mother would go through for their kids. May God protect our moms. Such a sad story.

    • @dominicrono6276
      @dominicrono6276 3 года назад +2

      But the same mom can equally hate her daughter when she messes in future, think of this lady's mom.

  • @thegreat-3
    @thegreat-3 3 года назад +80

    😭😭😭😭😭😭 99% of all the people involved in the story are no different with the track drivers 😭😭😭 Humanity at it's lowest level😥😥

  • @askpsyfemmeaskpsyfemme8377
    @askpsyfemmeaskpsyfemme8377 3 года назад +48

    There is God in heaven who sits high on the throne, your weeping may endure for the night but your joy will come in the morning . Sending you love .you are in my prayers

  • @charlesmungo6782
    @charlesmungo6782 3 года назад +147

    From the justice point of view, if I was able I would hire that private investigator to pursue this case. That trailer truck must have passed though toll stations or weigh bridge locations. Besides sympathizing with this lady and her kids, these criminals must to be identified and brought to book.

    • @keymoneyification
      @keymoneyification 3 года назад +9

      walai. And all these weigh bridges have CCTV cameras. The police can follow this up

    • @deedablew
      @deedablew 3 года назад +2

      I would even want to contribute to that cause of the private investigator to get to the bottom of this......let justice be served to this lady and her children.

    • @spenceragutu2886
      @spenceragutu2886 3 года назад +4

      Yes if she was raped in emali i believe their is a weigh bridge around. Waangalie time and day am sure they will get this criminals
      God is not sleeping he will make a way for you guys

    • @spenceragutu2886
      @spenceragutu2886 3 года назад

      @@keymoneyification our police cannot do anything
      Hujaskia in emali she reported the issue na they did nothing

    • @kennedymwangangi7604
      @kennedymwangangi7604 3 года назад

      Its somehow hard, coz on the way NO cctvs, no she never got concerned about the number plate coz it was dark, mistreate inhuman, so how can the truck identified??? Very hard but GOD is in control

  • @ThePrecy10
    @ThePrecy10 3 года назад +40

    I suggest she gets one of the Optiven plots, a house and then get a business. Toooooooo painful

  • @martinireri5545
    @martinireri5545 3 года назад +1

    am speechless aki,, honestly nmekosa words, i think crying will do. pole sana siz . may GOD grant you and your children total peace of mind

  • @delighteze5980
    @delighteze5980 3 года назад +19

    Oh GOD, I can't hold back my tears 😭. I want to hug her and her children. My GOD why what is this world turning into?
    I pray GOD to heal you and your children.

  • @mrsomondi2541
    @mrsomondi2541 3 года назад +54

    This one, just the intro, I have cried, literally ...

    • @millicentadhiambo1157
      @millicentadhiambo1157 3 года назад

      Ooh such a beautiful soul, icant hold my tears , mungu akupanguze machozi.😭😭😭

    • @mamamalaika4413
      @mamamalaika4413 3 года назад

      Me too 😭😭

    • @zakkan9474
      @zakkan9474 3 года назад

      Huyu ni con lady sasa banaa anajulikana vizuri sanaa..
      Infact anafaa achukuliwe na producers aanze kuandika scrip za ma movie she has good fake stories...

  • @faithkhaemba6161
    @faithkhaemba6161 3 года назад +27

    Her heart will heal and the next part of her life will be pure miracles. No more suicide attempts. ❤️

  • @maureenkamau325
    @maureenkamau325 3 года назад +15

    Watched this last week and I cried like I baby. I pray that God will come through for her and her babies and for everyone else passing through any hardships,receive grace in Jesus name!🙏😭