Relationships & the Meaning of Life | Salman Asif Siddiqui

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  • Опубликовано: 6 фев 2025
  • Relationships contribute to life's meaningfulness in many different ways. In this extensive talk, Salman Asif Siddiqui discusses aspects of human connections. What does it mean to be respectful, and is respect the same thing as love? Which relationship should be considered the most important? And how are relationships changing in modern times? This video provides answers to many such questions.
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Комментарии • 113

  • @badarhussain5120
    @badarhussain5120 5 лет назад +18

    Realistic discussion. Difference between respect and love is a v sensitive issue. Guidance you r giving is so precious and most required JazakAllah wisdom is a rizq. And you are a rich person

  • @umma.abdullah.nadeem
    @umma.abdullah.nadeem 5 лет назад +2

    سر آپکا ایک ایک لفظ دل میں اترتا ہے۔ آپکی ایک ایک بات بلکل صحیح۔
    اللہ تعالی نے آپکو بہت حکمت سے نوازا
    اللہ تعالی آپ سے راضی ہوجائیں

  • @kishwersadaqat2054
    @kishwersadaqat2054 4 года назад +2

    Maa sha Allah very impressive talk, mai aksar aap ki ye talk sunti hon ,thori sad ho jati hon
    Hum tu family me mil jhul kr rahe hn
    Dua hai k hamari aulaad bhi rishton ko pehchane Ameen😢

  • @F-Khan491
    @F-Khan491 5 лет назад +12

    I am working in Saudi, my family is in Pak.
    This lecture brought tears in my eyes:(

    • @sidrakhalid6121
      @sidrakhalid6121 Год назад +1

      May Allah reunite you with your family amen

  • @umma.abdullah.nadeem
    @umma.abdullah.nadeem 5 лет назад +2

    ہم نے جن جن لوگوں کا حق ادا نہیں کیا ، اور وہ دنیا سے چلے گئے ان سے تو معافی کا راستہ بھی نہیں۔ اللہ تعالی انکی مغفرت فرمادیں آمین اور ہمیں معاف فرمادیں

  • @xan1592
    @xan1592 5 лет назад +5

    Really sir I m so thankful to u jazakullah I have changed my self upto 50 percent with my kids and my imaan .I watched Ur half of Ur vedios I think but really impressive and any one who have that wish he or she can be.

  • @fareehan1
    @fareehan1 4 года назад +2

    Dear Respected Ustadh Salman the Companion you are talking about who didn't left the city at the time of plague was ابو عبیدہ بن جراح
    Jazakallahkhair for sharing his story

  • @kishwersadaqat2054
    @kishwersadaqat2054 4 года назад +1

    Allah sab klye aasaani farmaen Aameen 💕
    Jazakallah khair.

  • @SAJJADALI-dy5qv
    @SAJJADALI-dy5qv 5 лет назад +2

    kamal hu gaya sr.
    JAZAKALLAH
    Buhat zarorat he muashre ko es bat ka ahsas dilane ki.

  • @kidsfun368
    @kidsfun368 5 лет назад +2

    Boht zabrdst guftgu ki jazaak Allah

  • @mohammadghafoor6002
    @mohammadghafoor6002 4 года назад +2

    Asalamualikum Salam bhai, you have inspired me to maximum deep level of my heart, I have bee student of life learning since 20 years, I have never come across legend like you, you are the most inspiring figure in whole world, I am very much thankful for your time and effort you have dedicated to Muslim ummah also all religions and also for all humanity, thanks again, I love your all lectures, love you Salman bhai

  • @desicookingforbeginners8055
    @desicookingforbeginners8055 4 года назад +1

    Masha Allah
    May we all can build relationships with our family

  • @Faiqas_editss
    @Faiqas_editss 5 лет назад +10

    Plz discuss some saas, bahu and nand topic. Advices to bahu specially. Becoz in this society only bahu have to compromise.

  • @hiranavaid2006
    @hiranavaid2006 5 лет назад +1

    Absolutely right yahan families main mostly yehi hota hai ... Zbrdust

  • @mrwahabuddin4181
    @mrwahabuddin4181 3 года назад +1

    JazakAllah

  • @nadiarehan528
    @nadiarehan528 Год назад

    Bohat khobsorat

  • @ammarabatool9910
    @ammarabatool9910 5 лет назад +2

    Jazak-Allah sir this lecture is need of the hour. If it's possible kindly give detailed lectures on the kind of things husband and wife or just one of them can do to get out of a mutually-verbally-abusive-relationship you often talk about.. how can we avoid being hurt by others and also avoid hurting others.

  • @WasimSiddiqui
    @WasimSiddiqui 5 лет назад +5

    Respecting others is really a difficult task.

  • @HaroonKhan-hz7ig
    @HaroonKhan-hz7ig 5 лет назад +2

    Jazakallah khair from India

  • @farheenhaque11
    @farheenhaque11 5 лет назад

    ERDC ki yaad taza ho gayee aisa mahsoos hoa k aap ki class main mojood hon

  • @ummafif5870
    @ummafif5870 4 года назад +1

    بہت ہی بہترین

  • @waheedakarim4559
    @waheedakarim4559 5 лет назад +2

    Very beneficial talk jazakallah khairan.

  • @NaqashTV
    @NaqashTV 5 лет назад

    Jazak Allah Khear Sir. Masha Allah bohat hi Zabardast batin bati hain aap ne. Insha Allah main in batun par zarur amal karun ga. Allah Tala aap ko slamat rakhey Aameen.

  • @juveriaaleem5398
    @juveriaaleem5398 4 года назад

    Ma sha allah... great people great talk

  • @ainysaeed938
    @ainysaeed938 Год назад

    jazakAllah for such a meaningful discussion

  • @nassimahmad
    @nassimahmad 4 года назад +2

    Your talks are amazingly insightful!🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼👍😊

  • @binterabnawaz9421
    @binterabnawaz9421 3 года назад

    Jazak Allah sir Jazak Allah....its really worth watching...IN SHAA Allah I'll follow and also share with others

  • @sadafmaqsood2817
    @sadafmaqsood2817 5 лет назад +3

    comfort matters more than relationships now a days

  • @asifmahmood5039
    @asifmahmood5039 4 года назад

    Great speaker.... What a way of teaching.... Salaam hay app koo

  • @ahmadhassan7370
    @ahmadhassan7370 Год назад

    🔗Individualism/Collectiveness
    📌Order of Relationships
    ✨️Divorce-->My Freedom/Responsibility(قربانی)
    ❌️میری/تمھاری ✔️ہماری
    👥️️ضرورت؛خواہش
    💫محبت؛عزت:شعوری کوشش
    ❌️بے تکلفی:محبت کی شادی

  • @whateverWM
    @whateverWM 3 года назад

    Very profound insight on self centered thinking and decisions.

  • @sanaalam3574
    @sanaalam3574 5 лет назад +1

    Jazak Allah

  • @dr.s4187
    @dr.s4187 4 года назад +1

    37:54 Watching this today when we're in the middle of Corona crisis.

  • @multitasker7524
    @multitasker7524 3 года назад +1

    I learn this video realy how love and respectgive to others

  • @ejazch9694
    @ejazch9694 3 месяца назад

    Sir ALLAH ap ko jezhey khair dey ap ney meri ankein khol dee hein meri age 34 sall he aor.mujy aj tak yee.smaj nahi ai ke rishton ko terteb ksy krin

  • @shazaibaahmedahmed3620
    @shazaibaahmedahmed3620 4 года назад

    Buht and alla. Slam h. App k waldeen ko. Masha allah

  • @nusrathsaida950
    @nusrathsaida950 5 лет назад +7

    Asssalaamualikum sir it’s a life changing lecture need of the day. Should be a part of curriculum in college

    • @ERDCPK
      @ERDCPK  5 лет назад +3

      JazakAllah khair for your appreciation. Do help us spread the message by sharing these videos with your family and friends.

  • @sz4653
    @sz4653 4 года назад

    Excellent detailed analysis.
    Very well said that Men never know how to RESPECT women.

  • @Home.lifestylewithJazz
    @Home.lifestylewithJazz 5 лет назад

    So much respect for you

  • @meresheherkamausam7821
    @meresheherkamausam7821 4 года назад

    V imprsv lecture 😢

  • @flfl-qg8mn
    @flfl-qg8mn 5 лет назад +1

    Great

  • @naturerelaxation44
    @naturerelaxation44 5 лет назад

    Very Realistic lecture, weldone sir..

  • @RajaRaja-nf3my
    @RajaRaja-nf3my 5 лет назад +1

    Very impressive

  • @aamirashraf1749
    @aamirashraf1749 5 лет назад +1

    زبردست

  • @miantamoor5972
    @miantamoor5972 5 лет назад

    Jazak allah

  • @Mindhealing_gt
    @Mindhealing_gt 4 года назад +1

    بہت بہترین لیکچر ہے سر 👍👍👍
    ایک سوال ہے سر پلیز جواب ضرور دیں .
    سائیکلوجی تو یہہی کہہ رہی ہے کہ پہلے خود کو دیکھو .نہیں کہنا ضروعی ہے یہ اٹرونگ پرسنالیٹی کے لئیے ضروری ہے .ہر وق اگر لوگوں کے مسائل حل کرنے میں لگے رہو تو اپنے لئیے ٹائم نہیں ملتا؟

    • @Muazzam_Usman
      @Muazzam_Usman 3 года назад

      جی اپنے آپکو فٹ رکھتے ہوئے دوسروں کے کام آئیں

  • @atikanaqvi3210
    @atikanaqvi3210 5 лет назад

    Very informative, superb 👍

  • @khunaisshah8657
    @khunaisshah8657 5 лет назад

    Allah ap k elim m brkt ata frmaen aamen

  • @beginnercare7286
    @beginnercare7286 Год назад

    Full video please

  • @faisalazad1127
    @faisalazad1127 5 лет назад +1

    SubhanAllah

  • @Muqadaskandhro
    @Muqadaskandhro Месяц назад

    i have que . plz reply . what if career contradiction between u nd parent thn whom to follow

  • @sundusshahid3485
    @sundusshahid3485 5 лет назад

    Aoa
    Kya baat keh di aap ne about respect
    I think the same
    I say the same to my husband
    Bhalay ap mukhe chand zaruri ashyaa k siwa kuch na dain
    Magar izzat dain
    Kindly tell ...how to develop that bonding with ur spouse which gives the feeling of fulfillment 😥
    I REALLY need this.

  • @fahadmehmood1610
    @fahadmehmood1610 5 лет назад

    Very nice G

  • @umaimaazmat5217
    @umaimaazmat5217 5 лет назад

    Allah AP ko jazaye khair de.ameen

  • @arslanfaiz1942
    @arslanfaiz1942 5 лет назад

    ماشاءاللّه

  • @sadafbutt1600
    @sadafbutt1600 5 лет назад +1

    Taaluq do tarfa hota hy. Aik tarfa talluq insan kitni daer nibhaaye.

  • @samreenlifecoach
    @samreenlifecoach 4 года назад

    Sir beautiful talking, but i got one concern, if if parent not accepting there doughter in law, even they know there son happy with his wife, in thst case sone has to leave his wif just for there parents happness, or what son has to do in that case, please answer

  • @anumobaid1289
    @anumobaid1289 4 года назад

    Please do talk on verbal abuse.

  • @murthuzahussain3101
    @murthuzahussain3101 Год назад

    There is a long & complex chain of reasons driving it & then there's one such incident that causes a spark - Imagine if there's a mountain of dynamites here. And I use a small matchstick to blow up the entire mountain, the following blast would not because of my matchstick, there was a mountain of dynamite there, that's why it happened.

  • @binishhussain_soundachievers
    @binishhussain_soundachievers 4 года назад +1

    This is where the west is right now. And yes our muashra is headed the same way. People want to be detached and completely cut off form people. No one included in life.

  • @sairaumer946
    @sairaumer946 5 лет назад +5

    Wo sahabi Hazrat Abu Ubaida Bin Jarah the,

  • @sumaiyakhan9368
    @sumaiyakhan9368 4 года назад

    He was speaking about epidemic like plague ,he didn't know at that time that Corona pandemic is going to happen after 7months of this talk

  • @sadiaw.9945
    @sadiaw.9945 5 лет назад +1

    I have a question which is unclear in the mind.
    Parents are most important, then does it mean that most of the time is spend with them rather than the wife and kids?
    How is it possible, because in religion it is preferable to buy separate house for wife.
    Also if parents are most important then is this also for the girl? That for a girl her parents are more important than the husband?

    • @lovefordeen.
      @lovefordeen. 3 года назад

      Gher alag lene ka maqsad ye nahi k aap apne parents ko bhool jae . Aap un k pass behte un k pass jae un se bat kare un ki zaroriat ka khayal rakhe .kabhi ager unhe bht zarooret he bemar hain tu aap un ki khidmet karne k lie unhe aap sath rakhaie .

    • @mzkhan93
      @mzkhan93 2 года назад

      Islam does not endorse a joint family system. That actually came from the Hindus. After marriage the order of relationship change. First comes wife then parents and for women first comes husband then her parents.

  • @sarmadali1751
    @sarmadali1751 5 лет назад

    Sir how to treat other pr video bnao

  • @Tasneem-j2h
    @Tasneem-j2h 5 лет назад

    Please aur examples se samjhaye ke bachcho ki respect kaise kare .

  • @humaafandi8894
    @humaafandi8894 5 лет назад +2

    Sorry sir, but some fathers take so much care of others that their own children suffer. This is directly against Islamic values. First time I disagree with you. Also your thoughts about the west is very misplaced. The society is so wellestablished that the individual father does not need to feed an entire willage aur time se pehle Allah ko pyaare ho jaata hain ya. Father ko kiyon bahir jana parta hai. Inhi rishtedar on ka pait bharne ke liye. Please don't mix relation with money, because humari society is based on the mixture already. West ki wajha se nahi

  • @irfanrashid2114
    @irfanrashid2114 5 лет назад +2

    ERDC please also do a talk on capitalism.

    • @ERDCPK
      @ERDCPK  5 лет назад +3

      You can listen to the following talks which touch upon the topic of capitalism:
      Illusion of Progress:
      ruclips.net/video/6KjQTTaHVQo/видео.html
      Influence of Market Forces on Muslim Societies:
      Session 1 - ruclips.net/video/fLuoCdGYVgI/видео.html
      Session 2 - ruclips.net/video/ydBJWAP4AQg/видео.html
      Session 3 - ruclips.net/video/9MHRiF1zM0M/видео.html

    • @theAnonymous20027
      @theAnonymous20027 Год назад

      Shukriya

  • @tahirhassnain820
    @tahirhassnain820 5 лет назад

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @AyeshaKhan-rj2zl
    @AyeshaKhan-rj2zl 5 лет назад +1

    Plz english mai bhi substitutes mai kiya kre

  • @fatimanoor9687
    @fatimanoor9687 5 лет назад +11

    Qasim ali shah say kahin ziyada intellectual aur decent personality ❤

    • @manneed2
      @manneed2 5 лет назад +7

      جب سے میں نے آصف صاحب کو سننا شروع کیا ہے قاسم علی شاہ کو سنے کا دل ہی نہیں چاہتا

    • @shazaibaahmedahmed3620
      @shazaibaahmedahmed3620 4 года назад

      Don't worry about compet to each other.

    • @nassimahmad
      @nassimahmad 4 года назад +5

      Both are good! No need to compare. They both have their own very good style!

  • @shazaibaahmedahmed3620
    @shazaibaahmedahmed3620 4 года назад

    Allah ham sab ko hidayt ata farmay. Ameeeen

  • @farzanamalik9117
    @farzanamalik9117 4 года назад

    بچوں خصوصا لڑکوں کو لیڈرشپ کی تربیت نہیں دی جاتی جس کی وجہ سے وہ رشتوں کو ٹھیک مقام نہیں رکھ پاتا

  • @sajjad.hussain.
    @sajjad.hussain. 3 года назад

    main Pakistan main nahi hu Pak main mere bhai hain woh walidain to dekhte hain main walidain ko kharche ke lihaaz se support karta hu is maamle main kia yeh durust hain dusra yahan main apni biwi ke walidain ko ziadatar dawat deta hu un ko khana serve karta hu jab kabhi un ko help darkaar ho to hazir rehta hu par apne waalidain se door hu ;(

  • @tasneemfatima6790
    @tasneemfatima6790 5 лет назад

    Matti ki mohabbat main hum a shifts Sharon nay ..............wo Qarz utarey hain jo waking bhi nahi they

  • @sadafmaqsood2817
    @sadafmaqsood2817 5 лет назад

    Relationships are only of needs. in western societies needs are easily to cover up, that's y no relationships there.
    it's cruel reality

  • @tasneemfatima6790
    @tasneemfatima6790 5 лет назад +2

    Jo Pakistan say jo baher rehtey hain wo Kia Kia ker rahey hain apney rishteydaroon Kay liyee app ko andaza nahin Pakistan main rehtey wala bechara mehangai ki waja say kuch nahi kr pata baher wala beta hi sab krta hai apni zaroriat ko dabs kr ..............

    • @xan1592
      @xan1592 5 лет назад

      Allah didn't say u go and migrate for Ur relatives give them sadqa or money if u go only for that so first go thru quran tafseer first and then haqooqal aibaad that what is the expectations of Islam being a Muslim

  • @invisionisb8871
    @invisionisb8871 4 года назад

    camera movement annoying

  • @Northstarrrrrrr
    @Northstarrrrrrr 10 месяцев назад

    Bakion ka khyal rakh k apni haq talfi krwai or apny ulad ko abiise karwaya .. m so sorry apki bate baki thek ha lekin ye lecture toxic ni ona chae

  • @Northstarrrrrrr
    @Northstarrrrrrr 10 месяцев назад

    Koi podcast walidain ki aulad ko neglect kr k pury muhly ki khbar rkhna ??????

  • @ahsanali-bh3fq
    @ahsanali-bh3fq 5 лет назад

    hi

  • @sadafmaqsood2817
    @sadafmaqsood2817 5 лет назад

    parents b ajkal kafi materialistic hein.

  • @amnakhan6705
    @amnakhan6705 5 лет назад

    .

  • @vallabhanakat4775
    @vallabhanakat4775 3 года назад

    He predicted covid-19

  • @sadafmaqsood2817
    @sadafmaqsood2817 5 лет назад

    hijrat b tou prophets ne ki the. taaluqaat ajkal paisay se bantay Hein. that's y

  • @sadafmaqsood2817
    @sadafmaqsood2817 5 лет назад +1

    o bhai divorce rate Apni marzi ki qurbaani nai bul k SaaS ki interfarance se toot raha hy. lol

  • @mrs.fahimmahmood3669
    @mrs.fahimmahmood3669 4 года назад

    Sub bakwas reality nahi hae in batoon main

  • @aamirashraf1749
    @aamirashraf1749 5 лет назад +1

    زبردست

  • @aamirashraf1749
    @aamirashraf1749 5 лет назад +1

    زبردست

  • @aamirashraf1749
    @aamirashraf1749 5 лет назад +1

    زبردست